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Subhan Allah typically the first we would restart after Hajj and obviously that now is in limbo but we ask Allah subhanaw taala to facilitate it for all of those who made the sincere intention along the Amin but one of my main reasons for wanting to start it after Ramadan was so that we could keep the masjid full and so it's beautiful to see the masjid for him did a lot of learning and I hope we can keep it that way. bitten and Nikita Anna with that being said, Tonight is going to be a little bit different as I said before we started and how we cover the sahabi today so we covered on Saturday middle the Allahu Tada Anna and we covered on a cinematical the a lot of data and who today
we're going to get into the aunts and uncles of Anna supramolecular the Allahu Taala and and then stop at specifically the story of um haram Benjamin Han are the Allahu Tada Anna. Why, because when we started this season of the first we talked about the quality of the of the unsought and this quality of selflessness is a special quality that you find amongst them. And then you start to find that amongst the sub tribes and amongst the families, you have these qualities that become dominant amongst that small group of people. And so when you look at the family of Anasazi, Allah Tada and who you see this love for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, that is, of course, a trait of
the unsought but it's a different type of love. It's, it's extra, it's the RSO Allah we always want to be by your side we always want to sacrifice for you. And what ends up happening with the aunts and uncles and the cousins of Anasazi Allahu taala. And was that you have this environment of everyone that makes this promise that one day I'm going to serve Allah Subhana Allah to Allah to the maximum capacity and I want Allah to accept for me so the common theme for all of them is yeah Allah except it's sincere intention Sitka Nia sincere intentions and I hope you see that inshallah through this we talked about anisul The Allah Tada and hope and I still can't wrap my mind around the man
who got to see the Prophet SYS and I'm in his dreams every single night for over 80 years that sit could Nia that's the truthful intention and then to be buried with the relics of the prophets lie Selim and to be the answer to the drought of the prophets of Allah honey was some of them. And the dua of the prophets lie some was response to sit quinean A sincere intention from Amsterdam when she said, Pray for my son on us and the prophets lie some prayed for innocent all of the Quran has got accepted the sincere intention for ohm Sudan with the child that would come from her and I will tell her, her son Abdullah, and Anasazi Allahu Anhu saying that that son that was born after they
suffered from the death of a roommate, that son produced her father Quran that became a legacy for him, Sudan Radi Allahu Tada. And I will tell you the Sitka near the truthfulness of Avila when he heard the eye of the verse Lenten Allah had touched on fuchal Number two hipbone you will not achieve righteousness until you spend from what you love and the immediate response to the Prophet slice on the other side, Allah, here is Beto, here's the best garden in the Medina, I thought of the thing that I love most to give for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala. So we're going to go through the aunts and uncles and Sharla to Anna for a moment because that's the story of each and every
single one of these people. And I want us to look at the paternal side first, and we're going to start actually, with the aunt so if you remember we said that Anasazi Allahu Tada. And I don't think it's coming up just yet. Hopefully they'll figure it out. And shall if you remember with anisul, the Allahu Taala animal, you see it now, right?
And this is immediate father, Maliki mother did not become Muslim. And in fact, had an opportunity to accept Islam with his wife on saline, and his son and us but instead died as a disbeliever and away from Medina and we don't even know where exactly he's buried. But his siblings actually accepted a son. So the paternal aunts and uncles of Anasazi Allahu Taala and who actually did accept Islam, and you have a story with practically each one of them. And you see a robot year, a robot year bent another or the Allahu Taala and, and I'm gonna start with her in sha Allah Tala, the paternal aunt of anisul. The Allahu taala. And a robot year is actually a common name amongst the
Sahaba there's more than one robot year And subhanAllah every one of the robot year is that you find somehow found themselves in the battlefield.
So if you want your daughter to be a warrior named her, it will be a year. It's going to happen. It's got to happen because if you look at a Saba and taba cards from the Sahaba, at the books that talk about these biographies every single one of the companions named abre Leia ended up in the battlefield somehow, and she is no exception. So anisul The Allahu Anhu narrates about a robot year that she was the mother of a hadith of Ibn Soraka. So you'll see under her, and Hadith Ibn Soraka Hanifa was the young man who came forth on the day of bed there, and he got hit by an arrow, and he died. Remember, there weren't many Muslims that died in better, but the Bedri Subhanallah, the Bedri
shahada or something else like imagine the people that that served in better the veterans of bed that were something else, they had a rank always amongst the Companions, right? But imagine the shahada of bed a small group of people that have this high rank with Allah subhanaw taala. And, and Haritha was one of them. And he was the son of a robot year. The aunt of * so he's the first cousin of Anna's, and a robot here was the one who came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam on the day of better and she said about her son and Haritha she said incana Phil Jana support. Listen, ya rasool Allah, I want you to tell me what happened to my son.
If he's in Jannah, that I'm going to be patient. What Encana lead with Alec, it's the head to it. He filled vocab and if he's not in paradise, I am going to cry and cry and cry and cry. Basically, I'm going to cry myself to death. Just keep on crying, crying, crying, I'm going to force myself to keep crying for him. So this is the aunt of Anasazi Allahu Anhu. With his with his cousin, and Hadith and the prophets. I said, I'm told her Have you lost your mind? Yeah, I'm Hadith that said, Yeah, I'm Haritha in the hygiene for the Jana, you think it's just one Jana, it is Gina and it's garden upon garden upon garden. What in nebula ki Isobelle Theodosian Ariela your son didn't just make it to
Jana. Your son entered the highest level of generative for the dose.
