Channel: Reda Bedeir
What is a man
it's narrated by
old man came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with only students ages.
It is almost like closing his eyes.
And he said,
I have committed
so many sins so much.
If we were to be distributed amongst mankind, it will destroy them
if I go back and return
and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked him,
worship the law, and the witness that I am the messenger of Allah.
And the man said, Yes, in the
last panel, tada, we accept you and forgiving
himself. He said, we are assuming law
The nature says,
My teachers that I have betrayed A lot of times, I have violated the law almost
in the process,
alone, except you,
the man turned away.
So happy so
every time I share this hobby,
it was very meaningful. To my mind.
It's a message of hope.
And this is why the topic today is about
what's the meaning of
what are the things that you should look for from
who should make table
what type of table
to expect from us
and what are the conditions of therapy, if I were to fulfill a once upon
a time accept and guarantee that moto is accepted by
other people who have made
an allowance of power that
has forgiven them
the last lesson,
you start to work in the Arabic language,
and further in the Arabic language
which needs to go back
to so to
follow a loss of Hello
Leaving a turn back to a loss of color if you need to resort
back to a loss of honey
indoors, have your
baby by midnight
of all it's open 24 seven
form of surveys
that you some of us
have gone to the extreme
types of surveys
have collected originator says that you might think Oh
Indeed a once upon
in your home
is the only forgiving.
So, this is the linguistic meaning it's to go back
the technical meaning that further is
to go back to a law and seek His forgiveness.
Next question is
we should make terrible
or three types of sins, minor sins and major sins.
And before I go into about them, sometimes people get asked this question they say
is this is neither a major
The scholars answer this question by saying
American Indian men
do not ask about the size of
will give you
a preview the eyes that you might use
to give you the hands give you the
ears and the hearing
to give you the brain
all these blessings
and you're interested
and this is why
if you go to
you will know
looks upon his sins.
As if we are a mountain,
a huge mountain. It's about to crumble
and fall and is just destroyed.
But the heat is forcing
him to see the signs
as if it's a fly that stuck on his face face and they did like that. It just goes away.
do step into the first election the first century
after the profits
and we see them
as if they are
we used to be offended at the time of the officer
As if they are deadly sins, major sins
is talking to first century
now of the
things that we do sometimes take them lightly slandering. gossiping
is a major
the minor says it majors. The good news is the profit
is repeated in
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salatu salam,
Jamal Juma Ramadan, Ramadan
any minor sins that you might feel
between one salon the other
one from one Friday and the other
one online the other,
as long as you stay
as long as the person stays away from the major things
as regarding the major cities,
that could be another topic.
Because there are so many things that people take lightly, without realizing that they are a major
Some people lie
when you talk to them, it's a it's a lifeline.
gave you the 40 credit lines?
It's a major
And then came to me. And I said, I don't know what to give you.
Everything possible and more How can I help them to stop lying?
It must have been learning
starts at home.
On I gave him an example.
When the phone rings
that's what we do.
Yeah, caller ID
and then the kids will say to him or her
of the phone
series zero to talk to them.
And he doesn't
look at it
or talk to your dad is he here? And then the kid is gonna
say and then the band. It's like this
and he needs to sell the ball
What do you mean by this
is going to be confused.
And talk loudly because the other end is going to come close.
And we will see.
we'll go back to the phone and say
my dad is telling you he's up here.
What is that?
It's a major sin
and of course
think that we are teaching our kids professional life.
And this is what happens.
Sisters, let me just
back up if you allow me some time somebody
will be there to
the unpivot you don't want to see the film that you don't want to talk to you
come back and say, hey mom
and tell her go back, go back and tell her mom sleeping.
Hey Auntie, my mom's telling you that she's sleeping.
She talks about sleep.
So back to the topic.
Sometimes we do things without realizing that we are teaching our kids
a very bad habit
and major sin which is lying.
stealing from this.
to major sins.
How can we
make Toba for major sins
in the first
step about the free ones first.
Hello, everyone relates to human beings.
