Shadee Elmasry – Do Everything You Can to Save Your Marriage

It's very overwhelming when you're like you 30 And an uncle and

auntie of like 60 years old who had been married their children

they raised them together they become adults they come to you for

like medical advice or help you know Allah bless them for their,

you know the few people who are left that have confidence in the

people of knowledge. But, you know, in some ways, not every

scholar is going to be equipped to give you what you need. Not

everything your Eman is going to be able to figure out because

remember, in the beginning, we said like don't make your marriage

like based on the fifth book and guess what we've been reading for

our whole mother's education, QuickBooks, okay.

And I sit on the board of the filial Center, which is a practice

of clinical psychology based on Islamic values. The director of

the filial center brother who Monica Shahbazi. He has a master's

degrees working on his PhD in Clinical Psychology has been

practicing for years. And there's a team of people working with him,

several of which are PhDs shift Romney's wife, Dr. Ronnie Allah,

who is a Stanford qualified psychiatrist. She also works with

the filiale center as well. They're all right now in Detroit

this weekend there in Detroit, Michigan for the Muslim

mental health conference. And this there is like a large movement for

this and there are a lot of services even fellow central

provide their services remotely through certain you know, certain

certain issues that they feel that are appropriate that they can deal

with remotely through the internet. They'll provide services

brother monka Chavez he studied studied the room with myself with

Shane below and sorry with a number of other

another a number of other people and knowledge in the Chicago area.

And I would say out of our destinies on me like eight year

syllabus, he's completed pretty near six years of it really

functionally very knowledgeable person Mashallah. And

you know, people like that go get help, don't let your marriage get

trashed it's worth your time and effort to save it you'll regret it

when it's done even if even if that even if everybody by

consensus all the Imams and all of the the counselors and your family

members even if they agree that like it had to end that it was

ended for its ending is for the bathroom still regretted. So why

would you why would you do that? Why would you think that the

minute that you're the coordinator that you know that that bond is

cut, you know, each party will will feel pain from him. So why

why why put yourself through that when you don't have to, you know,

do try to try to you know, save your marriage in any way shape or

form that you can and know that it's worth it a lot data will

reward for it and if it has to break then do so an amicable way

and like we said ship on celebrates when he breaks up a

marriage and likewise Allah subhana wa is pleased with the two

people who are married with each other and they both put in a good

faith effort to get along and they're both getting along. And I

would urge people to if they're they have a marriage that's kind

of an Rocky and Iraqi state. Okay.

There are marriage counselors you can go to

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