Salem Al Amry – Effects of Sin

Salem Al Amry
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The speakers discuss the concept of sin and how it can affect individuals, including one's behavior and behavior of others. They also discuss the concept of sins and explain that sin is anything negative or in line with what the creator wants. The importance of avoiding anger, staying in a peaceful state, and praying for the removal of sin is emphasized. The speakers also discuss the fruit of committing sins, including losing provision, feeling depression due to sin, and not being obeyed and giving in to anger. They emphasize the importance of understanding the meaning of major and minor sins and surrendering to desires and deeds. The speakers also mention the importance of praying for the removal of sin and avoiding major sins.
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Are three reasons

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why we commit sin.

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That is the sin. If you are looking

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around any woman in the street, you will

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be suffering, man. You will be suffering because

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of the sins they were drowned in the

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flood.

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The sins in Arabic are called,

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and.

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He commands the volcano erupt now. The volcano

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will

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erupt

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because what is more important to you is

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your lord.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam.

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The topic for today is about the effects

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of sin.

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And before we delve into the topic

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and start elaborating

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on the sins and the dreadful

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sequences

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of sins.

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First of all,

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I would like

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to draw your attention

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as human beings

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who are living on this planet,

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that God Almighty

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who created us from nothing and brought us

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into being.

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He created us for one purpose and one

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objective, and that is to be obedient

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and true worshipers.

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And he created

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the everything around us,

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all our surroundings

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for the benefit of man.

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If you just have a quick look around

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you

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and see your surroundings,

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you will find

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that you have plants around you. You have

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animals,

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and you have inanimate,

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and you have human beings.

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And if I ask you

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to

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arrange those these

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4 components

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ascendingly,

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you will find that in animate comes first,

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then the plant, then the animals, then human

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beings on top.

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And you'll find that an animator serving the

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plant, serving the animal,

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serving the human being. So everything is serving

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you.

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Allah made it to serve you,

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and you should serve him

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who created you.

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But unfortunately,

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man,

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instead of serving the one who created him,

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he started to serve and worship the one

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below him.

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Imagine the pyramid, the pyramid like this,

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The base is in animate,

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then the animals,

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the plants, then animals, the human beings.

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So at the top of the pyramid is

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the human being,

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and everything is serving him.

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But unfortunately,

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man lowered himself and started serving what is

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below him.

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And he forgot the one on top of

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him

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who created him and brought him into being.

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And what is below you,

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it is what is we call mother nature.

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Mother nature is nothing more than

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animals,

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plants, and inanimate. That's mother nature.

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And this mother nature did not create you.

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The one who created you is the one

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who made them to serve you.

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Having said this,

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we need

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to know exactly our role in this life.

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And the role in this life

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is to worship the one who created us.

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But man

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went astray from the straight path.

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And he started

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disobeying his creator.

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He started

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to create

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corruption

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on this planet.

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Though Allah

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provided us with everything. And he said,

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So eat and drink, all human beings,

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of the sustenance

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provided by Allah.

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And do no evil, no mischief

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on the face of the globe. But what

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happened?

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What did man do?

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Man,

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he thinks he understands.

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Man thinks that he's smart

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when he is not the reality.

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Man is very weak.

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His knowledge is limited,

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yet he pretends that he knows.

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Let us take view example.

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Now countries all over the world

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are spending 1,000,000,000 of dollars

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to combat pollution,

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environmental

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pollution.

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Who caused that pollution? Who caused it?

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It's man who caused the pollution.

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And later on he realized, now I am

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destroying my environment.

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In every discipline,

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you will see that man

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whenever he intervenes,

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whenever he puts his hand,

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he corrupts.

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This nature

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created an odor, in a state of balance.

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Everything in a state of balance.

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If I intervene,

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then I create this odor.

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In the field of agriculture, for instance,

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people started using chemicals.

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Later on, they realized that they are spoiling

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the soil.

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So this decided to stop using that.

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Medicines.

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Every medicine you take,

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read the brochure

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inside the box of the medicine. What do

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you find inside?

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You will never find any medicine

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inside

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without stating

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side effects.

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Any medicine,

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side effects.

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What does it mean side effects?

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That this medicine might cause these things.

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But now, there is a trend globally

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towards herbal medicine, as you know. What I'm

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trying to say that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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created everything in order. So just leave it

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as it is. If you cannot enhance it,

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leave it as it is.

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Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala tells us about man.

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He

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This is in Surat Arum,

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Surah 30, ayah 40. I want every Muslim

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to reflect on this ayah.

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Allah is saying facade,

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corruption,

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mischief,

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appeared on land and sea, corruption everywhere.

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Corruption on the land, corruption on the sea.

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Why?

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Because of the meat,

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because of the word that the hands of

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man,

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the hands of human beings have earned.

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That Allah may give them a taste of

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some of their deeds, in order that they

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may turn back from evil. What Allah is

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saying, that

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corruption caused by man,

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and then man will start to suffer.

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Man will be suffering

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because of what he did.

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And this is exactly what is happening.

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Man is suffering

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because of his own deeds.

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Now we delve to our topic.

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And before I delve to the

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topic. The topic effects of sins.

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What is a sin?

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A sin

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is anything you do

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contrary

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to what he wants you to

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do. Anything

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that is not in agreement,

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anything that is not in line with what

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the Creator wants, it is a sin.

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So the broad of the sin is so

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wide.

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Anything

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that he doesn't want us, the Creator, to

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do and we do, that is a sin.

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And this is the problem.

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We don't follow logic even.

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Any machine,

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any device you buy,

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you will find a small book called the

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catalog.

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And you follow the instructions in the catalog.

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Right?

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And you will go step by step.

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If you want this machine to last for

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long.

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Similarly, the creator

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provided us with a catalog,

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with a book

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that we have to follow it.

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Set of instructions.

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That if you follow this set of instructions,

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this machinery,

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complex machinery, will be functioning

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properly.

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And you will do what is is needed

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of you.

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The moment you

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decide not to follow the instructions,

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the creator who created you,

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the manufacturer who made

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this computer,

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He tells you you do this, you follow

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it

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because you want to maintain this machine.

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When it comes to you,

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the the one who created you, the maker

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is telling you don't do this

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because this is going to affect this machine.

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Affect it.

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Don't drink alcohol

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because alcohol is going to spoil you.

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Spoil your body. Spoil your mind,

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make you sick.

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You say, no. I will drink alcohol.

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He's telling you, don't commit fornication,

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adultery.

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Say, no. I will do it. Then you

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will have all types of STD's, STDs,

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and you will have AIDS, and you'll have

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all sorts of evils.

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Why? Because you are not following the instructions.

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You are not following the moral code,

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which the creator

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said that you should do.

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So the sin

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is any

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deed, any action you do

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that is against the will of the creator.

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That is a sin. And you have to

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bear in mind, brothers and sisters,

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that when the creator says something, it is

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for your own benefit, not for his benefit.

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He's not in need of us,

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but we are in need of him.

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It is for your own benefit.

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When he tells you that look don't look

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to any woman.

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Actually,

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that is for my own benefit.

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Many of you are married. If you are

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looking around any woman in the street, you

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you look at her, you will be suffering,

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man.

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You will be suffering.

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There are many beautiful women around,

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and you cannot marry all the women of

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the world.

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So you are going to suffer at home.

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Okay? And you are going to have marital

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problem with your wife

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because now you are comparing her to all

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those beautiful women you have seen.

