Walking with the Prophet PBUH #30 Aisha’s wedding

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smilla hamdulillah salat wa salam as we

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said Mr. de como from of late Allah, what are

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the brothers and sisters?

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This is reality zazzy we're coming into another episode of walking with the Prophet Mohammed Salah Larsson upon the footsteps of Prophet Mohammed Salah it was in

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this series which, in fact yesterday we had an amazing, amazing handle that time spending with the Prophet because we were invited to eat with the Prophet as a sinner. So I've been saying that this said, I've been saying that this, this series, it's not just see that and I proved it to you didn't I, all of you out there, those of you on Facebook, and those of you in Instagram, I proved it, it's not just seen, I did not just narrate, you know, the incidents that happened at the time of the Prophet. So I started talking about the man himself, you know, spending a day like walking with Him. Right? It is something set up. So yesterday when we you know, you know, like, like, last week when

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we talked about, you know, when Prophet Mohammed Wait, you know, wakes up? What does he do first, and then go into the misogyny and it's all said, I'm entering the middle aged, praying fragile. And then after praying for what does he do, you know, no, asking the Sahaba about their dreams,

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looking around and seeing who has missed the funnel.

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And then he stays there until about sunrise, you know, that he goes through his, you know, Holmes visiting his wives, maybe eating breakfast with them, and then coming back to the budget around, you know, midday, where he, you know, gives his

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or he lunches his Bs, that month last time, you know, this is where, you know, this is the scoring time this happens right at that very particular time around, you know, midday, where he comes in then teaches the Sahaba right, teaches the Sahaba the majority of that Hadith, by the way, they were you know, important during that time in that measureless in that gathering, and then after that Prophet Mohammed will stand up and then leave Where does he go? He goes to the markets, what does he do in the markets we talked about him? I didn't stop to set up greeting people smiling at them, you know, helping them assisting them maybe tasting their food those are them are cooking. Yeah, and

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he's busy schedule doing things. So sit down, and then yesterday we talked about him praying and after praying though, he goes to have something to eat his lunch and after he has his lunch right he has his a Luna you know the Pyro did not delay Lula

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not the

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not delay Lula the chi Lula I utilize a short nap, you know, like the power nap. It can sit on the couch. So now I can also read people on Facebook article Mr. Lamb All right, I can read people on Facebook as well. So

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so I was saying, you know, he has his lunch and then he has these short power nap. And then he comes back you know, except for hustle. Sisters. We talked about his diet yesterday. Right? We talked about the profits night if remember we talked about his breakfast? Who remembers what does he have for breakfast?

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brothers and sisters? Who remembers what the prophet has for breakfast? I mentioned that yesterday. Yellow Facebook yellow Instagram.

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Yellow. Why do you consider

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what does Prophet Mohammed has worked for breakfast?

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Come on.

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Honey with water mesh Allah hediki hanun that means that's like, that's must be German. Not German. That must be Dutch. My favorite car.

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Okay, all right. Yeah, they milk oats.

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No, he has that honey honey with water. When he takes the water. honey water. Exactly. It takes the water that mix it up with honey right they mix it up with honey it goes to them and then he drinks it and then after that he drinks seven he eats seven days. You know he is the seven days Salalah had him send him back for lunch yes mean lunch is that bread with apple vinegar and olive oil. Now when he talks about lunch you know had that dream that you know this is the time the noon time after his daughter. He has his

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the the Z tone you know olive oil and and

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and the olive oil and

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not that bread the the barley bread Barley Barley bread not not not the white not brown lead but is the barley bread the properties to like shade, shade bread, you know barley bread, and then he will dip it in apple vinegar, someone like you said, you know he will eat that, you know sometimes oftentimes for lunch, and if somebody brings them some food, like sometimes you know

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Maybe neighbors will maybe people would bring them some meat and the Prophet Mohammed used to like the cat if he has to like the shoulder from all the meats, you select the shoulder, someone Allahu Allah, He will send them and with regard to his dinner, his dinner is mostly 1111 with the with the you know, the the milk or bottle milk with, again, a piece of barley, barley, barley bread,

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the barkly perfectly. The barley bread, not varki the barley bread, you know, and, and milk, some of buttermilk, some of it who seldom he used to also things that he used to like from the meat. This is just recapitulating what we talked about yesterday for those of you have missed it, he used to eat or he used to like, you know, in terms of me, he used to like

