Shadee Elmasry – Hikam Class #7

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The speakers discuss the importance of time and how it is the cornerstone of life, as well as the challenges of measuring success and achieving optimal savings. They emphasize the importance of acknowledging one's actions and intentions in achieving optimal savings and the importance of achieving a spiritual promise. The speakers also touch on the benefits of living in a certain position and avoiding work hours, as well as the importance of staying true to one's life and avoiding distractions. They emphasize the importance of using time for personal reasons and avoiding distractions, as well as rebuilding one's life after a difficult time.

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			While
		
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			he was Salatu was Salam Why not
assuming
		
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			he was talking to him.
		
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			First thing I want to talk about
is something a little bit
		
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			different from what's next in the
book which is page 123 which is
		
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			Chuck's chapter on time and its
importance because
		
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			the all important people, everyone
who wants to achieve something in
		
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			life focuses on the subject of
time.
		
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			But the SOFIA in particular
		
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			give a lot of emphasis on the
subject matter. Before this, I
		
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			want to talk about another
critical critical subject which is
		
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			to
		
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			wow, SULI
		
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			hedaya guidance and how to obtain
it.
		
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			Firstly, simple question, what is
guidance? Okay, what is guidance?
		
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			Guidance, is that your body and
your heart are in line with the
		
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			Divine Will.
		
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			That's your body, your limbs, and
you're
		
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			certainly up to the near to if you
want
		
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			your limbs and your heart are in
line
		
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			with the Divine Will.
		
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			Okay, this ultimately is Hidayat
and if you can imagine an orbit,
		
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			okay, planets are all good
orbiting around in their sun moons
		
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			are orbiting around their planet.
Okay. Everything in space is
		
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			orbiting perfectly. You don't see
crash accidents in space. You
		
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			don't see the moon being you know.
		
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			Question questionable. The moon is
never questioned Well, the sun is
		
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			never questioned. Well, it's
predictable. Everything is running
		
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			perfectly. If it wasn't
predictable to wasn't moving
		
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			perfectly, we would have chaos on
the earth. Okay. So he died is
		
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			that we are operating in the orbit
that we're supposed to be in as
		
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			human beings. Okay?
		
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			The difference is that the planets
in the moon there Yani.
		
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			Very simple. Our lives are much
more complex, okay, but we're in
		
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			our orbit, so long as we're not
doing what we're not supposed to
		
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			be doing. And we're doing what
we're supposed to be doing. Okay?
		
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			And our heart is in the position
that it's supposed to be. Now.
		
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			This no human being by himself,
can do can get this and be like
		
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			this by himself. A person is only
guided because Allah is preserving
		
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			him. Can the sun be doing what
it's doing by itself? Right? Can
		
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			the moon be doing what is doing by
itself? No, only Allah azza wa jal
		
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			is holding them in place. So how
do we get to hold ourselves in
		
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			place? We can't do it ourselves.
We can only do it if Allah is
		
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			preserving us of God. This is why
the NBN are my sole and only are
		
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			my food then we cannot do wrong.
Okay, and now we are protected
		
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			from rock. Of course, the big
difference being that someone who
		
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			he can at some point in his life
do something wrong, or in his
		
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			past, but the earlier are muffled,
protected.
		
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			Hidayat is the most valuable thing
in the creation of the universe.
		
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			Okay, it's the most valuable thing
in the creation of the universe.
		
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			Okay. Why is that?
		
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			What is more valuable, your to be
alive? Or to be guided? What is
		
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			the value of life if you're alive,
but not guided? You're in
		
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			hellfire, and what are those
people on the way we say and so
		
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			that's another? Yeah, that's an
equal to two robber. I wish that I
		
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			was just if I was a rock, it would
be better off for me that to be
		
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			dragged to *. So hidayah is
more valuable than life is more
		
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			valuable to us than our own life.
But what is the value of the band?
		
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			Its value is eternal paradise.
That's the value of it.
		
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			Look at this
		
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			In this life, if you attain
Hidayat just for two breaths for
		
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			two breaths before your death,
		
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			you're guaranteed paradise for an
eternity. So he died. Closing out
		
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			your life with Daya with guidance
is equal, that small bit of
		
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			guidance is equal to an eternity
of paradise. Now, we now come to
		
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			the question of if a Daya is only
from Allah azza wa jal and only by
		
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			Allah that people are guided, then
how do we earn it? You can't do it
		
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			yourself. But you can earn How do
you earn it?
		
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			Okay, and this is the mistake many
people make many people make this
		
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			mistake. They imagine that one or
two deeds that they can do or that
		
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			there's a specific vicar or
there's a specific action that
		
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			they can do to attain hidayah
you're wrong. The only thing that
		
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			will gain you here is what they
call a suitable fifth column.
		
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			Sigurd sincerity in one thing, the
only cardinal sin that you can do
		
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			that will guarantee that you're
not going to receive hedaya. Okay,
		
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			is giving up.
		
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			Giving up is the only form that
you can do in this matter. The one
		
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			who is seeking Hidayat, he can and
most likely we all do commit
		
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			wrongs. Would bad wrongs, major
wrongs, prop big problems. We want
		
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			him and that should be our goal.
But we have baggage, we have
		
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			issues. Our hearts are still
attached to dunya our heart we
		
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			have ego problems, we have so many
problems. There's only one way to
		
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			attain this hidayah. And that is
to sincerely want it. And there's
		
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			only one way to guarantee you're
not going to get it and that is to
		
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			give up to give up. This is why
the first hikma he says in the
		
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			heckum webinar
		
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			is when he says oh actually this
is out of order.
		
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			But he says the one heckuva is if
you think that you're going to
		
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			gain guidance by yourself, that's
your first problem. You're not
		
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			gonna get it from yourself. Okay.
Now there is a parable that the
		
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			ultimate give, there's a parable.
Okay, that there's a ship, one of
		
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			the greatest ships, the greatest
ship of the time. And the sailors
		
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			they go around the collects.
		
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			Go to islands, and they collect
whatever they collect from there.
		
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			And this ship survives everything.
And it's like paradise. The ship
		
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			is perfect. Now, the captain, he's
getting old is back in the day
		
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			when they live to 300 years. The
captain is getting old, he needs
		
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			to assign the next person to to be
the captain of the ship. Okay. So
		
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			what does he do? He doesn't
interview them. He doesn't give it
		
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			to the first mate. He does not
give it to the best worker on the
		
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			ship.
		
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			But rather he tells everyone,
we're going on a mission.
		
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			Just short mission, but it's very
bad place. So go do the job really
		
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			quick. And wait until I call you
back. Okay.
		
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			And he goes, gets onto the beach,
but he doesn't take them to a bad
		
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			island. He takes them to a
gorgeous Island, a boy cute
		
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			country. And he takes him there.
And then in the middle of the
		
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			night while everyone's sleeping.
He goes up to the mountain and he
		
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			watches. Okay, he watches them
from the top of the mountain.
		
