Safi Khan – Soul Food Advice 10 Death and Our Mortality

Safi Khan
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The speaker discusses the importance of investing in one's soul and doing good things to achieve their goals, including knowing their values and finding a way to live life the way one did. They emphasize the need to deacycling from past experiences and rethinking one's belief. The importance of discipline and continuously stopping behavior is emphasized, as well as the importance of taking care of one's time and investing in one's soul to prepare for the upcoming "ar-to-Sun time. The speaker also provides examples of people who lie and gives advice on how to live life the way one did.
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So like I said, something mentioned, today we're

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gonna go through the 10th advice, and this

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10th advice is about

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the break. Anybody wanna volunteer to read?

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The first

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couple of lines?

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Yes. What did you mean by the how

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do you have? I

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Amon? Amon?

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It says that

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for you to plant resolution

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in your spirit

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and place your feet in your lower self

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and death in your physical

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body. K?

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It sounds like a really cryptic message. It's

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like, hey. I don't completely understand what you're

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telling me to do. There are 2 there

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are 3 things that he mentions. K? The

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first thing that he mentioned

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is investing in one's soul.

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First thing that he mentions

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is investing in one's soul. The second thing

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that he mentions

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is conquering one's stocks.

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We'll talk about what that means. And then

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the 3rd claim mentions is recognizing that death

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is a reality.

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That know that your body is prepared for

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death. Like, that is a huge reality.

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When we talk about

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death, when we're talking about the grave,

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what Imam Gonzalez

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is putting our mind to

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is to recognize

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that the grave is a reality.

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It is something that is gonna happen.

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You we all will die

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and the place that we will end up

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in is the grave.

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And it's so much so a reality

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that he says that the people of the

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grave are awaiting.

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You know, like, someone knows a guest who's

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gonna come over. Somebody confirms with

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you. I'll come over to your house at

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5 o'clock for dinner. I don't know who

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eats dinner at 5 o'clock. Not my friend.

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But I'll come over to your house, like,

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8 PM for dinner. This confirms us.

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As confirmed as that is, that is how

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people of the grave

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are.

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But there are 2 things that he mentioned

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before he talks about preparing yourself for death.

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He mentions first, the investment in one's soul,

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and then number 2, the defeating of one's

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lust.

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And these are 2 things that

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once you take care of these two things

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or once you continue to take care of

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them because it's a never ending journey, it

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only ends when you die.

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Once you continue to take care of them,

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then perhaps you may be ready for death.

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Perhaps you may be ready to die. We'll

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talk about that in the next paragraph.

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The first thing though the thing to recognize

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is that these two things

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are in our life journey.

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So first thing is investing in one's soul,

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and the second thing is defeating one's naps.

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K? This is the 2 things you spend

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your life going back and forth between.

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When we talk about defeating one's naps, it's

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important to understand the naps.

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The mouse are of 3 types, and I'm

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having this conversation with you guys now so

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you kinda understand a little bit more about

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yourself because the mouse really means the sound.

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And being able to understand yourself,

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being able to understand these three things will

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help you understand different things you may battle

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with in your brain.

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So the is of 3 types. There's

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What's interesting

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is that how many of you guys get

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really you don't have to read your hand.

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How many of you guys get really down

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on yourself when you do something wrong?

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Right. And you don't have to reach me

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out, but you guys, it's great. Right? How

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many of you guys do you may do

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something wrong, you recognize that it's not okay,

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but for some reason, you really wanna do

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nothing.

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Like, you're like, it's this is I should

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not be mean to this person or I

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should not say this thing,

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but I just really wanna say it.

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It's necessary to mean you do it, but

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you just really wanna say it. You just

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really wanna do it. These are all parts

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of the self, and everybody has these three

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parts.

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And a model

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is a part of us that call us

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to do things that we should not do.

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Even though we know that we we even

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though we know that we shouldn't do it.

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Even though we know that it's not okay.

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So for example,

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use of them, who's a prophet

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of god. K?

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He is in a situation

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where the

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Aziz's wife,

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basically the governor's wife, tries to seduce them.

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And after all these things happen, he ends

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up going to jail. He says to Allah

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Subhanahu,

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you know, being in we've covered series of

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and so forth, but he tells Allah

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being in jail is more

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loving to me. Like, I would love to

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go to jail

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than have to deal with this. Like, then

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to be called to whatever this sin is,

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I rather go with you. I rather be

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put in prison

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than to be dealing with this.

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Once he's in prison, it comes a time

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when his name can be clear.

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His name is clear, and when his name

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is clear, he does say to Allah,

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he says that there's a part of me

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to be blamed,

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and that part is

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my Okay. There's a part of me to

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be blamed and that part is my

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And he's saying this

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because

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at the end of the day, the reality

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is though he's a prophet, he's still a

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human being,

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but he had a reign on that knot,

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that part of it. He was able to

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pull it in.

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Right? But it doesn't just because you can

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control something,

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doesn't mean that the desire does not exist.

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K? Just because you can control something,

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it does not mean that the desire does

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not exist. It's there, You just have a

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little bit more control over

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it. So that's the first part. The first

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is your enough amount of result. It caused

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you to do wrong. So there are times

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where you're gonna wanna do something that's wrong

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and that's not okay, and you're gonna cognitively

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are you gonna actually

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recognize that it's wrong. You should not do

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it. You're not a crazy person.

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Everybody has that part of them.

