Safi Khan – Soul Food

Safi Khan
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The speaker discusses the misunderstandings of one's success and the importance of finding a connection to people and values. They emphasize the need to prioritize one's values and find value in one's behavior. The speaker also discusses Bilal's actions during the Kaaba and the importance of not being too busy with one sheet to cover one's body. They also mention the importance of knowing one's values and finding one's own legacy.
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But you didn't do anything. And, you know,

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one of the ways that the,

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they talk about this so profoundly is human

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beings have this kind of tendency to feel

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really great about themselves

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until they realize their own weaknesses, and everyone

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finds about their own weaknesses in very different

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ways. So for some people, it's when they

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get old.

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For some people, it's when they go through

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certain losses in their life, loss of jobs,

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loss of health, loss of, you know, perhaps,

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like, sanity to a certain degree,

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you only realize at that point how truly

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dependent and weak you really are. Because when

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Allah gives you certain small,

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you know, blessings in your life, you you

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get your 1st paycheck. Right? You get married.

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You buy your 1st car.

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You pay your rent for the first time

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in your life. You graduate with a certain

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degree. Like, Shaytan comes into your life, and

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he's like, man, like,

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now you're like a biomedical engineer, dude.

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Like, no one can stop you now. You

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you paid your 1st month's rent.

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Like, you're a big boy now. Like, you're

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not a kid anymore. Like, you start feeling

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really good about yourself until you realize, like,

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there's no food in your fridge.

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And you're like, oh, man. Like, I thought

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I thought I was it. Right? And then

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I realized I'm I'm I'm eating, like, you

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know, cream cheese and bagels for the next

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3 way 3 days. Right? I'm eating dalchajal

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for the next week and a half. I

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mean, that's when you kinda come back to

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Earth.

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And so Allah, he completely takes you to

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this kind of realization. He says,

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You are my creation.

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I created you. You didn't create yourself. He

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says,

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Okay? I created you from males and females.

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Alright? From a male and a female.

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And the scholars, they talk about this. They

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say that this is proof that everyone comes

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from Adam and Hawa. Right? That the belief

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in your creed is to literally believe that

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you came from 2 human beings.

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You came from Adam alaihis salaam and his

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wife Hawa,

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and this is where humanity started. And Allah

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talks about this in other ayaats in the

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Quran. He says,

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you know,

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you came from one singular

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source

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then Allah created for you pairs

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and from you became, like, several different people,

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men and women and children, what and and

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whatnot. And so he he teaches you all

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about this. And so he says,

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And here's where Allah begins to kind of

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specify a little bit. He says, we also

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created you from

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peoples and tribes, nations and tribes. Right?

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It's not possible

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for

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8,000,000,000

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plus people in the world to all just

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stay in one group.

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It's not possible. You know, like,

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we have this ability nowadays

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to kind of, like, oversimplify things.

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Why can't we all just be together? Right?

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Like, the reality is,

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homeboy, like, have you ever gone to another

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country?

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If anyone's gone from the US to visit,

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like, a foreign country, you'll realize why we're

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all different people.

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The cultures are vastly different. Anybody ever been

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overseas before?

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Good. Anyone been to, like, back home? Right?

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What's it like? You go there and you're

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like,

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where's the line? Right? Or the first time

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I went to the first time I ever

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went to Umrah. Right? Like, I put my

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order in at Carl's Junior and Hardee's.

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Right? I will never eat Carl's Junior and

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Hardee's ever again. I'm just tired of it

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now, by the way. If you if you

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go to Umrah, by the way, don't eat,

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like, the the the random, like, American chains,

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bro. Like, eat the local food. It's so

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much better. So, anyway, the first time I

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went, I was, like, an amateur. I was,

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like, a noob. So I went to, like,

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Carl's Junior and Hardee's, and I, like, put

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in my order, and I was, like, this

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nice little American kid

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waiting

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in line. I was like,

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man,

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where is this line? Right? Like, when are

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they gonna call me up? And then I

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saw, like, 8, like, Arab aunties, like, basically,

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like, bulldozing through me and picking up their

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order. And, like, I was waiting for, like,

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20 minutes, and I went to the front

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of the line. I went to the counter.

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I was like, Habibi, I put my order

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in, like, 20 minutes ago. Where's my food?

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He's like, yeah, man. Your food's been ready

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for the past, like, 15 minutes. We didn't

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know where you were. I was like, how

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am I supposed to know if my order's

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ready? He's like,

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you just come up. You just come up

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and get your food. And I was like,

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but there's no, like, call out system. All

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the so I was so naive because I

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was functioning off of, like, my world. Right?

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I was like, yeah. America. Right?

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Like,

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eat bald eagle. Right? I was like I

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was like I was, like, functioning off of

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that that reality when I realized that, man,

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like, Allah has made humanity

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into so many different types of people.

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Right? And you can't expect everyone to be

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the same. To want everyone to be the

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same is actually ignorant.

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To to think that everyone should think the

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same way that you think,

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everyone should be the same way that you

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are. I mean, this is ignorance. This is

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this is completely Jahala. Right? Because

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Allah has created people from so many different

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from from so many different roots. Right? A

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person may not have any contextual understanding of

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your life and where you come from, and

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you might not have any contextual understanding of

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their life and where they come from. So

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Allah says,

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that Allah has made you from nations and

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tribes.

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And here, by the way, Allah addresses

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nations and tribes.

