Shadee Elmasry – NBF 10 The Sahabi Who Loved Fitna and Prayed Without Wudu + QA!

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The speakers emphasize the importance of learning a craft and setting boundaries for one's work-life balance, finding professional attention for one's health, and receiving invitations. They also discuss the importance of privacy and finding value in receiving invitations, as well as avoiding harm and cutting off family ties caused by technology. They encourage people to be strong and believe in their values, but acknowledge the potential for cutting off family ties and causing harm.

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			All righty Bismillah al Rahman al
Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu
		
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			was Salam ala Rasulillah who
Allah, the he was the woman who
		
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			Allah welcome everybody to the
November facts live stream, our
		
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			third class or session this week
as we're basically inner soft open
		
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			of our official and
		
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			professional grade live stream.
I've been live streaming with you
		
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			guys. Not always on Instagram, but
mostly was on Facebook from 2015
		
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			on and then off and on and off.
But now we're growing,
		
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			everything's got to grow. If
you're not growing, you're dying.
		
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			That's how it is. And you have to
ask yourself and your life are you
		
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			growing or your diet? Alright, so
here we go. Let's read a little
		
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			bit of something beneficial today.
And then we're going to open up to
		
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			your comments, your questions, and
we have a lot of things to talk
		
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			about today is our soup kitchen
dinner. We got people coming in to
		
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			help out for the dinner. And it's
it's been a big success. You all
		
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			seen all of our posts about our
soup kitchen and our data center.
		
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			By the way, we have Diletto karats
recitation there every Monday, and
		
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			we give out food on Wednesday. So
we're going with the vicar to
		
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			we're not stopping. And we're not
hesitating.
		
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			So here we go. Before we start,
there was a brother yesterday he
		
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			said, Oh, how could you say that
somebody's in the SATs were the
		
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			same. Of course they have the same
arcade. Here's the book. Okay,
		
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			that brings you everything with
citations with the quotes with
		
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			everything. It's I know many
people don't really have interest
		
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			in this but some people do.
They'll run in novelty at Sophia
		
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			pool, Jelly Bean flesh, it will
humbly Okay, the union between
		
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			that show ANOVA in the
fundamentals of what they actually
		
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			believe, then how they expressed
these things. Okay, but it was
		
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			something different. Okay.
		
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			Check that out.
		
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			Okay, how they express it was
different. And this book is by
		
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			Sheikh Abdullah Nabulsi, and it
was a gift to me enough Aldila to
		
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			share with Dr. Shetty and mastery
huffy that hula whenever I became
		
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			Muslim, I mean, my book um, Yusuf
ibn sadaqa. Humbly, I love this
		
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			brother should use if had been
sadaqa humbly, thank you so much
		
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			for this book. And it's an amazing
book between the union between the
		
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			beliefs of the shared IRA, and how
they actually represent the that
		
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			method of Arpita represents the
self. And he explains how, and he
		
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			explains why there's a difference
between the 100 but but the
		
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			essence is one. Now let's go to
this story. And many people will
		
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			say where's the Senate for the
story? Again, I told you all I'm
		
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			reading from this book called by
		
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			Al Bara, Bara Jumuah the ocean of
tears and it's an amazing book
		
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			Listen to this story. It is
narrated that oh my love comes out
		
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			one day and the Sahaba who they
filmed in Yemen who is the secret
		
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			keeper of the Prophet peace be
upon him he says almost says how
		
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			to crosswalks yeah Khalifa good
basically how's your morning? How
		
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			are they for says I woke up I made
a mean I love fitness.
		
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			I love fitness.
		
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			Then he says I hate the truth.
		
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			Okay, almost temperatures going
up.
		
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			A goal will be Miralem your clock
I say things that were not
		
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			created.
		
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			Or I espouse things that weren't
created say normal at this point.
		
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			The heat you can imagine the heats
coming up
		
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			whereas had to be Metamora I
testify okay with what I haven't
		
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			seen
		
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			what will suddenly be leveled and
I pray without although
		
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			well yeah, Phil ord Malazan. Allah
He for summer and I have in the
		
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			earth what Allah does not have in
the heavens.
		
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			If you ask any Muslim, what do you
say about this? Execute right
		
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			away. Okay, this is COVID Forgot
the valamar Lisa Lika Raghavan
		
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			shady the now the VA has go for
the outward of it is cool for now.
		
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			What does he mean by it? All
right. It's almost became
		
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			extremely upset. And immediately,
I said almost saying oh my god,
		
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			he's always gonna be saying, Oh,
we reached for the stick right
		
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			away for the stick. Okay. And he
got and he started to think about
		
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			I'm going to hit him. Good.
		
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			So much of that got us to a better
human and maybe some low and then
		
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			he remembered the special place
that they've given the A man had
		
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			with the Prophet. He's the secret
keeper of the messenger. He's the
		
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			one that Prophet peace be upon him
told him who are the 12
		
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			Hypocrites. He was a secret
keeper. And his father at the man
		
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			was actually from another area. He
was a fugitive who was kicked out
		
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			of his area. He came to Medina as
a migrant. And he lived before the
		
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			Prophet came, sort of Allah when
he was salam. And then he stayed
		
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			with them. And then
		
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			it was actually killed by friendly
fire in the battle. Oh hood at the
		
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			end.
		
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			Men, son of the father of Khalifa.
So in any event, folic evatik If
		
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			Maravi I've never thought of
saying it passes passes by. And he
		
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			says anger on the face of Alma
fucka wa mural Momineen. Focus
		
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			Allah he says, he says Ahmed, why
are we so upset about? So he tells
		
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			him the story. He tells them the
story tells them what, who they
		
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			first said, Exactly. For Kalia
Ameerul Momineen lie or dibuka
		
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			dyadic. He said, Don't be upset
about this. I'm Makalu it No, your
		
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			head will fit now. He's saying
that he loves fitna. It's because
		
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			Allah says Verily your wealth and
your children are fitsum Doesn't
		
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			everyone love their children?
Right, but they're fit and what
		
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			does it mean that your wealth and
your children are fitna they're a
		
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			distraction. Any of you know about
life when you go from being a
		
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			student and you have no concerns?
Guys, many of you are and you know
		
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			the student life. Right? There's
only one concern which is your
		
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			exams and you think that you have
you have issues, you think that
		
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			you're busy, you haven't even you
haven't even seen 20 10% of life.
		
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			You don't have a spouse. You don't
have a job. PSE and G send your
		
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			mom the bill, then your dad
doesn't send it to you. Okay? You
		
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			don't have kids. Your kids don't
have homework. You haven't seen
		
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			anything yet. Okay. So there are
fitna they distract you from a bad
		
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			but serving them as well. And
doing that stuff can become a good
		
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			deed for you. Mr. Cole, who wakrah
Who will help. He hates Huck
		
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			Jadwiga at Saqqara to multiball
Huck. Huck, the Al hop here is
		
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			death. This death comes right it's
a true thing that death comes
		
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			Okay, so he hates it we all hate
death say die it's just said
		
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			almost of Allah. We hate death.
Prophesy centum said the Muslims
		
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			love of death is not the love of
actual death. It's the love of
		
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			meeting Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			amalco who you're going to be Mel,
I'm your co op. He speaks with
		
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			what is not created. It's Al Quran
Al Karim. Right he's CR is the
		
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			Quran he recites the Quran for
Hawaii. ACARA Al Quran, Hua Hua
		
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			Rama Clopay. Korea he recites the
Quran and it is not created. Colo
		
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			Colo?
		
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			Yes, how to be mellem era. Okay,
he testifies for something he
		
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			hasn't seen. He testifies and
believes in Allah. He hasn't seen
		
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			Allah but he believes in him. And
he testifies to that will let you
		
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			know Allah, Allah
		
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			kolu who you suddenly be right, he
will do as for his he praised
		
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			without will. That is his prayer
upon the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wa sallam All right he makes Hello
out on the messenger peace be upon
		
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			him and you don't have to have
will do you can make the law on
		
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			the Prophet in all of your states
said in the Musa asked Allah
		
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			Sometimes I'm in a certain we're
in a certain condition he means by
		
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			that Janessa
		
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			ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada says
remember me and all of your states
		
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			The only thing you cannot recite
when you're upon Geneva is the
		
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			Quran. And you cannot touch the
most half without will do but you
		
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			can recite the Quran without will
do, but you cannot recite it upon
		
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			Janab and only in the Maliki
Mehtab. The how an officer the
		
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			woman who is upon higher than Fs,
she can recite the Quran from
		
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			memory or from a tablet upon
higher than Fs because he
		
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			separates Genova is something you
enter by choice and you can exit
		
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			it by choice whenever you want.
		
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			Higher than if S is something that
comes upon them. Okay, so said and
		
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			it continues explain how they've
MDM and statement to say normal.
		
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			Okay, M kolu. In low fill all the
Malay Sal Allah He for summer, he
		
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			says, I have something in the
earth that Allah doesn't have in
		
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			the heavens, a wife and kids.
Right? Allah doesn't have a wife
		
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			and kids. All right, because he's
transcendent beyond having a wife
		
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			and kids why do we have a wife and
kids because we have needs were
		
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			weak. We need companionship, I
said to Adam, when he was created,
		
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			he was created in paradise. And
he's looking around and some
		
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			people say it's one of the
different gardens of Paradise, not
		
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			necessarily the paradise and he's
moving around looking around.
		
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			They get bored.
		
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			So he fell asleep.
		
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			Until Allah subhanaw taala he woke
up and he found next to him.
		
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			Another creature, a beautiful
creature that he's looking at. And
		
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			he said, Who are you? She said, I
am. I am woman.
		
