Salem Al Amry – Lesson 19 Weekly Class Masail Al Jahiliyya
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The speaker discusses the meaning of Marketing Al KB, a belief in the creator based on actions and actions. Islam is a passionate movement focused on creating life and achieving the vision of the creator. The importance of balancing one's life between hope and fear, having a strong sense of control, and not being caught in the middle of busy busy time is emphasized. The speaker also discusses the history of empires and evil, and the use of language and gay symbolings to give people a beautiful name.
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We are ready when you are.
I'm ready,
Brothers and
sisters, and welcome
to our weekly
of
Masai Al Jahiliyah
delivered by our beloved Sheikh Sheikh Salim Al
Amri.
I will pass the mic and the screen
to the Sheikh Insha'Allah
and the Sheikh can begin.
I'm about my dear brothers and sisters.
Today is our weekly class from Jahiliya.
In the last session, we talked about the
main characteristics
and features
of the modern Jahiliyyah because Jahiliyyah is not
confined and limited
to a certain place or a certain period
of time.
Yes. There was
Jahiliyyah before Islam,
and there were many, many types of Jahiliyyah
before that
because the Jahiliyyah is a state of mind.
The Jahiliya is
the rejection
of the divine guidance.
Jahiliya
is to run your life according to your
whims and desires,
and not according to what the
creator
wants
you
to do and to abide by.
So
Yahiliya
will be there
among the disbelievers,
among the,
there is
total Jahiliyyah.
Among the Muslims,
not total Jahiliyyah,
but it will be
partial.
Some people, they have the Jahili as individuals.
Some communities, they have
Jahili,
customs
or habits
or practices?
Don't you know that
in some Muslim countries or some Muslim communities,
they still they practice
the
Jahili practices of the days of the Bifadaswah.
They deprive women of inheritance,
for example,
k, that women cannot inherit.
Okay. So this is Jahilia,
one of the practices of
Jahilia.
The common
thread that comes through all types of Jahilia,
through the history of man,
that
they do not
submit
to the creator.
They do not believe the true belief in
the creator, and
abide by his
divine instructions.
Because of this misconception,
having the
erroneous belief, the wrong belief,
that will be reflected in the behavior and
attitude and the actions of the individual.
So the deviation
always will be linked
to what you believe
in because you have to keep in mind
that the belief
affects the
the action.
So the action will be based in what
you believe in.
So if your actions,
your deeds, your acts
are right. This will reflect
that you have
sound mind.
You cannot have sound
belief,
and your actions are the opposite
because your actions just the manifestations
of what you believe.
Okay.
And remember
the 3
circles.
Knowledge, action, reaction.
You have information.
You knew about something,
then you react
the
the after this, then you take an action.
K r a,
No leader. Action. Action.
If these three circles are interconnected and there
is a connectivity between the 3.
If what you have in your mind and
what you are processing are totally different,
then this means there there's no connection.
Or if there is a connection, what you
have in mind is
rubbish,
garbage, in, garbage out.
So someone is holding
wrong belief,
so
they will be misbehaving,
and his attitude will be
abnormal.
K? And there will be
different types of aberrations
in his way
of
thinking. But this is very important.
So in a nutshell, and this is what
we mentioned in the last session,
it is either
you abide
by
the divine instructions
and follow what your creator,
what your maker
tells you, or do you reject that?
There's nothing in between.
Either you accept
and you submit,
and that is called Islam,
Social
submission to the will of God.
And that's the meaning of Islam.
And that's why it is the religion of
all the prophets.
Or you reject it, and that is Jahiliyyah,
which is kufuf. No doubt.
Allah
and we are just, recapping.
Allah
54.
So indeed,
most certainly,
your love, your lord,
who created the heavens and the earth in
60 days
to teach us
that we should not be hasty.
He's telling us I could have created the
heavens and the earth in no time,
but I'm teaching you.
So in 6 days and he didn't become
tired of fatigue felt fatigue.
In 6 days,
then his tower
upon the throne rose above the throne.
And the throne is the
one of the greatest
or the
greatest of Allah's creation.
He makes the day night of Allah a
rabid succession.
He makes the night to cover the the
day.
SubhanAllah.
