Shadee Elmasry – NBF 10 Q&A

Shadee Elmasry
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The speakers emphasize the importance of professional attention and learning about deeds, avoiding embarrassment, and managing work-life. They also discuss privacy laws and conditions when caught during prayer, and the importance of responding to requests for information and making them happy. They stress the need for professional attention and avoiding mixing music during weddings, and acknowledge privacy laws and conditions that arise.

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			All righty Bismillah al Rahman al
Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu
		
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			was Salam ala Rasulillah who
Allah, he was sacked me, woman
		
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			Hello, welcome everybody to the
nothing but facts live stream, our
		
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			third class or session this week
as we're basically in our soft
		
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			open of our official and
		
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			professional grade live stream.
I've been live streaming with you
		
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			guys. Not always on Instagram, but
mostly was on Facebook from 2015
		
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			on and off and on and off. But now
we're grown. Everything's got to
		
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			grow. If you're not growing,
you're dying. That's how it is.
		
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			And you have to ask yourself and
your life are you growing or your
		
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			diet. Alright, so here we go.
Let's read a little bit of
		
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			something beneficial today. And
then we're going to open up to
		
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			your comments, your questions, and
we have a lot of things to talk
		
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			about today is our soup kitchen
dinner. We got people coming in to
		
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			help out for the dinner. And it's
it's been a big success. You all
		
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			seen all of our posts about our
soup kitchen and our data center.
		
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			By the way, we have delectable
karats recitation there every
		
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			Monday, and we give out food on
Wednesday. So we're going with the
		
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			vicar to we're not stopping. And
we're not hesitating.
		
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			So here we go. Before we start,
there was a brother yesterday, he
		
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			said, Oh, how could you say that
somebody's in the SATs were the
		
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			same. Of course they have the same
update. Here's the book. Okay,
		
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			that brings you everything with
citations with the quotes with
		
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			everything. It's I know many
people don't really have interest
		
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			in this but some people do. I've
done University at Sofia called
		
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			Jelly Bean allege it will humbly
Okay, the union between the shadow
		
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			and the Hanover in the
fundamentals of what they actually
		
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			believe. Then how they expressed
these things. Okay, but it was
		
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			something different. Okay.
		
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			Check that out.
		
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			Okay, how they express it was
different. And this book is by
		
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			Sheikh Abdullah Nabulsi, and it
was a gift to me. For Lila to
		
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			share with Dr. Sheldon muscly
huffy the hula hula Fabian
		
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			Muslimeen, Amin, Mohit bukem,
Yusuf ibn sadaqa. Humbly, I love
		
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			this brother, should he use if had
been sadaqa humbly, thank you so
		
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			much for this book. And it's an
amazing book between the union
		
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			between the beliefs of the shadow
IRA, and how they actually
		
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			represent the that method of copy
that represents the self. And he
		
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			explains how, and explains why
there's a difference between the
		
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			100 but but the essence is one.
Now let's go to the story. And
		
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			many people will say where's the
Senate for the story? Again, I
		
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			told you all I'm reading from this
book called by Al Bara, Bara
		
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			Jumuah the ocean of tears and it's
an amazing book Listen to this
		
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			story. It is narrated that oh my
love comes out one day and the
		
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			Sahaba who they filmed in Yemen
who is the secret keeper of the
		
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			Prophet peace be upon him he says
almost says how to crosswalks yeah
		
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			Khalifa good basically how's your
morning how are they for says I
		
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			woke up I made a mean I love
fitness.
		
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			I love fitness
		
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			then he says I hate the truth.
		
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			Okay, almost temperatures going
up.
		
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			A goal will be Malam your clock, I
say things that were not created.
		
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			Or I espouse things that weren't
created, say normal at this point,
		
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			the heat you can imagine the heats
coming up
		
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			whereas heads will be mela Mara. I
testify okay with what I haven't
		
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			seen.
		
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			Well, suddenly biller will do and
I pray without although
		
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			well yeah Phil old Malazan Allah
He for summer and I have in the
		
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			earth what Allah does not have in
the heavens.
		
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			If you ask any Muslim, what do you
say about this? Execute right
		
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			away. Okay, this is COVID for God
Eva Omar litho, Lika Raghavan. She
		
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			did and now the VA has go for the
outward of it is Cofer. Now what
		
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			does he mean by it? All right,
it's almost became extremely upset
		
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			and immediately saved almost
sitting oh my god, he's always
		
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			going to be saying oh, we reach
for the stick right away for the
		
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			stick. Okay. And he got and he
started to think about I'm gonna
		
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			hit him good.
		
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			So much better human and maybe
some Allah what is then he
		
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			remembered the special place that
they fit me a man had with the
		
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			Prophet he's the secret keeper,
the messenger. He's the one that
		
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			Prophet peace be upon him told him
who are the 12 Hypocrites. He was
		
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			a secret keeper. And his father at
the man was actually from another
		
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			area. He was a fugitive who was
kicked out of his area. He came to
		
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			Medina as a migrant and he lived
before the Prophet came. So Allah
		
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			what He was selling them, and then
he stayed with them, and then
		
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			he was actually killed by friendly
fire in the Battle of a hood. Alia
		
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			Men, son of the father of Khalifa.
So in any event, follow cadaveric
		
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			if Maravi I've never thought of
say 90 passes passes by. And he
		
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			says anger on the face of Alma
fucka Baba okay Amir ul Momineen
		
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			focus Allah he says, he says Omar
Why are we so upset about? So he
		
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			tells him the story he tells him
the story tells him what? What a
		
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			facade exactly vokalia Ameerul
Momineen lie or dibuka attic he
		
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			said don't be upset about this.
I'm Makalu it no you hit will fit
		
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			now. He's saying that he loves
fitna. It's because Allah says
		
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			Verily your wealth and your
children are fifth. Doesn't
		
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			everyone love their children?
Right, but they're fit but what
		
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			does it mean that your wealth and
your children are fitna there are
		
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			a distraction. Any of you know
about life when you go from being
		
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			a student and you have no
concerns? Guys, many of you are
		
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			and you know the student life.
Right? There's only one concern
		
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			which is your exams and you think
that you have you have issues, you
		
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			think that you're busy you and you
haven't even you haven't even seen
		
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			20 10% of life. You don't have a
spouse. You don't have a job. PSE
		
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			and G send your mom the bill, then
your dad doesn't send it to you.
		
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			Okay? You don't have kids. Your
kids don't have homework. You
		
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			haven't seen anything yet. Okay,
so they're a fitna, they distract
		
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			you from a bad but serving them as
well. And doing that stuff can
		
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			become a good deed for you. Mr.
Cole, who wakrah Who will help he
		
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			hates her.
		
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			Job wotja at Saqqara to multiball
Huck. Huck, the L hop here is
		
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			death. This death comes right it's
a true thing that death comes
		
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			Okay, so he hates it we all hate
death say die it's just said
		
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			almost of Allah. We hate death.
Prophesy centum said the Muslims
		
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			love of death is not the love of
actual death. It's the love of
		
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			meeting Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			amalco who you're going to be
Mariela Mukul up, he speaks with
		
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			what is not created. Quran Allah
Karim right he's seen or is the
		
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			Quran he recites the Quran for
Hawaii ACARA Allah Quran Allah Hua
		
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			Rama Clopay Korea he recites the
Quran and it is not created. Colo
		
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			Colo
		
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			Yes, how to be mellem era. Okay,
he he testifies for something he
		
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			hasn't seen. He just testifies and
believes in Allah. He hasn't seen
		
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			Allah but he believes in him. And
he testifies to that will let you
		
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			lie Allah
		
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			colo who you will suddenly be
ready will do ask for his he
		
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			praised without will. That is his
prayer upon the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam All right he
makes Salawat on the messenger
		
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			peace be upon him and you don't
have to have will do. You can make
		
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			a lot on the Prophet in all of
your states said no Musa asks
		
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			Allah Sometimes I'm in a certain
we're in a certain condition he
		
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			means by that Genova.
		
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			Allah subhana wa Tada says,
Remember me and all of your
		
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			states, the only thing you cannot
recite when you're upon Geneva is
		
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			the Quran. And you cannot touch
the most half without will do but
		
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			you can recite the Quran without
renew, but you cannot recite it
		
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			upon Genova and only in the medic
med hub, the how an officer the
		
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			woman who is upon higher than the
fast, she can recite the Quran,
		
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			from memory or from a tablet upon
higher than the fast because he
		
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			separates Genova is something you
enter by choice. And you can exit
		
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			it by choice whenever you want.
		
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			Higher than if S is something that
comes upon them. Okay, so setting
		
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			it continues to explain how
they've implemented statement to
		
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			say normal. Okay, M kolu. In low
fill all the mele salaallah If
		
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			it's summer, he says, I have
something in the earth that Allah
		
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			doesn't have in the heavens, a
wife and kids. Right? Allah
		
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			doesn't have a wife and kids. All
right, because he's transcended
		
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			beyond having a wife and kids. Why
do we have a wife and kids because
		
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			we have needs were weak. We need
companionship, said to Adam, when
		
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			he was created. He was created in
paradise. And he's looking around
		
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			and some people say it's one of
the different gardens of Paradise,
		
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			not necessarily the paradise and
he's moving around looking around.
		
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			They get bored.
		
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			So he fell asleep.
		
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			Until Allah subhana wa Tada he
woke up and he found next to him.
		
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			Another creature, a beautiful
creature that he's looking at. And
		
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			he said, Who are you? She said, I
am. I am woman.
		
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			So what's your name? What? Get
what you're created for? As your
		
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			companion in life and Nisa, Shaka
ecoregional. The prophets I seldom
		
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			said women are the second half of
men, that means they're half
		
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			right. They both have the same
needs the same desires of company,
		
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			they need each other's company,
they love each other's company.
		
