Shadee Elmasry – Did They Really Use Whatsapp NBF 359
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He hating on WhatsApp instead of Israel. Hello.
Think about this.
All right. Think about that next. So you're his source. What could
only be someone close to the people who used this so called or
alleged tracking information, right?
Which is Israel? Secondly, let me ask you this.
If Israel's Intel is so good and they could track ismael's phone
and his WhatsApp, why didn't they do that before October 7? If you
are so good at tracking people down, why don't you go track down
the people who actually walked cake walked right into your
country
and came in on these ridiculous What were these things called
the What were these called, those little gliders?
So that's not adding up. If your intel is so good and you're able
to track this dude's WhatsApp, let me take number three. Let's say
hypothetically, just hypothetically, it's true, right?
Why would you tell the world? Don't you got other people to
assassinate? If it's that easy, let's send everyone a text on
WhatsApp. Now we know where you are
by sending you a message on WhatsApp. Now we know where you
are so we can assassinate you. Don't they got tons of people to
assassinate
number four.
If they're actually going after their enemies,
why go after the negotiator? He doesn't make decisions. He
negotiates. He's given a scenario. Well, who creates the scenario?
The military side of things. Military side of things weren't
targeted. Why not target them? How about that?
The whole thing is a I think it's going back to the same thing that
happens before, which is namely, that
they send you on a wild goose chase. And maybe somebody leaked
this information to Elijah Mangere. I don't want to say
anything bad about him. I don't know anything about him, and he
found it too irresistible to release it. To not release it,
let's what are we on? Number five or six. Something else that
doesn't add up is that face WhatsApp doesn't allow a lot of
talk about this. Anwar Ibrahim is a
prime minister. Anwar Ibrahim of Malaysia. He put out some comments
on Hamas, and they deleted it. They won't let you post on.
They won't let you post about this stuff.
Okay,
let me tell you exactly what's said about metas. Policy on
on Hamas.
Meta
has not commented on this issue, but has increasingly stepped up
efforts to remove reference to Hamas from its platforms,
the latest of which was the removal of a post
on its platforms, not WhatsApp. Okay, so that's correction. There
meta itself, which but then again, I don't think that applies to
WhatsApp. It doesn't apply to WhatsApp. I
don't think that. So this paragraph here from this news
article is almost irrelevant to us. So meta has been removing any
references to Hamas, anything anti Israel, a lot of a lot of things,
not everything that is on Facebook and Instagram. We know Sean King's
whole Instagram,
uh, page was deleted,
but I don't think that applies to WhatsApp,
let's say. And now this is not suggesting that.
I'm not suggesting how it happened. Who knows how it
happened? They're saying now that a drone flew over his apartment or
the the house that you the guest house and perfectly got him
So Iran is loose and weak enough to allow a drone, an Israeli
drone, or Israeli operated drone, to be flying over its own guests.
If the whole thing is suspicious,
air is too cold in here, I don't know how what goes on in this
studio between when we leave and when we come back. It's like used
I'm telling you that rug wasn't there when we left right, it was
not perpendicular.
I put it somewhere else. I come home, I come in, the AC is on.
I don't know who's using the I don't mind if someone uses it. I
just need to know so I can tell them to turn the AC off. I'm gonna
be doing fundraisers to cover the cost of.
AC in the summertime. I want to
answer another question now I'll tell you who's this question is
from.
This question is from. So look at this.
A Christian phase, your rage? Could you go up? Do you know how
to do you know how to put stuff on the screen? Or no, go to Twitter
and
whose WhatsApp is open on the computer? Is it almost let me, let
me send him this WhatsApp.
See, we got Omar's
WhatsApp is open on the computer. So anything I want to show on the
screen today, we're going to answer this question by phase your
rage. Who is replying to sneako
I don't follow this stuff, but I know he's a Muslim, right?
So this your rage. Guy goes off on sneako for believing in Islam.
Sneako says he didn't watch the debate. Claims to be Christian,
but the Bible does not specify age of consent, doesn't even specify
the concept of consent.
Says two adults can get married, which I agree with. Tell these
Twitch streamers to stick to gaming and screaming a whole bunch
of what do you guys now? Gen Alpha talk,
and now this phase your rage, the Christians, I have to say
something
that really only got one thing to say,
is the is the young age of the Prophet's wife, Aisha. It's boiled
down to that, and nothing else. I guarantee you that it's literally,
that's all it is. They literally have nothing else. And let me tell
you something that's called an argument from disgust.
Let me ask you something. And he's saying here, phase Your age is
saying to sneako,
I'm citing these people as if I know I am I don't even know who
they are, but I know sneako is a Muslim. So he's saying here that I
never knew I'd be living in a world where people would have a
problem with me saying 13 year olds shouldn't be changing their
gender, and I don't think 14 year olds should be getting married to
grown men. We are cooked well, let
me ask you a question. Why is it emotional? Is it about the
emotional well being?
Because if you're a Christian, last I checked
God
in your world caused Mary to be pregnant when she was about 14. So
what are we talking about here? Right?
He said married to men, to grown men. So that's a little bit
different than her being pregnant. But what is the ultimate result of
marriage is pregnancy. So if that's where you need, the
emotional stability, and all that
did not is that not a really heavy burden to have, namely, that
you're going to be walking around pregnant
with no husband, and you're going to be accused
now in marriage, the whole society knows you're married, no problem.
So that sense seems to me to be far heavier of a burden. And
that's your religion, essentially, 13. She was 1314, years old when
this happened. Well, what does that tell us about society back
then,
1213, years old, you're an adult. You're a full fledged adult.
If a girl reached puberty in those times, at the age of nine and 10,
puberty is not reached at the same age. For everybody, strength is
not reached at the same age. Go to the Amazon rainforest.
Kids are there hunting the guy kid. They go watch these
documentaries. Within three episodes, you're gonna have a
little seven year old kid crouching with hardly any clothes
on, but he's got a blade in his hand, and he's like cutting up an
animal.
I'm telling you these the age maturity is different in different
societies. Well, let me tell you here, you're gonna have an eight
year old asking you abstract question.
So abstract thinking advances in cities physical strength, advances
in rural areas,
in the countryside, in the countryside, they have physical
strength that our children do not have
in the cities and in urban environments, children have
abstract thinking that adults don't even have in some rural
areas, am I right or wrong? It's a rhetorical question.
So but you know what's funny, too, is any American? You.
Strength differs for us. What do? What do we have that they that
even their parents do not have abstract thought.
Kids today, they have abstract thinking is far superior than even
their grandparents.
So we go by orphan social norms.
What would have been
so that people don't enter into an experiment with their families
in life and have no recourse.
They have no recourse. There's no one around to ask.
And so aurf is all based upon what we all judge to be good and
correct clothes. Is all what clothes is acceptable to walk
around it, it's all not
going to find it in the Quran or the Sunnah. These, these basic
details. Yes, we know what to cover of our body and how to cover
it, but which which garment? No, you know
what clothes to wear, etc,
talking about nature, says the hellish razor, a stream, regarding
climate change and how Islam tackles. It will be very
interesting indeed.
That's a tough one.
That is a tough one.
What is the age of consent in Islam? Age? It's not about age.
It's physical health.
So badoch says, Yeah, 18th is done. You? Who the heck said 18?
Right? I'll tell you where 18 came from. Came from the imamatics
fatwa about kids who didn't reach puberty due to some illness or
something, or some physical abnormality that they didn't reach
puberty. So at what point do we consider them
mature agents responsible for their actions?
Ima, Medic assigned the age of 18, I think Abu Hanifa signed the age
of 15, but don't quote me on that. They they had to do ich jihad.
