Riyadh Walls – Jumuah 20181439
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Hello Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah while early
he also be human when I'm about Santa Monica Warahmatullahi
Wabarakatuh
I think we had
heard a little bit of homework didn't we?
We said
so little Bacara
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verse number
we just kept it in front of me
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right so we have 10 verses from Surah Baqarah
and 10 verses from
sortal are off
and these 10 verses are dealing with
the humiliation of the bliss
and the honor given to them and how are they masala
and in both
narrations of the story in Surah, Baqarah and circle are off. We
have it exactly in that order. The humiliation of the bliss of the
refused
to prostrate himself before our father maybe Adam Alayhis Salam
and then immediately
Allah subhanaw taala
commands
now the Adam and how Allah He was set up
here the most common answer was oh you can gender
as you know
turn it down
so the Alama they say the fact that
first is the humiliation of bliss
after he refused to prostrate himself
before Adam, and then the honor of Adam and Hawa Allah Hema Salem,
directly the after shows that the humiliation of iblees took place
before the creation of Hawa.
In both narrations of the story, in Sorrento Baqarah
por la hora Krugman hammers movement muda Hora furnaces
and Sudipta are off. Verse 18 And verse 19. And then
and then the other one of the expulsion and the entering of the
of the journey, surah Taha
pseudocolor are off and surah Taha in Subtle Art of color, color
Suraj minhang With all member de fora
he is one of the Allah is auditing IBLEES Get out from here.
And I think we touched briefly on the fact that
we've always wanted to Alice's minha
from it and half points to the fact that
the word that is being referred to is a feminine word. So immediately
we think of gender.
We as an A, we always find this differing opinions. Jana is one of
the opinions that he was in Ghana.
The other opinion is that it's referring to his Mozilla to his
station, because he police had a high station. He was worshipping
Allah subhanaw taala in the ranks of the of the Archangels. So, Tala
college minha Get out from here.
Meaning get out from
it from your station, your Manzella
that Allah subhanaw taala has granted you
Mazuma Madura
cursed and disgraced lemon Tabby, I come in homeless. I'm Lana,
Johanna mumin come at you, Mary,
indeed those who follow you,
I will fool you. And then I will fool Jahannam with you, with you
and them, those that follow you. I will fool Jahannam La La Jahannam
here the lamb here is for affirmation. Most certainly, I
will fool amolatina The Lamb and the noon with a shutdown. Whenever
you see those two letters, the lamb and the noon with a shudder
coming on either side of a word. You know, it's double affirmation
that most certainly, I'm Lana. I will full Johanna Ming come at me
with all of you with YUI bliss and those that that follow you.
So they incidentally are off is the humiliation of Iblees and then
immediately they after
the Muskaan, untoward. czukay jana
Oh Adam.
Now Ozcan from second as Kuru means to be stone.
Although some scholars say it means that Adam must now go and
live him and his wife must go and live in Jana.
According to the Hadith that is narrated in urban Cathy's
that they really were in Jannah.
They already were in Jannah.
But which gender
genital Malwa
which is the gender of the Hereafter
or some Jana in the summer some way that Allah was preparing them
in for the dunya. Always the Janna on a high place in the dunya
I tend to incline towards the opinion that it was in the earth.
This Jana a high place from where they had to get down after they
eaten eating from the forbidden fruit, but it was a high place on
the dunya because Allah subhanaw taala clearly says going back to
surah baqarah and so little out of
its color, a booklet manner Ekati in Niger I don't fill out the
Khalifa
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and call to mind when your Lord said to the angels I'm going to
make in the earth a Khalifa
Denise I'm going to make in the summer in the heavens a Khalifa.
He said I'm going to make in the earth it's before He created Adam
and his Salah.
So He created him from the earth in the earth.
You believe that you take from every single type of soil and from
that Allah subhanaw taala created there is no mention of Allah
subhanaw taala taking that soil up into the heavens and creating him
and putting him in a garden in the heavens. There's no talk about
that.
The words that used is Al Jana, but the word Jana garden is used
for many stories in the Quran
in Bologna, whom come up Ilona, US herbal Jana
you know in
in so little column.
Indeed we tested them like we tested the people of the of the
Jana.
Allah Samantha refers to the gardens of of Sabah, Jana tan,
you know the two gardens in Sabah in Chiba. So the word Jana is not
only used for genital Malwa, which is the Garden of Abode of refuge
in the Hereafter.
And many of the scholars say how could it be the garden of the year
after? When Adam and how Allah Hema salaam disobeyed Allah vain
and how could it be the garden of the Hereafter when they eventually
were taken out of the garden?
Where's the garden of the year after
Alesana dialysis that they will not ever leave it
well my home minha wama home minha be mocha Jean.
And they will never leave it to people
that into the gender of the here after the garden of the hereafter
will never ever leave that garden yet.
