Riyadh Walls – Taraweeh Talk 12

Riyadh Walls
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The speakers discuss the importance of Islam's teachings and the need for men to pray during lockdowns. They stress the importance of praying in homes and setting practical examples for their roles as father and mother. The speakers also discuss the importance of setting practical examples for men and boys to practice what they preach and not bringing false opinion to the house.
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All the below simulate the Ministry of Planning of rajim

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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen

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What will suddenly what was certainly more solid and what the

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Sleeman yearly economy more calm. I mean it will be your email I

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mean mousseline what I showed you was Illa Illa Allah who will use

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Salah Hain what I showed you Anessa your dinner whenever you

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know we're all human our heavy burner Muhammadan rasul Allah

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called terminal and the well mursaleen Sally Lahoma wa Sallim

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wa Barik Allah has never yield I mean,

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Lee he also Haverty hill or really may mean hammer back to Michael

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Muslimeen is Sarah Martin come Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Allah

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Allah terracotta Allah fie Kitabi He loves us but they're also below

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him in a show you Tanya regime.

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What more a halacha the salah T was stopped early

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learners aloo curries call na na na so cook will Atiba to the taco

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soda Hello, howdy.

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Do you want wants to mean hello sir hello mr. Haben Welcome back

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to our tarawih session of this month of Ramadan. 1441 as most of

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us are on the locked lockdown, we are in our homes, making tarawih

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fasting reciting the Quran and turning to Allah Subhana Allah to

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Allah, Allah sauna to Allah make easy for all of us. And the last

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one that Allah grant us patience and perseverance in bearing the

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trial and tribulation that he has written for us. Gela fear Allah

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Allah subhana wa Taala I'm going to continue to note from where we

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left off last night, we were speaking about a verse in surah

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Taha, verse number 131 And tonight we're going to do 132 of surah

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Taha if you want to maybe go and grab your, your must have, so you

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can Inshallah, listen to the dose while looking at the at the most

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half. Looking at the ayat as we follow the Command of Allah

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subhanaw taala for note, the Baruch Quran Allah Allah Colombian

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ACARA don't they ponder over the Quran or are they locks on their

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hearts.

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So, let us open to surah Taha, verse number 131 132 For those of

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you who must not last night's lecture, just to give you some

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background 131 was one of the Allah said Father bIllahi min ash

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shaytani R rajim. Willa, Tim wood Danna I, Nika Allama, Tana B as

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well as a minimum Zahara, tell HYAH to dunya Dinnerstein Auntie

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or is pura bigger her urine? Were Abaco

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I was one of dialysis and do not extend your eyes to that with

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which Allah has granted

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some of them of the adornment of this world in order to test them

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the in and the sustenance of your Lord is better and longer lasting

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meaning the sustenance of the year after that Allah has prepared for

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his pious servants mela I Nimrod that which no I have ever seen,

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when it was on semi act and that which no ear has ever heard, well

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ah sutra, Allah Klobuchar, when that which no one has ever

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imagined that is far better and longer lasting than anything that

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we can attain or enjoy on the dunya dunya which is, but a

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temporal place confit do Nick and Nick hurry. Barbara Seville of our

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beloved prophet, Salah Salem says, Be in this world is if you're a

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stranger, or a traveler mesothelioma for the dunya

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commercially or Julian Savile attracta. Shujaat informants are

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the likeness of me. And the likeness of this world is the

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likeness of a man on a journey, who sought shade under a tree. And

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then he left he moved on. Yeah, man be dunya which doesn't work or

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Rahul ml, l Moti. T Boz. Turton, well, Robertson newclimate o u is

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preoccupied with the accumulation of material wealth, and is living

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in this world with false hope as if they're going to live forever.

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Indeed, death comes suddenly when cobblestone do Klarman and our

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grave is but our box of good deeds. So if we want that, which

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Allah subhanaw taala has promised to his pious servants May Allah

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make us of them, but his korabik Hiram Abacha that is for the

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hereafter as for the dunya they must know that Allah subhanaw

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taala gifts to the dunya the one whom he loves, and the one whom he

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doesn't love. The one whom He is pleased with an even gives dunya

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to the one whom he is displeased with. So, we need to like we spoke

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the other night lift

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The veil from our eyes and see the dunya for what it really is. allah

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam know Kenya to dunya to add the line the

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Allahu Jana Hubba, Olga, Morocco. kufra Mina, sure, but then it's a

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dunya and everything in it is worth more to Allah than the

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winner of a mosquito. Allah would not have given the disbelievers

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one drop of water

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and liquid is given them look what

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what's that investment back bank, Goldman Sachs, you know, making

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millions every day on the stock exchange, look at you know, people

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that openly disobey Allah subhanaw taala it was one Allah has thrown

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the dunya at them. Why because we know dunya is not always in Yama.

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It is can also be a Nipmuc what is the sign for it being a newcomer

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is that if a person is disobeying Allah, and they are receiving of

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the material wealth from Allah subhanaw taala for lm n St. Raja

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The Prophet said, know that Allah is preparing to destroy our than

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Allah will come when Daddy konasana Allah save us from being

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of those people I mean,

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now tonight we're going to go on to verse number 132 That was one

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of the other then says what more Allah Kirby's Salah until your

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family to pray,

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will stop your Isla

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and persevere they in you know, the word for patience and

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perseverance is of course sabara

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US Bureau sobrang

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is B

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and this word savaria Spirou sobrang. It comes from the word a

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sub zero, which is the ello Parasara tune to step tip type of

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juice used in in medicine from the aloe plant it's the bitterest of

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plants. Why because patients and persevere virens is something that

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is it's quite bitter at times, you know, you have to know especially

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when a calamity befalls in the MAS sobre la and the submittal ruler,

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our beloved prophet salatu salam says that true patience and

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perseverance is either submitted Allah at the time of the calamity

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when the calamity befalls them when they you know not first. Like

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sometimes you know, we become angry some people they swear some

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people that are following the Imam they lose their faith and they go

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crazy. No. And then afterwards they come down and say okay, in

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early low in Nollywood, I'd you know, a saguru under submitted

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Gula you know, at the time of the calamity, is to eat as butter as

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it is like the butter aloe plant they in the desert. And also they

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say that, if you look at the, the aloe juice comes from the aloe

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plant, which can be found in the desert. And number two soapbar

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they call it number two sub bar. And the reason why it's called sub

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bar because it waits for a long time. You know, sometimes in some

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days, it's only it only rains two or three days out of the whole

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year, then that plant must wait for how many hundreds of days 360

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odd days in order to get its next drink of of water. So, sub A sub

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zero it is better. And likewise, that plant that waits for the

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water in the desert number two sub bar it waits long for that water.

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And and that gives us a true understanding of both patients in

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terms of waiting and perseverance in terms of bearing.

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And so when a calamity does before, what must we say?

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overshoot is sobering Alladhina ADA Asaba Tomasi, but to call you

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in the law he were in Isla de rogering. When a calamity befalls

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them, what do they say? Indeed we all belong to Allah and to Allah

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is our final return. That is, that is a show of sovereignty of

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persevering in the obedience of Allah subhanaw taala that is a

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show of persevering and abstaining from the disobedience of Allah

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subhanaw taala and that is persevering in a time of trial and

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tribulation, where the person that is persevering knows sobbing and

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mirtazapine knows that by persevering indeed, automaton is

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going to grant him reward and grant them better day after.

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So let's come back to the verse Now what a helicopter Salah tell

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your family to pray, we'll stop it I lay here and persevere then, you

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know, sometimes you wake up the children and they go back to sleep

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and you have to wake them up again and then go back to sleep, first

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of you and getting them up and getting them to pray. Now, we have

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heard that we have a rule in the Arabic language Zerah to remember

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not to doula and a certain manner, that the more letters there are in

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a word, the more the emphasis of the meaning of that word. So

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sabara is

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To persevere is Favara here we have an extra PA, and Elif is

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Tabara. So there are more letters in the word, emphasizing even the

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more patience and perseverance that we need to have when it comes

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to establishing pray in our homes. Now Subhanallah what an

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opportunity and the lockdown we can't go to the masjid. Here we

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are praying at home. And we know the hadith of our beloved prophet

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Sallallahu Sallam

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of Dalu

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Salah till Murray

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Salah tune

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fee Beatty Ilma to welcome Allah salAllahu alayhi wa sallam at the

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best Salah that the person can pray is a pray that he can pray in

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his home except for them October except for the fluoride other

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words in the massage it open again, back to the masjid we go to

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pray Alfred salah. Why because it is 25 to 27 times stronger for us

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as men to pray in the masjid. For the ladies. They can pray at home

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or they can pray in the masjid la terminal.

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Do not prohibit

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the female servants of Allah the prophets Allah Salam said from

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praying in the masjid.

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don't prohibit them don't prevent them from praying in the houses of

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ALLAH SubhanA wa Tala but on the lockdown the massages are closed,

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not just in South Africa. In most parts of the of the world, the

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massages are closed. And now we are forced to pray at home. So we

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have an opportunity

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that under these circumstances, we cannot pray our for our in our

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home. And the best pray that the person can pray according to this

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hadith of our beloved prophet Salah Salem is a prayer that a

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person prays in their homes, the hadith of Zedi beneath habit and

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the honorable hottub when they said that

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solid Wilmar aefi by t know that the prey of a person in their

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homes is light. For now we will be able to come so illuminate your

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homes, what an opportunity to illuminate our homes, with Salah

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with vicar with the title of the Holy Quran, especially perhaps you

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know sometimes we as men, we worry about our spirituality, we make

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sure that we are to massage it, we make sure that we are sitting in

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the Halaqaat of Tallinn, learning the Quran and learning the Hadith

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and learning all sorts of things. And sometimes what happens is we

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neglect our families.

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We forget to bring the dean to our homes must remember that.

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Especially and I'm speaking now to the men and I started myself as a

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husband and as a father.

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Allah subhanaw taala has put a heavy responsibility on our

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shoulders. Yes.

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It's the responsibility of al Qaeda of leadership and contrary

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to the amellia of setting a practical example, and being a

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leader is not something to boast about. You know, when Willie

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Amerasia Chi Minh a nurse, Jaya Yamaki Amity Are you though OMA

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Flula turn Ilan Okay. Had your foot call Adela, you little Joan.

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Our Beloved Prophet salatu salam said that anybody who is given the

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responsibility of 10 or more people will come in front of Allah

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on the day of judgment and to shackles we put around the necks

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and either justice in terms of the way that they implemented the

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leadership. Justice will free them from the shackles or injustice

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will be will cause them to be dragged by those shackles and

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chains into the 5g handle. The biller was speaking about let's

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leader leadership. Yeah. Being with a B being in the position of

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president of Prime Minister of leading a big organization we are

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responsible for people, then that's a very, very very heavy

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Amana very, very heavy trust. Now, the most important institution,

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okay, maybe it's not 10 people in your family but that's not the

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point. The most important institution more important than

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the army in the Navy and, and even the Parliament, the most important

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institution also Matala has designated men to be the leaders

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of is the Minister tuition of the home, the institution of the

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family. Why because society is made up of what you know you have

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Parliament's open Parliament's close businesses flourish.

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Businesses go bankrupt, you know, but families families are the

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backbone of society. Families are the MaHA with the metaphor the

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axis around which the entire society revolves a good strong,

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pious family. It was a good strong pious society and a weak corrupt

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family.

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It was a weak, corrupt society.

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And Allah subhanaw taala has put the men in charge of those

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families.

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And, again, I say this is not something to brag about. This

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doesn't make men better than women. It just means that the

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weight of the responsibility is a little bit heavier that he must

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carry on his shoulders as soon as one of dialysis when a Hoonah Miss

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Lydia Allah hinder Bill maruf. Well, originally Allah in Adalja,

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for the woman are the same rights of goodness that they have over

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their husbands as their husbands have over them. But for the men,

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there is a degree above

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the the men start flexing their muscles See, I'm the Sultan, I'm

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the con I'm the Lead No, don't brag, don't boast. Why because

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this has nothing to boast about going to the DeviceID, the Mufasa

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room they say, Well, you regionally Allah hinda de la fille

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must really,

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that the men have a degree above the woman in one thing and one

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thing alone, and that is musalia, now must earlier translates into

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responsibility, but must all must all literally means to be

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questioned. So in other words, men are going to be questioned, there

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are going to be more things for the men for the husbands and

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fathers to be questioned about on the day of Kiama, then the wives

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and the mothers, that is the data that was one natal has given them

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the data of responsibility could look on raw and we could look at

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my school in Andhra Yachty. All of you are shepherds, and all of you

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are going to be questioned about your flock since the Beloved

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Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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and that's almost one of data in the Holy Quran when

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when describing the Amanat

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when describing the Amana of, of being a husband and a father, I

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was one of dialysis. Yeah, you handed in Amanu coup forsaken?

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What Lee come narrow, what could you have nursery will Jarrah are

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those of you who believe, save yourselves and your wives. And if

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you have your children, put that in brackets, that's basically what

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it means. Because Alikum means wives, if that's all you have,

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wives are just one wife.

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And it also means if you have children Alikum also refers to, to

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your offspring as well. So all those of you who believe Save

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yourselves and your wives, and if you have your children from the

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fire, its view is men and stones. So this is the primary role of the

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husband and the father in the family is that he has to save

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himself. What does that mean? As if there was a Boeing 747 fueled

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on the runway ready to take off to Paradise and the men are going to

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make sure that they have seats booked on the plane and at any

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seats left over? Then they're going to worry about their wives

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in the children law, but that's not what it means. But what it

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does mean is that when I was on a dialysis call, I'm full circle,

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and call again from we hire who shield yourselves. shield yourself

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from the displeasure of Allah, shield yourself from the fire.