As for the three ways
the first one
good. Let's see.
should be early
with one sincere intention to please
you think I'm gonna stop this and for other reasons. Yes. Sometimes you start the same
example you go to the doctor.
The doctor says you someone
don't stop smoking.
Then stop drinking.
And then the people would stop
smoking simply because you're gonna die.
Not realizing that life and death is in the hands of a law
or in the hands of the doctor because the doctor himself did say it's
just a personal experience
before he started
I heard that he was sick.
So I said to him Is it true that you were sick last week?
I said yes.
How can it get sick aren't your doctor
started laughing I said when I was a child
no ideology is
the doctrine itself is easy. Okay, let's get out of here this man is gonna encrypt us is the this is the
needs a boxer is sick.
the number one
only tip number two.
You have a sensor
and the most you have committed such sense
as it is
the profits of the La Jolla salon
if you'd like to know the good news
Some interaction because it's very difficult to talk to a camera to a PC. And it just
I don't know how to use this in line.
So the good news from the process about regret and remorse
in the person wants to go back to
his head. And let me tell you
the sense of the sense of remorse in itself is terrible is repentance.
Why? Because, because he
informed us through the process,
that when a person says a Stanford Law,
and he or she needs
to seek forgiveness from a loss of Hello,
and Nancy talks to the aging of
knows that he has a master
will hold him accountable.
is that I have forgiven him or her.
Or Allah forgive me of not lip service, it should be meant, because sometimes, it's a case that we do.
And we face that we don't say,
we have to say,
they have to say,
efficient in my mind.
I'm so sorry for the quality of my speech, because I refuse to ever want to apologize. So please, please just bear with me and forgive me for that.
we've covered so far, how many conditions for Toba
and also how many of them relate to Allah.
second one, is to
have a sense of regret, or remorse, that you can repeat the same.
It's good as a kid
is to have a strong
have a strong determination not to go back.
and many things that will help you to do that is to change your company.
With the company.
You're just trying to be funny. It means to change your friends.
also choose the environment
and take away things that will remind you that it's a laptop, some pictures of whatever case some books, some magazines.
So, these are the three conditions you may think
them, as he
as strong determination of
the fourth edition, the fourth edition relates to your fellow human beings, and this
us to determine meaning
restitution of rights.
And ask the people for forgiveness if you have wronged them, if you have taken anything from them. So I've been mobile, if you have taken anything from anyone, give it back.
Give it back into senior why still have some
materialistic things in your hands.
For example, if you have taken
something as little as a CD, as a book
our friends will be shocked
when it comes to the rights of people
it could be
something concrete, something tangible, something that you can touch or something abstract
things the materialistic things that are complete you have to give them back
isn't asking me
it's something disposable
or consumed for example
then the answer will be
at the back
What if there's nothing similar?
If I give it back
a setback in my mind
you can discover the
fate of my friends.
In this case, I'll do my best inshallah.
Can you just let me know
the voice is better this way so I can start to speak louder.
Okay, okay. Okay.
yeah, the last one I was talking about was
the thing that I took from someone's disposable
and ask me
I can't see the camera.
I always crash my mind.
So, yes, as I said like no so you buy something similar to it and give it love it there's nothing
if this is gonna cause you a setback or embarrassment, what you need to do is give Saba give some charity but in the name of the person that you took something from
loss of power
acts of worship like stablishing like prayers
you know, like fasting Mondays and Thursdays Ramadan three days in the middle of the normal calendar.
What about if the person is
left the country passed away?
Okay, this is about the concrete rights What about the abstract lens for example, you slander gossip
and I know that this is the big challenge for sisters
even though it's the first time
I always say that the biggest challenge for systems is
the agree with me or agree.
electrical systems, because some systems be offended by that.
So controlling are
very big challenges in practice for both men and women but it for women
So if we,
have access to them.
And we don't have to give them a list,
and I made mistakes, and we all make mistakes. So if I have
options, please forgive me
if this is going to cause you a problem, and that person had issues with anger, and
if you can find them, same thing,
do lots of stuff,
ask for forgiveness, the extra two acts of worship, and also give charity gifts
into the amount forgive you and give them very word for that charity. In
other words, these people will come up with a judgement right before you make it to gender after the past stages, including
how far along they can claim the rights back, you know.