Adam and Hawa Allah Salam, they live to God in that they were in
such well I'm inclined to, to believe that Allah created our
father Adam alayhis salam from the earth in the US. If we go back to
that
so in Surah Baqarah
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and call to mind when you load say to the angels I'm making in the
earth of vice gerund
and in total are off well aka dama Khanna comm fill Earth, we are
firmly established you in the earth
are janela comfy hum Irish and we made for you they in a life
meaning food and clothing etc. kalila Mitesh chronicle do you
think's Welaka Hala canal Kim Sung Mr. Warnock comes from the cool
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And indeed We created you and we fashion you and we said to the
angels bow down before Adam and they all bow down except for a
bliss he was not of those who bow down and frustrated. So it was in
the earth
again, this is open for debate. We have no de Lille Katya clear cut
evidence that it was the Jannah of the year after all, it was an
intermediate, intermediate or transitional Jana in the heavens
somewhere or that it was a gender on Earth. It even cathedra his
opinion is just to say, Allahu Allah. They were in agenda, we
don't know where it was.
So,
from these two verses CIRTL hour off, and surah Taha,
I just want you to take the, from Surah Baqarah. And sorted out of
just to show us on a tour Allah stresses the fact that he created
the vice chairman, where in the Heavens, no, he created the vice
chair and for what for the earth from the earth and he put him in
the earth.
Then we go back to
suited to our often surah Taha
where Allah subhanaw taala, juxtaposes those two events,
the refusal of a bliss to prostrate himself and then the
expulsion of a bliss from his rank from his rank.
Again IBLEES couldn't have been in the gender of the Akira either
because the gender of the Asherah nobody can disobey Allah vain and
those that enter the gender of the era.
They will never leave.
In surah Taha is coronelli Malai ket is Julie Adam a facade to Illa
a Belize Abba for cooling them in the heather ado, we'll look at
with his Odjick phala Ukri Jana Kuma Amina Jannetty for Tushar in
halacha Allah to GRFP her well, Tara, Nikola Tesla ofii Ha ha ha.
And then we are the Muskaan and towards ojochal JANA
Wakulla Adams could enter was ojochal JANA tava Kula minha
rather than Hisashi tomorrow. While at Taco Bell had a shirt of
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that one is from ta Okay, so the alumni say that in both instances
in both instances humiliation of iblees
after refusing to bow down before Adam, and only then Allah Subhana
Allah tells them and how Allah He masala to stay. I'm using that
word specifically to stay in the agenda.
To stay in the job who's going
second as Kulu which literally means to be stalled.
So Allah created him from the earth, put him in the Jannah he
was alone. Oh, here comes something very important. He was
alone.
Either money Salam was alone. Allah taught Him after He created
him. Well, I lemma Adam and Asmaa Akula we've really covered that,
that Allah taught him the names of everything, not of everything in
the heavens and on earth.
Only Allah has that knowledge. But he taught him the names of
everything, Allah to work heartily, so on which he senses
fell.
So Allah taught him the name of the sky, which he could see,
taught him the name of the of the trees, taught in the name of the
of the animals, the names of the end
Almost everything on which he senses everything he saw
everything you heard everything he could taste everything you could
touch.
Allah taught him the names of all those things, but now he's alone.
He is alone.
And then when we get to insert a baccarat
what is called Melly Mel I cat is Julie Adam a facade you do IBLEES
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wahconah Yeah, Adam was cool unto us ojochal agenda so in between.
He believes his refusal and then he's subsequently humiliation of
being cast out of the service of Allah. And in between Allah
telling Adam and how Allah Hema salaam to stay in the Jannah in
between those two events is the creation of,
of how either his Alayhis Salam or mother.
So
if we are to speak about the creation of our mother,
then quite clearly, she has been created from our father. Again,
this debate scholars love to debate but clearly I was one of
the other says, Yo your nurse Takata Bukom Allah the Hala Takumi
Neff sin Wahida wahala come in Huzzah. Jaha
wahala caminha.
zoologia,
O mankind, Fear your Lord, be mindful of your Lord, Who created
you from a single soul.
And then he created
from that soul, a partner for that song.
Now Holika,
to create a look and create something from nothing
is better, especially if he if he uses the word halacha. And that's
why some of the scholars argue that they were created
individually. First Adam and then, however, from the same Torah, from
the same dust, but also on the other in another verse,
in particular,
sutra out of verse 189. Instead of using the word Halacha, he uses
the word gyla, who will let the Halacha come in FC Wahida What
gyla mean has o Jaha, Lea schooner ILAHA.
It is Allah, Who has created you from a single soul, and did not he
created then he made
from that soul, a partner for that soul, that he might find repose in
her.
This is very powerful.