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			The first month, everyone is just
pitching their tent on the beach
		
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			and waiting just to the job that
they have to do and wait. Just
		
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			came waiting for the for the
captain to come back, say All
		
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			Aboard on the ship. But he doesn't
come back. So they just get tired
		
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			of waiting. Okay, so they start
going peeking into the island a
		
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			little bit, go in a little bit,
take a peek and come back. Well,
		
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			by the second month. They're
taking a peek spending all day in
		
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			the island and coming back on that
night. Well, by the third month,
		
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			they're going in and spending the
night in the island and only
		
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			coming back once a week to check
if the ship has been boarded or
		
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			not. Well, by the end of the first
year, they've totally forgotten
		
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			about the ship. And they're taken
by all the new things that they
		
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			see on this island. They're taken,
okay, and they go deep into the
		
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			country until the ship and its
captain
		
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			are a mere memory.
		
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			ship and its captain are mere
memory. Okay.
		
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			At that point, the captain waits
to who see who is going to come
		
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			back? Who is trying to come back?
All right, who's talking about the
		
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			ship? Who even remembers the ship?
Until finally, someone, the one
		
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			the first one, the ones who make
it back, okay? are the ones who
		
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			become the captains of the next
ship. Why? Because the lesson
		
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			isn't that you need to be the best
person at running a ship, you need
		
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			to want it the most. That is what
it
		
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			goes to Allah azza wa jal is not
looking at the best Muslim Now,
		
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			who's the best, most of them now
he's not looking at that, who
		
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			wants it the most. And so as soon
as soon as someone gets a taste of
		
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			it,
		
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			they should expect a test to be
thrown at them. And some of the
		
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			tests are very hard. Some of the
tests the one of the hardest one
		
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			is the mild one that lasts a long
time. This is actually the hardest
		
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			one, if someone puts a gun to your
head at this minute and says, you
		
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			want it or not, that's actually
not a hard test, you know, we've
		
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			been tested, you know, it's gonna
be two minutes and the pass or
		
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			fail really quickly. That's not a
problem. The big problem is the
		
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			long distance tell me what's
harder to do like a four
		
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			millimeter or 400 meter dash or a
marathon? Right? The dash you
		
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			either faster or not. But the
marathon takes a lot of training.
		
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			And Allah azza wa jal oftentimes
puts us in three, four or 510 year
		
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			tests, we have to understand this,
right? Sometimes the test is four
		
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			or 567 years, and we're just not
able to get our hedaya He is just
		
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			waiting. Are you going to give up
or not? Are you going to give up
		
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			or not? And the tests of Allah
azza wa jal, as I live in Abu
		
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			Talib said, Okay, has a time limit
Kulu che in the room with
		
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			everything, every test that Allah
gives, the person has a time
		
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			limit, all you have to do is pass
the test laid out the time time
		
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			limit. And so an individual will
put 100% effort to attain Matt if
		
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			of Allah to draw near to Allah to
change. And yet Allah will not
		
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			granted to him, he will continue
making him do the same since
		
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			allowing him to fall in the same
sense. Okay, and he will regroup
		
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			off again, and do another push and
pull 1,000% effort
		
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			and do everything the client says
everything the ship says, still,
		
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			he's not getting it. Still his
faltering, he's not reaching it.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Allah azza wa jal is not testing
whether or not you can do it. He's
		
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			testing how bad you want it,
you're going to fail once or
		
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			twice, I'm waiting, when you're
gonna give up. The only sin that
		
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			you can do that will cause you not
to have a day is to give up. If
		
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			you give up, you're finished. And
I'm telling you Subhanallah, you
		
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			see some people, the best of us,
there have been the best of us.
		
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			And they give up tomorrow, they
gave up they didn't want it bad
		
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			enough, you have to want it. And
this is why all of the automat
		
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			have to solve, they will tell you
there's one way to attain the
		
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			Promised Land spiritual promise
and that we're all seeking. Some
		
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			of you have only heard about it,
some of you have seen it, and then
		
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			lots,
		
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			some of you have climbed the
mountain loads and then fell
		
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			again.
		
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			The only way that you will reside
in that level that we're all
		
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			talking about and is being
described here is through one way
		
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			and that is a center for follow
up. It may take two years, one
		
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			year, 20 minutes or 20 years.
Okay? You have to want it and this
		
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			Allah only granted to those who
have proven that they want it
		
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			otherwise it's going to be
squandered and why is it going to
		
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			be squandered? This guidance is
more valuable. Okay. The value of
		
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			guidance is an eternity in
paradise. That's the value of it,
		
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			so he will not give it to someone
who will squander it. The one who
		
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			will squander it is not the one
with the best safe, right? The one
		
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			who won't squander it is not the
one with the best safe. The best
		
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			luck it's the one with the most
stubbornness persistency Okay?
		
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			Stubborn, persistent and faithful
believing you're gonna get it's
		
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			just a matter of time. And
subhanAllah there have been some
		
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			reads
		
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			okay.
		
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			33 years he describes some reads
40 years describing that he's just
		
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			a routine run of the mill motors
he does good Some days he does bad
		
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			Some days he does good some days
is bad some days and he's just
		
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			watching other people events all
his whole life. Finally, Allah
		
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			azza wa jal give it to
		
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			If and when you get this hit, if
you don't know what happened to
		
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			yourself, all of a sudden,
everything that you feel that you
		
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			were doing that you can't stop
doing, all of a sudden, it's gone.
		
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			You don't even think about it
anymore. Something one or two
		
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			little decisions that you made. It
says if Allah azza wa jal took a
		
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			flash drive and drag the virus
from your hard drive to a flash
		
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			drive and put the track flash took
the flash drive out and throw it
		
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			in the garbage.
		
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			That's how it just all of a
sudden, some light bulb went off.
		
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			This is why they will always tell
us it's not from us. I don't know
		
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			what happened. It's just it's off.
And somebody else turned on.
		
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			That's it. Subhan Allah, this,
this is a sign that something is
		
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			from Allah can't explain how it
happened.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Now,
		
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			that was a little any tangential
thing that I want to share, which
		
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			is essence of the
		
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			essence of the soul, Wolf, a
surgical formula? And if you want
		
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			to know, what is the nature of
this happiness, we don't
		
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			understand, you don't understand
what is this hedaya You don't get
		
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			it. One of the examples that they
give is to look at the life and
		
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			the state of a child.
		
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			The state of a child, the state of
a child is always in happiness.
		
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			Okay? The state of a child is just
carefree. The shade of a child,
		
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			there is no ego, there is no dunya
there's no knifes, they don't
		
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			children don't have envy, like I'm
talking three and four years old.
		