So they're gonna take it
And then the person will be unfortunately going back.
Okay, let's move on to the last few questions. And the next one would be
sometimes we think highly of ourselves.
I know somebody like that you pray, they're going to say,
So like my dad is a bit extreme.
My mom's really extreme and she prays like two times a day.
Despite the fact
that he was
one time they came to me
two times style. And they say, What are you doing? And he said,
Nothing is going to take me to
accept the harvest that this
would be say over the phone, talk about 15 minutes talking about this person, that person
and we take it lightly, we don't know that this is a this is a major sin. And the punishment for that would be that you will be offered that the body of that person will have a judgment.
Would you love to
have your brother or sister
so I'm going
to start with the home life.
have mentioned yourself.
Forgive me his past and future sins, and I don't know any.
I mean, nobody can tell me like when sin
And even though I promised him if you have any sense, I have forgiven the past and the future. This type. He'd be standing overnight for free
pay for what has done this to me.
Shouldn't I be thankful to Allah subhanaw taala?
we need to know
that we should all make them. But still, I'm sure that some of you are not convinced. You know, I'm good enough? I don't know, I don't need to do
Or what do you mean, in Arabic, that means
when I say soldier, I'm not biased in translation, it means
he didn't say how to
uncouple, the Arabic language.
It's a form of exaggeration, meaning all the friends that are in a constant state of selling, stop now and reflect on themselves.
And sometimes we think, as a means of, I have to do something, no. Sometimes same could be, I didn't do something I should have done.
You think a lot today, or your eyes.
Above that? How many people have eyes but they don't see
the eyes and the ability to see
or take it for granted?
You felt a lot taller today for your ears.
And hold on. above that. You thanked him for the ability to hear when people have ears.
And the list goes on and on and on alone?
Do we use what Allah subhanho wa Taala has given us
to please Him,
or to please ourselves.
we need to be grateful to Allah subhanaw taala in the
sense of Adam are in a constant state of
of the children of Adam, is
it one of the children.
So you cannot be an exception, you cannot be an exception. So nobody can come and say, Mama
made a statement. It's a very strong statement that
the constant state of committing mistakes and sending good news, if you like to hear the good news,
were higher and hotter.
And the best amongst those who are in a constant state of selling are those who are in a constant state of repenting and going back to a time isn't this good news? It's not too late.
and ask Him to forgive you. And the doors open 24 seven.
Now, so do we all admit now that we can make mistakes and are not the best?
Yeah, all of my status in my, in my Facebook. I love that statement.
he had lived amongst them for 40 years.
And he never lived in time.
And then I said, How many times do we live every day?
Somebody said 616. Somebody said 40.
So let's, let's make a deal with a one especially.
But we're not gonna lie.
And when I say the truth, even if sometimes they get you in trouble,
you better get in trouble now.
Before we get in trouble
what we need to do is
to realize that we all make mistakes. And as they say, if you go to the doctor, you want him to teach him, you have to admit that you are sick, and I like to write
so now we have to admit
that we are sinners. No
We are in a constant state of selling my rifle, right?
It's right, this type of second, right? They're both lights in both worlds.
some people are still not convinced. You know, I'm good I do this and I do that like, you know, okay.
Let me give you this.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
said in the hobby,
to be in a law
firm back in repentance, and asked him for forgiveness for me
I make Toba and I asked a lack of forgiveness 70 times a day, sisters, that's the process and I'm talking because someone asked Allah for forgiveness 70 times a day. And he said 100 times a day. If the processor is doing this, How many times should you and I ask a lot of forgiveness?
Are you still hesitant? Admit yourself and say I need to return I need to go back before it's too late.
Now, let's go to the poor
he will insert a new cell number 24 and number 31
a loss of Hello data at the end of this is set
by the way, this is this is a verb in the imperative. This is a command but Allah subhanaw taala just as we are all Muslims here, right? What is the meaning of being a Muslim?
man says we should give me the word. It's good.