I was seeing
an image of
the cosmos,
the galaxies.
And when you look, you see darkness all
over the place. Go and see with yourself.
Go and then and search. You see
the stars,
but what surrounds the stars?
Darkness.
Night.
Night.
So Allah says,
so the the the night
covers the day.
And this is very, very
exchange. Normally,
when you come near to the source of
light, you see light around,
not darkness.
The light dissipates the darkness,
but the universe is different.
You get closer to the source and you
see darkness there covering the that lightness
and brightness.
See the precision of the Quran.
Because the one who chokes is the one
who created this cosmos this universe.
He makes the night to cover
the night to cover the day
overlapping
it.
So
the movement is so steady,
okay, and slowly. So this one retreats, and
this one advances.
In Arabic succession,
with Shemsa or Kamala, when the June, the
sun, the moon, and the stars.
Seeds.
All these
celestial body you see,
they
are under his control
under his control.
They are subjected by his command.
He controls his kingdom.
Everything,
every
galaxy,
every solar system,
sub decides.
No error.
Then Allah said,
2 things.
And.
Alaa.
When you hear this word, alaa,
this is
an article to draw your attention.
Alaa.
So when you hear an Arab, he's,
he pays attention.
He lends you your ear.
Something is going to be mentioned.
Allah.
The
creation
and the command
belong to him alone.
That's why this came.
Lahu.
The meaning,
This is the older.
But why Lahu came first?
To denote
the ownership
that he alone owns the creation
and the command.
So the command is his.
Do and don't do, that is his.
Lawful, unlawful, that is his.
Halal, haram, that is his.
Good, bad, that he is the one who
decides.
Virtue, bias, he decides,
not us.
The one who defines the is Allah. The
one who defines the good, the bad, the
evil
is Allah.
He
knows.
Isn't he
who created
knows best?
And he's the the
the most aware
of all
the minute
details.
So he's
and he's Khabir.
So what what about 2 names?
So Allah,
he created all these things so he knows.
Allah knows, and you don't know.
You don't know.
So the command is his and the creation
is his.
No one creates baton.
No one creates what he,
He creates. No one creates. We don't create
anything.
When we use the word create, we use
it metaphorically or figuratively
because the creation, the true meaning of
and creation
is to bring something
into being from nothing.
That's the meaning of.
No one can do that.
But when we use it, we use it
in the sense that we use
something existing,
existent,
material. We put it in different shape,
form it,
put it in different forms,
and we call it creation. That's why
those who make images, along with them,
give life to what you created.
Created here in the sense that you shaped
and you formed.
Though the material you used, you didn't create.
So the real creator is Allah
who brings things from nothing.
So that is the real meaning of creation.
And to bring things from nothing,
to cause existence from nothingness.
Only
a lot of
because
all of this existence
which we see,
all this being,
was not there.
Our universe was not there.
So who brought this into being?
Who brought that
this creation into being? The creator.
So the creation is his and the command
is his
blessed is Allah, Lord, forwards.
That's what we covered in the last session.
Now let us continue.
Allah says.
Yeah. 56.
Well,
Do not spread corruption in the land after
it has
been set in order
set in order.
And call upon him with hope and fear.
Indeed,
Allah's mercy is always close to the good
doers.
Let us reflect here.
So what is the meaning of facade, corruption?
The facade that you come to something which
is
intact,
something that is perfect,
and you make it imperfect
by fiddling with it,
by interfering.
Allah created
everything
perfect.
He made this planet earth
suitable for us to live on.
So when our father
landed in Earth,
it was made ready for him. Everything is
suitable for him.
The oxygen,
right percentage.
Atmosphere,
perfect.
Protecting you from the the
cosmic rays
and the radioactive rays.
So you are covered by this canopy,
the atmosphere.
Sufficient resources for you on earth, water,
food,
animals,
everything.
He made everything in state of balance, equilibrium.
This animal
will live on this animal,
and the cycle will go on and there
will be balance.
This bird will eat this insect,
will eat this world.
There's
a bird. They call it the farmer's friend.
The farmer's friend.
When the farmer is blowing the land
okay. In olden days using the oxen,
this bird is following the
the farmer,
eating the work picking and eating the work.
