Salem Al Amry – Lesson 7 Kitab At-Tauhid

Salem Al Amry
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The importance of worship in the spiritual world is discussed in a series of videos and presentations, highlighting the history and meaning of Islam and the use of shrocking and avoiding confusion. The attendance of all students and immediate graduation is also emphasized, with advice given on proper deeds and precautions for traveling on the road. The importance of avoiding poverty and not being in a state of fear, praying for the sun, and not worrying about others is emphasized, along with avoiding distractions from fasting and taking drugs. Finally, attention is given to serving parents and avoiding negative consequences, and to pray for the sun and not worry about others.
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May Allah bless you all for your attendance.

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Forgive me for being away for the last

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couple of weeks, but inshallah we'll be back

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and better than ever.

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Friday we are covering virtues of Islam by

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Muhammad bin Abdul Wahhab, Muhammad Ali.

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Just a quick reminder, please take notes, listen

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attentively and hand your questions over to me

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and the co-hosts for the course of

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the lesson.

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With that said, I'll hand it back to

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the sheikh to start the lesson.

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BarakAllah Fikum, Wa Jazakumullahu Khayran, Assalamu Alaikum.

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I'm a bit confused.

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Is it today Masal Jahiliyya or Kitabat Tawheed?

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Apologies, I read out the wrong thing.

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It's Kitabat Tawheed.

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Yes, today we are joined for Episode 7

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of Kitabat Tawheed.

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Jazakumullahu Khayran.

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Innahu man yahdihi Allahu fala mudhilla lah.

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Waman yudhlil fala hadiya lah.

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Wa ash'hadu an la ilaha illa Allah

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wahdahu la sharika lah.

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Wa ash'hadu anna Muhammadan abiduhu wa rasuluhu.

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Amma ba'du fa inna astuqa al hadith kitab

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Allahi ta'ala Wa khayran al hadi hadi

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Muhammadin salallahu alayhi wa alihi wa sallam.

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Wa sharrul umuri muhdathatuha wa kulla muhdathatin bid

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'ah Wa kulla bid'atin walalah Wa kulla

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walalatin finnaar.

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I'm Ahmad Malik, brothers and sisters in Islam.

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Today is our weekly class.

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And we are in the beginning of this

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book, beautiful book, Kitabat Tawheed by Sheikh Al

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-Imam Al-Mujadid, Muhammad Abdul Wahab, rahimahullahu ta

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'ala.

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May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala give us

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the strength and the ikhlas to go through

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this and the knowledge and the success to

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go through this book and to finish it

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by his grace.

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Ameen.

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And I request each one of you to

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take notes.

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Chapter number one, we started in the last

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session.

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We didn't finish it.

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And the author, rahimahullah ta'ala, without introduction,

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without anything, he started with Kitabat Tawheed.

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No preface, no introduction.

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Emulating Imam Bukhari.

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Imam Bukhari did not make any introduction.

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Kitab al-Wahi, that's the beginning of Sahih

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Imam Bukhari.

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No preface, nothing.

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So Imam Bukhari started with the beginning, the

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chapter on the Kitab al-Wahi, the beginning

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of revelation.

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And here, Imam Muhammad, rahimahullah, started with Kitab

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al-Tawheed, because the entire revelation is about

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Tawheed.

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Kitab al-Tawheed.

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Because to make a preface or introduction to

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explain your work, that's normally what an author

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does.

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So he will tell you what are the

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things that he did in this book, et

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cetera.

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But here, immediately, it is Allah's kalam.

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Immediately, the verses of the Quran and the

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hadith of the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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So the author is telling you, there's no

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need for me to write anything for you.

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Okay, because this is the very purpose for

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which you are created.

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Kitab al-Tawheed, and we talked about what's

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the meaning of Kitab, and the meaning of

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Tawheed and Kitab, is the chapter or portion

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of knowledge.

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Okay, so that's why you find in many

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classification of books, they say Kitab, Kitab, Kitab,

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which means these are chapters and these are

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different doses of knowledge or portions of knowledge.

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So this is Kitab al-Tawheed.

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So he's telling you this is Kitab al

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-Tawheed.

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This is the book, talks entirely about the

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Tawheed.

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And this is one of the best book,

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if it is not the best book ever,

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was written regarding this specific matter, this specific

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subject, Kitab al-Tawheed or Tawheed al-Ibadah.

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So it is specifically addressing this particular category

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of Tawheed, the unity of worship, Tawheed al

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-Ibadah or Tawheed al-Ibadah.

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Because that is the very reason that Allah

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Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la created us

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and that is the reason that Allah Subh

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'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la sent his prophets

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and messengers, as we explained before.

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People by default, they believe in the unity

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of lordship, Tawheed al-Rububiyah, they believe in

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the actions of Allah, divine actions of Allah,

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acts of Allah.

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But then they drifted, mankind drifted away from

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singling out Allah regarding the Ibadah, they worshipped

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the acts of worship and started worshipping others

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besides him.

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So that's why Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta

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-A'la sent messengers to guide mankind and

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to bring them back and place them on

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the right track and ask them to worship

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only Allah.

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So Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la

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says in Surat al-Dhariyat, Ayah 56, this

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is a quick recap, wa ma khalaqtu al

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-jinna wa al-insa illa liya'buduun.

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So, and I, Allah, created not the jinn

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and mankind, except that they should worship me

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alone.

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So the answer to why do we exist?

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Why do we exist?

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To worship Allah.

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Why are we here on this planet?

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To worship Allah.

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Very simple.

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And Alhamdulillah, this Islam is so beautiful and

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it simplifies everything.

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Oh, this perplexing question that puzzled the

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philosophers throughout history, but they called them existential

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questions.

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Okay, who am I?

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Where did I come from?

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Who brought me?

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What will happen to me?

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Where am I heading to?

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The Muslim knows.

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Any Muslim, any layman, ask any Muslim these

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questions that perplex and confuse the philosophers, any

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Muslim will tell you, give you the answer

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straightforward.

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Alhamdulillah.

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This is a blessing from Allah.

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We know why do we exist, who created

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us, what is needed of us, what will

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happen to us.

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We know the details of our journey back

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to him.

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We know the details about our beginning, about

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our creation.

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We are not descendants of monkeys.

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No.

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We are the progeny and descendants of Adam,

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alayhi salam.

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Adam did not evolve.

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No, Adam created perfectly, completely, no

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evolution.

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No, not all that.

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Muslim, alhamdulillah, we have no problem.

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You know, we know our origin, our ancestors,

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human beings, not monkeys.

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The Hadith, the Prophet, salallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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said, inna Allaha khalaqa Adam ala suratihi.

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Allah created Adam in his image.

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Authentic Hadith.

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The Muslim scholars, they had two interpretations for

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this Hadith.

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The first interpretation, that Allah created Adam in

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his image because khalaqa Allahu Adam ala suratihi.

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And the scholars, they differ.

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This pronoun, suratihi, the ha, refers to Adam

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or refers to Allah.

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Muslim scholars, they differ in this.

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So those who say the dhamir, the pronoun,

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goes back to Allah, so what does it

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mean?

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Allah created Adam in his image.

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If Adam resembles Allah, it's impossible.

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Because Allah said, laysa kamith lihi shay, wahu

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sami'ul basir.

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Nothing is like unto Allah, so nothing likes

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Allah.

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So Adam cannot be like Allah, or resembles

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Allah.

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So what does it mean if we say

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the dhamir, the pronoun refers to Allah?

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The ulama, they gave this explanation.

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They said the meaning, Allah did not have

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sight, so Allah gave him the sight.

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Adam did not have the faculty of hearing,

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Allah gave him the faculty of hearing.

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Because Allah hears, and He made Adam also

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to hear.

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Allah sees, He made Adam also to see.

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Allah knows, He made Adam to know.

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And He taught him.

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So He created Adam in His image, that

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He has given him qualities that Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala had, and He gave him

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these qualities that suited nature, suited deficiency,

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suited him as a human being, as a

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creature, not a creator.

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So Adam's knowledge is not like Allah's knowledge.

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Adam's sight is not like Allah's sight.

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Adam's hearing is not like Allah's hearing.

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Adam's life is not like Allah's life.

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So this is the interpretation the Muslims gave.

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Those who said that inna Allaha khalaqa Adam

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ala suratihi Allah created Adam in His image,

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and they say the dameer refers to Allah.

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So, and this interpretation is acceptable and no

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problem with it.

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No problem with it at all.

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The other meaning, they said inna Allaha khalaqa

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Adam ala suratihi Allah created Adam in His

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image, and this pronoun, the ha, suratihi, refers

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to Adam and not to Allah.

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And in that case, the meaning is very

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clear and very simple that Adam was created

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from the beginning completely as a human being.

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He didn't go through the evolution or development,

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et cetera.

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Okay?

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Allah told the angels collect the ingredients from

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all parts of the earth, and he was

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fashioned in the Jannah.

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Adam was created in Jannah.

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And finally, the soul was the spirit.

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The soul life was breathed into Adam, and

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he became a living being.

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And the first thing that Adam did, he

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sneezed and he praised Allah.

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Then he was told to go and salute

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and greet the angels.

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And he greeted them, and they replied, and

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they said, this is the greeting for you

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and your children.

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So Adam was created from the beginning completely

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in one go.

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Allah created him.

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And I explained to you the meaning of

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that Allah breathed into him the spirit, which

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means the spirit or the ruh of the

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soul is not part of Allah.

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The soul itself is created, because some ignorant

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Muslims think that there is something divine in

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the human being.

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And they say because Allah breathed his spirit

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into Adam.

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No, the soul spirit is created by Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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And when we die, the spirit of the

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soul comes out and goes back to Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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So alhamdulillah, we Muslims, we know our faith,

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we know our belief, and we know the

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reason behind our creation, behind our existence, and

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what is needed of us, and our role

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in this life.

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Everything is known to the Muslims.

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So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, when he

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is telling here, that he created jinn and

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mankind only to worship him.

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That is the purpose of our existence.

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The rest of mankind, they don't know.

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They don't know why they exist here.

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They don't know.

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So if you ask them, what's the purpose

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of your existence?

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I have no clue.

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I don't know.

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And Allah described them, they are worse than

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the cattle.

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The cattle, they know.

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The cattle, they know.

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They're the creator.

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And you, a human being, you don't know

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the purpose of your existence.

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There is no purpose for you here.

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Everything around you has a purpose.

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Your clothes, they have purpose, and that's to

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cover your body.

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Your specs, your glasses, to help you to

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see.

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Your pen to help you to write.

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Your watch to know time.

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Everything has a specific function.

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How about you?

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Your pair of shoes, with all due respect.

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Okay.

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There's purpose for your shoes, and that is

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to cover your feet and protect them.

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And then you tell, you yourself, there's no

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purpose for you.

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What's wrong with you?

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May Allah guide humanity.

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So that's why, my dear brothers and sisters,

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you should be grateful to Allah for this

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blessing, that Allah has given us this knowledge,

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which enables us to know the reason behind

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our existence.

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Also, Allah said in Surah An-Nahl, and

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that we covered, and just recapping quickly, in

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Surah An-Nahl, Ayat 36, Allah mentioned, وَلَقَدْ

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بَعَثْنَا فِي كُلِّ أُمَّةٍ رَسُولًا أَنْ عُبُدُوا اللَّهُ

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وَيْجَنِبُوا الطَّغُوتِ Most certainly, we have sent among

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every ummah, every community, every nation, a messenger

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proclaiming, worship Allah alone and avoid or keep

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away from taghut, false deities.

