Riyadh Walls – Jumuah 20181439

Riyadh Walls
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The transcript discusses the origin of the term "na" in various narrations and the use of it in various narrations. It also describes events and moments in a television show, including "bliss" to be killed by theJannah of the year after all, "rocky smile" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "has been" to be a woman in the sky, "
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Hello Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah while early

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he also be human when I'm about Santa Monica Warahmatullahi

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Wabarakatuh

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I think we had

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heard a little bit of homework didn't we?

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We said

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so little Bacara

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what was the vs

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verse number

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we just kept it in front of me

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ACARA was 29 to

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239

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Bye

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right so we have 10 verses from Surah Baqarah

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and 10 verses from

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sortal are off

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and these 10 verses are dealing with

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the humiliation of the bliss

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and the honor given to them and how are they masala

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and in both

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narrations of the story in Surah, Baqarah and circle are off. We

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have it exactly in that order. The humiliation of the bliss of the

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refused

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to prostrate himself before our father maybe Adam Alayhis Salam

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and then immediately

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Allah subhanaw taala

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commands

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now the Adam and how Allah He was set up

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here the most common answer was oh you can gender

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as you know

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turn it down

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so the Alama they say the fact that

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first is the humiliation of bliss

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after he refused to prostrate himself

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before Adam, and then the honor of Adam and Hawa Allah Hema Salem,

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directly the after shows that the humiliation of iblees took place

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before the creation of Hawa.

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In both narrations of the story, in Sorrento Baqarah

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por la hora Krugman hammers movement muda Hora furnaces

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and Sudipta are off. Verse 18 And verse 19. And then

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and then the other one of the expulsion and the entering of the

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of the journey, surah Taha

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pseudocolor are off and surah Taha in Subtle Art of color, color

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Suraj minhang With all member de fora

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he is one of the Allah is auditing IBLEES Get out from here.

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And I think we touched briefly on the fact that

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we've always wanted to Alice's minha

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from it and half points to the fact that

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the word that is being referred to is a feminine word. So immediately

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we think of gender.

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We as an A, we always find this differing opinions. Jana is one of

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the opinions that he was in Ghana.

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The other opinion is that it's referring to his Mozilla to his

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station, because he police had a high station. He was worshipping

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Allah subhanaw taala in the ranks of the of the Archangels. So, Tala

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college minha Get out from here.

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Meaning get out from

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it from your station, your Manzella

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that Allah subhanaw taala has granted you

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Mazuma Madura

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cursed and disgraced lemon Tabby, I come in homeless. I'm Lana,

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Johanna mumin come at you, Mary,

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indeed those who follow you,

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I will fool you. And then I will fool Jahannam with you, with you

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and them, those that follow you. I will fool Jahannam La La Jahannam

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here the lamb here is for affirmation. Most certainly, I

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will fool amolatina The Lamb and the noon with a shutdown. Whenever

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you see those two letters, the lamb and the noon with a shudder

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coming on either side of a word. You know, it's double affirmation

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that most certainly, I'm Lana. I will full Johanna Ming come at me

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with all of you with YUI bliss and those that that follow you.

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So they incidentally are off is the humiliation of Iblees and then

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immediately they after

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the Muskaan, untoward. czukay jana

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Oh Adam.

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Now Ozcan from second as Kuru means to be stone.

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Although some scholars say it means that Adam must now go and

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live him and his wife must go and live in Jana.

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According to the Hadith that is narrated in urban Cathy's

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that they really were in Jannah.

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They already were in Jannah.

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But which gender

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genital Malwa

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which is the gender of the Hereafter

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or some Jana in the summer some way that Allah was preparing them

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in for the dunya. Always the Janna on a high place in the dunya

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I tend to incline towards the opinion that it was in the earth.

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This Jana a high place from where they had to get down after they

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eaten eating from the forbidden fruit, but it was a high place on

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the dunya because Allah subhanaw taala clearly says going back to

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surah baqarah and so little out of

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its color, a booklet manner Ekati in Niger I don't fill out the

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Khalifa

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at

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and call to mind when your Lord said to the angels I'm going to

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make in the earth a Khalifa

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Denise I'm going to make in the summer in the heavens a Khalifa.

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He said I'm going to make in the earth it's before He created Adam

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and his Salah.

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So He created him from the earth in the earth.

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You believe that you take from every single type of soil and from

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that Allah subhanaw taala created there is no mention of Allah

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subhanaw taala taking that soil up into the heavens and creating him

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and putting him in a garden in the heavens. There's no talk about

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that.

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The words that used is Al Jana, but the word Jana garden is used

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for many stories in the Quran

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in Bologna, whom come up Ilona, US herbal Jana

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you know in

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in so little column.

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Indeed we tested them like we tested the people of the of the

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Jana.

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Allah Samantha refers to the gardens of of Sabah, Jana tan,

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you know the two gardens in Sabah in Chiba. So the word Jana is not

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only used for genital Malwa, which is the Garden of Abode of refuge

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in the Hereafter.

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And many of the scholars say how could it be the garden of the year

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after? When Adam and how Allah Hema salaam disobeyed Allah vain

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and how could it be the garden of the Hereafter when they eventually

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were taken out of the garden?

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Where's the garden of the year after

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Alesana dialysis that they will not ever leave it

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well my home minha wama home minha be mocha Jean.

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And they will never leave it to people

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that into the gender of the here after the garden of the hereafter

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will never ever leave that garden yet.

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Adam and Hawa Allah Salam, they live to God in that they were in

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such well I'm inclined to, to believe that Allah created our

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father Adam alayhis salam from the earth in the US. If we go back to

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that

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so in Surah Baqarah

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is colourable columella aikaterini Jerilyn fill out the philosopher

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and call to mind when you load say to the angels I'm making in the

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earth of vice gerund

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and in total are off well aka dama Khanna comm fill Earth, we are

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firmly established you in the earth

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are janela comfy hum Irish and we made for you they in a life

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meaning food and clothing etc. kalila Mitesh chronicle do you

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think's Welaka Hala canal Kim Sung Mr. Warnock comes from the cool

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melon Mala a cat is Julie Adam Mufasa do IBLEES la mia Camila CGT

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And indeed We created you and we fashion you and we said to the

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angels bow down before Adam and they all bow down except for a

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bliss he was not of those who bow down and frustrated. So it was in

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the earth

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again, this is open for debate. We have no de Lille Katya clear cut

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evidence that it was the Jannah of the year after all, it was an

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intermediate, intermediate or transitional Jana in the heavens

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somewhere or that it was a gender on Earth. It even cathedra his

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opinion is just to say, Allahu Allah. They were in agenda, we

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don't know where it was.