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Meaning, that at that time, there were certain

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Arabs at the time of the prophet

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that they were extremely,

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like, really loyal to their nation. Right? Like,

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the Yemenis.

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The Yemenis at that time, like, they'd be

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like, oh, yeah. I'm from Yemen. You're all

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like, Yemen. I'm from Yemen. I'm from the

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south. So they, like, all rolled into one

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group. And then you had,

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and you'll find that in, like, Medina and

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Mecca till this day when you go. When

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you go to Medina and Mecca, you'll find,

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like, tribes still, like families. Right? Y'all know

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people who are like family tribes. Like, they

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just roll with their family. Like, oh, where

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who who are you? And they'll tell you,

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like, their family name. And so Allah addresses.

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Allah addresses their tribes because all these people,

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they have different things that they they they

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they affiliate with. And I want you guys

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to think about your lives. Like, who do

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you affiliate with? Like, do you affiliate with

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your family?

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Do you affiliate with your your friends,

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your workspace,

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whatever group you belong to? Like, everyone belongs

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to something. Right? I always I always like

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to ask people. You know? Like, the the

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greatest litmus test of, like, finding out what

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a person, like, kind of wants to be

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known as is when you ask them who

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they are, like, they say their name, and

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then the next line that they drop is,

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like, their their thing.

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Right? So if I'm like, hey. Assalamu alaikum.

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Who are you? They're like, oh, I'm Youssef,

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and I'm a student at UTD. I'm like,

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alright. UTD, bro. Like, this guy, like, rolls

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with the UTD crowd, like, through and through.

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Okay? If I'm like, hey, Who are you?

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And sister's like, oh, I'm I'm in a

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oh, cool. I'm from Arlington. I'm like, oh,

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dang.

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She's Arlington. Right? Like, that's the first thing

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she said after her name. That must mean

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something to her. Right? It's not just random

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that a person decides that the the second

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thing after my name that I want you

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to know about me is that I'm from

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Arlington. It's like the Denton people. Like, the

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first people to call out u n t.

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I'm from u n t. I'm like, okay.

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How have you be relaxed, bro? You like,

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I get it. You combine your prayers for

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a living. Like, you you you you you

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are like a UNT through and through. And

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so

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these are things that people just naturally drift

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towards, and Allah, he addresses that

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that the you you're a you're a person

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who has affiliations. That's cool. Right?

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But he mentions here,

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that there's a purpose for all this. At

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the end of the day,

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the the reason

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why he made

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you diverse

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is

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so that you can get to know each

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other. And we'll talk about this inshallah. I

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wanted to actually

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pause for a second in our conversation, and

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I wanted to give everyone a chance. Remember

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I told you guys I wanna give you

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guys, like, chance to, like, live tweet today.

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So I'm gonna give you guys a chance

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to talk to the people around you, and

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I wanna get some thoughts from y'all today.

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The first question I'm gonna ask you guys,

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and this is gonna be really critical thinking

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here, is

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what gives rise to the feeling of superiority

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in regards to one group over another?

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Where do you guys think that stems from?

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Like, what's, like, the essence of that

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that that mindset of a person

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who

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thinks that,

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like, oh, I'm better than you because of,

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like, this and this and this or, like,

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because I belong to this or because I'm

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from that people or I'm from this thing

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or that thing. Where does that stem from?

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Why do you think where do you think

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that stems from? I want you to get

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to talk to the person near you, and

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I wanna get some thoughts from you guys

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inshallah.

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Go ahead inshallah. Talk and we'll reconvene in,

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like, 3 minutes. Go ahead, Bismillah.

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Alright. What do we think? Bismillah, what do

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we got?

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Let's get some thoughts here. Why why do

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we think like, where does this stem from?

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Where does this kind of obsession with,

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because, again, at the end of the day,

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I want you guys to know this that

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this is not like

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a this is not like a common day

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issue. Right? I mean, it's not even like

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a

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past century issue. The the the idea of

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prejudice

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and superiority the feeling of superiority of other

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people has been a prevalent thing for a

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long time. Right?

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You know, it it it was back in

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the day of prophet Nuh alaihis salam, prophet

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Hud alaihis salam, Thamud. Right? I mean, these

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these are the tribes of people who, in

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certain regards, felt better than other people because

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of the wealth that they had or the

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accolades that they had or whatever. So where

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where does it come from? Right? I mean,

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you guys still see it today to a

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certain degree. I mean, how many of y'all

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have ever visited certain spaces where you definitely

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picked up on a vibe of, like, okay.

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Yeah. Like, there's, like, this certain kind of

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aura here. Right? Like, if I'm not this

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type of person, then I'm not really

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I'm not really welcome. Right? I feel kinda

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strange. Right? Because I'm made to feel like

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an outcast, essentially. So my question is, where

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does this come from? Where do you guys

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think it comes from? Anybody wanna share?

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Yeah. Go ahead.

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Mhmm. Right.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. Right. Yeah. And and

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and you bring up, like, a I think

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this hits home for a lot of people.

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I think I was traumatized. One single tear.

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Like, just

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people didn't pursue the medical field.

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And everyone who's premed right now is gonna

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be super quiet because you'd feel like, oh

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my god. I'm the bad guy here. No.

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No. No. I I again, the the the

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conversation is actually to bring about the the

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awareness that all of these things have their

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beauty in in society. Right?

