Saif Morad – The key to change

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The importance of consistent action for achieving change is crucial, as it is a specific decision made by the creator. The speaker gives action steps such as praying five times a day, listening to the Quran, committing to a decision, and asking Allah Subhanahu wa wa wa sallam for help. The importance of action is emphasized, and action steps such as asking oneself the question and starting to move towards Allah Subhanahu wa wa sallam are provided. The speaker emphasizes the importance of action and becoming more self aware to make better decisions and improve results.

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			My dear brothers and sisters.
		
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			I'm safe and may Allah
		
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			bless each and every one of us with
		
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			success in this dunya
		
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			and the next.
		
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			In today's episode, we're gonna be talking about
		
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			a man who used to be a thief,
		
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			a highway robber,
		
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			and then he changed and became known as
		
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			the
		
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			Many times we try to change.
		
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			We wanna improve and get better.
		
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			We attend conferences, we get inspired,
		
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			we watch motivational videos, we want to take
		
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			action, and we actually do take action.
		
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			But then we find ourselves back in the
		
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			same situation.
		
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			That change
		
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			was short lived.
		
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			So what is the key ingredient
		
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			to maintaining change? Let's take a look at
		
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			the story of Fudal ibn Iyad and see
		
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			what he did
		
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			not only to change but to maintain that
		
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			change.
		
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			Fudal ibn Iyad, he was living a life
		
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			of sin, committing many sins,
		
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			disobeying
		
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			Allah and he says the reason for his
		
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			change was
		
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			because he was in love with a girl.
		
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			So one day he went to see her,
		
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			and while he was climbing up her wall,
		
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			he heard somebody reciting the
		
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			ayah. That is it not time for those
		
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			who believe
		
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			for their hearts to submit to the remembrance
		
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			of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala?
		
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			When he heard this ayah,
		
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			he said that yes.
		
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			Yes, Allah. It is time for me
		
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			to turn back to you.
		
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			And he left and he went
		
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			to an abandoned area and he spent the
		
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			night there. While he was there, he noticed
		
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			a group of people that were hanging out
		
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			there, they were camping out there,
		
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			and he was overhearing their conversation.
		
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			One of them said that, you know, let's
		
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			go. It's nighttime. Let's go. Let's get out
		
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			of here. Another person told him that don't
		
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			you know this is the area of Fudayl?
		
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			This is his area. He's lying somewhere there
		
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			waiting for us to come out so that
		
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			he can rob us.
		
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			And Fudayl ibn Yaayal said that I spend
		
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			my nights in the disobedience of Allah Subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala and
		
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			these people are hiding from me.
		
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			I don't think that Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			brought me here except for me to learn
		
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			a lesson,
		
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			And I make tawba, I turn back to
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, I repent from my
		
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			sins,
		
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			and I make my tawba
		
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			beside
		
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			the holy mosque.
		
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			I make my tawba and I dedicate my
		
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			life to worship Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala in
		
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			Makkah.
		
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			So what was the key thing that he
		
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			did at this moment
		
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			that ensured that he was going to be
		
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			able to change?
		
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			It's actually quite simple if you think about
		
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			it.
		
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			He made a decision,
		
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			but not any decision.
		
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			It was a very specific decision.
		
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			He knew what he had to do,
		
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			and he
		
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			committed to that decision,
		
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			and he took action.
		
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			Many times when we get motivated, we start
		
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			doing, and we start doing randomly.
		
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			It's not specific. It's not focus. The decision
		
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			is not specific. We don't know exactly what
		
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			needs to be done
		
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			in order to change.
		
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			So we start doing everything and anything that
		
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			we can find,
		
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			but that's not the key. The key is
		
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			consistent
		
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			action,
		
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			and the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam told
		
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			us that the most beloved deeds to Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala are those
		
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			that are done consistently
		
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			even though they might be
		
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			small.
		
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			For any change to be lasting, it must
		
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			be consistent.
		
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			We need to do it over and over
		
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			and over until it becomes a part of
		
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			our routine.
		
