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Sheikh, we are ready inshallah.
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Brothers and sisters,
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and
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welcome to our weekly of.
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This is lesson number 42
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delivered by our honorable Sheikh Salaman Amri. I'll
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pass the mic and the screen to the
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Sheikh, and Sheikh can begin can begin.
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My
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dear brothers and sisters in Islam, today is
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our weekly class.
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Masai'il and Jahiliya.
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Issues of the Jahiliya
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related to the Jahiliya.
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And by now, you should know the meaning
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of Jahiliya,
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which means
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a state of mind
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by which
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a person rejects the divine guidance.
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So when you reject Allah's guidance
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and Allah's revelation,
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and you don't want to abide by his
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laws,
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and you want to lead your life
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according to your whims and desires,
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that is Jahiliya.
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So
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we are talking about
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the types of the kufr,
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major kufr that takes a person out of
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Islam.
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And the last tie we talked about and
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will continue today is
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the
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the, issues related to it as well.
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Because
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last time we talked about
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the kufr of
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hypocrisy.
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And today, we'll proceed and continue.
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Sometimes,
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you will come across
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that the Muslim scholars and Muslim,
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scholars of Aqidah, the Muslim
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theologians,
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they refer to the hypocrites
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as Zanadipa.
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Zanadipa.
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The singular
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of Zanadipa is Zindik
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zendir.
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And, basically, zendir is a castle is a
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castle.
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So
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when one is called zendir, that means he
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is a castle. He left Islam.
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So the zen adipa,
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of course, if in this terminology
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or this term was used for,
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some people
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who showed that they believe and they follow
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Allah's messengers
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when the reality they concealed
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the disbelief and enmity for Allah's messengers.
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These are the,
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and they will be in the lowest part
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of the hellfire. So
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and
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are
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used they can be used synonymously.
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Is
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and as well,
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the one who
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commits the
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major
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nifaq or major hypocrisy
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because he pretends to be a Muslim, but
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in reality, he's not.
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And
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the hypocrites are the most dangerous ones for
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the Muslim.
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That's why there is one surah in the
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Quran.
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Surah al Munafiqun.
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There is a chapter in the Quran
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addressing
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this phenomenon.
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So our last session,
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I number 1.
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So Allah says
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about the moon.
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So when the hypocrites come to you, oh
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Mohammed.
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Muhammad They say, we bear witness that you
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are Allah's messenger.
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Allah's messenger.
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Allah
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knows
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that you are his messenger.
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Allah
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knows that you are his messenger.
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And Allah testifies
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and Allah testifies
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that the hypocrites
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are liars.
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What does this mean?
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Liars about what?
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Liars about testifying
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that
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Muhammad
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is Allah's Messenger
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or liars because they pretend
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that they are Muslims when they are not.
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So Allah exposed their reality.
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So when they testify
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that
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Muhammad
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they are
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not sincere about it.
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Though he is,
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and their mere utterance is correct. He is.
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But did they believe in it? No.
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They didn't.
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Pretending,
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aren't they?
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So when they approach you, when when they
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come to you,
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the hypocrites come to you,
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they say.
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Okay? And they confirm, and they
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emphasize
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that we,
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we
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testify
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with the witness.
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You you, Muhammad
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that you are
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most certainly, you are
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Allah's messenger.
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Allah said,
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Allah knows that you are his messenger,
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but they are not honest.
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They are not telling the truth.
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What you don't know of Muhammad
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that what they concealed in their hearts
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is totally different
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from what they disclosed.
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As Allah testifies,
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Most certainly, the hypocrites
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are liars
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like. In their in their
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testimony. They are liars because they
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their testimony
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is not
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coming from their heart.
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It's only lip service.
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They answered that by their tongues, but they
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didn't believe in it.
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Then
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Allah said,
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they have made the false oaths
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as a
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shield.
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Hendering others from the way of Allah, evil
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indeed,
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is what they do.
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So the reason
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they pretend to be Muslims,
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k,
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is to
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protect themselves.
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K?
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So that the Muslim,
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will,
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k,
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Just to protect themselves
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as a shield because the julna
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is the shield.
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Otherwise, they will not be able to function
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within the Muslim
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community.
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They will not.
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So they have to pretend that they are
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Muslims.
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And now they are with the Muslims.
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So they sit with the Muslims. They hear
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what the Muslims are.
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They're planning and all that, and then they
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report to their masters
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because the hypocrites are actually
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slaves for their masters,
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agents.
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K?
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Traitors.
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And you
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you you see them.
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You hear them.
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Allah exposes them
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And their and their sayings and and anything,
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ways, Allah exposes them.
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Then Allah said,
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This is because they believed and then abandoned
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faith.
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Therefore, their hearts have been sealed
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so they do not comprehend.
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Because when
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you say your shahada
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and you utter the shahada,
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you become a believer. You become a Muslim.
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So now if someone comes to us and
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he,
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pronounce and,
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declared his,
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Islam,
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we accept him as
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one of us, our brother.
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Maybe
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he is hiding the kufur.
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We don't know,
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but we teach him as our father.
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This is how what the Islam teaches us.
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That's because they believe then abandon faith.
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Allah sealed their heart. Therefore, Allah
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sealed their hearts,
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put heart seals on their hearts.
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Left so they do not complain.
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Also, Allah
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says,
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from I64
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to 66.
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By the way, you know what happened to
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our brother
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and to take.
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So keep him in your players. Keep him
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in your.
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May Allah protect him from the evils
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and save him. Amen.
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Allah
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says,
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The hypocrites,
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the the hypocrites
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fear that the Surah
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should be revealed about them.
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Exposing what is in their hearts,
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Say or
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keep mocking.
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Allah will definitely bring to life what you
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fear.
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They know.
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He's
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they know that,
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and they know
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this is the haqq.
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Yet
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they didn't accept it and believe
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because
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they were after
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worldly benefits.
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You know? The
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the main reason,
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as they mentioned in the books of Sira,
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that the head of the hypocrites,
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Abdul Lab ibn al Salud.
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Before Islam,
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the Aus and the Khazraj
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agreed to
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make him, appoint him as the king.
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Even the crown was
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made.
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And now all that is vanished,
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gone.
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So it
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is the jealousy,
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hatred.
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He's after worldly benefits.
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He wanted to be a king.
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So he lost this dunya and the akhirah.
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So
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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,
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he
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tells us here
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in this ayah,
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the psyche,
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the mindset,
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the mentality,
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the inner struggles
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within the within
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the hypocrites.
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What is
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what goes
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inside the house and minds?
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Because you see, my dear brothers and sister,
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a hypocrite is have this dual personality
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persona.
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K?
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He has to play
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2 roles,
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role of a Muslim, role of a.
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How to he he cannot reconcile the 2
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personalities.
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He cannot.
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So there is inner struggle inside.
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Misery,
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discomfort,
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pain,
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uncertainty,
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lack of serenity,
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and peace of mind.
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You'll have peace of mind only
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if you
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worship Allah sincerely.
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You are if you are looking for
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the serenity, peace of mind, happiness,
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worship Allah alone
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because Islam
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will liberate you,
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the
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monotheistic
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creed.
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And being a monotheist, you will become
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a free person,
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free man, free woman because
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you are not a slave for any human
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being
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or any of Allah's creation.
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You are a servant
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of your creator
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who deserve to be worshiped.
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Anybody else is like you,
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servant of
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Allah. So you don't lower yourself or anyone.
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You don't feel inferior to anyone. No.
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But if you don't want to be a
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servant of Allah, then you will be enslaved.
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You'll become a real slave
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because you'll be enslaved
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by
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your whims, your desires,
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and you will have different objects to worship.
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Money becomes your god, money.
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Celebrity
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becomes your god.
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Fame becomes your god.
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You are a slave,
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worshipping many deities.
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Many gods, small g.
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Don't you see
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football
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players,
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they say
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team so and so,
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both the the player so and so,
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buying and selling.
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Celebrity,
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buying and selling.
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You are a model,
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okay,
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for the fashion model.
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K? Because
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you have nice figure,
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nice body.
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So
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they pay you for that.
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But then you have to maintain that figure
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so that when you are on the
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walking in
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the catwalk or
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and people are
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k. All the referees and all the judges
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are
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taking notes and
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evaluate your movement, how graceful you are,
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and so
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you figure everything.
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So you have to maintain that.
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So you have to abide by a strict
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diet
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strict diet.
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You cannot eat with everyone because you're going
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to put on weight. Once you become,
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you put on weight. You'll not be graceful
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when you are walking.
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And to them, you are
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the cash cow,
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the milking cow for them,
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for the fashion industry. They fool you,
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and they tell you you are a star.
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Only
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they are
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utilizing
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your body,
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exploiting you.
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So you are a slave.
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You are a slave. You have to follow
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whatever they tell you.
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You can't
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taste the cuisine, your favorite cuisine that your
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mother makes. You can't
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because this will
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increase your weight. So you are safe.
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You are safe.
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You are running after celebrity,
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fame. You are safe.
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That is your God.
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And whatever they want, you have to do.
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So when
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when can one become free?
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Only one way,
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to worship your creator alone.
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That's how you will become free.
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Otherwise, you are not free.
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You are a slave.
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Whether you accept it or not, you are
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a slave.
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So here, Allah
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tells us
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what the
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or the hypocrites
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go through.
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K.
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Many people,
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okay, they just think about
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about their looks, about how they look, and
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what the people say. So
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what's
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their mind, especially women,
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what their
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mind
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is what the people will say.
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So she is working
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all the time how to satisfy the people
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and what the people will say about her
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looks, and
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so she will spend hours in front of
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the mirror and with the beautician
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and all that stuff.
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K? So that you will look
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nice
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in order to be praised.
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Don't you see what the women are doing?
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May Allah guide them, Muslim women.
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K.
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They go and
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play with them
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with their bodies,
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with the Allah's creation, what Allah has had,
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given them.
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They go for
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changing their lips, their noses, their
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doing surgical operation,
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injecting
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materials to their bodies to
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look fatty,
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all that stuff.
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Why?
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Because to have,
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the looks is everything.
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That's
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it. Because if he is and she thinks
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he is free, you're not free. You're a
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slave
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Because this is now your your idol you
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worship.
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Allah says here
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telling us about the hypocrites.
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They are
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in state of caution.
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They are cautious.
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They are in state of fear.
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They are afraid that may Allah send down
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an ayah which will expose them.
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So the hypocrites fear that Allah,
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that the Surah
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00:26:21
should be revealed about them.
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So they're afraid
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that
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Allah
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will expose us
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and will send down a Surah
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chapter
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describing us,
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exposing our plots and plants.
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And soon as
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So this will
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expose them
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and
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reveal
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what is in their house.
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What
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is in their house?
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00:27:12
So Allah says,
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Say, oh, Mohammed, to them, keep mocking.
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So what does it mean?
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Is this a green light?
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Is this a green light?
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Say,
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keep mocking.
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Is this a green light, permission from Allah
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00:27:51
that they should keep mocking the,
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00:27:54
or is it a threat from Allah?
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00:27:58
It is a threat,
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not permission.
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00:28:03
Threat. Allah's threatening them.
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00:28:07
So that's why you need to know
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00:28:10
the patterns of speech in Arabic.
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00:28:15
So this is a threat. Allah's threatening them.
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00:28:20
Like, for example, if you
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are disciplining a child,
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00:28:26
and the child is impeach, and the child
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00:28:27
is rebellious.
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00:28:34
And you tell the child, just do it.
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Do it. Go go and do it. Go
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and do it.
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00:28:40
What does it mean go and do it?
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00:28:43
You have allowed the child to do it?
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00:28:43
No.
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00:28:46
You are threatening the child.
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00:28:51
You are threatening the child to him. Do
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00:28:53
it, and you'll see what will happen to
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00:28:53
you.
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00:28:56
K? So this is
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00:28:58
the hadith. This is
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00:29:00
a threat.
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00:29:04
Keep mocking, and you will see what will
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00:29:05
happen to you.
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00:29:14
What you are what you are afraid of
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00:29:17
and what you fear and what that
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00:29:19
you don't want it to be disclosed
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00:29:20
and revealed
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00:29:23
and made known to the people.
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00:29:24
Allah will
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00:29:27
make it known to the people.
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00:29:30
Allah will bring
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00:29:33
to life what you fear.
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00:29:35
Allah will bring it out.
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00:29:39
Allah will bring it out.
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00:29:43
Allah subhanahu
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00:29:45
wa sahlam. Let
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00:29:48
give the hypocrites
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00:29:49
plot
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00:29:51
and plan
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00:29:53
to undermine the deen.
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00:29:57
Allah will expose them.
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00:30:01
Allah will expose
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00:30:02
them.
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00:30:03
You see,
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00:30:08
the hypocrites,
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00:30:12
they built a masjid. I mentioned this to
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00:30:13
you called
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00:30:14
Masjid.
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00:30:22
So that now they can have
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00:30:24
their own time. They can have
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00:30:31
privacy or privacy.
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00:30:34
They are out of sight.
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00:30:40
So they built the masjid as to be
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00:30:41
used as their
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00:30:43
center or headquarter.
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00:30:48
And they asked the prophet
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00:30:49
to inaugurate
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00:30:50
this masjid.
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00:30:54
So they asked him to come and pay
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00:30:55
in it. So the prophet
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00:30:57
pays in that masjid,
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00:31:00
then it will become a masjid, a known
00:31:00 -->
00:31:00
masjid,
00:31:01 -->
00:31:01
and people
00:31:02 -->
00:31:04
will come and pay in it. And, of
00:31:04 -->
00:31:07
course, by that, they meant to
00:31:08 -->
00:31:08
distract
00:31:10 -->
00:31:13
and stop the people from playing in the
00:31:13 -->
00:31:14
Masjid of the pop
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00:31:17
so the people, they can't pray in this
00:31:17 -->
00:31:17
Masjid.
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00:31:23
So that was their evil intention.
00:31:28 -->
00:31:29
The prophet
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00:31:32
was on a journey military expedition,
00:31:33 -->
00:31:33
Raswa.
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00:31:36
So he told them,
00:31:37 -->
00:31:38
when in my return,
00:31:39 -->
00:31:40
I will pray in this masjid
00:31:41 -->
00:31:42
that you built.
00:31:45 -->
00:31:47
Allah as the,
00:31:47 -->
00:31:49
this was not known to the prophet.
00:31:50 -->
00:31:51
Allah exposed them.
00:31:52 -->
00:31:53
Allah made it known
00:31:55 -->
00:31:56
what the
00:31:57 -->
00:31:58
their agenda now is
00:31:59 -->
00:31:59
exposed.
00:32:01 -->
00:32:03
Their plot is aborted.
00:32:07 -->
00:32:08
So now
00:32:09 -->
00:32:10
I'll ask all this part.