Well that age of 18, ended up in Andalus, and
there was a lot of exchange where, in a lot of times, one way, at
certain period of time, the English would send their kings,
their their best and brightest, down to Cordoba. And knowledge was
transferring upwards, from Spain up and eventually to the Western
world. And one of those things that caught on was the age of 18.
Likewise in Maliki fiqh, in the absence of a judge, 12 odul, 12
upright men of the community will take the position of a judge in
the mataki school of thought. So when we talk about the idea of 12
jurors, where did that 12 come from?
It came from that concept. It's not something that we take pride
in. They're not applying it in the the same way that we did, right?
But it's just an interesting fact to it that that's the origin of
these, these popular legal concepts. So for us, it's not an
age, it's not a number. Even keeping your age is something new.
Most people throughout the world have a rough idea of how many
winters passed since the last great event. That's how they used
to keep track. It's like five winters since the last earthquake,
right? Or since the Great War, or something like that's the olden
days. That's how they used to keep track.
And then we're at probably around 2030 they lose track. So you keep
the you know, their age by how many white hairs he has, or
something like that. Or you just estimate and and sometimes they
did keep age they get did keep track. That's how we know the
Prophet passed away at 63 and Abu Bakr at 63
years old. Saying Abu Bakr as how we know that the age diff that
Ahmed ibn as he had his first son at the age of 12. Ahmed
ibn Al as had his first son at the age of 12, we're going to talk
about marriage age. How old was the mom? How old was the dad?
Is what is that a marriage of 12 and 10?
He's 12, she's 10. Well, what else is there to do in Arabia? You grow
up, you learn how to walk, you learn how to talk, you learn how
to eat by yourself, how to go to the bathroom over there in the in
the in the open desert, that's how they used to go to the bathroom.
Just walk away. Walk away from everybody in the open desert.
Maybe find a bush, go to the bathroom. You learn how to do
that.
You learn how to
milk a goat.
Avoid walking behind camels. What else is there? Within one year
from age 876, to seven, he's finished his education, there's
literally nothing else to know.
So what else is there to do? You hit puberty, get married.
You.
His teaching,
and we don't consider, as some Muslims do, he's just like a
mailman. He came, he delivered the message, he left say goodbye. And
there's one British guy, there's a there's a British Muslim out
there,
where he gets his idea. His entire life he's been spending on
attacking people who honor the messenger, peace be upon him, and
people who view the salah on the prophet to be a medicine.
And this person is,
I don't know what shaytan is writing him.
Anytime that someone posts some honor of the Prophet, peace be
upon him, love of the messenger, sallAllahu, sallam. This guy's
attacking it. He's going off.
He hates it. This person, shaitan, has deluded him.
Mu don't just simply consider the Prophet. Peace be upon him,
someone who came, delivered the message and left like it's DHL or
UPS,
Royal Air Mail, whatever you got, call it in England,
Royal Mail, aw, talk like that.
What it is is essentially, you have to honor the ones whom ALLAH
chose to give you this message, because nobody else could have
done it. Allah chose that Allah determined that nobody else could
have done it. So we have to honor that Prophet over ourselves and be
you, ELAB and what we need a minute for him.
Well as waju umato,
the prophet is more important to the believers than their own
selves. Simple reason, without him, we could not have guidance in
this life or heaven in the next.
And his mother, his wives are your mothers. That means, would you get
upset if someone curses your mom?
Then what's your position when someone curses say to the wife of
the Prophet, peace be upon
unacceptable.
So these two people you cannot fraternize. Who else? Wava, Haru
jikom And everybody who treats to everybody who cheers those people
on and supports them. You got a colleague at work. He doesn't say
anything. But all day and night, He's liking and reposting and
loving and donating to all the people who are doing these two
things. He doesn't say anything bad. He smiles. He's nice, but he
donates to the IDF. He smiles and he's nice, but he's always
reposting Dawkins, who is constantly making fun of God and
Islam and everything else. Cannot fraternize with this person.
Cannot have warm, fuzzy relations with this person. Thank you very
much zabe is behind. Zabe is at
the helm
today. If you guys noticed,
if the believers come to you, my female believers come to you
migrating, doing the hijra, then test them. Akbar an Abdul, Wahid
al melihi, akbarana, Ahmed ibn Abdullah and waimee
ahvana, Muhammad, Abu Asmaa, Muhammad Ismail had definitely had
death and a life. An Akil and Ibn she have been a ora Ibn Zubayr and
hosmi Amar one well, Miss war even a mahramah
Yoh birani and as habia rasulillahi, sallAllahu, alayhi wa
sallam akala. That's the chain of narrations of the of narrators, he
says, lama catabah, Suhail Ibn Amr, Yoma, idin, can afima, Alain
Nabi, sallAllahu, salam, Suhail Ibn Amr. Who is he? He's the lead
negotiator of Quraysh, since lead negotiators are all in the news
today, except he's the lead negotiator on the other side. So
hail Ibn AMR is the was the assigned negotiator for Quraysh
with the Prophet, peace be upon him at hodaya. Hodabiah is a
valley in which, during the war between Medina and Mecca, the
Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam, had a dream that he would
do Umrah. So he gathered the Muslim said, let's go on to do
Umrah. We will do Umrah. Allah showed me a dream that we will do
Umrah. So they went to do the Umrah. Now, quraisy is in a tough
position. Now, do you let your enemy waltz in and worship on your
own land? Can't do that. Or.
Or do you disallow them entry
and then not be good hosts? Because they are supposed to be
the hosts. Anyone is free to worship. It's like a green zone.
Anyone is free to worship at the Kaaba. So now they're in a catch
22 what do they do? Well, Abu Sufyan is extremely crafty,
and he said, All right, it's only a problem if they come to us. What
if we intercept them way out there?
So they said, Go and intercept them way out before they like way
out before they arrive.
So they do that, and the Muslims try to avoid them, but ultimately
the Quraysh intercept them, and that Valley area is called Hoda,
and there they had talks, and in these talks advanced and developed
into a major peace accord between the two parties
that involved 10 years of peace. Muslims make Umrah next year,
Muslims have to return home. This year,
anyone who enters Islam from Mecca and joins Medina gotta send them
back so that Medina's numbers don't swell and increase. But
anyone who defects from Medina goes back to Mecca, you have to
let them stay.
But in the language here, the plural in the Arabic language
allows for men only, or males and females, it allows for both.
So when females came to the Prophet, peace be upon him,
migrating, the Prophet peace be upon him. Said, hold on a second.
We never specified whether the plural
refers to males only or males and females. And I deem it to mean
males only. Therefore the women were able to migrate from Mecca to
Medina, and Allah gives the Prophet instructions. So the deal
was an Olaya, Tika, Mina ahadun, wankana, aladina Wacha, later been
in our banana dedicated for cat abunatic. Now the Muslims did not
like this. They're all watching. They didn't like this deal, this
condition, but the Prophet accepted it. Farad then Abu
SallAllahu, alaihi, Salam ABA Jan dal Ila abihi, Suhail ablar, who
was the first person that this applied to,
moments after the deal was struck,
abujandel,
who was being tortured in Mecca for being a Muslim, migrate runs
over to the camp of the Muslims who is Abu Jandal. Ironically, he
is the son of Suhail
Ibn Amr. He's the son
Abu Jandal was being tortured by the Meccans for being a Muslim,
but he was there amongst them
as as like a prisoner.
And now he sees the Muslims literally just across,
you know, yards away, and they're all now meeting in the middle and
talking. So he is manages to escape his tormentors,
and he comes into the camp of the Muslims.
