Riyad Nadwi – 10. Imam Ghazali on Ikhlas

Riyad Nadwi
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The speakers discuss the importance of value-creation moments in shaping behavior and feeling, including the treatment of diseases and the importance of avoiding harm. They emphasize the need for attention to avoid confusion and loss of pleasure, and stress the importance of monitoring thoughts and avoiding erasing them. The speakers also emphasize the importance of learning to deal with negative emotions and behavior, and the importance of sh matter and the desire for love. They stress the need for people to have a clear understanding of the situation and seek acceptance and strengthening their hearts to achieve long-term success.
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Can I just have a sound check? Because

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can you hear me clearly?

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Yeah. We can hear you. Yeah. Okay. Thank

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you.

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Okay. Should should we start?

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Yeah. I think we can start now. There'll

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probably be a few more people coming because

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we have it in in the class today.

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Alright. So the the class is not set

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up yet? No. The class is set up,

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but people are probably gonna come late. But

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I think if we start, they'll just trickle

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in. Oh, okay. Okay

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then. Inshallah.

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Okay.

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Welcome to our 10th session on Ikhlas where

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we are

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studying the subjects

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surrounding intentions, sincerity, verbal habits

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with reflections

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on Imam Ghazali's.

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Now in the verse I've read to you

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just now the which is

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they are the last two verses of Surah

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Al Kahf.

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The first verse

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draws our attention

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to the magnificence of Allah

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and the unimaginable

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extent of his knowledge.

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Human knowledge in comparison is it there is

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no comparison

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with Allah's knowledge but human knowledge can be

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captured and recorded

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because it is limited. It is very limited.

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It's minuscule.

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And if the oceans were ink and all

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the trees were pens,

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it could not capture the words of Allah.

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The knowledge of Allah is infinite.

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He knows all things including the secrets of

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the hearts.

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He knows where the heart is focused

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and with whom it is occupied.

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And so the instruction to the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam in the second verse is

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to

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say

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that those whoever hopes

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in meeting his Lord

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then

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they should not

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include others in their worship of Allah.

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So the translation of the verse is if

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the sea were ink and the writing of

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our writing and the words the words of

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my lord and the sea and if the

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if the sea were ink for writing the

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words of my lord,

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and the sea the sea would be exhausted

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before the words of my lord

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were exhausted.

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Even if we brought, even if even if

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we were we even if we brought the

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the like of it, even if you brought

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a similar amount and supplement it.

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That's the that's the translation. And then the

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second verse was I'm the only I'm only

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saying to people that look I'm I'm only

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a man like you to whom

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Allah has revealed. I received revelation from God

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and

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so whoever hopes in meeting Allah, in meeting

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their Lord then let him do righteous good

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or a righteous work and not associate

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anyone with worship of Allah, worship of his

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Lord.

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Now

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the first thought that

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comes to mind when we read about meeting

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is that of the meeting on the day

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of judgement

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because

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that's the meeting that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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the grand meeting where we will meet Allah

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and it will be on the day of

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judgment

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which is what

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it is clear from the verse,

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the first meaning that comes out of it.

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But

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there if you there's another conception of meaning

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of meeting here in this verse,

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and that is in the light of a

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hadith, a Sahih hadith,

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where,

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the

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suburb in Nuzul, the context in which the

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verse was revealed

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is usually explained. If you look at the

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tafsir, you'll find this verse that this hadith

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mentioned

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and it's instructive. It's good for our discussion

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here to ponder this

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in which a man comes to the prophet

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and says

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You Rasulullah,

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O prophet of Allah

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that I stand

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in,

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seeking the pleasure of Allah. I stop and

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stand. I stand in places that I am

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and I'm I'm seeking the pleasure of Allah.

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And I love that he should see me

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in my place where I am standing, you

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know, I want him to see me.

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This person is saying this to Raul Sallahu

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Alaihi wa Salam and he

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does not reply.

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But

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the

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did not respond to him

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and and

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then the response came in this verse this

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verse first which says,

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So it's

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whoever hopes in a meeting with their lord,

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so let them do righteous deeds

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and not associate with anyone else in his

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worship of Allah.

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So

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from this what we can see is that

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whenever an act of worship is conducted

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with the heart focused on Allah alone

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without the urge to show it to others

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then that is technically according to this interpretation

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a a

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it's like a meeting it's a blessing of

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a meeting with your Lord it is

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it is

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as in the hadith we read of Jibreel

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alaihis salam worship Allah as if you see

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him for verily if you see him not

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then he sees you.

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So whenever we are given the tawfiq

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for a good deed or for good action

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for doing things for the pleasure of Allah

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with full sincerity,

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then we must be completely

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certain in our hearts, we should have it

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in our hearts that

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not only is Allah seeing us but this

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is a special moment,

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a moment between you and Allah,

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a blessed moment when Allah is most likely

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to be pleased with you and accept your

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deed

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and therefore we must have that

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yaqeen,

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that certainty in the heart of

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this being special, this moment being special. It's

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a moment when Allah is watching watching us.

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Allah who married us. Allah is with me.

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That sense of presence that look, Allah is

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seeing me. Allah is watching me. Allah who

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marry. Allah

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is looking at me, Allah

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is witnessing what I do. This is exactly

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what the goal of Ihsan is.

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When we

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do this then we'll be able to cherish

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these moments

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and create a sense of high value in

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our hearts for each moment, for each

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of these moments we have, where

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there is sincerity and there's recognition

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that Allah is focused, Allah is seeing us,

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and our heart is focused on Allah alone.

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We need to cherish these moments and create

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a sense of high value in our heart

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for them because there are, in the eyes

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of Allah, moments which you should value

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to reinforce this

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in our hearts.

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And in order to help us to do

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this I've,

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I've got the the meanings of 3 hadith

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that I'd like you to keep salient in

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your minds.

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The first hadith is

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where and it is to remember

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not to trivialize

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your sincere actions. However

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insignificant it might seem to you Rasulullah salallahu

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alaihi wa sallam said to Abidar, he said

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he said that,

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you should not belittle any good deed even

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if it is just a smile on your

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face. That meeting, that pleasant face that you

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that that you have when you meet your

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brother or your where a sister meets a

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sister or when you meet another Muslim,

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and that is a good deed. You should

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not belittle even that.

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So in other words,

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is to cherish and value these gifts of

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sincere deeds that Allah has given you,

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not in pride, not in pride that I'm

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doing it, but to value it with gratitude

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with gratitude to Allah for the affluence and

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the the opportunity the affluence of this opportunity

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that you have.

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So do not belittle any good deed give

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it value That's the first. The second hadith

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is

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to in

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in regarding the fact that our success in

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the Akhira can hinge

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on just one sincere moment.

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All the 2 may take is just one

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moment

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to say a word.

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And this is the second hadith. It says

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that in the

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Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said

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that

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that a person may speak, may utter a

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word, one utterance of a word

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and that word is pleasing to Allah, that

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moment that one word that he says is

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pleasing to Allah.

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And he has no idea. He he couldn't

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imagine that this word, that one word, that

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one utterance

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would reach to such level that Allah

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That Allah will write for that person from

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then on

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pleasure his plea that Allah will be pleased

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with him for his life forever from then

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on. Everything he does all Allah will guide

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him through his life that he will all

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that he will remain on the straight path

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and that he will do things that will

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bring the pleasure of Allah until until the

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day he meets him. In other words, when

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you meet him Allah will be pleased with

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you. And conversely

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the in the the hadith continues

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that a person may say something that angers

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Allah.

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And he will not he will not imagine

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that it will reach to such a high

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level. He will think it's a you know

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something just brush it off his shoulder there's

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nothing like a fly lining on the shoulder.

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He will think that it's nothing

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but then Allah will write for him

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that is anger for him until the day

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until

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So the point here is that moment.

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The moment of utterance

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of one word can make or break

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your future, your salvation. So to give

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value to the moments you have, these moments,

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these good moments.

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And the third

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is a confirmation

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of the extraordinary

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value there is in these special moments. This

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is an example of that. And when we

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have

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the the these special moments with Allah alone

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in our hearts and this is haris about

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which you have heard but perhaps in this

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context it's not rigid in this context but

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it's it's a haris that

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on the day of

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judgment

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that the that there are 7 people who

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will be put in the shade of Allah

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on the day of judgment

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And of them, one of them

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that a person

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one of the one of the seven who

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will be in the shade is a person

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who remembers Allah

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and in another

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that he remembers Allah on his own and

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he remembers Allah and his eyes then flooded

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with with tears.

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That that there are now there are millions

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of reasons for your eyes to flood with

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tears when you think

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when when we remember Allah.

