Shadee Elmasry – Hikam Class #7

Shadee Elmasry
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The speakers discuss the importance of time and how it is the cornerstone of life, as well as the challenges of measuring success and achieving optimal savings. They emphasize the importance of acknowledging one's actions and intentions in achieving optimal savings and the importance of achieving a spiritual promise. The speakers also touch on the benefits of living in a certain position and avoiding work hours, as well as the importance of staying true to one's life and avoiding distractions. They emphasize the importance of using time for personal reasons and avoiding distractions, as well as rebuilding one's life after a difficult time.
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While

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he was Salatu was Salam Why not assuming

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he was talking to him.

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First thing I want to talk about is something a little bit

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different from what's next in the book which is page 123 which is

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Chuck's chapter on time and its importance because

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the all important people, everyone who wants to achieve something in

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life focuses on the subject of time.

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But the SOFIA in particular

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give a lot of emphasis on the subject matter. Before this, I

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want to talk about another critical critical subject which is

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to

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wow, SULI

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hedaya guidance and how to obtain it.

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Firstly, simple question, what is guidance? Okay, what is guidance?

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Guidance, is that your body and your heart are in line with the

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Divine Will.

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That's your body, your limbs, and you're

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certainly up to the near to if you want

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your limbs and your heart are in line

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with the Divine Will.

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Okay, this ultimately is Hidayat and if you can imagine an orbit,

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okay, planets are all good orbiting around in their sun moons

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are orbiting around their planet. Okay. Everything in space is

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orbiting perfectly. You don't see crash accidents in space. You

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don't see the moon being you know.

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Question questionable. The moon is never questioned Well, the sun is

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never questioned. Well, it's predictable. Everything is running

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perfectly. If it wasn't predictable to wasn't moving

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perfectly, we would have chaos on the earth. Okay. So he died is

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that we are operating in the orbit that we're supposed to be in as

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human beings. Okay?

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The difference is that the planets in the moon there Yani.

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Very simple. Our lives are much more complex, okay, but we're in

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our orbit, so long as we're not doing what we're not supposed to

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be doing. And we're doing what we're supposed to be doing. Okay?

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And our heart is in the position that it's supposed to be. Now.

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This no human being by himself, can do can get this and be like

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this by himself. A person is only guided because Allah is preserving

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him. Can the sun be doing what it's doing by itself? Right? Can

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the moon be doing what is doing by itself? No, only Allah azza wa jal

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is holding them in place. So how do we get to hold ourselves in

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place? We can't do it ourselves. We can only do it if Allah is

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preserving us of God. This is why the NBN are my sole and only are

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my food then we cannot do wrong. Okay, and now we are protected

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from rock. Of course, the big difference being that someone who

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he can at some point in his life do something wrong, or in his

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past, but the earlier are muffled, protected.

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Hidayat is the most valuable thing in the creation of the universe.

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Okay, it's the most valuable thing in the creation of the universe.

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Okay. Why is that?

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What is more valuable, your to be alive? Or to be guided? What is

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the value of life if you're alive, but not guided? You're in

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hellfire, and what are those people on the way we say and so

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that's another? Yeah, that's an equal to two robber. I wish that I

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was just if I was a rock, it would be better off for me that to be

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dragged to *. So hidayah is more valuable than life is more

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valuable to us than our own life. But what is the value of the band?

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Its value is eternal paradise. That's the value of it.

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Look at this

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In this life, if you attain Hidayat just for two breaths for

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two breaths before your death,

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you're guaranteed paradise for an eternity. So he died. Closing out

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your life with Daya with guidance is equal, that small bit of

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guidance is equal to an eternity of paradise. Now, we now come to

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the question of if a Daya is only from Allah azza wa jal and only by

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Allah that people are guided, then how do we earn it? You can't do it

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yourself. But you can earn How do you earn it?

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Okay, and this is the mistake many people make many people make this

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mistake. They imagine that one or two deeds that they can do or that

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there's a specific vicar or there's a specific action that

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they can do to attain hidayah you're wrong. The only thing that

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will gain you here is what they call a suitable fifth column.

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Sigurd sincerity in one thing, the only cardinal sin that you can do

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that will guarantee that you're not going to receive hedaya. Okay,

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is giving up.

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Giving up is the only form that you can do in this matter. The one

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who is seeking Hidayat, he can and most likely we all do commit

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wrongs. Would bad wrongs, major wrongs, prop big problems. We want

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him and that should be our goal. But we have baggage, we have

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issues. Our hearts are still attached to dunya our heart we

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have ego problems, we have so many problems. There's only one way to

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attain this hidayah. And that is to sincerely want it. And there's

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only one way to guarantee you're not going to get it and that is to

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give up to give up. This is why the first hikma he says in the

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heckum webinar

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is when he says oh actually this is out of order.

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But he says the one heckuva is if you think that you're going to

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gain guidance by yourself, that's your first problem. You're not

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gonna get it from yourself. Okay. Now there is a parable that the

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ultimate give, there's a parable. Okay, that there's a ship, one of

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the greatest ships, the greatest ship of the time. And the sailors

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they go around the collects.

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Go to islands, and they collect whatever they collect from there.

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And this ship survives everything. And it's like paradise. The ship

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is perfect. Now, the captain, he's getting old is back in the day

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when they live to 300 years. The captain is getting old, he needs

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to assign the next person to to be the captain of the ship. Okay. So

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what does he do? He doesn't interview them. He doesn't give it

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to the first mate. He does not give it to the best worker on the

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ship.

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But rather he tells everyone, we're going on a mission.

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Just short mission, but it's very bad place. So go do the job really

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quick. And wait until I call you back. Okay.

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And he goes, gets onto the beach, but he doesn't take them to a bad

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island. He takes them to a gorgeous Island, a boy cute

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country. And he takes him there. And then in the middle of the

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night while everyone's sleeping. He goes up to the mountain and he

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watches. Okay, he watches them from the top of the mountain.

