Sadullah Khan – Sheikh Sa’ Dullah Khan Jumuah 27Jumada AlAkharah 1444 20 January 2023

Sadullah Khan
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The CEO of Islamic College, Sheikh Sad EMA, gives advice on how parents and students can improve their academic results and regain their success. They stress the importance of acknowledging and reacting to life's struggles, not embarrassing or embarrassing family members, and not begging. The importance of creating environments for learning and setting goals for one's life is emphasized, and parents and guardians need to put their own act together, be the architect of their life, and put their own act together, and be the architect of their life.
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I'm Abdulian Peterson, the head boy of Islamic

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College 2023.

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On behalf of Islamic College,

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and the extended family, we'd like to wish

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the

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and we welcome everyone back to the new

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academic

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year. May Allah

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grant us a blessed week ahead. Inshallah, amen.

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Today, it is truly my honour to welcome

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and introduce the guest speaker for today, who

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is also the CEO of Islamic College, none

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other than Sheikh Sadullah Khan.

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In the name of Allah most gracious most

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merciful,

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all praise is due to our creator, our

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our

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nourish and our sustainer.

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We bear witness there's none worthy of worship

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but Allah.

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We bear witness, we believe in all the

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prophets who came throughout history

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and we bear witness that prophet Muhammad

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is the emissary, the final emissary

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of all the prophets from Allah sent.

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Prophets who came as models of excellence

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and as guides for all of humanity

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till the end of time.

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I greet you with the Islamic universal greeting

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of peace

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at this auspicious hour of Jumuah

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in this beautiful house of Allah

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as well as elders, brothers, sisters,

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educators, learners.

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Today is the 3rd day of the new

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2023

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academic year.

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It's also a major day,

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a major day in the lives

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of all matric learners and parents

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of 2022.

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It is the day of the announcement

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of the matric results.

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A much

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anticipated day.

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A day when the uncertainty of the results

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may cause

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emotions to run high,

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and of course, it's natural to feel tense,

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to feel on edge,

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nervous, worried, anxious,

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especially on this results day.

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Since these results

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could determine

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whether a student, your son or daughter,

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could attend their chosen career path

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or their preferred college or university

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during this coming academic year.

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For those who have done well,

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mabrook,

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congratulations.

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May Allah open the avenues for your higher

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academic success.

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I just wish to inform you

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that at Islamic College, which to which is

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mostly attached,

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we had

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of course, at the school, the high school

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that we have here, we have 731

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learners.

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And all these

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731 learners from grade

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7

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to matric

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to grade 11 in fact,

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everyone

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of the grade 7 to 11 learners, each

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and every one has passed.

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As regards the matrix in particular,

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there was a 99.3

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percent pass rate

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which means out of the 159

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people who wrote, a 138

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have passed.

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17 of those students

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attained a aggregate.

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Number of them are also half the Quran.

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There was a 186 subject distinctions

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and

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we must remember

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these matriculants

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in particular

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were part of those who experienced an unprecedented

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pandemic,

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which neither we nor our parents and perhaps

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our great great parents may have experienced

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in 1919.

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But

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they survived the pandemic,

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distance learning,

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hybrid learning,

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social distancing,

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having classes online,

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having no classes for some time and despite

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all of that Alhamdulillah,

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this is the result

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they have produced.

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So

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to the learners,

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to the parents,

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to the teachers and the educators

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who have facilitated this, Mubarak,

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to those who are in charge of the

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school, the administration,

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the board of trust, the governing council,

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all of those who have ensured

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despite the challenges,

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unprecedented challenges by the way, we were

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able to continue with schooling

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to manage what we could

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and produce this kind of matric results.

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Allah be pleased, may Allah be blessed and

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may Allah bless all of us and may

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Allah grant us

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that we can motivate the students who are

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new student here, who are not experiencing the

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same kind of challenges, may they be motivated

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to greater heights Insha'Allah.

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But

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for those who have done well, congratulations,

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and may Allah open the avenues to you

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for higher academic success.

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As for those who may not have done

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as well,

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because don't forget,

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there are many other schools and all the

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students are like our children.

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More particularly the Muslim schools but even those

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who are not in Muslim schools. All the

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learners experience

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the challenge

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of the results

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and we wish Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala paves

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the way for them for success.

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So all those who have done well at

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our school and every other school,

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mabruk,

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congratulations.

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May Allah open the avenues for higher academic

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success.