When halacha is used, color can be to create from nothing or from
something but Jalla only from something when gyla is used Jalla
Jalla Jaggu.
In other words, something from something.
If Allah says gyla, then he is making something from something
you can't you can't make something from nothing.
But you can create something from nothing just like Hola, hola. So,
hello thought can be creating from nothing.
We as gyla it is something from something. And they the alumni say
that when Jalla is used, it is to create something
to create something from
the thing that was originally made, in this case, the Melissa.
So
Allah subhanaw taala creates a single soul, and then it creates a
partner
from that soul for that soul. So which part
from which part has the partner been made? Well, the hadith is,
is quite clear
that a study reported from Abu Salah and Abu Malik that even
Abbas and who's even ambas, the greatest of the Morpho serine from
amongst the Sahaba, the nephew.
Often the cousin
said Africa is definitely the cousin of our beloved Prophet
Muhammad says although he was much younger than the Prophet saw some
he was the son of Abbas, Abdullah ibn Abbas. And the Prophet made
special dua for him Allah Houma factor houfy denwa limited we'll
all give him understanding in the religion and teaching the
interpretation of the Quran.
So when even Abbas narrate something, then we make we better
listen up
that even Abbas and even Massoud and other companions said IBLEES
was expelled from paradise and Adam dwelt there in
a bliss was expelled from paradise and Adam dwelt in. We've said that
is a debate that can continue amongst the scholars you can
choose.
He wandered around in it alone, as he had no partner this evening,
because here we are reading from we're reading from Casa MBR, of
Ibn kassiopi Dhyani, higher.
So authentic derision.
He wandered around in it alone,
as he had no partner
immediately.
So he's not going to Jannah
he was Allah, Allah created him were in the janotti. Wherever the
agenda is, we have no clear cut evidence as to where it is. I'm
inclined to believe that it was on earth.
An elevated garden. Actually, what's really interesting is that,
I don't know if I mentioned this last week, that the word paradise
comes from the word fear dose, which is a borrowed word in Arabic
from the Persian and filled those means a walled garden
and enclosed God.
And according to the Old Testament, according to the Jews,
there is a fair dose at dinner and the fifth dose Allah because we
also believe in January 5, dulcet Allah, which is the the highest
place in the Jana of the Hera, the highest place in the gardens of
the Hereafter, I'll fill those who Allah where as they believe that
the Garden of Eden
on the dunya was the spirit of docile Edna the lowest filled dose
filled those meaning and enclosed garden on the dunya.
And like the prophets, it had the flu and Bani Israel or Hadith and
Bani Israel will urge the right from the children of Israel, no
problem led to subdeacon when I took the boom, don't believe them,
no belie them
and this there are speaking about it, then we belie them. But if
something is narrated, we cannot we don't have clear cut evidence
because the so much of the Torah has been corrupted. So much of it
has been tainted, things have been added, things have been taken out
things have been changed, taken out of context, you have the full
nail Kenema and Manuel de. But when it comes to these details,
it's interesting. It's interesting to
to see what are the opinions and to read those opinions, no problem
but to take an opinion that contradicts the Quran and the
Sunnah. That is where we draw the we draw the line, we will never
take an opinion or even entertain an opinion that would contradict
the Holy Quran, or the Sunnah of a beloved Prophet Muhammad
Sallallahu Sallam is going to make that, that very clear. So he
wandered around in it alone.
And he had no partner. This is coming from even IBAS even Massoud
and many of the other Sahaba.
So if he was wandering around in it in the Jana, wherever that Jana
was alone, and Allah says, Oh skoon anta was Oh Juca Janda.
Does it mean go into the garden or stay in the garden? What does it
mean? Stay in the garden, because he really was in the garden.
Who are the Melissa but he's alone. He's alone
once when he woke up from his slumber, so he's he's in the
garden. He's alone.
Allah has taught him the names of everything on which his senses
fall. And then one day, he goes to sleep.
According to this hadith, he goes to sleep.
When he woke up from his slumber, he found a woman sitting near his
head. He found a woman sitting near his head. We make makes me
think of that funny thing. We always say deferral. deferral
can appeal Copson masivo NetSol said
just a joke for the ladies in the back day.
Right? So, he woke up and he found a woman sitting near his head. Now
the word you
Since the hadith is immoral I tune the word using the hadith is
immoral. Tuna in maroon immoral is a man imra tune is a female there
is a Tamar, Bhutan, Tama Bhutan. And that's interesting why because
it's from the same being that she's been created. She's just
been made a female and he is a male but she is from him.
Once he woke up from Islam, we found a woman sitting near his
head. Allah had created her from his
what says your ribs but that's incorrect. Translation because it
is mean mean delivery he mean delivery.
Meaning from a rib or from his ribs.
Imagining like a rack of ribs stay at a spur, you know
mean Diller he from his rib. But ribs.
