Salem Al Amry – Lesson 76 Weekly Class Virtues of Islam
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To the haqq.
Don't you hear?
The Jews will go to Jannah. The Christians
will go to Jannah, and this will go
to Jannah.
May Allah make you also with them,
and you will see.
K?
You will be with whom you love. You
love them? No. You
will be resurrected with them.
You love the, tell them you agree with
the and his companions.
So these are my
dear brothers and sisters,
ways of deception.
The way to the heart is only 1.
Long,
full of hardships,
full of obstacles,
full of
tests.
That's the way.
And
you will be
a stranger.
Maybe
you'll you'll be by yourself.
Everyone around you
is taking these shortcuts,
but don't be intimidated.
Don't doubt what you are upon.
You are upon the hack.
Just ask Allah
to keep your remain steadfast.
Good evening, mister
until You are the
You are the group.
Even if you are by yourself. Alone.
Alone.
Don't be scared. Don't be frightened.
Don't feel you are alone.
Allah is with you.
Allah is with you.
The prophet,
he saw on the night of the Mihalaj
prophets
passing in front of him.
Prophet
with 2 men or 3
or 1 or none.
There are prophets.
Allah
send them,
and no one
responded.
That prophet,
he delivered the message,
and Allah knows that.
So he will come on the day of
resurrection
alone by himself
by himself.
And this is a lesson for the Dua.
For some of the Dua,
if the respond is weak from the people,
they leave the.
No.
Continue.
Continue because
you are calling to the path the way
of Allah, and your
is already there,
the
for you, your reward.
Whether the people
respond or not, that's not on your hand.
That's only in Allah's hand.
In Allah's hand.
So just continue
doing the dawah.
Also, it should not be
should not be concerned
about the number of the followers, those who
respond,
Whether 1,
2,000,
1,000,000,
doesn't matter. That should not affect your performance
of the
in giving the.
Your performance is the same.
Whether one
is attending your study circle
or 1,000,
the same.
Same throughput, the same performance,
the same delivery.
You should not be
influenced by the number.
Number,
remove it from your mind. Remove it.
Continue doing the dawah
for the sake of Allah
And your words, if they are
coming from your heart,
they will reach their hearts.
The one who opens people's hearts is only
Allah.
Your task, your job only to
convey the message to them and to remind
them.
So
my advice for you, brothers and sisters,
remain
steadfast,
abide by the
and follow
footsteps
of our beloved prophet Muhammad
and his companions.
May Allah
keep us to remain on
that path.
Keep us to remain steadfast
on this beautiful deen
till we breathe our last and find our
love
pleased with all of us.
May
Allah forgive us all false and mistakes and
ignorance.
May Allah
bless us with the beneficial knowledge of our
just deeds.
May Allah unite
and may Allah unite our hearts.
May Allah reward you, my dear brothers and
sisters immensely,
and patience and attendance.
We have received our first set of questions
if you would like to move on to
that, Sheikh.
So the first question is, what is the
advice on the new Islamic coin that is
being launched? Is it permissible or halal?
What is it?
Islamic coin. I think it's,
maybe cryptocurrency
or something of that nature.
I don't know. So if the questioner can
send me more information,
okay, I will look into the this.
So ask the questioner to forward you
and forward it to me, shall we?
Next question.
We're waiting on a few more questions to
come through.
Because I'm not aware. What is this Islamic
coin? Is it,
electronic one? Is it,
gold? Is it silver? What is it?
So
the the
the
questioner has to provide
more information, shall
we?
Someone has asked, can you please give me
the same brief introduction about Imam,
Shabaab Zuhari
and the work at the time of Omar
Abdul Aziz?
Okay.
That's a lecture by itself.
Next question.
Imam Zuhari is one of the.
K?
So
if you need to know about their biographies,
you can open
go on the net and write or
and you can see the biography
of. Same thing. They
consider him to be
the Khalif al Khamis, the 5th caliph,
and his life is
full of lessons for us because he was
pious and righteous.
At his time, though, he ruled only for
a short period of time,
very short,
but he established
justice,
guard him.
During his reign,
the collectors
did
not find anyone
eligible for the car. No one.
So they wrote to him, and they said,
oh,
I may remove what we need.
We can't find anyone to give him the
car.
