Riyad Nadwi – 37. Ikhlas The Best of Intentions Pacing Ourselves and Avoiding Extremes

Riyad Nadwi
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The importance of intentions in achieving Christian's goal of achieving a Christian's life is discussed, including the importance of shaming success and developing a love for the world. The speakers stress the importance of being aware of one's intentions and values, challenges their conflicting thoughts, and the importance of sh matter and compassion. The speakers emphasize the need to manage one's life with an intention for continuity and not overburden oneself in a religion. The importance of intentions and actions in the world and their potential for rewarding pleasure and happiness is emphasized.
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For coming. I know, this week to you

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now, our second session of the term. Exam's

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coming up to you, and I know revision's

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a bit crazy, but

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for taking the time out to come through.

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Today, inshallah, we're going through Ima Abu Zal

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Sahihi Abu,

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talking about intention,

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and, inshallah, we're very beneficial for all of

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us.

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So vie with one another in seeking to

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attain your Lord's forgiveness

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and the garden

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whose width is as the width of the

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heavens and the earth.

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1 which has been prepared for those who

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believe in Allah and his messenger.

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That is Allah's bounty

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which he bestows upon those who please who

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he pleases.

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Allah is the lord of abounding

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mercy and bounty.

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Flee, therefore, to Allah.

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Surely, I am a clear word to you

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from him.

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Brothers and sisters,

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Welcome to lecture number 37

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in our series

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on Ithlas and its related subjects. Is everything

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okay?

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Now last week,

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after revising

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our discussion on the thinking points of hesed,

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of reckoning,

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reckoning on the day of judgment, we began

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reading from the chapter

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on bayanu

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annaniyateh,

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rayudahhilatin

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takhtalitihtyar,

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the exposition of the fact that

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intention

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is beyond choice.

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And in that discussion, there were 6 salient

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points we covered.

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The first, in summary, was

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following on from the discussion on multiplicity of

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intentions that we gave after showing us that

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we are able to make multiple intentions for

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one deed,

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Imam Ghazali

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began to draw attention to now

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the weights in these,

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weights and rankings in these different intentions

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in order to teach us how to aspire

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to higher levels of intention. Just as we

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seek the best for ourselves in the in

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this world, everyone

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wants to realize the full capacity of their

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potential in worldly terms.

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Everything we do is to get the best.

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We want to go to the best university,

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the best car, the best house, the best

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wife, the best family, the best how the

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the best career, everything. We want we want

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to

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realize the best potential

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that we can for Ardenia. And likewise, for

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Azharah as a Muslim, we must have the

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same attitude towards our Azharah.

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And if, and in fact, even more,

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because it's it is all only about succeeding

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in this world. The success in the next

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life is of paramount importance since, in fact,

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it is it takes precedence because this life

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compared to that life is like a drip.

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It's like a drop in the ocean in

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terms of time.

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Eternity

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versus 50, 60, 100 years, 110 years even

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if you live. That's it.

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So that was the first point. The second

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point was that Shaytan is on a mission

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to derail the children of Adam from the

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straight path.

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Shaytan has a plan. He has a project.

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He has a mission. He's on a mission,

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and Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala warns us about

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that. When in the Quran, so it's Al

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Araf. Allah says,

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When Shaitan says,

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give me respite until the day they are

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raised up, until the day of judgement.

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Allah says, okay. Well, you have respite. We

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we will give you respite. You're granted respite.

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And, qala fabima akhwaitani laqudanda lahu suratakilmustakeem.

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And then, Shaitan said Satan said that since

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you have led me astray, right, laqudanda

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lahu suratakilmustakeem.

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That I will I shall sit in ambush

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for them on your straight path. This is

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the path that Allah wants us to go,

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and he will sit in ambush. And he

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says,

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And then I you will, I will I

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will come. I will attack them. I will

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come upon them from from in front and

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from behind and from the right and from

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the left. And then as a result of

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that, you will not find many of them

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grateful.

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So Allah makes it crystal clear

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in, of course, in in Surat Al Fathir,

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in Surat Al Fathir, he says, Inna shaitan

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alakumar adu.

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Fatahidoo adua. That Shaytan is your enemy, is

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your clear enemy. Fatahidoo a

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And therefore so take him as an enemy,

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because he is

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he he intends to take those who follow

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him

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into the

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with him as inmates of the fire.

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So his modus operandi

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is to first try

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to dissuade you from doing something. That is

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from in front. He comes say, okay. Stop.

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No. Don't do that. But then when

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you persist and you say, no. I'm you're

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you did you disregard the, influences that come

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from Shaitan in the mind, the whisperings and

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the suggestions,

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then he says he comes from behind and

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pull you pull your attention in a different

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direction. And while you and if you persist,

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then from left and right, he'll pull you

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in one direction or another

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to go into excess, go into extreme. And

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we'll talk about that more.

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So

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and so what he actually does, and in

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modern parlance, you would call,

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he's indulging actually in,

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damage limitation because your success

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is his failure.

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His mission is to is to make you

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fail. So the more you succeed is the

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more it corresponds to his fail the failure

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of his mission. So he does damage limitation.

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I can get them to to to reduce

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their success as much as possible. So he

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wants you to do the least

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the least rewarding of intentions. He wants you

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to make the least rewarding intention. So this

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is a battle. It's a struggle with Shaitan.

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Number 3 was that saying that I intend

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to do so and so for the sake

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of Allah is not niyyah. This is a

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fiction of imagination people think by just saying,

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oh, I intend to do so and so.

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Running a script on the tongue is not.

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Running scripts,

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these are not,

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intentions. These are,

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hadith al nafs. They are whisperings to oneself.

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They're they're just jumping from min khatir bin

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ilaha khatir, you know, from thought to thought.

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Intentions.

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Intention is, of course, a,

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state in the heart, a condition in the

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heart, which is determined

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by what the heart perceives

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as,

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and what it genuinely believes

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to be favorable and beneficial

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to the person. What what what we have

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in our heart to be genuinely beneficial for

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us, that is the thing that will guide

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the intention.

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And here, Imam Ghazali reminds us of a

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of a person, the the example he gave.

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And and this is, an important example to

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keep in mind because often we think that

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we can just say, oh, I I'm doing

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karaki for x, y, and zed for Allah

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and for this and that. And not realize

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that Shaitan has put several layers and the

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nafs is all playing with us. So he

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said, think about this. If you're If someone

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is full, fully satiated, they had a full

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meat, they're they're full to the brim, and

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then they say, they run the script on

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it, I intend

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to develop. I intend to have an appetite

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for this plate of food.

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They could not have it because the heart,

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that's

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the internal makeup

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is filled with something else. And so so

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it is for one whose heart is filled

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with the love of this world alone,

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then merely saying I have concern for my

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Uhara

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and I intend to work for my Uhara

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or,

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this will be just lip service. It is

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not. It cannot be,

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ruled or be considered as genuine intention.

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Number 4 was that in addition to being

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inclined

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towards goals in the hereafter and pleasing Allah,

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the heart also needs to be

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free from

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contradictory

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impulses

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and thinking and thoughts and inclinations.

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Because

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there's an ongoing battle that's happening in the

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mind,

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and at the very least, what you need

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what you need to have is a contradictory

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is is is that the contradictory

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distractions and diversions

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must be weaker than your inclinations to Athar.

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One must see that the benefit of Athar

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is infinitely more valuable

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than that of the benefit in this world.

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We we have to have that value system

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arranged

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in such a way that anytime there's a

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clash between

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the benefit of the Accra and the and

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our benefit in this world, then

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it we automatically

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give preference give preference to

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Accra because that is more important.