And what does Suhail say? Oh, we have a deal. Return him. O
Muhammad, we have a deal. So
what does the Prophet sallallahu, Salam do?
Farah Dahu,
WA Jah Minato, muhajirat, so farad, then Nabi you Salallahu,
Abu Salam, Yoma, iden, Ava jandala, Ila abihi, Suhail, abnam,
walam yatihi, ahado, Minari, Jali el Darada. When can Muslim? Ah,
the prophet kept the word, kept the contract, and he sent Abu
Jandal back. And this was very painful for the believers to watch
and to see.
Waja atil Mina to muhajira to now, females started to come. Women
started to come.
Wakan at Ummu, kalthum, bintu, Akbar, abi white, mem manharaja,
ilara sulamiya Atak in a woman comes named uma kalthum, the
daughter of Aqaba.
Now her family comes, oh Muhammad, we have a deal.
And Sohail says, return her to them. That's a deal. We have a
deal return this woman,
because she's a someone who's now part of this deal. What does the
Prophet saw them say?
Okay, Allah to Allah reveals. So here.
He did not why? Because when you have a deal, you go by the
language of the deal.
And the language of the deal does not specify whether this plural,
migrants, immigrants, muhajirin,
is it male only or male and female? So the Prophet sallallahu
sallam said it refers, he says, as we understand, it refers to males
only, we didn't say females. And Allah has revealed that Jack Mina
to muhajiro Alam will be man in
if if female migrants come to you, then test them about their faith
and Allah knows best what they believe.
Allah arwani, Aisha to who? What is the relation between aura Ibn
Zubayr and Aisha?
Aura Ibn Zubayr,
who's his mother,
Asmaa bin Abi Bakar,
that makes aur wa the nephew of Aisha, and hence, from the young,
young from the tabain, the second generation,
Aura has access to the most knowledgeable teacher in Medina,
Omar ibn Khattab is considered to be the most knowledgeable of the
men in Medina because we said that Sayyidina, we Sayyidina Ali and
Ibn moved up to Kufa.
Ibn Abbas moved to Mecca. So the most knowledgeable was Omar, but
Omar was busy with affairs of state. Omar set major precedents
through his his policies, who was the daily, every day, teaching the
people. And even after the passing of Sayyidina, Omar is said Aisha
and Ottawa, being her nephew, had access to go in on her at any
time, like a mom, where the other students had to wait outside when
she was ready to teach, and had to wait outside and have a curtain
and all that, but Ottawa would go in and say to Aisha, had no
children, no husband, she has time. It's one of the sacrifices
of being from the Mothers of the Believers. You can't marry again.
And there were no children.
That's not a condition. There could have been children. There
just happened to be no children from say daisha,
the Prophet saw him only bore children from Maria and from said
Khadijah,
of course, the the Prophet's son from Maria kripti, he died.
Probably that son is named Ibrahim. He died at a young age.
Why did the Prophet, Why did Allah give the Prophet males and then
cause them to die? Why the pain if the prophet can't have sons? Now
the answer is to show the world at that time, in that society, at
that time, that he could have sons, so that people don't say,
Oh, he's deficient,
and also to show us how to grieve, and also to show us the price of
prophethood. Prophethood has a very steep price, so don't envy
it.
Okay,
let's continue here.
Ottawa says that Aisha says from an Aqaba femin akkara to be we
have the short min Huna, Kala SallAllahu, Rasulullah.
SallAllahu, sallam, could you by
Walla who Wallahi Mama said, masat Yadu yada Kato, film,
mobile. Mabayahi, so if she confirms that she is a believer
and she understands what Islam is, then the Prophet, peace be upon
him, says
would recite to them the oath of allegiance
that they would give him allegiance. And Aisha says he
never touched them. He wouldn't put his hand out and touch them.
He would say it only with his words, and that was sufficient.
Kalibna, Abbas akbala, Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alayhi wasallam amoran
had been hudaybi, salaahu, mushti Kum Akka Allah
and men at a human Ali, Mecca, Rada who elay him. Woman at Alam,
Akata min as habi, rasulallah, Wakata, bubhiwali, fajat, Sabha,
sabia bintel, Hadith al Asmaa, a woman named SEBI a bint Harriet of
the tribe of Islam. Sabi, a daughter of Hadith from the Islam
tribe as a Muslim. Right after they wrote this letter, this
agreement, her husband came
and said,
Give her back. And he was a kafir at the time. He said, unbelief.
Her
for Kali Muhammad, ruddalim rati, my wife has come take refuge
amongst you, send her back. That's the deal.
That is the deal. Ralem rati for in nakakat, sharata and Tara Dale
in a man attack Amina you, you agreed to that.
Wahadi Taya, Taya, tulkita, lam tajif bat and the ink is still wet
in this contract and this agreement.
But then Allah subhanahu wa taala revealed, Oh, you who believe, if
a female comes to you, do not send them back? And the reason is,
the reason is that, as we said earlier, the plural could indicate
the male or the male and female,
and we're interpreting it here as males only.
Khalib No Abbas, empty hand. What is the test? How does the Prophet
told to test them? Test them. If Maharaja le bold is ogin wala, was
asked a few questions, did you
leave because you questions, did you leave because you committed
some crime in Mecca and you're fleeing? In that case, your
migration is not accepted from us. Did you leave because you had a
fight with your husband? Did you leave because you're in love with
someone in Medina? Did you leave because you're bored with one city
and just want to live in another city? Did you leave because you
have a business opportunity here.
She would say no to all of this. Did you leave solely to live as a
Muslim with the Muslims and learn from the Prophet? Peace be upon
him. Yes. Then, if she said yes to that, then he accepts her honor
system say the truth. That's it.
First. Swear to that. And then they gave the
allegiance to the Prophet. Well, Alta zo but what did the Prophet
do? Alta zo Juha, alta zojaha maharam.
So he gave her husband
her dowry back. So what was the dowry between you two? Halas, this
I'm now the govern. Prophet is the governor. Now she is my citizen.
I am now divorcing you from her,
or divorcing her from you. Take back your doubt the dowry she gave
you, take back a bunch of money that you spent upon her
and judged that you are now no longer her husband, and he told
her
he's no longer your husband. She waited the period and a married
her a
her. However, if a man came,
then he would send him back.
Okay, so this woman, again, was sabiyah bint harif al islamiyyah.
Sabiyah the daughter of Hadith from the tribe of Islam,
okay.
Fin Adam to one. Min Aton, fella, 3004,
lahona, hello, hon, here. Allah to Allah tells us two things, don't
send them back to the non believers and that they are not
halal for one another, a Muslim woman cannot marry except a Muslim
man.
What happens if the non Muslim man is so good and he says, All right,
you practice your religion however you want. What's the difference?
Allah deems it that in the most the majority case, a
that that's not sufficient. Number one, in the majority case, a woman
will eventually follow her husband.
But that's not stated explicitly. That's we're speculating the
wisdom behind this. It's to kifi,
something to kifi. It's to abudi.
To abudi, is just something that it's a law that God has not given
us a reason. We may speculate the wisdoms. We may extrapolate
wisdoms, oh, like fasting. Why do we fast from the way we fast?
Allah said, so that's it.
You might be able to say, for example, wisdoms, oh, it's good
for your gut.
Regulates your sugar well, we know that's
just a wisdom that doesn't even apply most of the times. You know
when it applied, before the light bulb, after the light bulb, people
eating for all night long. Back in those days, you didn't eat late.
So it wasn't a thing to eat late. It was extremely difficult to eat
late. You gotta get candles. You gotta how usually you ate. You
slaughtered. You ate right away. You didn't store meat in freezers
back in the old days.
