Shadee Elmasry – NBF 10 Q&A

Shadee Elmasry
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The speakers emphasize the importance of professional attention and learning about deeds, avoiding embarrassment, and managing work-life. They also discuss privacy laws and conditions when caught during prayer, and the importance of responding to requests for information and making them happy. They stress the need for professional attention and avoiding mixing music during weddings, and acknowledge privacy laws and conditions that arise.
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All righty Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu

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was Salam ala Rasulillah who Allah, he was sacked me, woman

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Hello, welcome everybody to the nothing but facts live stream, our

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third class or session this week as we're basically in our soft

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open of our official and

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professional grade live stream. I've been live streaming with you

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guys. Not always on Instagram, but mostly was on Facebook from 2015

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on and off and on and off. But now we're grown. Everything's got to

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grow. If you're not growing, you're dying. That's how it is.

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And you have to ask yourself and your life are you growing or your

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diet. Alright, so here we go. Let's read a little bit of

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something beneficial today. And then we're going to open up to

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your comments, your questions, and we have a lot of things to talk

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about today is our soup kitchen dinner. We got people coming in to

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help out for the dinner. And it's it's been a big success. You all

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seen all of our posts about our soup kitchen and our data center.

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By the way, we have delectable karats recitation there every

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Monday, and we give out food on Wednesday. So we're going with the

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vicar to we're not stopping. And we're not hesitating.

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So here we go. Before we start, there was a brother yesterday, he

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said, Oh, how could you say that somebody's in the SATs were the

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same. Of course they have the same update. Here's the book. Okay,

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that brings you everything with citations with the quotes with

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everything. It's I know many people don't really have interest

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in this but some people do. I've done University at Sofia called

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Jelly Bean allege it will humbly Okay, the union between the shadow

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and the Hanover in the fundamentals of what they actually

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believe. Then how they expressed these things. Okay, but it was

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something different. Okay.

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Check that out.

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Okay, how they express it was different. And this book is by

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Sheikh Abdullah Nabulsi, and it was a gift to me. For Lila to

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share with Dr. Sheldon muscly huffy the hula hula Fabian

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Muslimeen, Amin, Mohit bukem, Yusuf ibn sadaqa. Humbly, I love

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this brother, should he use if had been sadaqa humbly, thank you so

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much for this book. And it's an amazing book between the union

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between the beliefs of the shadow IRA, and how they actually

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represent the that method of copy that represents the self. And he

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explains how, and explains why there's a difference between the

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100 but but the essence is one. Now let's go to the story. And

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many people will say where's the Senate for the story? Again, I

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told you all I'm reading from this book called by Al Bara, Bara

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Jumuah the ocean of tears and it's an amazing book Listen to this

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story. It is narrated that oh my love comes out one day and the

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Sahaba who they filmed in Yemen who is the secret keeper of the

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Prophet peace be upon him he says almost says how to crosswalks yeah

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Khalifa good basically how's your morning how are they for says I

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woke up I made a mean I love fitness.

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I love fitness

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then he says I hate the truth.

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Okay, almost temperatures going up.

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A goal will be Malam your clock, I say things that were not created.

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Or I espouse things that weren't created, say normal at this point,

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the heat you can imagine the heats coming up

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whereas heads will be mela Mara. I testify okay with what I haven't

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seen.

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Well, suddenly biller will do and I pray without although

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well yeah Phil old Malazan Allah He for summer and I have in the

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earth what Allah does not have in the heavens.

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If you ask any Muslim, what do you say about this? Execute right

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away. Okay, this is COVID for God Eva Omar litho, Lika Raghavan. She

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did and now the VA has go for the outward of it is Cofer. Now what

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does he mean by it? All right, it's almost became extremely upset

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and immediately saved almost sitting oh my god, he's always

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going to be saying oh, we reach for the stick right away for the

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stick. Okay. And he got and he started to think about I'm gonna

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hit him good.

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So much better human and maybe some Allah what is then he

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remembered the special place that they fit me a man had with the

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Prophet he's the secret keeper, the messenger. He's the one that

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Prophet peace be upon him told him who are the 12 Hypocrites. He was

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a secret keeper. And his father at the man was actually from another

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area. He was a fugitive who was kicked out of his area. He came to

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Medina as a migrant and he lived before the Prophet came. So Allah

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what He was selling them, and then he stayed with them, and then

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he was actually killed by friendly fire in the Battle of a hood. Alia

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Men, son of the father of Khalifa. So in any event, follow cadaveric

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if Maravi I've never thought of say 90 passes passes by. And he

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says anger on the face of Alma fucka Baba okay Amir ul Momineen

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focus Allah he says, he says Omar Why are we so upset about? So he

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tells him the story he tells him the story tells him what? What a

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facade exactly vokalia Ameerul Momineen lie or dibuka attic he

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said don't be upset about this. I'm Makalu it no you hit will fit

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now. He's saying that he loves fitna. It's because Allah says

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Verily your wealth and your children are fifth. Doesn't

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everyone love their children? Right, but they're fit but what

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does it mean that your wealth and your children are fitna there are

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a distraction. Any of you know about life when you go from being

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a student and you have no concerns? Guys, many of you are

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and you know the student life. Right? There's only one concern

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which is your exams and you think that you have you have issues, you

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think that you're busy you and you haven't even you haven't even seen

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20 10% of life. You don't have a spouse. You don't have a job. PSE

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and G send your mom the bill, then your dad doesn't send it to you.

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Okay? You don't have kids. Your kids don't have homework. You

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haven't seen anything yet. Okay, so they're a fitna, they distract

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you from a bad but serving them as well. And doing that stuff can

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become a good deed for you. Mr. Cole, who wakrah Who will help he

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hates her.

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Job wotja at Saqqara to multiball Huck. Huck, the L hop here is

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death. This death comes right it's a true thing that death comes

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Okay, so he hates it we all hate death say die it's just said

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almost of Allah. We hate death. Prophesy centum said the Muslims

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love of death is not the love of actual death. It's the love of

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meeting Allah subhanaw taala

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amalco who you're going to be Mariela Mukul up, he speaks with

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what is not created. Quran Allah Karim right he's seen or is the

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Quran he recites the Quran for Hawaii ACARA Allah Quran Allah Hua

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Rama Clopay Korea he recites the Quran and it is not created. Colo

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Colo

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Yes, how to be mellem era. Okay, he he testifies for something he

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hasn't seen. He just testifies and believes in Allah. He hasn't seen

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Allah but he believes in him. And he testifies to that will let you

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lie Allah

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colo who you will suddenly be ready will do ask for his he

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praised without will. That is his prayer upon the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam All right he makes Salawat on the messenger

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peace be upon him and you don't have to have will do. You can make

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a lot on the Prophet in all of your states said no Musa asks

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Allah Sometimes I'm in a certain we're in a certain condition he

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means by that Genova.

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Allah subhana wa Tada says, Remember me and all of your

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states, the only thing you cannot recite when you're upon Geneva is

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the Quran. And you cannot touch the most half without will do but

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you can recite the Quran without renew, but you cannot recite it

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upon Genova and only in the medic med hub, the how an officer the

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woman who is upon higher than the fast, she can recite the Quran,

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from memory or from a tablet upon higher than the fast because he

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separates Genova is something you enter by choice. And you can exit

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it by choice whenever you want.

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Higher than if S is something that comes upon them. Okay, so setting

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it continues to explain how they've implemented statement to

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say normal. Okay, M kolu. In low fill all the mele salaallah If

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it's summer, he says, I have something in the earth that Allah

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doesn't have in the heavens, a wife and kids. Right? Allah

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doesn't have a wife and kids. All right, because he's transcended

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beyond having a wife and kids. Why do we have a wife and kids because

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we have needs were weak. We need companionship, said to Adam, when

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he was created. He was created in paradise. And he's looking around

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and some people say it's one of the different gardens of Paradise,

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not necessarily the paradise and he's moving around looking around.

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They get bored.

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So he fell asleep.

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Until Allah subhana wa Tada he woke up and he found next to him.

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Another creature, a beautiful creature that he's looking at. And

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he said, Who are you? She said, I am. I am woman.

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So what's your name? What? Get what you're created for? As your

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companion in life and Nisa, Shaka ecoregional. The prophets I seldom

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said women are the second half of men, that means they're half

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right. They both have the same needs the same desires of company,

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they need each other's company, they love each other's company.

