Shadee Elmasry – Lebanon + Haniyeh & Australia Recap – NBF 358

Shadee Elmasry
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hamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah early here was

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sahbihi wa Manuela welcome everybody to the Safina society

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nothing but facts live stream. After a long hiatus, the longest

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we've ever had main reason for either the Australia trip and then

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our usual summer break, we always take a summer break. But this time

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we had a one and a half week Australia trip right before that,

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and we had read before that right so but here we are, we're back and

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we're ready to go. And we are.

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As you can see gorgeous new backgrounds. Thanks to a lot of

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people here and thanks to the people who selected all the stuff

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and put it all together and gave us a palm tree theme, which is

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basically what you know connects our Safina or Safina is an arc

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people some people don't know that and they don't wonder why you

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always putting an arc and they're seagulls and because the Safina is

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an arc it's the word Safina refers to an arc or translates in Arabic

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as an arc. We're gonna start with the serious stuff first, and then

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shift down to the recap not down Well, I guess down under to the

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recap of the Australia trip. Right. I'm hosted here by all my

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behind the

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all my behind the

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at the helm. We got Bay Area, high tech Silicon Valley to my right,

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who was solving lighting problems earlier today. MashAllah on him.

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We got Ali the barista

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who is also the head of La Casina. He runs the soup kitchen now.

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And we got the Cinco ah. All right, how half is Hamza Hussein,

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Al Hanafi al Hyderabadi. We got the Cinco which you might all know

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him as Hamza Hussain, in the chat room, or in the chat area, what do

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they call it? Chat Room chat area, the chat, just the chat. Okay. So

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you all see him there all the time. He has a whole saying, well,

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the Hamza Hussein is here in the studio. First, first time in

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Jersey. First time, first time in the state of New Jersey. Okay, so

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Masha Allah sees here in the studio, and it's great to have him

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here. So let's get to the serious stuff right away.

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So like everything went down while we were off, so much crazy stuff

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from the assassination two from the one assassination attempt to

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the successful assassination. Right. So the Trump assassination

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attempt, which has sent some rabbis in a crazy frenzy, because

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they have a verse in the Bible, stating that the Messiah, the

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chosen Messiah, of Israel, the Messiah of Israel does not have to

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be a Jew. I guess they're working things backwards, since the

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Persian

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ruler of Persia, the Khosrow. So what do they cover the column of

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Persia? Who's a good king, at that time? remember his name? No, of

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Persia at the time. He's the one who freed them from the Babylonian

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captivity.

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At the end of the 100 years that Hosea

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lived and died in the Quran, there's Isaiah. He went from the

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Babylonian captivity. He went down to Jerusalem. Cyrus became ruler

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and a

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Jose woke up and found Jerusalem. Beautiful. From from it was

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nothing to be beautiful. He brought back Cyrus brought the

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Jews back the Benyus rate from Yeah, he ruled over at up to so

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the Babylonian captivity.

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They were freed from that by Cyrus which forced them to actually say

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hold on messiahs could not be juice.

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And now they're going crazy because there is a verse in the

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Bible says the Messiah will have will be anointed and marked by

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piercing his right ear.

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So they went nuts when Trump got his right ear grace. Now I got a

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question. I gotta be honest with you.

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If an AR 15 Bullet gets your right ear, either it grieves you by

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millimeters Gray's just to grace. Okay? If it pierced your ear, if

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it hits your arrow blow your whole year off, right? So either it was

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literally a grace, like literally just a grace, or it was shrapnel

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it hits something else. And then something else hit him. That's

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can't be sure. What could hit something else? piece of wood.

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piece of plastic.

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It's true.

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So but it has to be very small Gray's. Anyway.

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So we started off with that. And we ended up with it's made hernias

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assassination in Iran. How did that happened? How to suddenly a

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country that is so locked down.

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Alright, get breached in this manner. raises your questions at

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all. We're gonna get his questions. Okay. Not gonna get any

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answers.

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Secondly,

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he was in Turkey who was in Qatar. They couldn't get to him.

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How can you not get to him in Turkey or Qatar? Turkey is like

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swimming in political espionage and all that.

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But let me all say that let me say some an analysis that may not be

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very popular, but I think it's a good analysis.

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Netanyahu

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he did a couple of things in a very short period of time. Number

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one, his US trip

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showed Israel that it was meant to show Israelis that he has full

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support. And this thing must have been orchestrated to give him an

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applause every half sentence that he makes right he got in there

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half a sentence applause have his hands plus, the American president

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will not get this who actually have to say something substantive.

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And then he'll get half the audience applause

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good does the whole thing is

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there is like a puppet master Alright, came to see his his his

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the guys who receive His payouts. So any force reassurances and buy

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in from the US at this time got and he got that he got that full

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by and full Republican Party as many Israeli flags as American

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flags at the RNC. I'm not we're not we're not a political

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commentary show. But this so crazy, you have to talk about it.

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It's like you're living under a rock, if you don't talk about,

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and we're gonna get to the Australia trip, we're gonna get to

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actually teeny segments, and most importantly, we're gonna get to

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the draw of Wednesday.

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Then, right after that he went after a target in Lebanon,

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that the US had beef with the US had beef with those targets

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that were accused of previous attacks on the US, which is meant

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to sort of signal that, you know, we're together in this what

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bothers you bothers me, you're they attacked you, we're gonna

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attack them.

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Because they're always attacked, as they're always viewed as only

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the recipients.

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And I asked that previous question, how many Israeli

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soldiers were ever in the Iraq war, or in the Afghan war? When

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Netanyahu 2002, he's the one who lobbied for that Iraq war, but

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said nothing.

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And then he went to Iran.

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And that breach in Iran, also as a message must be a message to

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Iranians, if we can get to Kenya in your country, we can get to

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other people too.

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All right.

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As a result of this,

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all right, the war crime talk is now going to recede because Iran

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may likely they have to have some kind of response. And once Iran

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responds, that's it, all the narrative shifts now, back so he

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wants to go them into something either one of two things. Either

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he's able to say I did it and nothing happens. Or

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he gets a reaction, and then the whole world stage turns to the

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reaction. So you have to say that

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those are good chess moves.

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in the political world that we're living in, it's right here you got

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to keep in mind.

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He lost three sons on aid. And I believe two grandsons in an era

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and an attack on a home, in which they said they're his sons were

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there. So these Palestinian people in Gaza,

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they are experiencing some they're their personalities, their hearts,

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their Imen gonna be categorically different tours,

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categorically different tours.

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It's not they're dying in an earthquake, which would have been

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bad you lose like 10 members of your family earthquake, that's a

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tough test. No, you're being killed loaded men and all Duan and

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none of your neighbors are standing up for it. Well, let me

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also say this.

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So Vincent man has power. He's, he forces or sort of forces American

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presidents to come to him every year. He had that warm and fuzzy

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meeting with the Chinese

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counterparts in China. Well, what was that? That's basically saying,

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hey, America, I'll be friends with China. If you don't act properly.

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If you're able to talk to the United States like that, then I

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can only people can only surmise that the reason that there's zero

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response to Israel, so you don't want to right, still want.

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So

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that's a quick summary. Now what else about the

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what else about the

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news that we miss? What were What did you say best? Did you say

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something?

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You said

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the visit Netanyahu is visit here. We've made so many people so

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disgusted. And let me tell you about. One of the best analysis I

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heard is that when Netanyahu came, Washington started to look like

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the West Bank.

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It was all garden all police. Right? This, America started look

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like that when he came here.

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In the meantime, when we were off, we also saw that Kentucky elected

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two senators, Senators Massey, and, Paul,

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they don't want much funding anymore to go to Israel.

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Candace Owens is totally on fire. And her base is the Republican

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base. And she's all about why we're sending money to Israel. So

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it seems to me that the best analysis is that the Republican

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Party is moved mainly by donors, not by their voter base. I mean,

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we know that right. But it's it's the donors. Now the voters may

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follow and imitate what they're being told to do. But I would say

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that they're most Republicans,

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regular people, they're in need. They're not doing so well. Why our

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money going overseas, have the Democrats

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at did avoided Netanyahu speak or they boycotted Netanyahu speech.

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And it was Rashida to leave was only one who stayed there. And I

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will have to say, as much as I don't like to say anything good

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about her what was a good thing that she did, like she had courage

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at least to stand with her sign at every moment, all alone,

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surrounded by how many was was it joined? Or just Congress was just

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Congress? Right? Just congress and senate. Okay, as both but and you

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surrounded? That takes a lot. I mean, not only that, you got to

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walk in, you got to walk out and you're gonna get glares. So that

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does take some courage, we have to admit that and

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everyone else boycotted. But the fact that half about half of the

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Democrats boycotted

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that speech. On top of that, Harris, which another person that

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we don't say something good about, but she's just say something good,

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which she distanced herself from the genocide that's going on said

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we have to end it. Right after her meeting with Netanyahu, it's

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showing that there are some cracks in the system here. Right. It's no

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longer as unilateral as we thought. And we got to pay more

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attention. We got to give more attention and focus towards those

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people who are talking about and then this aid, and then this

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genocide, right, because clearly, they have some degree of

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independence. They're not totally played with also listen to an

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interview with a human rights. Someone who worked

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in the government as a worker, not an elected official, and had a was

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part of the delegation that all resigned

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and she was saying that she works in in human rights and anytime

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that they're working on a document where it had anything critical of

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Israel.

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It got to Nope. I think we need to take this off. I need to we need

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to do so.

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Latest language, or sometimes completely deleted, right? We

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deleted

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also. So we're gonna see what's going to happen now with Iran. And

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I really think that in the next five years, there's got to be

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they're gonna go to war with Iran. They gotta go with someone came up

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with a theory that could possibly be true that the Hania they was

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given up to de escalate the Iran thing, to at least give Netanyahu

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something to say he needs some to say is his country is is 75%

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against him. So represent are against they want him to resign?

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Not because of the genocide, they're fine with the genocide

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that October 7 happened to begin with, and that he wasn't able to

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win this war.

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Like you didn't get

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your hostages back.

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The world's is turned on you

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allege it, quote unquote, anti semitic, which is mostly probably

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90% is not anti semitic is just truth.

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anti semitic truths. So we call them that anti semitic truths are

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through the roof.

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Right.

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So in what way, did you win this war? Right?

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In what way? Did you win the war?

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You lost if you didn't win the war, then you lost the war?

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There's no other way. Right? You didn't tie?

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I would say that.

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The losses that the Palestinians faced?

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Maybe that's the only reason you're gonna say we can't say that

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they want Hamas won the war, whether they face losses that are

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insane. What's the number at now?

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Since reaching into the 50s, how about the polio is now becoming

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the World Health Organization put out that Polio is becoming

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rampant. And again, in Gaza. This is a sickness that you wouldn't

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ever want to see come near your family again.

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And a lot of people who are against vaccines, you know, people

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have their own opinion, but that's a pretty good thing that vaccines

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did, right? Why was polio eliminated?

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Do people understand what polio causes? Right? Maybe some people

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don't really be spent so long and you've never met anyone with

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polio. So let's give everyone a quick

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summary of what

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what polio does to people so people don't realize that this is

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polio, the polio virus destroys nerve cells in the spinal cord,

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resulting in paralysis, you want your child to be paralyzed. So we

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eradicated the sickness.

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Through Vax vaccinations, well, now that of course they don't have

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access to anything.

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All right, it's transmitted through contaminated water.

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You come in food contact and there we know that they're drinking from

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puddles. We know that the kids and

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in the cars are now wherever there they are. Okay. As chocolate

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wallet tells us that the unofficial count is in the 90s

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than the 90s.

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It was so low in the world, nobody used get polio. Never hear about

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it.

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20. Yeah. All you hear about it is that there was an American

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president who had it, who was what's his face? FDR. Roosevelt

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had it.

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So Polio is now on the rise in the Gaza. Because of this. This is

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that's not a it's not like a war crime.

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Right. It's a total war crime.

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All right.

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Another thing I wanted to mention was,

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in 3040 years, or less than that, where are all these American

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politicians who are cheering on Israel? Because of how much they

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received?

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How much money they receive for their campaign? Where are they

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going to be in 20 years when all the documentaries come out? All

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the facts come out, right.

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Yeah. And you mentioned Nuremberg, and he mentioned 90k. I don't want

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to say something.

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That's so off the wall.

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But it's been painted as off the wall.

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6 million is not the right number.

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Talk about Nuremberg and the Holocaust. That is not close to

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that number. Okay, it's not close. Because the guy literally did the

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math on how much time it would take from the day one of the war

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to the end of the war, which this not when the killing was

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happening, killing us, interspersed in between, but let's

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say and let's say hypothetically, they worked 24 hours a day.

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Yeah, yeah. And no one took off. No one slept. worked all day.

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In all night, the guy calculated that it wouldn't reach a million

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would not even reach a million.

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I have the calculation somewhere, I'm not going to bring it up

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because they'll shut down our channel, we know that we know

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they'll shut down my channel, or they'll shut down something. So we

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didn't talk about it. But these guys, these numbers are just

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increasing and increasing. And that says this one incident at all

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the previous

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since 1948 going on.

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So when I was listening to Ritter, I liked Scott Ritter. But I have

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to say that sometimes I feel that the volume is always up with him.

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Like, everything is on the edge at all times. Firstly, I like to

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stuff he's saying that's on that point. He's saying, one thing I

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totally agree with, he says Zionism is dead. Judaism isn't

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dead. Judaism is diametrically opposed to Zionism. actual true

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Judaism, according to the Torah, Jews, who I have a lot of respect

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for. I've said this many times before, a lot of respect for these

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these guys go by the book. And that's it. It's very unjust thing

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to do.

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From basically from what the reputation, the reputation is, the

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book says this, let's see how we get around it. Right. But these

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guys, I respect them. They take the Talmud, they take the Torah,

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this is the book that we come to believe in. And that's what we're

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gonna go by, I don't care where the world is going. They could

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care less about the whole world, these guys. They will go with the

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Torah that they believe in, and I have to I respect that I respect

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these principles, and textualist types of people.

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But they're totally debt against Zionism. You go to Lakewood, New

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Jersey, which has more rabbinical schools than Tel Aviv by itself.

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Look up the stats on Lakewood, New Jersey. Are you doing something

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important? He's Silicon Valley. Don't waste his time. He's making

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some money over there.

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Or and helping other guys make money. But look up the stats on

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Tel Aviv, on Lakewood, New Jersey. I drove through Lakewood the other

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day because I got

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I was driving past it. You do not see a single Israeli flag in

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Lakewood, New Jersey. Not a single Israeli flag. They are against it.

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Okay, they are against it. You go to certain parts in New York.

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Where the Satmar is that I get it right the Satmar group practices,

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not a single flag for Israel. Judaism is not at stake here.

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Judaism is not a stick Zionist, could care less about Judaism.

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These are secular nationalists want to be nationalist Europeans,

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from Eastern European who got kicked around by the Russians, the

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British, the French everyone kicked them around.

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And then so they started their own copycat cut copy paste of European

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nationalism

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in a Jewish

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flag. And then who's the helpless people at the time? There's no

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one's gonna care what you do there. There's no cameras there.