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			So what's your name? What? Yet?
What's you're created for? As your
		
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			companion in life and Nisa, Shaka
ecoregional. The prophets I seldom
		
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			said women are the second half of
men, that means they're half
		
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			right. They both have the same
needs the same desires of company,
		
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			they need each other's company,
they love each other's company.
		
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			Then he loves her company so much
that he forgot the one rule that
		
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			he had with ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada.
That was it. And so he forgot.
		
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			Right but forgetfulness for them
is different in
		
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			their city in his city I was
different from an Orisha in
		
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			Arusha. If you forget something,
you're forgiven, but in that
		
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			Sharia that law would say to Adam,
you only had one thing that was
		
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			haram. Alright, so you're not
allowed to forget. So he didn't
		
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			commit a sin in the way that sense
of, oh, let's disobey Allah. No,
		
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			he just forgot. That's the
understanding of some of the
		
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			scholars on this issue of saying
to Adam eating from the tree. So
		
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			it tells me that tell me
something, if you had a palace,
		
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			would you rather you had a palace,
the most beautiful palace, but
		
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			you're all alone, or you got a
little apartment, but you get to
		
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			be with the woman of your dreams.
And let's say if it's vice versa,
		
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			if you're a woman, you got a whole
awesome Palace to yourself, or you
		
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			get to have a little apartment
with the man of your dreams, which
		
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			one you're going to choose. I know
which one I'm going to choose. So
		
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			he then says fucka Omar Lilla, he
the Rukia abolhassan. Okay, luck,
		
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			I'd catch after I knew him and
have him and you relieve me
		
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			because I was angry. I was upset
at what he said. And I was
		
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			confused. Okay. So that's the but
what he's pointing to are really
		
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			some of the essentials of life.
The essentials of life husband, or
		
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			spouse and kids. These are the
essentials of life. And what bliss
		
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			is doing in society is destroying
the ability for people to get
		
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			married or even want to get
married or even be attracted to
		
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			the gender that they need to be
attracted to.
		
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			Or every there's a constant and
non stop, constant and non stop
		
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			assault on marriage. Even in our
Islamic community, marriage have
		
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			become so difficult to so
complicated, like the actual acts
		
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			to actually getting married.
Forget finding a husband when you
		
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			actually get married, the wedding
is complicated. All these weddings
		
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			you need, we need a complete
wedding reform. So weddings have
		
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			to be much more simple than they
actually are, are either
		
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			completely complicated for no
reason. We think about
		
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			the prophesy set him had 12
weddings in his life. 12 weddings.
		
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			In these weddings, he slaughtered
an animal for the William at one
		
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			time, once he slaughtered an
animal for the wedding one time.
		
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			Think about this.
		
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			That wasn't a big invitation for
everyone to come. That so much. So
		
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			that might have been if one of the
10 Guaranteed paradise merged with
		
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			the Prophet, one of the first 10
Muslims. I've done I've met him an
		
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			elf didn't even know the Prophet
got married. The prophet had to
		
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			say this is my wife. I got
married.
		
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			Men have been offset. Oh,
Missoula. We wouldn't have doubts.
		
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			He said yes. But you have to know
so the Prophet, if your Imam got
		
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			married, have your mosque, let's
say he was single, wouldn't the
		
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			whole community be there and
everyone knows about it. Here you
		
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			have the Messenger of Allah in a
very small town. You got married,
		
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			and if you saw how they used to
live, if you ever gone ombre,
		
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			which we're going to do on Rancho
la next next winter.
		
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			When you go on ometer you see like
the house of so and so was there
		
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			like 20 feet over the house of so
and so was there, they lived so
		
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			close together. And so some of
them didn't know
		
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			that the marriage I didn't know,
either. I remembered ALF himself
		
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			got married. And he had some, I
guess that you put yellow powder
		
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			on the husband when he got
married. And the province I said
		
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			that I'm in it looks like you got
married? He said Yes, I did get
		
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			married didn't know. So it was
something that was a lot simpler.
		
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			Now I'm not saying it's
unimportant. But the actual
		
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			wedding is a lot simpler. You
know, the fifth of marriage is if
		
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			you're not obligated to go to
Joomla, then you're not obligated
		
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			to go to some of these weddings,
right? I'm not saying that you
		
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			shouldn't go to weddings, but just
to so some people, we see them
		
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			flying across the country. And if
you don't fly across the country
		
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			to attend this wedding, the other
family is going to get offended.
		
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			Offended. Why would you be
offended? Somebody?
		
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			If you're if you have to travel
more than five miles, you'd have
		
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			to attend the wedding, right? So
this idea that oh, I'm gonna be
		
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			offended, oh, if we don't put him
on the invite list. They're gonna
		
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			get offended and they pay $40 A
plate.
		
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			And they show up. And they didn't
want to show up anymore because we
		
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			made 10 weddings in the season.
And you have to have at least $100
		
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			Check ready?
		
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			It's $40 a plate. But the gift I'm
giving you 100 bucks. Who's
		
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			winning here who's losing? All
right, this is there's so much to
		
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			cut it off. This is called tickle
of formality upon formality upon
		
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			formality, that it's not something
that the Prophet wanted it to
		
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			happen. Not saying all this stuff
is haram. But just think about it.
		
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			Keep it in the back of your mind
that this stuff is truly
		
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			unnecessary. It's access all
right. All right. With that let's
		
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			open it up to your q&a today. All
right, Ryan, what do we got? We
		
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			got some action going
		
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			on All right, let's hear it. I
want to share may Allah have mercy
		
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			on your parents mean man which
plan yours to which classical
		
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			scholars made it permissible to
make a stave off through the dead
		
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			when making what do
		
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			you still got the
		
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			When making wudu
		
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			the discussion is to get the
period, right? It's the Gotha
		
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			period, but we're not going to
open that can of worms right now.
		
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			But they sit author that we hold
that is without a doubt is still
		
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			author with the meaning of
Tillotson. And there are some of
		
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			the alumni who spoke about it like
that. Meaning that we call upon
		
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			Allah using with our love for the
son of hate, we love certain
		
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			righteous people, okay? And that
love is a good deed.
		
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			And for if not for our sake than
for the sake of the messenger that
		
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			we follow, that Allah to Allah
will forgive people, maybe not for
		
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			his sake,
		
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			but not for our sake, because
we're not good enough but at least
		
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			because of our connection to some
of the righteous above us. Whether
		
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			it's a righteous parent,
definitely the messenger that we
		
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			have some Allah when he was
sending
		
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			let me read one a waste, Jimmy,
what's the topic and what book so
		
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			we were just reading some of these
little stories that have some
		
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			great wisdoms in it from Bata
DuBois.
		
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			By YBNL, Josie right. And if
someone says oh, where's the
		
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			Senate, Senators hymnal, Josie
asked him to Josie for the Senate,
		
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			he is trustworthy for us. Okay,
and suddenly they're just stories.
		
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			There's no there are no rules
here. Okay. What book did you
		
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			mention regarding chef Yusuf even
saw duck? This is the book again
		
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			let me show you at Sophia. banal
ash it will humbly Okay. A tow
		
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			vehicle Jelly Bean Alicia will
humbly meaning and showing because
		
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			the brother said no, it can't be
this simple yesterday. It is this
		
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			simple. This book goes into every
sub topic of discussion showing
		
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			that the SID creed it's also its
basis and the humbly creed its
		
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			Aslam basis is one in the same and
then how the henna Usha Ida
		
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			positive and this expounded upon
their proofs is what's different.
		
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			And the way that they they did
that and responded, got to majesta
		
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			my or my Tesla is different and he
shows even in Makati, how he
		
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			relies on him and
		
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			who he relies upon from that
shadow. Okay, he relies upon a
		
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			shadow here. And he cites it.
		
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			So
		
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			in any event, something that not a
lot of people are really familiar
		
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			with. But if your interest is for
you're interested in theater,
		
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			that's what
		
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			this is the book that you gotta
get for yourself. It's in Arabic.
		
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			Alright, Ryan, you got a question
for us? Yes, from Muhammad, Sharif
		
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			Aladeen. What are the guidelines
for the amount of
		
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			what is its purpose? And what
would be excessive or too little?
		
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			What's the guideline for the
Mahara? The Maha there has to be
		
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			at least
		
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			a quarter of a gold coin? And
		
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			how does that translate? I can't
remember the translation in
		
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			dollars, right? But there has to
be a method. And then there's
		
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			something called modal and method.
Okay.
		
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			There is something called modal
method, what is modal and method?
		
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			So Darkwood myth, they call it
infix. So doc, will myth pay, pay
		
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			very close attention some of you
because I know some of you here. I
		
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			know some of you here. And I know
that you all have kids, right? And
		
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			that soon you're going to be
marrying and asking this question.
		
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			So in your social circle, and
every Muslim has to have a social
		
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			circle, because certain things and
shitty I require a little bit of a
		
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			back and a context and a judgment
call. Okay, so in your social
		
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			circle there, I'm sure your kid is
not the first kid to get married.
		
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			Someone else got married before
them, right? So you are allowed to
		
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			see and get and check out what was
the mod for this person because
		
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			their family is pretty much like
our family. Like one doctor and
		
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			one accountant, for example,
right? Or similar class of people,
		
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			we they live the same way they
have the same kind of cars, the
		
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			same size of house, right? They
live with the same way that we
		
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			live. So what kind of data did
they get? And then you do this
		
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			across two, three. And there's
nothing wrong with saying it right
		
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			for the sake of benefit. That's
how you make the judgment call.
		
