Shadee Elmasry – NBF 10 The Sahabi Who Loved Fitna and Prayed Without Wudu + QA!

Shadee Elmasry
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All righty Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu

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was Salam ala Rasulillah who Allah, the he was the woman who

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Allah welcome everybody to the November facts live stream, our

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third class or session this week as we're basically inner soft open

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of our official and

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professional grade live stream. I've been live streaming with you

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guys. Not always on Instagram, but mostly was on Facebook from 2015

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on and then off and on and off. But now we're growing,

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everything's got to grow. If you're not growing, you're dying.

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That's how it is. And you have to ask yourself and your life are you

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growing or your diet? Alright, so here we go. Let's read a little

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bit of something beneficial today. And then we're going to open up to

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your comments, your questions, and we have a lot of things to talk

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about today is our soup kitchen dinner. We got people coming in to

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help out for the dinner. And it's it's been a big success. You all

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seen all of our posts about our soup kitchen and our data center.

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By the way, we have Diletto karats recitation there every Monday, and

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we give out food on Wednesday. So we're going with the vicar to

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we're not stopping. And we're not hesitating.

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So here we go. Before we start, there was a brother yesterday he

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said, Oh, how could you say that somebody's in the SATs were the

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same. Of course they have the same arcade. Here's the book. Okay,

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that brings you everything with citations with the quotes with

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everything. It's I know many people don't really have interest

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in this but some people do. They'll run in novelty at Sophia

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pool, Jelly Bean flesh, it will humbly Okay, the union between

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that show ANOVA in the fundamentals of what they actually

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believe, then how they expressed these things. Okay, but it was

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something different. Okay.

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Check that out.

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Okay, how they express it was different. And this book is by

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Sheikh Abdullah Nabulsi, and it was a gift to me enough Aldila to

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share with Dr. Shetty and mastery huffy that hula whenever I became

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Muslim, I mean, my book um, Yusuf ibn sadaqa. Humbly, I love this

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brother should use if had been sadaqa humbly, thank you so much

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for this book. And it's an amazing book between the union between the

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beliefs of the shared IRA, and how they actually represent the that

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method of Arpita represents the self. And he explains how, and he

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explains why there's a difference between the 100 but but the

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essence is one. Now let's go to this story. And many people will

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say where's the Senate for the story? Again, I told you all I'm

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reading from this book called by

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Al Bara, Bara Jumuah the ocean of tears and it's an amazing book

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Listen to this story. It is narrated that oh my love comes out

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one day and the Sahaba who they filmed in Yemen who is the secret

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keeper of the Prophet peace be upon him he says almost says how

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to crosswalks yeah Khalifa good basically how's your morning? How

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are they for says I woke up I made a mean I love fitness.

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I love fitness.

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Then he says I hate the truth.

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Okay, almost temperatures going up.

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A goal will be Miralem your clock I say things that were not

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created.

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Or I espouse things that weren't created say normal at this point.

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The heat you can imagine the heats coming up

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whereas had to be Metamora I testify okay with what I haven't

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seen

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what will suddenly be leveled and I pray without although

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well yeah, Phil ord Malazan. Allah He for summer and I have in the

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earth what Allah does not have in the heavens.

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If you ask any Muslim, what do you say about this? Execute right

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away. Okay, this is COVID Forgot the valamar Lisa Lika Raghavan

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shady the now the VA has go for the outward of it is cool for now.

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What does he mean by it? All right. It's almost became

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extremely upset. And immediately, I said almost saying oh my god,

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he's always gonna be saying, Oh, we reached for the stick right

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away for the stick. Okay. And he got and he started to think about

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I'm going to hit him. Good.

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So much of that got us to a better human and maybe some low and then

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he remembered the special place that they've given the A man had

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with the Prophet. He's the secret keeper of the messenger. He's the

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one that Prophet peace be upon him told him who are the 12

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Hypocrites. He was a secret keeper. And his father at the man

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was actually from another area. He was a fugitive who was kicked out

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of his area. He came to Medina as a migrant. And he lived before the

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Prophet came, sort of Allah when he was salam. And then he stayed

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with them. And then

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it was actually killed by friendly fire in the battle. Oh hood at the

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end.

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Men, son of the father of Khalifa. So in any event, folic evatik If

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Maravi I've never thought of saying it passes passes by. And he

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says anger on the face of Alma fucka wa mural Momineen. Focus

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Allah he says, he says Ahmed, why are we so upset about? So he tells

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him the story. He tells them the story tells them what, who they

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first said, Exactly. For Kalia Ameerul Momineen lie or dibuka

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dyadic. He said, Don't be upset about this. I'm Makalu it No, your

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head will fit now. He's saying that he loves fitna. It's because

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Allah says Verily your wealth and your children are fitsum Doesn't

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everyone love their children? Right, but they're fit and what

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does it mean that your wealth and your children are fitna they're a

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distraction. Any of you know about life when you go from being a

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student and you have no concerns? Guys, many of you are and you know

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the student life. Right? There's only one concern which is your

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exams and you think that you have you have issues, you think that

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you're busy, you haven't even you haven't even seen 20 10% of life.

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You don't have a spouse. You don't have a job. PSE and G send your

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mom the bill, then your dad doesn't send it to you. Okay? You

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don't have kids. Your kids don't have homework. You haven't seen

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anything yet. Okay. So there are fitna they distract you from a bad

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but serving them as well. And doing that stuff can become a good

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deed for you. Mr. Cole, who wakrah Who will help. He hates Huck

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Jadwiga at Saqqara to multiball Huck. Huck, the Al hop here is

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death. This death comes right it's a true thing that death comes

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Okay, so he hates it we all hate death say die it's just said

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almost of Allah. We hate death. Prophesy centum said the Muslims

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love of death is not the love of actual death. It's the love of

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meeting Allah subhanaw taala

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amalco who you're going to be Mel, I'm your co op. He speaks with

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what is not created. It's Al Quran Al Karim. Right he's CR is the

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Quran he recites the Quran for Hawaii. ACARA Al Quran, Hua Hua

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Rama Clopay. Korea he recites the Quran and it is not created. Colo

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Colo?

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Yes, how to be mellem era. Okay, he testifies for something he

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hasn't seen. He testifies and believes in Allah. He hasn't seen

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Allah but he believes in him. And he testifies to that will let you

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know Allah, Allah

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kolu who you suddenly be right, he will do as for his he praised

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without will. That is his prayer upon the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wa sallam All right he makes Hello out on the messenger peace be upon

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him and you don't have to have will do you can make the law on

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the Prophet in all of your states said in the Musa asked Allah

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Sometimes I'm in a certain we're in a certain condition he means by

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that Janessa

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ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada says remember me and all of your states

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The only thing you cannot recite when you're upon Geneva is the

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Quran. And you cannot touch the most half without will do but you

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can recite the Quran without will do, but you cannot recite it upon

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Janab and only in the Maliki Mehtab. The how an officer the

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woman who is upon higher than Fs, she can recite the Quran from

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memory or from a tablet upon higher than Fs because he

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separates Genova is something you enter by choice and you can exit

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it by choice whenever you want.

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Higher than if S is something that comes upon them. Okay, so said and

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it continues explain how they've MDM and statement to say normal.

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Okay, M kolu. In low fill all the Malay Sal Allah He for summer, he

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says, I have something in the earth that Allah doesn't have in

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the heavens, a wife and kids. Right? Allah doesn't have a wife

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and kids. All right, because he's transcendent beyond having a wife

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and kids why do we have a wife and kids because we have needs were

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weak. We need companionship, I said to Adam, when he was created,

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he was created in paradise. And he's looking around and some

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people say it's one of the different gardens of Paradise, not

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necessarily the paradise and he's moving around looking around.

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They get bored.

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So he fell asleep.

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Until Allah subhanaw taala he woke up and he found next to him.

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Another creature, a beautiful creature that he's looking at. And

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he said, Who are you? She said, I am. I am woman.

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So what's your name? What? Yet? What's you're created for? As your

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companion in life and Nisa, Shaka ecoregional. The prophets I seldom

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said women are the second half of men, that means they're half

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right. They both have the same needs the same desires of company,

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they need each other's company, they love each other's company.

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Then he loves her company so much that he forgot the one rule that

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he had with ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. That was it. And so he forgot.