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Then he loves her company so much that he forgot the one rule that

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he had with Allah subhanaw taala that was it. And so he forgot.

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Right but forgetting fullness for them is different in

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their city in his city. I was different from an arshia in

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Arusha, if you forget something, you're forgiven, but in that shed,

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yeah, that law would say to Adam, you only had one thing that was

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haram. Alright, so you're not allowed to forget. So he didn't

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commit a sin in the way the sense of, oh, let's disobey Allah. No,

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he just forgot. That's the understanding of some of the

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scholars on this issue of saying the atom eating from the tree. So

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it tells me that tell me something, if you had a palace,

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would you rather you had a palace, the most beautiful palace, but

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you're all alone. Or you got a little apartment, but you get to

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be with the woman of your dreams. And let's say if it's vice versa,

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if you're a woman, you get a whole awesome Palace to yourself, or you

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get to have a little apartment with the man of your dreams. Which

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one are you going to choose? I know which one I'm going to

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choose. So he then says, fuck Allah, Omar Lilla, he the Rukia

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abolhassan, okay, luck, cash after I knew him and have him and you

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relieved me because I was angry, I was upset at what he said. And I

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was confused. Okay. So that's a deal. But what he's pointing to

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are really some of the essentials of life. The essentials of life

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husband, or spouse and kids. These are the essentials of life. And

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what it believes is doing in society is destroying the ability

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for people to get married or even want to get married or even be

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attracted to the gender that they need to be attracted to.

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Or every there's a constant and non stop, constant and non stop

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assault on marriage. Even in our Islamic community, marriage

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becomes so difficult to so complicated, like the actual acts

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to actually getting married. Forget finding a husband when you

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actually get married, the wedding is complicated. All these weddings

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you need, we need a complete wedding reform. So weddings have

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to be much more simple than they actually are, are either

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completely complicated for no reason. If you think about

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the prophesy, Saddam had 12 weddings in his life 12 weddings.

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In these weddings, he slaughtered an animal for the William at one

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time. Once he slaughtered an animal for the William one time.

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Think about this,

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that it wasn't a big invitation for everyone to come. That's so

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much so that Abdurrahman of an hour of one of the 10 Guaranteed

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paradise merged with the Prophet, one of the first 10 Muslims have

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dry mouth, didn't even know the Prophet got married. The prophet

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had to say this is my wife. I got married.

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Men have been offset or Missoula, we wouldn't have doubts. He said

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yes, but you have to know so the Prophet if your Imam got married

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over your mosque, let's say he was single, when the whole community

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be there and everyone knows about it. Here you have the Messenger of

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Allah in a very small town got married and if you saw how they

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used to live, if you ever go on ombre, which we're going to do

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almost inshallah next next winter.

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When you go on Amina you see like the house of so and so was there,

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like 20 feet over the house of so and so was there, they lived so

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close together. And still some of them didn't know.

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At the marriage. I didn't know. Either. I remembered ALF himself

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got married. And he had some, I guess that you put yellow powder

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on the husband when he got married. And the province I said

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that I'm in it looks like he got married? He said Yes, I did. Got

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married didn't know. So it was something that was a lot simpler.

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Now I'm not saying it's unimportant. But the actual

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wedding is a lot simpler. You know, the fifth of marriage is if

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you're not obligated to go to Joomla, then you're not obligated

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to go to some of these weddings, right? I'm not saying that you

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shouldn't go to weddings, but just to so some people, we see them

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flying across the country. And if you don't fly across the country

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to attend this wedding, the other family is going to get offended.

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Offended. Why would you be offended?

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If you don't if you have to travel more than five miles, you don't

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have to attend the wedding. Right? So this idea that oh, I'm gonna

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get offended, oh, if we don't put him on the invite list. They're

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gonna get offended and they pay $40 A plate.

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And they show up. And they didn't want to show up anymore because we

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made 10 weddings in the season. And you have to have at least $100

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Check ready?

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It's $40 a plate. But the gift I'm giving you as 100 bucks, who's

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winning here who's losing? Right this is there's so much to cut it

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off. This is called tickle of formality upon formality upon

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formality. That it's not something that the Prophet wanted it to

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happen. Not saying all this stuff is haram but just think about it.

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Keep it in the back of your mind that this stuff is truly

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unnecessary. It's excess. All right. All right. With that let's

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open it up to your q&a today. All right, Ryan, what do we got? We

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got some action going

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on All right, let's hear it. I want to share may Allah have mercy

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on your parents? I mean, I mean, which clan yours to which

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classical scholars made it permissible to make a stave off it

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through the dead when making when do

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you still got the

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When making wudu

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the discussion is about the period, right? It's the Gotha

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period, but we're not going to open that can of worms right now.

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But they said author that we hold that is without a doubt is to

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author with the meaning of toa soon. And there are some of the

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automl, who spoke about it like that. Meaning that we call upon

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Allah using with our love for the son of hate, we love certain

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righteous people, okay? And that love is a good deed.

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And for if not for our sake, than for the sake of the messenger that

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we follow, that Allah to Allah will forgive people, maybe not for

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his sake,

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but not for our sake, because we're not good enough, but at

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least because of our connection to some of the righteous above us,

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whether it's a righteous parent, definitely the messenger that we

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have some of the love it was

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let me read one a waste, Jimmy, what's the topic and what book so

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we were just reading some of these little stories that have some

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great wisdoms in it from Bata Dubois

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by Ibn Al Josie, right and if someone says oh, where's the

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Senate, Senators hymnal, Josie asked him to Josie for the Senate,

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he's trustworthy for us. Okay, and suddenly they're just stories

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there's no there are no rules here. Okay. What book did you

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mention regarding effusive and Sadhak This is the book again let

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me show you at Sophia. banal ash it will humbly Okay. Until

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physical Jelly Bean Allah Sherry will humbly meaning and showing

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because the brother said no, it can't be this simple yesterday. It

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is this simple. This book goes into every sub topic of discussion

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showing that the SID creed it's also its basis and the humbly

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creed its Aslam basis is one in the same and then how the henna

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Usha Ida

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posited and expounded upon their proofs is what's different. And

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the way that they they did that and responded, got to me just

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cinema or my Tesla is different and he shows even in Makati, how

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he relies on him

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who he relies upon from that shadow. Okay, he relies upon a

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shadow here. And he cites it. Okay, so

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in any event, something that not a lot of people are really familiar

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with. But if your interest is for you're interested in theta, that's

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what

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this is the book that you gotta get for yourself. It's in Arabic.

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Alright, Ryan, you got a question for us? Yes, from Muhammad, Sharif

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Aladeen. What are the guidelines for the amount of the matter? What

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is its purpose? And what would be excessive or too little? What's

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the guideline for the Mahara? The Mahathir has to be at least

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a quarter of a gold coin? And

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how does that translate? I can't remember the translation in

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dollars, right? But there has to be a method. And then there's

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something called modal method. Okay.

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There is something called modal method, what is modal and method?

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So Darkwood myth, they call it infix. So doc, will myth pay pay

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very close attention some of you because I know some of you here. I

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know some of you here. And I know that you all have kids, right? And

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that soon you're going to be marrying and asking this question.

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So in your social circle, and every Muslim has to have a social

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circle, because certain things and shitty I require a little bit of a

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back and a context and a judgment call. Okay, so in your social

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circle there, I'm sure your kid is not the first kid to get married.

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Someone else got married before them, right? So you are allowed to

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see and get and check out? Well, what was the motive for this

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person because their family is pretty much like our family, like

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one doctor and one accountant, for example, right? Or similar class

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of people, we they live the same way they have the same kind of

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cars, the same size of house, right? They live in the same way

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that we live. So what kind of money did they get? And then you

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do this across two, three. And there's nothing wrong with saying

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right for the sake of benefit. That's how you make the judgment

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call. And you arrive at something called Sadak. l method. This is

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very important, because I know that I know some of these people

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on the I see their names are popping up and their moms and

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their dads and their kids are teens. Okay? It's called seduction

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myth. So you ask around and say, Oh, she her mother was 10,000. Her

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mod was 5000. Her mod was 7000. So we get an average from that.

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That's called sadaqa myth. Now you're not bound to that. But if

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there is a dispute, then you're in your right judgment to say this is

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what I insist upon.

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This is what I insist upon. Okay, and he can agree or disagree, but

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that's called So doc admitted, then you should know this a duck

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myth. It's based upon the same type of circles that that are

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similar to families that are similar to your family.

