Shadee Elmasry – Cures of Anxiety with Shaykh Mahdi Lock – NBF 368

Shadee Elmasry
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The conversation covers various topics related to COVID-19, including the bus strike in Ontario, the bus strike in Toronto, and the upcoming bus strike in Mississauga. The speakers emphasize the importance of proper social media guidelines, proper branding, and avoiding small actions. The challenges of living in a changing world and the need for people to have a short memory to deal with failure are also discussed. The importance of reprogramming behavior and learning from past failures, as well as finding a way to alleviate pain and distraction, is emphasized. The conversation also touches on the topic of expansion and the loss of citizens, as well as protecting citizens and achieving success in peace.
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See Ya

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welcome everybody to the Safina society, nothing but fax

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livestream on a gorgeous, gorgeous, gorgeous day in the

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great state of New Jersey. It's beautiful day out. It's you could

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start feeling the crispness of the autumn breeze in the air, but it's

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also very sunny, and the days are pretty long. I'm not going to

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around 745 these days. So you got the long days, you got the sunny

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days, and you got

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some nice, cool breezes. And one of the nicest times of the year,

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as we start seeing autumn and school is really just around the

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corner. I know that's sad for a lot of kids, but it's the truth.

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To give you a update, let's start off with an update, and let me

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swap out for the black

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Israel kills at least 40 today in Gaza Cairo. Ceasefire talks is a

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bunch of nonsense, but they're saying they're about to restart.

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But we all know it's a bunch of nonsense to begin with, so don't

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ever be fooled by that. It's bunch of delay tactics and giving cover

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and saying we're trying to have a talk, and then saying that it's

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the other side that won't, you know, talk, etcetera, etcetera,

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etcetera. But that's what's happening. More people now dying

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today, and the videos this week have come out regarding kids.

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They've been killing kids. But

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there was the beheaded baby, firstly, then there was the baby,

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who's you could see its brain too. Same week with seven days, 710,

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days. Then there was the baby. They have to, Loki, put this up.

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They had to take the whole video down.

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The whole brain was out. Did you see that? Omar, oh, Loki, put it

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up. And everyone had to take it down. They took it down because,

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literally,

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the head was empty and

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the brain had completely come out. We then saw another baby. This

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face was completely you could not identify the baby if you looked at

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it.

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And then you had

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so you four or five and all, they're all taken down. And even

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one guy said that they have more babies. The footage is coming in

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faster than Twitter can take them down.

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And you have their people, their own scholars. Let me, let me put

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this for you to listen to their own scholars really saying this is

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the law, that we're supposed to do this. I mean, listen to this

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right? Just listen to this video here,

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permission from the DUA to have any mercy whatsoever during war,

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not on children, not on women, not on anybody. But the point is that

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Hashem say, do not have mercy on the children. I mean him, we know.

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Listen to this guy again. There is no permission from the DUA to have

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any mercy whatsoever during war, not on children, not on women, not

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on anybody. But the point is right here that Hashem say, do not have

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mercy on the children, kill all their children. Also, why? There's

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no difference between them and their children. In 10 years from

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now, these children

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will attack you on the way so that takes the infants and snatches

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them and kills them on the rock. Then we bless Hashem through the

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souls. You kill all men and all women, even babies who breastfeed.

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Amazing. All

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right, that's you have to read it. But listen to this. This one is

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saying, Blessed is the one who smashes their head

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on rocks. The whole Bible that says Happy is the one that takes

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the infants of Babel and of Edom, smashes them on the rock, just

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like they did

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us. This is what we say before bench. That's the end of this.

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The ultimate revenge, or prevent

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again.

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Happy is the one that takes the entrance.

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Snatches.

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You kill all men and all women, even babies who breastfeed. All

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right, so

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when these images are coming out, I we gotta assume it's

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intentional. You're telling us this is your religious your

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religious beliefs.

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Okay, completely Shayateen

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knowledge of this evangelical Christians,

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they don't have a concept of going back to their Imams and really

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taking their Imams seriously in Christianity, clearly, because

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Martin Luther, he says about Jews here in his book, The Jews in

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their lives. And I got this from Jewish virtuallibrary.org

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Martin Luther, the head of founder of Protestantism, which is

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basically the religion of all evangelical Christians and Zionist

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Christians, he says, for their blasphemy and defaming god,

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they're miserable and accursed Christians beyond guard against

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them. They're the devil's children. Their arrogance is as

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solid as a mountain

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and George Washington, remember, he's supposed to be American

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patriots. What does he say he's in his farewell address,

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it's our policy. It's our true policy, to steer clear of

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permanent alliance with any portion of the foreign worlds. In

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this fellow, he goes on to say that

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any the America's downfall will come when we permanently ally

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ourselves with another nation. This is going to be our downfall.

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So

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these guys are neither patriots nor Protestants.

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All right, let's go to announcement.

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Safina, side arc view teacher, lead in Arabic is coming to

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Toronto this August, 29 Alma, let's fire that up. You got that

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up the Toronto if you're in Toronto, listen up very well.

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Alright, let's see his so that's the tour. But where's the flyer?

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The QR code for the group if you guys want to join. So this will

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kind of make everything easy, good QR code, right? You can stay

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updated. So there's a QR code to scan it, you should be good. And

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then

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we have a couple of flyers. It's August 29 which is in one week,

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exactly six to 8pm

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you see this? Fino, okay, it's actually cut off Mississauga. Uh.

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He'll be in Mississauga on Thursday next week, at six o'clock

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to 8pm u of t. So they, I guess they're starting school early, so

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he's kicking it off right away, tackling modern challenges for Gen

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Z, and now we're on Gen Alpha. Well, Gen alpha is not in college

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yet, so this makes sense to be Gen Z.

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Okay, see this right there? Very good. Hey, you want to study with

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chickman the Arabic arc view dot, O, R, G, slash Arabic. Simple as

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that, sign up for his classes. You learn to 10 hours a week, plus

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review sessions, plus q, a on WhatsApp. Next one,

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right next we have,

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yeah. So, so he'll be selling his book at the lecture. Very good.

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Next one, Islam in the problem of the youth. Good Book. Islam in the

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problem of what, and the problem of the youth, of the youth. Okay,

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next one.

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And then this is another, just the WhatsApp group, if anyone missed

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it.

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Next one, healing through the Quran. That's the next day,

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Friday, five o'clock again. UFT, this is like an intensive at U of

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T. Who u of t is so active doing all this ALMA can you push that

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light a little away? It's like, too bright, just slightly, like,

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away. I despise this lamp right here. I need it to be yellow, soft

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white. This guy's like, bright white light right in my face. I

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always push it slowly towards you. Yeah. It's good on lighting, but

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it sometimes you can have too much lighting, you start looking weird.

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Ghost, yeah, next one. And there again, is the how many QR codes

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are they going to have? Just make sure people know. Okay, next one

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from background. And here again, healing through the Quran. So it's

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a three day, Thursday, Friday. There's another place, and that's

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in Jamia Atul olum, jamiatul Ansar in Brampton.

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Okay, you know he's gonna go through healing through the Quran,

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and we're gonna talk today about more cures to anxiety and

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depression from Sheik Sahib Ram booty's book on that. Hey, where

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is that book? By the way. Oh, it's in that box over there. I think I

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saw there's a box over there, two boxes over there. When you get a

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minute not to be now, so why don't you get that? While I read our

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Nevada on Hadith, our Nevada on Hadith today, my brothers and

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sisters, we're gonna talk about the mustach. No, no, it's right

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there on the right there. You.

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What is it? Oh, no, turn around,

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yeah, yeah, there's two boxes, right there,

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two crates, I should say, yeah.

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What's the most Raj is they take the same exact Hadith

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from Abu Bala's farm. He gave us some cucumbers,

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the mustak Raj, they take the same exact Hadith, but from from

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Bukhari or Muslim, or both

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the mustach, they say same exact Hadith, but they go and find other

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chains for that hadith, what's the benefit of that Well, firstly,

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sometimes they find a shorter chain.

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Secondly, Catra tutor,

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now bringing you many chains of that hadith that strengthens it as

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an evidence. Because, as we said earlier, if you have a hadith that

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has one evidence, or, sorry, one chain, once the hobby narrated it,

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it would not be as as as as as commanding as a piece of evidence,

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as if you have multiple

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Sahabi narrating it. And sometimes these mustach Raj meet at the

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sahabi, and sometimes meet at the tabay. So may still be only from

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one sahabi, but it'll be for multiple tabes, some

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like amendment, you didn't do your job.

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Thirdly,

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a Ziad of in Metz, sometimes these narrations will have more in the

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metsin, imagine somebody attends a lecture or a gathering and

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summarizes it for you. Another one summarizes it for you, a third one

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summarizes it for you, and they summarize it differently because

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they give you more which you can't find the boxes. They're two, two

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crates, right there. It's not in the crate, okay?

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So Zia, the film Metin. Metin is the text so you have different

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now, go ask your friends what happened at this dinner party, and

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one person will tell you one thing. Another person tell you.

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Another person tell you all trustworthy, reliable people. Now

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you start getting a picture.

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There's an Indian guy who took pictures of of the moon for

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really, a really long time. But each picture, he focuses on a

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different part of the of the moon. Then he compiled all of these

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together. He compiled them all together, and you have a very,

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very vivid picture the moon. And let's say you got the moon like

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this, you focus on that part,

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right?

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And that's gonna You're that's gonna be focused, and the rest

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will be a little bit fuzzy.

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Where are we going here, Omar,

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are we fixed? I think that's good, or is it slanted this way?

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There we go. That's good.

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Okay, so, so that's the set. So oluwa, senadwa, ziada fil matini,

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what's a quiet what has me at Al mubaham,

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you benefit from the naming of who may not have been named.

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Person in a Senate may have said so and so were narrated from his

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brother,

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right? Who's his brother? What's his name,

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right? So, tasmiya. So that's the reason they did mustach Rajat,

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most extractions, extracting more chains for the same Hadith. Now,

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what's something that you have to be aware of? You have to be aware

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of that the wording is never the same.

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It's, I would say, rarely the same. According to never we

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according to alfeit al Araki, they state that the wording of the

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narrations is never the same, but the meaning is mostly the same.

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The meaning for the most part,

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is the same,

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yeah, for the most part, who are some of the big ones? Abu Asmaa

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Yakub Ibn Ismail,

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sorry, Yamin is HAQ

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al isfara ini, Abu Awana yaq, son of is HAQ al isfaraini,

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he did a mustach Raj on Muslim. And by the way, sometimes they

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call them AJ,

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not just a mustach Raj. Abu nuaim al isfahani, he did it on the

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sahih hain,

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what is the ruling on

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the extra text in a mustachraj, they deem it to be sahih.

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But one thing that you have to be careful about, just because

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something is mustaraj, the same Senate or a same medicine, or by

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meaning,

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same incident, different.

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Wording,

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just because something is a mustach from Bukhari and Muslim,

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they you can't say it was narrated by Bukhari and Muslim because they

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didn't narrate it. But you can say asluhu Phil Bukhari were Muslim.

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You see, you can, you can point the reader that the usla this

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hadith is in Bukhari and Muslim.

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Okay,

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raw workouts is giving a comment. I haven't seen a single Maliki in

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Kashmir.

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Yeah, probably you're right about that.

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He says, I am a Salafi. But he's fascinated by the live stream and

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feel close to Allah mashallah, kuluna, Salafi, we were all set

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up. I follow. Who do you follow? Omar Abu Hanifa. Is he not from

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the Salaf? Right? And we follow Malik when others follow chef a

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others follow Ahmed Columbus,

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one fellow, wakuluna, alamin Salif, right? A it.

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Where is she? He's coming at two o'clock. Very good, very good,

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very good.

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All right, we because we're going to probably close right after

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Sheik Mahdi, let's open it up today, because I think yesterday,

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we maybe didn't do any Q A, right?

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We did some Q A, so let's, let's go to that now and

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then. There are some important questions that I want to bring up

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here. I

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a ruling on trimming the eyebrows asking for a friend, says Adi

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Ahmed, a man may only trim what is abnormal growth in excess. He

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should not make his eyebrows look like a female.

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He may, he may trim and remove

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what is

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from the excess that would make him look abnormal. There's nothing

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wrong with that, but he should not make it look feminine.

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Okay?

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As for the the a woman, she can remove what is masculine from her

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eyebrows, even by plucking.

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And as for basically all, a lot of the those Hadith regarding the

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wall, sila ma our Sheik, Mahmud, shabib of Egypt, he tells us that

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those Hadith are based upon deception.

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They shouldn't. They're, they're, the deception is the problem. If

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someone is doing things to their body to deceive a potential,

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a potential spouse, that's the problem, right there.

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Alright,

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how do you advise your family on sins like makeup and music? That's

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very common.

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Well, you want to make sure you do it

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in because your family you're all with each other and you're stuck

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with each other all the time. It has to be done. It has to be done.

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That's the first thing. But secondly, you really need to make

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sure that it's not done in a way that is munafira, meaning pushing

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them away from Islam, because commanding right, forbidding wrong

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should not do more damage, but it should not be left off either.

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That's the question. That's the thing. You can't leave it off,

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but you can't do more damage.

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And that's the middle ground that you have to find. How is it that I

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can mention it but without making them? And I'll tell you how to do

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it. Essentially, true. Truly, dawah is done by loving

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the person. If you you do need in Dawa to be lovable.

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Okay,

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commanding right and forbidding wrong to the general public

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doesn't require that. But you're you're not with the general

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public. You're with your family. You're with them all the time. You

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cannot be someone hated. Gotta keep that in mind to have to have

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a lovable so how are you going to become lovable? Well, you have to

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do other things too. You can't just be telling people what not to

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do. Well, what do you bring to the table, of this to this family?

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What do you how do you make us do you? Are you someone who makes us

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happy when we're around? Do you help out? Do you bring lighten up

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the mood? Or are you just a downer all the time? So that's where you

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want to make sure that you get things right. You don't want to be

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a downer all the time, such that you just associated with this

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negativity, right?

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And they call these, you know, like sandwiching things. I have to

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tell you some. Oh, Masha, Allah, grandpas here cometh. Make room

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for your Gramps. Take the.

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Bag off. Mashallah,

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how are you come? Sit here,

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Allah, you have some time. Are you coming and going?

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Okay, mashallah, ya ya Yasin. Do we have any coffee out there or

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something?

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You just got coffee when you're in the mood? A couple cups would be

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good. Your secret stuff when you're when he's in the mood. You

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know, Yaseen got himself in trouble. But first of all, Arthur

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man got us the coffee machine. That's number one. Number two,

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Yasin did it, and he made a great cup of coffee. Now you're in big

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trouble. Now you're in big trouble because now we're gonna keep

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asking for it. You know that I caught this. My mom had a trick

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one time when I was young, and I cleaned pots, you know, scrape in

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the pots, because you can't go wrong when you scrape a pot right,

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and you say, oh, mashallah, he did such a great job scraping the pot.