If we had to add mean delay, he mean ordinary Ebola is the plural
of dilla Delaire own so the 30 specifically says mean delay ie
from his rib.
In some narration say the left rib at the top
where it is most curved, where it is most I'd like to use the word
crooked because in the ladies think we're saying they're
crooked, you know.
Instead the mean Allah because the prophets Allah *, there's a
hadith coming very beautiful Hadith, which is often used
derogatorily against woman. But I would actually like to turn that
on its head tonight and actually show you that it's a beautiful
Hadith in praise of woman.
So he wandered around in Jannah alone a as he had no partner, once
when he woke up from his Sunday found a woman sitting near his
head, Allah created her from his rib.
Adam asked her, What are you?
I think many men are still asking the question today.
What are you she replied a woman. He further asked, Why have you
been created? She replied, so you can seek comfort in me? I think
this is so so very powerful.
Because
in both verses,
what gyla minha xojo halaya, schooner ilaya He made from that
single soul, a partner for that soul
so that he might find comfort, repose tranquility in her.
And I'm sure the ladies will be thinking well, it goes both ways.
And true, yes, it does go both ways. That's why I was one Natalia
uses the philosophy of the garment. That whole Nellie Basler
come unto me, Barcelona, they are a garment for you. And you're a
garment for them.
What's the philosophy behind the garment? Number one,
comfort,
protection.
I like to say it like this adornment.
We are all clothing is there to adorn us. So with that comfort
that we provide, we supposed to bring out the best in each other.
Clothing is also there for protection
in the summertime from the harmful rays of the sun, in the wintertime
to provide warmth.
And right throughout the year, our clothing covers those parts of the
body that no stranger should see or even know about for that
matter.
So we should that and that all together that protection,
that warmth.
That covering up I think through all that.
That peace and tranquility and safety and security, emotional and
otherwise is found between husband and wife.
But I think what is important for women to
understand in terms of her ability
or the attributes that Allah subhanaw taala has granted
specifically to her that she has the ability to choose
usually bring peace to a man
to truly bring tranquility to a man, if he's troubled.
If he's disturbed, if he's upset, if he's irritated, if he's
confused, then Allah has given her that ability to bring calm to him.
And in the same breath, she has the ability to press a button for
and for him to explode.
And I've thought long and hard about this, because we always talk
about how a man should put a woman on a pedestal.
And I agree with that 100%. And I know my wife is not here to
testify either for or against me. But it's something that we work at
every day. It's something that we work at every day. And I've often
thought to myself, what comes first,
putting the wife on the pedestal.
And once you've done that, then she
provides that comfort and peace and tranquility.
And I've looked around in society, and that the nature of men,
and I've found that that's putting the cart before the horse.
And they go hand in hand, please ancestors mustn't, person
misunderstand me hear
that, I believe if a woman fulfills that purpose for which he
has been created, to be that place of comfort, to be that place of
repose of tranquility, for husband, in his time of confusion,
in his time of difficulty in his time of worry, in his time of
anxiety,
then by default, if he is a person that believes in Allah and the
Last Day, and fears Allah subhanaw taala, then by default, he should
put her honor on a pedestal.
But her saying, Listen, I'm only going to be a comfort for you.
Otherwise, I'm Renu.
I'm going to be on your case. I'm going to
I'm going to work on your nerves and I'm going to scold you and I'm
going to do everything to irritate you and tell you put me on the
pedestal.
And
that is where
husband and wife basically fall out with each other.
I think for a woman to to realize
the special purpose because only she has that ability
to be that because a man a man. For example, a man is the
breadwinner is supposed to be a man is supposed to be the
breadwinner, that's why a woman whatever she earns, she can keep
herself but a man he is responsible, to clothe, to feed,
to educate to house, his wife and
and the offspring. He is the one that was one of the Allah has made
as the maintainer, regional Comunale missa min of the
maintainers of woman
so
after having a hard day at work, he must look forward
to going home.
That Home is where his heart is. As soon as he walks through that
door the thing that he is looking so much forward to is seeing his
wife's face
his mashallah is like you want to get married? No.
Dad, don't look at him like that. One day, inshallah one day.
So, when he he's looking forward to getting home. He's looking
forward to seeing his wife because that's his repose. That's his
comfort. That's his peace. That's his tranquility.
And that is why he must treat her better than anybody else.
Doesn't be speaking all. Thank you, Kathy. Yes, Linda. Oh, yes,
I'd love a cup of tea. Thank you very well, this tea is absolutely
delicious. Lovely. And when he gets home Salam Fastway tea
Oh, just pick up flowers.
Make me another cup of stuff for Allah.
He's a lion. He's a lamb outside is a lion in the home. No, no, no.
