Shadee Elmasry – Making People Feel Left Out

			And also there's another type of
justice or spying that occurs. And
		

			that is you're sitting in the
masjid or at a house or something,
		

			and you hear two people talking,
and you intentionally, you know,
		

			stay put and keep listening. And
you hope maybe you'll get some
		

			information, maybe we'll get some
juicy details of what's going on.
		

			This is a type of to justice or
spying that is prohibited. Now,
		

			mind you that we have in our
religion,
		

			etiquette and manners on how to
talk in public and how to talk in
		

			private. When you are in public.
If you're in any public room, you
		

			should not be speaking of private
matters, because you should expect
		

			that anyone can show up and just
join the table, sit on the table,
		

			and sit with you guys. Okay, and
enter the conversation. Now, if
		

			you say if you all get silent, as
soon as someone walks in, have you
		

			ever had that experience, you're
sitting with a group of guys,
		

			okay, you're sitting with a group
of guys or what have you. And then
		

			all of a sudden, someone shows up
or you you show up, and then all
		

			of a sudden everyone goes silent,
and it gets really awkward. Well,
		

			this is highly, highly
discouraged, and it bad manners.
		

			And it's called this is even
counts as other an ever any hurt
		

			feeling of a Muslim, okay, is
considered a minor sin. So even if
		

			it's that minor, literally. So if
you're in public, you should not
		

			be engaging in a private
conversation. If you want to
		

			engage in a private conversation,
you have to make it clear that
		

			it's private by going somewhere
else, far away from people.
		

			Because anytime you have a private
conversation in the midst of
		

			people in a large group, the large
group will naturally think that
		

			something's odd is happening or
like you're talking about them.
		

			Likewise, if there are a group of
people that speak a language, and
		

			not everyone else does, those two
people should not
		

			talk should not speak in that
language, or else everyone else
		

			will think they're talking about
them. Okay? Especially if there's
		

			three people and two people all of
a sudden break out in order to
		

			what I mean, I see this all the
time. I'm like, What do you have,
		

			you know, o'clock at all? Okay,
I'm going to start learning what
		

			to do. Okay, in that case, so
don't do this. And Arabs do it
		

			too. Alright. Not like everyone
does it right, that you start
		

			talking in this in your own
language, and you're leaving a
		

			third person out and why do we
have to say this because in
		

			America, you get five Muslims,
you're gonna have three or four
		

			nationalities right there, right?
You get four or five Muslims and
		

			you're gonna have different
nationalities even you might get
		

			all Americans but they have their
own little cultures subcultures
		

			within being American. And if
you're in a small group, you
		

			should not we should be cognizant
of making anyone feel left out.
		

			Okay? Being anyone feel left out
and if we're doing this
		

			accidentally May Allah forgive us.