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And she go tell everybody he did such a great job scraping the pot.

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And I feel like so proud and happy, right?

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Realize much later, it's a trick. Right now, every time we have a

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pot, oh, here we need you right now, I became the pot man after

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that.

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Pot man may have different references, but not the one you're

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thinking of.

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So when you do Dawa, you have to be realize that you you want the

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bigger picture is you're doing Dawa for Don't, don't just look at

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the one wrong action that's being done. How's that for an answer?

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Don't just look at the one small wrong action that's being done

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that you want to change. What change. Why don't you look at the

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bigger picture? You want to guide people

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to the love of Allah and His messenger. It has to come into the

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heart first before the actions. And I, we all have seen it a

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million times. You can change people's actions, but if you

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didn't change in here, they're going to revert back as soon as

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you're gone. So or they vomited out. The truth comes out of them

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eventually. So what you want to do is remove yourself from just

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thinking about these minor sins that they're doing,

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but

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go to a higher ground. I want them to love Allah as messenger,

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sallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam. Once that that enters their heart,

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then everything that you want is going to come much more than just

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not listening to music and wearing makeup.

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That's for whom I'm saying this, for the person who lives with

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them, day in and day out, they're stuck with you. You're stuck with

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them. And at that point you you can't just say, boom, here is the

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truth and leave. He's gonna you're gonna fail. So you want to look at

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the bigger picture, and you want to address the heart of the person

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more so than a single action.

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All right, I hope that's a good answer. Is it a good answer?

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Can a woman wear Quran in public?

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I recall that the answer is yes, that that is not considered

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makeup.

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What about putting veneers on front teeth? What is that exactly?

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You can have fake teeth. If you lose your teeth, if your teeth

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rot, you can change your teeth. You can If your teeth are black or

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yellow or you are no offense Bengali and you eat that red

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stuff, and all your teeth are now red, right?

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Then you can fix them, yeah.

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Oh, that's a that's a long surgery that's multiple weeks.

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That's many weeks, yeah, like, you got to remove all the teeth, then

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you got to put screws in, wait another month until that settles,

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and then come in and put the other teeth. That takes many months to

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do this,

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and it's painful,

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but if it's, yeah, they all do it, and everyone's fake, by the way,

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these days, like, literally, everyone's fake noses. I see the

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perfect nose. No one has a nose like this, like a ruler, right?

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And sometimes, unfortunately, the surgery goes bad for them, and

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their nose is upturned, and it looks terrible when the surgery

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goes bad, the nose is pointed up. Which is, which is, I sort of feel

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sad for them, but we're not supposed to be doing those things

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in the first place. You're not allowed to do those surgeries

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unless there is a damage done. Then you may

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do it again, then you may fix that nose, even if it turns out better.

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Let's say someone gets their nose completely they say you have a

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regular nose like any one of us. It's not 100% perfect, right? Then

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somehow, by accident, an accident occurs, you get completely smashed

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to your nose. Now they're going to reconstruct your nose. He is going

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to end up looking better than the first time with technology that we

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have. It's going to end up being perfect. That's halal for you. So.

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You don't have to tell the surgeon, all right, I had a

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crookedness here. My left nostril was bigger than my right, right

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different. No, you don't have to tell them that he can reconstruct

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for you a perfect nose. I know somebody like my brother's friend,

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his left leg is longer than his right leg, but he can fix that,

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yeah? But I don't know it's they can't surgically fix it. They fix

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it with shoes. Yeah? That's what he does. Yeah? Who has the extra

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that's tough. So you know that it has a lot of other problems too.

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There's his hips off, there's his back off. But anything that where

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you lose something of your body, that a lot customarily creates

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everyone with straight teeth, eyes that can see. We wear glasses,

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braces. You lose your nose. You could put it back on. You got a

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mole, you can remove it.

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Man losing his hair in some methods, you can get a hair

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transplant, right from his own hair.

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All that has had for us to do because you're you're putting what

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you lost,

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not changing.

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That's, it's just childish. Yeah, yeah, stick. Stick to Nana. Stick

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to the the branding. Omar's, uh, stick to the branding. You know,

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we got to stick to the branding. No, no. That branding decision has

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been made already. Omar is making the cover for today look like

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October. Don't, don't switch it up. The branding has been decided

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already.

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He's making it look like a horror movie.

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But we got branding. We're sticking to the branding. Because

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those discussions you have, those discussions, you can't change

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later. It's like Usul and Furu, right. I'm a Medici, but, oh man,

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I really like this

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Traveler's Prayer in the Shafi school. This did not.

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Can a person from a Muslim country go to Western countries for

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studies?

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Yeah, there's there. If there's a Fatah,

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there are Fatah for that that to go and take a fat and bring it

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back to the ummah. How

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about living there for some time to make some money and take it

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back? Allah Adam, if your deen is going to be affected or not,

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depends where you're going. It really depends where you're going.

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And those, the the rules on those travels is individual basis. It's

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not

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there is a general ruling forbidding all that. But there are

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there. There can be, as Omar just said, is it exceptions based on

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the person?

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How can I get my family to love Allah subhanahu wa make them love

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you? That's the answer. They love you. Make yourself lovable. That's

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not easy. It's really not easy. But make yourself lovable,

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okay? And then

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when you're associated with masajid, then they'll love you.

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This brother is saying, the stuff that makes your teeth red is

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called pond.

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Yep, I saw that I was a wedding at a wedding the other day, and they

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got a desi marijuana leaf, basically.

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And it was a very sophisticated looking cart with a guy with white

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gloves. And I'm like, All right, what's here? I'm at the wedding,

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right? What is this? Like? Ice cream? Who knows what, right?

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Maybe it was, you know what I was thinking. It was, I was thinking

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it was he was giving out

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that Daisy sweet. That's like pasta with faluda I was like, is

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that a faluda stand? Is it my lucky day? No, it's not a faluda

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stand. It was Daisy weed,

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and he had gooey stuff in it. Who knows what that is?

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Nuts in it. It was a leaf, and he's wrapping it like he's like a

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connoisseur with white gloves wrapping it. And I looked, and I

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saw some of my friends online. I said, Brother, what is this? And

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they try to explain, man, my mom told me not to take drugs when I

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was young, so I'm like, I'll go for the ice cream some

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people, yeah.

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No, no, I told them, Listen, man, I always thought when I was young,

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don't take drugs, so I'll pass on the JC weed.

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Who are the family members that we must maintain ties of kinship

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with?

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Says rose gold,

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it's who, what's what's in your

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environment that you live with on a regular basis, plus your

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immediate family.

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So let's say you have an uncle that lives with you guys, one here

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and one's in Australia, the one here is the one that's you have to

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keep ties with.

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Is it true? Mataki allow women to pluck eyebrows, which she's not,

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whether she's married or not, yes, but not for shaping only to remove

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the masculinity you.

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So that's a normal woman's eyebrow, yes, but to shape it now

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into a perfect line or a curve that is allowed to do but it's

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Xena. It's like wearing makeup outside that you'd have to cover

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it if she leaves the good to public. But it's mainly the

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masculine element, very bushy Angry Birds eyebrows that she can

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fix that, right? Speak, I heard that like the hair, like, for

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example, unibrow, the hair between the two eyebrows and by the nose,

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like, above the nose is, isn't part of the eyebrows. You're

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allowed to pluck it, right? Yeah, yeah, even part of the eyebrow, if

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it's the eyebrows very thick and wide and long, and it's Angry

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Birds eyebrows, you can fix that, removing the masculinity is halal.

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And take that directly from my Sheik, which Habib. On that

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matter, which of the that allow the hair transplants? I think all

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of them, except the Matic, your school does not allow an intifall

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Ademi, the human being. And it's including yourself is not

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something you ought to benefit from. In other words, take this

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and put it here and stuff like that. So if you're a matte key and

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you need a hair transplant, you're gonna have to go with the chafe

00:31:05 --> 00:31:09

school or the hamedi school. They allow that. Okay? Hair transplant,

00:31:09 --> 00:31:10

of course, is

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mainly in Turkey these days. I don't make fun of people who do

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that. It's not nice to go bald,

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right? And then there are now all sorts of sprays and helmets and

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other things that help people keep their hair, because we're all

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messed up. Who the heck knows what we're eating, what we're even the

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micro plastics that entering our skin from the age of from birth,

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all of the everyone's grown up, screwed up, teeth are crooked,

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can't see,

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socially awkward. What has happened to the human

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we worship technology, the technology is doing better than

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the human. We should care about the human. Human needs good sleep.

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He needs to get rid of all these plastics in his life. I know it's

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very difficult to do. It's near impossible, right? We need to

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sleep when it gets dark,

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right?

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Artificial light, artificial sugar. We don't care for the human

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anymore, so we're all screwed up. We care so much for the

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technology. Technology is doing great, thriving

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does that's what we put our attention to.

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How should I deal with failure in life?

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You deal with failure in life by just forgetting about it, learning

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the lesson and move on quick. You have to have a short memory in

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that stuff.

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Have to have a short memory. Move on, quick. So So you failed, move

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on.

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The people who know how to handle failure in life

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and can move on quick and can withstand that failure. Chances

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are they'll have more success in life than those who are smarter

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than them

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but can't handle failure.

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It's like, if you, you're you're gonna face defeats. Whether you're

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smart or not that smart,

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right? You're gonna face defeats the person who is capable of

00:33:00 --> 00:33:05

facing more defeats and moving on, he'll learn more lessons. Within

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10 years, that person be way far ahead, just on experience and

00:33:09 --> 00:33:13

lessons learned, than the guy who is smarter or more knowledgeable

00:33:13 --> 00:33:18

or wealthier. So one of the biggest qualities that a person

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could have is the ability to be defeated, to lose severely, and

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then bounce back that kind of mental toughness. It allows you to

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learn from experience. You will then trounce the people. In 10

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years, you'll trounce everybody who is just afraid to lose.

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They're like afraid to jump over that first barrier, even though

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they're better than you you're not afraid. You jump and you fail.

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Well, now you learned one way that it doesn't work,

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so on and so forth.

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Some things we lose with age or child with childbirth. Is this a

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slippery slope? The question is, is it customary for that age or

00:34:00 --> 00:34:05

that situation. It's customary. For example, when you get old you

00:34:05 --> 00:34:09

have wrinkles. It's not part it's customary. No one expects anything

00:34:09 --> 00:34:12

different. So you're allowed only to do what is

00:34:14 --> 00:34:18

temporary, temporary fixes, creams, lotions, what have you.

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But you don't need surgery for that, because you're not chained,

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you, you're not being tested with anything that nobody else has.

00:34:24 --> 00:34:27

Everyone has gray hairs. Well, you can dye gray hairs, but anyone,

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everyone has some wrinkles at the as they grow older, it's not a

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justification to go do tucking and pulling.

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I'll give here's another one, though, that I think may have some

00:34:37 --> 00:34:42

ruchsa in it is somebody who was extremely overweight, then lost a

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lot of weight, and now he's got this excess skin. Do you know this

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happens now? This can affect a marriage, right?

00:34:50 --> 00:34:54

So you can get that. I'm not going to say, but I I'm going to ask my

00:34:54 --> 00:34:58

Sheik about this. If you just cut off that skin, you shouldn't have

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eaten so much. He's probably cut.

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Off like all your midnight snacks right there.

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It's a problem, but I think that there is a priority of beauty for

00:35:08 --> 00:35:09

the sake of the marriage.

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And also a tazin is not forbidden, but that does have parameters. So

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I'm going to ask the sheik about that. Speak. Are you

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allowed to die, for example, like a dark brown? You're allowed to

00:35:25 --> 00:35:30

dye it any color besides your original color. So even that the

00:35:30 --> 00:35:33

of the blackness is misleading, that you would be misleading

00:35:33 --> 00:35:36

someone, because back in the old days, I don't know how old you

00:35:36 --> 00:35:39

are, they just tell by the signs. So if you're all gray, and now you

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come to propose, and you're all black, and start meeting this

00:35:42 --> 00:35:46

woman, and every day you're dying your hair black. She thinks you're

00:35:46 --> 00:35:49

a lot younger, or at least you look younger, then she marries

00:35:49 --> 00:35:53

you, and you stop caring so much because she's in the bag already.

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Call us. We got her tucked in, right? And that's a problem.

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People stop caring. This is a really terrible feature in a

00:36:00 --> 00:36:03

person. He chases something, then he stops caring. Once he gets it,

00:36:03 --> 00:36:06

it's a terrible feature. This person will be, never be happy.

00:36:06 --> 00:36:10

But now he stops, and she wakes up one day and he's got gray hairs.

00:36:11 --> 00:36:14

So you fooled me. You lied to me, right? So that's what is

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forbidden. So therefore, if a person has gray hairs and he dyes

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it with a brown or a light brown,

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and it's pretty obviously he dyes it, it looks better. But even

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though he dyed it right, that's okay.

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So I asked the sheik, an Irish person, he has red hair, then he

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shouldn't dye red. He said, Yes, he shouldn't dye it red. He should

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dye it another color, but not red. So that's the it's all about

00:36:41 --> 00:36:44

misleading people. That's what it's about. Okay,

00:36:45 --> 00:36:45

speak,

00:36:47 --> 00:36:50

no, you can't do purple and pink because people think you're a woke

00:36:51 --> 00:36:56

which is today, you know, has a lot of other things connected to

00:36:56 --> 00:36:59

it. And the woke agenda is, to me, one of the most destructive

00:36:59 --> 00:37:01

agendas out there.

00:37:03 --> 00:37:05

Yeah, natural colors are fine.

00:37:07 --> 00:37:11

Young, male, 26 years old, he knows 13 judges often allow us to

00:37:11 --> 00:37:17

lead at the masjid. He goes out with friends and has drinks what

00:37:18 --> 00:37:21

he goes out in public and has drinks,

00:37:22 --> 00:37:27

alcoholic beverages. When he leads the prayer,

00:37:32 --> 00:37:35

should he avoid the masjid for a time so he isn't asked to lead

00:37:35 --> 00:37:35

prayer?

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No, he should leave off drinking, not prayer, not leading the

00:37:40 --> 00:37:44

prayer. Drinking is what he should lead off. Man, people are really

00:37:44 --> 00:37:48

mixed. I didn't realize this. Man, they're really mixed bags. Man,

00:37:48 --> 00:37:50

brother is a bout to be a half as

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she Aji, honestly, he's

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he should leave off the drinking. He should keep praying and lead

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off the drinking. But once the people in the masjid know that he

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drinks, and it's in public, he's goes out for drinks, you cannot

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hide this. You're not allowed to do sit here for him. You have to

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tell Yeah, Imam, I saw Fulani bin fulan drinking, and I'm absolutely

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certain it's come.