00:32:12 -->
00:32:15
Don't stand there and don't
00:32:16 -->
00:32:17
stand in that.
00:32:18 -->
00:32:20
Don't pray in it.
00:32:21 -->
00:32:22
And the the prophet
00:32:24 -->
00:32:27
sent some of the Sahaba, and they demolish
00:32:27 -->
00:32:28
that masjid
00:32:29 -->
00:32:30
masjid of Dira.
00:32:32 -->
00:32:33
So Allah exposes
00:32:34 -->
00:32:35
the.
00:32:40 -->
00:32:41
Allah will bring it out.
00:32:46 -->
00:32:50
Allah will definitely bring to light what you
00:32:50 -->
00:32:50
fear.
00:32:57 -->
00:32:58
Also, Allah
00:32:59 -->
00:32:59
tells us
00:33:02 -->
00:33:02
in
00:33:04 -->
00:33:06
from now 64 to 66.
00:33:07 -->
00:33:08
So Allah
00:33:08 -->
00:33:11
This has happened during the battle of
00:33:12 -->
00:33:12
Tawouk,
00:33:13 -->
00:33:13
the
00:33:14 -->
00:33:15
and
00:33:17 -->
00:33:19
the military expedition of Tawouk.
00:33:22 -->
00:33:23
So
00:33:24 -->
00:33:25
at night,
00:33:30 -->
00:33:31
the hypocrites
00:33:34 -->
00:33:37
got together, and now they are cracking jokes
00:33:39 -->
00:33:40
about the prophet
00:33:40 -->
00:33:41
and the companions.
00:33:44 -->
00:33:45
So
00:33:45 -->
00:33:46
they
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00:33:56
said,
00:34:01 -->
00:34:02
The meaning, they said,
00:34:03 -->
00:34:04
we've never seen
00:34:05 -->
00:34:06
people who are voracious.
00:34:08 -->
00:34:09
They eat a lot.
00:34:13 -->
00:34:14
They like eating,
00:34:16 -->
00:34:18
and they are coward in the battlefields.
00:34:20 -->
00:34:21
They eat a lot,
00:34:23 -->
00:34:24
and
00:34:24 -->
00:34:25
they are coward
00:34:27 -->
00:34:27
in facing
00:34:28 -->
00:34:29
and confronting
00:34:30 -->
00:34:31
the enemies in the battlefield.
00:34:34 -->
00:34:35
We've never seen people
00:34:36 -->
00:34:37
who are more ferocious
00:34:38 -->
00:34:39
and more coward
00:34:40 -->
00:34:41
in the than
00:34:42 -->
00:34:44
Muhammad and his companions.
00:34:44 -->
00:34:45
So they were
00:34:46 -->
00:34:47
insulting
00:34:47 -->
00:34:48
the prophet
00:34:48 -->
00:34:50
and his companions and abusing them
00:34:54 -->
00:34:55
that they are,
00:34:57 -->
00:34:58
coward,
00:34:58 -->
00:35:01
and they eat a lot, which in was
00:35:01 -->
00:35:02
was not the case.
00:35:03 -->
00:35:04
And,
00:35:04 -->
00:35:06
they thought they were alone.
00:35:07 -->
00:35:09
They thought they were alone, so
00:35:10 -->
00:35:11
there was a Muslim there
00:35:13 -->
00:35:15
who heard what they were saying. So
00:35:17 -->
00:35:18
he rushed to the
00:35:19 -->
00:35:20
and informed him.
00:35:25 -->
00:35:28
Informed him about what they said.
00:35:34 -->
00:35:34
Okay.
00:35:36 -->
00:35:38
Now I'll send down the
00:35:40 -->
00:35:40
the,
00:35:42 -->
00:35:42
this eye.
00:35:46 -->
00:35:46
The hypocrites,
00:35:47 -->
00:35:48
they realize
00:35:50 -->
00:35:52
that the news reached the about
00:35:52 -->
00:35:55
what they said, so they had to contain
00:35:55 -->
00:35:56
it.
00:35:56 -->
00:35:58
Always remember remember
00:35:59 -->
00:36:00
the.
00:36:02 -->
00:36:04
Okay? That little
00:36:04 -->
00:36:05
animal
00:36:06 -->
00:36:09
that digs many holes. K? The rodent.
00:36:12 -->
00:36:15
So there is always emergency exit,
00:36:15 -->
00:36:17
so they have to
00:36:18 -->
00:36:19
come now and apologize.
00:36:22 -->
00:36:23
So the man came,
00:36:31 -->
00:36:31
and
00:36:32 -->
00:36:33
told the prophet,
00:36:35 -->
00:36:37
we were all prophets of Allah. We didn't
00:36:37 -->
00:36:38
mean anything
00:36:39 -->
00:36:42
because only long journey, so we are
00:36:43 -->
00:36:44
entertaining each other,
00:36:45 -->
00:36:48
okay, and try to pass time,
00:36:49 -->
00:36:51
but we didn't mean anything.
00:36:53 -->
00:36:53
Allah
00:36:55 -->
00:36:56
revealed to his prophet.
00:37:00 -->
00:37:01
Follow
00:37:21 -->
00:37:23
My dear brothers and sisters, remember
00:37:24 -->
00:37:24
the
00:37:25 -->
00:37:25
nullifiers
00:37:26 -->
00:37:27
of Al Islam.
00:37:29 -->
00:37:32
And among the 10 nullifiers of Al Islam
00:37:34 -->
00:37:35
is mocking,
00:37:37 -->
00:37:38
ridiculing
00:37:39 -->
00:37:41
any aspect of the deen,
00:37:42 -->
00:37:44
any part of the deen.
00:37:45 -->
00:37:46
If you ridicule
00:37:47 -->
00:37:48
any part of the deen,
00:37:49 -->
00:37:52
mock the prophet or any messenger
00:37:53 -->
00:37:55
or the books of Allah, anything,
00:37:55 -->
00:37:57
any part of the deen,
00:37:59 -->
00:38:02
then this will take you out of Islam.
00:38:03 -->
00:38:04
Out.
00:38:05 -->
00:38:06
And you become Catholic.
00:38:09 -->
00:38:09
Major.
00:38:13 -->
00:38:14
So be careful.
00:38:17 -->
00:38:19
There are red lines.
00:38:20 -->
00:38:22
When it comes to the deen,
00:38:22 -->
00:38:23
red lines.
00:38:24 -->
00:38:25
Don't let the shaitan,
00:38:27 -->
00:38:28
fool you.
00:38:30 -->
00:38:33
He clack joke about the deen.
00:38:38 -->
00:38:40
This will take you out of Islam.
00:38:41 -->
00:38:42
So Allah revealed
00:38:43 -->
00:38:44
about their statement
00:38:45 -->
00:38:45
that
00:38:46 -->
00:38:48
the companion prophet and his companions
00:38:49 -->
00:38:49
are
00:38:50 -->
00:38:50
voracious.
00:38:51 -->
00:38:52
They like eating,
00:38:53 -->
00:38:54
voracious eaters,
00:38:55 -->
00:38:58
and they are cowards. Allah revealed regarding that,
00:38:59 -->
00:39:00
telling his prophet
00:39:02 -->
00:39:03
about
00:39:05 -->
00:39:06
what they will say
00:39:09 -->
00:39:09
and what
00:39:11 -->
00:39:14
should be they should be told,
00:39:31 -->
00:39:34
If you question them, oh, Muhammad,
00:39:35 -->
00:39:38
they were certainly saying, we were only talking
00:39:38 -->
00:39:39
idly
00:39:41 -->
00:39:41
or idly,
00:39:43 -->
00:39:44
k,
00:39:45 -->
00:39:46
and joking around.
00:39:52 -->
00:39:53
We're just
00:39:55 -->
00:39:57
having an idle talk
00:40:02 -->
00:40:03
and joking around.
00:40:07 -->
00:40:08
We didn't mean anything.
00:40:19 -->
00:40:20
Abi lahi,
00:40:21 -->
00:40:22
was it Allah?
00:40:22 -->
00:40:23
You didn't find anything
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00:40:27
to mock and ridicule and crack jokes about
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00:40:28
except Allah?
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00:40:32
How many people they crack jokes about Allah?
00:40:33 -->
00:40:34
About his angels,
00:40:34 -->
00:40:36
about his prophets, especially
00:40:37 -->
00:40:39
non Muslims or the hypocrites?
00:40:43 -->
00:40:44
Will Abi Lahi
00:40:46 -->
00:40:47
Say, was it Allah?
00:40:50 -->
00:40:50
His revelation?
00:40:52 -->
00:40:53
You ridicule
00:40:53 -->
00:40:54
Allah's revelations
00:40:56 -->
00:40:57
and his messenger
00:40:58 -->
00:40:59
that you ridiculed.
00:41:12 -->
00:41:13
No excuse.
00:41:14 -->
00:41:15
Let
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00:41:39
Make no excuses.
00:41:39 -->
00:41:41
You have lost faith.
00:41:43 -->
00:41:45
You had become blasphemers.
00:41:46 -->
00:41:47
Disbelievers
00:41:48 -->
00:41:49
after your belief.
00:41:51 -->
00:41:54
If we pardon and forgive the group of
00:41:54 -->
00:41:54
you,
00:41:55 -->
00:41:57
we will punish others for their wickedness.
00:42:00 -->
00:42:01
Also, Allah says
00:42:03 -->
00:42:04
60 to 61.
00:42:07 -->
00:42:08
60 to 61.
00:42:35 -->
00:42:36
If the hypocrites
00:42:38 -->
00:42:39
if the hypocrites
00:42:40 -->
00:42:42
and those with sickness in their house
00:42:43 -->
00:42:44
and
00:42:44 -->
00:42:45
rumor
00:42:45 -->
00:42:48
mongers in Medina do not
00:42:48 -->
00:42:49
desist,
00:42:50 -->
00:42:52
We will certainly
00:42:52 -->
00:42:55
incite you or profit against them,
00:42:56 -->
00:42:59
and then they will not be your neighbors
00:43:00 -->
00:43:01
there any longer.
00:43:07 -->
00:43:08
So this
00:43:08 -->
00:43:09
what
00:43:09 -->
00:43:10
Allah says.
00:43:12 -->
00:43:14
So this is a threat for the
00:43:20 -->
00:43:21
hypocrites because
00:43:21 -->
00:43:22
hypocrisy
00:43:22 -->
00:43:23
is a disease.
00:43:25 -->
00:43:26
So as the hypocrites
00:43:29 -->
00:43:32
and those with those with sickness in their
00:43:32 -->
00:43:33
hearts.
00:43:33 -->
00:43:35
So one, my dear brothers and sisters,
00:43:36 -->
00:43:39
should always keep checking his heart,
00:43:42 -->
00:43:45
and purify it from these
00:43:46 -->
00:43:47
ills, diseases.
00:43:50 -->
00:43:51
Don't you know
00:43:52 -->
00:43:54
if you if a Muslim
00:43:55 -->
00:43:56
hates any part of the deen,
00:43:58 -->
00:43:59
this will take him out of Islam.
00:44:01 -->
00:44:04
If you hate something, you know it is
00:44:04 -->
00:44:06
part of the deen and you hate it
00:44:07 -->
00:44:08
and you know it is part of the
00:44:08 -->
00:44:09
deen,
00:44:13 -->
00:44:14
then
00:44:15 -->
00:44:17
and the reason you hate it because it
00:44:17 -->
00:44:18
is part of the deen,
00:44:19 -->
00:44:20
then you are not a Muslim.
00:44:23 -->
00:44:24
You're not a Muslim
00:44:26 -->
00:44:28
because you hate something
00:44:30 -->
00:44:31
which Allah revealed.
00:44:36 -->
00:44:38
If, for example, a woman, she hates the
00:44:38 -->
00:44:38
niqab
00:44:39 -->
00:44:40
or the hijab,
00:44:42 -->
00:44:43
she hates it.
00:44:44 -->
00:44:45
Why Allah
00:44:46 -->
00:44:48
imposed on us the hijab?
00:44:49 -->
00:44:50
If you hate that
00:44:51 -->
00:44:54
and you from the bottom of your heart
00:44:54 -->
00:44:54
and you
00:44:57 -->
00:44:57
bye
00:44:59 -->
00:45:01
bye. You're not Muslim now.
00:45:08 -->
00:45:09
You have to love the hijab.
00:45:10 -->
00:45:11
You have to love it
00:45:13 -->
00:45:15
because Allah imposed it.
00:45:19 -->
00:45:20
You have to love it.
00:45:23 -->
00:45:25
You should not really get
00:45:26 -->
00:45:28
what Allah described
00:45:33 -->
00:45:35
even if you are not reading hijab.
00:45:37 -->
00:45:38
But inside your heart,
00:45:40 -->
00:45:42
yes, my lord. I accept it.
00:45:44 -->
00:45:45
Yes, my lord.
00:45:45 -->
00:45:47
I am sinful.
00:45:48 -->
00:45:50
Yes, my lord. I am wrong.
00:45:51 -->
00:45:53
I know I have to wear it, but
00:45:53 -->
00:45:55
my imam, my lord, is weak.
00:45:57 -->
00:45:59
My lord, give me the strength
00:46:01 -->
00:46:03
strengthen my imam, my lord,
00:46:04 -->
00:46:06
so that I will wear it.
00:46:09 -->
00:46:10
This
00:46:11 -->
00:46:14
will not take you out of Islam by
00:46:14 -->
00:46:16
not wear not wearing it. You are sinful,
00:46:16 -->
00:46:18
but you are Muslim.
00:46:18 -->
00:46:21
But if you are against it,
00:46:22 -->
00:46:23
fighting the hijab,
00:46:31 -->
00:46:33
You're an advocate.
00:46:37 -->
00:46:38
Okay?
00:46:38 -->
00:46:39
Calling others
00:46:41 -->
00:46:42
not to wear it.
00:46:42 -->
00:46:44
It's not part of the Sharia.
00:46:45 -->
00:46:46
It's not part of Islam.
00:46:49 -->
00:46:50
Then
00:46:50 -->
00:46:53
you have left Islam. You are not Muslim.
00:46:53 -->
00:46:54
You are.
00:46:55 -->
00:46:56
You are.
00:46:56 -->
00:46:58
You are an upstate.
00:47:01 -->
00:47:02
No jokes
00:47:03 -->
00:47:04
about liars.
00:47:04 -->
00:47:05
No jokes.
00:47:10 -->
00:47:11
Something
00:47:11 -->
00:47:12
Allah said.
00:47:16 -->
00:47:19
We hear and we obey.
00:47:21 -->
00:47:21
We
00:47:22 -->
00:47:23
hear and we obey.