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All right.

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Alright, let me read a question here. I'm gonna con 6692. Why are

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flags in the masjid deemed as innovation?

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I don't know. I don't know if that's a flag inside the rest of

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like USA flag in the masjid.

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Emirati masajid you might have the Israel flag to

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they love Israel. But like, Is that the question in Pakistani

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flag? You have a Pakistan in Pakistan masajid have the flag of

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Pakistan. I don't see that that's necessarily, you know, maybe it's

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just simply a bit because it's something that was never done

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before. I don't know if there's a reason to have that. But

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I

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allow them I never seen myself on that before.

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All right, Ryan, what you got? Coming back to the murder? Yes.

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What about this new age where people memorize the Quran or

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something unique like the mod can be a service to

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the mod can be a service, you could say the mod your mod is I'll

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take you to Hutch. Your mod is I'll teach you flip. Your Mahara

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is I'll teach you, for example.

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Attention wheat, you all I'll teach you to memorize suited

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ramen. That's acceptable as a Muhammad and the prophesy centum

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said, The woman who is easy going on the mother, right is the best.

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But that doesn't mean that the Father has to be easygoing. If

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you're the dad, and you're dealing with these guys, the status is no

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different than when you deal with with other certain things the

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prophesy centum said you're guilty until proven innocent. And that's

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the way for the at least some people don't know how to be a

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Willie. If you're the Willie, like you're the dad, and you have a

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teenage daughter, the guy's guilty until proven innocent. In the same

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way, if you're going to hire someone to work for you, he's he's

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not working for you until he proves himself. So how is marriage

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just 10 times more important 100 times more important. So the guy's

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guilty until proven innocent. So it's the man who can the Willie

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the father, who can demand the mud, okay. And he does the talking

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in that respect on these issues that

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would seem that they would get in between the actual love, right

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between

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the actual love between you because it's sort of odd when

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you're like, Oh, we love each other so much. Okay, but you need

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to give me this much money. It's odd. Marriage is a contract. But

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pay attention very closely here. It's Mevani, Allah al mukarram.

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memorize these three words, business, a business contract is

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money, Alamosa, which means it's established upon business is

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established upon getting the most out of the other guy, we all we

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both know that we both come to the table, we're not doing charity

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here, I'm trying to make money. And you're trying to make money.

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And we can make both make money if we work together. Right, but every

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one, we understand you're going for the most, and I'm going for

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the most, I'm going to try to pay the least. And you're going to try

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to pay the least. And I'm going to try to get the best out of the

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contract. So that's the business marriage is maybe a little more

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karma. It is a contract,

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a financial contract, and there's a service element to the contract

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too. But that element of the contract, it's built upon Mikado

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and massamba. For example, when you read the thick of marriage,

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what is a woman responsible for? She's simply responsible for very

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few things. But in everyday life, every wife does 10,000 times more

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than this, right? She's only responsible to be physically

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available to her husband, to Don't let anyone in the house that he

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doesn't like, don't go somewhere he doesn't like, that's it. And if

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there are kids, and he's out of the house, then she's the shepherd

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of those kids. Right? That's the technical FIP is very little that

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she owes, right.

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But every wife does 1000 times more than this. And that's why

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when people say Oh, well, we need to learn the field of marriage.

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I'll give you some better advice. Observe a happy marriage, and talk

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a happy marriage of pious Muslims. Observe them, see what they do and

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see how they handle things. Because that's the marriage in

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action and 99% of the marriage is not going to be something that's

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in the marriage contract that goes between you, husband and wife.

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Okay. So it's built upon forgiveness. It's built upon

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generosity. That's what Mocha is. So there is the element of the

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contract, which is very important.

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But that's that's only one stage. The rest of the stages is a

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completely different thing. And it's 99% Psychology. Right, and

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how to get along and how to interact. And that's what makes

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marriages succeed and fail.

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All right, next question.

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By the way, Instagrams, you could put questions in the question box.

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Oh, I already see some in the question. So let me read one and

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then and then we'll go back to you Ryan. Lilly Shire. She says, As

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Salam aleikum, what is meant by an action is disliked by Allah. Why

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are matters just halal and haram? So she's

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Asking Why is in some Why is there the category of disliked mcru?

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Like marriage a bugaboo holiday Illallah a Talaq sorry divorce,

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the most hated by Allah of the halal It is the reason that the

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prophets I said them made certain things discouraged rather than

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haram because it would be too much right too many things that are

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haram will be too much for you to bear. So Allah's forgiveness is in

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the category of Kata here. His his, his expansiveness and his

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forgiveness exists is found in the category of discouragement.

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Because discouraged, some people say that it would the Prophet

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wanted us to be haram. Right, but out of ease for the people who

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just made it discouraged. So if you're tempted to do it, and you

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leave it off, you get a reward for that. But if you fall into it, and

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you do it, there's no sin against you. It's just something disliked.

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So that's the approach. Alright, Ryan, back to you.

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Someone says, Is it okay for a Muslim to feel sick and tired of

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the dunya? Is it okay for a Muslim to feel sick and tired of the

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dunya? You don't want to go that route where it's veiled laziness,

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to be honest with you. But yes, you can feel sick and tired of the

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dunya. You can feel sick and tired of people. I do it all the time.

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Right? And so I shut my phone down. I shut my phone down for

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three days. Not my not this phone. Where's my flip? See the flip? I

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have to have all the time for family. Right? And then some basic

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colleagues that have to be in touch with me at all times. And

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it's my alarm clock too. Right? I have to you have to have my the

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flip. But this phone that I'm streaming from, I shut that down

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for three days. I don't hear anyone's voice. I don't want to

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see comments. I don't want to get text messages complete. Shut it

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down. Okay. Because if you have too much going on into your brain,

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you just get sick of it. You have to renew yourself. Okay, you got

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to you have to have times of the day, like seven 8pm. Shut the

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whole thing down weekend, Saturday, try to shut it down most

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as much as possible. Right? vacation days, you have to shut

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down and recharge yourself. But at the same time, I'm just warning.

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I'm not saying that this brother said that. But there are some

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people. All right, they talk a good Zuid talk which is

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asceticism,

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but when I'm looking I don't see asceticism I see laziness. Lazy.

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For I'm I can only tell you what I would tell my son, if my son came

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in and say I'm in macam, zoo hood. And I'm wrinkled wrinkled up No,

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I'm not taking sa t courses. I'm not taking extra courses in

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college. I'm so good. Right? And I'm just doing the dean.

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Um, as an even as an imam in the masjid. And as someone, we I loves

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the hood, okay, I want to be as a hit, I would not accept it. For

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him. It's not good for your future, you want to be as ahead.

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This is not the time for me as a head, this is a time for you to

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learn a craft. I'm your dad, I have to you have to make sure that

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you learn some dunya you're going to learn a craft it whatever thing

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that you're going to earn with and you're going to iron your clothes

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because you got to be presentable to the people, I'm looking at

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something else. He may be like, aka last I'm done with the dunya

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you'll be done with the dunya I'm looking at something else. There

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are other families looking at you. There are other people looking at

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you. You're gonna have to get married. You think that I was

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ahead? One day, your body's going to explode. You need to get

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married someday. If you don't, I'm gonna go pray tonight because and

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worry, right? If you're not interested in getting married, I'm

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gonna worry to be honest with you. So when you get married, there's

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other people looking there's other people thinking they're watching

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you. You come to the messy with flip flops and wrinkled clothes.

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You're a slob. You're a loser. You got no future? No dads out there

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all think the same way moms think the same way. Yes, there is

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wonderful. But there's other parts of life in Islam. And the

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prophets. I said them. If you look at his own, you find that there

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are other elements of life related to the deen that are extremely

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important. And if you don't do that stuff, if I don't look at

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that as to a teenage kid, don't volunteer him and let him sleep in

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all day. What do you do, I'll just go to the Holika in the masjid, in

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sweats and spent all night chit chatting with the brothers about

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Islamic controversies right? And then type in and having a fight on

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Twitter, and then watching YouTube's until three in the

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morning. And this sleeping in until 11am.