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			And you arrive at something called
Sadhak. l method. This is very
		
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			important, because I know that I
know some of these people on the I
		
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			see their names are popping up and
their moms and their dads and
		
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			their kids are teens. Okay? It's
called Sadako myth. So you ask
		
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			around and say, Oh, she her
Muhammad was 10,000. Her mod was
		
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			5000, hermano was 7000. So we get
an average from that. That's
		
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			called sadaqa myth. Now you're not
bound to that. But if there is a
		
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			dispute, then you're in your right
judgment to say this is what I
		
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			insist upon.
		
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			This is what I insist upon. Okay,
and he can agree or disagree, but
		
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			that's called Sadhak l method.
Then you should know this
		
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			deductive methods based upon the
same type of circles that that are
		
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			similar to families that are
similar to your family. All right.
		
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			Alright, let me read a question
here. I'm gonna con 6692 Why are
		
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			flags in the masjid deemed as
innovation?
		
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			I don't know. I don't know if
that's a flag inside the rest of
		
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			like USA flag in the masjid
		
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			in Marathi masajid you might have
the Israel flag to
		
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			they love Israel. But like, Is
that the question and Pakistani
		
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			flag you have a Pax in Pakistan
masajid have the flag of Pakistan.
		
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			I don't see that that's
necessarily, you know, maybe it's
		
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			just simply a bit because it's
something that was never done
		
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			before. I don't know if there's a
reason to have that. But
		
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			I
		
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			allow them I never seen myself on
that before.
		
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			All right, Ryan, what you got?
Coming back to the murder? Yes.
		
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			What about this new age where
people memorize the Koran or
		
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			something unique like that the mod
can be a service to
		
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			the mod, it can be a service, you
can say the mod your mod was I'll
		
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			take you to Hutch. Your mod is
I'll teach you flip your manhood
		
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			is I'll teach you, for example,
		
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			a 10th. Wheat, you can all I'll
teach you to memorize suited
		
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			ramen. That's acceptable as a
Maha. And the prophesy centum said
		
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			this, the woman who is easy going
on the MaHA. Right is the best.
		
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			But that doesn't mean that the
Father has to be easygoing. If
		
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			you're the dad, and you're dealing
with these guys, the status is no
		
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			different than when you deal with
with other certain things. The
		
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			prophets I said and said you're
guilty until proven innocent. And
		
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			that's the way for the way at
least some people don't know how
		
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			to be a Willie. If you're the
Willie, like you're the dad, and
		
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			you have a teenage daughter, the
guy's guilty until proven
		
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			innocent. In the same way, if
you're going to hire someone to
		
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			work for you, he's he's not
working for you until he proves
		
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			himself. So how was me marriage is
10 times more important 100 times
		
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			more important. So the guy's
guilty until proven innocent. So
		
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			it's the man who can the Willie
the father, who can demand the
		
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			mud. Okay. And he does the talking
in that respect on these issues
		
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			that
		
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			would seem that they would get in
between the actual love, right
		
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			between
		
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			the actual love between because
it's sort of odd when you're like,
		
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			Oh, we love each other so much.
Okay, but you need to give me this
		
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			much money. It's odd. Marriage is
a contract, but pay attention very
		
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			closely here. It's Mevani, Allah
al mukarram. memorize these three
		
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			words. Business, a business
contract is money, Alamosa, which
		
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			means it's established upon
business is established upon
		
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			getting the most out of the other
guy, we all we both know that we
		
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			both come to the table, we're not
doing charity here, I'm trying to
		
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			make money. And you're trying to
make money. And we can make both
		
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			make money if we work together.
Right. But every one we understand
		
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			you're going for the most, and I'm
going for the most, I'm going to
		
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			try to pay the least. And you're
going to try to pay the least. And
		
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			I'm going to try to get the best
out of the contract. So that's the
		
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			business marriage is maybe added
more karma. It is a contract,
		
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			a financial contract, and there's
a service element to the contract
		
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			too. But that element of the
contract, it's built upon McCollum
		
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			and Musa Maha, for example, when
you read the thick of marriage,
		
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			what is a woman responsible for?
She's simply responsible for very
		
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			few things. But in everyday life,
every wife does 10,000 times more
		
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			than this, right? She's only
responsible to be physically
		
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			available to her husband, to Don't
let anyone in the house that he
		
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			doesn't like, don't go somewhere
he doesn't like, that's it. And if
		
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			there are kids, and he's out of
the house, then she's the shepherd
		
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			of those kids. Right? That's the
technical FIP is very little that
		
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			she owes, right.
		
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			But every wife does 1000 times
more than this. And that's why
		
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			when people say, Oh, well, we need
to learn the fix of marriage. I'll
		
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			give you some better advice.
Observe a happy marriage, and talk
		
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			a happy marriage of pious Muslims.
Observe them, see what they do and
		
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			see how they handle things.
Because that's the marriage in
		
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			action. And 99% of the marriage is
not going to be something that's
		
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			in the marriage contract that goes
between you, husband and wife.
		
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			Okay. So it's built upon
forgiveness. It's built upon
		
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			generosity. That's what mahkamah
is. So there is the element of the
		
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			contract, which is very important.
		
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			But that's that's only one stage,
the rest of the stages is a
		
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			completely different thing. And
it's 99% Psychology. Right, and
		
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			how to get along and how to
interact. And that's what makes
		
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			marriages succeed and fail.
		
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			All right, next question.
		
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			By the way, Instagrams, you could
put questions in the question box.
		
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			Oh, I already see some in the
question. So let me read one and
		
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			then and then we'll go back to
you, Ryan. Lilly Shire. She says,
		
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			A Salam aleikum. What is meant by
an action is disliked by Allah.
		
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			Why are matters just halal and
haram? So she's out
		
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			Asking Why is in some Why is there
the category of disliked mcru
		
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			like marriage unbreakable halili
Illallah a Pollock sorry divorce,
		
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			the most hated by Allah of the
halal It is the reason that the
		
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			prophesy Salam made certain things
discouraged rather than haram
		
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			because it would be too much right
too many things that are haram
		
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			will be too much for you to bear.
So Allah's forgiveness is in the
		
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			category of Kata here. His his,
his expansiveness and his
		
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			forgiveness exists is found in the
category of discouragement.
		
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			Because discouraged, some people
say that it would the Prophet
		
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			wanted us to be haram. Right, but
out of ease for the people who
		
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			just made it discouraged. So if
you're tempted to do it, and you
		
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			leave it off, you get a reward for
that. But if you fall into it, and
		
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			you do it, there's no sin against
you. Is this something disliked?
		
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			So that's the approach. Alright,
Ryan, back to you.
		
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			Someone says, Is it okay for a
Muslim to feel sick and tired of
		
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			the dunya? Is it okay for a Muslim
to feel sick and tired of the
		
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			dunya? You don't want to go that
route where it's veiled laziness,
		
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			to be honest with you. But yes,
you can feel sick and tired of the
		
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			dunya. You can feel sick and tired
of people. I do it all the time.
		
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			Right? And so I shut my phone
down, I shut my phone down for
		
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			three days. Not my not this phone.
Where's my flip? See the flip? I
		
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			have to have all the time for
family. Right? And then some basic
		
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			colleagues that have to be in
touch with me at all times. And
		
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			it's my alarm clock too. Right? I
have so you have to have my the
		
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			flip. But this phone that I'm
streaming from, I shut that down
		
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			for three days. I don't hear
anyone's voice. I don't want to
		
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			see comments. I don't want to get
text messages. A complete shut it
		
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			down. Okay? Because if you have
too much going on into your brain,
		
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			you just get sick of it. You have
to renew yourself, okay, you got
		
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			to come to the app to have times
of the day, like seven 8pm. Shut
		
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			the whole thing down weekend,
Saturday, try to shut it down most
		
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			as much as possible. All right.
vacation days, you have to shut
		
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			down and recharge yourself. But at
the same time, I'm just warning.
		
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			I'm not saying that this brother
said that. But there are some
		
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			people. Alright, they talk a good
Zuid talk, which is asceticism,
		
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			but when I'm looking I don't see
asceticism I see laziness and
		
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			lazy. Freak. I'm I can only tell
you what I would tell my son. If
		
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			my son came in and say I'm in
macam zoo hood. And I'm wrinkled
		
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			wrinkled up No, I'm not taking sa
t courses. I'm not taking extra
		
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			courses in college. I'm so good.
Right? And I'm just doing the
		
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			dean.
		
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			Um, as an even as an imam in the
masjid. And as someone, we I loves
		
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			the hood. Okay, I want to be as
ahead, I would not accept it. For
		
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			him. It's not good for your
future, you want to be as ahead.
		
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			This is not the time for me as a
head, this is a time for you to
		
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			learn a craft. I'm your dad, I
have to you have to make sure that
		
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			you learn some dunya you're going
to learn a craft it whatever thing
		
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			that you're going to earn with and
you're going to iron your clothes
		
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			because you got to be presentable
to the people, I'm looking at
		
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			something else. He may be like
Oculus, I'm done with the dunya
		
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			you'll be done with the dunya I'm
looking at something else. There
		
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			are other families looking at you.
There are other people looking at
		
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			you. You're gonna have to get
married. You think that Amasa had
		
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			one day your body's going to
explode. You need to get married
		
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			someday. If you don't, I'm gonna
go pray tonight because and worry,
		
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			right? If you're not interested in
getting married, I'm gonna worry
		
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			to be honest with you. So when you
get married, there's other people
		
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			looking there's other people
thinking they're watching you. You
		
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			come to the messy with flip flops
and wrinkled clothes. You're a
		
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			slob. You're a loser. You got no
future? No dads out there all
		
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			think the same way moms think the
same way. Yes, there is so
		
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			wonderful. But
		
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			there's other parts of life in
Islam. And the prophets. I said to
		
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			them, if you look at his Sony, you
find that there are other elements
		
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			of life related to the deen that
are extremely important. And if
		
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			you don't do that stuff, if I
don't look at that as to a teenage
		
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			kid, than voelen volunteer him and
let him sleep in all day. What do
		
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			you do, I'll just go to the Holika
in the masjid, in sweats and spent
		
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			all night chit chatting with the
brothers about Islamic
		
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			controversies right? And then
typing in and having a fight on
		
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			Twitter, and then watching
YouTube's until three in the
		
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			morning. And then sleeping in
until 11am.
		