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No one's looking there. So have a playground over there and do what

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you want over there.

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A study of Jewish community published under the auspices of

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the Berman Jewish data bank estimate that Lakewood had a total

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of

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40 54,000 Jews in Lakewood, 59% of the township

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and all of them are Orthodox.

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There's only 90,000 People in Lakewood, more than half are Jews.

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But I don't mind that. Because what kind of Jews are there Torah,

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Jews, they are anti Zionist Jews. And they may if there's like a

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conflict, they probably will support the Jew but they don't

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support Zionism. In the same way if if if a guy comes to a masjid,

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who has views that I disagree with, and people start to bother

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them, I will say I support this Muslim, but I just support his

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beliefs. Okay, so

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So these guys are complete anti Zionists. That's why Judaism is

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fine. It's going to survive. Judaism is independent of a state.

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And it won't be Remainer of faith on the earth, but it's Zionism

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that we have to say is dead. It's not going to fly you've killed

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it's just such a mess. When Soviets fell you could say

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communism lost right? That's what the whole world said. They will

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not establish a country from new now on communism. Right the TV got

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someone touch the remote

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on the TV and now we're watching some weird show.

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Top Gear UK never heard of it

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we're leaving the guys on the beach. Yeah. Yeah. Me they have a

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very like strong, huge, huge, huge

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Yeah.

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mean he's like, I want you to know, I can tell you guys because

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we pray Fudger over there. Yeah. And he comes up to me as he comes

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up to me because I want you to know, as a you as a Muslim Free

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Palestine, and he just walks up just to prove that.

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So so many of my friends wanted me to comment on the stream about the

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French or German dude, kid who was talking soccer. How hilarious was

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that one? Right? He's talking soccer. And Israel, Molly, I guess

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they they played right. And the guy who did nothing, right, he's

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talking, just talking about the game. And then

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they get in his face so badly that the guy turns into pro Palestinian

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on the spot, right.

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So Scott Ritter, I agree with him. He says Zionism is a dead thing.

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But he's also saying you got to be aware of the, what they call it

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the Samsung directive, which is, Samsung, of course, is a Hebrew

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character, a person in Hebrew history.

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Samson and Delilah. And I can't remember exactly his story, is he

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the one with the hair. I think he's the one with the hair. His

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God gave him great strength, great faith and wonderful hair. And his

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power was connected to his hair. So once he gets got his hair cut,

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he lost his power. That's a story, right? I mean, it's told as a true

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story, with all sorts of religious miracles and all that stuff. So

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but point being is that that's when they panic, and they go

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nuclear. I just don't see how you're going to go nuclear.

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Without getting hit back.

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If you go nuclear locally, Lebanon, where's the winds gonna

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take all that stuff? Right. So that doesn't make any sense. Could

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they do that in Iran as possible? But that is a doctrine that they

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have.

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They have some crazy dogs, the Hannibal directive, you're aware

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that one that if you if needed be, you kill your own people.

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So the Samsung doctrine so

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in the last 24 hours of Gaza, they killed off a Gaza ceasefire. Why

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you can't have talks when the chief negotiators dead so they

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killed all ceasefire is off the table now

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risk dragging the US into a regional war

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which is not risk they're cooking that up more with Iran. That's you

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just see every important person has sort of green lighted why if

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they do that, yes, we definitely every important politician, and I

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think they say that thing to signal to some dark suits

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somewhere else that they have to report to that yeah, we're onboard

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Whoa, we're going to do your bidding for you.

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Okay.

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And Washington is enabling this this is recklessness we're

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literally never seen an empire controlled like this on a path of

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utter self destruction. Do we have anything else to say summary of

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the

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what's going on here? Is there anything else that we need to

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we're not a the your source of political commentary in the first

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place, but we have to talk about it.

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They're, they're a severe Civil War.

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It was before actually

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October 7, they were literally on the edge of civil war. And it had

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to do with the courts and it had to do with mandating the male

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students of knowledge of the Jews to enter the army and in their

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religion that's not allowed. The man who was a student of knowledge

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studies the Torah from eight is from from morning tonight, he

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neither works nor does he serve in the military. This I have to say

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is a complete to Hadith or or complete twisting of the male's

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nature. That will not be a happy guy. You think you're happy

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studying all day, but nothing gives a man meaning more than

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having a household to be responsible for he'll grow up if

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you give him some to grow up that he could drop.

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But it has to be of his choosing.

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So that's why if a male chooses a wife,

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a man chooses a wife that's your choosing now, and now he produced

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the kids natural results of that. Now he cares and you get a silly

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guy becomes a man

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right? Any one of you guys get some money, chooses a woman and

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now starts having kids and now is responsible you change you become

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far more mature than you used to be all your thinking is now on

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serious matters.

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In this case, those men I feel bad for them. They've been duped in

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life.

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They're taught only study the Torah and absolutely nothing

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else.

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So he doesn't work even. And the woman has to respect this. Now she

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goes, works at a nurse, maybe they gotta eat somehow, right? She

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goes, works as a nurse. She goes, works at some who knows how she

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works when they have all these kids to know birth control? How

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does she work? So she has all these kids? And she works? And

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what are you doing? Studying

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the Talmud, and the Torah all day and all night. And you never

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sweat, you never get tired, you go to the movies, go to the synagogue

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and hang out with the guys. Right?

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That's what he's doing. Does the government not fun, fun? These

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students like does the government fund them? They get funding I'm

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sure from also from the religious endowments. Right. But is it

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enough? Or do they she's still probably has to work. Since they

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are married. They get married. But he's still

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he never will, will lift a finger to do a job.

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Is this not a warping of the fitrah. It's a warping of the

00:31:05 --> 00:31:08

fitrah. And if you want a man to grow up,

00:31:09 --> 00:31:12

had let him have responsibilities of his own choosing. That's gotta

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be the key. You can't say here at son, I want you to grow up. Take

00:31:16 --> 00:31:20

this valuable and expensive thing. I'm trusting you with it and go.

00:31:20 --> 00:31:24

No, it's not of his choosing. You gave him to it to him. Not gonna

00:31:24 --> 00:31:27

care for it as much as something that he bought for himself. Right.

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And that's the key here.

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All right.

00:31:32 --> 00:31:38

Let's move on from talking about Israel. Let's talk about rats at

00:31:38 --> 00:31:41

the Olympics. How weird is that? How weird of a new story is that?

00:31:41 --> 00:31:46

How the 2024 Olympics is floating. It's tiny as for the rats, so

00:31:46 --> 00:31:49

there was apparently some severe ranges that would happen. And the

00:31:49 --> 00:31:55

rains caused the rescue upwards. Yeah, how crazy is that? Right.

00:31:57 --> 00:32:03

So the rats are the say size of cats early? Yeah.

00:32:04 --> 00:32:08

How crazy is that? Anyway, that's just a little side note. That's

00:32:08 --> 00:32:09

not a story we're going to talk about.

00:32:11 --> 00:32:11

Huh?

00:32:14 --> 00:32:18

Yeah, I mean, you clearly the whole world is when they had drag

00:32:18 --> 00:32:19

queens in the opening

00:32:22 --> 00:32:26

Oh, I didn't see that marketing professor last summer. Oh, are you

00:32:26 --> 00:32:28

serious? And it was done well.

00:32:29 --> 00:32:35

And it was all i All I saw was that the guy who designed that is

00:32:35 --> 00:32:37

Israeli Zionist, right?

00:32:38 --> 00:32:43

Yep. And I didn't I didn't even see my see the the opening cuz

00:32:44 --> 00:32:46

it's not live streams. Right. It's you have to have NBC. I don't have

00:32:46 --> 00:32:51

NBC. Is it NBC that has the Olympics have this pay per view?

00:32:51 --> 00:32:54

So I'm not doing that. So and when my mom wanted to watch it

00:32:54 --> 00:32:56

Olympics, and she likes to watch

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the somersaults and all that stuff. And so she watched Simone

00:33:02 --> 00:33:07

Biles. Right. And she's like the best in the world. Now maybe the

00:33:07 --> 00:33:10

best ever. There was Nadia combin each

00:33:12 --> 00:33:15

before her, and now maybe she's even better than her maybe. Right.

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And

00:33:18 --> 00:33:24

she ended up just watching the highlights later. But anyway. But

00:33:24 --> 00:33:27

I saw I mean, I did actually see, you know, some of the flips and

00:33:27 --> 00:33:30

stuff some of the athletes, but the thing is, it's as amazing as

00:33:30 --> 00:33:35

some of these flips are. And these things are it's the same thing,

00:33:35 --> 00:33:36

right?

00:33:38 --> 00:33:40

Yeah, I guess everyone will say the same thing as Steph Curry

00:33:40 --> 00:33:43

three pointer. It's the same thing, right? A homerun. Like,

00:33:43 --> 00:33:46

what is so good to watch it once you've seen a homerun, you've seen

00:33:46 --> 00:33:50

a wall. Right. But for the people who love the sport, they see the

00:33:50 --> 00:33:54

intricacies they see them doing it over and over and over the same

00:33:54 --> 00:33:57

jumps as the same landing, right? But that's from somebody who

00:33:57 --> 00:34:00

doesn't care. See, you know what, it's funny, because when your

00:34:00 --> 00:34:01

distance from something,

00:34:02 --> 00:34:06

everything of it is the same, right? You don't see why anyone

00:34:06 --> 00:34:08

would do this again, right?

00:34:09 --> 00:34:13

In any sport, it's like that even in it. Right? You're gonna listen

00:34:13 --> 00:34:16

to this class, like I could listen to a shot of

00:34:18 --> 00:34:22

Johanna to toe heat. I could listen to it 10 times, right. I'll

00:34:22 --> 00:34:25

listen to it over and over from different view. I want to listen

00:34:25 --> 00:34:27

to it from all different you because you love it, right? You

00:34:27 --> 00:34:30

just love the different little flavors that each one puts in it.

00:34:31 --> 00:34:34

But people were like, Okay, you started off, you know, let alone

00:34:34 --> 00:34:37

what's what else is there? Right. But that's the bias of being

00:34:37 --> 00:34:41

distance. So in any event, let's move on now to

00:34:42 --> 00:34:48

welcome our latest subscribers Salim Ocasio I will say hello. I

00:34:48 --> 00:34:51

know seven. I think there's benefit in the books that you're

00:34:51 --> 00:34:54

saying. Like flips come on like you just watching flips. Okay, I

00:34:54 --> 00:34:57

can get maybe if you can pair it like the different classes on the

00:34:57 --> 00:35:00

book to like a football player like

00:35:00 --> 00:35:02

soccer play. Those are actually fun to watch. Like, you got a

00:35:02 --> 00:35:06

bunch of different scenarios. You know, I mean like, maybe that but

00:35:06 --> 00:35:10

like come on like a flip. Like team sport one action. It's not

00:35:10 --> 00:35:13

like a combination of like a play I got you I got you. You're saying

00:35:13 --> 00:35:18

play football, play a basketball, play hockey play a soccer play,

00:35:18 --> 00:35:22

every one is going to be unique, a home run the same what guy at the

00:35:22 --> 00:35:25

plate and he swings. You don't even get to see the whole thing

00:35:25 --> 00:35:29

because you have to pan over and the balls halfway out already. But

00:35:29 --> 00:35:30

so that's one thing. But

00:35:32 --> 00:35:35

gymnastics. I actually get stressed watching those. And so I

00:35:35 --> 00:35:38

got either of my parents were watching the Olympics, and they're

00:35:38 --> 00:35:42

watching the oldest highlights of the men's. So I get stressed these

00:35:42 --> 00:35:44

guys do jumps and the landing.

00:35:46 --> 00:35:50

Especially when they do the run up. And then they flip over. They

00:35:50 --> 00:35:53

bounce they jump flip over that horsey thing.

00:35:54 --> 00:35:58

It's a horse. What do they call do? They call it the horse? I'm

00:35:58 --> 00:36:00

gonna make him buy mints. Elementary school, they call it

00:36:00 --> 00:36:05

the horse. He runs up, he jumps on the thing. There's like a

00:36:05 --> 00:36:09

rectangular object. And he holds on to that and he flips himself

00:36:09 --> 00:36:13

over. Right? He catapults off that and then watching the landing to

00:36:13 --> 00:36:17

me it's like, stressful, because when they mess up with us feel so

00:36:17 --> 00:36:20

bad, right? And there was a Korean guy

00:36:21 --> 00:36:24

in one of the highlights of the past competition who just went

00:36:24 --> 00:36:30

flat on his face. Like he totally missed the summer, the 360s. He

00:36:30 --> 00:36:34

did one, two, he meant to do three that two and a half. landed flat

00:36:34 --> 00:36:35

like us a squirrel.

00:36:38 --> 00:36:39

That's like sad to say.

00:36:41 --> 00:36:41

Yeah,

00:36:42 --> 00:36:46

he got one chance. And that's it. And you did all four years

00:36:46 --> 00:36:49

training. And that one, flip.

00:36:53 --> 00:36:58

Alright, let's now turn to other matters related to our Australia

00:36:58 --> 00:37:04

trip, folks. Australia is an awesome, awesome country. I'm

00:37:04 --> 00:37:08

telling you right now, if you ever have the money and you ever have

00:37:09 --> 00:37:14

the ability to go to Australia for a vacation, Sydney, to gorgeous

00:37:14 --> 00:37:17

cities, probably one of the prettiest cities we'll go to.

00:37:18 --> 00:37:21

Is there the restaurant scene?

00:37:23 --> 00:37:27

They took us to some Lebanese brothers, right? An amazing

00:37:27 --> 00:37:30

restaurant. These guys. They every day they check out his different

00:37:30 --> 00:37:33

coffee shop and a different Lebanese shop. Because it's it's

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

mainly Lebanese in the area that I went to.

00:37:37 --> 00:37:42

And so they they did really well there and I had gone there in 2015

00:37:42 --> 00:37:45

and 2016. And one of the assistants

00:37:46 --> 00:37:50

who was just helping out as a student, he's now in charge of the

00:37:50 --> 00:37:53

operation. Right. So it's nice to see these these Shabaab youth

00:37:53 --> 00:37:57

coming up. So let's go to the first picture here. This is a

00:37:57 --> 00:38:03

meeting with one of the Balawi Messiah. He's a Palestinian

00:38:03 --> 00:38:04

student of

00:38:05 --> 00:38:09

Dr. Mustafa. And he has had a beautiful matches that was our

00:38:09 --> 00:38:14

first Mejlis the day that we arrived. We went there in Sydney.

00:38:15 --> 00:38:16

Very

00:38:17 --> 00:38:20

blessed little small gathering small space but you could feel

00:38:20 --> 00:38:23

very blessed. It's very nice. And by the way, it was winter there

00:38:23 --> 00:38:25

but it was not cold. It was like fall for us what we would consider

00:38:25 --> 00:38:28

fall but for them was winter. Alright, so that was the first

00:38:28 --> 00:38:29

trip next.

00:38:31 --> 00:38:37

Video footage. Alright, so me, Zan, that's the place to go. If

00:38:37 --> 00:38:38

you're ever in

00:38:39 --> 00:38:43

all is the sponsor go. That's where it's run by medic. young

00:38:43 --> 00:38:49

chap from Somalia, who's now the leader. He's in charge, right? And

00:38:49 --> 00:38:53

I always joke with him. I said, Now, you're he's, he's a captain.