00:47:29 -->
00:47:30
So Allah says,
00:47:36 -->
00:47:38
This is the mother of the disease of
00:47:38 -->
00:47:39
Kuford.
00:47:51 -->
00:47:52
And those murghif.
00:47:54 -->
00:47:56
The murghif is the one who
00:47:57 -->
00:47:58
spreads rumors.
00:48:02 -->
00:48:03
K?
00:48:04 -->
00:48:04
You
00:48:06 -->
00:48:06
do
00:48:07 -->
00:48:08
spreading rumors.
00:48:09 -->
00:48:10
Rumor mongers.
00:48:13 -->
00:48:15
And by the way, there are
00:48:16 -->
00:48:17
in Medina.
00:48:17 -->
00:48:19
There are hypocrites living in Medina.
00:48:20 -->
00:48:21
There are.
00:48:25 -->
00:48:26
And that is
00:48:28 -->
00:48:29
why on the day,
00:48:30 -->
00:48:31
the Dajjal
00:48:32 -->
00:48:34
camped outside Medina because
00:48:35 -->
00:48:36
the Dajjal, the antichrist,
00:48:38 -->
00:48:39
the false messiah,
00:48:39 -->
00:48:41
will try to enter Medina and Mecca,
00:48:42 -->
00:48:42
angels
00:48:44 -->
00:48:45
at all entrances
00:48:46 -->
00:48:47
blocking.
00:48:47 -->
00:48:48
So
00:48:49 -->
00:48:50
he will
00:48:50 -->
00:48:52
encamped outside Medina.
00:48:52 -->
00:48:54
Then the Medina will shake,
00:48:55 -->
00:48:56
shake.
00:48:57 -->
00:49:00
All the hypocrites in Medina will come out
00:49:00 -->
00:49:01
and follow
00:49:01 -->
00:49:02
the antichrist,
00:49:03 -->
00:49:04
the false messiah.
00:49:06 -->
00:49:07
So there are there. And
00:49:11 -->
00:49:11
rumor mongers.
00:49:15 -->
00:49:17
So this is I was addressing
00:49:18 -->
00:49:19
these categories
00:49:20 -->
00:49:22
and warning them.
00:49:22 -->
00:49:23
So don't be,
00:49:25 -->
00:49:28
don't belong to any of these 3 categories,
00:49:29 -->
00:49:29
3 types.
00:49:31 -->
00:49:32
Do
00:49:33 -->
00:49:34
not
00:49:36 -->
00:49:36
spread
00:49:38 -->
00:49:38
rumors.
00:49:40 -->
00:49:42
It's enough to be a liar
00:49:42 -->
00:49:43
that
00:49:44 -->
00:49:47
you relate and you convey and you transmit
00:49:47 -->
00:49:49
whatever you hear without very
00:49:50 -->
00:49:50
verification
00:49:51 -->
00:49:53
and without verifying
00:49:54 -->
00:49:54
the news.
00:49:57 -->
00:49:59
That's why I heard this immediately.
00:50:00 -->
00:50:01
You spread it.
00:50:05 -->
00:50:05
And nowadays,
00:50:09 -->
00:50:11
because of the media, social media,
00:50:12 -->
00:50:14
a lie will reach the end of the
00:50:14 -->
00:50:15
world in no time,
00:50:16 -->
00:50:17
which is a lie.
00:50:19 -->
00:50:21
Wrong information. False information.
00:50:25 -->
00:50:28
There are what they call the electronic flies,
00:50:30 -->
00:50:31
websites.
00:50:32 -->
00:50:33
Yes.
00:50:33 -->
00:50:36
Their job is lying, lying, lying.
00:50:46 -->
00:50:47
So verify.
00:50:49 -->
00:50:50
Not every message you receive,
00:50:52 -->
00:50:54
you forward it. No.
00:50:56 -->
00:50:56
Verify.
00:50:58 -->
00:50:58
Check.
00:51:01 -->
00:51:02
Otherwise,
00:51:05 -->
00:51:05
you see,
00:51:07 -->
00:51:08
millions and
00:51:08 -->
00:51:08
millions
00:51:09 -->
00:51:11
of messages are going
00:51:11 -->
00:51:12
around.
00:51:14 -->
00:51:14
Publicated
00:51:15 -->
00:51:15
hadith,
00:51:16 -->
00:51:19
hadith, lies, everything's going on.
00:51:21 -->
00:51:23
And the message will come to you again
00:51:23 -->
00:51:24
and again and again.
00:51:30 -->
00:51:32
So how to stop this?
00:51:32 -->
00:51:35
That everyone should play his role.
00:51:36 -->
00:51:37
I received the message.
00:51:37 -->
00:51:39
I verify. I check.
00:51:42 -->
00:51:42
Oh,
00:51:43 -->
00:51:43
it's false.
00:51:45 -->
00:51:45
Delete.
00:51:51 -->
00:51:52
Delete. And send the message to the one
00:51:52 -->
00:51:54
who forwarded to you.
00:51:58 -->
00:52:00
Allah. Don't do this.
00:52:00 -->
00:52:01
And ask him
00:52:02 -->
00:52:02
to
00:52:03 -->
00:52:05
notify and inform
00:52:05 -->
00:52:07
those whom he send them
00:52:08 -->
00:52:08
the message
00:52:09 -->
00:52:11
that this information is not
00:52:11 -->
00:52:12
correct, is wrong.
00:52:16 -->
00:52:19
So we should not be part of those.
00:52:21 -->
00:52:23
Mongifur, luma mongers.
00:52:26 -->
00:52:27
Otherwise, the hadith
00:52:28 -->
00:52:28
is clear.
00:52:29 -->
00:52:30
You are a liar
00:52:31 -->
00:52:33
because whatever you hear,
00:52:33 -->
00:52:36
you start sharing it and telling the people
00:52:36 -->
00:52:37
about it
00:52:37 -->
00:52:39
when it is not true.
00:52:43 -->
00:52:45
So this how Islam
00:52:45 -->
00:52:45
teaches
00:52:48 -->
00:52:49
its followers.
00:53:02 -->
00:53:03
What's mean?
00:53:04 -->
00:53:05
So all believers,
00:53:06 -->
00:53:09
when a fasted, wicked person, evil doer,
00:53:10 -->
00:53:11
evil individual
00:53:13 -->
00:53:15
approaches you
00:53:17 -->
00:53:18
with false information,
00:53:18 -->
00:53:19
with the news,
00:53:19 -->
00:53:20
either.
00:53:22 -->
00:53:23
So
00:53:24 -->
00:53:25
it's not trustworthy,
00:53:26 -->
00:53:27
and he
00:53:28 -->
00:53:30
tells you this piece of information
00:53:31 -->
00:53:31
and use.
00:53:32 -->
00:53:34
Verify it. This
00:53:35 -->
00:53:36
is what Allah
00:53:36 -->
00:53:36
teaches
00:53:37 -->
00:53:38
us. Verify.
00:53:40 -->
00:53:41
The ulema, they say,
00:53:42 -->
00:53:43
a Muslim judge
00:53:43 -->
00:53:44
or Qazi
00:53:45 -->
00:53:47
should not judge before
00:53:47 -->
00:53:48
seeing
00:53:49 -->
00:53:50
the the other,
00:53:53 -->
00:53:53
person
00:53:55 -->
00:53:56
whom this one,
00:53:58 -->
00:54:01
person a complained about person b,
00:54:01 -->
00:54:03
so he cannot judge immediately
00:54:04 -->
00:54:05
until he sees
00:54:06 -->
00:54:07
person b.
00:54:08 -->
00:54:09
Person a came
00:54:10 -->
00:54:13
with his eye the ball of his eye
00:54:13 -->
00:54:13
eyeball
00:54:14 -->
00:54:15
in his hand and his palm
00:54:16 -->
00:54:17
saying, oh,
00:54:18 -->
00:54:18
judge.
00:54:20 -->
00:54:21
So and so
00:54:23 -->
00:54:24
removed my eye,
00:54:25 -->
00:54:27
blocked my eye.
00:54:31 -->
00:54:32
So
00:54:33 -->
00:54:34
he removed my eye.
00:54:35 -->
00:54:38
The ulama, they say, the judge has to
00:54:38 -->
00:54:40
wait and to to to see
00:54:41 -->
00:54:42
the other person.
00:54:43 -->
00:54:44
Maybe
00:54:44 -->
00:54:47
that one lost the two eyes,
00:54:47 -->
00:54:49
lost the 2 of his eyes. So he
00:54:49 -->
00:54:51
has you have to wait and see.
00:54:51 -->
00:54:52
You have to verify.
00:55:01 -->
00:55:02
And another and
00:55:06 -->
00:55:08
to see the common, lest you
00:55:08 -->
00:55:10
accuse people who are innocent.
00:55:18 -->
00:55:21
You accuse people out of your ignorance because
00:55:21 -->
00:55:21
of your ignorance.
00:55:26 -->
00:55:28
Then you will regret when it is too
00:55:28 -->
00:55:28
late.
00:55:33 -->
00:55:33
K?
00:55:36 -->
00:55:37
Because of what you had done.
00:55:41 -->
00:55:42
So you need to verify
00:55:45 -->
00:55:46
before you
00:55:46 -->
00:55:47
convey
00:55:47 -->
00:55:50
what reached you and what you heard.
00:56:08 -->
00:56:10
We will certainly incite you,
00:56:10 -->
00:56:11
oh, Muhammad
00:56:13 -->
00:56:13
against them,
00:56:15 -->
00:56:17
and then they will not be your neighbors
00:56:17 -->
00:56:18
there any longer.
00:56:20 -->
00:56:21
Then Allah said,
00:56:46 -->
00:56:46
K.
00:56:51 -->
00:56:52
Means what?
00:56:53 -->
00:56:54
What's the meaning of?
00:56:55 -->
00:56:56
Means he is
00:56:58 -->
00:56:58
deprived
00:56:59 -->
00:57:00
of Allah's mercy.
00:57:03 -->
00:57:04
Is.
00:57:07 -->
00:57:10
So Allah deprived him of his mercy.
00:57:11 -->
00:57:12
Why?
00:57:13 -->
00:57:14
Because he was arrogant.
00:57:15 -->
00:57:16
Iblis was arrogant.
00:57:19 -->
00:57:19
Allah
00:57:20 -->
00:57:23
commanded the the angels, and he was with
00:57:23 -->
00:57:25
them to prostrate before Adam.
00:57:26 -->
00:57:27
Angels prostrated
00:57:27 -->
00:57:29
in at least about
00:57:29 -->
00:57:30
what kind of.
00:57:32 -->
00:57:34
All the angels were saying it, but at
00:57:34 -->
00:57:35
least say it now.
00:57:38 -->
00:57:39
So it can.
00:57:42 -->
00:57:43
And you say
00:57:43 -->
00:57:44
to Allah,
00:57:49 -->
00:57:49
Allah,
00:57:51 -->
00:57:53
So in other words, he's telling Allah,
00:57:54 -->
00:57:57
I am better than him than Adam. So
00:57:59 -->
00:58:00
why do you,
00:58:02 -->
00:58:03
command me
00:58:03 -->
00:58:05
to process before
00:58:05 -->
00:58:05
someone
00:58:06 -->
00:58:07
who is
00:58:08 -->
00:58:09
inferior to me
00:58:10 -->
00:58:11
and superior to him?
00:58:12 -->
00:58:13
I'm better than him.
00:58:14 -->
00:58:15
So
00:58:15 -->
00:58:16
he's arrogant.
00:58:17 -->
00:58:19
He's rejecting Allah's command
00:58:21 -->
00:58:23
because of his arrogance.
00:58:25 -->
00:58:26
So he rejected Allah's command.
00:58:36 -->
00:58:37
You created
00:58:37 -->
00:58:38
me
00:58:39 -->
00:58:40
from the fire,
00:58:41 -->
00:58:43
and you created him from
00:58:44 -->
00:58:44
the earth,
00:58:46 -->
00:58:47
from mud.
00:58:51 -->
00:58:54
So he rejected the divine command.
00:58:56 -->
00:58:57
So that's why Allah,
00:58:58 -->
00:58:59
first time,
00:59:00 -->
00:59:01
deprived him
00:59:01 -->
00:59:02
of his forgiveness
00:59:03 -->
00:59:04
and of
00:59:04 -->
00:59:05
his mercy
00:59:06 -->
00:59:08
because he was arrogant,
00:59:08 -->
00:59:11
and he rejected Allah's command.
00:59:11 -->
00:59:16
The ulama, they say, Iblis disobeyed Allah, and
00:59:16 -->
00:59:17
Adam disobeyed Allah.
00:59:19 -->
00:59:22
Allah forgave Adam, and he did not forgive
00:59:23 -->
00:59:23
the place.
00:59:24 -->
00:59:25
Why?
00:59:26 -->
00:59:27
Because they said
00:59:28 -->
00:59:29
Adam's
00:59:31 -->
00:59:31
sin,
00:59:32 -->
00:59:34
k, or mistake he made
00:59:36 -->
00:59:37
happened due to
00:59:39 -->
00:59:40
ignorance
00:59:43 -->
00:59:44
and forgetfulness.
00:59:48 -->
00:59:49
This is
00:59:50 -->
00:59:50
main two reasons.
00:59:52 -->
00:59:53
He was ignorant
00:59:55 -->
00:59:57
because he was naive,
00:59:58 -->
00:59:58
innocent,
00:59:59 -->
00:59:59
pure.
01:00:03 -->
01:00:06
He's not aware that people lie. He didn't
01:00:06 -->
01:00:07
know something called lying
01:00:09 -->
01:00:10
is created in the agenda.
01:00:13 -->
01:00:14
And now this,
01:00:15 -->
01:00:17
the police, Shaytan,
01:00:17 -->
01:00:18
approached him,
01:00:20 -->
01:00:21
and he told him,
01:00:29 -->
01:00:32
Oh, Adam, shall I lead you
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or inform you?
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I'll actually give us to call the tree
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01:00:39
of eternity.
01:00:41 -->
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A tree or Adam, if you eat from
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01:00:46
it, you are going to have eternal life.
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01:00:50
And Adam
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01:00:52
forgot
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that Allah warned him,
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01:00:56
so he forgot
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01:00:58
the warning.
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And now someone is telling him,
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pretending that he is
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01:01:05
he meant good for him, and he's giving
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01:01:06
him
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sincere advice, piece of advice.
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01:01:13
So
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he believed him.
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Did he realize that you are mistaken?
01:01:21 -->
01:01:22
He remarked that.
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01:01:26
So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, as you know,
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01:01:26
he sent
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01:01:30
Adam and the shaytan to the dunya
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01:01:32
and Hawa'i.
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01:01:36
So the Quran talks about
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01:01:37
that
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01:01:39
Adam was mistaken.