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And what she was kinda mentioning here is

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a cultural component of how in certain cultures,

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certain careers are looked at as almost like

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elite. Right? Like, superior

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to other careers because

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either those are noble and honorable and other

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careers may not be because

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they're just not looked at it in that

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regard, right, in that per in that in

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that particular, you know, society or that particular

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culture. And, again, it has a lot of

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trauma involved with it. Right? I mean, you

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have no idea how many people and I'm

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sure you guys have witnessed this and experiences

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with circles of social life and whatever.

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How many people have been scarred because of

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this stuff? Right? Like, they feel they feel

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so low in value because they didn't become

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a certain thing that everybody else, like, was,

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you know, aspiring to become, or their parents

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put them on this pedestal, and you weren't

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really successful unless you basically became a certain

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person in a certain career field. And if

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you didn't become that person in that career

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field, then you're just kinda like a mediocre

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human being. Right? And, again, a lot of

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this stuff comes from a very cultural understanding

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of what success is and what success isn't.

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Right? Very good. Very good. Anybody else?

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Anybody else? Why do you where where do

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you think this stuff stems from? Miss Mila?

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Yeah?

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Right.

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Yep.

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That's powerful. That's extremely powerful. What she said

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was so beautiful. She said,

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not understanding

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what true value is. Right? Because, again, at

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the end of the day, every human being

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is looking for some sort of value.

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Right? Everyone wants to be valuable to a

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certain regard.

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But when a person may not really understand

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what true value is, they will try to

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make up their own value however way they

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can. Right? And this is why, by the

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way, there's a hadith of the prophet that's

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so profound. He says,

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that Allah does not look at your your

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your sur. Right? Like your your your image,

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your appearance

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nor

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nor does Allah look at your wealth.

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Allah rather looks at your your what what's

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within your hearts and what's what what you

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do with your actions. Right? And if you

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think about it, this hadith is so timeless

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because the first two things that the prophet

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mentions are 2 things that human beings have

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put on a pedestal

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that are almost, like, untouchable.

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Right?

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They they they think people think that if

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you are wealthy

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or if you're good looking. Right? And he

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says,

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Allah doesn't look at those two things. And

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to this day, think about it. What does

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society

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they they they hunt? What does society

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prize over anything else? Money and beauty. Right?

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Everything you see out in society

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focuses on these two things when it comes

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to value. Right? You either have to make

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money. You either have to be, you know,

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associated with money, or you have to be

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of some sort of, like, visual attractiveness

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to to general society. And if you don't

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have those two things,

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then no one's gonna bat an eye when

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they walk by you on the street. You're

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not gonna be valuable.

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And so this is why, subhanAllah, like the

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sister mentioned, right, people are looking to fill

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these voids however way they can. But when

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the prophet speaks and he says,

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what's hard is that human beings are people

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who y'all ever heard the phrase, like, see

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it to believe it. Human beings, unfortunately, have

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been this reality there's this optically, then I

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don't really care. Right?

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Like, if I don't see it optically, then

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I don't really care. Right? So if I

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can't see a person's beautiful

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or if I can't tell a person's wealthy,

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then I'm just gonna, like, gloss by.

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I don't really care. Like like, so what

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if you're, like, a good person internally? Like,

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I don't really like, I can't see that

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right away because guess what? It takes work

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to get to know a person when you

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can't see something on their on their sleeves.

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Does that make sense? Like, how many people

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have you met in your life that are

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so beautiful,

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but it took time to get to know

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that beauty?

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Because it wasn't on the exterior. And how

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many times

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have we misjudged a person who we saw

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as beautiful?

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Right? Like, on the exterior. Like, wow. Like,

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They have everything put together. Like, it looks

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like they're happy on the outside. It looks

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like they're wealthy. It looks like they're,

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like, like, their pictures on Instagram look incredible.

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Right? But when you get to know them

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more and more and more, you see there's

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a lot of a lot of things that

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are troubling once you get to see the

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things that the average person doesn't see about

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them. And that's why the prophet said that

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when you want a breath a breath of

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fresh air

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and you finally find what Allah values,

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you will begin to truly

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not prioritize

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the things that humanity always values, which is

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looks and money.

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You will start looking at people's hearts.

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Like, yeah. Sure. Like, you come in with,

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like, your, like, $500 outfit, but, like, can

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you hold an honest conversation with somebody?

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Like, can you can you sympathize with somebody?

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And and and think about it. Like, this

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whole, like, you know, Sheikh Omar posted about

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this, like, the other day.

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It was, like, maybe, like, a week ago.

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But he said, like, right now, because of,

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like, the Ghazan crisis,

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this should be, like, the turning point

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to us completely,

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completely

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pushing away, like, celebrity culture.

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Like, how many how many of us have

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truly found out about, like, where people's

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standards and morals lie when it comes to

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the Palestinian situation

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in regards to, like, celebrity culture and life.

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People who chose to speak out about it,

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people who chose to stay silent about it,

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and people who chose to even support the

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opposite side. Right? And it could have been

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people that we actually were like, oh, like,

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I like what they do. Right? Like, I

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appreciate their talent or, like, their art and

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blah blah blah. But then you realize, like,

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man, this person cannot speak up one time.

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They couldn't speak up one time about

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13,000 children dying in Gaza?

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They can speak up one time about the

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genocide in Palestine?

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Yeah. Sure. They can stand up on a

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Netflix special and just, like, kill it on

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the comedy circuit, but, like, they can just

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say one thing. They can tweet one thing.

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And now because of that, I realized, like,

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where I stand with this person. Yeah. Like,

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their comedy was great. They made me laugh

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for, like, 3 years

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straight, but now I see where I stand

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with them.