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So,

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from these two verses CIRTL hour off, and surah Taha,

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I just want you to take the, from Surah Baqarah. And sorted out of

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just to show us on a tour Allah stresses the fact that he created

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the vice chairman, where in the Heavens, no, he created the vice

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chair and for what for the earth from the earth and he put him in

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the earth.

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Then we go back to

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suited to our often surah Taha

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where Allah subhanaw taala, juxtaposes those two events,

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the refusal of a bliss to prostrate himself and then the

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expulsion of a bliss from his rank from his rank.

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Again IBLEES couldn't have been in the gender of the Akira either

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because the gender of the Asherah nobody can disobey Allah vain and

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those that enter the gender of the era.

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They will never leave.

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In surah Taha is coronelli Malai ket is Julie Adam a facade to Illa

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a Belize Abba for cooling them in the heather ado, we'll look at

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with his Odjick phala Ukri Jana Kuma Amina Jannetty for Tushar in

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halacha Allah to GRFP her well, Tara, Nikola Tesla ofii Ha ha ha.

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And then we are the Muskaan and towards ojochal JANA

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Wakulla Adams could enter was ojochal JANA tava Kula minha

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rather than Hisashi tomorrow. While at Taco Bell had a shirt of

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at Hakuna min of volume in

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that one is from ta Okay, so the alumni say that in both instances

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in both instances humiliation of iblees

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after refusing to bow down before Adam, and only then Allah Subhana

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Allah tells them and how Allah He masala to stay. I'm using that

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word specifically to stay in the agenda.

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To stay in the job who's going

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second as Kulu which literally means to be stalled.

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So Allah created him from the earth, put him in the Jannah he

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was alone. Oh, here comes something very important. He was

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alone.

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Either money Salam was alone. Allah taught Him after He created

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him. Well, I lemma Adam and Asmaa Akula we've really covered that,

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that Allah taught him the names of everything, not of everything in

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the heavens and on earth.

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Only Allah has that knowledge. But he taught him the names of

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everything, Allah to work heartily, so on which he senses

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fell.

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So Allah taught him the name of the sky, which he could see,

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taught him the name of the of the trees, taught in the name of the

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of the animals, the names of the end

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Almost everything on which he senses everything he saw

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everything you heard everything he could taste everything you could

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touch.

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Allah taught him the names of all those things, but now he's alone.

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He is alone.

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And then when we get to insert a baccarat

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what is called Melly Mel I cat is Julie Adam a facade you do IBLEES

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ABA was stockbroker, animal caffeine

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wahconah Yeah, Adam was cool unto us ojochal agenda so in between.

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He believes his refusal and then he's subsequently humiliation of

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being cast out of the service of Allah. And in between Allah

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telling Adam and how Allah Hema salaam to stay in the Jannah in

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between those two events is the creation of,

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of how either his Alayhis Salam or mother.

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So

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if we are to speak about the creation of our mother,

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then quite clearly, she has been created from our father. Again,

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this debate scholars love to debate but clearly I was one of

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the other says, Yo your nurse Takata Bukom Allah the Hala Takumi

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Neff sin Wahida wahala come in Huzzah. Jaha

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wahala caminha.

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zoologia,

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O mankind, Fear your Lord, be mindful of your Lord, Who created

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you from a single soul.

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And then he created

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from that soul, a partner for that song.

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Now Holika,

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to create a look and create something from nothing

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is better, especially if he if he uses the word halacha. And that's

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why some of the scholars argue that they were created

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individually. First Adam and then, however, from the same Torah, from

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the same dust, but also on the other in another verse,

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in particular,

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sutra out of verse 189. Instead of using the word Halacha, he uses

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the word gyla, who will let the Halacha come in FC Wahida What

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gyla mean has o Jaha, Lea schooner ILAHA.

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It is Allah, Who has created you from a single soul, and did not he

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created then he made

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from that soul, a partner for that soul, that he might find repose in

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her.

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This is very powerful.

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When halacha is used, color can be to create from nothing or from

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something but Jalla only from something when gyla is used Jalla

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Jalla Jaggu.

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In other words, something from something.

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If Allah says gyla, then he is making something from something

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you can't you can't make something from nothing.

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But you can create something from nothing just like Hola, hola. So,

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hello thought can be creating from nothing.

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We as gyla it is something from something. And they the alumni say

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that when Jalla is used, it is to create something

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to create something from

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the thing that was originally made, in this case, the Melissa.

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So

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Allah subhanaw taala creates a single soul, and then it creates a

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partner

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from that soul for that soul. So which part

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from which part has the partner been made? Well, the hadith is,

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is quite clear

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that a study reported from Abu Salah and Abu Malik that even

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Abbas and who's even ambas, the greatest of the Morpho serine from

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amongst the Sahaba, the nephew.

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Often the cousin

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said Africa is definitely the cousin of our beloved Prophet

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Muhammad says although he was much younger than the Prophet saw some

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he was the son of Abbas, Abdullah ibn Abbas. And the Prophet made

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special dua for him Allah Houma factor houfy denwa limited we'll

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all give him understanding in the religion and teaching the

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interpretation of the Quran.

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So when even Abbas narrate something, then we make we better

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listen up

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that even Abbas and even Massoud and other companions said IBLEES

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was expelled from paradise and Adam dwelt there in

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a bliss was expelled from paradise and Adam dwelt in. We've said that

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is a debate that can continue amongst the scholars you can

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choose.

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He wandered around in it alone, as he had no partner this evening,

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because here we are reading from we're reading from Casa MBR, of

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Ibn kassiopi Dhyani, higher.

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So authentic derision.

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He wandered around in it alone,

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as he had no partner

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immediately.

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So he's not going to Jannah

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he was Allah, Allah created him were in the janotti. Wherever the

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agenda is, we have no clear cut evidence as to where it is. I'm

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inclined to believe that it was on earth.

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An elevated garden. Actually, what's really interesting is that,

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I don't know if I mentioned this last week, that the word paradise

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comes from the word fear dose, which is a borrowed word in Arabic

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from the Persian and filled those means a walled garden

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and enclosed God.

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And according to the Old Testament, according to the Jews,

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there is a fair dose at dinner and the fifth dose Allah because we

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also believe in January 5, dulcet Allah, which is the the highest

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place in the Jana of the Hera, the highest place in the gardens of

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the Hereafter, I'll fill those who Allah where as they believe that

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the Garden of Eden

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on the dunya was the spirit of docile Edna the lowest filled dose

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filled those meaning and enclosed garden on the dunya.