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As for those who may not have done

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as well as they have wished,

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may Allah grant you the capacity

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to deflect,

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to engage your situation realistically,

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and then

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prioritize what needs to be done

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to pursue the career that you eventually wish

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to to pursue.

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Also at the same time,

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reflect on alternate colleges to your preferred one.

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Or consider improving your results for reapplication

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to university for another year.

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Because it's fundamentally significant to realize

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that the result in an exam

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is significant, is important,

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but the result is an indicator of a

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limited performance.

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It does not define your success as a

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human being.

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It's part of a tick off in your

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life. But it does not define

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yourself totally if you have not done as

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well. Remember, matric results mark the end of

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school days, not the end of your potential.

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As I always say, abandon the road is

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not the end of the road unless you

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fail to take the turn.

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So my advice to parents in particular,

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and this is can be a really crucial

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time

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as much as we are celebrating in our

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school,

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there are parents here whose children may not

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be at the school

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Or who may not have performed so well.

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Or you may have family members

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whose children haven't performed

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optimally.

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My advice, and this is a very serious

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advice,

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if your child is academically inclined,

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a low grade even in a test, even

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in the past, may cause in them disappointment.

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Don't add shame to it. For children who

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excel in sports for example, even coming second

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or third is not good enough.

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So a below par performance can be overwhelming.

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It can be devastating

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for your son or for your daughter, especially

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when they've tried their best.

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So do not add to the dilemma

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by shaming them, insulting them or humiliating them

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because it does not solve anything.

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And it may in fact worsen the situation.

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It may exacerbate the situation

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without bringing any positive consequence.

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Biomedical researchers

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have found

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a direct association

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between attempted suicides

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and academic performance.

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In fact, the British Guardian recently reported

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that research by psychologists suggests,

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or in fact,

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the research clearly indicates

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that suicide among young people peak around the

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time of examination

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or

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the release of results of examination.

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So react to results with great sensibility.

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I'm urging parents.

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React

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to results with great sensible sensibility

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and great sensitivity.

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Sometimes if they've done well, they've done their

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best.

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And some parents say, well, your brother

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had 5 age, you got 4 age. Don't

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do that. Don't ever do that.

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Validate them. Appreciate them. They did what they

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could do under difficult circumstances. Different circumstances perhaps.

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Different aptitudes,

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different abilities.

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Validate them

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to deal with this with great sensibility

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and

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sensitivity. Acknowledge achievements.

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Validate your children.

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Reprimand and sternly reprimand if needs be, where

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advice is necessary.

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But never humiliate

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nor belittle your loved ones or their efforts.

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It is important for us to acknowledge and

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understand

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their feelings of frustration,

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their disappointments

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before trying to help them and force them

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to bounce back.

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Act as a role model for how to

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respond to setbacks

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and disappointments.

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Your children need to know that life doesn't

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always go

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as planned. Remember,

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life, all of it is a test.

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You know the whole of life. We get

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tested with things that are seemingly positive or

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seemingly negative.

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We are tested with that which is pleasant.

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Sometimes things are unpleasant.

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Sometimes things that

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are joyful. Sometimes things that are hurtful. This

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part of the test of life, but remember

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Allah never test us beyond our capacity. So

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facilitate

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the test and the test is not only

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in

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the times of difficulty

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even in the time of celebration.

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Be very cautious

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even for the students. You made so much

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dua than that before exam. If you have

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done well, don't forget to say

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Don't forget to keep the same cons

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consciousness because the end of the year if

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you are in university,

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you will write again. You'll go for a

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job in 3 4 years. You'll make the

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dua again. Life is a continuous process and

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you're going through different phases. And do remember

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this is one of the major phases of

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your life. Keep that in mind. But also

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for us as parents,

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like Lukeman, the wise Al Hakim advised,

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Advise them to patiently persevere the challenges that

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they may go through.

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Because patiently

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persevering and being resilient is a positive response.

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It requires firm determination

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and it's a matter of great fortitude.

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Your empathy or parent or or uncle or

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or guardian, your empathy will make it easier

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for your child to process

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their feelings and more importantly,

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learn from their shortcomings

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and motivate them to try again. Motivation is

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important. If they've done well, motivate them, encourage

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them, validate them. If they haven't done so

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well, if they required to be spoken to

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sternly, do so but without humiliation,

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without taking away from them

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the will power to be motivated

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and to be inspired.