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the goat meat or lamb meat means lamb cattle, right? So he used to like random

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people based on their Subhanallah

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their culture, you know, there's some people who like goat like the Indians Pakistanis, you know, they like goat bottoms they like lamb, you know,

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they call it in India or Pakistan, mutton mutton mutton. Muto in French is Moodle. So they call it mutton right. So the property is to like

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land lamb meat and from the lamb used to like educating the shoulder and then he also Yes, he used to laugh but they still alive in him and we're talking about one thing at a time so we're talking about now in terms of meat, he was a vegetarian. No, he was not vegetarian. Some of them he was not vegetarian more vegan out of his soul that's what sent him no he was not vegan nor vegetarian he used to eat meat some of the law and he was selling them right he used to eat meat and chicken and he used to also like semuc used to like fish he used to like the common meat he used to like you know, chicken as well you know the the the the white meat of it he used to like

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the means

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is the rabbits meat rabbits

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rabbits as well he has to like that's the lesson we used to like a deed of the deed is the the the meat that the the the dry meat they put it in in salt and then let it you know in the sun to dry for some time and then it becomes kind of like dry meat he has to like that someone behind him said he used to like also the lever he used to like the he used to like the lever goat lever or them lever I don't know some people don't like that but I like it I love it it's a sweet you know lever do people like liver

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guys brothers and sisters do you like the liver and COVID It's a Sunday by the way in read in eighth when you slaughter you know people who slaughter indeed the first the Prophet Mohammed used to eat for breakfast in read is the is the

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deliver he would he would sell the lard he was selling he would

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not fry it. like kind of like barbecue it right and then he would eat it somehow and he would send them right you know that liver I love liver you know it's it's filled with with with the protein. It's love protein, right?

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Hello, hello. Okay, metaphor, a metaphor for a CIO and the teddy bear as I mentioned Teddy Teddy is you know that dry bread. So when you have this dry bread and then he would put sauce and lentil and whatnot on top. So he used to like eat a lot and he said no.

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He used to like Zeke, you know Zeke means zeta you know like an olive oil oil.

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He used to like

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you know, vinegar, he used to like barley bread, he used to like cheese sallallahu Sallam from visual from the fruits he used to like us but as I mentioned yesterday, the watermelon and also the honey do we talked about in all quanta loop yesterday the quantum of is actually the orange melon.

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The orange melon but the the type of men and Prophet Mohammed used to like is the red one which is the watermelon and the yellow one which is the we call it in Canada honey do right. I don't know what she does caught it in your head but the honeydew so he used to like that size and he used to like a punk granite and ramen. Ramen. He used to like pomegranates on the Lotus and he used to like andrina he used to like grapes.

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He used to like grapes and he used to like

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raisins as well raisins some of the learning system and he used to like dates specially the actual dates or wrote up it's another type of dates which is you know the the big ones that get dry you know in the beginning but then you know the some of them they freeze them and then after some time they become really soft very very sweet and mopub and alesund Honey Honey Honey Baba who Allah honey honey he used to love honey song a lot and you send them and he has to also like a headlock sweet he had the sweet tooth some of the letters in him used to like you know what you know something sweet he used to like from the from vegetables used to like zucchini or pumpkin or or or cucumber as well

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used to like cucumber some very seldom

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sometimes you would eat watermelon with bread or baits with bread as well some of them so these are some of the things that Prophet Mohammed used to like to eat some love love when you send him things that he did not like to eat things that he did not like to eat we did not talk about this yesterday things that he did not like to eat are things such as locust what's locus of salad you know that that that that is quite you know that thing that flies you know that you know I used to I used to get scared of them when I was when I was a kid so Panama these to scare me. I was I used to get so scared of locusts Yeah, so the Prophet they some people will eat them. There's some people who eat

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those locusts, right they eat them Subhanallah they fry them you know and then they eat them or they roast them and they eat them. Amen. After I see what people in China eat everything is possible

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everything is possible after I seen what people in here here here you all know that town in in China what people eat house you tell me you can eat this I say it's obscene worst. Whatever you eat I have seen worse you know so that how to end up with a level of him You know? So

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he did not like eating gelato he did not like eating locusts. He did not like eating lizard. Yeah, it's like crickets Yeah. Crickets crickets you know the crickets but I did not want to say crickets because it's a it's a it's a

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fairly it's a sport belongs to my brothers and sisters from India Pakistan right and and Australia and South Africa. So you know when I say crickets I said you know Lucas but yeah, it is barbecue crickets.