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Everybody has that part of them.

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Then there is your

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doesn't know what they want. K? That part

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of you

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is your I don't know if I want

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Dean. I don't know if I want Daniella.

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That's that part of you. You know, probably

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that's like, this seems really cool, but I

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kinda wanna make up with some today, so

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I don't know why I should do this.

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Maybe I should do it. Maybe I didn't

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do it. And then you do it, and

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then you get mad at yourself doing it.

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That's your naps and then you laugh. It's

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real. All of us got it. We all

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got it.

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That's your naps and luana.

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It's the part of you

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that gets upset with you that you when

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you do something wrong,

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but also tries to convince you to do

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something that's wrong.

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Wants you to do right, but it's like,

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damn, this is the same girl flying.

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That's that part of you. That's the part

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of you that when you're talking to your

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friend

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about them doing something wrong, and you're like,

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man, that must have been fine. I mean,

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you shouldn't have did that, but that must

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have that's god's define you.

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K? And then your last part

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of you is your

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and

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this is content with God.

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It is the part of you

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that wants and craves

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for Allah to be happy with you.

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The more you feed your soul things that

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are good,

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the more you feed your

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The more you feed your side of you,

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that craves

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that love and and that satisfaction

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that, you know, that love can turn with

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the law.

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The more you feed your muscle amount of

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result, soul, that first part of you that

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caused you to do wrong, the more you

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crave to do wrong.

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And what Imam Ghazali is telling us here

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is that he's saying, listen.

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Investing in your soul

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investing in your soul,

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will either prepare you for the get great

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or it's gonna make you absolutely terrified to

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die.

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You can choose.

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Either you're gonna prepare yourself for the year

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after, for the break,

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or

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you're terrified for that. Why? Because you you

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may feel like you have nothing to show

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for it.

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Because you're feeding into that.

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There are different ways to be able to

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feed into your.

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There's different ways

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to be able to, you know, build yourself.

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And normally, they say acts of worship. So

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what are some acts of worship that you

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guys can think about?

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Anybody? There are many acts of worship come

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on, guys. Smile.

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Smile. Very good. Somebody said smile. Right?

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Very

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good. Smile to the smallest charity donating.

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Anything else?

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Yes. Moving something harmful out the road.

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Very good.

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There's all these different ways of acts of

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worship.

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Normally, people will say things this is normal

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too, but people will say things like salah

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and fasting,

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like your bipolar.

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But there's so much more as that has

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been mentioned

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to

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acts of worship.

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There's so much more to your deen and

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your belief and feeding yourself and being, like,

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a person that has good character,

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being a person that has that that is

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working towards that relationship with Allah. There is

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so much more to you

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than just ritual. Ritual is important,

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but our religion, our deen is very holistic.

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And so there's so many narrations where he

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talks about

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He says

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That a person

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who claims you don't have true belief. Like,

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we all claim to be believers here. You

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don't have true belief until you love for

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your brother or sister to love for yourself.

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And we we talk about this all the

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time. We say it, but then we internalize

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it.

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This feeds into our enough so much more

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in that.

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We're putting it in the context of recognizing

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that this is how we continue to invest

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in our relationship

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with Allah.

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We will invest in everything else, but do

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we invest in our relationship with Allah.

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Part of investing in our relationship with with

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Allah is doing right by people. The

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process of it said in another marriage,

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will love the

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will love

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will love the value of him. He says

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it 3 times. I swear about Allah a

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person does not believe. I swear about Allah

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those persons is not a believer.

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To the point where the companions, they then

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turn to the and they say to him,

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Who are you talking about?

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You know, you're you keep saying that this

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person is not a believer. This person is

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not a believer.

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You know? Who are you talking about?

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And the pastor's only he says,

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but why but why people?

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That the one who their neighbor is not

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safe from their heart?

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The person

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who the their neighbor is not safe from

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them.

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And how does this not call us,

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but what he's saying is recognize

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do not recognize that part of your belief,

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part of you being a person, part of

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you being a Muslim,

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and a and a a believers who actually

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truly has faith in God is that you

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are good to other people. These 2 are

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acts of worship.

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So in addition to our salah and our

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fasting

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and our charity,

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the way we treat people is very important.

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So, Imam Ghazali, just to bring it back

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a little bit, Imam Ghazali, he says

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that, listen.

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In order to prepare yourself for the grave,

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you need to do 2 things.

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You need to invest in your soul and

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defeat your nuts.

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How do you defeat your

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nuts? Well, by investing in your soul.

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If you do good things, it will continue

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to defeat anyone else and continue to break

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them down. It takes discipline.

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It takes discipline.

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Sometimes you're in the habit of doing things

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that your adolescent and not able to sort

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of keep calling you to.

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You have to discipline yourself.

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You have to say that I am not

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gonna go to that environment.

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I will not talk to this person. I

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am going to delete their number. I will

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not stop them in spam.

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K? Just because you delete the number and

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that you stop them, that

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doesn't

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help. Why are you asking? I'm serious. Because

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he knows. He knows. I know. Right? Right.

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It doesn't help.

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You have to continuously discipline yourself.

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And then on top of that, you

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replace that habit or replace that thing with

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something better.

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So you're doing 2 things. You're dropping. You're,

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like, completely

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investment amount of the sort. You're like, listen,

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homie. And you're like, seriously? I need you

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to chill right now. And you're feeding into

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your

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that relationship between you and the law. And

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that is what helps you prepare you for

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the good.