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The first month, everyone is just pitching their tent on the beach

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and waiting just to the job that they have to do and wait. Just

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came waiting for the for the captain to come back, say All

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Aboard on the ship. But he doesn't come back. So they just get tired

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of waiting. Okay, so they start going peeking into the island a

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little bit, go in a little bit, take a peek and come back. Well,

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by the second month. They're taking a peek spending all day in

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the island and coming back on that night. Well, by the third month,

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they're going in and spending the night in the island and only

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coming back once a week to check if the ship has been boarded or

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not. Well, by the end of the first year, they've totally forgotten

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about the ship. And they're taken by all the new things that they

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see on this island. They're taken, okay, and they go deep into the

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country until the ship and its captain

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are a mere memory.

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ship and its captain are mere memory. Okay.

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At that point, the captain waits to who see who is going to come

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back? Who is trying to come back? All right, who's talking about the

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ship? Who even remembers the ship? Until finally, someone, the one

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the first one, the ones who make it back, okay? are the ones who

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become the captains of the next ship. Why? Because the lesson

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isn't that you need to be the best person at running a ship, you need

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to want it the most. That is what it

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goes to Allah azza wa jal is not looking at the best Muslim Now,

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who's the best, most of them now he's not looking at that, who

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wants it the most. And so as soon as soon as someone gets a taste of

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it,

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they should expect a test to be thrown at them. And some of the

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tests are very hard. Some of the tests the one of the hardest one

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is the mild one that lasts a long time. This is actually the hardest

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one, if someone puts a gun to your head at this minute and says, you

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want it or not, that's actually not a hard test, you know, we've

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been tested, you know, it's gonna be two minutes and the pass or

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fail really quickly. That's not a problem. The big problem is the

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long distance tell me what's harder to do like a four

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millimeter or 400 meter dash or a marathon? Right? The dash you

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either faster or not. But the marathon takes a lot of training.

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And Allah azza wa jal oftentimes puts us in three, four or 510 year

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tests, we have to understand this, right? Sometimes the test is four

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or 567 years, and we're just not able to get our hedaya He is just

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waiting. Are you going to give up or not? Are you going to give up

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or not? And the tests of Allah azza wa jal, as I live in Abu

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Talib said, Okay, has a time limit Kulu che in the room with

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everything, every test that Allah gives, the person has a time

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limit, all you have to do is pass the test laid out the time time

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limit. And so an individual will put 100% effort to attain Matt if

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of Allah to draw near to Allah to change. And yet Allah will not

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granted to him, he will continue making him do the same since

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allowing him to fall in the same sense. Okay, and he will regroup

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off again, and do another push and pull 1,000% effort

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and do everything the client says everything the ship says, still,

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he's not getting it. Still his faltering, he's not reaching it.

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Right?

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Allah azza wa jal is not testing whether or not you can do it. He's

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testing how bad you want it, you're going to fail once or

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twice, I'm waiting, when you're gonna give up. The only sin that

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you can do that will cause you not to have a day is to give up. If

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you give up, you're finished. And I'm telling you Subhanallah, you

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see some people, the best of us, there have been the best of us.

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And they give up tomorrow, they gave up they didn't want it bad

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enough, you have to want it. And this is why all of the automat

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have to solve, they will tell you there's one way to attain the

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Promised Land spiritual promise and that we're all seeking. Some

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of you have only heard about it, some of you have seen it, and then

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lots,

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some of you have climbed the mountain loads and then fell

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again.

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The only way that you will reside in that level that we're all

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talking about and is being described here is through one way

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and that is a center for follow up. It may take two years, one

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year, 20 minutes or 20 years. Okay? You have to want it and this

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Allah only granted to those who have proven that they want it

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otherwise it's going to be squandered and why is it going to

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be squandered? This guidance is more valuable. Okay. The value of

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guidance is an eternity in paradise. That's the value of it,

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so he will not give it to someone who will squander it. The one who

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will squander it is not the one with the best safe, right? The one

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who won't squander it is not the one with the best safe. The best

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luck it's the one with the most stubbornness persistency Okay?

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Stubborn, persistent and faithful believing you're gonna get it's

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just a matter of time. And subhanAllah there have been some

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reads

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okay.

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33 years he describes some reads 40 years describing that he's just

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a routine run of the mill motors he does good Some days he does bad

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Some days he does good some days is bad some days and he's just

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watching other people events all his whole life. Finally, Allah

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azza wa jal give it to

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If and when you get this hit, if you don't know what happened to

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yourself, all of a sudden, everything that you feel that you

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were doing that you can't stop doing, all of a sudden, it's gone.

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You don't even think about it anymore. Something one or two

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little decisions that you made. It says if Allah azza wa jal took a

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flash drive and drag the virus from your hard drive to a flash

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drive and put the track flash took the flash drive out and throw it

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in the garbage.

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That's how it just all of a sudden, some light bulb went off.

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This is why they will always tell us it's not from us. I don't know

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what happened. It's just it's off. And somebody else turned on.

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That's it. Subhan Allah, this, this is a sign that something is

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from Allah can't explain how it happened.

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Okay.

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Now,

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that was a little any tangential thing that I want to share, which

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is essence of the

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essence of the soul, Wolf, a surgical formula? And if you want

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to know, what is the nature of this happiness, we don't

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understand, you don't understand what is this hedaya You don't get

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it. One of the examples that they give is to look at the life and

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the state of a child.

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The state of a child, the state of a child is always in happiness.

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Okay? The state of a child is just carefree. The shade of a child,

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there is no ego, there is no dunya there's no knifes, they don't

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children don't have envy, like I'm talking three and four years old.