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			Then he loves her company so much
that he forgot the one rule that
		
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			he had with Allah subhanaw taala
that was it. And so he forgot.
		
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			Right but forgetting fullness for
them is different in
		
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			their city in his city. I was
different from an arshia in
		
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			Arusha, if you forget something,
you're forgiven, but in that shed,
		
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			yeah, that law would say to Adam,
you only had one thing that was
		
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			haram. Alright, so you're not
allowed to forget. So he didn't
		
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			commit a sin in the way the sense
of, oh, let's disobey Allah. No,
		
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			he just forgot. That's the
understanding of some of the
		
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			scholars on this issue of saying
the atom eating from the tree. So
		
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			it tells me that tell me
something, if you had a palace,
		
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			would you rather you had a palace,
the most beautiful palace, but
		
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			you're all alone. Or you got a
little apartment, but you get to
		
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			be with the woman of your dreams.
And let's say if it's vice versa,
		
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			if you're a woman, you get a whole
awesome Palace to yourself, or you
		
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			get to have a little apartment
with the man of your dreams. Which
		
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			one are you going to choose? I
know which one I'm going to
		
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			choose. So he then says, fuck
Allah, Omar Lilla, he the Rukia
		
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			abolhassan, okay, luck, cash after
I knew him and have him and you
		
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			relieved me because I was angry, I
was upset at what he said. And I
		
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			was confused. Okay. So that's a
deal. But what he's pointing to
		
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			are really some of the essentials
of life. The essentials of life
		
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			husband, or spouse and kids. These
are the essentials of life. And
		
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			what it believes is doing in
society is destroying the ability
		
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			for people to get married or even
want to get married or even be
		
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			attracted to the gender that they
need to be attracted to.
		
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			Or every there's a constant and
non stop, constant and non stop
		
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			assault on marriage. Even in our
Islamic community, marriage
		
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			becomes so difficult to so
complicated, like the actual acts
		
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			to actually getting married.
Forget finding a husband when you
		
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			actually get married, the wedding
is complicated. All these weddings
		
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			you need, we need a complete
wedding reform. So weddings have
		
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			to be much more simple than they
actually are, are either
		
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			completely complicated for no
reason. If you think about
		
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			the prophesy, Saddam had 12
weddings in his life 12 weddings.
		
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			In these weddings, he slaughtered
an animal for the William at one
		
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			time. Once he slaughtered an
animal for the William one time.
		
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			Think about this,
		
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			that it wasn't a big invitation
for everyone to come. That's so
		
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			much so that Abdurrahman of an
hour of one of the 10 Guaranteed
		
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			paradise merged with the Prophet,
one of the first 10 Muslims have
		
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			dry mouth, didn't even know the
Prophet got married. The prophet
		
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			had to say this is my wife. I got
married.
		
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			Men have been offset or Missoula,
we wouldn't have doubts. He said
		
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			yes, but you have to know so the
Prophet if your Imam got married
		
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			over your mosque, let's say he was
single, when the whole community
		
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			be there and everyone knows about
it. Here you have the Messenger of
		
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			Allah in a very small town got
married and if you saw how they
		
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			used to live, if you ever go on
ombre, which we're going to do
		
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			almost inshallah next next winter.
		
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			When you go on Amina you see like
the house of so and so was there,
		
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			like 20 feet over the house of so
and so was there, they lived so
		
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			close together. And still some of
them didn't know.
		
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			At the marriage. I didn't know.
Either. I remembered ALF himself
		
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			got married. And he had some, I
guess that you put yellow powder
		
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			on the husband when he got
married. And the province I said
		
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			that I'm in it looks like he got
married? He said Yes, I did. Got
		
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			married didn't know. So it was
something that was a lot simpler.
		
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			Now I'm not saying it's
unimportant. But the actual
		
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			wedding is a lot simpler. You
know, the fifth of marriage is if
		
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			you're not obligated to go to
Joomla, then you're not obligated
		
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			to go to some of these weddings,
right? I'm not saying that you
		
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			shouldn't go to weddings, but just
to so some people, we see them
		
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			flying across the country. And if
you don't fly across the country
		
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			to attend this wedding, the other
family is going to get offended.
		
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			Offended. Why would you be
offended?
		
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			If you don't if you have to travel
more than five miles, you don't
		
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			have to attend the wedding. Right?
So this idea that oh, I'm gonna
		
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			get offended, oh, if we don't put
him on the invite list. They're
		
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			gonna get offended and they pay
$40 A plate.
		
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			And they show up. And they didn't
want to show up anymore because we
		
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			made 10 weddings in the season.
And you have to have at least $100
		
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			Check ready?
		
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			It's $40 a plate. But the gift I'm
giving you as 100 bucks, who's
		
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			winning here who's losing? Right
this is there's so much to cut it
		
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			off. This is called tickle of
formality upon formality upon
		
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			formality. That it's not something
that the Prophet wanted it to
		
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			happen. Not saying all this stuff
is haram but just think about it.
		
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			Keep it in the back of your mind
that this stuff is truly
		
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			unnecessary. It's excess. All
right. All right. With that let's
		
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			open it up to your q&a today. All
right, Ryan, what do we got? We
		
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			got some action going
		
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			on All right, let's hear it. I
want to share may Allah have mercy
		
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			on your parents? I mean, I mean,
which clan yours to which
		
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			classical scholars made it
permissible to make a stave off it
		
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			through the dead when making when
do
		
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			you still got the
		
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			When making wudu
		
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			the discussion is about the
period, right? It's the Gotha
		
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			period, but we're not going to
open that can of worms right now.
		
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			But they said author that we hold
that is without a doubt is to
		
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			author with the meaning of toa
soon. And there are some of the
		
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			automl, who spoke about it like
that. Meaning that we call upon
		
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			Allah using with our love for the
son of hate, we love certain
		
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			righteous people, okay? And that
love is a good deed.
		
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			And for if not for our sake, than
for the sake of the messenger that
		
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			we follow, that Allah to Allah
will forgive people, maybe not for
		
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			his sake,
		
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			but not for our sake, because
we're not good enough, but at
		
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			least because of our connection to
some of the righteous above us,
		
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			whether it's a righteous parent,
definitely the messenger that we
		
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			have some of the love it was
		
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			let me read one a waste, Jimmy,
what's the topic and what book so
		
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			we were just reading some of these
little stories that have some
		
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			great wisdoms in it from Bata
Dubois
		
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			by Ibn Al Josie, right and if
someone says oh, where's the
		
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			Senate, Senators hymnal, Josie
asked him to Josie for the Senate,
		
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			he's trustworthy for us. Okay, and
suddenly they're just stories
		
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			there's no there are no rules
here. Okay. What book did you
		
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			mention regarding effusive and
Sadhak This is the book again let
		
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			me show you at Sophia. banal ash
it will humbly Okay. Until
		
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			physical Jelly Bean Allah Sherry
will humbly meaning and showing
		
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			because the brother said no, it
can't be this simple yesterday. It
		
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			is this simple. This book goes
into every sub topic of discussion
		
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			showing that the SID creed it's
also its basis and the humbly
		
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			creed its Aslam basis is one in
the same and then how the henna
		
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			Usha Ida
		
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			posited and expounded upon their
proofs is what's different. And
		
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			the way that they they did that
and responded, got to me just
		
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			cinema or my Tesla is different
and he shows even in Makati, how
		
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			he relies on him
		
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			who he relies upon from that
shadow. Okay, he relies upon a
		
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			shadow here. And he cites it.
Okay, so
		
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			in any event, something that not a
lot of people are really familiar
		
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			with. But if your interest is for
you're interested in theta, that's
		
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			what
		
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			this is the book that you gotta
get for yourself. It's in Arabic.
		
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			Alright, Ryan, you got a question
for us? Yes, from Muhammad, Sharif
		
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			Aladeen. What are the guidelines
for the amount of the matter? What
		
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			is its purpose? And what would be
excessive or too little? What's
		
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			the guideline for the Mahara? The
Mahathir has to be at least
		
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			a quarter of a gold coin? And
		
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			how does that translate? I can't
remember the translation in
		
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			dollars, right? But there has to
be a method. And then there's
		
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			something called modal method.
Okay.
		
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			There is something called modal
method, what is modal and method?
		
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			So Darkwood myth, they call it
infix. So doc, will myth pay pay
		
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			very close attention some of you
because I know some of you here. I
		
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			know some of you here. And I know
that you all have kids, right? And
		
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			that soon you're going to be
marrying and asking this question.
		
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			So in your social circle, and
every Muslim has to have a social
		
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			circle, because certain things and
shitty I require a little bit of a
		
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			back and a context and a judgment
call. Okay, so in your social
		
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			circle there, I'm sure your kid is
not the first kid to get married.
		
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			Someone else got married before
them, right? So you are allowed to
		
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			see and get and check out? Well,
what was the motive for this
		
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			person because their family is
pretty much like our family, like
		
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			one doctor and one accountant, for
example, right? Or similar class
		
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			of people, we they live the same
way they have the same kind of
		
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			cars, the same size of house,
right? They live in the same way
		
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			that we live. So what kind of
money did they get? And then you
		
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			do this across two, three. And
there's nothing wrong with saying
		
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			right for the sake of benefit.
That's how you make the judgment
		
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			call. And you arrive at something
called Sadak. l method. This is
		
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			very important, because I know
that I know some of these people
		
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			on the I see their names are
popping up and their moms and
		
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			their dads and their kids are
teens. Okay? It's called seduction
		
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			myth. So you ask around and say,
Oh, she her mother was 10,000. Her
		
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			mod was 5000. Her mod was 7000. So
we get an average from that.
		
