Sajid Ahmed Umar – Hajj, Du’a and the Family #05

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The host and representatives of a hedge series discuss the success of the hedge's success in shaping family units and achieving perfection for all individuals. They emphasize the importance of shaping individual success through parenting and raising children as a source of perfection. The success of individuals in achieving their goals is also highlighted, including the importance of raising children and women as a solution for humanity.

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			Love, love.
		
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			Love, love, love, love.
		
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			Love al Rahman al Rahim al hamdu Lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah who are either early or
sahbihi woman who Allah will begin in the name of Allah subhanho wa Taala, praising him always and
we request praises and blessings upon Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam to our brothers and
sisters in Islam, Salaam Alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. I greet you with the greetings of Islam
and peace in the greetings of the people of Paradise and welcome you all to episode number five of
our short little hedger series together titled hedge and the family, common foundations brought to
you courtesy of the Islamic Council of Europe. For today's episode, brothers and sisters in Islam, I
		
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			want to expand on a small point, nonetheless important point that we discussed in our last session
that session was an episode was dedicated towards the importance of the family unit, having a
selfless project for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And we took that idea from how Ibrahim
alayhis salam is married early Salaam, Boubacar together. And then I highlighted what Allah told us
in the Quran that as they went through this project, they went down to Allah collectively and said,
Our Lord, except from us our deeds, except from us. This action and
		
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			this is going to be the focus of today's episode. No doubt it has to be due to our brothers and
sisters in Islam. Why? Because brothers and sisters in Islam, the hedge is all about die, because
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said I'll head you out of it. If I can eloquently translate
the statement he is saying there's nothing about hedge except arafa sallallahu alayhi wasallam and
there's nothing about arafa except do right do is the main aspect of alpha, where you have this woof
you you you you from midday till sunset you.
		
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			You know you bring yourself together with all your mind and all your ability and you beg from Allah
subhanho wa Taala His forgiveness and you seek from him his bounty subhanho wa Taala upon yourself
and your loved ones and the Ummah at large. And Allah subhanho wa Taala is proud of his slaves on
the day that despite the tightness and difficulty they are, you know, exerting this effort asking
from Allah subhanho wa Taala seeking from Allah subhanho wa Taala there are as the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us is the essence of all of worship, and it is the weapon of a
believer and as the pious before us is to say brothers and sisters in Islam, if you want Allah to
		
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			speak to you read the Quran, and if you want to speak to Allah make dua Subhana Allah now along with
this, you know, there has to be pivotal because really brothers and sisters in Islam, all success,
all transformation, right? Everything amazing. That journey begins with with Allah subhanho wa Taala
whatever you want to achieve that journey begins with Allah subhanho wa Taala. And today we have the
self help industry with billions and self help gurus popping up a dime a dozen, Allah, right. And
they talk about success, and they talk about progress. And they talk about transformation. And they
talk about being the best that you can be but do they ask you to ask him Allah subhanho wa Taala? Or
		
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			he will jenelle or wahaca Ha? How can you be successful if your journey doesn't start with the
source of perfection for allies As salam, O Allah is a Salam. He is the perfect one. And from who
all perfection stems from subhanho wa Taala. Right. And that's what Allah says in the Quran, in
terms of those who want to be purified and they want to progress and be transformed and have greater
Eman and so on and so forth. Allah says buddy lead who use a key measure in another verse, while
lacking the law use a key measure. But what I cannot use a key measure but it is Allah who purifies
when he will, that's the source of purification. Nay It is Allah who purifies whom he was in another
		
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			verse because Allah is the source of purification. So to refrigerate Allah subhanho wa Taala says
while I can Allah have Baba la cama amen was the Yana who fiocco become but it is Allah who made
Eman beloved to you and beautified it to you and in your heart worker raha la kumoko for our Su Su
COVID ASEAN and it is Allah who made sending an immorality and disobedience hated to you and hated
in your heart. It's from Allah subhanho wa Taala so brothers and sisters in Islam who want to have
an amazing family unit, we have to be making to it Allah subhanho wa Taala starting with the
parents, and they be role models for the children and the children grow up seeing their parents
		
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			turning to Allah begging from Allah so the children recognize from an early age Subhan Allah La
hawla wala quwata illa Billah there's no power no matter except from Allah. If we want success, we
have to do what we saw our parents doing, turning to Allah subhanho wa Taala not forgetting as well.
Brothers and sisters in Islam Subhana Allah how powerful the death of a parent is for his or her
child and how powerful they are. Our husband is for his wife and a wife for her husband. SubhanAllah
right. So we all want to have togetherness we all want to have Unity we all want to have love. And
we want all these values to increase so that this family is not a family for life but a family for
		
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			others.
		