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So you can see here clearly in this

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ayah, that Allah sent messengers, prophets, to every

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community on this planet.

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So no one will come on the Day

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of Resurrection and pose an objection to Allah

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and say, I didn't know.

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No, the messengers came to you.

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So there's no excuse, because Allah made it

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clear that I sent messengers and warners so

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that mankind, people, have no excuse for the

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Day of Resurrection.

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And human beings, when they are thrown to

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the Hellfire, the angels, they rebuke them and

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they say, أَلَمْ يَأْتِكُمْ النَّذِيرُ No warners came

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to you?

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Didn't Allah's warners, messengers, come to you?

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Say, بَلَا Warners, they came to us.

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But we belied them, we rejected them.

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Because Allah will not punish anyone on the

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Day of Resurrection unjustly.

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No one will have any justification No one

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can claim that I've been treated unfairly

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or unjustly.

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Because everyone will be giving his record to

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read his book.

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Read your book.

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Because Allah knows the nature of the human

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being.

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They deny, they lie.

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So that day, there is no chance for

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you to lie.

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This is your record, read it.

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Read your record.

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That's why they wonder, as Allah said, مَا

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لِهَذَا الْكِتَارِ What an amazing book.

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لَا يُغَادِرُ صَغِيرَةً وَلَا كَبِيرًا إِلَّا أَحْصَاهَا There's

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nothing missing.

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Big, small, everything is jotted, recorded.

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وَوَجَدُوا مَا عَمِلُوا حَاظِرًا And they will find

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what they did present before their eyes.

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وَلَا يَظْلِمُ رَبُّكَ أَحْنَا Your Rabb, your Lord,

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wrongs no one.

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وَمَا كُنَّ مُعَذِّبِينَ حَتَّى نَبْعَثَ رَسُولًا Allah said,

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we were not going to punish anyone before

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sending them messengers.

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So Allah sent messengers to everyone.

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Every community.

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This ayah is clear because you might hear

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this question, how about those people who are

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in remote areas and Allah sent to all

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mankind.

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Also Allah because is the most just.

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There are some people when the messenger came

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to them they were old, they did not

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grab and digest the message so they would

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say, our Lord your messenger came to us

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but we were very old.

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Such category of people Allah gives them a

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chance on that day and He tests them

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on the day of resurrection if they pass

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the test they will go to heaven, if

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they fail they will go to *.

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So Allah says here that He sent to

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every nation messengers proclaiming, calling them

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addressing them, telling them what?

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So the messengers came calling the people to

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worship Allah and leave the false objects of

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worship false deities.

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Now let us complete the chapter and continue.

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Allah says in surah ayah 36 Worship

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Allah and join none with Him in worship.

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Let us pose and reflect and I hope

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the pens are moving taking notes.

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Worship Allah actualize the you worship only Allah

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and what is worship?

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What is Ibada?

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Ibada?

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All the actions that are pleasing to Allah

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whatever you do that Allah loves is considered

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to be an act of worship because many

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Muslims the concept of Ibada is so narrow

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and limited in their minds confined to the

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rituals the five prayers or the pillars of

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Islam.

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No Ibada is broader than that.

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Ibada that you have to be in a

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state of worship 24 sevens.

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You should be always in this state of

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servitude.

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You are a servant of Allah.

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When you are in the market doing your

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business and you are making your transactions halal

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that is a form of Ibada.

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When you are in the office working to

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earn halal income to feed your family that

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is an act of Ibada.

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So all our actions can be converted into

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righteous deeds and acts of worship.

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That is why Shaykh Islam Ibn Taymiyyah when

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he defined Ibada he said He

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said it is this word Ibada is so

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comprehensive so generic it covers a wide range

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of meanings This

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is under Ibada it covers great meanings referring

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to whatever is pleasing to Allah Whatever Allah

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loves it and is pleasing to Him then

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that is Ibada.

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To be kind to your parents to obey

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your parents to take care of your family

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to discipline your children to command them to

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pray to be honest to do whatever pleases

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Allah the utterances the articulations that are pleasing

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to Allah that is an act of worship

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That is Ibada Whatever you say that Allah

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loves is Ibada Teaching people Islam giving da

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'wah Ibada This is the

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beauty of Islam Everything in your life can

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be an act of worship Imagine when you

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are making love fulfilling your biological needs with

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your partner you get hasanat When

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned this

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to the sahaba He said we fulfill our

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desire and we will be rewarded He said

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what if you fulfill your desires your biological

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needs in the haram What will happen to

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you?

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Are you going to be punished for that?

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They said yes.

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He said the opposite When you fulfill your

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biological needs in the halal way you will

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be rewarded Imagine you fulfill your desire and

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you get hasanat You eat and you quench

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your hunger and your thirst and you get

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hasanat When you have

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niyyah intention When I'm going to have my

00:33:09 --> 00:33:13

meal my intention I eat to gain strength

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to worship Allah When I go to sleep

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I have the intention I'm going to sleep

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to rest so that I will be able

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to get up and worship Allah So imagine

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your day is 24 hours 8 hours in

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the office 8 hours of sleep and 2

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thirds of your day is gone and the

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remaining 8 hours 1 hour, 2 hours for

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the prayers and how about the remaining 6

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hours What are you doing in that?

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for social activities for eating, for drinking So

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are you telling me that Allah created you

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to worship Him 2 hours and 22 hours

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you are not worshipping Him So the 8

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hours in the office you can make them

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convert them into acts of worship So imagine

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because of the niyyah your intention I am

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working to earn halal income to earn my

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livelihood to feed my family halal So throughout

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the day you are getting hasanat that is

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8 hours Now convert it into good deeds

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8 hours of sleep, convert it and the

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rest of the 8 hours you can also

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convert them into good deeds so 24 hours

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you are in the state of ibadah and

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that is what makes the meaning of the

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ayah clear now Say

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my salah my prayers my sacrifice and my

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life the entire activities I do when I

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am alive all my life and my dying

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my living and my dying So this is

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the concept of ibadah So now you should

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know this meaning the broad meaning of the

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ibadah You have to be a true servant

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of Allah wherever you are your salah, your

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zikah your hajj your mundane affairs everything is

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in line and complying with the divine injunctions

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and instructions of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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wa abudullaha Worship Allah You don't worship anyone

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You don't go to the Muslim or the

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tomb or the saints or the dargah or

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whatever you want to call it You don't

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go there and ask anyone, asking the judge

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asking Abdul Qadir Jilani You only worship Allah

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Allah alone You alone we worship and

00:37:52 --> 00:37:56

you alone we ask for help We don't

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ask the dead and yet you find thousands

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and thousands of Muslims They go and they

00:38:07 --> 00:38:11

ask other than Allah and when they are

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in trouble instead of saying Ya Allah they

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will ask other than Allah even if it

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is the Prophet You don't ask anyone but

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Allah Wa abudullaha Worship

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Allah alone Remember How many times I mentioned

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this Shay'a undefined Nakirah We call it

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Nakirah in Arabic So if there is Nakirah

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undefined word mentioned in the context of a

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negation or prohibition Here Allah is prohibiting

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us And then there is Shay'a nakirah

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In this context Nakirah and prohibition or Allah

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is forbidding us It denotes this nakirah indicates

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and denotes generality To

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feed the public So when there is nakirah

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keep this rule in mind and the sentence

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and the syntax and the context is prohibition

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then it denotes generality If there is nakirah

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I hope that you are following and you

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understand what I am saying If there is

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nakirah undefined like Shay'am you can make

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it defined by adding and it becomes So

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if there is nakirah and there is prohibition

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Allah is telling us do not do this

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then it denotes generality like in this ayah

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So do not associate with me anyone none

00:41:01 --> 00:41:11

prophet messenger angel devil

00:41:11 --> 00:41:20

tree saint don't associate with

00:41:20 --> 00:41:38

me anything wala tushriku bihi shay'a wala

00:41:38 --> 00:41:44

yazlimu rabbuka ahada see there ahada nakirah but

00:41:44 --> 00:41:58

the syntax the context wala tushriku Allah is

00:41:58 --> 00:42:02

telling us wala yazlimu rabbuka ahada Allah is

00:42:02 --> 00:42:08

informing us that he will not be unjust

00:42:08 --> 00:42:14

to anyone wala yazlimu rabbuka ahada so Allah

00:42:14 --> 00:42:19

negates there Allah negates that he will not

00:42:19 --> 00:42:27

wrong anyone no one will be wrong but

00:42:27 --> 00:42:35

there the siyak is negation Allah

00:42:36 --> 00:42:44

prohibits us not to associate anyone with him

00:42:44 --> 00:42:50

wala tushriku bihi shay'a anyone should not

00:42:50 --> 00:43:00

be associated with Allah also Allah says in

00:43:00 --> 00:43:09

surat al an'am ayah 151 qul ta

00:43:09 --> 00:43:14

'ala wa atlu ma harrama rabbukum alaykum wala

00:43:14 --> 00:43:18

tushriku bihi shay'a see now shay'a

00:43:18 --> 00:43:24

nakirah wala tushriku bihi shay'a wa bilwadidayni

00:43:24 --> 00:43:33

ihsana wala taqtulu awladakum min imlaqa nahnu narzukukum

00:43:33 --> 00:43:38

wa iyahum wala taqlabu alfawahisha ma zahra minha

00:43:38 --> 00:43:44

wa ma batan wala taqtulu annafsa allati harrama

00:43:44 --> 00:43:49

allahu illa bilhaqqa zalikum ussakum bihi la'allakum

00:43:49 --> 00:43:53

ta'qilun Al-An'am 151, the meaning,

00:43:56 --> 00:43:59

say, O Muhammad, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, come.

00:44:01 --> 00:44:05

I will recite what your Rabb, your Lord,

00:44:05 --> 00:44:07

has prohibited you from.

00:44:10 --> 00:44:12

Join not anything in worship with him.

00:44:15 --> 00:44:20

Be good and dutiful, dutiful to your parents.

00:44:21 --> 00:44:26

Kill not your children because of poverty.

00:44:27 --> 00:44:30

We provide sustenance for you and for them.

00:44:31 --> 00:44:37

Come not near to shameful, whether committed openly

00:44:37 --> 00:44:40

or secretly, shameful deeds.

00:44:41 --> 00:44:46

And kill not anyone whom Allah has forbidden,

00:44:47 --> 00:44:50

except for a just cause according to the

00:44:50 --> 00:44:51

Islamic law.

00:44:52 --> 00:44:56

This is he, he has commanded you that

00:44:56 --> 00:44:57

you may understand.

00:44:58 --> 00:45:00

Let us just pose and reflect.

00:45:04 --> 00:45:07

Call, O Muhammad, tell the people, come, come,

00:45:07 --> 00:45:08

I will recite to you.

00:45:09 --> 00:45:10

I will inform you.

00:45:11 --> 00:45:13

Atlu ma'a hazrama rabbukum alaykum.

00:45:13 --> 00:45:16

I will inform you, recite to you, rehearse

00:45:16 --> 00:45:21

to you, what your Lord prohibited for you.

00:45:22 --> 00:45:28

Because without the messenger telling us, we will

00:45:28 --> 00:45:33

not know what Allah prohibited for us.

00:45:35 --> 00:45:39

That's why our knowledge comes from him, from

00:45:39 --> 00:45:41

Allah, through his Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

00:45:42 --> 00:45:44

And the role of the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi

00:45:44 --> 00:45:47

wa sallam, is passing the message to us.