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But the creator, he saved you from this

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suffering by telling you, lower your gaze, don't

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look.

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That is a protection for you

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and for me.

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Allah is saying,

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And tell the believing men

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to lower their gaze and protect their private

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parts.

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And tell the believing woman

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to lower their gaze and protect their private

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part. Imagine,

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a Muslim, when he sees a woman, he

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he lowers his head. And the Muslim, when

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she sees a man, she lowers her head.

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What a beautiful community

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and society we are going to have.

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Pure society.

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No evil.

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The man lowers his head, and the woman

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does the same thing. So the woman is

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protected, and the man is protected as well.

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Because the one who created us, he knows

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our weakness.

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But if we decide not to follow

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what he says, then we have to bear

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the consequences.

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And he is severe in punishment,

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Allah

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And if you disobey him,

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then

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you

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land in the * fire.

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Since there are names of sins,

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the sins in Arabic are called.

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There are many names of the sins

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being given in the Quran.

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Among these names

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Fusuk and Asyan, the Quran is saying. Allah

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is saying,

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So

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Allah

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he's saying that, but Allah has endeared. He

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beautified

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the iman in your hearts.

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Allah beautified the iman in your hearts, and

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has made it beautiful in your hearts, and

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has made hateful to you.

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And

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And he made

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the kufr, which everyone knows what's the meaning

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of kufr,

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and fusook,

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which is wickedness, and

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and Asyan,

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rebellion.

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So that is the name of the sin.

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One of the names of the sins in

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the Quran,

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Khufr, Fusuk and Asyan.

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Fusuk and Asyan

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is one of the names of the sin.

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Another name of the sin is Al Hawb,

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Al Hawb. As Allah

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said in his book.

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Which means for this is indeed a great

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sin. So the hope is also one of

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the names of the sin. Among also the

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names of the sins is

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If you come across the word

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that's also one of the names. It's a

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sin.

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As Allah is saying,

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So we punish each one of for his

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sin.

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So them is also another name for the

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sin in the Quran.

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Another name is.

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As Allah is saying.

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Because of their sins,

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they were drowned in the flood.

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See. And are you listening?

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Because of their sins, they were drowned in

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the flood.

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We'll talk about tsunami inshallah.

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Because all these, what you call them

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natural

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events,

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earthquakes, volcanoes, etcetera,

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these things they don't happen by themselves.

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These are soldiers of the almighty.

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He commands them.

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Do this.

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Move now.

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Swallow now.

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He commands the earth, open and swallow, and

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the earth will open and swallow.

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He commands the volcano, erupt now, the volcano

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will erupt.

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So everything is under his control.

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So

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Allah is saying because of their sins they

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were drowned.

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Another name of the sin is a

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as Allah

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said.

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Verily good deeds.

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They wash away.

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They say the sins. Also,

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another name for this sin

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is

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is another name for this sin. As Allah

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is

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Say the things that my Lord has indeed

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forbidden are shameful deeds.

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Whether open or secret,

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sins and trespasses against the the truth or

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reason.

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So

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and isim

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towards the end Allah said,

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the sin and by the transgression. So isim

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is another name. And another name is Al-'Otoo.

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Why do we sins? I'm sure

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many times we have promised

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Allah Azawajal not to sin. Right?

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How many times you made tawbah? Many times.

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How many times you cried? Many times.

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But then you went to square 1. True

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or not?

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Many times in Ramadan,

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when the imam was making the punut and

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the dua. And if you are in Makkah

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behind shuraim or sudai's,

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you are crying

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many times.

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You are crying and you are sincere.

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And you promised Allah in the holy place

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in Makkah

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that not to do

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it. But then you went back. So why

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do we sin though we promised Allah not

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to do it?

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The reason any human being sins

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that he forgets.

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That's why Allah

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tells us that we should keep reminding one

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another. Right?

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You remind me. I remind you.

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You help me. I help you.

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Imam Ibnuqayim Al Jawziyyah said in his book

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Al Fawway. This is a beautiful book.

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It needs to be translated into English.

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He said,

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sins, the zulub, the sins

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can be traced back to the following reasons.

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I want you to memorize them. Count on

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your fingers, please.

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He said, sins can be traced back to

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the following reasons. There are three reasons

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why we commit sins.

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The first reason he said,

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reliance upon other than Allah.

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Our trust not in God

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Almighty. So we rely

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upon other than Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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And if you rely

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upon other than Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, that

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is shirk.

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That is what?

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Shirk.

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Tawakkul, you should put your trust in Allah,

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in him only.

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Because he takes care.

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If you rely upon any

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anyone,

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you are not going to succeed,

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and you will be suffering.

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For instance, if

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you are trying

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all the time to please your boss,

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to please the boss,

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And one day,

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you found your boss angry.

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If he's angry,

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you start

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to shiver. Right?

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Tremble. You are afraid.

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Oh my God. My boss is angry today.

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Maybe he's angry with me.

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Right?

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Because

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your concern is always to make him happy,

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to see him smiling all the time.

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But unfortunately, that day,

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he has a problem at home. His wife,

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made him angry. He came to the office

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angry as well.

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And now you think,

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you think he's angry with you.

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He's not angry with you. He's angry with

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his wife.

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But because you are,

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your mind

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and

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pleasing the boss is dominating you. So now

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you think that he's angry with you.

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So you are afraid. You don't know. I

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didn't do anything to displease him. Why he's

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angry?

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But if you only think about how to

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make Allah happy,

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how to make Allah pleased, you will never

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worry about anything.

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Whether he's angry, whether he's smiling,

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doesn't concern you.

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Because what is more important to you is

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your Lord.

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I am making

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Allah happy.

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I do my job correctly. I don't care

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about anything else.

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I rely on him only.

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Some people, for instance,

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if I ask Muslims in particular,

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ask any Muslim.

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Who

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is the razzak? Who is the provider?

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Every Muslim will give this answer, Allah is

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the razzak.

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The second day he went to the office,

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he found this letter terminating him.

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Terminating him.

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Firing him.

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No job.

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If in the heart that the razzab, the

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provider is Allah,

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razzak, the provider is Allah,

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he will say Alhamdulillah.

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Alhamdulillah.

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Allah is the provider.

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But if it is only from the lips,

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he will go through blackout

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for a while.

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Blackout, he will never see for a while.

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And then he start

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to cry or to weep or to say,

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what can I do? What should I do?

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Where to go?

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Where to go? To him.

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You go to him.

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You cry to him.

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You raise your hands to him.

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You ask him. You rely on him.

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Who was taking care of you when you

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were in your mother's womb 9 months?

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The one who was taking care of you

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9 months in your mother's womb, he will

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take care of you.

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You know, brothers and sisters, when we were

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in our mother's womb, the only source for

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our nutrition and food was the navel cord

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through our mothers. And when we came into

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this world, the midwife was waiting with the

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scissors.

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The moment she came out, that

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code is cut.

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That means the soles of your wrist has

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been

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blocked.

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But was that the end? No. Instead of

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1 source, now you have 2 sources.

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Two * are waiting for you,

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your mother's breast.

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You see, instead of 1, now you have

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2.

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See your creator

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who loves you,

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and you carry on

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drinking milk for 2 years,

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then your mother stops you.

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Is that the end? No.

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For 2 years, you are only living on

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milk. Now you can have milk. You can

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have rice. You can have different uses. You

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can have honey. You have many things.