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And like the prophets, it had the flu and Bani Israel or Hadith and

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Bani Israel will urge the right from the children of Israel, no

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problem led to subdeacon when I took the boom, don't believe them,

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no belie them

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and this there are speaking about it, then we belie them. But if

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something is narrated, we cannot we don't have clear cut evidence

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because the so much of the Torah has been corrupted. So much of it

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has been tainted, things have been added, things have been taken out

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things have been changed, taken out of context, you have the full

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nail Kenema and Manuel de. But when it comes to these details,

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it's interesting. It's interesting to

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to see what are the opinions and to read those opinions, no problem

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but to take an opinion that contradicts the Quran and the

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Sunnah. That is where we draw the we draw the line, we will never

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take an opinion or even entertain an opinion that would contradict

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the Holy Quran, or the Sunnah of a beloved Prophet Muhammad

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Sallallahu Sallam is going to make that, that very clear. So he

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wandered around in it alone.

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And he had no partner. This is coming from even IBAS even Massoud

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and many of the other Sahaba.

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So if he was wandering around in it in the Jana, wherever that Jana

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was alone, and Allah says, Oh skoon anta was Oh Juca Janda.

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Does it mean go into the garden or stay in the garden? What does it

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mean? Stay in the garden, because he really was in the garden.

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Who are the Melissa but he's alone. He's alone

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once when he woke up from his slumber, so he's he's in the

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garden. He's alone.

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Allah has taught him the names of everything on which his senses

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fall. And then one day, he goes to sleep.

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According to this hadith, he goes to sleep.

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When he woke up from his slumber, he found a woman sitting near his

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head. He found a woman sitting near his head. We make makes me

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think of that funny thing. We always say deferral. deferral

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can appeal Copson masivo NetSol said

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just a joke for the ladies in the back day.

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Right? So, he woke up and he found a woman sitting near his head. Now

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the word you

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Since the hadith is immoral I tune the word using the hadith is

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immoral. Tuna in maroon immoral is a man imra tune is a female there

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is a Tamar, Bhutan, Tama Bhutan. And that's interesting why because

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it's from the same being that she's been created. She's just

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been made a female and he is a male but she is from him.

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Once he woke up from Islam, we found a woman sitting near his

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head. Allah had created her from his

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what says your ribs but that's incorrect. Translation because it

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is mean mean delivery he mean delivery.

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Meaning from a rib or from his ribs.

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Imagining like a rack of ribs stay at a spur, you know

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mean Diller he from his rib. But ribs.

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If we had to add mean delay, he mean ordinary Ebola is the plural

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of dilla Delaire own so the 30 specifically says mean delay ie

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from his rib.

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In some narration say the left rib at the top

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where it is most curved, where it is most I'd like to use the word

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crooked because in the ladies think we're saying they're

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crooked, you know.

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Instead the mean Allah because the prophets Allah *, there's a

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hadith coming very beautiful Hadith, which is often used

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derogatorily against woman. But I would actually like to turn that

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on its head tonight and actually show you that it's a beautiful

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Hadith in praise of woman.

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So he wandered around in Jannah alone a as he had no partner, once

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when he woke up from his Sunday found a woman sitting near his

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head, Allah created her from his rib.

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Adam asked her, What are you?

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I think many men are still asking the question today.

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What are you she replied a woman. He further asked, Why have you

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been created? She replied, so you can seek comfort in me? I think

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this is so so very powerful.

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Because

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in both verses,

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what gyla minha xojo halaya, schooner ilaya He made from that

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single soul, a partner for that soul

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so that he might find comfort, repose tranquility in her.

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And I'm sure the ladies will be thinking well, it goes both ways.

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And true, yes, it does go both ways. That's why I was one Natalia

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uses the philosophy of the garment. That whole Nellie Basler

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come unto me, Barcelona, they are a garment for you. And you're a

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garment for them.

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What's the philosophy behind the garment? Number one,

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comfort,

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protection.

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I like to say it like this adornment.

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We are all clothing is there to adorn us. So with that comfort

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that we provide, we supposed to bring out the best in each other.

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Clothing is also there for protection

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in the summertime from the harmful rays of the sun, in the wintertime

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to provide warmth.

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And right throughout the year, our clothing covers those parts of the

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body that no stranger should see or even know about for that

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matter.

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So we should that and that all together that protection,

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that warmth.

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That covering up I think through all that.

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That peace and tranquility and safety and security, emotional and

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otherwise is found between husband and wife.

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But I think what is important for women to

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understand in terms of her ability

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or the attributes that Allah subhanaw taala has granted

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specifically to her that she has the ability to choose

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usually bring peace to a man

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to truly bring tranquility to a man, if he's troubled.

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If he's disturbed, if he's upset, if he's irritated, if he's

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confused, then Allah has given her that ability to bring calm to him.

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And in the same breath, she has the ability to press a button for

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and for him to explode.

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And I've thought long and hard about this, because we always talk

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about how a man should put a woman on a pedestal.

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And I agree with that 100%. And I know my wife is not here to

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testify either for or against me. But it's something that we work at

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every day. It's something that we work at every day. And I've often

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thought to myself, what comes first,

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putting the wife on the pedestal.

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And once you've done that, then she

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provides that comfort and peace and tranquility.

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And I've looked around in society, and that the nature of men,

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and I've found that that's putting the cart before the horse.

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And they go hand in hand, please ancestors mustn't, person

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misunderstand me hear

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that, I believe if a woman fulfills that purpose for which he

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has been created, to be that place of comfort, to be that place of

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repose of tranquility, for husband, in his time of confusion,

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in his time of difficulty in his time of worry, in his time of

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anxiety,

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then by default, if he is a person that believes in Allah and the

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Last Day, and fears Allah subhanaw taala, then by default, he should

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put her honor on a pedestal.

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But her saying, Listen, I'm only going to be a comfort for you.

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Otherwise, I'm Renu.

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I'm going to be on your case. I'm going to

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I'm going to work on your nerves and I'm going to scold you and I'm

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going to do everything to irritate you and tell you put me on the

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pedestal.

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And

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that is where

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husband and wife basically fall out with each other.

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I think for a woman to to realize

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the special purpose because only she has that ability

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to be that because a man a man. For example, a man is the

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breadwinner is supposed to be a man is supposed to be the

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breadwinner, that's why a woman whatever she earns, she can keep

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herself but a man he is responsible, to clothe, to feed,

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to educate to house, his wife and

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and the offspring. He is the one that was one of the Allah has made

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as the maintainer, regional Comunale missa min of the

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maintainers of woman

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so

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after having a hard day at work, he must look forward

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to going home.