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Barbecue crickets you know, so probably Mohammed he did not like eating crickets. He did not like eating

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you know that lizard although although Halliwell it had been worried one day he came you know with the you know he had it you know whatever roasted you know that lizard and Prophet Mohammed he says no, I don't want he says Yes. Why is it Haram is it haram? He said no, it's not haram it is just my my enough's does not want it I don't feel attracted you know towards this food I don't want to eat it and then hadn't read ate it in the that loser there's something really today in our Peninsula in Saudi Arabia and Qatar in Kuwait. They have these things in the desert right? They hunt them and then they eat them you know it's a culture again you know that people who eat in Morocco we love

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eating for instance when we slaughter the the lamb for eat you know, we use the we we eat everything

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we have everything we know the guts No, we love them. I love the guy you know the the Masada and you know the interest indistinct indistinct of the of the of the them we cook them in a very beautiful way very very nice way right? The eyes Oh, we used to fight we used to fight you know brothers in a way at home you know who's gonna eat the ears and who's gonna eat the eye? And who's gonna eat the brain? And my kids when they say the brain say oh brain Ooh, we love brains. The brain This is why we have you know we have no brain because we all the brains.

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We have we eat brain but we have no brain. So yes, we embrace it. The Culture The people in India I don't know what the people in China. You know, you've seen it all. So people have different cultures eating different things. So Pamela, right.

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I don't know. He did not like eating the raw

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garlic and raw

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onions. Some of the lowest and he did not like eating that. Yeah, they were cooked. Okay.

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But if they were wrong they would he would not eat them

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we eat his own yeah we need to wait I wait I told you eat everything yeah and in the skin this lamb The only thing that that comes out is the the bones colors other than the bones everything is eaten some hanaway and oh it everything the bones it's gonna rain even the feet man

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even the feet right we put them in a very nice but not for them for the cows we have the cows you know the cows feet, they're really fatty but you know that we have a very beautiful patch in a very, very beautiful position. You know, the, the, the you know the the the feet of the of the of the but not the lamb I would say but it's mostly for the you know for the cows because you know, they're they're big at any race and so these are some of the things that Prophet Mohammed II know he used to like eating some of my brothers and sisters today. We are invited

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rose levy Come on, you don't like

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okay, but as the sisters,

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gelatine Yes, it is good. That's good. So it depends on the culture again. So today brothers and sisters will will be invited. Do you know where because we are with the Prophet now is the second year of the law.

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He migrated to Medina but he still single

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Prophet Mohammed is still single. After Khadija passed away, he refused to get married.

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So he traveled migrated to Medina he still single two years, two years in Medina has not been married someone lover and he said.

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So today, we are invited. Were wedding prophets wedding Salalah honey was sending them body time but Hello, party time, we are invited to the wedding of Rasul Allah and Aisha Are you brothers ready? sisters? Are you ready? I'm taking you to the waiting room hospital. Today we're going to go and meet with silver muscle or slim going, you know, and Mary and I shot but before reading I shot there's some amazing things that will happen and we will derive lessons from them. Remember when I told you the series is called walking with the prophet or upon the footsteps of the Prophet so it's not just see that it see that and beyond brothers and sisters. So today inshallah Tada. We are

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invited to the waiting for the law. Here is my invitation to all of you, Sister Fatima and brother Kenny. This just joined us my son My sister funny my okay. May Allah give you Shiva. Brothers and sisters, please make dua for her. She is in the hospital. She is in the hospital just yesterday. They took her to the hospital. May Allah give her she fat, she was not able to breed. She was not able to breathe and she's the funding How you doing? I called brother Kenny today. I called him today and I asked him about you. He says the hamdulillah you're able to breathe now you're, you're out of the ventilator. So how are you doing? Sister Fatima? I'm so happy to see you. I hope you are.

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You know, it's you know, brother Kareem. I don't know who sorry. Is this sister Fatima?

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Sister Fatima? Are you okay?

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Are you there? You just came out? Are you okay? Because she was still in the hospital when I called her husband. And there she was not to be released today. So, so I'm just asking you know,

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Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah so are you are you back home sister Fatima you're back home? Or you're still at the hospital?