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So now we say, okay, we're not gonna,

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we're not gonna ask him to lead anymore. And not only that, we may

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flog him next time He comes in, the message, if we know him, yeah,

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if we know him, we'll take him and give him some lashes in the back

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of the Masjid. I was gonna give someone lashes in the back of the

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masjid yesterday. Yesterday, I had a very, very IG encounter. I'm

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about to leave

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a brother says, Oh, brother, let me stop you real quick. When is

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your next gathering of vikra said, It's tomorrow, after seven

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o'clock, after madrab. I mean, he said, Oh, I'm going to miss it too

00:38:53 --> 00:38:53

bad.

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He says to me, I just want him brother here. He's a guest of

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mine. He's from, oh, man, right. I said, Oh, man, interesting. So

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you're ibadi? He said, Yes, I'm ibadi. I said, explain to me

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the doctrine of the ibadia.

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He said, Oh, I've never been asked that question. I can't really

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summarize it for you. I said, well, then Samani, taradi, Arad

00:39:20 --> 00:39:23

Hussain, I want to hear from you,

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taradi. I want you to say,

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Sayyidina, Hussain, Radi Allahu an because that's the ibadi problem.

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They say Hussain was killed lawfully because he was rebelled.

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They disrespected Hussain. So I want to hear you say, Hussain is

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honored, and may Allah have mercy upon him. And he is from the chief

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of the youth of paradise.

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And if you don't say it, I'll take you the back of the masjid and hit

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you. I'm just kidding with them, right?

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So he laughed, and the other guy, but he didn't say it, by the way,

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the other guy, his friend, he says to me, Wow, subhanAllah, that's

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the exact opposite. Can.

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Is in my mosque, we say, Hussain, alayhi, Salam. He's like, what,

00:40:04 --> 00:40:06

Masjid? Are you from? He's like, Oh, the Shia, Masjid down the

00:40:06 --> 00:40:10

street. I'm like, What in the kind of friendship is this? The ibadi

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is the exact opposite of the Shia in their Aqeedah, right? I'm like,

00:40:14 --> 00:40:17

what kind of meeting is this? Right? A Sunni and an ibadiana

00:40:18 --> 00:40:21

Walk into the mosque. Is this a joke, right? I said, Did I catch

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some kind of a blue moon or something like that, where weird

00:40:25 --> 00:40:28

things start happening? But anyway, they started laughing,

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because I think the Shia, he became a Sunni, the body has no

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clue what he believes. So it's okay, right? But in any event, I

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did make them aware that this is the problem that the Ibadis have,

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right? And if you're going to set foot and be one of our friends and

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hang out with us. I need to hear Tara Dion hose, or else, yes, in

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behind, since

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there are a lot of Shias, there was one

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time we had we were going to miss the prayer, and it was right

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there. And then towards the end, while we were leaving, it

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wasn't the Imam, it was some other guy. He was asking all the Shias

00:41:01 --> 00:41:04

like, who is your sword, who is your word teacher, and who is your

00:41:06 --> 00:41:09

doctor? And then eventually they came to, Who is your Lord, and

00:41:09 --> 00:41:11

then they still said, Ali, you know that you're not allowed to

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pray in those Masjid in our madhhab, your prayer word is

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valid, but you were sinful for going there. Because Allah says,

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Let kumfi. Abuda,

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Allah says about masajid, of that insult Allah and His messenger

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and our havens for the insult of God and His Prophet, the insult of

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the Prophet is insulting his Sahaba and his wives. If I insult

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your mom, did I not insult you? If I insult your wife, I insulted

00:41:37 --> 00:41:43

you. Right? So Allah says about masajid that are the havens for

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offending and attacking and plotting against Allah and His

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messenger. Allah says, never set foot in them. That means, if I

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want to go to the bathroom, I go somewhere else. Let

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never set foot inside of it.

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The masajid that are established upon a doctrine we don't accept,

00:42:02 --> 00:42:06

an Islam that goes against clear, explicit verses. We don't set foot

00:42:06 --> 00:42:08

in them like who likes it? Likes it doesn't like it. Doesn't like

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it. But if you did, you are sinful and your prayer is valid, right?

00:42:13 --> 00:42:15

Your prayer is valid. If the person in the Imams prayer is

00:42:15 --> 00:42:18

valid, if the Imams prayer is invalid, then your prayer is also

00:42:18 --> 00:42:19

invalid for that reason. For

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example, He doesn't make we do properly,

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or he misses one of the archan of Salah. So you need to sort of know

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how he prays in the first place, which mostly you don't know, but

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that's the ruling on entering masajid, where the official aquita

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I'm not saying one Imam has a funny aqidah. No, the official

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aqidah of that Imam and built that Masjid is built to support that

00:42:44 --> 00:42:48

those beliefs were not allowed to walk into them. Allah, says Lata

00:42:48 --> 00:42:49

kumfi abada,

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do not ever set foot in it. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

00:42:53 --> 00:42:58

sallam was commanded this when he was invited by the hypocrites who

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set up a masjid to plot against the Muslims and to be a safe haven

00:43:03 --> 00:43:08

for those who hate Islam. They're hypocrites. To get legitimacy,

00:43:08 --> 00:43:12

they invited the prophet to the grand opening to lead the first

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salah.

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The Prophet agreed. Semester, right then, Allah revealed, la

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takum fi abada,

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you see we're not allowed to set foot in those Masjid. You want to

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pray? Better off? Do you pray in a parking lot or anywhere else?

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Let's now go to our guests. He's here,

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our Arabic teacher, the translator of Sheik Sahib Malam Bucha books,

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the translator of Sheik Mohammed wheels book, books,

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plural. Let's bring him on. Sheik Mehdi lock a regular on the

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nothing but facts. Live Stream, Ark, view, dot, O RG, slash,

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Arabic Omar. Can you put that up across as a banner ticker the

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whole way, the whole time, arc, or even just Sheik Mehdi lock, arc

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view, dot Arabic under his name there, yeah, uh. Arc

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view.org/arabic,

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he now has over 50 students, 50 students, no more than that, 50

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students this summer came up onto, yeah, right about 130 now, I think

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out of 130

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students, that is the passion for the Arabic language. Yeah, is that

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arc view, org slash Arabic,

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no, put it in the next his name, where it says Sheik Mahdi. Lock

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not gonna be legible. Okay, all right, Sheik Mehdi

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tell us something about from Sheik al booty's cures of anxiety.

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Okay,

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so

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in the in the book, that is, I think it's well known now the book

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we.

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Call the translation depression and anxiety, because they go

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together. They go together. They're hand in hand. And every

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time the man mentioned in the series, every time he mentioned

00:45:09 --> 00:45:12

depression, he mentioned anxiety as well, and he mentioned

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psychological unrest,

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the cure, like with depression, is that you have to understand where

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anxiety and depression and psychological unrest and whatever

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else it is. Where does it reside? It resides in the heart. And your

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heart is not in your hands. It's in Allah's hands. So the cure is

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always in every single moment to turn to Allah. And Allah says in

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is the eye that he quotes again and again in. So 13, chapter,

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verse, 28 Allah says, Allah be the krilahit. It is only by the

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remnants of Allah that the hearts find peace and find tranquility.

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So what this boils down to is that whatever you're anxious about, you

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have to pull back from the world itself, in the sense that you

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cannot let your happiness or your sadness be dependent on the world.

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Your happiness and your sadness has to be rested in Allah. And

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then this is why, in the book, he gives the story of the great Imam

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from the from the first generations, Ibrahim and EDM who

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on the law, one of the very Sufis who said that if, if the Kings

00:46:19 --> 00:46:22

knew the happiness that we had. They would fight us for it. They

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would take, pick up swords and fight us for it. And the point is,

00:46:25 --> 00:46:31

hourly, you can't tell what this is our he's an impoverished state.

00:46:31 --> 00:46:35

He doesn't have a fancy house or anything, anything that we would

00:46:35 --> 00:46:40

see as your material wealth. But the key here is that this person,

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and the only I like him is that their happiness is centered in

00:46:45 --> 00:46:49

Allah. Their happiness is rooted in all the law and the

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relationship of Allah, the vicar of Allah, and therefore, it's not

00:46:53 --> 00:46:57

subject to what's happening in the world. It's not subject to

00:46:57 --> 00:46:59

people's praise, people's blame, people's censure,

00:47:01 --> 00:47:04

the viciousities of the stock market, whatever it is, is rooted

00:47:04 --> 00:47:10

there with Allah is and you stay in that state. One stays in that

00:47:10 --> 00:47:14

state by staying in a state of dhikr, a state of remembrance of

00:47:14 --> 00:47:21

Allah, and always, always, always linking every single incident that

00:47:21 --> 00:47:24

one is going through, every single situation one is in. One links it

00:47:24 --> 00:47:27

back to Allah. And this is why. This is why the ministry of Allah

00:47:27 --> 00:47:30

saw someone has given us all these AFK when you wake up in the

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morning, when you go to the bathroom, when you leave the

00:47:32 --> 00:47:35

bathroom, when you start a meal, when you finish a meal, when you

00:47:35 --> 00:47:38

leave your house, when you come home, so on and so on. There's so

00:47:38 --> 00:47:41

many DUA and I've got you're supposed to say, Why? Because

00:47:41 --> 00:47:43

you're always bringing every single day that you're doing back

00:47:43 --> 00:47:48

to Allah and remembering Allah. And to take it further, because I

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was going over this with some students, we just completed a

00:47:51 --> 00:47:55

course, Alhamdulillah in the UK, an online course called healing

00:47:55 --> 00:47:56

with the Quran,

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with a good group of students, mashaAllah, a good high uptake,

00:48:01 --> 00:48:07

masha Allah. And one of the things that we discussed was a beautiful

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Hadith, and this is this one we think about the benefits of dhikr,

00:48:09 --> 00:48:12

the benefits of Vikram is a beautiful Hadith. In the question

00:48:12 --> 00:48:14

of Imam Ibn Naja,

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where the Messenger of Allah, sallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam, he

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says that every day Allah has a Sadaqah. Allah gives, gives a

00:48:22 --> 00:48:23

sadaqah to his slaves

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by day and by night. But then he said, but there's nothing like

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that means there's no Sadaqah. There's nothing like

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Allah. Is when ALLAH inspires his slave to remember him, that's the

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greatest Sadaqah. So

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when you ponder on that, you realize that, yes, Allah commands

00:48:44 --> 00:48:50

you in Soto, buchafa, Qurani, of Quran, right? Doctor, 151 of

00:48:50 --> 00:48:53

Kulin, remember me. Now, remember you, but you don't remember Allah

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unless ALLAH remembered you first upon. A lot of them, right?

00:48:58 --> 00:49:01

Profound, profound. And I remember when I remember when I was going

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over this hadith with some students, they said, Muslim pan

00:49:03 --> 00:49:07

Allah. Why aren't we just ecstatic? Why are we just jumping

00:49:07 --> 00:49:10

up and down for joy? Because you realize in every single time you

00:49:10 --> 00:49:12

do think of Allah, it's because Allah is putting it in

00:49:13 --> 00:49:16

you. So where is this thing? Where's the anxiety coming from?

00:49:17 --> 00:49:19

Where is it coming from? Where? What? What's what's the reason for

00:49:19 --> 00:49:23

it? Every situation you're in, it's Allah who's pushing you to

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remember him, right? It's, you know, it's this famous story

00:49:25 --> 00:49:28

always put as well as for the new normal, multi quotes, many, many

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times. And I was gone this room again few days ago. You know,

00:49:32 --> 00:49:33

people looking for

00:49:34 --> 00:49:38

cures for the heart and cures for anxiety, and they look for signs

00:49:38 --> 00:49:41

of Allah's love, right? So, there's the famous story where,

00:49:41 --> 00:49:44

where this lady a serving girl in Damascus, where she would,

00:49:45 --> 00:49:49

she would pray tahajjud. And one night, the the master of the

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house, he got up and he heard her praying, and he heard her in dua.

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She was in dua, like making sujood. And she was saying, Oh

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Allah, buy your love for Me. Grant, such and such grant, such

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as, buy your love for Me. Grant.

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Such and such and such, and the master of the house, he thought

00:50:06 --> 00:50:09

this was a bit presumptuous, like, where like were you to say, like

00:50:09 --> 00:50:12

Allah loves me and so forth, where he makes Who are you to make this

00:50:12 --> 00:50:17

claim? So he asked her. But afterwards and she and she said,

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Well, I know the law loves me because woke me up at this hour.

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Subhanallah, I know the law loves me because he made me stand in

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front of him. I know Allah. Allah loves me because he allows me to

00:50:26 --> 00:50:30

make these donate to him. That's why Allah loves so we have to to

00:50:30 --> 00:50:35

use, to use the Americanism, flip the script. You have to, you have

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to flip it around and see

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and see Allah's love for you in the things that you're doing.

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Because, again, boil it down, you don't do any action. You don't do

00:50:45 --> 00:50:48

any righteous action, any sort of vicar, any sort of prayer, any

00:50:48 --> 00:50:51

sort of any good deed, unless Allah put that in you. Allah

00:50:51 --> 00:50:54

facilitated that for you. And these are signs that Allah loves

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you. These are signs. Again, it's not just the fundamental things,

00:50:57 --> 00:50:59

but one things we cover as wellness. Course, it's in the

00:50:59 --> 00:51:00

book, this idea of,

00:51:01 --> 00:51:05

again, common thing about people who have spent many years like

00:51:05 --> 00:51:08

away from Allah, and then they change their ways. Afterwards,

00:51:08 --> 00:51:11

they change their ways, and they reform themselves. And then

00:51:11 --> 00:51:13

shaitan tries to mess with them and say, What's the point you were

00:51:13 --> 00:51:15

sinning for so many years, and you're off the path for so many

00:51:15 --> 00:51:19

years, and why would ALLAH forgive you? And so on and so forth. But

00:51:19 --> 00:51:21

the response, the response to that is, well, if Allah didn't love

00:51:21 --> 00:51:25

you, he wouldn't have changed you. Subhanallah, if Allah didn't love

00:51:25 --> 00:51:27

you, he wouldn't have put that in you, he wouldn't have guided you

00:51:27 --> 00:51:29

back. So

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what is it for us to do? Well, you have to repay that love with love.