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			unaccepted is not happening. This
is not so good. And I know many
		
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			people are into this. It's not so
good. You're lazy and you're
		
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			trying to put it on the dean. What
you need to do is learn a craft
		
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			study take classes. If you truly
about the dean, then in your other
		
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			times, split your time and take
classes in the other parts of your
		
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			time. All right. So that's the way
that life is. There's a that's why
		
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			I'm telling you don't just go
through the books. There's there.
		
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			There's
		
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			There's Dean but there's also
life. How do they live? I went to
		
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			see his house I saw their sons
were educated. The biggest zoo had
		
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			Sufia all their kids are educated
and they can earn something
		
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			because there's a great harm in
being some miskeen faqeer okay,
		
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			it's not accepted
		
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			eylea Say it or say Eid. What
should we study alongside Quran
		
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			Hadith you should study AKA, you
must study a class on start with
		
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			that's how we and learn your
update a very well and learn the
		
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			names and attributes of Allah
subhana wa Sylviane 537 unrelated
		
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			topic. When should we expect the
next podcast?
		
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			Ryan, could you pencil it in next?
Next Monday? Sophie inside the
		
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			podcast oz. Can you come to that?
Safina sided podcast. We'll have
		
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			all the mics up, and we will be
ready to go. I'm telling you this
		
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			studio. You guys don't see it yet.
Because we haven't zoomed out for
		
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			a pic. We're 99% done. We're going
to be 100% done soon. Okay. All
		
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			right, Muhammad, we need these
chandeliers up. Okay. We're going
		
00:31:00 --> 00:31:04
			to be 100%. So I'm telling you
when they see this studio, when
		
00:31:04 --> 00:31:07
			Alex and ye and and sad and NAS
when they see the studio, I won't
		
00:31:07 --> 00:31:10
			be able to get them out. Right,
especially when we put the fridge
		
00:31:10 --> 00:31:13
			on the snack bar or the snack
area. We won't be able to get him
		
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			out. I'm going to just going to
leave.
		
00:31:15 --> 00:31:19
			All right, Ryan, what do you got?
The question. Let's hear it
		
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			permissible prayer. Before can you
pray a shot before federal that is
		
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			it is valid but you're going to be
sinful? You after half the night
		
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			delaying federal pass after night
is sinful.
		
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			Okay, can't do that cannot delay I
shut behind half the night. So if
		
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			you're gonna plan to stay up late,
okay, you do it to Sneem says
		
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			advice on managing work life
balance when it comes to
		
00:31:45 --> 00:31:50
			technology. Very simple. You set
yourself a certain amount, a
		
00:31:50 --> 00:31:51
			certain amount of time
		
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			of studying. Right? And then you
are a student of knowledge. If you
		
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			have decided upon a curriculum and
you follow it systematically,
		
00:32:00 --> 00:32:02
			you're a student of knowledge.
Even if you study 20 minutes a
		
00:32:02 --> 00:32:03
			week.
		
00:32:04 --> 00:32:06
			You're going at a slower pace, but
you're a student of knowledge you
		
00:32:06 --> 00:32:10
			decided this is the curriculum.
These are the shoe these are the
		
00:32:10 --> 00:32:15
			books and you have a systematic
way of going about it. Right. Then
		
00:32:15 --> 00:32:18
			you are a student of knowledge
100%
		
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			All right, Ryan, what else you
got?
		
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			AK 5289 to get you said Sheikh
Shadi just want to say that I love
		
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			you bro. Allah like bah, who is
this person? I love him too. I
		
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			don't know him but I love him.
What's wrong with that? Mashallah,
		
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			we have a good question. Yes?
		
00:32:39 --> 00:32:44
			asked Is it okay to have a mixing
at a youth event for high
		
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			schoolers, with music and other
activities in the vicinity of the
		
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			Masjid? Oh, the biller? Next
question. The answer that question
		
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			is how will the biller Look, we
all try to be cool and everything
		
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			with with the youth. You're not
going to get anywhere if you have
		
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			something that is just pleasing to
Allah, and something that
		
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			resembles a club and it's been
tried before you're not the first
		
00:33:07 --> 00:33:12
			ones to do it. Right? There's been
tried before. And yeah, a lot of
		
00:33:12 --> 00:33:14
			people came in but what happened
the whole thing collapsed and blew
		
00:33:14 --> 00:33:18
			up. I've seen it I'm not gonna say
names. I'm not saying names. They
		
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			did this before. The blew up they
collapsed had no tofield from
		
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			Allah Tala. I like to say, look,
this is the dean, right? This is
		
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			this is how we do things. And we
should have everything should have
		
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			a separation in gender at least by
distance. Right? At least by
		
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			distance. Oh, they're not going to
buy it. They're not going to go
		
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			into it. They're not they won't do
it.
		
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			Listen, my job is not to cut
corners. I got to do something
		
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			that can last forever. I can't
fool them say okay, let's come and
		
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			do something. Haram. Alright, and
then sneaking something of Deen.
		
00:33:50 --> 00:33:54
			That's not the that's just not the
way. Okay. I'm telling you. It's
		
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			just not the way a lot of people,
they they're trying something,
		
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			anything to get the youth
involved. But don't try something
		
00:34:00 --> 00:34:03
			that is going to have in it
something with disobedience in it.
		
00:34:03 --> 00:34:04
			Right.
		
00:34:05 --> 00:34:07
			It's not going to work. It's not
the way of the Olia. It's not the
		
00:34:07 --> 00:34:11
			way the sleight of hand. And the
best way to get someone to touch
		
00:34:11 --> 00:34:15
			their heart is through al Huck.
Not through a bottle. It's through
		
00:34:15 --> 00:34:18
			the truth. You can touch people's
hearts through the truth. And
		
00:34:18 --> 00:34:22
			Allah knows best, but that's what
we do. I don't do any of those.
		
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			Now, sometimes there are they're a
bit mixed because we go on a field
		
00:34:24 --> 00:34:27
			trip, right? Yeah, that's true. It
happens. We go on a field trip to
		
00:34:27 --> 00:34:31
			New York. And we're all walking
sometimes. Yes, it gets a little
		
00:34:31 --> 00:34:34
			bit mixed up. Right? Because we do
we go to New York, we went to a
		
00:34:34 --> 00:34:38
			Sixers game, right? Yes, the
little bit, but they all know and
		
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			they have a general concept that
it's not supposed to be mixed up,
		
00:34:43 --> 00:34:46
			right? And you say, Oh, well,
they're all mixed up in school.
		
00:34:46 --> 00:34:49
			What do I have to do with their
schools? Right? Not my business.
		
00:34:49 --> 00:34:53
			My business is what I control.
Right. So and, you know, that's,
		
00:34:54 --> 00:34:57
			to me, that's the the right way to
do things.
		
00:34:59 --> 00:34:59
			Let me
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:03
			A LOOK AT THIS does that mean
video podcasts there will be video
		
00:35:03 --> 00:35:06
			podcasts not all the podcasts with
the guys will be videos because
		
00:35:06 --> 00:35:08
			there's a reason actually one of
our members, he's actually not
		
00:35:08 --> 00:35:13
			allowed for his work purposes, but
we will have a lot more video
		
00:35:13 --> 00:35:19
			podcasts. Nudge says what are mcru
things in Islam? I know divorce
		
00:35:19 --> 00:35:23
			mcru In Islam, there's a lot of
things that are Mikado, it depends
		
00:35:23 --> 00:35:26
			on what topic like Salah for
example, let's take what's the
		
00:35:26 --> 00:35:33
			mcru in will do is to wastewater,
what's mcru and Salah is to recite
		
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			a sutra and then in the first and
a second raka you recite a sutra
		
00:35:38 --> 00:35:42
			that came before it in the Quran.
So you're not reciting it in the
		
00:35:42 --> 00:35:47
			in the in order. Okay, so that's
Makoto Makoto to look around, and
		
00:35:47 --> 00:35:49
			so a lot to play around with your
beard and your hair in Salah.
		
00:35:50 --> 00:35:53
			That's the things that are makuu
what's my crew and close that it'd
		
00:35:53 --> 00:35:58
			be close to tight? Of course, if
it's if it's like skin tight, like
		
00:35:58 --> 00:36:01
			yoga pants, we don't consider that
close and you're not dressed
		
00:36:01 --> 00:36:02
			essentially.
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:07
			In an honest, you know, the most
disgusting thing is guys now wear
		
00:36:07 --> 00:36:12
			yoga pants. There's not there's
nothing more. I mean, I guess
		
00:36:12 --> 00:36:17
			that's the Kufa IRA for my sins
when I see that my sins are being
		
00:36:17 --> 00:36:21
			expunged from what I had seen a
woman in yoga pants. That's the
		
00:36:21 --> 00:36:22
			only way to interpret it right?
		
00:36:24 --> 00:36:27
			All right, what's the ruling of
fit hanging pictures up in the
		
00:36:27 --> 00:36:31
			family? It's my crew to put a
picture of some family stuff up
		
00:36:31 --> 00:36:34
			high, but it's okay to put it in
an album. Okay.
		
