Salim Morsy – IMRI Community Seerah Halaqah Episode 6

Salim Morsy
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The speakers discuss the loss of a woman named Khadija and the importance of remembering her during marriage. They emphasize the need for fulfilling promises with Allah and finding a partner who is helpful. The importance of honoring the mother of a woman who used to work as a house worker and finding a partner in a difficult situation is emphasized. The speakers also emphasize the importance of not giving too much opinion until the end and avoiding disputes between husband and wife. The importance of taking small actions and staying at home is emphasized. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being careful and staying at home, as well as offers advice on handling difficult situations and staying at home.
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We

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stopped last time for the

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decision for the zero,

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and,

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the time that

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prophet Muhammad,

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married

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the mother of believer,

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Sayeeda Khadija.

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May Allah be pleased with her and all

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the companions

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of Rasulullah

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We were talking last time

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about Manatib

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as Sayida Khadija.

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How she,

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treated

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our beloved prophet Muhammad, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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in their marriage.

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She was 40 years old, and he was

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25 years old.

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There

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is 15 years

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between them,

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but

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she never,

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you know, gave

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a a a hint or a sign to

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prophet

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Muhammad that she,

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you know, provided him with the money and

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the wealth, and she,

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she did

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a lot a lot of help

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for Prophet Muhammad

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She never mentioned that in front of him.

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And in the other hand, Prophet Muhammad he

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appreciated that

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too much even after she passed away.

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You know?

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Sayyidakat, Aisha

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Taul,

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I never feel jealous with anyone

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except with Khadija. Even they never meet in

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their life.

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She passed away long time.

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But, you know, because prophet Muhammad

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always talking about Khadija, and this is what

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we need to learn.

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If our wives

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did something good for us, we have to

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appreciate that. We have to mention that.

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We have to, you know,

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say at least,

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thank you, JazakAllah Khair. May Allah reward you.

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May Allah help you out like you helping

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me all this time. You know, we are

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human. We are Bashar.

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And you can't unite you chukwaliwalitha

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Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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The one who is not able to to

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praise and to thank

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people, he will not be able to thank

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Allah

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We need to train ourselves

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how to to thank others

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and to be able to thank Allah,

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after that.

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We were talking about the manardib,

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you know, the,

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honoring

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for a saydah Khadija

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from Allah and

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what it was mentioned by prophet Muhammad

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with the

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a hadith that

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anything prophet Muhammad

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will say for us, we have to take

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it. We have to accept it, and we

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have to to believe it.

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And this is the prophet Muhammad

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mentioned

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that

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Khadija Radiallahu Anha Rudaha, she was the first

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woman

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accepted Islam,

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and the second person after

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam accepted Islam. We talked

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last time about this.

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Also, prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam honored

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her, and he never,

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got married from any other woman in her

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life.

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Period.

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Just

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and it it it will give us

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also a clear,

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point.

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Prophet Muhammad

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was young,

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25 years old, and

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he stay

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with the with the Khadija 25

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years

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in his marriage

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because he spent in his life

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38 years.

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You know, 25 of these

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38 of his

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marriage life, he spent 25 of them with

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the Khadija

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And he never

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even think

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about

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has other wife with her.

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SubhanAllah.

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It's not because this is forbidden

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in Islam,

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but because,

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you know, it was

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really a a good way to appreciate

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for somebody who helped you out and who

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supported you and who stay

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behind you to to to defend you and

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to push you to be closer to Allah

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This is that we have to understand that.

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Unfortunately,

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we are dealing with the situation

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the situations,

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today,

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especially for,

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you know, when you have a daughter

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and you offer your daughter for somebody from

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overseas

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or the one who is not legal in,

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United States

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just to help him out to to get

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married

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and

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to have to to change his status with

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the immigration.

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You know, after a while,

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they changed their color.

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They used to kiss the hand and say,

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you know,

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okay. I will do I Very nice, very

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kind person. And suddenly,

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he he changed a 100%.

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Why? Because he doesn't need help from from

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her or her family anymore,

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and this is really not good.

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You know? Even if there is no something

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written

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between you and your wife or your family

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your your wife's family,

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You know, but you said it. It it's

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enough.

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You have to fulfill

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your promise

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because Allah will ask you in the day

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of judgment about your promise.

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Even in if you promise Allah

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by yourself, no one listen to your promise.

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And you still

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it's a requirement for you to fulfill your

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promise with

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Allah. Sometimes we'll say, you know, nobody heard

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me, alhamdulillah.

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You know, just remain silent and let it

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go. No.

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If you promise to do something, you have

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to do it. There is no

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excuse unless

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if you are excused

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or Allah gave excuse for you, it's okay.

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But I I mentioned this because I'm dealing

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with some cases

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right now.

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Really, I I I was surprised when I

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heard,

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you know, the the brothers, he was so

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kind, so nice. I said I I said

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to myself, masha'allah, he's very nice brother, masha'allah.

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Later call,

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it's not one case or 2 or 3,

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more than this. And the same result.

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Really,

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I'm confused.

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And we we we we claim that we're

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following prophet Mohammed

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made

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between

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spouses,

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between husband

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and wife.

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And

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when somebody stretch

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his hand to help you out,

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you should not

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bite it.

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You have to kiss it, and you have

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to appreciate

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what he did or what she did for

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you.

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And this is you know, we we studying

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about the life of prophet Muhammad,

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you

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know, not to waste our time. We need

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to learn. We need to to have a

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lessons

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from his life

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because we claim that we, we are we

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are his followers,

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and we have to to find how he

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used to deal with these different matters in

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his life, and we we will apply the

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same matters for ourselves

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and for our families.

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Also,

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prophet Muhammad,

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He used to mention her name so much

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Every time, every occasion, every, subhanallah,

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Khadija.

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The this is the the friend of Khadija.

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This is the, you know, the family of

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Khadija. This is the sister of Khadija. The

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and this is you know, it's out of

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love and out of respect.

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Also, prophet

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Muhammad

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mentioned that, you know, the the love,

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for Khadija, it was

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a provision from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. It

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was risk.

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And you if when you feel that your

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wife loves you,

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you have to to prostrate yourself.

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You have to make sudood.

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Because

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when you really have a chance

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to find somebody

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who loves you,

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you know, this is a good sign

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to to not to be stressed in your

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life,

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not to be

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in hard hard hard hardship condition.

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When you find somebody,

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really loving you and helping you out, and

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you have to be thankful

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to return back in the same way even

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more. Well, how the Quran taught

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us.

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At least I will do it.

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When you when you find somebody

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treating you in nice way, you have to

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return back to him or to him in

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the best way, not in the same way.

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At least, you have to return back in

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the same way. This is how prophet Muhammad

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mentioned

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that,

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gave glad tidings

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to the mother of believers,

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Khadija

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with

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Jibril And,

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prophet Muhammad

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gave the glad tidings to Sayyid Al Khadija

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that Allah

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sent a special,

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salaam for her, and Allah

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built a house

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from

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a diamond

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in Paradise.

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There is no,

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there is no

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noise

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or

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tires

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in this in this house. It's enjoyable,

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a place

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for for her, especially

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to enjoy,

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her life in in paradise.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala mentioned the the the

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the word of the bayt, the house,

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and he didn't say qas, the palace.

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They he said because the word of bayt

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because the mother of believers,

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she used to work

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as

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as a house worker.

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She used to work at at her home

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for her children and for her husband, and

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this is big honor

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for for women

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to to work at home.

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More protection for her. She will be the

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queen of of the house.

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She will be

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the in sharp person inside the house.

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You know, any details inside the house, this

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is belongs to her, not belongs to the

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husband. Husband will work hard outside.

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And Allah

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mentioned,

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Also, the the word of Bayt, Allah

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mentioned in the Quran,

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when this verse was revealed, prophet Muhammad,

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called his daughter Fatima

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and her husband,

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Ali.