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Right but forgetfulness for them is different in

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their city in his city I was different from an Orisha in

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Arusha. If you forget something, you're forgiven, but in that

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Sharia that law would say to Adam, you only had one thing that was

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haram. Alright, so you're not allowed to forget. So he didn't

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commit a sin in the way that sense of, oh, let's disobey Allah. No,

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he just forgot. That's the understanding of some of the

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scholars on this issue of saying to Adam eating from the tree. So

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it tells me that tell me something, if you had a palace,

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would you rather you had a palace, the most beautiful palace, but

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you're all alone, or you got a little apartment, but you get to

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be with the woman of your dreams. And let's say if it's vice versa,

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if you're a woman, you got a whole awesome Palace to yourself, or you

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get to have a little apartment with the man of your dreams, which

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one you're going to choose. I know which one I'm going to choose. So

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he then says fucka Omar Lilla, he the Rukia abolhassan. Okay, luck,

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I'd catch after I knew him and have him and you relieve me

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because I was angry. I was upset at what he said. And I was

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confused. Okay. So that's the but what he's pointing to are really

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some of the essentials of life. The essentials of life husband, or

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spouse and kids. These are the essentials of life. And what bliss

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is doing in society is destroying the ability for people to get

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married or even want to get married or even be attracted to

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the gender that they need to be attracted to.

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Or every there's a constant and non stop, constant and non stop

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assault on marriage. Even in our Islamic community, marriage have

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become so difficult to so complicated, like the actual acts

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to actually getting married. Forget finding a husband when you

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actually get married, the wedding is complicated. All these weddings

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you need, we need a complete wedding reform. So weddings have

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to be much more simple than they actually are, are either

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completely complicated for no reason. We think about

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the prophesy set him had 12 weddings in his life. 12 weddings.

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In these weddings, he slaughtered an animal for the William at one

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time, once he slaughtered an animal for the wedding one time.

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Think about this.

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That wasn't a big invitation for everyone to come. That so much. So

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that might have been if one of the 10 Guaranteed paradise merged with

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the Prophet, one of the first 10 Muslims. I've done I've met him an

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elf didn't even know the Prophet got married. The prophet had to

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say this is my wife. I got married.

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Men have been offset. Oh, Missoula. We wouldn't have doubts.

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He said yes. But you have to know so the Prophet, if your Imam got

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married, have your mosque, let's say he was single, wouldn't the

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whole community be there and everyone knows about it. Here you

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have the Messenger of Allah in a very small town. You got married,

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and if you saw how they used to live, if you ever gone ombre,

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which we're going to do on Rancho la next next winter.

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When you go on ometer you see like the house of so and so was there

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like 20 feet over the house of so and so was there, they lived so

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close together. And so some of them didn't know

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that the marriage I didn't know, either. I remembered ALF himself

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got married. And he had some, I guess that you put yellow powder

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on the husband when he got married. And the province I said

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that I'm in it looks like you got married? He said Yes, I did get

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married didn't know. So it was something that was a lot simpler.

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Now I'm not saying it's unimportant. But the actual

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wedding is a lot simpler. You know, the fifth of marriage is if

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you're not obligated to go to Joomla, then you're not obligated

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to go to some of these weddings, right? I'm not saying that you

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shouldn't go to weddings, but just to so some people, we see them

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flying across the country. And if you don't fly across the country

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to attend this wedding, the other family is going to get offended.

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Offended. Why would you be offended? Somebody?

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If you're if you have to travel more than five miles, you'd have

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to attend the wedding, right? So this idea that oh, I'm gonna be

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offended, oh, if we don't put him on the invite list. They're gonna

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get offended and they pay $40 A plate.

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And they show up. And they didn't want to show up anymore because we

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made 10 weddings in the season. And you have to have at least $100

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Check ready?

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It's $40 a plate. But the gift I'm giving you 100 bucks. Who's

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winning here who's losing? All right, this is there's so much to

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cut it off. This is called tickle of formality upon formality upon

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formality, that it's not something that the Prophet wanted it to

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happen. Not saying all this stuff is haram. But just think about it.

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Keep it in the back of your mind that this stuff is truly

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unnecessary. It's access all right. All right. With that let's

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open it up to your q&a today. All right, Ryan, what do we got? We

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got some action going

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on All right, let's hear it. I want to share may Allah have mercy

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on your parents mean man which plan yours to which classical

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scholars made it permissible to make a stave off through the dead

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when making what do

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you still got the

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When making wudu

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the discussion is to get the period, right? It's the Gotha

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period, but we're not going to open that can of worms right now.

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But they sit author that we hold that is without a doubt is still

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author with the meaning of Tillotson. And there are some of

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the alumni who spoke about it like that. Meaning that we call upon

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Allah using with our love for the son of hate, we love certain

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righteous people, okay? And that love is a good deed.

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And for if not for our sake than for the sake of the messenger that

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we follow, that Allah to Allah will forgive people, maybe not for

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his sake,

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but not for our sake, because we're not good enough but at least

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because of our connection to some of the righteous above us. Whether

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it's a righteous parent, definitely the messenger that we

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have some Allah when he was sending

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let me read one a waste, Jimmy, what's the topic and what book so

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we were just reading some of these little stories that have some

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great wisdoms in it from Bata DuBois.

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By YBNL, Josie right. And if someone says oh, where's the

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Senate, Senators hymnal, Josie asked him to Josie for the Senate,

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he is trustworthy for us. Okay, and suddenly they're just stories.

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There's no there are no rules here. Okay. What book did you

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mention regarding chef Yusuf even saw duck? This is the book again

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let me show you at Sophia. banal ash it will humbly Okay. A tow

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vehicle Jelly Bean Alicia will humbly meaning and showing because

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the brother said no, it can't be this simple yesterday. It is this

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simple. This book goes into every sub topic of discussion showing

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that the SID creed it's also its basis and the humbly creed its

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Aslam basis is one in the same and then how the henna Usha Ida

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positive and this expounded upon their proofs is what's different.

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And the way that they they did that and responded, got to majesta

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my or my Tesla is different and he shows even in Makati, how he

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relies on him and

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who he relies upon from that shadow. Okay, he relies upon a

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shadow here. And he cites it.

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So

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in any event, something that not a lot of people are really familiar

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with. But if your interest is for you're interested in theater,

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that's what

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this is the book that you gotta get for yourself. It's in Arabic.

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Alright, Ryan, you got a question for us? Yes, from Muhammad, Sharif

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Aladeen. What are the guidelines for the amount of

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what is its purpose? And what would be excessive or too little?

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What's the guideline for the Mahara? The Maha there has to be

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at least

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a quarter of a gold coin? And

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how does that translate? I can't remember the translation in

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dollars, right? But there has to be a method. And then there's

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something called modal and method. Okay.

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There is something called modal method, what is modal and method?

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So Darkwood myth, they call it infix. So doc, will myth pay, pay

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very close attention some of you because I know some of you here. I

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know some of you here. And I know that you all have kids, right? And

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that soon you're going to be marrying and asking this question.

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So in your social circle, and every Muslim has to have a social

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circle, because certain things and shitty I require a little bit of a

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back and a context and a judgment call. Okay, so in your social

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circle there, I'm sure your kid is not the first kid to get married.

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Someone else got married before them, right? So you are allowed to

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see and get and check out what was the mod for this person because

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their family is pretty much like our family. Like one doctor and

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one accountant, for example, right? Or similar class of people,

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we they live the same way they have the same kind of cars, the

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same size of house, right? They live with the same way that we

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live. So what kind of data did they get? And then you do this

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across two, three. And there's nothing wrong with saying it right

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for the sake of benefit. That's how you make the judgment call.

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And you arrive at something called Sadhak. l method. This is very

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important, because I know that I know some of these people on the I

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see their names are popping up and their moms and their dads and

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their kids are teens. Okay? It's called Sadako myth. So you ask

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around and say, Oh, she her Muhammad was 10,000. Her mod was

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5000, hermano was 7000. So we get an average from that. That's

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called sadaqa myth. Now you're not bound to that. But if there is a

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dispute, then you're in your right judgment to say this is what I

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insist upon.

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This is what I insist upon. Okay, and he can agree or disagree, but

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that's called Sadhak l method. Then you should know this

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deductive methods based upon the same type of circles that that are

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similar to families that are similar to your family. All right.

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Alright, let me read a question here. I'm gonna con 6692 Why are

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flags in the masjid deemed as innovation?

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I don't know. I don't know if that's a flag inside the rest of

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like USA flag in the masjid

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in Marathi masajid you might have the Israel flag to

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they love Israel. But like, Is that the question and Pakistani

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flag you have a Pax in Pakistan masajid have the flag of Pakistan.