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unaccepted is not happening. This is not zoo hood. And I know many

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people are into this. It's not so good. You're lazy and you're

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trying to put it on the dean. What you need to do is learn a craft

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study take classes. If you're truly about the dean, then in your

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other times split your time and take classes in the other parts of

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your time. All right. So that's the way that life is. There's a

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that's why I'm telling you don't just go through the books. There's

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there. There's

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There is Dean but there's also life how do they live? I went to

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see his house I saw their sons were educated. The biggest zoo had

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Sufia all their kids are educated and they can earn something

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because there's a great harm in being some miskeen fapy Okay, it's

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not accepted

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eylea Say it or say Eid. What should we study alongside Quran

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Hadith, you should study alQaeda. You must study a class on start

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with it's a how we and learn your update a very well and learn the

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names and attributes of Allah subhana wa Sylviane 537 unrelated

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topic. When should we expect the next podcast?

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Ryan, could you pencil it in next? Next Monday? Sophie inside the

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podcast oz. Can you come to that? Safina Saudi podcast. We'll have

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all the mics up, and we will be ready to go. I'm telling you this

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studio. You guys don't see it yet. Because we haven't zoomed out for

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a pic. We're 99% done. We're going to be 100% done soon. Okay. All

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right. We need these chandeliers up. Okay. We're going to be 100%.

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So, I'm telling you, when they see this studio, when Alex and Wayne

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and sad and NAS when they see the studio, I won't be able to get

00:31:07 --> 00:31:11

them out. Right, especially when we put the fridge on the snack bar

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or the snack area. We won't be able to get him out. I'm gonna

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just gonna leave.

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All right, Ryan, what do you got a question. Let's hear it

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permissible prayer. Before can you pray a shot before Fajr that is it

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is valid, but you're going to be sinful. You after half the night.

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Delaying Phaedra pass after night is sinful.

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Okay, can't do that cannot delay I shut behind half the night. So if

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you're gonna plan to stay up late. Okay, you do it. Tasneem says

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advice on managing work life balance. When it comes to

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attaining knowledge. It's very simple. You set yourself a certain

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amount, a certain amount of time

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of studying. Right? And then you are a student of knowledge. If you

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have decided upon a curriculum, and you follow it systematically,

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you're a student of knowledge. Even if you study 20 minutes a

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week.

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You're going at a slower pace, but you're a student of knowledge you

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decided this is the curriculum. These are the shoe these are the

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books and you have a systematic way of going about it. Right. Then

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you are a student of knowledge 100%

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All right, Ryan, what else you got?

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AK 5289 To shake Shadi. Just want to say that I love you bro. Hello

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ICWA who is this person? I love him too. I don't know him but I

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love him. What's wrong with that? Mashallah, we have a good

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question. Yes?

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Yes. Is it okay? To have a mixing as a youth event for high

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schoolers, with music and other activities in the vicinity of the

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Masjid? Oh, the biller? Next question. The answer that question

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is Oh, the biller? Look, we all try to be cool and everything with

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with the youth. You're not gonna get anywhere if you have something

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that is just pleasing to Allah, and something that resembles a

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club and it's been tried before you're not the first ones to do

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it. Right. There's been tried before. And yeah, a lot of people

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came in, but what happened the whole thing collapsed and blew up.

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I've seen it. I'm not gonna say names. I'm not saying names. They

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did this before. The blew up, they collapsed, had no tofield from

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Allah to Allah. I like to say, look, this is the dean, right?

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This is this is how we do things. And we should have everything

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should have a separation in gender at least by distance. Right? At

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least by distance. Oh, they're not gonna buy it. They're not gonna go

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into it. They're not they won't do it.

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Listen, my job is not to cut corners. I got to do something

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that can last forever. I can't fool them say okay, let's come and

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do something. Haram. All right. And that sneaking something of

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Deen. That's not the that's just not the way. Okay. I'm telling

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you. It's just not the way a lot of people, they they're trying

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something, anything to get the youth involved. But don't try

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something that is going to have in it something with disobedience in

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it, right.

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It's not going to work. It's not the way of the Olia. It's not the

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way the sleight of hand. And the best way to get someone to touch

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their heart is through Alak, not through a bottle. It's through the

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truth. You can touch people's hearts through the truth. And

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Allah knows best, but that's what we do. I don't do any of those.

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Now, sometimes there are there are a bit mixed because we go on a

00:34:24 --> 00:34:27

field trip, right? Yeah, that's true. It happens. We go on a field

00:34:27 --> 00:34:30

trip to New York. And we're all walking sometimes. Yes, it gets a

00:34:30 --> 00:34:34

little bit mixed up. Right? Because we do we go to New York,

00:34:34 --> 00:34:38

we went to a Sixers game, right? Yes, the little bit, but they all

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know and they have a general concept that it's not supposed to

00:34:42 --> 00:34:45

be mixed up, right? And you say, Oh, they're all mixed up in

00:34:45 --> 00:34:49

school. What do I have to do with their schools? Right? Not my

00:34:49 --> 00:34:53

business. My business is what I control. Right. So and, you know,

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that's, to me, that's the the right way to do things.

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Let me

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A LOOK AT THIS does that mean video podcasts there will be video

00:35:03 --> 00:35:06

podcasts not all the podcasts with the guys will be videos because

00:35:06 --> 00:35:09

there's a reason actually one of our members, he's actually not

00:35:09 --> 00:35:13

allowed for his work purposes, but we will have a lot more video

00:35:13 --> 00:35:19

podcasts. Nudge says what are mcru things in Islam? I know divorce

00:35:19 --> 00:35:23

mcru In Islam, there's a lot of things that are micro It depends

00:35:23 --> 00:35:27

what topic like Salah for example. Let's say what's the mcru in will

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do is to wastewater. What's mcru and Salah is to recite a sutra and

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then in the first and a second aka you recite a sutra that came

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before it in the Quran. So you're not reciting it in the in the in

00:35:43 --> 00:35:47

order. Okay, so that's Makoto Makoto to look around. And so lots

00:35:47 --> 00:35:50

of play around with your beard and your hair in Salah. That's the

00:35:50 --> 00:35:54

things that are makuu what's macro and close that it'd be close to

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tight. Of course, if it's if it's like skin tight, like yoga pants,

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we don't consider that close and you're not dressed essentially.

00:36:03 --> 00:36:07

In an honest, you know, the most disgusting thing is guys now wear

00:36:07 --> 00:36:12

yoga pants. There's not there's nothing more. I mean, I guess

00:36:12 --> 00:36:17

that's the Kufa IRA for my sins when I see that my sins are being

00:36:17 --> 00:36:21

expunged from what I had seen a woman in yoga pants. That's the

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only way to interpret it right?

00:36:24 --> 00:36:27

All right, what's the ruling of fit hanging pictures up in the

00:36:27 --> 00:36:31

family? It's my crew to put a picture of some family stuff up

00:36:31 --> 00:36:34

high, but it's okay to put it in an album. Okay.

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All right, one more from Tasneem. And then we'll go to Ryan. Another

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question. When it comes to enjoying good forbidding evil,

00:36:41 --> 00:36:44

what is the right approach? You have to with hypersensitive

00:36:44 --> 00:36:48

individuals, don't take it face on with a hypersensitive individual,

00:36:48 --> 00:36:51

they're going to feel attacked, right? Go from the side, bring it

00:36:51 --> 00:36:56

up lightly, gently, not relating to them. But as a general point,

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you can do that.

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Okay, as a general point, drop it, you know, like little facts here

00:37:02 --> 00:37:07

about things. But not head on with someone sensitive. Of course, if

00:37:07 --> 00:37:12

it's your child, you're responsible, right? And you can

00:37:12 --> 00:37:15

speak to them head on, but you can tuck it in with many other nice

00:37:15 --> 00:37:20

things that will make them happy. Right? So it's in a package. Okay.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:23

All right, Ryan, what you got?

00:37:24 --> 00:37:28

Is it more rewarding to give money to family on non essential things?

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Or to give money to the poor and needed? No, we give money in the

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poor and needy

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100% 100%? Next question.

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Would one be sinful for not forgiving someone? No, you're not

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obligated to forgive anybody. But if you want to get forgiveness

00:37:46 --> 00:37:48

from Allah, you should forgive people.

00:37:51 --> 00:37:56

What is the best way to help spark Eman in our young adult children?

00:37:56 --> 00:37:59

What is the best approach with them? What's the best way to spark

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the Eman in young adult children and this is gonna go for adults

00:38:04 --> 00:38:06

and children.

00:38:07 --> 00:38:13

Even adults, it's the it's the thing in this world, that if Allah

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was to tell you,

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you can have this thing. That is what you would pay the price of

00:38:20 --> 00:38:24

following everything in his law and worshipping with complete

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sincerity. You have to imagine the deal. Someone comes up to you.

