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your life.

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yeah you had Medina I'm going to talk a lot have battle party whether the molten lava and moonlight irrespective but this is now welcome to Islamic marriage and inshallah through this process and inshallah through this program you will be able to learn some of the common Islamic marriage rules that relates to engagement and how a husband and wife should live together and the qualification and attributes of a righteous husband and inshallah as well likewise righteous wife.

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When Allah subhanho wa Taala said in his book and Yama according to Lacan, Dino come to an equanimity what are the local Islam Medina when Allah said in the Koran today I have perfected your religion.

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Indeed, this religion is a perfect religion and marriage is one of the pillars one of the important aspects of this Deen. Since Allah subhana wa tada chose us to be the successes and the maintainers on to be the successes of one another to have the filler on Earth.

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When the loss of Hannah with the ANA said in the jar and you fill out of the halifa when you say to the angels, I am making a succession of halifa on Earth, those individuals that Allah was talking about was as humans

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and since Allah subhana wa tada from his mercy from the shady of Islam, a family unit must be maintained in a most acceptable healthiest way.

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Therefore, inshallah we will be talking about the importance of marriage to begin with this show. When Allah subhanho wa Taala decreed that a husband and wife must get together on form these two last panel with Anna string of children, men and women as a last resort and he said, Yeah, you on this top one. And lady Hannah Takumi nefs in wahida wahala amin has Oda quatermain humare john and Catherine one exam. All you people feel a loss of Hannah with Anna be dutiful to him, Who created you from one single individual, and then from that individual from that person was a lot created somehow know what to add to how

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and says that Islamic family cannot take place unless marriage is in place. Then we'll talk about the marriage itself on the importance of marriage. Marriage itself is a contract and Allah subhana wa tada ordered the believers to maintain the contracts that they give.

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What is a buying, selling contract? What is it verbal contract, a written contract, rental contract, business contract, marriage contract.

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All of these considered to be contract.

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A one that Allah subhanho wa Taala emphasized on was a contract of marriage.

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And last subhanho wa Taala. call it meetha Oliva very strong meetup, a very strong contract and covenant between husband and wife. When Allah subhanho wa Taala order both of them to maintain that by saying, Yeah, you're Latina. I'm all for being Latina, come over for dinner, who are who you believe maintain your contracts and your covenants he promises and whenever you sell along, Ronnie He will send them sent anonymously monada shrauta him Muslims must abide by their contracts. So we understand that marriage itself is a contract. And not only that marriage is a blessing.

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From a loss of Hano wattana marriage is one of the greatest nammo of Islam. Because through marriage, we attain comfort and ease tranquility

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and a stable life. And it is formed that that Allah subhanho wa Taala added from the near Amanda we will never be able to count the greatness of that individual or that particular Nam when a loss of Hannah with Anna said winter under the law he saw her and if you try to count the blessings of your lawn, you will never be able to

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from the number that Allah subhana wa tada blessed us through marriage, that our wives or spouses are from the same race as us.

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We all humans,

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and because of that, there are certain connection between the husband and wife. Imagine if your spouse is not from the same kind. It's not from the same base, they know humans. But what happened that is we will find them as we find all other things around us. See, we have animals around us. We almost

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destroying

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animals, we have environments around us trees, plants, and we also destroying that if our spouses were other than saving you the same reason as us. We were probably at one point started destroying them also as well. But Allah subhanho wa Taala Anna said, Hello, min and forsaken among yourselves. When a lot first created Adam, Allah, his Salatu was Salam. And he fashion him and he ordered the angels to prostrate for the money salatu salam, and Adam was placed in Paradise by himself. Then Allah subhanho wa Taala Ana took from the roots of Adam, and created Eve, however,

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however, was not fashion, as Adam was alayhis salaam, how it was then created as by the hands of a loss of hunter with the owner like Adam, but she was created from Adam and he set out to a center. So Adam fields have felt at that time, that she is part of him. And she also felt that she is part of Adam, likewise, our spouses, our wives are part of us. And we are part of them. And this is why the nivi is some of the long run he was selling them because that ultimate units through intimacy, being unified, being that close to one another. And maybe some of the long run he was also said and the social economy john, were men a compatible burden on women, or women or brother or men.