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I don't see that that's necessarily, you know, maybe it's

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just simply a bit because it's something that was never done

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before. I don't know if there's a reason to have that. But

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I

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allow them I never seen myself on that before.

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All right, Ryan, what you got? Coming back to the murder? Yes.

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What about this new age where people memorize the Koran or

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something unique like that the mod can be a service to

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the mod, it can be a service, you can say the mod your mod was I'll

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take you to Hutch. Your mod is I'll teach you flip your manhood

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is I'll teach you, for example,

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a 10th. Wheat, you can all I'll teach you to memorize suited

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ramen. That's acceptable as a Maha. And the prophesy centum said

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this, the woman who is easy going on the MaHA. Right is the best.

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But that doesn't mean that the Father has to be easygoing. If

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you're the dad, and you're dealing with these guys, the status is no

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different than when you deal with with other certain things. The

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prophets I said and said you're guilty until proven innocent. And

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that's the way for the way at least some people don't know how

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to be a Willie. If you're the Willie, like you're the dad, and

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you have a teenage daughter, the guy's guilty until proven

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innocent. In the same way, if you're going to hire someone to

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work for you, he's he's not working for you until he proves

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himself. So how was me marriage is 10 times more important 100 times

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more important. So the guy's guilty until proven innocent. So

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it's the man who can the Willie the father, who can demand the

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mud. Okay. And he does the talking in that respect on these issues

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that

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would seem that they would get in between the actual love, right

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between

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the actual love between because it's sort of odd when you're like,

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Oh, we love each other so much. Okay, but you need to give me this

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much money. It's odd. Marriage is a contract, but pay attention very

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closely here. It's Mevani, Allah al mukarram. memorize these three

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words. Business, a business contract is money, Alamosa, which

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means it's established upon business is established upon

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getting the most out of the other guy, we all we both know that we

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both come to the table, we're not doing charity here, I'm trying to

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make money. And you're trying to make money. And we can make both

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make money if we work together. Right. But every one we understand

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you're going for the most, and I'm going for the most, I'm going to

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try to pay the least. And you're going to try to pay the least. And

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I'm going to try to get the best out of the contract. So that's the

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business marriage is maybe added more karma. It is a contract,

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a financial contract, and there's a service element to the contract

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too. But that element of the contract, it's built upon McCollum

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and Musa Maha, for example, when you read the thick of marriage,

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what is a woman responsible for? She's simply responsible for very

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few things. But in everyday life, every wife does 10,000 times more

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than this, right? She's only responsible to be physically

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available to her husband, to Don't let anyone in the house that he

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doesn't like, don't go somewhere he doesn't like, that's it. And if

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there are kids, and he's out of the house, then she's the shepherd

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of those kids. Right? That's the technical FIP is very little that

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she owes, right.

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But every wife does 1000 times more than this. And that's why

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when people say, Oh, well, we need to learn the fix of marriage. I'll

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give you some better advice. Observe a happy marriage, and talk

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a happy marriage of pious Muslims. Observe them, see what they do and

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see how they handle things. Because that's the marriage in

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action. And 99% of the marriage is not going to be something that's

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in the marriage contract that goes between you, husband and wife.

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Okay. So it's built upon forgiveness. It's built upon

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generosity. That's what mahkamah is. So there is the element of the

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contract, which is very important.

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But that's that's only one stage, the rest of the stages is a

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completely different thing. And it's 99% Psychology. Right, and

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how to get along and how to interact. And that's what makes

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marriages succeed and fail.

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All right, next question.

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By the way, Instagrams, you could put questions in the question box.

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Oh, I already see some in the question. So let me read one and

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then and then we'll go back to you, Ryan. Lilly Shire. She says,

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A Salam aleikum. What is meant by an action is disliked by Allah.

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Why are matters just halal and haram? So she's out

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Asking Why is in some Why is there the category of disliked mcru

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like marriage unbreakable halili Illallah a Pollock sorry divorce,

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the most hated by Allah of the halal It is the reason that the

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prophesy Salam made certain things discouraged rather than haram

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because it would be too much right too many things that are haram

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will be too much for you to bear. So Allah's forgiveness is in the

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category of Kata here. His his, his expansiveness and his

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forgiveness exists is found in the category of discouragement.

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Because discouraged, some people say that it would the Prophet

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wanted us to be haram. Right, but out of ease for the people who

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just made it discouraged. So if you're tempted to do it, and you

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leave it off, you get a reward for that. But if you fall into it, and

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you do it, there's no sin against you. Is this something disliked?

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So that's the approach. Alright, Ryan, back to you.

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Someone says, Is it okay for a Muslim to feel sick and tired of

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the dunya? Is it okay for a Muslim to feel sick and tired of the

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dunya? You don't want to go that route where it's veiled laziness,

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to be honest with you. But yes, you can feel sick and tired of the

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dunya. You can feel sick and tired of people. I do it all the time.

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Right? And so I shut my phone down, I shut my phone down for

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three days. Not my not this phone. Where's my flip? See the flip? I

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have to have all the time for family. Right? And then some basic

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colleagues that have to be in touch with me at all times. And

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it's my alarm clock too. Right? I have so you have to have my the

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flip. But this phone that I'm streaming from, I shut that down

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for three days. I don't hear anyone's voice. I don't want to

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see comments. I don't want to get text messages. A complete shut it

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down. Okay? Because if you have too much going on into your brain,

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you just get sick of it. You have to renew yourself, okay, you got

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to come to the app to have times of the day, like seven 8pm. Shut

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the whole thing down weekend, Saturday, try to shut it down most

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as much as possible. All right. vacation days, you have to shut

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down and recharge yourself. But at the same time, I'm just warning.

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I'm not saying that this brother said that. But there are some

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people. Alright, they talk a good Zuid talk, which is asceticism,

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but when I'm looking I don't see asceticism I see laziness and

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lazy. Freak. I'm I can only tell you what I would tell my son. If

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my son came in and say I'm in macam zoo hood. And I'm wrinkled

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wrinkled up No, I'm not taking sa t courses. I'm not taking extra

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courses in college. I'm so good. Right? And I'm just doing the

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dean.

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Um, as an even as an imam in the masjid. And as someone, we I loves

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the hood. Okay, I want to be as ahead, I would not accept it. For

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him. It's not good for your future, you want to be as ahead.

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This is not the time for me as a head, this is a time for you to

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learn a craft. I'm your dad, I have to you have to make sure that

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you learn some dunya you're going to learn a craft it whatever thing

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that you're going to earn with and you're going to iron your clothes

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because you got to be presentable to the people, I'm looking at

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something else. He may be like Oculus, I'm done with the dunya

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you'll be done with the dunya I'm looking at something else. There

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are other families looking at you. There are other people looking at

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you. You're gonna have to get married. You think that Amasa had

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one day your body's going to explode. You need to get married

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someday. If you don't, I'm gonna go pray tonight because and worry,

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right? If you're not interested in getting married, I'm gonna worry

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to be honest with you. So when you get married, there's other people

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looking there's other people thinking they're watching you. You

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come to the messy with flip flops and wrinkled clothes. You're a

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slob. You're a loser. You got no future? No dads out there all

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think the same way moms think the same way. Yes, there is so

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wonderful. But

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there's other parts of life in Islam. And the prophets. I said to

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them, if you look at his Sony, you find that there are other elements

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of life related to the deen that are extremely important. And if

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you don't do that stuff, if I don't look at that as to a teenage

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kid, than voelen volunteer him and let him sleep in all day. What do

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you do, I'll just go to the Holika in the masjid, in sweats and spent

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all night chit chatting with the brothers about Islamic

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controversies right? And then typing in and having a fight on

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Twitter, and then watching YouTube's until three in the

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morning. And then sleeping in until 11am.

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unaccepted is not happening. This is not so good. And I know many

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people are into this. It's not so good. You're lazy and you're

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trying to put it on the dean. What you need to do is learn a craft

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study take classes. If you truly about the dean, then in your other

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times, split your time and take classes in the other parts of your

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time. All right. So that's the way that life is. There's a that's why

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I'm telling you don't just go through the books. There's there.

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There's

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There's Dean but there's also life. How do they live? I went to

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see his house I saw their sons were educated. The biggest zoo had

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Sufia all their kids are educated and they can earn something

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because there's a great harm in being some miskeen faqeer okay,

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it's not accepted

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eylea Say it or say Eid. What should we study alongside Quran

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Hadith you should study AKA, you must study a class on start with

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that's how we and learn your update a very well and learn the

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names and attributes of Allah subhana wa Sylviane 537 unrelated

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topic. When should we expect the next podcast?