So that's why I want the sisters to to clearly understand that. I'm
saying it goes hand in hand. She must be that comfort. And he must
be that kindness
He must give her that kindness
and that honor and that respect and that love
that she deserves as his comfort.
I mean, how can something that has been created for comfort, be
comfortable if you are always making it uncomfortable
so it's the one for for a woman to embrace this beautiful Lee look at
the other verse. A woman IRT and hello caller coming um, firstly,
come as Roger liters who knew Ilya is not just for Adam and Hawa.
It's not only Adam that's been made as a place of as a means as a
means of comfort for Adam Ulisses and from his signs will mean it
and Holika calm, mean, unfussy come as well as there is created
from yourselves partners for yourselves, that you might find
comfort and peace and tranquility within them.
And that's why, you know, they say a happy wife happy life.
So it's for a woman to embrace that beautiful purpose. And we
talking primary we took my primary we have we have primary purposes.
And we have secondary purposes. This is a primary purpose for a
woman to be that place of comfort for her for her husband, and they
want to tell us what Allah say,
Oh yeah, and the Hadith the Prophet Allah some says
is still su be Nyssa II Hurrah
for intall Murata wholecut mean delivering. What in other words
you che in fifth delay? Allah Who?
For in the Hepta to chemo who Cosanta who were in Thorac Tahoe
lamea Zelle wedge for stojo su Denisa II for y'all have a love
for Buhari. There's a hadith in Bukhari, it's authentic hadith,
authentic hadith.
Before translated Hadith, I want to complete the first Hadith. So
once he when he woke up from his slumber, he found a woman sitting
near his head, Allah created from his rib. Adam asked her what are
you? She replied a woman. He further asked her why have you
been created? She replied, so you can seek comfort in me.
The angels who were well aware of the extent of Adam's knowledge
asked him, What is her name or Adam? He replied, how?
How was her? How well I live, Hamza, how
many Hamza you just cut off the air. How?
They asked, why, how? Eve.
Adam replied because she has been created from a living thing.
And wholecut are Julep mean che in hive. She has been created from
Hide, hide. Hide Yun means a living thing, hydrogen. That's
what Allah is. I'll hide you the eternally living cannot die. The
Eternity living a lie. But that's only for Allah with Oliphant lamb
and unhei. Whereas under high une we're under hygiene.
We're untung a higher
I am a living being you're a living being and you're all living
beings are here. That's the plural of high hygiene. So why is howa
called her because she's been created from something high. Does
that make sense?
Did you know that before? Have you learned something new tonight. So
how our means created from a living being
how our
Mohammed even his heart natural universe that she was created from
the smallest rib of his left side while he was sleeping
while he was sleeping. Howa was being created from this height
this is not
only that she has been created from him were jacala minha Zhou
Jaha. And he created from the single soul
which is now body and soul.
Because Allah subhanaw taala put his soul into his body. He was
walking around in the Jannah according to the Hadith, before
Allah subhanaw taala created
his partner however Allah has set up so that in the two versus Carla
come in her
gyla minha he created from it from the single soul he made from it
from the single soul, XO Jaha its partner, that's all we have in the
Quran
been looking for the very beginning. Yeah, but that's what
I'm saying tonight we're going to put this idea of the crooked robe
being something bad, we're going to put that on its head inshallah.
We're getting there, inshallah we're getting there.
So, Mohammed even is directed from the habits that she was created
from the smallest group of his left side while he was sleeping,
then that empty place was filled with flesh.
The opinion is confirmed by the following saying of Allah, oh man
can't be dutiful to your Lord who created you from a single person.
And from him he created his wife. So they give that ayah as a
reference, as far as the detail is concerned, the details in the
Hadith, not in the ayah
Allah mentioned another verse it is you created from a single
person and he's created from him his wife, in order that he might
enjoy the pleasure of living with her or find comfort in her that's
just a difference in translation.
Abu Hurayrah narrated the prophets and said treat woman nicely.
Ladies.
Salah we are on your side now you're on your side. Treat woman
nicely. I mean, Allah says in the Quran, why she ruhuna she has been
created.
She is the place of refuge. She is the place of comfort when you are
having difficulty when you fall and looking physically but I'm
saying when you fall, she's the one day to pick you up. I mean,
this is we all know this is our wives by the nature even if they
scolding and scaling and complaining and moaning. When you
know, when times get tough. Then they are the first ones they
you know, it's like the captain on the ship and the please I'm
speaking English now. And the first mate
you know in the British Navy, you have the captain first mate second
mate Why is him speaking English? Because if I'm speaking of
records, and I say first meet them for I know what funny Twitter
might
so please, I'm speaking English. I'm speaking English here. Okay,
so we've got the captain.