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This is one of the name of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Through the Quran, Allah subhanho wa Taala encouraged marriage. And not only that he encouraged she showed the rewards and what you will get from getting married in your life or during your life. If you read in the Quran, Allah subhanho wa Taala Anna said, what our son in public indeed we have sent messengers we have sent messengers before you

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know him as virgin was on via and we meet for them, wives and children offspring.

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As though Allah subhanho wa Taala is saying, the ones that I chose the chosen once

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prophets and the messengers, they had wives and children.

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Likewise, if you'd like to be close to those who are chosen by Allah subhanho wa tada then you must take their footsteps and you must walk the path and you must live the lifestyle and what did they have or Allah? Allah said they had wives and children and inshallah will continue after this short message in this panel with Anna

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Maria Rahim Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah Carrie says Anna wouldn't be you know Mohammed what on earth he was talking to you and Jermaine, and it's good to have you back. And let's continue with what Allah subhana wa tada encouraged us to do in terms of marriage. If you read in the Quran, the loss of Hannah what the ANA said, What happened the sun rose, in public, Indian we have sent messengers we have sent messengers before you will know him as Virgin Media.

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We meet for them, wives and children of spring

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as Allah subhanho wa Taala is saying, the ones that I chose the chosen ones,

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prophets and the messengers, they had wives and children.

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Likewise, if you'd like to be close to those who are chosen by Allah subhanho wa Taala then you must take the further steps and you must walk the path and you must live that lifestyle

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from the encouragement of Allah subhanho wa Taala that Allah set in the on women at and Haleakala, camino and fusi Come

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on from the signs of Allah subhanho wa Tada. Of course, he This is one of the greatest signs from the signs of a loss of Hannah wattana I should say this is one of the main one one of the big signs of a loss of Hannah wattana because a loss and woman it and Jada Come on from the signs of your Lord that He made for you as well as wise we got a document on fusi comm as well. And then he said the purpose of the zote The purpose of this, he said nitesh school, so you may find comfort and ease with them. here Allah subhanho wa Taala is stating in the Quran itself, that it is a NEMA from your Lord, that you find someone that you feel comfortable with.

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With your wife. You talk to her, she talks to you, you relate you narrate things to her she narrowed things to you and you find comfort in that conversation and gathering. Also Allah said in the Quran subhana wa tada Han alabaster la come unto Levesque hoon. They are garments for you and you are garments for them. means they cover you under the cover them. They part of you and you're part of them. Also from the shedding of Islam if What if either that Allah subhanho wa tada in a very loving way he ordered us to get married, when he said funkey from altaba camino Nisa mithuna worth a lot and moreover, now here he said marry the woman of your choice. He will Allah subhanho wa Taala

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suggest he suggested because it's something that is highly recommend some of the novel Islam they will consider marriage as well. And they said it is must to get married because all the messengers of Allah subhana wa tada with exceptions of Yeah, and he sent it to a salon and he said when he will come back, he will also get married, like all the other prophets in Islam Hunter wattana with the exceptions of Yeah, all of the messages of alarm were married.

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So Allah subhanho wa Taala that's when he said for nkiru some of them

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they took that this is an order from a law ordering us to get married. All therefore we all should get married. It needs to know what are the funky chromapop I mean a nice a methanol mithuna with razza autobahn from the Nana. From the hikma on the Shetty

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is that through marriage, you attain rewards.

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Every time a man is close to his wife

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and they exercise what Allah has made lawful for them. Allah subhanho wa Taala rewards that person for that act of intimacy. The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,

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if one of you

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sleeps with his wife, then he will be rewarded. Okay, nobody honeycomb soda.

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It is a charity is an act of charity.

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That's a half of the messenger of a loss and Jada solo law is the water or messenger over law, we satisfy our desire, yet we are rewarded for that. We are giving you a reward as though we gave sadaqa the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said, What would you say if you fulfill that desire through hardrock means Wouldn't it be sin wouldn't be falling into a sin?

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They said yes. He said, likewise, when a person spends time with his wife, and he fulfills that natural desire, and she fulfills her natural desire. Allah subhanho wa Taala I know what we want them both and for them is an act of Sadat

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to encourage them husbands to work for the family.

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The narrow

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was the narrow

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What do you know to feel comfy Sabina, he said, Dina, that you spend on your family

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and dinner that you give it to a needy person and dinner that you give.

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He said enough for the sake of Allah.