00:38:27 --> 00:38:30

Okay, what are you doing wrong? I do this wrong, this wrong and this

00:38:30 --> 00:38:34

wrong? I and I don't do this obligation and this obligation and

00:38:34 --> 00:38:39

this obligation? Why don't you do those because you're enjoy doing

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these sins, and you don't want to do these obligations? Human

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nature, right?

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So it's all goes back to what I enjoy and what I hate. So we all

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have a price. What is it that if you were to sat down with an

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angel, so I come representing Allah, write down on a piece of

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paper, what it would take for you to leave off these sins and

00:39:01 --> 00:39:04

fulfill this obligation. Now, you might say, Oh, it's gonna take

00:39:04 --> 00:39:08

something so be crazy and so big that it's it's not realistic.

00:39:09 --> 00:39:12

That's your problem. You think there's a limit to Allah? subhanaw

00:39:12 --> 00:39:16

taala. There's no limit, put it down, write it down exactly what

00:39:17 --> 00:39:22

it would take. Okay, exactly what it would take that you would say,

00:39:22 --> 00:39:27

yeah, oh, definitely. I will leave off these since. Okay. Let's say a

00:39:27 --> 00:39:29

lot of people, they listen to music. And that's one of the later

00:39:29 --> 00:39:31

things that people do wrong. There's a lot of wrong things that

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people do. There's a lot of sexual problems through the phones, that

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people have sins, that bliss is just so happy that you've fallen

00:39:38 --> 00:39:41

into and becoming addicted to, let's just that's just the fact,

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right.

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We're human beings, we make mistakes, we fall into sins, it

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happens.

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What is it that would take if someone said to you, well, if you

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could leave that off, we'll give you $5 million. You'd leave it

00:39:56 --> 00:39:59

off. I guarantee you, right? You would leave it off.

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So this is the relationship we have to have with Allah subhanaw

00:40:02 --> 00:40:05

taala we must believe that he's capable

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of rewarding us in this life before the next. So that's the

00:40:10 --> 00:40:14

best dua the dua of what they would like in this had to do it

00:40:14 --> 00:40:19

before the next that would motivate them to leave off sin and

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do our obligations say and obviously the best remembrance of

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Allah is leaving off since.

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Next question. Is it true differences of opinion and nakita

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like Ashley mentioned fit as well. And that's really our equivalent

00:40:32 --> 00:40:37

to the different schools of fic. The schools of Updata in Islam are

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the humbly shiny and metal at all if you follow any of the one of

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those schools Hanbury as shiny and metallic if you want to humbly

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school, you can go to

00:40:48 --> 00:40:53

Instagram and madressa humbly or true humbly creed on Instagram and

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learn how many are created from there. No problem.

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Next question. Someone wants to start praying so that'll Iraq when

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the timeframe and what's the intention for the will do when

00:41:04 --> 00:41:08

they're making it for that? So okay, so lots of Doha as an

00:41:08 --> 00:41:11

instructor different things. Every one of us loves money, right?

00:41:12 --> 00:41:15

Nobody here wants to be poor. If someone came up to you and gave

00:41:15 --> 00:41:20

you $200 on the spot, you'd be happy. Don't lie. Okay? A

00:41:20 --> 00:41:24

millionaire if someone came up and gave him five nice $100 bills,

00:41:24 --> 00:41:24

he'd be happy.

00:41:25 --> 00:41:28

Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Whoever prays

00:41:28 --> 00:41:32

feathered and sits in his man sits in the same spot until the sun

00:41:32 --> 00:41:36

rises which is 20 minutes after it shut up. remembering ALLAH SubhanA

00:41:36 --> 00:41:37

wa Tada then he prays to lock us

00:41:39 --> 00:41:44

that is faster in in earning money. In Kesko risk which it is

00:41:44 --> 00:41:49

broader than money. Then if he was to go work Eastern west. So that's

00:41:49 --> 00:41:52

look at the motivation Allah has given us Allah knows we all want

00:41:52 --> 00:41:57

is. We all need risk. Some people say Oh, you, you like money so

00:41:57 --> 00:42:01

much. It's not me who likes money. Rutgers University needs money.

00:42:02 --> 00:42:06

Nearly man school needs money. PSE and G want my money. Alright.

00:42:07 --> 00:42:09

northborough, brunswick township, they want my money, they just

00:42:09 --> 00:42:14

increased our taxes. These people, they all want all my money. Okay,

00:42:14 --> 00:42:18

my car company, they want my money. They all want my money. I

00:42:18 --> 00:42:21

need to give it to them. All right, I need to earn money. So

00:42:21 --> 00:42:25

customer risk. Don't look at it as I'm being greedy. Look at it that

00:42:25 --> 00:42:29

the world is expensive. Life is expensive. You need that money. So

00:42:29 --> 00:42:33

that's how you do it. That's called it should up and it has so

00:42:33 --> 00:42:38

much reward in it. And it's also your Doha prayer to if you'd miss

00:42:38 --> 00:42:42

that, let's just pray fetch and fall asleep then you wake up as

00:42:42 --> 00:42:45

long as it's before the hook. Then you press a lot to Doha to raucous

00:42:45 --> 00:42:46

for six or eight.

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Next question, if I wronged someone and seeking forgiveness or

00:42:54 --> 00:42:57

correction for the matter with them is not an option. What can

00:42:57 --> 00:43:01

you do? If I've wronged someone but I can't seek forgiveness. And

00:43:01 --> 00:43:04

it's too late. It's happened before a man came to me and I Bess

00:43:04 --> 00:43:09

and he said I murdered somebody. So if not best said go to your

00:43:09 --> 00:43:12

family or tribe and collect the deal. Okay.

00:43:14 --> 00:43:17

Pay them to do the blood money. He said, I don't even know who he is

00:43:17 --> 00:43:22

because we were strangers. We were strangers in the road. And then we

00:43:22 --> 00:43:25

had a fight before I even knew his name. I killed him.

00:43:27 --> 00:43:30

It could happen they maybe they thought that, you know they were

00:43:30 --> 00:43:34

both antagonistic so he killed them preemptively. He said don't

00:43:34 --> 00:43:36

make dua for him. He said I don't even know his name, said that make

00:43:36 --> 00:43:40

dua for him. Bucha *, but then he said, Make dua for him just

00:43:40 --> 00:43:43

like as the man I killed, but then he said just go be good to your

00:43:43 --> 00:43:45

mother that will wipe away your sins. So that's how you wipe away

00:43:45 --> 00:43:46

sins that you can make up.

00:43:50 --> 00:43:53

Next question, someone is seeking help because they suffer from

00:43:53 --> 00:43:58

panic attacks OCD was was related to the thoughts of blasphemy. It

00:43:58 --> 00:44:02

consumes their energy and their life. If, if it was one of those

00:44:02 --> 00:44:05

things, I would advise you and I will just say increase your

00:44:05 --> 00:44:08

decrease, stay upon will do but if it's all of these things, I sit I

00:44:08 --> 00:44:12

would say seek professional attention, professional medical

00:44:12 --> 00:44:15

attention because if it's all of those things, then it is a

00:44:15 --> 00:44:18

professional thing that a person needs professional medical

00:44:18 --> 00:44:18

attention for that.

00:44:20 --> 00:44:23

Let me read one from here. Junaid says Please recommend a hello way

00:44:23 --> 00:44:25

to get to know someone for marriage and to what level

00:44:28 --> 00:44:31

okay, if you're if you're if you're a young family

00:44:33 --> 00:44:38

there is value in having invitations, dinner parties. And I

00:44:38 --> 00:44:39

like the

00:44:41 --> 00:44:43

the daisies have debits, right?