Now the Captain, what will the captain's duty is to steer the to
steer the boat to make sure that the boat arrives at its desired
destination. And it's the husband's job the husband is
supposed to lead is to lead by example, here within Amanu
qu M fossa como Alikum Nowra are those of you who believe, save
yourselves
and your families, your wives. And if you have your children, save
them from the fire, it truly is men instance. Why is Allah
speaking directly to the men
telling us to save ourselves?
Quite simply, Allah is telling us to save ourselves first.
Not because you want to go to Jannah first,
because Allah wants us to fear him first.
Allah wants us to be mindful of him first as men as husbands as
fathers. Allah wants us to make sure we implementing the laws of
Allah subhanaw taala into our lives first, in order that we can
be a practical example for our wives and our children to follow.
This is this is the meaning of being the captain.
You can't have two captains on one ship, because there'll be Mutiny
on the Bounty, and the captain get thrown overboard, and the ship
won't arrive at its desired destination. So
the father or the husband, which is an father, which is often given
the story of an abuse of Ali salaam, the father is given the
similitude of the son and the mother is given us a multitude of
the moon. Why have you thought about that?
Well, lady,
John is shumsa dia welcome, Ron Uhura. It is Allah has made the
sun as an illuminating light
and the moon as a reflecting light.
Well, journal comm Rafi hinda neuro Jalla Shamcey Raja
And he made the moon in the heavens. Meaning in the sky which
we see every night. He made the moon.
Not every night except when the night is except when the moon is
being born and we can't see it.
But he has made the moon day in as a reflecting light in his made the
sun as a lamp bearing light Suraj
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in the story of the use of what is called the use of fully be here,
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Oh, my father, in call to mind when Joseph said to his father and
abused rally Salem, oh, my father, I see in a dream
that 11 stars and the sun and the moon or prostrating to me.
The sun, the 11 stars are his brothers. And the sun is his
father. And the moon is his mother.
And why is the Father, the Son and the moon, the mother, because the
light has to begin emanating from the Father, and then reflected off
by the mother. And I know in reality, in terms of how people
are living their lives today, that in a lot of homes, that's not
happening. And then the woman literally becomes like the son.
She leads the way. And she sets the example. But that's not her
role.
Obviously, if the husband's not doing it, if she wants to save her
children, she must do it.
And perhaps even he will eventually feel shame and he will
follow her example. That's happening in many homes. But I'm
speaking in terms of roles and responsibilities.
Also that Allah has made the man to lead and to lead by example. He
must be the Suraj he must be the lamp bearing the light. And the
wife in turn follows that example and reflects that light and
reflects it onto onto the children.
That's why the lap of the mother is the first university
a mother has far more influence over children in terms of the
upbringing than what a father has a father has to teach them
discipline. Yes, man, the Halliwell in Wellington of Donovan
Edelman Hasson No Father has given his child any better gift in good
manners.
So
when did the Halacha come in FC why the Halacha minha soldier who
Allah the Halacha community why they were Jalla minha xojo Holly
Escuela ilaya. So the woman has been created. So that man might
find that peace, that tranquility and that repose from this crazy
world that we live in and they together, then raise that family
in the shade of the Holy Quran and the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet
Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. But in this hadith, the prophet
specifically says, is so So Vanessa is sejarah.
He says,
treat your woman nicely, kindly with goodness, Allah subhanaw
taala says, Why Shooto Hoonah Bill ma roof,
live with them in goodness, live with them in kindness. So here's
what I say goes hand in hand. Oh, can this man expect this woman to
be a comfort comfort for him? If he's going to be unkind to her?
How can you expect this woman to be accompanied for him? If he's
going to
cheat her nastily? disrespect her, swear at her abuser, shouted her.
be rude to her, humiliate her. So it goes hand in hand. She is the
comfort for him. And he because of this, she is now embraced her
role, her primary role before the children even come on the scene.
Before the children even come on the scene. She's embraced this
role of being a comfort and a place of refuge and a place of
tranquility for a husband.
If he be a man
of Allah.
Then he will celebrate her.
He will treat her with kindness
and you will not try and change her in any way but listen
carefully. What I'm saying here is like Allah and Baraka Luffy just
got a few minutes left
And he and here we go without the crook about the Rube doesn't do
this
is so so Ben Nisa, if I draw, treat women nicely, treat them
kindly treat them well
for a woman is created from a rib
and the most curved portion of the rib is its upper portion.
The most curved portion of the rib is right at the end.
Prophets Allah Salam is now referring.
Well, in terms of the Hadith in general, we understand what he's
referring to. He's referring to the nature of a woman.
He's referring to the nature of a woman, a woman is not a man, and
in this crazy world that we live today, I mean, my mother and I had
a discussion, let's call it a discussion.
A slight disagreement but a discussion. Because my mother is a
manager
at a
what do you call it? estate agency?
