Salim Morsy – IMRI Jumuah Prayer 11302018
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The speaker discusses the role model of the mother of believers, the most beloved one to branded partner, Muhammad's wife, and the importance of learning about her life to see how she believed in prophet Muhammad and supported him. They also touch on the idea of a special relationship between Kadija Radia wa'ar Álvaro and the mother of believers, who was jealous and talked about her love for her husband and her son. The conversation touches on the topic of a dispute between messenger of Islam and a woman named Kadija Radia Muhammadu wa'ar Álvaro, the use of a symbol for a woman in Islam, and the importance of peace being upon them. The speaker provides information on deductibles and deductibles for different plans, encourages people to fill out health care applications online, and provides information on deductibles and deductibles for different plans.
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Dear brothers and sisters,
today
I will be talking
about
the role model
of
the mother of believers,
the most beloved one
to our beloved prophet Muhammad
His wife,
Khadija,
been to Hawaii,
We
will talk
about
the virtues
of Khadija,
the wife of prophet
We have to learn
from
her characteristics.
We
have to study
about
her
virtues
and to benefit ourselves
from her
and her knowledge and her wisdom,
to take her as a role models
for our wives and our daughters
and our moms
and our sisters in Islam.
We need to learn about
her life
to see
how she
believed
in prophet Muhammad,
and she supported
after
But tomorrow
after
Maghrib,
we will have
more details
about the virtues of Khadija
in
our session
for the serum. It will be tomorrow insha'a'a'a'a.
The first,
The first
virtues
about Khadija.
May Allah be pleased with her and all
the companions of Rasulullah
Hee
Salaam. She is the first
believer.
Believed
in prophet Muhammad salaam alayhi wa sallam at
all.
Before all men,
before all women,
before even the children.
She was the first one
who believed in Prophet Muhammad salallahu alaihi wa
sallam from the first moment
that she heard
about the revelation
came to him from Allah
There is a man, his name, Hafeez ibn
'Amr.
He narrated the hadith.
He was a businessman.
He came to Mecca
with his
to to sell his product
in Madcap.
And he went to Mina area
at noon time.
And he was talking to Al Abbas, the
uncle of Rasulillahi
salallahu alaihi wa sallam. And he said, I
saw
a man
in noon time which is the Gohru prayer,
and a woman
and a child,
they were praying.
And I asked if Al Abbas calls those
people. And he said, this is my nephew,
Muhammad
sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. And he claimed that
he is a prophet of Allah.
And this is his wife Khadija. And this
is Ali
ibn Abi Talib.
And Afif that that he came he
accepted Islam later on, but he said, I
wish
if I accepted Islam in that day to
be the 4th one
who accepted Islam.
To be a quarter of Islam
because they were 3
and he wished to be the 4th of
them to have the quarter of Islam. Rub'ul
Islam
and Hadith and Sahih Bukhar.
Also,
Prophet Muhammad
He never, subhanahu wa sallam, he never remain
any
other wife
with Khadija until she passed away.
Subhanallah.
Out of respect for
her and out of love for her.
She believed in him and she supported him
and he appreciated what she did for him.
Even
an imam nuhajar al Aspalari,
he mentioned
that she
took
2 third of the time
for the marriage of prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi
wa sallam.
The time for his marriage,
38
years.
She talked by herself
25 years
of the life of marriage for prophet Muhammad
salallahu alaihi wa sallam. She took 2 third
of his life of marriage.
And this is big honor for her.
Be Allah be pleased with her, Allahumma Abu
Abu.
Also, prophet Muhammad
used to mention her name a lot even
after she passed away
out of love and out of respect
for her.
Even Asaydah Aisha,
the mother of believers,
she she narrated the hadith.
And she mentioned
that one day, prophet Muhammad was
mentioned Khadija Khadija's name,
and she was jealous.
Subhanallah.
The mother of believers was jealous.
And she mentioned, I never
become a jealous in my life
more than
when I was jealous with Khadija. Even she
was
she wasn't alive.
SubhanAllah.
And this is
to see how prophet Muhammad salallahu alaihi wa
sallam,
you know, appreciate what she did for him,
alayhi wasalam.
And she mentioned to prophet Muhammad salawasalam
why you really mentioned her name a lot.
And Allah
replace her for you
by the the nice one. She's talking about
herself.
She only
the virgin wife for prophet Muhammad saasalam. Only
the one that prophet Muhammad saasalam
married
and she was a virgin.
All his wives
were weren't a virgin except Aisha. And also
prophet Muhammad Muhammadu alaihi wa sallam used to
love Aisha so much.
But to compare between his love for Khadija
and Aisha, he used to love Khadija more
than anyone else.