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They don't have envy. They don't have all these things. They're

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pure, they're happy. Okay, and this is what we got to be looking

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at. If someone doesn't have a clue. What is this state that

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we're talking about? What is this guidance? Right? It's freedom from

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these shackles of sins sins, our shackles keeping us down? Don't

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you want to be free from them? Right.

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So this is what this state of EDA is all about.

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And then we look at Dalian he look at how they lead their lives. How

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are they mountains like this? They're not, you know, faltering

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one way or the other.

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And they're the most happy of people.

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Okay, now to the hikma of page 123, on time, and its importance,

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ma'am, and never listened to the INLA aka the room fee on the

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basically, the summary of this is Every Breath You Take you lose

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part of your life.

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Every time you inhale and exhale, part of your life is God. Okay? So

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ask yourself what part of my life just went?

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Every time you breathe in and out? What part of your life just

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disappeared? Okay, what are you doing at that moment? Okay, and

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every action that you are doing, you should be able to justify it

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with knowledge from the religious law, okay. Or some

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even your level, we have a couple of things you have level n.

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And GID. You have three categories. Gender, of course

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means seriousness, that which is beneficial that which is real.

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Okay, then you have less live and low. And then what's the other

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one?

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Yeah, live. Live

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is something that is not real, but is building characteristics needed

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for what's real. So

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for example, when kids are playing certain games, let's say kid is

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playing a math game, right? Way back in the day, there was math

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buckets, right? You got to answer the equation before the little

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thing goes into the bucket. It's just a game, right? Or there's

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Carmen Sandiego, geography, game, geography and general knowledge,

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right? So these are all games, right? But we say this life has an

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end. When you do this game a lot. You learn geography or you learn

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math.

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In certain sports that people do you learn victory, you learn loss,

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you learn teamwork, you learn a lot of different things, or you

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gain exercise so that it's meaningless in itself, but

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secondarily, it has a benefit. This is live right? Now. What is

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Level Level is a type that is meaningless in itself and is not

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preparing you for anything else. It is not preparing you for

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anything else. Like let's take a comparison between someone who

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plays basketball. Well, you would learn a lot of lessons in

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basketball. Firstly, you're even physically fit. Secondly, you're

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learning teamwork. You're learning how to win How to Lose all these

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things. You're learning a lot. Okay, versus some

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One who is playing solitaire

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it's just a game of meaninglessness, you don't learn

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anything. And there is no benefit at all there. Okay, so it's

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complete waste of time. This is a bribe and level now what is the

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shot a difference live has a place live has a place live busy

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learning things so a lot is should be removed

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circumstance when you're doing level with your family as this is

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the way to bond with one another okay

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this is a way of bonding between one another okay? And sometimes

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some families they don't get along so what do they do they have to do

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some level together that's the only thing

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okay low like watching TV together watching this Super Bowl because

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you know TV turns out

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two minutes of fights gonna break out so the TV on right then no

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fighting is gonna happen. So unfortunately but law or the

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prophets I seldom said with your family is the only time that Allah

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azza wa jal doesn't mind you doing low okay if this is the way to get

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your family to be happy together and of course no human beings all

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need downtime. So to do this with your family is accepted to do it

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outside your family and your friends is accepted.

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Judas seriousness that which is real

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Okay, next one is

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every state has a heart

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Okay? Liquid government God right?

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For every state that you're in, okay, it has a hop. Alright being

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in the masjid is not like being at work. Being at work is not like

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being with your family. Being with your family is not like being with

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your parents said so on and so forth. Everything is different.

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Everything has a hawk. People have to know what is this the hawk?

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What is the role of a man in his household? What is the role of the

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prophets I sell him in his household? Kindness of Allah one

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day he was sending him there in the few minutes

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that the prophets I send them in his household. His sunnah is that

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he takes the role of a servant

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of his family. Okay.

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And the children take the servant of the parents the role of

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servants to the parents. So the prophets I seldom he is serving if

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he's in the house of that Isha even though he's much older than

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her, and he's the Prophet sighs I insurance. How is the Prophet when

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he's with you in the home? He says he takes the role as if he is a

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servant, cooking the bread sweeping the floor, mending shoes,

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etc. Okay, lifting crumbs off the floor. This is the how the Prophet

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spent his time as a default setting with his family. Okay.

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And the children in the family are also servants to the parents.

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Okay.

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So every position that you have, you have to know the Sunnah of

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action in that position, and you cannot waste time. Right? Do not

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waste time. wastage of time is one of the biggest Cardinal issues

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that a number of his early talks about and having to solve talks

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about all the time. Every breath that you take, you have to ask

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what position on my end and what is the hub of that position? If

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you're sick, the hub is Southern. Right? Rebekah Sadiq made a big

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distinction and honorable caught up. They made a big distance

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between day and night. And welcome to Sydney said there is Iman for

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Allah in the night not acceptable in the day and there is no love

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today not acceptable at night. Okay and what does he mean by this

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the daytime is for Hickmott and OMA service of the OMA and the

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nighttime. It's for a bad of Allah. That we are not

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workaholics. In America we have to know that America is not like the

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rest of the world and usually the number one greatest country in the

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world is a little bit different and it has a problem. We are all

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workaholics. We are addicted to work if you are sitting down for

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two minutes just relaxing

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it's like something in the air will come and tell you you're

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wasting time. Right if you're making something will come and

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tell you you're wasting time. What should you be doing something

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economic something that was productive, something that is

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going to get you a raise something that's good for your resume. The

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drive is all materialistic for work? Well, a robocall gives us a

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ruling Workers for the day. In general of course sorted them

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resemble tells us that Allah knows some workers at night, but in

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general workers for the day and what's that night

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As for Allah,

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that means there should be a time where everything shuts off. And it

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used to be the normal. If you left the office a lot you can't write

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unless you bring a file home with you. But now, it could be Sunday

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to end and you could be in your bedroom. But with technology, you

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could be doing work. You could be checking emails, you could be

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doing work. While we know we have guidance, we have to shut this

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down. Okay, work has a time. And what is a bucket? What did he

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consider work?

