Rasul Suluki – Loving Your Brothers

Rasul Suluki
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The speaker discusses the importance of telling people that they love people in a way that is not related to their faith. They explain that the concept of love is not just a physical or intellectual expression, but rather a heart-to-head connection. The speaker also emphasizes that love is not just a physical or intellectual expression, but rather a heart-to-head connection.
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We are

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always grateful to Allah for

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having El Maqasit

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and being able to come here.

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And,

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we really like to try to avoid talking.

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But,

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Masha'Allah,

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we,

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I was

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reading the Hadith of the prophet

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where he mentioned

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that you will not be a believer until

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you love each other.

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And,

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in the same chapter he mentioned,

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or in the next chapter he mentioned,

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that if you love someone,

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tell them that you love them.

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And I think

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I'm from a generation where you didn't do

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such,

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you know,

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especially if you were a man, you didn't

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say to your father,

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I love you dad. I mean,

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I wasn't Muslim either, so

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we didn't know that such a thing was

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supposed to take place between

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2 men.

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And so,

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a lot of us

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didn't get a chance to tell our fathers

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that we love them.

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And some of us, it wasn't until they

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were very ill

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that we had the opportunity,

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or we were forced

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by the moment to say,

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I love you.

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And the reason

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for the prophet saying this,

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it was mentioned in the commentary

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that

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it solidifies

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the love between people.

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When you actually tell someone,

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and tell your children

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that you love them.

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You know, we're we're kind of stingy on

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this word, or it becomes the word that

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we kind of say and

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really we're not connected to what we're saying.

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I love you. Well, what does that mean?

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Do you all, do you obey? Do you

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provide? Do you, you know, the other actions

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that go along with this,

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this love.

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So,

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you know, even though you've come from a

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generation and maybe from a household, and I

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may have mentioned this before,

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you know there's some households where they don't

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mention this at all, love for each other,

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And it's really

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sad

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that it doesn't take place because it's,

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you'll

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be surprised the effect that it has on

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people, just as the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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told us that

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to smile

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when

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we're engaging with other people,

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and a smile from someone

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has a tremendous effect on the heart.

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And so,

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what we want to try to do

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is

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the brothers and sisters that we know,

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you don't have to do it today because

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they might think you're just

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copying, but that's not bad either.

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But go and tell the people

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that you love that you love them

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because

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we won't be a believer

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until we love them.

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And the way to nurture that love in

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that same hadith was by giving the salaams.

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But the salaam

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of this is not the salaam,

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It's from the heart.

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And that's where we want to come from.

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My heart to you. Assalamu

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alaikum.

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And to tell you

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that I love you.

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For Allah's sake.

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And if someone says, I love you,

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you say, may the one for whom you

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love me,

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love you.

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Because all of our love is for his

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sake.

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And that's why,

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you know, we're in these sessions like this.

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I mean that

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the reason for coming is that I'm

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I'm praying that Allah

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cause love

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to enter into my heart for him and

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his messenger Muhammad,

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and not just an intellectual

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or sing along

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program, it's really

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to infuse the heart with love for Allah

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and his messenger.

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And if we come out with that, dear

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brothers and sisters, we have

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we have got the world, and and the

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heavens, and the earth, and everything in it.

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So

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we ask Allah

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to help us, to give us tawfiq,

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people of the world. We have a very

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strong presence in the world. We have a

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very strong presence in the world. We have

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a very strong presence in the world. We

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have a very strong presence in the world.

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We have a very strong presence in the

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world. We have a very strong presence in

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the world. We have a very strong presence

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in the world. We have a very strong

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presence in

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the world.

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