He said,
okay.
Count those
who are the slaves
and buy slaves and set them free.
They did, then they sent him also asking
him.
The the amount of money is still surplus.
A lot of money.
He said count those who are not married,
the bachelors and sponsors, and get them married.
They did, and they wrote again.
The mail the money
is still surplus.
A lot of money.
He said buy food and
grains and scatter the grains
on the places where the birds are living.
So that's what happened
during the reign of Muhammad Abdul Aziz.
And guess what?
His own family,
Banu Umayyah,
His own family, Banu Umayya.
His wife is the daughter of 1 of
the Khalifa of Banu Umayya. When he married
her,
He has palaces,
all types of jewelries, all types of ornaments,
gar pleasures of stones, all these things.
When he became Khalifa,
all that he took and put it in
and said, this is not yours.
What your father gave you, that was not
his.
That was not his. Your his wealth. That's
the wealth of the Muslims.
He took all
the palaces and
the farms that
were were given
from
the Khalifa before him to Banu Umayyad, his
the his cousins,
his aunts,
his own aunts.
So then felt
this guy is going to make our life
miserable.
Guess what they did? They killed him.
They poisoned
him.
They poisoned him.
They asked
one of the slaves
who gives the food to him, and he
put the poison.
And he met.
So
when
you read his biography,
it's
amazing. Amazing.
He was. He was a scholar.
He was always in contact with Al Hasan
al Ghosri.
There are many correspondence
that took place between him and Al Hasan
al Ghosri.
His adviser was Raja ibn Haywa,
another pious, righteous,
Muslim.
Next question.
The next question.
If someone's son does something very bad and
everyone found out and the parent lies to
hide the mistake, is this okay?
Someone's son has
does something very bad, and everyone found it
out.
And the parent lies
to
hide the mistake. Now they shouldn't apply.
They should not not they shouldn't apply.
Right?
He made a mistake. He made a mistake.
Right? And he should be disciplined and should
be corrected.
But
to
cover what
the the,
the son did and to lie
is we try,
for example, in Islam, then this is not
only,
the parents should do. Every Muslim should do.
If you see a Muslim brother or sister
doing something, this is the problem now with
the Muslims. Muslims now, they don't
cover the false and,
shortcomings of their brothers or sisters.
They blackmail each other.
You saw your brother is doing something? Immediately,
you pull your mobile.
You see your sister with a boy
in Islam, the same thing
put it in on Instagram.
That's haram.
That's totally haram in Islam.
In Islam,
we conceal,
we cover up
the
drawbacks,
the,
shortcomings of our brothers and sisters.
That is our Islam.
We don't blackmail anyone. We don't expose anyone.
The prophet said,
If you cover
the
drawbacks, the shortcomings,
and the mistakes of your brothers and sisters,
Allah
and the devil's direction
will treat you in the same manner,
so he will not expose you in front
of all mankind.
That's not that's
not what Islam teaching.
You serve brother,
doing haram.
You're advising, Afi,
consider that I didn't see you,
but fear Allah.
Fear Allah.
Allah is watching you.
Don't repeat it. Repent to Allah.
A sister,
the same thing.
You saw your sister doing something
in a swamp.
The girl
you should go and tell all the sisters
and, oh, I saw so and so doing
this.
And
repent
in October.
So now
if one's child,
boy or girl, made a mistake,
yeah, the same thing.
Same way, we try to
cover and conceal, but we should not lie.
We should not lie
to come out and say, well, lie they
did it. No.
K? Normal? That's
something happened. Human beings, they make mistakes.
We should not this is our problem nowadays.
We
our dirty linens.
We our dirty linen. We disclose
whatever any Muslim does.
So fear Allah, my dear brothers and sisters,
and don't do that.
I hope this is clear to the questioner.
Next.
Baragulafiq,
the next question.
Please, could you name a few trustworthy websites
to seek no knowledge from?
Yes. The, I think, slam q and a
by Sheikh,
when I did.
Islam web
also.
Islam web.
Yeah, these 2, I would like to come
back
because
you will find Arabic and English there, and
I think other languages.
Next.
Barag Lafiq, what are the privileges
of the 4 Ashurah Muharram months?
The Muharram
is one of the,
sacred months.