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It could be tears from

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tears of shame over our neglect or shortcomings.

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Also tears of joy

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over the countless

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mercies and favors that Allah pause continuously in

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our direction.

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Now here the reference is about

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a moment. It's about that moment that that

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person had.

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He had a moment and that moment was

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that he remembered Allah and his eyes flooded

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with tears. So moments are important to to

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value. May Allah

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grant us

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such moments

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repeatedly.

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Now last week, we reflected on Allah's

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attention

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and care

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in sustaining all his creation from the largest

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galaxies

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to the microscopic creatures.

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He sustains all at the same time with

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the full attention

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to all the detail and needs of everyone.

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He fulfills

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the need of the galaxies, the stars, the

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moon, the planets, and he fulfills the needs

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of also

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the tiny microbes, tiny the microscopic

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creatures that he has created.

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And

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we

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ponder this because Satan sometimes comes and put

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it in our heart that said to say,

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well, you're you're microscopic. You're you're on this

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tiny planet. That's a that's a speck. It's

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nothing. You're you're in you're there's nothing special

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about you. But if you go

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smaller than the human being and you will

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find

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that Allah is paying attention to the needs

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of all his creatures even the microscopic ones.

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Then we also

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looked at,

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the fact that,

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the hyper the

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the hyper ostentatious nature of the culture in

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which we live and the consequences of that

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for our own psyche.

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We also and and we also began reading

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from the chapter of the, of the treatment

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of the disease of Ria.

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Ria, of course, which is the to show

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to show something

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that is ostensibly,

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for Allah. We are showing it that we're

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supposed to do a bad, good deeds for

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Allah. But if you do it with the

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motive of to impress others, then that is

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falling

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a prey or you're falling foul of of

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the trap of Shaitan.

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Now we read the first part of the

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treatment, which I liken to a 2 pronged

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approach, of the of towards in treating cancer.

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The first

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was the surgery that the uproots

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you from the approach the disease,

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from where the branches sprout.

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And that uprooting

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needs to be followed by an ongoing

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treatment, an ongoing

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care care plan to deal with it.

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Now in that, there were 8 salient points

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to keep in mind,

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in the first stage of this treatment.

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And the first was the impulse to show

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is motivated by 3 main factors,

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love of praise, love of criticism and courageousness,

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you know, wanting the the stuff that other

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people have.

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The second was that we tend to be

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inclined towards things that are perceived to be

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beneficial and pleasurable

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either immediately or eventually.

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Then the third was that it is easier

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for us to abstain from something when we

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know that with certainty that

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any pleasure that we may get from it

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is in the short term will be followed

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by long term harm. And the example he

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gave for that was the

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the the example of sweet honey. That if

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you find out that if you if you

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were to find out that the honey has

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poisoned it then the sweetness of the honey

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will not

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be enough to justify

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in your own mind to take the honey

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because the the long term problem with it

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is such that

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you you will avoid it. Now the first

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thing was the point that you needed to

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keep in mind was that

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for

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the more one understands and keeps in mind

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the severity of the harm that Rhea causes

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the easier it is for you to avoid

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it. So when we show off our acts

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of worship, we are actually indulging

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in a in mockery and that

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idea that you're muckering that that that you're

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you're mocking Allah

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said did you not find anyone less

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significant than Allah to mock?

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And then the 5th point

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to keep in mind was that

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on the day of judgment you may happen

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to need just one good deed

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to tip your scale in the right direction,

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but that deed might be the one that

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happened to be corrupted by Rhea.

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So when one deed can decide our future

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for eternity, we should value

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all our good deeds, not and and and

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endeavor not to spoil any of them with

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Ria.

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Number 6 was if people if the people

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you who you're trying to impress with your

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piety or your good deeds that you're showing

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them, when you indulge in Ria

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and if they were to find out these

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same people that you are actually insincere,

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then they would, instead of holding you in

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high status, would despise you. And certainly, on

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the day of judgment,

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they will come to know the truth

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about your intention.

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And then the 7th point was

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pleasing people is an unreachable it's an unreachable

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goal.

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An unreachable goal. You you will not be

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able to reach to satisfy people. It's and

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what happens is that you end up with

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a with scattered attention with multiple concerns, which

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can lead, of course, into

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a birth of state.

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Whereas focusing on pleasing Allah alone in an,

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is the opportunity to gather our attention in

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one direction

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where tranquility

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is found. That by by gathering all your

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focus and attention just to please Allah,

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in that there is tranquility, there is peace.

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And point number 8 was that

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the heart,

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focused

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on the next life will flourish

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with Nur. If your heart if your if

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your heart if your if your heart is

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focused on the benefit of the of the

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next life and you are able to avoid

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Ria,

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then you will get the benefit of illumination

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in your in your heart. It will spread

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into your chest. Your chest will become expansive

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with light and lead to experiences of closeness

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with Allah and serenity.

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Now in addition to these, in the first

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stage of the treatment also includes

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the practical medicine, which is dawah al Amari,

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where

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you're,

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called to conceal your actions.

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If you remember last last week, we talked

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about the that ria

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is the cure. It it

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Ikhlas is

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that Ikhlas

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is in curing your ria. If you cure

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your ria, you will be left with with

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Ikhlas. And he's saying now that if the

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cure rhea, you have to

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practice Ikhlas. So we will come back to

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this.

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But,

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what I want to draw your attention now

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to is to because we are going into

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dealing with the ongoing

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aspect of the treatment.

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I want to speak a bit about the

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nature of thoughts in the human mind in

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general,

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because the the dominant

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narrative about human beings about

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the human mind and human being in general

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in the culture in which we happen to

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live is by and large a materialistic narrative.

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Everything that happens in the human mind is

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seen in this culture as a result of

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material processes.

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Either the material

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the brain.

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The brain,

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neurons, firing, sensation, activation, etcetera. Now bear in

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mind that we said last week

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what we said last week about the osmotic

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phenomena, the the subtle cultural influences

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that

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surreptitiously

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invade and shapes a person's view of themselves.

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We need to understand

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as Muslims

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a bit more about how our mind works

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and especially when Ria flourishes in it. As

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Muslims,

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we need to know that this

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strict materialistic

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narrative about the mind is incomplete,

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which I think we know, but it's internalizing

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that.

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And there's a whole host of other systems

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that,

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brought to bear on on the mind, including

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angels and.

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But we'll put that aside for a while,

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and let's take a closer look at the

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materialistic narrative first.

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Now if I were to ask you

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if you're in control of what goes in

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and out of your body, you will most

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likely say, yes. Of course. I, I control.

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I I have the right to decide, for

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example, what food I eat, what medication I

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take,

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and what drug is injected in my body.

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You can say sentences like, I refuse to

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get vaccinated.

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By the way, I'm not an anti vaxxer,

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but,

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you can say that I I do not

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allow myself to be vaccinated, and it would

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be highly unlikely for your utterance of the

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word vaccine or hearing the word vaccine

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to cause bits of the vaccine solution to

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enter into your bloodstream.

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That's not going to happen.

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However,

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that's not the same for the mind.

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The control we have over the material stuff

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entering into our system

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is not the same for mental properties

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and this is the difference is

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if you let's say a sentence such as,

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I will not think about a baby elephant.

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What do you think happens? Try it. I

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will not think about a baby elephant.

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Say it to yourself and see what happens.

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What we find, you know, as cognitive scientists,

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you will see that you by saying that

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I will not think of a baby elephant,

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you will

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automatically simulate the image of an elephant

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when saying we will not that you will

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not think of an elephant. Even though the

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instruction is not to think about the elephant,

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the mind

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will create the image of an elephant and

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with full details. This has,

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it's not only

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creating the elephant. If you say that I

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I will not think of a cuddly elephant,

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you will imagine

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a a picture of a of an elephant

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with a curled up trunk, a baby elephant

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with a curled up trunk would appear. And

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if you say I will I will not

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think of a of a baby elephant chasing,

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that chases

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chickens or something like that, you will see

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an elephant with a trunk. In your mind,

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an elephant will appear with a straight trunk.

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So

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and

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this sort of simulation, these these images have

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profound consequences for our ability

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to control the flow of our thoughts.

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Initially, this was a, of course, a a

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cycle, psycholinguistic

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idea,

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but then it was further

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corroborated by a series of neuroscience experiments through,

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the monitoring of,

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reaction times, eye movement, and hand movement, and

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fMRI, etcetera.

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It's not only the images that we create,

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but our thoughts are filled with detailed simulations

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that include

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shape, orientation,

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location,

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and followed with full modeling

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of actions.