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The highest religious work

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is to be the Khalifa. Is there any function in this society better

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than to be the Khalifa of the Messenger of Allah? I mean, it's

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greater than being a brain surgeon, greater than being a

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heart surgeon. You're the Khalifa of Rasul Allah. And yet he tells

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us there is a job, it's to be done in the day. It's not acceptable to

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do it at night. And a night is not acceptable if you do it in the

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day. Okay. All right.

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Of course, we all know his story. He was asked he is the second

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Felipa he is the SEC prior to the death of the prophets Rule The

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Omen. Okay.

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When do you sleep? He says the cannula of the night of the

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afternoon. Well, why don't you sleep at night? How can I sleep at

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night when there's the hack of Allah? Right? And then they say

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Why don't you do it in the day? He said how can I do it in the day

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it's the hack of the bed. It's the right for the servants of Allah

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for me to serve as their Khalifa but when the night falls they

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don't have the right for that anymore. It's Allah's time

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and this is why they said for Sanam dinar would have been

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delayed. Okay, the salah for described as soldiers by day monks

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by night, we cannot have an imbalance, you don't want to be

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one of these people who are filled with anxiety because they're

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overworked. Nor do you want to be from those who made the opposite

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mistake and became monks by night and month by day, and you end up

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unemployed

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and useless. And what do these people do? They end up having a

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reaction towards religion, because five years later, he's an

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unemployed guy, and all of his friends are in medical school

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married

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and he's unemployed. Why he misplaced everything. He became a

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failure in life. So now what does he do? He turns and he rebels

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against the cause that made him realize that he's a failure in

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life. We have to be balanced. There's a time for a bad and

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there's a time for work. And there's a time for these things to

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be shut down. Most of the youth today they're suffering anxiety,

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because there have no limits. They have no limits on their

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technology. There is no limit on their technology. And recently, if

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you heard the news, a boy, his grandma was waking him up.

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Everyone heard this story. His grandma woke them up for school.

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So he got so angry with her. She couldn't get him up. The mom came

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and they both couldn't get them. The boy up. He got so angry, he

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walked him, marched up, got his gun and shot them all.

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But he was so sleepy, he shot them and didn't get the heart. He

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didn't get any mortal wounds. They all were hospitalized and they're

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fine, they're alive. But he shot everyone in his household because

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of the how they will come up. So people are like, what kind of

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insanity is this? Well, one psychiatrist is saying, believe it

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or not, okay, this sounds crazy. But you can be sleep deprived. So

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regularly on such a regular basis, you can actually behave this way

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you can be crazy. And I'm telling you, these kids are now sleeping

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at 234 in the morning, gaming. Okay, gaming and being online. on

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a consistent basis. Just do it for four or five days, nine days in a

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row. You're gonna be crazy. You're gonna do something crazy. Okay?

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Either you become one of those who sleeps all day and games all

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night. Complete the beat.

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Okay? If these kids have to go to school the next day, right? You

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got to wake up the next day. You're not going to be right. And

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this is one of the ways that shaytaan is getting us at the

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level of our sleep. And this is not a big if this was not a big

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deal. If someone says it doesn't matter when you sleep as long as

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you sleep your eight hours or fiber. No, it's important when you

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sleep Allah azza wa jal would not have revealed verses of Quran on

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this matter. Verses of Quran

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John and Mahara, Masha Jana Leilani Versa, with John John and

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Leila Sugata. Multiple versus saying night is meant for

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sleeping, right gay is meant for living multiple verses. Allah does

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not reveal anything except that it is

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a

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are important. And he doesn't name a sort of except the subject

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matter is important. So that's a lane, right switch lane, there's a

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so called nighttime, nighttime has its Huck. So by having a type of

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clock, it would make much more sense to me if this 12 hour clock

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was 24 hours. So you could actually pinpoint right from this

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block of time I'm doing this, this block of time I'm doing this, this

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block of time doing this. Generally speaking, we're not too

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rigid. You can't be too rigid. You're human. Human beings can't

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be too rigid. Generally speaking, there's certain blocks of time for

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certain things, okay. And if you move one block of time, you must

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move the rest. But you can stay up late, and then keep your phones or

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routine can work. If you have a routine of friends that I wake up

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I prefetching. And I do this after fajr this Decker after fajr. Okay,

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if you stay up late, you're not doing that. You're gonna miss it.

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Okay, you've got to have a general blockage of time. And our general

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summer is evening and what did they call night?

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The night the prelude to the night begins after awesome, believe it

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or not, after awesome they start preparing for the night. Because

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we're humans, right? You can't have a on off button. So you need

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a gray area. So the gray area

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that's turning into night comes after the onset of prayer. Once

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you pray also, in your mind, you should start unwinding everything.

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Then from Asia, after Salah to Asia is the time when you start

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readying yourself for sleep. Right? And then how do you know

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when the date when you start up February? Right around February

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time and then give it we have feathered although it's a shock to

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Baltan it's going to be a mix between fragile sulla maybe you

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get up for work. Maybe you rest, right? Okay, so this is how we

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end this thing is like it's not some cockamamie 12 step system

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where some cortical expert comes and gives you a detailed list at

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705 do this. No, that never works. Right? What Works is what is

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simple. If the sun's up this day, the sun's down it's night. If I

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say comes, the sun is setting prepare, you can't just stop what

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you're doing. You have to prepare to wind everything down, like stop

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initiating calls, stop initiating texts. Stop initiating work. After

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officer.

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Right? Okay, then when it's time, then you can notice shut it down.