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			That's called sadaqa myth. Now
you're not bound to that. But if
		
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			there is a dispute, then you're in
your right judgment to say this is
		
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			what I insist upon.
		
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			This is what I insist upon. Okay,
and he can agree or disagree, but
		
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			that's called So doc admitted,
then you should know this a duck
		
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			myth. It's based upon the same
type of circles that that are
		
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			similar to families that are
similar to your family.
		
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			All right.
		
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			Alright, let me read a question
here. I'm gonna con 6692. Why are
		
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			flags in the masjid deemed as
innovation?
		
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			I don't know. I don't know if
that's a flag inside the rest of
		
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			like USA flag in the masjid.
		
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			Emirati masajid you might have the
Israel flag to
		
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			they love Israel. But like, Is
that the question in Pakistani
		
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			flag? You have a Pakistan in
Pakistan masajid have the flag of
		
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			Pakistan. I don't see that that's
necessarily, you know, maybe it's
		
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			just simply a bit because it's
something that was never done
		
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			before. I don't know if there's a
reason to have that. But
		
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			I
		
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			allow them I never seen myself on
that before.
		
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			All right, Ryan, what you got?
Coming back to the murder? Yes.
		
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			What about this new age where
people memorize the Quran or
		
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			something unique like the mod can
be a service to
		
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			the mod can be a service, you
could say the mod your mod is I'll
		
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			take you to Hutch. Your mod is
I'll teach you flip. Your Mahara
		
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			is I'll teach you, for example.
		
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			Attention wheat, you all I'll
teach you to memorize suited
		
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			ramen. That's acceptable as a
Muhammad and the prophesy centum
		
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			said, The woman who is easy going
on the mother, right is the best.
		
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			But that doesn't mean that the
Father has to be easygoing. If
		
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			you're the dad, and you're dealing
with these guys, the status is no
		
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			different than when you deal with
with other certain things the
		
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			prophesy centum said you're guilty
until proven innocent. And that's
		
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			the way for the at least some
people don't know how to be a
		
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			Willie. If you're the Willie, like
you're the dad, and you have a
		
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			teenage daughter, the guy's guilty
until proven innocent. In the same
		
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			way, if you're going to hire
someone to work for you, he's he's
		
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			not working for you until he
proves himself. So how is marriage
		
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			just 10 times more important 100
times more important. So the guy's
		
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			guilty until proven innocent. So
it's the man who can the Willie
		
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			the father, who can demand the
mud, okay. And he does the talking
		
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			in that respect on these issues
that
		
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			would seem that they would get in
between the actual love, right
		
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			between
		
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			the actual love between you
because it's sort of odd when
		
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			you're like, Oh, we love each
other so much. Okay, but you need
		
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			to give me this much money. It's
odd. Marriage is a contract. But
		
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			pay attention very closely here.
It's Mevani, Allah al mukarram.
		
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			memorize these three words,
business, a business contract is
		
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			money, Alamosa, which means it's
established upon business is
		
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			established upon getting the most
out of the other guy, we all we
		
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			both know that we both come to the
table, we're not doing charity
		
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			here, I'm trying to make money.
And you're trying to make money.
		
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			And we can make both make money if
we work together. Right, but every
		
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			one, we understand you're going
for the most, and I'm going for
		
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			the most, I'm going to try to pay
the least. And you're going to try
		
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			to pay the least. And I'm going to
try to get the best out of the
		
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			contract. So that's the business
marriage is maybe a little more
		
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			karma. It is a contract,
		
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			a financial contract, and there's
a service element to the contract
		
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			too. But that element of the
contract, it's built upon Mikado
		
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			and massamba. For example, when
you read the thick of marriage,
		
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			what is a woman responsible for?
She's simply responsible for very
		
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			few things. But in everyday life,
every wife does 10,000 times more
		
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			than this, right? She's only
responsible to be physically
		
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			available to her husband, to Don't
let anyone in the house that he
		
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			doesn't like, don't go somewhere
he doesn't like, that's it. And if
		
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			there are kids, and he's out of
the house, then she's the shepherd
		
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			of those kids. Right? That's the
technical FIP is very little that
		
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			she owes, right.
		
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			But every wife does 1000 times
more than this. And that's why
		
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			when people say Oh, well, we need
to learn the field of marriage.
		
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			I'll give you some better advice.
Observe a happy marriage, and talk
		
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			a happy marriage of pious Muslims.
Observe them, see what they do and
		
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			see how they handle things.
Because that's the marriage in
		
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			action and 99% of the marriage is
not going to be something that's
		
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			in the marriage contract that goes
between you, husband and wife.
		
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			Okay. So it's built upon
forgiveness. It's built upon
		
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			generosity. That's what Mocha is.
So there is the element of the
		
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			contract, which is very important.
		
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			But that's that's only one stage.
The rest of the stages is a
		
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			completely different thing. And
it's 99% Psychology. Right, and
		
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			how to get along and how to
interact. And that's what makes
		
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			marriages succeed and fail.
		
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			All right, next question.
		
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			By the way, Instagrams, you could
put questions in the question box.
		
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			Oh, I already see some in the
question. So let me read one and
		
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			then and then we'll go back to you
Ryan. Lilly Shire. She says, As
		
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			Salam aleikum, what is meant by an
action is disliked by Allah. Why
		
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			are matters just halal and haram?
So she's
		
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			Asking Why is in some Why is there
the category of disliked mcru?
		
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			Like marriage a bugaboo holiday
Illallah a Talaq sorry divorce,
		
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			the most hated by Allah of the
halal It is the reason that the
		
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			prophets I said them made certain
things discouraged rather than
		
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			haram because it would be too much
right too many things that are
		
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			haram will be too much for you to
bear. So Allah's forgiveness is in
		
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			the category of Kata here. His
his, his expansiveness and his
		
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			forgiveness exists is found in the
category of discouragement.
		
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			Because discouraged, some people
say that it would the Prophet
		
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			wanted us to be haram. Right, but
out of ease for the people who
		
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			just made it discouraged. So if
you're tempted to do it, and you
		
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			leave it off, you get a reward for
that. But if you fall into it, and
		
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			you do it, there's no sin against
you. It's just something disliked.
		
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			So that's the approach. Alright,
Ryan, back to you.
		
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			Someone says, Is it okay for a
Muslim to feel sick and tired of
		
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			the dunya? Is it okay for a Muslim
to feel sick and tired of the
		
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			dunya? You don't want to go that
route where it's veiled laziness,
		
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			to be honest with you. But yes,
you can feel sick and tired of the
		
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			dunya. You can feel sick and tired
of people. I do it all the time.
		
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			Right? And so I shut my phone
down. I shut my phone down for
		
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			three days. Not my not this phone.
Where's my flip? See the flip? I
		
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			have to have all the time for
family. Right? And then some basic
		
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			colleagues that have to be in
touch with me at all times. And
		
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			it's my alarm clock too. Right? I
have to you have to have my the
		
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			flip. But this phone that I'm
streaming from, I shut that down
		
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			for three days. I don't hear
anyone's voice. I don't want to
		
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			see comments. I don't want to get
text messages complete. Shut it
		
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			down. Okay. Because if you have
too much going on into your brain,
		
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			you just get sick of it. You have
to renew yourself. Okay, you got
		
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			to you have to have times of the
day, like seven 8pm. Shut the
		
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			whole thing down weekend,
Saturday, try to shut it down most
		
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			as much as possible. Right?
vacation days, you have to shut
		
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			down and recharge yourself. But at
the same time, I'm just warning.
		
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			I'm not saying that this brother
said that. But there are some
		
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			people. All right, they talk a
good Zuid talk which is
		
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			asceticism,
		
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			but when I'm looking I don't see
asceticism I see laziness. Lazy.
		
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			For I'm I can only tell you what I
would tell my son, if my son came
		
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			in and say I'm in macam, zoo hood.
And I'm wrinkled wrinkled up No,
		
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			I'm not taking sa t courses. I'm
not taking extra courses in
		
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			college. I'm so good. Right? And
I'm just doing the dean.
		
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			Um, as an even as an imam in the
masjid. And as someone, we I loves
		
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			the hood, okay, I want to be as a
hit, I would not accept it. For
		
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			him. It's not good for your
future, you want to be as ahead.
		
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			This is not the time for me as a
head, this is a time for you to
		
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			learn a craft. I'm your dad, I
have to you have to make sure that
		
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			you learn some dunya you're going
to learn a craft it whatever thing
		
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			that you're going to earn with and
you're going to iron your clothes
		
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			because you got to be presentable
to the people, I'm looking at
		
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			something else. He may be like,
aka last I'm done with the dunya
		
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			you'll be done with the dunya I'm
looking at something else. There
		
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			are other families looking at you.
There are other people looking at
		
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			you. You're gonna have to get
married. You think that I was
		
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			ahead? One day, your body's going
to explode. You need to get
		
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			married someday. If you don't, I'm
gonna go pray tonight because and
		
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			worry, right? If you're not
interested in getting married, I'm
		
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			gonna worry to be honest with you.
So when you get married, there's
		
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			other people looking there's other
people thinking they're watching
		
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			you. You come to the messy with
flip flops and wrinkled clothes.
		
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			You're a slob. You're a loser. You
got no future? No dads out there
		
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			all think the same way moms think
the same way. Yes, there is
		
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			wonderful. But there's other parts
of life in Islam. And the
		
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			prophets. I said them. If you look
at his own, you find that there
		
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			are other elements of life related
to the deen that are extremely
		
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			important. And if you don't do
that stuff, if I don't look at
		
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			that as to a teenage kid, don't
volunteer him and let him sleep in
		
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			all day. What do you do, I'll just
go to the Holika in the masjid, in
		
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			sweats and spent all night chit
chatting with the brothers about
		
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			Islamic controversies right? And
then type in and having a fight on
		
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			Twitter, and then watching
YouTube's until three in the
		
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			morning. And this sleeping in
until 11am.
		