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			They don't have envy. They don't
have all these things. They're
		
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			pure, they're happy. Okay, and
this is what we got to be looking
		
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			at. If someone doesn't have a
clue. What is this state that
		
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			we're talking about? What is this
guidance? Right? It's freedom from
		
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			these shackles of sins sins, our
shackles keeping us down? Don't
		
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			you want to be free from them?
Right.
		
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			So this is what this state of EDA
is all about.
		
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			And then we look at Dalian he look
at how they lead their lives. How
		
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			are they mountains like this?
They're not, you know, faltering
		
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			one way or the other.
		
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			And they're the most happy of
people.
		
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			Okay, now to the hikma of page
123, on time, and its importance,
		
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			ma'am, and never listened to the
INLA aka the room fee on the
		
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			basically, the summary of this is
Every Breath You Take you lose
		
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			part of your life.
		
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			Every time you inhale and exhale,
part of your life is God. Okay? So
		
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			ask yourself what part of my life
just went?
		
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			Every time you breathe in and out?
What part of your life just
		
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			disappeared? Okay, what are you
doing at that moment? Okay, and
		
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			every action that you are doing,
you should be able to justify it
		
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			with knowledge from the religious
law, okay. Or some
		
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			even your level, we have a couple
of things you have level n.
		
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			And GID. You have three
categories. Gender, of course
		
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			means seriousness, that which is
beneficial that which is real.
		
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			Okay, then you have less live and
low. And then what's the other
		
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			one?
		
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			Yeah, live. Live
		
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			is something that is not real, but
is building characteristics needed
		
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			for what's real. So
		
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			for example, when kids are playing
certain games, let's say kid is
		
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			playing a math game, right? Way
back in the day, there was math
		
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			buckets, right? You got to answer
the equation before the little
		
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			thing goes into the bucket. It's
just a game, right? Or there's
		
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			Carmen Sandiego, geography, game,
geography and general knowledge,
		
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			right? So these are all games,
right? But we say this life has an
		
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			end. When you do this game a lot.
You learn geography or you learn
		
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			math.
		
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			In certain sports that people do
you learn victory, you learn loss,
		
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			you learn teamwork, you learn a
lot of different things, or you
		
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			gain exercise so that it's
meaningless in itself, but
		
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			secondarily, it has a benefit.
This is live right? Now. What is
		
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			Level Level is a type that is
meaningless in itself and is not
		
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			preparing you for anything else.
It is not preparing you for
		
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			anything else. Like let's take a
comparison between someone who
		
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			plays basketball. Well, you would
learn a lot of lessons in
		
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			basketball. Firstly, you're even
physically fit. Secondly, you're
		
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			learning teamwork. You're learning
how to win How to Lose all these
		
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			things. You're learning a lot.
Okay, versus some
		
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			One who is playing solitaire
		
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			it's just a game of
meaninglessness, you don't learn
		
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			anything. And there is no benefit
at all there. Okay, so it's
		
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			complete waste of time. This is a
bribe and level now what is the
		
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			shot a difference live has a place
live has a place live busy
		
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			learning things so a lot is should
be removed
		
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			circumstance when you're doing
level with your family as this is
		
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			the way to bond with one another
okay
		
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			this is a way of bonding between
one another okay? And sometimes
		
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			some families they don't get along
so what do they do they have to do
		
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			some level together that's the
only thing
		
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			okay low like watching TV together
watching this Super Bowl because
		
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			you know TV turns out
		
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			two minutes of fights gonna break
out so the TV on right then no
		
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			fighting is gonna happen. So
unfortunately but law or the
		
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			prophets I seldom said with your
family is the only time that Allah
		
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			azza wa jal doesn't mind you doing
low okay if this is the way to get
		
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			your family to be happy together
and of course no human beings all
		
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			need downtime. So to do this with
your family is accepted to do it
		
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			outside your family and your
friends is accepted.
		
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			Judas seriousness that which is
real
		
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			Okay, next one is
		
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			every state has a heart
		
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			Okay? Liquid government God right?
		
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			For every state that you're in,
okay, it has a hop. Alright being
		
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			in the masjid is not like being at
work. Being at work is not like
		
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			being with your family. Being with
your family is not like being with
		
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			your parents said so on and so
forth. Everything is different.
		
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			Everything has a hawk. People have
to know what is this the hawk?
		
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			What is the role of a man in his
household? What is the role of the
		
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			prophets I sell him in his
household? Kindness of Allah one
		
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			day he was sending him there in
the few minutes
		
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			that the prophets I send them in
his household. His sunnah is that
		
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			he takes the role of a servant
		
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			of his family. Okay.
		
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			And the children take the servant
of the parents the role of
		
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			servants to the parents. So the
prophets I seldom he is serving if
		
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			he's in the house of that Isha
even though he's much older than
		
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			her, and he's the Prophet sighs I
insurance. How is the Prophet when
		
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			he's with you in the home? He says
he takes the role as if he is a
		
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			servant, cooking the bread
sweeping the floor, mending shoes,
		
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			etc. Okay, lifting crumbs off the
floor. This is the how the Prophet
		
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			spent his time as a default
setting with his family. Okay.
		
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			And the children in the family are
also servants to the parents.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So every position that you have,
you have to know the Sunnah of
		
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			action in that position, and you
cannot waste time. Right? Do not
		
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			waste time. wastage of time is one
of the biggest Cardinal issues
		
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			that a number of his early talks
about and having to solve talks
		
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			about all the time. Every breath
that you take, you have to ask
		
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			what position on my end and what
is the hub of that position? If
		
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			you're sick, the hub is Southern.
Right? Rebekah Sadiq made a big
		
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			distinction and honorable caught
up. They made a big distance
		
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			between day and night. And welcome
to Sydney said there is Iman for
		
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			Allah in the night not acceptable
in the day and there is no love
		
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			today not acceptable at night.
Okay and what does he mean by this
		
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			the daytime is for Hickmott and
OMA service of the OMA and the
		
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			nighttime. It's for a bad of
Allah. That we are not
		
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			workaholics. In America we have to
know that America is not like the
		
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			rest of the world and usually the
number one greatest country in the
		
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			world is a little bit different
and it has a problem. We are all
		
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			workaholics. We are addicted to
work if you are sitting down for
		
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			two minutes just relaxing
		
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			it's like something in the air
will come and tell you you're
		
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			wasting time. Right if you're
making something will come and
		
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			tell you you're wasting time. What
should you be doing something
		
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			economic something that was
productive, something that is
		
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			going to get you a raise something
that's good for your resume. The
		
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			drive is all materialistic for
work? Well, a robocall gives us a
		
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			ruling Workers for the day. In
general of course sorted them
		
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			resemble tells us that Allah knows
some workers at night, but in
		
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			general workers for the day and
what's that night
		
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			As for Allah,
		
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			that means there should be a time
where everything shuts off. And it
		
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			used to be the normal. If you left
the office a lot you can't write
		
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			unless you bring a file home with
you. But now, it could be Sunday
		
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			to end and you could be in your
bedroom. But with technology, you
		
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			could be doing work. You could be
checking emails, you could be
		
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			doing work. While we know we have
guidance, we have to shut this
		
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			down. Okay, work has a time. And
what is a bucket? What did he
		
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			consider work?
		