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So in other words, our minds automatically

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create

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detailed mental modeling using the same brain networks

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and systems

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as it does when we are actually

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experiencing

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the those things for real

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with

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varying degree of intensity but it's the same

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systems

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and this has consequences. The consequences

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are for for instance our emotional state.

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These emotions

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these simulations tend to linger in the mind

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and activate emotional reactions.

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Now if

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the simulation inspires

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a pleasurable

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emotion,

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then that can propagate into influencing a cascade

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of very specific behavior. As happens, you know,

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often people purchase branded items. They go on

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the shelves and grabbing items and,

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finding themselves choosing a one product over another

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and rating it as high,

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Ohio and more valuable than others and without

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being able to explain

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rationally why.

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And that is because of the simulations.

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There's a knock on effect of each simulation.

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So if you are assimilating in your mind

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that people are being impressed by your good

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deeds,

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You're simulating that oh that person really likes

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likes

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to hear about the good things I do

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then

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that will start to activate a feeling of

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elation and delight because it has consequences

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for your

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emotion.

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So you will feel elated, you'll feel a

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delight. And from the feeling of this elation,

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a cascade of motivation for specific behaviors will

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ensue.

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You will be you'll be continuously propelled towards

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doing things that facilitate more of the good

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feeling behavior

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about people being impressed by your ibada.

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Even at the back of your mind, even

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if you have this, you know that oh

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Ria is not good.

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Knowing that will is wouldn't be enough.

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There is a need for an ongoing effort

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to deal with these mental simulations.

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Now

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how do you interrupt this vicious cycle? Because

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it's it's a it's a cycle. It's a

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it starts off with

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feeling the elation, the delight,

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and then

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because it's so powerful, it it takes you.

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So you you need a you you you

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need a mechanism to deal with this, to

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protect yourself from falling into the trap of

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ria in an ongoing basis. And this is

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what this section of the book is about.

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Imam Ghazali here again, is

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years ahead of his time in delineating

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the details of this process and you will

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as you will see.

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So

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there is a

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small chapter,

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well, small

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couple of paragraphs

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from last week's that we didn't read, so

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I'm gonna read that first and then move

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on.

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How are we doing for time? Yeah. Okay.

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As for the practical,

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medicine,

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That is to he must or she must

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habituate herself or his self

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about

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hiding.

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To hide

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your

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good actions.

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And to hide hide your good deeds, to

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hide things that you do,

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just as you hide your bad deeds. When

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you sit on a computer at night, you

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don't want people to see the kind of

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things that you're looking at. You tilt your

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screen and you hide your phone. You don't

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want people to go through your phone and

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see the kind of things that you're looking

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at. That we we hide stuff. So in

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we can also hide our good deeds and

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that's what this will train.

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You will you have to and and he's

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saying

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means to means to habituate yourself that look,

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I'm gonna hide my deeds. Now the of

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course, there are some deeds that you cannot

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hide like Hajj, you you have to show

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that, but then it's about training yourself. And

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that is why,

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you cannot hide salah as well. You cannot

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hide your 5 daily salah. You need to

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pray that in the masjid but

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the night prayer is so good for this

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for training yourself, for hiding it that no

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one sees you. This is between you and

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Allah and it is that moment. It is

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the moment you've been waiting for. It's the

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moment that you need.

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So when you have these moments

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it and it is with you and Allah

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alone then that is

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something to cherish. And but it's also by

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doing by habituating yourself with it is it

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it helps. So he's saying

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that there is no

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treatment for like hiding.

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And that is difficult in the beginning

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but if you bear it for a little

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while then eventually it will start to get

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easy

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And then it will become easier for him

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because Allah subtle favors from Allah will pour

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onto him

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with tawfiq and

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with

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motivation to do it and confirmation.

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Allah will not change your condition until you

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attempt, you make the effort to change yourself.

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And from the servant

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is the effort

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and Hidaya is from Allah

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That for the servant is the slave has

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to knock the door and it is up

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to Allah to open it.

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Allah does not waste the

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reward of those who do good.

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And even if it's one good deed Allah

00:30:41 --> 00:30:44

multiplies it so you don't even if you

00:30:44 --> 00:30:46

see you think that it's little Allah multiplies

00:30:46 --> 00:30:46

it.

00:30:48 --> 00:30:51

And He gives long He gives magnificent rewards

00:30:51 --> 00:30:53

from him of his own.

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Okay. Now the second part, there's

00:30:57 --> 00:30:58

which is

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And

00:31:02 --> 00:31:04

this is to

00:31:04 --> 00:31:06

repel how to deal with

00:31:07 --> 00:31:09

the urges of of Ria

00:31:09 --> 00:31:11

while doing Ibadat.

00:31:11 --> 00:31:13

What what what actually happens? And this is

00:31:13 --> 00:31:14

the ongoing process.

00:31:16 --> 00:31:18

And you need to learn this as well.

00:31:18 --> 00:31:19

Just as we learn about

00:31:19 --> 00:31:23

uprooting, we also learn in re uprooting, in

00:31:23 --> 00:31:25

other words, all the bad things about it,

00:31:25 --> 00:31:27

all all the all the serious consequences,

00:31:27 --> 00:31:30

we also need to learn here about

00:31:31 --> 00:31:34

dealing with it on an ongoing basis. For

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the

00:31:36 --> 00:31:36

one who

00:31:37 --> 00:31:38

struggles with

00:31:46 --> 00:31:47

himself, the one who struggles and,

00:31:50 --> 00:31:50

and removes

00:31:51 --> 00:31:51

this

00:31:52 --> 00:31:53

become contented

00:31:54 --> 00:31:56

with removing ria from his heart, with uprooting

00:31:56 --> 00:31:57

it,

00:31:57 --> 00:31:58

and severs

00:31:59 --> 00:32:00

the search, the lurch for it,

00:32:01 --> 00:32:05

and removes himself from wanting station among people.

00:32:09 --> 00:32:12

And who has now is able to understand,

00:32:12 --> 00:32:14

he knows now that

00:32:14 --> 00:32:15

people's

00:32:15 --> 00:32:18

criticism or people's praise is of no value

00:32:18 --> 00:32:19

for me.

00:32:23 --> 00:32:23

Shaitan,

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if you know this, don't expect that Shaitan

00:32:27 --> 00:32:29

now, because you know this, will leave you

00:32:29 --> 00:32:30

alone. No.

00:32:34 --> 00:32:35

He will not leave you alone

00:32:36 --> 00:32:38

during your when you are doing good deeds.

00:32:41 --> 00:32:43

That he will continue to put thoughts. He

00:32:43 --> 00:32:46

will continue to to instill thoughts in your

00:32:46 --> 00:32:47

of ria in you.

00:32:49 --> 00:32:52

And his suggestions will not ever stop.

00:32:56 --> 00:32:58

And the urges of the nafs, the urges

00:32:58 --> 00:33:00

of the ink and the inclinations of the

00:33:00 --> 00:33:01

desire

00:33:01 --> 00:33:03

but also is

00:33:03 --> 00:33:04

not erased completely.

00:33:11 --> 00:33:14

So it is therefore important that a person

00:33:14 --> 00:33:15

becomes serious

00:33:15 --> 00:33:16

in repelling

00:33:17 --> 00:33:17

what

00:33:18 --> 00:33:20

appears in his heart of riya.

00:33:24 --> 00:33:26

The thoughts of riya are 3

00:33:27 --> 00:33:28

and this is where we come back to

00:33:28 --> 00:33:31

the idea of monitoring thoughts. Because remember what

00:33:31 --> 00:33:33

I said about thoughts, they have cascading

00:33:33 --> 00:33:35

effect. So he

00:33:40 --> 00:33:40

said

00:33:41 --> 00:33:42

that they may come that they have 3.

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There are 3

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main thoughts that that flow for real. And

00:33:46 --> 00:33:48

they may come in all at once, or

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they may come in in succession

00:33:51 --> 00:33:53

over a period of time. And the first

00:33:53 --> 00:33:55

thought that comes to the mind,

00:33:55 --> 00:33:56

the first thought is

00:34:03 --> 00:34:05

is that it is the first thought that

00:34:05 --> 00:34:08

comes is the knowledge that people are finding

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

out what you are doing

00:34:10 --> 00:34:13

and the hope that they will find out.

00:34:13 --> 00:34:15

Either the hope that they will find out

00:34:15 --> 00:34:17

or that's the first thought that comes. Okay.

00:34:17 --> 00:34:18

Well, people are finding out what I'm doing,

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

and people are recognizing. People are noticing my

00:34:21 --> 00:34:23

posts. People are checking up on me. You

00:34:23 --> 00:34:25

know, I'm I'm getting a lot of feedback.