So the concept of eating late is pretty new, and unfortunately, we
pretty much negate any of the wisdoms of fasting by eating so
late.
So all those wisdoms, it's good for your gut. It regulates your
blood sugar. Doesn't apply
anymore. So that's why wisdoms are not legal foundations. They're
just nice things that we observe. Ultimately, this is this law of
who we can marry, is to abudi,
Mahala, minatanli, kafiran Allah had not permitted a believer,
believing woman, to live under a Kafir. So if A and this happens,
I'm not saying it happens, taking it lightly. It's not good if a non
Muslim, if a Muslim woman, were to find all the guys here stink, let
me marry this non Muslim guy, and he turns out to be really good,
and life is great, and I am more free to practice my Islam. That
doesn't change the rule, right? That doesn't change the rule.
Somebody could equally say, Hold on, I was working, but now that
I'm taking mushrooms and occasionally smoking marijuana,
I'm so much more productive and relaxed, right? I'm much more
focused
in the daytime, and then I come home and I smoke some at night.
I'm so relaxed. My marriage is better. My work is better.
Everything is better. That doesn't make the drugs halal, right? A guy
may buy and sell with usury and loans that are forbidden in Islam,
end up as a multi millionaire and build 10 mosques and Islamic
schools for memorizing the Quran and learning fiqh and helping
hundreds of 1000s of kids doesn't make it. Hello. We don't judge by
the results.
We don't judge by the result. And secondly, that result that you're
talking about is we haven't seen the end of the movie yet,
so it's irrelevant, and that's really important. It's really
important to realize that just because something worked doesn't
make it. Hello,
go into clubs to give dawah. Some people did that,
right? They go into the clubs because that's their old world,
and they give dawah,
right?
And they give dawah. And it works. They pull a lot of people out of
the clubs,
but we're not going to go meet up at the masjid and all the nice
little Muslim high school kids come and say, Hey kids, let me
teach you how to give dawah. Let's go to the club. He said, I've
never been there before. Okay, nice. Let's go give Dao of where
were you, son? You smelled like alcohol and perfume. What's with
you?
No, I was giving doubt that's not going to work, right? Doesn't mean
it's halal. Just because it works,
our law is not like this. You have to understand this. If someone
says, Well, it worked, doesn't mean it does not
work like that. To
So the law here is, keep these women, they are now divorced from
their husbands, give them, give the husband back what they spent
on this woman, because this is a forced divorce.
The new government is forcing this divorce upon you. He doesn't want
the divorce.
He doesn't want the divorce, okay, but it's forced upon him now. So
he's going to receive a sum of money in compensation of that.
What money? The money he spent,
wala, Juna, halekum and tenka either at
a if you give them their Maher, there is no harm in marrying them
now,
even if that husband, that non believing husband, was so upset,
how could you do this?
Well, that's the law. It's God's law. Enter Islam and you won't
have that problem.
Simple.
Okay,
here's a question from Jay Perez, didn't Omar during his time make a
ruling of the exception of a Muslim woman remaining being
married to her husband after she becomes Muslim?
Please find me that source never heard of such a thing. How can say
normal give a ruling contradicting this clear verse, la Huna, hello.
Wala. Humi, halu, Nalo hun
what is the status of such a woman? She may imagine herself to
be married,
but she is in.
Dinner. So each act that she does is a separate judgment. Or imagine
you imagine yourself to be married. No, I know you're not
married, whether you imagine it or not. Forge myself a passport,
a residency visa to Medina, the city of Medina and write it and
stamp it and imagine myself to be a legal resident of Medina and
have Saudi citizenship. That doesn't mean anything. It's all
imagination. Okay?
It's imagination.
So imagination, it's not considered at all. Just because
you imagine yourself to be something doesn't mean anything.
Just because you got a civil court to write something, it's not going
to contradict God's law, and you as a Muslim, believe in that,
right?
So each time that she's she would be alone with him. That would be
sinful. Each time she sleeps with him, that would be Zina.
Now I'm not going and telling now, the question is, what happens a
brand new Muslim? What do you tell her? That's everything is a case
by case is we know that in Islam, things are done gradually.
In Islam, the rule of converts is gradation. Things to be done
gradually. What's the proof of that? When the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam sent Muay Jabal to Yemen, he said, Tell them about
Islam. Tell them about Allah and His messenger. If they accept the
shahada, then tell them about salah. If they accept salah, then
tell them about Zika and so on and so forth.
So that means that on day one, he's not telling them about
prayer. It's the most important pillar of Islam
when they're praying. He hasn't yet told them about
fasting, Salam. Come on in,
brother muss from Vancouver, here, it's not How are you man? Good?
You've acclimated really good to Jersey. You guys knows he's got
friends and everything that means when they're praying and fasting.
He hasn't yet told them about
zaka. So me telling you the theory, the application of it is
going to be something that is in a case by case basis of the timing
in which you tell them we're never going to suspend this rule, and
unless you you show show me where that exception is in fiqh. I've
never heard this.
I've never heard that. Maybe it's a fatwa from Abdullah binbaya, but
that would be just a fatwa. That's not a ruling, and nobody's bound
to that. And neither can we say that this is the truth, right, or
that's correct. It's one person's opinion.
Attila says, What
are we supposed to do with the almost half of Muslim women above
30 divorce? What's the solution? There's something wrong with
the way that we're producing people these days, they can't get
they can't get along. Maybe there's too many options, too many
choices, too easy to check out. Maybe the guys need to
somehow up their game, and maybe the girls need to somehow lower
their or have more patience with them. And maybe the guys need more
patience. Who knows what? Clearly, there is a problem. Forget,
Muslims above 30 divorced. How about not even married?
Listen, can't force someone to get married. You know how to get
married. Don't get married. What can you do? It's not good for our
Ummah overall. Any population is not marrying. That's not good for
them. You're going to shrink as a population get taken advantage of.
But we have a guarantee that the Ummah at large will always be
another increase. That has been a guarantee from Allah, from the
extrapolations of that, is that you're always be increasing.
That doesn't mean that in every land we're increasing. So Andalus,
Spain was filled with Muslims now, then for hundreds of years, didn't
have any
except for a few closet Muslims, and now there are some immigrants.
So that land may be a certain specific area, Islam may die out
in that area. That's possible. But as in Ummah at large, the numbers
will never decrease, and have never once decreased Ummah at
large, it's a guarantee.
But here in America, for example, yeah, it's very possible that
there could be Islam and let's say a certain town,
and then the Muslims there leave or not marry and die out over
time. That's very possible.
And we talk a lot about marriage, but it's it's at will. If this
because they want to marry, if you don't want to marry, we can't
force you don't marry.
But I'm telling you, if you were a careerist,
the.
Later, the more you wait. I think careerism is the biggest disease.
I've said this many times before. It's the biggest disease. People
are good guys, girls, easy to get along with. But he loves his
career more than anything else, so he's like spending his entire 20s
on his career.
Now, when he decides to get married at 30, he doesn't go
anywhere where they meet people. It's just work home, work home,
work home. So
where are you going to meet people?
Then when he does meet somebody, he's so specific in what he wants
and in his life
that probably now he wants to marry someone near his age. Let's
say he's now with these 3532 you're not going to go and marry
find someone. Why would a 20 year old think about you, right? Why
would a 2122 she's not gonna think about you? So probably 2829 some
similar age, right? Well, if she's of that age, she probably has been
advancing her career too.
Now she's got a residency in one state and you're in another state
class is done with, even though you may have been totally
compatible 10 years ago, right? That's usually how it is. Your
life is too complicated. Her life is too complicated, even if you're
both like each other and you're totally compatible.