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			The highest religious work
		
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			is to be the Khalifa. Is there any
function in this society better
		
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			than to be the Khalifa of the
Messenger of Allah? I mean, it's
		
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			greater than being a brain
surgeon, greater than being a
		
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			heart surgeon. You're the Khalifa
of Rasul Allah. And yet he tells
		
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			us there is a job, it's to be done
in the day. It's not acceptable to
		
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			do it at night. And a night is not
acceptable if you do it in the
		
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			day. Okay. All right.
		
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			Of course, we all know his story.
He was asked he is the second
		
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			Felipa he is the SEC prior to the
death of the prophets Rule The
		
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			Omen. Okay.
		
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			When do you sleep? He says the
cannula of the night of the
		
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			afternoon. Well, why don't you
sleep at night? How can I sleep at
		
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			night when there's the hack of
Allah? Right? And then they say
		
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			Why don't you do it in the day? He
said how can I do it in the day
		
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			it's the hack of the bed. It's the
right for the servants of Allah
		
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			for me to serve as their Khalifa
but when the night falls they
		
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			don't have the right for that
anymore. It's Allah's time
		
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			and this is why they said for
Sanam dinar would have been
		
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			delayed. Okay, the salah for
described as soldiers by day monks
		
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			by night, we cannot have an
imbalance, you don't want to be
		
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			one of these people who are filled
with anxiety because they're
		
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			overworked. Nor do you want to be
from those who made the opposite
		
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			mistake and became monks by night
and month by day, and you end up
		
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			unemployed
		
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			and useless. And what do these
people do? They end up having a
		
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			reaction towards religion, because
five years later, he's an
		
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			unemployed guy, and all of his
friends are in medical school
		
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			married
		
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			and he's unemployed. Why he
misplaced everything. He became a
		
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			failure in life. So now what does
he do? He turns and he rebels
		
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			against the cause that made him
realize that he's a failure in
		
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			life. We have to be balanced.
There's a time for a bad and
		
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			there's a time for work. And
there's a time for these things to
		
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			be shut down. Most of the youth
today they're suffering anxiety,
		
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			because there have no limits. They
have no limits on their
		
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			technology. There is no limit on
their technology. And recently, if
		
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			you heard the news, a boy, his
grandma was waking him up.
		
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			Everyone heard this story. His
grandma woke them up for school.
		
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			So he got so angry with her. She
couldn't get him up. The mom came
		
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			and they both couldn't get them.
The boy up. He got so angry, he
		
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			walked him, marched up, got his
gun and shot them all.
		
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			But he was so sleepy, he shot them
and didn't get the heart. He
		
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			didn't get any mortal wounds. They
all were hospitalized and they're
		
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			fine, they're alive. But he shot
everyone in his household because
		
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			of the how they will come up. So
people are like, what kind of
		
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			insanity is this? Well, one
psychiatrist is saying, believe it
		
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			or not, okay, this sounds crazy.
But you can be sleep deprived. So
		
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			regularly on such a regular basis,
you can actually behave this way
		
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			you can be crazy. And I'm telling
you, these kids are now sleeping
		
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			at 234 in the morning, gaming.
Okay, gaming and being online. on
		
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			a consistent basis. Just do it for
four or five days, nine days in a
		
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			row. You're gonna be crazy. You're
gonna do something crazy. Okay?
		
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			Either you become one of those who
sleeps all day and games all
		
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			night. Complete the beat.
		
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			Okay? If these kids have to go to
school the next day, right? You
		
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			got to wake up the next day.
You're not going to be right. And
		
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			this is one of the ways that
shaytaan is getting us at the
		
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			level of our sleep. And this is
not a big if this was not a big
		
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			deal. If someone says it doesn't
matter when you sleep as long as
		
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			you sleep your eight hours or
fiber. No, it's important when you
		
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			sleep Allah azza wa jal would not
have revealed verses of Quran on
		
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			this matter. Verses of Quran
		
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			John and Mahara, Masha Jana
Leilani Versa, with John John and
		
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			Leila Sugata. Multiple versus
saying night is meant for
		
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			sleeping, right gay is meant for
living multiple verses. Allah does
		
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			not reveal anything except that it
is
		
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			a
		
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			are important. And he doesn't name
a sort of except the subject
		
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			matter is important. So that's a
lane, right switch lane, there's a
		
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			so called nighttime, nighttime has
its Huck. So by having a type of
		
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			clock, it would make much more
sense to me if this 12 hour clock
		
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			was 24 hours. So you could
actually pinpoint right from this
		
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			block of time I'm doing this, this
block of time I'm doing this, this
		
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			block of time doing this.
Generally speaking, we're not too
		
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			rigid. You can't be too rigid.
You're human. Human beings can't
		
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			be too rigid. Generally speaking,
there's certain blocks of time for
		
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			certain things, okay. And if you
move one block of time, you must
		
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			move the rest. But you can stay up
late, and then keep your phones or
		
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			routine can work. If you have a
routine of friends that I wake up
		
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			I prefetching. And I do this after
fajr this Decker after fajr. Okay,
		
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			if you stay up late, you're not
doing that. You're gonna miss it.
		
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			Okay, you've got to have a general
blockage of time. And our general
		
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			summer is evening and what did
they call night?
		
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			The night the prelude to the night
begins after awesome, believe it
		
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			or not, after awesome they start
preparing for the night. Because
		
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			we're humans, right? You can't
have a on off button. So you need
		
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			a gray area. So the gray area
		
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			that's turning into night comes
after the onset of prayer. Once
		
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			you pray also, in your mind, you
should start unwinding everything.
		
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			Then from Asia, after Salah to
Asia is the time when you start
		
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			readying yourself for sleep.
Right? And then how do you know
		
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			when the date when you start up
February? Right around February
		
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			time and then give it we have
feathered although it's a shock to
		
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			Baltan it's going to be a mix
between fragile sulla maybe you
		
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			get up for work. Maybe you rest,
right? Okay, so this is how we
		
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			end this thing is like it's not
some cockamamie 12 step system
		
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			where some cortical expert comes
and gives you a detailed list at
		
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			705 do this. No, that never works.
Right? What Works is what is
		
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			simple. If the sun's up this day,
the sun's down it's night. If I
		
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			say comes, the sun is setting
prepare, you can't just stop what
		
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			you're doing. You have to prepare
to wind everything down, like stop
		
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			initiating calls, stop initiating
texts. Stop initiating work. After
		
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			officer.
		