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Your name was Amen.

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Yes. K. Can you read the next slide,

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please? I'm actually really bad at names.

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So, normally, I just meet people, which is

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not not a good thing. I can't believe

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what this is about

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Very good.

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He brings in a quote or narration for

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Abu Bakr to think very long for life.

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What's interesting is he presents 2 types of

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animals here. What does he say?

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Anybody?

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Birds and

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cattle. K? Birds and cattle.

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And he says what he's saying here

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is that he says that our mind and

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to ourselves, we are abiding that that it

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is,

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changes

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Like, those of birds or symbols of cattle,

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like animals, cattle.

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Now he says that you can either be

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a bird

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or you can be cow.

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And what he means by that is that

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when Allah says,

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when when he calls the souls back and

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he says, return to your lord. K. When

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Allah

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calls the souls back,

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what I would love to speak here a

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long time, I'm even saying here is that

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he's saying either you can go back you're

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gonna go back either way.

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When Allah's calling us back to him is

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not

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a question.

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You know? He's not saying, hey. Do you

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wanna leave? Do me a no no. It's

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not a question.

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Alright? While saying that it's your time to

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go, it's your time to go.

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Either you can go like a bird that's

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free

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or you can be dragged like cattle.

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That is what you're saying.

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Either you can go like a bird that

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is free

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or you can be dragged by cattle.

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The way that you go like a bird

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that's free is by taking care of those

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2 things.

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Feeding good into your soul and resting into

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your soul

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and defeating your nuts.

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But if you don't do those two things,

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then you're gonna be dressed like cattle. You're

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not gonna wanna go. Who wants to get

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in trouble? Nobody.

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Nobody.

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Something a practice that the prophet will do

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very often

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is that the prophet will go and visit

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the graves.

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How many of you guys have visited a

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graveyard before?

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Anybody?

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Humbling.

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Took a little bit of delay. Yeah. Actually,

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hearing. Humbling. Anybody else?

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Same.

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I'm settling.

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But how quick was it to forget that

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feeling?

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Very

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quick. That day, you're a little weird, you

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know. You're like, man, that's, like, my reality.

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You're kinda thinking it might.

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And then 2 days later, 3 days later,

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and that's it.

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The prophet will go frequently.

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And when he would go, he will make

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a dua that

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is so powerful

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because it it brings it all into perspective.

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He will say

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peace be onto you, oh people of this

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grave. I'm talking to people.

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And then he will say,

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to those who have faith and those who

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submitted.

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And

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without a doubt, we're gonna join you soon.

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That's the scary part.

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Inshallah, no doubt about it, we're gonna join

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you soon. Like, you're here now. No. Imam

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Abu Dhabi says the people of the grave

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were waiting for you.

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Right? This is how prophet will go greet

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them.

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And then he says,

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that we ask Allah for you and for

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us that we're safe. We're safe and for

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peace.

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Crossroads and we did this very frequently,

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and it's to put our minds in perspective.

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It's to help us understand what we're working

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towards and what we're investing in. So in

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this beginning part, I'm gonna hand it off

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to myself and then now. What we're learning

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here is that it's so important to take

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care of our time that we have now

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so that we can prepare ourselves for the

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green.

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And the way that we take care of

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our time that we have now is by

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investing in our soul

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and defeating our

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Yeah. So he continues now after building up

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the idea, the understanding

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the idea of understanding

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that,

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no matter where you come from and what

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position you're in,

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that is something that

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everyone is gonna have to cross. It's a

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line that everybody is going to have to

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cross, but we don't know when. And he

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mentions

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hadith of the

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the prophet

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mentions authentic narration

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where he said that

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that the

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the throne of God shook

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as a result of the death of this

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one companion.

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His name was Saad Munir. He was the

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leader

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of the tribe of the Os.

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The tribe of was one of these two

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tribes in Medina before the prophet

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came to Medina.

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There were 2 tribes. What were they named?

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Khazoa. Very good. Right?

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So

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these were 2 tribes that were trying to

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claim

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dominance and superiority over the territory

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And it was interesting because this tribalism had

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gone so far

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that

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they had developed such animosity towards one another,

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and they had been battling in in in,

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you know, petty ways

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that when they came to the prophet Muhammad

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initially, when they came to him,

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during,

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during the days of Mina,

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during the the day of Aqaba,

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when they came to him initially,

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the conversation wasn't necessarily about, like, Islam, Iman,

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and Jannah and Jahannam. But when this group

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came from Medina and sat with the prophet

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one of the things that they talked about

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about accepting Islam because they were not Muslim

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yet was they told the prophet

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that we heard

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that you are somebody who can solve disputes.

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Like, we heard that you had this trait

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within you, that you're just somebody who can

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handle disputes between people. If you can settle

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the dispute between us,

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then we're gonna go ahead and allow we'll

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we'll accept that you're our leader

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because this is something that's been happening for

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so long.

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And so interestingly, subhanallah, I want you guys

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to take this away from that story.

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When the

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first came to the prophet, it

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was not because of some

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miraculous

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convert story

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about, oh, in my dream, I saw this

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and then I saw your face and so

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I came here and saw you. Those exist,

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by the way. You have the subconscious stories

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where you have the companions who traveled

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thousands of miles on foot,

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being given prophecy of a man in the

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land of palm trees

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who will not eat from gift not eat

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from charity, but will eat from gifts. That's

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the non fantasy story. And he travels and

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goes and finds it. It's an amazing story.