But your lives are too involved now. Are too too it's like a
Rubik's cube to make this thing work.
That's a problem.
Are you going to eat that string cheese or just play with it? What?
How old are you? Bros
guys, got a string cheese?
When was the last time? Oh, and it's got the little guy. Hey, man,
this
is laughing when you live alone, right? You gotta what was calories
in? When was the last? Yes, a full somehow,
right? You're eating this rotten products. For the first of all,
what does the ingredient say on this thing? It's just cheese.
Factory produced.
Is this actual food? It's actual cheese, yeah, is it food? But how
long has it been touching this plastic? I have a theory. I'm very
nervous about this.
I don't know what's true or not. Look it up for us. Abe, all this
touching of plastics in our food, this is what making all the guys
sterile. Yeah,
there was black there, huh? There's a study on that. There
was, like a whole video some guy made look it up, you know.
And that's why the guys are their sperm counts decreasing, yeah,
that's the theory. Yeah, there was, like a
they become so lazy, and bunch of bums, I'm telling you, the pain
tolerance is very low. Yeah, I think that careerism is easy to
attack. For women, it's an easy attack. I think it's true too, by
the way. But I also think that guys are somehow like, what's
going on? Why is there no aggressiveness in terms of going
out and making a life for themselves? Like, where is that?
Even when I was young, all the guys wanted to get married, like,
your body will not allow. Otherwise, you got to get married
right away, soon as you could. Your body will physically not
allow. It's either this or Zena. That's it. There's no second way.
How are the guys surviving into 30 and 35 without married? Either
you're gay or you're doing haram.
I don't, I don't understand. So I think of the mic micro plastics
has to be like the guys are asexual.
So many guys are just asexual.
Do micro the presence of micro plastics in men's reproduction
system, reproductive systems appear to decrease test testes
weight and sperm count weight. How did they judge that?
Scientists have found that the higher the levels of polyethylene
and PVC plastic particles found in human and dog testicles, the lower
the weight of the testicles. What an embarrassment, what an
embarrassment. New,
new research suggests, yeah, that micro plastics could affect male
fertility.
It's the latest course corner of the human body where the bits of
plastics have turned up the test and a
lot stickless pants, who stickless? Stickless bands, oh,
pans,
really? Yeah, there's, there's a book somebody wrote. It's called
Esther generation. It talks about, like, how microplastics have,
like, infiltrated everyone's lives, like everything, like water
bottles, cups, like, everything, like, even different forms of
clothing, like, they'll just sneak specific material, just so, like,
it's just lowering, it's like making, yep, so is this the
natural under the this is what's going to cause the human
population growth, to to.
Grow a little slower, and then eventually ebb down, and you have
a population crisis.
If a Muslim woman marries a man who says he is a Muslim, however,
he doesn't say the proclamation of faith when he has asked, Is the
marriage valid? A
it's a good the question really is, if a Muslim refuses to say the
shahada, is he a Muslim? Well, first of all, a Muslim. I've never
heard of a Muslim. Just by saying I'm a Muslim, the Shahadah is
required when we bring a new Muslim in. He enters Islam by
saying the shahada,
not by saying, I'm a Muslim. Now,
Allah, I would have to ask to be honest with you, but I'd have to
ask that, what
is the meaning of Bismillah? Alhamdulillah, salatul, salam.
Rasulallah. You say that the beginning of every lecture? This
is what I love about this program. There are a lot of youth, a lot of
non Muslims, converts, non Arabic speakers, who, to me, is an it's
an honor Allah give me the opportunity to pass on some of
these fundamental basics.
When you begin something important, you begin in the name
of Allah.
Prophet, peace be upon him. Said. So how do you do that? You can
begin with Bismillah,
and you could also begin by praising Allah, Alhamdulillah. All
praises is due to Allah.
And you can begin with Salah on the Prophet. Peace, be upon him,
praising the Messenger of Peace, be upon him and bestowing
blessings and peace upon him. What does that mean? That means Allah
bestows blessings on the Prophet, and we extract those blessings
when we pray for His blessings,
when we say, was salatu, was salam, WA Allah, rasulallah,
Salah and salaam on the Prophet. We are extracting from those
blessings. That is our connection to the Prophet after his death.
Many people don't know that Salah and Salaam is not just a word of
respect, like Sir saying, you know your royal highness. No, it's not
like that, such as words, when the Prophet, peace be upon him was
concerned about the believers that would come after him, who could
not sit with him, Allah gave him the gift that the Muslims can say
Salah and salaam upon you, and they would receive blessings,
the removal of anxiety,
the forgiveness of sins. That's the blessing, the increase in
everything else. Blessing means increase. When we say wasa Ali, he
was a behi, the El of Muhammad, sallAllahu, alaihi, wasallam can
mean two things. It could mean
the majority opinion of the scholars, and it's what the
Prophet saw him said to every pious Muslim, kuluta, Muhammad.
When we say Allah, musalia, Allah Muhammad, in wa alihi,
we are saying all pious believers, may Allah bless them.
So that leaves out the face, that leaves out the open sinner and the
people who have turned their backs on Islam, Muslims who have turned
their backs on Islam, that's a thing. If you're a convert, you
need to know this, many, many, many, many, many Muslims have
turned their backs on
Islam. Secondly, Ali Ali Muhammad also refers to the family of the
Prophet. Peace
be upon sahabihi, the companions of the Prophet.
Sabihi is the companions of the Prophet. So they get a special
mention there because they were special people.
Lathe Newton,
another book called Countdown, the effects of microplastic on the
size of your family jewels. Give me this thing. Give me this thing.
Give me it real quick there.
Stay Hungry. Stay Hungry. At least you can have kids every single
time I see some of these guys consuming microplexes, I'm going
to be careful. You're not happy kids.
Terrible, terrible, terrible, terrible. This
article is going to make me go home and empty out all the
plastics I see in my house. Yeah, once you see one of them, you
like, can't stop you're like, it's drinking, yeah? It's like, you get
like a West West. In my head, it's like a West West a lot of the
clothes, but
it's
actually polyester. Polyester counts as a plastic, huh?
It is, yeah, I mean, it's not gonna like affect you that much.
It's probably better if you work the thing is that none of every
it's like micro. It takes 50 years of you doing it, and then 50 years
of your dad doing it, 50 years of your son doing it, until finally
you get the end, reach the end of the lineage.
How old are you brother?
29
Yeah, I thought you were college kid. 2221
double. Get you a sister.
Throw away the plastics. Immediately. Silicon glass or
stainless steel is better. What about for women? Does it decrease
their say? Why do? Why are we only getting it? What about there also
equality? Their ovaries affected by this? Look it up,
plastic doesn't discriminate.
Estrogen is also present. It's a problem with micro plastics.
Estrogen. That's why
people are acting so weak.
Tyler Brazi. Men should read the book The masculine in relationship
by Gs Youngblood. That's a fake name. He's trying to be cool
before getting married. Other self help books, even if non Muslims,
it's not so biological, I think, but modern life keeps men. Boy, I
totally agree with that. Modern life keeps men. But you know that
I know guys who are medical professionals and surgeons
who play video games,
that is so to me, it's weird. Some people that's normal.
Well, they do get I might offend people all the time with on this
live stream yesterday. Do you see how badly offended the dacies,
just because I offended here? Let me tell you something, if you're
listening to this podcast, because I offend you, doesn't mean I don't
love you. I still love all these people, right? But what I said was
that when it comes to the marriage situation,
all the customs, from what I hear, from the from my brothers and
sisters themselves, Pakistanis themselves, are in pain. It makes
you want to say, okay, when everything that you guys do for
marriage, you guys, that's going to be terrible. But in the daisy
culture for marriage,
select Edit, Select All Delete.
