Reda Bedeir – One Word May Decide Your Destiny
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The importance of words in shaping one's future is discussed, emphasizing the need to avoid cutting oneself by a knife and avoid harming others. The speakers also touch on the practicality of Islam, including the importance of not getting angry for one or more reasons, the practicality of religion, and the use of body language. The segment concludes with a discussion of the aftermath of the death of a woman accused of being an Muslim victim. The weight of the tongue in shaping one's behavior is also emphasized, along with the importance of justice and fair treatment of non-immigrats.
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from the narration
of eviscerated quadreal of the Allahu Allah said that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
Kula ossabaw have no Adam, every morning,
the child of Adam.
He said that all the organs speak to the tongue.
And they say to the tongue, it tequila Hina.
Meaning, be conscious of God be conscious of Allah when you utter any word for income and economic.
Because our future is decided by you.
faders account is the commoner if you're a straightforward following the right path, saying the truth, saying everything good staying away from everything bad.
You know, our future is secure.
With our just error just now. But if you become cooked, if you don't follow the guidance of Allah and His Messenger, then we're doomed.
Think about this.
When you read this Hadith, or when you think about the content of this Hadith, it means there's one organ in this body. That's the spokesman, the ambassador, he represents you, wherever you feel, the tongue is the spokesman. So whatever the tongue says, that decides the future of the person.
And this is why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam according to soil Buhari, and the Hadith is narrated by Abu huraira the law while
it's amazing
when you know that one word, uttered by that tongue could be the decisive factor in your future, and you will end up in general or hellfire.
In this Hurry, he is a very serious study he said in the lab De Leon, Taco Bell, Kalima Mengele, Diwan in La, La Ilaha, banan, Fatah, foghorn de la Hidaka.
A slave would utter a word, he doesn't even think about it.
You know, what's the impact of that word? I'm just talking. I'm passing time. I'm just having fun.
One word,
he said that word would please Allah, even though he didn't think about it. It could be designing the future of someone.
You got it, someone to do something good. And he'll be better than you. That's why you come in today, gentlemen, and he will say mountains of Yama. I didn't do that much.
How can I have all these good deeds? You'd say? Do you remember my slave Swan? So
when you said this to him, and he started following this, so all what he has done is any record of good deeds because I made you the reason for guidance for him. One word,
fall over in the wind, that word that you uttered, would raise you and elevate your rank with Allah. He said Dora, Jad, many ranks.
And you know, in general, may Allah subhanaw taala guide all of our steps two gentlemen say I mean, it's amazing that between one rank of gender and the other is 500 years.
So one word could elevate you many ranks for just one bank, one word,
but that word is pleasing to Allah.
Be careful because the Harris did not finish.
Because that tongue is a mixed blessing. It's a double edged weapon. You can use it that way or that way. He said, we're in the lab De
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Yet another slave may utter a word without thinking.
Where's that word going to be? Is it going to be written here or here?
Then this word would be the reason for him to end up in hellfire. One word.
This is why the whole book today is about the importance
of whatever comes out of your time. How would you be using your tongue Allah subhanaw taala has given you you know a buddy and he created you in the perfect form was in Santa Monica, California in Santa Fe accent aqui, we have created man in the best form.
And he gave you a tongue to express yourself to speak. But yet, he told you what comes out of your mouth. He gave us a parable in Surah
14, Abraham at 24 and 25 he said baba baba masala, I was given an example. Can you imagine?
A good world. Cash
is like a good tree, a fruitful tree.
A slow habit. It's deeply rooted.
It's a very strong and beautiful tree. The road is deeply established. One photo half is summer. And the branches of that tree is high, almost touching the sky.
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it will always gives you fruit. Why? Because the good word when you say a good word, to your son, your daughter, your spouse,
to your colleague, to somebody who works for you, to a client, to your neighbor, to any human being.
And it's a good word. It's an encouraging word. It's a positive word. Every time they remember it didn't feel good.
And they'll be appreciative of what you have done. They can say Subhanallah this person is a very sweet person. Nothing comes of his of his heart of his mouth, except good words.
And we have a saying in Arabic that says gentlemen journalisten Ashok dementia his son, meaning
the scar, that the word, the hurtful word would leave on the heart is worse than a cut by a knife.
What do you mean by that?
If you cut yourself by a knife by mistake or something, what happens? By the passage of time it heals, and it's gone.
But when you say a bad word that hurts the feeling of someone every time they remember it, it brings the pain again. It's like a scar on the heart.
So watch out what comes out of your mouth.
