Shadee Elmasry – How to Give Naseeha

How do you forbid evil without being hated and blacklisted? First

you want to express that you like these people, that you're friends

with them, that you love them, you don't have to some expression of

that sort of softens the whole thing, then you have to say that,

you know, we all make mistakes, we all commit sins, like there's no

superiority here. And there's no shock. Like, we're not saying, Oh,

you change your life in hours, you're going to * straight on

what I'm going to talk to you again, no, but this thing here, I

know some of us do it. But it's that's the ruling. It's not my

religion. I don't make up the rules. And also we should create a

culture where we accept no see how we have to create a culture where

we should accept some sandpaper, we should accept it. It's better

for us to all have a psyche that we all have to be willing and

ready to be told what you're doing right now that's a mistake. But we

should also say it in a nice way. Otherwise, why would anyone want

to be there? Allah says to the Prophet, if you are harsh and hard

hearted then I'll leave from you