Shadee Elmasry – How to Give Naseeha

			How do you forbid evil without
being hated and blacklisted? First
		

			you want to express that you like
these people, that you're friends
		

			with them, that you love them, you
don't have to some expression of
		

			that sort of softens the whole
thing, then you have to say that,
		

			you know, we all make mistakes, we
all commit sins, like there's no
		

			superiority here. And there's no
shock. Like, we're not saying, Oh,
		

			you change your life in hours,
you're going to * straight on
		

			what I'm going to talk to you
again, no, but this thing here, I
		

			know some of us do it. But it's
that's the ruling. It's not my
		

			religion. I don't make up the
rules. And also we should create a
		

			culture where we accept no see how
we have to create a culture where
		

			we should accept some sandpaper,
we should accept it. It's better
		

			for us to all have a psyche that
we all have to be willing and
		

			ready to be told what you're doing
right now that's a mistake. But we
		

			should also say it in a nice way.
Otherwise, why would anyone want
		

			to be there? Allah says to the
Prophet, if you are harsh and hard
		

			hearted then I'll leave from you