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Adam forgot.
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01:01:44
K.
01:01:44 -->
01:01:46
The Quran didn't blame Eve
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01:01:49
in the sense that, as the Bible says,
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01:01:51
it is this woman
01:01:52 -->
01:01:54
who told me to eat and touch the
01:01:54 -->
01:01:55
apple. No. No.
01:01:55 -->
01:01:56
It's Adam.
01:02:03 -->
01:02:04
But
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in Christianity, for example,
01:02:08 -->
01:02:09
they are saying,
01:02:10 -->
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Eve is the source of evil,
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01:02:14
the woman.
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01:02:19
You will not believe that in the medieval
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01:02:19
ages,
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the churches,
01:02:21 -->
01:02:22
the
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01:02:24
clergymen, the
01:02:25 -->
01:02:27
Christian theologians, they were discussing
01:02:28 -->
01:02:31
the nature of Eve and woman in general.
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01:02:33
Is a woman does a woman have a
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01:02:33
soul,
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or she is devil?
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K? That is,
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01:02:42
what they were discussing.
01:02:47 -->
01:02:49
The Quran says, Adam came down with Eve
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01:02:50
and
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01:02:54
Allah forgave them. They repented, turned to Allah.
01:02:54 -->
01:02:57
We were mistaken. Forgive us. He forgave them.
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01:02:57
That's it.
01:03:00 -->
01:03:01
And this is when
01:03:02 -->
01:03:04
a person commits a sin and he knows
01:03:04 -->
01:03:06
that he is wrong, Allah forgives him.
01:03:07 -->
01:03:09
But if someone commits a sin
01:03:09 -->
01:03:11
and behaves like Iblis,
01:03:13 -->
01:03:14
Iblis rejected
01:03:14 -->
01:03:16
Allah's command, then he's like Iblis.
01:03:17 -->
01:03:19
I will not forgive him. He's a Catholic
01:03:19 -->
01:03:21
or she's a Catholic.
01:03:22 -->
01:03:22
K?
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01:03:27
2 people drinking alcohol.
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01:03:29
We asked them.
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01:03:31
So the first one said,
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01:03:35
Sheikh, believe me, it is just like the
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01:03:38
fruit cocktail. It's nice. Have a sip
01:03:39 -->
01:03:40
here. Have a sip.
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01:03:41
It's nice.
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01:03:43
It's just like water.
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01:03:48
What is he saying?
01:03:50 -->
01:03:51
He's saying it is halal.
01:03:52 -->
01:03:54
He's saying hamar.
01:03:55 -->
01:03:56
Alcohol is halal.
01:03:58 -->
01:03:59
Allah is saying it is haram.
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01:04:03
It's the mother of all evils,
01:04:07 -->
01:04:09
Allah cursed the one who
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01:04:13
who squeezes it.
01:04:15 -->
01:04:17
The one who sells the the grapes. The
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01:04:19
one who squeezes, the one who carries it,
01:04:19 -->
01:04:21
the one who sell it, the one who
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01:04:23
purchase it, the one who serve it. All
01:04:23 -->
01:04:24
those are curse.
01:04:26 -->
01:04:28
I know you are saying it was halal.
01:04:29 -->
01:04:31
So this person who say
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01:04:33
Hamal is just like water is not a
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01:04:35
Muslim. He's a kafir.
01:04:37 -->
01:04:39
Because Allah said it is haram and he's
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01:04:40
saying it is halal.
01:04:41 -->
01:04:43
The other ones who's drink those are drinking
01:04:43 -->
01:04:44
alcohol.
01:04:44 -->
01:04:48
The other one says, Sheikh, I know
01:04:49 -->
01:04:50
I know it is haram.
01:04:51 -->
01:04:53
They will curse the.
01:04:55 -->
01:04:58
I know it is destroying me, destroying my
01:04:58 -->
01:04:59
family,
01:04:59 -->
01:05:00
make
01:05:01 -->
01:05:03
for me. Are they the same? No. The
01:05:03 -->
01:05:06
other one is a Muslim. He's a sinner.
01:05:08 -->
01:05:11
The same thing to sister, not wearing hijab.
01:05:11 -->
01:05:13
The first one said, who told you
01:05:14 -->
01:05:15
Sheikh is part of the deed? I don't
01:05:15 -->
01:05:16
believe in
01:05:17 -->
01:05:18
it. I don't believe and
01:05:20 -->
01:05:20
weapons
01:05:21 -->
01:05:22
in I don't believe that.
01:05:23 -->
01:05:25
Right? It doesn't make sense to me. Hello?
01:05:25 -->
01:05:26
Hello?
01:05:26 -->
01:05:27
Goodbye.
01:05:28 -->
01:05:29
You left Islam.
01:05:31 -->
01:05:32
The other one saying,
01:05:33 -->
01:05:35
I know I have to wear it one
01:05:35 -->
01:05:36
day, but my iman is weak.
01:05:37 -->
01:05:40
So make dua for me. Ask Allah to
01:05:40 -->
01:05:41
strengthen my iman.
01:05:41 -->
01:05:43
Send me Allah. Send your iman.
01:05:45 -->
01:05:47
He's a Muslim, the second one. First one
01:05:47 -->
01:05:49
is kafirah because he is like Iblis.
01:05:51 -->
01:05:53
He is like Iblis rejecting
01:05:53 -->
01:05:53
rejecting
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01:05:55
what Allah said.
01:05:58 -->
01:06:00
So keep this in mind. So that's the
01:06:00 -->
01:06:01
meaning of.
01:06:01 -->
01:06:02
Means
01:06:05 -->
01:06:07
You are chased away. You are deprived
01:06:08 -->
01:06:09
of Allah's mercy.
01:06:10 -->
01:06:12
So the hypocrites here
01:06:14 -->
01:06:15
are cursed.
01:06:18 -->
01:06:20
They deserve to be
01:06:21 -->
01:06:22
cursed and to be condemned.
01:06:27 -->
01:06:28
I never thought before.
01:06:35 -->
01:06:37
Wherever they are, wherever they
01:06:38 -->
01:06:39
are
01:06:40 -->
01:06:40
peasant,
01:06:41 -->
01:06:44
they would get themselves seized and killed
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01:06:47
mercilessly,
01:06:48 -->
01:06:48
relentlessly
01:06:50 -->
01:06:52
wherever they are found,
01:06:52 -->
01:06:54
wherever they are found.
01:06:55 -->
01:06:57
So this is the kufr of the hypocrisy.
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01:07:02
Allah save us from all types of the
01:07:02 -->
01:07:03
disbelief
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01:07:06
and all types of nifa.
01:07:08 -->
01:07:10
May Allah purify our hearts
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01:07:13
from the and the nifa.
01:07:14 -->
01:07:15
May Allah
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01:07:18
fill our hearts with his fear and iman
01:07:18 -->
01:07:19
and taqwa,
01:07:20 -->
01:07:23
And may Allah keep us to remain steadfast
01:07:23 -->
01:07:24
in this
01:07:24 -->
01:07:25
beautiful deed
01:07:26 -->
01:07:30
until we breathe our loss and die upon
01:07:30 -->
01:07:31
the and the iman.
01:07:33 -->
01:07:34
May Allah
01:07:35 -->
01:07:38
forgive us all the faults and mistakes and
01:07:38 -->
01:07:38
ignorance.
01:07:39 -->
01:07:40
May Allah
01:07:42 -->
01:07:43
bless us with the beneficially
01:07:44 -->
01:07:45
of righteous needs.
01:07:46 -->
01:07:47
May Allah
01:07:50 -->
01:07:51
unite our
01:07:52 -->
01:07:53
and
01:07:54 -->
01:07:57
unite our heart. How can the Allah bless
01:07:57 -->
01:07:59
us with the beneficial knowledge of our just
01:07:59 -->
01:07:59
needs?
01:08:00 -->
01:08:03
And may Allah reward all of you, my
01:08:03 -->
01:08:04
dear brothers and sisters,
01:08:05 -->
01:08:08
immensely for your patience and attendance.
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01:08:22
Brothers and sisters.
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01:08:25
We will now start the question and answers
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01:08:27
time. If you have questions, send them in,
01:08:27 -->
01:08:28
please. And ideally,
01:08:29 -->
01:08:31
if you can ask verbal questions, it would
01:08:31 -->
01:08:32
be amazing.
01:08:32 -->
01:08:34
We'll start with the written questions.
01:08:36 -->
01:08:37
So the first question received,
01:08:42 -->
01:08:43
Please explain the Hadith.
01:08:44 -->
01:08:46
Do not help shaitan against him.
01:08:47 -->
01:08:50
And the statement of Omar Ibn Khattar, help
01:08:50 -->
01:08:52
me and do not help against me.
01:08:55 -->
01:08:56
Yes. Shaitan.
01:08:57 -->
01:09:00
Do not help the shaitan against your brother.
01:09:00 -->
01:09:01
K.
01:09:03 -->
01:09:03
And,
01:09:04 -->
01:09:05
and this,
01:09:06 -->
01:09:07
if you see the,
01:09:07 -->
01:09:08
the background,
01:09:10 -->
01:09:11
if I recall
01:09:12 -->
01:09:13
that a Muslim
01:09:15 -->
01:09:15
was
01:09:16 -->
01:09:16
lashed,
01:09:18 -->
01:09:19
k, because he
01:09:23 -->
01:09:25
had alcohol or something like that.
01:09:28 -->
01:09:28
So
01:09:29 -->
01:09:32
some one of the Sahaba curse, he said,
01:09:32 -->
01:09:32
doctor,
01:09:34 -->
01:09:36
Do not help the shaitan against your brother.
01:09:37 -->
01:09:39
So which means if a Muslim
01:09:41 -->
01:09:42
commits a sin,
01:09:43 -->
01:09:44
well, he is
01:09:45 -->
01:09:46
committing sins.
01:09:47 -->
01:09:49
So we should not help the shaitan
01:09:49 -->
01:09:50
against
01:09:51 -->
01:09:52
him.
01:09:54 -->
01:09:56
So we should try to rescue him
01:09:57 -->
01:09:59
and save him from the grip of the
01:09:59 -->
01:09:59
shaitan.
01:10:01 -->
01:10:04
K? That's why, my dear brothers and sisters,
01:10:04 -->
01:10:05
in the dua,
01:10:06 -->
01:10:09
When we are talking, the Dua is an
01:10:09 -->
01:10:10
art.
01:10:10 -->
01:10:12
Dua is an art.
01:10:13 -->
01:10:15
And over the years, you will learn many
01:10:15 -->
01:10:17
things when you are in the field of
01:10:17 -->
01:10:18
Dua.
01:10:18 -->
01:10:20
You learn the Hikma, wisdom.
01:10:22 -->
01:10:23
You see, today,
01:10:24 -->
01:10:25
many of the brothers,
01:10:26 -->
01:10:28
are involved in the dawah, but they're still
01:10:28 -->
01:10:30
young, so they lack the hikmah,
01:10:31 -->
01:10:31
the wisdom.
01:10:33 -->
01:10:34
They will learn it
01:10:35 -->
01:10:37
by the by the year.
01:10:38 -->
01:10:40
They will not learn from the books.
01:10:41 -->
01:10:42
I'm sure
01:10:43 -->
01:10:46
later on, they will be laughing at themselves.
01:10:48 -->
01:10:49
Why?
01:10:51 -->
01:10:54
Because now you are matured. You are wise.
01:10:56 -->
01:10:59
So you will say, I shouldn't have said
01:10:59 -->
01:10:59
that.
01:11:02 -->
01:11:05
I should have said something else. I shouldn't
01:11:07 -->
01:11:08
so Dawa is an art.
01:11:10 -->
01:11:13
So you should know the technique, and you
01:11:13 -->
01:11:13
should know
01:11:14 -->
01:11:16
the one who's in front of you.
01:11:17 -->
01:11:19
Someone who's sick.
01:11:19 -->
01:11:20
The sinner
01:11:20 -->
01:11:22
is a sick person.
01:11:25 -->
01:11:27
He is in state of despair.
01:11:29 -->
01:11:30
He or she lost hope.
01:11:32 -->
01:11:34
So it's not wise to come
01:11:36 -->
01:11:37
and talk to them
01:11:38 -->
01:11:41
about what is there for the sinners,
01:11:42 -->
01:11:43
about Jahannam,
01:11:44 -->
01:11:45
about the hellfire,
01:11:46 -->
01:11:47
about the grave,
01:11:48 -->
01:11:48
all that.
01:11:50 -->
01:11:53
So the person is already finished.
01:11:58 -->
01:11:58
So
01:12:01 -->
01:12:05
and you come and emphasize and confirm that
01:12:05 -->
01:12:07
he is going to *.
01:12:09 -->
01:12:11
There is no chance for him
01:12:11 -->
01:12:12
to reform.
01:12:13 -->
01:12:16
There is no chance for him or her
01:12:16 -->
01:12:17
to come back to Allah.
01:12:22 -->
01:12:25
And this show a person, Nadai, but Nadai
01:12:25 -->
01:12:27
does something like this.
01:12:30 -->
01:12:31
He shouldn't be
01:12:32 -->
01:12:34
involved in the dawah at all
01:12:35 -->
01:12:37
because he is not qualified.
01:12:39 -->
01:12:41
See the prophet said,
01:12:48 -->
01:12:49
Yes,
01:12:55 -->
01:12:56
Give good news.
01:12:58 -->
01:13:00
Don't pit put the people off.
01:13:04 -->
01:13:05
No.
01:13:05 -->
01:13:06
So this person
01:13:09 -->
01:13:11
needs to know and hear
01:13:12 -->
01:13:14
things that will give him hope.
01:13:15 -->
01:13:17
Talk to him about Allah's
01:13:19 -->
01:13:21
talk to him or how
01:13:21 -->
01:13:23
how dear he is,
01:13:24 -->
01:13:25
All the Muslims,
01:13:26 -->
01:13:29
those who are sinners, and all of us
01:13:29 -->
01:13:29
are sinners,
01:13:31 -->
01:13:32
those who are totally
01:13:35 -->
01:13:37
dipped into the mire of sinfulness,
01:13:39 -->
01:13:40
they are
01:13:41 -->
01:13:42
dear to Allah.
01:13:44 -->
01:13:47
They are better in the sight of Allah
01:13:47 -->
01:13:47
than the rest
01:13:48 -->
01:13:49
of the kuffar,
01:13:51 -->
01:13:52
the millions of the kuffar,
01:13:53 -->
01:13:55
because this Muslim, man or woman,
01:13:55 -->
01:13:57
he has this kaliba
01:13:58 -->
01:13:58
that
01:13:58 -->
01:13:59
in his heart.
01:14:07 -->
01:14:08
So
01:14:09 -->
01:14:10
tell him
01:14:11 -->
01:14:12
that you are so dear to Allah.