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When we reflect on the lack of the

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prophet salallahu alaihi wa'alehi wasallam,

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we realize that it was his single-minded devotion.

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His focus on hope and his trust in

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Allah that brought success to his mission and

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they were very often

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outnumbered.

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They were very often in a situation of

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dire straits.

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But by the grace of Allah, it was

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his positive attitude, his inspirational approach, his hopeful

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attitude, his merciful character that raise people to

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live according to the highest potential.

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I want to give an example

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regarding someone who came to

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Rasulullah

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person came begging.

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Now we know

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that

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we are not we are discouraged completely from

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begging.

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You know, and the the the numerous hadith

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about this. And the Rasul said, you know,

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documented the Muslims of Imam Abu Hanbal. He

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said, whoever would abstain from begging, asking people,

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Allah will make him,

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in other words, abstinent from their needs. And

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whoever acts independently and tries to be independent

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as far as possible, Allah will make such

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a person self sufficient.

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So when I why I'm giving you an

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example is someone came to Rasulullah

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regarding a negative situation. First of all you

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are supposed to be beginner.

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But the rest will not do that. This

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I'm talking about students who may have done

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well or something like that or as well

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as you wanted them to do. So you

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begin, you don't begin with an attack and

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say, okay, this is not on. Or you

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can't beg, why are you begging? Because the

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very fact that he's begging that means he's

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in need.

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Somehow society may have failed him. The family

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may have failed him. Circumstances may have failed

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him. So before we pontificate and go to

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the hadith about not begging, look at the

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prophetic approach. Because very often we use the

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hadith like that. It's a hadith about not

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begging. Yes. But the rasul turned away the

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beggar.

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So I want to give an example how

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in negative situation the prophet was positive and

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empowering and then reminding afterwards try not to

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do this after having helped the person. A

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person came to Rasulullah

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You see, he was always inspiring,

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always motivating. His

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dealing with society was manifested

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in how he encourage people, how he enabled

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and empowered people.

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And so I

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he had this unique capacity Rasulullah.

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Salallahu alayhi wasalam to respond most appropriately

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to a person experiencing a particular challenge. He

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did not treat everybody the same. He was

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equal in his dealing with people, but he

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analyze the situation

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and responded most appropriately.

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Therefore he not only preach what he what

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was best, he manifested what was best. And

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did not only give ideas

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but also

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gave fulfillment to those ideas.

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So reports

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in

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documented the sunun of Abu Dawood

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that

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a person came to the prophet from the

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Ansar,

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the person not

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named, and he was begging.

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And the rasul salallahu alaihi wasallam asked him,

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don't you have anything in the house? The

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man replied, he did some stuff

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that, you know, but he has no food

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and no money. And so on the prophet

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said, go home. And you mentioned one of

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the things that you got is a piece

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of cloth and you got some cutlery or

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wooden bowl or something bowls. Can you bring

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it to me?

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The prophet

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said.

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And he did so. He came back and

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said, Rasool Allah, this is what I have.

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And, Rasool said wait. He went into the

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market

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and Rasoolullah said who will purchase this? Who

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will purchase this? Someone said for 10 dirhams.

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And you got a better price and then,

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sold it to the people who wanted to

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buy it.

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And then he told the person take some

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of the money

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and see to your family the profit that

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you made. And some of the money

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you go

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and

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buy an axe.

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So the prophet the the man went and

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he came back and he came with an

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axe but he said, you Rasool Allah I

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put an axe but no the axe is

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damaged. Look at the prophetic approach.

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First of all you're begging. You're not supposed

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to be back. Now I'm helping you. Now

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you come back and you say, you bought

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an axe but the axe. Maybe the money

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was little so you couldn't buy a nice

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axe. So prophet said to him, let bring

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it here. Let me see. And the prophet

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fixed the handle of the axe. The axe

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was okay but the handle wasn't proper. So

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the thing wasn't really working. Act doesn't work

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with a proper handle on it. And the

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Rasul personally, according to Hadith,

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documented Babu Dawood,

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fixed the handle himself and he told the

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man now you go and also chop some

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wood and whatever you can do, and then

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make some come back to me after so

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many days. And then, you know, when you

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made some profit selling the wood or whatever,

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then you come back to me. And the

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man came back after the 15 days or

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so, You Rasoolullah, I'm now self sufficient.