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Allah values what's within the hearts.

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And what they do with those actions from

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from the heart.

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It really teaches you a lot about who

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people are. SubhanAllah.

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Right? Very good. Anybody else?

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Where do you think we we we get

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this from? Yep.

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Please.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah. Yeah. For your group because you feel

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you have a reason. Yep. Because you have

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something over the other group. Grass is always

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greener.

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But Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yep.

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Yeah.

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That's so interesting. He mentioned a very interesting

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element that I think, you know, is is

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very it it is very you know, it

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it jogs the brain a little bit. Everybody

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wants something that they don't have. Right?

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So it's so interesting. Or hey. I mean,

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even when you look at, like, race. Right?

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What what what's like that what's like the

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joke that everybody makes about, like, desi culture,

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at least, like, from, you know, my cultural

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background appearance wise? Everyone wants to be fair.

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Everyone wants to be, like, lighter skin. They

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even, like, advertise us on commercials. Right? Like,

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fair and lovely.

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Wow. Like, I have had conversations with lie.

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I kid you not. I've had conversations with

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people when it comes to, like, marriage. Like,

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oh, that person's like,

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no.

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Like, the kids you'll have with them is

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like, no. They're gonna be dark skinned, and

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you're like, what on earth? Like, where's the

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stem? Like, when you break it down to,

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like, a math, you actually think about how

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crazy that statement is. Like, oh, that kid

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you're gonna have or, like, that person, like,

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yeah. They're, like, darker skinned than you. You're,

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like,

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interesting. Right? Like, cool. Cool observation. Right? It's

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so interesting, and and and there's actually a

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hadith about this that's very profound because,

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again,

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this proves that

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it it can happen to the best of

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people. There's actually a story in the life

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of the prophet that involves

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a Sahabi by the name of,

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Abu Zar al Ghifari.

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Okay. Abu Zar al Ghifari radhiallahu ta'ala. We

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call him radhiallahu ta'ala because he was a

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Sahabi of the prophet

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When he saw Bilal radiallahu an one time

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who was an Abyssinian

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he was a former slave of a man

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by the name of Umayyad bin Khalaf.

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He was an Abyssinian slave prior to his

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Islam.

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He, after accepting Islam

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remember we talked about this, last Thursday,

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that one of the things that Suraj al

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Hajarat actually teaches us is that we don't

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call people things that they wouldn't want to

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be known as. Right? Like, this is just

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what they do not want to be known

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as. We don't call them that. And this

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is a part of, by the way, of

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slander, of of of of backbiting.

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The prophet said, backbiting is mentioning your brother

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or sister, right,

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in a way that they would not want

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to be mentioned. It's not about telling the

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truth or lying. Right? It's about mentioning them

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in a way that they would not want

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to be mentioned. So Abu Dharr al Ghifali,

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one time when he saw Bilal,

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he actually called him to, like, purely identify

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him. Not, like, out of pure, like, prejudice,

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but he called him the son of a

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black woman one time. The famous

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story. He called him the son of a

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black woman.

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And so the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, he

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heard this.

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He heard this, and he turned to Abu

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Dharr al Ghifari, and he was annoyed.

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It was clear. There was, like, there there

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was there was very beautiful, like, hints in

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that riwayyah that shows the prophet was a

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little bit agitated by this. So he turned

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to Abu Dhar al Ghifari radiAllahu anhu. He

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said, you are the man who's still leaving

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trails of of Jahiliyah behind you. He straight

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upset it to him.

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He goes, like, by that statement, it proves

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that, like, you know, there there's still that,

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like, that that that trail.

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Like, you stop and shed it completely.

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Because a person who accepts Islam,

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what Islam does for a person,

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it helps shed

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the bad habits off of you. Right? Like,

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if a person,

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like, before they began to practice and really

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grow closer to Allah, they were a person

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who, like, backbit Allah. Right?

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They've become Muslim. Doesn't mean automatically overnight they're

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just gonna stop.

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No, man. Like, you're a human being. Like,

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this is something that is gonna take a

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lot of training and a lot of a

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a lot of consistency to help you get

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over certain habits.

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So what Islam does, it is that it

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helps you shed these bad habits. So in

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Abu Dharr Ghifari, he addressed Bilal radiAllahu an

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as this particular description. The prophet he said

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that this is proof that you haven't shed

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that old

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completely yet. You still got work to do,

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which means that a Muslim is not a

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perfect human being.

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Just because you said

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does not mean that, like, you're automatically like

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the saint.

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Right? Like, you're like, siddhi now. Like, you're

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you're you're, like, close to Allah. No. No.

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No. You're trying to get better.

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You're trying to grow closer,

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but these things you still have to watch

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out for. Okay? And there's another story where

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a group of people, they came to the

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prophet and they said, You Rasoolallah,

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who are the most

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honorable

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of everybody?

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And the prophet, he says,

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atqahum.

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He said the people

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who are the most noble of you are

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those who have taqwa, who are the closest

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to Allah. And then they go to the

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prophet, and they said, You Rasoolallah, you know

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we didn't ask you about that.

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Like, we're not trying to, like, ask you,

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like, yeah. Like, of course, like, people who

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are close to Allah are the people who

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are the the most pious and the greatest

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of people, but, like, we're trying to get

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at something else.

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And so the prophet he says,

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He says, if you wanna ask me who,

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like, the greatest or, like, the most noble

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person was, it was prophet Yusuf.