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That Home is where his heart is. As soon as he walks through that

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door the thing that he is looking so much forward to is seeing his

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wife's face

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his mashallah is like you want to get married? No.

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Dad, don't look at him like that. One day, inshallah one day.

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So, when he he's looking forward to getting home. He's looking

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forward to seeing his wife because that's his repose. That's his

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comfort. That's his peace. That's his tranquility.

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And that is why he must treat her better than anybody else.

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Doesn't be speaking all. Thank you, Kathy. Yes, Linda. Oh, yes,

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I'd love a cup of tea. Thank you very well, this tea is absolutely

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delicious. Lovely. And when he gets home Salam Fastway tea

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Oh, just pick up flowers.

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Make me another cup of stuff for Allah.

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He's a lion. He's a lamb outside is a lion in the home. No, no, no.

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So that's why I want the sisters to to clearly understand that. I'm

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saying it goes hand in hand. She must be that comfort. And he must

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be that kindness

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He must give her that kindness

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and that honor and that respect and that love

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that she deserves as his comfort.

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I mean, how can something that has been created for comfort, be

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comfortable if you are always making it uncomfortable

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so it's the one for for a woman to embrace this beautiful Lee look at

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the other verse. A woman IRT and hello caller coming um, firstly,

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come as Roger liters who knew Ilya is not just for Adam and Hawa.

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It's not only Adam that's been made as a place of as a means as a

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means of comfort for Adam Ulisses and from his signs will mean it

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and Holika calm, mean, unfussy come as well as there is created

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from yourselves partners for yourselves, that you might find

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comfort and peace and tranquility within them.

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And that's why, you know, they say a happy wife happy life.

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So it's for a woman to embrace that beautiful purpose. And we

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talking primary we took my primary we have we have primary purposes.

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And we have secondary purposes. This is a primary purpose for a

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woman to be that place of comfort for her for her husband, and they

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want to tell us what Allah say,

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Oh yeah, and the Hadith the Prophet Allah some says

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is still su be Nyssa II Hurrah

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for intall Murata wholecut mean delivering. What in other words

00:36:50 --> 00:36:53

you che in fifth delay? Allah Who?

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For in the Hepta to chemo who Cosanta who were in Thorac Tahoe

00:37:02 --> 00:37:11

lamea Zelle wedge for stojo su Denisa II for y'all have a love

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for Buhari. There's a hadith in Bukhari, it's authentic hadith,

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authentic hadith.

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Before translated Hadith, I want to complete the first Hadith. So

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once he when he woke up from his slumber, he found a woman sitting

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near his head, Allah created from his rib. Adam asked her what are

00:37:29 --> 00:37:32

you? She replied a woman. He further asked her why have you

00:37:32 --> 00:37:36

been created? She replied, so you can seek comfort in me.

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The angels who were well aware of the extent of Adam's knowledge

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asked him, What is her name or Adam? He replied, how?

00:37:45 --> 00:37:51

How was her? How well I live, Hamza, how

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many Hamza you just cut off the air. How?

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They asked, why, how? Eve.

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Adam replied because she has been created from a living thing.

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And wholecut are Julep mean che in hive. She has been created from

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Hide, hide. Hide Yun means a living thing, hydrogen. That's

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what Allah is. I'll hide you the eternally living cannot die. The

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Eternity living a lie. But that's only for Allah with Oliphant lamb

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and unhei. Whereas under high une we're under hygiene.

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We're untung a higher

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I am a living being you're a living being and you're all living

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beings are here. That's the plural of high hygiene. So why is howa

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called her because she's been created from something high. Does

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that make sense?

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Did you know that before? Have you learned something new tonight. So

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how our means created from a living being

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how our

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Mohammed even his heart natural universe that she was created from

00:39:25 --> 00:39:29

the smallest rib of his left side while he was sleeping

00:39:30 --> 00:39:36

while he was sleeping. Howa was being created from this height

00:39:42 --> 00:39:42

this is not

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only that she has been created from him were jacala minha Zhou

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Jaha. And he created from the single soul

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which is now body and soul.

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Because Allah subhanaw taala put his soul into his body. He was

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walking around in the Jannah according to the Hadith, before

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Allah subhanaw taala created

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his partner however Allah has set up so that in the two versus Carla

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come in her

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gyla minha he created from it from the single soul he made from it

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from the single soul, XO Jaha its partner, that's all we have in the

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Quran

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been looking for the very beginning. Yeah, but that's what

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I'm saying tonight we're going to put this idea of the crooked robe

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being something bad, we're going to put that on its head inshallah.

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We're getting there, inshallah we're getting there.

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So, Mohammed even is directed from the habits that she was created

00:41:04 --> 00:41:07

from the smallest group of his left side while he was sleeping,

00:41:07 --> 00:41:09

then that empty place was filled with flesh.

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The opinion is confirmed by the following saying of Allah, oh man

00:41:14 --> 00:41:16

can't be dutiful to your Lord who created you from a single person.

00:41:17 --> 00:41:21

And from him he created his wife. So they give that ayah as a

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reference, as far as the detail is concerned, the details in the

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Hadith, not in the ayah

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Allah mentioned another verse it is you created from a single

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person and he's created from him his wife, in order that he might

00:41:36 --> 00:41:38

enjoy the pleasure of living with her or find comfort in her that's

00:41:38 --> 00:41:41

just a difference in translation.

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Abu Hurayrah narrated the prophets and said treat woman nicely.

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Ladies.

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Salah we are on your side now you're on your side. Treat woman

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nicely. I mean, Allah says in the Quran, why she ruhuna she has been

00:41:58 --> 00:41:58

created.

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She is the place of refuge. She is the place of comfort when you are

00:42:04 --> 00:42:07

having difficulty when you fall and looking physically but I'm

00:42:07 --> 00:42:11

saying when you fall, she's the one day to pick you up. I mean,

00:42:11 --> 00:42:16

this is we all know this is our wives by the nature even if they

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scolding and scaling and complaining and moaning. When you

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know, when times get tough. Then they are the first ones they

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you know, it's like the captain on the ship and the please I'm

00:42:33 --> 00:42:34

speaking English now. And the first mate

00:42:36 --> 00:42:40

you know in the British Navy, you have the captain first mate second

00:42:40 --> 00:42:43

mate Why is him speaking English? Because if I'm speaking of

00:42:43 --> 00:42:46

records, and I say first meet them for I know what funny Twitter

00:42:46 --> 00:42:47

might

00:42:50 --> 00:42:52

so please, I'm speaking English. I'm speaking English here. Okay,

00:42:53 --> 00:42:54

so we've got the captain.