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			Right? Okay, then when it's time,
then you can notice shut it down.
		
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			And then when do you start it up
again when you have to. So that's
		
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			where you gotta go. Right? That's
when you initiate him run the
		
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			motor up again. Okay.
		
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			So this is how we operate things
by the prayer times. And by the
		
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			day and the night knowing that
Quran was revealed on this. We
		
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			have made the day for living and
the night for sleeping. Right.
		
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			We'll take the q&a Write them
down, we'll take them before we
		
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			end today.
		
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			We are defended Anika Aktau can
we'll do the Medaka Tila who Shima
		
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			who I am okay, McAfee do not look
forward to bring being free.
		
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			Okay, from anything. Okay. For
that is indeed what cuts you off
		
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			from vigilant attention to him in
that very state he has assigned to
		
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			you. So one of the things that
he's saying is that he's saying
		
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			here is that
		
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			don't look forward to the end of
something. Because that is a
		
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			distraction from what you're
supposed to be doing now. Okay.
		
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			Don't look forward to that. We are
actually a people of
		
00:34:01 --> 00:34:05
			the SOFIA tend to be against
multitasking.
		
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			They like things to be pure.
Right? Which amount of people
		
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			multitask a lot, right? But we
like things to be pure. If you're
		
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			doing a job focus on that job. If
you're taking a class focus on
		
00:34:18 --> 00:34:21
			that class, if you're doing
talking to someone what did the
		
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			son of the Prophet when he talked
to someone he didn't look left or
		
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			right he didn't do something while
talking to someone. Whenever the
		
00:34:29 --> 00:34:34
			private talks someone he turned
his all chest facing that person
		
00:34:34 --> 00:34:40
			and talk until they finished. And
he never looked around. fidgeted
		
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			right, showed that he doesn't want
to be there or has done ever
		
00:34:44 --> 00:34:48
			anything like this, right. So
we're a type of people who are not
		
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			really supportive, multitasking is
not giving the hub the do of that
		
00:34:54 --> 00:34:57
			thing. Right. You need to get
everything it's do
		
00:34:58 --> 00:34:59
			so
		
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			Do not look forward to the end of
something, because that is a
		
00:35:03 --> 00:35:06
			distraction from what you're
supposed to be doing now. And you
		
00:35:06 --> 00:35:11
			don't know. What you're supposed
to be doing now is your fatigue
		
00:35:11 --> 00:35:15
			can come from there, your benefit,
and your opening can come from
		
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			that, even if that's being sick,
being in debt or being in a bad
		
00:35:19 --> 00:35:23
			relationship, being in whatever,
know that Allah has put you in
		
00:35:23 --> 00:35:28
			this situation, accept it, and
work at it now. Until Allah
		
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			relieves.
		
00:35:30 --> 00:35:33
			Some people are in a bad
relationship. Some people don't
		
00:35:33 --> 00:35:37
			get along with their grandparent
or their mom or dad. You don't sit
		
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			there. Oh, can we turn 21? Again?
Wait, don't 24 Right. No, it's
		
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			gonna happen anyway. No one's
gonna stop time. Just give the
		
00:35:47 --> 00:35:52
			hug. have supper now. Okay, and
don't keep looking at the clock. I
		
00:35:52 --> 00:35:57
			mean, you look at jobs, some jobs,
you got to look at the clock,
		
00:35:57 --> 00:36:02
			okay? It's not moving, the more
you look, the slower it moves.
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:07
			Just do what you have to do now.
And you never know, you may
		
00:36:07 --> 00:36:13
			discover a way to actually enjoy
the state that you're in.
		
00:36:14 --> 00:36:18
			Prisoners are like this. Prison
prisoner. If you ask about
		
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			prisoners, the worst time is when
they're still in trial.
		
00:36:23 --> 00:36:25
			And they don't know what their
fate is going to be. Because they
		
00:36:25 --> 00:36:28
			keep thinking, well, they're not
gonna let me get out. Will they
		
00:36:28 --> 00:36:32
			not get out? But when does he
actually settle and his heart
		
00:36:32 --> 00:36:36
			settles and he becomes in a
routine when he's sentenced. When
		
00:36:36 --> 00:36:40
			your sentence class, they have no
choice. So I'm here, now that I'm
		
00:36:40 --> 00:36:44
			here, now I can make a life for
myself. Like all the last year
		
00:36:44 --> 00:36:49
			there was a report or whatever
program on I'd like to say it
		
00:36:50 --> 00:36:54
			from Baltimore. And he's in jail.
Right? He's like, I have a life
		
00:36:54 --> 00:37:00
			for myself. Actually. He said this
podcast has actually disturbed my
		
00:37:00 --> 00:37:04
			Rypien because now you gotta be
thinking of getting out. I was had
		
00:37:04 --> 00:37:08
			no hope. So I created a little
life for myself here. Right? So
		
00:37:08 --> 00:37:12
			this is how you have to be if
you're in a state, you got to just
		
00:37:12 --> 00:37:17
			be in that state and try to work
it you know, have severed and see
		
00:37:17 --> 00:37:20
			what kind of benefit you can have
in that state. Don't say I can't
		
00:37:20 --> 00:37:21
			wait till it's over.
		
00:37:25 --> 00:37:30
			Man Allah Allah wa judul Ferrari
in the row, Nitin nefs.
		
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			postponing your deeds until you
are free is one of the tricks of
		
00:37:38 --> 00:37:39
			the knifes
		
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			postponing your this is why we do
in the vicco. We do this exercise
		
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			that imagine yourself that you are
like you're on your deathbed.
		
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			Another meditation, imagine
yourself, you've retired, your
		
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			kids are grown up and left the
house, you are retired 67 year old
		
00:38:04 --> 00:38:08
			men? How do you want to spend your
time? How do you want to spend the
		
00:38:08 --> 00:38:13
			last two years of your life? What
do you want to do? The answer to
		
00:38:13 --> 00:38:17
			that question is what you should
be doing now? Right? And
		
00:38:17 --> 00:38:23
			everything else is merely what you
have to do now. So I have to go to
		
00:38:23 --> 00:38:28
			work, right? I have to take care
of my responsibilities. But what
		
00:38:28 --> 00:38:30
			you really
		
00:38:31 --> 00:38:34
			would want yourself to be doing in
the last two years of your life is
		
00:38:34 --> 00:38:38
			what you should be doing in your
free time now and empty your heart
		
00:38:38 --> 00:38:42
			of everything else. I mean, what
is the point of anything? If you
		
00:38:42 --> 00:38:44
			are willing to throw it out on
your deathbed?
		
