Saif Morad – Take responsibility for your happiness

You know, many people think that it's their

spouse's responsibility

for their happiness, but that's not true. We

are responsible for our own happiness. Our spouse

is there to help us meet that, but

they're not responsible for it. So that's why

it's very important that we take time out,

especially in the morning before we start our

day. We take some time 20 minutes, 30

minutes to get in the right frame of

mind,

to be in a good mood. So that

way we show up at a higher level.

We spend time with the Quran reflecting over

the Quran, understanding what our purpose is. We

spend time in solitude with Allah

so that we have the right mindset going

into our day. And other general things that

will put us in a good mood, that

will make us be happy rather than being

reactive to what's happening.

This way we take responsibility for our mood,

and we show up at a higher level,

and that is only gonna add value to

the marriage.