00:51:35 --> 00:51:37

You have to repay that love with love. You can see, you see all

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

these sign that Allah love will repay that love with love,

00:51:41 --> 00:51:44

and you do that with the Vic, and you again, you do it with vicar of

00:51:44 --> 00:51:47

Allah, and you obey Allah and, and that's, that's what Shukr is like,

00:51:47 --> 00:51:50

like, gratitude is a huge part of this. Gratitude is a huge part of

00:51:50 --> 00:51:52

this, right? Because Allah says in sort of Ibrahim, Izzy, then,

00:51:53 --> 00:51:56

right? If you're grateful, I will increase you and great and

00:51:56 --> 00:52:03

gratitude. Gratitude is not just on the tongue Sasha law, but it is

00:52:03 --> 00:52:06

that you use every single blessing that Allah has given you to please

00:52:06 --> 00:52:08

Him. You take every single blessing Allah has given you to

00:52:08 --> 00:52:10

please Him. So Allah giving you to sight. Well, use that to please

00:52:10 --> 00:52:13

Allah. Use that to look at Allah is pleased with. Use that to look

00:52:13 --> 00:52:16

at the Quran, to look at the books of in to look at the other

00:52:16 --> 00:52:18

righteous to spend time with, with the rights people. Use that. Use

00:52:18 --> 00:52:21

it for that. The same with your ears, same with your ears, same

00:52:21 --> 00:52:23

with your mouth, whatever it is, whatever blessing Allah has given

00:52:24 --> 00:52:29

you, use that to please Allah. Use it for Allah is pleased with so

00:52:29 --> 00:52:31

all of these things

00:52:32 --> 00:52:36

will remove this anxiety, because you have to remember, you have to

00:52:36 --> 00:52:39

remember that it's Allah who's control of this, right? That's

00:52:39 --> 00:52:41

like, I think we mentioned this one, that one on our previous

00:52:41 --> 00:52:43

podcast we talked about this. Talked about this, you know, that

00:52:43 --> 00:52:46

lady, I mentioned, that American lady who was reading the Quran,

00:52:46 --> 00:52:48

right? She wasn't a Muslim. She's a blonde haired, blue eyed

00:52:48 --> 00:52:51

American lady, she was reading the Quran, and she said, She's, she's

00:52:51 --> 00:52:53

finding cures for anxiety in the Quran. And she said, yeah, people

00:52:53 --> 00:52:56

always tell me when I'm anxious, you know, let it go. Just let it

00:52:56 --> 00:52:59

go. Just let it go. But then I read the Quran, and I read and I

00:52:59 --> 00:53:03

realized, wait a second, how can I let it go when I never, when I

00:53:03 --> 00:53:06

never held it in the first place upon all right? Well, Allah is

00:53:06 --> 00:53:10

holding it all along. Tabonica Levi,

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right, blessed. Is Allah? Is it's his hands of the Dominion. It's

00:53:15 --> 00:53:20

not us, right? Human beings, we get a bit we get a bit too, we get

00:53:20 --> 00:53:24

a bit too presumptuous about our own, our own powers, our own need,

00:53:24 --> 00:53:27

or how important we are, right? It's like, I remember reading

00:53:27 --> 00:53:31

about, you know, there was, there was some, some Aboriginal people,

00:53:31 --> 00:53:34

and they had this belief, they had, they had this belief that it

00:53:34 --> 00:53:36

was their job to guide the sun through the sky

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so they wake up in the morning be like this. No, it's the sun's

00:53:43 --> 00:53:48

gonna move regardless of what you do. So you have to, you have to

00:53:48 --> 00:53:51

submit, yeah, you have to give in to realize something, what's,

00:53:51 --> 00:53:54

what's the point of being anxious? It's not, it's not, it's not going

00:53:54 --> 00:53:56

to do anything for you. And you also have to tell yourself, you

00:53:56 --> 00:54:01

also have to tell yourself that Allah knows what's good for you.

00:54:01 --> 00:54:04

Mm, hmm, right, Allah. Allah knows what you you think you know what's

00:54:04 --> 00:54:08

good, right? Like, like, again, sort of 216, maybe you love

00:54:08 --> 00:54:11

something that's bad for you. Maybe you dislike something and

00:54:11 --> 00:54:14

it's good for you. And you have to realize, you have to tell yourself

00:54:14 --> 00:54:16

that when something comes up and maybe causes you anxiety, maybe it

00:54:16 --> 00:54:19

causes you a problem, it makes you feel

00:54:20 --> 00:54:23

this worry or the stress, you have to tell yourself, there's a wisdom

00:54:23 --> 00:54:26

behind this. There's a wisdom behind and I can't see it now, but

00:54:26 --> 00:54:30

Allah will show me eventually. You tell yourself that, and it just

00:54:30 --> 00:54:32

works every time, it just works. Seriously, it just works every

00:54:32 --> 00:54:35

time. You just tell yourself there's a reason why this is

00:54:35 --> 00:54:39

happening. And then you can be okay. There's something I can't

00:54:39 --> 00:54:41

see, but you will see. You will see and you'll think a lot

00:54:41 --> 00:54:43

afterwards. That's a reason why.

00:54:45 --> 00:54:46

Yeah, and

00:54:48 --> 00:54:53

people, oftentimes, when you're told to let it go, it's actually

00:54:53 --> 00:54:58

better to think of where it came from, right? So when you say let

00:54:58 --> 00:54:59

it go, but it's better than.

00:55:00 --> 00:55:04

Where did it come from? Where it came from? Because letting it go

00:55:04 --> 00:55:06

sometimes may result in me not learning the lesson,

00:55:08 --> 00:55:10

right, but I gotta learn the lesson. So where did this

00:55:10 --> 00:55:12

tribulation originate from?

00:55:13 --> 00:55:16

It originated from the most wise. Therefore, there has to be

00:55:16 --> 00:55:20

something I learned out of every experience. So we were talking

00:55:20 --> 00:55:23

right before we brought you on, is the people who can figure out how

00:55:23 --> 00:55:30

to fail and keep going. That failure ability, it has to be

00:55:30 --> 00:55:33

rooted in some event. I mean, some people don't have a man, they're

00:55:33 --> 00:55:35

just naturally, they just fail and keep going.

00:55:36 --> 00:55:41

But every one of us can develop that if you rationally consider,

00:55:42 --> 00:55:45

where did this tribulation and failure come from? From the most

00:55:45 --> 00:55:48

wise, therefore there has to be a lesson here. So it's not a

00:55:48 --> 00:55:52

failure, it's a lesson. Yeah, that you reprogramming how you look at

00:55:53 --> 00:55:57

the thing. It's not I failed. No, I learned a lesson. The murk that

00:55:57 --> 00:56:01

Allah has, that I'm trying to seek, is always there, right? It's

00:56:01 --> 00:56:04

always going to be there. What the treasures I'm seeking of this

00:56:04 --> 00:56:08

life, or what have you, they're always there. There's not going to

00:56:08 --> 00:56:12

be any shortage. So, yeah, maybe I missed this bag of gold, but

00:56:12 --> 00:56:16

there's going to be another one later on, a bigger one, a better

00:56:16 --> 00:56:19

one. So I just got to learn the lesson. And you learn, you

00:56:19 --> 00:56:23

consider them as classes. Those are your classes with a lotta. Are

00:56:23 --> 00:56:26

your failures, because you're learning that I did something

00:56:26 --> 00:56:32

wrong. And there are a world of svab in this world, in this in the

00:56:32 --> 00:56:37

in our in our world, it's sveb certain things. If you click

00:56:37 --> 00:56:41

certain buttons, you will get results. And when I'm not getting

00:56:41 --> 00:56:44

results, is not clicking the right button. Right buttons. There's

00:56:45 --> 00:56:47

there are ways for to do everything, to memorize the Quran,

00:56:47 --> 00:56:48

there are techniques.

00:56:50 --> 00:56:53

And there's amount of time and effort that needs to be put place

00:56:53 --> 00:56:56

to to lose weight. There's time and effort that you just need to

00:56:56 --> 00:57:00

know the right thing. Allah hasn't created for us a mystery world

00:57:00 --> 00:57:04

where we can't achieve anything, no. Every single thing that Allah

00:57:04 --> 00:57:07

created in this world, he created a method to attain it,

00:57:08 --> 00:57:11

and it's just and our failures is just that we don't know the

00:57:11 --> 00:57:12

methods

00:57:13 --> 00:57:18

yet. We just hit click the wrong buttons. Those differences in

00:57:18 --> 00:57:19

perspective change everything.

00:57:21 --> 00:57:23

Yeah. Well, because, yeah, the train of change perspective.

00:57:23 --> 00:57:26

Because this is one things we covered as well. Because we were

00:57:26 --> 00:57:29

reading, we read a section from Imam and mukhema, Josiah, falad,

00:57:29 --> 00:57:32

right? Spiritual benefits, and he and he said he gives advice. He

00:57:32 --> 00:57:34

said you have to understand that every time

00:57:35 --> 00:57:39

Allah shuts a door out of his hekma, right? Because, again, like

00:57:39 --> 00:57:42

he said he's all wise, right? He shots around his hekma. He will

00:57:42 --> 00:57:45

open another one out of His mercy, another one of his mercy. And that

00:57:45 --> 00:57:48

and that, that will be enfam, it'll be more beneficial, be more

00:57:48 --> 00:57:50

beneficial. And that's, that's, that's what they call Imam, who

00:57:50 --> 00:57:52

talks about this in the book, that's what's, that's the

00:57:52 --> 00:57:55

cognitive therapy. Surprise, there's the cognitive therapy and

00:57:55 --> 00:57:57

there's the behavioral therapy. Now the cognitive so you have to

00:57:57 --> 00:58:00

understand, again, like you were saying that you have to understand

00:58:00 --> 00:58:03

that Allah is all wise. There's a system in place. You have to

00:58:03 --> 00:58:09

adjust to the system. You have to learn this. What

00:58:12 --> 00:58:18

a system is. You understand this, this, this generation, okay, I

00:58:18 --> 00:58:19

don't know. And

00:58:21 --> 00:58:24

someone recently, people have been saying that America's greatest

00:58:24 --> 00:58:25

export is anxiety.

00:58:26 --> 00:58:29

And not only that, America's also

00:58:30 --> 00:58:34

is the first nation and the first civilization to celebrate anxiety.

00:58:35 --> 00:58:40

And if you notice people today do celebrate their diagnosis, yeah,

00:58:40 --> 00:58:43

right? Depression, too, where they go around saying it as if it's

00:58:43 --> 00:58:47

like a pet that they own, yeah, it's a fetish, huh? It's like

00:58:47 --> 00:58:50

fetish. It's like a Yeah, it's like, you're in the cool club.

00:58:50 --> 00:58:53

Now, if you if you can say you're depressed or you're anxious, I was

00:58:53 --> 00:58:58

with Leonard Sachs the other day, and he said that the language for

00:58:58 --> 00:59:03

for healthy things has been altered. And he said that if you

00:59:03 --> 00:59:06

think and judge things normally as a regular, healthy person would

00:59:06 --> 00:59:11

do, they call you neurotypical, right? Typical is a terrible word,

00:59:12 --> 00:59:15

right? It's shown that there's nothing really great about it,

00:59:15 --> 00:59:20

right? But he said that who came up with that word? Right? It

00:59:20 --> 00:59:24

should be a description of health, right? You are actually healthy.

00:59:24 --> 00:59:27

You actually have a lot of great qualities when you have this, but

00:59:27 --> 00:59:31

they call it neurotypical, and it makes people feel, Oh, I'm just a

00:59:31 --> 00:59:35

regular run of the mill person, right? Well, who then is the

00:59:35 --> 00:59:39

special person? Right? Like the divergent, that's a wonderful

00:59:40 --> 00:59:42

word. You're full of diversity, like you're divergent. Your

00:59:42 --> 00:59:45

background is divergent. You're part Russian, you're part you

00:59:45 --> 00:59:50

lived in Canada, you lived you speak Arabic. You have diversity,

00:59:50 --> 00:59:55

right? And you diverge from the norm that shows you have courage.

00:59:55 --> 00:59:59

So it's like taking these, these things that in any other era and

00:59:59 --> 00:59:59

any other society.

01:00:00 --> 01:00:05

Would have been deemed sort of flaws in a person that you need to

01:00:05 --> 01:00:09

fix these things, and it's celebrating them, and then taking

01:00:09 --> 01:00:13

that which is healthy, that which is good. Imagine you looked at a

01:00:13 --> 01:00:15

you, you, you labeled a body of a guy who's got,

01:00:17 --> 01:00:18

like, 1% body fat,

01:00:20 --> 01:00:22

and he goes to the gym every day.

01:00:23 --> 01:00:27

He and his body's perfect. And we call that a typical physique,

01:00:28 --> 01:00:33

right? When it doesn't make any sense, that's actually the ideal,

01:00:33 --> 01:00:37

right? That's ideal to shoot for. Should be at least 7% body fat. 7%

01:00:37 --> 01:00:41

body fat. What's the number seven? Or seven? If you want to be like,

01:00:41 --> 01:00:44

super, like, super, super fit, healthy people have about seven to

01:00:44 --> 01:00:50

8% body fat, seven to 8% maybe 10 1% would be like, I worry, yeah.

01:00:52 --> 01:00:59

So you see here the US culture is producing anxiety and because of

01:00:59 --> 01:01:03

our hubris, or maybe our arrogance, or maybe our

01:01:03 --> 01:01:06

confidence, we decided we're celebrating this anxiety.

01:01:08 --> 01:01:12

Are we salesmen? Are we selling everything now? Are we at at every

01:01:12 --> 01:01:14

turn, selling ourselves that

01:01:15 --> 01:01:18

this and I'm proud of it? Are we going to be proud of everything,

01:01:18 --> 01:01:23

right? So we're such a proud country and confident. Confidence,

01:01:23 --> 01:01:26

they say, is America's greatest attribute. It used to be like we

01:01:26 --> 01:01:29

can manufacture we're good at management, confidence eventually,

01:01:29 --> 01:01:34

but confident in what, proud of what. And we're now proud of

01:01:34 --> 01:01:38

anxiety, and we're proud of depression. And we, we sort of

01:01:38 --> 01:01:42

speak so freely about these things, but also, we're also

01:01:42 --> 01:01:46

basically saying it's merely genetic, and it's there's nothing

01:01:46 --> 01:01:50

of environment or action or behavior that's caused this, and

01:01:50 --> 01:01:53

that's really you're misguiding people to stay into this. You're

01:01:53 --> 01:01:56

going to stay in like that as long as

01:01:57 --> 01:02:00

you said it earlier. Yeah, it's disempowering. You said it

01:02:00 --> 01:02:05

earlier, but it's also taking no responsibility. And you said

01:02:05 --> 01:02:09

earlier anxiety is in the heart. Is not it's not to be cured

01:02:09 --> 01:02:13

through the body, right? It's like my if I have an infection in my

01:02:13 --> 01:02:16

iPhone, I don't treat my iPad, right?