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But this story, these people,

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they accepted Islam

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because they saw Islam as being the solution

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to their problem.

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They didn't know of any other way to

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solve it. They tried everything else. They fought

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each other. Right? They tried to negotiate. They

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tried to use diplomacy. It didn't work. So

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they finally hear this person, and

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they say, look. If if if you can

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solve our problem, then that's enough of a

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proof for us. We'll accept it. So the

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prophet

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obviously, the rest is history. We know he

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goes to Medina.

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Right? He he he he makes the the

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the people of the

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and the leader of the tribe of, who

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accepted the on

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the hand of a young companion. His name

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was Musa.

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Musa

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Abid, his story is something else completely. We

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can't go on a tangent there because it's

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gonna take too long. But I want you

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to know something. When the prophet

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had to pick 1 person

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to go to Yastrib or Medina later

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and teach these people about Islam before he

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himself made hijra there.

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He's going, but he has to send one

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person ahead.

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Right? This happens sometimes when families move. One

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person goes and takes care of, like, furnishing

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the house or something like that. Right?

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So Musa, this is a lot more serious

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than buying furniture.

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Prophet was like, I need somebody to go

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and prepare these people

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for the message that we're bringing in the

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community that we're building. He chose Musa. Do

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you guys know why he chose Musa?

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What do you guys know about this man,

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Musa?

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Yeah. No.

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So so that

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definitely is a fact about him that most

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of was pointed to, like, one of the

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wealthiest families.

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I hate I I don't make this comparison

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lightly because literally,

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this is the only

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comparison it's a I'm not gonna use that

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comparison. That family is I don't know. I

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don't know.

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Like, the Kennedys or the Rockefellers. I was

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gonna go with the Kardashians, but I was

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gonna go with the Kenny's Rockefellers.

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K?

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Well, you know, like, these big name families,

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like, that just

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have wealth.

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They just it's like they're like, the grass

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on their front lawn is $100 bills. Like,

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they just have this generational wealth. Right? That

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was Musa. Musa was born into that. He

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used to get clothes and shoes and everything

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imported from from Yemen. He never had

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to buy stuff from Marshalls. Like, he just

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had stuff custom made. You know, that was

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just him. They said you can smell him

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from 7 days away,

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which is Arabic, like,

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you know,

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hyperbole. Right? You can't smell someone from a

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certain amount of time away, but they said,

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yeah. You could with him because he smelled

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his fragrance so small. It was beautiful because

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the scent was imported.

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So, anyway, so this man, Musa Abra, man,

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long story short, man, we need to do

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a series of Musa Abra.

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Long story short, Musa'ab, he loses

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everything. He loses everything. His parents take him

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out. They cut him off. His uncles

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make him

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take off his clothes before he's kicked out.

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Why? Because he heard of the prophet

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and he accepted Islam. So when you talk

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about a person who puts

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him in his rule, puts

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puts

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in his soul and puts desire in his

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soul and gives it all away,

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was one of those people. Check this out.

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Who did Sa'ed accept Islam from? Who taught

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them about Islam?

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Musa, very good. Wasn't it a trick question?

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Everyone's like,

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Omar? No. We've been talking about this one

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person the whole time. Musa

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gave his life up for Islam. Right? Intense

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moment, serious stuff. He goes

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Islam on his hand.

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Now what is

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known for?

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Is known for one statement,

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very powerful statement where the prophet was very,

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very nervous.

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The prophet was very nervous.

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Before a battle, he asked his companions.

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This is the battle of Adar.

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He asked his companions.

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They were out on an expedition. They were

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not ready for battle.

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Okay?

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For those of you to understand what that

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must feel like, I want you to imagine

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that it's a Saturday morning, and your mother

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told you, hey. Go and get some milk

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and

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So you went in whatever you wear on

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Saturday morning.

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Imagine.

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Then she calls you here at the store

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and she says, come straight here. You're getting

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married. It's your wedding.

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Right? You're like, but I'm not ready.

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Now, again, in a much more serious fashion,

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the companions of the prophet went out on

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expedition.

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They had no

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provisions with them. No swords. No shield. They

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were just a bunch of farmers from Yefud.

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Like, they didn't have much. They go out

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and all of a sudden they get the

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news that what? That Quraysh is coming to

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attack.

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The other issue is that

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when the prophet moved to Medina, they had

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an agreement. And one of the points of

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the agreement was,

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if anything comes from Raish, any battle or

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any, you know,

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declaration of war,

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only the Muhajiroun

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have to fight. Only we have to fight,

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the Meccans.

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But those of you from Medina, it's not

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your beef. It's not your issue. You don't

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it's

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not an obligation for you to defend us,

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but we would very much appreciate

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it given that we are brothers, sisters, and

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stuff like that.

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You'll not be penalized if you don't do

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it.

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So now the prophet Sulsedim is out with

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these people, 80 of them are from the

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Nevakans

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and 250

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of them are from the the Venans, from

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the onslaught. They get word that the army

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is coming. Prophet Sulsat, he stands and he

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asks everybody, what do you think we should

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do?

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Thousand people versus 313. What do you think

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we should do?

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So he looks and, of course,

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you know, some of the stronger

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neck and the the OGs, the the legacy

00:29:03 --> 00:29:05

companions who I've been with him for over

00:29:05 --> 00:29:06

a decade now. This is the house. Well,

00:29:06 --> 00:29:07

let's do it.