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He was the son of a prophet, who

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was the son of a prophet, who was

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the son of a prophet, who was the

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son of Khalilullah. Who's Khalilullah?

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Anyone know?

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Ibrahim, right. Yusuf was a descendant of Ibrahim

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alaihis salam

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and so they go to the prophet and

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they say You Rasoolullah

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we didn't ask you even about that

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and so

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the prophet he says

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he says,

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then

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you what do you want me to what

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what were you asking me about? He said,

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are you asking me about, like, the lineage

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of, like, you, like, the Arabs specifically?

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Because, again, like, the Arabs in Mecca and

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Medina, they used to live off this stuff.

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Like, yeah. Like, my dad.

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Right? Like, my dad was this and this

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and that and that. Like, this is the

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family that I come from.

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And they said, Na'am You Rasool Allah, tell

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us about, like, the most noble of, like,

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the Arabs.

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And the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam he

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says fakhiya

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rukum fil islam.

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He said that the best of you

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in Jahiliyah

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are the best of you in Islam, meaning

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that like those of you who have, like,

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the best manners and the best morals when

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you were when before you were Muslim, those

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are the same people who are the best

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of you now that you're Muslim.

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Like,

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nothing like, if you think that your wealth

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and your tribalism made you better than other

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Muslims now that you're Muslim, get that out

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of you. That doesn't matter anymore. I don't

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care if you're, like, from Peshawar or, like,

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from Sindh. I don't care if you're, like,

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I don't care if you're from, you know,

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Karachi or Islamabad. Like, get that out of

00:27:48 --> 00:27:50

your system, bro. Like, that's not what defines

00:27:50 --> 00:27:51

you as a Muslim.

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What defines you as a Muslim is if

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you're the best person in your morals and

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your manner from that area, then you'd be

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the best person after Islam. That's all that

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matters. Okay? And this is why Allah he

00:28:01 --> 00:28:02

mentions here, he says,

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that the best of you in the sight

00:28:08 --> 00:28:09

of Allah

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are those who are the most God conscious

00:28:12 --> 00:28:13

of you. Okay.

00:28:13 --> 00:28:15

And this is why the prophet sallallahu alaihi

00:28:15 --> 00:28:16

wa sallam, he

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gave that very famous speech.

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After he came back to Mecca,

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he said to the Ummah, he said,

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oh, people,

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Allah has removed

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from you,

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like, the slogans

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of jahiliyah,

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like what you guys used to pride yourself

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over. And by the way, the reason why

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the prophet was a person who could speak

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about this over everybody was because he obliterated

00:28:43 --> 00:28:43

those stereotypes.

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Think about what the prophet did in his

00:28:45 --> 00:28:47

personal life. Who was the first wife of

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam? What was

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her name?

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Khadija Radiallahu Anha.

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Khadija radiallahu anha was a widow,

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a woman who was married who her husband

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passed away.

00:29:01 --> 00:29:03

Khadija radiAllahu Anha had children already.

00:29:04 --> 00:29:07

Khadija radiAllahu Anha was from a tribe

00:29:08 --> 00:29:09

that was not the tribe of the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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and he still married her.

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This was something that was like, if you

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look at it as a Muslim, you're like,

00:29:19 --> 00:29:21

he broke barriers already even with his marriage.

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He broke barriers.

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This woman was not from his tribe.

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She was actually from a status that was,

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like, in terms of, like, wealth above his.

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Her family owned businesses.

00:29:35 --> 00:29:35

The prophet

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didn't come from a father or a mother

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that was, like, extremely wealthy.

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In fact, his mother Amina did not have

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money

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to give in terms of, like, babysitting. That's

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why Halima Saadia radiAllahu the the the the

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woman who took care of the prophet

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when he was a child, Halima,

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she was the she he she was the

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only one who would take him because Amina

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didn't have any money to give to her,

00:30:01 --> 00:30:02

so she was kinda stuck with a last

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resort.

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So when you think about what the prophet

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did was he broke stereotypes.

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You look at the story of Bilal radiallahu

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ta'ala Anhu. Y'all know the story of Bilal?

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The story of Bilal radiallahu anhu was notably

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the first person to call the Adhan in

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the Muslim Ummah.

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And Bilal radiallahu an, when he climbed the

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Kaaba, the prophet told him to climb the

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Kaaba. Right? That was not just some random

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command the prophet gave Bilal. Why do you

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think he did that? He told Bilal to

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go climb the Kaaba to give the Adhan.

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He was an ab a former Abi sunian

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slave. There was a story that literally mentions

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that when Bilal

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went to on top of the Kaaba to

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call the adhan for the first time, the

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people who are around,

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like, the people who are around, the non

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Muslims at that time, they said, like, if

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our if our fathers saw

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a black man

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climb the Kaaba

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to call people to prayer,

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they would be, like, tossing in their graves

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to see this site right now.

00:31:00 --> 00:31:02

Like, the like, that's the stuff that they

00:31:02 --> 00:31:04

would say, but the that's exactly the reason

00:31:04 --> 00:31:05

why the prophet did it.

00:31:06 --> 00:31:09

He wanted to make sure that this image

00:31:09 --> 00:31:10

is burned in people's minds,

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That a person from an Abyssinian descent who

00:31:14 --> 00:31:16

was a former slave

00:31:16 --> 00:31:19

climbed the Kaaba to give the event to

00:31:19 --> 00:31:20

call people to prayer.

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This was who Bilal was.