And some people say
Hey brother, look, I'm just passing time man, I'm talking.
Am I accountable for everything that comes out of my mouth? I told you one word could take you to gender one word could take you to Jannah
and this is why when the prophets of Salaam
said this in front of more and more it is known to be the most knowledgeable amongst the Sahaba. The prof Salim said about him yatimer idml kiama ouabain avena Rama Rama Rajan. Many more will be coming in the front and there is a like there's a huge distance between him and all the scholars of this oma
he's in the top.
So when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
was asked, according to the hottie,
you know after lovely massage narrated this video, he said, I asked the professor Solomon, I said, Prophet of Allah, what is the most beloved act of worship in the sight of Allah?
Allah, Allah to Allah, He said to pray on time.
Like what else what comes next? He said, and he Islam and Muslim Mohammed Masonic.
It is the fact that the Muslims are saved from the heart and the harm that comes out of your mouth.
And sometimes when we talk, we just talk.
But do you think any word is missed of what you say?
Is it just written? No. It's written, recorded, calculated, and it's ready on the Day of Judgment. Reading so often cast that you should remind yourself every Friday by reading this surah so number 18, and number 49, Allah Allah says while all the islands
That means book. That's your book. That's your record.
You will be given that record.
Those who speak without thinking of what they say, and they think it's gone, it's just air coming out. No, he called them criminals
and they will be scared to death when they see what's in that record, the record is not missing anything that you said.
Why up una de la Tana? They're gonna say why, you know why? Why is why then feature Hunnam, the serif woman who Johanna Machida female other,
they're gonna ask for that spot in jaaneman
is called the way if not best said it's a spot and janam out of which janam itself seeks refuge with Allah from the punishment on that spot. He's going to that spot.
You know, when somebody is told that, you know what you'll be executed in two days, those 48 hours they will pass like 48 years.
And they will even say, you know what, you better come and do it now. Because I can like I can stop imagining myself being hanged.
So these people because they see the crimes, the words that came out and they thought they were easy, they're written they're they're calculated they're ready.
How come that this record is not missing? That day when I just looked down upon someone I didn't even say anything.
I know that someone has said luck
is too slim.
What I did this
certain.
This is called body language.
Money.
No minor, nor major sin will be missing on that day. Everything is there while
I'm in Ohio.
They will find everything they have said and they have done is present in the record. Well, if
Allah will never do injustice to you, I was gonna say
instead of 17 Allah said, read your record. Kasab, enough sequel. yamaneika Ziva, be your own judge today. Look, did I add anything? Did my ancients add anything against you? There's nothing missing good deeds on their bad deeds of them.
So watch out.
And this is why
when
a bee suddenly said he came and asked the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said prophet of Allah give me advice
on the box, and I'm extending his tongue out. And he heard it, said MC gallica. hada Hold this.
Well, Yasaka betook spent quality time with your family. What Jalla hottie attic and cry over your sense.
So more I mentioned earlier, when he heard the processor, I'm saying I'm sick la kellisa like Hold your tongue. If you want to be saved in this dunya he said
shall we be held accountable for things that we say? He let go okay. And while he said May your mother lose you Why? Lie you keep Vanessa furnari Allah will do him a favor why Allah mana hearing him.
So listen to him nothing will be the main reason for people to be grabbed on their faces and thrown into him fire except the harvest of their tongues.
Be careful.
You know some some hypocrites coming back from one of the battles they were talking they said Mallanna Nara Allah, Allah meaning the memorizers of the Quran
butanna they have big villas. Why don't you enter into the car and they're always at the back of the battle when we fight.
And then Allah heard them and he recorded this in the Quran.
I think the proscenium brought them he said, What did you say about the forefathers
or dispersing time
entertaining ourselves.
Allah subhanaw taala recorded this in a manner
that I believe it was going to test as you
are you ridiculing Allah and His words, this or fast or memorizing the words of Allah? Are you making fun of them, and the words of Allah and the messenger nakazato.
Now, you're out of Islam.
One word, you come into Islam, La ilaha illa Allah.
And one word you might say, making fun of the book of Allah to take you out of Islam. One way to get into marriage have been to Minka I accept marrying your daughter, one word, you're divorced, you're out of marriage.
So watch out. Because sometimes when you're angry, you say the word you could, Suppan Allah Doom, the future of a whole family. And then you come to them and say, I'm sorry, I was angry. I didn't mean it. It's done. And what's done cannot be undone.
Watch out what comes out of your tongue.
One word.
One word, you might say when you're angry, you might ruin your relationship with your closest friend. One word by politicians could cause a war between two nations. One word.