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The only time

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your wrist will be severed and cut when?

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When you die.

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So sleep peacefully.

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Don't worry about the wrist.

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The risk is in Allah's hand, not in

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the human's

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hands.

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Alhamdulillah.

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And that's what Allah said.

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Your risk is in the heaven, in the

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sky,

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and whatever is promised to you.

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Allah is giving surety guarantees

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to the doubters because many of us are

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doubters.

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They have doubts. So Allah

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is saying,

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by the Lord of the heavens and the

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earth.

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It is true

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as you are uttering and pronouncing the words.

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So the first thing that you make make

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you sin

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is the shirk

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when you rely upon other than Allah.

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That's reason 1. Reason number 2, when you

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give in to the force of anger,

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when you give in to the force of

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anger,

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when you are angry,

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anger

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is

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destructive

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force within us when we get angry.

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And when a human being gets angry actually,

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when he gets angry

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he behaves like an animal.

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I was reading a book by psychiatrist talking

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about anger.

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He said, if you want to see how

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ugly you look when you are angry, when

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you get angry, go and see your face

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in the mirror.

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When you get angry, go rush to the

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mirror and see your face in the mirror,

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and you will see how you look.

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You look like an animal.

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That's why the prophet

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said, he said

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to a man who came to him, he

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said,

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O Prophet of Allah, advise me. He said,

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don't get angry,

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don't get angry, don't get angry and the

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yannah is yours.

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3 times.

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And he said, if you are stand you

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get if you get angry while standing, sit

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down.

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And if you are sitting down lie.

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Or take and pray turakas.

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Ali radhiallahu anhu and Fatima radhiallahu anha, they

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got

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angry with one another. And Ali immediately he

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left the house and he went to the

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masjid. And the Prophet

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came and he said, where is your husband?

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He said, he left angrily.

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The Prophet he went and he found him

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in the masjid.

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Ali prayed Turak Azadulullah and he slept in

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the masjid.

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The prophet went and he started tapping him

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on his shoulder. Get up oh father of

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dust because his cheek was in the dust,

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Abu Turab.

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And then Ali went back to home.

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So when you get angry with your wife,

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where do you go?

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To the coffee shop?

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You go to the Masiyat.

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Don't go to another friend. He will tell

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you, sit down, sit down, cool down.

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What's the problem?

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Life is *. I cannot stand it.

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I can't stand her.

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I said, cool down, brother. Cool down.

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You know the solution for any woman? Marry

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another one.

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This is the advice he gives you. Marry

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another one, which will make your life more

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miserable.

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Okay,

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will make your life more miserable.

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That will not solve your problem.

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The problem that don't get angry, that's the

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solution.

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Don't listen to the Shaytan.

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We receive calls from the Muslims, Sheikh,

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I divorce my wife.

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Why?

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You know, Sheikh, I was angry.

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See, he was angry.

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99.9

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of the divorce

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happened when people are angry.

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You never find a couple that divorced 1,

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and a man divorced his wife when they

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were sipping the tea. Never. But when they

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were angry. So if you give in to

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the into to the force of anger,

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if you surrender to this force of anger,

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then you will commit a sin.

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You beat someone. The Prophet said, if you

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are standing,

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right? Sit down.

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I'm sure many of you

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have seen when 2 people are angry, the

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first thing they do they

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they stand up.

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Right?

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That's how.

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They stand up. They don't sit down. The

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prophet says, sit down. Cool down.

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No. No. They

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stand.

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The prophet said,

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when you are angry, say,

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that will cool you down.

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When 2 people are fighting and you come

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to them and say,

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What do you think? They say it or

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they refuse to say it? Tell me.

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When they are angry, you tell them, please

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say

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They carry on quarreling

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because they don't want to say it. The

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moment they say

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they cool down. So this is the second

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thing. And because of anger, many people are

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in the jails.

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They killed someone.

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You know, you left home peacefully in the

00:31:04 --> 00:31:05

morning driving,

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and then someone jumped in front of you.

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So you got very angry

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and you insulted him and you shouted at

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him, and he stopped his car and he

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came out, started fighting one another. He pulled

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out the knife and he stabbed you and

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he killed you.

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Because of what?

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Anger.

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Had you remember the hadith of the prophet

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salallahu alaihi wa sallam? And Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala is saying,

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And the servants of the merciful.

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IbadulRahman.

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When the fools

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talk to them they say peace peace

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salaam.

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I'm sorry. He's wrong. I say I apologize.

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We don't come down to the level of

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the fools

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because we are not fools. The moment you

00:32:07 --> 00:32:08

come down to the level of the fool,

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you become a fool.

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One wise man,

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they asked him, how did you become wise

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man? He said because of the fools. The

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fools made me wise.

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The fools made me wise. They said how?

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He said, if I see a foolish man

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doing something foolish, I say to myself, oh,

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this is a bad habit. I should not

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have it. So and I'm living in an

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ocean of fools, he said.

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So quickly, I became wise man. Or this

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guy is having bad habit. I should not

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have it. This guy having bad habit. I

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should not have it.

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That's how I became a wise man.

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So don't give up to the force of

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anger. That is reason number 2.

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The third reason why people commit sins

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is surrendering to one's desire.

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You know, brothers and sisters,

00:33:01 --> 00:33:02

there are 2 gates

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via which the Shaytan

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accesses this heart.

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There are 2 ways the Shaytan reaches your

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heart.

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One gate

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is the desires,

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lusts.

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The other door or gate

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is

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doubts.

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If you lock these 2 gates,

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the shaitan cannot reach your heart.

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So you keep these 2 gates closed all

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the time.

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The gate of desires are lost, keep it

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locked.

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How?

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You know how?

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Shaitan tells you,

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look at this beautiful woman.

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Say, no. No. No. No. No. No.

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I will not

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because there is another woman there in the

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jannah. Sisters, no jealousy, please.

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So when the shaitan tells you, look to

00:34:02 --> 00:34:04

this beautiful woman, say to yourself,

00:34:05 --> 00:34:07

there is a beautiful woman there in the

00:34:07 --> 00:34:09

jannah, my wife there in the jannah, she

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is more beautiful than this one,

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right?

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Huriyah.

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You know the prophet

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he described the huriyah.

00:34:17 --> 00:34:19

He described 1.

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

He said, if 1 huriyah

00:34:22 --> 00:34:22

comes to,

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looks to the people on

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earth, he said, if one Sharia removed her

00:34:28 --> 00:34:30

Buddha, you know the Buddha?

00:34:30 --> 00:34:32

The this the niqab,

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the face covering. If she just removed it,

00:34:35 --> 00:34:36

the prophet said

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between the east and the west will be

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illuminated.

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East and west will be illuminated.

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If he spits into the water of the

00:34:44 --> 00:34:47

ocean, it will become potable water,

00:34:48 --> 00:34:49

drinkable water,

00:34:50 --> 00:34:51

but just spitting.

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The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam is saying, a

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houriah

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will be wearing 70 dresses,

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and you will be able to see her

00:35:01 --> 00:35:02

born marrow.

00:35:04 --> 00:35:04

See?

00:35:05 --> 00:35:06

This is there in the jannah.

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So because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells, if

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the shaitan tells you drink alcohol, drink kamal,

00:35:12 --> 00:35:13

say no no no no no no no.

00:35:14 --> 00:35:15

If I drink kamal I will not drink

00:35:15 --> 00:35:16

kamal over there.