00:34:25 --> 00:34:27

People are starting to visit my page. Sometimes

00:34:27 --> 00:34:29

people don't even

00:34:29 --> 00:34:31

say anything. They but you get a a

00:34:31 --> 00:34:33

message saying, oh, well, Son, you are being

00:34:33 --> 00:34:33

noticed.

00:34:34 --> 00:34:35

You are being noticed. So this is the

00:34:35 --> 00:34:39

one. That knowledge of being know of being

00:34:39 --> 00:34:39

noticed,

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that is the first one.

00:34:44 --> 00:34:45

And then that

00:34:45 --> 00:34:45

knowledge,

00:34:46 --> 00:34:49

that bit of information that you've gotten,

00:34:50 --> 00:34:52

provokes an inclination

00:34:52 --> 00:34:55

in the rafs, in in deep inside.

00:34:59 --> 00:35:01

So the cascade goes from there.

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

So the simulation starts with, oh, people know.

00:35:03 --> 00:35:05

Oh, so what what what what what are

00:35:05 --> 00:35:05

they saying?

00:35:06 --> 00:35:09

And the mind starts to simulate now. Oh,

00:35:09 --> 00:35:10

maybe they're saying they should be saying something

00:35:10 --> 00:35:14

good, and it's an expectation starts to

00:35:14 --> 00:35:16

rise in the mind, but it's not only

00:35:16 --> 00:35:18

rising in my mind, you're carrying these full

00:35:19 --> 00:35:20

simulations in the mind

00:35:21 --> 00:35:22

that are then

00:35:23 --> 00:35:25

provoking all sorts of emotional reactions as well.

00:35:25 --> 00:35:26

So

00:35:35 --> 00:35:37

And then the nafs accepts it, then eventually

00:35:37 --> 00:35:38

it becomes

00:35:39 --> 00:35:40

it it it comes on board. It takes

00:35:40 --> 00:35:42

over. It starts to it starts to rule

00:35:42 --> 00:35:43

now.

00:35:45 --> 00:35:45

And then

00:35:46 --> 00:35:48

a decision is formed in the mind

00:35:49 --> 00:35:51

to make that reality. That simulation that you

00:35:51 --> 00:35:53

had was

00:35:53 --> 00:35:56

not confirmed, but there and a decision in

00:35:56 --> 00:35:58

the mind then comes to confirm it. So

00:35:58 --> 00:36:00

that's the cascade. That's how you move.

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

So the first is marifa which is the

00:36:04 --> 00:36:07

knowing which is that bit of information that

00:36:07 --> 00:36:09

oh, there are people are people are noticing

00:36:09 --> 00:36:09

me.

00:36:09 --> 00:36:10

Watheni

00:36:11 --> 00:36:12

hand it on to some,

00:36:12 --> 00:36:13

a shahua

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

or ragba. And the third is that this

00:36:15 --> 00:36:18

desire of the ragba, the the inclination that

00:36:18 --> 00:36:19

come builds up in the heart.

00:36:20 --> 00:36:22

And the third is

00:36:27 --> 00:36:28

and that is the

00:36:30 --> 00:36:32

binding a binding decision,

00:36:32 --> 00:36:34

a determination in the heart,

00:36:34 --> 00:36:36

a resolution. You you have entered into the

00:36:36 --> 00:36:38

state excuse me. Entered in the stage of

00:36:38 --> 00:36:40

resolution that look, I'm gonna make this come

00:36:40 --> 00:36:41

true. I'm gonna make this come,

00:36:42 --> 00:36:44

this simulation that I've just had that people

00:36:44 --> 00:36:46

are saying things nice things about what I

00:36:46 --> 00:36:48

did, I'm gonna make sure that this happens.

00:36:49 --> 00:36:50

And that's the asm.

00:36:50 --> 00:36:52

It's it's tasmi malak, there's determination

00:36:53 --> 00:36:55

and resolution to make it come through.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:03

And so the

00:37:05 --> 00:37:08

strongest you will be in dealing with this

00:37:08 --> 00:37:09

is

00:37:09 --> 00:37:12

in dealing with the first thought as the

00:37:12 --> 00:37:14

cascade begins, before the before the cascade

00:37:15 --> 00:37:17

sets off at the beginning, you see,

00:37:18 --> 00:37:19

and he's saying that

00:37:26 --> 00:37:27

That

00:37:27 --> 00:37:30

to deal with the first thought before the

00:37:30 --> 00:37:31

second one comes in, before the second before

00:37:31 --> 00:37:33

it moves into the second stage.

00:37:38 --> 00:37:40

If in some thought comes in his mind

00:37:40 --> 00:37:43

that people are noticed what I've done

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

or

00:37:44 --> 00:37:46

I hope that they may notice what I've

00:37:46 --> 00:37:48

done, then he has

00:37:49 --> 00:37:51

to then he has to repel that. You

00:37:51 --> 00:37:53

have to repel that straightaway

00:37:53 --> 00:37:54

and say

00:37:57 --> 00:38:00

that what is what what what does it

00:38:00 --> 00:38:01

have? What what does peep what do you

00:38:01 --> 00:38:03

have to do? What what does people have

00:38:03 --> 00:38:03

to do with you?

00:38:05 --> 00:38:06

What does people have to do

00:38:10 --> 00:38:12

you? That whether they know or they don't

00:38:12 --> 00:38:12

know,

00:38:12 --> 00:38:13

Allah knows.

00:38:14 --> 00:38:16

Allah knows your situation. Allah knows what you

00:38:16 --> 00:38:19

did. So it matters not whether people know

00:38:19 --> 00:38:20

or don't know. So this is how you

00:38:20 --> 00:38:22

you capture. You're rested in the beginning, in

00:38:22 --> 00:38:23

the first stage.

00:38:26 --> 00:38:29

What benefit is there for anyone else to

00:38:29 --> 00:38:29

know?

00:38:31 --> 00:38:33

Right? So that's the first. You'll be the

00:38:33 --> 00:38:34

that is the strongest

00:38:34 --> 00:38:36

you will be in in in dealing with

00:38:36 --> 00:38:37

it at the beginning

00:38:38 --> 00:38:40

before the simulation starts to cascade.

00:38:44 --> 00:38:47

But if it then moves into in in

00:38:47 --> 00:38:48

the inclination

00:38:48 --> 00:38:49

into into enjoying

00:38:50 --> 00:38:53

enjoying the praise because the simulation moved on,

00:38:54 --> 00:38:56

and you have you have simulated now the

00:38:56 --> 00:38:58

praise, not only their knowledge of it, but

00:38:58 --> 00:38:59

the praise.

00:39:04 --> 00:39:07

And if such a thing happens then he

00:39:07 --> 00:39:09

remembers what he have learned

00:39:10 --> 00:39:12

about the calamities of riya.

00:39:13 --> 00:39:14

That has to come to mind.

00:39:16 --> 00:39:19

And that he's exposing himself to the anger

00:39:19 --> 00:39:21

of Allah on the day of judgment.

00:39:26 --> 00:39:27

And that his disappointment

00:39:28 --> 00:39:30

is potential disappointment at the time when he

00:39:30 --> 00:39:32

will be when he will most need it.

00:39:32 --> 00:39:34

As we said, one good deed to tip

00:39:34 --> 00:39:36

the scale on the other side so he

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

should remember that at that point.

00:39:42 --> 00:39:42

So he's saying

00:39:48 --> 00:39:50

He said, in the same way that

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

the knowledge of people noticing you

00:39:54 --> 00:39:57

cascades that it it inspired. It provokes a

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

an inclination towards riya.

00:40:00 --> 00:40:00

Likewise,

00:40:01 --> 00:40:03

from Arifa to Efate riya to see rukarahatan

00:40:04 --> 00:40:07

to kabilotil kal shahuah, that the the knowledge

00:40:07 --> 00:40:09

bring bring bringing to mind the knowledge

00:40:09 --> 00:40:13

of the evils of Ria will also provoke

00:40:13 --> 00:40:15

an aversion. It'll provoke a dislike. So

00:40:16 --> 00:40:18

an aversion in your mind saying that, look,

00:40:18 --> 00:40:19

this this thing is terrible.

00:40:19 --> 00:40:20

That will

00:40:20 --> 00:40:22

confront it. It will cancel it. It will

00:40:22 --> 00:40:23

cancel

00:40:23 --> 00:40:25

the the other cascade. So you got these

00:40:25 --> 00:40:25

2,

00:40:27 --> 00:40:29

streams of cascading in the mind through simulations,

00:40:30 --> 00:40:32

and one will cancel the other,

00:40:33 --> 00:40:33

but

00:40:34 --> 00:40:35

there's a there's a catch.