00:36:36 --> 00:36:39
			All right, one more from Tasneem.
And then we'll go to Ryan, another
		
00:36:39 --> 00:36:41
			question. When it comes to
enjoying good forbidding evil,
		
00:36:41 --> 00:36:44
			what is the right approach you
have with hypersensitive
		
00:36:44 --> 00:36:48
			individuals? Don't take it face on
with a hypersensitive individual,
		
00:36:48 --> 00:36:51
			they're going to feel attacked,
right? Go from the side, bring it
		
00:36:51 --> 00:36:56
			up lightly, gently, not relating
to them. But as a general point,
		
00:36:56 --> 00:36:57
			you can do that.
		
00:36:58 --> 00:37:02
			Okay, as a general point, drop it,
you know, like little facts here
		
00:37:02 --> 00:37:07
			about things. But not head on with
someone sensitive. Of course, if
		
00:37:07 --> 00:37:12
			it's your child, you're
responsible. Right? And you can
		
00:37:12 --> 00:37:15
			speak to them head on, but you can
tuck it in with many other nice
		
00:37:15 --> 00:37:20
			things that will make them happy.
Right? So it's in a package. Okay.
		
00:37:22 --> 00:37:23
			All right, Ryan, what you got?
		
00:37:24 --> 00:37:28
			Is it more rewarding to give money
to family on non essential things
		
00:37:28 --> 00:37:31
			or to give money to the poor and
needy? No, give money in the poor
		
00:37:31 --> 00:37:32
			and needy?
		
00:37:33 --> 00:37:38
			100% 100%? Next question.
		
00:37:39 --> 00:37:43
			Would one be sinful for not
forgiving someone? No, you're not
		
00:37:43 --> 00:37:46
			obligated to forgive anybody. But
if you want to get forgiveness
		
00:37:46 --> 00:37:48
			from Allah, you should forgive
people.
		
00:37:51 --> 00:37:56
			What is the best way to help spark
Eman in our young adult children?
		
00:37:56 --> 00:37:59
			What is the best approach with
them? What's the best way to spark
		
00:37:59 --> 00:38:04
			the Eman in young adult children
and this is going to go for adults
		
00:38:04 --> 00:38:06
			and children.
		
00:38:07 --> 00:38:13
			Even adults, it's the it's the
thing in this world, that if Allah
		
00:38:13 --> 00:38:14
			was to tell you,
		
00:38:15 --> 00:38:20
			you can have this thing. That is
what you would pay the price of
		
00:38:20 --> 00:38:24
			following everything in his law
and worshipping with complete
		
00:38:24 --> 00:38:27
			sincerity. You have to imagine the
deal. Someone comes up to you,
		
00:38:27 --> 00:38:30
			okay, what are you doing wrong? I
do this wrong, this wrong and this
		
00:38:30 --> 00:38:34
			wrong? I and I don't do this
obligation and this obligation and
		
00:38:34 --> 00:38:39
			this obligation? Why don't you do
those because you're enjoy doing
		
00:38:39 --> 00:38:42
			these sins, and you don't want to
do these obligations? Human
		
00:38:42 --> 00:38:43
			nature, right?
		
00:38:44 --> 00:38:48
			So it's all goes back to what I
enjoy and what I hate. So we all
		
00:38:48 --> 00:38:52
			have a price. What is it that if
you were to sat down with an
		
00:38:52 --> 00:38:55
			angel, so I come representing
Allah, write down on a piece of
		
00:38:55 --> 00:39:01
			paper, what it would take for you
to leave off these sins and
		
00:39:01 --> 00:39:04
			fulfill this obligation. Now, you
might say, Oh, it's gonna take
		
00:39:04 --> 00:39:08
			something so be crazy and so big
that it's it's not realistic.
		
00:39:09 --> 00:39:12
			That's your problem. You think
there's a limit to Allah subhana
		
00:39:12 --> 00:39:16
			wa, tada, there's no limit, put it
down, write it down exactly what
		
00:39:17 --> 00:39:22
			it would take. Okay, exactly what
it would take that you would say,
		
00:39:22 --> 00:39:26
			yeah, oh, definitely. I would
leave off these sins. Okay. Let's
		
00:39:26 --> 00:39:28
			say a lot of people, they listen
to music, and that's one of the
		
00:39:28 --> 00:39:31
			later things that people do wrong.
There's a lot of wrong things that
		
00:39:31 --> 00:39:34
			people do. There's a lot of sexual
problems through the phones, that
		
00:39:34 --> 00:39:38
			people have sins, that bliss is
just so happy that you've fallen
		
00:39:38 --> 00:39:42
			into and become addicted to, let's
just, that's just the fact, right.
		
00:39:43 --> 00:39:46
			We're human beings, we make
mistakes, we fall into sins, it
		
00:39:46 --> 00:39:46
			happens.
		
00:39:48 --> 00:39:51
			What is it that would take if
someone said to you, well, if you
		
00:39:51 --> 00:39:56
			could leave that off, we'll give
you $5 million. You'd leave it
		
00:39:56 --> 00:39:59
			off. I guarantee you, right? You
would leave it off.
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:02
			So this is the relationship we
have to have with Allah subhanaw
		
00:40:02 --> 00:40:04
			taala we must believe that he's
capable
		
00:40:07 --> 00:40:10
			of rewarding us in this life
before the next. So that's the
		
00:40:10 --> 00:40:14
			best dua the dua of what they
would like in this had to do it
		
00:40:14 --> 00:40:19
			before the next that would
motivate them to leave off sin and
		
00:40:19 --> 00:40:22
			do our obligations say normally
the best remembrance of Allah is
		
00:40:22 --> 00:40:23
			leaving off sense.
		
00:40:24 --> 00:40:29
			Next question, is it true
differences of opinion in Aikido
		
00:40:29 --> 00:40:33
			like Ashley mentioned ethically as
well methods are equivalent to the
		
00:40:33 --> 00:40:37
			different schools of fic the
schools of Updata in Islam or the
		
00:40:37 --> 00:40:41
			humbly as shady and metodi all if
you follow any of the one of those
		
00:40:41 --> 00:40:44
			schools Hanbury as shady and
metric if you want to humbly
		
00:40:44 --> 00:40:46
			school, you can go to
		
00:40:48 --> 00:40:53
			Instagram and madressa humbly or
true humbly creed on Instagram and
		
00:40:53 --> 00:40:55
			learn how many are created from
there. No problem.
		
00:40:56 --> 00:41:00
			Next question. Someone wants to
start praying. So that'll Iraq.
		
00:41:00 --> 00:41:04
			When is the timeframe and what's
the intention for the will do when
		
00:41:04 --> 00:41:09
			they're making it for that? So
okay, so lots of Doha and Iraq are
		
00:41:09 --> 00:41:13
			different things. Every one of us
loves money, right? Nobody here
		
00:41:13 --> 00:41:16
			wants to be poor. If someone came
up to you and gave you $200 on the
		
00:41:16 --> 00:41:21
			spot, you'd be happy. Don't lie.
Okay? A millionaire if someone
		
00:41:21 --> 00:41:24
			came up and gave him five nice
$100 bills, he'd be happy.
		
00:41:25 --> 00:41:28
			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said Whoever prays
		
00:41:28 --> 00:41:32
			feathered and sits in his man sits
in the same spot until the sun
		
00:41:32 --> 00:41:36
			rises which is 20 minutes after it
shut up. remembering Allah
		
00:41:36 --> 00:41:37
			subhanaw taala then he prays to it
because
		
00:41:39 --> 00:41:43
			that is faster in in earning
money. In cassava risk, which it
		
00:41:43 --> 00:41:49
			is broader than money, then if he
was to go work east and west, so
		
00:41:49 --> 00:41:52
			that's look at the motivation
Allah has given us. Allah knows we
		
00:41:52 --> 00:41:57
			all want is we all need risk. Some
people say Oh, you, you like money
		
00:41:57 --> 00:42:01
			so much. It's not me who likes
money. Rutgers University needs
		
00:42:01 --> 00:42:05
			money. Nearly med school needs
money. PSE and G want my money,
		
00:42:05 --> 00:42:06
			alright.
		
00:42:07 --> 00:42:09
			northborough, brunswick township,
they want my money, they just
		
00:42:09 --> 00:42:14
			increased our taxes. These people,
they all want all my money. Okay,
		
00:42:14 --> 00:42:18
			my car company, they want my
money. They all want my money. I
		
00:42:18 --> 00:42:20
			need to give it to them. All
right, I need to earn money. So
		
00:42:20 --> 00:42:25
			customer risk. Don't look at it as
I'm being greedy. Look at it that
		
00:42:25 --> 00:42:29
			the world is expensive. Life is
expensive. You need that money. So
		
00:42:29 --> 00:42:33
			that's how you do it. That's
called it showed up. And it has so
		
00:42:33 --> 00:42:38
			much reward in it. And it's also
your prayer to if you'd miss that.
		
00:42:38 --> 00:42:42
			Let's just pray fetch and fall
asleep then you wake up as long as
		
00:42:42 --> 00:42:45
			it's before the hook, then you
press a lot to Doha to rock us for
		
00:42:46 --> 00:42:46
			six or eight.
		
00:42:50 --> 00:42:54
			Next question, if I wronged
someone and seeking forgiveness or
		
00:42:54 --> 00:42:57
			correction for the matter with
them is not an option. What can
		
00:42:57 --> 00:43:01
			you do? If I've wronged someone
but I can't seek forgiveness. And
		
00:43:01 --> 00:43:04
			it's too late. It's happened
before a man came to me and I Bess
		
00:43:04 --> 00:43:09
			and he said I murdered somebody.
So if not best said go to your
		
00:43:09 --> 00:43:12
			family or tribe and collect the
deal. Okay.
		