00:29:08 --> 00:29:10

Let's do it. Like, let's let's get ready

00:29:10 --> 00:29:12

to rumble. Like, we're down for this. You

00:29:12 --> 00:29:12

know us.

00:29:13 --> 00:29:15

The prophet, he looks at them

00:29:15 --> 00:29:16

and

00:29:16 --> 00:29:17

he says okay

00:29:19 --> 00:29:20

and then another Meccan

00:29:20 --> 00:29:22

Sahabi says, yeah, so Allah let's do it.

00:29:22 --> 00:29:24

Now the Meccans remember they don't have a

00:29:24 --> 00:29:26

choice, they have to defend themselves. So he

00:29:26 --> 00:29:28

looks, he looks, he looks and the the

00:29:28 --> 00:29:31

companion who's narrating this hadith, he said, it

00:29:31 --> 00:29:32

looked as though the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

00:29:32 --> 00:29:34

sallam was looking for something

00:29:35 --> 00:29:37

like he was, like, he wasn't satisfied with

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those two answers. So finally,

00:29:39 --> 00:29:42

who speaks up? Saba Murrah. He raises his

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voice

00:29:43 --> 00:29:45

politely, says, Yahweh Sola, we

00:29:46 --> 00:29:47

are with you.

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We are with you to such a point

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that if you commanded us to follow you,

00:29:52 --> 00:29:54

we would follow you step by step, Yasser

00:29:54 --> 00:29:56

Alaa. And if we saw you walk up

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to the edge of a cliff and you

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walked off into the ocean and your body

00:30:00 --> 00:30:03

plunged into the water and we couldn't see

00:30:03 --> 00:30:04

you, you know, we would be there right

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then.

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We trust you.

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We have no doubt

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that you are the messenger of all.

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Doesn't matter what you tell me to do.

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I'm not questioning your orders anymore.

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I wanna be there with you, so I'm

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with you.

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The companions from Mecca

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or sorry, the companions from Medina, they said

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when we heard Saad say that, all of

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us all of us felt such jealousy in

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our heart in a good way, not bad,

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that we wish he had said that because

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as soon as Saad out of those words,

00:30:38 --> 00:30:39

they said we saw a smile on the

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face of the prophet that we've never seen

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before.

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His face lit up like proud, my students,

00:30:45 --> 00:30:47

they understand, they get it, they're here. That

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was Saba Nua.

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He gave it all. And why do you

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think he learned how to give it all?

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Because who he learned his deed from?

00:30:55 --> 00:30:57

From Musa'at, the one who gave it all.

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You see how important it is to understand

00:31:00 --> 00:31:01

who you spend time with?

00:31:02 --> 00:31:03

You see how important it is to see

00:31:03 --> 00:31:05

how these things transfer?

00:31:05 --> 00:31:07

I'm not sure if Musa ibn Umayra ever

00:31:07 --> 00:31:09

had a conversation and said, hey, look, if

00:31:09 --> 00:31:10

the prophet

00:31:10 --> 00:31:12

ever asks you, use these lines.

00:31:14 --> 00:31:15

I'm not sure that ever happened. So I

00:31:15 --> 00:31:17

don't think it was scripted. I don't think

00:31:17 --> 00:31:19

it was planned. These things just occur when

00:31:19 --> 00:31:21

the hearts come together and you learn from

00:31:21 --> 00:31:22

your brothers and sisters

00:31:24 --> 00:31:25

And you're with them and you're having dinner

00:31:25 --> 00:31:27

and you're out somewhere and you're sitting on

00:31:27 --> 00:31:29

a nice patio and you just order food

00:31:29 --> 00:31:31

and the waiter comes, the waitress comes, which

00:31:31 --> 00:31:33

is, by the way, the happiest moment after

00:31:33 --> 00:31:33

Hajj.

00:31:35 --> 00:31:37

Like, after you've done your Hajj, number 2

00:31:37 --> 00:31:39

on that moment of happiness is when the

00:31:39 --> 00:31:41

waitress or waiter is coming with your food.

00:31:42 --> 00:31:43

Right? Documented scientifically,

00:31:43 --> 00:31:45

the serotonin release.

00:31:46 --> 00:31:49

And your friend then says, hey, is

00:31:49 --> 00:31:50

in, we should pray.

00:31:51 --> 00:31:52

Right? We should

00:31:54 --> 00:31:56

pray. Like, that kind of companionship

00:31:57 --> 00:31:59

reminding you to pray at a time when

00:31:59 --> 00:32:00

it's so inconvenient

00:32:01 --> 00:32:03

And it's so you have to pray in

00:32:03 --> 00:32:05

public and get so all these thing. Reminding

00:32:05 --> 00:32:07

you and and then what? You're inspired to

00:32:07 --> 00:32:08

do the right thing.

00:32:09 --> 00:32:11

That's the importance of friendship.

00:32:12 --> 00:32:13

Right? Not only having those

00:32:14 --> 00:32:14

so

00:32:18 --> 00:32:21

that this man, because of his sincerity for

00:32:21 --> 00:32:22

Allah when he passed away,

00:32:23 --> 00:32:25

the throne of Allah shook.

00:32:25 --> 00:32:28

There's another narration that's beautiful that the prophet

00:32:28 --> 00:32:30

was tiptoeing at the.