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			lifetime, a family that yearns to be together in general after they pass away, and a family that has
individuals that miss each other after each member passes away. It starts with to our brothers and
sisters in Islam and we see Subhan Allah do as of Ibrahim Alayhi Salaam, revealed by Allah subhanho
wa Taala to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam In fact, we have an entire surah in the Quran,
named after Ibrahim Alayhi Salam and Allah subhanho wa Taala. He mentions many of the daughters of
Ibrahim from them. Ibrahim Alayhi Salam saying, what is called Eva her or him or bijur la bella de m
ino genu Bernie Bernie Yan, boodle Allah
		
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			Subhana Allah, Ibrahim alayhi salam, Allah is when Ibrahim may do ah he turned to Allah and said oh
my lord Subhana Allah, oh my lord ajl hodel bellet make Mecca I am in a place of safety, a place of
serenity make it a sanctuary. And then he says what you know Binney were Benny and Naboo tell us now
he asked Allah subhanho wa Taala to protect him and his children from worshipping idols, Subhan
Allah Subhana Allah and then he also says, are a beggar Ali mopey, masala tea wamu Realty Subhan
Allah, He says, oh my lord, oh my lord La ilaha illa Allah make me from amongst those who pray and
my children from amongst those who observe the salah and are dedicated upon Salah La ilaha illa
		
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			Allah, these are just some of the doctrines of Ibrahim alayhi salam. So the point brothers and
sisters in Islam, we have to be making a lot of dua for for our well being and the well being of our
families. We turn to Allah subhanho wa Taala and we ask Allah we say Robin I have been an admin as
well as you now will react in a quarter it was a little bit cleaner mm as Allah reveals at the end
of circle forecast, right?
		
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			At the beginning of the 20th juice, right, so we will make this data loss of Hannah worth Allah did
Allah grant me from my from my spouse and my children, the coolness of my eyes, the coolness of my
eyes, when I look at them, panel, I feel peace, I feel serenity I feel happiness, right? Would you
lean with tacchini mama Subhana Allah and make us to the believers, leaders. And honestly, if you
contemplate over this, how Allah subhanho wa Taala makes the first part of the dua dedicated towards
having a strong family unit. And then the second part of the duo are dedicated towards being a
leader to the believers. This teaches his brothers and sisters in Islam. If you want to be
		
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			beneficial to the leaders, it starts as very beneficial to the oma leaders to the oma. It starts by
raising a home upon the mandates of Kala Kala Rasul upon the mandates of what Allah has revealed and
what is Rahul has taught salallahu alayhi wa sallam raising a home that has family members, beloved
to Allah subhanho wa Taala family members that will be a solution for humanity, raising children who
will be amazing husbands tomorrow, amazing wives tomorrow, amazing parents tomorrow, amazing members
of society tomorrow, tomorrow, not a burden upon the dilemma of tomorrow, don't raise a son that
will abuse his wife or a daughter that will abuse her role as a mother and a wife Subhanallah and
		
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			then they will in turn raise children who will be even worse than they were when a How would our
quwata illa Don't be that brothers and sisters in Islam, right be a solution for humanity by raising
children that will also be the coolness of the Imams and Misha eyes in that generation that when
these Imams and Messiah and leaders look to your children when they are older, they will say Subhan
Allah we wish we had millions of them because they are a means they are a solution for for humanity.
And let's not forget that getting to that stage begins with that too. And that's where Allah
subhanho wa Taala in the verse in Surah Furqan when he highlights to us the importance of the family
		
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			unit in terms of us being leaders to humanity. He starts off that whole process by teaching us of
the DA Habana Habana mean as well. Jeanette was already yet in a kurata Allah bless us with wives
and children with spouses and children who will be the coolness of our eyes I leave you with these
words. And until next time, cinema alikum Love, love
		
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			Allah, Allah Allah