Shadee Elmasry – Honoring Parents A Direct Route to Jannah

Shadee Elmasry
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The speaker discusses the importance of parents in society and their rights to their children. They use the example of Facebook and Twitter to illustrate the need for parents to be kind and consider their children. The speaker also emphasizes the need for parents to be aware of the consequences of their actions and to behave in a calm and calm manner.
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Now goes on to a different subject, family, society and

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politics are in Paris and care for them and senior and CRT in their

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CRT.

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Your Lord has decreed that you worship numbered him, and that you

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be kind to your parents, whether one or both of them attains the

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old age, you say not to them a word of content of as long as

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Portela mentions, nor repel them, but address them in terms of

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honor. So when it comes to the parents almost $4 plus a month, a

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very special rank. And the other mom mentioned about this last

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month, Allah in order to show us the high rank that last month

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Allah has placed the parents in, he first says about him. Welcome,

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Rob Booker, Madhu Illa yah hoo, who the he says in the very

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beginning, that we have decreed that you worship none but Him

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meaning Allah subhanaw taala.

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And then right after that, he tells us about being good to our

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parents.

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And so Allah subhanaw taala, showing us the seriousness that

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he's put with the parents. And so this is why you always have to be

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in a state of kindness to your parents, Allah Swatara has put

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this in the Quran for a reason. And Allah subhanaw taala has also

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said, to not even say a word of off. So for example, in the

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translation, they say a word of content, but this guy was

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mentioned, that's what I thought I'd say off, he used pretty much

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the lightest way of showing dissatisfaction to your parents,

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you know, the Arabic language to say off is akin to, you know,

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showing some type of displeasure to your parents. So for your, for

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example, here in America, you know, it might be something like,

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you know, saying sucking your teeth or rolling your eyes, or

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something of that to show that you're not pleased with what your

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parents have asked you for. And last month, I'll say don't even do

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that. Meaning that that is something minor, so don't even go

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above that. And for example, Sheikh Mohammed mo Lu Rahim, Allah

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Tala the Great's Mauritania scholar, he has a poem that he

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compiled on the very day, who's called a wonderful Marathi

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feed very bit of valuable knowledge that the rights of

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parents

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are referred to refer to Murata, you know the, the rights of the

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rights of the parents and the grandparents.

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When ended he says that's when it he has a certain chapter, the

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chapter of beer, where he actually talks about what it means to be

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righteous to parents, and he talks about certain concepts so he says

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that hockey cutter Votto the Akiko burrowed even Macaulay wakatobi

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we'll just see what I'm wildly for Coca Cola cola and Lena has Murphy

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decretive Jarmo Bayona the colon Abdon degenerate and Anil Benny

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they say he said he fugly Julian. So, Sheikh Mohammed Mahmoud, he

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says in this particular beginning He says that you know, the

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realities of the RT Haqiqa to borrow the bid Macaulay the

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realities of having righteousness to your parents are having

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kindness your parents is in your speech, the Macaulay Albee will

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just do what I'm wearing, and also with the hearts and the body and

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with your wealth.

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And then he goes on to say welcome to undergo lockdown. And Lena has

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Murphy decree Zhao, Zhao, Jamel Benina. And it says at first

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speech it is to speak to them a kind word

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for Coca Cola count. And Lena has Murphy degree Jamel Bayona. And

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this is what has come down to us in a clear proof.

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Customer Murphy degree jam Oba Jana

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COVID Abdon de janai. It's in the LIN Benny, they say differently,

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Julian, the way that a slave will be in front of a king in front of

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his master who was a harsh and cruel master. So this is the way

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that Sheikh Mohammed Mahmoud is, you know, telling us that how

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we're supposed to act upon this verse that were supposed to be in

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such a state that we will be as if, for example, just imagine that

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you are a slave, and you did something wrong. And you had a

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harsh and cruel master. How would you talk in front of that harsh

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and cruel master? If you are a slave and you did something wrong?

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So this is a way that Sheikh Mohammed Mahmoud is saying that we

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should be with our parents. And later on in that same chapter he

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says you know, backpack for all sorts. Latifah Soto Allah Hema,

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Allah, that Ohama was making my village Allah McKenna who Yahweh

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Allah de Well yeah. When that million dollar tomato Juba, he

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says later on in that chapter that do not even raise your voice to

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them that are also Talia Hema, Willa.

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automap is Mahima

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measure other adults call them by their names except in their place.

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Yeah Why did you?

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Locanda who? Yeah, why did the Well yeah, but except in their

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place, say something like Oh my father or Oh my dear parents Yeah.

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Why did he Well, yeah, but

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when that woman dad or when that will Tamala G bar or other or

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other callings, like that that are of respectful manner.

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And so this has to do with their parents. Now, when we're talking

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about kindness to the parents, this does not necessarily mean

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that you're going to obey your parents and everything that they

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tell you, for example,

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and again, God quoting from Sheikh Mohammed mo Lutz poem, he says

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later on in his in his, in his poem, he says that, you know, I'll

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see him feature me and maybe hear

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how their element thereof, that you obey them and everything that

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they command you as long as it is free from harm or death or

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detriments.

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And so, in general may the scholars will put kindness akin to

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obedience. And as long as your parents are not calling you to do

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something that's going to harm you or or something that is haram.

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Then inshallah you should obey them. But it is not an absolute

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obedience. However, even if this thing will you not want to obey

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them, for example, if they're calling you to do something haram,

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even in that particular case, you still have to deal with him a

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kindness. And this is what's this verses alluding to that even in

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such a state, you still have to approach your parents in a calm

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manner even if they're calling you to do something that is haram.

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