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Because when you shield yourself from any action that would

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displease Allah automatically by default, you're going to inshallah

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be shielded from the fire. So coal and fossil come, what does it

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mean? You make sure that you as men, you as husbands, you as

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fathers, that you are implementing the laws of Allah subhanaw taala

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first into your life, you make sure that you are firstly, obeying

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Allah subhanaw taala and not transgressing his boundaries

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firstly in your life in order that you can be a practical example for

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your wife and your children to follow.

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And that's almost wanted to Allah makes the similitude of the man in

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the Holy Quran is the son. The husband the father is like the Son

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and the wife the mother is like the moon. I can the dream of never

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use of Vanessa is Karla usefully be here a birdie in Neeraj A to A

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ha Shara CoCo was shumsa Welcome are a totally Saturday on my

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father. I seen a dream the 11 stars that was his brothers and

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the son his father and the moon is mother frustrating to me. We know

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that we know the the interpretation of the gene 11

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stars were his brother's son was his father and the moon was his

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mother. Now what's the difference in the sun in the moon?

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Right? I was one of Dallas is already jealous. shumsa dear well

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Kamara neuron, it is always made the sun is an illuminating light.

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And the moon is a reflecting light.

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With a little camera fee hinda neuron majali Shamcey Raja, he has

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placed the moon in the firmament as a reflecting light and he has

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made the sun as a lamp bearing light Allah. So the husband the

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father, by him implementing Deen firstly into his life, making sure

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that he's obeying the commands and laws of Allah subhanaw taala and

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staying away from all those things that Allah subhanaw

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honest rebutted. By doing that he is bringing an illuminating light

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into his home and then be the light to Allah that light must

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then be reflected off his wife and onto the children.

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That doesn't mean that there are many other there aren't many women

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that are outshining their husbands when it comes to the no

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Subhanallah We hear this all the time. There are many homes where

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the woman are far out shining, it seems like the the moon in some

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homes is brighter than the sun.

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Or the woman herself. She is the one that has become like the sun.

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And and the husband is very often like a doll moon.

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And this not so supposed to be like the Sumatra Muslim.

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When I say it's not supposed to be like this in terms of our

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responsibility as husbands and as fathers, in terms of the woman

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know the woman shine as bright as they possibly can. I'm gonna choke

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he says, he says, an omen madrasa turn, either

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are the Shaban for you but Araki, it says

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mother, the mother is a madrasa. Allahu Akbar, the mother is the

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lap of the mother's the first university of the child. And Oh

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mama, there are certain either if you prepare her well, you know, so

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the mission is to get the woman to shine as bright as possible. But

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it's our responsibility. That's all I'm saying is it's begins with

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us as husbands and as fathers. We have to set the example in the

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home.

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And Oh, mama, Dara Sutton. The mother is a madrasa is a

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university is our data if you prepare her well and Siobhan to

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EBIT Araki, then you've prepared a nation of Woodstock.

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I've often heard some of the brothers

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you know when they go out in Jamaat, and they come back and

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they tell us the stories and tell us what they have learned. In one

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particular brother said to me, you know, he heard

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on many occasions, some of the items are saying that if Dean

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comes in to a man's house, it comes to the front door.

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If it comes into the, if it comes into the life of the of the

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husband and the father, when it comes to the front door, if it

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comes into the life of the mother, then it really permeates right

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throughout the home. Obviously that's relative, but there is some

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some wisdom in that saying Subhanallah so

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we as men, as husbands as fathers, we need to set this practical

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example. And what is a practical example, to practice what we

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preach.

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The great scholar of Islam genetic Baghdadi is will start setting one

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day Yojana in herbelin Masjid dinners are gonna go to the masjid

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and

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admonish the people he said oh my teacher I fear that I will fall

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into one of the three categories in the Holy Quran.

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And so is constituents wanted to know what categories are these are

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what verses are these? He said the first verse go to Tala don't moron

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unless it will be read but 10 So now I'm circumventing that Lunel

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Kita Dakedo do you call people towards righteousness and you

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forget yourselves whilst you reading the book have you know

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since and the dark you know, or reading some diversity or Janine

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tonsillitis Have you gone mad that you have no sense? Well colo

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Thailand the second verse on which came on the tongue have never shy

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but I said I just want to be sure exit to his people will read you

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and oh Holly for Camila and her command and I do not want to

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contradict myself as to the jump prohibiting from now it's I don't

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want you to tell you not to do something and then I'm doing it. I

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mean, how many fathers tell the children don't smoke and then

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trigger the courage to Skype. Now we must set practical examples.