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Ryan, could you pencil it in next? Next Monday? Sophie inside the

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podcast oz. Can you come to that? Safina sided podcast. We'll have

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all the mics up, and we will be ready to go. I'm telling you this

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studio. You guys don't see it yet. Because we haven't zoomed out for

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a pic. We're 99% done. We're going to be 100% done soon. Okay. All

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right, Muhammad, we need these chandeliers up. Okay. We're going

00:31:00 --> 00:31:04

to be 100%. So I'm telling you when they see this studio, when

00:31:04 --> 00:31:07

Alex and ye and and sad and NAS when they see the studio, I won't

00:31:07 --> 00:31:10

be able to get them out. Right, especially when we put the fridge

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on the snack bar or the snack area. We won't be able to get him

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out. I'm going to just going to leave.

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All right, Ryan, what do you got? The question. Let's hear it

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permissible prayer. Before can you pray a shot before federal that is

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it is valid but you're going to be sinful? You after half the night

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delaying federal pass after night is sinful.

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Okay, can't do that cannot delay I shut behind half the night. So if

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you're gonna plan to stay up late, okay, you do it to Sneem says

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advice on managing work life balance when it comes to

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technology. Very simple. You set yourself a certain amount, a

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certain amount of time

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of studying. Right? And then you are a student of knowledge. If you

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have decided upon a curriculum and you follow it systematically,

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you're a student of knowledge. Even if you study 20 minutes a

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week.

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You're going at a slower pace, but you're a student of knowledge you

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decided this is the curriculum. These are the shoe these are the

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books and you have a systematic way of going about it. Right. Then

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you are a student of knowledge 100%

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All right, Ryan, what else you got?

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AK 5289 to get you said Sheikh Shadi just want to say that I love

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you bro. Allah like bah, who is this person? I love him too. I

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don't know him but I love him. What's wrong with that? Mashallah,

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we have a good question. Yes?

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asked Is it okay to have a mixing at a youth event for high

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schoolers, with music and other activities in the vicinity of the

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Masjid? Oh, the biller? Next question. The answer that question

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is how will the biller Look, we all try to be cool and everything

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with with the youth. You're not going to get anywhere if you have

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something that is just pleasing to Allah, and something that

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resembles a club and it's been tried before you're not the first

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ones to do it. Right? There's been tried before. And yeah, a lot of

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people came in but what happened the whole thing collapsed and blew

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up. I've seen it I'm not gonna say names. I'm not saying names. They

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did this before. The blew up they collapsed had no tofield from

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Allah Tala. I like to say, look, this is the dean, right? This is

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this is how we do things. And we should have everything should have

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a separation in gender at least by distance. Right? At least by

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distance. Oh, they're not going to buy it. They're not going to go

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into it. They're not they won't do it.

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Listen, my job is not to cut corners. I got to do something

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that can last forever. I can't fool them say okay, let's come and

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do something. Haram. Alright, and then sneaking something of Deen.

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That's not the that's just not the way. Okay. I'm telling you. It's

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just not the way a lot of people, they they're trying something,

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anything to get the youth involved. But don't try something

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that is going to have in it something with disobedience in it.

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Right.

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It's not going to work. It's not the way of the Olia. It's not the

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way the sleight of hand. And the best way to get someone to touch

00:34:11 --> 00:34:15

their heart is through al Huck. Not through a bottle. It's through

00:34:15 --> 00:34:18

the truth. You can touch people's hearts through the truth. And

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Allah knows best, but that's what we do. I don't do any of those.

00:34:22 --> 00:34:24

Now, sometimes there are they're a bit mixed because we go on a field

00:34:24 --> 00:34:27

trip, right? Yeah, that's true. It happens. We go on a field trip to

00:34:27 --> 00:34:31

New York. And we're all walking sometimes. Yes, it gets a little

00:34:31 --> 00:34:34

bit mixed up. Right? Because we do we go to New York, we went to a

00:34:34 --> 00:34:38

Sixers game, right? Yes, the little bit, but they all know and

00:34:38 --> 00:34:43

they have a general concept that it's not supposed to be mixed up,

00:34:43 --> 00:34:46

right? And you say, Oh, well, they're all mixed up in school.

00:34:46 --> 00:34:49

What do I have to do with their schools? Right? Not my business.

00:34:49 --> 00:34:53

My business is what I control. Right. So and, you know, that's,

00:34:54 --> 00:34:57

to me, that's the the right way to do things.

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Let me

00:35:00 --> 00:35:03

A LOOK AT THIS does that mean video podcasts there will be video

00:35:03 --> 00:35:06

podcasts not all the podcasts with the guys will be videos because

00:35:06 --> 00:35:08

there's a reason actually one of our members, he's actually not

00:35:08 --> 00:35:13

allowed for his work purposes, but we will have a lot more video

00:35:13 --> 00:35:19

podcasts. Nudge says what are mcru things in Islam? I know divorce

00:35:19 --> 00:35:23

mcru In Islam, there's a lot of things that are Mikado, it depends

00:35:23 --> 00:35:26

on what topic like Salah for example, let's take what's the

00:35:26 --> 00:35:33

mcru in will do is to wastewater, what's mcru and Salah is to recite

00:35:33 --> 00:35:38

a sutra and then in the first and a second raka you recite a sutra

00:35:38 --> 00:35:42

that came before it in the Quran. So you're not reciting it in the

00:35:42 --> 00:35:47

in the in order. Okay, so that's Makoto Makoto to look around, and

00:35:47 --> 00:35:49

so a lot to play around with your beard and your hair in Salah.

00:35:50 --> 00:35:53

That's the things that are makuu what's my crew and close that it'd

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be close to tight? Of course, if it's if it's like skin tight, like

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yoga pants, we don't consider that close and you're not dressed

00:36:01 --> 00:36:02

essentially.

00:36:03 --> 00:36:07

In an honest, you know, the most disgusting thing is guys now wear

00:36:07 --> 00:36:12

yoga pants. There's not there's nothing more. I mean, I guess

00:36:12 --> 00:36:17

that's the Kufa IRA for my sins when I see that my sins are being

00:36:17 --> 00:36:21

expunged from what I had seen a woman in yoga pants. That's the

00:36:21 --> 00:36:22

only way to interpret it right?

00:36:24 --> 00:36:27

All right, what's the ruling of fit hanging pictures up in the

00:36:27 --> 00:36:31

family? It's my crew to put a picture of some family stuff up

00:36:31 --> 00:36:34

high, but it's okay to put it in an album. Okay.

00:36:36 --> 00:36:39

All right, one more from Tasneem. And then we'll go to Ryan, another

00:36:39 --> 00:36:41

question. When it comes to enjoying good forbidding evil,

00:36:41 --> 00:36:44

what is the right approach you have with hypersensitive

00:36:44 --> 00:36:48

individuals? Don't take it face on with a hypersensitive individual,

00:36:48 --> 00:36:51

they're going to feel attacked, right? Go from the side, bring it

00:36:51 --> 00:36:56

up lightly, gently, not relating to them. But as a general point,

00:36:56 --> 00:36:57

you can do that.

00:36:58 --> 00:37:02

Okay, as a general point, drop it, you know, like little facts here

00:37:02 --> 00:37:07

about things. But not head on with someone sensitive. Of course, if

00:37:07 --> 00:37:12

it's your child, you're responsible. Right? And you can

00:37:12 --> 00:37:15

speak to them head on, but you can tuck it in with many other nice

00:37:15 --> 00:37:20

things that will make them happy. Right? So it's in a package. Okay.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:23

All right, Ryan, what you got?

00:37:24 --> 00:37:28

Is it more rewarding to give money to family on non essential things

00:37:28 --> 00:37:31

or to give money to the poor and needy? No, give money in the poor

00:37:31 --> 00:37:32

and needy?

00:37:33 --> 00:37:38

100% 100%? Next question.

00:37:39 --> 00:37:43

Would one be sinful for not forgiving someone? No, you're not

00:37:43 --> 00:37:46

obligated to forgive anybody. But if you want to get forgiveness

00:37:46 --> 00:37:48

from Allah, you should forgive people.

00:37:51 --> 00:37:56

What is the best way to help spark Eman in our young adult children?

00:37:56 --> 00:37:59

What is the best approach with them? What's the best way to spark

00:37:59 --> 00:38:04

the Eman in young adult children and this is going to go for adults

00:38:04 --> 00:38:06

and children.