00:38:54 --> 00:38:58

I'm Captain. Right. I said that jokes. I'm like two times now that

00:38:58 --> 00:39:01

he's in charge, right? But ultimately, to me, it was a really

00:39:01 --> 00:39:05

good, really good people. Of course you only swing by it,

00:39:05 --> 00:39:08

there's not much to say you can't really see so much. And

00:39:10 --> 00:39:13

these events when they pull out a lot of their community members you

00:39:13 --> 00:39:17

get to see what they like and I was really impressed your voucher

00:39:17 --> 00:39:20

was leaving a really good team with a good group of guys really

00:39:20 --> 00:39:20

great.

00:39:22 --> 00:39:25

People who are trying hard so my love less than

00:39:27 --> 00:39:30

one reason it's a great initiative, but I couldn't help

00:39:31 --> 00:39:36

staring the entire time at the location of the two dots of the

00:39:36 --> 00:39:40

yet in MISA and if you look there, I'm like, I can't help those two

00:39:40 --> 00:39:44

dots. Gotta be over to the right a little bit. All right. Am I right

00:39:44 --> 00:39:48

about that? Those two dots are too close. And firstly, there's empty

00:39:48 --> 00:39:53

space on the right. Secondly, the yeah is on the right. So let's

00:39:54 --> 00:39:57

unfortunately printed all the material but nonetheless, the guy

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

over to the right a little bit. It's called me Zan Avenue.

00:40:01 --> 00:40:05

Alright, next, there's the shake. If you want to study, AlQaeda and

00:40:05 --> 00:40:10

Philip, you study with that shake in Sydney, it's Palestinian.

00:40:10 --> 00:40:13

Alright, next one. That's him that what are you pointing to? On the

00:40:13 --> 00:40:17

left with the blue? Yeah, you see Janaki the right there. Yep.

00:40:20 --> 00:40:21

Okay, next.

00:40:23 --> 00:40:23

Whoa.

00:40:27 --> 00:40:32

All right, again next. All right, this one was a fun event. So this

00:40:32 --> 00:40:32

was

00:40:33 --> 00:40:37

the day that we had to leave Sydney. And we went to one path.

00:40:38 --> 00:40:40

And you see their clips all the time, right? You don't know how

00:40:40 --> 00:40:45

much effort goes in to make these clips, right. First of all, they

00:40:45 --> 00:40:47

have a two or three storey building.

00:40:49 --> 00:40:54

All to them. The entire building from the door to the toilet seat

00:40:54 --> 00:40:59

to the bathroom to the suit is branded in their colors. Blue,

00:40:59 --> 00:41:04

it's teal, black. Everything's still in black. The whole it's

00:41:04 --> 00:41:08

like so impressive. And they have 10 full time employees. They have

00:41:08 --> 00:41:12

a set of sisters, the sisters work in one section, the brothers work

00:41:12 --> 00:41:15

in another section. Because you gotta you gotta keep in mind to

00:41:15 --> 00:41:18

that too. There could be a late nights and there's like one sister

00:41:18 --> 00:41:21

and three guys. So what do you do with that? That's just because you

00:41:21 --> 00:41:26

get paid to do something doesn't make it Hallett. Right. So like a

00:41:26 --> 00:41:28

sister once asked me, Can I be a waitress?

00:41:29 --> 00:41:33

I'm like, technically, it's a * of a job. But what dad would want

00:41:33 --> 00:41:37

his daughter serving strangers every single day. Right?

00:41:40 --> 00:41:42

Oh, but it's the job. Okay, so just because you get money for it

00:41:42 --> 00:41:46

doesn't change the reality of what's happening. Right. And it's

00:41:46 --> 00:41:50

not any disrespect to women who end up being waitresses, but a lot

00:41:50 --> 00:41:55

of Muslim guys. If a if a if I had a volunteer in Safina society. And

00:41:55 --> 00:42:00

I said your job as a volunteer is to come and bring us the drinks,

00:42:00 --> 00:42:03

bring us the coffee clean up. The father would be very upset. It

00:42:03 --> 00:42:07

will be an outcry the mother be like my daughter is serving you.

00:42:07 --> 00:42:10

Who are you? Right? So just because they get paid for it, it

00:42:10 --> 00:42:15

changes things. So in any event, so they had a male section, female

00:42:15 --> 00:42:20

section, I talked to to those two brothers there who are the lead

00:42:20 --> 00:42:23

interviewers and you see one of them there who's in the middle of

00:42:23 --> 00:42:23

the picture.

00:42:25 --> 00:42:29

He's the one who's in all the clips. He's the one other lead

00:42:29 --> 00:42:31

guys and the other brother is just too.

00:42:32 --> 00:42:34

And we had a nice heartfelt talk.

00:42:36 --> 00:42:38

I'm surprised it put up I thought they would take out a lot of it.

00:42:39 --> 00:42:45

Right? Yeah, they kept. I didn't watch the whole thing. But you

00:42:45 --> 00:42:47

can't tell if they cut clips out. But there was some stuff that was

00:42:47 --> 00:42:51

pretty like you're like, wow, should they cut that out? Right.

00:42:52 --> 00:42:55

He's like, get the rice. Yeah. So

00:42:56 --> 00:42:58

I think that led to a lot more because of that. Because yeah.

00:43:00 --> 00:43:04

That's how it was. And I and when it didn't come out a week after I

00:43:04 --> 00:43:07

left. I was like, they're not putting it out. Right. Because

00:43:08 --> 00:43:11

they came back like a while. Yeah. And they hadn't put it out.

00:43:12 --> 00:43:16

This trip was a month. I know, it was it was like two to three weeks

00:43:16 --> 00:43:20

it hadn't come out. But but that's what these professional

00:43:20 --> 00:43:24

organizations are like. Like they if it's not time bound, send me

00:43:24 --> 00:43:27

home. This interview just came out there was time belt. It's like

00:43:27 --> 00:43:30

political things just happened. We need to get this interview out

00:43:30 --> 00:43:33

right away. This was a really time bounces. We talked about

00:43:34 --> 00:43:37

other subjects that weren't necessarily necessarily related

00:43:37 --> 00:43:42

exactly to a certain event. So I thought, you know, they're gonna

00:43:42 --> 00:43:45

put it out there. And I said, usually you shouldn't be upset.

00:43:45 --> 00:43:47

You just wasted my time but I was like, No, it's not a waste of

00:43:47 --> 00:43:50

time. It's always when you say something at least you rehearsing

00:43:50 --> 00:43:54

it for yourself. And at least we saw these guys and met the guys

00:43:54 --> 00:43:57

and I but then when they put it out I was happy they put it up and

00:43:57 --> 00:44:01

surprised they put the whole thing up but humbler so they're there

00:44:01 --> 00:44:01

that group

00:44:03 --> 00:44:06

they're really professional they're really good. Right and

00:44:06 --> 00:44:08

when you go and you see the inner workings they have in our studio

00:44:08 --> 00:44:12

so that you see that studio right there. Behind that studio was

00:44:12 --> 00:44:16

almost stadium seating. Yeah, and stadium seating that can be

00:44:16 --> 00:44:17

collapsed.

00:44:18 --> 00:44:23

Imagine like cinema seating, but you can collapse them all into you

00:44:23 --> 00:44:25

can shrink the whole thing like an accordion

00:44:26 --> 00:44:30

isn't the fears Mubasher Ammar were there

00:44:31 --> 00:44:35

and sitting in those seats, but soon enough, you don't have an

00:44:35 --> 00:44:39

audience. Stadium sees a big room, that room right there. That's the

00:44:39 --> 00:44:42

end of a big room. or actually I should say that's the corner from

00:44:42 --> 00:44:44

behind me goes further out.

00:44:46 --> 00:44:52

And where the camera is goes further out. Huge room like a 96

00:44:53 --> 00:44:59

set exceeding live audience. Not only that, here's the best part

00:45:00 --> 00:45:04

of The Room The Room comes out if you can try to imagine here at the

00:45:04 --> 00:45:09

end of the room before you reach the end, sort of over casting over

00:45:09 --> 00:45:13

over the edge of the room is the executive side seat with a big

00:45:13 --> 00:45:19

meeting table and a full glass wall where he could listen in and

00:45:19 --> 00:45:23

see what's happening. Right? Like the the commentators booths and

00:45:23 --> 00:45:27

NBA game are behind the radio. Right when they're or they're

00:45:27 --> 00:45:30

they're making music or the radio jockey speaking and they have a

00:45:30 --> 00:45:34

glass wall and all the executive sitting back there and whispering

00:45:34 --> 00:45:37

stuff, his ears, stuff like that. So they have that there, too. So

00:45:37 --> 00:45:39

that was and it was on the second floor. So there was actually

00:45:39 --> 00:45:40

looking down at the studio.

00:45:41 --> 00:45:44

Very impressive. All the brothers putting one path together.

00:45:45 --> 00:45:49

So there is an example of well that we met Mufti of the Modine, I

00:45:49 --> 00:45:52

thought it looked like that is our man Wolf.

00:45:53 --> 00:45:57

That's mostly all the Modine like we always crossed paths. It's

00:45:57 --> 00:46:00

amazing. But we're hardly ever able to talk to each other. Right?

00:46:00 --> 00:46:03

Because our schedules are so busy we crossed paths in Dallas, we

00:46:03 --> 00:46:07

crossed paths. Most of them with Dean is a person in data center.

00:46:07 --> 00:46:09

If anyone has a chance to sit with them, you go sit with him his

00:46:09 --> 00:46:15

heart is connected to he is in touch with the desert this the

00:46:15 --> 00:46:20

snakes of bliss. I mean by that he's always got his eyes open.

00:46:20 --> 00:46:24

What is it bliss plotting against us? What is the genetic force it

00:46:24 --> 00:46:28

plotting against us? How are they attacking the Shabaab? He's always

00:46:28 --> 00:46:31

thinking about that. Because that's a real, that's the real

00:46:31 --> 00:46:35

harm. Like I said, everything is to black and gray, even mouse

00:46:35 --> 00:46:41

pads, walls, everything. Stairs, everything is branded with one

00:46:41 --> 00:46:46

path colors. Let's go now to the next slide. Next picture. So

00:46:46 --> 00:46:49

that's me writing something on a book. Next one.

00:46:51 --> 00:46:58

This was Gemma in Brisbane. So from one path we went out for, we

00:46:58 --> 00:47:02

went to a coffee shop for the guy who won the international barista

00:47:02 --> 00:47:05

award. I didn't know there was such a thing, but there's a

00:47:05 --> 00:47:10

playoff a championship for baristas. This guy won it. And I'm

00:47:10 --> 00:47:14

telling you, there's a reason he wanted you. Firstly, you think

00:47:14 --> 00:47:17

coffee is coffee, right? Isn't coffee, coffee, but when you drink

00:47:17 --> 00:47:19

a lot of coffee, you realize coffee is not coffee. There's

00:47:19 --> 00:47:25

coffee and then there's coffee, right? And this was coffee. And

00:47:25 --> 00:47:30

there were flavors you had never tasted before. And they find it

00:47:30 --> 00:47:35

you go sit in this huge, gorgeous shop. And there are squares,

00:47:36 --> 00:47:40

square, the three squares, and each square is a barista inside

00:47:40 --> 00:47:42

the square and then it's almost like bar seating, barstool

00:47:42 --> 00:47:47

seating. And in each one is a barista. It's not a counter, it's

00:47:47 --> 00:47:50

a square. And you sit with your friends on one side and other

00:47:50 --> 00:47:52

groups. It's another side and the barista takes care of you all.

00:47:54 --> 00:47:57

The guy speaks a language you don't even understand. This was

00:47:58 --> 00:48:02

from this farm. It has notes of this and touches and flavors. And

00:48:02 --> 00:48:05

I'm not into that. I'm like, for me, it's just a binary. There's

00:48:05 --> 00:48:08

bad coffee and good coffee. That's to me, I'm very simple when it

00:48:08 --> 00:48:11

comes to food. And I think that that's the right subnet. Actually,

00:48:11 --> 00:48:15

there is bad coffee, and there's good coffee. So this was beyond

00:48:15 --> 00:48:19

good coffee. This was amazing. It was something that even if you're

00:48:19 --> 00:48:22

not a coffee drinker, you have to appreciate it. Something they do

00:48:22 --> 00:48:26

is different. It's an insult for them. You put a milk and sugar in

00:48:26 --> 00:48:30

your coffee, that you drink it as he gives it to you. So when

00:48:30 --> 00:48:34

someone knows their craft, so Well, you don't touch it. I

00:48:34 --> 00:48:37

remember reading about Steve Jobs when he needed a logo for next

00:48:37 --> 00:48:42

which was one of his companies. He went to the guy who was the most

00:48:42 --> 00:48:46

famous logo maker in the world at that time he had made the CBS logo

00:48:46 --> 00:48:47

he had made

00:48:48 --> 00:48:52

I think he'd done suffer Gucci I can't remember he did a lot, right

00:48:52 --> 00:48:57

Jewish guy to Brooklyn. And they sit they sat there talking and the

00:48:57 --> 00:49:00

guy said, stop right there. Tell me your problem. Tell me about

00:49:00 --> 00:49:01

your company.

00:49:02 --> 00:49:06

You're gonna get a logo when I'm done with it. And you're gonna

00:49:06 --> 00:49:11

give me $50,000. This was back in 1996. Right? That's all this

00:49:11 --> 00:49:15

interaction is because this guy believes himself. And his record

00:49:15 --> 00:49:19

proves he knows graphic design logo making better than anyone

00:49:19 --> 00:49:22

else in the world. I don't wanna hear anyone's opinion. Okay, but I

00:49:22 --> 00:49:26

have to say he didn't make a good logo. Next. The next logo is not

00:49:26 --> 00:49:31

good at all. Right? Do you guys know about next, next? Yeah, it

00:49:31 --> 00:49:36

says next in a cube for a multicolored terrible like fire.

00:49:37 --> 00:49:40

Yeah, that's a terrible logo. Right? Let me see.

00:49:42 --> 00:49:45

I don't like this logo at all. It's it's just It looks like some

00:49:45 --> 00:49:47

1980s kids made it right.

00:49:48 --> 00:49:52

of the era. Yeah. So he ends up

00:49:53 --> 00:49:57

these coffee. These baristas. These pieces, people who are so

00:49:57 --> 00:49:59

dedicated to their craft. This is how they treat you. So we're not

00:49:59 --> 00:50:00

having

00:50:00 --> 00:50:02

discussion. You tell me your issues. You tell me about

00:50:02 --> 00:50:05

yourself. You tell me what's going on. I will solve your problem.

00:50:05 --> 00:50:08

You're going to compensate me this. And we're not talking again.

00:50:09 --> 00:50:11

That's it. There's no edits. There's no nothing else like that.

00:50:12 --> 00:50:15

This guy was like the same thing. You don't ask for sugar. You don't

00:50:15 --> 00:50:18

ask for cream. You just drink it as he gives it to you.