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			unaccepted is not happening. This
is not zoo hood. And I know many
		
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			people are into this. It's not so
good. You're lazy and you're
		
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			trying to put it on the dean. What
you need to do is learn a craft
		
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			study take classes. If you're
truly about the dean, then in your
		
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			other times split your time and
take classes in the other parts of
		
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			your time. All right. So that's
the way that life is. There's a
		
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			that's why I'm telling you don't
just go through the books. There's
		
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			there. There's
		
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			There is Dean but there's also
life how do they live? I went to
		
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			see his house I saw their sons
were educated. The biggest zoo had
		
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			Sufia all their kids are educated
and they can earn something
		
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			because there's a great harm in
being some miskeen fapy Okay, it's
		
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			not accepted
		
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			eylea Say it or say Eid. What
should we study alongside Quran
		
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			Hadith, you should study alQaeda.
You must study a class on start
		
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			with it's a how we and learn your
update a very well and learn the
		
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			names and attributes of Allah
subhana wa Sylviane 537 unrelated
		
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			topic. When should we expect the
next podcast?
		
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			Ryan, could you pencil it in next?
Next Monday? Sophie inside the
		
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			podcast oz. Can you come to that?
Safina Saudi podcast. We'll have
		
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			all the mics up, and we will be
ready to go. I'm telling you this
		
00:30:50 --> 00:30:52
			studio. You guys don't see it yet.
Because we haven't zoomed out for
		
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			a pic. We're 99% done. We're going
to be 100% done soon. Okay. All
		
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			right. We need these chandeliers
up. Okay. We're going to be 100%.
		
00:31:00 --> 00:31:05
			So, I'm telling you, when they see
this studio, when Alex and Wayne
		
00:31:05 --> 00:31:07
			and sad and NAS when they see the
studio, I won't be able to get
		
00:31:07 --> 00:31:11
			them out. Right, especially when
we put the fridge on the snack bar
		
00:31:11 --> 00:31:13
			or the snack area. We won't be
able to get him out. I'm gonna
		
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			just gonna leave.
		
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			All right, Ryan, what do you got a
question. Let's hear it
		
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			permissible prayer. Before can you
pray a shot before Fajr that is it
		
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			is valid, but you're going to be
sinful. You after half the night.
		
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			Delaying Phaedra pass after night
is sinful.
		
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			Okay, can't do that cannot delay I
shut behind half the night. So if
		
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			you're gonna plan to stay up late.
Okay, you do it. Tasneem says
		
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			advice on managing work life
balance. When it comes to
		
00:31:45 --> 00:31:48
			attaining knowledge. It's very
simple. You set yourself a certain
		
00:31:48 --> 00:31:51
			amount, a certain amount of time
		
00:31:52 --> 00:31:55
			of studying. Right? And then you
are a student of knowledge. If you
		
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			have decided upon a curriculum,
and you follow it systematically,
		
00:32:00 --> 00:32:02
			you're a student of knowledge.
Even if you study 20 minutes a
		
00:32:02 --> 00:32:03
			week.
		
00:32:04 --> 00:32:06
			You're going at a slower pace, but
you're a student of knowledge you
		
00:32:06 --> 00:32:10
			decided this is the curriculum.
These are the shoe these are the
		
00:32:10 --> 00:32:15
			books and you have a systematic
way of going about it. Right. Then
		
00:32:15 --> 00:32:18
			you are a student of knowledge
100%
		
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			All right, Ryan, what else you
got?
		
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			AK 5289 To shake Shadi. Just want
to say that I love you bro. Hello
		
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			ICWA who is this person? I love
him too. I don't know him but I
		
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			love him. What's wrong with that?
Mashallah, we have a good
		
00:32:37 --> 00:32:38
			question. Yes?
		
00:32:39 --> 00:32:44
			Yes. Is it okay? To have a mixing
as a youth event for high
		
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			schoolers, with music and other
activities in the vicinity of the
		
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			Masjid? Oh, the biller? Next
question. The answer that question
		
00:32:53 --> 00:32:57
			is Oh, the biller? Look, we all
try to be cool and everything with
		
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			with the youth. You're not gonna
get anywhere if you have something
		
00:33:01 --> 00:33:05
			that is just pleasing to Allah,
and something that resembles a
		
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			club and it's been tried before
you're not the first ones to do
		
00:33:08 --> 00:33:12
			it. Right. There's been tried
before. And yeah, a lot of people
		
00:33:12 --> 00:33:14
			came in, but what happened the
whole thing collapsed and blew up.
		
00:33:14 --> 00:33:18
			I've seen it. I'm not gonna say
names. I'm not saying names. They
		
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			did this before. The blew up, they
collapsed, had no tofield from
		
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			Allah to Allah. I like to say,
look, this is the dean, right?
		
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			This is this is how we do things.
And we should have everything
		
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			should have a separation in gender
at least by distance. Right? At
		
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			least by distance. Oh, they're not
gonna buy it. They're not gonna go
		
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			into it. They're not they won't do
it.
		
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			Listen, my job is not to cut
corners. I got to do something
		
00:33:43 --> 00:33:47
			that can last forever. I can't
fool them say okay, let's come and
		
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			do something. Haram. All right.
And that sneaking something of
		
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			Deen. That's not the that's just
not the way. Okay. I'm telling
		
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			you. It's just not the way a lot
of people, they they're trying
		
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			something, anything to get the
youth involved. But don't try
		
00:34:00 --> 00:34:03
			something that is going to have in
it something with disobedience in
		
00:34:03 --> 00:34:04
			it, right.
		
00:34:05 --> 00:34:07
			It's not going to work. It's not
the way of the Olia. It's not the
		
00:34:07 --> 00:34:11
			way the sleight of hand. And the
best way to get someone to touch
		
00:34:11 --> 00:34:15
			their heart is through Alak, not
through a bottle. It's through the
		
00:34:15 --> 00:34:18
			truth. You can touch people's
hearts through the truth. And
		
00:34:18 --> 00:34:22
			Allah knows best, but that's what
we do. I don't do any of those.
		
00:34:22 --> 00:34:24
			Now, sometimes there are there are
a bit mixed because we go on a
		
00:34:24 --> 00:34:27
			field trip, right? Yeah, that's
true. It happens. We go on a field
		
00:34:27 --> 00:34:30
			trip to New York. And we're all
walking sometimes. Yes, it gets a
		
00:34:30 --> 00:34:34
			little bit mixed up. Right?
Because we do we go to New York,
		
00:34:34 --> 00:34:38
			we went to a Sixers game, right?
Yes, the little bit, but they all
		
00:34:38 --> 00:34:42
			know and they have a general
concept that it's not supposed to
		
00:34:42 --> 00:34:45
			be mixed up, right? And you say,
Oh, they're all mixed up in
		
00:34:45 --> 00:34:49
			school. What do I have to do with
their schools? Right? Not my
		
00:34:49 --> 00:34:53
			business. My business is what I
control. Right. So and, you know,
		
00:34:53 --> 00:34:57
			that's, to me, that's the the
right way to do things.
		
00:34:59 --> 00:34:59
			Let me
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:03
			A LOOK AT THIS does that mean
video podcasts there will be video
		
00:35:03 --> 00:35:06
			podcasts not all the podcasts with
the guys will be videos because
		
00:35:06 --> 00:35:09
			there's a reason actually one of
our members, he's actually not
		
00:35:09 --> 00:35:13
			allowed for his work purposes, but
we will have a lot more video
		
00:35:13 --> 00:35:19
			podcasts. Nudge says what are mcru
things in Islam? I know divorce
		
00:35:19 --> 00:35:23
			mcru In Islam, there's a lot of
things that are micro It depends
		
00:35:23 --> 00:35:27
			what topic like Salah for example.
Let's say what's the mcru in will
		
00:35:27 --> 00:35:35
			do is to wastewater. What's mcru
and Salah is to recite a sutra and
		
00:35:35 --> 00:35:38
			then in the first and a second aka
you recite a sutra that came
		
00:35:38 --> 00:35:43
			before it in the Quran. So you're
not reciting it in the in the in
		
00:35:43 --> 00:35:47
			order. Okay, so that's Makoto
Makoto to look around. And so lots
		
00:35:47 --> 00:35:50
			of play around with your beard and
your hair in Salah. That's the
		
00:35:50 --> 00:35:54
			things that are makuu what's macro
and close that it'd be close to
		
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			tight. Of course, if it's if it's
like skin tight, like yoga pants,
		
00:35:59 --> 00:36:02
			we don't consider that close and
you're not dressed essentially.
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:07
			In an honest, you know, the most
disgusting thing is guys now wear
		
00:36:07 --> 00:36:12
			yoga pants. There's not there's
nothing more. I mean, I guess
		
00:36:12 --> 00:36:17
			that's the Kufa IRA for my sins
when I see that my sins are being
		
00:36:17 --> 00:36:21
			expunged from what I had seen a
woman in yoga pants. That's the
		
00:36:21 --> 00:36:22
			only way to interpret it right?
		
00:36:24 --> 00:36:27
			All right, what's the ruling of
fit hanging pictures up in the
		
00:36:27 --> 00:36:31
			family? It's my crew to put a
picture of some family stuff up
		
00:36:31 --> 00:36:34
			high, but it's okay to put it in
an album. Okay.
		