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And

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Bilal radiallahu an, you know, it's really incredible

00:31:27 --> 00:31:28

story about him.

00:31:28 --> 00:31:30

If you wanna talk about like the love

00:31:30 --> 00:31:32

that Bilal had for the prophet sallallahu alaihi

00:31:32 --> 00:31:34

wasallam, after the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam passed

00:31:34 --> 00:31:37

away. Right. Bilal radiallahu an by the way

00:31:37 --> 00:31:39

did not continue to live in Medina. There

00:31:39 --> 00:31:41

was a story of Bilal radiallahu an one

00:31:41 --> 00:31:43

time after the prophet passed away sallallahu alaihi

00:31:43 --> 00:31:45

sallam. When he was giving Adhan,

00:31:46 --> 00:31:47

he said that,

00:31:49 --> 00:31:51

when he was going through the adhan

00:31:55 --> 00:31:58

When he reached Ashadu Ananda Muhammad Rasoolallah, he

00:31:58 --> 00:31:59

said that his voice could not continue.

00:32:00 --> 00:32:02

He said, like, literally, like, my voice stopped.

00:32:03 --> 00:32:06

I could not continue because my heart could

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

not handle saying, Muhammad

00:32:09 --> 00:32:10

in the city of a man

00:32:11 --> 00:32:11

who

00:32:12 --> 00:32:13

honored me,

00:32:13 --> 00:32:15

who gave us so much.

00:32:15 --> 00:32:18

So Bilal radiAllahu an literally he left the

00:32:18 --> 00:32:20

city of Madinah to move somewhere else, and

00:32:20 --> 00:32:23

he continued to live Islam in another city

00:32:23 --> 00:32:24

after the passing of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

00:32:24 --> 00:32:26

wa sallam. So but you think about, like,

00:32:26 --> 00:32:28

what he must have done for Bilal

00:32:29 --> 00:32:31

to feel that way about him.

00:32:32 --> 00:32:34

He gave Bilal a status that Bilal

00:32:34 --> 00:32:36

had never had before in his life.

00:32:37 --> 00:32:39

And that status was not a status that

00:32:39 --> 00:32:42

was like, oh, you're Abyssinian, so you're better

00:32:42 --> 00:32:43

than the Arabs. No. No. No. He said,

00:32:43 --> 00:32:45

Bilal, you're a Muslim.

00:32:46 --> 00:32:47

You're a Muslim.

00:32:47 --> 00:32:50

You will receive a status as a believer

00:32:51 --> 00:32:53

that you never had before you didn't believe

00:32:53 --> 00:32:54

in Allah,

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And that is what made Bilal radiAllahu anhu

00:32:57 --> 00:32:58

who he was.

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And this is why he says

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And then finally

00:33:06 --> 00:33:07

he says at the very end

00:33:10 --> 00:33:13

Allah is the one who is all knowing

00:33:14 --> 00:33:16

and he is Khabir. Khabir comes from what?

00:33:17 --> 00:33:19

Khabir comes from the word Khabr which means

00:33:19 --> 00:33:21

what? News like being informed.

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So Allah is the most well informed. Why

00:33:23 --> 00:33:25

you guys think that this is the name

00:33:25 --> 00:33:27

that Allah uses to

00:33:28 --> 00:33:30

address him self in this particular ayah because

00:33:31 --> 00:33:34

the they say, because certain people, they may

00:33:34 --> 00:33:36

carry themselves in certain ways

00:33:36 --> 00:33:37

in this dunya

00:33:37 --> 00:33:39

as such and such, but Allah really knows

00:33:39 --> 00:33:40

who they are.

00:33:41 --> 00:33:42

Like, a person

00:33:42 --> 00:33:45

may carry themselves in a way that they're,

00:33:45 --> 00:33:47

like, lofty. Like, I'm like a I have

00:33:47 --> 00:33:49

power. We all mentioned this. Right? This person

00:33:49 --> 00:33:51

has power. Human beings, they they they they

00:33:51 --> 00:33:53

thirst for power.

00:33:54 --> 00:33:55

Your brother mentioned, like, a person wants to

00:33:55 --> 00:33:58

feel that, like, that that that power over

00:33:58 --> 00:34:00

other people because I have something that you

00:34:00 --> 00:34:00

don't,

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

but Allah being Khabeer

00:34:04 --> 00:34:06

is the one who truly knows

00:34:07 --> 00:34:09

who you actually are. You could have, like,

00:34:09 --> 00:34:09

$10,000,000

00:34:10 --> 00:34:10

in the bank,

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

and you could be the poorest person

00:34:15 --> 00:34:16

in your heart.

00:34:17 --> 00:34:19

You could be the most beautiful human being

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

on earth, but you could be robbed of

00:34:21 --> 00:34:24

beauty of Aamal, of deeds. You don't do

00:34:24 --> 00:34:27

anything with your life, but, alhamdulillah, you look

00:34:27 --> 00:34:28

all pretty.

00:34:28 --> 00:34:30

It looks nice when you're up there,

00:34:30 --> 00:34:33

but there's nothing to you. There's nothing more

00:34:33 --> 00:34:35

to you than than than literally that

00:34:36 --> 00:34:38

and this is why the Prophet would literally

00:34:38 --> 00:34:39

honor people

00:34:40 --> 00:34:40

who

00:34:41 --> 00:34:44

didn't have much when Musa'ab ibn Umar

00:34:45 --> 00:34:45

passed

00:34:46 --> 00:34:47

away in battle

00:34:48 --> 00:34:49

in the battle of Uhud.