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Are you at home? Did they let you go? Everybody's making the app for you. You know

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Are you being released from the hospital? No me let me bring you here Come on.

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Am I talking? Let me bring you life

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Can you can you accept my invitation?

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Since the Fatima Can you accept the invitation inshallah please I was just asking about you making sure that you okay

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maybe she's not able to talk but we're just praying that you're all you know you're finding shallow Thailand and praying that you will go back home soon inshallah to your family in sha Allah. Okay, okay. Okay, but but you're typing so you're out here Good. Okay, love and loving man. inshallah Allah will give you she found me a lot make it an expiation to all your sins inshallah to Allah. May Allah bless you and return you home sound and safe to your family and to your loved ones that inshallah alright brothers and sisters

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As I said, Today we are invited to a special wedding what kind of wedding? It is the wedding of the of the Prophet Mohammed Salalah while he was sending him with Ayesha, so what happened? sisters and brothers Hola. Hola be to have been to okay. She is the wife of Earth man abunimah balloon. There is a Sahabi Jesus I habia the wife of mine alone. You know how that she came to the Prophet Mohammed as I said me? She says yes, Allah. Allah says, I wish I Why don't you get married?

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And he kept quiet every time somebody asked me about marriage he thinks of Khadija about the law. Right? Every time somebody asks him you know about marriage, he thinks about Khadija the love of his life. Salalah while he was in school, it was him. So he kept quiet. And then he says, Well Help me Help me. Help. will help me. I mean, I have Is there anyone after Khadija who's going to be after Khadija? There is no enough to Khadija isn't it? I mean, I had Nan Nam she says how she says yes, there is a woman who is way too young.

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And who's gonna look for the you know, for the home and for your kids. Fatima she's still a kid at the time. Right? So who's going to look after the kids jasola

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now there is somebody out there Khadija.

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Then lasala says then men who who then Howard as she says if you want version

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because when cheater forgiven if you want her to be version, yeah, and a young girl who has not been married or a non version. I need somebody who's been married before maybe the horsey or maybe a widow right? So what do you want the other Soma in cheater beacon? What did she tell you even if you wish version or if you wish, you know for you

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widow or or or divorcing?

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pot up. Then Parliament Athenian mean a theme from those who's not version so that because he married some of that, you know, bit to Zuma. And so there she was like 80 years old. And this is a this is a this is an answer to those who say, you know prophet of Islam, you know, chauvinist is after women his this and that he keeps marrying marrying this woman. There's no pleasure after you know, this woman marrying this was what kind of pleasure she is eight years old. She lost her husband. She just wants to she's just want somebody to you know, to embrace her. And that's what the prophet sallallaahu Selim she even used to give up her night for Asia many times she did that.

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She's old. So from a failure is Ayesha woman has become and she says woman has become I mean mean a failure.

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I mean a theme. So that would mean that Victoria Isha. will mean they'll be Cree insha Allah Azza wa rahmatullahi Ayesha been to a habanero lake and from diversions hi Isha the daughter of the most beloved men to you. Yeah, Annie. She means Abubakar.

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So the Prophet is listening now. He has the choice okay for you is so that he married and then from the versions? She says Ayesha, the daughter of the most beloved meant to you and she was seven.

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Here's another thing seven yes seven. And I would explain I will explain today I would explain about people saying how can he marry a girl like like a child? How can you marry a child what we're talking about that does work and

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then Then he told her it how he was going to eat at home. He says go and I mentioned me to them mentioned me to them. See what if they like to accept me you know as as a husband, so she ran and she she ran the habit elaborate Amoeba she ran to the house of Abu Bakar who held up so how there is like the hot Baba in Arabic we say the Baba is the one that you know that that that that the matchmaker right the matchmaker, what did you call that in order to do in Arabic we say Baba you know she makes about Hitman.

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Hitman from my father, you know between men and a woman or a matchmaker in although you have this type of people, of course women, you know, what do you call them?

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At data? What do you call them?

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I don't know.

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You call them Mary gem.

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You call them?

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Moshe. Moshe moesha moesha moesha moesha

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moesha this time

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Okay, this time when he until which time it is stay on motion. Okay, cool. All right.