That's the three ways to fix it. Get that whole line of code
that's in the culture, that whole section of code in the culture
like that's going to be like lines
one through 10,000
of code,
Edit, Select All, delete, Sunny. Thank you very much. As a desi, I
agree, and I stand by. Thank you very much. It's not making fun of
Daisy's Arabs have it, but it's not as bad. The reason is that the
Arab culture, sorry, to cut you off. The Arab culture is always
mixed up. No tradition can last for a long time in Desi culture
because it's distant and there's not as much of the migration that
happened. Let's say in Egypt, a tradition is established and it
lasts for hundreds of years, and then another tradition and another
tradition and another tradition. Victoria says, what is it? Daisy?
Sorry, I forgot that there's a lot of
Daisy is an Indian and a Pakistan. It means a countryman.
Subcontinent.
Women's hormones are also affected by plastic endometriosis,
fibroids, picos, a lot of bad things happen.
I enjoy doing abundant Salawat, but I know how to balance it with
other dhikrs, like a Qur'an recitation throughout the day. You
should do a little bit of everything. You have to do a
little. You have to have a Sikh. Do you want to be punished in
life? No, do a Safar Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Omak
unnamed, the bin hat and omakun, we would not punish them while
they are making a Safar.
You want to avoid punishment in life, make a lot of Istighfar.
Allah taught us as wama Kuna,
we were not to to punish them while they make a Safar.
Let's get you the exact idea where that is, so you can know
scratch that scratch at all.
No, I got it's right. Oh no, scratch that. Misquote, scratch
it. Let's do it again. You want to avoid punishment in this life and
never be tortured in this life and never suffer badly from the
calamities. Calamities are going to happen, but you want it to not
be punishment from Allah subhanahu.
Watana Then make a lot of Istighfar, Allah, Tala tells us,
womackan, Allahu adibum atafim will make an allahum. Wadiba Hum,
wahom, yastahun, it would not be, will never be, that Allah will
punish them while they are seeking His forgiveness. So istiqar, if
you're if you're suffering from a calamity, but you're wondering is,
am I being punished? Am I being tortured? Here make a lot of istil
far Allah will transform the calamity into something that you
benefit from. The calamities destined. It's destined, but you
can benefit from it, and you'll suffering from it will be far
less.
Is the end of Asia, halfway between Maghreb and fetch
1/3
between Maghreb and fetch
1/3 of the night is the Ari time for Asia, and there is an opinion
at its half. What
do you think you should do and prioritize focusing on
good friends? Good friends. Youth should focus on having good
friends, good friends, and they'll do the rest of the work. If you're
a parent, don't worry about doing all the work yourself. Cut Cut it
short by making sure your kids have good friends,
the kids who they encourage each other to pray, they encourage each
other to meet up at the masjid stuff like that.
Number one advice,
what does it mean? Women wala, when we recite Salah on the
Prophet, peace be upon him. Waman. Wala is an Arabic term that means
and everyone who supports him means practices. Islam has piety.
Loves the messenger. Peace be upon him.
I've seen quite a few ashadis being disrespectful of Imam Ahmad
la impossible, if he is, he should get lashed. Impossible for any
Sunni to disrespect Al Imam Ahmed Ibn Hanbal, all the Imams can
speak about one another as saying, I believe this was an error, or
this is correct, or this is incorrect. Kulun Huayra said,
Illah Sahib, Illah Sabah. Imam. Malik said, everyone you can agree
or disagree with in matters of agreement and disagreement. Of
course, we said In Islam there are Qatar verses, explicit, definitive
verses and Hadith. There's no such thing as interpretation or
disagreement. It's a clear cut verse.
Then there are Thani speculative in definitive language, in the
Quran and Hadith, ya Tamil mahani, the the language and the and the
verbiage and the language of the verse or the Hadith of the Prophet
sallallahu sent him can have different meanings. All of those
meanings can be interpreted on our valid interpretations, if the
interpretation is proper according to the language.
So a scholar can say, No, I do not I believe he's a mistaken in this.
No problem, but a scholar, not us, not us.
What if you can't find any good friends? Says, now my now my music
could happen
if you live out in Ohio, in Iowa, in Kansas, in Kentucky, in
Tennessee, it's very possible to imagine a scenario
where you don't, we can't find good friends,
then you find a good online group. Allah gave us the internet for a
reason to use it for the good. Is it not true to say that the
internet's unavoidable now, back in the back in the 90s, in my day,
the jihad for their self purification was to get rid of
your TV. The families that got rid of their TV, their life was
different. Their mind was different.
Then eventually, 2005 came around, and YouTube came was invented, and
now all of a sudden, there are all these videos on your laptop. 2000
comes around, and Steve Jobs brings us the iPhone, and now
these videos are found on your phone. Today. It's fair enough for
us to say this internet is unavoidable. You try to avoid it
as much as you try to control it. That's it.
You try to control it. It's gotta be managed. It can't just be free
reign. So
if you can,
if you can watch him
not find physical friends, use the internet for what's good,
right. Use in for what's good.
Jack and Jill thinks it's too much to lash. No, I don't think so.
If you speak ill of one of the Imams of al Sunnah,
the ruler, by the way, he has he can do taziri Punishment of you.
Nothing wrong with that. It's only a couple lashes.
Uh, not the end of the world.
Lashes is not like what you see in the
transatlantic slave trade, where he's whipping and he's bleeding.
You're not allowed to cut the skin of the bones. You just give him
some tat deep. That's all that deep. It's a dip.
Valuia. How do you choose the Medici method for yourself? First
of all, my first teacher, you tend to follow your first teacher,
which was Hamza Yusuf.
Secondly, I was also convinced by it, genuinely. I mean, not
everything. Sheik Hamza Yusuf said, I was fully convinced by
maybe in the beginning, yeah, everything that complete
followership, but they vote eventually, over time, he's like,
I kind of sort of disagree with that. It doesn't take away from
the fundamentals. That made me convinced that this person is a
good teacher to have. And so in those days, this was one thing
that I was actually convinced by, because medic is so early, he's in
the city of Medina, like, how can it be wrong? Is the question.
There's not a lot of trying to figure things out. It's like,
clearly in front of him that his teachers, teachers were like the
children of companions. So he's that close,
and he's talking about the entire
consensus of the major scholars of medida, like, they cannot be
wrong.
Plus the the there is a, there is, you can say a ethos in the Maliki
method. And that is the, really the ethos of the rural people the
sahaba. We're farmers. And there's an ethos of simplicity, and
there's an ethos of not specifying what Allah made vast, not making
narrow what Allah made vast. So there are, those are the main
reasons why I was convinced to follow the Medici method.
Is there recommendation or benefit in mixed marriage?
I assume you mean cultural mix. I can't say about that, but based
upon,
you know what, what people say, it's good to mix up the gene pool,
and it's good to meet people and bring families together. I think I
can you speak to somebody at their grave and ask them to pray for
you? You can speak to somebody at your grave. We know that can that
person pray for you? You can ask them, but we don't know if that
person has the ability to make dua for you or not, but you can ask.
Asking is not there's nothing unlawful about that. As for the
Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam, we know that he can make
dua for us, and we know that he does without us asking. There is
Hadith for this. The Prophet, peace be upon him. Says to our
dual, alayhi amalakum, your deeds are shown unto me. If I see good,
I thank Allah. If I see other than that, I seek repentance for you.
That's is that not dua?