00:50:19 --> 00:50:24

Yeah. And if you don't like it, your tongue is wrong. Right?

00:50:24 --> 00:50:27

That's how these guys are treating it. So we went there. Then we went

00:50:27 --> 00:50:32

to we hopped on a plane. And we went on a plane about two hours or

00:50:32 --> 00:50:32

so

00:50:34 --> 00:50:39

north to a city called Brisbane and Brisbane is a city which is a

00:50:39 --> 00:50:43

very nice suburb, gorgeous suburb. And it was very different from

00:50:43 --> 00:50:47

Sydney, in that it's more suburban Sydney's a city, right? Sydney was

00:50:47 --> 00:50:51

filled with these tough Lebanese guys, which I like, feel so at

00:50:51 --> 00:50:54

home with, right? These Lebanese guys. It's almost like the exact

00:50:54 --> 00:50:58

AKG when we sit down for lunch after Juma, right, and just talk

00:50:58 --> 00:51:02

and get loud. These guys are like that, right? We are group you

00:51:02 --> 00:51:06

could transplant our group to their group and swap guys and

00:51:06 --> 00:51:10

nothing no one would feel the vibe wouldn't change at all. So but

00:51:10 --> 00:51:14

Brisbane, it's it's a suburban area. It's all families, like

00:51:14 --> 00:51:18

Sydney's people. But this is just families and mostly a lot of

00:51:18 --> 00:51:18

these.

00:51:20 --> 00:51:24

A lot of these families were from the daisies who moved to East

00:51:24 --> 00:51:32

Africa, for tea Jarrah for trade. And eventually, a lot of these

00:51:32 --> 00:51:34

African East African governments that doesn't make too much money,

00:51:34 --> 00:51:35

get out of here.

00:51:36 --> 00:51:41

And one, that's literally what happened to one of my hosts, his

00:51:41 --> 00:51:45

father, and his brothers, maybe his family or maybe just his

00:51:45 --> 00:51:47

father, but they went to a city

00:51:48 --> 00:51:52

and they just opened a supermarket. First common sensical

00:51:52 --> 00:51:54

business, they bought a second one and a third one and a fourth one

00:51:55 --> 00:51:59

common sensical stuff, get stuff from the warehouses sell it to the

00:51:59 --> 00:52:02

people. That's it. This is not rocket science. Well, within a few

00:52:02 --> 00:52:06

decades, so much money, right? MashAllah for them, good for them.

00:52:06 --> 00:52:09

But the King comes up one day and says you got too much money.

00:52:09 --> 00:52:13

You're not one of us get out here. Right. Some of them went to

00:52:13 --> 00:52:15

England. Some of them came to Australia.

00:52:17 --> 00:52:21

Back in the day, you the passport allows you to go to all these

00:52:21 --> 00:52:27

countries, right? So these this families in Brisbane, they were

00:52:27 --> 00:52:30

very tight knit, these families were resident reminded me of MBSE

00:52:31 --> 00:52:33

our Masjid our community,

00:52:34 --> 00:52:39

like, like families, but there are now the young families, the young

00:52:39 --> 00:52:42

and second generation now who are like us, maybe in their 30s and

00:52:42 --> 00:52:45

40s. And they're having little kids in there trying to do stuff.

00:52:45 --> 00:52:49

And that's what they reminds me of. So that was our first evening

00:52:49 --> 00:52:53

there in that picture there. At one of the homes, we had to

00:52:53 --> 00:52:58

measure this on Thursday night, and then we went up to a beautiful

00:52:58 --> 00:52:59

rain forests.

00:53:00 --> 00:53:01

All right.

00:53:03 --> 00:53:05

I must be sneezing in this picture or something. I don't know what's

00:53:05 --> 00:53:07

going on. But

00:53:09 --> 00:53:13

no fees, by the way is top notch AI.

00:53:14 --> 00:53:17

What is he in? Molecular? Who knows what?

00:53:19 --> 00:53:25

What is actually the description of his work again, it's he he he

00:53:26 --> 00:53:26

codes,

00:53:28 --> 00:53:33

models that can be used in the pharmaceutical business. That's

00:53:33 --> 00:53:40

what he does, basically. But he he's a genius. He is a genius. You

00:53:40 --> 00:53:44

know these Bengalis? Right, you just when you meet him say, Okay,

00:53:44 --> 00:53:48

what? What Nobel Prize? Are you planning on winning? Right? That's

00:53:48 --> 00:53:48

how it is.

00:53:49 --> 00:53:53

So that's the view of where I was. And you see it's really high up.

00:53:56 --> 00:53:57

Really high elevation.

00:53:58 --> 00:54:02

Really high elevation. gorgeous view. Yep. gorgeous view. Next

00:54:02 --> 00:54:03

picture.

00:54:05 --> 00:54:09

All right, so that's after sulla apparently next one. And that's

00:54:09 --> 00:54:12

what the daytime, it looked like was gorgeous out. Hope whole place

00:54:12 --> 00:54:14

was amazing. Next,

00:54:16 --> 00:54:17

next.

00:54:18 --> 00:54:22

So we had classes all day and all night, Saturday and Sunday, all

00:54:22 --> 00:54:28

day and all night, Saturday and Sunday. Next, was it. Hey, come

00:54:28 --> 00:54:30

and update the appearances of

00:54:31 --> 00:54:36

Yep. And then we went down back down to the city back down to

00:54:36 --> 00:54:42

Brisbane and we had a an event at a really nice auditorium. Yeah,

00:54:42 --> 00:54:45

and that's the auditorium there. On the devil's deception, the

00:54:45 --> 00:54:47

tricks of iblees

00:54:48 --> 00:54:49

That was a beautiful evening.

00:54:50 --> 00:54:54

And it was toward now we're at reaching the end of the trip. And

00:54:54 --> 00:54:58

we had this so in the rain forest. We ended up spending two and a

00:54:58 --> 00:54:59

half days. Then went

00:55:00 --> 00:55:04

back to Brisbane we did this event oh I owe them shoot I owe them

00:55:04 --> 00:55:06

stuff I owe them a shout out

00:55:07 --> 00:55:13

yeah maybe we just do it here and then we clip it by Oh Machado see

00:55:13 --> 00:55:17

that ma there yeah I owe them a shout out let's let's see if I

00:55:17 --> 00:55:18

have the

00:55:19 --> 00:55:22

you're the notes condensed down of what ma requested

00:55:25 --> 00:55:29

alright let's just do it now everybody I would happen to the

00:55:29 --> 00:55:29

Rogen

00:55:32 --> 00:55:34

here there you sitting it's right next to you

00:55:51 --> 00:55:51

get

00:55:54 --> 00:55:58

we're just fixing the TV folks. So you guys see the stream I see a TV

00:55:58 --> 00:56:02

here that has almost computer on it. And I get to see you know what

00:56:02 --> 00:56:05

he's clicking out what's clicking next and what's going on?

00:56:09 --> 00:56:10

Yeah, let's do a normal view

00:56:17 --> 00:56:19

shoot, I don't know what you stand for.

00:56:24 --> 00:56:27

As salam o alaikum everyone I want to give this shout out to mA

00:56:27 --> 00:56:32

International which sponsored my trip and was one of my hosts in

00:56:32 --> 00:56:36

Australia. And they do a lot of great work. And this time it's

00:56:36 --> 00:56:39

it's time now to increase that work and try not to

00:56:41 --> 00:56:46

increase our efforts in supporting Kazaa ma international does a lot

00:56:46 --> 00:56:50

of work for the people of Palestine. The you can be a part

00:56:50 --> 00:56:54

of this by donating to them, you can be a part of this by just your

00:56:54 --> 00:56:57

dot for their work. You can be a part of this by raising awareness.

00:56:57 --> 00:57:02

We're raising awareness right here am a Muslim aid and Muslim aid

00:57:02 --> 00:57:07

Australia. This is an organization that does so much since 1989 and

00:57:07 --> 00:57:11

is committed to 50 countries that have missions in 50 countries

00:57:11 --> 00:57:16

which is an amazing number and it's an amazing feat and they were

00:57:16 --> 00:57:21

part of putting together this tour that I did in Australia and we

00:57:21 --> 00:57:25

want to see them succeed. So we know that the this OMA has to be

00:57:25 --> 00:57:30

like one body. The prophesy Selim said this OMA is called Jessa

00:57:30 --> 00:57:36

Dilwara had we are like one body either stuck or the one if one

00:57:36 --> 00:57:44

limb, few suffers. If one limb is complaining, then the rest of the

00:57:44 --> 00:57:49

entire body is stays up at night. In fever and sleeplessness. And

00:57:49 --> 00:57:53

any one of our groups that's doing work, we need to pitch in a little

00:57:53 --> 00:57:57

bit to them pitch in a lot to them. So help out most of them and

00:57:57 --> 00:58:02

Australia. This is a long overdue note to thank them and also to

00:58:02 --> 00:58:05

encourage everyone to support them. Does that come LaHood was

00:58:05 --> 00:58:05

set out money

00:58:10 --> 00:58:12

so that's the Muslim aid Australia. I mean, they they

00:58:14 --> 00:58:15

they were huge.

00:58:17 --> 00:58:20

Not the whole thing but a lot of or a certain portions of you.

00:58:24 --> 00:58:25

What minute are we on?

00:58:30 --> 00:58:31

The 60

00:58:32 --> 00:58:36

minute 56 We haven't even gotten to the subject matter here

00:58:41 --> 00:58:42

Okay,

00:58:43 --> 00:58:46

let's look now Oh, so then we went to a beach house look at this

00:58:46 --> 00:58:47

gorgeous

00:58:48 --> 00:58:50

beach in Australia.

00:58:51 --> 00:58:53

What did they call camera what they call it but it was gorgeous

00:58:53 --> 00:58:57

gold, the Gold Coast. This is the famous Gold Coast in Australia.

00:58:58 --> 00:59:00

And this is the wintertime magic now the summertime keep going.

00:59:01 --> 00:59:04

That's that's the apartment. Yeah, it's our apartment. Yeah.

00:59:06 --> 00:59:09

So that's the gold, the famous Gold Coast.

00:59:10 --> 00:59:11

Gorgeous

00:59:18 --> 00:59:19

the fees being familiar.

00:59:21 --> 00:59:25

And then they do the last day we're just sort of pretty sort of

00:59:25 --> 00:59:28

tired. There was one talk left and they said our let's just walk

00:59:28 --> 00:59:31

around the rainforest a little bit. And there was this area with

00:59:31 --> 00:59:31

all these

00:59:32 --> 00:59:38

unique birds, which was nice. That's one of the that's my

00:59:39 --> 00:59:43

one of the main hosts there and the founder of or the leader of

00:59:43 --> 00:59:44

the heckum

00:59:45 --> 00:59:49

in Brisbane, that organization is one of the it's the lead

00:59:49 --> 00:59:51

organization there. If you're gonna go to Brisbane, you're gonna

00:59:51 --> 00:59:54

go through them, and they're the ones with the activity Ellison

00:59:54 --> 00:59:57

nakida there's the other host AK.

00:59:59 --> 00:59:59

Okay,

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That's a mod.

01:00:03 --> 01:00:05

I have news of our mod, but I'm not gonna say it. Keep going.

01:00:07 --> 01:00:10

I'm not gonna say, now we went to a rain forest.

01:00:12 --> 01:00:12

Keep going.

01:00:13 --> 01:00:17

Rain Forest was amazing. Like, you can't literally see five inches

01:00:17 --> 01:00:21

out. That's how thick the stuff is. Keep going.

01:00:22 --> 01:00:25

That's my best shot. Yeah, of course. Take a look. And then

01:00:26 --> 01:00:30

they have this bridge, you walk over the rain forests. How

01:00:30 --> 01:00:33

beautiful is that footage right there. It's a bridge where in

01:00:33 --> 01:00:35

which you walk over the rain forest

01:00:38 --> 01:00:39

to go and

01:00:42 --> 01:00:46

conquer other places. Yeah. Like the different climates. Oh, yeah,

01:00:46 --> 01:00:51

like seeing trees. Totally. Yeah. SubhanAllah. Yeah, right greenery.

01:00:51 --> 01:00:56

Yeah, weather they never foods they've never eaten before. So I

01:00:56 --> 01:01:00

wish we had taken some footage of the hanging out with the guys in

01:01:00 --> 01:01:01

Sydney because that was a big part of it.

01:01:03 --> 01:01:06

Next segment I want to go to and this will probably be the last

01:01:06 --> 01:01:10

segment before our.or a QA a little bit of a QA than a dot.

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This segment has to do with the dowry in marriage. What is the

01:01:15 --> 01:01:19

position of the dowry in marriage and let's go to the of course we

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always speak about the from the Maliki school. Now the dowry in

01:01:22 --> 01:01:23

marriage

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is an obligation from the groom to the right. And it is an agreed

01:01:33 --> 01:01:38

upon on amount of money. It's an agreed upon amount of of, of

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anything of value. It could be a rink, it could be an action, a

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service, and it could be money. But it has to be something that

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can be objectively measured, and is to be agreed upon. And it

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shouldn't be baited and negotiated usually by the willie not by the

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bride herself, because she may be embarrassed

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to hassle her husband to be but her father would not right her

01:02:03 --> 01:02:07

father would actually feel the opposite inclination he wants to

01:02:07 --> 01:02:12

sort of not. It is a feeling of giving my daughter I'm handing my

01:02:12 --> 01:02:15

daughter from my house to your house, from me being the main

01:02:15 --> 01:02:20

caretaker to you. So he is giving his daughter away. So he's not

01:02:20 --> 01:02:24

going to give her away cheap. Even though this is not a sale, she's

01:02:24 --> 01:02:28

getting the money, not him, right. But he feels that he wants to make

01:02:28 --> 01:02:32

sure that this is done right. And he ends up he'll probably

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negotiate better. Now the prophets I send them also advise advise the

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husbands, the father though the willies. The Olia in this case,

01:02:42 --> 01:02:42

too,

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not make marriage difficult, or else the sebab will not marry and

01:02:48 --> 01:02:52

then maybe do something worse, right? If they're stuck not being

01:02:52 --> 01:02:57

married. So that's the dowry. Now let's what happens if people

01:02:57 --> 01:03:04

forget? It's possible. They forget to include the Mahara in their

01:03:04 --> 01:03:08

marriage process. And they actually have indica and the out

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of ignorance, there was oh shoot, we never did them. Are they

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adulterers? The answer is no. So this is a pillar of Nika that it

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can be forgotten

01:03:19 --> 01:03:23

can be forgotten what cannot ever be forgotten the rally in the

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medical school, as opposed to the Hanafi school

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is uncoupled? Right?

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You don't have a contract, you don't have any care if you don't

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have those two things.

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So two more things. One is the dowry, what is the witnesses? The

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witnesses are necessary for consummation. So we're sitting in,

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let's say, the groom's house or in the masjid, or sorry, the father

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of the bride's house. We're sitting in his living room.