She runs the office. So I said, You mean manage your risks? She
said, No, there's no such thing as a manager. So anymore. I'm a
manager. I said, Mom, you know, why? Why must you now in order to
be accepted in order to be respected? Why must you now take
on the title of a male? I mean, I'm talking linguistics now.
Manager, manager risks. Moody's, Madeira, Madeira, in Arabic
Moody's manager, Madeira tune, manage your risks, because the one
is a male and one is a female. But no. Women are now assuming the
titles of men.
And the workload of men
and the jobs of men in order to be equal with men. And I think this
is completely utterly wrong. A woman must be must be respected
and treated as a man's equal without her trying to be like a
man.
Yes, physically, emotionally and psychologically moving are not
equal to men. Spiritually 100% equal.
Let's get this right, spiritually. According to Islam, men and woman
are 100% spiritually equal.
The good deed of a man is 100% equal to the good deed of a woman.
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whoever does a good deed Allah says whether it be a male or a
female and they are believers, then Allah will grant them a good
life in this world and reward them according to the best of the deeds
in the Day of Judgment. Allah make us of them I mean
many female
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the odor correct. But you know that famous?
I think it's in sort of a heads up that famous I
just want to tell the show's men and women spiritually, when it
comes to spirituality when it comes to good deeds 100% equal,
but physically, emotionally, psychologically, they are not
equal but is equity. What's the difference?
Equity in the sense that Allah has been fair in his distribution of
attributes based on roles and responsibilities. So Allah has
given attributes to a female so that she can fulfill her primary
role and responsibility. And that is to be the comfort
and the caregiver of her husband and her children. That's the
primary role the primary role. Man, on the other hand has been
given the qualities and attributes so that he can go out and be the
breadwinner.
And that he can make the decisions of the consulting with his wife
and children, after consulting with his wife and children are
repeated three times like the Prophet did Salah Salem after
consulting with his wife and his children, that he will ultimately
make the decisions that are going to be in the best interest of the
family in order to save himself and his wife and his children from
the fire which fuels men instance.
So this equity
In terms of the attributes, the distribution of attributes, the
man has been given certain attributes, so he can fulfill his
role and responsibility. And the woman has been given certain
attributes, so that she can fulfill her role and
responsibility. But in it comes a great test for the man.
And that a woman has been created with a unique nature. She's an
emotional being.
She very often thinks with her emotions. I heard a a doctor once
giving a lecture. And he was saying that between the so called
intellectual brain and the emotional brain, there is a bridge
in both the male and the female. Of course,
the difference being that the bridge between the intellectual
and the emotional brain of the male is a very narrow bridge. We
as the bridge between the intellectual and emotional brain
in the female is a very wide bridge. I'm obviously explaining
it in very simplistic and mundane terms, but you can go and do the
research on the actual science behind it. So in other words,
there's often that emotional interference,
more so in a woman then in a man and that's why ultimately the man
is responsible. Listen to me carefully. It doesn't make him
better than his wife.
While the Hoonah Mr. Lizzy Allah hinda Bill roof, Well originally
Allah hinda Raja, and for the men, sorry for the woman have the same
rights of goodness that they have over their husbands as their
husbands have over them. And for the men there is a degree above
immediately the main start saying you see it because he Oh, it is
the boss.
But these are what it means. All the Mufasa you don't agree with
the regional Ali Ali Nadal Raja Phil Masoli at the men have a
degree above in one thing and one thing alone and that is in
responsibility. The burden is heavier to bear. They are going to
be answerable for they're going to be answerable. For more on the day
of your Makia could look camera and we'll call Alejandra Yeti.
This is the heavy responsibility of leadership.
In all of you are shepherds, and all of you are going to be
questioned about your flock. It's why a man will even be questioned
if he allows his wife to leave her home uncovered. Adorned for other
men to lust after a man will be answered unsuitable on the date of
your lucky I'm all for that.
But let's just finish this hadith and it will be will complete our
class for the night. Cheat woman kindly said
treat them nicely for a woman is created from a rib and the most
curved portion of the rib is its upper portion. If you try to
straighten it, you will break it.
So here a man has been given the position of leadership. His wife
is there to be his place of comfort, tranquility, peace and
repose. But he has to tolerate her nature of being this emotional
being of being this
person
that has been created for companionship and I think and I'm
I'm also guilty, I have to start with myself less my wife should
hear about this talk and then, you know, sought me out afterwards.
I'm also very guilty of this because I grew up I two sisters.
And so for me to be alone is no problem. I sometimes like just to
be alone,
just like maybe Adam and salaam was walking around in Jannah
alone.
But our wives woman have not been created to be alone. And I think
sometimes, you know, we think well, you know, I like being
alone. Why doesn't she like being alone.
And this is the nature of a woman. A woman wants attention from her
husband.
And her being that place of comfort. Her been that tranquility
that peace and repose. She deserves for her husband to give
her that attention. I'm saying big things tonight.