She said it hamdulillah
and she was happy she walked away from the battlefield and better pleased I put my son at the service of the Prophet slice Allah. And he only got to be with the messenger sign some for a few months, and he died a shaheed. Then you go to you move over to the paternal uncle, and as in another
one of the Allahu Taala and, and a sudden another became Muslim later on, and he missed the Battle of better and Anissa Malik says amnio lady submits so me to be that my uncle who I was named after let me ash had my Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam my bedroom he missed better with the Prophets lie Selim. And he used to always say, I wish I could be with the Prophets lie Selim Shaka Allah He so he used to constantly express sadness I missed better like imagine these people talked about missing being by the prophet slice Salam, and these dangerous moments like that's what they missed because that's how much they love the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and so he used to
come up to the Prophet slice alum, random times. And he used to say to the Prophet slice Allah, Allah Yep, to unbidden ya rasool Allah I missed better. We're in Arani allah how much hidden female bharat mata rasool Allah if Allah gives me another moment where I can be next to ya rasool Allah, Leia, Ani Allahumma Elsner, Allah will see what I will do.
You imagine making that type of a claim with the Prophets lie Selim who receives revelation, Allah will see what I will do meaning ALLAH is going to see that sincerity come out when I say to you a Messenger of Allah, I wish I could serve you. I wish I could be by your side. Just wait if Allah gives me another chance. And unless Malik said that it was the day of effort. And he said, I saw my uncle Subhanallah think about this family and it says Mom, I'm Sudan, was standing in the back with her with her dagger telling people go back to the battlefields. And anuses his uncle, and a saw his uncle and he was too young to fight himself. And a saw his uncle, and he was running towards a third
when everybody else was running away. Think about the courage and the sincerity that takes people are fleeing or hurt. Because presumably the battle is over. We lost, right? They came around, they got us from behind now it's just run through your life literally. And he said while everybody was running away from a hood, he said I saw my uncle running towards aford with his sword in the air saying why Hanley refill Jana Ijebu doing a fruit wha Halevi Jana, I can smell Jana coming from offered. I can smell Jana coming from ahead. I can smell Jana coming from offered and he's the Oh
Only person running in the opposite direction of everybody else. You imagine that what that site even looks like. And this is unassuming Malik is seeing this from his uncle.
And he said that when we went to identify the martyrs of effort, the only person that could identify my uncle was once again a robot year been to another. So it's Pamela, this woman who lost her son in bedroom and has that moment with the Prophet SAW Salem. She went scanning the bodies of a hood. And she found him and she said, are off to a he I knew my brother by his fingertips. You imagine that the only way I could recognize him amongst the deceased because remember, what they did to the bodies in a hood was they mutilated them they wanted to send they wanted to demoralize the Muslims. This was a cool army, they did some theater, right? They used to crucify and mutilate and tear body
parts and all types of things. So the only way that she said she recognized him, was by his fingertips. This is now the uncle of * or the Allahu Taala and her so that's the paternal side of Ns the uncle and aunt of Anna's from the paternal side, right? There stories of sacrifice. Then you have Appleton half the righteous stepfather, and we touched on other palheiro The Allahu Taala animal when it came to his life with on Sudan Radi Allahu anha. So quick recap, as we said, when Anna's father passed away, Malakut another on Sudan married a Bhutan ha. And the MaHA was what the dowry was what?
You guys should know this now. Islam, you have to become Muslim, if you want to marry me. That was the dowry, the best dowry in the history of Islam, you want to marry me, you got to become Muslim. And he became Muslim, after some time. And obviously, this became the blessed couple that surrounded the prophets. I said, I'm always an anisul, the Allahu taala. And being amongst them, and Anna's perform in the care of I'm serene his mother to have will tell him about on how will the Allahu Taala and who was a fierce man and battle, as well. So used to always be there with the Prophets lie Selim. And in one narration, he overcame 20 men by himself in one battle, right, which when you
think about, you know, the primitive ways of battle that existed at the time, that's pretty spectacular, right? 20 men, all by himself, in the capacity of battle. In one narration, the prophets lie. Some said the voice of Ebola is more frightening to Quraysh than an entire army, when they just hear the voice of Ebola. It's part of the soft, humble man around the Prophet slice of them. But once he got into the battlefield, the man was the lion. Right? And he was he was always there by the side of the Prophet slice. I mean, he was one of those who did not fleet referred as well. And that was a small group of people. And he said, sort of Salah slice on my neck instead of
yours. Yeah, rasool Allah, I'm not going anywhere. So even when it was a small group of people that stayed with the prophets, I some I will tell her, was one of them. And remember, he had one son, right after the death of a roommate. He had one son with Amsterdam, and that was Abdullah bin Abby Paul had that was born on that blessed night. And Abdullah and I will tell her, basically live their entire lives in battle together. Okay, so we're talking now about the half brother of *, and the stepfather of *, that they would live their entire lives fighting in battle together. And Anna cinematical, the Allahu taala. And when he says that Ebola has continued to serve, and the whole
effort wanted him to stop, because he became such an old man. And he kept on saying, no, no, I want to go, I want to go, I want to go, I want to go. So he refused. He refused to stay put. And he'd go out with his son, Abdullah, in these heroic battles against the Romans against the Persians and these these pretty, you know, severe situations. And one day, I will tell her,
and he was at this point well into his 80s, he read the idea in federal HIPAA, often with the akala to go out pretty fast and healthy Tala means light or heavy and what the tough seat of that is inserted. tilba Khalifa often means even if you don't have much strength or wealth, right, so you don't have strength, you don't have wealth, or you know, your light or the color. The other side of that, that your burdens, right? So either prefer them, young or old. See, Colin, so it's actually the opposite, right, Justin? I'm sorry, Cliff would be someone who's like who doesn't have too many concerns. The caller would be things that would burden them and stop them and hold them back. So he