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I'm no,

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no, I'm just trying to pronounce what I can read right there. Right, Misha, and they stay the old NZ. Okay, cool. All right. So it's hot Baba in Arabic. Right. So

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what's her name? Hola. She ran to the house of aboubaker. And she says to absolutely, absolutely, you know, she was that he was there and I showed this to the kid, seven years old. Actually behind the

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behind the glad tidings to the, you know, with the happiest day you've ever seen. He's just talking to Abu Bakar. And he's an older man and woman. She is the wife of Abu Bakar. Her name is mortal man, the mother of atisha. mortal man, she said glad tidings to you got any? This is the best day you've ever seen. What about civil law?

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about civil law? I've said and he sent me to ask for I shook his hand.

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He asked me to he sent me to ask for I should have. So Oh man. He says, well, let's wait for abubaker that's wait for workers to come. So when our backup came?

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When the Prophet Mohammed came? I mean, she could have said What do you mean? Wait, he's lost all of this is the perfect? We don't wait. You don't have to think this is no brainer. You cannot think this is Prophet Mohammed. How can it's a privilege? It's an honor to marry the Prophet. What do you mean wait for your husband? Well, no, we don't wait. But they say that. She's that switchfoot abubaker. When abubaker came or the Allahu Akbar.

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She told him that Prophet Mohammed has sent me to ask for his hand. So Abubakar said what Wait, wait for what

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somebody else has asked for hashes and

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there's love of things like this happening between Muslims today.

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I have a show was seven years old, but the marriage was consummated when she was nine and I will explain inshallah who died. I will explain.

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aboubaker said Wait, Wait for what? Somebody else. Prior over the sola has asked for the hashes and

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I have to check with him first.

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What's his name?

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Joe Bailey.

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And he wasn't even a Muslim then.

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He wasn't even a Muslim.

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Prophet Mohammed was 45 years old.

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He was 45. I decided to set up

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he said job at no time, has asked for his hand, but he was not a Muslim. So I went back Went, went to their home.

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Right. I would explain I would explain what happened with Prophet Mohammed and Isaiah. That would explain was it was it was it divine? Was it a message was it this I will talk about all this if you only give me a chance? laid out hold your hold your camels.

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Guys while you're holding your hold your elephants,

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hold your donkeys?

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Hold it, hold it. just just just just give me give me an ear inshallah. I'm coming. And I'm coming. Huh? So I went back and said hello to no set weight. So he went to the home he went to.

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He went to you know, his home who was not a Muslim and he asked, you know,

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his mother.

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Are you still wanting to marry our daughter?

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The mom said, Do you want our son to marry somebody who has left our religion?

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Okay. Do you want our son to marry

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somebody who has left our religion?

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So abubaker

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turned to

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debate and he told him what I mean. He says, What do you say?

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What do you say? He says, I say what my mother says.

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And the HIPAA was broken

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because there was hit by before.

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There was a nice day before

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Right, there was reshade before there was more shot before.

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There was reshade. Before there was a shot before there was there was Hitler before. So he had to go and confirm, do you guys still want to marry our daughter? So the mom says, How can we have our son marry somebody who has left our religion? And then he turned to the, to the, to the to the, to the guy and he says, What do you say? He says, I say what my mother says, I follow up, my mother says, prophet in Abu Bakr, he did not want to confirm with the Prophet Mohammed until he confirms, you know, the, the Messiah, or the rich, or the rich,

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or the rich now, whatever he has to confirm that first. So a mistake, which lots of Muslims do nowadays. A sister, she is being interrupted by someone who came to propose to her right, and they are in the midst of talking, and then somebody else's comes in? No, no, no, no, no, no. My options, I have my option A, option B, option C, sr, you know, you want everything.

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go fix your things with that guy. If it does not work, then move to the second guy. And the man if he knows he should not come to propose to you anyways. Because the Prophet Mohammed said that it sounds to them. There is no hit back on the back of your brother on top of your brother, if your brother has made has come has approached someone for and I stayed or the staff or Photoshop or from you know, HIPAA, right? know if he knows how as I cannot go and ask for that in the hands of that same person. I have to wait

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to see if that thing works between them too. And hamdulillah fine. If it does not work if they break off the hip, but then I can go and propose. You see a lot of Muslims, they make this mistake.

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Somebody comes here, somebody comes here, somebody comes here assistant who's talking to right and right and center. If it's serious, though, if it's not serious, he did not put you know, officially propose. He just thought of proposing Alright, I'm talking about everything here now. Right? let's say somebody who is not seriously just thinking about it, to propose he has not officially proposed Okay, you can accept proposals.