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And then the third verse Yeah, yeah 100 in Lima.

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Canberra Katana and Allah He Anta kolomela Tafolla are those of you

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who believe why do you say what you don't do? Indeed Allah becomes

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most angry when you say what you don't do you know turkey dinner

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has an adversity he

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one day the slaves came to him and said to me or turkey or Dean the

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slaves imbecile a group of them came to Turkey in the city article

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God said to more Amma Latina for help the nurse Allah it can be it

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is it oh taki Dean from masters have mistreated us. So tell the

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people to free the slaves. So takia Dean, you went away and one

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Juma went past another Juma went past in wonder rewire a whole year

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when past when narration of the story a whole year went past and

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he never got on the member and he never spoke to anybody about the

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freeing of slaves until one day

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Easily he appeared you got to remember perhaps the nurse salad

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alabi Rama. I mean, I had in some Jacobo ill Takada not a single

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person that was in the gathering that heard his lecture

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except that they stood up afterwards and they went and freed

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the slaves for charity lobbied and so the stage came back to me. They

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said, Do you have turkey the magic Nash magic Naka Shirky, we haven't

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come to thank you. We're in the minority been except we've come to

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reprimand you. Why didn't you wait two weeks? In one other narration

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of the story? Why don't you wait to all you're leaving us in our

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suffering? So he Charlie bowed his head and he said, you know when

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you came to me, lamb, lamb you could find the Merlin HDB actually

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be captain. At the time. I didn't have any money to buy today.

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Philip Morris Alchemilla Humala and it started to Ogden tomato. So

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when Allah gave me enough money, I went out and I bought a slave and

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immediately I sit in free phenomena, but to be nasty, and

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when I started with myself, but they're out to Hungary, and then I

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called others, hydrogel Colombina for wasa il Culp TT with some

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erotic module, you said so, when I started with myself, and then I

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called others that which I said, came out of my heart and went into

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all the hearts and I got the desire to fix it I was looking

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for, and the hill could allow Malia this geometric Muslim in my

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respective views. This is practical leadership, practical

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example, that especially We as husbands and fathers need to sit

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in the home and of course, our wives, just like the wives of the

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sahaba. When the Sahaba left in the mornings, they would say to

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me, Abdullah, tequila will kill haram. Oh 70 of Allah.

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Fear Allah and don't bring any unlawful sustenance to this house,

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the indigenous Sati and the spirit, ultimate jury for dunya

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with a Kenyan and Anastasia and no spirit Allah Azza binnorie Yamapi

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I wish they would say to their husbands or servants of Allah,

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Allah and don't bring any unlawful sustenance to this house you know,

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I know for sustenance. The prophets of Allah salami says au

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Lachman never demonstrated for Nana Allah be any flesh that he

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sustained, but that which is unlawful, the fire will have first

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preference over it on the day of your mafia. So they say don't

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bring any unlawful sustenance to our houses are servants of Allah,

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Allah says otherwise of the Sahaba spoke to them, because we are able

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to sustain the pangs of hunger on the dunya but we are not able to

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sustain the torment of hellfire on the day of your Makia. And so

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that's why wouldn't really pursue the Kuba and can give diversity

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alone. They are common for you and you're a garment for them. What's

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the philosophy behind the garment? Of this is the similitude Allah

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subhanaw taala makes in the Holy Quran about what a man and a woman

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number one, my comment is there to adorn yourself. So are we supposed

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to adorn each other bring the best out with each other. You know, in

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the summertime it protects the skin from the harmful rays of the

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sun in the wintertime provides warmth and comfort and right

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throughout the year. It covers those parts of the body that

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nobody should see or even know about, for that matter. So this is

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how husband and wife the sun in the moon has worked together in

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sha Allah, especially now it's locked down in our homes, you

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know, and the prophecy is saying in a time of trial when they ask

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the manager to wrestle How will we be saved? What lies the salvation

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during the time of fitna during the time of trial and tribulation

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instead unsick Alika dishonor while he Asaka web key Allah Katya

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to keep your tongues don't talk nonsense, you know, busy yourself

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with that which is going to bring you closer to Allah subhanaw taala

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while you're saqeb He can stay in your homes what key Allah hottie

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attic and cry over your sins, when we will be able to come and said

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the Dharma said illuminate your houses hamdulillah with Salah

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Inshallah, we will complete the second half of the Verse tomorrow

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night, the evening later Isla and what I did, then I leave you all

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in the prediction of Allah subhanaw taala Darwin 100 100 A

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lot of anatomy was salam. Wa alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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