01:14:14 -->
01:14:17
Allah loves when you come back to him.
01:14:19 -->
01:14:20
I I can
01:14:21 -->
01:14:23
I can go go back? He will accept
01:14:23 -->
01:14:25
me? Yes. He will.
01:14:26 -->
01:14:28
Who told you he will not accept you?
01:14:28 -->
01:14:28
Who told
01:14:29 -->
01:14:30
you?
01:14:31 -->
01:14:32
Who told you?
01:14:34 -->
01:14:36
Allah accepted the one who killed 100
01:14:37 -->
01:14:38
and forgave him.
01:14:39 -->
01:14:41
Allah accepted the prostitute
01:14:42 -->
01:14:45
who gave water to the thirsty dog. Who
01:14:45 -->
01:14:46
told you they will not accept
01:15:08 -->
01:15:08
Oh
01:15:09 -->
01:15:10
my
01:15:11 -->
01:15:11
servants.
01:15:12 -->
01:15:13
Those who
01:15:14 -->
01:15:15
trespass are the limits.
01:15:16 -->
01:15:17
They were extravagant
01:15:17 -->
01:15:19
in committing sins.
01:15:22 -->
01:15:23
All red lines they crossed.
01:15:25 -->
01:15:26
Yet Allah says,
01:15:29 -->
01:15:31
despair not of Allah's mercy.
01:15:37 -->
01:15:39
Certainly, most certainly, verily,
01:15:40 -->
01:15:42
Allah forgives all the sins,
01:15:43 -->
01:15:44
all the sins.
01:15:46 -->
01:15:47
In
01:15:48 -->
01:15:50
Most certainly, he is
01:15:50 -->
01:15:51
the most forgiving,
01:15:52 -->
01:15:53
the most merciful.
01:15:56 -->
01:15:57
This how you
01:15:57 -->
01:15:58
should approach
01:15:59 -->
01:16:00
those who
01:16:01 -->
01:16:03
had dispatched of Allah's mercy.
01:16:04 -->
01:16:06
Not that you frighten them.
01:16:07 -->
01:16:08
We need
01:16:09 -->
01:16:10
when we worship Allah.
01:16:11 -->
01:16:13
You worship Allah with hope,
01:16:14 -->
01:16:16
with love. You love Allah.
01:16:18 -->
01:16:21
Allah has to be loved, my dear brothers
01:16:21 -->
01:16:21
and sisters.
01:16:23 -->
01:16:24
Has to be loved
01:16:25 -->
01:16:28
or met because he deserves to be loved.
01:16:29 -->
01:16:30
He's the most kind
01:16:31 -->
01:16:32
to us.
01:16:33 -->
01:16:35
He's our love. He is the one who
01:16:36 -->
01:16:37
nurtured
01:16:37 -->
01:16:40
us, who developed us. He is the one
01:16:40 -->
01:16:42
who took care of us, and he takes
01:16:42 -->
01:16:43
care of us.
01:16:45 -->
01:16:47
He's more merciful than our mothers.
01:16:49 -->
01:16:50
He loves you.
01:16:51 -->
01:16:52
What else do you want?
01:16:54 -->
01:16:55
What else?
01:16:57 -->
01:16:58
Bless you.
01:16:59 -->
01:17:01
Give good news. Well, that's your nephew. Don't
01:17:01 -->
01:17:03
put them up. Well, yes, you do. Make
01:17:03 -->
01:17:05
things easy for the people,
01:17:06 -->
01:17:09
and don't make things difficult for them as
01:17:09 -->
01:17:10
long as the Sharia
01:17:11 -->
01:17:12
permits that
01:17:12 -->
01:17:13
within the Sharia.
01:17:16 -->
01:17:19
K? Why you want to be like Abdullah
01:17:19 -->
01:17:20
ibn Umar?
01:17:22 -->
01:17:24
Always alzim and always take the
01:17:25 -->
01:17:27
the the things that
01:17:27 -->
01:17:27
need,
01:17:28 -->
01:17:29
strong will.
01:17:30 -->
01:17:31
Oh.
01:17:31 -->
01:17:32
There is room.
01:17:37 -->
01:17:38
They'll stay here.
01:17:39 -->
01:17:41
That's why they said
01:17:42 -->
01:17:43
I think of
01:17:44 -->
01:17:45
who asked the,
01:17:49 -->
01:17:50
Imam Malik
01:17:52 -->
01:17:55
to write and, the book for the Hadith.
01:17:56 -->
01:17:56
He said,
01:18:00 -->
01:18:02
means made it make it easy.
01:18:09 -->
01:18:10
And he said, try to avoid
01:18:13 -->
01:18:14
the
01:18:15 -->
01:18:17
tough stances of ibn Umar,
01:18:18 -->
01:18:20
and the lenient and the most lenient,
01:18:21 -->
01:18:23
stances of ibn Umar.
01:18:23 -->
01:18:25
Try to be in between.
01:18:27 -->
01:18:27
K?
01:18:29 -->
01:18:30
Yes, sir.
01:18:31 -->
01:18:31
Things are
01:18:32 -->
01:18:34
halalahki, permissible in the sharia.
01:18:35 -->
01:18:36
K?
01:18:36 -->
01:18:37
So don't make
01:18:38 -->
01:18:39
people's life
01:18:39 -->
01:18:40
difficult.
01:18:42 -->
01:18:43
So when the prophet
01:18:43 -->
01:18:43
said
01:18:46 -->
01:18:46
that means
01:18:48 -->
01:18:48
don't
01:18:50 -->
01:18:51
be a cause to
01:18:51 -->
01:18:53
for your brother to
01:18:54 -->
01:18:54
go further.
01:18:55 -->
01:18:56
Okay,
01:18:56 -->
01:18:57
and carry on
01:18:58 -->
01:18:58
sinning.
01:19:00 -->
01:19:01
You should do the opposite.
01:19:02 -->
01:19:03
Bring him back
01:19:03 -->
01:19:04
and help him
01:19:05 -->
01:19:06
to get rid
01:19:07 -->
01:19:09
of this weakness and,
01:19:09 -->
01:19:10
which
01:19:11 -->
01:19:12
because of weakness,
01:19:12 -->
01:19:14
he commits such sins.
01:19:15 -->
01:19:17
A Muslim no Muslim
01:19:17 -->
01:19:20
commits a sin because he wants to sin.
01:19:20 -->
01:19:20
No.
01:19:21 -->
01:19:23
It is the shahua, the desire
01:19:23 -->
01:19:25
of a kamsan. That's it.
01:19:26 -->
01:19:28
Nothing more than that.
01:19:30 -->
01:19:30
K?
01:19:31 -->
01:19:33
The Sahabi, one of the Sahaba,
01:19:34 -->
01:19:35
he was alcoholic.
01:19:36 -->
01:19:38
And many times, the prophet, salallahu alaihi wa
01:19:38 -->
01:19:39
sallam, left him.
01:19:40 -->
01:19:41
And
01:19:43 -->
01:19:45
one day, one of the Sahaba cursed him.
01:19:58 -->
01:19:59
He's rushed
01:20:00 -->
01:20:02
and he's brought to be rushed.
01:20:02 -->
01:20:04
The prophet goes to very end of this.
01:20:04 -->
01:20:05
He says,
01:20:10 -->
01:20:12
Yes. This is testimony
01:20:14 -->
01:20:15
from the prophet.
01:20:19 -->
01:20:19
Yes.
01:20:20 -->
01:20:22
Verily, most certainly,
01:20:22 -->
01:20:23
this person,
01:20:24 -->
01:20:25
this alcoholic,
01:20:27 -->
01:20:29
he loves Allah,
01:20:29 -->
01:20:31
and he loves his messenger.
01:20:32 -->
01:20:32
Yes?
01:20:35 -->
01:20:35
Yes?
01:20:37 -->
01:20:38
What do you think?
01:20:39 -->
01:20:42
Yes. He loves Islam. He loves his messenger.
01:20:42 -->
01:20:44
And guess what?
01:20:44 -->
01:20:47
And he is ready to die to defend
01:20:47 -->
01:20:48
his messenger,
01:20:49 -->
01:20:49
this alcoholic.
01:20:53 -->
01:20:54
One of the Dua,
01:20:56 -->
01:20:57
he was alcoholic.
01:20:59 -->
01:21:02
And he was drinking alcohol in the bar,
01:21:03 -->
01:21:04
in the pub,
01:21:09 -->
01:21:11
and non Muslims with him drinking.
01:21:12 -->
01:21:12
Arabs.
01:21:14 -->
01:21:15
So one of them said,
01:21:16 -->
01:21:19
if Mohammed is present with us, he will,
01:21:21 -->
01:21:22
have a seat.
01:21:24 -->
01:21:26
He will drink with us.
01:21:27 -->
01:21:27
Guess what?
01:21:30 -->
01:21:32
Oh, he went mad, this Muslim.
01:21:32 -->
01:21:33
He
01:21:33 -->
01:21:34
removed,
01:21:35 -->
01:21:36
pushed the table,
01:21:37 -->
01:21:38
and jumped over him
01:21:40 -->
01:21:41
to kill him.
01:21:45 -->
01:21:46
And he repented.
01:21:47 -->
01:21:49
And he was a one he's one of
01:21:49 -->
01:21:49
the dua
01:21:51 -->
01:21:52
of the Hakwar.
01:21:53 -->
01:21:54
In
01:21:55 -->
01:21:56
the YouTube,
01:21:59 -->
01:22:00
Sheikh Al Raifi
01:22:03 -->
01:22:05
think it was in Germany. I think in
01:22:05 -->
01:22:06
Germany.
01:22:08 -->
01:22:08
And,
01:22:09 -->
01:22:11
the brothers in front of him,
01:22:12 -->
01:22:14
be it their faces,
01:22:15 -->
01:22:15
and
01:22:19 -->
01:22:21
the one who introduces the sheikh,
01:22:25 -->
01:22:27
So he told the Sheikh, you don't you
01:22:27 -->
01:22:28
don't know the brothers.
01:22:30 -->
01:22:30
They had
01:22:31 -->
01:22:33
before. Okay? They were sinners.
01:22:34 -->
01:22:35
They were alcoholic. They were
01:22:37 -->
01:22:37
they were
01:22:38 -->
01:22:39
in nice clubs.
01:22:41 -->
01:22:42
He said, we
01:22:44 -->
01:22:46
worked on them, and Allah moved them.
01:22:47 -->
01:22:51
So the Muslim needs someone to reach and
01:22:51 -->
01:22:51
to pull him.
01:22:54 -->
01:22:57
He is so he's he's a piece of
01:22:57 -->
01:22:57
diamond
01:22:57 -->
01:22:58
as said.
01:23:00 -->
01:23:02
But this piece of diamond is in a
01:23:02 -->
01:23:02
downhill.
01:23:04 -->
01:23:07
And the dirt needs to be picked up,
01:23:07 -->
01:23:10
washed, and it will polish, and it will
01:23:10 -->
01:23:11
shine again.
01:23:12 -->
01:23:13
So here,
01:23:14 -->
01:23:14
the prophet
01:23:15 -->
01:23:17
said, do not help the shaitan against your
01:23:17 -->
01:23:17
brother.
01:23:19 -->
01:23:20
Pull your brother.
01:23:21 -->
01:23:21
He needs
01:23:24 -->
01:23:25
warmth.
01:23:25 -->
01:23:28
He's he needs a shoulder to cry m.
01:23:29 -->
01:23:30
Embrace him. Embrace
01:23:31 -->
01:23:32
him
01:23:33 -->
01:23:35
and pull him. He says,
01:23:39 -->
01:23:42
Many people, because of their ignorance. When our
01:23:42 -->
01:23:42
brother
01:23:43 -->
01:23:45
Andrew Tate, he became a Muslim. How many
01:23:45 -->
01:23:46
Muslims?
01:23:47 -->
01:23:48
They went against that
01:23:49 -->
01:23:52
and doubting his as a a sign of
01:23:52 -->
01:23:52
love.
01:23:53 -->
01:23:55
And they say and they are starting mentioning
01:23:55 -->
01:23:57
things he did in the past. What is
01:23:57 -->
01:23:58
wrong with you?
01:24:03 -->
01:24:05
You don't know your Islam? You don't know
01:24:05 -->
01:24:05
the seerah?
01:24:06 -->
01:24:07
How were the Sahaba?
01:24:08 -->
01:24:10
Sahaba, they were alcoholic
01:24:12 -->
01:24:14
because alcohol in in the life of the
01:24:14 -->
01:24:16
Arabs was just like coffee. Coffee.
01:24:17 -->
01:24:18
Alcohol is nothing.
01:24:20 -->
01:24:21
In Makkah,
01:24:24 -->
01:24:24
the prostitutes
01:24:25 -->
01:24:25
in Mecca,
01:24:27 -->
01:24:28
they have
01:24:28 -->
01:24:29
red flags.
01:24:31 -->
01:24:31
No.
01:24:33 -->
01:24:33
Like
01:24:34 -->
01:24:35
in modern time,
01:24:35 -->
01:24:36
red light district.
01:24:38 -->
01:24:39
You want prostitutes?
01:24:40 -->
01:24:41
Go. See the flag?
01:24:42 -->
01:24:43
That was there in Mecca.
01:24:46 -->
01:24:48
Leave alone that they were idol worshippers.
01:24:50 -->
01:24:51
That's before Islam.
01:24:54 -->
01:24:55
When they become Muslim,
01:24:58 -->
01:25:00
they become different people.
01:25:02 -->
01:25:03
Sayedna
01:25:04 -->
01:25:07
amr bin al Haas of the Allah haan.
01:25:07 -->
01:25:09
When he came to
01:25:10 -->
01:25:13
say his kalimat, the shahada, to become a
01:25:13 -->
01:25:13
Muslim,
01:25:14 -->
01:25:14
and
01:25:15 -->
01:25:16
he
01:25:17 -->
01:25:19
extended his hand to shake hand with the
01:25:19 -->
01:25:19
prophet,
01:25:21 -->
01:25:23
k, and to announce his shahada.
01:25:25 -->
01:25:27
Then he pulls back his hand,
01:25:29 -->
01:25:30
said, what happened,
01:25:30 -->
01:25:30
Hamid?
01:25:31 -->
01:25:33
Why you pulled back your hand?
01:25:33 -->
01:25:35
He said, oh, prophet of Allah, I want
01:25:35 -->
01:25:36
to make a condition.
01:25:37 -->
01:25:38
I want to stimulate.
01:25:39 -->
01:25:41
I'll become a Muslim in a condition
01:25:43 -->
01:25:44
that Allah
01:25:45 -->
01:25:48
forgives for me all my sins. If Allah
01:25:48 -->
01:25:49
is going to forgive me all my sins,
01:25:49 -->
01:25:50
I'll become a Muslim.