00:45:49 --> 00:45:53

So, qul ta'alu, come, I will recite

00:45:53 --> 00:45:57

to you what your Rabb prohibited for you.

00:45:58 --> 00:46:01

What are the things that Allah prohibited?

00:46:01 --> 00:46:05

Number one, al la tushriku bihi shai'a.

00:46:05 --> 00:46:08

This is number one, tushriku bihi shai'a.

00:46:08 --> 00:46:09

By now, you should know.

00:46:10 --> 00:46:13

Al la tushriku, this is prohibition.

00:46:13 --> 00:46:17

Allah is prohibiting us not to associate, forbidding

00:46:17 --> 00:46:20

us not to associate anyone.

00:46:21 --> 00:46:23

And shai'a means anything.

00:46:24 --> 00:46:28

Don't associate with Allah, anyone, anything.

00:46:30 --> 00:46:33

Al la tushriku bihi shai'a, that's number

00:46:33 --> 00:46:33

one.

00:46:37 --> 00:46:40

So shirk, always there, number one, top priority,

00:46:40 --> 00:46:42

top of the list, the shirk.

00:46:44 --> 00:46:47

Because the shirk spoils everything.

00:46:47 --> 00:46:57

If you commit shirk, all the good deeds

00:46:57 --> 00:47:03

you have, they will be ruined, rejected, because

00:47:03 --> 00:47:04

of your shirk.

00:47:06 --> 00:47:08

Wa qadimna ila ma'amilu min al-amad,

00:47:08 --> 00:47:11

fita'annahu haba'an man surah.

00:47:14 --> 00:47:16

So on that day, Allah Subh'anaHu Wa

00:47:16 --> 00:47:19

Ta-A'la will look for the deeds

00:47:19 --> 00:47:25

of the kuffar, because they committed shirk, kuffar,

00:47:25 --> 00:47:31

all their deeds will be in vain, like

00:47:31 --> 00:47:40

scattered dust, dust particles, haba'an man surah.

00:47:47 --> 00:47:50

So the shirk spoils everything.

00:47:52 --> 00:47:55

And if you commit shirk, no jannah.

00:48:00 --> 00:48:05

Innahu man yushriku billah, wa qad harramallahu alayhi

00:48:05 --> 00:48:08

al-jannah, wa ma'awahu al-naar, wa

00:48:08 --> 00:48:10

ma li-dhalimina min al-suhur.

00:48:13 --> 00:48:20

So whoever commits shirk, jannah is made prohibited.

00:48:21 --> 00:48:24

Allah will prohibit him from entering the jannah.

00:48:25 --> 00:48:28

Harramallahu alayhi al-jannah, Allah made jannah haram

00:48:28 --> 00:48:29

for him.

00:48:30 --> 00:48:36

He will not smell its fragrance, because of

00:48:36 --> 00:48:37

the shirk.

00:48:39 --> 00:48:41

So all the kuffars are mushriks.

00:48:44 --> 00:48:47

Every kafir is mushrik, and every mushrik is

00:48:47 --> 00:48:48

kafir.

00:48:50 --> 00:48:57

Every kafir is mushrik, because he is worshipping.

00:49:01 --> 00:49:05

His whims, his desires, his nafs, his hawa,

00:49:05 --> 00:49:07

so he's mushrik.

00:49:09 --> 00:49:13

Fara'ita man attakhadha ilahahu hawa, fardallahu alayhi,

00:49:14 --> 00:49:16

have you seen the one who has taken

00:49:16 --> 00:49:20

his hawa, his whims and desires, as his

00:49:20 --> 00:49:25

God, he's worshipping himself.

00:49:27 --> 00:49:28

So he's a mushrik.

00:49:31 --> 00:49:33

There are people who are worshipping dirham and

00:49:33 --> 00:49:34

dinar.

00:49:34 --> 00:49:36

As the Prophet shallallahu alaihi wa sallam said,

00:49:37 --> 00:49:39

ta'is abdul dirham, ta'is abdul dinar.

00:49:40 --> 00:49:42

Woe to him, the worshipper of dirham and

00:49:42 --> 00:49:43

worshipper of dinar.

00:49:45 --> 00:49:49

What does it mean, he's worshipping dirham and

00:49:49 --> 00:49:49

dinar?

00:49:49 --> 00:49:52

Frustration for the banknote?

00:49:52 --> 00:49:52

No.

00:49:54 --> 00:49:59

But what motivates him, what reoccupies his mind,

00:50:00 --> 00:50:04

what matters to him is gaining the dollar

00:50:04 --> 00:50:07

and the euro and dirham and the dinar,

00:50:08 --> 00:50:11

irrespective whether it is halal or haram.

00:50:12 --> 00:50:15

So dinar and dirham is his God, his

00:50:15 --> 00:50:16

worshipping.

00:50:22 --> 00:50:24

Allah tushriku bihi shay'a.

00:50:26 --> 00:50:36

And then after that comes birr al

00:50:36 --> 00:50:46

-walideen, dutifulness towards one's parents, to

00:50:46 --> 00:50:48

be dutiful to your parents.

00:50:49 --> 00:50:54

Because parents in Islam, they have lofty, lofty

00:50:54 --> 00:50:54

status.

00:50:55 --> 00:51:01

And we have to treat them kindly and

00:51:01 --> 00:51:10

obey them and seek their pleasure and

00:51:10 --> 00:51:20

seek their love and dua because

00:51:20 --> 00:51:24

Allah made the Jannah at the feet of

00:51:24 --> 00:51:28

the mothers and made the father your gate

00:51:28 --> 00:51:29

of the Jannah.

00:51:34 --> 00:51:36

Wabil walideen ihsana.

00:51:37 --> 00:51:45

Yes, your parents, who when your mother met

00:51:45 --> 00:51:49

your, your father met your mother and they

00:51:49 --> 00:51:51

got married.

00:51:56 --> 00:52:01

Okay, now after the honeymoon and all that

00:52:01 --> 00:52:06

stuff and now they start thinking of having

00:52:06 --> 00:52:06

you.

00:52:07 --> 00:52:15

Have children and you came and you have

00:52:15 --> 00:52:16

a headache for them.

00:52:18 --> 00:52:24

Your father has to work harder to make

00:52:24 --> 00:52:27

sure that all your needs are met.

00:52:27 --> 00:52:30

Everything you need is there.

00:52:32 --> 00:52:37

Your mother, many nights she didn't sleep and

00:52:37 --> 00:52:40

when you are sick, both of them cannot

00:52:40 --> 00:52:41

sleep.

00:52:46 --> 00:52:50

And when you start saying words or you

00:52:50 --> 00:52:58

make the day and they rejoice and then

00:52:58 --> 00:53:05

schools and your mother sits with you doing

00:53:05 --> 00:53:13

your homework and then you grow up and

00:53:13 --> 00:53:14

became a man.

00:53:16 --> 00:53:23

And now he has your sweetheart, your wife.

00:53:24 --> 00:53:31

She tells you, I cannot live with your

00:53:31 --> 00:53:36

parents and I cannot tolerate this.

00:53:40 --> 00:53:45

I have to have my own accommodation.

00:53:48 --> 00:53:53

My parents are in need of me, okay?

00:53:55 --> 00:53:58

They are your parents, not mine, okay?

00:53:59 --> 00:54:01

So you can hire someone to look after

00:54:01 --> 00:54:01

them.

00:54:02 --> 00:54:08

But I'm their son and you follow your

00:54:08 --> 00:54:08

sweetheart.

00:54:10 --> 00:54:13

And this sweetheart is leading you to Jahannam,

00:54:14 --> 00:54:16

to the hellfire.

00:54:20 --> 00:54:24

Your parents are by themselves and they are

00:54:24 --> 00:54:27

feeble and they are old and no one

00:54:27 --> 00:54:28

to look after them.

00:54:36 --> 00:54:38

A younger man came to the Prophet, sallallahu

00:54:38 --> 00:54:44

alayhi wa sallam and he said, oh Prophet

00:54:44 --> 00:54:47

of Allah, I want to go to Jihad.

00:54:48 --> 00:54:54

And I left my parents crying, they are

00:54:54 --> 00:54:55

old.

00:54:55 --> 00:54:58

So they were begging him, don't leave us.

00:54:59 --> 00:55:01

He left them and they were crying.

00:55:03 --> 00:55:05

The Prophet told him, go back to them

00:55:06 --> 00:55:12

and make them laugh as you made them

00:55:12 --> 00:55:13

cry.

00:55:15 --> 00:55:16

Go.

00:55:16 --> 00:55:21

Another narration, the Prophet said, fafihima, hadith authentic.

00:55:27 --> 00:55:31

Sahih al-Jamia al-Sagheer, authenticated by Sheikh

00:55:31 --> 00:55:31

Al-Bani, rahmallah.

00:55:32 --> 00:55:35

He told him, fafihima fa jahid.

00:55:35 --> 00:55:39

Your Jihad is to sit next to your

00:55:39 --> 00:55:39

parents.

00:55:40 --> 00:55:41

Fafihima fa jahid.

00:55:44 --> 00:55:47

So in Islam, the status of parents and

00:55:47 --> 00:55:57

the rights of parents, no child can fulfill

00:55:57 --> 00:56:03

his obligations 100% and give his parents

00:56:03 --> 00:56:04

their rights.

00:56:04 --> 00:56:11

No one, no one, you cannot.

00:56:12 --> 00:56:15

No matter what you do for them, you

00:56:15 --> 00:56:15

cannot.

00:56:20 --> 00:56:21

See the difference.

00:56:24 --> 00:56:31

When you are sick, they cannot sleep and

00:56:31 --> 00:56:35

they are next to your bed there in

00:56:35 --> 00:56:42

the hospital and they are crying and praying

00:56:42 --> 00:56:43

for you.

00:56:46 --> 00:56:49

But when they are sick and they are

00:56:49 --> 00:56:58

unhospitalized, you go stay with

00:56:58 --> 00:57:01

them for a while.

00:57:02 --> 00:57:04

Sorry, dad, I have to leave.

00:57:08 --> 00:57:11

And if they are staying in hospital for

00:57:11 --> 00:57:15

a long time, you wished for them to

00:57:15 --> 00:57:17

die.

00:57:21 --> 00:57:23

You're wishing for their death.

00:57:26 --> 00:57:30

And when you were sick, they were wishing

00:57:30 --> 00:57:31

for your recovery.

00:57:37 --> 00:57:39

See the difference.

00:57:42 --> 00:57:44

And believe me, my dear brothers and sisters,

00:57:46 --> 00:57:52

if you mistreat your parents, wallahi, I'm telling

00:57:52 --> 00:57:58

you by God, you will receive the same

00:57:58 --> 00:58:05

treatment, the same ill treatment from your children,

00:58:06 --> 00:58:07

tit for tat.

00:58:09 --> 00:58:13

You will drink from the same cup in

00:58:13 --> 00:58:15

this life before you die.

00:58:16 --> 00:58:17

So wake up.

00:58:19 --> 00:58:26

Wabil walidayni ihsana, that's number two.

00:58:27 --> 00:58:32

Worship Allah, then obey your parents.

00:58:34 --> 00:58:36

A man came to the Prophet and said,

00:58:36 --> 00:58:41

oh Prophet of Allah, my father is asking

00:58:41 --> 00:58:44

me to give him, to give him, taking

00:58:44 --> 00:58:45

money, taking my money.

00:58:46 --> 00:58:49

He said, you and your money belongs to

00:58:49 --> 00:58:50

your father.

00:58:54 --> 00:58:55

What are you talking?

