Shadee Elmasry – Family & Youth Night Sunnas of Salat Part 2 of 2
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Answer is yes the property to be bonded to a person will be alone
in a
in a mountain area or in a valley and call the event and all the
angels will come. Anytime that a person calls the event all the
angels and the Muslim jinn will come and pray with him. Okay, they
will come and pray with them. And anytime a person does any the
Quran Salah otherwise allowed the angels and the Muslim Jin's
joining and this is in Sahih Hadith as well. Yes.
Yeah, a woman by herself will call the event, but she will call the
akamba. Yeah.
The kind of woman a woman's not gonna call
the voice of a woman is it's a melodious it becomes older. Like,
I know, that is what it is. Right? Question? Yeah.
That's a good question. The it is prohibited to pray, where others
will be disturbed. It's prohibited to disturb others with a prayer.
Right? So the prayer should not be something I'm going to pray I'm
gonna pray I'm praying. No, you're not allowed to pray in exits in
front of doors, roads, anywhere people need to walk, you become a
source of disruption. Yep.
Hmm.
If that's the situation, then it should be done. But if there's no
choice, but it should be planned in the future, right. So the
pressure and also we know that the Quran says, Today, people are
really touchy about Islam, like really touchy. And you never know
how people think, because of the information that's out there, some
of that misinformation, etc. And the Quran tells us don't curse
false gods so that they don't curse yoga, right? So likewise,
anytime that you have people who are agitated, we should not allow
Dean to agitate the more if we have control over it. So for
example, if you are if someone's really angry, you shouldn't say,
calm down, because the prophesy seven said, Don't get angry or
stuff like that. He's so angry, he might actually end up cursing the
dean,
because of you. So as much as possible, we should make sure not
to agitate people who are already and they're agitated doesn't mean
they're all guilty. They could be agitated, like, if you're in the
position of many people out there, and all the news that you see
about Muslims is bad, you probably have the same opinion. Right? You
don't have the same opinion. So we should be considerate and not have
this attitude, like I'm Muslim, I'm going to pray wherever I want.
No, because you're dealing with people who are actually just
innocent there have opinions that are negative, without being really
malicious. It's just the what they're being fed. So therefore,
the prayer when we do it, we have to make sure it's done in a proper
place, right? Especially if you're in airports and things that you
should look for the chapel, or ask someone right, where to pray, so
that they don't realize, oh, my gosh, he's having his Last
Testament, right? If we take this all down, right? Yeah.
Then is always
a recommendation, not an obligation. It's always optional.
Can we get
on the airplane, you'd have to, you'd have to pray sitting down.
But of course, though, if the prayer time comes in, you have to
combine in the airport so that you could fulfill the obligation of
standing up, because the problem is that we're stuck. We have to
pray sitting down in the airplane, and there's even fatawa permitting
that but other Fidella saying, you have to make that prayer, you pray
it, and you make it up just in case, because standing up is an
obligation of Salah, and your travel was voluntary. So you
voluntarily put yourself in a situation where you couldn't pray
properly. So some of the scholars actually say that pray on the
plane sitting down and repeat the prayer when you get off. Yep.
No, no, no. If you're in a restaurant, or in the mall, can
you pray sitting down? The answer is no. Because that's not a heavy
burden. You can go to a fitting room, or you can go home or you
can leave like you have to do shopping at that hour. All right.
All these things that we do, aren't really excuses to skip the
prayer. So you should base things and we only get in trouble in the
winter, right? The wintertime, the only time that you get in trouble,
because the prayer times are so close that if you go out at the
wrong time, you're gonna get stuck in traffic and Mr. Prayer, so you
got to be aware of that. And you got to find little nooks and
crannies. Right to pray. All right. You got it. Yep.
You can face the people in the plane. The question how do you get
in the plane? You can't? Right? So you have to break out? Out that's
why they said pray it. You're gonna you're not gonna be standing
up. You're not facing the Qibla so repeat it. That's what they say.
That's what some people call it says I'm gonna give it permission.
Yeah.
Combining prayers, we'll get to that when we got to
lifewise Michigan, the person who's dying to say the same thing
Yeah, you shouldn't force them.
That's true.
And it's also when someone's dying you don't tell them say that I
love because he might be too sick to say it and but you would think
that oh, he's cursed or something. He's he can't say it. Alright, now
let's get to the second sunnah is as much as possible to pray
together in Jannah it is extremely important and it's fun.
Part of the socialization of the community, how do we get what does
it mean to be socialized? What does actually mean to be
socialized? It means, right, that there are certain things that are
not written in the law, right? But it's known amongst all of us how
because we all agree, if you bring in 50 people in a room, and you
ask them about certain behaviors, that they all agree that certain
behaviors are weird, and they don't like it. Right? So that's
what defines normalcy and certain behaviors are good. So the
defining of what is normal? Right? So certain types of normalcy is
all established by socialization, and socialization and Islam.