Even she
was older than him
15 years.
Listen carefully.
The age is not the problem.
Our men
mental problem,
you know, this
is the big problem for our marriage.
If we understand each other,
if we
love one another,
we will not have disputes in our life.
And this is what happened
for prophet Muhammad and his wife Khadija
of yallahu anha wa arghuha.
And, prophet Muhammad
mentioned in other hadith,
in Namin al Bibi and Yasir al Rajlu,
ahldawun
b Abi.
You know, it's out of kindness
to be connected with the friends of your
parents
after they passed away.
And this is what he did
with the friends of Khadija after she passed
away,
subhanallah.
He used to mention her so much and
he used to
to help her friends after she passed away.
And the prophet
mentioned also
that
his love for Khadija, it's a riz from
Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. It's a provision from
Allah azza wa jal that Allah
puts
her love into his heart.
When the husband
loves his wife,
this is a rizd from Allah azza wa
jal.
He supposed to be
thankful
to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. When the wife
loves her husband,
this is a rizq from Allah
She must
appreciate what Allah
did for her.
And this is what happened
with the prophet Muhammad salallahu alayhi wa sallam.
Also,
it's never happened to any
human
before Khadija Radia Muhammadu Wa'ar Doha
that Allah
sent
a special salaam for her.
And al Hadith in Sahih al Bukhari
that
Jibreel alayhi salaam came to prophet Muhammad salaam
and he told him, oh Muhammad salaam,
Khadija is coming to you, and she holding
a plate has a a food or a
water drink.
And there is some dawit of the narration
here from the narrator, Sayyidna Abu
Huraira of
It's not a dawit from Jibreel
because some people might declare that Jibreel didn't
know what's inside the plate that Khadija was
holding. No.
This is the dawut from the narrator of
the hadith
out of honesty.
They don't like to mind about the hadith
of Rasulillahi
sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. And he mentioned
this or this. He doesn't know exactly.
He forget.
And this is when we talk about a
hadith of Rasulullah,
we have to be very careful.
Whosoever lies about me, he should prepare himself
for his place in his father. This is
the hadith of Rasulullah he salallahu alaihi wa
sallam. Anyway,
and he said,
Tell her that Allah sent a special salaam
for her.
And tell her that Gibreel
say salaam for her.
And she when she came to Prophet Muhammad
sallallahu alaihi wa sallam and he told her
that Allah Allah sent special salam for you.
And Jibreel also sent salam for you.
And our scholar, they mentioned
that she was
a faqihan.
She was a scholar.
And she did not say,
peace be upon Allah. And she said,
indeed Allah is
the peace
because this is the name of Allah.
And if she said,
peace be upon Allah,
it will be wrong
because Allah is the source, the main source
of peace.
And she replied,
She was a faqihah.
She was a big scholar.
She was very wise.
She did not reply that, Allah,
you know, peace be upon Allah because it's
wrong.
But she said, Allah indeed, Allah is the
peace. And peace be upon Gebri, and peace
be upon you, oh messenger of Allah
to
you.
And
the end of the hadith that
prophet Muhammad mentioned
that Allah
told Jibreel to told prophet Muhammad
to give her glad tidings that Allah built
a house for her from Qasr
in paradise.
Qasr, it's not sugarcane.
No.
Qasov,
it's precious
stones,
very expensive
stone
like diamond.
This is the word of Qasov in Arabic
language.
Qasov,
like
precious
stone you can see whatever inside.
And this is the the description of houses
of paradise.
You can see whatever inside the houses in
paradise
and you can see outside
of the houses in paradise.
Somebody will say how people will take their
privacy.
Subhanallah.
There is no desire over there.
There is no
bad desires
because it's for enjoyment only,
for delights.
There is no more work there is no
more work in paradise,
only
joy
and
just
to enjoy your life.
Means to have
to have hassles or to have
noise
inside it.
Means tap,
tiredness,
or fatigue.
Why?
Why Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala we choose a
certain word? Why Allah did not say
Allah built a palace for her, Qasr,
but he choose bank?
Our scholars in hadith,
they have very very
useful
benefits from the hadith. And these are
because Khadija
she was
like housewife.
A lot of our sisters today, they they
are shy to tell others that they stay
home to take care of the children. SubhanAllah.
It's not a shame.
It's honored from Allah for you because Allah
created us.
One should work outside and the other one
should work inside the house.
And this is
fair for all of us.
The men should go outside and work hard
to obtain and to gain the money, and
women should work inside.
We,
Islam,
treat woman as a garment.
It's not about for anyone to touch except
her maharim only. And this is how the
Islam
look at the woman.