00:58:58 --> 00:59:00

Wabil walidayni ihsana.

00:59:01 --> 00:59:08

Then Allah said, wala taqtulu awladakum min imlaqa.

00:59:11 --> 00:59:13

They used to kill their children out of

00:59:13 --> 00:59:16

fear of poverty.

00:59:18 --> 00:59:21

See the accuracy of the Quran and the

00:59:21 --> 00:59:23

precision of the Quran.

00:59:24 --> 00:59:29

wala taqtulu awladakum min imlaqa.

00:59:31 --> 00:59:32

Another ayah.

00:59:33 --> 00:59:38

wala taqtulu awladakum khashiyata imlaqa.

00:59:38 --> 00:59:39

khashiyata imlaqa.

00:59:42 --> 00:59:46

Here, min imlaqa, the poverty exists.

00:59:48 --> 00:59:50

Poverty exists.

00:59:53 --> 00:59:54

And man by nature is selfish.

00:59:57 --> 00:59:59

The first thing he thinks of is himself.

01:00:01 --> 01:00:06

See Allah here mentioned the parents first.

01:00:07 --> 01:00:10

wala taqtulu awladakum min imlaqa.

01:00:10 --> 01:00:13

Do not kill your children out of poverty.

01:00:16 --> 01:00:18

lahnu narzuqukum.

01:00:19 --> 01:00:23

You're worried about your living, about your life.

01:00:23 --> 01:00:25

We are providing you.

01:00:26 --> 01:00:28

Then your children.

01:00:28 --> 01:00:29

wa'iyahum.

01:00:30 --> 01:00:35

So you are, you will be provided sustenance

01:00:35 --> 01:00:36

before your children.

01:00:37 --> 01:00:39

And we will provide for your children.

01:00:42 --> 01:00:44

So you will not die.

01:00:44 --> 01:00:46

And your children will not die.

01:00:46 --> 01:00:48

So I'm going to provide for you.

01:00:48 --> 01:00:51

And I'm going to provide for your children.

01:00:53 --> 01:00:57

Whereas in the other ayah, Allah says, wala

01:00:57 --> 01:01:00

taqtulu awladakum khashiyata imlaqa.

01:01:01 --> 01:01:10

Do not kill your children khashiyata, out of

01:01:10 --> 01:01:14

fear that you will become poor.

01:01:16 --> 01:01:18

Fearing poverty.

01:01:18 --> 01:01:21

You're not struck and hit by poverty.

01:01:21 --> 01:01:24

No, you fear poverty.

01:01:26 --> 01:01:27

khashiyata imlaqa.

01:01:29 --> 01:01:30

Allah said, we're there.

01:01:31 --> 01:01:34

So poverty does not exist.

01:01:35 --> 01:01:36

You're well off, you're fine.

01:01:37 --> 01:01:38

But you are afraid.

01:01:40 --> 01:01:42

Like many Muslims.

01:01:43 --> 01:01:45

If you ask them, who's the Rizab?

01:01:45 --> 01:01:45

Allah.

01:01:45 --> 01:01:45

Allah.

01:01:46 --> 01:01:49

So why don't you have many children?

01:01:50 --> 01:01:52

Oh, Sheikh, one is enough.

01:01:53 --> 01:01:55

So I can provide for him.

01:01:57 --> 01:02:01

So this person, he fears the faqr, poverty.

01:02:01 --> 01:02:02

Has no yaqeen.

01:02:05 --> 01:02:05

Has no yaqeen.

01:02:08 --> 01:02:11

He doesn't believe that Allah is the provider.

01:02:12 --> 01:02:15

Or you find them, they say, one boy,

01:02:15 --> 01:02:16

one girl, that's it.

01:02:18 --> 01:02:20

And some, they made calculations.

01:02:21 --> 01:02:23

How much the boy will cost me, how

01:02:23 --> 01:02:25

much the girl will cost me.

01:02:30 --> 01:02:32

And the Prophet, salallahu alayhi wa sallam, said,

01:02:32 --> 01:02:38

tazawwuj alwalood, alwadood alwalood, fa inni mubahim bikum

01:02:38 --> 01:02:39

al-umam yawm al-qiyamah.

01:02:39 --> 01:02:43

Marry women who are of loving nature and

01:02:43 --> 01:02:44

prolific.

01:02:44 --> 01:02:45

We'll give you more children.

01:02:46 --> 01:02:48

I want you to have more children.

01:02:48 --> 01:02:53

I want you to outnumber the rest of

01:02:53 --> 01:02:56

the nations on the Day of Resurrection.

01:02:57 --> 01:02:59

This is your Prophet's wish, and you don't

01:02:59 --> 01:03:03

want to fulfill it because you are materialistic.

01:03:08 --> 01:03:11

You don't believe that Allah provides.

01:03:12 --> 01:03:14

Wala taqtul awladakum khashiyah.

01:03:14 --> 01:03:16

So you are afraid, you fear poverty.

01:03:18 --> 01:03:21

Nahnu, there in the other ayah.

01:03:21 --> 01:03:25

Nahnu narzuquhum wa iyakum, narzuquhum.

01:03:25 --> 01:03:29

He mentioned the children and you.

01:03:30 --> 01:03:32

So we are going to, when you are

01:03:32 --> 01:03:35

in a state of fear, you're not poor,

01:03:35 --> 01:03:38

but you fear poverty, don't worry.

01:03:39 --> 01:03:41

We will provide for them, then you.

01:03:42 --> 01:03:43

What does this mean?

01:03:43 --> 01:03:45

Why he mentioned the children there?

01:03:46 --> 01:03:50

He mentioned the children to tell the parents

01:03:50 --> 01:03:55

every child will come along with his rizq,

01:03:55 --> 01:03:56

with him.

01:03:58 --> 01:04:02

Every born child will come with his sustenance.

01:04:03 --> 01:04:03

So don't worry.

01:04:04 --> 01:04:05

Nahnu narzuquhum wa iyakum.

01:04:10 --> 01:04:18

So remove this lack of iman and tawakkul

01:04:18 --> 01:04:22

and yaqeel and put your trust in Allah.

01:04:24 --> 01:04:26

Put your trust in Allah.

01:04:29 --> 01:04:31

Wala taqtul awladakum min imlaq.

01:04:31 --> 01:04:34

That's why in Islam, it is haram, haram,

01:04:34 --> 01:04:34

haram.

01:04:36 --> 01:04:38

You have birth control.

01:04:40 --> 01:04:44

There's no birth control in Islam, no birth

01:04:44 --> 01:04:44

control.

01:04:46 --> 01:04:51

Birth control in the sense one child or

01:04:51 --> 01:04:52

two children, enough.

01:04:54 --> 01:05:00

I sterilize myself or close the fallopian tubes

01:05:01 --> 01:05:06

of the mother, fallopian tubes of the mother

01:05:06 --> 01:05:14

or remove the uterus, that's haram.

01:05:15 --> 01:05:20

What is permissible in Islam, phasing, phasing, keeping

01:05:20 --> 01:05:23

gaps between one child and another.

01:05:25 --> 01:05:28

Two years between one child and another, that's

01:05:28 --> 01:05:28

acceptable.

01:05:29 --> 01:05:34

And that's actually the period of the breastfeeding.

01:05:37 --> 01:05:46

That's why the contraceptives, wherever, are not

01:05:46 --> 01:05:47

allowed.

01:05:48 --> 01:05:52

But if it is while you are phasing,

01:05:52 --> 01:05:55

keeping gap between a child and another, that's

01:05:55 --> 01:05:56

okay.

01:06:02 --> 01:06:05

The Sahaba, they were practicing the coitus interruptus

01:06:09 --> 01:06:15

and the lawgiver approved of that.

01:06:16 --> 01:06:20

wala taqtulu awladakum min imlaq.

01:06:21 --> 01:06:24

nahnu narzuqukum ayyahum.

01:06:24 --> 01:06:29

Poverty exists, he mentioned the parents first to

01:06:29 --> 01:06:34

assure them that your life, you will not

01:06:34 --> 01:06:36

starve, you will not starve.

01:06:36 --> 01:06:37

This is guaranteed.

01:06:38 --> 01:06:44

Then Allah mentioned, wala taqtulubu alfawahisha maa zahra

01:06:44 --> 01:06:45

minha wa maa batan.

01:06:46 --> 01:06:53

fawahish, shameful deeds, anything shameful, including fornication, adultery,

01:06:54 --> 01:06:59

theft, robbery, any shameful deed, fawahish.

01:07:01 --> 01:07:06

wala taqtulubu alfawahisha maa zahra minha wa maa

01:07:06 --> 01:07:06

batan.

01:07:06 --> 01:07:13

Whether these shameful deeds are open or hidden,

01:07:15 --> 01:07:17

do not come close to them.

01:07:17 --> 01:07:21

Whether these shameful deeds are committed openly or

01:07:21 --> 01:07:25

secretly, don't come, okay?

01:07:25 --> 01:07:29

Don't come, wala taqtulubu, don't come near to

01:07:29 --> 01:07:32

these shameful deeds, near.

01:07:32 --> 01:07:34

Don't come near the nightclub.

01:07:35 --> 01:07:37

Don't come near the pub.

01:07:39 --> 01:07:41

Don't come near women.

01:07:43 --> 01:07:44

Stay away.

01:07:45 --> 01:07:48

Because if you are, this is, you see,

01:07:48 --> 01:07:53

this is the beauty of the Arabic.

01:07:59 --> 01:08:03

These are precautionary measures.

01:08:07 --> 01:08:08

There is danger.

01:08:09 --> 01:08:10

Stay away from it.

01:08:11 --> 01:08:14

When you are driving on the motorway or

01:08:14 --> 01:08:18

the highway, you see signs.

01:08:18 --> 01:08:23

If there is, for example, chemical plant or

01:08:23 --> 01:08:30

high power lines, you see warnings, signs on

01:08:30 --> 01:08:31

the way.

01:08:32 --> 01:08:35

You see the scowl to warn you there

01:08:35 --> 01:08:37

is danger.

01:08:37 --> 01:08:41

Not at the sign, no, ahead, after it,

01:08:42 --> 01:08:47

so that you take care that there is

01:08:47 --> 01:08:48

risk here.

01:08:52 --> 01:08:54

So these are precautionary measure.

01:08:55 --> 01:09:00

Allah tells you, you see, in the Islam,

01:09:00 --> 01:09:02

there is one rule in the Sharia.

01:09:02 --> 01:09:05

What leads to the haram is haram.

01:09:06 --> 01:09:09

The avenue, the way that leads to haram

01:09:09 --> 01:09:09

is haram.

01:09:10 --> 01:09:14

So in Islam, any way, any avenue that

01:09:14 --> 01:09:17

will lead to the haram, Islam, in Islamic

01:09:17 --> 01:09:22

law, the Sharia blocks it because it will

01:09:22 --> 01:09:23

lead to the haram.

01:09:23 --> 01:09:27

That's why women cannot travel without mahram.

01:09:30 --> 01:09:30

Why?

01:09:31 --> 01:09:33

Because when she is alone, there is a

01:09:33 --> 01:09:36

chance that she will be harassed.

01:09:39 --> 01:09:41

There's a chance she will be raped.

01:09:43 --> 01:09:45

So it is haram for her to travel

01:09:45 --> 01:09:56

without a man accompanying her, escorting her, defending

01:09:56 --> 01:09:58

her, and he's got ready to give his

01:09:58 --> 01:10:00

life to defend his honor.