00:34:49 --> 00:34:52

This famous Sahabi who was wealthy,

00:34:53 --> 00:34:54

The prophet used to say that there was

00:34:54 --> 00:34:57

nobody like Musa Abi bin Umar. He used

00:34:57 --> 00:34:59

to wear clothes that nobody could find. Y'all

00:34:59 --> 00:35:01

know, like, those dudes that, like, don't have

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

tags on their clothes. Right? Like, where'd this

00:35:03 --> 00:35:04

guy get that from? You're like, yeah. I

00:35:04 --> 00:35:06

got a custom made. Right? Like, no one

00:35:06 --> 00:35:07

knows where their clothes are from. That was

00:35:07 --> 00:35:10

Mus'a'a ibn Umar. And then when Mus'a'a accepted

00:35:10 --> 00:35:12

Islam, all of that was stripped from his

00:35:12 --> 00:35:14

mother literally took all of that away from

00:35:14 --> 00:35:14

him.

00:35:15 --> 00:35:17

And he went to to to the prophet

00:35:17 --> 00:35:20

sallallahu alaihi wasallam with nothing. The companions when

00:35:20 --> 00:35:22

they saw him, they cried. They're like, Mus'ab,

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

look look look how he had everything and

00:35:24 --> 00:35:25

all of a sudden he has nothing. And

00:35:25 --> 00:35:27

the prophet, he would say, he would smile.

00:35:27 --> 00:35:29

He said, look at a person, Musa Abi

00:35:29 --> 00:35:32

bunn Umar, who left everything he had for

00:35:32 --> 00:35:34

Allah and his messenger. And so when Musa

00:35:34 --> 00:35:35

Abi bunn Umar passed away in the battle

00:35:35 --> 00:35:38

of Uhud, it was mentioned that when it

00:35:38 --> 00:35:40

when it came to covering his body,

00:35:41 --> 00:35:41

the sheet

00:35:42 --> 00:35:44

that was there to cover his body, if

00:35:44 --> 00:35:46

you pulled it too high up, it would

00:35:46 --> 00:35:48

show his feet. And if you pulled it

00:35:48 --> 00:35:50

too far down, it would show his head.

00:35:50 --> 00:35:52

It would show his face, and that is

00:35:52 --> 00:35:54

how little Musa'aba had when he died.

00:35:56 --> 00:35:58

But you think about what Musa'aba

00:35:59 --> 00:35:59

died as.

00:36:00 --> 00:36:01

He didn't die as a person who had

00:36:01 --> 00:36:02

all those things.

00:36:03 --> 00:36:04

He died as a person who had barely

00:36:04 --> 00:36:06

one sheet to cover his body when he

00:36:06 --> 00:36:09

passed away, yet he had the prophet standing

00:36:09 --> 00:36:10

right next to him making dua for him

00:36:10 --> 00:36:11

when he died.

00:36:12 --> 00:36:13

Who do you wanna be, man, when you

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

pass away? When Sheikh Mikael and I did

00:36:15 --> 00:36:16

that session last week together,

00:36:17 --> 00:36:19

he left us with a beautiful question.

00:36:20 --> 00:36:22

Like, what do you wanna be known as?

00:36:22 --> 00:36:24

Like, what is your legacy when you die?

00:36:24 --> 00:36:26

Do you just wanna be a person who

00:36:26 --> 00:36:28

was known to have, like, this job? You

00:36:28 --> 00:36:29

know, sister mentioned

00:36:29 --> 00:36:31

there were there were this person in that

00:36:31 --> 00:36:33

profession or this person in that profession or

00:36:33 --> 00:36:34

that.

00:36:35 --> 00:36:37

All that stuff passes away with you, man.

00:36:38 --> 00:36:39

What continues is

00:36:39 --> 00:36:42

subhanAllah you think about the prophet sallallahu sallallahu.

00:36:42 --> 00:36:45

There's no Muslim who dare utters this man's

00:36:45 --> 00:36:47

name without saying Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam after

00:36:47 --> 00:36:48

they mentioned Muhammad.

00:36:49 --> 00:36:51

There's no person who mentions Abu Bakr as

00:36:51 --> 00:36:54

Siddiq without saying RadiAllahu Anhu

00:36:54 --> 00:36:56

after saying his name.

00:36:56 --> 00:36:58

Like, that stuff lasts centuries

00:36:59 --> 00:37:01

and so truly when you see

00:37:04 --> 00:37:06

that's what actually lasts with you.

00:37:07 --> 00:37:08

That's what stays with you.

00:37:09 --> 00:37:10

So all of these things and, again, we're

00:37:10 --> 00:37:12

not gonna be able to address all of

00:37:12 --> 00:37:13

these things in one session, but I wanted

00:37:13 --> 00:37:14

to get the ball rolling

00:37:15 --> 00:37:18

to start thinking about, as young people, what

00:37:18 --> 00:37:19

we prioritize in our lives,

00:37:20 --> 00:37:22

and this comes through social life, through family

00:37:22 --> 00:37:23

life.

00:37:23 --> 00:37:25

You know, the people we choose to spend

00:37:25 --> 00:37:27

time with, the people our families choose to

00:37:27 --> 00:37:29

affiliate with, the jobs that we choose to

00:37:29 --> 00:37:31

pursue, the careers that we want in our

00:37:31 --> 00:37:32

lives,

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

the neighborhoods that we live in,

00:37:36 --> 00:37:38

the the the the items in terms of

00:37:38 --> 00:37:40

monetary value that we buy,

00:37:41 --> 00:37:41

these things

00:37:42 --> 00:37:45

are things that human beings may prize themselves

00:37:45 --> 00:37:46

over.