Right? The way that Allah brings people together is through the
prayer. Okay, it will force the person to come in and mingle and
mix with people. Okay? So there are certain things that are not
normal behavior, right? And when you're mingling with people on a
regular basis, you will learn what is abnormal behavior, talking too
much. complaining, smelling bad. Okay, that's actually my group, we
have a religious ruling on it being weird, like what is being
like in Islam, we actually promote something called audible or
normalcy of behavior. We don't promote you to be some kind of
weird person. And people read and say, Oh, Albert Einstein ought to
be like me was so weird. Or if Steve Jobs he was so awesome, but
he was so rude and dirty, right? I want to be like that. No, we
actually don't promote for people to be eyeballs. It's no good. It's
gonna harm you in the future. Right? It's not cute. It's not
funny, right? And how do we do this? By socialization, right,
coming to the end, the prayer is the glue. So in your household,
the prayer as much as possible should be done in general, and at
least a regular Muslim at the minimum, once a week to come to
the master to pray. At the minimum, that's what the modern
Muslim life at the very least, you're gonna pray in your mosque
at least once a week. Right? And higher than that is better. But
the goal of praying together is that people start to learn the art
of righteous Muslims. What is the normal behavior? Why? Because a
good such a happy individual is an individual with social support. I
have emotional support. And I have a lot of support from a lot of
people. I'm never alone. I'm not alone. This is the first step to
mental health, you want to look at why there's so much mental
unwellness and people are emotionally. Right. They have
issues, they have emotional situations, mental instability,
it's all because a lack of social support. Okay, now, you can only
have social support, when we all have a common understanding of
what normalcy is, right? What is normal behavior. Okay, so if it
comes in, and he's Pierce's eyebrow, I'm like, and he's
telling me, Well, this is me. It's not gonna happen when you
constantly meet people, right? And you see all this madness and this
weirdness, okay, because there's no socialization. And when you
have a society in which everyone's definition of normal, is just out
in the field, how can we ever come together on anything, right? And
that's where Shakedowns planned for human beings is to separate
them, separate them. So you can never come together and one of the
prophets say about the lone person, the person who's alone all
the time, well, you say fun, hunt him down, and gets in his head and
convinces him right, that normal is something totally different. So
this is because because I was asked the other day by a high
school kid, and they said, Well, what really is normal? What is
normal really mean? Normal means for us get,
get 20 Muslims who pray in a room, whatever they agree on, it's
normal, right? Close way of talking. Right? All these
behaviors and manners. It's just what we agree upon. Okay? So
that's what socialization is, and Salah myalgia is the best. Okay,
whatever Muslim goes in the world, you find her at the masjid. And
you start attending that messenger to pray at the minimum once a
week. Right? Really? That's the bare minimum. Let's go to the next
thing. Yes.
That's correct. Someone who drinks alcohol is prayer is not accepted
for 40 days. That's correct.
But he still has to pray. He thought super next, highly
confirmed sunnah
is that after Fatiha in the first two records is to recite at least
an idea or parliament is even part of it. Okay. So what is the
minimum of recitation of Quran that you have to recite after
certain Fatiha
at least in a or part of a night? Okay, what is the shortest day of
the Quran?
Now
with the shortest area of Quran,
ramen, no
golf known. All right, so that's the sort of good
Alright, the next sunnah. The Sunnah is that while you're
reciting that you don't lean, right, it becomes a symbol. So
you're definitely not allowed to lean while reciting Fatiha. Okay.
But if the recitation becomes long, it is highly recommended to
not lean right while you're listening or reciting the next
pseudo Yoda question.
Yeah,
the Hanafi opinion I don't know what I think it's three verses.
Kind of your opinion three verses versus conservative culture
history versus Yeah.
Yeah.
The surah is only in the first two records of the prayer. That's it.
All right, next recommended. Okay. Now these these recommendations,
by the way, are not the type of recommendations that you can
abandon in the prayer. If you miss one of these recommendations, you
have to pray. So. So these are not like any other recommendations.