We're recording this for five midday.
She deserves to have that attention
because she has been created for partnership
with John Amina zoologia And he made from that soul from the same
substance he made from that soul a partner for that so she has been
made for partnership.
Leah's gonna lay her that he might find comfort in her that he might
find peace
centering quality in her, but then he has to provide the partnership
that she requires, in order for her to be that comfort that He
desires from her.
And, at the end of the hadith is
for in the hub to to, if you try to bend that
paint curve definitely cricket, that curved part of the rib. If
you try and bend it straight since the prophets Allah Salam casado,
you will break it.
We're in Toronto, and if you leave it, it will still stay our edge,
it will stay curved.
It will stay. I want to say the word but I don't mean it in a bad
way. It will stay crooked. But that is man celebrating the nature
of woman
accepting the fact that she has been created differently.
And he as the leader of the family has to accommodate her. He has to
tolerate her. He has to celebrate her for those special attributes
that Allah has granted her and at the end again, he says for so so
Ben Nisa Kira, treat women nicely.
So Allah has created them and that is that she is a garment for you
and your garment for them.
She is affectionate to you. And you are affectionate to her. She
is a comfort for you. And you are a comfort for her.
We Allah subhanaw taala grant us all to be a comfort for each
other, to grant us the peace and tranquility in the dunya and grant
us in sha Allah to be companions in the gender Amin Europa Amin
until next time I leave you via Manila is
no, not to my knowledge not to my knowledge it was it wasn't it
wasn't necessary. Because that that that creation
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together. Indica, it was
for the lack of a better term, almost by default, because they
were created for the purpose of procreation.
And they after and inshallah we'll go into that next week, actually,
not next week, when we speak about Kaabil in Erbil, how Allah
subhanaw taala paid them off, because Allah subhanaw taala gave
to our various sets of twins, and how they had to marry the,
the twin of the sibling, the twin of the, of the sibling. So this
was all this was the order that Allah created an order which is
unacceptable today. You can't have two sets of twins, and they're
marrying each other
across the twinship. That was for that time, but they after and we
don't know when Allahu Allah when
the awkward of Nikka came into being the actual contract of
marriage came into be, but because what you have is
and this is something I mentioned in the hotel the other day, you
have La ilaha illallah which is the belief
that story there's no God that God is not worthy of worship except
Allah. And that from Adam all the way to Mohammed says immutable
doesn't change.
But at different intervals Allah subhanaw taala brought new laws.
So for example, this the Noahide law, La ilaha illallah newf Rasul
Allah,
Allah Allah, Allah the belief, no Shirat and women Hajah the law and
the way Tamina gonna be Brahim La ilaha illallah Ibrahim Rasulullah.
The law in the way, Abraham the Abrahamic law, time of Moses
Mosaic Law, shear Athan women hija time we're gonna be Lisa.
The he was the he was the law. In fact, even in the New Testament,
the Christians quoted him as saying, Nobody shall come unto the
Father. I'm the way in the life you said, I am the way and the
life
and
For the time of who that was true, there is no god but God, and Jesus
is the messenger of God, he would have been Sheraton women Hijjah
for his time, the law and the way. And with Mohamed Salah Salem, the
belief stays the same La ilaha illallah, Muhammad Rasulullah
Muhammad becomes now the completion, the perfection and the
combination of the law and the way. So what do laws entail? Laws
entail exactly what we can.
Of course, when it comes to, when it comes to Sharia, we have a bar
that and what omelette, so we have worship, and we have transactions.
So worship would be like pray, and giving charity, and fasting and
going on pilgrimage, we as transactions would be things like
getting married, getting divorced, buying, selling.
Things like the freeing of slaves in those days, things like
engaging in military,
jihad, etc, etc. So, that would have come with the law. As to when
that like you say, the first Nikka when Allah subhanaw taala with
which Prophet Allah sent up to Nikka maybe something that Shala I
can I can research if there is any information from the previously
revealed a book something interesting for us to look at. But
exactly, at which Prophet the contract of marriage came into
being Allah Allah, Allah knows best
then a no problem
we don't have any. We don't have any evidence that he was married.
We don't have any evidence that he was married. What we have in the
hadith is that he will come back and he will marry
and come back as a newbie, of course, he will descend and he
will matter that's what we have in the in the Hadith.
But as for him getting married, when he was on the dunya there is
nothing
in the Quran or in the sunnah to indicate that he had he married
Allah Allah
Allah Allah Allah wa salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa
I can go home to your comfort now.
We move
on
Does
that make sense so we're up to the cross terms of
doing hand in hand.
A woman cannot expect to be put on a pedestal if she's not providing
their primary
company because there's a woman of today. What first to be put on a
pedestal for the before before they provide any comfort and
comfort including something I have to go into.
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