said, Jay Zuniga, he's only so get me ready get me ready. Abdullah said Come on. You know, like he said to his father, cut the gazelle to mount Rasulullah. He Salalah instead of well, not really Becker, well mount Rama Well, the Allah Allah and Homer you already fought alongside the prophets I some you fought alongside Abubaker you fight
alongside Omar, now you can take a break now because we were going to fight on your behalf, please stay home. He said yeah, he's only he's only get me ready get me ready. So they went out on a naval fleet and he died on the ship. So he actually never even made it to the battle. He died of natural causes on the ship phelim Yoji doula who does EBA and they did not find a land to bury him, bury him in except after seven days and they said, Wallah he lamb yatta yatta His body did not change for seven days, seven days he laid out on the ship, and nothing happened to his body, no rotting of the corpse, nothing Subhanallah these are the miracles that some of the Sahaba witnessed until they
found a piece of land and they buried him at sea. Right meaning they buried him somewhere, you know, on land, but far away from Medina. So this is the story of Ebola or the Allahu Taala and as for Abdullah, he died Shaheed in Persian. Okay, so you starting to see it come down. And then finally, we go on to the maternal side and then we're gonna get to um haram. You find Zaidan normal Han, who was martyred as well in the Battle of logistics also against the Persians the famous battle of logistics. So let's get to specifically on haram mince minhang All the Allahu Taala Anna now, as we said about on saline
their own surname have a son named Celine
now who was slain
without looking at the chart, who was slain
her younger brother
so both on Celine and on haram were named after their younger brothers on Haram is named after her younger brother haram on slain is named after her younger brother Celine, because they were like mothers to their siblings. They were like mothers to their siblings. So when you look at um, haram or the Allahu Taala and her she does not have a son named haram, but her younger brother is that and so she was given that Kunia she was given the title of the mother of haram haram Bismillah Han or the Allahu Taala and they all became Muslim Now I know some of you might have been like is his name really haram?
I went down like this rabbit hole of research could not figure out why his name is haram. Okay. Now obviously there is you know haram when we think of forbidden but there is of course this the sanctity right when the prophets I seldom mentions that when he's talking to the camera and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says that the blood of the believer, the mount a comb around Malcolm haram when it comes to huruma Tea only come harder if you better the compound prophets lie. Some says that know that Your Money, Your Honor, Your lives are forbidden, their sacred, they're forbidden to one another, just as the huruma just as the sanctity of the kava on the sacred date and
the sacred month, so it could denote sanctity The only clue that I could find as to why that name was chosen for haram had been minhang Was that there is a great grandfather that has also named haram music. So perhaps it's just passing down the name. It certainly was not a common name amongst the Arabs. The Arabs have a lot of how to and they have a lot of hint. Alright, they got a lot of war and they've got a lot of India. All right, why? Why would they name hints? Because anything that was exotic was hint to them. Alright, so hint, you got boys named 10 girls named hint lots of them. And then you've got a lot of herbs because it was a cool thing to name your son how to. So if you
remember earlier all the allotted time and who kept on trying to name his sons how to win the prophets. I'm kept on changing the name, which means war, right? The prophets like Sam said, No, he's Hassan. And then he had a saying and he called them how to bend the prophets. I said no, he's saying so he kept on changing the name because back then, you know you wanted to name your son Hunter, because he'd be a child of war right?
So I don't know why the name was haram. However,
when you look at the the siblings there one thing to note about Anasazi, Allah and His maternal side is that all of them became Muslim. So the entire maternal side of NSL, the Allahu Tada and who became Muslim. And as we said, and now we're going to focus on on haram while the Allahu Taala Anna, she is the Hala of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the maternal aunt of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Therefore the prophets lie Selim is a Muharram to her through fostering or through through nursing, I'm sorry, through nursing. So the you know, I'm Sudan and I'm Haram are both considered maternal ons to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in this regard, on haram
being older than her sister
I'm Celine, is especially going to be treated like an aunt to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, in this regard. Now Subhanallah when you study this woman on haram vindman Han, and how she starts to interact with the Prophets lie Selim. And what happens to her it's once again a story of loss, to story of great loss and then the great gain of the Prophet slice and I'm as a result of that. So she's married initially to a man by the name of amateur, an amateur bouquets bin Zaid,
and they have two sons. By the way, I'm going to stop with this chart now. I just want you to at least get him out on his part now. Two sons face to Bynum. And Abdullah ignore honorable case. So on haram, Benjamin, Han is married to Imran Okay, signals aid. And they have two sons, they used to be your arm. And Abdullah, ignore, ignore honorable case. So
when she first becomes Muslim,
her husband and her son joined as well, pretty early on. So unlike on soname, her husband actually became Muslim pretty quickly. Okay. So she embraces Islam, with her husband, with her son. And then she has another son that's born soon after, in Islam in the name of Omar Abdullah. So Abdullah is a baby
face is a teenager and becomes a Muslim. And her husband becomes Muslim as well. So Subhanallah, as soon as they became Muslim, both of them became from the unsought of that thought and better, the husband and the Son. So I'm Robin, okay, so the Allahu Anhu and case of your armor, both fight in the Battle of better and become veterans and better. But she is tested with something very unique, very few people were tested with this, both her husband and her son died in a shirt.
