Shadee Elmasry – Advice for Marriage Mahdi Lock

Getting this topic of marriage and defining marriage, the first thing

you have to understand here is that the most important

relationship you're ever going to have is with a law. And therefore,

you want to surround yourself with people who are conducive to that

relationship. You don't want to be around people who are not

conducive to that relationship, harm that relationship, take you

away from that relationship, and make that relationship problematic

in any way. Right. So obviously, in terms of the people you

surround yourself with, number one on that list is going to be your

spouse, because this is the person that you choose to live with. And

this is the person who will presumably be with you until your

dying days because as we know, children grow up. Children can

read themselves, they move on. It's very, very important that you

choose someone that is conducive to your relationship with Allah