00:38:45 --> 00:38:49
			If I'm willing to throw it out on
my deathbed, right? That's the
		
00:38:49 --> 00:38:52
			only thing that's important. And
so men, how do you how do we all
		
00:38:52 --> 00:38:55
			answer this question, we all
answer this question. I hope I
		
00:38:55 --> 00:38:58
			want to die with an empty heart
from dunya. I don't want to have
		
00:38:58 --> 00:39:02
			dunya in my heart. I don't want to
have 1000 bank accounts. I don't
		
00:39:02 --> 00:39:07
			want to have headaches of all the
wealth that I've amassed. I don't
		
00:39:07 --> 00:39:08
			want to have
		
00:39:09 --> 00:39:17
			be chasing some material goal, or
I don't want to care about release
		
00:39:17 --> 00:39:18
			my reputation.
		
00:39:19 --> 00:39:23
			Are you going to be dying? Are you
deathbed and worrying what people
		
00:39:23 --> 00:39:27
			think about you? You're not gonna
write, you're thinking about one
		
00:39:27 --> 00:39:30
			thing what have I done for Allah?
Now it's my time to be with Allah.
		
00:39:30 --> 00:39:33
			And you're going to start
realizing oh my gosh, I don't I
		
00:39:33 --> 00:39:37
			don't know Allah. I've never given
this time. I've never given any
		
00:39:37 --> 00:39:40
			effort to the subject. Right? I
don't know Allah. I wish I can go
		
00:39:40 --> 00:39:44
			back 30 years and start over. Then
I wouldn't be chasing the company.
		
00:39:44 --> 00:39:49
			I wouldn't be chasing this chasing
that. Okay. Chasing while chasing
		
00:39:50 --> 00:39:51
			right?
		
00:39:52 --> 00:39:55
			This vehicle remotes Okay.
		
00:39:57 --> 00:39:59
			Tells you what you need.
		
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			and slowly when you increase and
do this, the gap between what
		
00:40:05 --> 00:40:08
			comes to your mind when you do the
good votes and what you're
		
00:40:08 --> 00:40:13
			actually living, that gap slowly
shrinks, slowly shrinks until you
		
00:40:13 --> 00:40:17
			finally attain that, that you
could die right now because I'm
		
00:40:17 --> 00:40:21
			actually fulfilled. I'm doing what
I would want to die upon. This is
		
00:40:21 --> 00:40:25
			very important. This decode mode
is very important. And this
		
00:40:25 --> 00:40:31
			procrastination. postponement is a
huge trick from Shaytaan because
		
00:40:31 --> 00:40:35
			you're postponing you don't even
know when you're gonna die. Right?
		
00:40:35 --> 00:40:39
			You don't know when you're gonna
die. When was the last Sonata
		
00:40:39 --> 00:40:41
			Janaza we had in this semester.
		
00:40:43 --> 00:40:45
			Didn't remember who it was.
		
00:40:47 --> 00:40:52
			It was I believe, Alex, who was
one with me.
		
00:40:53 --> 00:40:57
			Maybe Shaban went with me. Young
man.
		
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			Not even 30 years old. Muslim men,
not even 30 years old. Okay. He's
		
00:41:04 --> 00:41:07
			it. That was the last one as we
did here. Okay.
		
00:41:08 --> 00:41:10
			How about
		
00:41:12 --> 00:41:17
			copper Ramadan's ago to the
janazah for 37 year olds. Okay. So
		
00:41:17 --> 00:41:21
			there's no you don't know when
you're gonna go. And there's just
		
00:41:21 --> 00:41:23
			it's a trick of shaitan that say,
okay, when you get old because
		
00:41:23 --> 00:41:27
			here's the problem. When you get
old, you're stuck in your habits,
		
00:41:27 --> 00:41:30
			you can't teach an old dog new
tricks, you're stuck in your
		
00:41:30 --> 00:41:35
			habits. Number two, you're tired,
you're gonna be exhausted. You're
		
00:41:35 --> 00:41:39
			physically unfit. Now you're
physically fit. So you need to do
		
00:41:39 --> 00:41:43
			what you how you want to do now
what you want to do now. And if
		
00:41:43 --> 00:41:48
			you can do it 100% At least carve
out part of the day. So visualize
		
00:41:48 --> 00:41:52
			yourself that in part of the day,
you are a seven year old man
		
00:41:52 --> 00:41:56
			that's about to die even if you do
this for one hour of the day,
		
00:41:57 --> 00:41:57
			right.
		
00:41:59 --> 00:42:02
			We find we benefit from it and
everything will change.
		
00:42:08 --> 00:42:10
			Hello Kati, young Kino Koba
		
00:42:11 --> 00:42:12
			will
		
00:42:13 --> 00:42:15
			lay on kinako
		
00:42:16 --> 00:42:24
			is man worked in urid in LA when
he happened JD were AMone a kid
		
00:42:24 --> 00:42:30
			for kafer chapter the fee by me
went and amped up the Allah if he
		
00:42:30 --> 00:42:35
			it is possible to fulfill some
obligations at times, but it is
		
00:42:35 --> 00:42:40
			impossible to fill the obligations
of every moment for there is no
		
00:42:40 --> 00:42:46
			moment wherein Allah does not hold
against you a new obligation or a
		
00:42:46 --> 00:42:49
			definite matter. So how can you
fulfill someone else's obligation
		
00:42:50 --> 00:42:52
			when you have not fulfilled a loss
		
00:42:53 --> 00:42:54
			by Mr break
		
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			there are two kinds of obligations
upon the servant
		
00:42:59 --> 00:43:03
			The first is worship the rights of
Allah at fixed time such as
		
00:43:03 --> 00:43:08
			praying and fasting if you do not
discharge these okay
		
00:43:09 --> 00:43:15
			it is possible to do them as cover
up you can make up prayer you can
		
00:43:15 --> 00:43:21
			make up some the second obligation
concerns time okay, but these
		
00:43:21 --> 00:43:25
			obligations are at every moment
and there is no separate fixed set
		
00:43:25 --> 00:43:30
			out time if you miss this moment
you can never get it back. If you
		
00:43:30 --> 00:43:33
			miss this moment, you can never
get it back. Unlike Ramadan if I
		
00:43:33 --> 00:43:37
			travel Ramadan I got sick I
couldn't make it up. But if I get
		
00:43:37 --> 00:43:43
			if I waste time, now if I waste my
free time and my health now you
		
00:43:43 --> 00:43:47
			cannot make that up okay, you can
make up everything else except the
		
00:43:47 --> 00:43:48
			wastage of time.
		
00:43:49 --> 00:43:50
			Okay.
		
00:43:51 --> 00:43:54
			The states of the human beings are
of
		
00:43:55 --> 00:44:02
			14 types. You are either in Nana
or mo sebum. You're either
		
00:44:02 --> 00:44:06
			receiving blessings from Allah or
you are losing blessings from
		
00:44:06 --> 00:44:08
			Allah okay.
		