It's kind of like just see this family. Right, we already talked about the others that died and offered on one side. Now look at how heavy the The tragedy is going to be on her side. So you have this woman
comes forth on that day.
And the scene on her heard was that the women in particular were running towards the battlefield to identify their debt. After the battle had, you know, had had finished, they wanted to get to the battlefield and see who passed away. Many of them lost the Father. Many lost a husband, but very few lost a husband and a son.
Okay. Very few father and son combinations that passed away. And these battles, it's hard to find.
And she's coming towards a hood. And she's walking patiently.
And she asks the men who are walking away and Everyone's crying, obviously. I mean, they're devastated. Over 70 People are laying there dead. And she said to them, Mother fat and a Zoji. Mother Farrell is odd what happened to my husband? What happened to my husband? What happened to my husband? So she's asking the men on their way out what happened to my husband would happen to my husband would happen to my husband.
And then someone stops one of the men stops and says Is your husband and would have no peace? She says yes. And the man responds and says matter Shahidan, he died as a shaheed.
So she puts her head down, and she says in the law, he went, Roger Irwin, she takes a moment to grieve. And she keeps walking, to ask now about her son.
So first he asked about her husband, and now she's gonna ask about her son. Now, the fact that she just responded with another law he went a rod your own is actually pretty extraordinary because up until that point, the practice of Nia which was to will to strike the cheeks and to scream when someone dies, was not prohibited, was actually prohibited after hurt. So what was common to the Arabs is that when you knew that someone passed away, I think she I spoke about this in one of his classes recently, right? Then he had, they start to scream, shout, strike themselves, literally strike the cheeks, and shout out, right, shout out all sorts of poetry. And it basically became a
contest of mourning, right? I mean, people would shout about their relatives and how much they missed their relatives. So the fact that she responded at this juncture in Islam with in that Allah He went, like Roger rune was actually extraordinary in and of itself. She got the news that her husband died, she then starts to stop the man she says, Mother Farrell, Ebony, now the fat lady, what happened to my son, what happened to my son? Someone stopped and said Is your son pace of neuron? She said, Yes. And the man said that he was killed as well. And she said in alila, he went in a Raggio. She sat down, she was saddened, she grieved, but she was patient. And actually
Subhanallah you know, her patients was was marked was noticed by many of the Sahaba
to time, the Companions at the time that this woman carried herself despite this hearing, I mean, it's Pamela that her husband and her son both died. And now she's left with a baby boy. Despite Just hearing that fresh, the way she remained composed was extraordinary. Something that was noted. And subhanAllah this is just the beginning of it. So this is her husband and her oldest son. And by the way, when we mentioned these people's stories, like they were human, they grieved and I want you to understand that the the society and the family the context and then on the other side, the paternal side of NSU also had grief. Right? So we're now on the maternal side. Then we look at her brother,
how long it had been had her brother as we said, her younger brother, how Robin will handle the Allahu Anhu Anna says about him that he was one of the earliest Muslims in our family, even before my aunts and uncles so he became Muslim even before haram. He was one of the earliest Muslims and he was from the Quran. He was from those who memorized whatever was revealed of the Quran to that point, he was from the reciters of the Quran. And as describes his uncle, haram, the vindman Han, who was like a son to him haram. Okay. Anna says he used to be from those who would study the Quran during the day and who would recite with it at night. And he said that he was from this group of
young men. I mean, Subhan Allah gives you a vivid image, this group of young men that used to come to the masjid in the morning and they used to distribute water. And they used to bring food for the peak the poor people in the masjid. So this was like this group of really religious youth that were around the Prophet SAW Salem and the Prophet sighs I'm used to love this group of people. So that was my uncle haram and Birmingham. And he said that the prophets like some loved him and he fought in better and he fought and are hurt. Now this is where you get some syrup here. Okay. Oh hood was devastating to Medina. Every home in Medina lost someone in the battle ahead, right.
Four months after hood
up people come to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam from unaged and they tell the prophets lie Selim, can you send us some of your reciters of Quran to teach us Quran will become Muslim. We need some Quran we need some reciters of the Quran some of the FFRF to come in to teach us the Quran.
Prophet sai son was skeptical, but they gave him assurances. And he said look, we just want to learn the religion we want to become Muslim. Can you send some people here to teach us the Quran and the Prophet sighs I'm is also coming off of, you know, a tragic, tragic defeat here, right where a lot lots of people have passed away.
And the prophets lie some sons them 70 of the best of the companions 70 Quran 70 reciters of the Quran to teach this group of people in hopes that they'll become Muslim, and that they'll become righteous. And this is the incident that is known as bid for marijuana, that the marijuana their marijuana is only four months after a hurt the marijuana basically once they got there, all 70 of these men were ambushed and killed.
So it's probably about the same number of people that died in Ohio died in this one incident. And they were the best of the companions, right some of the the reciters of the Quran. And when haram was there haram and Han was one of them when haram was killed. Haram was was stabbed. And as haram haram or the Allahu taala. And who was stabbed he said was to what I've been carried.