00:44:44 --> 00:44:47

It's Dawa. It's an invitation dinner party. We have these two in

00:44:47 --> 00:44:54

the Arab culture when you do those. Okay, then, oh, they said

00:44:54 --> 00:44:56

they couldn't hear the questions too. But we'll say the questions

00:44:56 --> 00:45:00

louder next time. Because this two streams go and there's this

00:45:00 --> 00:45:02

stream going for the all the other platforms. And then there's the

00:45:02 --> 00:45:05

Instagram stream, but Ryan's only connected to the other platforms

00:45:05 --> 00:45:09

not to Instagram, but I'll repeat his questions. So those dinner

00:45:09 --> 00:45:11

invitations, the value is for people to see each other families

00:45:11 --> 00:45:14

to see each other. So that when it's time to get married, you

00:45:14 --> 00:45:18

know, people, and not only that your whole family knows them. If

00:45:18 --> 00:45:21

you're past that, and that never worked out for you, or you've

00:45:21 --> 00:45:25

never had anything like that, then the best place to go and meet

00:45:25 --> 00:45:29

somebody is somewhere where, where there's where there's knowledge,

00:45:30 --> 00:45:33

like classes, going to class is one of the best places to find

00:45:33 --> 00:45:36

people because their priorities are going to be similar. So that's

00:45:36 --> 00:45:40

to me one of the best advices and we had a couple marriages in our

00:45:40 --> 00:45:43

masjid and with stuffiness aside, which was which was really

00:45:43 --> 00:45:46

exciting for the community to see. And now they have kids.

00:45:48 --> 00:45:50

So that's the answer to that question. Let's take one more from

00:45:50 --> 00:45:53

here then before we go back to Ryan so let's go to

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Triple H if we want to prepare for REG.

00:46:00 --> 00:46:03

Reg have is the time to make up your old fasts and to start

00:46:03 --> 00:46:06

fasting and also there are some narrations even though some people

00:46:06 --> 00:46:09

say they're weak but there are narrations that relate to the

00:46:09 --> 00:46:14

first the night before Rajib say not to use to stay up and he said

00:46:14 --> 00:46:17

that the door is accepted so I'm going to take advantage of it

00:46:18 --> 00:46:22

right you should take advantage of that to the DUA is accepted and

00:46:22 --> 00:46:26

that night I don't have the narration in front of me but happy

00:46:26 --> 00:46:29

Vamana teaches it and he doesn't not going to propose promote a

00:46:29 --> 00:46:30

fabricated narration

00:46:34 --> 00:46:37

he did we could probably look at it in the Masilela alright Ryan

00:46:37 --> 00:46:38

Europe

00:46:39 --> 00:46:43

is saying oh my god when you're angry at someone is saying oh my

00:46:43 --> 00:46:46

god when you're angry a sin? I don't think it would be a sin

00:46:46 --> 00:46:49

Manny maybe my crew he used Allah's name in a way that's not

00:46:49 --> 00:46:50

really, really

00:46:51 --> 00:46:52

appropriate.

00:46:53 --> 00:46:57

Let's go to favour fibromyalgia. May Allah give you a shifa from

00:46:57 --> 00:47:02

having Fibro myalgia and rheumatoid arthritis, rheumatoid

00:47:02 --> 00:47:07

arthritis? Arthritis can't even say thank you for teaching. Please

00:47:07 --> 00:47:11

advise how apostates should be treated as if they don't exist.

00:47:12 --> 00:47:13

It's true.

00:47:14 --> 00:47:18

Right? Stay away from them. They're going to be like a cancer

00:47:18 --> 00:47:23

in your head. We have in this OMA quality control, your Sahaba your

00:47:23 --> 00:47:28

circles, right? A friend has to have quality control. Right?

00:47:29 --> 00:47:33

I can guarantee you and here's the funny thing is that so many of our

00:47:33 --> 00:47:38

Muslims, are we so liberal minded now, right? If you become a Trump

00:47:38 --> 00:47:41

supporter that cuts you off, but if you become an apostate, we need

00:47:41 --> 00:47:42

to discuss this.

00:47:43 --> 00:47:46

We need to have Rama. But the guy became a Trump supporter, you cut

00:47:46 --> 00:47:50

him off. If he's anti Vax, you cut them off completely. But if he

00:47:50 --> 00:47:55

comes an innovator or something, let's have a discussion about

00:47:55 --> 00:48:01

this. Right? So it's the quality control of your friend group. How

00:48:01 --> 00:48:03

can I befriend someone who's offended, offended a lot

00:48:03 --> 00:48:07

knowingly. If he offended me knowingly, I wouldn't befriend

00:48:07 --> 00:48:11

him. And who am I? If he offended my mom knowingly, I cut them off.

00:48:11 --> 00:48:15

Right? What would NBC do if somebody if one of their anchors

00:48:15 --> 00:48:19

openly supported the January 6 rebellion or whatever they want to

00:48:19 --> 00:48:23

call it and said, No, no, no, it was just a peaceful march. And

00:48:23 --> 00:48:26

some people got out and he'd be fired, they would put a release

00:48:26 --> 00:48:30

right away. We have severed all ties within before two minutes

00:48:30 --> 00:48:37

pass from his statement. And he'd be done with. So are we promoting

00:48:37 --> 00:48:40

division? No, we're promoting quality control. I want quality

00:48:40 --> 00:48:44

control on my friend group. I want my friend group to be people who I

00:48:44 --> 00:48:49

could trade their book on the Day of Judgment. Right? If someone

00:48:49 --> 00:48:51

said Would you trade his books, your book of deeds from My Book of

00:48:51 --> 00:48:56

deeds? If I say no, no, thank you. Then why am I friends with you?

00:48:56 --> 00:48:59

Now? If I wouldn't befriend you on the Acura, right.

00:49:01 --> 00:49:02

Why do I need to be your friend now?

00:49:05 --> 00:49:06

Tell me more.

00:49:09 --> 00:49:13

How much time it takes for non Arabic person to become a Maliki

00:49:13 --> 00:49:17

scholar Mufti with ijazah. If you study seriously for four years,

00:49:18 --> 00:49:21

you can really learn a lot and you could finish up to the reset of

00:49:21 --> 00:49:25

Abizaid. In the medical method. We study three introductory books,

00:49:25 --> 00:49:27

you should finish that in a year. If you study at least once a week,

00:49:28 --> 00:49:30

and then resell that you can finish that in a year if you study

00:49:30 --> 00:49:35

once a week. So you're gonna start with ashrama, Ouija, buddy, if an

00:49:35 --> 00:49:38

asteroid that's intro, and then reset, it's Abizaid that might

00:49:38 --> 00:49:41

take you one or two years, you'll be solid at the intermediate

00:49:41 --> 00:49:45

level, you can teach people No, all right, what you know, if you

00:49:45 --> 00:49:48

want more than add a couple more years to study, Accra and mosaddek

00:49:48 --> 00:49:51

You're going to need a lot of Arabic for that. That may take you

00:49:51 --> 00:49:51

some time.

00:49:53 --> 00:49:54

Ryan, go ahead.

00:49:55 --> 00:49:58

Okay, related to the sick, somebody as an American method,

00:49:58 --> 00:49:59

one is allowed to make tea

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If making will do will take too much time and solo and why is it

00:50:04 --> 00:50:08

allowed if the Quran stipulates otherwise, supposedly, in the

00:50:08 --> 00:50:12

medical method if you're going to miss the prayer, like like you cut

00:50:12 --> 00:50:16

it so close them 11 is walking up the steps to call the event and

00:50:16 --> 00:50:20

you don't have to do and the water is somewhere far away that you

00:50:20 --> 00:50:24

can't make if you want to make what do you'd miss the prayer then

00:50:24 --> 00:50:27

you are then that is one of the conditions of TMO preconditions

00:50:27 --> 00:50:32

are met so you make you go out to meet him and pray and get the

00:50:32 --> 00:50:37

prayer before you lose the prayer. Yeah that's that's how it is. Now

00:50:37 --> 00:50:40

your sinful for delaying the prayer that for that much

00:50:41 --> 00:50:46

Shahida says animal as alcohol and creams or any animal products

00:50:46 --> 00:50:49

invalidate the sale and Salah does not invalidate this Allah because

00:50:49 --> 00:50:54

it will have evaporated and it will have transformed anyway. So

00:50:54 --> 00:50:57

in sha Allah should not invalidate the salah. Why do we stand some

00:50:57 --> 00:51:00

people stand when they recite Salah on the prophet in the in the

00:51:00 --> 00:51:03

masjid and that was a matter of just showing respect for the

00:51:03 --> 00:51:08

Prophet peace be upon him zikr and mentioned have there any been

00:51:08 --> 00:51:11

female prophets? No, we don't have we don't hold that there were

00:51:11 --> 00:51:14

female prophets. Medina is the greatest woman and Allah described

00:51:14 --> 00:51:19

as Siddiqa. Nebia and Allah separates in the Quran between

00:51:19 --> 00:51:19

Sydney and Nabil.

00:51:21 --> 00:51:22

All right, let's see what else you got. Right?