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So as long as it is beyond need,

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our needs of this world are taken care

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of, and then there's a clash, then whenever

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that clash comes in, the heart has to

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immediately

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switch. Well, and that's what we're aiming to

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go to to cultivate. And he he gives

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the exam he he he teaches us how

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to do that.

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Later on, he gives us the formulas how

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to to work it through. Number 5 was

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that the,

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multiple intention for a single deed can vary,

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in rankings and rewards, which is what these

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values and rankings should not should should also

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be kept in mind so that we are

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able to make the most of our actions.

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And for this, we need to be familiar

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with, of course, the fada'il. We need in

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order

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to give in order to to be able

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to,

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configure

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those,

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our

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approach and our understanding

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of intentions,

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the varied intentions, we have to have,

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knowledge of the Fada'il. And the knowledge of

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the virtues of the that are attached to

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specific deeds. And here, Imam Ghazali uses the

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the example of intention for marriage,

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which is a useful one. And from that,

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you can extrapolate

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on on other

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actions as well. And at the very basic

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level,

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one can intend to seek to seek protection

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from falling into sin by seeking halal fulfillment

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of one's desires, which is perfectly sound.

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It's a good it's it's a perfectly sound

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intention to have.

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However,

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there are other more

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lofty

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higher goals that one can have for for

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the intention of marriage,

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and configure over and above that.

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Number 6 was that the way to acquire

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this ability to foster

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higher rankings of intention

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begins

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with the first

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endeavor that we've got to work on is

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taqawiatuhimanina

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bishara,

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which is the strengthening of our belief in

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the validity of the guidance in this

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we we have to be completely convinced that

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this guidance that has come, that there there

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there is no doubt about it.

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This book in which there is no doubt.

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There's no doubt that this is from Allah.

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There's no doubt that Allah has chosen Muhammad

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salallahu alaihi wa sallam as his messenger. That

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has to be completely

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clear in your mind and certain. So taqiyatu

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imanu imanikab I Sharra reflecting on the fact

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that this guidance is from Allah, the creator

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of the heavens and the earth, and he

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knows best

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what is good for you. And reflecting, of

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course, on his words, where Allah says very

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clearly in the Quran,

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Wa'aseh antakruh shay'an wahu khayrulakum. That perhaps you

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may dislike something

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and

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you may dislike something, but it is in

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fact good for you. And

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perhaps you may you may prefer something that

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and this is to show Allah is emphasizing

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our limitations,

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the the, our short sightedness.

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That Allah can see things through and through.

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He created us. He knows us more than

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we know ourselves. And he is able to

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determine what is in our best interest

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over and

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above all our intellectual capacities,

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and our ability to think and see and

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foresee, and have insight, and have intelligence, and

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have knowledge, and and to produce and test,

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and, and to verify. All those,

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machinations that we can do are

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all limited when it when it's compared. It's

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nothing that,

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that you are not given knowledge except for

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tiny amount, a tiny amount of knowledge. So

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you have to recognize that. And then the

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the verse continues here. It says, Allah is

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making it very clear. He says, aisa antebushayamahu

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wa sharuulakum that perhaps you may like something,

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you may you may prefer something, but it

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is shar. It is evil for you. And

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then he completes the verse

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with, wallahu you aalamu wa antum latadamu.

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That Allah knows and you do not know.

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That so that is taghuiya to imani imani

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nabisharad.

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This is from Allah. This is so when

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Allah, Subhan, said something and when Rasulullah salallahu

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alaihi wa sallam makes a judgment that rules

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that you have to do something in a

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certain way, then that has to be above

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all our

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consideration, all our all all our abilities

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of, of determining what is right and wrong.

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The sunnah of Rasool Allah sallam has to

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come above that, and that is also clear

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made clear in the Quran. Allah says,

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That by

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he said, but no. And, this is,

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Allah is taking note. He said,

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By your Lord, you cannot become true believers,

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real, complete believers,

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until they seek the ruling of Rasoolallah, the

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ruling of Muhammad, you. Until they seek your

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ruling in all matters, which they which they

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are confused about or disagreeing about everything, you

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have to seek the verdict of Muhammad salallahu

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alayhi wa sallam in those in those matters

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which you do not know. And then,

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and this is the important part, is

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that not only accepting it, but it's not

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about accepting it grudgingly that look, oh, you

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know, yeah, I I don't like this judgment,

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but, you know, it's common. No. He said,

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that they do not find in them in

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themselves, in their in their

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mental makeup, in their heart, any the least

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vexation in the heart over what you have

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decided

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and accept.

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That they they have to accept complete with

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complete

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willing submission.

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That is the ruling. That is what so

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that's what you have to aim for in

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at first to

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build that. That that that's the first endeavor.

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The second task,

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after reinforcing our belief in the validity of

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Sharia in our hearts,

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then the need becomes to learn and keep

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in mind

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the magnitude

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of rewards that are attached to specific deeds

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over and above

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lower deeds or lower intention. We have to

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understand the rankings of intended. So that requires

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knowledge

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of specific

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deeds and actions that are attached to it.

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What kind of value of Fada'il? What kind

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of virtue does attached to each one? So

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this requires familiarity

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with the teachings of the Sharia, teachings of

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the Sunnah,

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teachings of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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So the the great reward for following the

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sunnah, as in the example,

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we we, of the that we have been

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given, which was the great reward for following

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the sunnah of Rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam in marriage.

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That if we approach marriage with wanting to

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follow the sunnah of Rasool Allah Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam, then that reward is is

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out

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is infinitely more and more important, more greater

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for us. That Anika Rasool Allah said

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because he said, Anika hamin sunati famandalalibaram

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sunati

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that he says that nika says

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marriage is my sunnah. So those who

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who

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are disinclined

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towards this, so those who who are not

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happy with the with this, then they are

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ignoring my Sunnah. They are not they're not

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from they should not consider themselves my my

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followers.

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And then over and above that,

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by marriage, you'll be seeking to partake in

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fulfilling

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the wish of Rasulullah

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Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. What was his wish? His

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wish was to have

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most the most followers of all the prophets

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on the day of judgment. That he he

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said He he said

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that that I I want to become I

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want I I I I will,

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I I I will, I I want, I

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shall outnumber the prophets on the day of

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of resurrection.

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So that was the second thing, is to

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learn the Fada'il.

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And we talked about this in the earlier

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sessions about the need to familiarize yourselves with

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the virtues of actions.

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Because today, we are receiving, as I said,

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10,000 between 410,000

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messages

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every day in adverts, which we are exposed

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to every day about Fada'il of the Duniya.

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This model of phone, and this model of

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this, and this brand of this, has has

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got this Fada'il, and this branch has had

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this virtue, and this one has this Fada'il

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of the Duniya. So

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we need some balance. And where do you

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get the balance? For the akhirah, the Fada'il

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of the Bahirah. The the if if our

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mind is constantly or mind,

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bombarded and and flooded with Fada'il of the

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Duniya, but we have no balance for it,

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then that

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will

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have an impact

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on the fostering of intention in the heart.

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Where does it go? Where does it sit?

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Where does it,

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default to? If if if it's flooded with

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in one direction, then it will be pushed.

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So here so that's the

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the point is that you need to have

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these fada'il in your mind. Now the third

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task

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to

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channel

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this idea

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to to channel you is

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Dafail Munafirat,

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which is to

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repel or dismiss,

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challenge the contradictory

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thinking in in this matter. Because in every

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thought, every good thought that you will get,

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you will you'll be faced with

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contradictory

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thoughts

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to dismiss it. 1 from Shaytan and sometimes

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from nafs. Due to laziness, the nafs doesn't

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the nafs, the lower self is always seeking

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ease. It wants to relax. It doesn't want

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to do work. It doesn't want to do

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things.

