Saif Morad – Focus on The Love of Allah When Allah Loves You

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The speaker discusses the importance of building love and being accepted in society through gifts and experiences. They stress the need to strive for God's love and strive to be accepted and valued. The speaker provides examples of the qualitiesdlized by Allah and emphasizes the importance of finding the right people and actions to improve one's life.

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			In this world and the next.
		
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			You know us as human beings, we have
		
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			a need
		
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			to be loved,
		
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			and Allah
		
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			created us with this need. This is one
		
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			of our core needs, to be loved.
		
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			And Islam encourages us to build this love,
		
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			to love one another. As the prophet said,
		
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			that give gifts to one another, you will
		
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			love one another.
		
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			He also said that you will not enter
		
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			paradise until you have faith,
		
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			and you will not have faith until you
		
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			love each other.
		
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			Shall I show you something that if you
		
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			did it, you would love each other?
		
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			Spread the salaam between yourselves.
		
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			We are encouraged to give gifts to one
		
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			another, to build this love, to spread the
		
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			salaam
		
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			to those who we know and those also
		
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			that we don't know. To smile in the
		
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			face of our brother and sister.
		
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			And it is from the perfection of one's
		
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			faith
		
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			that they love for their brother and sister
		
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			what they love for themselves.
		
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			And we strive to meet this need of
		
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			love in a positive way.
		
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			The problem comes
		
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			when we meet this need in a negative
		
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			way. In order to be accepted at school,
		
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			at work,
		
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			we resort to disobeying Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			We go against our principles, our values
		
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			just so that we can be accepted.
		
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			Striving to please people at the expense of
		
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			disobeying Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			will never bring about love.
		
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			Instead the opposite is going to happen.
		
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			As the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
		
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			Whoever seeks the pleasure of Allah by the
		
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			displeasure of people,
		
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			then Allah will be pleased with him
		
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			and will make the people pleased with him.
		
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			And whoever seeks the pleasure of people by
		
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			the displeasure of Allah,
		
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			Allah will be displeased with him
		
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			and will make the people displeased with him.
		
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			So we see in this hadith
		
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			that we should strive for the pleasure of
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Even if it means displeasing others.
		
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			You know this need to have friends,
		
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			to be accepted and have peers, it's a
		
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			very strong need.
		
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			But if we build it on the wrong
		
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			foundations, then what's the point of it?
		
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			If Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is displeased with
		
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			us,
		
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			what have we truly gained?
		
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			And if Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is what
		
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			we have,
		
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			then what have we lost?
		
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			Because not only will Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			love us, but he will also make those
		
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			people who we need in our lives, he
		
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			will make them accept us and love us
		
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			as well. Perhaps if we understood
		
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			what happens when Allah loves us, it will
		
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			make it easier
		
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			to put his pleasure before the pleasure of
		
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			others.
		
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			The prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam said,
		
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			when Allah loves someone, he calls Jibril and
		
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			he says,
		
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			I love this person so you should love
		
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			him as well.
		
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			And then Jibril loves him and makes an
		
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			announcement in the heavens saying,
		
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			Allah loves this person and you should love
		
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			him.
		
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			Then the dwellers of the heavens, the angels,
		
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			they love him. And this person is honored
		
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			on the earth.
		
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			And in another narration, the prophet said
		
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			that when Allah is angry with someone,
		
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			he tells Jibril and he says, I resent
		
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			this person so you should resent him as
		
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			well.
		
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			Then Jibril resents this person and makes an
		
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			announcement in the heavens
		
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			saying that Allah hates this person
		
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			so you should resent him as well.
		
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			Then they become resentful with him
		
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			and he is hated on the earth. Can
		
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			you imagine if Allah is calling out our
		
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			names?
		
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			He says,
		
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			oh Jibril, I love Fatima. Oh Jibril, I
		
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			love Mohammed.
		
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			Oh Jibril, I love so and so. Mentioning
		
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			us by name.
		
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			And then Jibril Alaihi Salam
		
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			starts loving us. And everyone in the heavens
		
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			loves us.
		
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			And Allah puts acceptance in people's hearts for
		
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			us.
		
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			And he will put the right people in
		
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			our place because we don't need the company
		
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			of everyone.
		
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			But we need the love of the right
		
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			people, those who want good for us. So
		
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			what can we do
		
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			to earn Allah's love?
		
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			Well let's look at the Quran for some
		
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			examples
		
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			about the qualities that Allah loves
		
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			so that we can increase ourselves in these
		
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			qualities.
		
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			Some of the qualities that Allah loves, the
		
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			people that Allah loves are the mursinoon,
		
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			the people who strive for excellence, the ones
		
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			who try to worship Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			as if they are seeing him.
		
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			And even though they can't see him, they
		
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			know that he is watching them.
		
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			Allah loves these people. Those who do their
		
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			best in their ibadah. And not only that,
		
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			but they also strive to be a source
		
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			of benefit for others. They do good towards
		
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			others.
		
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			You know they spread love, they spread goodness,
		
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			they spread kindness.
		
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			And Allah loves also the people of Taqwa.
		
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			They are mindful of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			They obey His commandments and stay away from
		
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			that which He has forbidden.
		
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			Allah also loves those people who repent often
		
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			and the ones who purify themselves.
		
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			Allah loves when his slave turns back to
		
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			him no matter what they have done. Because
		
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			he is
		
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			the one who always accepts repentance.
		
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			And he is
		
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			You know the one who's always forgiving.
		
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			And Al Wadud, the one who loves.
		
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			A person can be extremely disobedient to Allah.
		
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			And then comes a point in their lives
		
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			when they realize that this is not how
		
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			I'm supposed to be behaving.
		
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			And they turn back to Allah
		
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			knowing that he is
		
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			the one who forgives and accepts the repentance.
		
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			Then after this repentance, Allah is
		
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			Allah turns to this person with love and
		
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			mercy.
		
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			Allah also loves the people who are just.
		
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			He loves justice.
		
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			And Allah also loves those who are patient.
		
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			If we want the love of Allah, then
		
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			we obey him and we follow the Messenger
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			Allah is saying that if you claim to
		
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			love Allah,
		
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			then follow Me, follow the guidance of the
		
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			Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam,
		
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			and this will bring about the love of
		
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			Allah and the forgiveness of Allah.
		
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			And these qualities that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			loves that were mentioned, these are some of
		
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			the qualities
		
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			that we should ask ourselves when we recite
		
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			these ayat, when we listen to the Hadith
		
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			about the qualities that Allah loves.
		
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			You know, where am I in relationship to
		
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			these qualities?
		
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			Which ones do I have?
		
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			Which ones do I need to work on?
		
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			How can I work on them?
		
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			If Allah loves these qualities then we need
		
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			to try to improve ourselves in these areas.
		
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			So that we become from those that Allah
		
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			loves.
		
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			And if Allah loves us, what more do
		
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			we need?
		
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			And at the same time, we make sure
		
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			we don't do the things
		
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			that Allah doesn't love.
		
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			Allah says he doesn't love oppression, injustice,
		
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			transgression,
		
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			deception.
		
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			These are some of the qualities that Allah
		
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			doesn't love. We ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			for his love, and to love the people
		
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			that he loves, and to love the actions
		
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			that is beloved to him.
		
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			And make sure you mention what was most
		
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			useful for you in the comments. Until next
		
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			time,