01:10:02 --> 01:10:04

That's why it is haram in Islam for

01:10:04 --> 01:10:07

a man and a woman to sit together

01:10:07 --> 01:10:14

and have privacy, chatting, because this will lead,

01:10:15 --> 01:10:18

finally, to zina, to haram.

01:10:22 --> 01:10:24

That's why the Prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam

01:10:24 --> 01:10:27

said, ayyakum wa dhukool ala an-nisaa.

01:10:27 --> 01:10:30

Beware, do not go to places where there

01:10:30 --> 01:10:30

are women.

01:10:33 --> 01:10:35

And the other hadith, makhtala rajulun bi-imra

01:10:35 --> 01:10:37

'a illa kana shaitan thalithu huma.

01:10:38 --> 01:10:40

Whenever there is a man and a woman,

01:10:40 --> 01:10:44

the third person present is the devil.

01:10:47 --> 01:10:50

Any man, any woman, sit together, they will

01:10:50 --> 01:10:52

end up in bed.

01:10:55 --> 01:10:56

They will end up in bed.

01:10:59 --> 01:11:02

Any man, when he sits a woman, he's

01:11:02 --> 01:11:04

only plotting and planning when to get her

01:11:04 --> 01:11:05

to bed.

01:11:11 --> 01:11:15

Nazratun, an Arab poet, he said, nazratun fa

01:11:15 --> 01:11:22

-btisamatun faliqa'un, and you know the rest.

01:11:22 --> 01:11:27

He said, a look, a smile, the nod

01:11:27 --> 01:11:31

of the head, and the warmth of the

01:11:31 --> 01:11:32

bed.

01:11:33 --> 01:11:35

That's what it will lead to.

01:11:36 --> 01:11:44

So Islam, Islam, Allah who created us, he

01:11:44 --> 01:11:49

knows our nature, so he put mechanisms to

01:11:49 --> 01:11:53

protect us and blocks the ways that will

01:11:53 --> 01:11:54

lead to the haram.

01:11:58 --> 01:12:03

So whatever leads to the haram is haram.

01:12:05 --> 01:12:09

Chatting, you and a man.

01:12:10 --> 01:12:15

Okay, you are chatting on the net.

01:12:18 --> 01:12:18

It's haram.

01:12:22 --> 01:12:24

Sheikh, we are just trying to know each

01:12:24 --> 01:12:25

other.

01:12:25 --> 01:12:27

Hmm, knowing each other, yes.

01:12:28 --> 01:12:29

You will know each other, yes.

01:12:32 --> 01:12:35

You just started texting each other.

01:12:36 --> 01:12:39

Then you start using voice messages.

01:12:40 --> 01:12:45

Then he's pulling your leg, this angry wolf,

01:12:45 --> 01:12:50

and he will ask you, sister, I am

01:12:50 --> 01:12:52

honest, I am really sincere, I want to

01:12:52 --> 01:12:53

marry you.

01:12:54 --> 01:12:55

Can we see each other?

01:12:55 --> 01:12:57

Can you put on your webcam?

01:12:59 --> 01:13:07

And the woman is a weak person, and

01:13:07 --> 01:13:12

this devil is using sweet words and romantic

01:13:12 --> 01:13:12

words.

01:13:13 --> 01:13:16

You know, that's what will happen to you.

01:13:17 --> 01:13:18

Wala taqrabu al-fawahisha.

01:13:21 --> 01:13:22

Wala taqrabu al-fawahisha.

01:13:23 --> 01:13:25

Do not come, come close.

01:13:27 --> 01:13:29

When Allah said about the khamr, he didn't

01:13:29 --> 01:13:30

say don't drink al-khamr.

01:13:31 --> 01:13:32

Don't come near it.

01:13:35 --> 01:13:36

Don't come near it.

01:13:36 --> 01:13:41

Al-khamr is there, stay there, so that

01:13:41 --> 01:13:43

you will not be tempted.

01:13:45 --> 01:13:48

That's why it is haram to sit on

01:13:48 --> 01:13:51

a table at a table where alcohol is

01:13:51 --> 01:13:53

served, though you are not drinking.

01:13:56 --> 01:13:57

You are cursed.

01:13:57 --> 01:13:58

Why?

01:13:58 --> 01:13:59

Because you will be tempted.

01:14:02 --> 01:14:05

And Allah's saying, do not come close to

01:14:05 --> 01:14:05

it.

01:14:05 --> 01:14:07

Stay away from it.

01:14:08 --> 01:14:10

Wala taqrabu al-fawahisha.

01:14:10 --> 01:14:12

Ma zahra minha wa ma batha.

01:14:13 --> 01:14:18

These shameful deeds are committed openly or secretly.

01:14:22 --> 01:14:30

Then Allah mentioned, wala taqtulun nafsal lati harramallahu

01:14:30 --> 01:14:31

illa bilhamr.

01:14:40 --> 01:14:44

And kill not anyone whom Allah has forbidden,

01:14:45 --> 01:14:46

except for just cause.

01:14:47 --> 01:14:52

So you don't kill any human being, except

01:14:52 --> 01:14:56

if there is valid legal reason.

01:14:58 --> 01:15:00

And the Prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam said,

01:15:02 --> 01:15:04

la yahilu damu al-murri al-muslim illa

01:15:04 --> 01:15:04

bihda thabatha.

01:15:04 --> 01:15:11

A Muslim, his blood will become inviolable, not

01:15:11 --> 01:15:16

sacred, under three cases or three scenarios.

01:15:20 --> 01:15:21

An-nafsu bil-nafs.

01:15:22 --> 01:15:27

If a Muslim killed another human being, another

01:15:27 --> 01:15:35

innocent soul, killed another Muslim, then it is

01:15:35 --> 01:15:36

haram.

01:15:36 --> 01:15:38

He has to be killed.

01:15:39 --> 01:15:43

The qisas, an-nafsu bil-nafs.

01:15:44 --> 01:15:46

You kill someone, you will be killed.

01:15:52 --> 01:15:53

Wa thayyib al-zani.

01:15:53 --> 01:15:55

That is number one.

01:15:55 --> 01:16:02

Number two, if a married Muslim, married man

01:16:02 --> 01:16:06

or woman, committed zina, the punishment is stoning

01:16:06 --> 01:16:07

to death.

01:16:09 --> 01:16:14

Third reason, at-tariq li-deena.

01:16:15 --> 01:16:17

Al-mufadhaq li-l-jama'a, at-tariq

01:16:17 --> 01:16:17

li-deena.

01:16:18 --> 01:16:21

The one who leaves Islam and becomes mursad

01:16:21 --> 01:16:22

apostate.

01:16:23 --> 01:16:25

Only these three cases.

01:16:26 --> 01:16:28

Three reasons, valid reasons.

01:16:29 --> 01:16:38

Otherwise, you cannot kill your brother or sister

01:16:38 --> 01:16:39

in Islam.

01:16:40 --> 01:16:44

These are the three only reasons that which

01:16:44 --> 01:16:52

will make it is legal and lawful to

01:16:52 --> 01:16:53

kill this human being.

01:16:55 --> 01:16:57

According to the Islamic law.

01:16:59 --> 01:17:01

Wa la taqtulu an-nafsa allati haram Allah

01:17:01 --> 01:17:02

illa bil-haqq.

01:17:02 --> 01:17:06

Then Allah concluded the ayah by saying, dhalikum

01:17:06 --> 01:17:08

wassakum bihi la'allakum ta'qilun.

01:17:11 --> 01:17:12

dhalikum wassakum bihi.

01:17:12 --> 01:17:16

This, what Allah mentioned, he has commanded you

01:17:16 --> 01:17:18

that you may understand.

01:17:19 --> 01:17:23

You may reflect, you may ponder, you may

01:17:23 --> 01:17:25

receive admission.

01:17:27 --> 01:17:31

May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala increase our

01:17:31 --> 01:17:32

knowledge in the deen.

01:17:32 --> 01:17:35

May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala keep us,

01:17:35 --> 01:17:41

remain steadfast on this beautiful deen until we

01:17:41 --> 01:17:44

meet Allah and find him, pleased with all

01:17:44 --> 01:17:45

of us, amen.

01:17:46 --> 01:17:50

May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala forgive us

01:17:50 --> 01:17:52

our faults and mistakes and ignorance.

01:17:53 --> 01:17:59

And may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala bless

01:17:59 --> 01:18:02

us with the beneficent knowledge of righteous deeds.

01:18:03 --> 01:18:08

And may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala forgive

01:18:08 --> 01:18:11

us our faults and ignorance and mistakes.

01:18:12 --> 01:18:13

And may Allah unite our ummah in the

01:18:13 --> 01:18:14

haqq.

01:18:14 --> 01:18:16

And may Allah unite our hearts in the

01:18:16 --> 01:18:16

haqq.

01:18:16 --> 01:18:19

And may Allah reward all of you and

01:18:19 --> 01:18:22

your brothers and sisters immensely for your patience

01:18:22 --> 01:18:23

and attendance.

01:18:24 --> 01:18:30

BarakAllahu feekum, jazakumullahu khaira, assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi

01:18:30 --> 01:18:32

wa barakatuh.

01:18:32 --> 01:18:36

And now we will start insha'Allah addressing

01:18:36 --> 01:18:38

and answering your questions.

01:18:40 --> 01:18:43

So if the admin is not there, please

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forward the questions to me.

01:18:45 --> 01:18:47

Wa alaikum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

01:18:47 --> 01:18:51

I'm here, it's still 40 minutes insha'Allah.

01:18:51 --> 01:18:55

The first question, is it mandatory to sprinkle

01:18:55 --> 01:18:58

or pour water in order to purify clothes

01:18:58 --> 01:18:59

that have traces of muddy?

01:19:00 --> 01:19:01

Can you send the questions please?

01:19:02 --> 01:19:02

Yes, insha'Allah.

01:19:22 --> 01:19:23

Okay, go ahead.

01:19:24 --> 01:19:27

BarakAllahu feekum, the first question, is it mandatory

01:19:27 --> 01:19:30

to sprinkle or pour water in order to

01:19:30 --> 01:19:32

purify clothes that have traces of muddy?

01:19:34 --> 01:19:39

Yes, the muddy you, if it is the

01:19:39 --> 01:19:43

muddy, if it is visible and it has

01:19:43 --> 01:19:46

mass, normally there will not be mass of

01:19:46 --> 01:19:46

it.

01:19:47 --> 01:19:48

So you wash it, you wash it.

01:19:49 --> 01:19:53

The muddy is najis, because you see, what

01:19:53 --> 01:19:56

comes out from the man, there are three

01:19:56 --> 01:19:57

types of fluid.

01:19:58 --> 01:20:03

Muddy, muddy, muddy, and wadi.

01:20:05 --> 01:20:08

Muddy, muddy, wadi.

01:20:09 --> 01:20:16

The muddy is that whitish transparent lubricant.

01:20:17 --> 01:20:21

When a man is thinking of making love,

01:20:22 --> 01:20:25

or a woman, okay?

01:20:25 --> 01:20:32

So this lubricant is there to ease the

01:20:32 --> 01:20:34

penetration.

01:20:35 --> 01:20:38

That's the purpose for it.

01:20:39 --> 01:20:42

And it is najis, it is impure, it

01:20:42 --> 01:20:43

is impure.

01:20:45 --> 01:20:48

So if this muddy touch your garment, you

01:20:48 --> 01:20:50

have to wash it, wash it.

01:20:52 --> 01:20:55

The muddy is the *, the * and

01:20:55 --> 01:20:57

fluid, the sperm.

01:20:59 --> 01:21:05

The sperm, the strongest opinion, it is pahir,

01:21:05 --> 01:21:07

pure, and not najis.

01:21:09 --> 01:21:14

Because Aisha radiallahu anhu has said, I used

01:21:14 --> 01:21:19

to scrape the *, or the muddy, from

01:21:19 --> 01:21:24

the prophet's garment with my nails.

01:21:25 --> 01:21:29

So there is drops of sperm, or *,

01:21:29 --> 01:21:32

and it dries, so she would scrape it

01:21:32 --> 01:21:35

with her nails, okay?

01:21:37 --> 01:21:39

And the Prophet shallallahu alaihi wa sallam would

01:21:39 --> 01:21:41

play in that garment.

01:21:42 --> 01:21:45

So the muddy, if pahir, is not najis.

01:21:46 --> 01:21:49

But if it is wet, you remove it

01:21:49 --> 01:21:50

also.

01:21:51 --> 01:21:54

And if there are traces, you wash it

01:21:54 --> 01:21:57

as well, though it is not najis.

01:21:57 --> 01:22:01

Like the mucus, mucus is pure, pahir, but

01:22:01 --> 01:22:04

we wash it, we remove it, because it's

01:22:04 --> 01:22:05

something disgusting.

01:22:07 --> 01:22:10

The third fluid, or type of fluid, is

01:22:10 --> 01:22:12

al-wadi, al-wadi.

01:22:14 --> 01:22:17

And the wadi, actually, it is remnants of

01:22:17 --> 01:22:17

the *.

01:22:19 --> 01:22:24

After making love, or a *, okay,

01:22:25 --> 01:22:27

you go to the answer, the call of

01:22:27 --> 01:22:31

nature, and you urinate, and then you see

01:22:31 --> 01:22:34

some white stuff is coming out.

01:22:36 --> 01:22:40

That is called wadi, and it is najis,

01:22:40 --> 01:22:41

and you have to wash it.

01:22:41 --> 01:22:46

So we have muddy, najis, we have many,

01:22:46 --> 01:22:52

which is pahir, and we have the wadi,

01:22:52 --> 01:22:53

which is najis.

01:22:56 --> 01:23:02

Now, the three types of fluid, for the,

01:23:02 --> 01:23:08

if you have muddy, you have wudu, and

01:23:08 --> 01:23:11

you kissed your wife, or you hugged her,

01:23:11 --> 01:23:14

or you are not married, but you saw

01:23:14 --> 01:23:18

a movie, and this fluid started coming out.

01:23:21 --> 01:23:24

So your wudu is broken, and you have

01:23:24 --> 01:23:28

to wash your private parts, and renew your

01:23:28 --> 01:23:31

wudu, okay?

01:23:32 --> 01:23:40

If you release many, the many sperm, *,

01:23:41 --> 01:23:45

here you have to take shower, for the

01:23:45 --> 01:23:46

many, you have to take shower.

01:23:48 --> 01:23:50

You got up in the morning, and you

01:23:50 --> 01:23:53

saw yourself is wet, you had *,

01:23:53 --> 01:23:55

you have to take shower.

01:23:56 --> 01:23:58

So for the many, you have to take

01:23:58 --> 01:23:58

shower.

01:24:00 --> 01:24:02

Muddy, wadi, no shower, but you take wudu.

01:24:04 --> 01:24:10

Sayyidina Ali bin Abi Talib, radiallahu anhu, was

01:24:10 --> 01:24:13

having this problem of the muddy, the muddy,

01:24:15 --> 01:24:19

kuntu rajulan madza'an, I had this problem,

01:24:19 --> 01:24:25

always fluid is coming out, and I was

01:24:25 --> 01:24:27

embarrassed to ask the Prophet of Allah about

01:24:27 --> 01:24:31

its ruling, because I am his son-in

01:24:31 --> 01:24:35

-law, my wife is his daughter, Fatima, so

01:24:35 --> 01:24:38

what Sayyidina Ali was doing, was taking shower

01:24:38 --> 01:24:41

every time, and then it became difficult for

01:24:41 --> 01:24:47

him, and his back started to crack, so

01:24:47 --> 01:24:49

it became unbearable.

01:24:51 --> 01:24:53

So he couldn't ask the Prophet of Allah

01:24:53 --> 01:24:57

directly, so he went and asked Al-Muqdad

01:24:57 --> 01:25:01

to ask the Prophet of Allah, and the

01:25:01 --> 01:25:06

Prophet of Allah said, no, there's no need

01:25:06 --> 01:25:09

for a shower, he just needs to take

01:25:09 --> 01:25:09

wudu.

01:25:11 --> 01:25:16

So wadi, muddy, wudu, many, shower.

01:25:17 --> 01:25:19

And the many, of course, when it leaves

01:25:19 --> 01:25:21

the body, the *, when it comes out,

01:25:22 --> 01:25:25

of course, there will be numbness, and it

01:25:25 --> 01:25:28

is associated with special feeling.

01:25:29 --> 01:25:36

Now, what if someone, many is coming all

01:25:36 --> 01:25:42

the time, many, due to sickness, sickness, he's

01:25:42 --> 01:25:42

sick.

01:25:44 --> 01:25:47

A man came to Ibn Abbas, radiallahu anhu,

01:25:47 --> 01:25:51

and he asked and said, he asked Ibn

01:25:51 --> 01:25:55

Abbas, he said, the many comes out all

01:25:55 --> 01:25:56

the time.

01:25:56 --> 01:26:00

He said, the one from which a child

01:26:00 --> 01:26:01

is born?

01:26:02 --> 01:26:02

He said, yes.

01:26:03 --> 01:26:09

He said, do you feel numbness, feeling when

01:26:09 --> 01:26:10

it is leaving your body?

01:26:10 --> 01:26:12

He said, no, just coming like that.

01:26:13 --> 01:26:16

Ibn Abbas said, this is sickness, you are

01:26:16 --> 01:26:17

sick.

01:26:17 --> 01:26:19

No need for you to take shower, just

01:26:19 --> 01:26:21

take wudu, take wudu.

01:26:23 --> 01:26:27

So if a person is sick, so just

01:26:27 --> 01:26:30

like someone who's always, the urine is flowing,

01:26:31 --> 01:26:34

or a woman is having continuous bleeding, et

01:26:34 --> 01:26:34

cetera.

01:26:36 --> 01:26:38

I hope this is clear to the questioner.

01:26:38 --> 01:26:39

Next.

01:26:42 --> 01:26:44

Barak Allah fiqh, the next question.

01:26:44 --> 01:26:47

Is there any ibadah to say after hearing

01:26:47 --> 01:26:49

the adhan, which is already recorded?

01:26:52 --> 01:26:57

The adhan is the adhan, not the recorded

01:26:57 --> 01:27:01

one, the adhan that you hear from the

01:27:01 --> 01:27:02

masjid, okay?

01:27:05 --> 01:27:07

That is what you have to repeat.

01:27:08 --> 01:27:10

The masjid in your locality, you hear the

01:27:10 --> 01:27:12

adhan, that's the one you have to repeat.

01:27:13 --> 01:27:15

I think the question is referring to some

01:27:15 --> 01:27:19

masjids in certain countries, they play a recording

01:27:19 --> 01:27:21

of the adhan.

01:27:24 --> 01:27:30

Here I would like to, I mean, clarify

01:27:30 --> 01:27:31

one thing, something.

01:27:32 --> 01:27:36

For example, in some countries, it's not recorded

01:27:36 --> 01:27:42

actually, but it is centralized, many countries.

01:27:45 --> 01:27:48

It is one mu'adhin, one mu'adhin

01:27:48 --> 01:27:50

in one of the masjids, maybe in the

01:27:50 --> 01:27:54

biggest masjid or central most, he's making the

01:27:54 --> 01:27:54

adhan.

01:27:54 --> 01:27:57

So there is a mu'adhin calling for

01:27:57 --> 01:28:03

the adhan, and then it is transmitted, okay?

01:28:03 --> 01:28:06

And you hear the adhan in all the

01:28:06 --> 01:28:11

different masjids, because it is the same adhan

01:28:11 --> 01:28:16

transmitted to these masjids, and these masjids, they

01:28:16 --> 01:28:18

have receivers, and then it will go to

01:28:18 --> 01:28:19

the microphone.

01:28:20 --> 01:28:22

So in that case, yes, you repeat after

01:28:22 --> 01:28:25

because there is a mu'adhin, there is

01:28:25 --> 01:28:26

a mu'adhin.

01:28:26 --> 01:28:27

This is what I know.

01:28:29 --> 01:28:29

Next.

01:28:30 --> 01:28:32

Sorry, Sheikh, just to clarify once again, in

01:28:32 --> 01:28:35

the case there is a recorded adhan, do

01:28:35 --> 01:28:36

you still repeat?

01:28:38 --> 01:28:43

If it is just a recorded, okay, and

01:28:43 --> 01:28:48

this recorded is transmitted throughout the masjid, so

01:28:48 --> 01:28:50

you hear from the masjid, right?

01:28:51 --> 01:28:52

Yes, you hear out loud, yeah.

01:28:52 --> 01:28:54

You hear it from the masjid coming.

01:28:55 --> 01:28:55

Yes.

01:28:55 --> 01:28:57

There is no harm to repeat after that,

01:28:58 --> 01:29:00

because you feel Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta

01:29:00 --> 01:29:02

-A'la to the best of your ability.

01:29:04 --> 01:29:05

JazakAllah Khair.

01:29:06 --> 01:29:06

Bayat.

01:29:07 --> 01:29:08

The next question.

01:29:09 --> 01:29:11

Since Allah has prohibited the recitation of the

01:29:11 --> 01:29:14

Quran in sujood, is it permissible for us

01:29:14 --> 01:29:16

to make the duas in the Quran with

01:29:16 --> 01:29:18

the intention of making dua and not reading

01:29:18 --> 01:29:19

the Quran?

01:29:20 --> 01:29:20

The answer is yes.

01:29:20 --> 01:29:24

This, the duas that are mentioned in the

01:29:24 --> 01:29:27

Quran, it is allowed, yes.

01:29:34 --> 01:29:34

Next.

01:29:35 --> 01:29:36

Barak wa fiqh, the next question.

01:29:37 --> 01:29:39

Can a wife give zakat to her husband?

01:29:40 --> 01:29:41

Because I heard from a sheikh in my

01:29:41 --> 01:29:44

locality that it is not permissible, and I

01:29:44 --> 01:29:46

used to think it is permissible since taking

01:29:46 --> 01:29:48

care of the husband is not from a

01:29:48 --> 01:29:50

wife's obligation to her husband.

01:29:51 --> 01:29:55

The answer, yes, it is permissible, and the

01:29:55 --> 01:29:58

wife, Zaynab, the wife of Ibn Mas'ud,

01:29:59 --> 01:30:02

she was well off and Ibn Mas'ud

01:30:02 --> 01:30:06

was poor, so she told him, I can

01:30:06 --> 01:30:07

give you my zakah.

01:30:08 --> 01:30:10

So he told her, go and ask the

01:30:10 --> 01:30:10

Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

01:30:11 --> 01:30:14

So she went, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

01:30:14 --> 01:30:15

wa sallam said, yes, she can, and she

01:30:15 --> 01:30:18

will be rewarded twice.

01:30:18 --> 01:30:20

So double the reward.

01:30:21 --> 01:30:22

The reward will be double.