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And shaitan then uses that, you know, looking

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for ease, looking for looking for way out.

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You know, what's the easiest way out? How

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do I get out of of doing stuff?

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How do I get out of getting up

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for fajr? How do I, you know, not

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pray? Or how how

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why should I,

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read so much Quran? Why should I spend

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so much time? I can watch YouTube videos.

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I'll I'll be entertained. Now these are things

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that the nafs will be pushing you, so

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you have to,

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you have to have a a a way

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to

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challenge that,

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a a scheme in the mind to challenge

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that, to challenge

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the contradictory thinking such as,

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in the example that we are

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discussing, in that particular example,

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the the contradictory

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thoughts in that is that children,

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might not be such a good idea because

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they are very costly.

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That's something that comes in the mind. So

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when we get married, I'm gonna get children.

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And this going this is going to be

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a massive burden.

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Now that's something that comes into the mind.

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If Shaytan puts it into you, it'd be

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very costly and and it's will also be

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very difficult to do. So,

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you know, maybe I should just,

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not get married because I might have children,

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or maybe I should negotiate not having children

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if I get married. And all of this

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this kind of stuff is happening. And in

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the modern in the modern world, we see

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that

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in countries where

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the,

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where people have no guidance on these matters

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or they have disconnected from guidance, then the

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birth rate in, is is

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in catastrophic

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decline. This is a major problem in many

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countries nowadays.

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And so

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what we must be able to do is

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to is to dismiss it, is to dismiss

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it resolutely with counter thoughts of the fact

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that

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Allah is the provider of sustenance.

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That is not you. Although it appears

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that you are the one who is going

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to feed this child, who is going to

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come, or these children who are going to

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come, it is not you. It is Allah.

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Allah is the one who will feed the

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children. Just as he fed you,

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Allah is the one who gives sustenance.

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You came into the world and your sustenance

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was written and he's given you. And when

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a child comes in the world, he comes

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with one mouth but 2 hands.

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And one of the and those hands may

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one day feed you.

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So these are counter thoughts. You're you're challenging

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it. You're you're going against it. And as

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for the difficulty of raising children, then

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you you need to know that

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Allah will

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transform your heart. This is another thing you

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need to understand, which you wouldn't be able

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to to

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experience unless you have your child. But you

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need to know that this is something that

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will happen, that Allah will transform your heart

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upon the arrival of your child.

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Such

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that you will be you'll become completely

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transformed

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into a into a person who used to

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seek their own comfort all the time, and

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now you will you will sacrifice your own

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comfort for the comfort of that child. And

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that happens because Allah puts a special mercy

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in your heart. There's some there's 1 if,

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and the the hadith is clear where Allah

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says, I've I've said this before, but in

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this context, you need to remember you need

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to remember this.

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This is one way of challenging these thoughts

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about not having children,

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is that

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Allah says that,

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we got this in Hadith,

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that.

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Allah's mercy is limitless.

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It's,

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but imagine that Allah has a 100 that

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Allah's mercy is a 100, then 1 percent

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of it, he's he's he's revealed 1 into

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the world. Andzalafidunya

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rahmatinwahida.

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1 mercy, he is revealed into the world

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by naljinni wal

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insi walbahayimi wal hawam

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among the jinn and the men and the

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human beings and the in and the insects

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and the, and the animals.

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With that one mercy, do they show compassion

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and love to each other. It is with

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asthma it's a mercy from Allah. That love

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and compassion that they show,

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is from that.

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That even the wild beast can show mercy

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and compassion

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to its young.

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That even even the wild beast, the the

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ferocious beast become compassionate and lift its hoofs

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so as not to crush its young.

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That mercy takes over. And I told you

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about the the fact that,

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the in in the lifeboat challenge, if there's

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one seat on the lifeboat and this boat

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is going down,

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the parent will always say,

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take my child. I would not I would

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not sit. The child will always get the

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seat because something amazing happens. It

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you're completely

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transformed.

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So it's not difficult. It's actually you'll be,

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you'll find yourself when your child cries at

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night,

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you will jump out of your bed,

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out of your sleep as if you were

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never asleep.

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And you wouldn't understand what what has happened.

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You'll find yourself standing in front of your

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child, you know. Even when you're asleep,

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you'll be conscious

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of your child. This is how powerful that

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mercy is. You know, there have been studies

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about

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why

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do parents

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not roll over and crush their babies in

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bed. Because it's a big human being, tiny

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baby. You you would crush them in the

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when you were asleep, you're unconscious.

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But it never happens. Only in one condition.

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And then there's the found studies have done

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this, shown that only when the when the

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parent

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is heavily under the influence of alcohol,

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then they they they do it sometimes.

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But generally, it doesn't happen.

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And that what this proves

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is that the parent is conscious

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of the care of the child even in

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the deepest of sleep.

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And that is the mercy of Allah in

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the heart that is holding that that that

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person. It's gripping that person, the the the

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heart of the parent to care for the

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child.

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And so

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and that is why there is such a

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great emphasis

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on

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taking care of the heart of the parent

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in Islam because Allah has captured it for

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the for the child. He's captured this heart

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and put it there to to be completely

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devoted to the child.

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And this is not to say that there

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aren't exceptions.

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Allah sometimes show that when that mercy is

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taken away, then

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a a a person may a parent may

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put the child in a shoebox and put

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them on on the street. You know, once

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the prophet was

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kissing his son,

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and his grandson, and a man, harsh Bedouin

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Arab said, yeah. Oh, are you kissing your

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your son? I I have 10. I didn't

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get any, you know. He's telling it's macho,

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and he

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and Rasoolallah said, oh,

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And what can I do for you if

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Allah has takes taken that mercy out of

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your heart?

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So that is something that Allah places in

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the heart. It's you know, I I tell

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you my own story.

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When Yusuf was to be born,

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I was sitting

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in the waiting room, and the midwife came

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in

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and told me when to come in and

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what to do, what what what the process

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was and when my child was about when

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Yousaf was about to be to be born.

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So I was waiting. And then

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just as she finished explaining everything,

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she, as she was about to walk out,

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she said to me, oh, yeah. And one

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more thing, that when you see your child

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for the first time, you will cry.

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And I said, excuse me. How do you

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know that?

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And she said, yes. They all do, even

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the big macho ones.

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Yes. They all do.

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And I started to, you know, think. I

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said, okay. Well, let's see. And I started

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to think about what were the reasons.

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And, of course, my knowledge of,

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this aspect of the mercy descending in the

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heart

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and Allah describing children as.

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They are cooling to the eyes.

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When

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I first lay eye on my son,

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I burst into tears, and and I felt

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this thing and,

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completely changed.

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And as he needed care from he had

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some complications,

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for,

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jaundice

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routine stuff. But

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I found myself wanting to do everything, saying

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to the doctor, is there anything that I

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can do? My life was suddenly

00:28:07 --> 00:28:09

changed. It the value of it that I

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could do this is someone who I've just

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met 6 hours ago, and I'm willing to

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give

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any part of my body and anything I

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want anything I can, I can get

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to save this life, this new life that

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I've just seen? And that, I realized. Then

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I understood

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the mercy,

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how it works.

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And this is something you will you will

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too. So the reason I'm going into all

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of these details is for you to understand

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that when Shaitan comes and says to you,

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oh, no. You must have children or maybe

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it's a bit difficult thing in today's world

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and all of that. It it it should

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be clear to you

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that

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this is Shaytan,

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and he's deprive he will be depriving you

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of something amazing, something

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beautiful, something one of the most beautiful things

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in the world. It's that having

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that

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that experience

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of

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the mercy

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taking over your heart, the mercy of Allah

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taking over your heart, having that is is

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an amazing thing.