00:44:09 --> 00:44:14
			Or you are in obedience or you are
in sin. Okay.
		
00:44:15 --> 00:44:17
			If you are in namah
		
00:44:18 --> 00:44:20
			if you're in Namur, you should be
given sugar.
		
00:44:22 --> 00:44:26
			If you are in masivo, you should
be giving sobro if you are in
		
00:44:26 --> 00:44:31
			thaw, likewise, you should be
given sugar. And if you are in
		
00:44:32 --> 00:44:35
			Maaseiah, you should be giving
Tober I would differentiate it I
		
00:44:35 --> 00:44:40
			would say if you are in NEMA, you
should be giving sadaqa if you are
		
00:44:40 --> 00:44:45
			being blessed, you need to give
out if you're healthy. You need to
		
00:44:45 --> 00:44:49
			do something beneficial with your
body. Don't just serve yourself.
		
00:44:50 --> 00:44:54
			Well like we have a such a self
serving culture. Right, such as
		
00:44:54 --> 00:44:59
			self serving culture, if you're
doing if you're in a state of
		
00:44:59 --> 00:44:59
			health
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:03
			You need to be serving others. If
you have more knowledge, then you
		
00:45:03 --> 00:45:06
			should be passing it on. If you
have more wealth, you should be
		
00:45:06 --> 00:45:12
			investing for someone else to
benefit if or donating. If you are
		
00:45:12 --> 00:45:13
			in a state of
		
00:45:14 --> 00:45:18
			physically, you can help people
use your body for that reason.
		
00:45:18 --> 00:45:23
			Okay? If you're, you have
resources at your fingertips, use
		
00:45:23 --> 00:45:28
			those resources for others. If
you're in namah, you should be
		
00:45:28 --> 00:45:32
			doing setup. If you are in masiva,
you should be doing several
		
00:45:33 --> 00:45:36
			patients if you're being struck,
if you're sick, if you're poor,
		
00:45:36 --> 00:45:39
			have patience. If you're in a bad
situation, your job is to have
		
00:45:39 --> 00:45:43
			patience, you cannot have patience
later, you need to have patience.
		
00:45:43 --> 00:45:48
			Now, you can make it up. If you
are in a state of obedience, you
		
00:45:48 --> 00:45:49
			should be giving sugar.
		
00:45:50 --> 00:45:54
			And if you are in the state of
disobedience, you should be making
		
00:45:54 --> 00:45:55
			Toba okay.
		
00:45:57 --> 00:46:01
			It is imperative that the servant
observes the obligations of time
		
00:46:02 --> 00:46:06
			at every breath, he should be
mindful of this duty. It is for
		
00:46:06 --> 00:46:09
			this reason that the righteous
scholars have said a Sufi abnormal
		
00:46:09 --> 00:46:15
			works or Ebenen works. In other
words, he is perpetually
		
00:46:15 --> 00:46:20
			perpetually engrossed in the
discharge of the obligation of
		
00:46:20 --> 00:46:26
			this moment. Right of this moment,
okay. This is another thing that
		
00:46:26 --> 00:46:31
			called our culture is totally a
global culture, global world
		
00:46:31 --> 00:46:37
			culture is really messed up in I
mean, nobody everyone has any
		
00:46:37 --> 00:46:40
			people are not engrossed in the
moment that they're in. Right?
		
00:46:41 --> 00:46:43
			No one's it goes to the moment
that they're in.
		
00:46:44 --> 00:46:49
			This is something totally lost.
We're either busy recording it so
		
00:46:49 --> 00:46:53
			much that we're not even enjoying
it. Right? We're either recording
		
00:46:53 --> 00:46:58
			it, that we're not even enjoying
it. We really got to get our
		
00:46:58 --> 00:47:02
			selves under control here. The the
internet technology is a wild wild
		
00:47:02 --> 00:47:08
			west. And it's been running
without rules for 10 years, 15
		
00:47:08 --> 00:47:12
			years, we need to start reining it
in and having some giving it some
		
00:47:12 --> 00:47:16
			some rules, right? giving it some
legislation. Okay.
		
00:47:18 --> 00:47:22
			You can't find people are in the
moment anymore. No one's in the
		
00:47:22 --> 00:47:25
			moment. You either you ruin the
moment by trying to record the
		
00:47:25 --> 00:47:30
			moment he wrote, right? He wrote
the moment by trying to record the
		
00:47:30 --> 00:47:30
			moment
		
00:47:32 --> 00:47:36
			or you're not finding any benefit
in immediate satisfaction in this
		
00:47:36 --> 00:47:41
			moment. So it records down to the
mobile phone, right.
		
00:47:43 --> 00:47:44
			So this is,
		
00:47:46 --> 00:47:47
			as you see here has
		
00:47:48 --> 00:47:51
			two more segments we'll do and
we'll finish this chapter. This
		
00:47:51 --> 00:47:56
			issue of timing, math, ultimate
America, Allah, Allah masala laka
		
00:47:56 --> 00:47:57
			Manu, Lottie Matala,
		
00:47:59 --> 00:48:02
			the point of view like that has
gone by is irreplaceable. And that
		
00:48:02 --> 00:48:07
			which has arrived is priceless,
okay? can't put a price on it. No
		
00:48:07 --> 00:48:11
			compensation can ever be offered
for man's time that has expired.
		
00:48:13 --> 00:48:17
			Therefore, the time that one
obtains at present is priceless,
		
00:48:17 --> 00:48:23
			the entire earth with all its
possessions cannot buy, a moment
		
00:48:23 --> 00:48:26
			that has passed, which has the
potential to bring everlasting
		
00:48:26 --> 00:48:30
			happiness for the one who uses his
time wisely. It is precisely for
		
00:48:30 --> 00:48:34
			this reason that the pious
predecessors treasured their
		
00:48:34 --> 00:48:37
			breathing, taking a constant
reckoning of every breath, never
		
00:48:37 --> 00:48:43
			would they destroy a single
moment. According to a hadith, the
		
00:48:43 --> 00:48:47
			moment that a servant spends in
forgetfulness will be a cause of
		
00:48:47 --> 00:48:50
			regret for him. But at that time
in the future, once he has passed
		
00:48:50 --> 00:48:52
			away, remorse will be of no avail.
		
00:48:57 --> 00:49:00
			One of the things that they say is
today,
		
00:49:01 --> 00:49:08
			your your state today is a result
of how you use your time in the
		
00:49:08 --> 00:49:16
			past, okay. And so therefore, your
future is not going to be by
		
00:49:16 --> 00:49:22
			planning for it is by what you
were doing now. Right? How you're
		
00:49:22 --> 00:49:25
			making use of your time now is
going to indicate your future.
		