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And then when do you start it up again when you have to. So that's

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where you gotta go. Right? That's when you initiate him run the

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motor up again. Okay.

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So this is how we operate things by the prayer times. And by the

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day and the night knowing that Quran was revealed on this. We

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have made the day for living and the night for sleeping. Right.

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We'll take the q&a Write them down, we'll take them before we

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end today.

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We are defended Anika Aktau can we'll do the Medaka Tila who Shima

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who I am okay, McAfee do not look forward to bring being free.

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Okay, from anything. Okay. For that is indeed what cuts you off

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from vigilant attention to him in that very state he has assigned to

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you. So one of the things that he's saying is that he's saying

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here is that

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don't look forward to the end of something. Because that is a

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distraction from what you're supposed to be doing now. Okay.

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Don't look forward to that. We are actually a people of

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the SOFIA tend to be against multitasking.

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They like things to be pure. Right? Which amount of people

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multitask a lot, right? But we like things to be pure. If you're

00:34:14 --> 00:34:18

doing a job focus on that job. If you're taking a class focus on

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that class, if you're doing talking to someone what did the

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son of the Prophet when he talked to someone he didn't look left or

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right he didn't do something while talking to someone. Whenever the

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private talks someone he turned his all chest facing that person

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and talk until they finished. And he never looked around. fidgeted

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right, showed that he doesn't want to be there or has done ever

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anything like this, right. So we're a type of people who are not

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really supportive, multitasking is not giving the hub the do of that

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thing. Right. You need to get everything it's do

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so

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Do not look forward to the end of something, because that is a

00:35:03 --> 00:35:06

distraction from what you're supposed to be doing now. And you

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don't know. What you're supposed to be doing now is your fatigue

00:35:11 --> 00:35:15

can come from there, your benefit, and your opening can come from

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that, even if that's being sick, being in debt or being in a bad

00:35:19 --> 00:35:23

relationship, being in whatever, know that Allah has put you in

00:35:23 --> 00:35:28

this situation, accept it, and work at it now. Until Allah

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relieves.

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Some people are in a bad relationship. Some people don't

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get along with their grandparent or their mom or dad. You don't sit

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there. Oh, can we turn 21? Again? Wait, don't 24 Right. No, it's

00:35:42 --> 00:35:47

gonna happen anyway. No one's gonna stop time. Just give the

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hug. have supper now. Okay, and don't keep looking at the clock. I

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mean, you look at jobs, some jobs, you got to look at the clock,

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okay? It's not moving, the more you look, the slower it moves.

00:36:03 --> 00:36:07

Just do what you have to do now. And you never know, you may

00:36:07 --> 00:36:13

discover a way to actually enjoy the state that you're in.

00:36:14 --> 00:36:18

Prisoners are like this. Prison prisoner. If you ask about

00:36:18 --> 00:36:22

prisoners, the worst time is when they're still in trial.

00:36:23 --> 00:36:25

And they don't know what their fate is going to be. Because they

00:36:25 --> 00:36:28

keep thinking, well, they're not gonna let me get out. Will they

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not get out? But when does he actually settle and his heart

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settles and he becomes in a routine when he's sentenced. When

00:36:36 --> 00:36:40

your sentence class, they have no choice. So I'm here, now that I'm

00:36:40 --> 00:36:44

here, now I can make a life for myself. Like all the last year

00:36:44 --> 00:36:49

there was a report or whatever program on I'd like to say it

00:36:50 --> 00:36:54

from Baltimore. And he's in jail. Right? He's like, I have a life

00:36:54 --> 00:37:00

for myself. Actually. He said this podcast has actually disturbed my

00:37:00 --> 00:37:04

Rypien because now you gotta be thinking of getting out. I was had

00:37:04 --> 00:37:08

no hope. So I created a little life for myself here. Right? So

00:37:08 --> 00:37:12

this is how you have to be if you're in a state, you got to just

00:37:12 --> 00:37:17

be in that state and try to work it you know, have severed and see

00:37:17 --> 00:37:20

what kind of benefit you can have in that state. Don't say I can't

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wait till it's over.

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Man Allah Allah wa judul Ferrari in the row, Nitin nefs.

00:37:32 --> 00:37:38

postponing your deeds until you are free is one of the tricks of

00:37:38 --> 00:37:39

the knifes

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postponing your this is why we do in the vicco. We do this exercise

00:37:46 --> 00:37:52

that imagine yourself that you are like you're on your deathbed.

00:37:54 --> 00:38:00

Another meditation, imagine yourself, you've retired, your

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kids are grown up and left the house, you are retired 67 year old

00:38:04 --> 00:38:08

men? How do you want to spend your time? How do you want to spend the

00:38:08 --> 00:38:13

last two years of your life? What do you want to do? The answer to

00:38:13 --> 00:38:17

that question is what you should be doing now? Right? And

00:38:17 --> 00:38:23

everything else is merely what you have to do now. So I have to go to

00:38:23 --> 00:38:28

work, right? I have to take care of my responsibilities. But what

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you really

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would want yourself to be doing in the last two years of your life is

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what you should be doing in your free time now and empty your heart

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of everything else. I mean, what is the point of anything? If you

00:38:42 --> 00:38:44

are willing to throw it out on your deathbed?

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If I'm willing to throw it out on my deathbed, right? That's the

00:38:49 --> 00:38:52

only thing that's important. And so men, how do you how do we all

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answer this question, we all answer this question. I hope I

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want to die with an empty heart from dunya. I don't want to have

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dunya in my heart. I don't want to have 1000 bank accounts. I don't

00:39:02 --> 00:39:07

want to have headaches of all the wealth that I've amassed. I don't

00:39:07 --> 00:39:08

want to have

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be chasing some material goal, or I don't want to care about release

00:39:17 --> 00:39:18

my reputation.

