Shadee Elmasry – Honoring Parents A Direct Route to Jannah

Shadee Elmasry
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The speaker discusses the importance of parents in society and their rights to their children. They use the example of Facebook and Twitter to illustrate the need for parents to be kind and consider their children. The speaker also emphasizes the need for parents to be aware of the consequences of their actions and to behave in a calm and calm manner.

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			Now goes on to a different
subject, family, society and
		
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			politics are in Paris and care for
them and senior and CRT in their
		
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			CRT.
		
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			Your Lord has decreed that you
worship numbered him, and that you
		
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			be kind to your parents, whether
one or both of them attains the
		
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			old age, you say not to them a
word of content of as long as
		
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			Portela mentions, nor repel them,
but address them in terms of
		
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			honor. So when it comes to the
parents almost $4 plus a month, a
		
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			very special rank. And the other
mom mentioned about this last
		
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			month, Allah in order to show us
the high rank that last month
		
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			Allah has placed the parents in,
he first says about him. Welcome,
		
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			Rob Booker, Madhu Illa yah hoo,
who the he says in the very
		
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			beginning, that we have decreed
that you worship none but Him
		
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			meaning Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			And then right after that, he
tells us about being good to our
		
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			parents.
		
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			And so Allah subhanaw taala,
showing us the seriousness that
		
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			he's put with the parents. And so
this is why you always have to be
		
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			in a state of kindness to your
parents, Allah Swatara has put
		
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			this in the Quran for a reason.
And Allah subhanaw taala has also
		
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			said, to not even say a word of
off. So for example, in the
		
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			translation, they say a word of
content, but this guy was
		
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			mentioned, that's what I thought
I'd say off, he used pretty much
		
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			the lightest way of showing
dissatisfaction to your parents,
		
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			you know, the Arabic language to
say off is akin to, you know,
		
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			showing some type of displeasure
to your parents. So for your, for
		
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			example, here in America, you
know, it might be something like,
		
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			you know, saying sucking your
teeth or rolling your eyes, or
		
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			something of that to show that
you're not pleased with what your
		
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			parents have asked you for. And
last month, I'll say don't even do
		
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			that. Meaning that that is
something minor, so don't even go
		
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			above that. And for example,
Sheikh Mohammed mo Lu Rahim, Allah
		
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			Tala the Great's Mauritania
scholar, he has a poem that he
		
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			compiled on the very day, who's
called a wonderful Marathi
		
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			feed very bit of valuable
knowledge that the rights of
		
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			parents
		
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			are referred to refer to Murata,
you know the, the rights of the
		
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			rights of the parents and the
grandparents.
		
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			When ended he says that's when it
he has a certain chapter, the
		
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			chapter of beer, where he actually
talks about what it means to be
		
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			righteous to parents, and he talks
about certain concepts so he says
		
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			that hockey cutter Votto the Akiko
burrowed even Macaulay wakatobi
		
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			we'll just see what I'm wildly for
Coca Cola cola and Lena has Murphy
		
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			decretive Jarmo Bayona the colon
Abdon degenerate and Anil Benny
		
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			they say he said he fugly Julian.
So, Sheikh Mohammed Mahmoud, he
		
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			says in this particular beginning
He says that you know, the
		
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			realities of the RT Haqiqa to
borrow the bid Macaulay the
		
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			realities of having righteousness
to your parents are having
		
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			kindness your parents is in your
speech, the Macaulay Albee will
		
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			just do what I'm wearing, and also
with the hearts and the body and
		
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			with your wealth.
		
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			And then he goes on to say welcome
to undergo lockdown. And Lena has
		
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			Murphy decree Zhao, Zhao, Jamel
Benina. And it says at first
		
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			speech it is to speak to them a
kind word
		
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			for Coca Cola count. And Lena has
Murphy degree Jamel Bayona. And
		
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			this is what has come down to us
in a clear proof.
		
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			Customer Murphy degree jam Oba
Jana
		
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			COVID Abdon de janai. It's in the
LIN Benny, they say differently,
		
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			Julian, the way that a slave will
be in front of a king in front of
		
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			his master who was a harsh and
cruel master. So this is the way
		
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			that Sheikh Mohammed Mahmoud is,
you know, telling us that how
		
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			we're supposed to act upon this
verse that were supposed to be in
		
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			such a state that we will be as
if, for example, just imagine that
		
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			you are a slave, and you did
something wrong. And you had a
		
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			harsh and cruel master. How would
you talk in front of that harsh
		
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			and cruel master? If you are a
slave and you did something wrong?
		
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			So this is a way that Sheikh
Mohammed Mahmoud is saying that we
		
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			should be with our parents. And
later on in that same chapter he
		
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			says you know, backpack for all
sorts. Latifah Soto Allah Hema,
		
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			Allah, that Ohama was making my
village Allah McKenna who Yahweh
		
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			Allah de Well yeah. When that
million dollar tomato Juba, he
		
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			says later on in that chapter that
do not even raise your voice to
		
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			them that are also Talia Hema,
Willa.
		
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			automap is Mahima
		
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			measure other adults call them by
their names except in their place.
		
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			Yeah Why did you?
		
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			Locanda who? Yeah, why did the
Well yeah, but except in their
		
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			place, say something like Oh my
father or Oh my dear parents Yeah.
		
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			Why did he Well, yeah, but
		
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			when that woman dad or when that
will Tamala G bar or other or
		
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			other callings, like that that are
of respectful manner.
		
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			And so this has to do with their
parents. Now, when we're talking
		
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			about kindness to the parents,
this does not necessarily mean
		
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			that you're going to obey your
parents and everything that they
		
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			tell you, for example,
		
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			and again, God quoting from Sheikh
Mohammed mo Lutz poem, he says
		
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			later on in his in his, in his
poem, he says that, you know, I'll
		
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			see him feature me and maybe hear
		
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			how their element thereof, that
you obey them and everything that
		
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			they command you as long as it is
free from harm or death or
		
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			detriments.
		
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			And so, in general may the
scholars will put kindness akin to
		
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			obedience. And as long as your
parents are not calling you to do
		
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			something that's going to harm you
or or something that is haram.
		
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			Then inshallah you should obey
them. But it is not an absolute
		
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			obedience. However, even if this
thing will you not want to obey
		
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			them, for example, if they're
calling you to do something haram,
		
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			even in that particular case, you
still have to deal with him a
		
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			kindness. And this is what's this
verses alluding to that even in
		
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			such a state, you still have to
approach your parents in a calm
		
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			manner even if they're calling you
to do something that is haram.
		
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