Okay? So
one has to avoid
sinning in any,
other months, but, this month, if you
the even before Islam, the people, they sanctify
such months, so no killing, no bloodshed, etcetera.
And
committing and sinning in such
months. It's not like sinning out in any
other month, though it is haram.
And, of course,
the and
the Ashura, 9th 10th of Muharram.
I think it will fall on, Thursday Friday
coming. So one,
should fast that
for the,
it just shouldn't have the prophet recommended. Next
question, please.
Barkolafiq.
The next question.
When is the divorce and when can it
be?
What caused the
again again, what's the question?
When is divorce
when is the divorce can be wajib, and
when can it be?
Of course, the divorce can be Wajid, can
be can be.
To divorce your wife just,
for no reason because that is bull.
K?
It is wagging
when life becomes
unbearable
between you,
husband and wife. So it's better in that
case for them
to
to,
end the relationship.
Or if you find that she is cheating
on you,
k,
then you end this relationship because she is
going to
bring you children
that they are not yours.
K? Also, the,
the pull up
during a woman having her menses,
it's also,
haram to divorce one
once to divorce his wife when she is
having a in the suicide cycle,
and that's called
because
it's not the correct procedure
of making.
If someone
wants to divorce his wife,
he has to wait
until she gets her period,
and then she is clean, and then he
doesn't sleep with her, and then he can't
divorce.
There's a question here,
says, what caused the between
Hussein
and Yazid?
This is history,
and, you know what happened.
The
when Uthman
was
assassinated
by the criminals,
And,
became the Khalifa, the caliph, and
also
because he's very close
very close relative of Sayidna Asman,
he asked Sayidna Ali
to hand over to him those who killed
Asman.
Said Ali was the other one who wanted
to
find out who are the real killers, the
culprits, because when he asked
who killed Osman,
100, they say, all of us killed him.
And
was,
so
he wants to find out the real
culprits, the real criminals.
He realized
that is unable, so
he decided
to,
retaliate and kill those criminals.
And that's why the army
from Assam came, not to fight,
but those who killed Osman.
But Allah decrees something, and you know what
happened.
When
the army from the Assam
went to Iraq,
and they met and they met, and
they talked,
and they agreed to hand over the criminals.
But the criminals realized,
okay,
that they're going
to be handed over.
So at night, they attacked the army that
came from,
and the army got supplies.
Those who came from,
from
Sham,
and they thought that they were betrayed and
that
the fight took over,
which is known as the battle of the
camel, because our mother, Aisha, was riding the
camel.
Anyway,
to cut this story short,
what happened happened,
and
later on was also
killed
by the Hawarij.
Then Saidna Hassan al Hassan,
you know, Ali of the who became the
Khalifa.
And once he became Khalifa, immediately, he called
Saidna
and he told,
you are the Khalifa.
I am I'm not the Khalifa. I don't
want to be Khalifa.
And that called
the
year of the group
or the words the Muslims were united.
Then Muawiya passed away, and his son became
the Khalifa, Yazid.
And Yazid ibn Muawiya,
there are many lies about him that he's
alcoholic, and he is doing all these,
major sins, which is not true.
All these are lies by the Shia.
Lies by the Shia.
Mohammed ibn
Hanafiya.
Mohammed ibn Hanafiya is one of the children
of Sayidina Ali, and he is the brother
of Al Hassan and Al Hussein,
but his mother is different. Not Fatima,
a woman from Bani Hanifa.
So Mohammed ibn Hanafiyyah,
he visited
Yazid, and he said,
I found him pious,
a righteous person.
Did
Yazid kill Al Hussein? That is not true.
What happened
that
Hussein Al Hussein,
he wanted
because when Yazid became the Khalifa,
he didn't
accept that,
and he said he thought that he is
the one who should be the Khalifa.
So
he talked and he sent
letters to the people of Iraq if they
are ready to give him the,
the allegiance.
And he sent his own cousin,
Abdul.
And Abdul
sent many letters to Al Hussein telling him
the people of Iraq are ready to meet
you
and to
accept you and
stand by you and give you the bayah.
So Sayna Ali,
Hussein ibn Ali
he accepted it. So he believed them. He
believed them.