00:40:39 --> 00:40:42

If he thinks about that he's exposing himself

00:40:42 --> 00:40:43

to the anger of Allah

00:40:44 --> 00:40:46

that Allah will they punish him

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

and the and the desire is calling him

00:40:50 --> 00:40:52

towards accepting it

00:40:55 --> 00:40:59

and the dislike is provoking him towards rejection.

00:41:01 --> 00:41:04

And he said then the the yourself, the

00:41:04 --> 00:41:06

the mind, the heart will follow

00:41:07 --> 00:41:08

he said inevitably

00:41:08 --> 00:41:09

they will follow

00:41:12 --> 00:41:13

that the one which is straight of these

00:41:13 --> 00:41:15

two streams in the mind

00:41:15 --> 00:41:17

the heart will follow the one that is

00:41:17 --> 00:41:19

stronger which is more intense

00:41:20 --> 00:41:21

But even

00:41:23 --> 00:41:24

means so

00:41:24 --> 00:41:25

so therefore

00:41:25 --> 00:41:28

in the repelling of riya when it comes

00:41:28 --> 00:41:29

in the when you when you find yourself

00:41:29 --> 00:41:31

in the in this trap

00:41:31 --> 00:41:32

is that you should

00:41:33 --> 00:41:35

that there are 3 things that you have

00:41:35 --> 00:41:37

to pay attention to. The Buddha, it has

00:41:37 --> 00:41:39

to have 3 three things

00:41:39 --> 00:41:40

that has to come one of the other.

00:41:40 --> 00:41:43

The first is and Marifa and what what

00:41:43 --> 00:41:44

Marifa? Marifa

00:41:45 --> 00:41:45

of

00:41:46 --> 00:41:48

the that this is riya, this is nothing

00:41:48 --> 00:41:51

else but riya and the second is that

00:41:51 --> 00:41:53

karaha karaha which is the

00:41:53 --> 00:41:56

dislike, the aversion to it because of the

00:41:57 --> 00:41:59

severe evils that you know about it and

00:41:59 --> 00:42:00

then Iba'a.

00:42:00 --> 00:42:03

So al Marifa wal karahah wal Iba'a, which

00:42:03 --> 00:42:04

is the

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

acknowledging it,

00:42:07 --> 00:42:10

disliking it, and rejecting it. Those are the

00:42:10 --> 00:42:12

3 that has to happen.

00:42:13 --> 00:42:16

Now, he's explaining now the situation. He says,

00:42:18 --> 00:42:20

So the person may start a deed, a

00:42:20 --> 00:42:23

good deed, with full conviction to be to

00:42:23 --> 00:42:24

do it with Ikhlas.

00:42:27 --> 00:42:28

But then,

00:42:29 --> 00:42:29

in his heart,

00:42:30 --> 00:42:32

some a thought of Ria will come and

00:42:32 --> 00:42:34

he accepts it. He doesn't pay he doesn't

00:42:34 --> 00:42:36

he doesn't treat it with

00:42:36 --> 00:42:38

the rejection that it that it requires or

00:42:38 --> 00:42:39

the or the dislike.

00:42:53 --> 00:42:55

That the person may that

00:42:57 --> 00:42:59

those the knowledge he knows lots about the

00:42:59 --> 00:43:00

problems of Riya

00:43:01 --> 00:43:03

and but the dislike does not appear in

00:43:03 --> 00:43:04

his heart

00:43:05 --> 00:43:07

because his heart has become filled.

00:43:07 --> 00:43:10

His his consciousness have become occupied,

00:43:10 --> 00:43:11

has become filled

00:43:14 --> 00:43:17

either with the fear of criticism from people

00:43:17 --> 00:43:19

or the love of prayers that one of

00:43:19 --> 00:43:22

these or both that you cut your person

00:43:23 --> 00:43:25

and then what happens is that it is

00:43:25 --> 00:43:28

that greed this yearning to be recognized become

00:43:28 --> 00:43:30

dominant in the heart. So it starts off

00:43:30 --> 00:43:32

with just this one with

00:43:32 --> 00:43:34

one thought in the mind and then it

00:43:34 --> 00:43:36

cascades towards this. So he's saying

00:43:43 --> 00:43:45

And so what happens is that

00:43:46 --> 00:43:49

the entire consciousness become filled so occupied

00:43:50 --> 00:43:52

that there's no space for any other thought.

00:44:01 --> 00:44:01

So

00:44:02 --> 00:44:04

the what it does is that

00:44:04 --> 00:44:07

it creates a a distance in the heart

00:44:07 --> 00:44:10

of all the previous knowledge that this person

00:44:10 --> 00:44:13

had about the evils of Ria and the

00:44:13 --> 00:44:15

and and the and the severe consequences that

00:44:15 --> 00:44:16

are attached to it.

00:44:25 --> 00:44:27

Because there is no place left in the

00:44:27 --> 00:44:28

heart. The

00:44:29 --> 00:44:31

entire consciousness is now occupied.

00:44:31 --> 00:44:33

Once the once it moves into the realm

00:44:33 --> 00:44:36

where the emotions are running, then the heart

00:44:36 --> 00:44:37

becomes completely

00:44:37 --> 00:44:39

overwhelmed. It takes so the there's no space

00:44:39 --> 00:44:42

in there for you to put to to

00:44:42 --> 00:44:44

bring the old information back. It does shut

00:44:44 --> 00:44:46

off. And he gives a beautiful example,

00:44:46 --> 00:44:49

of it because we we're not usually,

00:44:49 --> 00:44:52

conscious of this when it's happening with Ria,

00:44:52 --> 00:44:52

but

00:44:52 --> 00:44:53

this example

00:44:54 --> 00:44:56

shows how how it works. He says, well,

00:44:58 --> 00:45:00

he said this is like a person who

00:45:01 --> 00:45:03

is very good at

00:45:03 --> 00:45:04

he's he's he's

00:45:05 --> 00:45:06

made himself made convictions

00:45:07 --> 00:45:08

to be composed,

00:45:08 --> 00:45:10

to be for and the and the and

00:45:10 --> 00:45:11

the benefits of composure.

00:45:12 --> 00:45:16

And the and the blame worthiness of of

00:45:16 --> 00:45:20

anger. We a person who who doesn't like

00:45:20 --> 00:45:22

anger and who is very,

00:45:23 --> 00:45:24

keen to be,

00:45:24 --> 00:45:26

composed at all times.

00:45:32 --> 00:45:33

And he's and he's me he has a

00:45:33 --> 00:45:35

firm determination in his mind because he knows

00:45:35 --> 00:45:36

what terrible

00:45:37 --> 00:45:37

thing

00:45:38 --> 00:45:40

anger is and he has a firm determination

00:45:40 --> 00:45:43

in his mind that look I will be

00:45:43 --> 00:45:45

composed, I will have him, I'll have full

00:45:45 --> 00:45:46

composure

00:45:47 --> 00:45:49

at any suggestion of anger and at any

00:45:49 --> 00:45:51

point of anger that comes into me.

00:45:56 --> 00:45:58

But then he finds himself in a situation

00:45:58 --> 00:45:59

where his anger flares up.

00:46:02 --> 00:46:03

But then what happens?

00:46:04 --> 00:46:07

Once the once his his anger has progressed

00:46:07 --> 00:46:08

into the level of emotion

00:46:08 --> 00:46:11

and it's it's it's taken over then he

00:46:11 --> 00:46:14

forgets all of those discussions about

00:46:14 --> 00:46:16

him, of discussions about being composed

00:46:17 --> 00:46:18

and restraint and all the other things that

00:46:18 --> 00:46:20

he would have done. Bayan says,

00:46:21 --> 00:46:23

he forgets everything. Why I'm telling

00:46:24 --> 00:46:26

and his entire heart is all his consciousness

00:46:26 --> 00:46:28

now is full with anger.

00:46:35 --> 00:46:36

And then so it

00:46:37 --> 00:46:38

prevents him from bringing to mind

00:46:40 --> 00:46:41

the evils, the consequences

00:46:42 --> 00:46:43

of anger

00:46:46 --> 00:46:47

And so it's similarly

00:46:48 --> 00:46:49

that the sweetness

00:46:49 --> 00:46:51

of desire also can fill the heart.

