Shadee Elmasry – Impact of Hardships on Men vs. Women

Shadee Elmasry
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The speaker discusses the difficulty of women going through hardships and how they produce different results. They suggest that burdening a woman with negative qualities is a way to be stronger and that resistance is key to achieving this. The speaker also mentions how women have to deal with difficult situations and how they can be more comfortable with different roles.

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			The more difficulty that a guy
goes through, it makes him
		
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			stronger, better and more
valuable. But if a woman goes
		
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			through those hardships, she's not
meant to go through those
		
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			hardships, a woman is burdened
with the same thing that a man is
		
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			burdened with. It produces a whole
different result. When you burden
		
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			a man, and he's burdened, and he
does stuff, and he does hard work
		
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			every single day, you actually
you're polishing a rock, and
		
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			you're producing someone a value.
When a woman has to do that stuff.
		
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			It changes your personality to the
worse, generates qualities that
		
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			are not qualities that Allah
created for them to manifest. The
		
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			qualities of Jalon are supposed to
come out in a minute. How do you
		
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			make someone strong by resistance?
The man's got to be in a
		
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			resistance every day, every day,
he's got to do something
		
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			difficult. He gets strong about
what she has the qualities of
		
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			Rama, how do you have the
qualities of Rama by not having
		
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			those resistances and by caring
for fragile things? You walk into
		
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			a nursery school and you see three
bearded guys and then you go to
		
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			the opposite nursery school, and
there are four women. Which one
		
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			are you going to be more
comfortable with?