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Now the Captain, what will the captain's duty is to steer the to

00:43:00 --> 00:43:04

steer the boat to make sure that the boat arrives at its desired

00:43:04 --> 00:43:08

destination. And it's the husband's job the husband is

00:43:08 --> 00:43:12

supposed to lead is to lead by example, here within Amanu

00:43:13 --> 00:43:18

qu M fossa como Alikum Nowra are those of you who believe, save

00:43:18 --> 00:43:19

yourselves

00:43:20 --> 00:43:24

and your families, your wives. And if you have your children, save

00:43:24 --> 00:43:27

them from the fire, it truly is men instance. Why is Allah

00:43:27 --> 00:43:29

speaking directly to the men

00:43:31 --> 00:43:32

telling us to save ourselves?

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Quite simply, Allah is telling us to save ourselves first.

00:43:39 --> 00:43:41

Not because you want to go to Jannah first,

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because Allah wants us to fear him first.

00:43:47 --> 00:43:50

Allah wants us to be mindful of him first as men as husbands as

00:43:50 --> 00:43:53

fathers. Allah wants us to make sure we implementing the laws of

00:43:53 --> 00:43:57

Allah subhanaw taala into our lives first, in order that we can

00:43:57 --> 00:44:00

be a practical example for our wives and our children to follow.

00:44:02 --> 00:44:04

This is this is the meaning of being the captain.

00:44:05 --> 00:44:09

You can't have two captains on one ship, because there'll be Mutiny

00:44:09 --> 00:44:14

on the Bounty, and the captain get thrown overboard, and the ship

00:44:14 --> 00:44:17

won't arrive at its desired destination. So

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the father or the husband, which is an father, which is often given

00:44:27 --> 00:44:31

the story of an abuse of Ali salaam, the father is given the

00:44:31 --> 00:44:34

similitude of the son and the mother is given us a multitude of

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the moon. Why have you thought about that?

00:44:38 --> 00:44:39

Well, lady,

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John is shumsa dia welcome, Ron Uhura. It is Allah has made the

00:44:46 --> 00:44:49

sun as an illuminating light

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and the moon as a reflecting light.

00:44:56 --> 00:44:59

Well, journal comm Rafi hinda neuro Jalla Shamcey Raja

00:45:00 --> 00:45:06

And he made the moon in the heavens. Meaning in the sky which

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we see every night. He made the moon.

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Not every night except when the night is except when the moon is

00:45:15 --> 00:45:16

being born and we can't see it.

00:45:18 --> 00:45:22

But he has made the moon day in as a reflecting light in his made the

00:45:22 --> 00:45:27

sun as a lamp bearing light Suraj

00:45:29 --> 00:45:33

Giada Camara, fina, Nora or Jalla shum CC Raja why

00:45:34 --> 00:45:38

in the story of the use of what is called the use of fully be here,

00:45:38 --> 00:45:43

at Indira at hada Ashura coca was shumsa Welcome arrived to humbly

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CGT

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Oh, my father, in call to mind when Joseph said to his father and

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abused rally Salem, oh, my father, I see in a dream

00:45:53 --> 00:45:57

that 11 stars and the sun and the moon or prostrating to me.

00:46:01 --> 00:46:06

The sun, the 11 stars are his brothers. And the sun is his

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father. And the moon is his mother.

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And why is the Father, the Son and the moon, the mother, because the

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light has to begin emanating from the Father, and then reflected off

00:46:23 --> 00:46:29

by the mother. And I know in reality, in terms of how people

00:46:29 --> 00:46:32

are living their lives today, that in a lot of homes, that's not

00:46:32 --> 00:46:36

happening. And then the woman literally becomes like the son.

00:46:37 --> 00:46:41

She leads the way. And she sets the example. But that's not her

00:46:41 --> 00:46:42

role.

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Obviously, if the husband's not doing it, if she wants to save her

00:46:46 --> 00:46:47

children, she must do it.

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And perhaps even he will eventually feel shame and he will

00:46:53 --> 00:46:56

follow her example. That's happening in many homes. But I'm

00:46:56 --> 00:47:00

speaking in terms of roles and responsibilities.

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Also that Allah has made the man to lead and to lead by example. He

00:47:07 --> 00:47:11

must be the Suraj he must be the lamp bearing the light. And the

00:47:11 --> 00:47:16

wife in turn follows that example and reflects that light and

00:47:16 --> 00:47:18

reflects it onto onto the children.

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That's why the lap of the mother is the first university

00:47:25 --> 00:47:30

a mother has far more influence over children in terms of the

00:47:30 --> 00:47:33

upbringing than what a father has a father has to teach them

00:47:33 --> 00:47:37

discipline. Yes, man, the Halliwell in Wellington of Donovan

00:47:37 --> 00:47:42

Edelman Hasson No Father has given his child any better gift in good

00:47:42 --> 00:47:43

manners.

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So

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when did the Halacha come in FC why the Halacha minha soldier who

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Allah the Halacha community why they were Jalla minha xojo Holly

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Escuela ilaya. So the woman has been created. So that man might

00:48:03 --> 00:48:09

find that peace, that tranquility and that repose from this crazy

00:48:09 --> 00:48:13

world that we live in and they together, then raise that family

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in the shade of the Holy Quran and the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet

00:48:17 --> 00:48:20

Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. But in this hadith, the prophet

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specifically says, is so So Vanessa is sejarah.

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He says,

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treat your woman nicely, kindly with goodness, Allah subhanaw

00:48:33 --> 00:48:36

taala says, Why Shooto Hoonah Bill ma roof,

00:48:37 --> 00:48:44

live with them in goodness, live with them in kindness. So here's

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what I say goes hand in hand. Oh, can this man expect this woman to

00:48:49 --> 00:48:52

be a comfort comfort for him? If he's going to be unkind to her?

00:48:54 --> 00:48:57

How can you expect this woman to be accompanied for him? If he's

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going to

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cheat her nastily? disrespect her, swear at her abuser, shouted her.

00:49:07 --> 00:49:13

be rude to her, humiliate her. So it goes hand in hand. She is the

00:49:13 --> 00:49:19

comfort for him. And he because of this, she is now embraced her

00:49:19 --> 00:49:23

role, her primary role before the children even come on the scene.