00:46:55 --> 00:46:56

So the

00:46:56 --> 00:46:59

the sweetness of the desire can also fill

00:46:59 --> 00:46:59

the heart

00:47:00 --> 00:47:01

and

00:47:01 --> 00:47:05

and extinguish and remove the the light of

00:47:05 --> 00:47:07

guidance, the light of knowledge in it exactly

00:47:07 --> 00:47:10

as the bitterness of of anger does. The

00:47:10 --> 00:47:12

bitterness of anger or the

00:47:14 --> 00:47:16

both of them. The bitterness of

00:47:17 --> 00:47:17

of anger

00:47:18 --> 00:47:19

does the same thing

00:47:20 --> 00:47:21

exactly as

00:47:21 --> 00:47:23

the sweetness of desire both do the same

00:47:23 --> 00:47:24

thing.

00:47:27 --> 00:47:29

And then he gives the example of the

00:47:29 --> 00:47:30

Sahaba,

00:47:31 --> 00:47:32

that

00:47:33 --> 00:47:34

you in fear or in anger you you

00:47:34 --> 00:47:36

forget things and he gives the example of

00:47:36 --> 00:47:36

the,

00:47:37 --> 00:47:38

how we do for time. Okay.

00:47:39 --> 00:47:42

About the battle of Honayn where eventually

00:47:42 --> 00:47:43

initially the Sahabas

00:47:44 --> 00:47:47

some of them got afraid and they forgot.

00:47:47 --> 00:47:49

They forgot that they had taken an oath

00:47:49 --> 00:47:50

to defend,

00:47:50 --> 00:47:50

to

00:47:51 --> 00:47:51

to

00:47:52 --> 00:47:53

to be with the prophet

00:47:53 --> 00:47:55

and to support the prophet and to defend

00:47:55 --> 00:47:56

the prophet

00:47:57 --> 00:47:58

and to be there and and to stick

00:47:58 --> 00:47:59

with him and

00:48:00 --> 00:48:00

because

00:48:01 --> 00:48:02

of the fair it it took over them

00:48:02 --> 00:48:04

but then when people say yeah yeah, when

00:48:04 --> 00:48:07

they were reminded, when they were told, yeah,

00:48:07 --> 00:48:09

all the people of the tree, in other

00:48:09 --> 00:48:10

words the people who took the oath under

00:48:10 --> 00:48:12

the tree, then they returned.

00:48:20 --> 00:48:22

So he said that they forgot the

00:48:23 --> 00:48:24

oath that they take.

00:48:25 --> 00:48:26

When you're reminded of it so you can

00:48:26 --> 00:48:29

be reminded of it by someone else or

00:48:29 --> 00:48:31

and then it pushes it away.

00:48:35 --> 00:48:37

And the most of the desires that come

00:48:37 --> 00:48:38

suddenly

00:48:40 --> 00:48:41

does this to you.

00:48:46 --> 00:48:47

It it it what it does is it

00:48:47 --> 00:48:48

it it makes you forget

00:48:49 --> 00:48:51

your guidance that you have.

00:48:57 --> 00:48:59

If you forget the guidance that you have,

00:48:59 --> 00:49:01

the knowledge that you have about these things,

00:49:01 --> 00:49:04

then the dislike for the consequences will not

00:49:04 --> 00:49:05

appear.

00:49:08 --> 00:49:09

The the dislike

00:49:09 --> 00:49:11

the dislike the dislike is is

00:49:16 --> 00:49:16

That the

00:49:17 --> 00:49:19

dislike it comes as a result of the

00:49:19 --> 00:49:21

knowledge that you have about something.

00:49:21 --> 00:49:21

So

00:49:22 --> 00:49:24

going into all of these details that we

00:49:24 --> 00:49:25

are doing, we are talking about how bad

00:49:25 --> 00:49:28

it is, how bad Ria is, how difficult

00:49:28 --> 00:49:30

it is, how how the

00:49:30 --> 00:49:33

what level of the consequences they are. All

00:49:33 --> 00:49:36

of this should are in are in order

00:49:36 --> 00:49:39

to assist you in creating karah, in creating

00:49:39 --> 00:49:41

a virgin dislike for it. So so that

00:49:41 --> 00:49:43

you'll be able to bring to

00:49:43 --> 00:49:44

provoke that dislike

00:49:45 --> 00:49:46

at the time when it's needed. Okay.

00:49:52 --> 00:49:52

And

00:49:52 --> 00:49:55

he's describing here now a situation where sometimes

00:49:56 --> 00:49:59

a person may recognize that it is that

00:49:59 --> 00:50:01

the thought that he's just had

00:50:01 --> 00:50:03

is a thought of Riya. It's a thought

00:50:03 --> 00:50:04

of showing off.

00:50:09 --> 00:50:12

That that is then exposing him to the

00:50:12 --> 00:50:13

anger of Allah.

00:50:17 --> 00:50:19

But he continues because there is

00:50:19 --> 00:50:20

an intense

00:50:21 --> 00:50:24

desire in his mind to show. Something comes

00:50:24 --> 00:50:26

heavy. As we are saying, you know, which

00:50:26 --> 00:50:27

one is is bigger.

00:50:28 --> 00:50:31

And then his his desire then overpowers his

00:50:31 --> 00:50:32

his mind.

00:50:37 --> 00:50:39

And he's unable to

00:50:39 --> 00:50:41

leave it to to to avoid it, to

00:50:41 --> 00:50:42

avoid this joy

00:50:43 --> 00:50:45

of that situation in which he is. For

00:50:45 --> 00:50:46

your soul

00:50:47 --> 00:50:49

So then he says to himself, okay. Well,

00:50:49 --> 00:50:51

I I I will deal with it

00:50:52 --> 00:50:52

through.

00:50:53 --> 00:50:54

I will do Istilfar.

00:50:54 --> 00:50:56

And the tragedy with this is that you

00:50:56 --> 00:50:58

have no control over when you will die,

00:50:58 --> 00:51:00

whether you will live to the next moment

00:51:00 --> 00:51:02

and and miss Tawba and

00:51:03 --> 00:51:05

be able and have an opportunity

00:51:06 --> 00:51:07

to do istighfar.

00:51:07 --> 00:51:10

So when something bad is happening,

00:51:10 --> 00:51:13

you should not ever do this. And he's

00:51:13 --> 00:51:15

saying that we fall into this trap even.

00:51:21 --> 00:51:22

He he continues

00:51:22 --> 00:51:25

to dabble in this until he, because he

00:51:25 --> 00:51:26

feels that it's it's important,

00:51:29 --> 00:51:30

because of the intensity

00:51:30 --> 00:51:31

of the desire.

00:51:31 --> 00:51:32

And

00:51:32 --> 00:51:35

he's giving example of Alem, he said,

00:51:41 --> 00:51:42

They said, how many

00:51:42 --> 00:51:45

that they that words come in their mouth,

00:51:45 --> 00:51:47

they say things, and the only thing the

00:51:47 --> 00:51:49

only reason they're saying it is to impress

00:51:49 --> 00:51:52

people, is to show people how the the

00:51:52 --> 00:51:53

the their expertise.

00:51:54 --> 00:51:56

And he knows that. They know it. And

00:51:57 --> 00:51:58

this is. He said,

00:52:00 --> 00:52:01

but he continues to do it.

00:52:04 --> 00:52:05

And he does it and then the proof

00:52:05 --> 00:52:06

against him is even stronger.

00:52:13 --> 00:52:15

And he says he he accepts it because

00:52:15 --> 00:52:17

it becomes a double problem for for one

00:52:17 --> 00:52:17

who recognizes

00:52:18 --> 00:52:21

that this is a problem, that this is

00:52:21 --> 00:52:22

an

00:52:22 --> 00:52:24

one second here. That he recognizes that this

00:52:24 --> 00:52:26

is a problem, but he continues with it

00:52:26 --> 00:52:29

because so then that becomes a proof against

00:52:29 --> 00:52:29

him.

00:52:34 --> 00:52:36

So if your knowledge of something does not

00:52:36 --> 00:52:39

associate with dislike for it, then this will

00:52:39 --> 00:52:41

happen. And this is an alim, which,

00:52:41 --> 00:52:44

Imam Ghazali, alim of, of the highest caliber

00:52:44 --> 00:52:45

is speaking about.

00:52:46 --> 00:52:49

It's important here to recognize that this, yes,

00:52:49 --> 00:52:51

this can happen, but it's not for us

00:52:51 --> 00:52:53

to go around pointing things at ulama. He

00:52:53 --> 00:52:54

is an animal, and he can speak about

00:52:54 --> 00:52:56

ulama, but we should not

00:52:56 --> 00:52:58

fall into a trap of thinking that we

00:52:58 --> 00:53:00

can go around pointing to people. This is

00:53:00 --> 00:53:02

between people and and

00:53:06 --> 00:53:07

Allah. That both can can come. The knowledge

00:53:08 --> 00:53:10

and the dislike can be.