That's when you plow,
okay,
the words, they come out. So the bird
eats the words.
Everything he Allah created
in order.
So everything is balanced.
Everything is naturally
balanced.
I don't know if you have seen this
in some documentary.
The crocodiles
a crocodile will open its mouth,
and the bird will go inside
to clean the teeth of the crocodile,
picking the food from there.
So this bird lives on the food that
is got
stuck in the teeth of the crocodile.
Everything is a boat.
The man came flexing his muscle.
The egg, you know, I'm the fool,
saying I know everything.
I work with the insects.
I will use pesticides.
I will use chemicals.
What did he do?
He started spoiling the environment.
The clubs
are contaminated
with chemicals.
You go now to the
coop.
In your or mall, you do your shopping.
You go to the type of groceries
and you see.
Okay. Natural.
No chemicals,
fruit,
or vegetables,
and the others. And those that they
the farmers
do not didn't use chemicals. They are the
crops or this produce
are produces
are expensive
because they are natural.
No chemicals are used.
Nowadays,
the food you eat
genetically
modified.
Man interfered.
It caused corruption.
He thought he knows.
And now they started to
let us go back
in the fields of agriculture. You know what
they do?
The insects,
they culture them in the labs and take
them and put them in the farms.
So they say we need to create
ecological
balance.
Everything
could go back
naturally.
Once I read an article
in a newspaper
long time ago.
I think it was in Australia
where they hunt foxes
foxes
to sell the fur the fur of the
foxes.
And they had a problem. The problem, they
had wolves
eating the foxes.
So they decided to kill the wolves.
So they killed the wolves. What happened?
The foxes relapsed.
Then
the quality of the fur
became bad. No fluffiness.
That fluffiness and smoothness
is not there.
So they conducted the research.
They found out there is a special gland
secretes
a particular
chemical,
hormone, or substance
that is responsible of giving the fluffiness.
But that gland will not start secreting
unless and until you frighten the fox to
death.
So when the fox is chased and frightened,
the gland will start secreting and giving out
releasing
that substance.
So what will fighting the fox
to death?
And the fear will trigger that gland, the
wolf.
So they said we have to bring back
the wolves.
This is the problem with man.
Man thinks he knows when he doesn't know.
But there are 2
inherent characteristics of man, ignorance
ignorance
and arrogance.
And he doesn't want to admit that he
is arrogant
and ignorant at the same time.
So the collection, the facade, you come to
something which is
perfect.
You play with it. You interfere.
Always when man fizzled
and interfere,
he collapse.
And
he keeps ongoing
at a at a time at a time,
and there will be victims. And
for that,
for such
practices,
unwise practices
in different fields.
In medicine, the same medicine.
This is a new,
this is a new medicine.
They will try it. 1st, they will try
on the guinea pigs
and then in human beings.
And they will after, of course,
certain
experimentations,
they will
issue a right the of
the
little
piece of paper with along with the medicine
telling you about the composition of the medicine
and how to use it, and then they
will tell you this is the disclaimer,
pharmaceutical
company's life. This is a disclaimer.
Oh, this medicine is going to might cause
this or cause that.
And we know
how many medicines we we had seen in
our life, and they do not exist anymore
because they cause
damage.
And many people were cut killed.
So they had to remove that medicine.
So man causes facade.
Is
corruption
which man
causes
appeared
on land and in the sea.
Corruption.
Pollution.
Who caused that?
The fish
die
because of the
pollution.
Animals,
they die because of pollution.
People
die because of the
radiation
of the radioactive
material
that are dumped
in
the
poor countries,
the advanced countries.
Where do they dump their waste, the nuclear
waste,
in poor countries?
Allah's warning mankind,
humanity.
The earth
is perfect
for you to live in.
Just use it properly.
Don't cause facade.
So do not spread corruption in the land
after it has been
been
set in order.
Allah made it set in order. Perfect.
Suitable for living.
Today?
Some places you can't breathe because of the
pollution.
Who cast caused it? The
industrial
installations,
renting all these fumes to the atmosphere.
What happened to the rivers?
Polluted
because the affluence and the waste
of the plants
is dumped to the rivers.