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It's an according to, you know,

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people who study it, this is one of

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the most powerful forces in nature. They call

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it the parental instinct,

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which is,

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was a problem for even for Darwin.

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So

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contradictory to to to have contradictory thoughts, thinking

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about,

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repelling

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contradictory thoughts

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when it comes to

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doing good and

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as in this case.

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Yeah. So

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so the point is that in order to

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acquire the ability to foster

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superior goals, we must engage

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in these 3 activities 3 mental activities,

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first, by strengthening our belief in the guidance

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through reflection as as we did. 2nd is

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to increase and strengthen our knowledge and consciousness

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of the greater Fada'il, the higher virtues of

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the loftier deeds.

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And 3rd, by strengthening our understanding and our

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resolve

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to dismiss

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contradictory thoughts

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that that tries to dissuade you from this.

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Now, today, I want to continue where we

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left off last week, which was with the

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story of Imam Ahmed ibn Hanbal and his

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ability to modify his perspective when it came

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to the subject of Tasgir and Turbiyyah,

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where where when it came to dealing with

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matters of the heart.

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He did not allow his encyclopedic

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knowledge of Hadith,

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change of narrations, etcetera, to prevent him from

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benefiting from a book that was technic that

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had technically weak narrations.

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He was able to distinguish between the technicalities

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of this scrutiny

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and the needs of Tezuka, the needs for

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purification of the heart. While they're both important,

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they each have their place and have this

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sphere of function.

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As the author of the book,

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Dawud ibn Habbar, Dawud ibn Habbar,

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said that in,

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in a

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in

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a in a in a in a need

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from for

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I did not write the book when from

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the perspective of technical scrutiny

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That I, I approached this. My aim was

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to get benefit into, and so and to

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improve practice. That that is where it was.

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And so, the, this is the point. In

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intention follows our perspectives.

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And Imam Abu Zali then further explains this.

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He says,

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That's the perspective, the the approach, the the

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angle from which you are approaching something has

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an has an effect, has an has,

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has an influence on the intention.

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So if the if the if your approach,

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your attention, your your your angle, your

00:32:03 --> 00:32:05

perspective changes, then Wakanullah

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

then your intention will also change.

00:32:08 --> 00:32:11

And and this we saw when Imam Ahmed

00:32:11 --> 00:32:11

Behambal

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then took the book again, he changed his

00:32:14 --> 00:32:17

whole approach and his intention changed. So,

00:32:21 --> 00:32:22

and they did not

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see it right to do things without intention.

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Because of their knowledge.

00:32:31 --> 00:32:32

Because nia, intention,

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is the soul of action. So your soul

00:32:35 --> 00:32:37

your your actions will be dead.

00:32:37 --> 00:32:39

It a a soulless thing is something dead.

00:32:45 --> 00:32:47

That and and begin to do actions without

00:32:47 --> 00:32:49

intentions, then it will either be riyyah, it

00:32:49 --> 00:32:51

will either be for show, or it would

00:32:51 --> 00:32:52

be takaluf.

00:32:52 --> 00:32:53

It'll be unnecessarily

00:32:54 --> 00:32:57

burning burdening yourself or or or doing something

00:32:57 --> 00:32:59

to avoid awkward to to avoid an awkward

00:32:59 --> 00:33:00

situation.

00:33:04 --> 00:33:05

And it is

00:33:06 --> 00:33:07

it it is the reason. It it is

00:33:07 --> 00:33:09

the source of this of this life. It's

00:33:09 --> 00:33:10

source of

00:33:11 --> 00:33:13

of Allah's anger, not Allah's closeness, and which

00:33:13 --> 00:33:15

is what you want. Why you do good

00:33:15 --> 00:33:17

why you're doing good deeds? The the purpose

00:33:17 --> 00:33:18

of a good deed is to get close

00:33:18 --> 00:33:19

to Allah

00:33:26 --> 00:33:28

That is not the statement of a of

00:33:28 --> 00:33:31

a of someone who says, I intend.

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That this is a motivation of the heart.

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In the heart,

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That this these are things that come with

00:33:45 --> 00:33:48

openings from Allah. Allah blesses you with it,

00:33:48 --> 00:33:49

with with openings.

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But sometimes it may come and sometimes it

00:33:57 --> 00:33:59

may not, but you have to work on

00:33:59 --> 00:34:01

the heart. You have to work on filling

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

your heart with the right

00:34:04 --> 00:34:06

components, with the right inclinations, so that the

00:34:06 --> 00:34:08

right inclinations can develop.

00:34:09 --> 00:34:11

So if you approach something with a specific

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

with with that specific view, then it it

00:34:13 --> 00:34:15

it will have an influence on your intention.

00:34:16 --> 00:34:18

And also, what is prevalent in the heart

00:34:18 --> 00:34:19

will guide its direction.

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26

The one in whose heart

00:34:26 --> 00:34:26

the

00:34:27 --> 00:34:30

it the matters of deen, the matters of

00:34:30 --> 00:34:32

Islam is dominant in his heart.

00:34:38 --> 00:34:40

That the one whose heart has this dominance

00:34:40 --> 00:34:41

of

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

the importance of deen and the the the

00:34:43 --> 00:34:44

the necessity

00:34:44 --> 00:34:47

of deen, then for that person, his it

00:34:47 --> 00:34:50

it is easy. It becomes easy for for

00:34:50 --> 00:34:50

his heart

00:34:51 --> 00:34:53

to foster good intentions.

00:34:53 --> 00:34:55

Lil khairat. For good intentions.

00:34:55 --> 00:34:56

For

00:34:59 --> 00:35:01

in for in that his heart will be

00:35:01 --> 00:35:02

inclined

00:35:02 --> 00:35:04

to the root of good. It it'll be

00:35:04 --> 00:35:07

rooted in being in in that in inclusion,

00:35:07 --> 00:35:08

in in in that incline,

00:35:09 --> 00:35:09

generally.

00:35:10 --> 00:35:12

That if if the if that is dominant

00:35:12 --> 00:35:14

in the heart. If, on the other hand,

00:35:14 --> 00:35:15

so

00:35:17 --> 00:35:19

if it is rooted, if the incline is

00:35:19 --> 00:35:20

rooted in that direction,

00:35:20 --> 00:35:23

then details will follow. So then you will

00:35:23 --> 00:35:24

have the Farsil.

00:35:25 --> 00:35:25

But

00:35:30 --> 00:35:32

on on the other hand, if a person's

00:35:33 --> 00:35:35

heart is rooted, is inclined in the other

00:35:35 --> 00:35:38

direction towards Duniyani, all he thinks about the

00:35:38 --> 00:35:40

Dunya. And night and day is is is

00:35:40 --> 00:35:41

occupation

00:35:42 --> 00:35:44

is rooted in finding things about the Dunya.

00:35:46 --> 00:35:48

That this will not be easy for him.