00:49:27 --> 00:49:30
			Takes off. Forget someone who's so
young, they don't understand that
		
00:49:30 --> 00:49:33
			they haven't had the chance to
live yet. Let's take a 40 year old
		
00:49:33 --> 00:49:34
			men,
		
00:49:35 --> 00:49:37
			a 40 year old man.
		
00:49:38 --> 00:49:44
			What is his state today with his
job, his wife and his kids? It is
		
00:49:44 --> 00:49:49
			all dependent upon what he did in
the past decade. If he worked hard
		
00:49:49 --> 00:49:53
			and neglected his kids, he's gonna
have a good job. No relationship
		
00:49:53 --> 00:49:59
			with his kids. Right? If he was
mean and nasty to his wife, he
		
00:49:59 --> 00:49:59
			shouldn't expect
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:06
			It's a pleasant marriage, right?
Whatever you have now, it is only
		
00:50:07 --> 00:50:11
			a result of your yesterday's all
of your yesterday moments
		
00:50:11 --> 00:50:15
			compiled. So the intelligent
person he doesn't think sit there
		
00:50:15 --> 00:50:19
			being worried about tomorrow or
being sad about the past. He
		
00:50:19 --> 00:50:22
			should be doing something useful
today. something of value today
		
00:50:22 --> 00:50:27
			and the last week about the
aquarium looking at the Danny and
		
00:50:28 --> 00:50:33
			I'm gonna show the lead from
mulata. What the lake what a Pilla
		
00:50:33 --> 00:50:38
			well if epoka from mulata it will
be disappointing, very
		
00:50:38 --> 00:50:39
			disappointing.
		
00:50:40 --> 00:50:45
			Huge regret. If you find yourself
free from distractions, then you
		
00:50:45 --> 00:50:51
			do not use your time for saloon
towards Allah azza wa jal and if
		
00:50:51 --> 00:50:55
			you have if you were to have a few
obstacles that not move on to him.
		
00:50:56 --> 00:51:01
			Basically, he's saying the worst
and the biggest fool amongst the
		
00:51:01 --> 00:51:06
			people, is someone who has free
time. He's got free time, and he
		
00:51:06 --> 00:51:07
			doesn't use it for yourself.
		
00:51:09 --> 00:51:15
			This is the biggest fool. biggest
fool. There's a room on Yama,
		
00:51:15 --> 00:51:21
			Yama, there is a place a space for
the Shabaab the youth
		
00:51:22 --> 00:51:28
			who use their time their free time
and saloon and a Baghdad of Allah
		
00:51:28 --> 00:51:31
			azza wa jal, there's a special
place and there are many from the
		
00:51:31 --> 00:51:34
			venue. And there are even more
from the owner of Muhammad
		
00:51:34 --> 00:51:37
			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when
everyone's suffering on europium,
		
00:51:37 --> 00:51:41
			they will be ushered in a special
room, they will be ushered in a
		
00:51:41 --> 00:51:46
			special place in which they can
pray and they could wait and
		
00:51:46 --> 00:51:52
			receive their does that the
reward? Okay, they will be made up
		
00:51:52 --> 00:51:52
			again.
		
00:51:53 --> 00:51:59
			Everyone has yomo in Jana is 33.
We know that but in Yolo, the AMA,
		
00:51:59 --> 00:52:03
			you will rise up in your best of
states or your worst of state so
		
00:52:03 --> 00:52:07
			your best of state if your best
moment was that time, your whole
		
00:52:07 --> 00:52:07
			life.
		
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			someone's entire life trajectory
is based on what he did from the
		
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			age of 15 to 25. And mashallah, we
have some people studying the zikr
		
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			don't tahajjud avoiding wrong from
the age of 15 to 25. Every good
		
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			that he does afterwards is due to
this investment that he put in the
		
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			age of 15 to 25. And that's why
Allah will resurrect them as
		
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			youth.
		
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			He will resurrect them as you
because that was where you the
		
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			game was over. You won the game in
the first inning. You don't need
		
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			to show the highlights of the
ninth inning. Right. You won the
		
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			game 11 Three, but you scored
eight ones in the first inning.
		
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			All you need to talk about is the
first inning everything else
		
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			doesn't matter. Right. It's all
the results of the first inning.
		
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			Okay? Likewise mashallah the
Shabbat and some are the opposite.
		
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			Some are the opposite failures in
life. Oh, the biller last. Don't
		
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			be a failure in life, right? You
and we know what to do force
		
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			yourself to do it that as Oh Allah
make me sincere if I have doubts,
		
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			ask Allah to remove them if I have
shakiness, so as collateral
		
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			moving, you think about not in
control of your heart, you must
		
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			not believe in Allah. Right if I
have shakiness. I ask a lot remove
		
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			the shakiness. If I have, I'm
confused, I don't know what to do.
		
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			Ask Allah to remove it and spend
your youth serving, the youth
		
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			should be divided into a couple
parts.
		
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			Couple parts, if you have someone
that Shabbat in their youth,
		
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			they're
		
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			even giving one quarter of their
time to Allah. This is huge, huge.
		
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			Okay. humongous. But if you have
youth who are lost, you have to we
		
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			have to make dua for them. We have
to make a big draw for them. And
		
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			you don't know though you don't
know when things are going to turn
		
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			around because we have like, and
we'll close with this. Like, you
		
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			got
		
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			a type of like, old back in the
olden days. If they wanted to
		
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			fling a rock. What did they do?
They took a rock. They put it in
		
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			the rock a rubber band, they pull
it all the way back then they let
		
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			go. Some people this is their
trajectory that they're going to
		
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			regress regress, regress, regress,
but they don't realize that that
		
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			regress is going to lead to
something great. All right, they
		
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			keep regressing for a wisdom Allah
knows that some people need to be
		
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			in darkness before they can
appreciate the light. Other people
		
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			immediately attracted to the
light. So though as a judgment
		
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			when you see someone regressing
because even his regress may be
		
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			his way to
		
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			Progress. Everyone's different,
like a cheetah can run fast. A
		
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			slingshot is also fast. The
cheetah doesn't need to go
		
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			backwards, right? But the
slingshot needs to go backwards in
		
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			order to go forward. The cheetah
doesn't do that. Right? So don't
		
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			pass a jump but however, the youth
have to take the give their time
		
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			to Allah azza wa jal and
		
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			if your parents are sort of
dragging you then you should be
		
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			grateful because at least you have
good habits. At least you have
		
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			good habits and you're not doing
something bad. Alright, so this
		
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			was a chapter on time and this
being the first of the month we
		
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			are dividing it back again so shut
after our break and Salah chef a
		
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			fit Hanafy
		
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			everyone else here for a longer
Quran? Yes.
		
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			You