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I'm now able to see to my family

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and I got a income from this. And

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the Rasool

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then says,

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if one of you

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had

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a, this is better and more honorable for

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you than begging for peace. He didn't begin

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with that.

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He empowered him in a negative situation and

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then said, you see this is better. Similar

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with our students.

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Someone did good,

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acknowledge that.

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Don't belittle the achievements.

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Don't compare if they didn't get all 6

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a's and your neighbor got 6 a's. Good

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luck to beat them. Be happy for them.

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They did the best they could. Allah doesn't

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test you more than you can bear. Why

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do you want to do that for your

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own children or for other people? However, if

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they didn't do the best that they could,

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and you know they have a potential, then

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advise them, encourage them, stand in the warning

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for them, but don't belittle their efforts or

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themselves.

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So we see from this, the prophet not

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only preached,

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he manifested what he preached. He didn't only

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give ideas,

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but he realized those ideas.

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Here we see

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how an incentivized

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beggar

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was personally helped by Rasulullah

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to become self sufficient.

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As for the students,

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those who have completed the matric and those

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who are here,

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After the pandemic, this is the first time

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I think that we're having all the students

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here for Jum'ah. So may Allah

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bless them. And of course, just to say

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about 2 or 300 students here and the

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behavior, I must commend them. May Allah bless

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them. May Allah reward them for the etiquette

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of maintaining the etiquette of the Masjid. Sometimes

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being a in the masjid after the whole

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day of school and his heart and so

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on and still behaving in the manner that

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you are. May Allah bless you for that.

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Keep it that way.

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So, treasure every opportunity that comes

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your way.

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Value every day that you have

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and let no time be lost.

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Learn from those who did well.

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Check those who may not have done so

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well. What could they have done differently?

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And remember,

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don't let your days be the same. Let

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everyday be an opportunity for improvement.

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If 2 of your days is the same,

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then one day was wasted. Always find something

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to improve, to enhance, to further. So every

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day is an opportunity for improvement.

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And realize that your time is limited.

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We are strangers of passing by make every

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moment count. Yes, we'll do matric. Yes, inshallah,

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we'll get a job. Then we'll get married,

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and we'll do that. Inshallah.

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It may come, it may not.

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Life may take

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curtail us in some ways.

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After a life itself,

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remember that time is our most valuable capital.

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It's our most valuable capital.

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In fact, time is the measure of life

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and wasting time

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is wasting of life.

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The prophet

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So do what needs to be done for

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our learners and the parents who are guiding

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the learners and overseeing the learners and the

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teachers.

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Do the best you can. Avoid

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procrastination. One of the biggest problems with achievement

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in academics or other achievement is procrastination.

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We don't do what needs to be done

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when it's supposed to be done. And when

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we delayed

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it becomes problematic.

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As we always say, when you delay things

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that need to be done the easy things

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become difficult and difficult things may become impossible.

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Some people are overwhelmed,

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unsure of where to start. Even those who

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have done well, what do I do? Where

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do I go? Or if I want to

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improve, how do I improve?

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And this prevents many people from starting at

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all. They're so preoccupied with the negativity

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of the uncertainty of the journey.

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Some look at the destination or the end

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result,

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and are so overcome by where they're supposed

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to be or where they want to be,

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that they freeze.

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They become stagnant.

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They remain where they are.

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You cannot cross the ocean by remaining on

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the beach.

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Otherwise, you will remain on the shore and

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never reach your destination.

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We should realize,

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all of us,

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that life

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really happens at the level of action.

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Not so much in the level of thought,

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neither the levels of circumstance which does affect

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our life, nor at the level of emotion.

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Ideas,

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beliefs,

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prayers,

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mission, vision,

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all these provide platforms

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for building the stages of our life.

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But we've got to put our own act

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together. Remember the hadith of Rasool? Tie your

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camel and then depend upon

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Allah.

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So you got to put your own act

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together.

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Your achievement is by your effort.

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For those who are studying, study hard. For

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those who are teaching, teach your best. For

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those who are parents and guardians, facilitate

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the capacity. Create an environment.

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Very often there are children who are not

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studying at home because their parents are fighting.

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But

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in our Muslim situations very often you don't

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have what you have in other situations where

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there's drunkenness and drugs and so on. Of

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course it happens in all homes.

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But potential to happen in all homes but

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we are safe from that because of our

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Islam. But still there are homes that you

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may find

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like that.

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So they become victims of your circumstances.