This is why I do the one is to say
man's words, reveal his own words, you might have some people who are sitting, they don't talk at all. You think they are wise. And when they talk, you say I wish they hadn't even talked.
So we always say Think before you leave meaning thing before you move a step forward. And also think before you speak.
If that word is gonna be in it in here, say it is gonna be written here. Don't say it. Because a lot told us and sort of half.
So number 50, is 17 and 18. In the aterna.
A lot of science, two engines, one of the right hand side, one on the left hand side there waiting for anything that comes out of your mouth. Even if it's body language.
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Allah said,
an utterance didn't say even word, an utterance. You know, when you say, Oh,
that's, that's what, that's not a word. That's why I must pass it off. Off is not a word. It's what? It's frustration. You're just expressing frustration. Don't even say this. When your parents say do this. And they say
that's written.
They have done a lot to make you who you are. And then when they ask you for something, you have some frustration.
There's no reason for you to be here. Is that gratitude?
So this is very important.
And the professor ceremony was asking, give us a definition who's a Muslim?
And you're going to say Oh, somebody who says lay an alarm Hamas? Hello? Yeah. That's the beginning. But what's the essence of Islam? Islam is not theory. Islam is a way of life.
So he talked about the practicality he said, and Muslim men Solomon, Muslim or Middle East and he said, he said, a true Muslim is someone who is saving other people
from his tongue and his hands.
People should be safe from your tongue and your hands. You don't take anything from them. That's not yours. You don't say anything bad about them.
And always be positive.
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The professor says I'm sitting with Sharia law one. And we all know how shocked unless she was very jealous.
And the name of Sophia came up in the conversation.
So I saw the one I felt jealous. She said, like fake um, and Sophia Anna, and she did this. Isn't it enough that Sophia is and she did this. What does that mean? Short?
That she said, No. She raised her hand. But they did. She delivered the message with her hand. Yes, we call this body language.
And the professor Lamb who never got angry for himself, because he doesn't have an ego. What did they say about him? Sir? magician, Sham poet, Majnoon crazy calvaire liar. He never responded. He never cared even about what they're saying.
And he's teaching us because you and I get angry for ourselves. But we don't get angry for the Huck.
Never get angry for yourself because the promiseland never did this. But get angry when I was disobeyed in front of you.
get angry when this religion is not respected in front of you.
This is when you should get angry. This is the positive anger
in the person I'm sitting with the Sahaba when they said other phenomena Hey, faster for lohani separation.
Shall I share with you how Allah subhanaw taala takes away the swearing and the insulting of Christ away from me.
Allah please teach us you know that they gave him a different name his name is Mohammed a very beautiful name, the one who should be thankful for all the good and and and the light and the guidance he brought to humanity. That's Mohammed, somebody who's worthy of thanking all the time. That's the meaning of Mohammed. So they used to call him the opposite with them.
So he said, This mme did this. So perfectly Mr. Smile?
And he said, Do you know how long it takes the swearing and then something away from me? They said no prophet, Allah teachers. He said, in the homeo, buena Madonna, they are cursing and insulting somebody called the mme and I'm Mohammed.
As simple as that.
But when Sophia was not there to defend herself, the promiseland angry.
He said,
Well, Nadine fcpa de
la muchacha de la jolla to buy the one in whose hands is my soul, you have uttered a word if it were to be mixed with the water of the ocean. It would spoil it.
Did she say a word? Let the problem come today. And listen to our talks when we talk
about each other behind each other.
When you're sitting at the dinner table, and you start mentioning everyone, or do you see the brother who, who I saw in the gym or look at the way he had his haircut, if you go and talk to him, what he talked about him.
Talk to me, don't talk about me. Because when you talk to me, it's advice. And that's the essence of division a didn't give me advice, I will benefit and you will benefit and Allah will reward you for that. But when you talk behind my back, that's backbiting it's a crime. It's a major sin.
One time somebody is like, No, I didn't see the man paying this window of money.
Okay, so why don't you come and tell me because I'll tell you.
So when you say this, this is backbiting
it's a major sin. And the punishment, Allah will bring you in the Day of Judgment, and he will bring the dead body of that person that you were backbiting is gonna say it from that dead body. That's the punishment. While
I'm not making this up, I'm giving you the evidence now, that so number 49 and number 12.
Allah says, Don't walk back by one another. Do not slander one another. Do not talk behind the back of someone. Are you Hippo?
coolala.
Would you like to eat the dead body of your brother?
You wouldn't mind that.