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He said the one that has the greatest we were, he said that the amount that you spent on your family, the number that you spent on your family. So even as a husband, when you work for your family, Allah subhanho wa Taala, what we were you for the effort that you give, today will be a subtle call for you.

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Under the heading of enemies, a lot of money He will send them said, Indeed, you are rewarded for everything that you do for any nephal for anything that you give, you are rewarded. He said, even the food that you put in the mouth of your wife, that is a saga for you, as a charity for you. Now there are a lot of him at home a lot. they interpret this statement of the Huntington visa law, Ronnie was Selim in two ways. One, they said it means providing for the family is sort of

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other meat said that is acceptable. But it also means to be kind and to hand feed your wife, or spoon feed your wife put the food in her mouth with your own hand. That is a subtle, subtle call for the husband. And of course if the wife does the same thing, that's a subtle thought, for her as well. On the lessons and from the benefit of marriage.

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Is that marriage, Allah bless you well, through a marriage.

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Allah bless you we'll see a lot of people they miss understand and the thing if I get married Subhana Allah, I have to take care of my wife, I have to take care of the children, the expenses of the family. What they don't realize is, as soon as they get married, a loved one blessed him with his, as a matter of fact, one of the three categories of people that Allah made worship upon himself to maintain and to give unto bless them are those individual seeking marriage so they can protect themselves from us.

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They go and they get married because they're afraid if they don't get married, they may fall into a sin, Xena. So Allah subhanho wa Taala said it is word you've upon me. Uh, no one has authority over a law buddy he out of generosity and kindness. He said, I made wagaman myself that if this is your intention, I will provide for you in the Koran. We have a loss of Hanover to Anna said, What am I'm in como Sony hanaa mean a radical Muslim hunter what I said and marry those of you who are single, I love them to marry from you and you marry them. Those who are single from your community, and then a lot out of something that is very unique. He said in your corner for

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ever these individuals are poor,

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you only whom law whom you fought and he will law who was in it.

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If they are poor, Allah will provide for them from his bounty. And Allah subhanho wa Taala is watching and i mean of the condition of those people.

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So sometimes a lot of people miss this point on the thing marriage means more money. They don't understand a lot what bless them with more money simply by getting married.

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I show the long run has said if you want a loss of Hannibal Wazza Allah to bless you with well then activate him in a new set you will marry more women on having children is Amina.

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When you have children, Allah bless you what it is. If you get married today and you really don't have much, you don't have much and you did it for the sake of protecting yourself. Then Allah will find ways for you. If you have children, if you have a child and you really would not ready financially, do not worry. Because Allah subhanho wa Taala guarantee that he will provide for you

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He will provide for your wife, he will provide for that child. As a matter of fact, if you don't have children, you missing it is you missing some? And that's why as soon as a person gets married his life changed the better if they did it for the right reasons. We have young people in my community

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normal kill hamdulillah struggling with his daily bread and then he gets married. And next thing that you know Masha, Allah has blessed with Nice job, his driving nice vehicle, his life changed at Brown, and even his peers his friends. They say look, he's completely different person. That is because as soon as you take that step, Allah subhana wa tada what help you and provide for you also,

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through marriage,

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we have children

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and Allah subhana wa tada settings on windjana document as well as when in

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Allah subhana wa tada made out of you from that rip, a spouse a mate on form that meet a loss of Hannah with Anna bless us children. I'm from those children loss of Hannah with Anna Yoko what Halford what happened, and when children and grandchildren so from the near moment Islam,

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from the blessings of Allah, it always comes under time or under the blessing of marriage, Islamic marriage, and this is when you do the for the right reason in the lives of hanno.

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Now, every young man and every young lady, they should look towards getting married, but also there are certain things that you need to do before you take this important steps in your life, which this is Stubbs insha, Allah will be covering the evenings of Hannah, what are the upcoming episodes, so minus he had to use following Isha online and he needs a panel with Allah. This is what I have to say subsonics part of it as a as a phone was Salam and mousseline. hamdulillahi Rabbil, aalameen,

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lohani, he was sending them. He said, What would you say if you fulfill that desire through hardrock means Wouldn't it be sin wouldn't be falling into a sin?

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They said yes. He said, likewise, when a person spends time with his wife, and he fulfills that natural desire, and she feels her natural desire, Allah subhanho wa Taala will reward them both. And for them is an act of Sadat.