00:36:36 --> 00:36:39
			All right, one more from Tasneem.
And then we'll go to Ryan. Another
		
00:36:39 --> 00:36:41
			question. When it comes to
enjoying good forbidding evil,
		
00:36:41 --> 00:36:44
			what is the right approach? You
have to with hypersensitive
		
00:36:44 --> 00:36:48
			individuals, don't take it face on
with a hypersensitive individual,
		
00:36:48 --> 00:36:51
			they're going to feel attacked,
right? Go from the side, bring it
		
00:36:51 --> 00:36:56
			up lightly, gently, not relating
to them. But as a general point,
		
00:36:56 --> 00:36:57
			you can do that.
		
00:36:58 --> 00:37:02
			Okay, as a general point, drop it,
you know, like little facts here
		
00:37:02 --> 00:37:07
			about things. But not head on with
someone sensitive. Of course, if
		
00:37:07 --> 00:37:12
			it's your child, you're
responsible, right? And you can
		
00:37:12 --> 00:37:15
			speak to them head on, but you can
tuck it in with many other nice
		
00:37:15 --> 00:37:20
			things that will make them happy.
Right? So it's in a package. Okay.
		
00:37:22 --> 00:37:23
			All right, Ryan, what you got?
		
00:37:24 --> 00:37:28
			Is it more rewarding to give money
to family on non essential things?
		
00:37:28 --> 00:37:31
			Or to give money to the poor and
needed? No, we give money in the
		
00:37:31 --> 00:37:32
			poor and needy
		
00:37:33 --> 00:37:38
			100% 100%? Next question.
		
00:37:39 --> 00:37:43
			Would one be sinful for not
forgiving someone? No, you're not
		
00:37:43 --> 00:37:46
			obligated to forgive anybody. But
if you want to get forgiveness
		
00:37:46 --> 00:37:48
			from Allah, you should forgive
people.
		
00:37:51 --> 00:37:56
			What is the best way to help spark
Eman in our young adult children?
		
00:37:56 --> 00:37:59
			What is the best approach with
them? What's the best way to spark
		
00:37:59 --> 00:38:04
			the Eman in young adult children
and this is gonna go for adults
		
00:38:04 --> 00:38:06
			and children.
		
00:38:07 --> 00:38:13
			Even adults, it's the it's the
thing in this world, that if Allah
		
00:38:13 --> 00:38:14
			was to tell you,
		
00:38:15 --> 00:38:20
			you can have this thing. That is
what you would pay the price of
		
00:38:20 --> 00:38:24
			following everything in his law
and worshipping with complete
		
00:38:24 --> 00:38:27
			sincerity. You have to imagine the
deal. Someone comes up to you.
		
00:38:27 --> 00:38:30
			Okay, what are you doing wrong? I
do this wrong, this wrong and this
		
00:38:30 --> 00:38:34
			wrong? I and I don't do this
obligation and this obligation and
		
00:38:34 --> 00:38:39
			this obligation? Why don't you do
those because you're enjoy doing
		
00:38:39 --> 00:38:42
			these sins, and you don't want to
do these obligations? Human
		
00:38:42 --> 00:38:43
			nature, right?
		
00:38:44 --> 00:38:48
			So it's all goes back to what I
enjoy and what I hate. So we all
		
00:38:48 --> 00:38:52
			have a price. What is it that if
you were to sat down with an
		
00:38:52 --> 00:38:55
			angel, so I come representing
Allah, write down on a piece of
		
00:38:55 --> 00:39:01
			paper, what it would take for you
to leave off these sins and
		
00:39:01 --> 00:39:04
			fulfill this obligation. Now, you
might say, Oh, it's gonna take
		
00:39:04 --> 00:39:08
			something so be crazy and so big
that it's it's not realistic.
		
00:39:09 --> 00:39:12
			That's your problem. You think
there's a limit to Allah? subhanaw
		
00:39:12 --> 00:39:16
			taala. There's no limit, put it
down, write it down exactly what
		
00:39:17 --> 00:39:22
			it would take. Okay, exactly what
it would take that you would say,
		
00:39:22 --> 00:39:27
			yeah, oh, definitely. I will leave
off these since. Okay. Let's say a
		
00:39:27 --> 00:39:29
			lot of people, they listen to
music. And that's one of the later
		
00:39:29 --> 00:39:31
			things that people do wrong.
There's a lot of wrong things that
		
00:39:31 --> 00:39:34
			people do. There's a lot of sexual
problems through the phones, that
		
00:39:34 --> 00:39:38
			people have sins, that bliss is
just so happy that you've fallen
		
00:39:38 --> 00:39:41
			into and becoming addicted to,
let's just that's just the fact,
		
00:39:41 --> 00:39:42
			right.
		
00:39:43 --> 00:39:46
			We're human beings, we make
mistakes, we fall into sins, it
		
00:39:46 --> 00:39:46
			happens.
		
00:39:48 --> 00:39:51
			What is it that would take if
someone said to you, well, if you
		
00:39:51 --> 00:39:56
			could leave that off, we'll give
you $5 million. You'd leave it
		
00:39:56 --> 00:39:59
			off. I guarantee you, right? You
would leave it off.
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:02
			So this is the relationship we
have to have with Allah subhanaw
		
00:40:02 --> 00:40:05
			taala we must believe that he's
capable
		
00:40:07 --> 00:40:10
			of rewarding us in this life
before the next. So that's the
		
00:40:10 --> 00:40:14
			best dua the dua of what they
would like in this had to do it
		
00:40:14 --> 00:40:19
			before the next that would
motivate them to leave off sin and
		
00:40:19 --> 00:40:21
			do our obligations say and
obviously the best remembrance of
		
00:40:21 --> 00:40:23
			Allah is leaving off since.
		
00:40:24 --> 00:40:29
			Next question. Is it true
differences of opinion and nakita
		
00:40:29 --> 00:40:32
			like Ashley mentioned fit as well.
And that's really our equivalent
		
00:40:32 --> 00:40:37
			to the different schools of fic.
The schools of Updata in Islam are
		
00:40:37 --> 00:40:41
			the humbly shiny and metal at all
if you follow any of the one of
		
00:40:41 --> 00:40:44
			those schools Hanbury as shiny and
metallic if you want to humbly
		
00:40:44 --> 00:40:46
			school, you can go to
		
00:40:48 --> 00:40:53
			Instagram and madressa humbly or
true humbly creed on Instagram and
		
00:40:53 --> 00:40:55
			learn how many are created from
there. No problem.
		
00:40:56 --> 00:41:01
			Next question. Someone wants to
start praying so that'll Iraq when
		
00:41:01 --> 00:41:04
			the timeframe and what's the
intention for the will do when
		
00:41:04 --> 00:41:08
			they're making it for that? So
okay, so lots of Doha as an
		
00:41:08 --> 00:41:11
			instructor different things. Every
one of us loves money, right?
		
00:41:12 --> 00:41:15
			Nobody here wants to be poor. If
someone came up to you and gave
		
00:41:15 --> 00:41:20
			you $200 on the spot, you'd be
happy. Don't lie. Okay? A
		
00:41:20 --> 00:41:24
			millionaire if someone came up and
gave him five nice $100 bills,
		
00:41:24 --> 00:41:24
			he'd be happy.
		
00:41:25 --> 00:41:28
			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said Whoever prays
		
00:41:28 --> 00:41:32
			feathered and sits in his man sits
in the same spot until the sun
		
00:41:32 --> 00:41:36
			rises which is 20 minutes after it
shut up. remembering ALLAH SubhanA
		
00:41:36 --> 00:41:37
			wa Tada then he prays to lock us
		
00:41:39 --> 00:41:44
			that is faster in in earning
money. In Kesko risk which it is
		
00:41:44 --> 00:41:49
			broader than money. Then if he was
to go work Eastern west. So that's
		
00:41:49 --> 00:41:52
			look at the motivation Allah has
given us Allah knows we all want
		
00:41:52 --> 00:41:57
			is. We all need risk. Some people
say Oh, you, you like money so
		
00:41:57 --> 00:42:01
			much. It's not me who likes money.
Rutgers University needs money.
		
00:42:02 --> 00:42:06
			Nearly man school needs money. PSE
and G want my money. Alright.
		
00:42:07 --> 00:42:09
			northborough, brunswick township,
they want my money, they just
		
00:42:09 --> 00:42:14
			increased our taxes. These people,
they all want all my money. Okay,
		
00:42:14 --> 00:42:18
			my car company, they want my
money. They all want my money. I
		
00:42:18 --> 00:42:21
			need to give it to them. All
right, I need to earn money. So
		
00:42:21 --> 00:42:25
			customer risk. Don't look at it as
I'm being greedy. Look at it that
		
00:42:25 --> 00:42:29
			the world is expensive. Life is
expensive. You need that money. So
		
00:42:29 --> 00:42:33
			that's how you do it. That's
called it should up and it has so
		
00:42:33 --> 00:42:38
			much reward in it. And it's also
your Doha prayer to if you'd miss
		
00:42:38 --> 00:42:42
			that, let's just pray fetch and
fall asleep then you wake up as
		
00:42:42 --> 00:42:45
			long as it's before the hook. Then
you press a lot to Doha to raucous
		
00:42:45 --> 00:42:46
			for six or eight.
		
00:42:50 --> 00:42:54
			Next question, if I wronged
someone and seeking forgiveness or
		
00:42:54 --> 00:42:57
			correction for the matter with
them is not an option. What can
		
00:42:57 --> 00:43:01
			you do? If I've wronged someone
but I can't seek forgiveness. And
		
00:43:01 --> 00:43:04
			it's too late. It's happened
before a man came to me and I Bess
		
00:43:04 --> 00:43:09
			and he said I murdered somebody.
So if not best said go to your
		
00:43:09 --> 00:43:12
			family or tribe and collect the
deal. Okay.
		
00:43:14 --> 00:43:17
			Pay them to do the blood money. He
said, I don't even know who he is
		
00:43:17 --> 00:43:22
			because we were strangers. We were
strangers in the road. And then we
		
00:43:22 --> 00:43:25
			had a fight before I even knew his
name. I killed him.
		
00:43:27 --> 00:43:30
			It could happen they maybe they
thought that, you know they were
		
00:43:30 --> 00:43:34
			both antagonistic so he killed
them preemptively. He said don't
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:36
			make dua for him. He said I don't
even know his name, said that make
		
00:43:36 --> 00:43:40
			dua for him. Bucha *, but then
he said, Make dua for him just
		
00:43:40 --> 00:43:43
			like as the man I killed, but then
he said just go be good to your
		
00:43:43 --> 00:43:45
			mother that will wipe away your
sins. So that's how you wipe away
		
00:43:45 --> 00:43:46
			sins that you can make up.
		
00:43:50 --> 00:43:53
			Next question, someone is seeking
help because they suffer from
		
00:43:53 --> 00:43:58
			panic attacks OCD was was related
to the thoughts of blasphemy. It
		
00:43:58 --> 00:44:02
			consumes their energy and their
life. If, if it was one of those
		
00:44:02 --> 00:44:05
			things, I would advise you and I
will just say increase your
		
00:44:05 --> 00:44:08
			decrease, stay upon will do but if
it's all of these things, I sit I
		
00:44:08 --> 00:44:12
			would say seek professional
attention, professional medical
		
00:44:12 --> 00:44:15
			attention because if it's all of
those things, then it is a
		
00:44:15 --> 00:44:18
			professional thing that a person
needs professional medical
		
00:44:18 --> 00:44:18
			attention for that.
		
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			Let me read one from here. Junaid
says Please recommend a hello way
		
00:44:23 --> 00:44:25
			to get to know someone for
marriage and to what level
		
00:44:28 --> 00:44:31
			okay, if you're if you're if
you're a young family
		
00:44:33 --> 00:44:38
			there is value in having
invitations, dinner parties. And I
		
00:44:38 --> 00:44:39
			like the
		
00:44:41 --> 00:44:43
			the daisies have debits, right?
		
00:44:44 --> 00:44:47
			It's Dawa. It's an invitation
dinner party. We have these two in
		
00:44:47 --> 00:44:54
			the Arab culture when you do
those. Okay, then, oh, they said
		
00:44:54 --> 00:44:56
			they couldn't hear the questions
too. But we'll say the questions
		
00:44:56 --> 00:45:00
			louder next time. Because this two
streams go and there's this
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:02
			stream going for the all the other
platforms. And then there's the
		
00:45:02 --> 00:45:05
			Instagram stream, but Ryan's only
connected to the other platforms
		
00:45:05 --> 00:45:09
			not to Instagram, but I'll repeat
his questions. So those dinner
		
00:45:09 --> 00:45:11
			invitations, the value is for
people to see each other families
		
00:45:11 --> 00:45:14
			to see each other. So that when
it's time to get married, you
		
00:45:14 --> 00:45:18
			know, people, and not only that
your whole family knows them. If
		
00:45:18 --> 00:45:21
			you're past that, and that never
worked out for you, or you've
		
00:45:21 --> 00:45:25
			never had anything like that, then
the best place to go and meet
		
00:45:25 --> 00:45:29
			somebody is somewhere where, where
there's where there's knowledge,
		
00:45:30 --> 00:45:33
			like classes, going to class is
one of the best places to find
		
00:45:33 --> 00:45:36
			people because their priorities
are going to be similar. So that's
		
00:45:36 --> 00:45:40
			to me one of the best advices and
we had a couple marriages in our
		
00:45:40 --> 00:45:43
			masjid and with stuffiness aside,
which was which was really
		
00:45:43 --> 00:45:46
			exciting for the community to see.
And now they have kids.
		
00:45:48 --> 00:45:50
			So that's the answer to that
question. Let's take one more from
		
00:45:50 --> 00:45:53
			here then before we go back to
Ryan so let's go to
		
00:45:56 --> 00:45:58
			Triple H if we want to prepare for
REG.
		
00:46:00 --> 00:46:03
			Reg have is the time to make up
your old fasts and to start
		
00:46:03 --> 00:46:06
			fasting and also there are some
narrations even though some people
		
00:46:06 --> 00:46:09
			say they're weak but there are
narrations that relate to the
		
00:46:09 --> 00:46:14
			first the night before Rajib say
not to use to stay up and he said
		
00:46:14 --> 00:46:17
			that the door is accepted so I'm
going to take advantage of it
		
00:46:18 --> 00:46:22
			right you should take advantage of
that to the DUA is accepted and
		
00:46:22 --> 00:46:26
			that night I don't have the
narration in front of me but happy
		
00:46:26 --> 00:46:29
			Vamana teaches it and he doesn't
not going to propose promote a
		
00:46:29 --> 00:46:30
			fabricated narration
		
00:46:34 --> 00:46:37
			he did we could probably look at
it in the Masilela alright Ryan
		
00:46:37 --> 00:46:38
			Europe
		
00:46:39 --> 00:46:43
			is saying oh my god when you're
angry at someone is saying oh my
		
00:46:43 --> 00:46:46
			god when you're angry a sin? I
don't think it would be a sin
		
00:46:46 --> 00:46:49
			Manny maybe my crew he used
Allah's name in a way that's not
		
00:46:49 --> 00:46:50
			really, really
		
00:46:51 --> 00:46:52
			appropriate.
		
00:46:53 --> 00:46:57
			Let's go to favour fibromyalgia.
May Allah give you a shifa from
		
00:46:57 --> 00:47:02
			having Fibro myalgia and
rheumatoid arthritis, rheumatoid
		
00:47:02 --> 00:47:07
			arthritis? Arthritis can't even
say thank you for teaching. Please
		
00:47:07 --> 00:47:11
			advise how apostates should be
treated as if they don't exist.
		
00:47:12 --> 00:47:13
			It's true.
		
00:47:14 --> 00:47:18
			Right? Stay away from them.
They're going to be like a cancer
		
00:47:18 --> 00:47:23
			in your head. We have in this OMA
quality control, your Sahaba your
		
00:47:23 --> 00:47:28
			circles, right? A friend has to
have quality control. Right?
		
00:47:29 --> 00:47:33
			I can guarantee you and here's the
funny thing is that so many of our
		
00:47:33 --> 00:47:38
			Muslims, are we so liberal minded
now, right? If you become a Trump
		
00:47:38 --> 00:47:41
			supporter that cuts you off, but
if you become an apostate, we need
		
00:47:41 --> 00:47:42
			to discuss this.
		
00:47:43 --> 00:47:46
			We need to have Rama. But the guy
became a Trump supporter, you cut
		
00:47:46 --> 00:47:50
			him off. If he's anti Vax, you cut
them off completely. But if he
		
00:47:50 --> 00:47:55
			comes an innovator or something,
let's have a discussion about
		
00:47:55 --> 00:48:01
			this. Right? So it's the quality
control of your friend group. How
		
00:48:01 --> 00:48:03
			can I befriend someone who's
offended, offended a lot
		
00:48:03 --> 00:48:07
			knowingly. If he offended me
knowingly, I wouldn't befriend
		
00:48:07 --> 00:48:11
			him. And who am I? If he offended
my mom knowingly, I cut them off.
		
00:48:11 --> 00:48:15
			Right? What would NBC do if
somebody if one of their anchors
		
00:48:15 --> 00:48:19
			openly supported the January 6
rebellion or whatever they want to
		
00:48:19 --> 00:48:23
			call it and said, No, no, no, it
was just a peaceful march. And
		
00:48:23 --> 00:48:26
			some people got out and he'd be
fired, they would put a release
		
00:48:26 --> 00:48:30
			right away. We have severed all
ties within before two minutes
		
00:48:30 --> 00:48:37
			pass from his statement. And he'd
be done with. So are we promoting
		
00:48:37 --> 00:48:40
			division? No, we're promoting
quality control. I want quality
		
00:48:40 --> 00:48:44
			control on my friend group. I want
my friend group to be people who I
		
00:48:44 --> 00:48:49
			could trade their book on the Day
of Judgment. Right? If someone
		
00:48:49 --> 00:48:51
			said Would you trade his books,
your book of deeds from My Book of
		
00:48:51 --> 00:48:56
			deeds? If I say no, no, thank you.
Then why am I friends with you?
		
00:48:56 --> 00:48:59
			Now? If I wouldn't befriend you on
the Acura, right.
		
00:49:01 --> 00:49:02
			Why do I need to be your friend
now?
		
00:49:05 --> 00:49:06
			Tell me more.
		
00:49:09 --> 00:49:13
			How much time it takes for non
Arabic person to become a Maliki
		
00:49:13 --> 00:49:17
			scholar Mufti with ijazah. If you
study seriously for four years,
		
00:49:18 --> 00:49:21
			you can really learn a lot and you
could finish up to the reset of
		
00:49:21 --> 00:49:25
			Abizaid. In the medical method. We
study three introductory books,
		
00:49:25 --> 00:49:27
			you should finish that in a year.
If you study at least once a week,
		
00:49:28 --> 00:49:30
			and then resell that you can
finish that in a year if you study
		
00:49:30 --> 00:49:35
			once a week. So you're gonna start
with ashrama, Ouija, buddy, if an
		
00:49:35 --> 00:49:38
			asteroid that's intro, and then
reset, it's Abizaid that might
		
00:49:38 --> 00:49:41
			take you one or two years, you'll
be solid at the intermediate
		
00:49:41 --> 00:49:45
			level, you can teach people No,
all right, what you know, if you
		
00:49:45 --> 00:49:48
			want more than add a couple more
years to study, Accra and mosaddek
		
00:49:48 --> 00:49:51
			You're going to need a lot of
Arabic for that. That may take you
		
00:49:51 --> 00:49:51
			some time.
		