01:25:51 -->
01:25:52
The
01:25:52 -->
01:25:53
prophet told him,
01:26:03 -->
01:26:06
Oh, Hamid, didn't you know that Islam wipes
01:26:06 -->
01:26:08
and watches away
01:26:08 -->
01:26:09
all the sins
01:26:09 -->
01:26:10
of the past
01:26:12 -->
01:26:13
all the sins of the past?
01:26:16 -->
01:26:17
So someone,
01:26:18 -->
01:26:19
that is past. Finish.
01:26:20 -->
01:26:21
Bury it.
01:26:22 -->
01:26:24
And Allah will not hold you accountable for
01:26:24 -->
01:26:25
it.
01:26:29 -->
01:26:31
Even the shirk Allah gives, even the shirk.
01:26:36 -->
01:26:39
So the Muslim is so dear to Allah.
01:26:42 -->
01:26:43
So don't be.
01:26:48 -->
01:26:50
And a lie with the shaitan
01:26:50 -->
01:26:52
or a helping hand with the shaitan against
01:26:52 -->
01:26:54
your brother. Never do that.
01:26:57 -->
01:27:00
And regarding what said, Omar said,
01:27:04 -->
01:27:06
Or help me and do not help others
01:27:06 -->
01:27:08
against me. Yes. Help me against my.
01:27:08 -->
01:27:12
We need Allah's help to overcome our weaknesses,
01:27:12 -->
01:27:12
to overcome
01:27:13 -->
01:27:14
our
01:27:14 -->
01:27:15
desires,
01:27:15 -->
01:27:16
to overcome,
01:27:18 -->
01:27:18
our temptations.
01:27:19 -->
01:27:20
We need Allah's help.
01:27:23 -->
01:27:25
And don't have others against us.
01:27:26 -->
01:27:27
Maybe
01:27:33 -->
01:27:34
I managed
01:27:35 -->
01:27:36
to explain
01:27:38 -->
01:27:41
to the satisfaction of the questioner. I hope
01:27:42 -->
01:27:44
it is clear to the questioner.
01:27:44 -->
01:27:46
If it is not clear, you can ask
01:27:46 -->
01:27:47
for more clarification.
01:27:49 -->
01:27:49
Next.
01:27:52 -->
01:27:54
It was clear, Sheikh. It was very detailed.
01:27:55 -->
01:27:56
It was clear.
01:27:56 -->
01:27:57
We go to the next question.
01:28:01 -->
01:28:04
The next question is, is it permissible to
01:28:04 -->
01:28:05
pray in the dev
01:28:07 -->
01:28:09
deviant * masajid?
01:28:12 -->
01:28:13
Are they Muslims or?
01:28:20 -->
01:28:21
If you consider them
01:28:22 -->
01:28:23
and be careful,
01:28:24 -->
01:28:25
they're not.
01:28:25 -->
01:28:26
You are.
01:28:27 -->
01:28:29
So as long as they are Muslims, yes,
01:28:29 -->
01:28:30
you can pray.
01:28:33 -->
01:28:35
You pray behind any Muslim.
01:28:37 -->
01:28:38
He's an innovator.
01:28:39 -->
01:28:41
Yes. The is correct.
01:28:43 -->
01:28:45
Especially if it is the only masjid in
01:28:45 -->
01:28:46
your area.
01:28:47 -->
01:28:48
Out of the masjid,
01:28:48 -->
01:28:49
people
01:28:50 -->
01:28:51
following.
01:28:52 -->
01:28:54
Nobody has no innovations or nothing.
01:28:56 -->
01:28:57
Then, yes, go to that Masjid.
01:28:59 -->
01:29:00
But it's the only Masjid.
01:29:03 -->
01:29:04
And
01:29:04 -->
01:29:07
this imam or the people in this Masjid,
01:29:07 -->
01:29:08
they are practicing,
01:29:09 -->
01:29:11
etcetera. As long as it is not shirk,
01:29:12 -->
01:29:13
major shirk,
01:29:14 -->
01:29:15
which takes one out of the fault of
01:29:15 -->
01:29:17
Islam, you can play.
01:29:17 -->
01:29:19
I hope this is clear to the question
01:29:19 -->
01:29:20
now.
01:29:21 -->
01:29:22
Next.
01:29:24 -->
01:29:25
The next question,
01:29:29 -->
01:29:30
A 9 year old boy
01:29:31 -->
01:29:33
who goes madrasa would like to know if
01:29:34 -->
01:29:34
Kitab ul Quran
01:29:35 -->
01:29:36
falls down,
01:29:37 -->
01:29:38
shall we say and
01:29:39 -->
01:29:39
kiss
01:29:40 -->
01:29:40
the hook?
01:29:43 -->
01:29:43
Yeah. Saying
01:29:46 -->
01:29:48
And if you kissed it out of respect,
01:29:48 -->
01:29:49
they said,
01:29:50 -->
01:29:51
Sayedna,
01:29:52 -->
01:29:53
Ekrima
01:29:53 -->
01:29:56
of the Allah, and he would kiss the
01:29:56 -->
01:29:58
Quran, and you said, this is Kalam Rabii.
01:29:58 -->
01:30:00
This is the speech of my love.
01:30:00 -->
01:30:01
K?
01:30:01 -->
01:30:02
So there's
01:30:02 -->
01:30:05
nothing with that. And this is what the
01:30:05 -->
01:30:08
factual about the this, what is
01:30:08 -->
01:30:10
said by the Sheikh Bilbao.
01:30:10 -->
01:30:11
Next.
01:30:19 -->
01:30:20
Next question, Sheikh.
01:30:24 -->
01:30:27
A sister is having a boyfriend who she
01:30:27 -->
01:30:29
fears to hurt
01:30:30 -->
01:30:33
when she leaves him. What can you give
01:30:33 -->
01:30:34
to such a sister?
01:30:35 -->
01:30:38
You are worried about hate hurting his feelings,
01:30:40 -->
01:30:42
but you are not worried about Allah's anger.
01:30:44 -->
01:30:47
You're not worried that if you die right
01:30:47 -->
01:30:47
now,
01:30:51 -->
01:30:52
which you don't want
01:30:53 -->
01:30:56
to die in such case, in such situation.
01:30:58 -->
01:31:00
So my advice for the sister,
01:31:02 -->
01:31:02
repent
01:31:04 -->
01:31:06
and quit immediately.
01:31:07 -->
01:31:08
Don't think
01:31:10 -->
01:31:11
about his feelings
01:31:15 -->
01:31:16
because
01:31:16 -->
01:31:17
I hope
01:31:18 -->
01:31:19
you haven't committed.
01:31:20 -->
01:31:21
You know what I mean?
01:31:24 -->
01:31:25
But if you continue,
01:31:26 -->
01:31:27
you will
01:31:28 -->
01:31:30
cry day and night,
01:31:31 -->
01:31:32
and you will regret.
01:31:34 -->
01:31:35
Because any man,
01:31:38 -->
01:31:40
when he is with a woman,
01:31:42 -->
01:31:45
what he has in mind is to
01:31:45 -->
01:31:46
have her in bed,
01:31:50 -->
01:31:52
and you will lose
01:31:53 -->
01:31:54
the virginity.
01:32:00 -->
01:32:02
So listen to me, my dear sisters.
01:32:04 -->
01:32:06
Never ever trust men,
01:32:08 -->
01:32:08
boys.
01:32:12 -->
01:32:12
K?
01:32:14 -->
01:32:16
Oh, our love is platonic.
01:32:18 -->
01:32:20
Nothing called platonic.
01:32:21 -->
01:32:21
K.
01:32:25 -->
01:32:27
It will end up in the bed.
01:32:30 -->
01:32:31
Zena.
01:32:33 -->
01:32:36
Then he will just kick her,
01:32:38 -->
01:32:39
the third of her,
01:32:40 -->
01:32:42
though he gave her many promises.
01:32:45 -->
01:32:46
I will marry you.
01:32:48 -->
01:32:50
Just let us know each other.
01:32:51 -->
01:32:54
That's how he pulls the boys. They pull
01:32:54 -->
01:32:55
the girl's
01:32:55 -->
01:32:56
legs.
01:32:57 -->
01:32:58
He's pulling your leg.
01:33:02 -->
01:33:02
K?
01:33:04 -->
01:33:05
So
01:33:06 -->
01:33:07
quit immediately.
01:33:09 -->
01:33:10
Repent to Allah
01:33:11 -->
01:33:11
and
01:33:15 -->
01:33:16
remove him from your mind
01:33:18 -->
01:33:20
and kiss goodbye to such relation.
01:33:22 -->
01:33:24
And he is not your cup of tea.
01:33:27 -->
01:33:28
He's not going to marry you.
01:33:30 -->
01:33:32
He would ruin your life,
01:33:33 -->
01:33:36
and then you will regret throughout your life.
01:33:37 -->
01:33:40
This is my advice for all the girls.
01:33:42 -->
01:33:44
Don't sit with boys.
01:33:46 -->
01:33:47
Lower your gaze,
01:33:50 -->
01:33:52
and don't mingle with them.
01:33:52 -->
01:33:53
Be official.
01:33:56 -->
01:33:57
Be official all the time.
01:34:00 -->
01:34:02
Don't give a man any chance.
01:34:07 -->
01:34:09
Because if you are nice,
01:34:11 -->
01:34:11
k, smiling,
01:34:12 -->
01:34:13
talking,
01:34:14 -->
01:34:15
oh, you give him hope.
01:34:16 -->
01:34:19
So now he is devising his,
01:34:19 -->
01:34:21
his techniques and
01:34:22 -->
01:34:24
how how how how what I should do.
01:34:24 -->
01:34:27
And he put he puts a plan.
01:34:28 -->
01:34:31
So if you are just like that, straight,
01:34:31 -->
01:34:32
very efficient,
01:34:33 -->
01:34:34
all the boys will say, oh, you cannot
01:34:34 -->
01:34:36
talk to her. No way.
01:34:38 -->
01:34:38
K?
01:34:39 -->
01:34:41
She doesn't look at you. She doesn't talk
01:34:41 -->
01:34:42
to you. Anyone? Shut
01:34:44 -->
01:34:45
up. And guess what?
01:34:48 -->
01:34:51
Any boy, all the naughty boys and
01:34:51 -->
01:34:52
men,
01:34:53 -->
01:34:55
especially the teenagers
01:34:56 -->
01:34:57
and naughty boys.
01:34:58 -->
01:34:59
Now when,
01:35:00 -->
01:35:02
okay, he wants to get married,
01:35:04 -->
01:35:06
whom you will think of? You?
01:35:07 -->
01:35:08
The one who is,
01:35:08 -->
01:35:09
easy going?
01:35:11 -->
01:35:12
Always with the boys?
01:35:13 -->
01:35:15
That will never be there in his mind.
01:35:16 -->
01:35:19
He will come to his mother and say,
01:35:19 -->
01:35:20
mom,
01:35:20 -->
01:35:21
yes.
01:35:25 -->
01:35:27
What do you want?
01:35:28 -->
01:35:30
Mom, I need your help.
01:35:31 -->
01:35:32
What do you want?
01:35:33 -->
01:35:35
I want to get married.
01:35:36 -->
01:35:37
So what?
01:35:37 -->
01:35:39
There are many girls,
01:35:40 -->
01:35:41
and you know them.
01:35:43 -->
01:35:44
No, ma'am.
01:35:46 -->
01:35:48
I don't want any one of them.
01:35:49 -->
01:35:51
I want you, ma'am,
01:35:51 -->
01:35:53
to choose for me,
01:35:56 -->
01:35:56
girl,
01:35:58 -->
01:35:58
practicing,
01:36:02 -->
01:36:02
K.
01:36:07 -->
01:36:09
This is the one I can trust,
01:36:10 -->
01:36:11
and I want her to be the mother
01:36:11 -->
01:36:12
of my children.
01:36:14 -->
01:36:16
No boy will think that he wants his
01:36:17 -->
01:36:19
the mother of his children one of those
01:36:19 -->
01:36:20
girls. No one.
01:36:21 -->
01:36:22
This is the reality.
01:36:24 -->
01:36:26
So this is my advice for all the
01:36:26 -->
01:36:26
girls.
01:36:27 -->
01:36:28
Be careful.
01:36:30 -->
01:36:32
Be careful. Be careful.
01:36:33 -->
01:36:35
May Allah preserve you and protect you,
01:36:36 -->
01:36:37
And may Allah
01:36:40 -->
01:36:42
bless you with pious and righteous husbands.
01:36:43 -->
01:36:44
I mean,
01:36:45 -->
01:36:46
I hope this is clear to the question.
01:36:49 -->
01:36:51
We go to the next question. And the
01:36:51 -->
01:36:55
next question is, my Khale's husband argues about
01:36:55 -->
01:36:55
Islam,
01:36:56 -->
01:36:59
and his daughters do the same. I don't
01:36:59 -->
01:37:01
visit my auntie a lot, but I visit
01:37:01 -->
01:37:02
my mom.
01:37:02 -->
01:37:04
She wants me to visit her.
01:37:05 -->
01:37:07
What should I do? And I warn about
01:37:07 -->
01:37:09
this to my sisters too, but they don't
01:37:09 -->
01:37:11
know Islam a lot.
01:37:11 -->
01:37:14
How to keep mom and sisters from this
01:37:14 -->
01:37:14
fitna?
01:37:16 -->
01:37:18
Would you mind repeating the question?
01:37:20 -->
01:37:20
Sure.
01:37:21 -->
01:37:23
My Khala's husband
01:37:23 -->
01:37:25
argues about Islam.
01:37:25 -->
01:37:26
My what?
01:37:26 -->
01:37:27
Khala.
01:37:28 -->
01:37:29
Khala's husband. Okay. Yeah.
01:37:30 -->
01:37:31
Argues about Islam,
01:37:33 -->
01:37:35
and his daughters do the same thing.
01:37:36 -->
01:37:37
So they are loose about Islam. They are
01:37:37 -->
01:37:41
not practicing Muslims. Right? Yes. Correct. Okay.
01:37:42 -->
01:37:44
I don't visit my auntie
01:37:46 -->
01:37:48
a lot, but I visit my mother.
01:37:50 -->
01:37:51
She wants me to visit
01:37:52 -->
01:37:52
her.
01:37:53 -->
01:37:54
What should I do?
01:37:55 -->
01:37:58
She the mother wants her daughter to visit
01:37:58 -->
01:38:01
Visit the. Yeah. Her father to her auntie.
01:38:01 -->
01:38:02
Yeah.
01:38:02 -->
01:38:04
And I warn my sisters about this,
01:38:05 -->
01:38:07
but they don't know Islam a lot too.