00:38:07 --> 00:38:13

Even adults, it's the it's the thing in this world, that if Allah

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was to tell you,

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you can have this thing. That is what you would pay the price of

00:38:20 --> 00:38:24

following everything in his law and worshipping with complete

00:38:24 --> 00:38:27

sincerity. You have to imagine the deal. Someone comes up to you,

00:38:27 --> 00:38:30

okay, what are you doing wrong? I do this wrong, this wrong and this

00:38:30 --> 00:38:34

wrong? I and I don't do this obligation and this obligation and

00:38:34 --> 00:38:39

this obligation? Why don't you do those because you're enjoy doing

00:38:39 --> 00:38:42

these sins, and you don't want to do these obligations? Human

00:38:42 --> 00:38:43

nature, right?

00:38:44 --> 00:38:48

So it's all goes back to what I enjoy and what I hate. So we all

00:38:48 --> 00:38:52

have a price. What is it that if you were to sat down with an

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angel, so I come representing Allah, write down on a piece of

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paper, what it would take for you to leave off these sins and

00:39:01 --> 00:39:04

fulfill this obligation. Now, you might say, Oh, it's gonna take

00:39:04 --> 00:39:08

something so be crazy and so big that it's it's not realistic.

00:39:09 --> 00:39:12

That's your problem. You think there's a limit to Allah subhana

00:39:12 --> 00:39:16

wa, tada, there's no limit, put it down, write it down exactly what

00:39:17 --> 00:39:22

it would take. Okay, exactly what it would take that you would say,

00:39:22 --> 00:39:26

yeah, oh, definitely. I would leave off these sins. Okay. Let's

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

say a lot of people, they listen to music, and that's one of the

00:39:28 --> 00:39:31

later things that people do wrong. There's a lot of wrong things that

00:39:31 --> 00:39:34

people do. There's a lot of sexual problems through the phones, that

00:39:34 --> 00:39:38

people have sins, that bliss is just so happy that you've fallen

00:39:38 --> 00:39:42

into and become addicted to, let's just, that's just the fact, right.

00:39:43 --> 00:39:46

We're human beings, we make mistakes, we fall into sins, it

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happens.

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What is it that would take if someone said to you, well, if you

00:39:51 --> 00:39:56

could leave that off, we'll give you $5 million. You'd leave it

00:39:56 --> 00:39:59

off. I guarantee you, right? You would leave it off.

00:40:00 --> 00:40:02

So this is the relationship we have to have with Allah subhanaw

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

taala we must believe that he's capable

00:40:07 --> 00:40:10

of rewarding us in this life before the next. So that's the

00:40:10 --> 00:40:14

best dua the dua of what they would like in this had to do it

00:40:14 --> 00:40:19

before the next that would motivate them to leave off sin and

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do our obligations say normally the best remembrance of Allah is

00:40:22 --> 00:40:23

leaving off sense.

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Next question, is it true differences of opinion in Aikido

00:40:29 --> 00:40:33

like Ashley mentioned ethically as well methods are equivalent to the

00:40:33 --> 00:40:37

different schools of fic the schools of Updata in Islam or the

00:40:37 --> 00:40:41

humbly as shady and metodi all if you follow any of the one of those

00:40:41 --> 00:40:44

schools Hanbury as shady and metric if you want to humbly

00:40:44 --> 00:40:46

school, you can go to

00:40:48 --> 00:40:53

Instagram and madressa humbly or true humbly creed on Instagram and

00:40:53 --> 00:40:55

learn how many are created from there. No problem.

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Next question. Someone wants to start praying. So that'll Iraq.

00:41:00 --> 00:41:04

When is the timeframe and what's the intention for the will do when

00:41:04 --> 00:41:09

they're making it for that? So okay, so lots of Doha and Iraq are

00:41:09 --> 00:41:13

different things. Every one of us loves money, right? Nobody here

00:41:13 --> 00:41:16

wants to be poor. If someone came up to you and gave you $200 on the

00:41:16 --> 00:41:21

spot, you'd be happy. Don't lie. Okay? A millionaire if someone

00:41:21 --> 00:41:24

came up and gave him five nice $100 bills, he'd be happy.

00:41:25 --> 00:41:28

Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Whoever prays

00:41:28 --> 00:41:32

feathered and sits in his man sits in the same spot until the sun

00:41:32 --> 00:41:36

rises which is 20 minutes after it shut up. remembering Allah

00:41:36 --> 00:41:37

subhanaw taala then he prays to it because

00:41:39 --> 00:41:43

that is faster in in earning money. In cassava risk, which it

00:41:43 --> 00:41:49

is broader than money, then if he was to go work east and west, so

00:41:49 --> 00:41:52

that's look at the motivation Allah has given us. Allah knows we

00:41:52 --> 00:41:57

all want is we all need risk. Some people say Oh, you, you like money

00:41:57 --> 00:42:01

so much. It's not me who likes money. Rutgers University needs

00:42:01 --> 00:42:05

money. Nearly med school needs money. PSE and G want my money,

00:42:05 --> 00:42:06

alright.

00:42:07 --> 00:42:09

northborough, brunswick township, they want my money, they just

00:42:09 --> 00:42:14

increased our taxes. These people, they all want all my money. Okay,

00:42:14 --> 00:42:18

my car company, they want my money. They all want my money. I

00:42:18 --> 00:42:20

need to give it to them. All right, I need to earn money. So

00:42:20 --> 00:42:25

customer risk. Don't look at it as I'm being greedy. Look at it that

00:42:25 --> 00:42:29

the world is expensive. Life is expensive. You need that money. So

00:42:29 --> 00:42:33

that's how you do it. That's called it showed up. And it has so

00:42:33 --> 00:42:38

much reward in it. And it's also your prayer to if you'd miss that.

00:42:38 --> 00:42:42

Let's just pray fetch and fall asleep then you wake up as long as

00:42:42 --> 00:42:45

it's before the hook, then you press a lot to Doha to rock us for

00:42:46 --> 00:42:46

six or eight.

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Next question, if I wronged someone and seeking forgiveness or

00:42:54 --> 00:42:57

correction for the matter with them is not an option. What can

00:42:57 --> 00:43:01

you do? If I've wronged someone but I can't seek forgiveness. And

00:43:01 --> 00:43:04

it's too late. It's happened before a man came to me and I Bess

00:43:04 --> 00:43:09

and he said I murdered somebody. So if not best said go to your

00:43:09 --> 00:43:12

family or tribe and collect the deal. Okay.

00:43:14 --> 00:43:16

Pay them to do the blood money. He said, I don't even know who he is

00:43:16 --> 00:43:22

because we weren't strangers. We were strangers in the road. And

00:43:22 --> 00:43:25

then we had a fight before I even knew his name. I killed him.

00:43:27 --> 00:43:30

It couldn't happen. They maybe they thought that, you know they

00:43:30 --> 00:43:34

were both antagonistic so he killed him preemptively. He said

00:43:34 --> 00:43:36

that make dua for him. He said I don't even know his name, said to

00:43:36 --> 00:43:40

make dua for him to jail. But then he said, Make dua for him just

00:43:40 --> 00:43:43

like as the man I killed, but then he said just go be good to your

00:43:43 --> 00:43:45

mother that will wipe away your sins. So that's how you wipe away

00:43:45 --> 00:43:46

sins that you can make up.

00:43:50 --> 00:43:53

Next question, someone is seeking help because they suffer from

00:43:53 --> 00:43:58

panic attacks OCD was was related to the thoughts of blasphemy. It

00:43:58 --> 00:44:02

consumes their energy in their life. If, if it was one of those

00:44:02 --> 00:44:05

things, I would advise you and I will just say increase your

00:44:05 --> 00:44:08

decrease, stay upon will do but if it's all of these things, I sit I

00:44:08 --> 00:44:12

would say seek professional attention, professional medical

00:44:12 --> 00:44:15

attention because if it's all of those things, then it is a

00:44:15 --> 00:44:18

professional thing that a person needs professional medical

00:44:18 --> 00:44:18

attention for that.

00:44:20 --> 00:44:23

Let me read one from here. Junaid says Please recommend a halal way

00:44:23 --> 00:44:25

to get to know someone for marriage and to what level

00:44:28 --> 00:44:31

okay, if you're fat if you're if you're a young family

00:44:33 --> 00:44:38

there is value in having invitations, dinner parties. And I

00:44:38 --> 00:44:39

like the

00:44:41 --> 00:44:43

the daisies have debits, right?