The next one is that a person has to be silent when it's silent and
allowed when it's allowed. And as any Muslim child knows, right? I
mean, I would hope they know that the out loud is only select a
times that is to look as offensive. The first to have
negative and the first to have a shot making a total of six out of
17 records are allowed. Okay. Now that's the summons we're talking
about just the font, six out of 17 Drucker's right are allowed. Now
what is the baseline minimum of the definition of allowed so that
if I come home late at night, and I didn't pray,
and you come in and your mom and dad are sleeping and trying to
sleep in, they're getting old and they sleep early? Right? And now I
want to be pious and understanding loud and waking everyone up. Now
because I'm trying to be pious will tell him, you're trying to be
ignorant, right? Because that's not what allowed means allowed is
that you can hear yourself, that's it, the minimum of being allowed
is that you can hear yourself, that's it. That's what allowed
means, okay, so that you recite so that you don't have to recite to
wake people up. You know that people it's my crew. It's highly
McLuhan even considered like a minor sin to bother someone's
sleeping. I mean, we have an amazing deed, to bother someone
who's sleeping, to wake them up. So much so that the, the Prophet
was sleeping, and he had a garment. He woke up, a kid had
walked in and fell asleep on his garment that he had to go first of
all,
he ripped his garment and want to pray that he ripped his garment in
preference to waking up a kid from sleeping. Imagine that a human
being the only time that a human being should be woken up is for
salatu. Salam, basically. And even that has to be done gently,
obviously have to wake them up for school. Right.
And that's gonna stop. They're gonna have I'm not waking up no
kids, right? You wake yourself up. What is this? I mean, we spoon
feed the kids so badly. It's unbelievable. I know, parents.
They wake up their high school kids and make them a peanut butter
and jelly sandwich. Once you're in high school, I'm sleeping. Right?
You gotta wait. You can't even wake up anymore. That's
unbelievable. Forget your jacket. He's in high school. Don't forget
your jacket. They go out, they get cold, they get sick. They'll never
forget the jacket. Again. I gave the corporate today let's study
him almost like a kid. Allah subhanaw taala says you don't have
to control them. Right? This is in humans in general. You're not
responsible to a certain level, the moms give themselves a
headache. They give themselves a headache. They overdo it. Right?
And there are some people, they still overdo it something that kid
will never learn from experience. The kid a ball hits his head.
Okay, my boss, right? All right, the kid trips right now we're
walking, what is this? They just want to stop. They want it? Why
don't you just put the kid in a bubble, right. So nothing touches
him there to an extreme.
So when you wake someone up for anything, it must be done very
gently, by whispering by whispering once, then wait, then a
second time, then wait, then a third time very gently. Okay. And
when they say this hadith, which is like an exaggeration, that if
someone's getting up for night prayers, wake them up with water.
And then there are some ignorant people will like the worst. You
want to know what the worst combination is? Someone is trying
to be pious. And then he gets a book of Hadith. And he tries to
practice it. You know what that's like? Someone who gets Grey's
Anatomy, and takes another person and tries to do surgery on him.
And then is looking at the book. Right? And so I know a guy. He
used to go around to try to be pious, and pour water on the faces
of the household for fetcher. What do you think we're gonna think
about the prayer at that point? They're gonna hate it, right? So
what does it mean? The prophesy centum said that the best of
husband and wife is that they wake up for nightmares, let alone fetch
night prayers. And that if he doesn't get up, she puts water on
his face to wake him up. And if she doesn't wake up, he doesn't
say anything to her. That's number one, to talk about night prayers.
I mean, these people are so pious to begin with, that they're
praying my prayers, so forget, forget better. They press.
Secondly, it mean number two, these people are in the desert.
The water is gonna be warm, and the temperature is hot. Water is
not gonna bother me in the desert. That's number one. Number two,
number three. It's literally a sprinkle right? A sprinkle on
someone's forehead or on someone's foot.
People don't realize how gentle the Prophet peace be upon him was
right. They don't realize how gentle he was. And the way the
Prophet taught people who were sleeping is a sign of how gentle
he was. And if you want to be hated in your house, bother people
who sleep if you want to be hated, and people will go their entire
lifetime
getting like waking people up in the house in a rude and nasty way.
Right? Then wondering why like people like you, right? Because
you're not nice to have around this very small thing is a big
deal. Okay, all right.
So, yeah, if you miss the allowed and the silent, you have to do so.
Now, next next point, what is the threshold and the meaning when we
say pray silently? The meaning is no
voice but movement of the tongue, your lips and your tongue and your
teeth are moving silently does not mean in your head silently means
the lips, the tongue, and the mouth and the jaws
are moving without voice. Okay, that is the meaning of silence
from the ignorance of people from the ignorance of people is praying
aloud, so that you can't even think concentrate, you hear all
his da you hear everything, you know his family problems from his
right.
Next,
all of the tech Vir and semi Allah Who even Hamidah beyond the first
tech beer is a pseudonym aka confirm sunnah. So all that saying
of Allahu Akbar and semi Allah but even Hamidah is sunnah. Okay,
except the first one. And the last one, Allahu Akbar, what are the
obligations of the system? And if you're praying alone, you say
something Allahu even Hamid up and you say, but
if you are the Imam, you say something a lot, even me, that's
it. If you are the follower, then that moon, you say Allahumma,
banana can hunt. And that's it. So that's how it works. And the
reason is that it was a bucket acidic, are they allowed to add on
who who said, that? He arrived right before the Prophet made
required.