00:49:53 --> 00:49:54
			Ryan, go ahead.
		
00:49:55 --> 00:49:58
			Okay, related to the sick,
somebody as an American method,
		
00:49:58 --> 00:49:59
			one is allowed to make tea
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:04
			If making will do will take too
much time and solo and why is it
		
00:50:04 --> 00:50:08
			allowed if the Quran stipulates
otherwise, supposedly, in the
		
00:50:08 --> 00:50:12
			medical method if you're going to
miss the prayer, like like you cut
		
00:50:12 --> 00:50:16
			it so close them 11 is walking up
the steps to call the event and
		
00:50:16 --> 00:50:20
			you don't have to do and the water
is somewhere far away that you
		
00:50:20 --> 00:50:24
			can't make if you want to make
what do you'd miss the prayer then
		
00:50:24 --> 00:50:27
			you are then that is one of the
conditions of TMO preconditions
		
00:50:27 --> 00:50:32
			are met so you make you go out to
meet him and pray and get the
		
00:50:32 --> 00:50:37
			prayer before you lose the prayer.
Yeah that's that's how it is. Now
		
00:50:37 --> 00:50:40
			your sinful for delaying the
prayer that for that much
		
00:50:41 --> 00:50:46
			Shahida says animal as alcohol and
creams or any animal products
		
00:50:46 --> 00:50:49
			invalidate the sale and Salah does
not invalidate this Allah because
		
00:50:49 --> 00:50:54
			it will have evaporated and it
will have transformed anyway. So
		
00:50:54 --> 00:50:57
			in sha Allah should not invalidate
the salah. Why do we stand some
		
00:50:57 --> 00:51:00
			people stand when they recite
Salah on the prophet in the in the
		
00:51:00 --> 00:51:03
			masjid and that was a matter of
just showing respect for the
		
00:51:03 --> 00:51:08
			Prophet peace be upon him zikr and
mentioned have there any been
		
00:51:08 --> 00:51:11
			female prophets? No, we don't have
we don't hold that there were
		
00:51:11 --> 00:51:14
			female prophets. Medina is the
greatest woman and Allah described
		
00:51:14 --> 00:51:19
			as Siddiqa. Nebia and Allah
separates in the Quran between
		
00:51:19 --> 00:51:19
			Sydney and Nabil.
		
00:51:21 --> 00:51:22
			All right, let's see what else you
got. Right?
		
00:51:24 --> 00:51:27
			That's not all I can check. It
should have to be prayed in the
		
00:51:27 --> 00:51:30
			masjid if after praying fajr I
talk and chat with other
		
00:51:30 --> 00:51:32
			Mussolini's cola. So you're
talking shot with other
		
00:51:32 --> 00:51:36
			Mussolini's after feci saying this
rock parade in the masjid when I
		
00:51:36 --> 00:51:39
			chit chatted and had breakfast and
had a fight with all the other
		
00:51:39 --> 00:51:42
			Mossad leaves too late last you
ruined it. Don't do this sit in
		
00:51:42 --> 00:51:48
			your spot, don't talk to anybody.
Until it should up comes. And it
		
00:51:48 --> 00:51:51
			should up is when is fed, you're
out at 20 minutes, sit and don't
		
00:51:51 --> 00:51:53
			talk to anybody. Okay?
		
00:51:54 --> 00:51:58
			I'm telling you, there's a great
reward in this, right? You do
		
00:51:58 --> 00:52:01
			this? Then you pray to it. Because
then you could
		
00:52:02 --> 00:52:06
			talk and fight and eat and
whatever you want to do. Yaffa
		
00:52:06 --> 00:52:08
			says how can someone have a
wedding or ceremony that is
		
00:52:08 --> 00:52:09
			pleasing to Allah
		
00:52:11 --> 00:52:16
			don't have mixing, don't have a
lot of loud music. I'm saying this
		
00:52:16 --> 00:52:19
			if you can, because most people,
they don't control the wedding,
		
00:52:19 --> 00:52:24
			you marry people today, every
family is mixed. Every family is
		
00:52:24 --> 00:52:27
			mixed. So we have to talk about
this in the spirit of a forgiving
		
00:52:27 --> 00:52:32
			nature. But this is the ideal.
Okay, so that nobody says, Oh,
		
00:52:32 --> 00:52:35
			this is too much. We can never do
this and I feel isolated. No, in
		
00:52:35 --> 00:52:40
			the spirit of if you're capable,
then you avoid these things of the
		
00:52:40 --> 00:52:46
			types of music that is forbidden.
The mixing that is forbidden and
		
00:52:46 --> 00:52:50
			inviting only the rich and never
inviting the poor. And not having
		
00:52:50 --> 00:52:55
			a sawed off like excessive
spending. Right? Excess in the
		
00:52:55 --> 00:52:58
			spending. So you said for Sister
Yeah, but that's those are the
		
00:52:58 --> 00:53:01
			things that that's how you want to
do it. And for those who are
		
00:53:01 --> 00:53:05
			coming from not religious
backgrounds, or that their family
		
00:53:05 --> 00:53:09
			doesn't, they don't do I know
people were so good. Their family
		
00:53:09 --> 00:53:12
			have nothing to do with the dean.
So um, we have to say this in the
		
00:53:12 --> 00:53:16
			spirit of if you're capable. And
if you're not, and let's say
		
00:53:16 --> 00:53:19
			you're gonna get married and your
mother insisted up and down, this
		
00:53:19 --> 00:53:22
			is how the wedding is going to be
what is the girl going to do? So
		
00:53:22 --> 00:53:24
			we have to be understanding that
some people are at different
		
00:53:24 --> 00:53:27
			situations. And at the same time,
we have to understand that there
		
00:53:27 --> 00:53:31
			is an ideal in our religion, okay,
your situation does not become the
		
00:53:31 --> 00:53:36
			ideal. And the ideal should not be
promoted without a sense that some
		
00:53:36 --> 00:53:42
			people are not able to fulfill it
out of inability, not malice. And
		
00:53:42 --> 00:53:43
			we have to have that.
		
00:53:45 --> 00:53:49
			We have to have that idea. manure,
Faisal says Are they recorded? The
		
00:53:49 --> 00:53:56
			answer is yes. On on Instagram, on
YouTube, on Facebook, on Twitter,
		
00:53:57 --> 00:53:59
			you can find them all and we're
going to start uploading them as
		
00:53:59 --> 00:54:02
			audio in the podcast. So you get
on your phone does the audio part
		
00:54:04 --> 00:54:08
			Megalon Can you explain when if
method rulings can or cannot be
		
00:54:08 --> 00:54:11
			mixed? They should never be mixed.
If you follow a method if you're a
		
00:54:11 --> 00:54:13
			student of knowledge and you have
selected a method and you follow a
		
00:54:13 --> 00:54:19
			method don't mix. Unless there is
a situation that is impossible in
		
00:54:19 --> 00:54:23
			your method. Like what? Like a
chef he he converts to Islam.
		
00:54:24 --> 00:54:28
			Right. He's becomes a chef a and
his mother he lives with his mom
		
00:54:28 --> 00:54:33
			and she has a dog. He has to take
the medical ruling on the saliva
		
00:54:33 --> 00:54:37
			of the dog not being not just
Ryan, what do you got?
		
00:54:39 --> 00:54:43
			What is our approach to tech food?
What's our approach to to Korea?
		
00:54:43 --> 00:54:46
			You do it very cautiously but if
it needs to be done, it needs to
		
00:54:46 --> 00:54:50
			be done. And we in the murky
mother we are allowed to say so
		
00:54:50 --> 00:54:54
			and so has committed to Kofi Annan
is not a Muslim anymore. If you
		
00:54:54 --> 00:54:58
			see a guy bowing to an idol,
right? But what we say is that we
		
00:54:58 --> 00:54:59
			can't do anything about it. We
		
00:55:00 --> 00:55:03
			Kanika I can't execute the guy,
for example, I can't take him and
		
00:55:03 --> 00:55:07
			say, put him in jail, I can't take
him into the basement, right? Like
		
00:55:07 --> 00:55:11
			some movie and lock him up and
tape them up to a chair and give
		
00:55:11 --> 00:55:15
			him a sitejabber No, only the
judge can do that. But what I can
		
00:55:15 --> 00:55:19
			do is, Oh, this guy worship is a
good another God. This guy, you
		
00:55:19 --> 00:55:21
			know, does all this cool photo.
		
00:55:22 --> 00:55:25
			Okay, and he doesn't believe in
this battery. either. He believes
		
00:55:25 --> 00:55:29
			in another prophet, or he believes
something, some nonsense, then I
		
00:55:29 --> 00:55:30
			stay away from him. That's it.
		
00:55:31 --> 00:55:35
			Right? So should he follow Dean
says,
		
00:55:37 --> 00:55:41
			I've heard it claimed that this is
not allowed, but as a fake. This
		
00:55:41 --> 00:55:45
			is or but as far as I know, this
is only in relation to the
		
00:55:45 --> 00:55:46
			essentials.
		
00:55:48 --> 00:55:50
			The previous question, what are
the positions? I just don't know
		
00:55:50 --> 00:55:55
			when it comes to the majority of
knowledge? Or Bidda hasna Yes,
		
00:55:55 --> 00:56:01
			mudra. That means that if if you
read in a book, a chef says do
		
00:56:01 --> 00:56:06
			this thicker. As I did it, and my
daughter was answered, we say
		
00:56:06 --> 00:56:08
			you're allowed to do that.
		
