Shadee Elmasry – Do Everything You Can to Save Your Marriage
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It's very overwhelming when you're like you 30 And an uncle and
auntie of like 60 years old who had been married their children
they raised them together they become adults they come to you for
like medical advice or help you know Allah bless them for their,
you know the few people who are left that have confidence in the
people of knowledge. But, you know, in some ways, not every
scholar is going to be equipped to give you what you need. Not
everything your Eman is going to be able to figure out because
remember, in the beginning, we said like don't make your marriage
like based on the fifth book and guess what we've been reading for
our whole mother's education, QuickBooks, okay.
And I sit on the board of the filial Center, which is a practice
of clinical psychology based on Islamic values. The director of
the filial center brother who Monica Shahbazi. He has a master's
degrees working on his PhD in Clinical Psychology has been
practicing for years. And there's a team of people working with him,
several of which are PhDs shift Romney's wife, Dr. Ronnie Allah,
who is a Stanford qualified psychiatrist. She also works with
the filiale center as well. They're all right now in Detroit
this weekend there in Detroit, Michigan for the Muslim
mental health conference. And this there is like a large movement for
this and there are a lot of services even fellow central
provide their services remotely through certain you know, certain
certain issues that they feel that are appropriate that they can deal
with remotely through the internet. They'll provide services
brother monka Chavez he studied studied the room with myself with
Shane below and sorry with a number of other
another a number of other people and knowledge in the Chicago area.
And I would say out of our destinies on me like eight year
syllabus, he's completed pretty near six years of it really
functionally very knowledgeable person Mashallah. And
you know, people like that go get help, don't let your marriage get
trashed it's worth your time and effort to save it you'll regret it
when it's done even if even if that even if everybody by
consensus all the Imams and all of the the counselors and your family
members even if they agree that like it had to end that it was
ended for its ending is for the bathroom still regretted. So why
would you why would you do that? Why would you think that the
minute that you're the coordinator that you know that that bond is
cut, you know, each party will will feel pain from him. So why
why why put yourself through that when you don't have to, you know,
do try to try to you know, save your marriage in any way shape or
form that you can and know that it's worth it a lot data will
reward for it and if it has to break then do so an amicable way
and like we said ship on celebrates when he breaks up a
marriage and likewise Allah subhana wa is pleased with the two
people who are married with each other and they both put in a good
faith effort to get along and they're both getting along. And I
would urge people to if they're they have a marriage that's kind
of an Rocky and Iraqi state. Okay.
There are marriage counselors you can go to
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