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And he says, Well, I know you're a good man. And we know you and we

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trust you and we're ready to marry. Someone says, Why don't we

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marry right now? Okay, it's just me. Let's say it's me, my

01:04:06 --> 01:04:10

daughter, and the groom. And my wife, right? Let's say

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hypothetically,

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no witnesses. Right? His mom, still not a witness need the

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melons. So we say okay, though, what's your community? I married

01:04:20 --> 01:04:21

my daughter to you.

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He says public to both they're married, but he cannot take her

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and go into another room. So now she could take her hijab off. He

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can touch her, but he cannot take her into another room.

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consummation in Shetty refers to entering into privacy.

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Something where intimacy could occur. It doesn't have to be only

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that, for example, meet me in a in the woods. The Woods is a public

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place, right, but intimacy could happen there. So anywhere where

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intimacy could happen, that is not allowed until there are witnesses

01:05:00 --> 01:05:05

so that nobody can accuse these people. Nobody accuses them and

01:05:05 --> 01:05:07

says that they did this, that or the other. So now in this case,

01:05:07 --> 01:05:09

they would say for example,

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bring some let's go to the masjid, they drive to the masjid, the man

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stands up, oh people, I testify to you, I have married my daughter to

01:05:19 --> 01:05:22

this man. And this man has accepted and he agrees call us,

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You've now made a shot of it.

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And so therefore, now, there won't be doubts. There won't be

01:05:32 --> 01:05:34

accusations. Okay, so So the

01:05:36 --> 01:05:42

witnesses is a Rokan of the marriage that can be that is only

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needed for half of the marriage, which is the consummation, not the

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contract. So he's contractually married to this, they're married.

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But they cannot consummate the marriage or act upon it until the

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community knows minimum of the communities to mil upright Muslim

01:05:57 --> 01:05:58

witnesses.

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Now, we forgot the dowry.

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And he consummated, we have witnesses and they went alone. And

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they lived, they spent the night and they went on a honeymoon. And

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oh, my gosh, come back from that I forgot the dowry. Are we

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adulterers? fornicators? No, they're not.

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If they intentionally left it off, that's different, but they forgot

01:06:18 --> 01:06:21

about it. Or they said let's talk about it later. And they forgot to

01:06:21 --> 01:06:25

talk about it later. So now, they agree upon a dowry once they

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remember so two people, let's say they get married without a dowry.

01:06:29 --> 01:06:32

Or let's say they get married outside of Islam, then they both

01:06:32 --> 01:06:36

convert to Islam. Which by the way from North Carolina, we had a case

01:06:36 --> 01:06:40

like that, not a case but a met a couple like that. Brother just

01:06:40 --> 01:06:43

visit us here in North front in New Brunswick last month, he

01:06:43 --> 01:06:47

entered Islam, his wife hunted Islam, his kids also became

01:06:47 --> 01:06:51

Muslim. Right? Whole family, poor families Muslim now. Amazing,

01:06:52 --> 01:06:55

amazing case. Not case of case talking about it. Like it's an

01:06:55 --> 01:06:57

amazing story, I should say.

01:06:58 --> 01:06:59

Amazing story.

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So he, what would he have to do? Does he have to re marry his his

01:07:04 --> 01:07:07

Christian, if he had a civil marriage of a Christian marriage

01:07:07 --> 01:07:12

of a Hindu marriage, the should he deems you to be married? You just

01:07:12 --> 01:07:17

have to fulfill the conditions now that you missed. So let's say he

01:07:17 --> 01:07:22

had gotten married case like this without a dowry. He just paid the

01:07:22 --> 01:07:25

dowry afterwards. They have to agree upon what happens if the

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marriage is already said and done, but they don't agree on the dowry.

01:07:29 --> 01:07:32

While the malt as long as they don't agree on the dowry. The wife

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has to has the right to say alright, don't touch me then.

01:07:36 --> 01:07:36

Yeah.

01:07:38 --> 01:07:41

Even if they agree, and he refuses to pay it, don't touch me.

01:07:42 --> 01:07:46

That's why it's always important. Not so duck. It's called a mud,

01:07:46 --> 01:07:48

it's called this a duck could be called a dowry in English, I know

01:07:48 --> 01:07:52

in India, the word dowry means the reverse so we have to be careful

01:07:52 --> 01:07:53

with that. Okay.

01:07:55 --> 01:08:00

So then our situation is there that they have to get an

01:08:00 --> 01:08:04

arbitrator who will inform them of seduction and myth.

01:08:06 --> 01:08:14

So the upward myth refers to the the average dowry, it's salary

01:08:14 --> 01:08:18

arbitration, basically, people have your likeness. What do they

01:08:18 --> 01:08:22

get when they get married? Right? When they when they get contracts,

01:08:22 --> 01:08:26

right? Someone with your batting average and your stolen bases,

01:08:26 --> 01:08:28

right? And you're yours? What is he getting?

01:08:29 --> 01:08:33

There's three guys very similar to you. They're all getting 5 million

01:08:33 --> 01:08:37

a year. This was 4.9 This one's 5.2. This one's five you're gonna

01:08:37 --> 01:08:42

get five. That's it. So in the case that they forgot about the

01:08:42 --> 01:08:46

Sadhak and they cannot agree on the Sadhak they go with the duck

01:08:46 --> 01:08:49

and mythen and it becomes binding why because their marriage is

01:08:49 --> 01:08:52

already done. Right? Marriage is there they're ready consummate.

01:08:54 --> 01:08:57

So they should agree upon it. But if they cannot agree, then it's so

01:08:57 --> 01:09:05

dark and mythical. The dowry that is of her peers. So this girl has

01:09:05 --> 01:09:07

friends. The family has friends.

01:09:08 --> 01:09:12

They talk that's why hanging out with Muslims go into massage

01:09:13 --> 01:09:17

talking making friends having well what you got called David's in

01:09:17 --> 01:09:18

your home

01:09:19 --> 01:09:26

invitations going out with right doubts in your home. And why

01:09:26 --> 01:09:30

because in those you chitchat you talk an hour off customs, matters

01:09:30 --> 01:09:35

of opinion, are learned. You can learn basically what is an average

01:09:35 --> 01:09:39

dollars to go by. Right so you learn these things. And the guy

01:09:39 --> 01:09:42

guys will talk they'll say listen to my first kid get married. What

01:09:42 --> 01:09:47

do I do? Right? So these invitations knowing people having

01:09:47 --> 01:09:51

a huge contact lists of friends in the massage go knees events, it

01:09:51 --> 01:09:54

helps you pick up the phone take maybe for a cup of coffee, I have

01:09:54 --> 01:09:57

no clue what I'm doing here, right? And someone clues you in

01:09:57 --> 01:09:59

and the beauty of it is

01:10:00 --> 01:10:04

I'd say I'm not fully like this, this brothers advice on this

01:10:04 --> 01:10:07

matter of opinion. I'll go to another brother, right? It's not

01:10:07 --> 01:10:10

even a religious opinion. It's just how to act in life. So you

01:10:10 --> 01:10:14

can go 2345 Guys, right? I see. They're all saying this, but they

01:10:14 --> 01:10:17

differ on this. So therefore, I'll pick and choose what I want from

01:10:17 --> 01:10:21

this. But pretty much this is the norm. And that's how society

01:10:21 --> 01:10:24

moves. We all have similar understandings about things.

01:10:26 --> 01:10:30

So let's talk about some of the things related to the Sadhak the

01:10:30 --> 01:10:32

dowry, it can be paid over time.

01:10:33 --> 01:10:34

A man says,

01:10:35 --> 01:10:39

you go, you go and you marrying into a very wealthy family. It's

01:10:39 --> 01:10:43

not fathomable that you're going to marry maybe for let's say, for

01:10:43 --> 01:10:49

under $20,000. dollars. That's easy. In some communities, certain

01:10:49 --> 01:10:53

communities, it's not that that's low by the West as low. That's low

01:10:53 --> 01:10:56

dowry. In some communities. Yeah, there are some communities,

01:10:56 --> 01:11:00

everyone's involved in certain industries, that the baseline of

01:11:00 --> 01:11:03

that industry is you're going to be rich, it's on the difference

01:11:03 --> 01:11:06

whether you're rich or really rich, and the rich in those

01:11:06 --> 01:11:11

communities feel poor. They feel poor, even though the rich, get.

01:11:11 --> 01:11:13

So in those situations.

01:11:14 --> 01:11:15

He can pay it overtime.

01:11:16 --> 01:11:19

There's nothing wrong with that concept. So all right, I'll give

01:11:19 --> 01:11:24

you let's say it's going to be 10,000. I don't have 10,000. But I

01:11:24 --> 01:11:26

do have a job I can afford. But I don't have savings. 10,000. All

01:11:26 --> 01:11:30

right, I'll give you three now. And I'll give you one on January 1

01:11:30 --> 01:11:34

of every year for the next seven years. Now that let's say they do

01:11:34 --> 01:11:40

that. Let's say they get divorced in year two. So he paid for. He

01:11:40 --> 01:11:41

owes

01:11:42 --> 01:11:46

six more. Right? Does he have to pay those six more than that? They

01:11:46 --> 01:11:49

get divorced. He does. It's a duck.

01:11:50 --> 01:11:52

It's a duck. If he dies,

01:11:53 --> 01:11:57

married or not married? We remove that immediately.

01:11:58 --> 01:12:03

And we consider that a debt owed it is a debt owed.

01:12:04 --> 01:12:08

Good. So then the inheritance happens after the is the estate is

01:12:08 --> 01:12:09

divided up afterwards.

01:12:12 --> 01:12:15

Nobody will see it and you soon have yet Oh Jane, right. So

01:12:15 --> 01:12:21

inheritance is divided up after the estate is divided up after

01:12:22 --> 01:12:28

bequests to non inheritors maximum 1/3 and debts. Understood.

01:12:29 --> 01:12:32

So just because the dowry is a lot doesn't mean you have to Oh,

01:12:32 --> 01:12:34

you're gonna have to have it in the bank right away. So may

01:12:34 --> 01:12:41

$25,000 dowry. Alright, five, five now, five, next year, five, the

01:12:41 --> 01:12:45

year after that, and so on and so forth. Now what is forbidden in

01:12:45 --> 01:12:46

the Maliki school?

01:12:48 --> 01:12:54

Sheikh Abdul Hamid and Mubarak has a strong lecture on this is aka

01:12:54 --> 01:12:58

Sudak. What is the marker marker is a concept?

01:13:00 --> 01:13:01

Hey, where's my hair?

01:13:02 --> 01:13:05

Almost doing a thing all of a sudden I got no hair.

01:13:07 --> 01:13:08

Okay, so

01:13:11 --> 01:13:14

the more the doc is valid in certain math hubs.

01:13:16 --> 01:13:17

But in the medical school, they don't like it.

01:13:19 --> 01:13:23

Why is it? What is it? First of all it is that if

01:13:24 --> 01:13:25

you divorce

01:13:27 --> 01:13:32

you owe this much. If you divorce in year one you owe 20k. If you

01:13:32 --> 01:13:36

divorce in year two, you owe 10k. If you divorce in year five, you

01:13:36 --> 01:13:41

owe 5k, so on and so forth, or, in general, if you divorce you owe

01:13:41 --> 01:13:44

20k. So why is this?

01:13:45 --> 01:13:50

It's It's unlawful, because actually harmful? Because let's

01:13:50 --> 01:13:53

say the man wants to get a divorce. He's gonna lose his wife,

01:13:53 --> 01:13:57

half the time with his kids. Probably his half his house,

01:13:57 --> 01:14:00

probably half his salary for the rest of his life. And on top of

01:14:00 --> 01:14:03

that, he's gonna lose 20k Is that No, I'm not doing this. So what is

01:14:03 --> 01:14:03

he going to do?

01:14:05 --> 01:14:08

You want to get the checks from my car. The checkbook? Yeah.

01:14:10 --> 01:14:10

Okay, what's your plan?

01:14:13 --> 01:14:16

What you're going to do? He's going to say, Well, my options in

01:14:16 --> 01:14:21

Sharia is for her to request a divorce. And then I didn't divorce

01:14:21 --> 01:14:27

her. Right, hula How can I get her to request that divorce? Hey,

01:14:27 --> 01:14:30

that's a beautiful picture. That's middle and right there. It's a bit

01:14:30 --> 01:14:30

dark.

01:14:33 --> 01:14:35

go click, click the back button there.

01:14:36 --> 01:14:38

Look at that. Not that one. The next one.

01:14:42 --> 01:14:44

To kangaroo Alright, wherever you want.

01:14:46 --> 01:14:50

No more red box. No, no, no, he's got a new format. Almost Omar, he

01:14:50 --> 01:14:51

got a new format.

01:14:53 --> 01:14:55

It was getting clicks but your new format is getting clicks too.

01:14:56 --> 01:14:57

Yeah.

01:14:58 --> 01:14:59

So he'll bother her in

01:15:00 --> 01:15:01

bother and bother her

01:15:02 --> 01:15:05

until she requests the hula. So that he doesn't have to cough up

01:15:05 --> 01:15:08

the 20k or the 25k, or sometimes just ridiculous amounts of money.

01:15:10 --> 01:15:14

So you see, that's why Sheikh Abdel Hamid and robotic he says

01:15:14 --> 01:15:18

are in our method, we don't allow Marcos to duck. And it's harmful

01:15:18 --> 01:15:20

to her. That's why he says that.

01:15:24 --> 01:15:26

Well paying overtime, you're paying it over the differences

01:15:26 --> 01:15:30

that this is a conditional and if you divorce her, then you owe that

01:15:30 --> 01:15:31

as long as you're married. You don't owe it

01:15:32 --> 01:15:33

right.

01:15:35 --> 01:15:36

Baseline

01:15:40 --> 01:15:44

up anybody can do that. Anybody could say, what's the dowry? The

01:15:44 --> 01:15:45

man says 50,000

01:15:46 --> 01:15:51

to marry my daughter's 50,000 Okay. 50,000 I'll give you 20 Now

01:15:51 --> 01:15:53

I need 25 No, I'll give you

01:15:54 --> 01:15:59

25 installments over time. Up to when it has to be limited. You

01:15:59 --> 01:16:02

can't have a contract that says open ended 25 in the future. No.

01:16:02 --> 01:16:05

There's got to be month and day of when the payments are going to be

01:16:08 --> 01:16:08

in the market.

01:16:13 --> 01:16:17

Yeah, they have a basic Sadhak animal Walker.

01:16:18 --> 01:16:22

And that's where that Walker is the one that's debated. Yeah.

01:16:24 --> 01:16:28

Yeah, it's conditional. When this when this when you divorce her you

01:16:28 --> 01:16:32

over this. That's what it is. It's conditional. It's conditional. So

01:16:32 --> 01:16:36

that's why the Altima of the have discovered really that people they

01:16:36 --> 01:16:39

avoid paying that or they just won't pay it at the end of the day

01:16:39 --> 01:16:42

is not going to pay it right so even effectively.

01:16:43 --> 01:16:46

What what is it's not effective unless you actually got this

01:16:47 --> 01:16:51

documented in a contract. You know how hard it is to extract money

01:16:51 --> 01:16:53

from people even when you owe it to them.