Do not cause corruption on earth, whether it
is material corruption
or it is immaterial,
moral corruption,
and man is causing both. Material corruption, moral
corruption.
This is what's happening.
Because he is away
from following the divine guidance,
the divine instructions,
the perfect instructions. He's far away.
So he's in Jahiliya.
So he doesn't know even how to run
his own life.
He thinks he knows,
and he's,
making blunders.
Well, after.
Allah's saying,
Call upon him.
So do not cause corruption
on earth because Allah set it in order,
and call upon him.
Call upon your creator,
with hope and fear. This how you lead
your life. Balance.
Hope
and fear.
Hope and fear. This is how you balance
your life.
The hope
stops you from despairing
from the.
So it prevents you from
despairing,
losing hope
because a human being is not perfect.
Okay?
No one is perfect.
Every son of Adam will make a mistake.
Everyone not even
as they say, even Homer.
So no one is perfect.
So there is hope,
Allah say.
If you fall short,
it's not the end.
Get up.
When you fall, get up. Stand up.
Have hope.
I will forgive you.
Come back. Say sorry.
Help me,
my lord. Help me, my lord.
He will help you.
Also, there should be fear
because if just you have
hope
and no fear is a problem.
But you'll always say, oh,
god is great. God is love, as the
Christians say.
We say in Islam, better than that. Allah
His mercy encompasses
everything.
He's more merciful to us than our mothers.
That is there in Islam.
But to just count on his mercy
and hope
and that he's
most forgiving,
most kind.
This will encourage you to carry on sinning.
So what will stop you from sinning is
to remember,
oh,
yes, though he's kind and merciful,
but he is severe in punishment.
He didn't rip up.
So I have to behave myself,
and they have to refrain from sinning.
I have to reform
myself.
I'll reform my character.
So
you live between
2 states,
state of hope, a state of fear.
This is how you balance.
If you feel you are going to lose
to despair
because you committed sin,
and the
cursed one, shaitan,
steps in
and tells you
this what will happen, especially if you are
a practicing Muslim,
brother or sister, and you made the mistake.
Oh, this is the golden chance for the
shaitan.
He will blow that
sin
out of proportion
and magnified,
not to make you repent. No.
To make you despair of Allah's mercy.
He will make the you to feel guilty
not to repent, no,
to lose hope.
So you see? You,
you, you,
you students of Nadi, you you you.
And then you did this?
Oh, you don't know
what will happen to you.
Finish.
There's no chance for you.
There's no hope for you.
Join the club. Welcome.
So just
enjoy the
remaining part of your life.
Have fun. Enjoy it.
There's no finished.
You fell
in the trap.
This is what the shithan does.
So the moment
that's why
you hear
some brothers or sister will tell you,
please, you don't know me.
Really, really, you don't know. I know,
But I know
myself,
so
I'm doomed.
I'm doomed.
I did this and this and this and
this.
I'm a hypocrite.
Many times, I promised that I will not
do this.
I did it again.
You find some in the field of the
people you come across when you are doing
dawah.
So they reach the.
That's what the shitham wants.
The shitham wants you to re to despair
of Allah's mercy.
The despairing
of Allah's mercy is
because you consider
your sin
to be greater than Allah,
that Allah cannot forgive it. It is too
much
too big
for Allah to forgive.
So when you come across such a person,
What is the cue for
him? To talk about the hellfire?
The guy already finished.
He needs someone to give him hope,
someone
to give him hope.
So if you're asking,
how many people have you killed?
You'll say, Ozbolla,
I'm not that bad. Yeah. Okay.
Don't you know
that
one servant of Allah,
he killed 99,
Then
he went to
a person, religious person, but he was ignorant
and asked him,
I want to repent. Is there a chance
for me? Said, no. Said, okay.
I'll make you 100.
So he killed 100 innocent
souls.
What happened? Allah forgave him
when he returned to Allah.
Allah forgave the prostitute
when she gave water to the thirsty dog.
Allah
says in the hadith
oh, son of Adam,
where your sins to reach the clouds,
then you meet me without
associating
any partner with me,
I will forgive you all your sins, and
I don't mind.
This beautiful hadith
gives hope
gives hope.