01:02:17 --> 01:02:20

It's if it's in the heart, you need to treat the heart and not

01:02:20 --> 01:02:24

treat the body. So talk to us a little bit about human desire and

01:02:24 --> 01:02:27

the and the pushing off anxiety into a mere

01:02:28 --> 01:02:33

chemical or a mere physical ailment. Okay,

01:02:35 --> 01:02:39

so what this boils down to, and again, what you just said before,

01:02:39 --> 01:02:41

about how the inversion of reality, the inversion of

01:02:41 --> 01:02:42

language,

01:02:43 --> 01:02:46

I would love to quote here this point, because this ties in for

01:02:46 --> 01:02:50

what we were saying is, this is a video that was from a chef Yusuf

01:02:50 --> 01:02:53

government did a few years ago after the world where he pointed

01:02:53 --> 01:02:56

out, he said, one of the things that happened nowadays is that

01:02:56 --> 01:03:00

people have this can't come from the West, especially, people have

01:03:00 --> 01:03:04

linked happiness with gratification, right? They've made

01:03:04 --> 01:03:08

people think that the gratification of desires is the

01:03:08 --> 01:03:12

same thing as happiness. You give into your desires. You give into

01:03:12 --> 01:03:16

your your shahaat and your aha, that's where happiness lies. Yeah,

01:03:16 --> 01:03:19

this is completely, totally false. And he says, because we have two

01:03:19 --> 01:03:23

different words in Arabic, we have muta, and it's two different

01:03:23 --> 01:03:27

things, and so, so he said that if you, if you sleep through Fajr,

01:03:27 --> 01:03:29

that's muta, right? Full night's sleep, and you, and you get up

01:03:29 --> 01:03:32

whenever you want, and you have a big fat breakfast or whatever,

01:03:32 --> 01:03:37

like, Fine, that's muta. But this, your side is in Fajr. Your side is

01:03:37 --> 01:03:40

in getting up and praying and praying and worshiping Allah, and

01:03:40 --> 01:03:43

that will give you energy for your soul. That's, that's what should

01:03:43 --> 01:03:46

happen in life. So people have fallen for this trap where they

01:03:46 --> 01:03:50

think gratification is the same as now, but we have to pull this

01:03:50 --> 01:03:53

back. So pull this back. Look at the bigger picture, right? Again,

01:03:53 --> 01:03:56

we're talking about the nature of your heart, and we have to talk

01:03:56 --> 01:03:58

about your rule, because we're talking about, like, the nuffs,

01:03:59 --> 01:04:02

right? Psychology, the nuts, the rule. And this, again, goes back

01:04:02 --> 01:04:05

to the main thrust of the book, and it's in the appendix as well,

01:04:05 --> 01:04:10

is the fact that the human being like who the human being is, the

01:04:10 --> 01:04:13

fact that the human being is a rule and adjusted, and you are a

01:04:13 --> 01:04:18

rule before you are just it, and you, as a spirit, are a rule. You

01:04:18 --> 01:04:22

were once in the Presence of Allah, and that Rafael 172 right

01:04:22 --> 01:04:25

when Allah said, Allah, Be Cool, called the badass. And then

01:04:26 --> 01:04:29

everyone, everyone testified, anyone, everyone admitted to that,

01:04:29 --> 01:04:30

anyone agreed to that?

01:04:31 --> 01:04:34

And then after that, you were put in a body. You're put in this

01:04:34 --> 01:04:37

earth. What does this mean? It means that your rule

01:04:38 --> 01:04:42

is forever yearning for that moment again, your rule is always,

01:04:42 --> 01:04:45

always, always yearning to be back with Allah, because your rule

01:04:45 --> 01:04:47

remembers this now your and your rule will remind you, because you

01:04:47 --> 01:04:50

also, you don't have a memory in terms of, like, what you saw, what

01:04:50 --> 01:04:53

you heard, because you were, you were a body, then your memory is

01:04:53 --> 01:04:55

based on what you see, when you hear, and that's from your eyes

01:04:55 --> 01:04:58

and your ears, which doesn't exist somehow your but your rule

01:04:58 --> 01:04:59

remembers, and your rule will.

01:05:00 --> 01:05:04

Find you when it sees a wide open space, when it sees a huge

01:05:04 --> 01:05:07

mountain range, or an ocean or a big forest or whatever it is,

01:05:08 --> 01:05:10

when, when the eye can see wherever, as far as the eye can

01:05:10 --> 01:05:14

see, the rule feels happy. We actually call that English. We

01:05:14 --> 01:05:17

call it spiritually uplifting, right? That's why I tell people,

01:05:17 --> 01:05:20

like, if you go on Google, look up spiritual retreat. I don't care

01:05:20 --> 01:05:24

who's doing it could be Muslims, Jews, Christians, Rastafarians,

01:05:24 --> 01:05:26

Pastafarians, whoever it is, right? Whoever it is, it's going

01:05:26 --> 01:05:29

to be outside somewhere. It's going to be in the countryside,

01:05:29 --> 01:05:31

suppose, right? It's not going to be in a supermarket, it's not

01:05:31 --> 01:05:34

going to be in a car park, it's not going to be in an airport

01:05:34 --> 01:05:36

terminal. It's going to be somewhere outside in nature,

01:05:36 --> 01:05:39

because this is where your rule feels this way, your rule feels

01:05:39 --> 01:05:42

happy, and because your rule will look at that site, right? The eyes

01:05:42 --> 01:05:45

are willing to the soul this English, your rule will look out

01:05:45 --> 01:05:48

and see that and say, When am I going to go back to Allah? When am

01:05:48 --> 01:05:52

I going to be free? So what I'm getting at is that, because of

01:05:52 --> 01:05:57

that reality, your rule, and essentially you, you will always,

01:05:57 --> 01:05:59

always feel, no matter how good things are in life, you will

01:05:59 --> 01:06:01

always feel that something's missing. You always feel that

01:06:01 --> 01:06:03

something's missing, right, no matter how good things are, right?

01:06:03 --> 01:06:06

No matter how much money you have, or how comfortable you have, or

01:06:06 --> 01:06:08

how wonderful your wife or your spouse or your kids are, you're

01:06:08 --> 01:06:10

always going to feel that something's missing and you're and

01:06:10 --> 01:06:13

you're going to try to fill that gap, right? This what he talked

01:06:13 --> 01:06:16

about the book, he says, so people will try to try to fix that void,

01:06:17 --> 01:06:20

and therefore they will try to go into pleasures, right? That's why

01:06:20 --> 01:06:22

people will distract themselves with

01:06:24 --> 01:06:27

all kinds of sinful behavior and so on so forth. But this is the

01:06:27 --> 01:06:30

wrong way to do it, because number one we get, what you have to

01:06:30 --> 01:06:34

understand is that this pain, this ache, this yearning for Allah,

01:06:35 --> 01:06:37

will never go away until you go back to Allah, just

01:06:38 --> 01:06:41

the just the same way you miss any human being. The pain that you

01:06:41 --> 01:06:43

feel you miss on human being will never go into actually, with that

01:06:43 --> 01:06:48

person again. So what do you do? You go back to the vicar of Allah.

01:06:48 --> 01:06:50

That's what you you can't remove that pain, but you can mitigate

01:06:50 --> 01:06:53

it. You can mitigate you can lessen it. Why? Through the vicar

01:06:53 --> 01:06:55

of Allah, in the same way that when you miss someone, when you

01:06:55 --> 01:06:58

miss a human being, you can call that person, you can talk to that

01:06:58 --> 01:07:01

person. You can do zoom, call that preservatives, that preservatives,

01:07:01 --> 01:07:03

that mitigates the pain, but the pain is never removed until you go

01:07:03 --> 01:07:08

back to action with that person again. So this is where people

01:07:08 --> 01:07:11

have to realize that fulfilling desires and so forth is not going

01:07:11 --> 01:07:13

to make you happy. Gratifying your desires is not gonna make you

01:07:13 --> 01:07:16

happy at all. It's not gonna relieve anxiety. It's not gonna do

01:07:16 --> 01:07:18

anything. It's just, it's just gonna you're putting a band aid

01:07:18 --> 01:07:21

over over a wound, over an open,

01:07:22 --> 01:07:27

seriously, open wound. So we have metaphor here, but our American

01:07:27 --> 01:07:31

culture is literally led by Satan when everything is telling you,

01:07:31 --> 01:07:36

all you have to do is go for pleasures. Yeah, right. That's all

01:07:36 --> 01:07:38

you have to go for. It's all you have to worry about pleasures.

01:07:38 --> 01:07:42

Now, this is a culture literally led by Satan. And

01:07:43 --> 01:07:48

I think people, the more exposed they are to American pop culture,

01:07:48 --> 01:07:52

the more miserable they get, right? And the more exposed they

01:07:52 --> 01:07:56

are to nature, the happier they get, yeah, and nature by itself.

01:07:56 --> 01:08:01

There is a earthly spirituality, and nature being one of it, right,

01:08:01 --> 01:08:04

creation, just being out in creation, if there, if you took a

01:08:04 --> 01:08:07

bunch of people, put them out in nature, in a camp, without any

01:08:07 --> 01:08:11

religious instruction or spiritual practice,

01:08:12 --> 01:08:15

they're guaranteed be 10 times better than if he was like in a

01:08:15 --> 01:08:19

city for that same period of time. Now, imagine he was given nature

01:08:19 --> 01:08:23

and he was given a moderate amount of spiritual practice. Meaning

01:08:23 --> 01:08:27

with it in the day, five prayer in the morning, five prayers a day,

01:08:28 --> 01:08:31

short widow at night, right? 20 minutes they could hear. 20

01:08:31 --> 01:08:34

minutes they could they're moderate. A person will be through

01:08:34 --> 01:08:39

the roof in two weeks and take away his phone, except for half

01:08:39 --> 01:08:43

hour in the middle of the day, not at night or in the morning, half

01:08:43 --> 01:08:46

hour to call your parents in the middle of the day. I really want

01:08:46 --> 01:08:47

to do a camp like that.

01:08:48 --> 01:08:51

Yeah, there's not going to be much structure, not a hyper structured

01:08:51 --> 01:08:56

over schedule camp. Yeah, the camp will be basically here we are, or

01:08:56 --> 01:08:59

we have the prayers. We have a widget in the morning. We have a

01:08:59 --> 01:09:04

widget at night, small, short, here in in each one, very short,

01:09:04 --> 01:09:06

maximum 30 minutes, the whole thing,

01:09:08 --> 01:09:10

can I see something? Yeah, I would

01:09:11 --> 01:09:13

say, I would say, I've had discussion with some people

01:09:13 --> 01:09:15

recently with an interesting point. I said, don't, don't call

01:09:15 --> 01:09:20

it a retreat, yeah, what do you call it? Because if we, if we

01:09:20 --> 01:09:23

treat too much where we didn't go. Yeah, that's true. Call it, called

01:09:23 --> 01:09:26

it in advance, in advance. Yeah,

01:09:27 --> 01:09:31

something? It has to do some with the fitra, right? Yeah, well, it's

01:09:31 --> 01:09:35

something, it's moving towards a law, right? Because we're, I think

01:09:35 --> 01:09:38

we retreat like we borrow that world that we're losing. Yeah,

01:09:38 --> 01:09:41

it's not that you're losing. You're running away from

01:09:41 --> 01:09:43

something. We're not running away from anything. Running away from

01:09:43 --> 01:09:45

anything, because, again, we're not, we're not monks, right? We

01:09:45 --> 01:09:48

don't, we don't live outside the world. We don't live in caves and

01:09:48 --> 01:09:52

so, right? But we would see it as as we you might want to call him

01:09:52 --> 01:09:55

actually, no, the meeting I the meeting I had when the brother

01:09:55 --> 01:09:57

said, No, call it a recharge or something like that. Yeah, it has

01:09:57 --> 01:09:59

to be something, if we had the man.

01:10:00 --> 01:10:04

Power, I would do a spiritual recharge in the spring break

01:10:04 --> 01:10:05

coming up this spring,

01:10:06 --> 01:10:10

right? If we have the manpower of the the and it's not hyper

01:10:10 --> 01:10:14

scheduled, you just take it to a place that has a lot of hiking

01:10:14 --> 01:10:18

space, and telling you one of the diseases of the times is hyper

01:10:18 --> 01:10:22

scheduling, like you have to have something everywhere. Why? Let

01:10:22 --> 01:10:26

people discover their own thing, right? Let them come up with their

01:10:26 --> 01:10:29

own let them be bored for half an hour. They're gonna start throwing

01:10:29 --> 01:10:32

rocks at each other. In another half hour, it's gonna be a game,

01:10:32 --> 01:10:35

right? And there and then, within an hour, you're gonna have rules,

01:10:36 --> 01:10:40

right? And you have a winner and a loser by 30 minutes, right? I

01:10:40 --> 01:10:43

guarantee you, that's how it always was back in in our youth.

01:10:43 --> 01:10:47

That's how it always was, bored out of my mind. What's here? A

01:10:47 --> 01:10:50

piece of foil. You flick it at your brother, right?

01:10:51 --> 01:10:55

And then he flicks it back. Within 20 minutes, we have a new game,

01:10:55 --> 01:10:59

right? Yeah. And that's what's going to happen at these parks, if

01:10:59 --> 01:11:02

we have the manpower, we do this and then

01:11:03 --> 01:11:09

spring retreat and a recharge, spiritual recharge, with the goal

01:11:09 --> 01:11:13

of plucking the kid out of being attached to the cell phone and

01:11:13 --> 01:11:16

discovering life without it. You get it half hour a day, and you

01:11:16 --> 01:11:19

got to cook your own food. Yeah, you could take your car out to

01:11:21 --> 01:11:24

the city again. Buy the food, grill it,

01:11:25 --> 01:11:28

I think it. We need to do this every spring break. And whoever

01:11:28 --> 01:11:32

can come can come four days. I would do if you did it for two

01:11:32 --> 01:11:36

weeks in the summertime, people would be completely reformed,

01:11:36 --> 01:11:39

right? Completely reformed. But you have to pick the right place

01:11:39 --> 01:11:44

that's got filled with streams, waterfalls, hikes, but is also

01:11:44 --> 01:11:47

close to a highway where you can get supplies from the supermarket,

01:11:47 --> 01:11:51

food, etc. Yeah, yeah, no, absolutely, no, absolutely, I've

01:11:51 --> 01:11:54

done support that idea, and you'd have to have, yeah, just as long

01:11:54 --> 01:11:56

as you have, like, a big view, yeah, there's a big view that

01:11:56 --> 01:11:59

people can see, like, countryside, mountains, big ocean, something

01:11:59 --> 01:12:03

that they can just gaze at and just feel and just sort of like

01:12:03 --> 01:12:08

you just lose themselves in just, yeah, wow. You know, Are we near

01:12:08 --> 01:12:11

to the point that healthy societies and families and schools

01:12:11 --> 01:12:14

should have mandatory nature time?