00:35:18 --> 00:35:19

There is kamal in the Jannah,

00:35:20 --> 00:35:21

rivers of wine

00:35:21 --> 00:35:23

rivers of wine in the Jannah.

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When you sip them, they are very enjoyable,

00:35:27 --> 00:35:27

very delicious.

00:35:28 --> 00:35:30

Not like the liquor and the kamal in

00:35:30 --> 00:35:33

this dunya. When you drink it, you become

00:35:33 --> 00:35:33

unconscious,

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and you start throwing out, and you start,

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

yeah, doing funny things.

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So always brothers and sisters, bear in mind

00:35:42 --> 00:35:45

when Allah tells you don't do this because

00:35:45 --> 00:35:47

there is something better there.

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This how you overcome the desires

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and the lusts and lower your gaze.

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Don't watch television.

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Many of you, they would say this. How

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can we live without television?

00:36:01 --> 00:36:03

I will ask you a simple question, brothers

00:36:03 --> 00:36:03

and sisters.

00:36:05 --> 00:36:06

Having television at home,

00:36:07 --> 00:36:09

does it bring you closer to Allah?

00:36:10 --> 00:36:11

Please answer me frankly.

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

Do you feel your iman increases by having

00:36:15 --> 00:36:17

television at home?

00:36:18 --> 00:36:20

Your iman increases?

00:36:22 --> 00:36:24

Does the television help you to bring up

00:36:24 --> 00:36:25

your children?

00:36:27 --> 00:36:30

Does the television teach morality to your children?

00:36:31 --> 00:36:32

So why are you keeping it?

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When it is destroying you, when it is

00:36:37 --> 00:36:38

destroying your family.

00:36:40 --> 00:36:42

Destroying you, destroying your family.

00:36:43 --> 00:36:45

So that is how you lock the door

00:36:45 --> 00:36:47

of the lust and the desires.

00:36:48 --> 00:36:50

The other door is the door of doubts

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and how I can lock this door, close

00:36:54 --> 00:36:54

it?

00:36:56 --> 00:36:58

By learning the deen, by the elm,

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by the elm, the knowledge.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

You learn the deen.

00:37:04 --> 00:37:07

You allocate at least 2 hours a day

00:37:07 --> 00:37:08

to learn your deen.

00:37:09 --> 00:37:10

Many of us,

00:37:12 --> 00:37:13

they got degrees

00:37:14 --> 00:37:16

in secular sciences,

00:37:17 --> 00:37:19

but the deen they don't know anything about

00:37:19 --> 00:37:19

it, Muslims.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:22

Then

00:37:23 --> 00:37:25

a non Muslim would come to this Muslim

00:37:26 --> 00:37:28

and puts doubts in his mind,

00:37:28 --> 00:37:30

and then he comes

00:37:30 --> 00:37:33

how to answer this, how to refute this

00:37:34 --> 00:37:36

because he doesn't have the ilm.

00:37:37 --> 00:37:40

Otherwise he would be able to defend Islam

00:37:41 --> 00:37:43

and to give the correct answer.

00:37:44 --> 00:37:46

So these are the three reasons. What are

00:37:46 --> 00:37:47

they?

00:37:48 --> 00:37:48

Reliance

00:37:50 --> 00:37:51

upon other than Allah,

00:37:52 --> 00:37:55

giving in to anger and surrender to the

00:37:55 --> 00:37:56

desires.

00:37:56 --> 00:37:59

And that is exactly what Allah subhanahu wa

00:37:59 --> 00:37:59

ta'ala

00:38:00 --> 00:38:00

summarized

00:38:01 --> 00:38:03

in the book in one eye. He summarized

00:38:03 --> 00:38:05

that. He says,

00:38:09 --> 00:38:11

They don't call upon Allah another ilah.

00:38:13 --> 00:38:14

They rely upon Allah

00:38:15 --> 00:38:16

because that is tawhid.

00:38:17 --> 00:38:18

Second thing

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and they don't kill innocent souls

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27

except in the justified way.

00:38:29 --> 00:38:31

And people when they kill one another when

00:38:31 --> 00:38:32

they are angry,

00:38:33 --> 00:38:35

anger cause you to kill.

00:38:35 --> 00:38:36

And thirdly,

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and

00:38:38 --> 00:38:40

they do not fornicate, they do not commit

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

fornication,

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which is the desire.

00:38:43 --> 00:38:46

So these are the 3 root causes of

00:38:46 --> 00:38:48

sins. 3 things

00:38:48 --> 00:38:50

and the way the Shaytan

00:38:51 --> 00:38:54

can make you to commit the sin is

00:38:54 --> 00:38:55

either through the shahawat,

00:38:55 --> 00:38:58

lust and desires, or through the shahawat,

00:38:58 --> 00:38:59

doubts.

00:39:00 --> 00:39:02

And the remedy for the shahawat, what?

00:39:02 --> 00:39:04

What's the remedy for the desires?

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

Fear of Allah. And the remedy for the

00:39:08 --> 00:39:09

doubts, what?

00:39:11 --> 00:39:12

The knowledge itself.

00:39:13 --> 00:39:13

Now,

00:39:14 --> 00:39:16

having said this brothers and sisters,

00:39:17 --> 00:39:18

the sins

00:39:19 --> 00:39:21

Muslim scholars

00:39:21 --> 00:39:22

have categorized

00:39:22 --> 00:39:23

sins into 2 compartments.

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

Sins have been classified

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

into 2 categories.

00:39:28 --> 00:39:29

Kaba'er and sara'er.

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Have you heard these words before?

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

Major sins and minor sins.

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Major sins and minor

00:39:42 --> 00:39:42

sins.

00:39:42 --> 00:39:44

These are the 2 types of sins.

00:39:45 --> 00:39:47

Kaba'il and sara'il,

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major sins and minor sins.

00:39:50 --> 00:39:51

How

00:39:52 --> 00:39:52

to differentiate

00:39:55 --> 00:39:57

between these types of 2 types of

00:39:58 --> 00:40:00

sins. The major sin

00:40:03 --> 00:40:04

major sin

00:40:04 --> 00:40:06

is any sin that has

00:40:07 --> 00:40:07

a prescribed

00:40:08 --> 00:40:09

punishment in Islam.

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Any sin that has a known known punishment

00:40:14 --> 00:40:17

in Islam, it's called murder sin.

00:40:18 --> 00:40:18

Like

00:40:19 --> 00:40:19

fornication,

00:40:21 --> 00:40:22

like killing someone,

00:40:23 --> 00:40:24

like drinking alcohol.

00:40:25 --> 00:40:28

There are known punishment in Islam, known penalties.

00:40:29 --> 00:40:31

So there are major sins.

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Is this clear to you?

00:40:35 --> 00:40:35

Also,

00:40:37 --> 00:40:38

this is

00:40:39 --> 00:40:40

one

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sign

00:40:42 --> 00:40:45

by which you can differentiate between major and

00:40:45 --> 00:40:45

minor.

00:40:45 --> 00:40:49

Another thing the Quran or the hadith negates

00:40:49 --> 00:40:50

the iman.

00:40:51 --> 00:40:52

Negates iman.

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For instance, the prophet

00:40:54 --> 00:40:55

says,

00:41:04 --> 00:41:05

He's not a mu'min

00:41:05 --> 00:41:06

believer.