00:35:52 --> 00:35:55

That good intention sometimes becomes if

00:35:55 --> 00:35:57

dunya is dominant in your heart, if it's

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

only about, you know, making

00:35:59 --> 00:36:02

this world and being successful in this world

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

and not having any con any concern for

00:36:04 --> 00:36:04

the akhirah,

00:36:05 --> 00:36:07

then even your fara'ids even the intention in

00:36:07 --> 00:36:08

your fara'ids

00:36:08 --> 00:36:11

will become difficult. Because you you'll find yourself

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

doing going to the masjid or praying to

00:36:13 --> 00:36:14

the people you see, and I may build

00:36:14 --> 00:36:16

my network. I go to the masjid, I'm

00:36:16 --> 00:36:18

building network for my career

00:36:18 --> 00:36:20

instead of, or I'm showing them I'm I'm

00:36:20 --> 00:36:23

trying to impress people. All kinds of other

00:36:23 --> 00:36:26

thoughts will be dominant. If the akhirah if

00:36:26 --> 00:36:28

if if dunya is dominant in a person's

00:36:28 --> 00:36:29

heart. So he's saying,

00:36:35 --> 00:36:37

except with with strong effort.

00:36:40 --> 00:36:42

And the the the extent that he may

00:36:42 --> 00:36:44

go, he he may be able to muster

00:36:45 --> 00:36:45

is

00:36:48 --> 00:36:51

That he remembers the fire. And say, okay.

00:36:51 --> 00:36:53

Well, and then warn himself, and then through

00:36:53 --> 00:36:54

that, musta had intention.

00:36:59 --> 00:37:00

Or you see, he he remembers

00:37:00 --> 00:37:03

he brings his his mind to thinking about

00:37:03 --> 00:37:03

the

00:37:05 --> 00:37:07

bounties and the, and the beauty of Jannah,

00:37:07 --> 00:37:08

and that

00:37:09 --> 00:37:12

draws him to towards that. And he's able.

00:37:15 --> 00:37:16

And then a weak sort of intention can

00:37:16 --> 00:37:17

develop.

00:37:21 --> 00:37:23

But the his reward will be at that

00:37:23 --> 00:37:25

same level, that same low level. They're just

00:37:25 --> 00:37:25

thinking about

00:37:26 --> 00:37:28

basic things. There are higher intentions

00:37:28 --> 00:37:30

that one can have. And he say,

00:37:42 --> 00:37:43

That as for

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

intention

00:37:45 --> 00:37:48

to glorify Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56

As for the obedience with intention to glorify

00:37:57 --> 00:37:57

Allah,

00:37:58 --> 00:38:01

because Allah is most deserving of all the

00:38:01 --> 00:38:02

obedience,

00:38:02 --> 00:38:04

of all obedience and all worship.

00:38:04 --> 00:38:07

That that is an intention that is above

00:38:07 --> 00:38:07

everything else.

00:38:08 --> 00:38:09

But

00:38:11 --> 00:38:14

this one this intention that we are doing

00:38:14 --> 00:38:15

it solely to glorify Allah.

00:38:16 --> 00:38:19

Obedience solely for glorifying Allah. For that, that

00:38:19 --> 00:38:21

does not come. For the one in whose

00:38:21 --> 00:38:24

heart there is a doubt prevalence of dunya.

00:38:24 --> 00:38:26

That's he's only talking of thinking about dunya.

00:38:27 --> 00:38:27

Wahadah

00:38:28 --> 00:38:28

wahadihi

00:38:29 --> 00:38:29

aazuniati

00:38:30 --> 00:38:33

wa'adaha. And this is the most honorable and

00:38:33 --> 00:38:34

the highest of intention

00:38:34 --> 00:38:37

to glorify Allah alone. That that's the only

00:38:37 --> 00:38:38

thing to be in your mind.

00:38:39 --> 00:38:40

But it

00:38:44 --> 00:38:45

is rare

00:38:45 --> 00:38:48

and difficult even for people to understand this.

00:38:48 --> 00:38:49

Some,

00:38:50 --> 00:38:52

much less those who practice this.

00:38:53 --> 00:38:54

Because people differ in this.

00:38:57 --> 00:38:59

He's saying that the the intentions of people

00:38:59 --> 00:39:00

are

00:39:00 --> 00:39:02

vary according to the person,

00:39:02 --> 00:39:04

their state, and their actions. So he says,

00:39:08 --> 00:39:10

that some of them some people

00:39:10 --> 00:39:13

are their actions are in response to the

00:39:13 --> 00:39:15

motivation of fear. The

00:39:16 --> 00:39:17

through fear.

00:39:18 --> 00:39:20

So he's avoiding the fire.

00:39:23 --> 00:39:25

And there are those who do it for

00:39:26 --> 00:39:26

hope.

00:39:29 --> 00:39:31

He wants to go into Jannah, so he's

00:39:31 --> 00:39:31

getting there.

00:39:34 --> 00:39:37

And if even though that this is at

00:39:37 --> 00:39:38

a lower level

00:39:38 --> 00:39:40

than doing it solely for Allah alone.

00:39:47 --> 00:39:48

That this is below

00:39:49 --> 00:39:51

that of doing something with the intention

00:39:51 --> 00:39:54

of obeying Allah for his magnificence,

00:39:55 --> 00:39:57

for him to glorify Allah, for Allah himself,

00:39:57 --> 00:40:00

and not for anything else. For who am

00:40:00 --> 00:40:02

Ijumlatin niyanti sahihi? It is it is it

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

is it falls within the category of correct

00:40:04 --> 00:40:07

intention. And remember here, we're discussing ranking of

00:40:07 --> 00:40:09

intentions. So this is the highest of intentions.

00:40:09 --> 00:40:11

The wise one is when it's done purely

00:40:11 --> 00:40:13

for Allah adorn, for the glory to glorify

00:40:14 --> 00:40:16

Allah. So one has to know Allah in

00:40:16 --> 00:40:16

order

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

for that to develop.

00:40:19 --> 00:40:20

So he said,

00:40:21 --> 00:40:22

and he's explaining

00:40:22 --> 00:40:24

here further how this works. He said,

00:40:33 --> 00:40:36

That this inclination that you have for Jannah

00:40:36 --> 00:40:38

and for avoiding the fire and all of

00:40:38 --> 00:40:39

that, that is

00:40:39 --> 00:40:42

because it is it about what is promised

00:40:42 --> 00:40:43

in the other.

00:40:44 --> 00:40:46

Even though it is of something that that

00:40:46 --> 00:40:48

that has familiarity in the dunya. We know

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

fire here. And so we we know about

00:40:50 --> 00:40:52

fire there. We know about beauty. We know

00:40:52 --> 00:40:53

about

00:40:53 --> 00:40:55

nayim. We know about,

00:40:56 --> 00:40:59

blessings and bounty here. So so there's dunya.

00:41:03 --> 00:41:04

And he said that most of the

00:41:05 --> 00:41:08

motivations in this world is based on the,

00:41:09 --> 00:41:09

on

00:41:09 --> 00:41:12

on on the stomach and on carnal desires.

00:41:14 --> 00:41:15

And the place the real place for these

00:41:15 --> 00:41:16

things to be fully,

00:41:17 --> 00:41:19

the the the to be fully,

00:41:20 --> 00:41:20

satisfied

00:41:21 --> 00:41:23

is in Jannah. That's where that's where the

00:41:23 --> 00:41:24

full

00:41:24 --> 00:41:25

it will be completed.

00:41:29 --> 00:41:31

So the one who is working for the

00:41:31 --> 00:41:31

Jannah

00:41:32 --> 00:41:32

alone

00:41:33 --> 00:41:35

without Allah, the the the that's the level

00:41:35 --> 00:41:37

of his, then it is it it has

00:41:37 --> 00:41:39

a dunya aspect of it, which is the

00:41:39 --> 00:41:42

button, and the fard, which is the stomach

00:41:42 --> 00:41:43

and the carnal desire.

00:41:48 --> 00:41:50

And he will get it with his word.