The Sahaba, they tried to stop saying Al
Hussein from leaving Medina
because they know about the people of Iraq,
and they know the prophet
he already told them
that Al Hussein will be martyred. There is
a hadith. The prophet
said,
Al Hussein will be killed.
So everyone tried
to stop him, but he didn't listen.
Even Abdulah Nohamal,
he came to talk to him.
He said,
the people
already committed themselves. They gave me my word
their words,
and they have to go.
He warned him. He didn't listen, so Abdul
Abdulrahman hugged him
and cried and said,
what a martyr. He knew he was going
to be
martyred.
In his way, that's why you need to
study the history. In his way, to Iraq,
Sayed al Hussein,
he met in his way,
Alvarazdak. Alvarazdak is a poet.
Al Farazdak. Al Farazdak.
And he asked him, tell me about the
people of Hurrah.
He said,
oh, son of the daughter of the prophet
from
Allah. Their hearts with you, but their swords
against you.
They are going
to fight you, the people of Iraq.
And then he reached the place of Karbala.
And now he is confronted
with the army of the people of Iraq.
Actually, the ones who killed Al Hussein are
the Shia.
The Shia are the ones who killed Al
Hussein.
Shia.
So now when he is because he took
all his family
with him.
So when he is now
confronting
the army of the people of Iraq,
he told them,
let me go back to Medina. Okay.
I'll go back to Medina,
or allow me to go to Yazid. I
will go to Yazid.
He's my cousin, and we will solve our
problem. They said, no way.
We will not allow you to go to
Medina,
neither to Medina nor to go to Yazid.
We will fight you.
And he fought, and he was martyred.
Who killed him? They Shia themselves
other ones.
That's why they are slapping their faces and
crying and these things.
But they are the culprits. They are the
ones who killed him,
not Yazid.
Yazid
grieved upon the death of Al Hussein,
and he honored the families of.
So what you read about him
is not true.
The prophet
said,
The first army that conquers
will invade
Constantinople.
They are
their sins are forgiven,
that army. And this who was the commander
and the leader, Yazid ibn Maria.
So this is in brief.
The,
what's the next question?
Barkolofik, the next question.
If friends had a falling out and one
has reached out to the to invite the
other, should the other accept the invite or
reject it?
Please advise what is the best practice.
Okay.
So 2 friends.
Something happened between them.
This is what I understand it.
And
someone now trying to reach the other,
either to
apologize
or normalize the relationship
or apologize, whatever.
In Islam,
the prophet
said it is haram for 2 Muslims
to stop talking to each other
for more than 3 nights.
And the best one of them is the
one who
take the takes the initiative
and give the salam to the other.
So this what the hadid says.
So
if this father or his 2 sisters, whatever,
and
he comes or she comes and apologize,
then
accept their apology and,
normalize your relationship. And
things should be normal.
Unless you
feel that you don't want this relation because
that
father or this that sister
doing something shameful, and it's going to harm
you, and
they might lead you to
pull you to their side, etcetera. It depends
on the situation.
I don't know what is the real problem
actually.
But as a rule of thumb,
if
just something happened
and someone
said, I'm sorry.
K. I apologize.
K. Life has to continue. And,
as mentioned, the hadith, the one who,
is lenient,
Parliament
is the best one.
Next question. If I got the question
right.
Next question, please.
Barag Lafiq, the next question. What is the
ruling on the wife who exposes
her husband for his defects
in the home?
No. It's haram.
You're not.
Listen to me,
brothers and sisters.
What is inside the home
between husband and wife should remain inside. It
should remain inside their bedroom
even their children should not know about it.
That's it.
You don't go and talk about your husband.
You should try to reform your husband.
Approve
him. Help him.
If you find him,
doing something haram.
So help him
to get rid of that,
to come closer to Allah, to repent.
Not that you pick your phone and speak
to your mother. Listen to me, sisters.
Never do that.
Don't consult your mother
because she will react emotionally and she will
not give you the right guidance.
You will not give her the right guidance.
So that's why if you
want advice of her, don't tell her,
mom, this what's happened to me. No. Put
it on the 3rd person.
Mother,
if someone
is looking for advice, and this what will
happen, so your mother will not
feel
that it is you. It is just you
are asking on behalf of somebody else.
So if your husband did something,
don't pick up the phone,
and you are crying,
mom, this what happened to me.