00:53:20 --> 00:53:22

But if if you have a dislike if

00:53:22 --> 00:53:24

the dislike of it, if the the dislike

00:53:25 --> 00:53:25

is weak,

00:53:26 --> 00:53:28

then the desire will overpower

00:53:34 --> 00:53:35

So then there

00:53:35 --> 00:53:37

in conclusion, he's saying that there is no

00:53:37 --> 00:53:40

benefit here except if you have all 3.

00:53:40 --> 00:53:41

So you have to have here,

00:53:43 --> 00:53:45

that you will have the

00:53:45 --> 00:53:48

the acknowledgement of it, the the dislike of

00:53:48 --> 00:53:49

it, and the rejection of it. They have

00:53:49 --> 00:53:50

to happen.

00:53:54 --> 00:53:56

So the rejection is the fruit of the

00:53:56 --> 00:53:57

dislike.

00:53:58 --> 00:53:59

Well,

00:54:00 --> 00:54:02

and and the dislike is the fruit

00:54:02 --> 00:54:04

of the acknowledgment of it, of seeing, of

00:54:04 --> 00:54:05

recognizing it.

00:54:09 --> 00:54:10

And the

00:54:11 --> 00:54:14

extent, the power of your the power of

00:54:14 --> 00:54:16

your knowledge of it, the power of recognition

00:54:16 --> 00:54:18

will be on the basis of the strength

00:54:18 --> 00:54:20

of your iman and and the and the

00:54:20 --> 00:54:21

light of your knowledge.

00:54:25 --> 00:54:28

And the weakness in it will be in

00:54:28 --> 00:54:28

accordance

00:54:29 --> 00:54:32

with your level of which is absent mindedness

00:54:33 --> 00:54:34

or or neglect.

00:54:35 --> 00:54:37

And love of the world.

00:54:38 --> 00:54:39

Forgetting

00:54:40 --> 00:54:40

about

00:54:41 --> 00:54:42

and

00:54:44 --> 00:54:44

the

00:54:45 --> 00:54:48

poverty of or the the the death of

00:54:48 --> 00:54:49

thinking of thinking

00:54:50 --> 00:54:51

what Allah has and

00:54:53 --> 00:54:54

and the shortage of pondering

00:54:56 --> 00:54:57

and the the uh-uh.

00:55:00 --> 00:55:01

To

00:55:01 --> 00:55:02

the

00:55:02 --> 00:55:06

shortage of pondering. We're we're not we're spending

00:55:07 --> 00:55:08

in terms of time,

00:55:08 --> 00:55:10

we spend very little time pondering on the

00:55:10 --> 00:55:12

on the on the difficulties, on on the

00:55:12 --> 00:55:13

tragedies that are associated

00:55:14 --> 00:55:16

with going after dunya and and and the

00:55:16 --> 00:55:18

greatness of the akhirah, how insignificant

00:55:19 --> 00:55:20

the world of

00:55:21 --> 00:55:23

the nayim, the favors, the bounties of this

00:55:23 --> 00:55:26

world compared to the akhirah. We're selling we're

00:55:26 --> 00:55:27

selling something that is

00:55:28 --> 00:55:29

insignificant.

00:55:30 --> 00:55:32

We're selling so we are selling the akhirah,

00:55:32 --> 00:55:35

which is, or or the dunya we are

00:55:35 --> 00:55:37

using we're trying to acquire the dunya, which

00:55:37 --> 00:55:40

is insignificant compared to the akhirah. It is

00:55:40 --> 00:55:42

as it's as one drop in an ocean.

00:55:45 --> 00:55:46

Love of the dunya

00:55:47 --> 00:55:47

is

00:55:48 --> 00:55:50

the door. It is it is the basis

00:55:50 --> 00:55:51

of all sins.

00:55:52 --> 00:55:53

Remember

00:55:54 --> 00:55:57

the source through which all towards all mistakes

00:55:57 --> 00:55:58

happen.

00:56:04 --> 00:56:06

So the love, the sweetness of loving of

00:56:06 --> 00:56:08

the world and loving of position and loving

00:56:08 --> 00:56:09

of

00:56:10 --> 00:56:11

the trinkets of this world, this is the

00:56:11 --> 00:56:13

thing that floods the heart.

00:56:19 --> 00:56:21

This is the thing that that that comes

00:56:21 --> 00:56:22

between

00:56:22 --> 00:56:24

that hinders it becomes a hindrance between you

00:56:24 --> 00:56:25

and the ability

00:56:26 --> 00:56:27

to think about consequences.

00:56:34 --> 00:56:36

And it also comes as a hindrance

00:56:36 --> 00:56:37

in

00:56:38 --> 00:56:40

stopping you from benefiting from from from the

00:56:40 --> 00:56:43

Quran and the sunnah and and and the

00:56:43 --> 00:56:45

benefits, the things that are that are available

00:56:45 --> 00:56:47

for you. So he's saying

00:56:47 --> 00:56:48

it okay. We're

00:56:48 --> 00:56:49

out of time.

00:56:51 --> 00:56:52

Okay.

00:56:58 --> 00:57:00

Now what about the person

00:57:00 --> 00:57:01

who

00:57:01 --> 00:57:03

finds Riya in his heart, but then he

00:57:03 --> 00:57:05

manages to deal with it, he pushes it

00:57:05 --> 00:57:05

away,

00:57:06 --> 00:57:08

his his dislike is fine, he and he

00:57:08 --> 00:57:09

rejects it, but

00:57:16 --> 00:57:18

that he finds that look, there's still some

00:57:18 --> 00:57:20

love in his heart for show. He wants

00:57:20 --> 00:57:22

to show, but he's managed to reject

00:57:25 --> 00:57:27

it. That he he knows that he

00:57:28 --> 00:57:30

that this is in his heart but and

00:57:30 --> 00:57:31

he dislikes it but

00:57:32 --> 00:57:33

is such a person

00:57:35 --> 00:57:37

that would such a person be also a,

00:57:38 --> 00:57:39

be in the category

00:57:40 --> 00:57:41

of the show offs

00:57:42 --> 00:57:43

the person with ria

00:57:44 --> 00:57:45

and he answers this he says

00:57:50 --> 00:57:51

that Allah does not give you more than

00:57:51 --> 00:57:52

you can manage

00:57:57 --> 00:57:57

That

00:57:58 --> 00:58:00

the the person, the human beings do not

00:58:00 --> 00:58:02

have the ability to stop shaitan from

00:58:02 --> 00:58:04

temptations and from suggestions.

00:58:05 --> 00:58:08

And we're not here to fight the our

00:58:08 --> 00:58:08

nature.

00:58:25 --> 00:58:26

It's

00:58:28 --> 00:58:29

the point here, the effort,

00:58:30 --> 00:58:32

what is intended here is that you have

00:58:32 --> 00:58:32

to

00:58:33 --> 00:58:36

face whenever whenever something comes in your heart

00:58:36 --> 00:58:37

that is pulling you in the direction of

00:58:37 --> 00:58:39

Riya that you have to challenge it with

00:58:39 --> 00:58:41

an aversion, with with a dislike, with a

00:58:41 --> 00:58:44

dislike in your heart based on your knowledge

00:58:44 --> 00:58:46

of the consequences of these things and that's

00:58:46 --> 00:58:48

what's necessary and then.

00:58:50 --> 00:58:50

Okay,

00:58:52 --> 00:58:53

right

00:58:54 --> 00:58:55

One last

00:58:55 --> 00:58:57

thing. In conclusion he says,

00:59:06 --> 00:59:06

That the

00:59:08 --> 00:59:11

the whisperings and the suggestions of Shaitan, the

00:59:11 --> 00:59:13

temptations of Shaitan

00:59:13 --> 00:59:15

and the inclinations of the nafs, the inclinations

00:59:16 --> 00:59:16

of the desire

00:59:17 --> 00:59:20

will not harm you as long as you

00:59:20 --> 00:59:21

set yourself

00:59:21 --> 00:59:23

as you as you are able

00:59:23 --> 00:59:24

to repel

00:59:25 --> 00:59:27

repel these things, these the,

00:59:30 --> 00:59:30

you you,

00:59:31 --> 00:59:34

repelled their motivations or the cascade stopping the

00:59:34 --> 00:59:35

cascade

00:59:37 --> 00:59:38

with rejection

00:59:38 --> 00:59:40

and aversion, with rejection and and dislike for

00:59:40 --> 00:59:41

it

00:59:55 --> 00:59:56

And the thoughts

00:59:57 --> 00:59:57

that

00:59:58 --> 00:59:59

are of

01:00:00 --> 01:00:01

information,

01:00:01 --> 01:00:03

thoughts that these these thoughts on the mind

01:00:03 --> 01:00:05

that are these thoughts that come in the

01:00:05 --> 01:00:06

form

01:00:06 --> 01:00:06

of

01:00:07 --> 01:00:08

knowledge, of information,

01:00:09 --> 01:00:13

of tadaqurad, of memory, of tahayulad, of simulations

01:00:13 --> 01:00:16

and images in your mind, all of this.