You see that? submit? Mashallah.
He was after America could have given you candy because it always depended two people will answer and give you the right question. So what sister Amira will do this session
Yes, you should submit unless colonias
Alaska mining us and if they were to
continue, even law, they make sure that the people because sometimes we will talk about because I'm not gonna steal because people will discover this, I'm going to be embarrassed. I will not do this, I will not do that, because people might know this. You
should be only to please Allah, sincerity of intention.
is the meaning of the word Gemini.
no exception, when the when the profits are seven, yes. When the when the props are selling. So who
is it? The sons of Adam, alert officer here.
in this What did he say?
Are you sinful or you sinners? You have
all those home themselves? and transcripts, the limits of Allah
really say and your health care for all of this delivers? No. Did he say any you
Muslims know Russia.
And we all know that in this day, we have three degrees, Islam.
Let us learn
about your cousin or your sister or something. Islam is the first degree
is something that you fill in the heart, and you feel the sweetness of it, after you submit a loss of data, and then upgrade yourself, and you do more and more and more and go closer to Allah subhanaw taala you try to reach the level of
worship, as if you see him.
This is the highest degree.
Learn why it's
so that we might achieve success. And that success will be in
are we all convinced now that we are supposed to make
all of us should we make over?
some people might say,
okay, all the time, anytime. Okay. Now, let me finish with the last three things that I promise to answer. What
is the last hurdle expect from us?
To answer this question?
Allah subhanho wa Taala.
Do you hear that?
Allah is not saying
I want you to listen carefully. Because Allah addresses us in three ways in the Quran, either he says, you have any Adam, a children of Allah.
That's true, everyone.
And 20 times he says in the
last a long time, people believers and non believers, but guess what?
89 times in the Quran, Allah says.
So you stopped talking
You left whatever you do, and you came here to increase it.
You came here to
you can hear because you care about your team you care about a lot.
So every time I hear you,
I remember what
he said all the time. When you
listen carefully, because after after he was gonna say do something.
Still come something?
Yes, exactly. is either going to command us to do something
with us. And save.
So this one.
And that's what I tell my students all the time. So when you hear
I want to think about this, as
proud. I'm not certain.
But I'm proud to be a pastor. And I wish to be amongst the true believers. Or lessons. Yeah, you're
so happy. Make me amongst those struggling to
get me to that level. I deserve to be amongst
Allah said to be even more
you expect from us? Is it
expecting from us? What's the meaning?
In Arabic they say.
They say you know, I purified the honey and I take all the waste and residues from it so becomes very, very pure. As if Allah subhanaw taala is say
make Toba purely for my sake. Make
turtleback sincerely, only to me.
That's the type of labor that I lost
Now, now that we almost answered all the questions who have left only
before my time comes to an end and then open the floor for q&a, if you can still bear with me by holding voice, and my voice, speech and sound.
Next question is,
are there any stories
of the people who make COBOL? acceptable?
Are there any
in the history of Islam? We make?
Lots of them. Lots of them. You own?
What do you call that?
See soccer, right?
that man who wanted to repeat what happened last time?
So if you notice that I don't have to go into the details
of the man who came
To start just to remind you, maybe because sometimes we've added up and added something to
the ending of the happy ending of that this is very important. When the angels of punishment and angels of mercy, argue you should take your soul because the man only just murmurations work towards the end of favor. And then he passed away.
He said that he walked a little bit, but then he passed away in his way just to look around the fold, but you didn't do anything? Good. This is why the end of the punishment was saying, you know, we are the ones who should take your soul because there's never been anything good.
The angels of mercy will say no.
What did they say? That's what they want you to underline. necochea.
you know why. And this is very, very important to understand.
so that you can in front of you
at that story and what it means.
That's the object.
And then I'm going to explain the meaning. Meaning, the first word,
meaning, what's the meaning of meaning?
without procrastination, without procrastination, without delay,
you never know.
die before I finish this for
any of us, the angel of death could be with us now. And it could be the time of me or any one of you. So we shouldn't delay. And this is why that man didn't say, okay, after this call upon him, he should leave. You know, your people, your community, because it's about community and go to that
community and worship along with them because they're righteous people. It is an opportunity just to go back home and do this and do that.