I have succeeded by the Lord of the capital, flows to Robin cabinet I have succeeded and the Lord by the Lord of the cabinet.
And even the man who killed him was like, what just happened? When he was killed? He looked up and he smiled and he said fluster Robin Campbell, I have succeeded by the Lord of the cabin. Said what happened here. And what had happened was is that a martyr sees their place in Paradise from the very first strike, just like as Seattle, the Allahu anha, the wife of for their own Arcia, the wife of the Pharaoh. Allah tells us when she was being killed, like what she laughed, right? She looked up probability in the Caribbean agenda. Oh my Lord, grant me a home with you in paradise. And before anything happened to her with the first touch of it. She saw her place in gentlemen. And so how you
know how Ramona Monahan as he's being killed, he looks up and he says, first to rubble cabin, I have succeeded by the Lord of the Caribbean.
And subhanAllah that gets back to the Prophet sighs I'm going it gets back to on haram Radi Allahu Anhu sort of give you the
the image of him haram within a span of four months. Her husband, her son, and her younger brother who was like her son all killed
The Prophet sighs someone wants to give this woman some special attention.
And she is his maternal aunt. So the Prophet slice on it makes it known that you know her ADA has finished And subhanAllah her and her waiting period coincides with my honor right because four months and 10 days after, literally coincides the incident where her brother was killed as well.
And the man who comes forth to marry her, and there were many people that proposed but the man that she accepted, the proposal of was about the typical sama throw the Allahu Tada and who, who is by far one of my favorite companions, we're going to talk about him next week in detail Inshallah, but rabada was a, you know, a man of great authority, a chief, a leader, noble character. He is one of those people Subhanallah that everything you read about him just says perfection, perfection, perfection, and he was considered of the of the most worthy of suitors. And so when he came to marry her, and this is, of course, the treatment of the widow and Islam, when he came to marry her, it was
a big deal. And she praised him, a relative, Osama is going to go on and in life to win a lot of battles and do a lot of great things. Her description of her bathtub in Assam It was He treated my son like his own,
speak about the nobility of character. her young son, Abdullah was going to grow up now. And the House of others didn't know sommets He treated my son like his own. He raised my son like his own similar how Anasazi Allah and who was raised by avatar had like his own, so he treated my son like his own, which shows you Subhanallah the nobility of these people was beyond something that was shown in a battlefield but it was also at home as well. And they had one child together named Muhammad. All right, so this gives you some context now with both um, so Damon on haram, the prophets, I'm used to visit their homes frequently.
Used to take naps in their homes. He used to recline against on haram or the Allahu taala. And in a gathering sallallahu alayhi wa sallam like a nephew with his aunt, he used to call her out in a gathering and bring her forward and they asked the Prophet slice on about his closeness to them so Damon on haram, the prophet slice and said that this is a form of mercy and that their brother was killed with me, their brother like their their family was killed when the by the way so name also Sudan also dies in a hood.
Forgot to even mention that. So like the whole family, all of the men in this family have died in battle. The prophets lie some wants to give that preference to them. He wants to show the special attachment to them so honestly Allah Tada angle he narrates he says that their color Elena Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, women who are ill and our own me while your team are on the Haram harlot. He said the prophets lie some ones came over to our house and it was just me, my mom, my aunt on haram and an orphan
and the Prophet slice and um, said, como, Fela will suddenly become stand up and let's pray together. And he said, the lady walk the Salah, this wasn't even a prescribed prayer. So this was just a voluntary prayer. The prophets lie. Some wanted to pray with them to bless them because they loved when the prophesy son would come over that he prayed with them. He'd eat with them, he prayed with them. So he said, we spread out the rug, and I prayed next to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the orphan and my aunt and my mother prayed behind us on Sudan, and Ankara. And he said that the prophets lie Selim would visit often. And and so the Allah I know has the most famous
narration about on haram bandsman Han in this regard. So pay attention to this narration and also the Allahu Anhu said, also Allah says, I'm used to visit on haram frequently. And she used to cook for him. And she used to sit and she would enjoy speaking with him. And when the Prophet slice I'm sat with my mom and with my aunt, the prophets lie Selim gave them full attention. Right? So she said, this one, so the ALLAH and he says in this one night, and it says, for Atlanta to what Jenna set, toughly, razza, who
I love this imagery, she said that the she fed the prophets lie Selim. And then she went and she sat behind the Prophet size and started picking out his hair. What did they used to do at the time, that's how they took out lice, right? Try to pick out lice from his hair. So think about the image of the aunt, the collar, she goes and she sits behind the province I'm like, give me your head, starts looking through his hair combing through it to see if there's any anything in his hair Salah who it was,
and clearly this aunt had a comforting touch the prophets lie some fell asleep whilst he was picking out his hair. So the prophets lie some takes a nap.
And then
she he says, well the Allah
Atlanta annual phenomenal so last night's mistake for the hotel hack the prophets lie Selim woke up and he had this huge smile on his face and the laughter of the Prophet slicin Um Was it was a dignified life he didn't used to laugh out loud literally right? He would his his laughter was it was a was this huge smile where you can see the back of his teeth like he just saw something beautiful.