00:51:24 --> 00:51:27

That's not all I can check. It should have to be prayed in the

00:51:27 --> 00:51:30

masjid if after praying fajr I talk and chat with other

00:51:30 --> 00:51:32

Mussolini's cola. So you're talking shot with other

00:51:32 --> 00:51:36

Mussolini's after feci saying this rock parade in the masjid when I

00:51:36 --> 00:51:39

chit chatted and had breakfast and had a fight with all the other

00:51:39 --> 00:51:42

Mossad leaves too late last you ruined it. Don't do this sit in

00:51:42 --> 00:51:48

your spot, don't talk to anybody. Until it should up comes. And it

00:51:48 --> 00:51:51

should up is when is fed, you're out at 20 minutes, sit and don't

00:51:51 --> 00:51:53

talk to anybody. Okay?

00:51:54 --> 00:51:58

I'm telling you, there's a great reward in this, right? You do

00:51:58 --> 00:52:01

this? Then you pray to it. Because then you could

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talk and fight and eat and whatever you want to do. Yaffa

00:52:06 --> 00:52:08

says how can someone have a wedding or ceremony that is

00:52:08 --> 00:52:09

pleasing to Allah

00:52:11 --> 00:52:16

don't have mixing, don't have a lot of loud music. I'm saying this

00:52:16 --> 00:52:19

if you can, because most people, they don't control the wedding,

00:52:19 --> 00:52:24

you marry people today, every family is mixed. Every family is

00:52:24 --> 00:52:27

mixed. So we have to talk about this in the spirit of a forgiving

00:52:27 --> 00:52:32

nature. But this is the ideal. Okay, so that nobody says, Oh,

00:52:32 --> 00:52:35

this is too much. We can never do this and I feel isolated. No, in

00:52:35 --> 00:52:40

the spirit of if you're capable, then you avoid these things of the

00:52:40 --> 00:52:46

types of music that is forbidden. The mixing that is forbidden and

00:52:46 --> 00:52:50

inviting only the rich and never inviting the poor. And not having

00:52:50 --> 00:52:55

a sawed off like excessive spending. Right? Excess in the

00:52:55 --> 00:52:58

spending. So you said for Sister Yeah, but that's those are the

00:52:58 --> 00:53:01

things that that's how you want to do it. And for those who are

00:53:01 --> 00:53:05

coming from not religious backgrounds, or that their family

00:53:05 --> 00:53:09

doesn't, they don't do I know people were so good. Their family

00:53:09 --> 00:53:12

have nothing to do with the dean. So um, we have to say this in the

00:53:12 --> 00:53:16

spirit of if you're capable. And if you're not, and let's say

00:53:16 --> 00:53:19

you're gonna get married and your mother insisted up and down, this

00:53:19 --> 00:53:22

is how the wedding is going to be what is the girl going to do? So

00:53:22 --> 00:53:24

we have to be understanding that some people are at different

00:53:24 --> 00:53:27

situations. And at the same time, we have to understand that there

00:53:27 --> 00:53:31

is an ideal in our religion, okay, your situation does not become the

00:53:31 --> 00:53:36

ideal. And the ideal should not be promoted without a sense that some

00:53:36 --> 00:53:42

people are not able to fulfill it out of inability, not malice. And

00:53:42 --> 00:53:43

we have to have that.

00:53:45 --> 00:53:49

We have to have that idea. manure, Faisal says Are they recorded? The

00:53:49 --> 00:53:56

answer is yes. On on Instagram, on YouTube, on Facebook, on Twitter,

00:53:57 --> 00:53:59

you can find them all and we're going to start uploading them as

00:53:59 --> 00:54:02

audio in the podcast. So you get on your phone does the audio part

00:54:04 --> 00:54:08

Megalon Can you explain when if method rulings can or cannot be

00:54:08 --> 00:54:11

mixed? They should never be mixed. If you follow a method if you're a

00:54:11 --> 00:54:13

student of knowledge and you have selected a method and you follow a

00:54:13 --> 00:54:19

method don't mix. Unless there is a situation that is impossible in

00:54:19 --> 00:54:23

your method. Like what? Like a chef he he converts to Islam.

00:54:24 --> 00:54:28

Right. He's becomes a chef a and his mother he lives with his mom

00:54:28 --> 00:54:33

and she has a dog. He has to take the medical ruling on the saliva

00:54:33 --> 00:54:37

of the dog not being not just Ryan, what do you got?

00:54:39 --> 00:54:43

What is our approach to tech food? What's our approach to to Korea?

00:54:43 --> 00:54:46

You do it very cautiously but if it needs to be done, it needs to

00:54:46 --> 00:54:50

be done. And we in the murky mother we are allowed to say so

00:54:50 --> 00:54:54

and so has committed to Kofi Annan is not a Muslim anymore. If you

00:54:54 --> 00:54:58

see a guy bowing to an idol, right? But what we say is that we

00:54:58 --> 00:54:59

can't do anything about it. We

00:55:00 --> 00:55:03

Kanika I can't execute the guy, for example, I can't take him and

00:55:03 --> 00:55:07

say, put him in jail, I can't take him into the basement, right? Like

00:55:07 --> 00:55:11

some movie and lock him up and tape them up to a chair and give

00:55:11 --> 00:55:15

him a sitejabber No, only the judge can do that. But what I can

00:55:15 --> 00:55:19

do is, Oh, this guy worship is a good another God. This guy, you

00:55:19 --> 00:55:21

know, does all this cool photo.

00:55:22 --> 00:55:25

Okay, and he doesn't believe in this battery. either. He believes

00:55:25 --> 00:55:29

in another prophet, or he believes something, some nonsense, then I

00:55:29 --> 00:55:30

stay away from him. That's it.

00:55:31 --> 00:55:35

Right? So should he follow Dean says,

00:55:37 --> 00:55:41

I've heard it claimed that this is not allowed, but as a fake. This

00:55:41 --> 00:55:45

is or but as far as I know, this is only in relation to the

00:55:45 --> 00:55:46

essentials.

00:55:48 --> 00:55:50

The previous question, what are the positions? I just don't know

00:55:50 --> 00:55:55

when it comes to the majority of knowledge? Or Bidda hasna Yes,

00:55:55 --> 00:56:01

mudra. That means that if if you read in a book, a chef says do

00:56:01 --> 00:56:06

this thicker. As I did it, and my daughter was answered, we say

00:56:06 --> 00:56:08

you're allowed to do that.

00:56:09 --> 00:56:14

As long as it does not replace the Sunnah. So someone says to you

00:56:14 --> 00:56:18

that if you recite this and this and this before mocking them on

00:56:18 --> 00:56:19

Friday,

00:56:20 --> 00:56:21

oh, charge it.

00:56:23 --> 00:56:23

Here

00:56:25 --> 00:56:27

sorry about that. I didn't give you this earlier.

00:56:29 --> 00:56:32

But you can say okay, I'll do that instead of suited KEF or instead

00:56:32 --> 00:56:35

of the prophetic prayers, no, it does not

00:56:37 --> 00:56:42

displace the sun. Okay, and it does not have the same level of

00:56:42 --> 00:56:46

Yaqeen you don't hold it at the same level. You can have Yaqeen in

00:56:46 --> 00:56:49

it. I trust this will Lee and this scholar and I believe in it, but

00:56:49 --> 00:56:53

you could have the same level of a strong Yaqeen but not the same as

00:56:53 --> 00:56:56

the Sunnah. The Sunnah there's no doubt about the promises of Allah

00:56:56 --> 00:57:01

there's no doubt about it. Cut the the other promises, maybe honey

00:57:01 --> 00:57:05

bunnies speculum Yianni less absolute, but we can still believe

00:57:05 --> 00:57:06

in it. And do it.

00:57:08 --> 00:57:12

Mauro Blanco says is Welsh, the Sunnah the answer is yes. The

00:57:12 --> 00:57:16

Sunnah of recitation to recite the what the prophet recited. And

00:57:16 --> 00:57:21

Quraysh is what we now call wash. So you should learn that if you

00:57:21 --> 00:57:21

can.