00:44:44 --> 00:44:47

It's Dawa. It's an invitation dinner party. We have these two in

00:44:47 --> 00:44:54

the Arab culture when you do those. Okay, then, oh, they said

00:44:54 --> 00:44:56

they couldn't hear the questions but we'll say the question is

00:44:56 --> 00:44:59

louder next time. Because the two streams go there's this

00:45:00 --> 00:45:02

stream going for the all the other platforms. And then there's the

00:45:02 --> 00:45:05

Instagram stream, but Ryan's only connected to the other platforms

00:45:05 --> 00:45:09

not to Instagram, but I'll repeat his questions. So those dinner

00:45:09 --> 00:45:11

invitations, the value is for people to see each other families

00:45:11 --> 00:45:14

to see each other. So that when it's time to get married, you know

00:45:14 --> 00:45:18

people, and not only that your whole family knows them. If you're

00:45:18 --> 00:45:21

past that, and that never worked out for you, or you've never had

00:45:21 --> 00:45:26

anything like that, then the best place to go and meet somebody is

00:45:26 --> 00:45:30

somewhere where, where there's where there's knowledge, like

00:45:30 --> 00:45:34

classes, going to class is one of the best places to find people

00:45:34 --> 00:45:37

because their priorities are going to be similar. So that's to me one

00:45:37 --> 00:45:41

of the best advices and we had a couple of marriages in our masjid

00:45:41 --> 00:45:44

and with Safina suicide, which was which was really exciting for the

00:45:44 --> 00:45:46

community to see. And now they have kids.

00:45:48 --> 00:45:50

So that's the answer to that question. Let's take one more from

00:45:50 --> 00:45:53

here then before we go back to Ryan so let's go to

00:45:56 --> 00:45:58

Triple H if we want to prepare for REG.

00:46:00 --> 00:46:03

Reg have is the time to make up your old fasts and to start

00:46:03 --> 00:46:06

fasting and also there are some narrations even though some people

00:46:06 --> 00:46:09

say they're weak but there are narrations that relate to the

00:46:09 --> 00:46:14

first the night before Rajib say naughty used to stay up and he

00:46:14 --> 00:46:17

said that the door is accepted so I'm going to take advantage of it

00:46:18 --> 00:46:22

right you should take advantage of that to the DUA is accepted. And

00:46:22 --> 00:46:26

that night I don't have the narration in front of me but Habib

00:46:26 --> 00:46:29

Amata teaches it and he doesn't not going to propose it promote a

00:46:29 --> 00:46:30

fabricated narration

00:46:34 --> 00:46:37

he did we could probably look at it in the morcilla alright Ryan

00:46:37 --> 00:46:38

You're up

00:46:39 --> 00:46:43

is saying oh my god when you're angry at someone is saying oh my

00:46:43 --> 00:46:46

God, when you're angry a sin? I don't think it would be a sin

00:46:46 --> 00:46:49

Manny maybe my crew he used Allah's name in a way that's not

00:46:49 --> 00:46:50

really, really

00:46:51 --> 00:46:52

appropriate.

00:46:53 --> 00:46:57

Let's go to favour fibromyalgia. May Allah give you a shifa from

00:46:57 --> 00:47:02

having Fibro myalgia and rheumatoid arthritis, rheumatoid

00:47:02 --> 00:47:07

arthritis, arthritis can't even say thank you for teaching. Please

00:47:07 --> 00:47:11

advise how apostates should be treated as if they don't exist.

00:47:12 --> 00:47:13

It's true.

00:47:14 --> 00:47:18

Right? Stay away from them. They're going to be like a cancer

00:47:18 --> 00:47:23

in your head. We have in this OMA quality control, your Sahaba your

00:47:23 --> 00:47:28

circles, right? A friend has to have quality control. Right?

00:47:29 --> 00:47:33

I can guarantee you and here's the funny thing is that so many of our

00:47:33 --> 00:47:38

Muslims, are we so liberal minded now, right? If you become a Trump

00:47:38 --> 00:47:41

supporter that cuts you off, but if you become an apostate, we need

00:47:41 --> 00:47:42

to discuss this.

00:47:43 --> 00:47:46

We need to have Rama. But the guy became a Trump supporter, you cut

00:47:46 --> 00:47:50

him off? If he's antivax, you cut them off completely. But if he

00:47:50 --> 00:47:55

comes an innovator or something, let's have a discussion about

00:47:55 --> 00:48:00

this. Right? So it's the quality control of your friend group. How

00:48:00 --> 00:48:03

can I befriend someone who's offended, offended a lot

00:48:03 --> 00:48:07

knowingly. If he offended me knowingly, I wouldn't befriend

00:48:07 --> 00:48:11

him. And who am I? If he offended my mom knowingly, I cut them off.

00:48:11 --> 00:48:15

Right? What would NBC do if somebody if one of their anchors

00:48:15 --> 00:48:19

openly supported the January 6 rebellion or whatever they want to

00:48:19 --> 00:48:23

call it? And said, no, no, no, it was just a peaceful march. And

00:48:23 --> 00:48:26

some people got out of hand he'd be fired, they would put a release

00:48:26 --> 00:48:30

right away. We have severed all ties within before two minutes

00:48:30 --> 00:48:37

pass from his statement. And he'd be done with. So are we promoting

00:48:37 --> 00:48:40

division? No, we're promoting quality control. I want quality

00:48:40 --> 00:48:44

control on my friend group. I want my friend group to be people who I

00:48:44 --> 00:48:49

could trade their book on the Day of Judgment. Right? If someone

00:48:49 --> 00:48:51

said Would you trade his books, your book of deeds from My Book of

00:48:51 --> 00:48:56

deeds? If I say no, no, thank you, then why am I friends with you?

00:48:56 --> 00:48:59

Now? If I wouldn't befriend you on the ACA, right.

00:49:01 --> 00:49:02

Why do I need to be your friend now?

00:49:05 --> 00:49:06

Tell me more.

00:49:09 --> 00:49:12

How much time it takes for non Arabic Pete person to become a

00:49:12 --> 00:49:17

Maliki scholar Mufti with ijazah. If you study seriously for four

00:49:17 --> 00:49:21

years, you can really learn a lot and you could finish up to the

00:49:21 --> 00:49:24

reset of Hypnobabies aid and the magic Amantha. We study three

00:49:24 --> 00:49:26

introductory books, you should finish that in a year. If you

00:49:26 --> 00:49:29

study at least once a week and then resell that you can finish

00:49:29 --> 00:49:33

that in a year if you study once a week. So you're gonna start with

00:49:33 --> 00:49:37

asking Maria, a buddy, if an acid that's intro and then reset it's

00:49:37 --> 00:49:41

Abizaid that might take you one or two years, you'll be solid at the

00:49:41 --> 00:49:44

intermediate level, you can teach people now, right what you know,

00:49:44 --> 00:49:48

if you want more than add a couple more years to study, outcrop and

00:49:48 --> 00:49:51

mosaddek You're going to need a lot of Arabic for that. That may

00:49:51 --> 00:49:51

take you some time.

00:49:53 --> 00:49:54

Ryan Go ahead.

00:49:55 --> 00:49:58

Okay, related to the sick, somebody asked in the medic

00:49:58 --> 00:49:59

method, one is allowed to make to

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If making a duel will take too much time. And so that will end

00:50:03 --> 00:50:07

Why is it allowed if the Quran stipulates otherwise supposedly,

00:50:08 --> 00:50:12

in the medical method if you're going to miss the prayer like like

00:50:12 --> 00:50:16

you cut it so close then whatever it is walking up the steps to call

00:50:16 --> 00:50:19

the event and you don't have to do and the water is somewhere far

00:50:19 --> 00:50:22

away that you can't make if you went to make would do it you'd

00:50:22 --> 00:50:26

miss the prayer then you then that is one of the conditions of TMO

00:50:27 --> 00:50:31

preconditions are met so you make you go out to meet him and pray

00:50:31 --> 00:50:35

and get the prayer before you lose the prayer. Yeah that's that's how

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it is. Now your sinful for delaying the prayer that for that

00:50:39 --> 00:50:40

much

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Shahida says animal as alcohol and creams or any animal products

00:50:46 --> 00:50:49

invalidate the sale and Salah does not invalidate this Allah because

00:50:49 --> 00:50:54

it will have evaporated and it will have transformed anyway. So

00:50:54 --> 00:50:57

in sha Allah should not invalidate the salah. Why do we stand some

00:50:57 --> 00:51:00

people stand when they recite Salah on the prophet in the in the

00:51:00 --> 00:51:03

masjid and that was a matter of just showing respect for the

00:51:03 --> 00:51:08

Prophet peace be upon him zikr and mentioned have there any been

00:51:08 --> 00:51:11

female prophets? No, we don't have we don't hold that there were

00:51:11 --> 00:51:14

female prophets. Miriam is the greatest woman and Allah described

00:51:14 --> 00:51:19

as Siddiqa. Nebia and Allah separates in the Quran between

00:51:19 --> 00:51:19

Saudi economy.