01:12:16 --> 01:12:19

Probably like, why do we have mandatory vaccines? Why do we have

01:12:19 --> 01:12:23

mandatory TB test, flu shots, mandatory for your there's money

01:12:23 --> 01:12:27

in it. There's money in it. Why it's for your lot of money in

01:12:27 --> 01:12:28

nature trips, yeah,

01:12:29 --> 01:12:34

but we did schools in these places, we needed mandatory nature

01:12:34 --> 01:12:40

exposure, right where you just you, you get 23 and a half hours a

01:12:40 --> 01:12:41

day without your device,

01:12:43 --> 01:12:47

and you're just out in nature. Do what you do, cook food, run races,

01:12:47 --> 01:12:51

as long as you pray your prayers a little thicker, here and there,

01:12:51 --> 01:12:53

little mo either here and there, figure yourself out after that.

01:12:53 --> 01:12:58

Hike, walk, run, kick a ball, throw a ball, swim across a lake,

01:13:00 --> 01:13:02

wrestle each other, all that stuff.

01:13:05 --> 01:13:08

I think it's, it should be mandatory, really think about it.

01:13:08 --> 01:13:13

Yeah, yeah. I'm just remembering my child is I used to, I used to.

01:13:13 --> 01:13:16

I grew up in in the Toronto area, but I my,

01:13:17 --> 01:13:21

my grandparents had, they had, like, a, like a cottage in Quebec,

01:13:21 --> 01:13:24

in the Laurentian mountains, yeah, like, just on big lake. It's just

01:13:24 --> 01:13:27

us always just mountains in a lake. And you just used to go

01:13:27 --> 01:13:29

there, like, every year. That's amazing. That was just so

01:13:29 --> 01:13:33

soothing, because, again, you're just nowhere near Montreal,

01:13:33 --> 01:13:36

supposing, near Montreal, but not really near Montreal. I mean, near

01:13:36 --> 01:13:39

places, some town called San Seville, but that it was just,

01:13:40 --> 01:13:42

yeah, that's, that's why I remember I'm chair from my

01:13:42 --> 01:13:45

channel. Be outside somewhere. I used to go to England as well. I

01:13:45 --> 01:13:48

used to spend time in England, in the southwest of England, and

01:13:48 --> 01:13:50

counting doors again, which is just greenery. So there's lots and

01:13:50 --> 01:13:53

lots of greenery countryside. And I don't think people

01:13:54 --> 01:13:57

get that. They're just, you know, it's like one of my friends said

01:13:57 --> 01:14:01

to me. He said, You know, if your kid, if your kids are just

01:14:01 --> 01:14:03

stamped, you know, spend their whole time in the city, they'll

01:14:03 --> 01:14:06

grow to be as hard as the concrete. Totally true. Totally

01:14:06 --> 01:14:09

true, right? They're just not gonna, yeah, totally true. And

01:14:09 --> 01:14:11

then they won't, and then they won't know, hey, here's an

01:14:11 --> 01:14:15

example, right? I'm gonna say this on the other side of the pond.

01:14:15 --> 01:14:18

Yeah, folks, I'm funny, but isn't, isn't it true? Because, because

01:14:18 --> 01:14:20

people in the US are so detached from nature, apparently,

01:14:20 --> 01:14:23

apparently, and brother, Omar, you can look this up and Google right

01:14:23 --> 01:14:28

now, apparently, 7% of people in the United States, or 7% of

01:14:28 --> 01:14:32

American adults, believe that chocolate milk comes from Brown

01:14:32 --> 01:14:36

cows. That's insane. Man. That what? Listen the new generation.

01:14:36 --> 01:14:39

You never know, though, you literally never know. There's

01:14:39 --> 01:14:43

always looking up now, Omar, is he looking up. Depressing here, here

01:14:43 --> 01:14:47

it is led Bible, which is the, I don't know why they're talking

01:14:47 --> 01:14:50

about this, but which is Latter Day Saints,

01:14:51 --> 01:14:57

depressingly, 7% of the country actually total to a whopping 16

01:14:57 --> 01:14:59

point 4 million. They believe. Chuck.

01:15:00 --> 01:15:03

Milk isn't made by cocoa, sugar and milk, but comes straight out

01:15:03 --> 01:15:06

of the udder of brown cows.

01:15:08 --> 01:15:12

You know, 25% of the country at one point. At one point, 25 didn't

01:15:12 --> 01:15:17

believe that the Connecticut Newtown shootings happened Sandy

01:15:17 --> 01:15:21

Hook, or Sandy Hook. I mean, 25% of the country that goes to show

01:15:21 --> 01:15:24

you that when stuff gets out there, it sticks.

01:15:25 --> 01:15:27

And you think how crazy it is, but it sticks with people, and then

01:15:27 --> 01:15:28

they repeat it

01:15:29 --> 01:15:30

insane.

01:15:31 --> 01:15:34

Well, check this out. Let's go to the Toronto

01:15:36 --> 01:15:39

posters. Omar and Sheik matthi. Can talk about them.

01:15:40 --> 01:15:44

The you're going to Toronto for a Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday

01:15:44 --> 01:15:44

tour, correct?

01:15:46 --> 01:15:49

Yeah, and then, and then another Friday after that as well. So I'm

01:15:49 --> 01:15:53

going to be in Toronto for 11 days. So 11 days in Toronto.

01:15:53 --> 01:15:57

Shekamati will be in Toronto for 11 days. Ladies and gentlemen,

01:15:57 --> 01:16:00

take advantage of this. Let's listen to what he's going to tell

01:16:00 --> 01:16:04

us, because he's this subject that he's talking about, is what he's

01:16:04 --> 01:16:09

going to be discussing, yeah, in two events. Yeah. So, so I get

01:16:09 --> 01:16:13

there in Shawn, Tuesday, 27th and then so the events we have lined

01:16:13 --> 01:16:16

up, because I'm also going to see my my parents. I had to make

01:16:16 --> 01:16:20

family parents. Yeah? Mashallah, so I've got

01:16:21 --> 01:16:24

Thursday, the 27th is this going to be the University of Toronto,

01:16:24 --> 01:16:28

the Mississauga branch. Uh, so that's one talk that's actually

01:16:28 --> 01:16:31

been taught for the youth that's actually going to be focused on

01:16:31 --> 01:16:34

dealing with the issues of Generation Z, even though I think

01:16:34 --> 01:16:36

we're generation alpha now, but they're University College,

01:16:36 --> 01:16:40

they're not in college yet. Z is okay, yeah. So they're accurate

01:16:40 --> 01:16:42

about that? Yeah, thank you for clarifying that. Thank you,

01:16:42 --> 01:16:44

because I've been following this something like, yeah, okay,

01:16:45 --> 01:16:48

they're the university translation of best. So we're, we're doing a

01:16:48 --> 01:16:50

talk about that, issues that deal with Generation Z, and I'll be

01:16:50 --> 01:16:53

referencing Imam Bolte, his book Islam, problems of the youth

01:16:54 --> 01:16:55

papers, volume five.

01:16:57 --> 01:16:58

Then the Friday,

01:16:59 --> 01:17:02

I think the armor got a foot, but at one of the machines in

01:17:02 --> 01:17:06

Brampton, world. Be staying. I think it's the Great Lakes

01:17:06 --> 01:17:09

message. It's called, so that's the hook. But and then again, in

01:17:09 --> 01:17:12

the evening, Friday evening, around five o'clock, we'll also be

01:17:12 --> 01:17:16

at, back at the University of Toronto, Mississauga, discussing

01:17:16 --> 01:17:19

doing a program on healing with the Quran. Again, what we've been

01:17:19 --> 01:17:24

talking about today going on depression anxiety, and aiming

01:17:24 --> 01:17:26

towards depression anxiety students go through and the

01:17:26 --> 01:17:28

pressure that they go through and so forth, and what they can

01:17:28 --> 01:17:31

expect. And I've been telling people, I've been telling people

01:17:31 --> 01:17:33

part of the promotion, I've been telling people to look at the

01:17:33 --> 01:17:36

podcast that you and I did a year ago. If you remember when you were

01:17:36 --> 01:17:40

in the UK, when we were Bradford University, that was critical.

01:17:40 --> 01:17:43

That was critical. That was critical, yeah? Mashallah, doing

01:17:43 --> 01:17:46

this? Yeah, yeah, Mashallah. So I've shared that with a few people

01:17:46 --> 01:17:47

to

01:17:48 --> 01:17:52

have a look in IDEA. And then, and on the Sunday, back at the Great

01:17:52 --> 01:17:55

Lakes, Master again, doing like a longer sort of program, like over

01:17:55 --> 01:17:59

three or three hours at least, I think, on again, healing with the

01:17:59 --> 01:17:59

Quran

01:18:02 --> 01:18:04

being a bit more depth. I'll be in a masjid, as opposed to a

01:18:04 --> 01:18:07

university lecture theater on the Sunday, but that's September 1.

01:18:08 --> 01:18:12

And then I have another hotma lined up for the Friday Masjid. I

01:18:12 --> 01:18:16

think Daniel Islam has called this in North York. That's another part

01:18:16 --> 01:18:18

of Toronto for the Friday. So that's the events we have lined

01:18:18 --> 01:18:19

up.

01:18:20 --> 01:18:23

If other things get added, I don't know, we'll see, um, I've had a

01:18:23 --> 01:18:26

few people in touch with me. I've had some of the Arabic students

01:18:26 --> 01:18:29

got in touch with music. I'll come over to the US going to Michigan.

01:18:29 --> 01:18:32

My schedule is, I'm trying to spend time, I'm trying to say, in

01:18:32 --> 01:18:35

the Toronto area, obviously, I want to be with my parents,

01:18:35 --> 01:18:39

obviously, and give them their whole But Hanna, that's where we

01:18:39 --> 01:18:43

have, as we all know, mashallah, mashallah, that's that's great.

01:18:43 --> 01:18:48

And who at U of T is really active there, putting these events

01:18:48 --> 01:18:48

together?

01:18:50 --> 01:18:53

Well, Hamden, it's a combination. Here's the interesting thing,

01:18:54 --> 01:18:57

Alhamdulillah, our team at artview, right? Mashallah, art

01:18:57 --> 01:19:00

view Arabic, but the overall artview program, a lot of our, a

01:19:00 --> 01:19:03

lot of our TAs are actually in Toronto, yeah. Oh, okay, that's

01:19:03 --> 01:19:08

who put it together. Excellent, excellent. So, so it's them and

01:19:08 --> 01:19:13

students. So you should have students in Toronto, yeah. So, so,

01:19:13 --> 01:19:15

so university, so there's, yeah, so, yeah. So our few students and

01:19:15 --> 01:19:20

our few TAs, there's, there's a whole number of them in Toronto

01:19:20 --> 01:19:23

area called, which is the Mississauga area where the

01:19:23 --> 01:19:26

University of Toronto branch is. And some of them, and they have

01:19:26 --> 01:19:29

contacted university so Hamilton, we were able to put a team

01:19:29 --> 01:19:33

together and and work these events out and martial art. It's it's

01:19:33 --> 01:19:37

worked out really well. It's worked really well. So far. That's

01:19:37 --> 01:19:41

great enough. So, so we're hoping for how many times you come to the

01:19:41 --> 01:19:41

States?

01:19:43 --> 01:19:44

Um,

01:19:45 --> 01:19:50

well, I came last year I or to the to North America. Well, I'm Hope.

01:19:50 --> 01:19:52

I'm hoping. I'm I made the NIA that I want to. I want to do at

01:19:52 --> 01:19:55

least an annual trip, because obviously I want to. I want to

01:19:55 --> 01:19:57

give my my parents their rights, and I want to be able to see my

01:19:57 --> 01:19:59

mom and come on with my family. I.

01:20:00 --> 01:20:03

So at least once a year, and to come to come to the Toronto area,

01:20:03 --> 01:20:06

that's that's my that's my intention. That's what I want to

01:20:06 --> 01:20:07

do, very good.

01:20:09 --> 01:20:13

Um, let's take one question from the audience here, why is it that

01:20:13 --> 01:20:18

Allah guides some people and not others? Pretty common theological

01:20:18 --> 01:20:21

question, but a very important one, because people look around

01:20:21 --> 01:20:25

and say, Why is some people guided? Some people not. It's it's

01:20:25 --> 01:20:28

bound to the choice that they take now. Now, this is interesting.

01:20:28 --> 01:20:32

This does, this does get there are some differences of opinion among

01:20:32 --> 01:20:36

the on the map about what this signifies. But the the verse that

01:20:36 --> 01:20:37

I quoted earlier

01:20:39 --> 01:20:41

from sofa aroth, Seventh Chapter, verse 172

01:20:42 --> 01:20:45

where Allah gathered all humanity and said, Allah to be Rabbi

01:20:45 --> 01:20:46

kumbalu, Bala shahidna,

01:20:50 --> 01:20:53

Imam Al Jo right, the bighamli scholar in his tafsir of that

01:20:53 --> 01:20:57

ayah, he says that some people meant it and some people did it

01:20:57 --> 01:21:01

right. So everyone said Bala shahidna, but not everyone said it

01:21:01 --> 01:21:04

was sincerity, and then and then that, that's when the decision was

01:21:04 --> 01:21:09

made, and then that's what plays out in this world. Now, this what

01:21:09 --> 01:21:12

what happens after that is we have to have this discussion about,

01:21:12 --> 01:21:14

okay, what is and this is

01:21:15 --> 01:21:21

where there's a difference of opinion, what is the ruling on

01:21:22 --> 01:21:26

children of unbelievers who die, right? Are they believers of God?