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Become victims of your evil. You are divorced

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or broken up. May Allah bless you and

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guide you to what is best. They are

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the victims of some of those things and

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then they have to go through all of

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that.

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Remember all of these things are difficult.

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And sometimes they bear the burden of things

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that are not their responsibility.

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So I beg you or parents,

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ideas, beliefs, prayers, missions, visions, all of these

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are nice to put on paper and so

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on. It provide

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building blocks for the stages of life. But

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you've got to put your own act together.

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Be the architect of your life.

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Some people attribute to Mawlul Naroomi and Allah

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knows best. Oh, Allah.

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Let us not be of those content to

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see what will happen, but grant us the

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determination

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to make the right things happen.

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Ask Allah

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to bless

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all of us with success in our efforts.

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We ask Allah

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for those who have done well. May Allah

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upon the avenues for them, to greater heights

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as global citizens who can become can become

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people who can benefit society at

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large. And those who have not done so

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well,

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just take the bend in the road. It's

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not the end. The freeway is still there.

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And let parents be encouraging in that regard

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as well.

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I've just been asked here just to reread

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the results.

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Just to inform you that,

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the entire high school at Islamia here,

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we had,

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731

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learners.

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Of the 731

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learners, except for 1 person, the entire school

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passed.

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We had 99.3%

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pass rate in matric. In other words, of

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the 139

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people who wrote matric last year, a 138

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passed.

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Of the students, there was a 186

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subject distinctions.

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186

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subject distinctions

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and 17 students

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attained an aggregate.

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May Allah bless them. We thank Allah

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for affording us the board, the trust,

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the governing council, all of us, the fam,

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for allowing us to be agents of goodness

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inshallah in facilitating

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such success. May Allah grant

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success to all the efforts of all institutions

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inshallah. And may Allah guide us to do

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what is best

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today, tomorrow, and everyday thereafter.

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As I've said in the past,

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it's only when the results come out that

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I come here to speak

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and congratulate

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students.

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On behalf

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of Masjid Al Quran

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of For Khan's

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community,

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the Musalis,

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and the committee

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trustees,

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we would, first of all, like to welcome

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the student

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family

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back

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to the masjid.

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This masjid,

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when it was built, it was built primarily

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for the students because it's part of the

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Islamia

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College campus.

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And we, the Musallis, are very fortunate

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to co share

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this Masjid

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with the students.

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So it's a very exciting day.

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It's a very privileged day. It's a day

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which we are so happy

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that

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you, the students, both the boys and the

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girls, the young men and the young women,

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are back

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with our family.

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Thank you very much, and we'll appreciate that

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you'll come to the Masjid,

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use it. It's your facility.

00:31:02 --> 00:31:05

Also on behalf of Masjid Al Furqan,

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all of us here, the committee, the trustees,

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we congratulate

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the matriculants for an excellent result,

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par excellent result.

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And you've got to understand that these students

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not only

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do secure so called secular subjects,

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they do Islamic studies also. They do Quran

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studies. They do fiqh, And the masjid and

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the school is used for students with the

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and

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there was a graduation of

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that took place

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towards the end of last year. Over 20

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boys and girls qualified at Hafiz, a number

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of them have matriculated.

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So to the

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2022 matriculation

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class, thank you. Thank you very much. You

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make us proud that you're part of us.

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To the

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committee board of governors and to the trustees

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of

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Islamia College,

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a job well done.

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Brilliant.

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Thank you very much.

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We say

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for that beautiful reminder to all of us.

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And we say to brother Ahmed Johan who

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is also a committee member of.

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We ask Allah

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to grant them both many more years filled

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with

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happiness

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and

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strength.

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Today, Islamic College has the honor of officiating

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the Jumaa, Alhamdulillah.

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The first adhan will be led by Sayfullah

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Oliver and the second adhan will be led

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by Abdulah Paliko.

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The solar will be led by Hafid Mohammed

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Bashir Fuhl, who also led the Tarawi Solar

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at Thornton Masjid for the past 3 years.

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I would like to ask all 3 learners

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to please stand so we can see who

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they are.

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Shukran,

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we'd like to ask all Musalis to please

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stand and fill fill any gaps so that

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no time is wasted between the Salah and

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the

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Muhammad

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Is this stating the rules, miss Fadlick, for

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all the gaps?

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Shoulder to shoulder.

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Try to make the row as tight as

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possible.

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