00:41:50 --> 00:41:52

But this is somewhat heedless when it when

00:41:52 --> 00:41:54

compared to the higher higher intention, the higher

00:41:54 --> 00:41:56

intention that we have.

00:41:59 --> 00:42:01

For the people who is known who are

00:42:01 --> 00:42:04

al Bab, people of sound heart, people of

00:42:04 --> 00:42:06

people of reflection, people

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

of perspicacity.

00:42:08 --> 00:42:09

For those people,

00:42:09 --> 00:42:11

Falatajawuz zikrillahi wulfiqr.

00:42:12 --> 00:42:12

Falatajawuz

00:42:13 --> 00:42:14

zikrillahi

00:42:15 --> 00:42:16

wulfiqr fee.

00:42:17 --> 00:42:18

Hubbanlijamalihi

00:42:18 --> 00:42:19

wajalalihi.

00:42:19 --> 00:42:22

That they they're they're fiqr, their intention

00:42:22 --> 00:42:26

go is linked, is focused on remembering, keeping

00:42:26 --> 00:42:29

Allah in their heart, keeping Allah, remember thinking

00:42:29 --> 00:42:32

about Allah, remembering Allah, loving Allah. Loving Allah.

00:42:32 --> 00:42:33

Hubbanlijamari

00:42:34 --> 00:42:36

for Allah, for the beauty that Allah is.

00:42:36 --> 00:42:39

We know Allah's beauty from the beautiful things

00:42:39 --> 00:42:40

he has created. When we look at a

00:42:40 --> 00:42:44

flower, we see Allah's beauty. When we reflect

00:42:44 --> 00:42:47

on those, that mercy, that love and compassion

00:42:47 --> 00:42:49

in the hearts of parents, we know that

00:42:49 --> 00:42:51

Allah is beautiful, that Allah has put this

00:42:51 --> 00:42:54

beautiful love in our hearts, that Allah has

00:42:54 --> 00:42:56

created all these beautiful things in the world,

00:42:56 --> 00:42:57

that Allah is beautiful. Allah.

00:42:59 --> 00:43:02

That Allah is beautiful. So hope for Allah.

00:43:05 --> 00:43:08

That all the other actions are will be

00:43:08 --> 00:43:10

or actions, the obediences, the things that we'll

00:43:10 --> 00:43:12

be doing, they will be

00:43:14 --> 00:43:15

strengthening

00:43:15 --> 00:43:18

this love and this connection with Allah. That's

00:43:18 --> 00:43:19

that's what it's meant to do.

00:43:24 --> 00:43:26

And of course, this is higher than than

00:43:26 --> 00:43:29

the one whose view is of what we

00:43:29 --> 00:43:30

will get in Jannah and what we will

00:43:30 --> 00:43:33

get, of food and and joy and enjoyment.

00:43:38 --> 00:43:39

These people

00:43:41 --> 00:43:43

they the ones who do it for Allah,

00:43:43 --> 00:43:45

they are the ones who Allah describes.

00:43:49 --> 00:43:50

They are the ones who call towards their

00:43:50 --> 00:43:53

Lord, who who who call upon their Lord

00:43:53 --> 00:43:54

in the morning evening.

00:43:56 --> 00:43:58

And they want the face of Allah.

00:44:00 --> 00:44:03

And the reward for people is according to

00:44:04 --> 00:44:05

their intention.

00:44:08 --> 00:44:11

And those so those people who want the

00:44:11 --> 00:44:13

face of Allah, they will be. And when

00:44:13 --> 00:44:15

people enter into Jannah and they had all

00:44:15 --> 00:44:18

the bounties of Jannah, all the enjoyment, everything,

00:44:18 --> 00:44:20

then Allah will make call the angels and

00:44:20 --> 00:44:22

will make an announcement that, look, we have

00:44:22 --> 00:44:24

something more. And they will think, well, what

00:44:24 --> 00:44:27

can there be? Everything beyond our wildest dreams.

00:44:27 --> 00:44:29

Everything that we can imagine and what we

00:44:29 --> 00:44:31

couldn't imagine, we have got. What could there

00:44:31 --> 00:44:32

be? And then,

00:44:33 --> 00:44:35

Yurfa'ul Hijab. Then the the veils will be

00:44:35 --> 00:44:36

lifted and people will

00:44:37 --> 00:44:40

will will be blessed with seeing, with with

00:44:40 --> 00:44:41

the audience of Allah.

00:44:42 --> 00:44:43

And that would be the prophet

00:44:44 --> 00:44:46

swore and said that that that would be

00:44:46 --> 00:44:49

more it would eclipse all the joys that

00:44:49 --> 00:44:51

they had by being in the presence of

00:44:51 --> 00:44:52

Allah.

00:44:52 --> 00:44:52

So

00:44:55 --> 00:44:55

so

00:44:58 --> 00:44:58

this

00:45:01 --> 00:45:01

So

00:45:04 --> 00:45:04

that these intentions,

00:45:05 --> 00:45:06

differ on the basis of

00:45:07 --> 00:45:09

of of the degree of with the person.

00:45:14 --> 00:45:16

So if one of these becomes dominant in

00:45:16 --> 00:45:18

your heart, then it will it will guide

00:45:18 --> 00:45:20

your heart. However, for some people, a simple

00:45:20 --> 00:45:22

intention can become an aid in preparation for

00:45:22 --> 00:45:23

a greater deed.

00:45:24 --> 00:45:26

And so having said all of this, Imam

00:45:26 --> 00:45:27

Ghazali is also

00:45:28 --> 00:45:30

speaking about the fact that you need

00:45:31 --> 00:45:32

to go slowly,

00:45:33 --> 00:45:34

because some people,

00:45:35 --> 00:45:36

plunge in too deep

00:45:36 --> 00:45:37

and then,

00:45:38 --> 00:45:39

end up

00:45:40 --> 00:45:41

making a mistake or

00:45:42 --> 00:45:45

retracting themselves. You know? One day you're praying,

00:45:45 --> 00:45:48

tahajjud all night, and then you miss salat

00:45:48 --> 00:45:50

al fajr. Or and then you don't do

00:45:50 --> 00:45:51

the salat,

00:45:52 --> 00:45:55

at PM for the next month. So that's

00:45:55 --> 00:45:57

not what is intended here. Even though we

00:45:57 --> 00:45:59

are calling the intention is to raise your

00:45:59 --> 00:46:01

game, is to is to increase what you

00:46:01 --> 00:46:02

are doing.

00:46:20 --> 00:46:21

That

00:46:21 --> 00:46:24

if an intention for something that is permissible.

00:46:24 --> 00:46:25

It's not something that has,

00:46:26 --> 00:46:27

an obedience. It's not you know, we we

00:46:27 --> 00:46:29

talked about the the 3 categories.

00:46:30 --> 00:46:33

We have, Al Maasi, Ta'at, and Mubahat.

00:46:35 --> 00:46:36

Acts of worship,

00:46:38 --> 00:46:41

sin acts of sin, and those that are

00:46:41 --> 00:46:43

neutral, that are neither sin nor action. No.

00:46:43 --> 00:46:44

So Mubah,

00:46:44 --> 00:46:45

a a neutral act.

00:46:46 --> 00:46:47

He said if a person has an intention

00:46:47 --> 00:46:49

for that, then look, this is allowed, so

00:46:49 --> 00:46:51

I'll do it. But he has an intention

00:46:51 --> 00:46:52

for that. But he doesn't have an intention.

00:46:56 --> 00:46:58

He didn't he's not he didn't get an

00:46:58 --> 00:47:00

intention. He wasn't able his heart did not

00:47:00 --> 00:47:01

produce an intention

00:47:02 --> 00:47:05

for a for a Fadeelah, for a virtuous

00:47:05 --> 00:47:05

deed.