01:21:26 --> 01:21:29

So the later, the latter day, ashradi and especially from like

01:21:29 --> 01:21:32

Imam and knowing, onward, they're going to, they're going to say

01:21:32 --> 01:21:35

they're forgiven, right? But Imam knowing, and I believe this

01:21:35 --> 01:21:38

Muslim, he said, but the majority position, and this goes back

01:21:38 --> 01:21:39

earlier generations,

01:21:40 --> 01:21:44

was that you don't know, right? We don't, we don't know. And then

01:21:44 --> 01:21:48

because, and they quote a hadith, and this is also mentioned by Imam

01:21:48 --> 01:21:50

jury in his book of Kitab Sharia, right? He's a fourth century

01:21:50 --> 01:21:55

scholar. Is a Hadith about how, with the mesh of law, Soul law,

01:21:55 --> 01:21:58

there's some to the fact of you don't know what they would have

01:21:58 --> 01:22:02

done had they lived, yes, right? So, so it's so, it's unknown

01:22:02 --> 01:22:05

thing. So what, what that all would entail, what that would all

01:22:05 --> 01:22:08

lead towards, again, is that that decision was made back before

01:22:08 --> 01:22:12

these people enter the world. That decision was made there then Allah

01:22:12 --> 01:22:16

SWT, some people meant it. Some people didn't. So it's not, it's

01:22:16 --> 01:22:21

not the case of Jabba. You don't believe the law is forced people

01:22:21 --> 01:22:21

to

01:22:23 --> 01:22:27

believe and not to believe. Is like that decision was made before

01:22:27 --> 01:22:30

these anyone came into this world, right and that, and that's why,

01:22:30 --> 01:22:32

when you and therefore when you understand that, when you

01:22:32 --> 01:22:35

understand that, you understand the laws most just and laws most

01:22:35 --> 01:22:39

wise, what you understand that is that we don't panic so much about

01:22:40 --> 01:22:43

people. Will they become Muslim? Will they not become Muslim?

01:22:43 --> 01:22:46

Right? Some people get really, like, anxious about the fact that

01:22:46 --> 01:22:49

they like, for example, someone, you might have, someone who's not

01:22:49 --> 01:22:53

a Muslim, and he shows interest in Islam that people, oh, I need to

01:22:53 --> 01:22:56

talk to him quickly. Again. Says, you had some listen, if it's meant

01:22:56 --> 01:23:01

to be, it's meant to be, right? I says menu, as soon as we, we

01:23:01 --> 01:23:04

don't, we don't have, you know, a Muslim storybook called, like, you

01:23:04 --> 01:23:05

know, the kafir that got away.

01:23:07 --> 01:23:10

It doesn't exist, right? He said to our fingers, like, no, if he's

01:23:10 --> 01:23:13

gonna become a Muslim, you'll become Muslim, if not, if not.

01:23:13 --> 01:23:18

Right? You know your duty. Your duty is, well, my abubin, right?

01:23:18 --> 01:23:22

Like you, you convey the message as clearly as you can, and then

01:23:22 --> 01:23:25

you leave it to Allah so you don't panic about this, and therefore,

01:23:25 --> 01:23:30

again, we don't stress about all these affairs. No, no, no, no.

01:23:31 --> 01:23:36

What Allah does is justice. What Allah does is the very definition

01:23:36 --> 01:23:40

of justice. There's, there's no standard that Allah has to, has to

01:23:40 --> 01:23:44

subscribe to or follow no Allah. What Allah does is the very

01:23:44 --> 01:23:47

definition of justice, and we trust from that. We trust him

01:23:47 --> 01:23:51

that. But again, people, individual Ottawa, individual

01:23:51 --> 01:23:55

Ottawa spirit, they made that decision, whether they themselves,

01:23:55 --> 01:23:59

then, yeah, ourself, yeah. So I'd like to add another thing too, is

01:23:59 --> 01:24:03

that Allah does guide everybody

01:24:04 --> 01:24:07

by sending them revelation from the sense of guidance, meaning

01:24:07 --> 01:24:12

pointing you to the truth, giving you another day to live the truth

01:24:12 --> 01:24:16

or to seek the truth. All that is a guidance that everyone receives.

01:24:17 --> 01:24:20

Now it's up to you to accept it or reject it, and for those who never

01:24:20 --> 01:24:22

received it, they're forgiven.

01:24:23 --> 01:24:27

They never received it, but if a person did receive it, that is

01:24:27 --> 01:24:31

Allah's guidance to everybody. Just like a a teacher says, I have

01:24:31 --> 01:24:35

office hours at this hour, you're in class, she's given the

01:24:35 --> 01:24:37

instruction, and having office hours, it's up to you to pay

01:24:37 --> 01:24:42

attention and to go to office hours when you fail, it's not she

01:24:42 --> 01:24:46

who failed you. She didn't force you to fail, right? That's how we

01:24:46 --> 01:24:51

should look at it. Allah, tada did guide everybody. He's to Web. One

01:24:51 --> 01:24:54

of the meanings of that is he gives you the opportunity to make

01:24:54 --> 01:24:57

Toba. He gives you the ability to say, it could have been one strike

01:24:57 --> 01:24:59

you're out. Imagine that. But he gives you the opportunity to make.

01:25:00 --> 01:25:04

Gives you another day to make Toba makes it easy for you. Toba is

01:25:04 --> 01:25:06

repentance. So that's an

01:25:07 --> 01:25:11

important question to answer and appreciate, yeah, just, but just

01:25:11 --> 01:25:14

to add to that, just to add to that is also the fact that, again,

01:25:14 --> 01:25:17

like Allah, Allah doesn't enforceably guide anyone. That's

01:25:17 --> 01:25:19

the thing that we want to be clear. Is that, again, I think if

01:25:19 --> 01:25:22

I made this before that, you know, the amount of proof, the proof

01:25:22 --> 01:25:25

that exists for laws, exists in the truth of Islamic skin, is just

01:25:25 --> 01:25:28

right. It's just the right amount, right? Anything less people have

01:25:28 --> 01:25:32

an excuse, anything more people would be coerced. Allah wants you

01:25:32 --> 01:25:36

to come to him lovingly and willingly so like you're saying

01:25:36 --> 01:25:38

that. So people be like they have, like you said. People have.

01:25:38 --> 01:25:41

There's enough there for people to draw their own conclusions. And

01:25:41 --> 01:25:43

it's so important, I've never heard anyone make this

01:25:43 --> 01:25:48

distinction, except you that that the there could be excess proof,

01:25:48 --> 01:25:51

then you'd never know who's telling the truth, who's doing it

01:25:51 --> 01:25:55

willingly, right? Yeah? Like, when there's just an it's not just

01:25:55 --> 01:26:00

coercion of physical force, it's the proofs and the indicators. If

01:26:00 --> 01:26:05

there was literally a voice from the sky say, I'm your Lord. I'm

01:26:05 --> 01:26:08

about to make it night. Click. It turns night now. It's

01:26:09 --> 01:26:12

Daydream now, or pray, both of them now, whatever. Yeah, then

01:26:12 --> 01:26:16

that would be a level of of proof that would be almost at the level

01:26:16 --> 01:26:20

of the the sun from the east, right? Yeah. Is because Can

01:26:20 --> 01:26:25

anyone, whether you like it or not, not admit, refuse to admit

01:26:25 --> 01:26:28

that the sunrise from the east. No one can refuse. So we don't know

01:26:28 --> 01:26:32

who's loving and who's not. There will be no love in that. Nobody

01:26:32 --> 01:26:35

says the sun rises from the east because they love it. It's a fact

01:26:35 --> 01:26:38

whether you like it or not. So therefore, by actually decreasing

01:26:38 --> 01:26:43

some of the Divine indicators of the Divine. Now it gives us the

01:26:43 --> 01:26:45

opportunity to search for them

01:26:46 --> 01:26:50

and to willingly accept it, right? So now we're showing love on top

01:26:50 --> 01:26:54

of that, when the dictates from this creator come down that are

01:26:54 --> 01:26:58

not to always our liking. So we always say Islam is the best way

01:26:58 --> 01:27:02

of living for you, yes, but it's also contains what you don't like.

01:27:03 --> 01:27:07

It contains something No, nobody likes. I mean, your nature is to

01:27:07 --> 01:27:12

look at the opposite gender. Your nature is to get males, men, men's

01:27:12 --> 01:27:15

attention with the beauty Allah gave you. Well, we're both

01:27:15 --> 01:27:18

genders. Are told, don't do this, right? We're all told things we

01:27:18 --> 01:27:24

can't do that, we want to do that gives us the chance to actually

01:27:24 --> 01:27:28

express love by doing something we don't want to do or avoiding

01:27:28 --> 01:27:31

something that we do want to do. So the presence of these things in

01:27:31 --> 01:27:35

our religion and in our deen are so important because they give you

01:27:35 --> 01:27:40

an opportunity to show love. Love cannot be shown when it's a one

01:27:40 --> 01:27:45

way street of success, victory and clarity all the time. And I think

01:27:45 --> 01:27:48

you're really one of the first people to mention that, and that's

01:27:48 --> 01:27:50

an important point to bring up when people say, well, where's the

01:27:50 --> 01:27:53

proof? Well, he's made it enough

01:27:54 --> 01:27:58

and not too much so that you have to look for it in the process of

01:27:58 --> 01:28:01

doing so, you may develop some love of God and show and take a

01:28:01 --> 01:28:04

leap for the sake of God. So that's

01:28:05 --> 01:28:08

extremely important here to separate between this knowledge

01:28:09 --> 01:28:12

and regular, demonstrable knowledge, like sun rising from

01:28:12 --> 01:28:14

these Do you have a question, young man? You have a young man

01:28:14 --> 01:28:15

here with a question? Speak pleasure.

01:28:27 --> 01:28:31

If someone becomes a Murta to Judaism, Christianity or paganism,

01:28:31 --> 01:28:31

it's all the same.

01:28:33 --> 01:28:35

Yeah, it's all the same. It's all right.

01:28:37 --> 01:28:42

All right. Closing comments. Sheik Madi, uh. Closing comments. So

01:28:42 --> 01:28:46

just, I just want to say, you mind if I, if I just plug argue Arabic

01:28:46 --> 01:28:50

a bit? Please do. Please do. Alright. So I just, I just wanted

01:28:50 --> 01:28:52

to announce a few milestones, Hamlet that we mentioned to

01:28:52 --> 01:28:55

achieve, because we've done just about a year now. Alhamdulillah.

01:28:57 --> 01:29:01

And so in in September, we're starting some new levels. And what

01:29:01 --> 01:29:04

we've just covered, Alhamdulillah, we've managed to do with the

01:29:04 --> 01:29:07

advanced class. We've done to talk to sunia bisha. We actually

01:29:07 --> 01:29:10

covered it, and then with the advanced class. And we're starting

01:29:10 --> 01:29:15

a book on SARF the man, and I've got it here. Gotta plug this.

01:29:16 --> 01:29:20

Very important. We're starting Dr Fauci Mara his book on South

01:29:20 --> 01:29:23

Animal Man, right? So it's not just the rulings, but the

01:29:23 --> 01:29:25

meanings, right? There's a lot of chronic exams in this book, so,

01:29:25 --> 01:29:28

and we're going to do this, and then it's for homework

01:29:28 --> 01:29:29

assignments. We're going to

01:29:30 --> 01:29:33

take Doctor Mustafa sivasi, babasir nebawi, and we're just

01:29:33 --> 01:29:36

going to add the reason, add the vowels. We do a paragraph every

01:29:36 --> 01:29:40

week for homework, and add the vowels because, again, now is the

01:29:40 --> 01:29:43

vowels at the end of the words. Soft is everything else. So we're

01:29:43 --> 01:29:46

going to do that. Inshallah, we just completed humbly last summer

01:29:46 --> 01:29:50

course on comparative Arabic English grammar, looking at parts

01:29:50 --> 01:29:54

of speech which was very well received. The students found it

01:29:54 --> 01:29:57

very beneficial. So we're moving humbly like so we've got about 50

01:29:57 --> 01:29:59

new students of the summer. Removed strength to strength. I.

01:30:00 --> 01:30:04

As if, yes. So please, please join us. And we're just adding more and

01:30:04 --> 01:30:09

more content and material every week. I believe we're building,

01:30:09 --> 01:30:13

we're building so so please come join us and join the RFI program

01:30:13 --> 01:30:17

as well. I'm teaching Shafiq as well. We're going to finish this

01:30:17 --> 01:30:21

soon, a volume one of a fifth and min * Inshallah, maybe within

01:30:21 --> 01:30:24

the next three, four months, then move on to volume two. Move on to

01:30:24 --> 01:30:27

volume two. So we're making progress. The students, I think

01:30:27 --> 01:30:31

they're benefiting. They're growing and yeah, so jump on board

01:30:31 --> 01:30:35

the ship. Very good, very good. Students are learning so much

01:30:35 --> 01:30:39

because the ship is invested. He's personally invested in you as a

01:30:39 --> 01:30:42

student. He is emotionally connected to the subject and to

01:30:42 --> 01:30:47

seeing students learn their Arabic, because, simply put, this

01:30:47 --> 01:30:50

is how he learned, and that's how he learned his dean. And he

01:30:50 --> 01:30:54

advanced in the Dean by studying Arabic, plowing through it. And

01:30:54 --> 01:30:56

he's got the techniques that that are going to help you, and trust

01:30:56 --> 01:31:00

me, I'm telling you, you will come out knowing how to read Arabic,

01:31:00 --> 01:31:03

how to read classical texts. When you finish with Sheik Mahdi for

01:31:03 --> 01:31:08

years, year one, year two, year three, you'll be reading sulthi.

01:31:08 --> 01:31:12

You'll be reading all of these books that we read now we you'll

01:31:12 --> 01:31:16

be reading, listening to Sheik booty's lectures online, directly,

01:31:16 --> 01:31:21

etc. So take it on. We'll be plugging this as we near into

01:31:21 --> 01:31:26

September, and our website at revamp is done, and our now, you

01:31:26 --> 01:31:29

know, basically, because of what you did with Arabic, how

01:31:29 --> 01:31:32

successful it was. We took, we did everything like that. Basically.

01:31:33 --> 01:31:37

We basically took Akida, for example, and we made, we're giving

01:31:37 --> 01:31:40

Akita to one teacher who who's passionate about it, Matic effect

01:31:40 --> 01:31:43

to one teacher who's passionate chef, Afiq to one teacher, and so

01:31:43 --> 01:31:46

on and so forth. So we actually did it with the other and we

01:31:46 --> 01:31:49

canceled the whole arc. V plus is being canceled. It's now just

01:31:49 --> 01:31:51

being all of that, and I'll be teaching essentials,

01:31:53 --> 01:31:57

which is the essential, me and my team of other teachers will be

01:31:57 --> 01:32:01

teaching the prerequisites of these things. Okay, yeah, so

01:32:01 --> 01:32:03

that's how we're going to roll now, you'll see the new website

01:32:03 --> 01:32:07

how it comes out. But basically it was inspired by the success that

01:32:07 --> 01:32:10

you had leading where we put it on one teacher rather than a

01:32:10 --> 01:32:13

curriculum, and you teach this, you teach this, you know, put the

01:32:13 --> 01:32:16

whole thing on one teacher and let those people be like his disciples

01:32:16 --> 01:32:19

in that subject. And that's exactly what's working. People

01:32:19 --> 01:32:23

love it, and the teachers in control of the whole thing, and

01:32:23 --> 01:32:26

that's what happens. So, JazakAllah, thank you for coming

01:32:26 --> 01:32:30

on. We will be seeing you again regularly. Sheik Mahdi lock is a

01:32:30 --> 01:32:34

regular guest on the nothing but facts live stream, always coming

01:32:34 --> 01:32:38

with many wisdoms coming with a lot of benefit. So JazakAllah, and

01:32:38 --> 01:32:42

may Allah give it to fiat in your trip in Toronto. Inshallah, it's

01:32:42 --> 01:32:46

going to be a great trip if you're there in Toronto. Mississauga, hop

01:32:46 --> 01:32:50

over there and attend these classes and these lectures. Does

01:32:50 --> 01:32:50

that

01:32:51 --> 01:32:54

allow it?