Allah's saying,
wear your sins
to fill the earth,
and then pile up
till the heat, the clouds,
your sin.
Then you meet me without associating
partners with me, any partner with me.
I will
forgive all this colossal
amount
of sins.
Well, I don't mind.
So that's why we need to have the
hope.
That's why we need to have the fear,
hope and fear.
So
if you are if you reach a state
where you feel that you are going to
despair
of
Allah's mercy, their ulema, they say,
you fly like a bird with 2 wings,
the wing of hope and
fear. If you feel that you are going
to despair
of Allah's mercy, raise the wing of hope
and think about Allah
till you start to feel.
Oh,
I might now start committing sins,
counting or relying
on Allah's mercy. So lower the wing of
hope,
raise the wing of fear. This how you
balance your flight
in your life.
And when you are on
the bed of death,
breathing your last,
only raise the wing of hope.
Don't think anything
about your past or your sins or anything.
Just think
of Allah's rahma.
Allah's rahma and have good hope.
Of
Allah
The prophet
visited a young man who was dying and
say, how do you feel? He says,
when I remember my sins,
I feel I'm doomed, but when I remember
Allah's mercy,
I feel Allah will
grant me
forgiveness.
So the prophet
say it have glad tidings.
If these two feelings
coexist in the heart of
any of the children of Adam Adam as
at such moment, at such time, like when
you are dying,
Allah will
grant him security
and safety
from what he fears, and you will forgive
him,
his forgive
his sins.
Allah will forgive you the sins
that you fear,
and Allah will
elevate you
and grant you good ending.
But
that moment,
the moment of reality
moment of reality.
May Allah
grant us good ending.
I mean,
so Allah
says,
So this is
how you should call upon him,
k,
with hope and fear.
Then
they gave us this good news.
Indeed, Allah's mercy
is always close to the
good doers.
Good doers. Those who do good deeds,
Allah's mercy is
close to them.
Close to them.
So here in this ayah,
Allah told us, do not spread corruption.
And if you are living
Jahili life,
not abiding by the divine guidance,
then you will cause corruption.
Also, Allah says,
aya
86.
Well,
That is a.
And do not lie in ambush on every
road, threatening and handling
those who believe in Allah from his past
and striving to make it appear crooked.
Remember when you were few, then he increased
you in number
and considered the fate of the corruptors.
It also reflect here.
So Allah is saying here, why do I
talk to Redoon?
So he
is
warning
those
who opposed the message
and set
ambush
on every road, in every way
of Hidayah,
threatening and hindering
those who believe,
opposing them, putting hardships,
obstacles.
This is what will happen,
but this is
the way.
The way of salvation is full of obstacles
and hardships and hurdles.
Always.
So those
who do not want the Hidayah,
those who prefer to have Jahili life,
to follow their whims and desires,
they set ambush
in the ways of the believers,
traps,
obstacles,
giving them tough time,
and they threaten the believers,
those who abide by the divine guidance.
Threatening and handling those who believe in Allah
from his
saying,
you said this
those who believe in Allah
from his path to try
to stop them
from treading
on the path
of guidance,
the path of salvation.
This is what they are doing.
The advocates
of Jahiliyyah, this is what they are doing.
They're attacking
the good doers.
They are attacking those
who lead upright life,
and they try to pull them
and make them follow their crooked way of
life.
They don't want you to dress decently as
a woman.
They want you to be naked.
That's what they want.
They don't want you to be dressed and
covered from head to toes. They don't want
that.
They want to enjoy seeing your body.
They want to make you * object.
If you're covered, oh, watch out.
She's covered.
To walk naked, no problem.
He's progressive,
up to date.
He's modern,
open mind.
That's what they are saying.
They're saying this is what this is what
Allah told us about that.
And striving to make it
appear crooked.
What's good with?
What's good
with?
And remember when you were a few,
remind me
the
the.
Then he increase you in number,
and he is reminding the believers as well.
The believers do a fewer number,
and Allah multiply them
because
the finally, the truth will supersede, will prevail.
The truth will prevail.
No doubt.
Ultimate and the
outcome and the final outcome for the righteous.
The truth will dominate.
Remember when you were few, then he increased
you in number.