01:16:55 --> 01:16:59

Ladies and gentlemen, any other questions on these So doc let's

01:16:59 --> 01:17:04

turn now to questions related to the So doc and then we will take a

01:17:04 --> 01:17:07

few short questions and then we will

01:17:10 --> 01:17:12

marry the girl if you can't keep up with their previous lifestyle

01:17:12 --> 01:17:15

from February yeah unless she agrees though

01:17:16 --> 01:17:20

unless she agrees to that she says yes I agree that I'm gonna go now

01:17:20 --> 01:17:23

live a different on a different salary yeah and different life.

01:17:25 --> 01:17:25

Yeah.

01:17:26 --> 01:17:30

Does three to lock in one setting equal one divorce more according

01:17:30 --> 01:17:35

to each mouse Sahaba. Upon the ruling of Satan, Allah it equals

01:17:35 --> 01:17:36

three divorces.

01:17:38 --> 01:17:38

Don't do it.

01:17:39 --> 01:17:42

Don't do it in a Tamia is the one who

01:17:44 --> 01:17:47

I don't know if others did. But he said No, I disagree with that.

01:17:48 --> 01:17:53

That was just for that time. And it's just one. So that's a fact to

01:17:53 --> 01:18:00

have. But when we look at the FIP, when you have H Ma, it's not

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negated afterwards. Can be negated afterwards. So we did have a GMAT

01:18:05 --> 01:18:08

saw. But that's why the three other the four methods I think it

01:18:08 --> 01:18:10

how many school too, does not go by that photo.

01:18:13 --> 01:18:16

What's that? No, he didn't go to prison for that. I think he went

01:18:16 --> 01:18:20

to prison for saying that the new Zoo. I don't want to say this on

01:18:20 --> 01:18:25

the stream. But I'll say it anyway, he said that the zoo of

01:18:25 --> 01:18:29

Allah is as me coming down from this member. Right. And then he

01:18:29 --> 01:18:33

came down from the member of Juma and then that was one of the

01:18:33 --> 01:18:36

reasons and Allah knows best if that's the accurate history, but

01:18:36 --> 01:18:38

that's what I heard is that accurate history that's really the

01:18:38 --> 01:18:39

way

01:18:42 --> 01:18:44

gemondo Is Ashati COFRA.

01:18:45 --> 01:18:49

In that case, even hydrophobia cavity map now we'd be careful.

01:18:50 --> 01:18:52

Salahuddin will be a Kaffir terror.

01:18:53 --> 01:18:56

Ottoman Empire will be cool. Follow the other metal LEDs,

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right? So, the sad metal hub inept EDA is this is one of the three

01:19:04 --> 01:19:08

schools of thought in theology in dealing with matters that came up

01:19:08 --> 01:19:11

after the time of the Prophet peace be upon him and the

01:19:11 --> 01:19:14

companions, and the second and third generation.

01:19:16 --> 01:19:20

You have to think and answer these questions. Anywhere where you have

01:19:20 --> 01:19:24

to think and answer questions. That's where you need schools of

01:19:24 --> 01:19:24

thought,

01:19:25 --> 01:19:29

which people can agree or disagree. And it has been agreed

01:19:29 --> 01:19:34

upon that the Sunnis have accepted three different opinions on these

01:19:34 --> 01:19:39

matters. And these schools of thoughts are the Hanbali and the

01:19:39 --> 01:19:43

Ashari. And the maturity that's how we define our husana

01:19:45 --> 01:19:47

for the scholars to come in person doesn't know any of this stuff,

01:19:47 --> 01:19:48

and he doesn't have to.

01:19:49 --> 01:19:53

Here's Salim Ocasio has a question does a civil divorce where the

01:19:53 --> 01:19:57

paperwork contains no explicit language of divorce such as I

01:19:57 --> 01:19:59

divorced my wife count as an Islamic divorce and the answer

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It would not, it would not

01:20:04 --> 01:20:08

it if it does not contain explicit language, I am divorcing my wife,

01:20:09 --> 01:20:10

I agree to a divorce,

01:20:12 --> 01:20:14

then it would not count as an official divorce

01:20:16 --> 01:20:21

would not counted. It has to have some something clearly stated or

01:20:21 --> 01:20:22

understood

01:20:24 --> 01:20:28

that this is divorce, if we can say because there is something

01:20:28 --> 01:20:30

called the divorce application,

01:20:31 --> 01:20:35

he can fill that out. She gets served. It's in the courts, you

01:20:35 --> 01:20:38

discuss things that itself is not divorce?

01:20:39 --> 01:20:46

No. It's a step towards it's opening the file for the judge to

01:20:46 --> 01:20:50

arbitrate between you and then issue the divorce, then you would

01:20:50 --> 01:20:51

sign off on that

01:20:52 --> 01:20:54

MATIC 365. What's your question?

01:20:59 --> 01:21:04

If you can find medic 365 answer that. In the meantime, how's the

01:21:04 --> 01:21:08

films we have a member and subscriber from Nigeria

01:21:09 --> 01:21:13

or originally from Nigeria or he's in Nigeria and the house of course

01:21:13 --> 01:21:16

being one of the five main tribes of the that West African area,

01:21:16 --> 01:21:19

which is the house of the Fulani, the EBO.

01:21:22 --> 01:21:23

What are the other to

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look up for me the five main tribes?

01:21:30 --> 01:21:32

Of course, how does the whole law work? I'll tell you how that works

01:21:32 --> 01:21:38

in a second after we respond to how's it films? What about a case

01:21:38 --> 01:21:43

of remarrying the same spouse after husband gives first to look

01:21:43 --> 01:21:45

past the EDD and legal proceedings.

01:21:46 --> 01:21:47

Okay.

01:21:49 --> 01:21:55

Has husband gives Talaq the ADA which is the waiting period. The

01:21:55 --> 01:22:00

woman cannot marry two different men except through that after a

01:22:00 --> 01:22:02

waiting period has passed to make sure she's absolutely certain that

01:22:02 --> 01:22:06

there are no children so that the fluids don't mix.

01:22:10 --> 01:22:13

Yes, you should, they would have to do a new marriage and a new

01:22:13 --> 01:22:15

dowry and new witnesses.

01:22:16 --> 01:22:20

So man, let's say let's say hypothetically divorce his wife on

01:22:20 --> 01:22:21

January 1.

01:22:22 --> 01:22:22

Alright.

01:22:24 --> 01:22:29

It's three periods of purity. Let's say hypothetically, we're

01:22:29 --> 01:22:30

now in November.

01:22:31 --> 01:22:34

She moved on with her life. He moves on with his life. They're

01:22:34 --> 01:22:39

divorced. They did the civil paperwork, totally divorced. Then

01:22:39 --> 01:22:42

they said, You know what? I'm miserable. Right?

01:22:43 --> 01:22:45

I don't want to admit it, but I'm miserable without her.

01:22:46 --> 01:22:49

She's sitting there in her like the romcoms. She's sitting there

01:22:49 --> 01:22:53

in her room, eating ice cream, miserable without him. But doesn't

01:22:53 --> 01:22:55

want to admit it. Right.

01:22:56 --> 01:23:01

Then they bump into each other again, right? And they say we have

01:23:01 --> 01:23:05

to get married again. Alright, let's do it again. They have to do

01:23:05 --> 01:23:08

it as if it was never done. But now that I have to have a huge

01:23:08 --> 01:23:13

massive wedding, but it has to be re publicized new dowry, new

01:23:13 --> 01:23:17

witnesses. And in this case, because she was already married

01:23:17 --> 01:23:21

once before, she does not need her Willie's permission. In the

01:23:21 --> 01:23:23

medical school. She needs her Willie to be there to represent

01:23:23 --> 01:23:27

her rights and to fight for her rights. But his is more like a

01:23:27 --> 01:23:31

hired lawyer. Like hired lawyer you fight for me. But the moment

01:23:32 --> 01:23:35

if there's a disagreement, you're the client. You're the guy paying.

01:23:35 --> 01:23:39

You're the one who has the final say. So likewise, when a woman has

01:23:39 --> 01:23:39

already married

01:23:41 --> 01:23:42

she ends up

01:23:43 --> 01:23:47

having the willie cannot force her or stop her. You're gonna advise

01:23:47 --> 01:23:48

her? That's it?

01:23:52 --> 01:23:55

No, that doesn't really count doesn't reset the count of three.

01:23:55 --> 01:23:59

That's the first divorce. Yeah, I'm gonna that is a good

01:24:00 --> 01:24:03

thumbnail. You know what works on that thumbnail? Outline the NB F

01:24:03 --> 01:24:07

350. outline it, keep it white and put a black outline around

01:24:10 --> 01:24:11

a white box around it.

01:24:13 --> 01:24:17

Like make it white? Yeah, like that. And then put a colored box

01:24:17 --> 01:24:21

around that brown or something the same color as what's under trip

01:24:22 --> 01:24:25

to separate from the white have that in the way to the

01:24:27 --> 01:24:28

up to you.

01:24:29 --> 01:24:34

Neither do the divorce petition or the final divorce decree contains

01:24:34 --> 01:24:37

explicit language. There's no distinction here between the

01:24:37 --> 01:24:41

petition of the degree the decree as long as there is no explicit

01:24:41 --> 01:24:42

language.

01:24:43 --> 01:24:46

I have to ask about that. Because there is we do there is Marriage

01:24:46 --> 01:24:52

Divorce by anything that would indicate divorce. So I have to ask

01:24:52 --> 01:24:57

about that. Right. I think yeah, some of the man says we're done.

01:24:57 --> 01:24:59

Right? He's that could be enough for it.

01:25:00 --> 01:25:04

Horse if that's what if, if that's language in that culture that that

01:25:04 --> 01:25:06

is a phrase that indicates a horse, it's a horse.

01:25:08 --> 01:25:10

Even just the word to luck saying just the word to luck.

01:25:11 --> 01:25:13

All right, that's where you go on to luck.

01:25:15 --> 01:25:21

Just doors. Yeah. So we have to see if I have to, I want to ask

01:25:21 --> 01:25:26

another scholar about that. Because we have this concept that

01:25:26 --> 01:25:30

the understanding also can imply divorce.

01:25:33 --> 01:25:35

How to Craft man says my men need answers

01:25:36 --> 01:25:38

will help them out, John, no problem.

01:25:40 --> 01:25:41

I think you have to do the three

01:25:43 --> 01:25:46

things I have to say, this is such a big problem. You have to repeat

01:25:46 --> 01:25:50

this over and over and every other Joomla that do not say to lock

01:25:50 --> 01:25:54

three times the poor Muslim kid has raised that.

01:25:56 --> 01:26:00

You wash them out three times. You make you know, rinse, you know

01:26:00 --> 01:26:04

three times wash your face three times, on three times. Right? So

01:26:04 --> 01:26:08

he assumes everything's got to be done three times. So he does talk

01:26:08 --> 01:26:09

three times.

01:26:10 --> 01:26:13

But I say Brother, your analogy doesn't make sense. Because you

01:26:13 --> 01:26:16

when you got married, you didn't say cobalt or cobalt or cobalt,

01:26:16 --> 01:26:16

right.

01:26:18 --> 01:26:18

So

01:26:20 --> 01:26:22

some bases do that. That's what

01:26:23 --> 01:26:27

that's why the poor guys confused. And he says to lock to lock to

01:26:27 --> 01:26:28

lock, I believe.

01:26:29 --> 01:26:32

I don't I'm not I'm not here to offend anybody.

01:26:33 --> 01:26:34

But I'm about to

01:26:36 --> 01:26:39

the whole marriage process

01:26:40 --> 01:26:41

from the subcontinent.

01:26:42 --> 01:26:48

Highlight, delete, start over. Right, there are too many bugs in

01:26:48 --> 01:26:53

the code, right? Start the whole thing from scratch. Right. I even

01:26:53 --> 01:26:56

heard recently and again, I don't want to offend people, but I know

01:26:56 --> 01:26:57

some people are gonna get upset

01:26:58 --> 01:27:01

that you have to have seven parties. Every wedding has have

01:27:01 --> 01:27:05

seven parties. Have you guys heard of that? So that could be a little

01:27:05 --> 01:27:07

bit of to cut it off though. Right? That's a little bit of

01:27:07 --> 01:27:08

tech. You know.

01:27:10 --> 01:27:13

It's to cut it off. It's exhausting people. People don't

01:27:13 --> 01:27:14

want to

01:27:15 --> 01:27:17

you know, I'll mark you know how to do this. If you want to do

01:27:17 --> 01:27:22

that. You make it really small peeking. Subtle se because this is

01:27:22 --> 01:27:25

a very gorgeous picture. Now you're gonna stick a kangaroo in

01:27:25 --> 01:27:28

there. It doesn't make sense. shrink him more. Make him really

01:27:28 --> 01:27:32

small. Yes. Okay. See that? That maybe you could pull that maybe

01:27:32 --> 01:27:37

you could pull that off? But does it work? Or is it very, okay, just

01:27:37 --> 01:27:40

make him do it smaller. Make it smaller and crooked. Yeah, there

01:27:40 --> 01:27:43

you go. So he's, that's good. That's good.

01:27:44 --> 01:27:47

He really wanted the kangaroo and Hamdulillah we helped him make it

01:27:47 --> 01:27:50

happen. That's really good. He's no crook. Make him crooked more.

01:27:50 --> 01:27:51

So he's if he's pig.

01:27:52 --> 01:27:53

Yeah.

01:27:55 --> 01:27:57

All right, here we go. Let's take another question. But we didn't

01:27:57 --> 01:28:00

hear about medic 356 This question.

01:28:01 --> 01:28:01

Good.

01:28:05 --> 01:28:08

Jack and Jill says no, there has to be 10 parties. What is the

01:28:08 --> 01:28:09

halal the halal Allah

01:28:11 --> 01:28:13

is part of Islam, if it's genuine.

01:28:14 --> 01:28:19

The halal and halal is that in the case of the three times divorce,

01:28:20 --> 01:28:24

the Shetty says, oh, husband, you're not taking this seriously,

01:28:24 --> 01:28:27

dude, divorce and marry, marry, take her back, divorce. Take her

01:28:27 --> 01:28:32

back or re marry. Now after three times, you have to learn a lesson.

01:28:33 --> 01:28:35

How are you going to be thankful for this woman?

01:28:36 --> 01:28:40

She has to marry another man genuinely not just consummate the

01:28:40 --> 01:28:45

marriage go into a room No. Actual have *. Okay.

01:28:46 --> 01:28:51

Then if they get divorced, only then can you remarried. So many

01:28:51 --> 01:28:52

people.

01:28:53 --> 01:28:57

They lie essentially. And they get a fake marriage. They go into a

01:28:57 --> 01:29:02

room. They come out. Did you have Did you consummate? Yes, they lie.

01:29:03 --> 01:29:06

And then she can remember the other guy he divorces her and

01:29:06 --> 01:29:06

their mother other.

01:29:08 --> 01:29:11

Allah knows that you're sinful in what you did that? Yeah, Allah

01:29:11 --> 01:29:12

knows you're sinful.