00:41:06 --> 00:41:08

He's not a believer. He's not a believer

00:41:08 --> 00:41:09

the one

00:41:10 --> 00:41:11

who hurts

00:41:11 --> 00:41:12

or annoys

00:41:12 --> 00:41:14

or disturbs his neighbor.

00:41:16 --> 00:41:18

Or the one whose neighbor is not safe

00:41:18 --> 00:41:19

from his injury,

00:41:20 --> 00:41:21

or his evil.

00:41:22 --> 00:41:23

So now,

00:41:23 --> 00:41:25

disturbing one's neighbor,

00:41:25 --> 00:41:27

whether he's a Christian, or Muslim, or Hindu,

00:41:27 --> 00:41:28

whatever,

00:41:28 --> 00:41:29

is a major sin.

00:41:30 --> 00:41:32

Disturbing the neighbor is a major sin in

00:41:32 --> 00:41:33

Islam.

00:41:35 --> 00:41:36

Because the neighbor

00:41:37 --> 00:41:39

has many rights on you,

00:41:40 --> 00:41:42

even if he's not a Muslim.

00:41:43 --> 00:41:45

Not only this in Islam. See Islam.

00:41:46 --> 00:41:47

Islam tells the Muslims

00:41:49 --> 00:41:50

that when you

00:41:50 --> 00:41:53

buy gifts for your children, you buy gifts

00:41:53 --> 00:41:54

for the children of your neighbor. You know

00:41:54 --> 00:41:55

this?

00:41:56 --> 00:41:57

This what the

00:41:57 --> 00:42:00

Prophet said, If you buy gifts for your

00:42:00 --> 00:42:02

children, you buy gifts for the children of

00:42:02 --> 00:42:03

your neighbor.

00:42:05 --> 00:42:07

Even if he's not a Muslim.

00:42:08 --> 00:42:09

And if you cannot

00:42:09 --> 00:42:12

afford that, that, you should not let your

00:42:12 --> 00:42:14

children come out and play with their toys

00:42:14 --> 00:42:15

outside.

00:42:17 --> 00:42:19

You tell your children you play with the

00:42:19 --> 00:42:20

toys inside.

00:42:21 --> 00:42:23

Because if the children take their toys outside,

00:42:24 --> 00:42:26

the children of your neighbor will start to

00:42:26 --> 00:42:27

cry,

00:42:29 --> 00:42:31

will start to cry. And then they come

00:42:31 --> 00:42:33

to their dad, and they want him to

00:42:33 --> 00:42:35

buy gifts for them. And he cannot do

00:42:35 --> 00:42:37

that. So you are also

00:42:38 --> 00:42:41

bothering, and annoying, and disturbing your neighbor.

00:42:41 --> 00:42:44

Also among these signs, how to know that

00:42:44 --> 00:42:45

this sin is a major sin.

00:42:47 --> 00:42:49

The second sign if they the prophet

00:42:49 --> 00:42:52

is denying the imam. Say he's not a

00:42:52 --> 00:42:53

mumin, he's not a believer.

00:42:54 --> 00:42:55

Or if there is a curse,

00:42:56 --> 00:42:57

You know the word

00:42:58 --> 00:42:59

If Allah

00:43:00 --> 00:43:01

is cursing someone,

00:43:01 --> 00:43:03

that is also a murder sin.

00:43:05 --> 00:43:06

For instance,

00:43:06 --> 00:43:07

the prophet

00:43:07 --> 00:43:08

is saying,

00:43:12 --> 00:43:14

Allah's curse upon those who

00:43:15 --> 00:43:17

block their eyebrows. You know, the woman, they

00:43:17 --> 00:43:18

block their eyebrows.

00:43:20 --> 00:43:21

So blocking the the eyebrows

00:43:22 --> 00:43:23

is a major sin

00:43:24 --> 00:43:26

because the one who does that

00:43:26 --> 00:43:28

you know, blocking the eyebrows, women they know

00:43:28 --> 00:43:29

that.

00:43:29 --> 00:43:32

Okay. It's a major sin because Allah cursed

00:43:32 --> 00:43:34

her, the one who does that.

00:43:35 --> 00:43:36

Also, if prophet

00:43:37 --> 00:43:37

says

00:43:38 --> 00:43:40

that the one who does this thing, he's

00:43:40 --> 00:43:41

not from us.

00:43:43 --> 00:43:44

Like he said,

00:43:47 --> 00:43:49

He who cheats us is not from us.

00:43:50 --> 00:43:51

So cheating is what?

00:43:54 --> 00:43:55

Major? Major sin.

00:43:56 --> 00:43:57

It's a major sin.

00:43:58 --> 00:44:00

So now we have major sin and we

00:44:00 --> 00:44:01

have minor

00:44:02 --> 00:44:03

sins. The major sins

00:44:04 --> 00:44:06

Allah will not forgive them.

00:44:08 --> 00:44:10

Unless you make a sincere tawba.

00:44:12 --> 00:44:12

Sincere

00:44:13 --> 00:44:14

tawba.

00:44:16 --> 00:44:18

And you say, oh Allah, I am quitting.

00:44:18 --> 00:44:19

I'm leaving it.

00:44:21 --> 00:44:23

I will give up this. I will not

00:44:23 --> 00:44:24

do it again.

00:44:25 --> 00:44:28

Then Allah will forgive you that major sin.

00:44:28 --> 00:44:30

But the minor sin,

00:44:31 --> 00:44:32

they will be forgiven

00:44:33 --> 00:44:34

by default.

00:44:35 --> 00:44:37

Like now we are going to pray,

00:44:37 --> 00:44:38

inshallah.

00:44:38 --> 00:44:41

So the the prayer washes the minor sins.

00:44:42 --> 00:44:43

The salah

00:44:43 --> 00:44:46

washes away the minor sins.

00:44:46 --> 00:44:47

Because we know

00:44:48 --> 00:44:49

when we came here

00:44:50 --> 00:44:52

by mistake, we saw something here, something that,

00:44:52 --> 00:44:55

you know, in the newspaper, you see something.

00:44:57 --> 00:45:00

So these minor sins will be washed away

00:45:00 --> 00:45:00

by the salah.

00:45:01 --> 00:45:03

And the wudu, you know the wudu, the

00:45:03 --> 00:45:04

wudu itself.

00:45:04 --> 00:45:06

When you take the wudu, the problem that

00:45:06 --> 00:45:08

many of us when we take the wudu,

00:45:08 --> 00:45:10

there is no niyya, there is no intention.

00:45:12 --> 00:45:13

We just carry

00:45:14 --> 00:45:16

the making wudu just like that by default,

00:45:17 --> 00:45:18

like a like a robot.

00:45:20 --> 00:45:22

But when we take wudu, you should have

00:45:22 --> 00:45:24

in mind, prepare yourself

00:45:24 --> 00:45:26

that now I'm taking wudu to pray, to

00:45:26 --> 00:45:28

stand in front of Allah.

00:45:29 --> 00:45:30

When you wash your hands,

00:45:32 --> 00:45:34

your sins fall apart.

00:45:34 --> 00:45:36

When you wash your face, all the sins

00:45:36 --> 00:45:39

that you you saw during your day

00:45:40 --> 00:45:41

comes out.

00:45:41 --> 00:45:43

When you wash your right hand, the sins

00:45:43 --> 00:45:44

they fall apart.

00:45:45 --> 00:45:48

The left hand with the water they come

00:45:48 --> 00:45:50

out. The sins they come out.