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Also fit Villa he says in the long run, he was sent him to encourage them husbands to work for the family.

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army skin.

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What dinner to feel comfy Sabina, he said dinner that you spent on your family

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and dinner that you give it to a needy person and dinner that you give.

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He's serving dinner for the sake of a law.

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He said the one that has the greatest reward. He said that the now that you spent on your family, dinner that you spent on your family. So even as a husband, when you work for your family, Allah subhanho wa Taala what we were you for the effort that you give up today will be a subtle call for you.

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In other honey than me, it's a lot more lohani He will send them said indeed you are rewarded for everything that you do for any knuffel for anything that you give, you are rewarded. He said even the food that you put in the mouth of your wife, that is a saga for you, as a charity for you. Now there are a lot of him at home a lot. they interpret this statement of the handwritten abuse of the law Ronnie was set them in two ways. One they said it means providing for the family is sort of

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Adam he said that is acceptable. But it also means to be kind and to hand feed your wife or spoon feed your wife put the food in her mouth with your own hand. That is a subtle, that's a soda for the husband. And of course if the wife does the same thing, that's a setup for her as well. On the lessons and from the benefit of marriage.

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What if you learn

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is that marriage, Allah bless you well, through a marriage.

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Allah bless you we'll see a lot of people they miss understand and the thing, if I get married, somehow in a law, I have to take care of my wife, I have to take care of the children, the expenses of the family. What they don't realize is, as soon as they get married, a loved one blessed him with his, as a matter of fact, one of the three categories of people that Allah made worship upon himself to maintain and to give unto bless them. Are those individuals seeking marriage so they can protect themselves from us.

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They go and they get married because they're afraid if they don't get married, they may fall into a sin, Xena. So Allah subhanho wa Taala said it his word you will pardon me. And no one has authority over a law but he he out of generosity and kindness. He said, I made wild human myself that if this is your intention, I will provide for you in the Koran. We have a loss of Hanover to Anna said, What am I mean como Sati Hina mean a radical Muslim Han and what I said and marry those of you who are single, I love them to me from you, and you marry them, those who are single from your community. And then a lot added something that is very unique. He said, he akufo aura ever these individuals

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are poor.

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You will need Roman law whom you fought and he will law who was in it.

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If they are poor, Allah won't provide for them from his bounty on Allah subhanho wa Taala is worse.

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And any of the condition of those people.

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So sometimes a lot of people miss this point on the thing marriage means more money. They don't understand a lot won't bless them with more money simply by getting married.

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I show the long run has said if you want a loss of Hannibal Wazza Allah to bless you with well, then activate Amina Nisa, he will marry more women on having children is Amina.

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When you have children, Allah bless you what it is. If you get married today and you really don't have much, you don't have much and you did it for the sake of protecting yourself, then Allah will find ways. If you have children, if you have a child and you really were not ready financially, do not worry. Because Allah subhanho wa Taala guarantee that he will provide for you, he will provide for your wife, he will provide for that child. As a matter of fact, if you don't have children, you missing it is you missing some? And that's why as soon as a person gets married, his life changed the better if they did it for the right reasons. We have young people in my community

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normal care hamdulillah struggling with his daily bread, and then he gets married. And next thing that you know Masha, Allah has blessed with Nice job, his driving nice vehicle, his life changed at Brown, and even his peers, his friends. They say look, he's completely different person. That is because as soon as you take that step, Allah subhana wa tada what help you and provide for you also

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through marriage,

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we have children

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and Allah subhana wa tada said in double en windjana look him in as well. When you have

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Allah subhana wa tada made out of you from that rip, a spouse a mate. on from that meet a loss of Hannah with it. taala Anna bless us children. And from those children Allah subhana wa tada who were Halford what happened, and when children and grandchildren. So from the name of Islam, and from the blessings of Allah, it always comes under time or under the blessing of marriage, Islamic marriage, and this is when you do it for the right reason in the lives of hanno.

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Now, every young man and every young lady, they should look towards getting married. But also, there are certain things that you need to do before you take this important steps in your life. Which This is stubs a shell

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law will be covered the needs of Hana what are the upcoming episodes? So minus see how to use follower Isha on law and it needs a panel with Allah. This is what I have to say. Somehow next parliament on my phone. What's that I'm an alum studying with hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen