Reda Bedeir – Tafseer Surah Yusuf #6

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The speakers discuss the meaning of happiness and the importance of learning in life. They also touch on sharia and the use of sh matter in cases of abuse and fraud, as well as the importance of avoiding mistakes and avoiding backbiting. The speakers stress the importance of warning people against backbiting and showing intentions to receive rewards.

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			Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			while Allah He was the woman who Allah, guess what? I have a surprise for you? I don't know where is
it with my candy. But anyway shala at some point will come.
		
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			But I'm going to start with a quiz.
		
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			I'm going to start with a quiz, right? We have covered so far, not that much in sort of usage. But
as you see, we are going into much detail right? So I'm going to ask some questions about lots of
knowledge, not information that I shared with you. First question is, what's the difference between
information and knowledge?
		
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			What's the difference between information knowledge, but don't raise your hand because you just want
to answer you have to be confident information is what you see in the books.
		
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			You know, many of us can have a big library at home, it has lots of books, and there is lots of
information contained in these books right.
		
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			But for that information, to be explained and understood, and applied as a way of life, it becomes
knowledge.
		
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			Is that clear? So you can buy information, but you can buy knowledge.
		
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			Knowledge, you have to come, sit down, listen, attentively, try to like, digest what's being said.
And then say Subhana, Allah, these are the words of Allah. Is that what Allah subhanaw taala wants
me to do? Is that what Allah subhanaw taala wants me enough to do? And then I start acting upon that
it becomes knowledge.
		
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			This is why they say, you can buy information but you can buy knowledge. You can buy blood, but you
can buy life.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			You can buy so many things, you can buy clothes, you can buy food, but can you buy happiness?
		
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			No.
		
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			So there are certain things in this life that are abstract, you can buy them
		
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			and the real happiness will be when you know the book of Allah subhanho wa Taala and act upon it,
then you will have the peace of the heart and peace of the mind. And that will make your life
meaningful and you will feel happy.
		
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			Other than this, ask those who try everything. They ate lots of food. When you eat lots of food,
what happens? Your stomach trouble.
		
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			You feel heavy.
		
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			You put weight anything like you know oh man, like let me enjoy food. Let me be happy. It doesn't
bring you happiness. Am I right? All right.
		
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			You have to eat to live because the Muslim Ummah we are here. We eat to live, we don't live to eat.
		
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			Because those who live to eat and everything is big now. And massive. Right? What happens at the
end, they put weight and they go to another doctor say can we please can you please help us to lose
weight? And we'll give you money?
		
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			Isn't that true?
		
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			Some people think that you know what? By watching a movie, and by playing video games is gonna make
me happy. And they're so excited.
		
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			And how long did that excitement take?
		
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			If you buy a new video game, maybe a day or
		
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			two, then you want something else.
		
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			So all types of happiness in this life. They are temporary.
		
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			But happiness in general is permanent.
		
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			This is why Allah subhanho wa Taala and sort of hood.
		
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			So number 11
		
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			a 105.
		
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			Allah defines happiness.
		
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			Allah says, yo maya Tila
		
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			Lipson Neela.
		
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			There will come a day when no one will talk without the permission of Allah subhanho wa Taala for
men whom Sharpie was ie the people who will be one of two. It's an absolutely must.
		
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			Trouble or absolutely happy.
		
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			So, what is misery in dystonia?
		
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			dystonia wait.
		
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			As for those who will be absolutely miserable, they are those who will end up in hellfire. So what
you see in this life hardships, it's nothing. You lose a job, you lose health, you lose a loved one.
It's nothing.
		
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			Well, I'm sorry to Fairfield.
		
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			As for those who will be happy, those who will be absolutely happy, they are those who end up in
general.
		
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			Would you like me to prove it to you say Yes, sir. Yes.
		
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			The Prophet
		
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			said, on the day of judgment, they will bring someone who lives in this dunya but he was very bad.
And Allah gave him everything. You know, the golden egg.
		
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			Allah gave him everything he used to lead a life of luxury and ease. He hasn't seen any misery. But
he was bad. He abused what Allah subhanaw taala has given him
		
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			so he would end up in the world to hellfire.
		
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			So the Prophet Salim said he will be taken and dipped into Hellfire for one second, and he'll be
brought out and he will be asked, Have you seen his or luxury and your life you will c'est la vie.
		
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			One second and Hellfire will make a person forget all about the life of Islam lecture in destiny,
one second in hellfire. And that's misery.
		
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			The opposite scenario, someone whose life was full of hardships, he moves from a test to a test from
a hardship or hardship, and each test is harder than the test that was before it.
		
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			So all his life in this dunya was like look like miserable.
		
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			But he was a good person, he used to say Alhamdulillah, cut the lahoma shafa alone always choose the
best for me. I lost my job, Allah will give me another one. I lost a child I have another two.
		
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			I lost some health. I've been healthy all my life. It's a test. She accepted the color of Allah He
was happy in the dunya even though he looked miserable, and he lived a life of hardship, but he will
end up in general. So he will be dipped into Jana for one second and he will be asked Hello.
		
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			Have you experienced any misery in your life, he would say bla bla bla never.
		
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			So think about this one second and Hellfire will make the person forget all the life of ease and
luxury. And one second in general will make a person forget all the life of misery in this dunya so
what is happiness? Give me one word it is
		
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			in general what is misery
		
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			and hellfire. So what you go through here is nothing this life is meant to be a test. So take it
away it is. Second question. We said Alif lam
		
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			tilka till keytab Moby movie, we should add is the plural of IRA. an IRA is not your nice eye when
it comes in the Quran. It means one of four things, who remembers them all is coming through the
kind of inshallah whole numbers the word. As I said, when the word I end up on when it comes. It has
one of four meanings. Because we don't study just for the sake of study or we forget. We mentioned
this in the earlier calipers.
		
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			Oh my god, no, not a single hand. Okay, let's go.
		
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			Merkel Mashallah one of the meanings is Mercury, the last part that I said that he sent Musa alayhis
salam in Surah, a number
		
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			a number 14, Allah said, fetus is Illa for Ana, Allah. So Allah sin, you know, Musa alayhis salam
with nine miracles. One of them if you remember what I told you, I said, a large change in the river
Nile into blood. That was a miracle. And they asked him to sit next to Allah to bring it back to be
as to be sweet water.
		
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			Right? That was one of the miracles. That's one of the meanings of I thank you so much. I owe your
kindness in sha Allah. Yes.
		
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			Proof or sign very good. You know, there are so many signs the proof you know that Allah
		
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			panna cotta is behind this perfect universe. Give me an example was Shem coo go Ha ha, one formati
EDA
		
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			and you go on shuns the sun, isn't this a sign and approve of the protocol once upon a time?
		
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			Have you ever seen the sun during the night? Hello? Have you ever seen the moon during the day
		
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			Mashallah, somebody lives in Mars? Mashallah, is it? Yes.
		
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			Okay, he's dreaming because Yusuf Ali Salaam and his dream he saw the sun and the moon together. But
this will never happen except for the Day of Judgment.
		
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			Okay, so one of the signs of Allah is the moon that we see during the night. Like we're okay, third
meaning of the word iron
		
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			verse Mashallah tilka tokita will move in. These are the verses of the book, which is clear and it
clarifies right. Okay, excellent. There is one missing one more missing.
		
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			Yes,
		
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			it means
		
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			and name always said yeah, we said like you know, is the name of your nice that's fine. But when
talking about the Quran
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Story, no.
		
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			Reminder, listens admonition locker, they can fit us over number seven and this is in this Sora
locker they can have a use of our equity.
		
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			To Lisa a lien. Right. reminders, listens. Right. Excellent. One more question. I'm going to move on
and shallow Silesian.
		
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			We said that Allah subhanho wa Taala said
		
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			his call I used to fully Abbey he fit in near IE to a Haida sharika cabin with some savall karma to
homeless as we use the word the I two times this is the same at the Bailey said, right to a Haida
shala cabin. I've seen, you know, 11 stars, the sun and the moon. And then he said to him, I saw
them. Lisa Dean for me. They were instead of prostration.
		
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			Is it the same?
		
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			No. The first one is really I'm an MBA. Right? I've seen them in my dream. But then in the dream, I
saw them make a decision to me. And a brother came to me last time I said his daughter was young.
She asked him how can the stars and the sun and the moon makes it
		
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			you know, kids are very imaginative, right? They want to imagine everything. Right?
		
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			You know, part of our Akita as Muslims, but you know, part of our belief system is that there is
something called the island is an island Shahada, the seen world that Solomon Islands Shahada the
seen world. Yes, that means to see. So there is that word that we can see. Now I can see you now,
right, I can see that light. I can see this microphone, I can see that camera, right. This is
Ireland's Shahada, but there's another island the unseen world Ireland Well, how
		
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			can you see what's happening outside the masjid? This is right to us, unseen to us, right? Have you
have you seen the Prophet sallallahu Sallam? No, he's right to us. Have you ever seen a loss of
Hannah with Allah himself? You will see him in genuine Chaga
		
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			Is that clear? So part of our system is that sometimes Allah subhanaw taala tells us things, and we
have to accept them. Because they are unseen to us. Is that clear? But kids because they watch
movies now and everything is like, you know, three dimensional, I don't know what's coming next.
Right? They want vivid, like life pictures like you know, they want to see the sun, you know, going
into its knees, you know, just making use of it.
		
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			You know, a lot of us they made to do it, you know, in a way that benefits them. That's what Allah
told us. And we're locked into something in the price through.
		
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			But the most important question, which is not the How?
		
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			It's like why
		
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			sujood is only to Allah.
		
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			So how come they may teach you to use a polyester?
		
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			suit is only to Allah. Right? But I told you two things before you remember them.
		
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			I said, Who made the made suit Yusuf Ali Salam.
		
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			O Allah subhanaw taala right
		
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			now this is
		
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			me
		
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			Something good that you see in your dream while you're sleeping. Right.
		
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			And it will come through later on at the end of the surah. The 11th stars are the brothers of use
varicella. It's symbolic. It's a symbolic dream, right? And the sun is his father, and the moon is
his mother. And we said his mother passed away. Don't confuse us. I told you, it's his aunt. And the
professor Lam said, I'll call the aunt is like a mother. Right? They will make sure you start from
Ah, again, you're contradicting yourself, you know, jacoba as
		
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			a prophet, and his children, the children of a Prophet
		
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			and his arm they can make sure to sponsor Yes.
		
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			One important fact it's not such a bad
		
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			it is to do to creep and die. That's number one. This is very important to understand. They are not
worshipping use of as God, no, they are greeting him. And this was allowed back in the days.
		
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			This is very important. So that suit is not very bad. What we do now in our salon zoo is a better to
Allah subhanaw taala. Right. But they're not doing this thinking that UCLA Salaam is God, or part of
God? No. It's the way of greeting, you know, until today, until today, when people are acting a
play.
		
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			What do they do at the end of the play? When people clap their hands for them? What do they do? They
bow and some of them bow almost as if they're like, Doom record.
		
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			Right? This is some sort of what? greeting people back. Right? And in Islam, we don't do this. We
don't bow except to Allah.
		
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			Is that clear? And I told you the story of Last time, we
		
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			had to meet Rustom, the commander of the army of the Byzantine power at the time, and he made the
door you know, the door was very low, so that if anybody wants to enter the room, he will be in a
set of ohms.
		
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			So what did he do? He entered his bath
		
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			so that he wouldn't be like bow or bending down.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			So number one, it's not suitable the number two that was acceptable in the Sharia of jacobellis
salon.
		
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			You know, the Sharia means the law of, of Yaqoob is different from the law of Musa alayhis salaam is
different from the law of ACLs. The lamp is different from the Sharia the Islamic law today. And I
told you before,
		
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			an example of the differences of the Sharia, the deen is the same. The religion is Islam of all
prophets. But the Sharia the law that we apply to put this Islam into practice, differ from one
prophet to the other. Allah smart, Allah said, liquidity min come, Jan naturata. Norman hajra for
each one of you. Look, he's talking about the prophets and messengers, we made a Sharia meaning a
law. Is that clear? So the deal is Islam. Only one God is the only one worthy of worship. Okay, now
Give me an example of how the Sharia became different. I'll give you the example, at the time of
masala Salam. If people wanted to make Toba? Do you know what they have to do?
		
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			They have to die.
		
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			They have to line up and kill each other and then die and then Allah will bring them back to life.
If they want to make tau
		
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			Are you making this up love of life. You read it in the Quran, but you never stopped to understand
it. It's a source of Bukhara Allah subhanaw taala said to
		
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			circle
		
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			full circle.
		
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			If you want to make Toba if you want to be redeemed if you want to repent, what do you do? Allah
sets up to emphasize. They used to line up to lions and kill each other. If they want to make Toba
when they commit a sin, then Allah will bring them back to life. Some of us recommend badimo to
come. That's what the law says.
		
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			And they will brought you back to life and see how tough the Sharia was before. Now, if you want to
make Toba today, what do you need to do?
		
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			Just between yourself and Allah say Allah I'm sorry. shed some tears. Come back to the masjid cuando
O'Meara.
		
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			You don't need intermediary Junior ally really to kill yourself.
		
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			You know one time and one of my classes last year I told my students we're going to do tober today.
Insha Allah the Most
		
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			Away according to the reactions are just kidding because we are for was supposed to follow the idea
of Mohamed Salah. He was like, What do you mean? I said, Listen, I'm gonna give you a discount. I'm
not gonna ask you to kill each other. We just cut one finger. What about that? They said no.
		
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			I said what about taking one of your nails out? Like no See you next week
		
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			we might not even come to class if you're going to kill us like this.
		
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			So Panama solo made it easy for us.
		
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			You should I'm saying at the time of masala ceremony, Sharia. If
		
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			impurity have an agenda, you know, if you're so like gets in an agenda, that part that has an agenda
impurity, you have two options to cut it out or to burn it.
		
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			You see how it was? Today? What happens when you have an adjuster on your clothes? Just wash it.
		
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			Oh, and I can wear it after he had
		
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			asked your dad. He says he carried you when you were young. And he did something really bad. When he
was carrying him.
		
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			Some people are smiling. They did it many times.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So you wet yourself then they like oh my god, what am I going to do? Should I burn the boat? Should
I cut it out? Just go and wash it. Is that clear?
		
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			Okay,
		
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			so going back to the sort of use of insha Allah, we stopped at
		
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			the dialogue between the first scene of our story between Yusuf Ali Salaam and yaku right when Yusuf
Ali Salaam share the dream with his father, and he was giving him advice. What did he say to him?
		
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			boonie Ella, also saw
		
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			a 40. And that's our number five. Right?
		
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			Carla yagoona he said, Oh, my little son, he remember.
		
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			Do not share that dream with your brothers. Law crews. from Tucson don't tell the story of your
dream. don't relate that dream to your brothers? Why
		
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			fakie du Lac aka the less they should plot something evil? provided let's say as I said last time
for your key to NACA or fire keytruda. He said for key dolakha safarnama. How many Arabs are here?
How many people who know Arabic here?
		
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			Yeah. Well Allah said fire Kido lacquer, it means they will plot something. It's supposed to be
evil. So it should be against you. Right? But like an Arabic means it will turn out to be something
good for you.
		
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			We have read this many times in the forum but we never stop to understand whatever they're going to
do now later on. So Pinilla it will be for him, not against him. Because what's their main concern?
They felt jealous, right? When they knew that he's have seen that he has seen that dream, it means
he's going to be a prophet. So why him Why not us? And that's jealousy. Right? And then they're
gonna try to take him and kill him, or banish him in the land. or throw him in a well? What's the
motive jealousy? What do they want? They want? Because he's they said, yeah.
		
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			The only motivation that they wanted to better the viewership was, we want to get the attention of
your father
		
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			talking to each other, meaning they want to get more attention from the Father meaning of love,
right? But somehow later on Yaqoob kept crying for losing use of until he lost his eyes. So the love
that they wanted to take out of his heart, what happened to that love, it increased.
		
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			So you see the miracle in the word fire Kido laka they will plot something and they think it's
against you, but it was turned out to be for you.
		
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			And then jacobellis lm is teaching us something very important, he said, in a shape on any
		
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			movie.
		
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			Indeed shaitan is a clear enemy to mankind
		
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			who's taking that fact alone? Who's speaking here now Jaco but these are the words of Allah. Right.
So this is a fact who are Lost Planet Allah says shaytan is a clear enemy to you. What should we do
when shaitan tries to whisper to us, what should we do? We say our
		
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			Billahi min ash shaytani r g, right We seek refuge the last panatela from the Shaitan occurs, right?
This is very important.
		
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			Now
		
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			what is your coop trying to say at the end of this ayah. He said, your brothers will plot something
evil against you. But listen, it's not because they're evil. It's because shaitan will whisper some
evil faults, and they will listen to it.
		
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			So basically, what your home is trying to do is is saying, blame it on the blame it on shaitan
		
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			when somebody does something wrong to you, blame it on shaitan, meaning, give your brother or sister
a way back when they do something wrong to say, I know you're not, you're not that bad. You know,
you just look was weak, and you listen to your shoe shoe, you listen to shaitan. And you ended up
doing what you have done.
		
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			Is that clear. So let's apply this in our life. When somebody when my brother or sister like it
doesn't have to be the blood brother or sister in Islam, when they wrong, you blame it on shaitan to
give them a way back, that they can come back and say I'm sorry.
		
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			It's shaytaan. who influenced you, I know that you're a good person. So next time, don't listen to
shaytaan.
		
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			So listen to the whispers. Okay.
		
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			So basically,
		
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			my son
		
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			listened to me giving that tafsir.
		
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			And he used this to his advantage. And that's the story that I cliffhanger you last time. Remember?
I told you I'm going to tell you a story about that. Right?
		
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			You know, and I shared this story many times, if you heard it before, just disregard inshallah.
		
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			You know, when you have kids, when they are young, and you leave them at home alone,
		
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			like between the age of three to 10. Imagine if you have three monkeys,
		
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			when you call them three angels, okay, three kids, between the age of three and 10. And you leave
them at the house by themselves. When you come back home, what happens to the house?
		
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			It's total mess, right? They're gonna say, oh,
		
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			our parents are here. Let's go and explore the kitchen.
		
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			Right?
		
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			There are some cupcakes from last night. This chocolate, they're right. And they're going to go and
create a mess. You know, and then they will try to cover it up. But, you know, it just shows because
everything will be all over the place. Right? Some other kids are very inquisitive. Let's go to our
dad's study room, let's see what's inside there.
		
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			And, you know, just like, you know, they're gonna play with the, you know, the books and pens. And,
you know, they try to find maybe he bought us some video games, but he's hiding it somewhere. So
they, they made a mess also in the surgery room, you know, and then sometimes, or they go out of
control, they become very, very, like, you know, because they ate lots of chocolate, what happens?
They have lots
		
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			of sugar or they become hyper. So they will go to the bedroom, bring everything and start like
fighting. You know, you see, they're smiling. Like they know, they know this stuff. They do it
everyday. So the parents come back home and they say who did this
		
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			stuff for law? We have no idea.
		
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			So that used to happen with my kids when they were little, like three, five and seven. I come back
home and everything is inverse. Like, you know, bring them was like No, who did this? Not me. Not
me, not me. And I say, then who did it? You should love Allah.
		
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			And I say,
		
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			and it happens more than one time. So one time I said I'm going to trick them. So I come back home
and I said
		
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			the same exact thing. total mess. Like who did this? Not me, not me, not me. I said, guess what? I
know who did it.
		
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			And then my son was in the middle of his two systems like
		
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			what? Okay? How did you know? So now he's confident now nobody betrayed nobody, right? Like they're
all on the same page.
		
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			Nobody has any fitness.
		
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			So I said,
		
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			shall I tell you? They said yes. But then my son said.
		
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			Can you just say something?
		
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			I said yes. He said, Do you remember sorry, Mr.
		
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			rakia. Remember when you were explaining to us, so I remember five. I said, Yeah. He said, Let me
remind you of that lesson that you told us. I said Go ahead. You said that Yaqoob
		
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			When the brothers abusive will do something evil,
		
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			he's gonna blame it on China.
		
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			And you know that that shaitan is a clear enemy to mankind.
		
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			And one of his tricks he tries to cause problems between the brothers and the sisters, the children
and their parents. Just take it like this shaytan is trying to make a problem between us on you now.
Blame it on shaitan and move on.
		
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			And I'm like, you're right.
		
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			I'll blame it on shaitan. But you know, what if I don't know that shaitan but I know him already.
		
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			So don't ever think that you will always outsmart your parents.
		
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			Because if you're smart one time, they're smart in times.
		
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			So he said, I said, You know what, I'll just show you that. No, what do you mean? I said, I know who
did it. This is okay. Tell us I said I have cameras everywhere. And once I said this, everybody's
face turned pale. Like
		
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			we're done.
		
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			I said, Would you like to watch the movie? You'd like to see the stars? Now who went to the kitchen?
I went to my study room like no no, no. was telling the truth now.
		
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			So what's the lesson that we drive from here?
		
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			When you know that you are on camera, you will watch out everything that you do.
		
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			amaretto right.
		
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			But somehow law we are on camera 24 seven.
		
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			We are
		
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			a lot on us. And so number 15 sort of a 1617 and 18
		
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			Matata was soon to be enough so we have created man. And we know what goes on in his mind. There's a
lot know what's going on in your mind. Now. Some of you are saying when is he gonna finish? We don't
see the candy today.
		
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			Some of is like going oh man. My dad promised me he's gonna take me to dinner. I think the shape now
is making it too difficult for me now.
		
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			So Allah knows right? What's going on in your mind what's going on in your heart now? Allah said one
		
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			lie him in habit. He did. And we are closer to everyone
		
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			closer to him than the jugular vein. This is the juggler vein.
		
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			So last closer to me than this to me.
		
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			What do you mean? Do you mean I was here now? I was here now with you and with you and doing with
you everyone outside. Wait, just continue the eye because some people they take the literal meaning
and they say yes. This is why they say Allah is everywhere. Yeah, laws everywhere through his
knowledge because he has agents to work for him. If I'm the chairman of a multi national company, I
can be in Calgary and I can be in Edmonton and I can be in Windsor and I can be in Dubai but I have
some people to represent me there so won't allow us the energy to do this for him continue to ayah
Allah said
		
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			to us, which will be enough so wanna
		
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			lay him in heaven worried how, how is a lot closer towards than the jugular vein. Allah said
		
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			it the atella motala.
		
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			anemia mean?
		
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			We have assigned each one of them, each one of us has an angel on the right hand side and the angel
on the right hand in the left hand side they're writing down everything, my
		
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			co whatever an utterance that comes out of your mouth is Lady hiraki. When it did,
		
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			whatever an address that comes out of your mouth, there's an angel here writing it down and there's
an angel here writing it down. And the report goes back to Allah
		
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			every single day.
		
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			So do you understand what I mean now?
		
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			Are we on camera 24 seven. Wherever you go, there are two angels here the writing down everything
and the report goes up to alarm.
		
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			This is why Allah subhana wa Taala when we hide from people, and we make sure the door is locked and
nobody can see me and we don't harm.
		
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			I was gonna say Lima has
		
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			near one another in LA.
		
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			Why did you hide from people? Will you know that I can see you?
		
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			Why didn't you show any respect to me?
		
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			Don't you believe that RMS semia I can hear you wherever you are.
		
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			Don't you know that I can see wherever you are, even if you're behind a closed door, even if you
turn off the light.
		
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			This is why
		
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			when we make a mistake, at least when we hide, we show at least that we are not that surprised. Like
you know, those people who who are shameless. They do it open in front of everyone. At least we have
some shame. So this is why the door to back to Allah is open 24 seven. This is why Allah subhanaw
taala told Prophet Muhammad Salaam and so number 15 Southern hedger, I have 49
		
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			never be a buddy knee and allow for me to say to my slaves, I'm the old forgiving the old merciful.
So go back anytime once you commit a sin, go back to a monologue will accept you, Allah will never
turn you back. In fact, he is waiting for you even though he doesn't need you. But you need him.
		
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			When you turn your back on him, and you commit sins, and you are away from your deen for a year for
two for three for 20 years. For 30 years, the moment you come back, is waiting for you. And he will
never turn you back. But you know what, sometimes we love this idea. But we don't want to move to
the next day.
		
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			And number 50 says we're an OB
		
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			le s was the old forgiving the old merciful, but at the same time his punishment is very severe. So
when you are expecting his mercy and forgiveness,
		
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			try to stay away from deserving his punishment. Because this punishments too severe to.
		
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			So yes, we blame it on shaitan when it comes to other people, but don't ever blame it on shaitan
when it comes to the sense that you are committed within yourself and Allah. Why? Because the wife
of will Aziz, and we all know her story. In this story of use of Alice Sarah, she should use the use
of Alice salon, and she betrayed her husband. I don't use the police did not do what she wanted,
what happened. They throw him in jail for years. And he was innocent. Right? So Pamela, despite
that, when she made a lot of clips of her, but when she was admitting her son, she said, one over
NFC in an episode of a marathon bizu illa Mara Mara be won over NFC in the nafsa, the American bizu
		
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			meaning, you know, the self, you know, like she was blaming herself, she's like, you know, you know,
myself commanded me to do something wrong, and it just followed my neffs. So when it comes to people
blame it on shaitan give them a way out to that they come back and say I'm sorry.
		
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			But when it comes to your own sense, admit your own sense.
		
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			Exactly.
		
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			So a loss of Hannah with the island said, you know,
		
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			jacobellis salon, you know, understood because he's a prophet, he understood from that dream, that
Yusuf Ali Salaam will be a prophet and the continuation of prophethood in his lineage will be an
Yusuf Ali Salaam. This was said, don't share that dream with your brothers, because they will be
jealous of you and they will put something evil against you. And listen, it's because they can
listen to shaitan Satan is a clear enemy to you.
		
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			We will conclude with the next ayah Allah subhanaw taala said what gather Anika Toby calm
		
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			in the
		
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			Indus
		
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			is the beaker of book you rob your master has selected you
		
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			who is being talked about here? Yusuf Ali Salah. So Yaqoob
		
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			came to the conclusion that that dream means that you will be a prophet low and selective.
		
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			When you are lemo come into a will a hadith and he will talk to you.
		
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			Sorry and He will teach you.
		
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			Let's edit this inshallah and He will teach you
		
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			the interpretation of dreams.
		
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			So
		
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			Yusuf Alayhi Salam was a prophet but something extra, he was very, very specialized in worth
		
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			in a Hadith, interpretation of dreams
		
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			and we will see in this surah Subhana Allah that when he is in jail, he will interpret your dreams
The dream of the two people who will be with him in jail and it will come through and he will
interpret the dream also of the king and it will come through
		
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			then he said, Why you?
		
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			Boo Boo
		
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			is
		
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			in
		
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			hockey game. So he said, okay, Danica Toby, Cara buco, your limo come into the Hadith. And thus you,
you rob, your master has selected you and He will teach you the interpretation of dreams. Not only
that, were you to Mona Island and he will perfect his blessings upon you which is what the
prophethood and the Boo.
		
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			While actually our hope and the family will be our hope is talking about himself. Come atom Maha
Allah awakened and pub as he gave that Prophethood to your forefathers. Ibrahima. His heart was
Ibrahima profit. So usurious
		
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			was his son, his heart was he a prophet? Who is the son of his heart Yahushua Prophet, and it will
continue into Yusuf Ali said and this is why he is Al Karim Abdel Kareem Abdul Karim will carry
		
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			is the most noble as a prophet, the sort of the most noble which is yaku Jayco, the Son of the Most
Noble which is Isaac as high as the Son of the Most Noble which is
		
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			Abraham Elisa Lam the father of prophets, and from the other tree from the other branch of the tree.
That's from Sarah, right. You know, from harder, there will come also from Ibrahim Ismail, Ishmael,
Ali Salaam, and then later on Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, the Seal of Prophets.
		
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			Is that clear? Then he said at the end of the ayah in Nara, Baca, Ali, Hakim, indeed, your master
and I'm giving just like throat translation, but I'm going to explain next time inshallah and this
is our cliffhanger.
		
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			Why is it? I leave on hockey,
		
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			because some people think that was the last part that chooses to have his names or his attributes at
the end of the ayah. It's like a random, like, you know, random two names of the names of Allah. No,
they're always related to what was mentioned before.
		
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			In the AI, in Arabic, ie what Salim all known? Hakeem all wise, Allah is the source of knowledge. Do
you have some knowledge CSRS?
		
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			Is there somebody who taught you have more knowledge, who has more knowledge than you
		
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			is there is someone who taught your teacher who has more knowledge than him.
		
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			And then who is the source of all knowledge of law and in this, this Sora will live later on of our
kakula the Illuminati and above every knowledgeable person, there is a law that all knowing so the
more knowledge Allah will give you the more humble he should be.
		
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			Because remember, Allah is Aladdin.
		
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			We say Flan is Ireland. What's Ireland? A scholar, Fulani, allana. an authority something more than
that.
		
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			But again, it's nothing compared to the knowledge of Allah subhanaw taala because what do you know,
if you have five PhDs?
		
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			Have a PhD in linguistics?
		
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			Okay, interfere. So I use?
		
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			Now question is, it's a branch of linguistics. What about the rest of linguistics?
		
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			What about chemistry? What about biology? What about physics?
		
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			So people do a PhD in just like a fraction of a branch of knowledge. And they think highly of
themselves. You know, the more knowledge you have, the more humble you should be this way, a lot
smarter than the Quran. In my actual law having a bad day.
		
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			The more knowledge you have, the more conscious of aleisha be your knowledge should bring you closer
to Allah, then you should be more conscious of him.
		
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			So what is the relationship between Aileen Hakeem and the part that came before in the ayah is
exactly when the loss of Allah says in Surah mulk homarus was removed
		
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			Anybody who asks for milk Okay, can you go with me inshallah while I'm reciting? I'm going to recite
the first two is going to count from three to one go with me inshallah three to one, our own ob Lang
Amina Cheyenne. Angie Bismillah
		
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			Allahu Allah
		
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			for the Alevi
		
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			hi
		
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			Leo Welcome
		
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			to foreign
		
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			for support look at even the order is not even coming out of my mouth because there is something
wrong. Well who realizes we'll have a fool Why not?
		
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			Why not sort of a foreign hacking? Why not illegal hacking? Would you like to know the answer? Come
next week inshallah we're going to be starting with this in shower. Okay, so because we started the
salon at 730 we normally used to take only 45 minutes today only took like 40 minutes and we're
going to have
		
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			two questions inshallah sisters you can send the question shala Can I can I have a messenger from
here to go to the sisters area to bring the questions? Angolan?
		
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			Anybody wants here, can you volunteer army?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So, brothers, if you have a question, please just go ahead and shut up and ask.
		
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			Okay, so the brothers, the brothers are lucky to say
		
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			if a public figure who is known to be somebody with knowledge, okay. And he says something which is
really, really wrong. If we were to talk about that, would that be backbiting? Let me explain two
things. Let me explain two things. Okay. Number one,
		
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			is that in Islam? We don't hate people.
		
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			We hate around the
		
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			Americans repeat this again.
		
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			We don't hate people. If somebody comes to me say I committed sin as a stock for a loss away from
me, man.
		
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			No, we hate the sinner that he committed. But he's a human being. He felt weak at some point. And he
made a mistake. Is that clear?
		
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			When the man man is, you know, at the time of the Prophet Salim one of the Sahaba, he committed sin.
		
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			And he himself Salamis a prophet of Allah. I committed Zina, and I want you to penalize me.
		
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			I want you to give me the penalty.
		
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			So
		
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			So he said,
		
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			the proposal and what was his reaction? That he started yelling at him is like stuck for life? How
dare you do this?
		
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			It's the same Providence at Columbia Law. He's the one who told us that all the children of Adam are
in a constant state of committing sins and making mistakes.
		
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			But he gave us hope. He said, Well, Hyrule hopper in Ottawa, Boone. And the best amongst those who
are in a constant state of committing sins are those who are a constant state of turning back to all
of us needs forgiveness.
		
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			So here's a man coming. And he needs a lot to forgive him. He's even ready for the punishment Can
you imagine is gonna be public in front of people. And they will know that he committed Zina that
embarrassment in itself is big and huge. Right? Let alone he's gonna be stoned to death. How painful
is that?
		
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			But he's coming willing to do that. So what was the reaction of the wrestler and he wanted this oma
to learn from that. Be merciful. What did the person do? He turned away from him
		
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			three times, and he would come back and say prophet of Allah, I did this, I want to be purified. I
want you to do the HUD, give me the penalty.
		
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			Three times and the fourth time the person I'm asked about him is like, is he saying, does he know
what's going to happen?
		
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			He said, Yes, Prophet Allah is like, is he goodness? Yes. He just made a mistake. But he's
insisting.
		
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			So what did the person teach us through this when he ignored him the first time, second time, third
time, as if he's saying
		
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			Go and make the will between yourself and allow will accept you.
		
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			But if the person insists This is when the professor limb, you know, brought him and they dig a
place for him, and they put him then they stoned him to death.
		
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			But Subhanallah
		
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			after the professor lamb, washed his body,
		
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			so he's a Muslim, he made a mistake. We don't take somebody out of Islam because they made even a
major sin.
		
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			And he preyed on him.
		
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			And they burned him amongst the Muslims, and on their way back home to people behind the sillim
started talking about him.
		
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			They said, Look at him, look at the way he died. He died like a dog. Why did he do this to himself?
		
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			The professor was so offended by hearing that.
		
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			So he so I did buddy have a donkey while they were walking.
		
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			Two minutes later. So he stopped. He said, were the two people who were talking about mass. And they
said he died like like a dog. They said us prophet of Allah, he said, Stop here, and eat from the
dead body of the donkey.
		
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			They said, What do you mean profitable? Oh, we're gonna eat from a dead body of a donkey. He said,
this is exactly the punishment for what you have done.
		
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			I owe him
		
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			a cola. He made?
		
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			Would you like to eat the dead flesh of your brother? And that came right after what? This is number
12. In surah, 49 soldier on a low something about backbiting. He said, while I ever
		
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			come back, do not back bite one another. And then that was the punishment.
		
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			Is that clear? And what did the postman say about nice? What did he end up? He said, You're saying
this about him. He's swimming and one of the rivers of gentlemen.
		
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			Porcelain gave us that news. While those Sahaba are still alive. He said he swimming and one of the
reports of gentlemen now
		
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			because he wanted to meet Allah subhanaw taala pure and he insisted. Same thing with the woman,
aloha media. Who keeps the Muslim said prophet of Allah. I'm not like mad. I'm pregnant. I committed
Zilla and I'm pregnant. There's a proof.
		
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			So the promiseland turned away from her also three times. What's the message going make? No Bonilla
will accept you. Right?
		
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			But then she insisted in a prophet of Allah, I want to be purified. He said go until you deliver. So
how long did he give her as a chance? Nine months. Did he take her name? If you put her in jail.
		
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			Was she under surveillance?
		
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			Keep an eye on her. No.
		
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			Was she forced to come back?
		
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			No. But she came back with the baby after nine months. profitable I delivered now purify me.
		
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			And the officer him said it had been handed off to me go until he when the child
		
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			that was another chance of how many? Three years?
		
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			Can you imagine?
		
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			After two years,
		
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			she came back with the kid walking and having a piece of bread in his hand eating. Says prophet of
Allah. I'm here. And here's the baby of the I want him purify me.
		
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			So the problem again when she insisted he dig a hole and he put her cover through with her clothes.
And they started stoning here and in the middle of this one of the Sahaba you know some some people
say it's called Maria others say some of museo whatever the name is, but the important thing is what
happened. Her blood gushed and stain his clothes. She was like so disgusted like no. Oh my god, the
blood of somebody who committed adultery and the buff silom was so offended by that. He said
		
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			Am I a creek and hydrated bro a lava. Isn't it enough that she's giving up her life for the sake of
a lot of people
		
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			will line up a turban Toba Basilan said one line she repented in a way Lucia de la Sabine min Emily
Medina was at home if it were to be distributed amongst 70 people of the people of Medina it will be
enough for them.
		
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			So this is one side of the story. Okay. So when people do Toba, we don't say anything about them. We
keep our mouth shut.
		
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			But if somebody did something wrong and he's spreading mis corruption was
		
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			Talk about the wrong thing he did.
		
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			We don't attack the person, we attack What?
		
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			The action?
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			So we can say if somebody said this, or if somebody does this, this is not acceptable because Allah
says this column said this, and what the person did was wrong.
		
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			Is that clear? And if that person comes out publicly
		
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			and said something against Islam, this is the moment where we have to warn people against him to
listen to the person, because he is spreading fasset spreading corruption. And he's spreading like
misguidance amongst people.
		
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			Is that clear? So there are six. There are six cases, when we are allowed to talk about people but
it's not considered Riba it's not considered backbiting.
		
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			One of them is the one that I mentioned. Now, when you're warning the people against the hypocrite,
somebody who's assuming leadership. And you know, he comes in front of people, and like he says
something against Islam. If he hides and says it, then you should warn against what he said. But if
he comes publicly, and no shame, then you should warn people against what he said and against him to
be a source of knowledge.
		
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			Is that clear? A second case also, what backbiting is not considered backbiting is
		
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			when somebody goes to the judge,
		
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			and the judge asks you,
		
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			you have to give full information, for example, like somebody is complaining, you're coming to the,
to the amount, for example, and he said, What happened between you and your spouse?
		
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			So you're gonna say things about your spouse?
		
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			Is this backbiting? No. But if you add something, which is not true, that's lying.
		
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			So your testimony or whatever you say, should be exactly what happens. And this is not backbiting.
Is that clear?
		
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			A third case, is when somebody comes to ask you about somebody that they want to get married to, is
to be very honest. Even if you know something bad about the person you have to mention it. That's
not by biting.
		
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			The prophets of Salaam did this.
		
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			He told you no. Fatima been surprised he said, either Hallo Lt. For adenine, when you're waiting for
it, because she lost her husband in the battle. He said, when you when you like when your waiting
period is over. Tell me before, before inshallah chakalaka. Tell me before
		
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			you accept a proposal of marriage.
		
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			So when her waiting period was over, she said prophet of Allah, three people are proposing to me,
what should I do?
		
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			Okay, then the professor Selim started talking about these people. And he mentioned the bad things
about them. As if he's telling us in this situation, you have to be brutally honest. He said, I'm
full and first of all, Luke asked for so and so like, he doesn't have money.
		
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			But the person said, if somebody comes to you and has good deal and good luck, marry him. Yeah, but
we need money to. If somebody comes to me and he's broke, and I said, you know, all my
qualifications, I pray in the salon five times and hamdulillah. And I do this, like, okay, like,
Where's my daughter? Can I live in Sharla and attend outside the masjid inshallah.
		
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			How windy? Is it outside now? Can you live? You know, can you even live safely in a house in Canada?
Under these circumstances?
		
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			You said I'm saying, Okay, what what? What job do you have hamdulillah I sit in the masjid and I
read for on hamdulillah I read like to just everyday, that's good for you. But this is not going to
bring food to the table in the marriage.
		
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			So we're not saying you have to be a millionaire, but at least you have the minimum to start a life.
So let's start the life.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			So when the Prophet Allah mentioned this, it means like, you know, that person doesn't have money,
and he's gonna be miserly in the way he's gonna deal with you. And one of the worst things that
women don't like in men, if they are stingy, and they're cheap. They hate that. If I were to give
them the mic, now, they're gonna say yes. out loud.
		
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			Okay, and then and as for so and so find the holder wobble in the sand. And look, he mentioned the
Secretary said like this man. He always hits a woman, so I would, I wouldn't recommend him. Don't
get married to him. But as far as sama, celibacy is the best for you. As far as you said, I might
have to say
		
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			Emma was the happiest person on earth.
		
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			So when the professor said, I'm talking about people proposing, he mentioned, what's good and what's
bad, that's not backbiting because he was like, No, no, no, I'm not gonna say this. No, this is a
man. So trust, because if I come to you, and I'm saying, I'm gonna, you know, what somebody is
proposing to me is proposing to my daughter or to my sister, you don't tell me that, oh, his girl
from the law. And you mentioned everything good, but you don't mention anything bad. And then later
on, I discovered that he drinks or humanizes or he does bad things. And he said, I didn't want to
say this because I thought it was backbiting that's not my thing.
		
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			Just to conclude, inshallah, I said, six case, I'm going to mention one more, and we're going to
delay the next two inshallah till next time in sha Allah.
		
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			When you call someone by a name, that could be offensive, but you don't mean to offend him, for
example.
		
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			There was one of the Sahaba by the name of Asher and ash, I mean, somebody who has, you know, like,
a problem with eyesight, he can hardly see. You know, I'm saying, so that's his last name.
		
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			So when people call him They call him Hey, Russia, yeah, Russia.
		
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			But they don't mean to say hey, the one with, you know, a problem in his vision, his eyesight, they
don't mean it that way. You know, I'm saying
		
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			he understood what I'm trying to say. Somebody is blind. That means arama
		
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			you know, in Sorocaba, satola Abba Sato Allah and Allah Allah Allah, Allah mention his quality
that's Abdullah Abdullah Maktoum
		
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			is Allah.
		
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			Turing, Abdullah Al Maktoum down No, he was one of the forefathers and he used to lead the salon in
Medina and the problem was outside Medina.
		
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			So if you say the name not meaning to offend, the person will put them down. There's no problem.
It's not also backbiting.
		
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			But when it is backbiting, I'll give you a story, a man who was walking, and he has this ability in
one of his feet.
		
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			And like, you know, so he was like, when he was walking, you know, like, you know, if somebody is
like laying and the way they will walk, so they would use limping. So a man was like calling him in
front of everyone. He said, Yeah, Raj. Yeah, Raj.
		
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			Like, you know, oh, lame person, or disabled person. So the man turned around and he said, at a
persona, empty persona.
		
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			Are you making fun
		
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			of the way I was created?
		
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			Or are you making fun of the one who created me like this?
		
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			I accept the color of Allah that I'm disabled by what would you call me? By my disability?
		
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			Man started crying. And he made Toba and he asked him to forgive him. But if you are calling
somebody is feminine, a massage.
		
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			Like, you know, and known by that. So when you call him saying, Yeah, aren't you don't mean that
you're putting him down? You're just calling the last name and he's okay with this. There's no
problem. That's not backbiting.
		
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			Okay, is that clear? Okay, let's make the Angela because our time is over. inshallah, we'll take
more questions next time inshallah. And, but before we do this, inshallah, I will always,
		
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			as usual, remind you that this is your budget. You know, back home, we have something called the
Ministry of our path. Do you know, what does that mean?
		
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			It's a ministry that's responsible for spending on the budget, they make sure that the bills of the
measures are paid, they make sure that they you know, if there are some people working in the budget
have paid, you know, I'm saying, but the Ministry of half here is you people who come to the museum,
and you want this message to be running up and running and like the page will be, you know, and you
want to see more programs in the message. So again, as I say, always on your way out, try to show us
that you care about the machine. And this is gonna be like just having your intention, many, many,
like, you know, intentions, like one of them is, I'm doing sort of Algeria, I'm doing an ongoing
		
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			charity for myself. Every time there is a halakha like this, you will get the reward of everyone
sitting here. Every time somebody comes in to measure the size some for iron, because you keep that
measured open, you will get a reward for that. Every time people are praying Juma here or like, you
know, or like, you know, like praying the five times like you're gonna get a reward of that. Do you
have somebody who passed away? You want to do ongoing charity on their behalf? Due to that
intention? Do you have somebody sick at home? Yes, that will.
		
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			Try to seek cure for your sick ones by giving sadaqa what will be the best setup if it's given to
the house of Allah
		
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			Okay, let's break down inshallah
		
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