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Are you going to be dying? Are you deathbed and worrying what people

00:39:23 --> 00:39:27

think about you? You're not gonna write, you're thinking about one

00:39:27 --> 00:39:30

thing what have I done for Allah? Now it's my time to be with Allah.

00:39:30 --> 00:39:33

And you're going to start realizing oh my gosh, I don't I

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don't know Allah. I've never given this time. I've never given any

00:39:37 --> 00:39:40

effort to the subject. Right? I don't know Allah. I wish I can go

00:39:40 --> 00:39:44

back 30 years and start over. Then I wouldn't be chasing the company.

00:39:44 --> 00:39:49

I wouldn't be chasing this chasing that. Okay. Chasing while chasing

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right?

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This vehicle remotes Okay.

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Tells you what you need.

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and slowly when you increase and do this, the gap between what

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comes to your mind when you do the good votes and what you're

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actually living, that gap slowly shrinks, slowly shrinks until you

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finally attain that, that you could die right now because I'm

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actually fulfilled. I'm doing what I would want to die upon. This is

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very important. This decode mode is very important. And this

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procrastination. postponement is a huge trick from Shaytaan because

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you're postponing you don't even know when you're gonna die. Right?

00:40:35 --> 00:40:39

You don't know when you're gonna die. When was the last Sonata

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Janaza we had in this semester.

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Didn't remember who it was.

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It was I believe, Alex, who was one with me.

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Maybe Shaban went with me. Young man.

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Not even 30 years old. Muslim men, not even 30 years old. Okay. He's

00:41:04 --> 00:41:07

it. That was the last one as we did here. Okay.

00:41:08 --> 00:41:10

How about

00:41:12 --> 00:41:17

copper Ramadan's ago to the janazah for 37 year olds. Okay. So

00:41:17 --> 00:41:21

there's no you don't know when you're gonna go. And there's just

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it's a trick of shaitan that say, okay, when you get old because

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here's the problem. When you get old, you're stuck in your habits,

00:41:27 --> 00:41:30

you can't teach an old dog new tricks, you're stuck in your

00:41:30 --> 00:41:35

habits. Number two, you're tired, you're gonna be exhausted. You're

00:41:35 --> 00:41:39

physically unfit. Now you're physically fit. So you need to do

00:41:39 --> 00:41:43

what you how you want to do now what you want to do now. And if

00:41:43 --> 00:41:48

you can do it 100% At least carve out part of the day. So visualize

00:41:48 --> 00:41:52

yourself that in part of the day, you are a seven year old man

00:41:52 --> 00:41:56

that's about to die even if you do this for one hour of the day,

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right.

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We find we benefit from it and everything will change.

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Hello Kati, young Kino Koba

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will

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lay on kinako

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is man worked in urid in LA when he happened JD were AMone a kid

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for kafer chapter the fee by me went and amped up the Allah if he

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it is possible to fulfill some obligations at times, but it is

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impossible to fill the obligations of every moment for there is no

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moment wherein Allah does not hold against you a new obligation or a

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definite matter. So how can you fulfill someone else's obligation

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when you have not fulfilled a loss

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by Mr break

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there are two kinds of obligations upon the servant

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The first is worship the rights of Allah at fixed time such as

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praying and fasting if you do not discharge these okay

00:43:09 --> 00:43:15

it is possible to do them as cover up you can make up prayer you can

00:43:15 --> 00:43:21

make up some the second obligation concerns time okay, but these

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obligations are at every moment and there is no separate fixed set

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out time if you miss this moment you can never get it back. If you

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miss this moment, you can never get it back. Unlike Ramadan if I

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travel Ramadan I got sick I couldn't make it up. But if I get

00:43:37 --> 00:43:43

if I waste time, now if I waste my free time and my health now you

00:43:43 --> 00:43:47

cannot make that up okay, you can make up everything else except the

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wastage of time.

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Okay.

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The states of the human beings are of

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14 types. You are either in Nana or mo sebum. You're either

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receiving blessings from Allah or you are losing blessings from

00:44:06 --> 00:44:08

Allah okay.

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Or you are in obedience or you are in sin. Okay.

00:44:15 --> 00:44:17

If you are in namah

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if you're in Namur, you should be given sugar.

00:44:22 --> 00:44:26

If you are in masivo, you should be giving sobro if you are in

00:44:26 --> 00:44:31

thaw, likewise, you should be given sugar. And if you are in

00:44:32 --> 00:44:35

Maaseiah, you should be giving Tober I would differentiate it I

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would say if you are in NEMA, you should be giving sadaqa if you are

00:44:40 --> 00:44:45

being blessed, you need to give out if you're healthy. You need to

00:44:45 --> 00:44:49

do something beneficial with your body. Don't just serve yourself.

00:44:50 --> 00:44:54

Well like we have a such a self serving culture. Right, such as

00:44:54 --> 00:44:59

self serving culture, if you're doing if you're in a state of

00:44:59 --> 00:44:59

health

00:45:00 --> 00:45:03

You need to be serving others. If you have more knowledge, then you

00:45:03 --> 00:45:06

should be passing it on. If you have more wealth, you should be

00:45:06 --> 00:45:12

investing for someone else to benefit if or donating. If you are

00:45:12 --> 00:45:13

in a state of

00:45:14 --> 00:45:18

physically, you can help people use your body for that reason.

00:45:18 --> 00:45:23

Okay? If you're, you have resources at your fingertips, use

00:45:23 --> 00:45:28

those resources for others. If you're in namah, you should be

00:45:28 --> 00:45:32

doing setup. If you are in masiva, you should be doing several

00:45:33 --> 00:45:36

patients if you're being struck, if you're sick, if you're poor,

00:45:36 --> 00:45:39

have patience. If you're in a bad situation, your job is to have

00:45:39 --> 00:45:43

patience, you cannot have patience later, you need to have patience.