00:32:32 --> 00:32:34

He he he participated in Badr and Rafat,

00:32:34 --> 00:32:35

and he got,

00:32:36 --> 00:32:36

poisoned

00:32:36 --> 00:32:38

with a dagger at Hamdah, and then he

00:32:38 --> 00:32:41

later died from that from that wound. So

00:32:41 --> 00:32:43

when they praised his janazbah or when they

00:32:43 --> 00:32:45

were gathering for his burial, sorry, or when

00:32:45 --> 00:32:46

they were gathering for his burial,

00:32:46 --> 00:32:49

they the prophet was tiptoeing

00:32:50 --> 00:32:50

through

00:32:51 --> 00:32:52

the area of Al Qartir,

00:32:53 --> 00:32:56

and the companions asked the prophet, so, why

00:32:56 --> 00:32:57

are you tiptoeing? And he said, don't you

00:32:57 --> 00:32:59

see the thousands of angels that are here

00:32:59 --> 00:33:00

for Saab?

00:33:01 --> 00:33:03

Like, you you guys don't see the crowd?

00:33:05 --> 00:33:07

So, Imam al Zali here is quoting this

00:33:07 --> 00:33:10

name Saab al Moran in the same way

00:33:10 --> 00:33:10

that we say

00:33:11 --> 00:33:14

shoot the jump shot like Kobe did.

00:33:15 --> 00:33:18

Right? Master the fade away like MJ. If

00:33:18 --> 00:33:20

somebody said that name, you know exactly what

00:33:20 --> 00:33:21

they're talking about. Even if you don't know

00:33:21 --> 00:33:23

what basketball is. Even if you can't tell

00:33:23 --> 00:33:25

a basketball from a tennis ball, you're like,

00:33:25 --> 00:33:26

I get it.

00:33:26 --> 00:33:27

Kobe.

00:33:27 --> 00:33:28

Right?

00:33:28 --> 00:33:29

So is

00:33:30 --> 00:33:31

referencing that name,

00:33:31 --> 00:33:32

and

00:33:32 --> 00:33:33

the

00:33:34 --> 00:33:36

Just like the basketball players of

00:33:37 --> 00:33:39

Wow. Right? That inspiration of Salamah.

00:33:40 --> 00:33:41

To learn how to live your life the

00:33:41 --> 00:33:44

way that Sa'd did and you'll see that

00:33:44 --> 00:33:46

you'll have as powerful relationship with Allah Subhanahu

00:33:46 --> 00:33:48

Wa Ta'ala. Continue.

00:33:50 --> 00:33:50

Amen.

00:34:15 --> 00:34:17

He says that may Allah save you from

00:34:17 --> 00:34:18

being like one of those animals, the one

00:34:18 --> 00:34:20

that Allah described in the Quran where he

00:34:20 --> 00:34:22

says that they are like cattle. No. They're

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

worse.

00:34:30 --> 00:34:32

He said, don't think for a minute that

00:34:32 --> 00:34:34

you're safe when you're in the corner of

00:34:34 --> 00:34:35

your house, I. E. Your bedroom,

00:34:35 --> 00:34:37

that you don't think you can be transported

00:34:37 --> 00:34:39

from there into how we have to not

00:34:39 --> 00:34:40

into the jaws of hellfire.

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

Right? This is what it means to be

00:34:43 --> 00:34:45

sincere. I'm never safe. Not

00:34:45 --> 00:34:48

paranoid, not constantly thinking man on it but

00:34:48 --> 00:34:49

thinking to yourself

00:34:50 --> 00:34:52

Allah can always see me. He knows what

00:34:52 --> 00:34:52

I'm doing.

00:34:53 --> 00:34:54

He knows.

00:34:54 --> 00:34:57

Right? He knows on the incognito browser. He

00:34:57 --> 00:34:57

knows

00:34:58 --> 00:35:01

on my finsta. He knows. He knows everything

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

that I'm doing and even if I can

00:35:03 --> 00:35:05

hide it, even if my parents don't know,

00:35:05 --> 00:35:06

you know, one of the things that Muslim

00:35:06 --> 00:35:07

said Muslim

00:35:08 --> 00:35:10

youngsters say that's really scary

00:35:10 --> 00:35:13

is they brag about how good they lie.

00:35:13 --> 00:35:14

Have you guys ever done that or heard

00:35:14 --> 00:35:16

that? I just saw 20 people lower their

00:35:16 --> 00:35:16

heads.

00:35:17 --> 00:35:19

They're like I'm such a good liar.

00:35:20 --> 00:35:22

I can lie and, like, I could definitely

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

pass one of those tests, like, my blood

00:35:24 --> 00:35:25

work my heart rate didn't even show up

00:35:25 --> 00:35:27

at all. Right?

00:35:27 --> 00:35:29

And everyone, you know, people who say it's

00:35:29 --> 00:35:31

like, oh, man. I love it because that's

00:35:31 --> 00:35:33

just that's a bad time.

00:35:33 --> 00:35:35

That's a bad time.

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

It's not normal to be able to lie

00:35:39 --> 00:35:40

like that and give it. It's not normal.

00:35:40 --> 00:35:42

It's not that's not a healthy heart.

00:35:43 --> 00:35:45

Healthy heart can't do that.

00:35:45 --> 00:35:47

Healthy heart. A lot's out of building these

00:35:47 --> 00:35:50

physiological responses within us, like, you know, the

00:35:50 --> 00:35:53

heart rate increasing and sweating and getting nervous.