Don't do that.
You should be
smart,
intelligent,
and wise,
and you should know how to handle this
problem
and how
to
help your husband
to overcome this
problem
and how to come out of it.
Not that you start
talking about it.
Talking about it. Because
naturally,
if you start
adding the dirty linen, exposing her to everyone,
You are calling for
the end of your,
marital life.
Yes.
If life became unbearable
and you are you want to
have to lock,
then
in a limited
within
circumstances,
when there is leeway
where you can
tell
the the
the judge
about your problem.
That my husband is doing this, this, this,
and this. So I cannot
continue living with that.
Only in that
in that case.
But apart from that,
you try to cover
up the
the falls of your husband and try to
improve him and try to
remind him and ask him to
fear
Allah.
Question says follow-up.
Is it
right? Also that in Muhammad, prophet Musa,
himself
did fasting. Yes.
That is true. The prophet when he arrived
in Medina,
he found the Jews fasting.
So he asked,
why are you fasting?
They said, this is the day Allah
saved us
when Israel Israelites
from the pharaoh and
his troops. So
we
commemorate that day by fasting and thanking Allah.
Upon that, the prophet
said, we are indeed closer to Moses than
you.
So he told the Muslims to fast, and
then he said, if I live until next
year, I will fast also
the 9th
Joshua and the Joshua. Yes.
Next question.
The next question.
Is there a term called Sinsjaria,
which continues to be written for a person
after they die? If the sins continue through
others, that was started by the person who
died.
Yes. Yeah. This,
what's I'll have this is a new term.
Term.
So that I since. Okay?
If someone
invited
was calling the people to misguidance,
to beat us,
K. Misleading the people, then he died.
So, yes,
while he's in his grace,
all the sins, those people whom he misguided,
committed will be added to his record.
So
be careful.
Next.
Barakul Afiq. The next question.
A sister who has been divorced,
should she inform people like friends and family
that she's divorced,
like wedding, or should she keep quiet and
unless she is asked?
Oh, she can inform her, her family, at
least, her father or her mother
so that they know
that she was divorced. So this is the
first one up.
But she should remain and spend
the, in the house of her husband.
K?
So the waiting period, which is
3 menstrual cycles or 3 months.
K? If he this is the first time,
first he
has to stay.
And that is the wisdom behind it is
to give a chance to the husband to
take her back. So if he says, I
have taken you back or he sleeps with
her or kisses
her or hugs her, that means he took
her back.
But if this period,
the
3 menstrual cycles or 3 months
elapsed, finished,
then she has to move to her parents.
Now if he wants to marry her again,
she has
her consent
is a must.
We cannot force
her. While she is in the,
she's still his wife.
He can just decide I have taken you.
K. And that's it.
But now if he wants to take her
back, there should be new
money lighter money and
a new
money contract.
So she went back. He divorced her the
second time, the same procedure.
When the red hair finishes, she has to
leave.
Now if he wants to take her again,
the same thing.
He took her again,
and now he divorced divorced her the third
time,
then she has to leave immediately the house
and go to her family.
That is the end of the story, and
the chapter of their marriage is closed.
If you married another man,
no man marriage, not what they call it
halalah in the subcontinent.
Okay. You married this woman for 1 night,
then you divorce her to go back. That's
totally halal. What if he married no woman
married?
Then she was divorced. Then if the former
husband wants to take her, he can.
Next.
Just,
question clarifying on the previous question. Is there
an Arabic term
for?
This is,
the hadith, the prophet
said
that
if
you,
and die,
he says the
that if someone,
called to misguidance.
So whomever follows that misguidance,
those,
misguided by him, all the deeds. This is
called
which is,
bad
way.
Bad
sunnah,
then all those who follow that path or
that way,
they will be
all the sins will be in house record.
Right? There's nothing called
There's nothing. The first time I hear this,
terminology.
Next.
This was the last question.
If you would like to conclude the lesson.
May Allah
bless you, bless your family, protect you, protect
your family,
and may Allah
elevate your status of this world.
May
Allah give us to remain steadfast on this
beautiful deed until we meet Allah and find
him pleased with all of us. Amen.
Until we meet
in the coming
sessions, I leave you.
In Allah's company and projection.