So he's making dua for us without us even asking. Therefore, if you
were to ask for that, that would be permitted, and we know for sure
that he can benefit us in His death. And he responds the Salaam.
Is that not a DUA? When you make Salah and salaam on the Prophet,
peace be upon him, an angel delivers it to him, then Allah to
Allah allows him to Salam. Back to what is Salam? It's a prayer for
peace. You have bestowed blessings on the Prophet. He prays for peace
for you. Back. Is that not a prayer? So we know for sure that
the Prophet can make dua for his ummah after his death.
If a girl's parents are separated and she has been raised by her
mother with no contact with the father who will be considered the
Wali. If the father is totally out of the question, then it's the
nearest,
the nearest
male kin that she has from the dad's side first, then the
sister's side.
How do we ask the prophet for intercession in this day and age?
You don't
have to even worry about the about
that. You make Salah on the Prophet sallallahu sallam. You
love the messenger, sallAllahu, alayhi, wa sallam.
And don't worry about that.
What should youth who are interested in Islam study? First,
how to pray properly.
Second, how to recite the Quran properly.
Thirdly,
or I should say, how to pray and fast properly. Secondly, how to
recite the Quran.
Properly. Thirdly, you should study aqidah.
Change that time stamp from isavada to tawasul, because this
question was about tawasul.
Can I work in a place as sunshine, bro?
Can I work in a place where there's non mahrams who are not
dressed appropriately?
That's not going to render the job unlawful unless it's flagrant,
such as being a lifeguard. We can say, possibly there's so much sins
and going to be accrued in such a job that it may all be entirely
forbidden. But if it's something that is, it could happen that they
come dressed inappropriately, then the looking is forbidden and the
job is halal.
What if a person receives a lot of money via inheritance or
investing, like a million pounds is their way not to pay zakat on
it? Yes, invest it right away. Use it right away. Move the money
right before one lunar year passes,
vanilla extract is obtained through fermentation is it nudges?
We're going to use the Hanafi school in this because it's so
widespread, and to say that non wine or grape fermented substances
are not nudges. I What
steps was Muslim take if he was righteous but has fallen into
constant sins, renew your friends friend group and start hanging out
with the pious again.
Fix up your friend group,
change your habits. Is there something wrong with leaving
clothes in the bathroom? I heard the gin wear them.
I'd ever heard that before. Ari, the Grim Reaper, is asking that
question, you're the Grim Reaper and you're worried about gin in
the bathroom. You should be tougher than that, right? But
no, I never heard that. To be honest with you, I don't think
that's the case. Never heard that
people who spoke ill about the four Imams should educate
themselves. Says fish lover Yes,
Jack and Jill thinks Victoria is getting special treatment in the
questions.
No, I don't think so. I don't know. Sometimes I don't even look
at who's asking the question until after I'm read the question. I'm
going to Mauritania to study. Do you have any advice? Says Jakub, I
think that you should talk to Sheik murabit, talk to somebody
who's been there
and get advice from
I'm asking for a friend that you know that's going to be a good
question,
asking for a friend who married a practicing Muslim girl five years
into the marriage, and after having children, she gave became
agnostic, and then atheists, and then a spiritual humanist. What is
the status of the niqah? Let me just tell you the status in
general, not given to give you a fatwa about this person, but in
general, the ruling is the moment a Muslim woman apostates, or a
husband apostates, the marriage is nullified
without words having to be said, the moment a Muslim man says he's
no longer a Muslim.
It's apostate. It's that marriage is negated, immediately nullified.
Same with a Muslim woman, if she says, I become a Jew or Christian
or an atheist or a Hindu. Halas,
can you come to the UAE? I don't think so, to be honest, because I
did say some things that probably UAE may not like. I stopped saying
those things because of people I'm connected to who are in the UAE
who would get harmed just because of me. So I stopped saying bad
things about MBZ
and the UAE in general.
But I am, I would worry i be i do transit through there, so I guess
that's not a problem.
Why do three of the four madhhabs equalize sunnah and Quran?
It's the
they don't equalize them in terms of blessing. They equalize them in
terms of authority,
with Malik holding that if it is a
strong Hadith,
or sorry, if the Hadith and the Quran are not seemingly
contradicting, that's apparent contradiction in them, then the
Prophet, peace be upon him, is a source of law.
He's a source of law.
That's why,
if there is an apparent contradiction between the two,
then they reconcile it.
If they cannot reconcile it, they suspend the Ahad Hadith and don't
act upon it, while not negating it as a hadith. They simply say, we
don't have enough information to go on the what, what is meant in
this hadith to be acted upon.
Some fathers bring their daughters to the prayer, and they pray in
the first line with other men, does that nullify it?
Your prayer would not be nullified. But if it's a baby girl
or a young child,
there shouldn't be a problem with that, as long as they're not
coming in and then out of the row. I believe that that's the issue,
but your prayer definitely would not be
nullified.
There shouldn't be children that would run in and out of the row.
So if you have like a little toddler five and six who keeps
running out of the in and out of the row, making holes in the row.
That's the problem.
What is the purpose of knowing we have another half made many spend
their lives looking for the other half.
I don't know. I understand what you mean by that, like I
marriage, basically, right? How
do you pronounce your name? Shadi al Masri,
what should a single man do or learn before marriage? Oh, he's
got to learn.
He's got to learn his responsibilities. He's got to
learn how to share him his time and how to share himself
emotionally,
and he's got to have an income to pay to cover the expenses of this
this marriage.
He's got to learn how to listen. He's got to learn the expectations
of how to get along with the opposite gender,
and what do they expect in a marriage, and it's good for a
woman to do the same, except that a woman won't have to worry about
the basic expenses of things.
Can the awliya have special knowledge, like knowledge of the
future? Yes, but not definitively, speculatively, through a vision or
a dream that Allah shows them. But we do not consider this to be
absolute knowledge in the way that we have absolute knowledge that
Prophet Jesus will return to the earth that's from the Quran,
alluded to in the Quran, and explicit with the Prophet
salallahu San, from the Prophet, peace be upon
so if a wali is shown a vision about the future, that this will
happen in the future, we would say that, yes, he has that knowledge,
but it's speculative. There is a chance he could have
misinterpreted. It could be wrong, and it could not be the case.
That's the difference between the knowledge of the future that
awliyah could have and the knowledge that Allah has given us
about the future and His Messenger, sallAllahu, Salah.
That's the difference. There's another difference. It's not
obligatory to believe in such a thing.
If a wali says a very pious man, he's old, he's tested, he's tried,
the whole community believes him to be a wali of Allah, and he's
proven himself over 40 and 5060, years. And he says, I had a dream
that in the future XYZ would happen. Are you obligated to
believe in him? No, that's another big difference. But are you
allowed to call him a liar? Also, no, because you can't go into his
dream and say that that never happens.
Can't call Him a liar, but you don't have to believe in him
either. Right to call someone a liar? You need a proof.
That's a difference. Yep, someone actually saw the Prophet in their
dream. Like people, good question, how do we authenticate when
somebody says, I saw the Prophet in a dream, only by the
authentication of the person and his trustworthiness in your eyes?
So a man comes to me in Nice, big white turban and a big beard and
he says, I saw the messenger, sallAllahu. He said him yesterday,
or the his students say he saw the Prophet, peace be upon him
yesterday, last night, and the Prophet said to him, XYZ, to me,
that doesn't mean pretty much anything, because I don't know you
guys, you will have no stature with me. I don't have any reason
to believe that you're honest and trustworthy. Back in his town,
where he has 50 years khidma service, he has a totally trust
worthy reputation. Those people may believe him
because they trust him. As for me, you're a stranger to me. So no,
it's nice story, but that's it, until I live with you for five and
10 years and I start to realize you.