00:51:21 --> 00:51:22

All right, let's see what else you got. Right.

00:51:24 --> 00:51:27

That's the whole I can check it Schrock have to be prayed in the

00:51:27 --> 00:51:30

masjid if after praying fajr I talk and chat with other

00:51:30 --> 00:51:33

Mussolini's colors to talk and shot with other mythologies after

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feci saying they stood up, prayed in the masjid when I chit chatted

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

and had breakfast and had a fight with all the other Mossad ladies

00:51:40 --> 00:51:43

too late unless you ruined it. Don't do this, sit in your spot,

00:51:43 --> 00:51:48

don't talk to anybody. Until it shut up comes and it shut up is

00:51:48 --> 00:51:52

when is fed, you're out at 20 minutes, sit and don't talk to

00:51:52 --> 00:51:53

anybody. Okay?

00:51:54 --> 00:51:58

I'm telling you. There's great reward in this, right? You do

00:51:58 --> 00:52:01

this? Then you pray to it. Because then you could

00:52:02 --> 00:52:06

talk and fight and eat and whatever you want to do. Yaffa

00:52:06 --> 00:52:08

says how can someone have a wedding or ceremony that is

00:52:08 --> 00:52:09

pleasing to Allah

00:52:11 --> 00:52:16

don't have mixing, don't have a lot of loud music. I'm saying this

00:52:16 --> 00:52:19

if you can, because most people, they don't control the wedding,

00:52:19 --> 00:52:24

you marry people today, every family is mixed. Every family is

00:52:24 --> 00:52:27

mixed. So we have to talk about this in the spirit of a forgiving

00:52:27 --> 00:52:32

nature. But this is the ideal. Okay, so that nobody says, Oh,

00:52:32 --> 00:52:34

this is too much. We could never do this and I feel isolated. No,

00:52:35 --> 00:52:39

in the spirit of if you're capable, then you avoid these

00:52:39 --> 00:52:45

things of the types of music that is forbidden. The mixing that is

00:52:45 --> 00:52:49

forbidden and inviting only the rich and never inviting the poor.

00:52:50 --> 00:52:54

And not having a sawed off like excessive spending. Right? Excess

00:52:54 --> 00:52:59

in the spending. So he said for SR Yafa. that's those are the things

00:52:59 --> 00:53:02

that that's how you want to do it. And for those who are coming from

00:53:02 --> 00:53:05

not religious backgrounds, or that their family doesn't, they don't

00:53:05 --> 00:53:09

do I know people were so good. Their family have nothing to do

00:53:09 --> 00:53:13

with the deen. So um, we have to say this in the spirit of if

00:53:13 --> 00:53:17

you're capable. And if you're not, and let's say you're gonna get

00:53:17 --> 00:53:19

married, and your mother insisted up and down, this is how the

00:53:19 --> 00:53:23

wedding is going to be what is the girl going to do? So we have to be

00:53:23 --> 00:53:25

understanding that some people are at different situations. And at

00:53:25 --> 00:53:28

the same time, we have to understand that there is an ideal

00:53:28 --> 00:53:31

in our religion, okay, your situation does not become the

00:53:31 --> 00:53:36

ideal. And the ideal should not be promoted without a sense that some

00:53:36 --> 00:53:42

people are not able to fulfill it out of inability, not malice. And

00:53:42 --> 00:53:43

we have to have that.

00:53:45 --> 00:53:49

We have to have that idea. My North Faisal says, Are they

00:53:49 --> 00:53:54

recorded? The answer is yes. On on Instagram, on YouTube, on

00:53:54 --> 00:53:58

Facebook, on Twitter, you can find them all and we're going to start

00:53:58 --> 00:54:01

uploading them as audio in the podcast. So you get on your phone

00:54:01 --> 00:54:02

does the audio part

00:54:04 --> 00:54:08

Megalon Can you explain when if method rulings can or cannot be

00:54:08 --> 00:54:11

mixed? They should never be mixed. If you follow a method if you're a

00:54:11 --> 00:54:13

student of knowledge and you have selected a method and you follow a

00:54:13 --> 00:54:19

method don't mix. Unless there is a situation that is impossible in

00:54:19 --> 00:54:23

your method. Like what? Like a chef he he converts to Islam,

00:54:24 --> 00:54:28

right. He's becomes a chef he and his mother he lives with his mom

00:54:28 --> 00:54:29

and she has a dog.

00:54:30 --> 00:54:34

He has to take the Medicare ruling on the saliva of the dog not being

00:54:34 --> 00:54:37

not just Ryan, what do you got?

00:54:39 --> 00:54:43

What is our approach to tech food? And what's our approach to tech

00:54:43 --> 00:54:46

fear? You do it very cautiously but if it needs to be done, it

00:54:46 --> 00:54:50

needs to be done. And we in America we are allowed to say so

00:54:50 --> 00:54:54

and so has committed to Kofi Annan is not a Muslim anymore. If you

00:54:54 --> 00:54:58

see a guy bowing to an idol, right? But what we say is that we

00:54:58 --> 00:54:59

can't do anything about it. We

00:55:00 --> 00:55:03

Eric, I can't execute the guy for example, I can't take him and say,

00:55:03 --> 00:55:07

put him in jail. I can't take him into the basement, right? Like

00:55:07 --> 00:55:11

some movie and lock them up and tape them up to a chair and give

00:55:11 --> 00:55:15

him a sitejabber No, only the judge can do that. But what I can

00:55:15 --> 00:55:19

do is know this guy worship isn't good. Another God. This guy, you

00:55:19 --> 00:55:21

know, does all this cool photo.

00:55:22 --> 00:55:25

Okay, and he doesn't believe in this battery other he believes in

00:55:25 --> 00:55:29

another prophet or he believes something some nonsense, then I

00:55:29 --> 00:55:30

stay away from him. That's it.

00:55:31 --> 00:55:35

Right? So should he follow that Dean says?

00:55:37 --> 00:55:41

I've heard it claimed that this is not allowed, but as a fake. This

00:55:41 --> 00:55:45

is or but as far as I know, this is only in relation to the

00:55:45 --> 00:55:46

essentials.

00:55:48 --> 00:55:50

The previous question, what are the position of medicine when it

00:55:50 --> 00:55:55

comes to the majority of knowledge? Or Bidda? Hasina? Yes.

00:55:55 --> 00:56:01

Majora that means that if if you read in a book, a chef says, Do

00:56:01 --> 00:56:06

this thicker. As I did it, and my dua was answered. We say you're

00:56:06 --> 00:56:08

allowed to do that.

00:56:09 --> 00:56:14

As long as it does not replace the Sunnah. So someone says to you

00:56:14 --> 00:56:18

that if you recite this and this and this before moving them on

00:56:18 --> 00:56:19

Friday

00:56:20 --> 00:56:21

Oh, charge it.

00:56:23 --> 00:56:23

You're

00:56:25 --> 00:56:27

sorry about that. I didn't give you this earlier.

00:56:29 --> 00:56:32

But you can say okay, I'll do that instead of suited KEF or instead

00:56:32 --> 00:56:35

of the prophetic prayers, no, it does not

00:56:37 --> 00:56:42

displace the Sunon Okay, and it does not have the same level of

00:56:42 --> 00:56:46

Yaqeen you don't hold it at the same level you can have Yaqeen in

00:56:46 --> 00:56:49

it. I trust this Willie and this scholar and I believe in it, but

00:56:49 --> 00:56:53

you can have the same level of a strong Yaqeen but not the same as

00:56:53 --> 00:56:56

the Sunnah. The Sunnah there's no doubt about it the promises of

00:56:56 --> 00:57:01

Allah there's no doubt about it. Cut the the other promises maybe

00:57:01 --> 00:57:05

honey bunnies speculum Yanni less absolute, but we can still believe

00:57:05 --> 00:57:06

in it. And do it.

00:57:08 --> 00:57:12

Mauro Blanco says is Welsh, the Sunnah the answer is yes. The

00:57:12 --> 00:57:16

Sunnah of recitation to recite the what the prophet recited. And

00:57:16 --> 00:57:21

Quraysh is what we now call wash. So you should learn that if you

00:57:21 --> 00:57:21

can.