01:38:08 -->
01:38:12
How to keep mom and sisters away from
01:38:12 -->
01:38:13
this fitna?
01:38:15 -->
01:38:18
I don't know. What do you mean they
01:38:18 -->
01:38:20
are have they are loose about Islam? I
01:38:20 -->
01:38:22
don't know about that.
01:38:22 -->
01:38:25
I mean I mean, are you saying that
01:38:25 -->
01:38:26
they are not practicing Islam
01:38:27 -->
01:38:29
in the sense that the and
01:38:29 -->
01:38:31
free mixing and things like that, like
01:38:32 -->
01:38:33
most of the Muslims?
01:38:34 -->
01:38:36
Or you mean that they commit sins and
01:38:36 -->
01:38:39
they cross the red lines, and
01:38:40 -->
01:38:43
if you visit them, you might be influenced
01:38:44 -->
01:38:46
and they are afraid you might lose your
01:38:46 -->
01:38:49
deed and or get influenced and affected. I
01:38:49 -->
01:38:51
don't know what you mean.
01:38:52 -->
01:38:53
So if
01:38:53 -->
01:38:55
you fear that you will be harmed
01:38:56 -->
01:38:59
and your deed will be affected
01:38:59 -->
01:39:01
by paying the visit
01:39:02 -->
01:39:04
to your aunt because
01:39:04 -->
01:39:05
her husband
01:39:06 -->
01:39:08
and her daughter or his
01:39:10 -->
01:39:12
okay. They they are there.
01:39:13 -->
01:39:15
So try to see and pay a visit
01:39:15 -->
01:39:17
to your aunt. For example, you ask your
01:39:17 -->
01:39:19
mother to invite
01:39:19 -->
01:39:20
her sister,
01:39:20 -->
01:39:22
and then you can see her.
01:39:22 -->
01:39:24
Or you visit her when she is alone,
01:39:25 -->
01:39:28
and nobody is there. So you have to,
01:39:29 -->
01:39:32
think about it and plan it. Or in
01:39:32 -->
01:39:34
worst case, you keep in contact with her
01:39:35 -->
01:39:35
by
01:39:36 -->
01:39:37
talking to her, calling
01:39:37 -->
01:39:39
her through messages, etcetera.
01:39:41 -->
01:39:43
So as a rule of thumb, when this
01:39:43 -->
01:39:45
comes to relatives, if we feel
01:39:46 -->
01:39:47
that
01:39:47 -->
01:39:49
our deed is going to be affected,
01:39:51 -->
01:39:53
then we don't pay them a visit, but
01:39:53 -->
01:39:54
we don't cut the
01:39:54 -->
01:39:57
the the ties of the wounds. K. And
01:39:57 -->
01:39:59
we don't sever the ties.
01:39:59 -->
01:40:02
We keep in contact, sending them reminders.
01:40:03 -->
01:40:04
Okay.
01:40:05 -->
01:40:06
Calling them.
01:40:07 -->
01:40:09
K. Making dua for them. And may Allah
01:40:11 -->
01:40:12
gives give them.
01:40:13 -->
01:40:15
I hope this is clear to the questioner.
01:40:18 -->
01:40:19
Shall light is clear, Sheikh. We go to
01:40:19 -->
01:40:20
the next question.
01:40:23 -->
01:40:26
My friend has family issues and is considering
01:40:26 -->
01:40:27
divorce.
01:40:27 -->
01:40:28
And
01:40:28 -->
01:40:30
when upset, she is upset.
01:40:31 -->
01:40:33
She visits me, and she tells
01:40:34 -->
01:40:37
me about her in laws and husband's wrongdoing.
01:40:38 -->
01:40:40
And I encourage her to be a good
01:40:40 -->
01:40:41
good and patient.
01:40:42 -->
01:40:42
And
01:40:46 -->
01:40:47
now she's over it.
01:40:48 -->
01:40:50
My question is,
01:40:51 -->
01:40:54
am I sinful for listening to her wrongdoing
01:40:55 -->
01:40:56
of Islam as
01:40:57 -->
01:41:01
he repeats her pain, and I advised her,
01:41:01 -->
01:41:02
don't do it.
01:41:02 -->
01:41:04
It is backbiting.
01:41:07 -->
01:41:09
At first, it's not backbiting.
01:41:11 -->
01:41:12
When someone comes
01:41:13 -->
01:41:14
seeking advice,
01:41:15 -->
01:41:16
that's not backbiting.
01:41:18 -->
01:41:21
I don't want now to talk about
01:41:21 -->
01:41:25
the cases that are exempted and not considered
01:41:25 -->
01:41:26
to be backbiting.
01:41:27 -->
01:41:29
So it's not backbiting. It's not.
01:41:31 -->
01:41:34
Just she's your friend. She comes. She needs
01:41:35 -->
01:41:36
to vent.
01:41:37 -->
01:41:39
He needs to a shoulder
01:41:39 -->
01:41:41
to cry on. And now I'll give this
01:41:41 -->
01:41:43
piece of advice to my brothers.
01:41:47 -->
01:41:50
Men, they have to understand this.
01:41:52 -->
01:41:53
Women, they need to talk.
01:41:56 -->
01:41:57
Your wife needs to talk,
01:41:59 -->
01:42:01
so you need to give her time when
01:42:01 -->
01:42:02
you come
01:42:02 -->
01:42:03
home.
01:42:04 -->
01:42:06
You sit with her. How was your day,
01:42:07 -->
01:42:08
darling? How's everything?
01:42:09 -->
01:42:11
And now she will start
01:42:12 -->
01:42:13
venting,
01:42:14 -->
01:42:15
yeah, flirting, bringing things.
01:42:16 -->
01:42:17
Let her do that.
01:42:20 -->
01:42:20
Then she feels,
01:42:21 -->
01:42:22
what a relief.
01:42:22 -->
01:42:23
Thank you.
01:42:24 -->
01:42:25
She's good.
01:42:27 -->
01:42:30
Don't make her bottle it. You'll keep her
01:42:30 -->
01:42:31
bottle it up.
01:42:31 -->
01:42:33
She will explode one day.
01:42:35 -->
01:42:35
No.
01:42:36 -->
01:42:37
And
01:42:39 -->
01:42:42
our problem as men, we are not
01:42:43 -->
01:42:44
good listeners.
01:42:45 -->
01:42:48
So excuse us for that. Forgive us, my
01:42:48 -->
01:42:49
dear sisters.
01:42:49 -->
01:42:51
Men are not good listeners.
01:42:53 -->
01:42:55
You're talking to him, and he's not listening.
01:42:57 -->
01:42:57
Identify.
01:42:58 -->
01:43:01
Here's the yes. Yes. What did I say?
01:43:01 -->
01:43:01
Uh-huh.
01:43:05 -->
01:43:07
So we need to develop,
01:43:08 -->
01:43:11
this quality of being good listener.
01:43:32 -->
01:43:33
That helps her.
01:43:37 -->
01:43:38
That's why the prophet
01:43:44 -->
01:43:45
The prophet
01:43:46 -->
01:43:49
he hated staying awake after Isha except
01:43:51 -->
01:43:52
chatting with his wife,
01:43:55 -->
01:43:57
To chat with your wife. To sit with
01:43:57 -->
01:43:57
her.
01:43:58 -->
01:43:59
Give her time.
01:44:03 -->
01:44:07
I mentioned many times, and I recommended
01:44:08 -->
01:44:08
this book,
01:44:09 -->
01:44:12
Eshat and Nisa by Imam Nasai.
01:44:13 -->
01:44:15
I don't know if it is translated
01:44:16 -->
01:44:17
in English.
01:44:18 -->
01:44:21
Eshat and Nisa. Download it. It's there on
01:44:21 -->
01:44:22
the net.
01:44:24 -->
01:44:26
Esharat and Nisa, Imam al Nisa.
01:44:27 -->
01:44:29
He mentioned the life of the and
01:44:29 -->
01:44:30
how
01:44:31 -->
01:44:32
he treated his wives.
01:44:33 -->
01:44:35
In that book, Imam Nisa, he mentioned the
01:44:35 -->
01:44:36
story about.
01:44:40 -->
01:44:42
A man came to complain
01:44:43 -->
01:44:44
about his wife.
01:44:47 -->
01:44:48
K?
01:44:48 -->
01:44:50
So he came to say
01:44:54 -->
01:44:55
seeking his help.
01:44:56 -->
01:44:58
When he reached at the doorsteps
01:44:58 -->
01:44:59
of
01:45:00 -->
01:45:01
the Omar's house,
01:45:02 -->
01:45:03
he could hear
01:45:04 -->
01:45:08
Omar's wife shouting at Omar's from outside yelling.
01:45:10 -->
01:45:11
Laring up.
01:45:14 -->
01:45:15
This is my god.
01:45:17 -->
01:45:18
This is
01:45:19 -->
01:45:22
happening in Anil and Mene's house,
01:45:23 -->
01:45:26
so I'm not alone. I'm not alone. We
01:45:26 -->
01:45:27
are on the same boat.
01:45:28 -->
01:45:30
So he decided to go back.
01:45:33 -->
01:45:35
By then, said Narmer opened the door. He
01:45:35 -->
01:45:37
saw this man leaving. He said,
01:45:38 -->
01:45:38
come.
01:45:39 -->
01:45:40
Said, there's
01:45:41 -->
01:45:42
nothing. He said, come.
01:45:42 -->
01:45:43
You came for
01:45:44 -->
01:45:45
something.
01:45:46 -->
01:45:48
He said, yeah. I mean, what we need?
01:45:48 -->
01:45:51
I came to complain about my wife. I
01:45:51 -->
01:45:53
found you have this something similar.
01:45:56 -->
01:45:57
Listen to me. Listen.
01:45:58 -->
01:45:58
See the
01:45:59 -->
01:46:01
the wisdom of saint Naramal.
01:46:02 -->
01:46:03
This is the real manhood.
01:46:04 -->
01:46:05
Manhood is not to
01:46:05 -->
01:46:07
flare up you and get angry because the
01:46:07 -->
01:46:09
shayba whispers to your ears.
01:46:11 -->
01:46:12
Shame on you.
01:46:13 -->
01:46:14
How you tolerate
01:46:14 -->
01:46:17
a woman to raise her voice?
01:46:18 -->
01:46:19
This is Islam.
01:46:22 -->
01:46:23
K? Disabling her.
01:46:28 -->
01:46:30
Said, he never hit any woman,
01:46:31 -->
01:46:33
and he said, those who beat the woman
01:46:33 -->
01:46:36
are not the best among you. That's what
01:46:36 -->
01:46:37
he said.
01:46:37 -->
01:46:38
He said, listen.
01:46:40 -->
01:46:42
He cooks for me.
01:46:44 -->
01:46:46
He washes my clothes.
01:46:47 -->
01:46:48
He stitches my clothes.
01:46:49 -->
01:46:51
He takes care of my children,
01:46:52 -->
01:46:55
and he started list listing the
01:46:55 -->
01:46:57
the daily chores.
01:46:59 -->
01:47:02
So if he blurs from time to time,
01:47:02 -->
01:47:05
blurs up, gets angry, upset, vent, you have
01:47:05 -->
01:47:07
to take it. He's a human being.
01:47:09 -->
01:47:11
He is a human being.
01:47:15 -->
01:47:17
Don't you see what happened in the household
01:47:17 -->
01:47:18
of the prophet?
01:47:24 -->
01:47:26
All of his wife got together, and they
01:47:26 -->
01:47:27
wanted maintenance.
01:47:28 -->
01:47:30
I don't want I don't have. They were
01:47:30 -->
01:47:30
insisting.
01:47:33 -->
01:47:35
He got upset with them, and he said,
01:47:35 -->
01:47:36
1 month, I will
01:47:37 -->
01:47:40
you will not see me. 1 month.
01:47:42 -->
01:47:42
And
01:47:43 -->
01:47:45
he stayed in the masjid in a room,
01:47:46 -->
01:47:49
and the rumors in Medina went over. Okay?
01:47:50 -->
01:47:52
Okay. Remember, in Medina,
01:47:53 -->
01:47:54
there are
01:47:55 -->
01:47:56
plume amongers.
01:47:56 -->
01:47:59
Oh, the prophet devotes his wife. The prophet
01:47:59 -->
01:48:00
devotes his wife.
01:48:06 -->
01:48:07
Say, Narooma,
01:48:08 -->
01:48:10
he heard about that. He came.
01:48:13 -->
01:48:15
He went to his daughter, Hafsa.
01:48:20 -->
01:48:21
He found her crying.
01:48:24 -->
01:48:26
He found her crying. He said,
01:48:27 -->
01:48:29
did the prophet divorce you? She said, I
01:48:29 -->
01:48:30
don't know.
01:48:31 -->
01:48:32
Said, Nur Ahmed told her.
01:48:34 -->
01:48:37
Your father is not better than Abu Bakr.
01:48:41 -->
01:48:43
You are not better than Aisha.
01:48:50 -->
01:48:52
The prophet loves Aisha more than you.
01:48:54 -->
01:48:56
Abu Bakr, he loves him more than me.
01:48:58 -->
01:49:00
So why do you listen to Aisha?
01:49:01 -->
01:49:03
How many times I warned you not to
01:49:03 -->
01:49:04
listen to her?
01:49:08 -->
01:49:09
Then he left.
01:49:12 -->
01:49:13
He went.
01:49:13 -->
01:49:15
Saying that Bilal was
01:49:16 -->
01:49:17
staying at the
01:49:18 -->
01:49:20
door of this room.
01:49:23 -->
01:49:24
He told that Bilal,
01:49:24 -->
01:49:27
seek permission for me. Tell him Omar is
01:49:28 -->
01:49:29
wants to see you.
01:49:31 -->
01:49:34
Bilal went in, came out, and said he
01:49:34 -->
01:49:34
didn't.
01:49:35 -->
01:49:38
He sat, said for a while then came
01:49:38 -->
01:49:39
back. The same thing. Then
01:49:40 -->
01:49:43
the prophet said, okay. Ask him. Let him
01:49:43 -->
01:49:44
get in.
01:49:47 -->
01:49:48
Now said Nahumar.
01:49:50 -->
01:49:51
He said Nahumar is genius,
01:49:52 -->
01:49:53
intelligent, very smart.
01:49:56 -->
01:49:58
He wanted to break the ice.
01:50:02 -->
01:50:04
He wanted to find out that he divorced
01:50:04 -->
01:50:06
his wife or not,
01:50:06 -->
01:50:07
but how to
01:50:08 -->
01:50:08
to start.