00:45:43 --> 00:45:48

Now, you can make it up. If you are in a state of obedience, you

00:45:48 --> 00:45:49

should be giving sugar.

00:45:50 --> 00:45:54

And if you are in the state of disobedience, you should be making

00:45:54 --> 00:45:55

Toba okay.

00:45:57 --> 00:46:01

It is imperative that the servant observes the obligations of time

00:46:02 --> 00:46:06

at every breath, he should be mindful of this duty. It is for

00:46:06 --> 00:46:09

this reason that the righteous scholars have said a Sufi abnormal

00:46:09 --> 00:46:15

works or Ebenen works. In other words, he is perpetually

00:46:15 --> 00:46:20

perpetually engrossed in the discharge of the obligation of

00:46:20 --> 00:46:26

this moment. Right of this moment, okay. This is another thing that

00:46:26 --> 00:46:31

called our culture is totally a global culture, global world

00:46:31 --> 00:46:37

culture is really messed up in I mean, nobody everyone has any

00:46:37 --> 00:46:40

people are not engrossed in the moment that they're in. Right?

00:46:41 --> 00:46:43

No one's it goes to the moment that they're in.

00:46:44 --> 00:46:49

This is something totally lost. We're either busy recording it so

00:46:49 --> 00:46:53

much that we're not even enjoying it. Right? We're either recording

00:46:53 --> 00:46:58

it, that we're not even enjoying it. We really got to get our

00:46:58 --> 00:47:02

selves under control here. The the internet technology is a wild wild

00:47:02 --> 00:47:08

west. And it's been running without rules for 10 years, 15

00:47:08 --> 00:47:12

years, we need to start reining it in and having some giving it some

00:47:12 --> 00:47:16

some rules, right? giving it some legislation. Okay.

00:47:18 --> 00:47:22

You can't find people are in the moment anymore. No one's in the

00:47:22 --> 00:47:25

moment. You either you ruin the moment by trying to record the

00:47:25 --> 00:47:30

moment he wrote, right? He wrote the moment by trying to record the

00:47:30 --> 00:47:30

moment

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or you're not finding any benefit in immediate satisfaction in this

00:47:36 --> 00:47:41

moment. So it records down to the mobile phone, right.

00:47:43 --> 00:47:44

So this is,

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as you see here has

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two more segments we'll do and we'll finish this chapter. This

00:47:51 --> 00:47:56

issue of timing, math, ultimate America, Allah, Allah masala laka

00:47:56 --> 00:47:57

Manu, Lottie Matala,

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the point of view like that has gone by is irreplaceable. And that

00:48:02 --> 00:48:07

which has arrived is priceless, okay? can't put a price on it. No

00:48:07 --> 00:48:11

compensation can ever be offered for man's time that has expired.

00:48:13 --> 00:48:17

Therefore, the time that one obtains at present is priceless,

00:48:17 --> 00:48:23

the entire earth with all its possessions cannot buy, a moment

00:48:23 --> 00:48:26

that has passed, which has the potential to bring everlasting

00:48:26 --> 00:48:30

happiness for the one who uses his time wisely. It is precisely for

00:48:30 --> 00:48:34

this reason that the pious predecessors treasured their

00:48:34 --> 00:48:37

breathing, taking a constant reckoning of every breath, never

00:48:37 --> 00:48:43

would they destroy a single moment. According to a hadith, the

00:48:43 --> 00:48:47

moment that a servant spends in forgetfulness will be a cause of

00:48:47 --> 00:48:50

regret for him. But at that time in the future, once he has passed

00:48:50 --> 00:48:52

away, remorse will be of no avail.

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One of the things that they say is today,

00:49:01 --> 00:49:08

your your state today is a result of how you use your time in the

00:49:08 --> 00:49:16

past, okay. And so therefore, your future is not going to be by

00:49:16 --> 00:49:22

planning for it is by what you were doing now. Right? How you're

00:49:22 --> 00:49:25

making use of your time now is going to indicate your future.

00:49:27 --> 00:49:30

Takes off. Forget someone who's so young, they don't understand that

00:49:30 --> 00:49:33

they haven't had the chance to live yet. Let's take a 40 year old

00:49:33 --> 00:49:34

men,

00:49:35 --> 00:49:37

a 40 year old man.

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What is his state today with his job, his wife and his kids? It is

00:49:44 --> 00:49:49

all dependent upon what he did in the past decade. If he worked hard

00:49:49 --> 00:49:53

and neglected his kids, he's gonna have a good job. No relationship

00:49:53 --> 00:49:59

with his kids. Right? If he was mean and nasty to his wife, he

00:49:59 --> 00:49:59

shouldn't expect

00:50:00 --> 00:50:06

It's a pleasant marriage, right? Whatever you have now, it is only

00:50:07 --> 00:50:11

a result of your yesterday's all of your yesterday moments

00:50:11 --> 00:50:15

compiled. So the intelligent person he doesn't think sit there

00:50:15 --> 00:50:19

being worried about tomorrow or being sad about the past. He

00:50:19 --> 00:50:22

should be doing something useful today. something of value today

00:50:22 --> 00:50:27

and the last week about the aquarium looking at the Danny and

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I'm gonna show the lead from mulata. What the lake what a Pilla

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well if epoka from mulata it will be disappointing, very

00:50:38 --> 00:50:39

disappointing.

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Huge regret. If you find yourself free from distractions, then you

00:50:45 --> 00:50:51

do not use your time for saloon towards Allah azza wa jal and if

00:50:51 --> 00:50:55

you have if you were to have a few obstacles that not move on to him.

00:50:56 --> 00:51:01

Basically, he's saying the worst and the biggest fool amongst the

00:51:01 --> 00:51:06

people, is someone who has free time. He's got free time, and he

00:51:06 --> 00:51:07

doesn't use it for yourself.