In fact, what we did
he left to the land.
So that's the first one because we he sincerely from the heart, to sometimes
what we don't mean it.
This is why as I said earlier, so that you need a mirror to say when you're dealing with a lie,
and there is no harm to your husband, if you have learned.
And the last part of it even more. So the turbo was meant to Allah. And you see the word for that from Allah. He's seeking the support from Allah.
Are there other stories? Yes.
in Sahih, Muslim
with the owner
of Islam into my heart, I went to the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam, and extended my hand and I said, Give me your hand. I want to give you the Pledge of Allegiance. I want to be a Muslim. And then Absalom smiled and he gave his hands but yet
took his hand away.
wrong with you out of storage?
I have a condition he said, What is it? Is it a new formula?
Don't you know that once you become a Muslim
This is why I always ask the brothers and the sisters to revert back to Islam. Always make that for you. And for everyone in the message once they take the Shahada. You know, why is that better than everyone else was born as a Muslim.
Have a new slate
last week, there was a sister who was one of my students at the University of Alberta. And she she took
she took the Sahara was so happy because this is the best thing you could achieve in your life and it's a blessing from Allah subhanaw taala
and in support Allah
And also, after you finish the first Shahada, it's amazing that a sister came on the sun said I'm ready. Can you give me the Shahada to
That's great. And I asked him to make that for me and for everyone in the ministry.
So I would ask the system here to reverse whether they are one hour or one year old, 10 years old, he's still younger than me. And then anybody who was born as a Muslim
for us inshallah
Okay, by the way, you know, the meaning, you know, the meaning of the word, I mean,
you know, the meaning of the word, I mean,
okay? The meaning of the word me,
asked me again, inshallah.
back to the study of
I turned you
cliffhangers. I don't know how to do.
last story is like some people came to the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam.
They came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and
they said, the hammer sallallahu sallam,
we have gone to the extreme and connected all types of sins.
know, you name it, all types of things.
But we really love that which okay.
So is there any way if we will accept
the message that you have been sent with
to me are the most
you can use this later on.
Simply for Part 68%
or less of Hana what Allah says, in response to those people who came, they have committed all types of sins. And they were looking for hope. So let's
because of the question of
a loss of data
and those who do not associate partners with a loss of
and they do not
take the life of a person except
they will see
and the punishment for those people will be multiplied.
In humiliation, eternity,
she for the good news, listen to the ending of the in
except for this
what's waiting for them?
And they believe
and they do like to see what's the reward from all
embrace it replace the record of bad deeds
systems if I were to make right now, and I'm the worst person amongst you,
if I have a record of 2 million bad deeds, a loss
we'll replace it with record books 2 million beats if you still procrastinate
if you miss this opportunity to replace your record
When should I
When should I go back? Go back before it's too late.
And the answer is and
And the eye
34. The last I
was gonna say
what provision How much would they like to know
and nobody knows where or when
systems if you know you're gonna die
because the box will insert a row acceptable as the as the teacher.
as long as you're still alive and
out of his mercy
are going to die. It will be so depressed when they know they have only one hour, one year, one month to live
and you can
When people hear this from doctors,
they get so depressed, even though doctors do not know, it just like telling you
that you might have likely
because of cancer.
And so how many people outlive the doctors and for years or 40 years?
since we don't know, when you're gonna die into electrical systems
Yes, one hour ago
that it now,
two types that it will or volume or
If you like to be amongst,
I'm sure all of you want to be amongst
thank you so much for listening. I hope it added some clarity like I apologize
for the bad quality of my voice or loss of data
or loss of
speech and follow the rest of it.
See, you will have a better quality of voice which is, you know,
the humor that I used to
share in my lectures.
Okay, what does that mean? It
means a lot.
It's an award, which means
And this is why we say
early in the salon.
That's exactly that's
a fair system.
That's That's number 34.