And she was picking out his hair prophesy son wakes up from this nap and the prophets lie some is smiling. And she said mailed cake okay other sort of layer Yatta Silla what's making you laugh? Profits is and I'm sad. Nason onma t already more than a year. Was that and FISA Barilla your kabuna Saba Jihad Al back mallu Hakuna Allah Silva. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that there was a group of my own man that was shown to me just now I just saw some of my followers. And the prophets lie Selim said that they were going out in the path of Allah. And they were on ships on sea. And the prophets lie. Some said it was like people with crowns on their heads. They were like
kings with crowns on their heads. Now why is that interesting? These are desert folk, they don't know the seas. They don't write ships. They've never been on the water. They live in deserts and tents. They don't understand the water. So the prophets lies on the scene people on on ship
going on sea, right, a naval army for the very first time. And the prophets lie some recognizes these people and the Prophet slice number so please, he said they were like kings with crowns on their heads. And the prophets lie. Selim mentioned them to be a people of Jana, this group of people is a group of people in Jannah in paradise. So right away, she said Jana, sort of Allah or Allah on your journeymen home, she didn't think about, wait a minute, I'm going to be an old woman by the time that happens is some something I can't do. She said O Messenger of Allah, please pray that I'm amongst them. Can you make sure that I'm amongst that group of people? You can say to her sorry,
you're a woman not happening? Remember, Armstrong went to the pledge to take the bait. With the profit slice on the pledge with the profit sighs I'm not staying home. I'm going I'm taking the pledge of the prophets lie Selim. She said the artist. I want to be with them.
The prophets lie Selim, dalla. He prayed for her and he said unto him, in whom you are amongst them, and then the prophets lie some went to sleep and he saw another dream. And the prophets lie. Selim described another group of people she said, you have a Salah Alana comin home, can I be amongst them, the prophets, I said here from the first group.
Like, this one's a different group of people, you're from that group of people, this group of people that traveled by sea, spreading the religion, and they're like kings with crowns on their heads. So you can imagine that her whole life, she's kind of gotten her mind that somehow I'm going to end up on water.
Somehow, I'm going to end up on a boat, somehow, I'm going to be at sea. Because the prophets lie. Selim promised me that I would be from that group of people. So what ends up happening,
her husband or father took an assignment or the law of town and who becomes one of the great generals, as he always was. If you remember the famous story of another battle, the Allahu Anhu was an exceedingly black man, beautiful black man. And some of the the Persians and the Romans were their racism, right? They saw him there, like that's your leader.
But under both Obama and Obama, he was placed in charge of place after place after place for a long time. In fact, in Philistine they went and resided in Palestine, and battle the Allahu taala. And who was in charge of them when I'm living in a house moved on to two missiles to Egypt, about to assume that place, so she's with her husband, and they're moving to these places, place after place after place. And then what ends up happening is that, you know, when the Romans attacked, and of course, when the Muslims defeated the Roman Empire, the Byzantines, they got all these ships.
And they didn't know what to do with them.
Because they don't know how to ride ships. Right? And Wailea says to honorable Hapa. But the time he says to our can we want can we put together a naval army from this ummah and our model the law and was too risky? I'm not doing it. So the ships are kind of docked. And no one's going on the ships.
And wow, we are really wants to put people on the ships. Right and to activate this now it makes it even more so is that Cyprus, talking about the Cyprus and Cyprus, you have sort of a launching point for the Byzantines for the Romans, where they just kept on sending these naval ships over and over and over again to attack the Muslims from the coast.
And the Muslims like we fight on land.
It's not going out to you. So all these attacks keep coming from Cypress over and over and over again. So finally in the time of Earth mama the Allah Tala and it's not only Allah gives permission to warn Alia to assemble the first naval fleet of this ummah
and who gets placed in charge for about a dozen assignments her husband All right, so the first army that will go out by sea is going to be led by her husband and her mind. She's like this is it. She tells her about different assignments. I'm coming with you. Like it's not the most thing about how dangerous this is, is already battle but I'm coming with you. I'm going to go out with you to Cyprus, and she's about 75 years old at the time.
I'm gonna go out with you to Cyprus.
Rather the Allahu Anhu does not fight back says okay, fine. You come out with me. So she goes out by sea and they make their way to Cyprus. Subhan Allah something very interesting. I was looking through the the duets, the narrations from on haram and the only like prominent narration from her that she gets to narrate is a narration from Abu Dawood where she narrates that a person that becomes sick on the sea, okay, Allah you'll see the whole title, that whoever becomes sick at sea level Admiral Shaheed,
then they have the reward of a Shaheed the reward of a martyr. When Hari poo Lahu, Lucia heeding and the one who drowned at Sea has the reward of two martyrs, meaning these people that go out for the sake of Allah turns out by sea, that if a person drowns on the way we know, Drowning is a form of Shahada. It's a form of receiving that reward. The person drowns, then they have the reward of two showerheads to martyrs. And if a person becomes sick, and they're not able to continue, they still have the reward of a shaheed. So this is her single narration. And so that'd be the woods, which she narrates just happens to be about people that are going by sea, so she has this in her mind. So
anyway, she boards the ship, and obviously these ships back then you take the horses, you take the mules, you take the animals with you, and people ride their horses, their camels, their meals on the ships, and then they come off of them. Right.
So Subhanallah on Haram are the Allahu Taala and he gets there. And she gets on top of her horse. And when they get to Cyprus, as soon as they open the doors of the ship, she comes off of the ship on her horse, and she falls off and she dies.
Right away. They said as soon as the horse hit land
on how to handle the Allahu Taala and her fell off and passed away.
Under the commander, husband about the Muslim with all the allowed time.