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But once it becomes official, they come with the parents and they say we want the bar.

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We want the daughter for our son so it becomes official. Somebody else cannot come islamically somebody else has to stay back until this thing proceeds

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if it moves on and succeeds the hamdulillah if not, why should I be fighting you and me and my brother to marry that? No, just that one girl. They go find somebody else. Market is big. Mashallah. Go and find somebody else. You just want that particular girl man. You just want that girl You want more? Nisa, you just want carry him out. You just want de la just only one day that there's only one note and he said there's only I know maybe there's only one more Nissan one Kareem and one, Laila and one Noel. Yes, there's only one. But if you wait until you see how it goes for them, and then if it does not work, then you can come in, then you can come in, but don't wait for somebody else is

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already asking for them. And then you come at the top and that becomes a yellow who has more who's gonna just like a merchandise in the auction. I gave 1000

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to 2000 2000 3000 3004 4000

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Okay, now you can have her you can have her anok and I'll pay more than you can have her. Alright 51253. So

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that's not how it works.

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That's not how it works, that

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we know for sure man. Let me know for sure. So, I will back up. Once he heard from the guy he says I follow up my mother says then he says okay.

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Then he goes to how law and he told her go to law school of law and tell him that you know he can come tell him to come.

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Come to

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Let me give you an evidence that in the culture at the time

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Girls used to get married when they were young.

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It is not just Prophet Mohammed and Aisha just so you know. No, it's not just Prophet Mohammed in Asia.

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In fact, there were so many other girls like hafsa. hausa, the daughter, the, the, the, the, the daughter, I mean, the Dalai Lama, the Dalai Lama, and the wife of Rasulullah. She married before she was married. She was 12 years old. She was 12 years old, I will never need. There's always that she was married before the Prophet Mohammed Oh, seven, she was 12. Other than Hamza hafsa. Let's talk about, let's talk about

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let's talk about,

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let's talk about Sophia. Let's talk about Sophia who's Sophia Sophia. She is the daughter of

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God, he was a Jew.

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He was the leader of the Jews. Right? So even in the Jewish culture, girls, they used to get married young. So it's not about that, but it's them are talking about, you know, Prophet Mohammed of the Arabs or whatnot, marrying girls. No, at that time, brothers and sisters, at the time it was in their culture. And remember that these people they live in the desert. Girls who grew up in the desert are not the same as girls who grew up in England. They are not the same as the US girls who grew up in Canada, where it freezes here, right? They're not the same girls who grew up in the desert, a 12 year old girl looks like she's 17 a 12 year old girl, she looks like she's 16 years

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old, even more.

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Right? It happened even in the in the in the. In Europe, it used to happen. It used to happen in Spain. It used to happen in Spain, it happened in in the us a long time ago. So it's something it's not No, it's not new. It's not just for the atoms or at the time, that culture so come out, and tell them this people are just trying to find something to nag about the Muslims and the Prophet and the to, to hit the prophet and to you know, demonize our Prophet and and our religion. He married girls No.

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And so Pamela, she was the only version that he married. And he never consumed. He never had any children with her as he had children with all of the other ones except she never had any children with her as if she was barren.

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When prophet died, she was 18 years old. She was 18. And she narrated she was the fourth in terms of those who narrated Howdy, she is number four.

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So let us talk about the night of the wedding. Brothers and sisters. Are you ready to listen to the night of the wedding of eyeshadow sodoma

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wedding time, then data then tenten tenten tenten tenten tenten?

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Are you? Are you ready to hear the beautiful wedding night Rasulullah and Aisha on our line.

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This is now when she's nine years old.

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nine years old.

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About to consume that marriage now is the wedding night.

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Because he asked for her hand when she was seven. And he actually consumed that when she was nine.

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Okay, so Lola who it was

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so abubaker the father,

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as Matt bit will backup, the daughter and the sister. You have a shot. You have Abdullah the son abubaker as well on mortal man, the mother and the Prophet Mohammed, Isaiah Sit down. This is the family and Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam Addy, you know, Fatima omocha to sell them into Zuma. These were the soma so far the family of the Prophet at that time. So Lola when he was said

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he Buhari in a race that she was the head Baba happened in Sherwin, the month of showare, in the second year of the Asia of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu, said, the second year of the club in the month of Chavez, right. So this one, the prophet Mohammed, you know, proposed to or he married insha Allah hahahahaha brothers and sisters.