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Before the children even come on the scene. She's embraced this

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role of being a comfort and a place of refuge and a place of

00:49:33 --> 00:49:35

tranquility for a husband.

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If he be a man

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of Allah.

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Then he will celebrate her.

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He will treat her with kindness

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and you will not try and change her in any way but listen

00:49:51 --> 00:49:55

carefully. What I'm saying here is like Allah and Baraka Luffy just

00:49:55 --> 00:49:56

got a few minutes left

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And he and here we go without the crook about the Rube doesn't do

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this

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is so so Ben Nisa, if I draw, treat women nicely, treat them

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kindly treat them well

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for a woman is created from a rib

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and the most curved portion of the rib is its upper portion.

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The most curved portion of the rib is right at the end.

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Prophets Allah Salam is now referring.

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Well, in terms of the Hadith in general, we understand what he's

00:50:45 --> 00:50:48

referring to. He's referring to the nature of a woman.

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He's referring to the nature of a woman, a woman is not a man, and

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in this crazy world that we live today, I mean, my mother and I had

00:51:01 --> 00:51:02

a discussion, let's call it a discussion.

00:51:04 --> 00:51:08

A slight disagreement but a discussion. Because my mother is a

00:51:08 --> 00:51:08

manager

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at a

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what do you call it? estate agency?

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She runs the office. So I said, You mean manage your risks? She

00:51:21 --> 00:51:25

said, No, there's no such thing as a manager. So anymore. I'm a

00:51:25 --> 00:51:31

manager. I said, Mom, you know, why? Why must you now in order to

00:51:31 --> 00:51:36

be accepted in order to be respected? Why must you now take

00:51:36 --> 00:51:39

on the title of a male? I mean, I'm talking linguistics now.

00:51:40 --> 00:51:46

Manager, manager risks. Moody's, Madeira, Madeira, in Arabic

00:51:46 --> 00:51:53

Moody's manager, Madeira tune, manage your risks, because the one

00:51:53 --> 00:51:58

is a male and one is a female. But no. Women are now assuming the

00:51:58 --> 00:51:59

titles of men.

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And the workload of men

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and the jobs of men in order to be equal with men. And I think this

00:52:09 --> 00:52:14

is completely utterly wrong. A woman must be must be respected

00:52:14 --> 00:52:19

and treated as a man's equal without her trying to be like a

00:52:19 --> 00:52:19

man.

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Yes, physically, emotionally and psychologically moving are not

00:52:26 --> 00:52:29

equal to men. Spiritually 100% equal.

00:52:30 --> 00:52:35

Let's get this right, spiritually. According to Islam, men and woman

00:52:35 --> 00:52:37

are 100% spiritually equal.

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The good deed of a man is 100% equal to the good deed of a woman.

00:52:44 --> 00:52:47

When I'm in love Saudi Han means that Karina answer well who are

00:52:47 --> 00:52:51

more men, Philadelphia New Hire Atlanta Yerba Buena Janome jerami

00:52:51 --> 00:52:52

Santa Monica and balloon

00:52:53 --> 00:52:57

whoever does a good deed Allah says whether it be a male or a

00:52:57 --> 00:53:01

female and they are believers, then Allah will grant them a good

00:53:01 --> 00:53:05

life in this world and reward them according to the best of the deeds

00:53:05 --> 00:53:07

in the Day of Judgment. Allah make us of them I mean

00:53:09 --> 00:53:09

many female

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in Muslim meanwhile Muslim it well meaning I mean it well quality in

00:53:16 --> 00:53:20

our carnita it will was saw even our saw a mighty well Masada pain,

00:53:20 --> 00:53:23

well mythos of the thought. I don't even know if I've ever had

00:53:23 --> 00:53:25

the odor correct. But you know that famous?

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I think it's in sort of a heads up that famous I

00:53:30 --> 00:53:34

just want to tell the show's men and women spiritually, when it

00:53:34 --> 00:53:40

comes to spirituality when it comes to good deeds 100% equal,

00:53:41 --> 00:53:46

but physically, emotionally, psychologically, they are not

00:53:46 --> 00:53:48

equal but is equity. What's the difference?

00:53:50 --> 00:53:55

Equity in the sense that Allah has been fair in his distribution of

00:53:55 --> 00:54:01

attributes based on roles and responsibilities. So Allah has

00:54:01 --> 00:54:07

given attributes to a female so that she can fulfill her primary

00:54:07 --> 00:54:11

role and responsibility. And that is to be the comfort

00:54:13 --> 00:54:17

and the caregiver of her husband and her children. That's the

00:54:17 --> 00:54:21

primary role the primary role. Man, on the other hand has been

00:54:21 --> 00:54:27

given the qualities and attributes so that he can go out and be the

00:54:27 --> 00:54:27

breadwinner.

00:54:30 --> 00:54:35

And that he can make the decisions of the consulting with his wife

00:54:35 --> 00:54:39

and children, after consulting with his wife and children are

00:54:39 --> 00:54:42

repeated three times like the Prophet did Salah Salem after

00:54:42 --> 00:54:46

consulting with his wife and his children, that he will ultimately

00:54:46 --> 00:54:49

make the decisions that are going to be in the best interest of the

00:54:49 --> 00:54:54

family in order to save himself and his wife and his children from

00:54:54 --> 00:54:56

the fire which fuels men instance.

00:54:57 --> 00:54:59

So this equity

00:55:00 --> 00:55:04

In terms of the attributes, the distribution of attributes, the

00:55:04 --> 00:55:07

man has been given certain attributes, so he can fulfill his

00:55:07 --> 00:55:10

role and responsibility. And the woman has been given certain

00:55:10 --> 00:55:12

attributes, so that she can fulfill her role and

00:55:12 --> 00:55:16

responsibility. But in it comes a great test for the man.

00:55:17 --> 00:55:23

And that a woman has been created with a unique nature. She's an

00:55:23 --> 00:55:24

emotional being.

00:55:25 --> 00:55:31

She very often thinks with her emotions. I heard a a doctor once

00:55:31 --> 00:55:35

giving a lecture. And he was saying that between the so called

00:55:36 --> 00:55:39

intellectual brain and the emotional brain, there is a bridge

00:55:40 --> 00:55:42

in both the male and the female. Of course,

00:55:43 --> 00:55:47

the difference being that the bridge between the intellectual

00:55:47 --> 00:55:52

and the emotional brain of the male is a very narrow bridge. We

00:55:52 --> 00:55:55

as the bridge between the intellectual and emotional brain

00:55:55 --> 00:56:00

in the female is a very wide bridge. I'm obviously explaining

00:56:00 --> 00:56:03

it in very simplistic and mundane terms, but you can go and do the

00:56:03 --> 00:56:07

research on the actual science behind it. So in other words,

00:56:07 --> 00:56:13

there's often that emotional interference,

00:56:14 --> 00:56:19

more so in a woman then in a man and that's why ultimately the man

00:56:19 --> 00:56:23

is responsible. Listen to me carefully. It doesn't make him

00:56:23 --> 00:56:24

better than his wife.