It's not very cheap product
for anyone to touch
and to choose which one is good, to
take it or to leave it. No. Woman
in Islam has a diamond.
No one is allowed to touch her
except her maharil only. Her husband, her
her
son, or her father, or her brother. That's
it.
Anyway
and
the scholars of hadith,
they mentioned
that Allah choose them
and he did not choose
a cause because of this wisdom.
She was
a housewife.
Before Islam,
even after Islam,
She was very rich.
You know, she choose prophet Muhammad because
he was working for her in her in
her money,
for her to jar out.
And she choose her because he was
honest.
And mean,
And she supported him
by her money.
Fine.
She supported him financially.
When we have a wife,
she supported her husband
once or twice
or 3 times. She might make him down
and she might insult him on front of
others. But Khadija,
she did not make that. SubhanAllah.
Not there anymore.
She passed away
even before Aisha was born.
But still, prophet Muhammad salallahu alaihi wa sallam
used to mention her name, used to appreciate
what she has done for him, salallahu alaihi
wa sallam.
And we need to learn.
We should not complain
about our wives or about our husbands.
We need to learn
from our beloved prophet Muhammad and
his
wives.
Also,
the other benefit that Allah mentioned, bayid and
he did not mention Qasr.
Even Qasr it's much bigger in more than
the bayid, the house.
And they said, because
Arabic is Nabi sabiullah alaihi wa sallam,
the family of prophet Muhammad salallahu alaihi wa
sallam, where did they come from? They came
from Khadija Radia Abu Anhu. When
Aisha asked him, why you mention her name
so much, O Rasulullah?
And Allah blessed her
by me
for you.
And he said, why not?
She believed in me while everybody denied my
message.
And she supported me
by her money while everybody
did not support me.
And Allah gave me children from her, and
Allah did not give me children from any
other woman.
Subhanallah.
Big appreciation from prophet Muhammad salamahu alaihi wa
sallam for her.
And this they mentioned that Abu Baytin Nabi
yasamalaihi
wa sallam min Khadija
Radiallahu anhu wa. The family
Indeed, Abba would like to take away
from you all the members of the family
of prophet Muhammad sawwalai to take it away
from you
and to
to purify
all of you.
And the prophet Muhammad sawwalai, the hadith
that
Musalama,
the hadith that Musalama, the mother of believers,
she narrated the hadith. And she said, when
prophet Muhammad SAW Salam received this verse
and he bring
Fatima, his daughter,
and Ali,
his son-in-law,
and Al Hassan went
Hussain, 4 of them. And he told them
to dress very nice dressing.
And he
raised his hand and said said, O Allah,
the those are my family.
And
when the people celebrate
the family of prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa
sallam, all of them, they came from Khadija.
Hal because Fatima, the daughter of Khadija.
And al Hassan al Husayn, you know, the
sons of Fatima.
And how about Ali? Ali was young
when prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam married
Khadija
and he was raised in the house of
Rasulullah
and Khadija took care of him to raise
him as a good believer, as a good
Muslims.
And he is the first a child
believe in Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
at all.
And this is the situation.
When we look at Khadija, be upon be
pleased with her and all the companions of
Rasulullah,
we have to learn.
We have to choose
our wives
based on the religion. Religion matters.
It's not
based on
beauty or
health
or
wealth.
And this is what prophet Muhammad did.
And by the way,
we will not be able to cover all
the details
about
virtues
of Khadija.
May, above, be pleased with her within
one time of Khutbah. But
tomorrow, we will have our session about Sira,
the life of prophet Muhammad in
between Maril and Isha. And this is
a big invitation for everybody
to come, to learn about our beloved prophet
Muhammad
and his beloved one,
Khadija
Radia Abu Anha Wa'arduha.
How she believed in him, how she supported
him,
how she defended him. Even
when she passed
away,
discovered, they named the year that she passed
away in it. The year of sadness
because it was
she was big loss of prophet Muhammad salamu
alayhi wa sallam.
He
lost the internal
protection.
And when he asked her
about Islam, she did not give him hard
time. This is the reason why Allah mentioned
this is my money. This is from my
tjara. This is from my work.
Like, we see a lot of sisters today,
they making their husbands down because they helped
them once or twice or even 10 times.
And we need to learn
from
our mother, the mother of believers,
Khadija.
Very quick announcement
Don't forget to take your sandwiches
outside in
the main
the main entrance for our brother's entrance.
This is the donation for Umrah trip inshallah.
It came from Shishku restaurant today.
Also, tomorrow, our lecture between Madaba and Isha.
Don't forget that bring your family, your wife,
your children, and benefit yourself
from the serum of Rasulullah
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will explain
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He asked you for permission, and the administration
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