00:47:06 --> 00:47:07

So

00:47:08 --> 00:47:08

then,

00:47:09 --> 00:47:13

doing having that intention for Mubah is better

00:47:13 --> 00:47:15

for him in that given moment, for that

00:47:15 --> 00:47:15

person.

00:47:17 --> 00:47:17

Until,

00:47:19 --> 00:47:20

when so then that becomes

00:47:20 --> 00:47:21

his his

00:47:22 --> 00:47:23

That becomes his virtue.

00:47:28 --> 00:47:28

So this

00:47:29 --> 00:47:29

that

00:47:31 --> 00:47:33

this this thing that was deficient

00:47:33 --> 00:47:34

is now his intentions,

00:47:37 --> 00:47:39

actions are with intention. So

00:47:44 --> 00:47:47

that if someone could does something wrong against

00:47:47 --> 00:47:50

you, it is better to forgive them, right,

00:47:50 --> 00:47:51

or

00:47:51 --> 00:47:52

to demand your right.

00:47:53 --> 00:47:54

Both

00:47:55 --> 00:47:57

it it's it's a higher intention

00:47:57 --> 00:47:59

to forgive or to demand your right. But

00:47:59 --> 00:48:01

if a person comes,

00:48:02 --> 00:48:04

he's unable. He comes he comes to this

00:48:04 --> 00:48:06

to to a settlement with, with this,

00:48:08 --> 00:48:08

situation,

00:48:09 --> 00:48:09

and

00:48:10 --> 00:48:13

his heart says that I should

00:48:14 --> 00:48:15

take my right,

00:48:16 --> 00:48:17

his intention is for that,

00:48:17 --> 00:48:18

then

00:48:18 --> 00:48:20

he should go with what his heart says

00:48:21 --> 00:48:23

and not do and and not seek to

00:48:24 --> 00:48:25

forgive

00:48:25 --> 00:48:27

when there is no intention for forgiving. You

00:48:27 --> 00:48:30

should have and what does that mean, no

00:48:30 --> 00:48:31

intention? That you're not doing it for Allah.

00:48:31 --> 00:48:34

You might do it for, oh, because I

00:48:34 --> 00:48:34

feel,

00:48:34 --> 00:48:37

so and so might might be angry or

00:48:37 --> 00:48:39

to please people or to impress people. If

00:48:39 --> 00:48:42

you're doing it for that, then it's better

00:48:42 --> 00:48:44

to take your right and not. So so

00:48:44 --> 00:48:46

he's showing you that when there is difference,

00:48:47 --> 00:48:48

variation,

00:48:48 --> 00:48:50

then you choose the one that your heart

00:48:50 --> 00:48:52

is settled on, and that's the one that

00:48:52 --> 00:48:54

you that you should stick to.

00:48:56 --> 00:48:58

And and then he gives a, a a

00:48:58 --> 00:48:59

few other examples. He says,

00:49:06 --> 00:49:08

The person has an intention to eat and

00:49:08 --> 00:49:10

to drink, or to eat and to sleep.

00:49:10 --> 00:49:12

But in that, there is that he wants

00:49:12 --> 00:49:14

to rest him rest himself so that he

00:49:14 --> 00:49:16

can get up for for Ibadah later on.

00:49:16 --> 00:49:18

So for that, it is better for him

00:49:18 --> 00:49:20

to if a person is tired,

00:49:20 --> 00:49:22

then he would not he he shouldn't,

00:49:23 --> 00:49:24

he he should go on the basis of

00:49:24 --> 00:49:25

what the intention

00:49:27 --> 00:49:28

that comes in the heart,

00:49:28 --> 00:49:31

and it is neutral. It is good. It

00:49:31 --> 00:49:33

it is not in the bad category. Then

00:49:33 --> 00:49:36

he should follow it to develop further. So

00:49:36 --> 00:49:37

he's saying that, well, they said

00:49:39 --> 00:49:41

that, at this moment, he doesn't have an

00:49:41 --> 00:49:43

intention for psalm and for fasting,

00:49:43 --> 00:49:44

for for for salah.

00:49:46 --> 00:49:47

Is it better for him to eat right

00:49:47 --> 00:49:48

now and, and

00:49:49 --> 00:49:49

and,

00:49:50 --> 00:49:52

and then strengthen himself to to then pray

00:49:52 --> 00:49:53

later?

00:49:58 --> 00:50:00

If if he's just praying all the time,

00:50:00 --> 00:50:01

all the time, all the time, then

00:50:02 --> 00:50:03

he he will develop,

00:50:04 --> 00:50:04

an

00:50:05 --> 00:50:05

an irksomeness

00:50:06 --> 00:50:07

of, you know, boredom,

00:50:08 --> 00:50:10

and he might get completely distracted. He might

00:50:10 --> 00:50:11

become completely

00:50:11 --> 00:50:13

it might become completely difficult for him. So

00:50:13 --> 00:50:15

in other words, what he's saying is that

00:50:15 --> 00:50:16

we have to take small steps when we're

00:50:16 --> 00:50:17

moving here.

00:50:20 --> 00:50:23

And he gives the example of Abu Dardar

00:50:23 --> 00:50:24

and he said,

00:50:26 --> 00:50:26

the

00:50:27 --> 00:50:29

oh, no. He he also says here, well,

00:50:29 --> 00:50:30

well,

00:50:34 --> 00:50:36

that if that if he takes a break,

00:50:36 --> 00:50:37

if if he takes a break from what

00:50:37 --> 00:50:39

he's doing, instead of praying all the time,

00:50:39 --> 00:50:41

night and day, and and doing going in,

00:50:42 --> 00:50:44

into extra into excess, if he takes a

00:50:44 --> 00:50:46

break from time to time, he says, yeah,

00:50:46 --> 00:50:46

I and,

00:50:48 --> 00:50:49

with some,

00:50:49 --> 00:50:50

player or some,

00:50:51 --> 00:50:52

speakers

00:50:53 --> 00:50:54

speaking to some conversation,

00:50:54 --> 00:50:55

then, that

00:50:56 --> 00:50:58

is he will be he can be invigorated

00:50:58 --> 00:50:59

to

00:50:59 --> 00:51:00

to practice again.

00:51:05 --> 00:51:06

And this is he quotes Abu Dabbda

00:51:09 --> 00:51:09

saying,

00:51:13 --> 00:51:15

That I I take a break sometimes,

00:51:16 --> 00:51:18

and doing something that relaxes me, and that

00:51:18 --> 00:51:20

so that then that becomes a,

00:51:21 --> 00:51:22

a a reason for

00:51:22 --> 00:51:25

invigorating me to do to do good things.

00:51:25 --> 00:51:27

And he then he quotes Ali

00:51:29 --> 00:51:29

He said,

00:51:33 --> 00:51:33

that,

00:51:34 --> 00:51:37

gives the heart some rest as well. So

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

the Fa'ina Uqrihat that if if it if

00:51:39 --> 00:51:40

it's forced

00:51:41 --> 00:51:43

too much, then it will become blind.