00:56:26 --> 00:56:30

While the Hoonah Mr. Lizzy Allah hinda Bill roof, Well originally

00:56:30 --> 00:56:36

Allah hinda Raja, and for the men, sorry for the woman have the same

00:56:36 --> 00:56:39

rights of goodness that they have over their husbands as their

00:56:39 --> 00:56:43

husbands have over them. And for the men there is a degree above

00:56:43 --> 00:56:46

immediately the main start saying you see it because he Oh, it is

00:56:46 --> 00:56:47

the boss.

00:56:49 --> 00:56:53

But these are what it means. All the Mufasa you don't agree with

00:56:53 --> 00:56:58

the regional Ali Ali Nadal Raja Phil Masoli at the men have a

00:56:58 --> 00:57:02

degree above in one thing and one thing alone and that is in

00:57:02 --> 00:57:08

responsibility. The burden is heavier to bear. They are going to

00:57:08 --> 00:57:11

be answerable for they're going to be answerable. For more on the day

00:57:11 --> 00:57:15

of your Makia could look camera and we'll call Alejandra Yeti.

00:57:16 --> 00:57:19

This is the heavy responsibility of leadership.

00:57:20 --> 00:57:23

In all of you are shepherds, and all of you are going to be

00:57:23 --> 00:57:26

questioned about your flock. It's why a man will even be questioned

00:57:27 --> 00:57:32

if he allows his wife to leave her home uncovered. Adorned for other

00:57:32 --> 00:57:37

men to lust after a man will be answered unsuitable on the date of

00:57:37 --> 00:57:38

your lucky I'm all for that.

00:57:40 --> 00:57:44

But let's just finish this hadith and it will be will complete our

00:57:44 --> 00:57:48

class for the night. Cheat woman kindly said

00:57:50 --> 00:57:54

treat them nicely for a woman is created from a rib and the most

00:57:54 --> 00:57:58

curved portion of the rib is its upper portion. If you try to

00:57:58 --> 00:58:00

straighten it, you will break it.

00:58:01 --> 00:58:05

So here a man has been given the position of leadership. His wife

00:58:05 --> 00:58:08

is there to be his place of comfort, tranquility, peace and

00:58:08 --> 00:58:18

repose. But he has to tolerate her nature of being this emotional

00:58:18 --> 00:58:22

being of being this

00:58:24 --> 00:58:24

person

00:58:26 --> 00:58:29

that has been created for companionship and I think and I'm

00:58:30 --> 00:58:34

I'm also guilty, I have to start with myself less my wife should

00:58:34 --> 00:58:37

hear about this talk and then, you know, sought me out afterwards.

00:58:39 --> 00:58:44

I'm also very guilty of this because I grew up I two sisters.

00:58:45 --> 00:58:48

And so for me to be alone is no problem. I sometimes like just to

00:58:48 --> 00:58:49

be alone,

00:58:50 --> 00:58:53

just like maybe Adam and salaam was walking around in Jannah

00:58:54 --> 00:58:54

alone.

00:58:56 --> 00:59:02

But our wives woman have not been created to be alone. And I think

00:59:02 --> 00:59:05

sometimes, you know, we think well, you know, I like being

00:59:05 --> 00:59:07

alone. Why doesn't she like being alone.

00:59:09 --> 00:59:13

And this is the nature of a woman. A woman wants attention from her

00:59:13 --> 00:59:14

husband.

00:59:16 --> 00:59:20

And her being that place of comfort. Her been that tranquility

00:59:20 --> 00:59:23

that peace and repose. She deserves for her husband to give

00:59:23 --> 00:59:26

her that attention. I'm saying big things tonight.

00:59:27 --> 00:59:28

We're recording this for five midday.

00:59:30 --> 00:59:33

She deserves to have that attention

00:59:34 --> 00:59:37

because she has been created for partnership

00:59:38 --> 00:59:45

with John Amina zoologia And he made from that soul from the same

00:59:45 --> 00:59:52

substance he made from that soul a partner for that so she has been

00:59:52 --> 00:59:53

made for partnership.

00:59:54 --> 00:59:59

Leah's gonna lay her that he might find comfort in her that he might

00:59:59 --> 00:59:59

find peace

01:00:00 --> 01:00:04

centering quality in her, but then he has to provide the partnership

01:00:04 --> 01:00:09

that she requires, in order for her to be that comfort that He

01:00:09 --> 01:00:10

desires from her.

01:00:11 --> 01:00:13

And, at the end of the hadith is

01:00:14 --> 01:00:19

for in the hub to to, if you try to bend that

01:00:21 --> 01:00:27

paint curve definitely cricket, that curved part of the rib. If

01:00:27 --> 01:00:32

you try and bend it straight since the prophets Allah Salam casado,

01:00:33 --> 01:00:34

you will break it.

01:00:35 --> 01:00:40

We're in Toronto, and if you leave it, it will still stay our edge,

01:00:40 --> 01:00:41

it will stay curved.

01:00:42 --> 01:00:45

It will stay. I want to say the word but I don't mean it in a bad

01:00:45 --> 01:00:52

way. It will stay crooked. But that is man celebrating the nature

01:00:52 --> 01:00:52

of woman

01:00:54 --> 01:00:58

accepting the fact that she has been created differently.

01:00:59 --> 01:01:04

And he as the leader of the family has to accommodate her. He has to

01:01:04 --> 01:01:10

tolerate her. He has to celebrate her for those special attributes

01:01:10 --> 01:01:14

that Allah has granted her and at the end again, he says for so so

01:01:14 --> 01:01:18

Ben Nisa Kira, treat women nicely.

01:01:19 --> 01:01:24

So Allah has created them and that is that she is a garment for you

01:01:25 --> 01:01:27

and your garment for them.

01:01:28 --> 01:01:34

She is affectionate to you. And you are affectionate to her. She

01:01:34 --> 01:01:38

is a comfort for you. And you are a comfort for her.