01:30:22 --> 01:30:25

A woman can give her husband if he's

01:30:25 --> 01:30:27

in need of zakah.

01:30:31 --> 01:30:31

Next.

01:30:33 --> 01:30:35

Barak wa fiqh, the next question.

01:30:35 --> 01:30:38

What would you advise sisters who are promoting

01:30:38 --> 01:30:41

self-love and self-affirmations, like telling yourself

01:30:41 --> 01:30:42

you are good, et cetera?

01:30:43 --> 01:30:46

This is spreading in Islamic counselling circles.

01:30:47 --> 01:30:50

The question is not in front of you.

01:30:50 --> 01:30:53

Apologies, the question was how to deal with

01:30:53 --> 01:30:57

abusive parents, especially parents who weaponise Islam against

01:30:57 --> 01:30:58

their children.

01:31:06 --> 01:31:07

The question is not to be honest, clear

01:31:07 --> 01:31:08

to me.

01:31:08 --> 01:31:10

Abusive parents, what they do?

01:31:12 --> 01:31:12

They...

01:31:13 --> 01:31:16

I assume verbally, in this case.

01:31:17 --> 01:31:22

They use vowel language and abusive words and

01:31:22 --> 01:31:23

things like that?

01:31:23 --> 01:31:24

Yeah.

01:31:25 --> 01:31:25

This is wrong.

01:31:25 --> 01:31:28

Of course, the Muslim is, that's not the

01:31:28 --> 01:31:29

character of the Muslim.

01:31:29 --> 01:31:35

So if they are swearing and using bad

01:31:35 --> 01:31:39

words and foul mouths and stuff like that,

01:31:39 --> 01:31:41

they had early children.

01:31:41 --> 01:31:43

Of course, they should ignore that.

01:31:46 --> 01:31:48

And of course, this is haram.

01:31:48 --> 01:31:51

This is not the way the parents should

01:31:51 --> 01:31:55

bring up their children.

01:31:56 --> 01:31:57

They should not.

01:31:58 --> 01:32:00

But the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he

01:32:00 --> 01:32:03

said, al-Muslim laisa bisabbab wa laisa bil

01:32:03 --> 01:32:06

-la'an wa laisa bil-bidhi.

01:32:06 --> 01:32:09

A Muslim is not one who curses or

01:32:09 --> 01:32:12

swears, okay?

01:32:15 --> 01:32:21

Sabab, someone who insults or someone who curses

01:32:21 --> 01:32:27

or someone who is using vulgar language, okay?

01:32:29 --> 01:32:33

For example, the F word, stuff like that.

01:32:34 --> 01:32:35

So this is not the character of the

01:32:35 --> 01:32:36

Muslim.

01:32:37 --> 01:32:38

May Allah guide them.

01:32:38 --> 01:32:38

Next.

01:32:40 --> 01:32:40

Sorry, Sheikh.

01:32:41 --> 01:32:43

I believe the question is asking for advice

01:32:43 --> 01:32:45

for the child on how to deal with

01:32:45 --> 01:32:45

it.

01:32:46 --> 01:32:47

Do you have any advice?

01:32:47 --> 01:32:50

A child should play dumb and stuff his

01:32:50 --> 01:32:54

ears with cotton and pretend that he didn't

01:32:54 --> 01:32:55

hear anything.

01:32:57 --> 01:33:00

Just ignore what you hear.

01:33:00 --> 01:33:01

Ignore it.

01:33:03 --> 01:33:05

And ask Allah to guide your parents.

01:33:07 --> 01:33:08

Don't react.

01:33:08 --> 01:33:08

Just ignore.

01:33:09 --> 01:33:10

He didn't hear anything.

01:33:11 --> 01:33:12

That's my advice.

01:33:16 --> 01:33:16

Next.

01:33:17 --> 01:33:18

Mawlana Ghaffi, the next question.

01:33:19 --> 01:33:21

What would you advise sisters who are promoting

01:33:21 --> 01:33:24

self-love and self-affirmations like telling yourself

01:33:24 --> 01:33:25

you are good, et cetera?

01:33:25 --> 01:33:27

This is spreading in Islamic counseling circles.

01:33:33 --> 01:33:38

Okay, if it is to have self-esteem

01:33:38 --> 01:33:44

and to, some person is, they have this

01:33:44 --> 01:33:49

feel that they are not good looking and

01:33:49 --> 01:33:54

they are not, I mean, beautiful and stuff

01:33:54 --> 01:33:56

like that, okay?

01:33:56 --> 01:33:58

There's no harm to say no.

01:34:00 --> 01:34:00

Alhamdulillah.

01:34:01 --> 01:34:03

And she should be satisfied with her looks.

01:34:04 --> 01:34:05

She should be satisfied.

01:34:05 --> 01:34:09

Because this is what Allah gave her.

01:34:10 --> 01:34:11

So you have this contentment.

01:34:12 --> 01:34:14

And believe me, every woman is beautiful.

01:34:14 --> 01:34:15

Every woman is beautiful.

01:34:17 --> 01:34:19

But the problem that women now do they,

01:34:21 --> 01:34:24

they compare themselves to what they see.

01:34:24 --> 01:34:26

And they think that what they see on

01:34:26 --> 01:34:29

the media is a reality when it is

01:34:29 --> 01:34:30

not a reality.

01:34:31 --> 01:34:32

These things are fake.

01:34:34 --> 01:34:37

Okay, so don't compare yourself to anyone.

01:34:40 --> 01:34:41

Say alhamdulillah.

01:34:42 --> 01:34:44

And all women, they are beautiful.

01:34:48 --> 01:34:52

And not only women, all human beings.

01:34:52 --> 01:34:57

Your view, they may calculate the pluses and

01:34:57 --> 01:34:58

the minuses.

01:34:58 --> 01:34:59

You'll find them, they are equal.

01:35:00 --> 01:35:04

Maybe she is good looking, but she lacks

01:35:04 --> 01:35:05

manners.

01:35:05 --> 01:35:08

She had bad mouth, okay?

01:35:10 --> 01:35:15

This sister, her beauty is acceptable, but she

01:35:15 --> 01:35:16

has heart of gold.

01:35:20 --> 01:35:21

And I always tell the brothers who are

01:35:21 --> 01:35:26

proposing, the looks should not be the only

01:35:26 --> 01:35:29

thing you focus on.

01:35:29 --> 01:35:31

There are other factors there.

01:35:33 --> 01:35:36

This appearance will disappear.

01:35:37 --> 01:35:38

Yes.

01:35:39 --> 01:35:42

One year, two years, wrinkles will start to

01:35:42 --> 01:35:42

appear.

01:35:43 --> 01:35:45

What will remain?

01:35:45 --> 01:35:46

Substance.

01:35:48 --> 01:35:55

That good heart, which is full of iman

01:35:55 --> 01:35:58

and contentment.

01:36:00 --> 01:36:03

This woman who fears Allah will look after

01:36:03 --> 01:36:07

you and your children and protect you and

01:36:07 --> 01:36:11

protect her chastity, your honor and your absence.

01:36:12 --> 01:36:14

You don't need to worry about the milkman

01:36:15 --> 01:36:18

because she fears Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta

01:36:18 --> 01:36:18

-A'la.

01:36:22 --> 01:36:26

So if this is what the psychiatrist or

01:36:26 --> 01:36:29

the psychologist is telling, you should feel good

01:36:29 --> 01:36:31

about yourself, okay?

01:36:31 --> 01:36:35

So that you build up confidence, okay?

01:36:36 --> 01:36:39

That's no problem, okay?

01:36:40 --> 01:36:42

That's why they say, if you do something

01:36:42 --> 01:36:44

good, reward yourself.

01:36:46 --> 01:36:48

You did something nice and you like it

01:36:49 --> 01:36:51

and you feel good about yourself, reward yourself.

01:36:52 --> 01:36:55

Buy yourself something you like.

01:36:56 --> 01:36:58

So you motivate yourself.

01:36:58 --> 01:37:00

So there's nothing wrong with that.

01:37:05 --> 01:37:08

That's why you should be always positive and

01:37:08 --> 01:37:10

have this positivity.

01:37:10 --> 01:37:12

You should not have negativity in your life.

01:37:12 --> 01:37:15

And the Muslims, that is the nature of

01:37:15 --> 01:37:15

the Muslim.

01:37:15 --> 01:37:17

He is always optimistic.

01:37:18 --> 01:37:20

And that is what the Prophet salallahu alaihi

01:37:20 --> 01:37:21

wa sallam used to love.

01:37:21 --> 01:37:24

He loves optimism, not pessimism.

01:37:26 --> 01:37:29

Kan a'jibu al-fa'l, okay?

01:37:30 --> 01:37:35

So a Muslim should be optimistic, should have

01:37:35 --> 01:37:38

this contentment, this with Allah.

01:37:38 --> 01:37:39

And that's what the Prophet salallahu alaihi wa

01:37:39 --> 01:37:41

sallam said, kullu khalqillahi hasan.

01:37:43 --> 01:37:45

All Allah's creation is beautiful.

01:37:45 --> 01:37:51

All Allah's creation is beautiful, okay?

01:37:53 --> 01:37:56

So don't compare yourself to anyone.

01:37:59 --> 01:38:00

That's how Allah made you.

01:38:01 --> 01:38:05

Say alhamdulillah and have confidence in yourself.

01:38:05 --> 01:38:10

And you should not, I mean, feel your

01:38:10 --> 01:38:11

morale is down.

01:38:11 --> 01:38:12

You should not have that.

01:38:17 --> 01:38:21

So inshallah, there's no harm to motivate yourself

01:38:21 --> 01:38:24

and to regain confidence in yourself.

01:38:25 --> 01:38:25

Next.

01:38:27 --> 01:38:29

JazakAllah khair for the beautiful advice.

01:38:29 --> 01:38:29

The next question.

01:38:30 --> 01:38:32

What is the ruling on self-pleasure if

01:38:32 --> 01:38:35

you fear zina and are already fasting, but

01:38:35 --> 01:38:37

still the temptation is there?

01:38:40 --> 01:38:43

Self-pleasure, if you mean *, it is

01:38:43 --> 01:38:43

haram.

01:38:47 --> 01:38:48

It's haram.

01:38:49 --> 01:38:51

So the * is haram.

01:38:53 --> 01:38:54

And the Prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam, what

01:38:54 --> 01:39:03

he recommended for the youth is fasting,

01:39:04 --> 01:39:06

fasting.

01:39:08 --> 01:39:12

But what you need to do, whether you

01:39:12 --> 01:39:17

are a brother or a sister, and may

01:39:17 --> 01:39:19

Allah make it easier for you to get

01:39:19 --> 01:39:26

married, keep yourself busy and avoid the things

01:39:26 --> 01:39:28

that will trigger your desire.

01:39:29 --> 01:39:30

Lower your gaze.

01:39:30 --> 01:39:34

So you don't watch movies, you don't watch

01:39:34 --> 01:39:36

men or you don't watch girls.

01:39:37 --> 01:39:38

So you lower your gaze.

01:39:40 --> 01:39:46

Lower your gaze and plan your day.

01:39:47 --> 01:39:53

Have time for doing strenuous exercises where you

01:39:53 --> 01:39:58

vent this energy, keep yourself busy.

01:39:58 --> 01:40:01

Don't go to bed unless you are totally

01:40:01 --> 01:40:05

exhausted, because if you go to bed and

01:40:05 --> 01:40:07

just put your head and you start to

01:40:07 --> 01:40:13

fantasize, but if you keep yourself busy, so

01:40:13 --> 01:40:15

the moment you put your head on the

01:40:15 --> 01:40:16

pillow, finish.