00:45:50 --> 00:45:52

By the time you finish the wudu, all

00:45:52 --> 00:45:54

your sins are washed away.

00:45:54 --> 00:45:56

Yes, by the wudu. This is rahmah from

00:45:56 --> 00:45:57

Allah.

00:45:59 --> 00:46:00

This is the mercy from Allah subhanahu wa

00:46:00 --> 00:46:01

ta'ala.

00:46:02 --> 00:46:02

So that is

00:46:03 --> 00:46:06

So minor sins, they will be forgiven

00:46:06 --> 00:46:08

by the salah, by the istighfar,

00:46:09 --> 00:46:09

etcetera.

00:46:10 --> 00:46:12

And like the Ashura,

00:46:12 --> 00:46:13

fasting Ashura,

00:46:14 --> 00:46:16

fasting the day of Arafah. These they forgive

00:46:16 --> 00:46:17

and expiate

00:46:17 --> 00:46:19

minor sins, not major sins.

00:46:21 --> 00:46:23

Major sins you have to make sincere tawba.

00:46:24 --> 00:46:25

Now,

00:46:25 --> 00:46:26

what are

00:46:27 --> 00:46:28

the fruits

00:46:29 --> 00:46:30

of committing sins?

00:46:31 --> 00:46:32

If a person is committing sin,

00:46:33 --> 00:46:34

what does he gain?

00:46:34 --> 00:46:36

He gains the following.

00:46:38 --> 00:46:38

He gains

00:46:39 --> 00:46:39

deprivation

00:46:40 --> 00:46:40

of provision.

00:46:42 --> 00:46:42

Allah

00:46:43 --> 00:46:44

doesn't give him risk

00:46:44 --> 00:46:47

or his risk is reduced because of his

00:46:47 --> 00:46:48

sin.

00:46:49 --> 00:46:50

Because of his sin,

00:46:52 --> 00:46:54

the barakah goes. Barakah.

00:46:55 --> 00:46:57

Have you do you know the word barakah?

00:46:57 --> 00:46:59

Blessing? Barakah is not there.

00:47:00 --> 00:47:01

People in the past,

00:47:02 --> 00:47:04

they were good people. There was barakah,

00:47:04 --> 00:47:05

a small

00:47:07 --> 00:47:08

one acre of land

00:47:09 --> 00:47:09

gives

00:47:10 --> 00:47:11

many folds

00:47:11 --> 00:47:14

of many acres of today. Old people, they

00:47:14 --> 00:47:15

know this.

00:47:16 --> 00:47:18

The barakah now has been removed.

00:47:20 --> 00:47:22

The barakah has been gone.

00:47:23 --> 00:47:26

So Allah removes the barakah from your life.

00:47:28 --> 00:47:29

Barakah from your time.

00:47:29 --> 00:47:31

Barakah from your children.

00:47:33 --> 00:47:35

Your children are giving you tough time.

00:47:36 --> 00:47:38

You have a lot of money. You bring

00:47:38 --> 00:47:39

private tutors for everyone.

00:47:40 --> 00:47:42

Yet at the end of the year, fail,

00:47:42 --> 00:47:43

fail, fail, fail.

00:47:44 --> 00:47:46

They have private tutors,

00:47:48 --> 00:47:49

but they are failing.

00:47:50 --> 00:47:51

And the poor

00:47:52 --> 00:47:54

fellow living in a hut,

00:47:55 --> 00:47:58

his child is distinction distinction.

00:47:59 --> 00:48:01

A plus A plus. Right?

00:48:03 --> 00:48:04

So Allah

00:48:05 --> 00:48:06

removes the barakah.

00:48:07 --> 00:48:09

So that is number 1.

00:48:10 --> 00:48:12

And this is exactly what the prophet

00:48:12 --> 00:48:13

said.

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Verily a slave will be deprived of this

00:48:21 --> 00:48:23

provision because of his sins.

00:48:24 --> 00:48:26

Second thing that you will feel, if you

00:48:26 --> 00:48:28

are committing haram, if you are doing the

00:48:28 --> 00:48:29

sins,

00:48:29 --> 00:48:31

you feel your chest is getting narrow.

00:48:33 --> 00:48:33

You feel

00:48:34 --> 00:48:34

depression.

00:48:35 --> 00:48:35

Depression.

00:48:37 --> 00:48:39

You don't know what to do. You are

00:48:39 --> 00:48:39

depressed.

00:48:42 --> 00:48:44

And you want to feel happy. You can't.

00:48:46 --> 00:48:47

This depression

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because of your sins.

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Because that is what Allah said.

00:48:58 --> 00:49:00

He who turns away from my path, from

00:49:00 --> 00:49:02

my way, is going to have a miserable

00:49:02 --> 00:49:03

life.

00:49:04 --> 00:49:05

Miserable life.

00:49:07 --> 00:49:07

Also,

00:49:08 --> 00:49:09

among the

00:49:11 --> 00:49:12

evil

00:49:13 --> 00:49:15

outcomes of committing sins

00:49:16 --> 00:49:16

that

00:49:17 --> 00:49:18

you feel

00:49:19 --> 00:49:22

wherever you go, No tawfir, you know, the

00:49:22 --> 00:49:22

word tawfir?

00:49:24 --> 00:49:25

No help,

00:49:25 --> 00:49:27

no assistance from Allah.

00:49:28 --> 00:49:30

Anywhere you go, you apply for this job.

00:49:30 --> 00:49:30

Sorry.

00:49:31 --> 00:49:32

This job. Sorry.

00:49:33 --> 00:49:35

And then you start to ask why? Ask

00:49:35 --> 00:49:36

yourself.

00:49:36 --> 00:49:37

Ask yourself.

00:49:39 --> 00:49:42

Are you obeying him or disobeying him?

00:49:42 --> 00:49:45

You are disobeying him and you want him

00:49:45 --> 00:49:46

to help you,

00:49:46 --> 00:49:48

to facilitate, and to make things

00:49:49 --> 00:49:51

easy for you. No. He gives you tough

00:49:51 --> 00:49:52

time

00:49:52 --> 00:49:53

to wake up,

00:49:54 --> 00:49:57

in order that you might turn to Him.

00:49:58 --> 00:49:59

Turn to Allah.

00:50:01 --> 00:50:03

Turn to Allah. Everything,

00:50:03 --> 00:50:07

brothers and sisters, is in Allah's hand. Everything.

00:50:08 --> 00:50:09

Everything.

00:50:09 --> 00:50:10

There is a sheikh in Medina,

00:50:12 --> 00:50:13

Sheikh Shankiti.

00:50:14 --> 00:50:15

A young man came to him and said,

00:50:15 --> 00:50:16

Sheikh,

00:50:17 --> 00:50:18

do you know anyone?

00:50:19 --> 00:50:20

I'm looking for a job.

00:50:21 --> 00:50:24

He said, yes, I know one. He said,

00:50:24 --> 00:50:25

who's that?

00:50:25 --> 00:50:27

You know, he was expecting him to tell

00:50:27 --> 00:50:30

him, I know friends so and so, Amir

00:50:30 --> 00:50:31

so and so.

00:50:31 --> 00:50:33

The Sheikh said, I know Allah.

00:50:36 --> 00:50:37

Allah, everyone knows.

00:50:38 --> 00:50:39

He told him, listen.

00:50:40 --> 00:50:41

Ask Allah.