00:43:14 --> 00:43:16
			Pay them to do the blood money. He
said, I don't even know who he is
		
00:43:16 --> 00:43:22
			because we weren't strangers. We
were strangers in the road. And
		
00:43:22 --> 00:43:25
			then we had a fight before I even
knew his name. I killed him.
		
00:43:27 --> 00:43:30
			It couldn't happen. They maybe
they thought that, you know they
		
00:43:30 --> 00:43:34
			were both antagonistic so he
killed him preemptively. He said
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:36
			that make dua for him. He said I
don't even know his name, said to
		
00:43:36 --> 00:43:40
			make dua for him to jail. But then
he said, Make dua for him just
		
00:43:40 --> 00:43:43
			like as the man I killed, but then
he said just go be good to your
		
00:43:43 --> 00:43:45
			mother that will wipe away your
sins. So that's how you wipe away
		
00:43:45 --> 00:43:46
			sins that you can make up.
		
00:43:50 --> 00:43:53
			Next question, someone is seeking
help because they suffer from
		
00:43:53 --> 00:43:58
			panic attacks OCD was was related
to the thoughts of blasphemy. It
		
00:43:58 --> 00:44:02
			consumes their energy in their
life. If, if it was one of those
		
00:44:02 --> 00:44:05
			things, I would advise you and I
will just say increase your
		
00:44:05 --> 00:44:08
			decrease, stay upon will do but if
it's all of these things, I sit I
		
00:44:08 --> 00:44:12
			would say seek professional
attention, professional medical
		
00:44:12 --> 00:44:15
			attention because if it's all of
those things, then it is a
		
00:44:15 --> 00:44:18
			professional thing that a person
needs professional medical
		
00:44:18 --> 00:44:18
			attention for that.
		
00:44:20 --> 00:44:23
			Let me read one from here. Junaid
says Please recommend a halal way
		
00:44:23 --> 00:44:25
			to get to know someone for
marriage and to what level
		
00:44:28 --> 00:44:31
			okay, if you're fat if you're if
you're a young family
		
00:44:33 --> 00:44:38
			there is value in having
invitations, dinner parties. And I
		
00:44:38 --> 00:44:39
			like the
		
00:44:41 --> 00:44:43
			the daisies have debits, right?
		
00:44:44 --> 00:44:47
			It's Dawa. It's an invitation
dinner party. We have these two in
		
00:44:47 --> 00:44:54
			the Arab culture when you do
those. Okay, then, oh, they said
		
00:44:54 --> 00:44:56
			they couldn't hear the questions
but we'll say the question is
		
00:44:56 --> 00:44:59
			louder next time. Because the two
streams go there's this
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:02
			stream going for the all the other
platforms. And then there's the
		
00:45:02 --> 00:45:05
			Instagram stream, but Ryan's only
connected to the other platforms
		
00:45:05 --> 00:45:09
			not to Instagram, but I'll repeat
his questions. So those dinner
		
00:45:09 --> 00:45:11
			invitations, the value is for
people to see each other families
		
00:45:11 --> 00:45:14
			to see each other. So that when
it's time to get married, you know
		
00:45:14 --> 00:45:18
			people, and not only that your
whole family knows them. If you're
		
00:45:18 --> 00:45:21
			past that, and that never worked
out for you, or you've never had
		
00:45:21 --> 00:45:26
			anything like that, then the best
place to go and meet somebody is
		
00:45:26 --> 00:45:30
			somewhere where, where there's
where there's knowledge, like
		
00:45:30 --> 00:45:34
			classes, going to class is one of
the best places to find people
		
00:45:34 --> 00:45:37
			because their priorities are going
to be similar. So that's to me one
		
00:45:37 --> 00:45:41
			of the best advices and we had a
couple of marriages in our masjid
		
00:45:41 --> 00:45:44
			and with Safina suicide, which was
which was really exciting for the
		
00:45:44 --> 00:45:46
			community to see. And now they
have kids.
		
00:45:48 --> 00:45:50
			So that's the answer to that
question. Let's take one more from
		
00:45:50 --> 00:45:53
			here then before we go back to
Ryan so let's go to
		
00:45:56 --> 00:45:58
			Triple H if we want to prepare for
REG.
		
00:46:00 --> 00:46:03
			Reg have is the time to make up
your old fasts and to start
		
00:46:03 --> 00:46:06
			fasting and also there are some
narrations even though some people
		
00:46:06 --> 00:46:09
			say they're weak but there are
narrations that relate to the
		
00:46:09 --> 00:46:14
			first the night before Rajib say
naughty used to stay up and he
		
00:46:14 --> 00:46:17
			said that the door is accepted so
I'm going to take advantage of it
		
00:46:18 --> 00:46:22
			right you should take advantage of
that to the DUA is accepted. And
		
00:46:22 --> 00:46:26
			that night I don't have the
narration in front of me but Habib
		
00:46:26 --> 00:46:29
			Amata teaches it and he doesn't
not going to propose it promote a
		
00:46:29 --> 00:46:30
			fabricated narration
		
00:46:34 --> 00:46:37
			he did we could probably look at
it in the morcilla alright Ryan
		
00:46:37 --> 00:46:38
			You're up
		
00:46:39 --> 00:46:43
			is saying oh my god when you're
angry at someone is saying oh my
		
00:46:43 --> 00:46:46
			God, when you're angry a sin? I
don't think it would be a sin
		
00:46:46 --> 00:46:49
			Manny maybe my crew he used
Allah's name in a way that's not
		
00:46:49 --> 00:46:50
			really, really
		
00:46:51 --> 00:46:52
			appropriate.
		
00:46:53 --> 00:46:57
			Let's go to favour fibromyalgia.
May Allah give you a shifa from
		
00:46:57 --> 00:47:02
			having Fibro myalgia and
rheumatoid arthritis, rheumatoid
		
00:47:02 --> 00:47:07
			arthritis, arthritis can't even
say thank you for teaching. Please
		
00:47:07 --> 00:47:11
			advise how apostates should be
treated as if they don't exist.
		
00:47:12 --> 00:47:13
			It's true.
		
00:47:14 --> 00:47:18
			Right? Stay away from them.
They're going to be like a cancer
		
00:47:18 --> 00:47:23
			in your head. We have in this OMA
quality control, your Sahaba your
		
00:47:23 --> 00:47:28
			circles, right? A friend has to
have quality control. Right?
		
00:47:29 --> 00:47:33
			I can guarantee you and here's the
funny thing is that so many of our
		
00:47:33 --> 00:47:38
			Muslims, are we so liberal minded
now, right? If you become a Trump
		
00:47:38 --> 00:47:41
			supporter that cuts you off, but
if you become an apostate, we need
		
00:47:41 --> 00:47:42
			to discuss this.
		
00:47:43 --> 00:47:46
			We need to have Rama. But the guy
became a Trump supporter, you cut
		
00:47:46 --> 00:47:50
			him off? If he's antivax, you cut
them off completely. But if he
		
00:47:50 --> 00:47:55
			comes an innovator or something,
let's have a discussion about
		
00:47:55 --> 00:48:00
			this. Right? So it's the quality
control of your friend group. How
		
00:48:00 --> 00:48:03
			can I befriend someone who's
offended, offended a lot
		
00:48:03 --> 00:48:07
			knowingly. If he offended me
knowingly, I wouldn't befriend
		
00:48:07 --> 00:48:11
			him. And who am I? If he offended
my mom knowingly, I cut them off.
		
00:48:11 --> 00:48:15
			Right? What would NBC do if
somebody if one of their anchors
		
00:48:15 --> 00:48:19
			openly supported the January 6
rebellion or whatever they want to
		
00:48:19 --> 00:48:23
			call it? And said, no, no, no, it
was just a peaceful march. And
		
00:48:23 --> 00:48:26
			some people got out of hand he'd
be fired, they would put a release
		
00:48:26 --> 00:48:30
			right away. We have severed all
ties within before two minutes
		
00:48:30 --> 00:48:37
			pass from his statement. And he'd
be done with. So are we promoting
		
00:48:37 --> 00:48:40
			division? No, we're promoting
quality control. I want quality
		
00:48:40 --> 00:48:44
			control on my friend group. I want
my friend group to be people who I
		
00:48:44 --> 00:48:49
			could trade their book on the Day
of Judgment. Right? If someone
		
00:48:49 --> 00:48:51
			said Would you trade his books,
your book of deeds from My Book of
		
00:48:51 --> 00:48:56
			deeds? If I say no, no, thank you,
then why am I friends with you?
		
00:48:56 --> 00:48:59
			Now? If I wouldn't befriend you on
the ACA, right.
		
00:49:01 --> 00:49:02
			Why do I need to be your friend
now?
		
00:49:05 --> 00:49:06
			Tell me more.
		
00:49:09 --> 00:49:12
			How much time it takes for non
Arabic Pete person to become a
		
00:49:12 --> 00:49:17
			Maliki scholar Mufti with ijazah.
If you study seriously for four
		
00:49:17 --> 00:49:21
			years, you can really learn a lot
and you could finish up to the
		
00:49:21 --> 00:49:24
			reset of Hypnobabies aid and the
magic Amantha. We study three
		
00:49:24 --> 00:49:26
			introductory books, you should
finish that in a year. If you
		
00:49:26 --> 00:49:29
			study at least once a week and
then resell that you can finish
		
00:49:29 --> 00:49:33
			that in a year if you study once a
week. So you're gonna start with
		
00:49:33 --> 00:49:37
			asking Maria, a buddy, if an acid
that's intro and then reset it's
		
00:49:37 --> 00:49:41
			Abizaid that might take you one or
two years, you'll be solid at the
		
00:49:41 --> 00:49:44
			intermediate level, you can teach
people now, right what you know,
		
00:49:44 --> 00:49:48
			if you want more than add a couple
more years to study, outcrop and
		
00:49:48 --> 00:49:51
			mosaddek You're going to need a
lot of Arabic for that. That may
		
00:49:51 --> 00:49:51
			take you some time.
		