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Let me relate to what's happening here. Let me relate. Did she go to hair designer or hairstylist? Did they take her to a hairstylist to do her hair? Did she do any makeup did he prepare her

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Just like things that happen today,

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just like what happens today, but not to that extent, of course, not with all that makeup that we know today and all the extensions that we know today. No, but it is the same somehow. Yes. Yes, they had to prepare her for the wedding. But the Aloha know Allah, she was very light kinda was happy.

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She used to say howdy as you she says, I was very light. I was like when she was only nine years old, she was late.

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And she says My Mother, she started making me eat meat for over a week or two. She wants me to gain some weight.

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She was feeding her. She was feeding her, you know, she was feeding her meat because she wanted to gain some weight.

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And then she says, There was women from the unsought who are trying who are doing makeup for me. Do you know the word from the unsought? Oh, yes. The more has You mean, they learned so much from the unsub in terms of women? Mm hmm. The more hairs You mean, they heard they learned a lot from the women of the uncertainties. They even learned that, you know, because the machine the women, they did not know how to raise their voices or their husbands. So Pamela, but then they saw how the women of the unsolved talk to the men's and then they said okay, that said, that's how we know it here, huh? Yeah, that's how we do it. in Medina. The women are the women.

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So the women were the ones taking care of you know, from the answer, taking care of how a shower the Aloha, preparing her for the wedding, one of the most, if not the most beautiful wedding because lasala also married Khadija before that's a mother, you know that my greatest love story of all time, but now comes in I shall do

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so much so that

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the the the Sahabi when he will come to the Prophet Mohammed Ali salat wa salam. And he will ask us a lot and he said to him, you have a samba who you love from from from from the people. He says I?

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this is ma ck into the Prophet Mohammed jasola. Would you love for Matt from the people? He says Isaiah. He didn't say?

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No, my wife. He didn't say, you know, the daughter of Abu Bakar he says Ayesha, he mentioned her name Ayesha. And then he says yes or no, okay? I don't mean women. I don't I mean from men. Who would you love from men? He said, The Prophet says abou her. Her father. He didn't say aboubaker He didn't say he says her father. Her father. Yeah. And again, another emphasis. It's all about Alisha and her father. I shot I shot a shot. What happened brothers and sisters in that beautiful wedding. You know, the unsavoury is when or when they were preparing her getting her ready for the wedding. What happened? What was her? What was her mom? What was her dowry? The Diary of actual

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hope in that diary. What did the Prophet do that night?

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Another beautiful, amazing love story. Prophet Mohammed and Alisha. Yes, God would come. He saw Prophet Mohammed Salas and Prophet Mohammed saw dream

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would you believe? What was that dream about?

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When did they see?

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Was the marriage of Asia? Is it something new? Or is it a command from Allah? Is it an order from Allah? Or is it just Prophet Mohammed wanted to marry how Asia?

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How, what happened?

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And then after the marriage, Prophet, the prophet Mohammed and heisha, did they get into any arguments? Or Yes, they got into some arguments. What happened? Well, they got into an argument and then they had to call a mediator who was the mediator

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how she settled for one mediator and when what happened when that mediator came,

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but as my sister is, you know it,

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you know it big time. We will talk about this tomorrow in Sharla hota. Tomorrow Bismillah we will resume talking about the wedding of Asia and Prophet Mohammed Salalah Islam, as we are in the second year of the Prophet Mohammed migrated from Mecca to Medina. And then you know, two years he has not been married since the death of Khadija Ivanova, he got married to so that we know who was eight years old, but she was you know, he, you know, he just took I know he wanted to just embrace her or the other

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I know that that Prophet Mohammed marry, you know hija who will talk more about the beautiful wedding wedding of the Prophet tomorrow inshallah. Thank you brothers and sisters for joining is that Kamala Harris Metalab Bless you all brother coffee come tomorrow, same time 5:30pm tomorrow Sunday 5:30pm on Instagram Facebook is that Kamala Harris barkcloth fickle, so that might not lie. Thank you brothers and sisters. Thank you for the haffi thank you for that said thank you Sidon white man. Thank you Zoe, thank you light spread thank you bye Zola Aziz. Thank you Yes me thank you sister Fatima me. I'm lucky that she felt inshallah lucky because she found my love bless you. Thank

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