And the last part of it and no one knows
get an honorable
and at a moment of obedience to Him because my daughter is always on law. Take my soul while I'm in a state of security
in the middle of the night,
and you can
you can follow
like my page and this is exactly how my name would appear in Facebook. If your Facebook
maybe you could benefit from
Should I just answer the questions right away?
inshallah, inshallah it will be my honor to come back inshallah.
Do you want me to read the questions for you? Or do you want to just go down the wall and read them and answer and
the idea is that I think
will be different
reasons check or the same one
I'll read them as I get them. Maybe we'll put them in the moderator chat inshallah. If a person has taken Shahada and wish to repent, can they take Shahada
when it comes to Shahada once you think the shadow of
Allah subhanaw taala
has forgiven all your past
you start like proxy Islam so ya know, salaam Zakaria the CR on the hedge, but then if you can make sense which we all do along the way, you can go back they don't have to take shot again because you're already a Muslim inshallah
if if you need more like if my answer is not enough, just please let me know.
Okay. The next question is how can we know when we are sincere and asking for forgiveness?
sincerity is a secret of the heart.
And then nobody can can answer this question except you because you know exactly.
You feel it in your heart. And you can see the consequence of that
you can get the benefit of it, you can reap the benefit of it.
you know, sometimes we say things just with our friends.
if your dad or your husband or your boss whatever it is somebody who has authority over you, they say something
to get away from them just like okay, okay. So, you say things that you don't need them, but if you say a stuck for a while, I mean from the heart, it will bring tears to your eyes. And you can feel it inside
you know, you know the
depth of the lines
if you are contented
with Islam as your
as as a messenger. So, you can feel it, how many times have you played a few times when you felt like some peace and tranquility deep inside.
So, this is this is how you feel.
And of course, you will see like the impact of this on on your enjoyment of the connection and the loss of
interactivity. If you read the Quran with sincerity it will do h2 eyes will hit you in the heart. Now for example, if you're listening to my talk, just like you know, it just comes to his ears. But if you are listening with the good intention with sincerity, it will hit you in the heart and you will see
make sense to you?
Okay, we have one last question which promise in the verse 25 of Sir Elmo, what does this mean?
What Allah subhanaw taala said
to Allah said that, the disbelievers
talking to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
If you if you just
talk to him about the fact that, you know, there's a judgment that we used to deny that even if you just
said, you know, he's the one
Earth and property to procreate and multiply.
And to help this resurrection to him, it will be it will be gathered, worship, and will be held accountable for what they used to say in here.
me come to life and then we'll die.
this is the main key.
And this is the first one.
So, you know,
it's a state
it's a statement in the form of a question, no matter how
the display doesn't matter, out of mockery,
ridiculing the processor, and they say you keep promising, promising us that there is a lucky
winner is that day,
out of mockery, they're not asking because they want to know that they're making fun of him because they don't believe in that to the promise here. In fact, it's not a promise it's a warning.
When you see
something, there's a difference between these two words. And the first one is
The second one is warning
of resurrection and the Day of Judgment. For those who disobey it is warning that why would Allah Subhana Allah say a lot, because if
it's something good as if it's a promise, if you Stop being stubborn, if you stop believing, it's a promise for you, you take it from now, they will get away from the punishment. So it's a form of gender, if you accept that
it's a warning and the warning if it is not too late, it's something good once you start doing this, you'll be rewarded.
So here means it is the promise that action and this other thing Incoterms are the key if you are putting us the truth and this one the next I
must say to them, the manager that day long job that comes day is only
promise and a warning
word maybe also
somebody who carries a warning to you and she is the opposite somebody who calls a good news for you. So the problem was Bashir and so the good news for those who submit and believe that there will be gender and like a warning for those who choose to discover
and it's amazing support another
Mashallah, that was the last question and Alhamdulillah we want to thank you for for speaking with us today especially after having surgeries upon Allah I mean truly that is
didn't really mean so much to us.
Thank you so much for having me and inshallah do my best to
whatever time I would be able to love to come back and join you and that's going to be my pleasure and so
you definitely have the email so when you have time in your busy schedule, please let me know and I will work you in inshallah.