01:32:56 --> 01:33:00

All right? Well done. Yeah. Let's take a look at farI. Faria, a

01:33:00 --> 01:33:05

Siddiq. She says, Does having emotional outbursts mean that you

01:33:05 --> 01:33:09

failed the test that Allah gave you? It doesn't necessarily mean

01:33:09 --> 01:33:12

you failed, and I'll tell you why. It could be that you're just weak.

01:33:12 --> 01:33:19

What's the reason if you uttered words that insult Allah and His

01:33:19 --> 01:33:21

Messenger or question Allah's will?

01:33:23 --> 01:33:26

You question God's attribute. You're questioning God. Why is

01:33:26 --> 01:33:28

this? If you utter those words,

01:33:29 --> 01:33:31

then you must repent from that.

01:33:32 --> 01:33:37

But if you merely are suffering so badly, you have a little outburst,

01:33:37 --> 01:33:38

but you didn't say anything haram,

01:33:40 --> 01:33:46

you may be through something, just cried, screamed, yelled and

01:33:46 --> 01:33:47

complained.

01:33:48 --> 01:33:52

We don't say that you failed. You say that you're weak. There's a

01:33:52 --> 01:33:56

big difference between failing and being weak. Sinning and being is

01:33:56 --> 01:33:58

very sinful for someone. Say, what? How could Allah do this to

01:33:58 --> 01:34:01

me? Blah, blah, blah, all this Kufri words make repentance

01:34:01 --> 01:34:05

immediately, make wudu and make ustafar, but to merely have a

01:34:05 --> 01:34:10

breakdown and just be crying all day and yelling at anyone who's

01:34:10 --> 01:34:13

trying to talk to you and throwing things, that means that does but

01:34:13 --> 01:34:18

you didn't say anything of a Kufri nature, that simply means that

01:34:19 --> 01:34:24

you're weak, not that you don't have faith or you failed the test.

01:34:24 --> 01:34:27

This means you're weak. You need to strengthen yourself. Weakness

01:34:27 --> 01:34:29

is not something innocent that should be accepted.

01:34:31 --> 01:34:34

You should change your weakness. You should strengthen yourself.

01:34:34 --> 01:34:35

How? Remembering Allah

01:34:38 --> 01:34:42

Attila the Hun says, I'm confused. What was the justification on the

01:34:42 --> 01:34:46

early companions fighting other empires offensively, if it was to

01:34:46 --> 01:34:50

spread Islam, why do you have to fight them if they say no, and can

01:34:50 --> 01:34:53

Muslims do that today? They they went and they fought those

01:34:53 --> 01:34:57

governments that were misguiding their people. And

01:34:59 --> 01:34:59

that was a.

01:35:00 --> 01:35:00

Command of God,

01:35:02 --> 01:35:05

you have a government that's misguiding the people and is not

01:35:05 --> 01:35:09

ruling the land by God's law. They're they didn't fight those

01:35:09 --> 01:35:13

people and tell them to convert or steal their homes. Expansion are

01:35:13 --> 01:35:18

not all the same. Some expansion comes a with a cause or without a

01:35:18 --> 01:35:22

cause, like either the cause is purely material, or there's a

01:35:22 --> 01:35:23

higher level cause.

01:35:24 --> 01:35:27

Not all expansion is just so we could take his wealth in

01:35:28 --> 01:35:31

Islam that wouldn't be considered jihad. And that's not what the

01:35:31 --> 01:35:36

Sahaba did. Just so I can take his wealth. No, we can't do that. The

01:35:36 --> 01:35:39

breaths of proof in the Sharia is that if the guy says, Okay, fine,

01:35:39 --> 01:35:39

I'll enter Islam,

01:35:41 --> 01:35:44

whether he means it or not, you can't fight him anymore. So it's

01:35:44 --> 01:35:46

not about taking wealth. That's the first difference.

01:35:47 --> 01:35:49

The second difference is,

01:35:51 --> 01:35:55

are you sucking the resources of the people for yourselves and

01:35:55 --> 01:35:57

sending it back home? Yes or no, that will be haram in

01:35:59 --> 01:36:03

Islam. Let's go and take all of the resource of this country and

01:36:03 --> 01:36:06

send it back to Medina.

01:36:07 --> 01:36:10

Number two, do you actually aggress upon the citizens?

01:36:12 --> 01:36:17

Because here in Palestine, the British took over. They won the

01:36:17 --> 01:36:22

war right. Ottomans lost their land. French and British divided

01:36:22 --> 01:36:26

it all up. Britain. Britain takes Palestine. Now, the British didn't

01:36:26 --> 01:36:30

go in there and try to move into the people's homes. So you lost a

01:36:30 --> 01:36:33

war on the battlefield now, now you don't run your own country.

01:36:33 --> 01:36:35

Well, you lost the war on the battlefield same time. You don't

01:36:35 --> 01:36:36

like it, don't lose.

01:36:38 --> 01:36:41

But the British, at the same time didn't go in the case of Palestine

01:36:42 --> 01:36:46

knocking on homes and eventually stealing the home, killing the

01:36:46 --> 01:36:46

people,

01:36:49 --> 01:36:52

the Zionists came and did that. So when we look at expansion, you

01:36:52 --> 01:36:55

have to look at a number of factors to be able to grade an

01:36:55 --> 01:36:56

expansion

01:36:57 --> 01:37:02

in so far as we can ascertain the facts, right. That's hard, and

01:37:02 --> 01:37:04

it's in the first place. Ascertaining the facts is hard in

01:37:04 --> 01:37:08

the first place, but hypothetical world where we can ascertain

01:37:08 --> 01:37:10

facts, and in the modern times, we can ascertain more facts than in

01:37:10 --> 01:37:15

the past. But are you expanding for a material cause or for a

01:37:15 --> 01:37:16

higher cause?

01:37:17 --> 01:37:18

Are you expanding?

01:37:20 --> 01:37:23

Is there an opportunity for for peace first?

01:37:24 --> 01:37:28

And in the Sharia, we do give an opportunity for peace, except God

01:37:28 --> 01:37:33

as as the law giver and Muhammad as His Prophet. And we walk back,

01:37:33 --> 01:37:39

we go back home. If not, then, then what? Then your army? Now are

01:37:39 --> 01:37:42

the next question? Are you aggressing on citizens or not?

01:37:43 --> 01:37:46

Army's made to fight, right? And by the way, no government has the

01:37:46 --> 01:37:51

right to rule. So you rule because you're dominant and strong. So

01:37:51 --> 01:37:55

let's now meet at the field and see who's stronger. You meet at

01:37:55 --> 01:37:57

the battlefield, Army and Army fights,

01:38:00 --> 01:38:03

and you don't aggress on the citizens. Next. Are you aggressing

01:38:03 --> 01:38:04

on the nature of the land?

01:38:06 --> 01:38:10

That's another thing. Are you now destroying our our trees,

01:38:10 --> 01:38:13

destroying our nature, destroying our physical country? That's yet

01:38:13 --> 01:38:17

another question. So you see that there can be

01:38:18 --> 01:38:22

an expansion. Will happen either way. No one, anyone who's denying

01:38:22 --> 01:38:26

that expansion is gonna it's gonna happen. It's like men are going to

01:38:26 --> 01:38:30

seek women. If you don't legislate marriage, and you say it's

01:38:30 --> 01:38:32

immoral, it doesn't make a difference. It will happen either

01:38:32 --> 01:38:37

way. So therefore some it has to be legislated. There has to be a

01:38:37 --> 01:38:40

way for it to happen. Men will seek to get rich.

01:38:41 --> 01:38:44

You cannot be like Christianity. Try to be a monk and own nothing

01:38:45 --> 01:38:48

and never touch a woman. This is like so against nature. And the

01:38:48 --> 01:38:51

results of that is, look what they do at the end of the day, a

01:38:51 --> 01:38:54

disease grew into that group of people, and they're going after

01:38:54 --> 01:38:55

boys, right?

01:38:57 --> 01:39:01

If you forbid something that's natural, you get a worse result.

01:39:01 --> 01:39:01

You

01:39:03 --> 01:39:05

get a worse result. So you can't forbid what's natural. It

01:39:05 --> 01:39:09

naturally will happen. Competent nations will take other competent

01:39:09 --> 01:39:14

nations. If I run a bakery, a bakery, and I'm so successful, and

01:39:14 --> 01:39:17

my books are kept so perfectly, and my product is coming off the

01:39:17 --> 01:39:21

shelf, and I have no waste at all, very quickly I will buy out the

01:39:21 --> 01:39:26

next Baker. The question is, how do I do it? Am I going to do this

01:39:26 --> 01:39:27

mercifully,

01:39:29 --> 01:39:32

or am I going to do it aggressively? Am I going to scar

01:39:32 --> 01:39:36

his family for life? You know? JD, Rockefeller is not as evil as

01:39:36 --> 01:39:39

people try to make him out to be. He used to go to a guy oil

01:39:39 --> 01:39:41

refinery in Ohio, and you say to them, Listen,

01:39:42 --> 01:39:46

I've done the math. In two years, you'll be out of business. In two

01:39:46 --> 01:39:47

years, all of your customers will come to

01:39:49 --> 01:39:52

me. So you have an option. I buy you out now I make you a manager

01:39:52 --> 01:39:56

and give you a salary greater than what you're making right now. The

01:39:56 --> 01:39:59

smart one said yes, the stubborn one said no, and went out of

01:39:59 --> 01:39:59

business now that you.

01:40:00 --> 01:40:00

Into war with me,

01:40:01 --> 01:40:04

and I just did better. I'm more efficient. My costs are lower.

01:40:06 --> 01:40:09

You're out of business now I'm not obligated to help you anymore. I

01:40:09 --> 01:40:10

gave you the chance the first time.

01:40:11 --> 01:40:13

I almost like stole a page from Sharia, right?

01:40:15 --> 01:40:17

But point being is that

01:40:18 --> 01:40:21

not all expansions are the same, and what's happening with the

01:40:21 --> 01:40:26

Zionists and Israelis is something that when you're shoving a group

01:40:26 --> 01:40:30

of people into a a piece of land and with no representation and no

01:40:30 --> 01:40:33

rights, that's the next question we have to ask. Once you do

01:40:33 --> 01:40:36

conquer, do those people you conquer? What are their rights?

01:40:37 --> 01:40:38

Are they afforded any rights?

01:40:39 --> 01:40:41

Well, in Islam, your afforded rights.

01:40:42 --> 01:40:43

We have to defend you.

01:40:45 --> 01:40:47

You have hakuq. You have rights.

01:40:49 --> 01:40:50

When you think about

01:40:52 --> 01:40:56

expansion, you have to break it down into all these pieces and ask

01:40:56 --> 01:40:56

yourself,

01:40:58 --> 01:41:00

what is the nature of this expansion?

01:41:02 --> 01:41:07

And just the fact that some people don't like that to be conquered,

01:41:07 --> 01:41:09

or that their government was conquered. You weren't conquered.

01:41:09 --> 01:41:11

No one touched you. Your government was conquered. You

01:41:11 --> 01:41:15

don't like the fact not everything about life is going to be nice and

01:41:15 --> 01:41:18

fuzzy, right? That doesn't make it something that we're going to do

01:41:18 --> 01:41:23

or not. Do? You don't like the fact that my the Romans were

01:41:23 --> 01:41:24

kicked out of Egypt,

01:41:26 --> 01:41:28

right? The regular Egyptian citizen wasn't touched. The

01:41:28 --> 01:41:32

regular person living in Syria and Egypt in Arab, he wasn't touched.

01:41:32 --> 01:41:35

He doesn't like that fact that his government lost. Well, don't lose

01:41:35 --> 01:41:39

then, right? Your government lost. They faced off at the battlefield.

01:41:39 --> 01:41:43

They faced off in these famous epic battles, and they lost,

01:41:43 --> 01:41:46

right? And you had a chance not to have any fight at all. Aslim

01:41:46 --> 01:41:50

Tesla, just say, La ILA. If that Governor, just their ruler, just

01:41:51 --> 01:41:54

said, Muslim arm would have to walk right back. We can't say, Oh,

01:41:54 --> 01:41:57

you didn't mean it. Can't say that, right?

01:41:59 --> 01:41:59

So you lost.

01:42:01 --> 01:42:05

But was the land destroyed? Were the citizens aggressed upon? Were

01:42:05 --> 01:42:08

they forced to do anything? Were their homes stolen? Were their

01:42:08 --> 01:42:10

resources sucked out and sent to Medina?

01:42:12 --> 01:42:14

These are the questions that you ask.

01:42:16 --> 01:42:20

Were there citizens given were there citizens given rights? Yeah,

01:42:20 --> 01:42:23

you're given rights. You have a Vimy status. Even when they went

01:42:23 --> 01:42:24

to India,

01:42:25 --> 01:42:27

they gave him, they gave him the VIM, a status. What are you going

01:42:27 --> 01:42:30

to do with all these Hindus, right and pagans?

01:42:31 --> 01:42:32

They gave him the status,

01:42:33 --> 01:42:35

they treated him Asmaa.

01:42:37 --> 01:42:40

So those are the questions before you simply say that, Oh, everyone

01:42:40 --> 01:42:44

expands? Yeah, everyone explains, but not the same way,

01:42:47 --> 01:42:52

not in the same way. Ladies and gentlemen, we gotta go. A lot of

01:42:53 --> 01:42:59

good questions. Subhan, Allah, Huma, Hamdi, Kana, Shadow Insan.

01:42:59 --> 01:43:04

Allah, fears, whatever. Sobel Haq, what about sobh SABR? Was Salaam

01:43:04 --> 01:43:05

Alaikum Rahmatullah?

01:43:27 --> 01:43:27

God today,

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