Saad Tasleem – I Love Him, So Love Him.

			Assalamualaikum and welcome to Episode Three of this series on another flood. Today we're going to
be talking about kindness towards children.
		

			In narration number 86. From another animal fraud al Bara, Allah zip said right to a nebia
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, well has a new follower to La la la la de la jolla cool a llama in boo
Hubba. He said I saw the Prophet sallallahu ala he was setting them and he was carrying an hesson me
the Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him on his shoulder and he was saying, Oh Allah, I love
him. So love him. Okay, so there's a few things we learned from this narration. First of all, how
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was to words children, kind and gentle. We also learned that
he was attentive, he gave them attention, and he made time for them. Sometimes we may think to
		

			ourselves, I just have too much going on in life. I don't have time to play with my kids. But the
question is, do we have more going on than the Prophet sallallahu I knew he was sending them. Here
we see in this beautiful narration that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam made time for kids and there
was no one more busy than the prophets that I send them. None of us can say that our lives have more
going on than the Prophet sallallahu. I knew he was sending them also notice the creativity of the
Prophet sallallahu sallam, he found a way to make time to play with a lesson. How did he do this?
Well, he did this by carrying him on his shoulders. This means rustoleum could play with an hesson.
		

			And also do other things. At the same time. We also learned from this narration that expressing love
to children is important. Love is something that you feel in your heart and it resides in the heart.
And unless you express it in some way, it just remains in the heart. And that's good for you. But
the one who we are loving will not feel that love that is sitting in our heart. Unless we express it
to them in some way. Oftentimes, we'll hear people say, just know that I love you. And that can be
very hard sometimes to perceive love that is never expressed. And so the example we see here is
physical and verbal love being expressed by the prophets. I send them for an hessen about the
		

			lowdown on the physical part, the physical touch of it being the prophets, I send them carrying him
on his shoulders and also present them verbally expressing this love for an hessen by making this
beautiful to offer him when he said Oh Allah, I love him. So love him. You know, some parents have a
really difficult time expressing love for their children, especially expressing love for their
children publicly. We actually see an example of this in an ad who for narration number 91 we hear
that a man saw the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam kissing a husband. And he exclaimed, he said
I have 10 children and I have never kissed any one of them the prophets I send them replied and he
		

			said man now your ham law your ham he said the one who doesn't show mercy to others will not be
shown mercy to clearly expressing his dissatisfaction for this person never kissing his children
kids need to see that they are important to their parents to see that their parents loved them in
their homes and publicly outside as well. And yes, part of that love is providing for our kids and
doing things for our kids but the other languages of love are important as well as we see in this
narration words of affirmation and physical touch and Allah has penalty ATA knows best I'll see you
in the next episode inshallah Allah take care it was said I want to echo what happened to LA he was
		

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