01:01:40 --> 01:01:44

We Allah subhanaw taala grant us all to be a comfort for each

01:01:44 --> 01:01:49

other, to grant us the peace and tranquility in the dunya and grant

01:01:49 --> 01:01:56

us in sha Allah to be companions in the gender Amin Europa Amin

01:01:56 --> 01:02:00

until next time I leave you via Manila is

01:02:05 --> 01:02:11

no, not to my knowledge not to my knowledge it was it wasn't it

01:02:11 --> 01:02:16

wasn't necessary. Because that that that creation

01:02:18 --> 01:02:20

uns Dakota buck come

01:02:21 --> 01:02:25

here us Dakota bekam Allah the Halacha come

01:02:28 --> 01:02:30

well lithiumion Cobra, Cobra handle come to Taco

01:02:32 --> 01:02:38

taco Baku Mala, the kala FC wider wahala caminetto Jaha were best

01:02:38 --> 01:02:43

salmon humare JAL and cathedra when he sir. So Allah brought them

01:02:43 --> 01:02:46

together. Indica, it was

01:02:48 --> 01:02:52

for the lack of a better term, almost by default, because they

01:02:52 --> 01:02:55

were created for the purpose of procreation.

01:02:56 --> 01:03:02

And they after and inshallah we'll go into that next week, actually,

01:03:02 --> 01:03:06

not next week, when we speak about Kaabil in Erbil, how Allah

01:03:06 --> 01:03:09

subhanaw taala paid them off, because Allah subhanaw taala gave

01:03:09 --> 01:03:16

to our various sets of twins, and how they had to marry the,

01:03:18 --> 01:03:24

the twin of the sibling, the twin of the, of the sibling. So this

01:03:24 --> 01:03:28

was all this was the order that Allah created an order which is

01:03:28 --> 01:03:33

unacceptable today. You can't have two sets of twins, and they're

01:03:33 --> 01:03:36

marrying each other

01:03:37 --> 01:03:43

across the twinship. That was for that time, but they after and we

01:03:43 --> 01:03:45

don't know when Allahu Allah when

01:03:47 --> 01:03:51

the awkward of Nikka came into being the actual contract of

01:03:51 --> 01:03:57

marriage came into be, but because what you have is

01:03:59 --> 01:04:02

and this is something I mentioned in the hotel the other day, you

01:04:02 --> 01:04:04

have La ilaha illallah which is the belief

01:04:05 --> 01:04:08

that story there's no God that God is not worthy of worship except

01:04:08 --> 01:04:12

Allah. And that from Adam all the way to Mohammed says immutable

01:04:12 --> 01:04:13

doesn't change.

01:04:15 --> 01:04:18

But at different intervals Allah subhanaw taala brought new laws.

01:04:19 --> 01:04:24

So for example, this the Noahide law, La ilaha illallah newf Rasul

01:04:24 --> 01:04:24

Allah,

01:04:25 --> 01:04:30

Allah Allah, Allah the belief, no Shirat and women Hajah the law and

01:04:30 --> 01:04:35

the way Tamina gonna be Brahim La ilaha illallah Ibrahim Rasulullah.

01:04:36 --> 01:04:40

The law in the way, Abraham the Abrahamic law, time of Moses

01:04:40 --> 01:04:44

Mosaic Law, shear Athan women hija time we're gonna be Lisa.

01:04:45 --> 01:04:49

The he was the he was the law. In fact, even in the New Testament,

01:04:50 --> 01:04:53

the Christians quoted him as saying, Nobody shall come unto the

01:04:53 --> 01:04:57

Father. I'm the way in the life you said, I am the way and the

01:04:57 --> 01:04:58

life

01:04:59 --> 01:04:59

and

01:05:00 --> 01:05:05

For the time of who that was true, there is no god but God, and Jesus

01:05:05 --> 01:05:08

is the messenger of God, he would have been Sheraton women Hijjah

01:05:08 --> 01:05:13

for his time, the law and the way. And with Mohamed Salah Salem, the

01:05:13 --> 01:05:17

belief stays the same La ilaha illallah, Muhammad Rasulullah

01:05:18 --> 01:05:22

Muhammad becomes now the completion, the perfection and the

01:05:22 --> 01:05:28

combination of the law and the way. So what do laws entail? Laws

01:05:28 --> 01:05:32

entail exactly what we can.

01:05:33 --> 01:05:39

Of course, when it comes to, when it comes to Sharia, we have a bar

01:05:39 --> 01:05:44

that and what omelette, so we have worship, and we have transactions.

01:05:45 --> 01:05:51

So worship would be like pray, and giving charity, and fasting and

01:05:51 --> 01:05:54

going on pilgrimage, we as transactions would be things like

01:05:55 --> 01:05:59

getting married, getting divorced, buying, selling.

01:06:01 --> 01:06:05

Things like the freeing of slaves in those days, things like

01:06:05 --> 01:06:07

engaging in military,

01:06:09 --> 01:06:16

jihad, etc, etc. So, that would have come with the law. As to when

01:06:16 --> 01:06:20

that like you say, the first Nikka when Allah subhanaw taala with

01:06:20 --> 01:06:25

which Prophet Allah sent up to Nikka maybe something that Shala I

01:06:25 --> 01:06:29

can I can research if there is any information from the previously

01:06:29 --> 01:06:33

revealed a book something interesting for us to look at. But

01:06:34 --> 01:06:39

exactly, at which Prophet the contract of marriage came into

01:06:39 --> 01:06:42

being Allah Allah, Allah knows best

01:06:44 --> 01:06:44

then a no problem

01:06:49 --> 01:06:55

we don't have any. We don't have any evidence that he was married.

01:06:56 --> 01:06:59

We don't have any evidence that he was married. What we have in the

01:06:59 --> 01:07:03

hadith is that he will come back and he will marry

01:07:04 --> 01:07:08

and come back as a newbie, of course, he will descend and he

01:07:08 --> 01:07:11

will matter that's what we have in the in the Hadith.

01:07:13 --> 01:07:17

But as for him getting married, when he was on the dunya there is

01:07:17 --> 01:07:17

nothing

01:07:19 --> 01:07:25

in the Quran or in the sunnah to indicate that he had he married

01:07:26 --> 01:07:27

Allah Allah

01:07:31 --> 01:07:33

Allah Allah Allah wa salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa

01:07:40 --> 01:07:41

I can go home to your comfort now.

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We move

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on

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Does

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that make sense so we're up to the cross terms of

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doing hand in hand.

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A woman cannot expect to be put on a pedestal if she's not providing

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their primary

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company because there's a woman of today. What first to be put on a

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pedestal for the before before they provide any comfort and

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comfort including something I have to go into.

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