I mean, think about that prophecy, sitting in her home in Medina,
right amongst Bedouin Arabs, desert Arabs, and the prophets lie some has a dream while she's picking his hair and says one day you're going to die at sea, with this group of this first group of my own mind that goes out by sea.
And sea literally goes out I mean, think about Sitka near the truthfulness of that intention. At the age of 75 years old riding a horse just falls off like okay, this is it like this horse carried me to the place of my death now the ship and the horse, and she is the only companion that is buried there. And subhanAllah was nicknamed as a result of that Shahida to the *, the murder of the sea. That is her nickname in fact in the books of car Shahida to the heart of the murder of the sea, and the scholars say the profit slice I'm guaranteed I'm soname Jana, and he guaranteed on haram Jana and shahada remember on surname the prophets lie some said I woke up in Jana, and I heard the
footsteps of Buddha and then I looked at it was I'm saying, and here are the prophets lie some guaranteed on haram, the other sister, Jana, and shahada, and actually wants you to see if we can pull up the picture there.
This is the message that is actually built at the spots that she died and Cyprus. Cyprus is not a Muslim country, by the way.
But Subhanallah from that day, her grave was marked and they built this masjid, right at the place of that grave. And you can go next. This is the actual grave of haram mentleman handle the Allahu Allah Subhanallah the sincerity, the truthfulness that sit Coniah that we talk about that oh Messenger of Allah, I want this Oh Allah, I want this. And there's the similar Fein here that you keep seeing with every single member of this family.
Right. Mina Mina, Dijon Sadako na de la
hottie. This was revealed about unassimilable. And people like him, that from the believers or those who were truthful to the covenant that they made with Allah subhanaw taala men who mencoba NACADA, some of them, they have, you know, something happens right away, they say something and it happens right away. Some of them, some of them. When young toddler time passes one I bet the roots have data, but they maintain their commitment, they maintain the result. And Allah gifts these people with incredible things as a result of it. So whether it's a sibling mother, or the Allahu taala, and home with a hurt or strain with the br with the with the pledge and dedicating her son to the
prophets lie Selim, and then desire to sacrifice her own haram and her dream. Each and every single one of these people has the story. And with haram, Benjamin handle the Allahu taala, and you have a woman Subhanallah, who is literally in a league of her own, literally has this unique thing. And so the lesson to us, obviously from all of this is that truthfulness of your intention. When you ask Allah for something, don't even worry about the how.
When you ask Allah for something, just make sure you're sincere about it. Make sure the intention is sincere. Don't worry about the how How's this possible? How's it going to happen? Remember, I'm going to help hobble the law and when he said I asked you for shahada and Medina asked you to die at martyr and Medina and they were like, how's that possible people die as martyrs fighting the Romans and the Persians.
And he died as a martyr in the masjid of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam because he was sincere in what he asked Allah subhanaw taala and this is relevant as well to everyone who wanted to go to Hajj.
Make your Nia Cydonia have a truthful intention. Ask Allah Subhana Allah for Allah will write down the reward for you. Whatever you ask Allah make sure you're sincere and ask Allah subhanaw taala for the ability to serve in the ability to be accepted in that may Allah subhanaw taala be pleased with him haram or the Allahu Taala and, and be pleased with this blessed family in sha Allah to Allah next week we'll talk about her husband about the typical Psalm and throw the Allahu Taala and who in detail and will focus on our battle the Allahu tener and we ask Allah to be pleased with them all and to join us with them. Allahumma Amin Charlottetown go ahead and I'll take questions now.
Sorry, oh, that was a lot of history. I hope I didn't lose you.
I know typically we take one person stick with them but I hope inshallah Tada you find it beneficial to get sort of the overview of the family and show
any questions
no questions at all. Yeah
the second part of the prophets dream is on the line. Saddam was people that are
fighting against the Romans, I believe.
Penetrating a fortress. So the prophets like some saw people penetrating a fortress. So there's another group of people. Yeah. And he told them how to stick to the first one.
Yeah.
Gnosis Cyprus was temporarily under the the rule of Muslims and in fact, the Ottomans built that messages much later on. So it's actually built under dealt with money under the Ottoman Empire.
I'm sure there'll be a Turkish drama about it somewhere.
Suddenly, they'll show up in like October or whatever they're at right now and be like, ah, knew about that one.
What's your question?
I'm age we're like, he was younger. What? 20 something? What year was it? Like hey, D
All right.
Young man asks what one was the prophets lie some 20 something?
What year was it so the Prophet sallallahu sallam was born in the year 570 So if my math serves me correct, it would have been in the 590s
You're welcome
Yes sister
so like so whenever I hear stories like this, I wonder. So clearly, there's other ways to be a shahid what are all of the ways Alright, so what are all of the ways to be a shaheed?
So I spoke about this in in there's an episode in for those left behind the series for those left behind where I kind of go through the different causes. But when you look at the different Hadith of the prophets, like some mentions drowning he mentions a fire he mentioned salaam salaam stomach illness, he mentioned, psyche will head them a person who literally something falls on top of them. object falls on top of them. He mentioned various ways Salah Harney was salam and
Basically the scholar has mentioned that really any and of course a plague. So talking about COVID We ask Allah that everyone who died through this as a Shaheed alumna, I mean, from a plague, some sort of sickness. But essentially, all of the Hadith mentioned an untimely death or something that was that was unique in terms of its circumstance. So like when the scholars had Sokoban had them okay, what's a car accident, then like a wall doesn't fall on top of you, but you crashed into something? Isn't that also Sahiwal had them that's linguistically speaking, it falls under heaven.