00:51:09 --> 00:51:15

This is the biggest fool. biggest fool. There's a room on Yama,

00:51:15 --> 00:51:21

Yama, there is a place a space for the Shabaab the youth

00:51:22 --> 00:51:28

who use their time their free time and saloon and a Baghdad of Allah

00:51:28 --> 00:51:31

azza wa jal, there's a special place and there are many from the

00:51:31 --> 00:51:34

venue. And there are even more from the owner of Muhammad

00:51:34 --> 00:51:37

sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when everyone's suffering on europium,

00:51:37 --> 00:51:41

they will be ushered in a special room, they will be ushered in a

00:51:41 --> 00:51:46

special place in which they can pray and they could wait and

00:51:46 --> 00:51:52

receive their does that the reward? Okay, they will be made up

00:51:52 --> 00:51:52

again.

00:51:53 --> 00:51:59

Everyone has yomo in Jana is 33. We know that but in Yolo, the AMA,

00:51:59 --> 00:52:03

you will rise up in your best of states or your worst of state so

00:52:03 --> 00:52:07

your best of state if your best moment was that time, your whole

00:52:07 --> 00:52:07

life.

00:52:09 --> 00:52:14

someone's entire life trajectory is based on what he did from the

00:52:14 --> 00:52:20

age of 15 to 25. And mashallah, we have some people studying the zikr

00:52:20 --> 00:52:26

don't tahajjud avoiding wrong from the age of 15 to 25. Every good

00:52:26 --> 00:52:29

that he does afterwards is due to this investment that he put in the

00:52:29 --> 00:52:33

age of 15 to 25. And that's why Allah will resurrect them as

00:52:33 --> 00:52:34

youth.

00:52:35 --> 00:52:39

He will resurrect them as you because that was where you the

00:52:39 --> 00:52:42

game was over. You won the game in the first inning. You don't need

00:52:42 --> 00:52:46

to show the highlights of the ninth inning. Right. You won the

00:52:46 --> 00:52:50

game 11 Three, but you scored eight ones in the first inning.

00:52:50 --> 00:52:54

All you need to talk about is the first inning everything else

00:52:54 --> 00:52:59

doesn't matter. Right. It's all the results of the first inning.

00:52:59 --> 00:53:02

Okay? Likewise mashallah the Shabbat and some are the opposite.

00:53:03 --> 00:53:08

Some are the opposite failures in life. Oh, the biller last. Don't

00:53:08 --> 00:53:12

be a failure in life, right? You and we know what to do force

00:53:12 --> 00:53:15

yourself to do it that as Oh Allah make me sincere if I have doubts,

00:53:16 --> 00:53:21

ask Allah to remove them if I have shakiness, so as collateral

00:53:21 --> 00:53:24

moving, you think about not in control of your heart, you must

00:53:24 --> 00:53:29

not believe in Allah. Right if I have shakiness. I ask a lot remove

00:53:29 --> 00:53:32

the shakiness. If I have, I'm confused, I don't know what to do.

00:53:32 --> 00:53:38

Ask Allah to remove it and spend your youth serving, the youth

00:53:38 --> 00:53:40

should be divided into a couple parts.

00:53:42 --> 00:53:45

Couple parts, if you have someone that Shabbat in their youth,

00:53:46 --> 00:53:47

they're

00:53:48 --> 00:53:54

even giving one quarter of their time to Allah. This is huge, huge.

00:53:54 --> 00:54:00

Okay. humongous. But if you have youth who are lost, you have to we

00:54:00 --> 00:54:04

have to make dua for them. We have to make a big draw for them. And

00:54:04 --> 00:54:08

you don't know though you don't know when things are going to turn

00:54:08 --> 00:54:13

around because we have like, and we'll close with this. Like, you

00:54:13 --> 00:54:13

got

00:54:15 --> 00:54:18

a type of like, old back in the olden days. If they wanted to

00:54:18 --> 00:54:22

fling a rock. What did they do? They took a rock. They put it in

00:54:22 --> 00:54:26

the rock a rubber band, they pull it all the way back then they let

00:54:26 --> 00:54:31

go. Some people this is their trajectory that they're going to

00:54:31 --> 00:54:35

regress regress, regress, regress, but they don't realize that that

00:54:35 --> 00:54:39

regress is going to lead to something great. All right, they

00:54:39 --> 00:54:45

keep regressing for a wisdom Allah knows that some people need to be

00:54:45 --> 00:54:49

in darkness before they can appreciate the light. Other people

00:54:50 --> 00:54:54

immediately attracted to the light. So though as a judgment

00:54:54 --> 00:54:59

when you see someone regressing because even his regress may be

00:54:59 --> 00:54:59

his way to

00:55:00 --> 00:55:05

Progress. Everyone's different, like a cheetah can run fast. A

00:55:05 --> 00:55:08

slingshot is also fast. The cheetah doesn't need to go

00:55:08 --> 00:55:11

backwards, right? But the slingshot needs to go backwards in

00:55:11 --> 00:55:15

order to go forward. The cheetah doesn't do that. Right? So don't

00:55:15 --> 00:55:20

pass a jump but however, the youth have to take the give their time

00:55:20 --> 00:55:22

to Allah azza wa jal and

00:55:23 --> 00:55:28

if your parents are sort of dragging you then you should be

00:55:28 --> 00:55:32

grateful because at least you have good habits. At least you have

00:55:32 --> 00:55:34

good habits and you're not doing something bad. Alright, so this

00:55:34 --> 00:55:38

was a chapter on time and this being the first of the month we

00:55:38 --> 00:55:44

are dividing it back again so shut after our break and Salah chef a

00:55:44 --> 00:55:46

fit Hanafy

00:55:48 --> 00:55:51

everyone else here for a longer Quran? Yes.

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