01:50:12 -->
01:50:14
He said, oh, prophet of Allah,
01:50:16 -->
01:50:17
when we were in Makkah,
01:50:22 -->
01:50:23
our women in Makkah,
01:50:24 -->
01:50:26
no one of them would dare
01:50:27 -->
01:50:28
to argue with us.
01:50:37 -->
01:50:37
No one.
01:50:38 -->
01:50:39
You say something?
01:50:41 -->
01:50:42
The head of the family?
01:50:43 -->
01:50:43
They would listen.
01:50:45 -->
01:50:47
But when we came to Medina,
01:50:48 -->
01:50:50
keep this in mind, who are the
01:50:51 -->
01:50:51
Ansar?
01:50:52 -->
01:50:54
Who are they Yemenis?
01:50:55 -->
01:50:56
The Ansars,
01:50:56 -->
01:50:56
the
01:50:57 -->
01:50:57
or.
01:50:58 -->
01:50:58
Yemenites.
01:50:59 -->
01:51:00
They're Yemenis.
01:51:00 -->
01:51:03
And what is the natures of the Yemenites?
01:51:05 -->
01:51:07
What's the prophet said about them?
01:51:09 -->
01:51:11
They have soft hearts, the Yemenites.
01:51:18 -->
01:51:19
They're soft hearted,
01:51:23 -->
01:51:25
and they are wise.
01:51:26 -->
01:51:27
And
01:51:29 -->
01:51:30
and it's
01:51:31 -->
01:51:33
the Yemenis. The Yemenites because the are
01:51:34 -->
01:51:34
Yemenites,
01:51:36 -->
01:51:37
and
01:51:38 -->
01:51:39
most of the
01:51:40 -->
01:51:40
the conquest,
01:51:41 -->
01:51:43
their armies, they were Yemenites.
01:51:45 -->
01:51:47
So then Nisha is softhearted.
01:51:49 -->
01:51:51
So he said, when we came to Medina,
01:51:56 -->
01:51:58
our women started learning
01:51:59 -->
01:52:00
from their women,
01:52:04 -->
01:52:06
and they started arguing with us
01:52:09 -->
01:52:11
because the unsari women,
01:52:12 -->
01:52:13
they know their husband,
01:52:13 -->
01:52:14
soft hearted,
01:52:15 -->
01:52:17
okay, tolerant.
01:52:19 -->
01:52:21
They would hide and and raise their voices
01:52:21 -->
01:52:23
and argue with them, etcetera.
01:52:24 -->
01:52:25
So the
01:52:26 -->
01:52:26
Muhaydereen,
01:52:27 -->
01:52:28
the women of the,
01:52:29 -->
01:52:30
em immigrants,
01:52:31 -->
01:52:32
okay, adopted the same
01:52:34 -->
01:52:36
attitude and started arguing with the husband.
01:52:37 -->
01:52:39
The prophet said upon hearing that,
01:52:40 -->
01:52:41
he smiled.
01:52:42 -->
01:52:43
And that's what Sheikh Omar
01:52:43 -->
01:52:44
was looking for.
01:52:45 -->
01:52:46
He smiled.
01:52:46 -->
01:52:47
Because now
01:52:48 -->
01:52:50
the tension is diffused.
01:52:53 -->
01:52:54
And when he saw the prophet
01:52:55 -->
01:52:56
started to smile,
01:52:58 -->
01:52:59
he sat down
01:52:59 -->
01:53:00
and he asked,
01:53:02 -->
01:53:05
oh, prophet of Allah, did you divorce your
01:53:05 -->
01:53:05
wife?
01:53:07 -->
01:53:08
He said, no.
01:53:12 -->
01:53:14
Rumors are going on around.
01:53:15 -->
01:53:18
Prophet divorced his wife. Prophet divorced his wife.
01:53:19 -->
01:53:20
So he came out
01:53:21 -->
01:53:22
shouting.
01:53:22 -->
01:53:24
The prophet did not divorce his wife.
01:53:27 -->
01:53:28
I just said,
01:53:29 -->
01:53:29
the prophet
01:53:31 -->
01:53:32
said he will not
01:53:33 -->
01:53:36
see us for 1 month. He said, I
01:53:36 -->
01:53:36
was counting
01:53:37 -->
01:53:40
the days and the nights on my fingers.
01:53:41 -->
01:53:43
1, 2, 3.
01:53:44 -->
01:53:45
After 29
01:53:45 -->
01:53:46
days,
01:53:47 -->
01:53:48
the prophet
01:53:49 -->
01:53:50
decided to go back
01:53:51 -->
01:53:53
to his women, to his wives.
01:53:53 -->
01:53:56
And the first one he visited was Aisha.
01:53:58 -->
01:53:59
Guess what?
01:54:00 -->
01:54:02
Did she rush and embrace the prophet?
01:54:04 -->
01:54:05
Did she hug him?
01:54:06 -->
01:54:07
I am missing you,
01:54:08 -->
01:54:09
my dear husband.
01:54:10 -->
01:54:11
Oh,
01:54:14 -->
01:54:15
she said,
01:54:18 -->
01:54:19
the month is not over.
01:54:23 -->
01:54:26
You saved 1 month, 30 days.
01:54:27 -->
01:54:29
Now only 29 days.
01:54:30 -->
01:54:32
In other words, as if you're saying,
01:54:32 -->
01:54:34
why the rush?
01:54:35 -->
01:54:37
Why are you coming back quickly?
01:54:38 -->
01:54:39
This nature of women.
01:54:42 -->
01:54:43
The prophet
01:54:43 -->
01:54:44
said,
01:54:49 -->
01:54:52
which means a month can be 30 days
01:54:52 -->
01:54:55
or 29 days. Okay? Let us have peace.
01:54:57 -->
01:54:58
Now
01:54:59 -->
01:55:00
imagine this.
01:55:00 -->
01:55:03
So you told your your wife because you
01:55:03 -->
01:55:03
were angry.
01:55:05 -->
01:55:07
For 1 month, you will never see my
01:55:07 -->
01:55:07
face.
01:55:08 -->
01:55:09
And you left,
01:55:10 -->
01:55:11
slammed the door.
01:55:14 -->
01:55:16
And after 29 days, he came back, and
01:55:16 -->
01:55:18
he stood at the door.
01:55:18 -->
01:55:19
He said,
01:55:20 -->
01:55:22
another day. Another day.
01:55:23 -->
01:55:25
The month is not over yet.
01:55:25 -->
01:55:27
What are you going to do?
01:55:31 -->
01:55:32
That's why
01:55:33 -->
01:55:36
we need to learn from our prophet So
01:55:39 -->
01:55:39
now
01:55:41 -->
01:55:44
when this sister came to visit this sister,
01:55:45 -->
01:55:47
she had things boiling inside.
01:55:48 -->
01:55:50
She needs to vent. She needs a shoulder
01:55:50 -->
01:55:51
to cry on.
01:55:54 -->
01:55:55
So be a good listener.
01:55:57 -->
01:55:59
And when she cools down,
01:55:59 -->
01:56:00
now give her
01:56:01 -->
01:56:02
right guidance.
01:56:03 -->
01:56:04
Please show
01:56:05 -->
01:56:07
her the way, how she should handle these
01:56:07 -->
01:56:08
things,
01:56:09 -->
01:56:10
how she should
01:56:11 -->
01:56:12
react
01:56:13 -->
01:56:14
with the,
01:56:17 -->
01:56:19
the bad things she hear and
01:56:20 -->
01:56:21
the
01:56:22 -->
01:56:24
negative attitudes of her in laws, etcetera.
01:56:26 -->
01:56:28
And the piece of advice for everyone, brothers
01:56:28 -->
01:56:29
and sisters,
01:56:31 -->
01:56:32
we need to learn
01:56:33 -->
01:56:34
forgetting.
01:56:36 -->
01:56:37
When you hear things,
01:56:39 -->
01:56:41
don't take them to heart.
01:56:42 -->
01:56:43
Vain talk.
01:56:45 -->
01:56:48
Don't take to heart at all. Finish.
01:56:53 -->
01:56:54
You didn't hear anything.
01:56:56 -->
01:56:57
Don't take
01:56:57 -->
01:56:59
things to your heart.
01:57:00 -->
01:57:01
Don't you see?
01:57:02 -->
01:57:04
Or don't you know?
01:57:04 -->
01:57:06
So sometimes, well, your wife will tell you,
01:57:07 -->
01:57:08
divorce me.
01:57:09 -->
01:57:10
Divorce me.
01:57:10 -->
01:57:12
I don't want to live with you.
01:57:14 -->
01:57:17
I don't know why I married you.
01:57:17 -->
01:57:21
May Allah curse the day I married you.
01:57:21 -->
01:57:22
All these things.
01:57:26 -->
01:57:27
K?
01:57:27 -->
01:57:30
If you are a real man, divorce me.
01:57:31 -->
01:57:32
If you find a Swiss pin,
01:57:34 -->
01:57:36
shame on you. You're not a man.
01:57:37 -->
01:57:38
Divorce
01:57:39 -->
01:57:39
her.
01:57:40 -->
01:57:42
You know what she means by that?
01:57:43 -->
01:57:44
Love me.
01:57:46 -->
01:57:47
Yeah. She needs love.
01:57:50 -->
01:57:52
She didn't mean whatever she said. She didn't
01:57:52 -->
01:57:53
mean it.
01:57:56 -->
01:57:59
Because when she cools down and just you
01:57:59 -->
01:58:00
keep quiet,
01:58:01 -->
01:58:02
she will come and apologize.
01:58:06 -->
01:58:07
This is their nature.
01:58:11 -->
01:58:13
Just ignore whatever you hear. That's why the
01:58:13 -->
01:58:14
son of the sea, I told
01:58:15 -->
01:58:16
You just ignore
01:58:17 -->
01:58:17
the harmful.
01:58:18 -->
01:58:19
You didn't hear
01:58:21 -->
01:58:22
anything.
01:58:24 -->
01:58:26
You don't take things to heart.
01:58:30 -->
01:58:33
So this is my advice when sister comes.
01:58:33 -->
01:58:33
But
01:58:34 -->
01:58:35
and, of course, you have
01:58:37 -->
01:58:38
to warn her
01:58:38 -->
01:58:40
even when you seek advice from someone.
01:58:43 -->
01:58:43
Don't
01:58:44 -->
01:58:46
bring out the dirty linens or
01:58:47 -->
01:58:48
add the dirty linens.
01:58:49 -->
01:58:50
K?
01:58:50 -->
01:58:51
And if you want
01:58:52 -->
01:58:53
to seek advice,
01:58:54 -->
01:58:56
you put it in the 3rd person.
01:58:58 -->
01:59:00
My dear sister,
01:59:01 -->
01:59:03
if a person has this problem,
01:59:04 -->
01:59:04
what to do?
01:59:07 -->
01:59:09
When you want advice from your mother, 3rd
01:59:09 -->
01:59:09
person.
01:59:10 -->
01:59:12
Never tell your mother,
01:59:12 -->
01:59:15
mother, I have this problem. Then she will
01:59:15 -->
01:59:16
react emotionally.
01:59:17 -->
01:59:18
But tell her,
01:59:19 -->
01:59:20
I want advice.
01:59:21 -->
01:59:22
If a person has this issue,
01:59:24 -->
01:59:24
3rd person,
01:59:25 -->
01:59:26
she will give you
01:59:28 -->
01:59:29
the right
01:59:29 -->
01:59:30
piece of advice.
01:59:31 -->
01:59:32
But the moment you say,
01:59:33 -->
01:59:35
my husband did this to me. My mother-in-law
01:59:35 -->
01:59:35
said,
01:59:36 -->
01:59:39
now she will react emotionally.
01:59:39 -->
01:59:41
I hope this is clear to the questioner.
01:59:46 -->
01:59:48
Yes. Inshallah. Very clear Inshallah,
01:59:48 -->
01:59:49
Sheikh.
01:59:49 -->
01:59:50
Final question.
01:59:53 -->
01:59:55
When someone wrongs me, can I make dua
01:59:55 -->
01:59:58
against them by saying, may Allah curse or
01:59:58 -->
02:00:01
destroy them, or may he give them hidayah?
02:00:02 -->
02:00:05
No. You don't curse, but say, may Allah
02:00:05 -->
02:00:06
give them hidayah. Make dua.
02:00:07 -->
02:00:08
You don't curse.
02:00:09 -->
02:00:12
And don't have this bad habit cursing.
02:00:12 -->
02:00:12
The
02:00:13 -->
02:00:15
prophet said, a Muslim, a
02:00:17 -->
02:00:17
Muslim
02:00:23 -->
02:00:25
is not the one who curses.
02:00:28 -->
02:00:30
The one who also insults,
02:00:32 -->
02:00:32
accuses
02:00:32 -->
02:00:33
others,
02:00:34 -->
02:00:34
and
02:00:39 -->
02:00:40
the one who use
02:00:41 -->
02:00:42
uses
02:00:43 -->
02:00:44
vulgar
02:00:45 -->
02:00:47
language vulgar language, impolite one.
02:00:48 -->
02:00:48
So
02:00:50 -->
02:00:52
for example, don't use the f word.
02:00:53 -->
02:00:53
K?
02:00:54 -->
02:00:55
So the Muslim should,
02:00:56 -->
02:00:57
not result,
02:00:58 -->
02:01:01
not a curse, not use dirty,
02:01:01 -->
02:01:02
vulgar
02:01:02 -->
02:01:03
language.
02:01:04 -->
02:01:05
I hope this is clear to the.
02:01:07 -->
02:01:09
And that was the final question of tonight's
02:01:09 -->
02:01:10
session. If you'd like to conclude,
02:01:14 -->
02:01:16
May Allah bless you and
02:01:17 -->
02:01:18
your family, your children,
02:01:20 -->
02:01:23
and your your families and your loved ones.
02:01:23 -->
02:01:23
May
02:01:24 -->
02:01:26
Allah bless you all. May Allah
02:01:27 -->
02:01:30
elevate your status in this dunya and this
02:01:30 -->
02:01:30
world.
02:01:32 -->
02:01:33
And may
02:01:34 -->
02:01:37
forgive us all false and mistakes and ignorance.
02:01:38 -->
02:01:38
And may Allah
02:01:40 -->
02:01:42
bless us with the beneficial knowledge of like
02:01:42 -->
02:01:43
these.
02:01:43 -->
02:01:45
And may Allah keep us to remain steadfast
02:01:45 -->
02:01:48
in this beautiful deen till we meet him
02:01:48 -->
02:01:51
and find him pleased with all of us.
02:01:51 -->
02:01:53
Amen. And may Allah unite our and
02:01:54 -->
02:01:55
unite our hearts
02:01:56 -->
02:01:57
Until we meet
02:01:58 -->
02:02:00
in the coming session, I leave you
02:02:01 -->
02:02:03
in Allah's company and protection.