You are genuine, genuinely truthful person, and you're
knowledgeable, so you don't get fooled by dreams. There's another
port too. It's called atemkin. Atemkinu Phil mukashifa, a Temkin
of a Roya, a tamacun. He doesn't get fooled in these things.
And so then I can trust him, but again, I'm not obligated to
believe in it.
It's not even sunnah to believe in it. I don't get there's no reward
in me believing in that three we deem it to be speculative
knowledge, not absolute knowledge.
That's a big difference between that and the prophecy said in the
Quran and the Hadith,
will the Mahdi be in which tahid? Yes. However, he's in which tahid,
as we say it in practice, however, his ijtihad is all correct.
His ijtihad is all correct? What's your views on daoit, Islam and
Mawlana Elias Kadri only heard amazing things about him and his
his group.
Should What should your intention be for marriage? Should you be
convincing yourselves and believe that it is forever you? Well, you
have to have the intention that is forever, but
not without conditions.
It could have conditions. Yeah, if this person starts to like, leave
us, leave salah, for example, and say no, if they leave salah, I'm
not going to be married to them. I'm going to I'm going to struggle
to make them improve and bring them back to the truth. But it's
not going to be without conditions.
But you intend to to have this marriage forever and even in the
All right,
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backslash Moad, or forward slash, as people like to always correct
me on that. Forward slash, mawad, type it in Mars. Let's
look up your account here.
Where's your account? Mason,
reality says, What is aim, which said, Thank you so much. And Sheik
Mohammed Mendez have been sort of
politely reminding me to translate terms. Last weekend when I sat
with him, I always saw these say these Arabic terms without
remembering to translate them. Aim, which tahid is somebody who
can give legal rulings on new matters that didn't exist in the
time of the Prophet, peace be upon him, or were not explicitly stated
in the Quran and the Hadith. The hadith, of course, being the
sayings of the Prophet, peace be upon
him. That's in which to hit.
I'm 25 seeking marriage. I'm always studying to increase
earning potential. I failed my last two exams.
Any tips more? To headjud.
Yeah, keep making the DUA of Musa into head into headjud and Allah
will open something for you, or go to Umrah and go to to the Haram on
Thursday night and spend all sleep, all Thursday, all day,
Thursday, sleep, rest up. Then right after maghrib, roll down to
the haram.
Spend the whole night until Fajr in the Haram, Al Makki, reciting
rabbi in Nilima and Zalta elayyahman Every few minutes and
every turn of a corner you sit and you pray
rabbi in Nilima and Salta ilaman Hayden,
who are you putting in timeout?
Like, What? What?
Jack and Jill You got put in the penalty box by zabe
So go to the Haram al Makki, if you can do that, and on Wednesday
between Doha, and also spend the entire though, and also in
Masjid Al fati reciting rabbi in Nilima and zelta ilahi, Amin
khayr. It doesn't mean constant, non stop to the point that you
become bored and tired of it every once in a while, every few
minutes, you recite it and make a serious dua for Allah to bring you
what you need. And if you can't do that, then do it at home. Wake up
in the last third of the night on Thursday night,
or the whole Thursday night, if you can, and and do the same thing
in.
Your own house,
and Wednesday between Doha and Asad and the masjid, if you can,
or in your own home. And keep doing that.
Turn your mic on. Go ahead.
Um, I was, I was talking to someone the other day, and they
were, they were telling me that they got to a point spiritually
where things felt redundant, like, um, their spiritual goals were to
be consistent with their awrad, yeah, make all their prayers on
time wake up for the 100th consistently. And then
spiritually, they got to a point where they're just like, Okay, I'm
doing everything now. What like this? It's not that the sweetness
wasn't there, but it was just more like redundancy. Okay, what you're
talking about, the redundant feeling of worship is a phase that
is a test from Allah subhanahu wa see, are you doing it for his sake
or for your sake? You doing it for self enjoyment
or for Allah's sake? You're You're a worshiper. So what's your
business with how you feel? What do you care about how you feel?
It's not part of the equation at all. Simultaneously, you have to
mix up your deeds, just
like you got to mix up your diet. Every once in a while,
you got to mix up your deeds. Go do some youth work. Go do some
charity work. Go hang out with the guys. Go hang out with your
family. Mix up your deeds, so that when you do zikr again, it's you
feel refreshed. Mix up your deeds. Do different good deeds.
One more question that we'll take
is lowering the gaze while talking to a non maharam obligatory. The
obligation, the prohibition, I should say, is to look with
pleasure,
and it is discouraged to look with no reason. You only look at
somebody when you have a reason to talk to them, a lawful reason to
talk to them
the opposite gender. And what's forbidden in that is looking for
pleasure. Lot of
people get them put in the penalty box. I don't understand what's
happening.
How do I respond to a handshake from a female I have an award
ceremony coming up. It's urgent. I think you should maybe possibly
tell them in advance. Why don't you just tell them in advance? I'm
a Muslim, and we're not allowed to shake hands with the opposite
gender, so I please would like to inform you this so that we can,
instead, maybe put our hands to our chest, and that's it. Tell
them in advance,
right? Sometimes they'll just do it on
purpose. If you if they challenge you like that.
I don't know if
someone sees the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam doing
something good. Does that mean it will happen?
Allah knows best. But we do know that seeing the messenger
SallAllahu Sallam is the best of possible dreams that a person
could say, what is El Al Kalam
says Ali Rida El Al Qalam is dialectical theology, which has a
couple of purposes. Number One purpose is to answer back those
who attack Islam, those who try to bring theological doubts to
Muslims with theological tricks or logical tricks, or we should say,
false logic, and try to sow seeds of doubt in the hearts of Muslims
through these things. That's the first objective in admirable
second objective is to see where the enemies of Islam, or even
genuine Muslims, can find some kind of apparently contradictory
verses. I say, apparently. On the outside it looks like these verses
and hadiths contradict each other, and to give us the answer of how
they're not contradictory, to interpret these two verses,
thirdly is to show the Muslims that there is nothing irrational
about their religion. We do believe in things that are super
rational, like miracles, but nothing irrational. Irrational
means contradictions, like one God, but he's actually three.
That's a contradiction. It's a logical contradiction. And so we
have no logical contradictions in our religion, ALLAH SubhanA wa
Taala says, efala, don't you use your intellect? Allah subhanahu wa
taala says, well, candy. Lahila, Wada, do filament, if it this book
was from other than Allah, you find much contradiction in it. So
therefore contradiction is impossible in our religion. So
therefore, if I see two hadiths or two verse and Hadith, the two
verses, and it seems to me, they contradicting each other. That
means there must be an answer to that. And the scholars of Kalam
bring us those answers that In summary, I always say the fourth
one is to negate and to refute heresies within Islam. So.
There are heresies that come within Islam and they challenge
us.
Needs to refute that. So those are the purposes of ALM. When is almal
Kalam an obligation? It's an obligation. It's a medicine. When
there is doubt, when there are you live in a society with atheists.
You live in a society with people who are trying to argue against
your religion. You live in a society that's maybe mixed.
Theologically, you have different sects mingling with Alice Sunna,
so you need to know the answers to these questions.
Jazakamal, kheran, a lot of other comments and questions that I
can't answer. But again, if you want to be put on a marriage list,
and people will read your application and try to match you
up with somebody. Then they send you an email with his or her
portfolio, and you say, Yes, I want to talk to this person. And
she says, Yes, I want to talk to you. Then they match you up to so
that you could talk jazakamal subhanakallahu behem dick go
To
the well done.
I'm
who's not
shallow? Allah.