00:49:53 --> 00:49:54
			Ryan Go ahead.
		
00:49:55 --> 00:49:58
			Okay, related to the sick,
somebody asked in the medic
		
00:49:58 --> 00:49:59
			method, one is allowed to make to
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:03
			If making a duel will take too
much time. And so that will end
		
00:50:03 --> 00:50:07
			Why is it allowed if the Quran
stipulates otherwise supposedly,
		
00:50:08 --> 00:50:12
			in the medical method if you're
going to miss the prayer like like
		
00:50:12 --> 00:50:16
			you cut it so close then whatever
it is walking up the steps to call
		
00:50:16 --> 00:50:19
			the event and you don't have to do
and the water is somewhere far
		
00:50:19 --> 00:50:22
			away that you can't make if you
went to make would do it you'd
		
00:50:22 --> 00:50:26
			miss the prayer then you then that
is one of the conditions of TMO
		
00:50:27 --> 00:50:31
			preconditions are met so you make
you go out to meet him and pray
		
00:50:31 --> 00:50:35
			and get the prayer before you lose
the prayer. Yeah that's that's how
		
00:50:35 --> 00:50:39
			it is. Now your sinful for
delaying the prayer that for that
		
00:50:39 --> 00:50:40
			much
		
00:50:41 --> 00:50:46
			Shahida says animal as alcohol and
creams or any animal products
		
00:50:46 --> 00:50:49
			invalidate the sale and Salah does
not invalidate this Allah because
		
00:50:49 --> 00:50:54
			it will have evaporated and it
will have transformed anyway. So
		
00:50:54 --> 00:50:57
			in sha Allah should not invalidate
the salah. Why do we stand some
		
00:50:57 --> 00:51:00
			people stand when they recite
Salah on the prophet in the in the
		
00:51:00 --> 00:51:03
			masjid and that was a matter of
just showing respect for the
		
00:51:03 --> 00:51:08
			Prophet peace be upon him zikr and
mentioned have there any been
		
00:51:08 --> 00:51:11
			female prophets? No, we don't have
we don't hold that there were
		
00:51:11 --> 00:51:14
			female prophets. Miriam is the
greatest woman and Allah described
		
00:51:14 --> 00:51:19
			as Siddiqa. Nebia and Allah
separates in the Quran between
		
00:51:19 --> 00:51:19
			Saudi economy.
		
00:51:21 --> 00:51:22
			All right, let's see what else you
got. Right.
		
00:51:24 --> 00:51:27
			That's the whole I can check it
Schrock have to be prayed in the
		
00:51:27 --> 00:51:30
			masjid if after praying fajr I
talk and chat with other
		
00:51:30 --> 00:51:33
			Mussolini's colors to talk and
shot with other mythologies after
		
00:51:33 --> 00:51:37
			feci saying they stood up, prayed
in the masjid when I chit chatted
		
00:51:37 --> 00:51:39
			and had breakfast and had a fight
with all the other Mossad ladies
		
00:51:40 --> 00:51:43
			too late unless you ruined it.
Don't do this, sit in your spot,
		
00:51:43 --> 00:51:48
			don't talk to anybody. Until it
shut up comes and it shut up is
		
00:51:48 --> 00:51:52
			when is fed, you're out at 20
minutes, sit and don't talk to
		
00:51:52 --> 00:51:53
			anybody. Okay?
		
00:51:54 --> 00:51:58
			I'm telling you. There's great
reward in this, right? You do
		
00:51:58 --> 00:52:01
			this? Then you pray to it. Because
then you could
		
00:52:02 --> 00:52:06
			talk and fight and eat and
whatever you want to do. Yaffa
		
00:52:06 --> 00:52:08
			says how can someone have a
wedding or ceremony that is
		
00:52:08 --> 00:52:09
			pleasing to Allah
		
00:52:11 --> 00:52:16
			don't have mixing, don't have a
lot of loud music. I'm saying this
		
00:52:16 --> 00:52:19
			if you can, because most people,
they don't control the wedding,
		
00:52:19 --> 00:52:24
			you marry people today, every
family is mixed. Every family is
		
00:52:24 --> 00:52:27
			mixed. So we have to talk about
this in the spirit of a forgiving
		
00:52:27 --> 00:52:32
			nature. But this is the ideal.
Okay, so that nobody says, Oh,
		
00:52:32 --> 00:52:34
			this is too much. We could never
do this and I feel isolated. No,
		
00:52:35 --> 00:52:39
			in the spirit of if you're
capable, then you avoid these
		
00:52:39 --> 00:52:45
			things of the types of music that
is forbidden. The mixing that is
		
00:52:45 --> 00:52:49
			forbidden and inviting only the
rich and never inviting the poor.
		
00:52:50 --> 00:52:54
			And not having a sawed off like
excessive spending. Right? Excess
		
00:52:54 --> 00:52:59
			in the spending. So he said for SR
Yafa. that's those are the things
		
00:52:59 --> 00:53:02
			that that's how you want to do it.
And for those who are coming from
		
00:53:02 --> 00:53:05
			not religious backgrounds, or that
their family doesn't, they don't
		
00:53:05 --> 00:53:09
			do I know people were so good.
Their family have nothing to do
		
00:53:09 --> 00:53:13
			with the deen. So um, we have to
say this in the spirit of if
		
00:53:13 --> 00:53:17
			you're capable. And if you're not,
and let's say you're gonna get
		
00:53:17 --> 00:53:19
			married, and your mother insisted
up and down, this is how the
		
00:53:19 --> 00:53:23
			wedding is going to be what is the
girl going to do? So we have to be
		
00:53:23 --> 00:53:25
			understanding that some people are
at different situations. And at
		
00:53:25 --> 00:53:28
			the same time, we have to
understand that there is an ideal
		
00:53:28 --> 00:53:31
			in our religion, okay, your
situation does not become the
		
00:53:31 --> 00:53:36
			ideal. And the ideal should not be
promoted without a sense that some
		
00:53:36 --> 00:53:42
			people are not able to fulfill it
out of inability, not malice. And
		
00:53:42 --> 00:53:43
			we have to have that.
		
00:53:45 --> 00:53:49
			We have to have that idea. My
North Faisal says, Are they
		
00:53:49 --> 00:53:54
			recorded? The answer is yes. On on
Instagram, on YouTube, on
		
00:53:54 --> 00:53:58
			Facebook, on Twitter, you can find
them all and we're going to start
		
00:53:58 --> 00:54:01
			uploading them as audio in the
podcast. So you get on your phone
		
00:54:01 --> 00:54:02
			does the audio part
		
00:54:04 --> 00:54:08
			Megalon Can you explain when if
method rulings can or cannot be
		
00:54:08 --> 00:54:11
			mixed? They should never be mixed.
If you follow a method if you're a
		
00:54:11 --> 00:54:13
			student of knowledge and you have
selected a method and you follow a
		
00:54:13 --> 00:54:19
			method don't mix. Unless there is
a situation that is impossible in
		
00:54:19 --> 00:54:23
			your method. Like what? Like a
chef he he converts to Islam,
		
00:54:24 --> 00:54:28
			right. He's becomes a chef he and
his mother he lives with his mom
		
00:54:28 --> 00:54:29
			and she has a dog.
		
00:54:30 --> 00:54:34
			He has to take the Medicare ruling
on the saliva of the dog not being
		
00:54:34 --> 00:54:37
			not just Ryan, what do you got?
		
00:54:39 --> 00:54:43
			What is our approach to tech food?
And what's our approach to tech
		
00:54:43 --> 00:54:46
			fear? You do it very cautiously
but if it needs to be done, it
		
00:54:46 --> 00:54:50
			needs to be done. And we in
America we are allowed to say so
		
00:54:50 --> 00:54:54
			and so has committed to Kofi Annan
is not a Muslim anymore. If you
		
00:54:54 --> 00:54:58
			see a guy bowing to an idol,
right? But what we say is that we
		
00:54:58 --> 00:54:59
			can't do anything about it. We
		
00:55:00 --> 00:55:03
			Eric, I can't execute the guy for
example, I can't take him and say,
		
00:55:03 --> 00:55:07
			put him in jail. I can't take him
into the basement, right? Like
		
00:55:07 --> 00:55:11
			some movie and lock them up and
tape them up to a chair and give
		
00:55:11 --> 00:55:15
			him a sitejabber No, only the
judge can do that. But what I can
		
00:55:15 --> 00:55:19
			do is know this guy worship isn't
good. Another God. This guy, you
		
00:55:19 --> 00:55:21
			know, does all this cool photo.
		
00:55:22 --> 00:55:25
			Okay, and he doesn't believe in
this battery other he believes in
		
00:55:25 --> 00:55:29
			another prophet or he believes
something some nonsense, then I
		
00:55:29 --> 00:55:30
			stay away from him. That's it.
		
00:55:31 --> 00:55:35
			Right? So should he follow that
Dean says?
		
00:55:37 --> 00:55:41
			I've heard it claimed that this is
not allowed, but as a fake. This
		
00:55:41 --> 00:55:45
			is or but as far as I know, this
is only in relation to the
		
00:55:45 --> 00:55:46
			essentials.
		
00:55:48 --> 00:55:50
			The previous question, what are
the position of medicine when it
		
00:55:50 --> 00:55:55
			comes to the majority of
knowledge? Or Bidda? Hasina? Yes.
		