00:50:42 --> 00:50:43

Have you asked him

00:50:43 --> 00:50:44

sincerely

00:50:44 --> 00:50:47

from the bottom of your heart? Have you

00:50:47 --> 00:50:47

cried?

00:50:49 --> 00:50:52

How many times many people, many Muslims, I'm

00:50:52 --> 00:50:53

talking about Muslims.

00:50:53 --> 00:50:56

Many Muslims, they have problems for instance.

00:50:56 --> 00:50:58

He doesn't know how to solve it. Right?

00:50:59 --> 00:51:00

So the whole night he's awake

00:51:01 --> 00:51:01

smoking.

00:51:05 --> 00:51:06

The ashtray is full

00:51:07 --> 00:51:07

walking.

00:51:08 --> 00:51:09

He did his eyes are

00:51:10 --> 00:51:10

red.

00:51:11 --> 00:51:12

He can't sleep.

00:51:15 --> 00:51:17

It is akhir very easy.

00:51:19 --> 00:51:20

Go take wudu.

00:51:22 --> 00:51:23

Pray to him,

00:51:24 --> 00:51:25

cry to him,

00:51:26 --> 00:51:28

and he will help you. The segregate will

00:51:28 --> 00:51:29

not solve your problem.

00:51:33 --> 00:51:35

Call to him call him.

00:51:36 --> 00:51:37

Turn to him, to Allah.

00:51:41 --> 00:51:42

So this man,

00:51:42 --> 00:51:44

he stood up at night and he prayed.

00:51:45 --> 00:51:46

The next day he went

00:51:47 --> 00:51:49

and he was driving his car.

00:51:50 --> 00:51:51

He said, I had feeling

00:51:52 --> 00:51:54

that I have to apply in this department

00:51:54 --> 00:51:57

for for vacant job. He went to his

00:51:57 --> 00:51:59

side. He said, do you have any job?

00:51:59 --> 00:52:00

He said, we have 2 vacancies.

00:52:01 --> 00:52:02

We have 2 vacant jobs,

00:52:03 --> 00:52:05

and we are looking for someone like you.

00:52:06 --> 00:52:08

He went back to the sheikh. He said,

00:52:08 --> 00:52:09

I got it.

00:52:10 --> 00:52:10

I told

00:52:11 --> 00:52:12

you, ask him.

00:52:13 --> 00:52:15

Anything you want, ask Allah

00:52:17 --> 00:52:20

Also brothers and sisters, the sins, the dunub,

00:52:21 --> 00:52:22

they weaken the heart.

00:52:22 --> 00:52:24

They make the heart

00:52:27 --> 00:52:29

weak. If you are a sinner, soon you

00:52:29 --> 00:52:31

will break down. Anything happens to you, you

00:52:31 --> 00:52:32

break down.

00:52:34 --> 00:52:36

Even sometimes people, they commit suicide.

00:52:36 --> 00:52:38

Why they commit suicide?

00:52:38 --> 00:52:40

Because the problem is too big for them,

00:52:40 --> 00:52:43

too much. They cannot handle it

00:52:44 --> 00:52:45

because their hearts are weak.

00:52:47 --> 00:52:48

But the mum says, Alhamdulillah.

00:52:50 --> 00:52:51

Alhamdulillah.

00:52:51 --> 00:52:53

Don't you know, brothers and sisters,

00:52:53 --> 00:52:55

that one of the sahabiyat,

00:52:55 --> 00:52:57

this is for the sisters. We want sisters

00:52:57 --> 00:52:58

like this

00:52:59 --> 00:52:59

sahabiyyah,

00:52:59 --> 00:53:00

al kansa.

00:53:01 --> 00:53:02

Al kansa,

00:53:02 --> 00:53:04

4 children, 4 of her children

00:53:05 --> 00:53:08

died in the battle of, Padishiyyah.

00:53:10 --> 00:53:12

And when the news reach her, she said,

00:53:12 --> 00:53:13

Alhamdulillah.

00:53:14 --> 00:53:16

Actually, she told them before they left for

00:53:16 --> 00:53:17

the battlefield,

00:53:19 --> 00:53:19

My sons,

00:53:20 --> 00:53:21

goodbye.

00:53:22 --> 00:53:24

We will not meet except in the Jannah.

00:53:25 --> 00:53:27

Only in the Jannah we meet.

00:53:27 --> 00:53:29

And when the news reach her, she said,

00:53:29 --> 00:53:30

Alhamdulillah,

00:53:30 --> 00:53:32

this is an honor for me.

00:53:32 --> 00:53:33

The iman.

00:53:34 --> 00:53:35

The iman

00:53:36 --> 00:53:38

makes the heart very strong.

00:53:39 --> 00:53:41

There is a brother from Pakistan,

00:53:41 --> 00:53:44

and this happened in Saudi Arabia, accident.

00:53:44 --> 00:53:47

He was his family all his family, they

00:53:47 --> 00:53:48

were in front of him in one car,

00:53:48 --> 00:53:51

and he was driving behind them in another

00:53:51 --> 00:53:51

car.

00:53:52 --> 00:53:53

And the car

00:53:53 --> 00:53:54

that,

00:53:54 --> 00:53:55

you

00:53:55 --> 00:53:57

know, carries Hajj, his his family

00:53:57 --> 00:53:58

went under

00:53:59 --> 00:53:59

loading

00:54:01 --> 00:54:02

and crushed.

00:54:03 --> 00:54:06

And all of them died on the spot.

00:54:06 --> 00:54:07

All of them.

00:54:08 --> 00:54:10

The whole family in one go like that.

00:54:11 --> 00:54:13

Like, yes, what happened to in the now

00:54:13 --> 00:54:14

with tsunami.

00:54:15 --> 00:54:16

All the family just

00:54:17 --> 00:54:19

like that. You will not believe what he

00:54:19 --> 00:54:21

did. He pulled over

00:54:22 --> 00:54:24

to the side way, and he made suyood.

00:54:27 --> 00:54:29

He made suyood to Allah.

00:54:30 --> 00:54:32

This is the test for me, so help

00:54:32 --> 00:54:33

me, oh Allah.

00:54:35 --> 00:54:36

So the imam

00:54:37 --> 00:54:40

gives a lot of strength to the heart.

00:54:41 --> 00:54:42

Take another Sahabiya.

00:54:43 --> 00:54:45

This is to boost the morale of the

00:54:45 --> 00:54:45

sisters.

00:54:47 --> 00:54:48

This is Ummusulayl.

00:54:49 --> 00:54:50

Her son

00:54:50 --> 00:54:53

was sick, and her husband went to pray

00:54:53 --> 00:54:53

Isha.

00:54:54 --> 00:54:55

And when he came back

00:54:56 --> 00:54:58

during his absence that the child died,

00:54:59 --> 00:55:01

her husband came back, she didn't tell him.

00:55:02 --> 00:55:04

He said, how's the child? He said, very

00:55:04 --> 00:55:06

calm, very calm.

00:55:07 --> 00:55:09

He's dead. She covered the child.

00:55:09 --> 00:55:12

Then she gave food to her husband.

00:55:12 --> 00:55:13

She served the dinner,

00:55:14 --> 00:55:15

and he had his dinner.

00:55:16 --> 00:55:19

And then he slept with his wife.

00:55:19 --> 00:55:20

He slept with her.