Some of the Sahaba did. After you know the pastor Selim applied the penalty of stoning to death for my eyes.
And the man died.
He was stoned to them.
And the processor ram preyed on him, and they buried him. On the way back from the funeral, too. We're talking behind the processor and they said, look at this man, he died like a dog. Why did he do this to himself?
Why
we think it's easy. It's the professor I'm stumped. She's horrible to people talking. This Is Us profit of alliances. Hold on stop here. And there was a deep body of a donkey.
He said stop going eat from the dead body.
This is profitable Mommy, Allah forgive you like, who would eat from that even if it was alive.
He said, that's exactly what you did. Your brother now is swimming in the rivers of gentlemen, because he made Toba
and we applied the penalty of stoning to death. And you're talking about him?
A word could take you to a word could take you to China. So watch out. Don't say, I'm passing time. Don't say, you know what, what I'm saying is true. Let me ask you a question. Was Sofia short? Yes. Did I shall I know.
But what's the problem? She said something about Sophia when Sophia was not there.
So even if you're saying I am obese, or I'm slim.
It's a fact. This is Riba. This is backbiting. Would I like to hear this? know?
If you're saying something about someone and he walks in? Would you continue what you're saying? No, you'll stop. That's backbiting.
So the message today that we should take home is the tongue has a big responsibility. The tongue represents all your body, you might have the best Eman and your heart. But your tongue might misguide you and mislead you. This is why I remind you of the beginning of the hotbar of the Hadith. Every single day. When the son of Adam wakes up in the morning, all the organs talk to the tongue and they say it Lahaina Be careful. Watch out everything you say. Because you're going to guide us to China or to China.
And I'm remind you on myself, before you say a word, thing, if there's going to be written here, do it, with your neighbors, with your friends, with your family, with everyone, be positive, use positive language, stay away from foul language. That's what the prophet SAW Islam used to do. And I'll conclude with a practical example. When they came to the prophet SAW Selim telling him the story of a woman and the way she behaved the way she used her tongue would have neighbors they said prophet of Allah, so on so you know, is not only a practicing Muslim, but she doesn't only pray the five day the five times a day she prays the night prayers. She doesn't only fast on Ramadan, she
first like Mondays and Thursdays she does extra fasting. Not only the she gives the car, but she gives also extra soda. You know, and she memorizes the Quran and she decides to pour on day and night mash Allah that's nice about it. That's what herself now what about the people you could do could be the best I have it martial law, you do the mystery better. But what's the benefit of URI better if it doesn't change your character to make you a better person?
Because it's Aki than rabada. a club marmelade. This Deen is four components, you can disconnect them, you know Allah, you worship Allah the way he likes, then that will change your character to be a better person. And I can see your good character, it will only be manifested in the way you treat others, whether they're Muslims or non Muslims because somebody might come to us like No, they're not Muslim chef anyway. No. Allah said the rule in dealing even with non Muslims read in salt in Montana. So number 16, Number eight, Allah Subhana Allah says, lay in her own law. Allah does not forbid you. And in Medina, Lamia, Kata lucam 15, as regards those who do not fight you on account of
your faith, your religion, whatever you're going to do coming dare come and they don't expel you out of your own homes and into our room to do better to them. You know the word that's used with the with the parents, Allah saying, this is the way you should deal with any non Muslim as long as they don't fight you because of your faith, and they don't expect you out of your home.
Do better to them.
And to be fair with them, don't say he's gonna miss them. I'm gonna side with my friend who's a Muslim. No.
Justice is the essence of all the religions and all the books.
Do you know that there is an error but I don't have time for this. This is an eye opener for Allah subhanaw taala revealed that I have to prove the innocence of a Jewish man who was accused by the Muslims, the Quran, in the Quran.
It's all about justice. Even if it's going to be against me, I have to say justice.
Allah says in the law you have been boxed in Allah loves those who are fair.
So that woman, the process of God, that report is that that woman, she does all these good things. Well, I can add to the Giana happiness Ania but she hurts her neighbors would have done the person said
if she continues to do what she's doing perfect and a bother. But when it comes to dealing with people she's doing this she'll end up in hellfire. All the trouble
I will not benefit her.
Because Are you two persons either a better should change you.
But the opposite scenario he was told about another woman who does the minimum he look like the bare minimum of a better just praise the five times and she, you know she just gives the guy and she only first Ramadan, but she treats her neighbors who come on here Fujin is a tool in the opinion. Why? Because she benefited by her I better it changed her character. May Allah subhanaw taala make us amongst those who listen to the speech and follow the rest of it
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