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He

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helped them out to have a nice dress,

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very beauty dress, and he he raised his

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his hand and Allahum Maha ulaa'i

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ahlubayi ahlabayi.

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Oh, Allah, those are

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my family.

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Fatima

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and her husband Ali

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and

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Al Hassan Al Hasan al Hussein, you know,

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their children.

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These are the the family of Prophet Muhammad

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Also,

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what is the wisdom that Allah

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mentioned

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that the house that Allah

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has has built for Khadija in paradise

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has no

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loud voice

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and has no,

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fatigue

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or no,

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tireless.

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Why?

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It's very peaceful,

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atmosphere.

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There are very

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nice, enjoyable,

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time in in that house.

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The

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Imam Ibn Hajar asked Khaleani mentioned,

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and he said because Khadija,

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she did not give prophet Muhammad hard time

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at all.

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And, Subhanallah,

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we might have some some wives.

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You know,

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this is

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their experience in life.

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They they they learned how how to make

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their husbands

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really mad

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or

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just sad.

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This is

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this is their goal in the life. I'm

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not talking about,

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our sisters here tonight tonight. You know, just

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that we need to go home, you know,

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with the peaceful

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condition, inshallah.

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No. There is some well, why? Because I

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I I get involved into

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some cases.

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The wife

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look like a crazy.

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When you talk, you know, this is what

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Allah mentioned. This is what no. No. No.

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I

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I I have no relation with this one.

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Subhanallah,

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why you why you called yourself that you

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are Muslim? Why?

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You have to to respect what Allah,

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mentioned in the Quran or what prophet Muhammad

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mentioned

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in Hadith.

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Sayyidina Khadija, she never gave prophet

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Muhammad a hard time.

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And this is the idea.

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And this is the the mukafa.

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This is the word from Allah

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When when she heard about Islam, she was

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the first one

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conferred to Islam. She was the first one

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accepted Islam. And after that, she was very

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rich

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and she never make prophet Muhammad

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down

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in any in any time in her

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life. And when she heard about Islam,

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she did not she didn't need

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prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam to raise

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his voice to tell her, you know, about

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the new religion that he came with.

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And this is the the word from Allah.

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And and it for us,

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when we do something really in our life

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good,

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and we have to expect

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the good reward from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Don't expect from somebody around you

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because

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they are limited.

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Even if they are able to reward you,

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also they have limit.

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But when you expect

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your reward from Allah only,

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there is no limit with Allah

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And Allah

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will appreciate

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what you have done for the sake of

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him.

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And

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what you what you,

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did for your wife,

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you did for the sake of Allah

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Also for wives, what they did for their

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husband,

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they have to do it for the sake

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of Allah

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because if

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the the husband changed his mind later on,

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she will not feel bad

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because already she did for the sake of

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Allah,

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like the the cases that I was talking

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about in the beginning of the lecture,

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you know, they just make their themselves, they

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were acting very kindly

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and nicely

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until

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they they they had the the marriage certificate

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and they applied for the immigration.

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And since they got the green card or

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the citizenship,

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you know, the problem started.

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What what what what's going on?

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You know, because she did not make this

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and did not make it. Why you did

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not complain when you when you had nothing

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before?

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And this is not from Shaim Il Akhlaq.

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This is not from a good man of

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it.

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This is very bad side

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when the person when when somebody really

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trusted you

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and gave you

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his daughter or her daughter. You know?

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There is there is no

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there is no more

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potent

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for the the the dad or mom

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more than

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their child,

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their daughter.

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If if you gave your daughter to somebody

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else means that you love him so much.

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You cut

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piece of your of your body and you

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give to him.

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And some parents, they said, we're gonna write

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the dowry, you know, $50,000

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or 100. Say $1,000,000.

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Nothing.

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Because, you know, I I I gave you

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a piece of my body. My daughter,

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this is, you know, it's not

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it's it's priceless.

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Even if you say I will pay a

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a thousand a a a a $100,000, it's

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nothing.

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But when you really

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treat her in nice way and make her

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happy all the time, help her out to

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be

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a a a a good a good, a

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Muslim,

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this is the the mukafa.

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This is the the the word that you

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return it back to to the the parents

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or to the father and mother,

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especially.

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Yeah.

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Also,

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narrated the hadith.

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She said, in one

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day, Hara

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Bintu Huaylid,

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you know, the sister of Khadija,

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she knocked on the door.

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And prophet Muhammad

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he

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recognized

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her voice.

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And he remember

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the voice of Khadija when she used to

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ask prophet Muhammad permission to enter

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into his place.

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SubhanAllah.

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You know,

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Zayma when when you really have a wish

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for something to happen to say, oh, Allah,

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please make this happen.

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And Zayda Aisha, she narrated the hadith and

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she said, when prophet Muhammad heard

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the the the voice of Halah

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and, you know, like look like if you

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if you was busy with something and suddenly

00:32:03 --> 00:32:06

something happened and you will pay attention. Wow.

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What's going on? Did you hear what what

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I hear? Yeah. And this is was the

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the voice

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of Halah, the sister of Khadija Radiallahu

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anhu

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And and

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You know, prophet Muhammad

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mentioned the hadith

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that

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Satan

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will sit on his throne or his chair

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and he will send his soldier

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to mislead people.

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In the end of the day, they will

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come back

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to to

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to gave the the record or to to

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make,

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you know, what they did on front of

00:36:42 --> 00:36:45

him. And one of them will say, I

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did dispute between the brother and his his

00:36:49 --> 00:36:49

brother.

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And Satan will say, you did good. Have

00:36:52 --> 00:36:55

a seat. Who's next? The second one will

00:36:55 --> 00:36:57

say, I did dispute between

00:36:57 --> 00:37:00

the mom and her daughter. He said, you're

00:37:00 --> 00:37:01

good, Seth.

00:37:01 --> 00:37:03

And the other one will say, I I

00:37:03 --> 00:37:05

made dispute between the husband

00:37:06 --> 00:37:06

and his wife.

00:37:07 --> 00:37:10

And shaitan will be happy. Said, you are

00:37:10 --> 00:37:11

the best one.

00:37:11 --> 00:37:12

Because he knows

00:37:13 --> 00:37:15

when we have dispute between husband and wife,

00:37:16 --> 00:37:17

we will split

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the whole society.

00:37:19 --> 00:37:21

You know? The husband will go in one

00:37:21 --> 00:37:24

side with his family and friends, and the

00:37:24 --> 00:37:25

wife will go in the other side with

00:37:25 --> 00:37:27

his her family and friends.

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And the children,

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you know, will have mental problem later on

00:37:33 --> 00:37:33

because

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when when they go on this side,

00:37:36 --> 00:37:37

they will hear something

00:37:37 --> 00:37:40

bad about the other side. When they go

00:37:40 --> 00:37:41

on the other side, they will hear bad

00:37:41 --> 00:37:42

something bad

00:37:42 --> 00:37:45

about the other side, and they will not

00:37:45 --> 00:37:46

trust anyone

00:37:46 --> 00:37:47

after

00:37:47 --> 00:37:49

that because the dad and the mom,

00:37:50 --> 00:37:52

the they they they are

00:37:52 --> 00:37:55

the most people for the children to learn

00:37:55 --> 00:37:56

and to trust

00:37:57 --> 00:37:57

when they

00:37:58 --> 00:38:01

figure out later on that they were cheating,

00:38:01 --> 00:38:02

they were lying,

00:38:02 --> 00:38:05

and they will not trust anyone after that.

00:38:05 --> 00:38:06

And we are destroying

00:38:07 --> 00:38:08

the whole society.

00:38:08 --> 00:38:11

You know? They will be a a big

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

tool to destroy the society,

00:38:13 --> 00:38:13

especially

00:38:14 --> 00:38:15

Islamic

00:38:15 --> 00:38:16

society later on.

