Omar Usman – Decisive Deep Dive Prepare To Be Wrong WRAP Framework

Omar Usman
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The wrap framework is designed to help individuals learn to prioritize their options and eliminate biases. It is important to note that setting a trip wire is a good way to set a reminder on a calendar and retain a gym membership. The video series provides additional resources for further learning.
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The last step of the wrap framework is

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p, prepare to be wrong. And what that

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means is that, okay, you may widen your

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options, attain distance before deciding, reality test, do

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all these different things, try to overcome your

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biases, overcome your emotion,

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all of that,

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but still, you need something to signal to

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you if you're going down the wrong path.

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How do you do that? There's a famous

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story about the rock band Van Halen for

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basically being divas, that they would have in

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their lengthy contract rider

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that they wanted a bowl of M and

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M's in their dressing room with all the

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brown ones taken out, and this was something

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that they hid somewhere in the middle of

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that contract rider. Now the reason that they

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did this

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was they had a very they had a

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lot of requirements for their shows. They were

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doing a lot of innovative things with the

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lighting and all of that that wasn't very

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common. And so if their instructions weren't followed

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exactly, it would create a big problem in

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the show and it might actually even create

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safety concerns or create a hazard.

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And so what this did is they could

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walk into the dressing room

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and look at that bowl of M and

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M's and they would know immediately.

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Did the organizers of this event

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pay attention to all the details that we

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put in? If there's no brown M and

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M's, it's a good indicator that yes, everything

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is probably

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taken care of very well.

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But if they found a bowl of M

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and M's

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with the brown ones left in there, it

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was a signal to them that they didn't

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pay attention,

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and we're gonna need to go back and

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verify every single step of the setup process.

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So they created this trip wire, something they

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could very easily look to and say, okay,

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this worked, okay, that didn't work.

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In that first video with the banana bread,

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that will be the example of setting that

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limit of investing 2,500

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and revisiting it after 8 months. And we

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can apply this to all types of decisions.

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Take take the example of gym membership. We

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all struggle, should I get the gym membership,

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should I get the gym membership, I don't

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wanna just get it and then not use

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it. Well here's a very easy way, set

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a tripwire, create a framework for yourself.

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Get the gym membership and then set a

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reminder on your calendar

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that 3 months from now, if I haven't

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visited the gym at least twice a week,

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I'm going to cancel the membership because I

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know I'm wasting my money. But if after

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3 months I've been going 2 or 3

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times a week, now I can be satisfied

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that I made the right decision, I can

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be confident in that decision,

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and now retain that gym membership.

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Setting that trip wire is a good way

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even after you've done all the other steps

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to give yourself that final something to alert

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you to whether you've made the right decision

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or not. That's the last step in the

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wrap framework. Hope you enjoyed this video series.

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Please make sure you go through the deep

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dive that I've linked to in the description

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down below. It's got a ton of additional

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resources to help you master the art of

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decision making.

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