00:35:53 --> 00:35:54

That's normal.

00:35:54 --> 00:35:56

Right? But if we don't have that, then

00:35:56 --> 00:35:57

that's a problem.

00:35:58 --> 00:36:00

And that's what

00:36:00 --> 00:36:02

he's warning against. Don't think that you're safe

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

even for a second. Continue less hard.

00:36:34 --> 00:36:37

Was a really serious dude.

00:36:37 --> 00:36:41

He was really serious. Like, his personality was,

00:36:41 --> 00:36:42

like, really really

00:36:42 --> 00:36:44

serious. I don't know. There's no other adjectives

00:36:44 --> 00:36:46

to describe him. He was very serious.

00:36:47 --> 00:36:49

Really serious. He was intense and and but,

00:36:49 --> 00:36:51

subhanallah, one thing that you can learn from

00:36:51 --> 00:36:52

him is that

00:36:53 --> 00:36:54

quotes this narration about him.

00:37:00 --> 00:37:01

That he received

00:37:01 --> 00:37:03

someone gave him a glass of cold water.

00:37:03 --> 00:37:04

And as soon as they gave it to

00:37:04 --> 00:37:05

him,

00:37:06 --> 00:37:07

as soon as he took it,

00:37:08 --> 00:37:09

he says,

00:37:12 --> 00:37:13

fainted from it,

00:37:14 --> 00:37:16

and the glass dropped from his hand.

00:37:17 --> 00:37:19

When he came to, it was said to

00:37:19 --> 00:37:20

him,

00:37:21 --> 00:37:22

What happened to you?

00:37:23 --> 00:37:25

People around him are like, what's the deal?

00:37:25 --> 00:37:26

You alright? Feel light headed?

00:37:27 --> 00:37:29

And he said, I remembered that.

00:37:30 --> 00:37:33

I I it came across my mind when

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

I got that glass of cold water. The

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

hopes and the wishes at the now the

00:37:37 --> 00:37:38

people of now

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

when they say

00:37:41 --> 00:37:43

to the people of Jannah, oh, people of

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

Jannah, as mentioned in the

00:37:45 --> 00:37:45

here

00:37:46 --> 00:37:48

is quoted here. Oh, people of Jannah,

00:37:48 --> 00:37:51

give us some of the water or some

00:37:51 --> 00:37:53

other provision that you have. Just give us

00:37:53 --> 00:37:54

some,

00:37:55 --> 00:37:57

Begging for scraps from Genma

00:37:57 --> 00:37:59

while they're in the hellfire. Like, looking up

00:37:59 --> 00:38:01

to the people of Genma saying, just send

00:38:01 --> 00:38:04

us down something. Forget all the fruit. Forget

00:38:04 --> 00:38:06

all of that. Forget the pleasure. Just just

00:38:06 --> 00:38:08

just throw a glass of water down here.

00:38:08 --> 00:38:09

We're so thirsty.

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

Now that ad itself is powerful, but let's

00:38:13 --> 00:38:15

go back to what happened to Hassan al

00:38:15 --> 00:38:17

Basri when he heard it or when he

00:38:17 --> 00:38:18

lived it.

00:38:18 --> 00:38:20

How many of us have a relationship with

00:38:20 --> 00:38:22

the Quran to the point where, like, when

00:38:22 --> 00:38:24

we see something, we remember something from the

00:38:24 --> 00:38:26

Quran? You guys ever have you guys ever,

00:38:26 --> 00:38:27

like, witnessed something and thought of something from

00:38:27 --> 00:38:30

the Quran or anything? If you witness something

00:38:30 --> 00:38:32

and realize and you're like, wow.

00:38:33 --> 00:38:35

You remember nobody? Anything

00:38:35 --> 00:38:37

anything at all?

00:38:39 --> 00:38:39

Yeah?

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

What was it, Bob?

00:38:47 --> 00:38:48

I'm not giving grades, by the way. So

00:38:48 --> 00:38:49

this is, you

00:38:51 --> 00:38:51

know

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

So sometimes, like, really deep stuff, like, you

00:39:08 --> 00:39:10

like, you're waiting for a duas to be

00:39:10 --> 00:39:12

answered and the Quran mentioned something about being

00:39:12 --> 00:39:14

patient with your dua's and then all of

00:39:14 --> 00:39:15

a sudden your dua's are answered.

00:39:16 --> 00:39:18

Okay. Very good. I'm talking like

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

Like, very, like, descriptive. Allah says in from

00:39:28 --> 00:39:31

the sky came water that he sent down,

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

from that came fruit and vegetation from the

00:39:34 --> 00:39:35

earth. Like, do you guys ever walk and

00:39:35 --> 00:39:36

just, like, look at the sky and go

00:39:36 --> 00:39:39

in subhanallah? Texas is, like, back to back

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41

champion, world champion sunset king.

00:39:43 --> 00:39:45

Like, every time it's melted here, you're like,

00:39:45 --> 00:39:46

oh my goodness.

00:39:47 --> 00:39:49

Like, nowhere else, man. Nowhere else do you

00:39:49 --> 00:39:51

see sunsets like this. Partially because it's so

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

flat. Like, from here, you can actually see

00:39:53 --> 00:39:53

Houston.

00:39:54 --> 00:39:57

It's so flat, like, this land has no

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

hills so the horizon is very generous.