01:29:13 --> 01:29:19

Yeah. So Allah knows your sinful for that. But we can only judge by

01:29:19 --> 01:29:22

what we see in front of us. We don't know what you plotted. And

01:29:22 --> 01:29:26

we don't know what your intention are. We may see it's obvious. But

01:29:26 --> 01:29:31

we in this lab and only judged by the obvious so that default

01:29:31 --> 01:29:36

marriage was valid. You Clint, you said that you consummated it's no

01:29:36 --> 01:29:40

way for us to know. You now divorce her and so now she can

01:29:40 --> 01:29:44

remember the first guy and sometimes this Mahalalel will take

01:29:44 --> 01:29:45

some money for this

01:29:47 --> 01:29:50

Yeah, only problem is no one.

01:29:52 --> 01:29:56

Does it matter if a woman says to lock says Haley Edwards No. In

01:29:56 --> 01:29:59

Islam divorce is not in the hands of the woman even

01:30:00 --> 01:30:06

Hola, even Hola. She Ricola means a woman requests the divorce.

01:30:08 --> 01:30:10

The man doesn't want to divorce his wife, she requests the

01:30:10 --> 01:30:11

divorce.

01:30:12 --> 01:30:15

He says, Okay, I mean, well soften the blow for me a little bit. All

01:30:15 --> 01:30:19

right? Because it once she says, I want to divorce you, you're not

01:30:19 --> 01:30:21

going to have a happy marriage anyway. So he has to do it

01:30:21 --> 01:30:22

eventually.

01:30:23 --> 01:30:27

So, but he's gonna do it on terms now. You know, like in war, all

01:30:27 --> 01:30:29

right, you win. But terms, let's talk terms.

01:30:30 --> 01:30:32

I don't want to lose my wife and losing my whole family and all

01:30:32 --> 01:30:34

this, so you gotta give me some money.

01:30:35 --> 01:30:39

So she's gonna pay him back the dowry or more or less, whatever

01:30:39 --> 01:30:42

they agree on any number that they whatever is reasonable that they

01:30:42 --> 01:30:46

agree on. He takes the check. Thank you very much. You're

01:30:46 --> 01:30:49

divorced. So the divorce is still in his hands. But she initiated

01:30:49 --> 01:30:49

it.

01:30:51 --> 01:30:51

He didn't want to do it.

01:30:53 --> 01:30:55

But he's stuck. Now when a woman says I don't love you. I don't

01:30:55 --> 01:30:57

want to be with you. Unless there's you're, you're not going

01:30:57 --> 01:30:59

to force her right.

01:31:00 --> 01:31:04

But it's in his hands still. And he divorces her. That's called the

01:31:04 --> 01:31:10

hula. So if a woman says I divorce you, there is no legal merit to

01:31:10 --> 01:31:14

that. I better be right. I want to divorce you divorce me? That's

01:31:14 --> 01:31:17

yeah, now we can talk and so okay, I'll divorce you now that you want

01:31:17 --> 01:31:19

to be me hate me so much fun.

01:31:22 --> 01:31:25

What am I gonna get back? I spent so much on you. I don't want to

01:31:25 --> 01:31:30

divorce you. Right, all that. So she will give him some sum of

01:31:30 --> 01:31:31

money. And he'll he'll go

01:31:32 --> 01:31:36

and give her the divorce. That's the hula. And that's a question

01:31:36 --> 01:31:38

from Haley Edwards.

01:31:42 --> 01:31:44

How does a prenup played a part into

01:31:46 --> 01:31:51

any speaking if they have a prenup, any agreed upon any agreed

01:31:51 --> 01:31:54

upon matters in the marriage.

01:31:56 --> 01:32:01

They just can't negate the purpose of marriage. That's number one. So

01:32:01 --> 01:32:05

what is the purpose of marriage to be alone to be intimate? can't

01:32:05 --> 01:32:08

negate sexuality. purpose of marriage is to be taken care of to

01:32:08 --> 01:32:13

be protected. So the purposes of marriage cannot be negated. Also,

01:32:13 --> 01:32:15

you cannot make something unlawful.

01:32:16 --> 01:32:21

Got you. But you can say if you do this, then our marriage is out.

01:32:23 --> 01:32:27

If you do that, then I were divorced. Yeah, for example. Yeah,

01:32:27 --> 01:32:30

you could do that. You can't say you're not allowed to do this. You

01:32:30 --> 01:32:33

say if you do it, we have no deal. Yeah.

01:32:34 --> 01:32:39

Is it already in? Or is it like, okay, so she could say, it could

01:32:39 --> 01:32:41

be different. It could be the moment you do this, our marriage

01:32:41 --> 01:32:44

is nullified, even if I don't know about it. And I come to discover

01:32:44 --> 01:32:45

it later on.

01:32:46 --> 01:32:48

If he agrees upon it, if he agrees.

01:32:50 --> 01:32:51

Yeah.

01:32:52 --> 01:32:54

Now is that marriage is nullified, if he knows about let's say, she

01:32:54 --> 01:32:58

says, if you put another bottle of alcohol to your mouth, and you

01:32:58 --> 01:33:02

take a sip of alcohol, this marriage is null and void and

01:33:02 --> 01:33:06

divorce takes place. And he says yes, I agree. I'm totally off the

01:33:06 --> 01:33:12

bottle and he signs off. Then one day he does intentionally drink,

01:33:12 --> 01:33:13

he knows the deal.

01:33:14 --> 01:33:19

It's nullified. Now the other way is that if you do this, then I

01:33:19 --> 01:33:22

have the choice. But she doesn't have the choice indefinitely. She

01:33:22 --> 01:33:27

has the choice. The moment she hears about it for that sitting,

01:33:27 --> 01:33:30

that's it. That measures if she gets up and says no, I've decided

01:33:31 --> 01:33:35

to forgive him. Yeah, it's not indefinite. No, it's not enough.

01:33:35 --> 01:33:36

It's just for a set period of time.

01:33:37 --> 01:33:41

That she has the choice. She can think about it, she can look at

01:33:41 --> 01:33:45

the affairs of the family. And think if he's really was just an

01:33:45 --> 01:33:47

accident, she's gonna forgive it or not. And then she makes the

01:33:47 --> 01:33:50

decision, but it's within that sitting. That's it.

01:33:54 --> 01:33:57

Yep, we have some things you have to talk about all the time that

01:33:57 --> 01:33:58

you that

01:33:59 --> 01:34:02

is this stuff, right? Because people don't know how to get

01:34:02 --> 01:34:04

married. They're trying to get married. And within marriage,

01:34:04 --> 01:34:05

they're having trouble.

01:34:07 --> 01:34:11

Is it permissible for two friends along with their spouses to go

01:34:11 --> 01:34:15

eating out together and sit at one table across one another while

01:34:15 --> 01:34:19

partaking of the meal? There is an ayah of Quran which mentions

01:34:19 --> 01:34:23

Legendre had a common tech guru Jamia nota Karrueche data, and

01:34:23 --> 01:34:29

many of the automat have mentioned that if a two couples have invited

01:34:29 --> 01:34:33

one another, basically that's what you're saying. Let's say you

01:34:33 --> 01:34:37

invited your neighbors and you sit on all at one table provided that

01:34:38 --> 01:34:43

there's modesty observed in their behavior, then this is permitted

01:34:43 --> 01:34:43

to do that.

01:34:45 --> 01:34:50

The other Thank you Victoria for the other main tribes, there are

01:34:50 --> 01:34:53

three main tribes not five she says okay, sorry about that.

01:34:53 --> 01:34:57

Hausa, Yoruba and Igbo Hey, what about the Fulanis?

01:34:59 --> 01:34:59

What about the Fulanis

01:35:03 --> 01:35:04

The Urhobo

01:35:05 --> 01:35:07

the evil, the Hausa,

01:35:08 --> 01:35:11

the Fulani is look it up someone look it up. Victoria, we have an

01:35:11 --> 01:35:14

objection here. What about the Fulani is

01:35:16 --> 01:35:19

really on handshaking with the opposite gender legends.

01:35:20 --> 01:35:21

Let's

01:35:24 --> 01:35:25

housing Fulani are one of the name

01:35:28 --> 01:35:32

Urhobo originally from Arabs. That's why it's called you. Yeah,

01:35:32 --> 01:35:37

yeah. Yeah. So what about the Molalla? This year? mbyc,

01:35:37 --> 01:35:41

September 13 and Omakase. It's September 14, prophetic living

01:35:41 --> 01:35:46

September 15. Joy, big group mass melted, when I call it a mellow,

01:35:46 --> 01:35:47

quiet

01:35:48 --> 01:35:51

celebration of the final Prophet salallahu Salam, September 21

01:35:53 --> 01:35:56

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You Eunice L is saying we're done in anger

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is it to luck

01:36:22 --> 01:36:26

if there are words that indicates a look then yes.

01:36:27 --> 01:36:28

Yeah.

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removing all these customers and simplifying it this approach is

01:36:43 --> 01:36:48

becoming more and more popular. Agree wedding small Nikka. William

01:36:48 --> 01:36:50

Thank you. That's it.

01:36:51 --> 01:36:55

You agree to a marriage you publicize it. Now these two people

01:36:55 --> 01:37:00

that so that no other men can come and propose. And when you see

01:37:00 --> 01:37:02

these families constantly meeting you know why? Because they're

01:37:02 --> 01:37:03

engaged

01:37:05 --> 01:37:09

marriages now they're saying no social media No, nothing would be

01:37:09 --> 01:37:12

saying it is very people that know they know they're getting married,

01:37:12 --> 01:37:13

but nobody else publicly knows.

01:37:14 --> 01:37:20

If they had any kind of showing in public where to the point that it

01:37:20 --> 01:37:23

would be impossible to to hide that they're married that's

01:37:23 --> 01:37:26

sufficient. They don't have to put on social media they don't want to

01:37:28 --> 01:37:29

so you agree.

01:37:31 --> 01:37:34

You you tell your close people you're gonna tell your people that

01:37:34 --> 01:37:38

he's engaged now I'm engaged right? word spreads. There's

01:37:38 --> 01:37:41

there's no like official there's nothing official in Shetty out or

01:37:41 --> 01:37:45

anything about that except word spreads. No. But they're actually

01:37:45 --> 01:37:47

started there is because not once you learn that a woman is engaged,

01:37:47 --> 01:37:52

you can't go propose to her. Good. So it's become sinful to do that.

01:37:52 --> 01:37:58

So now, there's inika, little Nikka and msgid. Beautiful, nice

01:37:58 --> 01:38:01

little event. Usually no food, there may be some sweets, and

01:38:01 --> 01:38:04

that's it. Then you have the walima. William, it could be the

01:38:04 --> 01:38:08

same day, it could be right away. Nikka Halima in one shot.

01:38:10 --> 01:38:13

And that's it. Could your umbrella defeat stuff to you? And usually

01:38:13 --> 01:38:16

the, the guys will take the guy out first, before the wedding.

01:38:17 --> 01:38:20

Right? A woman wants to have a little party. That's all fine.

01:38:20 --> 01:38:21

That's like,

01:38:23 --> 01:38:24

all that was within what's reasonable.

01:38:25 --> 01:38:29

But now we're gonna have to rent an elephant, and all that crazy

01:38:29 --> 01:38:32

stuff. And three days and people traveling and booking tickets.

01:38:32 --> 01:38:36

That's what we call in Shediac to kind of access and burdening the

01:38:36 --> 01:38:38

people and now it's becoming a big hassle. And

01:38:40 --> 01:38:43

a lot of these customs they had a legitimate origin.

01:38:46 --> 01:38:50

Yeah, but like a lot of like, like a lot of things. The purpose kind

01:38:50 --> 01:38:52

of get lost and forgotten. Yeah.

01:38:53 --> 01:38:55

I asked, like, what comes up

01:38:57 --> 01:39:00

about like, Oh, look at the color awesomes sort of like traditions.

01:39:00 --> 01:39:06

He said, a lot of them were to like show status basically. And to

01:39:08 --> 01:39:12

basically, like, we couldn't because that isn't everything,

01:39:12 --> 01:39:15

right? Like, here's the money. What over there. It's like, oh, so

01:39:15 --> 01:39:18

they have multiple parties to show status. Like, yeah, that's, that's

01:39:18 --> 01:39:23

really that's makes it even worse. That makes it even worse. Do men

01:39:23 --> 01:39:27

have to route I have to be covered, even in private. When you

01:39:27 --> 01:39:31

are not in front of other people it is. And you're all home alone.

01:39:31 --> 01:39:34

It is still recommended for you to cover your outer because you have

01:39:34 --> 01:39:38

noble Angels in the bathroom. You don't have to cover your butt in

01:39:38 --> 01:39:42

the home. And between husband and wife when they close the door. The

01:39:42 --> 01:39:45

angels leave when they're being intimate. The angels leave.

01:39:50 --> 01:39:55

Just in general, yeah. It's not just off of pious. When we say

01:39:55 --> 01:39:59

custom. We mean the custom of practicing Muslims and Imams, and

01:39:59 --> 01:40:00

she'll hit that

01:40:00 --> 01:40:00

Time.

01:40:02 --> 01:40:06

Okay, why did you choose the medic method? Well, most Medicare will

01:40:06 --> 01:40:11

choose the Maliki method simply because of how close medic was

01:40:12 --> 01:40:17

right? To the sources of the shooter. Yeah.

01:40:19 --> 01:40:23

Yeah, no, I don't respect all the other schools. But how close is

01:40:23 --> 01:40:30

medic? Right? What is he narrating he's narrating the MMR or the Jim

01:40:30 --> 01:40:34

hood or the popular consensus of what the scholars are doing on

01:40:34 --> 01:40:39

matters of judgment. Remember, there is no FIP in Qatar a verses

01:40:39 --> 01:40:40

of Quran

01:40:41 --> 01:40:46

okay, but I versus explicit verses of the Quran we don't need 15

01:40:46 --> 01:40:53

them. Fit comes in new matters or comes in speculative language, not

01:40:53 --> 01:40:54

definitive language.

01:40:56 --> 01:41:01

And that's where we need FIP. And we need scholars to tell us well,

01:41:01 --> 01:41:03

what do we do with these verses?

01:41:06 --> 01:41:11

So Tala Brazi says I heard from a Hausa Fulani friend, but there are

01:41:11 --> 01:41:15

fowl all over West Africa. It's all the Brazi is getting involved

01:41:15 --> 01:41:19

in the I think Fulani in Nigeria, are married into the house have

01:41:20 --> 01:41:24

tried to get our there's Nigerian politics. No, it's not politics,

01:41:24 --> 01:41:28

Nigerian little sociology. But there's also I didn't bring up the

01:41:28 --> 01:41:32

Bengali situation, you know, the issues in Bangladesh? Oh, yeah.

01:41:33 --> 01:41:36

And my opinion on that I do have an opinion on even though it's not

01:41:36 --> 01:41:40

my country, but and also many of my Bengali friends who I talked to

01:41:40 --> 01:41:43

that they totally agreed. So the issue in Bangladesh is that

01:41:44 --> 01:41:47

there's a certain percentage of the jobs and all the positions

01:41:47 --> 01:41:53

have to go to the lineage of those who fought for Bengali freedom.