00:57:24 --> 00:57:27

And what else we got? We only got a few minutes left, unfortunately,

00:57:27 --> 00:57:30

are all the different schools about the EDA due to new

00:57:30 --> 00:57:35

questions, the answer is yes. Because of questions that came up

00:57:35 --> 00:57:38

after the sahaba. So they say how was it sunnah to have these

00:57:38 --> 00:57:41

beliefs? Because based on the methodology of the companions,

00:57:41 --> 00:57:45

that's what they would have done. Based upon their methodology, they

00:57:45 --> 00:57:48

would have answered the question. Okay. That's why we say that this

00:57:48 --> 00:57:52

is actually Sunday, even though these these things, and these

00:57:52 --> 00:57:56

debates and these arguments didn't come up in their time, but so half

00:57:56 --> 00:58:00

the fit out of 15 it come up in their time. So we say that this is

00:58:00 --> 00:58:02

what they would have done, they would have answered the question.

00:58:02 --> 00:58:05

There's no doubt about that. When there was a problem and all the

00:58:05 --> 00:58:07

whole father of Quran were dying, said no, I'm gonna solve the

00:58:07 --> 00:58:11

problem with something that didn't exist in the time of the Prophet

00:58:11 --> 00:58:14

peace be upon him. So we would have that that's what the Saba

00:58:14 --> 00:58:15

would have done.

00:58:16 --> 00:58:20

All right, next, Ryan, let's say two from you. Some of these MSA

00:58:20 --> 00:58:24

presidents and other religious guys get contacted by sisters who

00:58:24 --> 00:58:27

have questions about the deen and personal matters. How does the

00:58:27 --> 00:58:33

brother navigate this? Personally speaking, I really think that

00:58:35 --> 00:58:39

whenever there's a communication and some people are going to say,

00:58:39 --> 00:58:43

Oh, this is so there's not going to work. You asked me I'm telling

00:58:43 --> 00:58:46

you the answer the communication between a brother and sister as

00:58:46 --> 00:58:49

much as possible. It shouldn't be.

00:58:50 --> 00:58:53

There should be a third person on that. And it should only be by

00:58:53 --> 00:58:59

necessity for example, just as a disclaimer I got there like five

00:58:59 --> 00:59:03

people who see who have access to all my social media accounts.

00:59:04 --> 00:59:04

Right.

00:59:06 --> 00:59:09

There may they might not go on it but they have access to it. For

00:59:09 --> 00:59:14

example, anyone could pick up anyone in my family's my wife for

00:59:14 --> 00:59:17

example, she has access she doesn't always go on it but she

00:59:17 --> 00:59:20

could if she wanted to. She could on her phone it's right there. So

00:59:20 --> 00:59:24

that there's not a such a privacy that is could lead to something

00:59:24 --> 00:59:27

that is discouraged or something that's Haram

00:59:29 --> 00:59:34

is a macro to close your eyes in the Salah. Yes, it is the only

00:59:34 --> 00:59:37

time it's allowed for you to shut your eyes in the prayer is if

00:59:37 --> 00:59:39

there's something that's distracting you.

00:59:41 --> 00:59:44

Alright, Ryan, what else you got? If I have to wake up and sleep

00:59:44 --> 00:59:49

early, and set my alarm clock but I don't wake up. Is it still a sin

00:59:49 --> 00:59:52

that I didn't wake up? No. If you set it the question is I tried

00:59:52 --> 00:59:54

tried to wake up professor but I failed. I set my alarm and

00:59:54 --> 00:59:57

everything but I felt you're not sinful at that point. If you

00:59:57 --> 00:59:59

tried, but you failed you're not sinful.

01:00:05 --> 01:00:06

All right, let's take one more

01:00:10 --> 01:00:15

Are there any conditions when caught the wrong? Me is allowed or

01:00:15 --> 01:00:19

even recommended? Are there any conditions to cut off family ties?

01:00:19 --> 01:00:24

The answer to that is that yes, then we never cut off family ties

01:00:24 --> 01:00:29

but you are allowed to avoid harm. Okay. Again, let me repeat that

01:00:29 --> 01:00:30

you don't

01:00:31 --> 01:00:35

you don't cut off your family ties but you're allowed to avoid harm

01:00:35 --> 01:00:37

and you can cut them off if they have past data, they joined some

01:00:37 --> 01:00:42

sect you can cut them off. But the mainly are they becoming you know,

01:00:42 --> 01:00:46

they they promote something sinful without any shame you couldn't you

01:00:46 --> 01:00:52

can cut them off. But the concept and idea that avoiding harm you're

01:00:52 --> 01:00:54

allowed to avoid harm, so I'm not gonna go to his house. I'm gonna

01:00:54 --> 01:00:59

barely give him the bare minimum of what's necessary fine.

01:01:00 --> 01:01:05

Other than that, I will cut him off or I won't go that's fine. So

01:01:05 --> 01:01:08

it's those are the conditions they're harming you. They become a

01:01:08 --> 01:01:14

moped they become monitored things like that, folks, let's close this

01:01:14 --> 01:01:16

out with the DoD Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu lillahi

01:01:16 --> 01:01:20

rabbil aalameen Allahumma salli wa barik ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa

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ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam Taslima Allahumma Salli Salatin

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Camela wa salam Salam and Turman ala Sayidina Muhammad, Allah

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Deaton Hello Bill orchids what's unfinished will be queued up

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what's up Dobby edge what you know it'll be a while still hurt him.

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We still have Mr. movie when she'd carry him while early he was alarm

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had been in an email no is a you know Fiocco lubaina or correllian

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of COFRA fosu cavalletti and we ask Allah to Allah to place and

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all of our love of Iman and a love of deen and make it sweet inside

01:01:53 --> 01:01:56

of our hearts and make deviation and disobedience bitter and

01:01:56 --> 01:02:01

distasteful to our hearts. We ask Allah subhanaw taala for all our

01:02:01 --> 01:02:05

youth that he make them love, Amen and hey, Cofer, and make them love

01:02:05 --> 01:02:09

obedience and TA and hate disobedience and Marcia and sins,

01:02:09 --> 01:02:13

we ask Allah to Allah to always keep us in his remembrance and

01:02:13 --> 01:02:18

always keep us in his da into in a state of DA and we ask Allah to

01:02:18 --> 01:02:21

Allah to answer our dua. And we ask Allah subhana wa Tada to keep

01:02:21 --> 01:02:25

us upon 200 and recitation of Quran and sulla on the messenger

01:02:25 --> 01:02:30

sallallahu alayhi wa salam, we ask Allah to Allah for abundance. It

01:02:30 --> 01:02:34

is that is Khaled. We ask Allah to Allah if our risk is in the

01:02:34 --> 01:02:37

heavens, then bring it down. If our oldest is in the earth, then

01:02:37 --> 01:02:40

bring it up. If our it is difficult to attain that make it

01:02:40 --> 01:02:44

easy. If our it is this far, then bring it near. If our risk is

01:02:44 --> 01:02:49

haram, then purified. If our risk is little, then increase it. If

01:02:49 --> 01:02:54

our it is non existent, then make it exist. If our risk is stopped,

01:02:54 --> 01:02:58

then make it flow. If our risk is stalled, then make it move. If our

01:02:58 --> 01:03:02

risk is a sin, then forgive it. If it's an error, then wipe it away.

01:03:02 --> 01:03:06

If it's a mistake, then overlook it. And if it's difficult, then

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make it easy and bless all of our risk and make it the good risk in

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the hands of a good person as a prophesy. centum said in metal

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sada fie the Roger de Sala We ask Allah subhanaw taala for our

01:03:17 --> 01:03:22

parents that he gives them genital for a dose without any hisab We

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ask Allah to Allah for our children, Allah Masha sudo Rahim,

01:03:25 --> 01:03:28

Lil Islam make them make their hearts love the deen of Islam. We

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ask Allah subhana wa Tada for hosting and cloudsim up. Well my

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Sorocaba Rasul We ask Allah for a good ending and what makes the

01:03:35 --> 01:03:38

heart of his messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam happy and pleased

01:03:38 --> 01:03:41

with us we ask Allah to Allah that all of our dua be answered in a

01:03:41 --> 01:03:45

way that pleases Him. Ask Allah to Allah for all those secret desires

01:03:45 --> 01:03:49

that we have inside of our hearts from your father, that you answer

01:03:49 --> 01:03:54

them. In this blessed moment of Wednesday between $1 and us, we

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ask Allah to Allah that He answered those dua in a way that

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is pleasing to Him that is good for us in this world. And then in

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that in the next Lastly, we ask that Allah makes none more beloved

01:04:02 --> 01:04:06

to us than his most beloved SADES incarnate say that Muhammad

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Subhanallah Baker believes that

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yeah, meiosis one was more said you know Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil

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