00:56:09 --> 00:56:14
			As long as it does not replace the
Sunnah. So someone says to you
		
00:56:14 --> 00:56:18
			that if you recite this and this
and this before mocking them on
		
00:56:18 --> 00:56:19
			Friday,
		
00:56:20 --> 00:56:21
			oh, charge it.
		
00:56:23 --> 00:56:23
			Here
		
00:56:25 --> 00:56:27
			sorry about that. I didn't give
you this earlier.
		
00:56:29 --> 00:56:32
			But you can say okay, I'll do that
instead of suited KEF or instead
		
00:56:32 --> 00:56:35
			of the prophetic prayers, no, it
does not
		
00:56:37 --> 00:56:42
			displace the sun. Okay, and it
does not have the same level of
		
00:56:42 --> 00:56:46
			Yaqeen you don't hold it at the
same level. You can have Yaqeen in
		
00:56:46 --> 00:56:49
			it. I trust this will Lee and this
scholar and I believe in it, but
		
00:56:49 --> 00:56:53
			you could have the same level of a
strong Yaqeen but not the same as
		
00:56:53 --> 00:56:56
			the Sunnah. The Sunnah there's no
doubt about the promises of Allah
		
00:56:56 --> 00:57:01
			there's no doubt about it. Cut the
the other promises, maybe honey
		
00:57:01 --> 00:57:05
			bunnies speculum Yianni less
absolute, but we can still believe
		
00:57:05 --> 00:57:06
			in it. And do it.
		
00:57:08 --> 00:57:12
			Mauro Blanco says is Welsh, the
Sunnah the answer is yes. The
		
00:57:12 --> 00:57:16
			Sunnah of recitation to recite the
what the prophet recited. And
		
00:57:16 --> 00:57:21
			Quraysh is what we now call wash.
So you should learn that if you
		
00:57:21 --> 00:57:21
			can.
		
00:57:24 --> 00:57:27
			And what else we got? We only got
a few minutes left, unfortunately,
		
00:57:27 --> 00:57:30
			are all the different schools
about the EDA due to new
		
00:57:30 --> 00:57:35
			questions, the answer is yes.
Because of questions that came up
		
00:57:35 --> 00:57:38
			after the sahaba. So they say how
was it sunnah to have these
		
00:57:38 --> 00:57:41
			beliefs? Because based on the
methodology of the companions,
		
00:57:41 --> 00:57:45
			that's what they would have done.
Based upon their methodology, they
		
00:57:45 --> 00:57:48
			would have answered the question.
Okay. That's why we say that this
		
00:57:48 --> 00:57:52
			is actually Sunday, even though
these these things, and these
		
00:57:52 --> 00:57:56
			debates and these arguments didn't
come up in their time, but so half
		
00:57:56 --> 00:58:00
			the fit out of 15 it come up in
their time. So we say that this is
		
00:58:00 --> 00:58:02
			what they would have done, they
would have answered the question.
		
00:58:02 --> 00:58:05
			There's no doubt about that. When
there was a problem and all the
		
00:58:05 --> 00:58:07
			whole father of Quran were dying,
said no, I'm gonna solve the
		
00:58:07 --> 00:58:11
			problem with something that didn't
exist in the time of the Prophet
		
00:58:11 --> 00:58:14
			peace be upon him. So we would
have that that's what the Saba
		
00:58:14 --> 00:58:15
			would have done.
		
00:58:16 --> 00:58:20
			All right, next, Ryan, let's say
two from you. Some of these MSA
		
00:58:20 --> 00:58:24
			presidents and other religious
guys get contacted by sisters who
		
00:58:24 --> 00:58:27
			have questions about the deen and
personal matters. How does the
		
00:58:27 --> 00:58:33
			brother navigate this? Personally
speaking, I really think that
		
00:58:35 --> 00:58:39
			whenever there's a communication
and some people are going to say,
		
00:58:39 --> 00:58:43
			Oh, this is so there's not going
to work. You asked me I'm telling
		
00:58:43 --> 00:58:46
			you the answer the communication
between a brother and sister as
		
00:58:46 --> 00:58:49
			much as possible. It shouldn't be.
		
00:58:50 --> 00:58:53
			There should be a third person on
that. And it should only be by
		
00:58:53 --> 00:58:59
			necessity for example, just as a
disclaimer I got there like five
		
00:58:59 --> 00:59:03
			people who see who have access to
all my social media accounts.
		
00:59:04 --> 00:59:04
			Right.
		
00:59:06 --> 00:59:09
			There may they might not go on it
but they have access to it. For
		
00:59:09 --> 00:59:14
			example, anyone could pick up
anyone in my family's my wife for
		
00:59:14 --> 00:59:17
			example, she has access she
doesn't always go on it but she
		
00:59:17 --> 00:59:20
			could if she wanted to. She could
on her phone it's right there. So
		
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			that there's not a such a privacy
that is could lead to something
		
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			that is discouraged or something
that's Haram
		
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			is a macro to close your eyes in
the Salah. Yes, it is the only
		
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			time it's allowed for you to shut
your eyes in the prayer is if
		
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			there's something that's
distracting you.
		
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			Alright, Ryan, what else you got?
If I have to wake up and sleep
		
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			early, and set my alarm clock but
I don't wake up. Is it still a sin
		
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			that I didn't wake up? No. If you
set it the question is I tried
		
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			tried to wake up professor but I
failed. I set my alarm and
		
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			everything but I felt you're not
sinful at that point. If you
		
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			tried, but you failed you're not
sinful.
		
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			All right, let's take one more
		
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			Are there any conditions when
caught the wrong? Me is allowed or
		
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			even recommended? Are there any
conditions to cut off family ties?
		
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			The answer to that is that yes,
then we never cut off family ties
		
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			but you are allowed to avoid harm.
Okay. Again, let me repeat that
		
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			you don't
		
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			you don't cut off your family ties
but you're allowed to avoid harm
		
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			and you can cut them off if they
have past data, they joined some
		
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			sect you can cut them off. But the
mainly are they becoming you know,
		
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			they they promote something sinful
without any shame you couldn't you
		
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			can cut them off. But the concept
and idea that avoiding harm you're
		
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			allowed to avoid harm, so I'm not
gonna go to his house. I'm gonna
		
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			barely give him the bare minimum
of what's necessary fine.
		
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			Other than that, I will cut him
off or I won't go that's fine. So
		
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			it's those are the conditions
they're harming you. They become a
		
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			moped they become monitored things
like that, folks, let's close this
		
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			out with the DoD Bismillah R
Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu lillahi
		
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			rabbil aalameen Allahumma salli wa
barik ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa
		
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			ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam
Taslima Allahumma Salli Salatin
		
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			Camela wa salam Salam and Turman
ala Sayidina Muhammad, Allah
		
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			Deaton Hello Bill orchids what's
unfinished will be queued up
		
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			what's up Dobby edge what you know
it'll be a while still hurt him.
		
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			We still have Mr. movie when she'd
carry him while early he was alarm
		
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			had been in an email no is a you
know Fiocco lubaina or correllian
		
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			of COFRA fosu cavalletti and we
ask Allah to Allah to place and
		
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			all of our love of Iman and a love
of deen and make it sweet inside
		
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			of our hearts and make deviation
and disobedience bitter and
		
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			distasteful to our hearts. We ask
Allah subhanaw taala for all our
		
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			youth that he make them love, Amen
and hey, Cofer, and make them love
		
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			obedience and TA and hate
disobedience and Marcia and sins,
		
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			we ask Allah to Allah to always
keep us in his remembrance and
		
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			always keep us in his da into in a
state of DA and we ask Allah to
		
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			Allah to answer our dua. And we
ask Allah subhana wa Tada to keep
		
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			us upon 200 and recitation of
Quran and sulla on the messenger
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa salam, we ask
Allah to Allah for abundance. It
		
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			is that is Khaled. We ask Allah to
Allah if our risk is in the
		
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			heavens, then bring it down. If
our oldest is in the earth, then
		
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			bring it up. If our it is
difficult to attain that make it
		
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			easy. If our it is this far, then
bring it near. If our risk is
		
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			haram, then purified. If our risk
is little, then increase it. If
		
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			our it is non existent, then make
it exist. If our risk is stopped,
		
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			then make it flow. If our risk is
stalled, then make it move. If our
		
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			risk is a sin, then forgive it. If
it's an error, then wipe it away.
		
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			If it's a mistake, then overlook
it. And if it's difficult, then
		
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			make it easy and bless all of our
risk and make it the good risk in
		
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			the hands of a good person as a
prophesy. centum said in metal
		
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			sada fie the Roger de Sala We ask
Allah subhanaw taala for our
		
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			parents that he gives them genital
for a dose without any hisab We
		
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			ask Allah to Allah for our
children, Allah Masha sudo Rahim,
		
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			Lil Islam make them make their
hearts love the deen of Islam. We
		
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			ask Allah subhana wa Tada for
hosting and cloudsim up. Well my
		
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			Sorocaba Rasul We ask Allah for a
good ending and what makes the
		
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			heart of his messenger sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam happy and pleased
		
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			with us we ask Allah to Allah that
all of our dua be answered in a
		
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			way that pleases Him. Ask Allah to
Allah for all those secret desires
		
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			that we have inside of our hearts
from your father, that you answer
		
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			them. In this blessed moment of
Wednesday between $1 and us, we
		
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			ask Allah to Allah that He
answered those dua in a way that
		
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			is pleasing to Him that is good
for us in this world. And then in
		
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			that in the next Lastly, we ask
that Allah makes none more beloved
		
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			to us than his most beloved SADES
incarnate say that Muhammad
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
Subhanallah Baker believes that
		
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			yeah, meiosis one was more said
you know Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil
		
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			Alameen wa