00:55:21 --> 00:55:24

After that, she told him, oh, father of

00:55:24 --> 00:55:24

so and so,

00:55:25 --> 00:55:26

what do you

00:55:26 --> 00:55:29

think if our neighbors give us a yachtsenil,

00:55:29 --> 00:55:30

a blade, a dish?

00:55:30 --> 00:55:32

Then they said, give us back our yachtsenil.

00:55:32 --> 00:55:34

What should we do?

00:55:34 --> 00:55:36

He said, we have to give them their

00:55:36 --> 00:55:37

yachtsenil.

00:55:37 --> 00:55:39

He said, the one who gave us the

00:55:39 --> 00:55:40

child took it.

00:55:41 --> 00:55:43

The one who gave us the child took

00:55:43 --> 00:55:45

it. Allah gave it to us and he

00:55:45 --> 00:55:45

took it.

00:55:48 --> 00:55:48

He said,

00:55:50 --> 00:55:51

Why didn't you tell me?

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

You waited until I had my dinner and

00:55:54 --> 00:55:55

I slept with you.

00:55:56 --> 00:55:57

She kept quiet.

00:55:57 --> 00:55:59

In the fajr prayer,

00:56:00 --> 00:56:01

he told the prophet

00:56:01 --> 00:56:03

what happened. And the prophet

00:56:03 --> 00:56:04

asked him,

00:56:05 --> 00:56:07

Did you sleep with one another? He said,

00:56:07 --> 00:56:09

Yes. The prophet raised

00:56:09 --> 00:56:11

his hands and he said,

00:56:15 --> 00:56:18

Allah O Allah, made the night a blessed

00:56:18 --> 00:56:20

night. And she conceived from that

00:56:21 --> 00:56:21

night.

00:56:22 --> 00:56:23

Allah

00:56:23 --> 00:56:25

took one child and give them another child.

00:56:27 --> 00:56:30

This is the iman. The iman strengthens the

00:56:30 --> 00:56:30

heart.

00:56:32 --> 00:56:33

But the sin

00:56:33 --> 00:56:35

makes the heart very weak.

00:56:36 --> 00:56:38

Very weak. The sin also,

00:56:38 --> 00:56:40

the them, the sins,

00:56:40 --> 00:56:43

they make the person lack interest. He doesn't

00:56:43 --> 00:56:46

have any interest in doing Ibadah.

00:56:46 --> 00:56:48

Even when he comes to the salah,

00:56:48 --> 00:56:50

he's dragging his feet, you

00:56:51 --> 00:56:52

know. Lazy.

00:56:53 --> 00:56:53

And he said,

00:56:56 --> 00:56:57

This is how he sleeps.

00:56:57 --> 00:56:58

No interest.

00:56:59 --> 00:57:01

You ask him, What did the imam read

00:57:01 --> 00:57:03

in the salah? Akhi, I don't know. I

00:57:03 --> 00:57:04

don't remember.

00:57:04 --> 00:57:06

So that's how he comes to the salah.

00:57:06 --> 00:57:09

Why? Because of his sins. Because of the

00:57:09 --> 00:57:09

dhunub.

00:57:10 --> 00:57:11

The salah, the salah.

00:57:12 --> 00:57:14

You stand in front of Allah

00:57:15 --> 00:57:17

You communicate with Allah.

00:57:17 --> 00:57:18

The prophet

00:57:19 --> 00:57:19

is saying that,

00:57:21 --> 00:57:23

Consider this is your Allah salah.

00:57:24 --> 00:57:26

That is because of your zanub. Also,

00:57:26 --> 00:57:28

the sin brothers and sisters,

00:57:29 --> 00:57:31

the sin breeds another sin.

00:57:31 --> 00:57:33

You start smoking only.

00:57:33 --> 00:57:35

I'm talking to the younger sisters. You start

00:57:35 --> 00:57:37

just by trying a cigarette.

00:57:37 --> 00:57:39

Do you think it will stop there? Never.

00:57:40 --> 00:57:42

It will take you to the marijuana,

00:57:43 --> 00:57:44

to the opium,

00:57:44 --> 00:57:46

to all types of drugs.

00:57:47 --> 00:57:49

But you started just by the cigarette.

00:57:51 --> 00:57:53

So the sin haram takes you to another

00:57:54 --> 00:57:54

haram.

00:57:55 --> 00:57:57

You try this, then you move to another

00:57:58 --> 00:57:59

sin.

00:57:59 --> 00:58:02

So a sin leads to another sin.

00:58:02 --> 00:58:06

And the shaitan will never leave you.

00:58:06 --> 00:58:07

He will leave you only

00:58:08 --> 00:58:09

in one case.

00:58:11 --> 00:58:12

If you become

00:58:13 --> 00:58:13

a disbeliever.

00:58:14 --> 00:58:15

If you leave Islam.

00:58:16 --> 00:58:18

If you leave Islam, the shaitan will leave

00:58:18 --> 00:58:20

you. Otherwise, the shaitan

00:58:21 --> 00:58:23

will be with you

00:58:23 --> 00:58:25

till the last minute of your life.

00:58:26 --> 00:58:28

The shaitan is there waiting for you

00:58:29 --> 00:58:31

from day 1 when you came into this

00:58:31 --> 00:58:31

dunya.

00:58:32 --> 00:58:34

And he will not leave you

00:58:34 --> 00:58:37

till you die. Even when you are dying,

00:58:37 --> 00:58:38

he's there

00:58:38 --> 00:58:40

trying to tell you

00:58:41 --> 00:58:43

to say something to displease Allah Subhanahu Wa

00:58:43 --> 00:58:45

Ta'ala. Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal

00:58:47 --> 00:58:48

When he was dying,

00:58:49 --> 00:58:50

when he was dying,

00:58:50 --> 00:58:52

his son was telling him, Oh father,

00:58:53 --> 00:58:53

say.

00:58:55 --> 00:58:57

Imam Ahmad was saying, Not yet. Not yet.

00:58:58 --> 00:59:01

So the son got scared. He said, My

00:59:01 --> 00:59:02

father, what is it?

00:59:03 --> 00:59:04

I'm telling you, say.

00:59:05 --> 00:59:07

Imam Ahmad, Imam of Ahl Sunnah.

00:59:07 --> 00:59:09

And you are telling me I will not

00:59:09 --> 00:59:09

say it?

00:59:10 --> 00:59:12

He said, my son, the shaitan is at

00:59:12 --> 00:59:15

my head. I can see the shaitan biting

00:59:15 --> 00:59:16

his finger,

00:59:16 --> 00:59:18

saying, O Ahmad, you escaped from me.

00:59:19 --> 00:59:21

You escaped my grip.

00:59:21 --> 00:59:23

And I'm telling him, Not yet.

00:59:23 --> 00:59:25

I cannot be sure that I am

00:59:25 --> 00:59:27

safe until I die.

00:59:28 --> 00:59:30

So the shaitan throughout your life will be

00:59:30 --> 00:59:31

with you.

00:59:32 --> 00:59:34

So if you want the protection,

00:59:34 --> 00:59:36

be in the company of Allah.

00:59:37 --> 00:59:40

Allah will protect you. And may Allah protect

00:59:40 --> 00:59:42

you. May Allah protect your children.

00:59:43 --> 00:59:46

May Allah protect Muslim. And may Allah guide

00:59:46 --> 00:59:47

every human being to the state path.

00:59:48 --> 00:59:49

Ameen. Ameen.

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