00:40:00 --> 00:40:01

Right?

00:40:02 --> 00:40:03

Getting to the point where

00:40:04 --> 00:40:07

your life interacts with Quran before your mind

00:40:07 --> 00:40:09

has to think about it. Is it does

00:40:09 --> 00:40:12

it sound cool? Like, your heart is always

00:40:12 --> 00:40:13

so familiar

00:40:14 --> 00:40:16

with the verses of the book that when

00:40:16 --> 00:40:18

you get something, you're like, now this is

00:40:18 --> 00:40:20

obviously intense. Right? It's not supposed to be

00:40:20 --> 00:40:21

a very serious person.

00:40:22 --> 00:40:23

But when he got a cold glass of

00:40:23 --> 00:40:25

water for some reason, maybe he was reading

00:40:25 --> 00:40:27

that I have that day or something, it

00:40:27 --> 00:40:29

affected him so seriously.

00:40:30 --> 00:40:33

Right? So ask yourself, what's the first thing

00:40:33 --> 00:40:35

that my heart thinks up when things happen

00:40:35 --> 00:40:35

in life?

00:40:36 --> 00:40:37

What's the first thing?

00:40:39 --> 00:40:40

There's a story about 1 of,

00:40:41 --> 00:40:43

one one of the, you know, the teacher

00:40:43 --> 00:40:45

from United States that he was riding on

00:40:45 --> 00:40:46

a car

00:40:46 --> 00:40:48

and he was he was traveling somewhere and

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

he was sleeping. Because a lot of times

00:40:50 --> 00:40:51

when you go on these tours, like, when

00:40:51 --> 00:40:53

you get to sleep, and the person who's

00:40:54 --> 00:40:56

driving almost got hit and had skid and

00:40:56 --> 00:40:59

turned and hit the brakes. And when the

00:40:59 --> 00:41:00

teacher on the Sheikh, he woke up, he

00:41:00 --> 00:41:02

said, La ilaha illallah. That was the first

00:41:02 --> 00:41:04

thing he said. He didn't even know what's

00:41:04 --> 00:41:04

happening.

00:41:05 --> 00:41:07

He didn't even know. He just said La

00:41:07 --> 00:41:08

ilaha illallah. Like, how many of us when

00:41:08 --> 00:41:10

something happens, the first words that come out

00:41:10 --> 00:41:12

of our mouth are things that we don't

00:41:12 --> 00:41:13

want the angels to write down?

00:41:14 --> 00:41:15

You know?

00:41:15 --> 00:41:17

That's a check. It's a hard check. So

00:41:17 --> 00:41:19

this is what Imam Abu Zadie is teaching

00:41:19 --> 00:41:21

us here. That if you work on yourself,

00:41:21 --> 00:41:21

eventually,

00:41:22 --> 00:41:24

your reactions will become spiritual. Your reactions will

00:41:24 --> 00:41:25

become

00:41:25 --> 00:41:26

good things

00:41:27 --> 00:41:29

instead of things that are embarrassing or things

00:41:29 --> 00:41:31

that are downright shameful. So we ask Allah

00:41:32 --> 00:41:34

to give us purified hearts. We ask Allah

00:41:34 --> 00:41:36

to give us the ability

00:41:37 --> 00:41:39

to place resolution in our spirit,

00:41:39 --> 00:41:40

to place defeat in our

00:41:41 --> 00:41:41

lower selves

00:41:42 --> 00:41:44

and to understand that that is aligned that

00:41:44 --> 00:41:45

we all cross any neurocognitive.

00:41:46 --> 00:41:48

Do you have any questions on Menti?

00:42:11 --> 00:42:12

Yeah.

00:42:12 --> 00:42:14

You're welcome. Alright, guys. We have a lot

00:42:14 --> 00:42:15

of people. We're great. Take care and and,

00:42:16 --> 00:42:18

yeah, next week when we're here,

00:42:18 --> 00:42:20

we're gonna be very fast. Okay.

00:42:21 --> 00:42:23

May Allah grant us to the So the

00:42:23 --> 00:42:25

time change for all of our roots programming

00:42:26 --> 00:42:28

is that we don't have unless it's advertised

00:42:28 --> 00:42:30

otherwise, everything is right before it's long. So,

00:42:30 --> 00:42:32

for example, if our next week is gonna

00:42:32 --> 00:42:33

be at 757,

00:42:34 --> 00:42:35

78,

00:42:35 --> 00:42:37

So we're gonna be doing this at 7

00:42:37 --> 00:42:39

sharp. So we'll start, like, 7th, like,

00:42:40 --> 00:42:41

gather here,

00:42:41 --> 00:42:43

everyone's safe. There's obviously no drinks. I'm sorry.

00:42:44 --> 00:42:46

7 ish, then we're gonna just go from

00:42:46 --> 00:42:47

7 to 7:45,

00:42:48 --> 00:42:49

10 minutes for your ad, then bring back

00:42:49 --> 00:42:51

to the trouble. And then we can go

00:42:51 --> 00:42:52

to Tallah Week. I know the value range.

00:42:52 --> 00:42:55

I should very, very close here. Got the

00:42:55 --> 00:42:57

tent set up for outdoor tunnel week, so

00:42:57 --> 00:42:59

very exciting stuff. So we can just go

00:42:59 --> 00:43:01

tunnel week for creation tunnel week and travel

00:43:01 --> 00:43:02

right there. Okay?

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