00:38:16 --> 00:38:19

And the this is the the danger of

00:38:20 --> 00:38:24

disputes between husband and wife. And this never

00:38:24 --> 00:38:26

happened between prophet Muhammad

00:38:28 --> 00:38:31

and his wife, Khadija, been to Hawaii.

00:38:33 --> 00:38:35

The last one today, just to finish,

00:38:37 --> 00:38:38

all the the,

00:38:38 --> 00:38:40

manakkal of Sayidah Khadija.

00:38:45 --> 00:38:46

She was the best

00:38:47 --> 00:38:47

woman

00:38:48 --> 00:38:49

of this nation.

00:38:49 --> 00:38:51

This is how prophet Muhammad mentioned,

00:38:53 --> 00:38:55

Al Hadith Rawahu Sayyiduna Ali,

00:38:56 --> 00:38:56

you know,

00:38:57 --> 00:39:00

she will be her her, his mother-in-law.

00:39:01 --> 00:39:04

And he narrated the hadith about her her

00:39:04 --> 00:39:05

his mother-in-law

00:39:05 --> 00:39:06

Khadija

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

because Khadija, the mother of Fatima,

00:39:09 --> 00:39:11

and he's the husband of Fatima,

00:39:12 --> 00:39:13

Karamakhar wajah.

00:39:15 --> 00:39:17

He narrated the hadith that prophet Muhammad said,

00:39:17 --> 00:39:18

kayrunisa

00:39:18 --> 00:39:19

iha

00:39:19 --> 00:39:20

mariam.

00:39:21 --> 00:39:23

Wa kayrunisa iha Khadija.

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

This hadith fil Bukhayr.

00:39:27 --> 00:39:27

And

00:39:28 --> 00:39:28

it's

00:39:29 --> 00:39:31

very in general hadith.

00:39:32 --> 00:39:34

But when we read, subhanAllah,

00:39:34 --> 00:39:36

how does scholars

00:39:36 --> 00:39:37

explain

00:39:37 --> 00:39:38

and make details

00:39:39 --> 00:39:40

for

00:39:40 --> 00:39:43

for for for this hadith, and they they

00:39:43 --> 00:39:43

they said,

00:39:50 --> 00:39:50

Mariam,

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

in her in her time, she was the

00:39:53 --> 00:39:55

best in her time. Like,

00:39:56 --> 00:39:57

Jewish, Allah

00:39:58 --> 00:39:59

mentioned in the Quran,

00:39:59 --> 00:40:00

you know,

00:40:03 --> 00:40:04

We choose them

00:40:05 --> 00:40:06

above all.

00:40:07 --> 00:40:07

When?

00:40:08 --> 00:40:08

Today?

00:40:09 --> 00:40:10

No.

00:40:10 --> 00:40:11

In their time.

00:40:12 --> 00:40:15

In in the time of Musa alaihi salaam.

00:40:16 --> 00:40:16

Because

00:40:16 --> 00:40:19

only they were believing in Allah

00:40:20 --> 00:40:23

Nobody else. And this is why Allah choose

00:40:23 --> 00:40:24

them in that time.

00:40:25 --> 00:40:26

But they claimed

00:40:26 --> 00:40:29

that they are the best even today, but

00:40:29 --> 00:40:30

this is incorrect

00:40:31 --> 00:40:31

information.

00:40:35 --> 00:40:36

The

00:40:39 --> 00:40:41

the the Jewish and the Christians, they claim

00:40:41 --> 00:40:42

that they are

00:40:43 --> 00:40:45

the most beloved one to Allah

00:40:46 --> 00:40:47

And the Quran

00:40:49 --> 00:40:51

respond back to them and said, no. It's

00:40:51 --> 00:40:54

not correct. Why Allah punched you if you

00:40:54 --> 00:40:56

are the most beloved one to her?

00:41:05 --> 00:41:08

It's not our our point, but just to

00:41:08 --> 00:41:09

to see how the scholars

00:41:10 --> 00:41:11

of hadith

00:41:11 --> 00:41:12

really

00:41:12 --> 00:41:13

make explanation

00:41:14 --> 00:41:15

about the about

00:41:21 --> 00:41:23

And they they did some information

00:41:24 --> 00:41:26

and they added some information

00:41:26 --> 00:41:29

to help us to understand the hadith of

00:41:29 --> 00:41:29

Rasulullah

00:41:30 --> 00:41:30

because

00:41:31 --> 00:41:32

Allah

00:41:32 --> 00:41:35

gave prophet Muhammad, salallahu alaihi wa sallam, jawaam

00:41:35 --> 00:41:38

al kalim. Jawaam al kalim means to say

00:41:38 --> 00:41:39

very short sentence

00:41:40 --> 00:41:42

but has a lot a lot of meaning.

00:41:42 --> 00:41:44

And this is how prophet Muhammad, salallam,

00:41:44 --> 00:41:47

used to say just very short sentence

00:41:47 --> 00:41:49

has a lot of meaning.

00:41:49 --> 00:41:51

We need, you know, books

00:41:51 --> 00:41:54

to to explain the the meaning of the

00:41:54 --> 00:41:55

word that prophet Muhammad

00:41:56 --> 00:41:56

mentioned.

00:41:57 --> 00:41:58

And the first

00:41:58 --> 00:41:59

opinion,

00:42:08 --> 00:42:08

they said,

00:48:42 --> 00:48:44

but it's wrong

00:48:44 --> 00:48:45

statement

00:48:46 --> 00:48:46

that Islam

00:48:47 --> 00:48:48

gave women

00:48:49 --> 00:48:50

all the rights.

00:48:51 --> 00:48:52

And the prophet Muhammad

00:48:52 --> 00:48:53

mentioned hadith.

00:48:54 --> 00:48:55

If the woman

00:48:56 --> 00:48:57

prays

00:48:57 --> 00:48:58

her 5 times

00:48:59 --> 00:49:00

every day

00:49:00 --> 00:49:01

and she fasts

00:49:02 --> 00:49:03

her month,

00:49:03 --> 00:49:05

which is the month of Ramadan,

00:49:06 --> 00:49:07

and she protected

00:49:07 --> 00:49:09

her private part

00:49:10 --> 00:49:11

to stay away

00:49:11 --> 00:49:13

from zina, to stay away from adultery,

00:49:14 --> 00:49:16

and she obeyed her husband.

00:49:17 --> 00:49:18

These are

00:49:19 --> 00:49:19

4

00:49:20 --> 00:49:20

tasks

00:49:21 --> 00:49:22

for women.

00:49:23 --> 00:49:25

If they did these 4 things,

00:49:25 --> 00:49:27

you know what is the reward from Allah?

00:49:29 --> 00:49:31

We we we do not have this

00:49:31 --> 00:49:33

this luck like like them.

00:49:34 --> 00:49:36

They are lucky more than us.

00:49:36 --> 00:49:37

Allah

00:49:38 --> 00:49:40

will tell her in the day of judgement,

00:49:40 --> 00:49:43

enter into paradise from any gate that you

00:49:43 --> 00:49:44

wish.

00:49:45 --> 00:49:47

You would like to enter from the gate

00:49:47 --> 00:49:49

of fasting, arayyan, or the gate of salah,

00:49:49 --> 00:49:51

or the gate of salakah, or of the

00:49:51 --> 00:49:54

gate this is up to you. Choose any

00:49:54 --> 00:49:56

way, any any gate

00:49:56 --> 00:49:57

to enter into paradise.

00:49:58 --> 00:50:00

And this is big honor from Allah

00:50:01 --> 00:50:02

for women.

00:50:02 --> 00:50:06

But the enemies of Islam, they try to

00:50:06 --> 00:50:06

change

00:50:07 --> 00:50:07

their mind,

00:50:08 --> 00:50:10

you know, to change our sister's mind,

00:50:11 --> 00:50:13

you know, to push her,

00:50:13 --> 00:50:15

to take her hijab out

00:50:15 --> 00:50:17

or to to just,

00:50:18 --> 00:50:20

to act as a a naked

00:50:21 --> 00:50:21

woman

00:50:22 --> 00:50:23

or to

00:50:24 --> 00:50:25

to to have her own opinion.

00:50:26 --> 00:50:27

You know, I I

00:50:27 --> 00:50:29

I have the half of the house

00:50:29 --> 00:50:32

and I have the half of the heritage.

00:50:32 --> 00:50:34

You know? Subhanallah. If they go through a

00:50:34 --> 00:50:35

divorce,

00:50:36 --> 00:50:37

they will divide 5050.

00:50:38 --> 00:50:39

Like, when they

00:50:39 --> 00:50:40

when they,

00:50:41 --> 00:50:42

were in business together,

00:50:42 --> 00:50:44

and they will with they got,

00:50:46 --> 00:50:49

they they, they close the business, and they

00:50:49 --> 00:50:50

will divide,

00:50:50 --> 00:50:51

you know, 5050.

00:50:54 --> 00:50:56

We have to understand

00:50:56 --> 00:50:57

that Allah

00:50:58 --> 00:51:00

He created us,

00:51:00 --> 00:51:01

and He knows

00:51:02 --> 00:51:03

what is the good,

00:51:04 --> 00:51:06

good situation for us us or good condition

00:51:06 --> 00:51:07

for us,

00:51:07 --> 00:51:08

male or female.

00:51:09 --> 00:51:10

And we should not

00:51:10 --> 00:51:11

act

00:51:11 --> 00:51:13

in in in a strange way.

00:51:13 --> 00:51:16

We have just to submit ourselves

00:51:16 --> 00:51:17

to Allah

00:51:17 --> 00:51:18

and to

00:51:19 --> 00:51:19

accept what Allah,

00:51:21 --> 00:51:24

did for us. Is the has? In 20

00:51:24 --> 00:51:25

minutes.

00:51:26 --> 00:51:28

3 minutes? 3 minutes. 3 minutes. 3 minutes.

00:51:28 --> 00:51:29

3 minutes. Oh, we still have time.

00:51:30 --> 00:51:30

Yep.

00:51:33 --> 00:51:34

This is the the

00:51:35 --> 00:51:36

the,

00:51:37 --> 00:51:38

the marriage

00:51:38 --> 00:51:40

between prophet Muhammad and

00:51:41 --> 00:51:41

Sayid Al Khadija.

00:51:42 --> 00:51:45

And really, I wish for for all

00:51:45 --> 00:51:46

the spouses

00:51:47 --> 00:51:48

to learn

00:51:48 --> 00:51:50

and to study. And this is as a

00:51:50 --> 00:51:51

as a guidelines.

00:51:51 --> 00:51:53

You still have time

00:51:53 --> 00:51:56

to go back and to just Google,

00:51:57 --> 00:51:58

Google it,

00:51:58 --> 00:51:59

what

00:51:59 --> 00:52:00

the the

00:52:01 --> 00:52:03

the the information about

00:52:03 --> 00:52:05

marriage of prophet Muhammad

00:52:06 --> 00:52:07

from Khadija

00:52:09 --> 00:52:10

in your own language

00:52:11 --> 00:52:14

to to understand and to learn more about

00:52:15 --> 00:52:18

about the this relationship between prophet Muhammad

00:52:18 --> 00:52:21

and his wife Khadija bin Huwaidid.

00:52:25 --> 00:52:27

We're gonna move to other

00:52:30 --> 00:52:30

occasion

00:52:31 --> 00:52:34

happened in in the in life of prophet

00:52:34 --> 00:52:34

Muhammad.

00:52:35 --> 00:52:37

I I I mentioned prophet Muhammad

00:52:37 --> 00:52:39

get married from Khadija

00:52:39 --> 00:52:42

when he was 25 years old

00:52:43 --> 00:52:45

and stay with her

00:52:45 --> 00:52:47

other 25 years

00:52:47 --> 00:52:48

yeah. Because

00:52:48 --> 00:52:51

she passed away when prophet Muhammad was

00:52:51 --> 00:52:52

50

00:52:52 --> 00:52:53

years

00:52:53 --> 00:52:53

old.

00:52:54 --> 00:52:56

Makes sense? He spent,

00:52:56 --> 00:52:57

you know,

00:52:58 --> 00:52:59

a quarter of the century

00:53:00 --> 00:53:01

with her.

00:53:01 --> 00:53:03

When the husband got married for

00:53:04 --> 00:53:05

2, 3 years,

00:53:06 --> 00:53:07

and they they start

00:53:07 --> 00:53:08

fighting and they,

00:53:10 --> 00:53:11

what's going on?

00:53:11 --> 00:53:12

You know,

00:53:12 --> 00:53:15

she she never listened to me. She never,

00:53:15 --> 00:53:18

she always gave me hard time. She always

00:53:18 --> 00:53:20

making me down, subhanallah.

00:53:20 --> 00:53:21

And prophet

00:53:22 --> 00:53:25

Muhammad spent 25 years with Sayyidina Khadija, and

00:53:25 --> 00:53:27

she never gave him hard time

00:53:28 --> 00:53:31

in the beginning of Islam or after long

00:53:31 --> 00:53:31

time

00:53:31 --> 00:53:33

of of their marriage.

00:53:34 --> 00:53:35

When prophet Muhammad

00:53:37 --> 00:53:37

reaches,

00:53:51 --> 00:53:52

Big

00:53:52 --> 00:53:53

occasion happened,

00:53:53 --> 00:53:56

you know, the the Kaaba get burned

00:53:58 --> 00:53:59

in that time.

00:53:59 --> 00:54:00

And

00:54:02 --> 00:54:05

the people of Christ, there is no Islam

00:54:05 --> 00:54:05

yet

00:54:05 --> 00:54:06

because it

00:54:07 --> 00:54:08

was before

00:54:08 --> 00:54:09

the prophethood

00:54:09 --> 00:54:10

for prophet Muhammad,

00:54:11 --> 00:54:14

5 years. He was 40 years old when

00:54:14 --> 00:54:14

Allah

00:54:15 --> 00:54:17

sent Jibril down to prophet Muhammad

00:54:18 --> 00:54:19

with the revelation.

00:54:20 --> 00:54:21

He was

00:54:21 --> 00:54:23

35 years old.

00:54:23 --> 00:54:24

We will mention it,

00:54:25 --> 00:54:26

just quickly

00:54:27 --> 00:54:29

for these 10 minutes between Adar and Ilkham,

00:54:29 --> 00:54:30

inshallah.

00:54:31 --> 00:54:31

And

00:54:32 --> 00:54:33

the people of Quraysh,

00:54:34 --> 00:54:35

they decided

00:54:35 --> 00:54:36

to

00:54:37 --> 00:54:40

destroy the Kaaba and rebuild the Kaaba again

00:54:41 --> 00:54:42

stronger than before.

00:54:43 --> 00:54:44

But they were afraid

00:54:45 --> 00:54:46

because

00:54:46 --> 00:54:48

even if they are disbelievers,

00:54:48 --> 00:54:50

but they've they they still

00:54:51 --> 00:54:53

have the sense of this is the house

00:54:53 --> 00:54:55

of Allah, Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:54:55 --> 00:54:57

And they did not

00:54:57 --> 00:54:58

want to make it

00:54:59 --> 00:54:59

until

00:55:00 --> 00:55:01

the man,

00:55:03 --> 00:55:04

his name,

00:55:05 --> 00:55:05

Muhammad,

00:55:09 --> 00:55:10

Al Waleed ibn

00:55:10 --> 00:55:11

Muhirah.

00:55:14 --> 00:55:15

You know, just the

00:55:16 --> 00:55:19

he tried to help them out. Nothing wrong.

00:55:19 --> 00:55:22

Our intention is good. We try to

00:55:22 --> 00:55:25

rebuild the Kaaba again and to do something

00:55:25 --> 00:55:27

good for the Kaaba. It's not not something

00:55:27 --> 00:55:28

bad.

00:55:28 --> 00:55:30

But everybody was afraid

00:55:31 --> 00:55:34

to to take the old stones and just

00:55:34 --> 00:55:35

to to remove

00:55:35 --> 00:55:37

all the the the the stones of the

00:55:37 --> 00:55:40

Kaaba and to start build it again.

00:55:41 --> 00:55:42

And he started by himself,

00:55:43 --> 00:55:45

and he he hold the the arks and

00:55:45 --> 00:55:46

start

00:55:46 --> 00:55:49

to dig in into the the world of

00:55:49 --> 00:55:51

the Kaaba, and everybody was watching

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

what will happen to him. After a while,

00:55:55 --> 00:55:57

nothing happened, and all of them come together

00:55:58 --> 00:56:00

and they remove all the stones of the

00:56:00 --> 00:56:02

Kaaba, and they start,

00:56:03 --> 00:56:04

build the Kaaba again.

00:56:05 --> 00:56:06

And

00:56:07 --> 00:56:07

after

00:56:08 --> 00:56:09

a while,

00:56:09 --> 00:56:10

they complete

00:56:11 --> 00:56:12

the building of the Kaaba.

00:56:13 --> 00:56:15

But there is a big problem now. You

00:56:15 --> 00:56:16

know, Arabs

00:56:16 --> 00:56:18

the the tribe of Arabs,

00:56:18 --> 00:56:20

really, they have very,

00:56:21 --> 00:56:21

sensitive

00:56:22 --> 00:56:22

situation

00:56:23 --> 00:56:25

when they when when the when the issue,

00:56:26 --> 00:56:30

comes into, you know, a riada or who

00:56:30 --> 00:56:30

is

00:56:30 --> 00:56:31

in charge,

00:56:32 --> 00:56:33

or who has a good reputation,

00:56:34 --> 00:56:34

you know,

00:56:35 --> 00:56:35

among

00:56:36 --> 00:56:37

all the tribes.

00:56:38 --> 00:56:39

And the time

00:56:40 --> 00:56:43

that they are able to put the,

00:56:44 --> 00:56:44

the,

00:56:45 --> 00:56:46

black stone,

00:56:47 --> 00:56:48

a Hagar al Aswelt,

00:56:52 --> 00:56:53

Which one is correct?

00:56:53 --> 00:56:55

An Aswelt or an

00:56:55 --> 00:56:56

Aswelt?

00:56:57 --> 00:57:00

Aswelt. Aswelt. Both of them are correct.

00:57:01 --> 00:57:02

In Aswelt,

00:57:02 --> 00:57:03

you know, in

00:57:06 --> 00:57:07

It it was

00:57:08 --> 00:57:09

white.

00:57:10 --> 00:57:12

Whiter more than the milk, the hadith of

00:57:12 --> 00:57:13

prophet Muhammad It

00:57:14 --> 00:57:16

was a stone from paradise.

00:57:19 --> 00:57:21

You know? It was white

00:57:22 --> 00:57:23

but from the sense of

00:57:25 --> 00:57:26

become dark,

00:57:27 --> 00:57:27

become black,

00:57:28 --> 00:57:31

and even only the the top of the

00:57:31 --> 00:57:32

stone is black

00:57:33 --> 00:57:35

but the rest of the stone, the scholar

00:57:35 --> 00:57:37

they said, the the the the major of

00:57:37 --> 00:57:39

the stone, almost,

00:57:39 --> 00:57:40

1,

00:57:41 --> 00:57:42

almost a 110

00:57:43 --> 00:57:44

centimeters

00:57:45 --> 00:57:47

indeed inside the.

00:57:48 --> 00:57:51

The rest of the stone is white, very

00:57:51 --> 00:57:51

white.

00:57:52 --> 00:57:55

But the top of the stone because people

00:57:55 --> 00:57:57

touching the the the top of the stone

00:57:57 --> 00:58:00

this is the reason why the the top

00:58:00 --> 00:58:03

of the stone become black now or become

00:58:03 --> 00:58:05

dark because of the

00:58:05 --> 00:58:05

or.

00:58:09 --> 00:58:12

Al Hajar al Asad, we might have next

00:58:12 --> 00:58:15

time more explanation about Al Hajar al Asad

00:58:15 --> 00:58:18

or Al Hajar al Asad. But today,

00:58:18 --> 00:58:20

I would like to really

00:58:21 --> 00:58:22

focus for,

00:58:22 --> 00:58:23

the the

00:58:24 --> 00:58:25

the action of Rasulullah

00:58:27 --> 00:58:29

He he how he was very wise

00:58:30 --> 00:58:32

and intelligent person.

00:58:32 --> 00:58:34

He was able to be a leader

00:58:35 --> 00:58:37

even before before the prophethood.

00:58:38 --> 00:58:40

And this is I'm talking to our youth

00:58:40 --> 00:58:41

today.

00:58:41 --> 00:58:43

You know, you have to pay attention

00:58:44 --> 00:58:45

for your actions,

00:58:45 --> 00:58:46

for your words.

00:58:47 --> 00:58:50

Even when when you're still young in early

00:58:50 --> 00:58:53

age, high school or college age, it's it's

00:58:53 --> 00:58:53

still

00:58:54 --> 00:58:56

you know, people will look at you and

00:58:56 --> 00:58:58

your actions in different way.

00:58:59 --> 00:59:00

And I wish

00:59:00 --> 00:59:02

if all of them are here, but I

00:59:02 --> 00:59:05

know some of them, they left. I saw

00:59:05 --> 00:59:07

them, but I hope that Allah will return

00:59:07 --> 00:59:08

them back for salah inshallah.

00:59:09 --> 00:59:09

You know,

00:59:48 --> 00:59:48

When

00:59:49 --> 00:59:50

they,

00:59:51 --> 00:59:53

built the rebuilt the Kaaba again

00:59:54 --> 00:59:56

and the time to put

00:59:56 --> 00:59:59

the the black stone in its place at

00:59:59 --> 01:00:00

the corner of the Kaaba,

01:00:01 --> 01:00:02

the tribes,

01:00:02 --> 01:00:03

all the tribes,

01:00:04 --> 01:00:05

they were fighting

01:00:05 --> 01:00:08

who has the ability who who has a

01:00:08 --> 01:00:08

chance

01:00:09 --> 01:00:09

to take

01:00:10 --> 01:00:11

the honor

01:00:11 --> 01:00:14

that he put the black stones in its

01:00:14 --> 01:00:15

place

01:00:15 --> 01:00:16

in the Kaaba,

01:00:16 --> 01:00:17

and they were fighting.

01:00:18 --> 01:00:20

4 or 5 days,

01:00:21 --> 01:00:21

they

01:00:21 --> 01:00:24

almost to just to start a big war

01:00:25 --> 01:00:25

because

01:00:26 --> 01:00:29

each tribe, they want to have the chance

01:00:29 --> 01:00:31

to put al Hajar al Aswad

01:00:31 --> 01:00:32

in its place.

01:00:33 --> 01:00:33

And

01:00:34 --> 01:00:36

there is a wise man

01:00:37 --> 01:00:37

when

01:00:38 --> 01:00:40

when he looked at the situation,

01:00:41 --> 01:00:43

you know, they have good intention

01:00:44 --> 01:00:46

to put Al Hajar al Asad in in

01:00:46 --> 01:00:47

in its place, but

01:00:48 --> 01:00:49

how to make it?

01:00:50 --> 01:00:52

How to resolve the problem?

01:00:52 --> 01:00:53

And he suggested them,

01:00:54 --> 01:00:57

we have to wait for the first one

01:00:57 --> 01:00:58

will enter into the masjid,

01:00:59 --> 01:01:01

and he will be the judge

01:01:01 --> 01:01:03

between us.

01:01:03 --> 01:01:04

Are you agree, guys?

01:01:05 --> 01:01:08

All the tribes that they said, we agree.

01:01:08 --> 01:01:09

You are wise

01:01:09 --> 01:01:10

men.

01:01:10 --> 01:01:12

And, see, who was the first one to

01:01:12 --> 01:01:14

enter into the Masjid,

01:01:14 --> 01:01:16

after after this promise?

01:01:17 --> 01:01:18

Sambalis. Sambalis.

01:01:19 --> 01:01:20

He was 55

01:01:21 --> 01:01:22

years old.

01:01:23 --> 01:01:25

In in our culture,

01:01:25 --> 01:01:26

you know,

01:01:27 --> 01:01:29

when the person still has his dad

01:01:29 --> 01:01:30

alive,

01:01:30 --> 01:01:32

even if he reaches 60 years old,

01:01:33 --> 01:01:35

he cannot say his opinion until,

01:01:36 --> 01:01:38

you know, his dad give him permission. Don't

01:01:38 --> 01:01:40

look at the environment here.

01:01:41 --> 01:01:43

They they told them from

01:01:43 --> 01:01:46

from early age. You know? If you

01:01:47 --> 01:01:49

if you feel something cannot not

01:01:50 --> 01:01:50

normal,

01:01:51 --> 01:01:53

you're you're gonna we're gonna play the game

01:01:53 --> 01:01:55

for, you know, the thief and the the

01:01:55 --> 01:01:58

police officers. You know? Call 911.

01:01:59 --> 01:01:59

And

01:02:00 --> 01:02:03

even for the the head stars,

01:02:03 --> 01:02:05

they teach them in this way.

01:02:05 --> 01:02:06

But back home,

01:02:07 --> 01:02:07

you know,

01:02:08 --> 01:02:08

people respect

01:02:09 --> 01:02:10

the older

01:02:11 --> 01:02:11

people.

01:02:13 --> 01:02:16

In that time, Sultan Nabi, he was

01:02:16 --> 01:02:18

35 years old.

01:02:18 --> 01:02:19

But

01:02:20 --> 01:02:22

Allah gave him a chance to be a

01:02:22 --> 01:02:25

judge for all these, you know, leaders for

01:02:25 --> 01:02:26

the tribes.

01:02:27 --> 01:02:28

And when he came

01:02:29 --> 01:02:31

and it will it will, help us to

01:02:31 --> 01:02:32

learn

01:02:32 --> 01:02:35

how to be wise when you have the

01:02:35 --> 01:02:35

situation,

01:02:36 --> 01:02:37

how you will really

01:02:37 --> 01:02:38

calculate

01:02:38 --> 01:02:39

all

01:02:39 --> 01:02:41

these matters together and to give

01:02:41 --> 01:02:44

a good advice or make a good decision

01:02:45 --> 01:02:46

right away,

01:02:47 --> 01:02:48

When he

01:02:48 --> 01:02:49

came and he understood

01:02:50 --> 01:02:53

what's the problem, they told him, we finished

01:02:53 --> 01:02:56

the Kaaba already. We built the we rebuilt

01:02:56 --> 01:02:56

the Kaaba,

01:02:57 --> 01:03:00

and now we have the black stone. We

01:03:00 --> 01:03:03

want to put it in its place over

01:03:03 --> 01:03:03

there.

01:03:05 --> 01:03:07

And he is the judge now, what he

01:03:07 --> 01:03:08

did. Who knows?

01:03:16 --> 01:03:17

Yes. Like, the.

01:03:18 --> 01:03:18

You know?

01:03:19 --> 01:03:22

And he back home, the older people or,

01:03:22 --> 01:03:25

you know, the the honored people, they

01:03:27 --> 01:03:30

like the mayor here to have a nice

01:03:30 --> 01:03:30

dressing,

01:03:31 --> 01:03:33

you know, at the top of his, you

01:03:33 --> 01:03:34

know, regular regular,

01:03:35 --> 01:03:35

dress.

01:03:36 --> 01:03:38

And he took one of them, you know,

01:03:38 --> 01:03:40

and he put it on the floor.

01:03:41 --> 01:03:41

Look.

01:03:42 --> 01:03:44

And he hold the the the black stone

01:03:44 --> 01:03:47

by his hand, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. It's

01:03:47 --> 01:03:48

big honor.

01:03:48 --> 01:03:51

Look. How many tribes around him,

01:03:51 --> 01:03:53

no one can touch the stone because, you

01:03:53 --> 01:03:55

know, it will it it will be a

01:03:55 --> 01:03:56

lot of blood.

01:03:57 --> 01:03:58

No one can come

01:03:59 --> 01:04:00

close to the stone.

01:04:00 --> 01:04:03

A prophet Muhammad and this is big chance

01:04:03 --> 01:04:03

from Allah

01:04:04 --> 01:04:05

It's by Allah's plan.

01:04:06 --> 01:04:07

Allah planned

01:04:07 --> 01:04:09

for prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam

01:04:10 --> 01:04:10

to

01:04:11 --> 01:04:12

to to give them

01:04:13 --> 01:04:14

an idea who's this person,

01:04:15 --> 01:04:17

you know. After 5 years, Allah

01:04:18 --> 01:04:21

will choose him to make him a prophet

01:04:21 --> 01:04:23

and the last final messenger of Allah

01:04:26 --> 01:04:28

And he hold the big black stone, and

01:04:28 --> 01:04:30

he put in the sign in in the

01:04:30 --> 01:04:31

middle of this,

01:04:31 --> 01:04:33

abaya or this garment

01:04:34 --> 01:04:35

like a blanket,

01:04:35 --> 01:04:38

and he called, you know, the leader of

01:04:38 --> 01:04:39

each tribe.

01:04:40 --> 01:04:42

Yeah. This leader and this leader and this

01:04:42 --> 01:04:45

leader, and he told, each one will hold

01:04:45 --> 01:04:46

one corner

01:04:47 --> 01:04:49

of this blanket or this abeya.

01:04:49 --> 01:04:51

And they hold together

01:04:52 --> 01:04:52

and they

01:04:53 --> 01:04:53

moved into

01:04:54 --> 01:04:54

the Kaaba.

01:04:55 --> 01:04:57

And again, prophet Muhammad

01:04:58 --> 01:05:00

hold the black stone by his hand and

01:05:00 --> 01:05:02

he put it in its place.

01:05:03 --> 01:05:05

And he resolved the problem.

01:05:05 --> 01:05:07

Everybody was happy,

01:05:07 --> 01:05:07

subhanallah,

01:05:08 --> 01:05:09

but they did not realize

01:05:10 --> 01:05:12

this is a sign from Allah subhanahu wa

01:05:12 --> 01:05:14

ta'ala. How come for those people

01:05:14 --> 01:05:15

to deny

01:05:15 --> 01:05:17

his message later on?

01:05:17 --> 01:05:20

You will agree with his judgment.

01:05:20 --> 01:05:23

You were happy when he when he did

01:05:23 --> 01:05:23

something

01:05:24 --> 01:05:26

wisely, but why you reject his message

01:05:27 --> 01:05:29

later on after that? And this is just

01:05:29 --> 01:05:31

the the the story of,

01:05:31 --> 01:05:33

what will Hajar al Asad.

01:08:41 --> 01:08:44

They will be in a a few future

01:08:44 --> 01:08:45

leader leaders

01:08:47 --> 01:08:48

This is what we have tonight.

01:08:49 --> 01:08:51

I will stop here, and and we're gonna

01:08:51 --> 01:08:52

continue

01:08:52 --> 01:08:53

for next time,

01:08:55 --> 01:08:56

for the other occasions

01:08:57 --> 01:08:59

in in the life of prophet Muhammad sasalla.

01:09:00 --> 01:09:02

I think next time, we will start with

01:09:02 --> 01:09:04

the the first revelation,

01:09:05 --> 01:09:08

will come to prophet Muhammad sasalla

01:09:08 --> 01:09:09

when he was

01:09:10 --> 01:09:13

40 years old. Now we we would stay

01:09:13 --> 01:09:17

under 35 years old for prophet Muhammad sallallahu

01:09:17 --> 01:09:19

alaihi wa sallam, and next time we're gonna

01:09:19 --> 01:09:20

continue to

01:09:21 --> 01:09:22

for the other occasions

01:09:23 --> 01:09:24

after that.

01:09:31 --> 01:09:33

We will have Adan and Iqamah,

01:09:35 --> 01:09:35

inshallah, right away.

01:09:36 --> 01:09:37

After

01:09:37 --> 01:09:37

Umrah.

01:09:38 --> 01:09:40

After Umrah. Yes. Yes.

01:09:42 --> 01:09:42

And,

01:09:43 --> 01:09:45

also, we have, next next,

01:09:46 --> 01:09:48

next week, we have a a family,

01:09:49 --> 01:09:51

night fun for the whole community,

01:09:52 --> 01:09:53

you know, because

01:09:53 --> 01:09:54

we,

01:09:55 --> 01:09:56

we might,

01:09:56 --> 01:09:59

really, did not have a chance to hear

01:09:59 --> 01:10:00

about the announcement,

01:10:00 --> 01:10:01

but,

01:10:02 --> 01:10:03

just prepare yourself,

01:10:04 --> 01:10:06

for your children, for your family.

01:10:07 --> 01:10:07

It will be,

01:10:08 --> 01:10:09

the last night before

01:10:10 --> 01:10:12

going into Umr to remember

01:10:12 --> 01:10:14

us in your supplication.

01:10:15 --> 01:10:16

Yes.

01:26:54 --> 01:26:55

A love

01:26:57 --> 01:26:58

at book.

01:27:03 --> 01:27:03

A

01:27:04 --> 01:27:06

love at book.

01:28:56 --> 01:28:56

Sorry.

01:30:39 --> 01:30:40

For Sufi,

01:30:42 --> 01:30:42

Barifa.

01:30:43 --> 01:30:46

And but he has no relation what they

01:30:46 --> 01:30:47

what they did.

01:30:48 --> 01:30:48

He has.

01:30:49 --> 01:30:50

One day,

01:30:51 --> 01:30:52

he was praying,

01:30:53 --> 01:30:53

and

01:30:53 --> 01:30:55

he heard the voice

01:30:55 --> 01:30:57

talking to him directly

01:30:57 --> 01:30:59

and to said to him, oh, I beg

01:30:59 --> 01:31:01

your pardon. I am your Lord.

01:31:02 --> 01:31:02

And

01:31:03 --> 01:31:05

just you don't need to pray anymore.

01:31:07 --> 01:31:08

You know? Just to

01:31:09 --> 01:31:09

to

01:31:10 --> 01:31:11

to realize

01:31:12 --> 01:31:14

when the person really knowledgeable,

01:31:15 --> 01:31:15

especially

01:31:16 --> 01:31:17

Islamic knowledge

01:31:19 --> 01:31:20

or or the authentic

01:31:20 --> 01:31:21

Islamic knowledge,

01:31:22 --> 01:31:23

he will,

01:31:23 --> 01:31:24

you know,

01:31:25 --> 01:31:26

realize right away

01:31:26 --> 01:31:28

that there is something wrong.

01:31:29 --> 01:31:31

When he heard the voice

01:31:31 --> 01:31:34

that somebody talking to them to say, oh,

01:31:37 --> 01:31:41

I am your lord, and I dropped the

01:31:41 --> 01:31:43

salah. You don't need to pray anymore.

01:31:45 --> 01:31:49

Can you imagine if somebody, you know, talking

01:31:49 --> 01:31:52

to you, he was praying during, you know,

01:31:52 --> 01:31:55

by himself, and he heard somebody talking to

01:31:55 --> 01:31:55

him?

01:32:07 --> 01:32:08

And the whole level,

01:32:09 --> 01:32:12

they have a level, they call the the

01:32:12 --> 01:32:13

the the stage of Yaqeen,

01:32:13 --> 01:32:14

certainty.

01:32:15 --> 01:32:18

If any sheikh of them reach this

01:32:19 --> 01:32:19

stage,

01:32:20 --> 01:32:22

he doesn't need to pray anymore because they

01:32:22 --> 01:32:24

are the Musul Al Ahab, he connected with

01:32:24 --> 01:32:25

Allah He

01:32:26 --> 01:32:29

doesn't need to pray because prayer prayers for,

01:32:29 --> 01:32:32

you know, regular people and like me and

01:32:32 --> 01:32:34

you, but not like big shiuk in their

01:32:34 --> 01:32:35

in their career.

01:32:36 --> 01:32:37

Anyway,

01:33:38 --> 01:33:39

He he got the message.

01:33:39 --> 01:33:42

When he heard the voice, somebody talking to

01:33:42 --> 01:33:45

him to say, oh, Abdul Qadir, I am

01:33:45 --> 01:33:46

your lord, and you do not need to

01:33:46 --> 01:33:49

pray anymore. That's it. You know? You are

01:33:49 --> 01:33:49

free.

01:33:50 --> 01:33:51

And he realized

01:33:51 --> 01:33:54

this is the voice of who? Satan. Shaitan.

01:33:54 --> 01:33:56

Satan. And he said,

01:33:58 --> 01:33:59

Yeah. I I don't know how to translate

01:33:59 --> 01:34:00

it. You know?

01:34:02 --> 01:34:04

Shrink or what what to I would have

01:34:04 --> 01:34:05

to say it.

01:34:11 --> 01:34:14

You know? Shut up. Yeah. Shut up. Yeah.

01:34:14 --> 01:34:17

Oh oh, enemy of Allah. Shut up. Yeah.

01:34:17 --> 01:34:18

Yeah. Subhanallah.

01:34:18 --> 01:34:20

Because Allah will never

01:34:20 --> 01:34:23

command his servant to do something

01:34:23 --> 01:34:25

and he will change it later on. And

01:34:25 --> 01:34:27

this is the rule.

01:34:27 --> 01:34:28

Allah will never

01:34:29 --> 01:34:32

obligated us to do something, and later on,

01:34:32 --> 01:34:34

will say, you know, you don't need to

01:34:34 --> 01:34:36

do this anymore. No.

01:34:36 --> 01:34:38

And this is just why I mentioned this

01:34:38 --> 01:34:41

story today. For all of us, we have

01:34:41 --> 01:34:42

to be very careful

01:34:43 --> 01:34:44

when we get into

01:34:44 --> 01:34:47

a situation, a good situation with Allah,

01:34:47 --> 01:34:49

we might have shaitan

01:34:49 --> 01:34:50

really

01:34:50 --> 01:34:52

whispering to you know?

01:34:52 --> 01:34:55

Mashallah. You stay at the masjid, mashallah, for

01:34:55 --> 01:34:58

2 hours tonight. You spend good time. You

01:34:58 --> 01:35:00

know, you you inshallah, you are you will

01:35:00 --> 01:35:03

be among the people of paradise. Don't worry.

01:35:03 --> 01:35:06

Look at other people who drunk or the

01:35:06 --> 01:35:09

people who's dealing with the with the, backbiting

01:35:09 --> 01:35:11

or the one who dealing with the adultery.

01:35:11 --> 01:35:13

No. No. No. You are good. Yeah.

01:35:15 --> 01:35:16

To to yeah.

01:35:32 --> 01:35:34

When you feel that you are you're much

01:35:34 --> 01:35:35

better than everybody else,

01:35:36 --> 01:35:39

this is big problem now. You have to

01:35:39 --> 01:35:40

sit with yourself.

01:35:42 --> 01:35:44

I know one's scholars. May Allah

01:35:44 --> 01:35:45

with his mercy.

01:35:49 --> 01:35:52

One day, he's a famous scholar back home

01:35:52 --> 01:35:54

in Egypt. He passed away.

01:35:57 --> 01:35:59

And and he he's he's a a a

01:35:59 --> 01:36:00

real scholar.

01:36:00 --> 01:36:01

One day,

01:36:02 --> 01:36:03

his driver

01:36:04 --> 01:36:05

drove him back.

01:36:05 --> 01:36:07

He he had

01:36:08 --> 01:36:10

a meeting, and he going back to his

01:36:10 --> 01:36:11

house,

01:36:11 --> 01:36:14

and he told the driver to stop in

01:36:14 --> 01:36:16

in one village in his way back to

01:36:16 --> 01:36:17

his his house.

01:36:18 --> 01:36:19

And he

01:36:20 --> 01:36:23

enter into the small mosque in this village,

01:36:24 --> 01:36:25

and he

01:36:25 --> 01:36:28

was cleaning the bathrooms of the Masjid.

01:36:29 --> 01:36:32

And the driver, you know, he felt that

01:36:32 --> 01:36:35

the imam, he he's stay long time time

01:36:35 --> 01:36:38

inside the Masjid. Maybe something bad happened to

01:36:38 --> 01:36:41

him, and he went back after them to

01:36:41 --> 01:36:42

look for him. And he found

01:36:43 --> 01:36:45

found him, you know,

01:36:45 --> 01:36:48

tie tied his clothes around his waist

01:36:49 --> 01:36:52

and cleaning the bathrooms of the of the

01:36:52 --> 01:36:54

that masjid in that small village in the

01:36:55 --> 01:36:55

in in,

01:36:56 --> 01:36:57

back home.

01:36:57 --> 01:37:00

And he asked him, what are you doing,

01:37:00 --> 01:37:02

oh, big imam? You know, he said, you

01:37:02 --> 01:37:04

know, big imam in Egypt.

01:37:05 --> 01:37:07

And he said, I I felt

01:37:08 --> 01:37:11

that I feel proud because I did something,

01:37:11 --> 01:37:13

you know, in the previous time, and I

01:37:13 --> 01:37:14

have to

01:37:14 --> 01:37:16

put myself on the spot.

01:37:16 --> 01:37:17

I

01:37:42 --> 01:37:42

honored

01:37:44 --> 01:37:45

from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala for us.

01:37:46 --> 01:37:48

I mentioned the story today just to keep

01:37:48 --> 01:37:50

doing what we what we,

01:37:51 --> 01:37:51

doing

01:37:52 --> 01:37:53

to attend

01:37:53 --> 01:37:54

for these lectures,

01:37:55 --> 01:37:57

not to soften our hearts

01:37:58 --> 01:38:01

and to increase our faith, to increase our

01:38:01 --> 01:38:03

iman. And and Sahaba,

01:38:03 --> 01:38:06

Sayyidna Abdullah ibn Rawaha, he's the companion of

01:38:06 --> 01:38:07

Rasulullah,

01:38:07 --> 01:38:09

used to hold his brother's

01:38:10 --> 01:38:12

hand and to tell him, oh my brother,

01:38:13 --> 01:38:13

set

01:38:16 --> 01:38:17

set

01:38:17 --> 01:38:19

for our a lie

01:38:19 --> 01:38:22

to to to believe in Allah

01:38:23 --> 01:38:24

to soften our

01:38:30 --> 01:38:30

hearts.

01:38:33 --> 01:38:33

Our hearts

01:38:34 --> 01:38:35

are not suitable.

01:38:35 --> 01:38:38

You know? You you you might be happy

01:38:38 --> 01:38:39

today, You will be

01:38:40 --> 01:38:43

unhappy tomorrow. You might be, you know,

01:38:44 --> 01:38:44

satisfied

01:38:45 --> 01:38:47

now. You might be unsatisfied

01:38:47 --> 01:38:49

after after a few minutes

01:38:49 --> 01:38:52

because our heart, it's not in the sensible

01:38:53 --> 01:38:54

situation.

01:38:54 --> 01:38:55

It's

01:38:55 --> 01:38:59

the the heart changes every time more than,

01:38:59 --> 01:39:01

you know, the the the boiling water.

01:39:02 --> 01:39:04

You see how how the boiling water inside

01:39:04 --> 01:39:06

the the the pan just

01:39:07 --> 01:39:08

to to

01:39:08 --> 01:39:10

have different situation,

01:39:11 --> 01:39:14

all the time. And those are the companions

01:39:14 --> 01:39:15

of Rasulullah,

01:39:17 --> 01:39:19

How about us? We are not the companions.

01:39:20 --> 01:39:23

We we are so busy with our wife

01:39:23 --> 01:39:25

and our children and our families,

01:39:25 --> 01:39:28

but at least as much as we can.

01:39:28 --> 01:39:30

You know, I don't like to hold you

01:39:30 --> 01:39:32

more than this, Ayanna. Just go back to

01:39:32 --> 01:39:35

your family and your wife and your your

01:39:35 --> 01:39:38

children, but promise just to take advantage as

01:39:38 --> 01:39:40

much as you can to come back again,

01:39:40 --> 01:39:41

Inshallah.

01:39:41 --> 01:39:43

And when you have a chance,

01:39:43 --> 01:39:46

you know, help your child to to know

01:39:47 --> 01:39:49

what is the direction for the masjid in

01:39:49 --> 01:39:52

the town. Help them out. Show them. Train

01:39:52 --> 01:39:54

them how they will find the house of

01:39:54 --> 01:39:55

Allah.

01:39:58 --> 01:39:59

May Allah work all of you.

01:40:00 --> 01:40:00

Saturday,

01:40:01 --> 01:40:04

we have the family fun night

01:40:04 --> 01:40:07

for everybody, all the family members,

01:40:07 --> 01:40:08

the children,

01:40:08 --> 01:40:10

girls, boys,

01:40:10 --> 01:40:10

adult,

01:40:11 --> 01:40:12

male and female,

01:40:12 --> 01:40:14

at the Masjid here.

01:40:15 --> 01:40:16

Mark your calendar

01:40:16 --> 01:40:17

and see you

01:40:19 --> 01:40:19

sooner.

01:40:24 --> 01:40:26

Yes. The 1st week of January,

01:40:26 --> 01:40:28

we we have no no,

01:40:28 --> 01:40:30

lecture for Sira

01:40:30 --> 01:40:32

because we will come back, from Umrah

01:40:33 --> 01:40:35

in the just the night before that, it

01:40:35 --> 01:40:38

will be so hard. Allah knows we will

01:40:38 --> 01:40:39

be we will be in good condition or

01:40:39 --> 01:40:40

not, but,

01:40:41 --> 01:40:43

we will cancel it. If we have, I

01:40:43 --> 01:40:45

I I would send I would send the

01:40:45 --> 01:40:46

message,

01:40:47 --> 01:40:50

for all of you. But, inshallah, we will

01:40:50 --> 01:40:51

cancel it now until

01:40:52 --> 01:40:53

we will see inshallah,

01:40:55 --> 01:40:56

We have the,

01:40:56 --> 01:40:58

sign sheet outside

01:40:58 --> 01:41:01

to write your name and your phone number

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