00:37:46 --> 00:37:48

They pride themselves about these things,

00:37:49 --> 00:37:50

but is it really what defines you at

00:37:50 --> 00:37:52

the end of the day? You're not gonna

00:37:52 --> 00:37:53

be buried with any of that stuff,

00:37:55 --> 00:37:57

and a 100 years after you pass away

00:37:58 --> 00:38:00

when possibly the people who you worked with

00:38:00 --> 00:38:02

and their children forgot who you were,

00:38:03 --> 00:38:06

the people who you who will remember you

00:38:06 --> 00:38:07

are the people who are like, yeah. You

00:38:07 --> 00:38:10

know what? Like, I remember. My grandmother

00:38:10 --> 00:38:12

spoke really highly of this one friend that

00:38:12 --> 00:38:13

she had.

00:38:13 --> 00:38:16

She would always be there on Monday nights

00:38:16 --> 00:38:18

with her, on Thursday nights with her.

00:38:18 --> 00:38:19

Roots,

00:38:19 --> 00:38:20

What's gonna happen in a 100 years? We

00:38:20 --> 00:38:22

don't know. We don't know what's gonna happen

00:38:22 --> 00:38:24

to Kalim in a 100 years, but think

00:38:24 --> 00:38:26

about, like, your grandchildren. Your grandchildren may talk

00:38:26 --> 00:38:28

about a story of their grandmother,

00:38:28 --> 00:38:30

or your grandchildren may talk about a story

00:38:30 --> 00:38:31

of their grandfather

00:38:31 --> 00:38:34

who used to always frequent this one place.

00:38:35 --> 00:38:36

They used to try to get closer to

00:38:36 --> 00:38:38

Allah every Monday,

00:38:38 --> 00:38:39

every Wednesday

00:38:39 --> 00:38:42

with a scholar named Sheikh Mikhail. Right? Like,

00:38:43 --> 00:38:46

Raimo Allah. Right? He may no longer be

00:38:46 --> 00:38:48

with us, but I remember they used to

00:38:48 --> 00:38:49

always be there.

00:38:49 --> 00:38:52

That's what I remember my grandfather for.

00:38:52 --> 00:38:55

Yeah. My grandfather drove like a like a

00:38:55 --> 00:38:55

Porsche.

00:38:56 --> 00:38:58

Bro, who who the who cares?

00:39:00 --> 00:39:00

This person

00:39:01 --> 00:39:03

was known to frequent the Masjid, and this

00:39:03 --> 00:39:05

is what they were known for. Think about

00:39:05 --> 00:39:06

what you wanna be known for,

00:39:07 --> 00:39:09

and this is what inshallah will leave everybody

00:39:09 --> 00:39:10

with. We ask Allah

00:39:11 --> 00:39:12

to make us of the people

00:39:13 --> 00:39:15

who truly, truly

00:39:15 --> 00:39:16

put our value

00:39:17 --> 00:39:17

where

00:39:18 --> 00:39:20

Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, would be pleased with

00:39:20 --> 00:39:22

us. We ask Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, to

00:39:22 --> 00:39:24

allow us to be people who

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

never allow our values

00:39:27 --> 00:39:29

and the things that we aspire for to

00:39:29 --> 00:39:31

be things that come at the expense of

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

being close to our deen. And we ask

00:39:34 --> 00:39:34

Allah

00:39:34 --> 00:39:36

to make us of the people

00:39:36 --> 00:39:37

who value

00:39:37 --> 00:39:39

what Allah values. We ask Allah

00:39:40 --> 00:39:41

to allow us to be people

00:39:42 --> 00:39:43

who are able

00:39:43 --> 00:39:44

to shrug

00:39:44 --> 00:39:47

off the the temporary nature of this dunya.

00:39:47 --> 00:39:48

We ask Allah

00:39:48 --> 00:39:51

to not allow us to be people who

00:39:51 --> 00:39:54

are ignorant in the things that pride ourselves

00:39:54 --> 00:39:56

over in this dunya. We ask Allah

00:39:56 --> 00:39:57

to allow our legacies

00:39:58 --> 00:40:01

to reach far beyond the limitations of this

00:40:01 --> 00:40:02

world, and we ask Allah

00:40:03 --> 00:40:05

to allow us to be people who make

00:40:05 --> 00:40:06

lasting impressions upon

00:40:07 --> 00:40:09

this Ummah and allow us to go closer

00:40:09 --> 00:40:10

to the deen. We ask Allah subhanahu wa

00:40:10 --> 00:40:12

ta'ala to forgive us for our mistakes and

00:40:12 --> 00:40:14

this in ranks in this life and the

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hereafter and rewards for our actions and our

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iman.

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Insha'Allah next, Thursday, we're gonna be going over

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verses 15 and 16, and that, inshallah, is

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gonna be talking a little bit about true

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belief,

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hypocrisy,

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the idea of how do you know that

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you're growing closer to Allah, what are the

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steps that you take to actually ensure that

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you do that. We'll inshallah cover those topic

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next Thursday.

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Is gonna be in Masjid,

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in just a few minutes. So I don't

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wanna delay that. Everyone can walk over to

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the Masjid to pray.

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We'll see you all next Thursday.

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