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			And we need to take the first step.
		
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			We can't wait for some miracle to come
		
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			and happen and change us.
		
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			All of a sudden we wake up when
		
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			you're inspired and we wanna change. No. We
		
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			need to take the first step and Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala will help us along the
		
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			way.
		
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			He tells us in the
		
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			Quran,
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will not change the
		
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			state of people unless they change what is
		
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			within themselves. So we need to take
		
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			the first step. We need to make the
		
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			decision that I need to change and I
		
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			need to be the one responsible for that
		
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			change, and we start moving towards Allah Subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala and he will definitely help us.
		
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			So what can we do in order to
		
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			implement change?
		
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			And this is today's action step.
		
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			Number 1, we ask ourselves the question that
		
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			isn't it time for those who believe
		
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			to submit
		
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			to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, for their hearts
		
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			to submit to the remembrance of Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala
		
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			and answer this question.
		
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			And without a doubt all of us are
		
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			gonna say yes,
		
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			that it is time for me to change
		
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			and what can I do to change?
		
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			Number 2,
		
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			to decide on one thing we can do
		
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			that if we implemented it, it would improve
		
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			our lives drastically. It would improve our relationship
		
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			with Allah
		
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			It would get us closer to Allah ta'ala.
		
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			It has to be something specific.
		
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			Number 3, to commit to that decision and
		
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			start taking action right away.
		
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			For example, if I decide that I'm gonna
		
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			start praying 5 times a day, I commit
		
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			to that. I don't miss my salah, my
		
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			prayer no matter what. If I decide that
		
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			I'm gonna start reading the Quran, I commit
		
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			to reading, for example, 15 minutes a day
		
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			and I stick to that and I don't
		
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			give it up no matter this situation.
		
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			And number 4,
		
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			to ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala for his
		
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			help. Because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala loves to
		
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			be asked and he loves to give. And
		
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			if we ask him and we show that
		
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			we need Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, we humble
		
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			ourselves in front of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will always help us.
		
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			And what happens,
		
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			and this is inevitable,
		
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			that I start taking action, I start I
		
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			start
		
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			moving towards change, and then all of a
		
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			sudden I find myself
		
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			going in the opposite direction.
		
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			And this is bound to happen.
		
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			Shaytan is not gonna leave us alone. The
		
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			last thing he wants is somebody getting closer
		
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			to Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			His mission in life is to make sure
		
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			that we disobey Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala. He
		
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			is the last person
		
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			that wants us to be doing good.
		
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			So what happens when we find ourselves struggling
		
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			to do
		
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			the things that we committed to?
		
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			What do we do in this case?
		
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			We recommit
		
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			and we make that decision again and we
		
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			start taking action.
		
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			And a very important thing is to become
		
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			more self aware.
		
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			That what was the reason that I'm unable
		
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			to
		
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			commit to this decision.
		
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			For example, if I'm missing fajr,
		
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			perhaps it's because I'm sleeping late.
		
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			So when we become more self aware
		
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			we start making better decisions,
		
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			and with better decisions comes
		
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			better results.
		
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			So if we see the key reason that
		
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			I'm missing Fajr is because I'm sleeping too
		
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			late or I'm spending too much time on
		
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			my phone at night,
		
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			we make the decisions to stop doing, to
		
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			eliminate that habit from our routine so that
		
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			we make sure we get up for Fajr,
		
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			for example.
		
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			And the most important thing that we can
		
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			do is to take action
		
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			because action is the key to getting results.
		
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			We can learn as much as we want
		
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			but if we don't implement it, it's not
		
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			gonna bring about change.
		
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			And this is what isn't a time is
		
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			all about. It's about the practical implementation of
		
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			the principle of the Quran to improve our
		
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			lives, to get closer to Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala. Not only improve our lives spiritually but
		
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			in every aspect.
		
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			Until next time, may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			bless us
		
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			to change and to take the necessary steps
		
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			in order to sustain that change.