00:55:55 --> 00:56:01
			Majora that means that if if you
read in a book, a chef says, Do
		
00:56:01 --> 00:56:06
			this thicker. As I did it, and my
dua was answered. We say you're
		
00:56:06 --> 00:56:08
			allowed to do that.
		
00:56:09 --> 00:56:14
			As long as it does not replace the
Sunnah. So someone says to you
		
00:56:14 --> 00:56:18
			that if you recite this and this
and this before moving them on
		
00:56:18 --> 00:56:19
			Friday
		
00:56:20 --> 00:56:21
			Oh, charge it.
		
00:56:23 --> 00:56:23
			You're
		
00:56:25 --> 00:56:27
			sorry about that. I didn't give
you this earlier.
		
00:56:29 --> 00:56:32
			But you can say okay, I'll do that
instead of suited KEF or instead
		
00:56:32 --> 00:56:35
			of the prophetic prayers, no, it
does not
		
00:56:37 --> 00:56:42
			displace the Sunon Okay, and it
does not have the same level of
		
00:56:42 --> 00:56:46
			Yaqeen you don't hold it at the
same level you can have Yaqeen in
		
00:56:46 --> 00:56:49
			it. I trust this Willie and this
scholar and I believe in it, but
		
00:56:49 --> 00:56:53
			you can have the same level of a
strong Yaqeen but not the same as
		
00:56:53 --> 00:56:56
			the Sunnah. The Sunnah there's no
doubt about it the promises of
		
00:56:56 --> 00:57:01
			Allah there's no doubt about it.
Cut the the other promises maybe
		
00:57:01 --> 00:57:05
			honey bunnies speculum Yanni less
absolute, but we can still believe
		
00:57:05 --> 00:57:06
			in it. And do it.
		
00:57:08 --> 00:57:12
			Mauro Blanco says is Welsh, the
Sunnah the answer is yes. The
		
00:57:12 --> 00:57:16
			Sunnah of recitation to recite the
what the prophet recited. And
		
00:57:16 --> 00:57:21
			Quraysh is what we now call wash.
So you should learn that if you
		
00:57:21 --> 00:57:21
			can.
		
00:57:24 --> 00:57:27
			What else we got? We only got a
few minutes left, unfortunately,
		
00:57:27 --> 00:57:30
			are all the different schools
about the EDA due to new
		
00:57:30 --> 00:57:35
			questions, the answer is yes.
Because of questions that came up
		
00:57:35 --> 00:57:38
			after the sahaba. So they say how
is it so not to have these beliefs
		
00:57:39 --> 00:57:41
			is because based on the
methodology of the companions,
		
00:57:41 --> 00:57:45
			that's what they would have done?
Based upon their methodology, they
		
00:57:45 --> 00:57:48
			would have answered the question.
Okay. That's why we say that this
		
00:57:48 --> 00:57:52
			is actually sunnah, even though
these these things, and these
		
00:57:52 --> 00:57:56
			debates and these arguments didn't
come up in their time, but so half
		
00:57:56 --> 00:58:00
			the fit out of 15, it come up in
their time. So we say that this is
		
00:58:00 --> 00:58:02
			what they would have done, they
would have answered the question,
		
00:58:02 --> 00:58:05
			there's no doubt about that. When
there was a problem and all the
		
00:58:05 --> 00:58:08
			HuFa of Quran were dying, say no,
I'm gonna solve the problem with
		
00:58:08 --> 00:58:11
			something that didn't exist in the
time of the Prophet peace be upon
		
00:58:11 --> 00:58:15
			him. So we would have that that's
what this haba would have done.
		
00:58:16 --> 00:58:20
			All right, next, Ryan, let's say
two from you. Some of these MSA,
		
00:58:20 --> 00:58:24
			presidents and other religious
guys get contacted by sisters who
		
00:58:24 --> 00:58:27
			have questions about the deen and
personal matters. How does the
		
00:58:27 --> 00:58:33
			brother navigate this? Personally
speaking, I really think that
		
00:58:35 --> 00:58:39
			whenever there's a communication,
and some people are going to say,
		
00:58:39 --> 00:58:43
			Oh, this is so there's not going
to work. You ask me, I'm telling
		
00:58:43 --> 00:58:46
			you the answer. The communication
between a brother and sister as
		
00:58:46 --> 00:58:48
			much as possible. It should be.
		
00:58:50 --> 00:58:53
			There should be a third person on
that. And it should only be by
		
00:58:53 --> 00:58:59
			necessity. For example, just as a
disclaimer, I got there like five
		
00:58:59 --> 00:59:03
			people who see who have access to
all my social media accounts.
		
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			Right.
		
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			There may they might not go on it,
but they have access to it. For
		
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			example, anyone could pick any one
of my families. My wife, for
		
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			example, she has access. She
doesn't always go on it, but she
		
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			could if she wanted to. She could
on her phone. It's right there. So
		
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			that there's not such a privacy
that is could lead to something
		
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			that is discouraged or something
that's Haram
		
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			is it mcru to close your eyes in
the Salah? Yes, it is the only
		
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			time it's allowed for you to shut
your eyes in the prayer is if
		
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			there's something that's
distracting you.
		
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			Alright, Ryan, what else you got?
If I have to wake up and sleep
		
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			early, and set my alarm clock, but
I don't wake up. Is it still a sin
		
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			that I didn't wake up? No. If you
set it the question is I tried
		
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			tried to wake up professional but
I failed. I set my alarm and
		
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			everything but I felt you're not
sinful at that point. If you
		
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			tried, but you failed you're not
sinful.
		
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			All right, let's take one more
		
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			Are there any conditions when it
caught the wrong me is allowed or
		
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			even recommended? Are there any
conditions to cut off family ties?
		
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			The answer to that is that yes
there we never cut off family ties
		
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			but you are allowed to avoid harm.
Okay. Again let me repeat that you
		
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			don't
		
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			you don't cut off your family ties
but you're allowed to avoid harm
		
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			and you can cut them off if
they're past data they join some
		
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			sect you can cut them off but the
mainly are they becoming a you
		
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			know, they they promote something
sinful without any shame you
		
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			couldn't you can cut them off. But
the concept and idea that avoiding
		
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			harm you're allowed to avoid harm,
so I'm not gonna go to his house.
		
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			I'm gonna barely give him the bare
minimum of what's necessary fine.
		
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			Other than that, I will cut him
off or I won't go that's fine. So
		
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			it's those are the conditions
they're harming you. They become a
		
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			moped they become monitored things
like that, folks, let's close this
		
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			out with the DoD Bismillah R
Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu lillahi
		
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			rabbil aalameen Allahumma salli wa
barik ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa
		
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			ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam
Taslima Allahumma Salli Salatin
		
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			Camella wa salam Salam and Turman
ala Sayidina Muhammad, Allah
		
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			Deaton Hello Bill awkward wits and
fetish will be caught up what's up
		
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			Dobby? Edge what you know it'd be
a river while still hurt him. We
		
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			still have Emma movie when she'd
Kareem. While early he was sabe
		
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			olam had been in an email as a you
know, Fiocco Lubin our correllian
		
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			of COFRA for sukawati. And we ask
Allah to Allah to place and all of
		
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			our it's a love of Amen. And a
love of deen and make it sweet
		
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			inside of our hearts and make
deviation and disobedience bitter
		
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			and distasteful to our hearts. We
ask Allah subhanaw taala for all
		
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			our youth that he make them love,
amen. And he Cofer and make them
		
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			love obedience and thaw and hate
disobedience. And Marcia and since
		
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			we ask Allah to Allah to always
keep us in his remembrance, and
		
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			always keep us in his dua in dua,
in a state of dua, and we ask
		
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			Allah to Allah to answer our dua.
We ask Allah subhana wa Tada to
		
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			keep us upon 200 and recitation of
Quran and Salah on the messenger
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we
ask Allah to Allah for abundance.
		
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			It is that is Khaled. We ask Allah
to Allah if our disk is in the
		
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			heavens, then bring it down. If
our oldest is in the earth, then
		
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			bring it up. If our disk is
difficult to attain, then make it
		
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			easy. If our it is this far, then
bring it near. If our disk is
		
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			haram, then purify it. If our risk
is little, then increase it. If
		
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			our disk is non existent, then
make it exist. If our risk is
		
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			stopped, then make it flow. If our
risk is stalled, then make it
		
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			move. If our risk was a sin, then
forgive it. If it's an error, then
		
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			wipe it away. If it's a mistake,
then overlook it. And if it's
		
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			difficult, then make it easy and
bless all of our risk and make it
		
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			the good risk in the hands of a
good person as a prophesy. centum
		
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			said in metal Salafi the Roger de
Sala, we ask Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			for our parents that he gives them
genital for a dose without any
		
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			hisab We ask Allah to Allah for
our children, Allah Masha sudo
		
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			Rahim, Lil Islam make them make
their hearts love the deen of
		
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			Islam we ask Allah subhana wa Tada
for hosting and hajima o mio
		
01:03:31 --> 01:03:35
			Sorocaba. Rasool We ask Allah for
a good ending and what makes the
		
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			heart of his messenger sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam happy and pleased
		
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			with us we ask Allah to Allah that
all of our dua be answered in a
		
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			way that pleases Him. Ask Allah to
Allah for all those secret desires
		
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			that we have inside of our hearts
from your father that you answer
		
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			them. In this blessed moment of
Wednesday between $1 and us. We
		
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			ask Allah to Allah that He
answered those dua in a way that
		
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			is pleasing to Him that is good
for us in this world, and then
		
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			INEC in the next Lastly, we asked
that Allah makes none more beloved
		
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			to us than his most beloved SADES
incarnate say that Muhammad
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
Subhanallah Baker believes that
		
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			yeah, meiosis one was more said
you know Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil
		
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			Alameen