01:41:55 --> 01:41:57

And now it's getting to the point that people are fighting this

01:41:57 --> 01:42:01

back. Right? They're like, what is this right does not fit just as

01:42:01 --> 01:42:04

he's born this way. It's like a caste system. Everything in the

01:42:04 --> 01:42:07

subcontinent ends up in a caste system. SubhanAllah. I'm not

01:42:07 --> 01:42:10

hating on the on the subcontinent, although I am actually hating on

01:42:10 --> 01:42:15

right. But okay, so let's talk about let's look at this. Tell me

01:42:15 --> 01:42:17

if this doesn't make sense. I say

01:42:18 --> 01:42:24

everything. Yeah, there should be exceptions made for that first

01:42:24 --> 01:42:28

generation of soldiers who fought from agave and their kids. How's

01:42:28 --> 01:42:31

that? That's totally fair. Because those kids could have lost their

01:42:31 --> 01:42:35

dad. Right? Maybe he did get injured, maimed, or he has spent

01:42:35 --> 01:42:39

five years fighting this war three years fighting this war. That

01:42:39 --> 01:42:42

means he wasn't getting educated. He wasn't built putting up a shop

01:42:42 --> 01:42:45

or something like that, or building up his career or building

01:42:45 --> 01:42:46

up his wealth.

01:42:47 --> 01:42:51

But only the kids that's it. It can trickle down to the next

01:42:51 --> 01:42:54

generation and the next and the next. And also these generations

01:42:54 --> 01:42:55

are increasing.

01:42:56 --> 01:42:59

Is that a controversial thing that I just said in Bengali?

01:43:04 --> 01:43:05

Set huh?

01:43:06 --> 01:43:09

He agreed with me, brother. Janelle totally agrees with me.

01:43:09 --> 01:43:12

makes so much sense. Give it to the soldiers and all their kids.

01:43:12 --> 01:43:16

But that's it. What did these grandkid suffer or almost suffer?

01:43:16 --> 01:43:21

Nothing? Would it be wise for a sister to bring up income by HUD

01:43:21 --> 01:43:24

with potential candidate when men in family are too embarrassed to

01:43:24 --> 01:43:29

do it and tell her to lower it? Sarah, you brought up a question

01:43:29 --> 01:43:33

here. Somebody said to me yesterday. In some cultures,

01:43:33 --> 01:43:35

though Lee is literally a formality.

01:43:37 --> 01:43:41

And not actually overly he's not actually being overly

01:43:42 --> 01:43:47

the way he has to do it. If he's not doing his job, you fire him as

01:43:47 --> 01:43:50

a woody and you bring someone else to do it.

01:43:51 --> 01:43:54

Right. Well, you can't fire him as a woody if it's your dad. He's

01:43:54 --> 01:43:58

your Willie. But I highly suggest you find somebody else who is

01:43:58 --> 01:44:03

capable of talking to the husband to be the proposing man of our

01:44:03 --> 01:44:07

finances. Because that is part of the deen is not his religious

01:44:07 --> 01:44:12

obligation to cover the basic expenses of the home. It is a

01:44:12 --> 01:44:14

religious obligation and the prophesy centum said take the one

01:44:15 --> 01:44:19

of Deen in Sedona Dena Holika for xojo

01:44:21 --> 01:44:26

If you accept his deen and his character, marry him, right except

01:44:26 --> 01:44:31

him in marriage. So part of his deen is to cover the costs that's

01:44:31 --> 01:44:32

a religious obligation that he has

01:44:36 --> 01:44:41

with the province someone approached Yeah, two people one

01:44:41 --> 01:44:44

thing one of those approximate Listen, can you tell them like

01:44:45 --> 01:44:48

like in a manner in speak of speaking like him?

01:44:50 --> 01:44:50

Someone said that.

01:44:52 --> 01:44:53

Oh really? So hello.

01:44:54 --> 01:44:56

G so

01:44:58 --> 01:44:59

if you if suffered

01:45:00 --> 01:45:03

A sister is asking this question, you, you definitely need to find

01:45:03 --> 01:45:05

someone do this and if it's

01:45:08 --> 01:45:11

they're not doing it they can heal your data so be your Willie but

01:45:11 --> 01:45:12

you have to find someone else to do it

01:45:20 --> 01:45:25

is it my crew? For men and women not getting married by personal

01:45:25 --> 01:45:26

choice?

01:45:28 --> 01:45:34

We have to say that it's marriage is a sunnah. And purposely leaving

01:45:34 --> 01:45:39

a sunnah maybe can enter into Cara here. Because there are harms in

01:45:39 --> 01:45:43

that, in that such a society. There's harms to such a society.

01:45:45 --> 01:45:48

Many people aren't marrying. I'll tell you one reason why is because

01:45:48 --> 01:45:52

they get so built up in their life and career and personality. And

01:45:52 --> 01:45:54

they're such complicated figures now.

01:45:55 --> 01:45:56

And I love this example.

01:45:58 --> 01:46:00

Were you there when I give this example on where were you there?

01:46:01 --> 01:46:05

We got two little restaurants in our town, Afghan kabob and grill

01:46:05 --> 01:46:06

and Douglas pizza.

01:46:07 --> 01:46:08

owner operated restaurants.

01:46:10 --> 01:46:15

These two guys, if they wanted to make to have a merger it's

01:46:15 --> 01:46:21

probably one for meetings of negotiations. That's it, they can

01:46:21 --> 01:46:23

merge and become one restaurant, one entity.

01:46:25 --> 01:46:28

But if Burger King and Chipotle wanted to have a merger

01:46:29 --> 01:46:35

how long is that gonna be? years? years? Right? Same thing. Now you

01:46:35 --> 01:46:38

got guys with amazing resumes. And you have women with amazing

01:46:38 --> 01:46:42

resumes. How these two are gonna get married. Right? It's gonna

01:46:42 --> 01:46:46

take negotiations and talks and all sorts of stuff.

01:46:47 --> 01:46:51

Yeah, so that's why they're not getting married. There's so much.

01:46:52 --> 01:46:56

There's, it's so complicated. Your life is so complicated. That

01:46:56 --> 01:47:00

doesn't mean bad. But it's complicated. Her life is so

01:47:00 --> 01:47:00

complicated.

01:47:02 --> 01:47:06

Sometimes it's as simple as my job is in one part of the state, your

01:47:06 --> 01:47:07

job is another part

01:47:13 --> 01:47:15

because either the world isn't good enough to have kids or they

01:47:15 --> 01:47:18

just refuse because they're too busy with their own lives. Not

01:47:18 --> 01:47:19

having kids temporarily.

01:47:21 --> 01:47:24

is okay. Not having kids as a belief is not okay.

01:47:26 --> 01:47:30

I believe that. That's not okay. No, I would say that's not okay.

01:47:31 --> 01:47:36

And Allah knows best. Yeah. The Prophet peace be upon him said to

01:47:36 --> 01:47:40

cathodal Increase your numbers, right? You know how much blessing

01:47:40 --> 01:47:47

comes with with kids and not just unseen blessings? Things you could

01:47:47 --> 01:47:51

say things you could talk about, like, people could be totally down

01:47:51 --> 01:47:54

and out. But then they remember Oh, alright. We got soccer

01:47:54 --> 01:47:59

practice. That'll just totally just distract you. Right? So many

01:47:59 --> 01:48:00

things when you have kids.

01:48:01 --> 01:48:04

The benefits that are there for the parent.

01:48:05 --> 01:48:08

You can't count them. Faisal says When are you planning to come to a

01:48:08 --> 01:48:09

trip to Canada?

01:48:11 --> 01:48:13

Let me know I'd love to come to Canada but

01:48:14 --> 01:48:16

these days we're very busy here

01:48:20 --> 01:48:24

so many good questions, but we got to get to the dot. Let's load it

01:48:24 --> 01:48:29

up Omar. Kinetic Nomad revert Muslimah seeking marriage through

01:48:29 --> 01:48:34

apps has no one can be Willy. How does she speak or meet with men

01:48:34 --> 01:48:35

and keep her that?

01:48:38 --> 01:48:42

You do your best to find Muslim friends in the masjid or you go to

01:48:42 --> 01:48:44

the Imam of the masjid.

01:48:45 --> 01:48:48

And usually Imams of the masjid there. They need to help you and

01:48:48 --> 01:48:49

they will help you.

01:48:50 --> 01:48:54

And if you can't do that, you do your best at it. You do your best

01:48:55 --> 01:48:57

at some is it possible that a woman will be totally on her own?

01:48:57 --> 01:49:01

Of course it is. A woman is possible. You can fathom it Jani

01:49:02 --> 01:49:07

a woman out in Wisconsin somewhere enters Islam by reading by

01:49:07 --> 01:49:11

watching videos. Maybe she watched Muhammad

01:49:13 --> 01:49:14

are men and all Australia say

01:49:21 --> 01:49:21

Brother

01:49:23 --> 01:49:24

What's that?

01:49:27 --> 01:49:29

What's that brother crazy, must been really drunk.

01:49:31 --> 01:49:34

I'm not Muhammad hubless the guy who they're talking about talking

01:49:34 --> 01:49:35

about somebody else. But

01:49:36 --> 01:49:40

let's say you can fathom a Muslim woman a girl gets becomes Muslim

01:49:40 --> 01:49:44

in a state with no other Muslims. Right? And

01:49:45 --> 01:49:49

she may not have a wali and she may meet a guy online. It's all

01:49:49 --> 01:49:51

this is fathomable. We're not saying it happened. We're saying

01:49:51 --> 01:49:54

it's fathomable to happen. It's possible.

01:49:55 --> 01:49:58

That was perfect timing for that. But you know what I need to be

01:49:58 --> 01:49:59

able to hear it when you click it

01:50:00 --> 01:50:04

better to hear oh you know what you know what if you if there's a

01:50:04 --> 01:50:07

wire that's long enough I can have an earpiece

01:50:09 --> 01:50:10

and we do have one of those

01:50:12 --> 01:50:14

because almost no has

01:50:16 --> 01:50:19

little studio thingy and he could add sounds to

01:50:20 --> 01:50:23

so he could add whatever sound he wants right

01:50:29 --> 01:50:31

I'm just sitting here and like everyone say why is it a rainbow

01:50:31 --> 01:50:35

is playing the back? What do you mean about Peter centers or

01:50:35 --> 01:50:35

something

01:50:39 --> 01:50:44

yep these notices oh yeah that he kept accidentally hitting

01:50:44 --> 01:50:47

something taller Brazi says Can could we say there is a

01:50:47 --> 01:50:52

metaphysical compensation for the angels leaving or we do being

01:50:52 --> 01:50:54

broken when husband and wife are together?

01:50:56 --> 01:51:01

The answer to your question is that when a husband or wife are

01:51:01 --> 01:51:06

intimate, they actually should mention the dot there is a dua for

01:51:06 --> 01:51:10

this because angels are gone you don't have to now say donkey get

01:51:10 --> 01:51:11

involved.

01:51:12 --> 01:51:14

Right? And that Da is

01:51:16 --> 01:51:22

duat for that you say that and Shelton would leave that point.

01:51:23 --> 01:51:28

Let's go to the vicar and close with that we have a nice we need

01:51:28 --> 01:51:30

we need to need to make a lot of dua.

01:51:38 --> 01:51:41

owe the voluminous data on the regime of Islam Allah Rama Rahimi

01:51:41 --> 01:51:45

enough attack Malika Fattah Medina neofeudal Like Allahumma tocado in

01:51:45 --> 01:51:51

them bigger one or maybe two monometallic away and Diego Sirata

01:51:51 --> 01:51:52

must play him.

01:51:53 --> 01:51:58

Way on Soraka Allahu Nasir on Aziz what can I end Allah He would you

01:51:59 --> 01:52:02

would you ever do anything to him and Robin with Joshua God lady

01:52:02 --> 01:52:06

Fatah similar to will be similar Rahman Rahim Allah Islam and Allah

01:52:06 --> 01:52:09

fetch or Cordova she didn't mean yeah, you're Latina Ave Kunal,

01:52:09 --> 01:52:12

sort of like a Macaulay sipping embodiment How about a human I'll

01:52:12 --> 01:52:15

study it Allah find out how are you going in and on site Hola.

01:52:15 --> 01:52:19

Hola. Hola. Hola, Jorge. Europium Leto who there was one I don't

01:52:19 --> 01:52:23

know if it's similar to Mr. Mandela yes Rondo Illa Edna he's

01:52:23 --> 01:52:27

been at my microphone Well I hate to intimidate you made me love me

01:52:27 --> 01:52:31

mash was the accuracy was similar to a lot what I would have Domo

01:52:31 --> 01:52:32

and and you know the

01:52:33 --> 01:52:36

Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Allah is another Quran Allah Javelin

01:52:36 --> 01:52:40

nada, it Okasha, Mutasa them crush it allow 10 Kilometer Luna reboil

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in La La mia Tova Quran, who Allah Allah De La La Ilaha

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Rahim Allah Allah, Allah Allah Allah on medical producers,

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Mohammed Al Aziz al Jabbar machaca Subhan Allah I'm actually going

01:52:53 --> 01:52:58

oh, Aloha, local baton Musa Rolla Asma UL Husna you said the hola

01:52:58 --> 01:53:01

home F is similar to an old Mohan Aziz when Hakeem or you doing FCV

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later Adam economists malvehy Aluna anniversary I know you know

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I'm sure there's a way there's gonna be something how something

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of civil law Hello fella Carmen Sharma aka for another minute

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genuineness yonder Luna as a jar with a Latina orthopedists at

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Asma, Allah Allah Wa La Mina Jerrica Pinhoti Agia you are the

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victim and Rudy in whatever you name Omar Kareem omocha idiom is

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written out of an idea though terminal genuine answer half of

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tonic doesn't to Me Love is my labia telomer like tilapia, Allah.

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illa Allah Muhammad Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam ala

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Hama who's Neva Nicoletti let Anna McNerney be Kenefick Allah de la

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rom what how many of your quadratic Allah Allah Allah

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nurse at double bass is Fanta Shafi well I've entered my field

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as Shiva Illa Shiva, Shiva no other Sokka Manuela lmm here

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can take financial liquidity usher in the Kanto Allahu Allahu Akbar,

01:54:34 --> 01:54:37

was Allah Allahu ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi

01:54:37 --> 01:54:40

Salam Sleeman Kathira anti-urban Mubarak and fie well hamdulillahi

01:54:40 --> 01:54:44

rabbil Alameen Allah who know about the nomadic hula Khalifa or

01:54:44 --> 01:54:48

hamara he me in a

01:54:51 --> 01:54:54

few minutes for da Jolla. If you're not aware of the dua of

01:54:54 --> 01:54:57

Wednesday set a time where dot can be accepted

01:54:59 --> 01:55:00

between

01:55:00 --> 01:55:01

indura Nasaan Wednesdays.

01:56:37 --> 01:56:40

Some of the law about I gotta say deny Muhammad Anwar early he was

01:56:40 --> 01:56:43

abused Saddam Subhanallah because I believe that young males if one

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was salam ala l Mursaleen. Al Hamdulillah he or Billa LME in see

01:56:50 --> 01:56:53

you all tomorrow folks does that come off it was set up on a Kumar

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how much Allah

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job

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lot who

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the call

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