And see
the fate of
the corruptors,
mischievers,
those who spread mischief
and cause mischief on earth.
What happened to those who spread?
Corruption?
Allah destroyed
them. This is history.
What happened to the Romans?
When their corruption
reached the peak.
When you study civilization,
civilizations
like human beings.
Empires
like human beings.
They
start
young. They grow. They come strong.
Then they reach the peak
of their strength.
Then
they relax,
and then they start
normal
productivity,
but enjoyment,
moral corruption,
womanizing
unwinding,
then they decline.
Polish.
Empires like that.
And this is a fixed
law
for all empires.
Romans,
The Persians,
the same.
Muslims,
the same.
When they were the Muslims
were pious, righteous,
from China
to Spain.
They started
drinking,
whining,
and womenizing.
And
become immoral,
collapsed.
Just fixed law
fixed law.
They said when
the Muslims
enter Spain
and they established
civilization in Spain,
which is the cause of the enlightenment
later on in Europe
because the Europeans used to come and study
in the Islamic universities in Spain,
but then
they started
leaving the dean and practicing the dean. They
had commit religious commitment
started to become weak.
The Spaniards used to send their
their spies
to give them reports about the
situation, and the
spies would report
that when we pass by Muslim homes houses,
we hear a
little humming
noise.
People women inside are reading. Children are reading.
Everyone
say we cannot do anything.
But they kept
following
till the news came to them.
Now we can hear music
coming from their homes.
Music.
Music
brings alcohol.
Music
brings women for dancing.
And this happened in Spain
when
a man came from Iraq,
musician.
And
he opened an institute for music,
Zaria.
So now you hear the flutes in
every house.
That when the Spaniards so they attacked the
Muslims,
but now the Muslims
are declining.
Corruption,
sinning,
and they drove the Muslims out of Spain.
So any nation
that
started having this
this
decay,
this what will happen to it.
So Allah is saying,
watch, consider,
ponder, reflect.
Our mother Aisha
she asked the prophet one day,
Oh, prophet of Allah,
is it possible that
we will have
catastrophe? We'll be hit by a calamity?
Will we have good people living among us?
Good people.
Righteous people.
He said,
yes.
It's a.
When corruption,
okay, is a lot,
Is rampant?
Why the spread?
Yes. Prepare yourself for
receiving
Allah's wrath and anger to be hit by
a calamity.
Now corruption everywhere.
Corruption there on your cell phone.
No mobile.
Don't you know? Because of
the media,
social media,
the divorce of rate has increased.
So the the fruit of the.
Yeah. This is the fruit of the.
Read
how Allah destroyed the
in history.
Read what Allah did to the people of
Lot, of Lut, the
Sodomites,
the gays.
What did Allah what did Allah do to
them?
And now you want to be like them.
What happened to them will happen to you.
Allah destroyed the whole town of
Sodom
because of *
and an *.
That's why
the one who practices that is called sodomite.
And they don't use this word. They use
gay.
Gay. Gay means happy.
They didn't use the
the the biblical word
because it gives,
okay, certain meaning.
So they gave it beautiful
name meaning.
Gay
means happy.
Allah destroyed
the whole town.
Allah sent Yibl,
alaihis salam,
and told him, approach it.
And gedriel
on the tip of one of his wings.
He uprooted
the whole
dwellings, the whole town,
then he inverted it upside down.
So
I was telling us,
consider. Restudy.
See what happened
to the
and consider the fate of the corruptors.
May Allah
save us
from going this way.
May
Allah protect
our families. May Allah protect our children.
May Allah
keep us remain steadfast
on this beautiful deed
till we meet Allah
find him, please,
with all of us. May
Allah unite.
May Allah
May Allah forgive us all the false and
mistakes and ignorance.
May Allah
reward you immensely, my dear brothers and sisters.
May Allah elevate your status
in this life and the one to come.
Brothers and sisters, it is now the question
and answers time. If you have questions, please
send them in fast so we can address
them inshallah.
And the preferred method is to ask verbally
by raising your hands
on the chat section.
We will start with the first question. We
have received some already written.
The first question.
Is it permissible to hold a matrimonial
event at the Masjid
where it is similar to speed dating?