01:40:17 --> 01:40:20

You go to sleep.

01:40:23 --> 01:40:23

Okay.

01:40:24 --> 01:40:26

And that's what we should do.

01:40:26 --> 01:40:29

I mean, mothers at home, keep your daughters

01:40:29 --> 01:40:29

busy.

01:40:30 --> 01:40:34

Nowadays, everyone is having a cell phone.

01:40:34 --> 01:40:37

Everyone is in his world of fantasy.

01:40:38 --> 01:40:39

Everyone is watching.

01:40:39 --> 01:40:47

And so then they will fall into the

01:40:47 --> 01:40:48

haram.

01:40:50 --> 01:40:59

So the relieving yourself through the, haram *

01:40:59 --> 01:41:02

that is prohibited in Islam.

01:41:04 --> 01:41:09

However, the ulama, they mentioned that if a

01:41:09 --> 01:41:14

person is in a situation, and this is,

01:41:16 --> 01:41:18

this is called an exception.

01:41:19 --> 01:41:22

Happen to be in a situation, there is

01:41:22 --> 01:41:26

no way either to commit zina or to

01:41:26 --> 01:41:26

masturbate.

01:41:26 --> 01:41:31

Then here, the lesser evil, the lesser evil.

01:41:32 --> 01:41:36

But under normal circumstances, you follow the prophetic

01:41:36 --> 01:41:43

advice, fasting and lowering your gaze, avoid the

01:41:43 --> 01:41:49

types of food that will strengthen your sexual

01:41:49 --> 01:41:50

drive, et cetera.

01:41:51 --> 01:41:53

May Allah make it easy for all the

01:41:53 --> 01:41:56

Muslim youth, boys and girls to get married.

01:41:56 --> 01:42:01

I mean, and may Allah guide all Muslim

01:42:01 --> 01:42:06

parents to get their children married quickly, because

01:42:06 --> 01:42:09

many parents are well off and they can

01:42:09 --> 01:42:11

get their children married, but they don't want.

01:42:12 --> 01:42:14

No, no, he has to finish the university

01:42:15 --> 01:42:17

or she has to finish the university and

01:42:17 --> 01:42:18

get a degree.

01:42:19 --> 01:42:23

They lose their virginity in the main course,

01:42:23 --> 01:42:24

they don't mind.

01:42:24 --> 01:42:28

No, if you're well off, get your child

01:42:28 --> 01:42:35

married and they can continue their education when

01:42:35 --> 01:42:36

they are married.

01:42:37 --> 01:42:38

Next.

01:42:40 --> 01:42:41

Barak Allafiq, the next question.

01:42:42 --> 01:42:46

If the fall is prayed on time, but

01:42:46 --> 01:42:49

can one delay the sunnah and will the

01:42:49 --> 01:42:51

reward be reduced if it's prayed late?

01:42:53 --> 01:42:55

The answer, yes, it can be delayed, but

01:42:55 --> 01:42:58

providing that it is within the time, not

01:42:58 --> 01:43:00

you don't miss the time of the, for

01:43:00 --> 01:43:05

example, if you pray Isha and then you

01:43:05 --> 01:43:06

delayed it for a while and then you

01:43:06 --> 01:43:07

prayed it, fine.

01:43:08 --> 01:43:11

But normally you don't know, the shaitan is

01:43:11 --> 01:43:12

a crafty guy.

01:43:13 --> 01:43:15

Okay, if you delay it, then you might

01:43:15 --> 01:43:16

forget it.

01:43:17 --> 01:43:19

So that's why in that case here, don't

01:43:19 --> 01:43:19

delay.

01:43:19 --> 01:43:21

So you pray the fall and you pray

01:43:21 --> 01:43:21

the sunnah.

01:43:23 --> 01:43:27

But for example, you have to do something

01:43:27 --> 01:43:29

after the fall.

01:43:30 --> 01:43:33

Yes, you can do that thing and then

01:43:33 --> 01:43:35

pray the sunnah.

01:43:37 --> 01:43:39

But normally make it your habit.

01:43:39 --> 01:43:41

After the fall, pray your sunnah.

01:43:42 --> 01:43:42

Next.

01:43:45 --> 01:43:47

Baruch Allafiq, the next question.

01:43:48 --> 01:43:51

Is the responsibility of serving one's parents the

01:43:51 --> 01:43:54

same for female and males in particularly after

01:43:54 --> 01:43:55

one is married?

01:43:56 --> 01:44:00

When a woman is married, she has no

01:44:00 --> 01:44:06

responsibility, I mean, financially towards her parents, unless

01:44:06 --> 01:44:07

she is earning.

01:44:09 --> 01:44:14

Because now when she is married, she cannot

01:44:14 --> 01:44:16

go and stay with her parents or help

01:44:16 --> 01:44:17

them.

01:44:17 --> 01:44:21

Unless her husband, Mashallah, is so kind and

01:44:21 --> 01:44:25

he doesn't mind, go, okay, help your parents

01:44:25 --> 01:44:26

and things like that.

01:44:27 --> 01:44:32

But if the husband is saying, you know

01:44:32 --> 01:44:36

our situation, I cannot allow you going there

01:44:36 --> 01:44:39

and here because this is affecting our marital

01:44:39 --> 01:44:41

life and you have children, et cetera.

01:44:42 --> 01:44:46

So she has to, I mean, reach an

01:44:46 --> 01:44:48

agreement with her husband if he is in

01:44:48 --> 01:44:51

the same area to look after her parents

01:44:51 --> 01:44:52

as well.

01:44:53 --> 01:44:56

But if it is something beyond her control,

01:44:57 --> 01:45:00

okay, the son who is normally, because this

01:45:00 --> 01:45:00

is what will happen.

01:45:01 --> 01:45:04

Normally the son will get married and he

01:45:04 --> 01:45:07

will be around with his parents and he

01:45:07 --> 01:45:09

has to take care of his parents.

01:45:09 --> 01:45:13

It doesn't mean that daughters should not take

01:45:13 --> 01:45:17

care but because daughters nowadays are not at

01:45:17 --> 01:45:21

liberty to move freely and go and help

01:45:21 --> 01:45:24

their parents when they are in need or

01:45:24 --> 01:45:26

their parents when they are in need because

01:45:26 --> 01:45:29

they are to obey their husbands or maybe

01:45:29 --> 01:45:31

she is in another country, et cetera.

01:45:33 --> 01:45:38

But financially, if your parents are in need

01:45:38 --> 01:45:40

and you are able, by all means, you

01:45:40 --> 01:45:42

cannot hesitate to help them.

01:45:43 --> 01:45:43

Next.

01:45:46 --> 01:45:48

Barak Allafiq, the next question.

01:45:49 --> 01:45:52

What is the ruling about listening to songs

01:45:52 --> 01:45:55

without music or musical instruments and the lyrics

01:45:55 --> 01:45:58

do not contain any shirk or kufr lines?

01:46:01 --> 01:46:05

You see, listening to songs, if you mean

01:46:05 --> 01:46:09

songs, this about love, about stuff like that,

01:46:09 --> 01:46:09

no.

01:46:10 --> 01:46:11

Okay.

01:46:13 --> 01:46:14

What are the wordings?

01:46:15 --> 01:46:21

Okay, sometimes just the song, okay, though there's

01:46:21 --> 01:46:25

no music, the words there, they trigger, they

01:46:25 --> 01:46:30

trigger the desire, okay?

01:46:31 --> 01:46:35

But if, for example, you mean nashid, for

01:46:35 --> 01:46:43

example, and the words are giving moral values

01:46:43 --> 01:46:50

and encouraging one's iman, and here you have

01:46:50 --> 01:46:53

to listen in the same way you season

01:46:53 --> 01:46:56

your food because some people, they become addicts

01:46:56 --> 01:47:04

to nashid and that's not recommended, okay?

01:47:04 --> 01:47:08

So if this nashid is, you listen to

01:47:08 --> 01:47:11

it occasionally, there's no problem, inshallah.

01:47:14 --> 01:47:14

Next.

01:47:18 --> 01:47:19

Barak Allafiq, the next question.

01:47:20 --> 01:47:23

If someone who is behind the imam or

01:47:23 --> 01:47:31

is praying alone, non-jahri salah, but he

01:47:31 --> 01:47:34

forgets to read al-Fatiha, what is the

01:47:34 --> 01:47:34

advice?

01:47:39 --> 01:47:45

If he is in the congregation, imam is

01:47:45 --> 01:47:48

leading, that's why al-imam udhamin, the prayer

01:47:48 --> 01:47:52

is guaranteed because of the imam.

01:47:54 --> 01:47:59

And if he is praying alone and he

01:47:59 --> 01:48:01

has uswas and he, and this is a

01:48:01 --> 01:48:04

problem because many people, they have this uswas,

01:48:04 --> 01:48:06

okay?

01:48:06 --> 01:48:11

They say, oh, maybe I forgot an ayah

01:48:11 --> 01:48:11

and this.

01:48:12 --> 01:48:16

A person who has this problem, uswas, should

01:48:16 --> 01:48:20

just read the Fatiha, focus to his ability,

01:48:20 --> 01:48:23

and then should not repeat it.

01:48:24 --> 01:48:26

And shaitan will come and say, oh, you

01:48:26 --> 01:48:30

made a mistake, you skipped one ayah, just

01:48:30 --> 01:48:34

don't, ignore, because otherwise the shaitan will make

01:48:34 --> 01:48:37

your life miserable and you will be reading

01:48:37 --> 01:48:40

and repeating the Fatiha many times.

01:48:41 --> 01:48:44

So a person who has uswas, you just

01:48:44 --> 01:48:46

neglect and ignore.

01:48:47 --> 01:48:49

Read the Fatiha, focus and read the Fatiha,

01:48:50 --> 01:48:52

and now the shaitan starts to tell you,

01:48:52 --> 01:48:55

you made a mistake, you didn't complete the

01:48:55 --> 01:48:56

Fatiha, just ignore.

01:48:57 --> 01:48:59

I hope this is clear to the questioner.

01:49:10 --> 01:49:11

Next.

01:49:16 --> 01:49:18

This was the final question.

01:49:19 --> 01:49:21

May Allah accept the attendance of all the

01:49:21 --> 01:49:23

students and jazakAllah khair for your questions.

01:49:24 --> 01:49:25

I hope you have benefited and have taken

01:49:25 --> 01:49:27

good notes and you keep revising the notes.

01:49:28 --> 01:49:29

I'll hand it back to the sheikh to

01:49:29 --> 01:49:30

conclude the lesson.

01:49:30 --> 01:49:33

Marjala feekum wa jazakumullahu khairun.

01:49:33 --> 01:49:34

Assalamu alaikum.

01:49:35 --> 01:49:37

Wa alaikum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

01:49:37 --> 01:49:39

May Allah bless all of you.

01:49:39 --> 01:49:40

May Allah protect all of you.

01:49:41 --> 01:49:44

May Allah elevate your status in this world

01:49:44 --> 01:49:46

and in Jannatul Naeem.

01:49:46 --> 01:49:46

Ameen.

01:49:47 --> 01:49:49

Until we meet inshaAllah in the coming session,

01:49:50 --> 01:49:52

I leave you in Allah's company and protection.

01:49:53 --> 01:49:54

Bi hurmati l-Habib, bi hurmati l-Fatiha.

01:49:55 --> 01:49:58

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

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