So in rakura, he said it Hamdulillah that he was able to
catch the rock out with the Prophet peace be upon.
Allah revealed to the prophet that that UTTERANCE OF AN hamdulillah
was so sincere, it reached Allah directly. So the Prophet rose and
he said, Send me Allah when even Hamid Allah Who was the one who
thanked him. When he heard that, he said, Allah, I'm gonna banana.
Alright, he thanked him again. And just from that one incident, it
became a Sunday for us. Okay, to say, Send me I love it. Even me
that alarm. I have another
question. Yep.
All right. When does the person move? When the Imam makes a
statement, you move after he's made a statement. If you move with
him, it's acceptable. But it is highly preferable to wait until he
finishes his statement. And if you are the Imam, then you can move
while you're making your statement.
All right.
Now, all of what we've said so far, is specific for the
obligatory prayers. So for Sunnah prayers, there's no event no iqama
for Sunnah prayers, whether you say aloud or silently it doesn't
matter. Right? For Sunnah prayers, whether you lean or sit down or
stand up doesn't matter. And it is recommended. Some people say that
the Sunnah prayers of the evening be said aloud. And the Sunnah
prayers of the daytime be said silently, okay. All of this right
are all related to the obligatory prayers, not the recommended press
Next.
The first just to shout an hour, okay. And the Tisha who defended
there are two Tisha hoods in every salon, in the except salon. And
the part of it, which is
to be said, that must be said, in the Tisha hood is the first half
the greeting, what is the origin of the Trisha what, what is there
are different also see, there are different expressions of how to
say that it's better here to realize that you had to play
bachelor, and it continued here to learn. So I want to tell you about
three different expressions of the shell that are all valid same
meaning, and if they come in different from different Sahaba.
The origin of the two here is that this is what the messengers of
Allah who it was sent them said, in the Mirage to Allah subhanaw
taala, when Allah elevated the messenger, to the highest level,
that any human being has attained, or will ever attain in this life,
is the Mirage. That is the journey to Jerusalem, and the Mirage is
the journey to the heavens. Right? And we are people who believe that
Allah creates a two ways by cause and effects that we all know.
Right? drop something and it falls causing effect or conflict could
be and it is, and ALLAH SubhanA wa Allah, we believe in karma. And
why is that? We don't believe that Allah is limited by the physical
rules of nature. If he wishes to take his prophet to the heavens,
in the blink of an eye and bring him back, he can do so. So much so
that the Prophet went to Jerusalem and to the Mirage. On his way. A
jug had spilled on his way he had just seen from the corner of a jug
spilt. He went, he did all this, and met all the prophets in
Jerusalem, then went to the Mara, he went first to the grave, then
went to the grave of Moses, the birthplace of Jesus, then went to
the Mirage, and all the heavens and all the prophets there a
second time. And then he spoke to Allah subhanaw taala directly.
And then he came back, when he came back, the water was still
coming out of the jungle. And when he went to his bed, it was too
warm. All of that happened to his physical person in the blink of an
eye.
And we believe that that's part of our belief.
So in the Mirage when he met Allah subhanaw, when he spoke to Allah
azza wa jal directly, these are the words he uttered. So when we
pray and the Jupiter here, that is what
we're mimicking what the Prophet said to Allah subhanaw taala
it becomes now sunnah to in the in the last raka of every Salah to
recite some other dua most recommended is the Surah Ibrahim
iya so that you're here to to to notice that you have to be there.
So I want to tell you about a salam ala you want to be
Rahmatullah to Santa Marlena, while I better la sala he actually
would like to have a lot of donations because I don't know I'm
gonna build that into here. And then the salah Ibrahimi Allahumma
Salli ala Muhammad Ali, Mohammed Baraka, Muhammad Ali, Ibrahim Ali
Baba, kind of humble Mohammed, Baba Ali Ibrahim Ali Ali Brian for
Armenian the community and for this too, there are different CF
expressions. This becomes a sunnah. And then it becomes a
sunnah to seek protection from the fifth of this life and the next,
the fifth of the grave and the fifth of mercy, the jet the
Antichrist.
Now, the Tisha hood is such a sunnah, that if it's missed, it
has to be made up.
It has to be made up and to to cause after a two sets does after
you slammed out, and then you do to pay again, that's an American,
we'll cover that that is called the sudo. To sell. We have to
cover that another time.
There are a couple more but we have to stop here for time. We'll
take any questions or any questions that you may have or
Yep.
When you miss a couple records, you have to keep the order when it
comes to sitting down. So if you joined in no matter what was
happening, whether they sat down or not, that's your first record.
You will always oh that say something nice, right? You're
always sitting down in a second or fourth, right second or fourth?
You Oh, it doesn't matter what your first was.
Yeah.
Yeah.
You just have to alternate. Just have to alternate Yeah, it has to
be second and fourth, or second or third promoted. Yep.