00:57:24 --> 00:57:27

What else we got? We only got a few minutes left, unfortunately,

00:57:27 --> 00:57:30

are all the different schools about the EDA due to new

00:57:30 --> 00:57:35

questions, the answer is yes. Because of questions that came up

00:57:35 --> 00:57:38

after the sahaba. So they say how is it so not to have these beliefs

00:57:39 --> 00:57:41

is because based on the methodology of the companions,

00:57:41 --> 00:57:45

that's what they would have done? Based upon their methodology, they

00:57:45 --> 00:57:48

would have answered the question. Okay. That's why we say that this

00:57:48 --> 00:57:52

is actually sunnah, even though these these things, and these

00:57:52 --> 00:57:56

debates and these arguments didn't come up in their time, but so half

00:57:56 --> 00:58:00

the fit out of 15, it come up in their time. So we say that this is

00:58:00 --> 00:58:02

what they would have done, they would have answered the question,

00:58:02 --> 00:58:05

there's no doubt about that. When there was a problem and all the

00:58:05 --> 00:58:08

HuFa of Quran were dying, say no, I'm gonna solve the problem with

00:58:08 --> 00:58:11

something that didn't exist in the time of the Prophet peace be upon

00:58:11 --> 00:58:15

him. So we would have that that's what this haba would have done.

00:58:16 --> 00:58:20

All right, next, Ryan, let's say two from you. Some of these MSA,

00:58:20 --> 00:58:24

presidents and other religious guys get contacted by sisters who

00:58:24 --> 00:58:27

have questions about the deen and personal matters. How does the

00:58:27 --> 00:58:33

brother navigate this? Personally speaking, I really think that

00:58:35 --> 00:58:39

whenever there's a communication, and some people are going to say,

00:58:39 --> 00:58:43

Oh, this is so there's not going to work. You ask me, I'm telling

00:58:43 --> 00:58:46

you the answer. The communication between a brother and sister as

00:58:46 --> 00:58:48

much as possible. It should be.

00:58:50 --> 00:58:53

There should be a third person on that. And it should only be by

00:58:53 --> 00:58:59

necessity. For example, just as a disclaimer, I got there like five

00:58:59 --> 00:59:03

people who see who have access to all my social media accounts.

00:59:04 --> 00:59:04

Right.

00:59:06 --> 00:59:09

There may they might not go on it, but they have access to it. For

00:59:09 --> 00:59:14

example, anyone could pick any one of my families. My wife, for

00:59:14 --> 00:59:17

example, she has access. She doesn't always go on it, but she

00:59:17 --> 00:59:20

could if she wanted to. She could on her phone. It's right there. So

00:59:20 --> 00:59:24

that there's not such a privacy that is could lead to something

00:59:24 --> 00:59:27

that is discouraged or something that's Haram

00:59:29 --> 00:59:34

is it mcru to close your eyes in the Salah? Yes, it is the only

00:59:34 --> 00:59:37

time it's allowed for you to shut your eyes in the prayer is if

00:59:37 --> 00:59:39

there's something that's distracting you.

00:59:41 --> 00:59:44

Alright, Ryan, what else you got? If I have to wake up and sleep

00:59:44 --> 00:59:49

early, and set my alarm clock, but I don't wake up. Is it still a sin

00:59:49 --> 00:59:52

that I didn't wake up? No. If you set it the question is I tried

00:59:52 --> 00:59:54

tried to wake up professional but I failed. I set my alarm and

00:59:54 --> 00:59:57

everything but I felt you're not sinful at that point. If you

00:59:57 --> 00:59:59

tried, but you failed you're not sinful.

01:00:05 --> 01:00:06

All right, let's take one more

01:00:10 --> 01:00:15

Are there any conditions when it caught the wrong me is allowed or

01:00:15 --> 01:00:19

even recommended? Are there any conditions to cut off family ties?

01:00:19 --> 01:00:24

The answer to that is that yes there we never cut off family ties

01:00:24 --> 01:00:29

but you are allowed to avoid harm. Okay. Again let me repeat that you

01:00:29 --> 01:00:30

don't

01:00:31 --> 01:00:35

you don't cut off your family ties but you're allowed to avoid harm

01:00:35 --> 01:00:37

and you can cut them off if they're past data they join some

01:00:37 --> 01:00:42

sect you can cut them off but the mainly are they becoming a you

01:00:42 --> 01:00:45

know, they they promote something sinful without any shame you

01:00:45 --> 01:00:51

couldn't you can cut them off. But the concept and idea that avoiding

01:00:51 --> 01:00:54

harm you're allowed to avoid harm, so I'm not gonna go to his house.

01:00:54 --> 01:00:59

I'm gonna barely give him the bare minimum of what's necessary fine.

01:01:00 --> 01:01:05

Other than that, I will cut him off or I won't go that's fine. So

01:01:05 --> 01:01:08

it's those are the conditions they're harming you. They become a

01:01:08 --> 01:01:14

moped they become monitored things like that, folks, let's close this

01:01:14 --> 01:01:16

out with the DoD Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu lillahi

01:01:16 --> 01:01:20

rabbil aalameen Allahumma salli wa barik ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa

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ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam Taslima Allahumma Salli Salatin

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Camella wa salam Salam and Turman ala Sayidina Muhammad, Allah

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Deaton Hello Bill awkward wits and fetish will be caught up what's up

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Dobby? Edge what you know it'd be a river while still hurt him. We

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still have Emma movie when she'd Kareem. While early he was sabe

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olam had been in an email as a you know, Fiocco Lubin our correllian

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of COFRA for sukawati. And we ask Allah to Allah to place and all of

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our it's a love of Amen. And a love of deen and make it sweet

01:01:52 --> 01:01:56

inside of our hearts and make deviation and disobedience bitter

01:01:56 --> 01:02:01

and distasteful to our hearts. We ask Allah subhanaw taala for all

01:02:01 --> 01:02:05

our youth that he make them love, amen. And he Cofer and make them

01:02:05 --> 01:02:09

love obedience and thaw and hate disobedience. And Marcia and since

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we ask Allah to Allah to always keep us in his remembrance, and

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always keep us in his dua in dua, in a state of dua, and we ask

01:02:18 --> 01:02:21

Allah to Allah to answer our dua. We ask Allah subhana wa Tada to

01:02:21 --> 01:02:25

keep us upon 200 and recitation of Quran and Salah on the messenger

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we ask Allah to Allah for abundance.

01:02:29 --> 01:02:34

It is that is Khaled. We ask Allah to Allah if our disk is in the

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heavens, then bring it down. If our oldest is in the earth, then

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bring it up. If our disk is difficult to attain, then make it

01:02:40 --> 01:02:44

easy. If our it is this far, then bring it near. If our disk is

01:02:44 --> 01:02:49

haram, then purify it. If our risk is little, then increase it. If

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our disk is non existent, then make it exist. If our risk is

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stopped, then make it flow. If our risk is stalled, then make it

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move. If our risk was a sin, then forgive it. If it's an error, then

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wipe it away. If it's a mistake, then overlook it. And if it's

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difficult, then make it easy and bless all of our risk and make it

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the good risk in the hands of a good person as a prophesy. centum

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said in metal Salafi the Roger de Sala, we ask Allah subhanaw taala

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for our parents that he gives them genital for a dose without any

01:03:20 --> 01:03:24

hisab We ask Allah to Allah for our children, Allah Masha sudo

01:03:24 --> 01:03:28

Rahim, Lil Islam make them make their hearts love the deen of

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Islam we ask Allah subhana wa Tada for hosting and hajima o mio

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Sorocaba. Rasool We ask Allah for a good ending and what makes the

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heart of his messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam happy and pleased

01:03:38 --> 01:03:41

with us we ask Allah to Allah that all of our dua be answered in a

01:03:41 --> 01:03:45

way that pleases Him. Ask Allah to Allah for all those secret desires

01:03:45 --> 01:03:49

that we have inside of our hearts from your father that you answer

01:03:49 --> 01:03:54

them. In this blessed moment of Wednesday between $1 and us. We

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ask Allah to Allah that He answered those dua in a way that

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is pleasing to Him that is good for us in this world, and then

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INEC in the next Lastly, we asked that Allah makes none more beloved

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to us than his most beloved SADES incarnate say that Muhammad

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Subhanallah Baker believes that

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yeah, meiosis one was more said you know Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil

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Alameen

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