01:00:17 --> 01:00:18

These are all

01:00:18 --> 01:00:19

means through

01:00:19 --> 01:00:20

which shaitan

01:00:21 --> 01:00:23

use these are these are means that shaitan

01:00:23 --> 01:00:24

uses

01:00:24 --> 01:00:27

to inspire, to to instigate in you

01:00:27 --> 01:00:28

But

01:00:32 --> 01:00:34

the inclination and all the other aspects that

01:00:34 --> 01:00:35

follow are from your.

01:00:37 --> 01:00:39

So if you have an inclination towards these

01:00:39 --> 01:00:41

things, then that's you.

01:00:41 --> 01:00:43

That is you. That is your so if

01:00:43 --> 01:00:45

you cut it off there before it can

01:00:45 --> 01:00:47

develop into karah, then and the way to

01:00:47 --> 01:00:48

cut it off is

01:00:48 --> 01:00:51

the the turangba, this intention, the this inclination,

01:00:51 --> 01:00:52

the way to cut off the inclination

01:00:53 --> 01:00:54

is to meet it

01:00:54 --> 01:00:56

with is to meet it

01:00:56 --> 01:00:59

with aversion, with dislike. So he said, well

01:01:00 --> 01:01:01

so

01:01:02 --> 01:01:02

the simulations

01:01:03 --> 01:01:05

and the memories and and the and the

01:01:05 --> 01:01:07

information is from shaitan for riya and he

01:01:07 --> 01:01:10

said the dislike is from Iman, I mean,

01:01:10 --> 01:01:11

third al Aqal which comes through

01:01:12 --> 01:01:13

a pondering and

01:01:14 --> 01:01:17

and, willful actual willful thinking against it. This

01:01:17 --> 01:01:18

is how you will develop.

01:01:19 --> 01:01:22

Is to spend your time not not not

01:01:22 --> 01:01:24

being pulled in the direction and allow it

01:01:24 --> 01:01:26

to flow and allow the cascades to go

01:01:26 --> 01:01:27

through.

01:01:28 --> 01:01:30

Okay. I think that's enough for tonight. InshaAllah,

01:01:31 --> 01:01:32

we will continue,

01:01:33 --> 01:01:34

next week.

01:01:41 --> 01:01:43

So to come back now to what I

01:01:43 --> 01:01:45

said in in the beginning about moments with

01:01:45 --> 01:01:46

Allah

01:01:46 --> 01:01:49

and the stronger and deeper these moments are

01:01:49 --> 01:01:50

is the better you will be equipped

01:01:51 --> 01:01:54

to deal with these mental traps of shaitan.

01:01:54 --> 01:01:56

And for this, I want you to keep,

01:01:58 --> 01:01:59

these three

01:02:00 --> 01:02:01

reported statements from the prophet

01:02:02 --> 01:02:04

in your mind. The first is that,

01:02:04 --> 01:02:05

Rasulullah sallallahu

01:02:06 --> 01:02:07

alaihi

01:02:09 --> 01:02:09

wa

01:02:11 --> 01:02:12

sallam

01:02:14 --> 01:02:14

said

01:02:17 --> 01:02:18

For your Lord

01:02:18 --> 01:02:20

days and in your time that days are

01:02:20 --> 01:02:23

moments in your time are blissful moments

01:02:23 --> 01:02:25

so engross yourself in them these blissful moments

01:02:25 --> 01:02:28

these are these are moments of mercy

01:02:28 --> 01:02:31

so you may find one that one moment

01:02:31 --> 01:02:34

and then that could become your your source

01:02:34 --> 01:02:35

of salvation for the rest of your life.

01:02:36 --> 01:02:38

You need to cherish these moments of dua

01:02:38 --> 01:02:40

moments of dikr moments of praying at night

01:02:40 --> 01:02:43

and apart from this the special affordances that

01:02:43 --> 01:02:45

Allah give you we have

01:02:45 --> 01:02:47

from time to time every day you can

01:02:47 --> 01:02:50

when whenever you find your heart focusing on

01:02:50 --> 01:02:53

Allah these are special moments that should be

01:02:55 --> 01:02:55

cherished.

01:02:56 --> 01:02:58

But then there's the other special moments that

01:02:58 --> 01:03:00

we know about like dua of

01:03:01 --> 01:03:04

on the day of Arafa, dua in the

01:03:04 --> 01:03:05

last

01:03:06 --> 01:03:07

moments of the the last 3rd of the

01:03:07 --> 01:03:10

night and dua of Yomul Jummah, dua of

01:03:11 --> 01:03:13

in Sujood, dua when traveling.

01:03:14 --> 01:03:16

So to keep all of these and whatever

01:03:16 --> 01:03:18

you're given to know that the look. There

01:03:18 --> 01:03:20

there are there are moments that come where

01:03:20 --> 01:03:21

Allah

01:03:22 --> 01:03:22

will

01:03:23 --> 01:03:25

give you Allah is it's possible that you

01:03:25 --> 01:03:26

made that that moment that you might think

01:03:26 --> 01:03:27

is insignificant.

01:03:28 --> 01:03:29

If it comes with sincerity

01:03:30 --> 01:03:31

then that is something

01:03:31 --> 01:03:32

to value,

01:03:32 --> 01:03:34

to give, to cherish.

01:03:34 --> 01:03:35

The second hadith

01:03:36 --> 01:03:39

relates to the recognizing that angels and shaitans

01:03:40 --> 01:03:42

both have moments in which they affect you

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through subtle influencing.

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Surah Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

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said

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that shaitan

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has

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a that Shaitan has an effect that has

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an effect on you and and the angel

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also has an influence. Both has an influence.

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He comes and gives you promises you with

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evil word

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guide you to evil and cause you to

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reject stuff.

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The

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reject the the truth.

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The

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influence that comes from the angel

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is the promise of good

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and confirmation of the truth.

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So if you find that you are having

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good thoughts and things are coming in your

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mind to be good, to do good, to

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to seek, to do things with sincerity,

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then you should know it is from Allah

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and you should thank Allah.

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Then the one who refines the other, the

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one that called you to do bad things,

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that called you to show, called you to

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do all these things, then

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then he should seek the he should seek

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protection in Allah from Shaitan. He should say

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because he he scares you, he warns you

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of

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poverty and he orders you to do unseemly

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things. So

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so the third the third hadith

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is

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said

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that do not

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make bad dua. Do not curse do not

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call

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call for the curses on yourself or on

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your children

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because and and the reason he's saying

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Because it may be in 24 hours every

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day there there are periods when Allah accepts

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dua. These are moments of acceptance.

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These are moments of where

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in in when,

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Allah accepts your dua and you don't want

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to regret making a dua, but then Allah

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accepts and then tragedy comes. So these,

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hadith that all three of them are

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to remind you that the that these moments

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you should seek and when they happen, cherish

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them and value them

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and seek to increase their frequency.

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Standing at night in prayer, dikr,

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dua. Dua is a powerful thing inshallah we'll

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talk more about dua. Now let now let

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us pray inshallah

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it's time is up okay.

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Allah, oh Allah, forgive us. Oh Allah, accept

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us and protect us from the traps of

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Shaitan.

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Oh Allah, strengthen us. Strengthen us the aversion

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to Riya.

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Oh Allah, strengthen our hearts and give us

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the power to repel it. Oh Allah give

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us give us rejection of this of this

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tragedy that it's that can destroy our actions.

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Oh Allah bless us and help us help

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us we have no other one to turn

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to you our Lord.

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You Allah we are your creatures and we

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have no other to turn to. Oh Allah

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help us and open

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the path towards eternal bliss.

01:08:04 --> 01:08:05

Allah

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The brothers in the room, who is managing

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that today in the class?

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Do we know? I'm I'm managing it. Oh,

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you're managing the class. Okay. Alright.

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Yeah.

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We've gone over time. I was hoping that

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that I could talk to you a bit

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more about,

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the the brain and, those experiments, but, another

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time,

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because it's it's interesting,

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for several reasons,

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because we're going to go back to that

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later on in the course.

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But,

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yeah, if you

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put together your your questions, and we will

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deal with them later

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on.

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