The Mahraman family have to wait outside and
cannot enter with the individual.
Okay. One minute.
In Islam,
we have a system
for the
the
the,
the proposing.
And that is in Islam.
The
family
of the
boy or the man,
normally the women,
because they see and visit each other.
So they will get
pass the information. There's a nice girl in
this family.
Okay. Then
they have the
the now the man will
play the role. The father and his son
will go and propose.
And
the husband to be has the right to
see his
wife to be.
He has the right.
They can sit
in the presence of the maharam, not the
maharam next to them. They are watching them,
so
they are not
touching each other or no handshaking or stuff
like that. But then we give them
a sort of privacy or privacy.
So they talk to each other.
So if they like each other, that's well
and fine. If not,
handle that.
This
is what
is we what we have in our deen
in Islam.
No dating outside, etcetera.
Nowadays,
they came up with these,
matrimonial
services
where they have databases
for the
husbands to be and the wives to be.
And some matrimonials
you go and you see and you see
the photo and everything.
That's not correct.
If these matrimonial
services, they just
play the role of what we call the
the half of the,
the one who who facilitates.
Okay. Because in some Muslim countries, they are
women known.
So they will say, okay. We yes. We
have
nice girl in this family.
So they just facilitate until you go and,
and meet the family.
So of the metrimonials
metrimonials
of those who are.
Okay. So you don't see
the
the wife to be. You don't see anything
like that.
But you can be given information, and they
can tell you, yes. You can
see this family,
and they have the information and the contact
number on this, and you go. And you
propose
and the normal procedure.
This this is fine with such
strict rules.
But now some, they say, now you can
see the girl and you chat with each
other and
but you have to talk
decently.
No. We don't do that.
Don't do that.
So I don't know what those who are
running this matrimonial
have in mind and how they are going
to if they are facilitators
so, okay. You want to marry, okay,
Your age and this and this and that.
Okay. So we think there is
suitable goal in this family.
You can go to them.
That's okay.
But the question I
say,
there are queues.
People are,
boys and girls coming to the mosque yet.
The question is saying that there are queues
of boys and girls coming to the masjid
or what?
They didn't say queues. They said, if it
is allowed.
But what happens is the parents are not
allowed in the room. Only the men and
the women are meeting each other.
Oh, so there is?
Yeah.
Oh, is haram.
This this is a later stage
let's just say
the the the the ones who are in
charge of the mask, you should be facilitators.
Say, okay. Young boys, come.
Give us your information,
and they can talk to the parents, of
course, in the Masjid.
Okay. Whoever has
girls, daughters, and he wants to get them
married, we he can provide us with the
information and the age and
etcetera.
So then the the the those who are
in charge of this matrimonial service and they
are actually facilitator
can guide the young man and the husband
to be to this family, and that's it.
And from there, you can sit with the
girl in her family house, not outside.
I hope this is clear to the questioner.
We go to the next question.
What is the proper way and the kind
what is the proper way and kind of
swearing?
For example,
is it priority
for someone to always swear taking oaths?
No. No. It is not, recommended.
No need to to take an oath.
No need.
Unless it is
required.
It is required,
and you shall not get used to that.
Unless you want to emphasize upon the importance
of something as
the used to say,
things like that. To emphasize it,
k, upon the importance
of whatever is going to be said.
But always
stop doing that. Next question, please.
The next question.
My doubt is about removing unnecessary
moles from our face.
Initially, it was smaller in size, but now
it's becoming bigger.
Does Islam permit women to remove those unnecessary
molds?
Kindly clear this doubt.
The answer, yes. You can.
Because
a bottle will use that. Whatever is harmful
should be removed.
Whatever is harmful is removed.
So if something having a close or someone
who's having
additional finger and
can be removed. Yes.
Next.
Sheikh, that was our final question for tonight's
session. If you'd like to conclude,
May
Allah bless you. Bless your family. Protect you.
Protect your family.
May Allah
protect our
May
Allah unite
our hearts
and bring us all back to him and
to our team.
I mean,
may Allah keep us remain steadfast on this
beautiful deen
till we meet him and find him pleased
with all of us. I mean,
until we meet
in the coming sessions,
I leave you in Allah's company and protection.