00:51:45 --> 00:51:45

And,

00:51:46 --> 00:51:48

of course, we have the hadith here that's

00:51:48 --> 00:51:51

where also I'm your brother radiAllahu anhu says

00:51:51 --> 00:51:52

that in the deen

00:51:53 --> 00:51:56

that this deen is easy. And the reason

00:51:56 --> 00:51:56

I'm,

00:51:57 --> 00:52:00

emphasizing this right now is that we've been

00:52:00 --> 00:52:01

talking a lot about

00:52:01 --> 00:52:04

managing our iman and managing our life, but

00:52:04 --> 00:52:05

we've got to be careful not to go

00:52:05 --> 00:52:07

over the outside. You know, we talked about

00:52:07 --> 00:52:08

Shaitan pushing you,

00:52:09 --> 00:52:11

overboard, that he can push you on on

00:52:11 --> 00:52:13

to the other direction that when he tries

00:52:13 --> 00:52:14

to stop you and you

00:52:14 --> 00:52:16

you continue, but then he pushes you into

00:52:16 --> 00:52:19

extreme. So in this hadith, Rasool Allah sallallahu

00:52:19 --> 00:52:20

alaihi wa sallam is saying that in Nadine,

00:52:20 --> 00:52:22

Yusuf, Nadine is

00:52:22 --> 00:52:23

easy.

00:52:27 --> 00:52:29

That this deen this religion is easy. It's

00:52:29 --> 00:52:31

very easy. So whoever overburdens himself in the

00:52:31 --> 00:52:34

religion will not be able to continue in

00:52:34 --> 00:52:36

that way. So you should not be you

00:52:36 --> 00:52:38

should not go into extreme, he's saying.

00:52:46 --> 00:52:48

That he he said that,

00:52:49 --> 00:52:51

but try to be to go near, to

00:52:51 --> 00:52:52

go close to perfection

00:52:53 --> 00:52:54

and receive good tidings, and that you will

00:52:54 --> 00:52:55

be rewarded

00:52:55 --> 00:52:58

and gain strength from worshiping in the morning

00:52:58 --> 00:53:00

and the evening and during the last hours

00:53:00 --> 00:53:01

of the night. Now

00:53:01 --> 00:53:02

now

00:53:02 --> 00:53:04

this is a delicate matter,

00:53:04 --> 00:53:06

so you've got to be able to draw

00:53:07 --> 00:53:10

a an an important balance. And the thing

00:53:10 --> 00:53:10

that,

00:53:11 --> 00:53:13

you have to keep in mind is that

00:53:13 --> 00:53:16

Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala wants you

00:53:16 --> 00:53:19

to be continuous in what you're doing. For

00:53:19 --> 00:53:20

the beloved, he said, that

00:53:21 --> 00:53:22

the most beloved

00:53:23 --> 00:53:25

actions of this of the slave that we

00:53:25 --> 00:53:26

can do is.

00:53:28 --> 00:53:28

That it is

00:53:29 --> 00:53:29

the

00:53:30 --> 00:53:32

ones it's the action. It's the good deeds

00:53:32 --> 00:53:33

that are continuous.

00:53:34 --> 00:53:34

Because

00:53:36 --> 00:53:36

that

00:53:37 --> 00:53:39

the mountains are built of pebbles, you know,

00:53:39 --> 00:53:40

tiny bits, then you will you will get

00:53:41 --> 00:53:42

well, if you do if you do all

00:53:42 --> 00:53:43

one and then collapse,

00:53:44 --> 00:53:46

then that is a falling for the trick

00:53:46 --> 00:53:48

of shaitan and trick of the nafs. So

00:53:48 --> 00:53:50

it's it's to go slowly and build and

00:53:50 --> 00:53:52

build upon it. Yeah.

00:53:52 --> 00:53:54

So, Ahabul Aamali,

00:53:55 --> 00:53:57

illallahi ta'ala at wamuhad, the most beloved of

00:53:57 --> 00:53:58

actions

00:53:58 --> 00:54:01

are those that are continuous that you do

00:54:01 --> 00:54:01

them.

00:54:02 --> 00:54:03

Even if it's a little, but it does

00:54:04 --> 00:54:06

it does regularly and it's continuous. That is

00:54:06 --> 00:54:07

how it's recognizing

00:54:08 --> 00:54:08

this is important.

00:54:09 --> 00:54:12

And because he's saying, and then he continues,

00:54:13 --> 00:54:15

we're out of time, but, he ends the

00:54:15 --> 00:54:16

chapter. He says,

00:54:21 --> 00:54:23

That this is a battle with Shaytan. This

00:54:23 --> 00:54:25

path of going, so you have to give

00:54:25 --> 00:54:27

and take. You have to sometimes in battle

00:54:27 --> 00:54:29

and he spoke he speaks about this, but,

00:54:30 --> 00:54:31

I'm not gonna read the text. He says

00:54:31 --> 00:54:34

he said that sometimes, an expert in in

00:54:34 --> 00:54:34

battle

00:54:34 --> 00:54:36

would would would would

00:54:36 --> 00:54:38

indulge in what is known as strategic retreat.

00:54:39 --> 00:54:40

That he will turn his back and run,

00:54:40 --> 00:54:41

but what he wants to do is to

00:54:41 --> 00:54:44

draw him is to is to make him

00:54:44 --> 00:54:46

lose interest and then and then attack again.

00:54:46 --> 00:54:48

So this battle with Shaitan that he's jumped

00:54:48 --> 00:54:50

he's coming from left and right and front

00:54:50 --> 00:54:52

and back. He's out to get you, and

00:54:52 --> 00:54:55

you have to manage this with your nafs

00:54:55 --> 00:54:56

at the same time.

00:54:56 --> 00:54:57

So you've

00:54:57 --> 00:54:59

in order to do this, you have to

00:54:59 --> 00:55:01

go back and forth and

00:55:01 --> 00:55:01

maintain

00:55:02 --> 00:55:05

this idea of continuity. That look, I'm gonna

00:55:05 --> 00:55:06

do this much, and I'm gonna do it

00:55:06 --> 00:55:08

every day. And I'm not I'm not gonna

00:55:08 --> 00:55:10

overburden myself because, remember, there there was Sahaba

00:55:10 --> 00:55:12

who said that, look, I'm not going to

00:55:12 --> 00:55:13

fast. I'm not going to get married.

00:55:13 --> 00:55:15

There's a this statement

00:55:15 --> 00:55:17

of Rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam that,

00:55:17 --> 00:55:19

and nikahimin sunnati that

00:55:20 --> 00:55:22

marriage is is my sunnah, and whoever whoever

00:55:22 --> 00:55:24

is not pleased with it, then he's not

00:55:24 --> 00:55:25

of my father. He said this to a

00:55:25 --> 00:55:26

Sahadi,

00:55:27 --> 00:55:29

to who was who had decided that, look,

00:55:29 --> 00:55:30

I'm not gonna get married, and he was

00:55:30 --> 00:55:32

praying all night and fasting all day. And

00:55:32 --> 00:55:33

he said, no no no no this is

00:55:33 --> 00:55:35

not what and I'm I'm the most biased

00:55:35 --> 00:55:38

among you. I'm I'm closest to Allah and

00:55:38 --> 00:55:40

I'm saying this to you that look I

00:55:40 --> 00:55:42

do this, I get married, I I place

00:55:42 --> 00:55:45

I sleep, I fast and I eat. So,

00:55:45 --> 00:55:48

it's about not overbearing yourself, but doing doing

00:55:48 --> 00:55:51

it slowly but with an intention for continuity.

00:55:51 --> 00:55:52

Now this is where I I need to

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

go for my for the rest of my

00:55:54 --> 00:55:56

life. And I'm going to add to it

00:55:56 --> 00:55:58

as I get stronger. As my iman gets

00:55:58 --> 00:56:01

stronger, as my resources, as my capacity for

00:56:01 --> 00:56:03

adding, I will do it.

00:56:03 --> 00:56:04

So with that,

00:56:04 --> 00:56:06

I think we will end today.

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