So that's all of the different ways that a person would be Shaheed now, of course, the Shaheed of battle is a different type of Shahid that has different rulings. The reward, though, is across the board. So all of these people would be shahada, if they died as a person who dies protecting their property, for example,
protecting their family, all of that is Shahada. And ultimately what it comes down to in terms of Cydonia, the truthfulness of intention the prophets I said I'm said that if a person is sincere in their desire to die as a martyr, they will be considered a martyr even if they die in their sleep.
So if I ask Allah for shahada
then bid in the 90 Tada even if I just passed away in a very normal way, if I was sincere in that request, and I would have the reward of shahada the reward of it and so May Allah grant us all shahada alum me
the questions?
Yes.
Where's your son? Was Tristan it? All right.
Is he running around?
Okay, okay. Okay. He's already work. People are already asking like, is he going to come back?
What happened to my other two cents? Abdullah and the one she had with her second? That's so what happened to him her arms, other two sons. So case.
Days passed away, as we said, No hurt. And then she had Abdullah and Mohamed Mohamed, the son of a brother. So I actually don't know the answer to that. But I will get back to you next week. And Shama, because we'll get to about the terminal Summit. And then we'll talk about Mohammed bin or about us, I'm not actually sure the exact circumstances of their death. Zack, thank you.
Yeah.
He wants to be
buried with the stick of Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
But my understanding at least is if I don't if I'm wrong, is that
when
you get you take nothing when you when you die, obviously, that's about when. And I just wonder if I understand about that. Very good. So the question is about Anissa. Leila. And he was saying he wanted to be buried with the relics of the Prophet slice.
So, you know,
if I want to be buried with anything else, does it count? Does it work?
The relics of the prophets lie, some are different.
Now, by the way, the relics of the prophets lie, some of the claim relics of the prophets lie, some that exists today, are almost entirely fabricated. All right. I don't want to like be that guy. But if there's a museum in Turkey that says this is the shirt of use of ideas to them, and there's, this is the
what else they got over there, they got the staff of most ideas now, I'm trying to get that thing like I'm trying to fight, break through that window and get the staff of most is not like some serious, I can do some serious damage, you know.
But all the stuff that's that's sort of laying around, you got to understand that those claims are usually not authentic. There's a lot of claims that this was the bullet of the Prophet size, and this was the hair of the Prophet slice. And this was, now some of that may still exist in certain places. But the relics of the prophets lie somewhere different. And, and I saw the law and when he asked to be buried with the actual relics of the prophets, I saw them and I saw the Allahu Taala and who was not doing so out of a,
you know, out of out of a way of escaping his own accountability, his own righteousness. It was a closeness that he had to the messenger SallAllahu sallam, and there were certainly Baraka, certainly blessing in the actual relics of the Prophet slicin them there's no doubt about that. And that's why we find even founded the Moodle the longtime man who famously kept hair the hair of the Prophet sighs I'm in his helmet, a piece of the hair companions held on to what they had of the prophets Isom in that regard. They didn't worship it. They didn't have any idolatrous you know, attachment to it. But it was a closeness to the messenger selling some that was maintained also named all the a
lot of time and had kept Of course, the hair of the prophets by some as well. You know, and that's something that was that was done. A lot. Xochimilco. Yep.
Do I plan on talking about HUD and what will the law handle on this law?
afterwards.
Yes, at some point.
It's funny because people were like wanting to talk about how to we're going in order. And obviously we talked about a savvy opponent overload the first people that would come became Muslim. It's going to take a bit to get there. But we will get there and shot lots on it because they became Muslim later on, but we will get there in Charlottetown. I promised the morning. Maybe we can do like a side session before them.
Anybody else?
Questions? We got some time. Yeah. I like I like kids questions. Yeah.
Asked me a math question.
Sit alright. So
the man who the man who led the ship, what was his name? Again?
His name was Roboto. So
how old was he when he
when he went on to that shoe? Like what do you? Good question. He would have been in a 70s as well. Are you coming next week in Sharla? Are you coming next week? No, I'm visiting from Pennsylvania. Okay. Well in Pennsylvania, watch the lecture on or about the next week. All right.
Welcome to Dallas.
Alright, any other questions? Yeah.
It's a great question. How is this history been recorded personal conversations and things of that sort by people that were there witnessing it. So for example, the conversation of haram and the prophets lie. Some is narrated by Anasazi, Allah, and he was watching it happen. So he's narrating what he saw. So these conversations are narrated by people that were there. So that firsthand reports and of course, there's a process of authenticating. Generally speaking, when it comes to biographical things of this sort. We are not as strict in terms of accepting reports as we would be with things that have theological or filthy implications in terms of jurisprudence. So it gives us a
picture, it gives us a story. And if there's anything that requires that added clarification, then we give it you know, if there's any consequence or implication of that story.
I'll take maybe one more from the sisters, one more from the brothers. Anyone from the sisters?
All right. You had a question? Yeah. Last question.
relates to one of the previous topics, okay.
One of the brother asked, in regards to people being buried with items of the prophesy. So normally, there were things I was hearing for a while where people would say the most sacred place on this earth is the grave of the prophesy salaam due to its closest to his body right close by to his body.
I know it might be slightly controversial, but just wanted to get your thoughts on that. I wasn't really sure what to think of that, and what the actual meaning behind it was.
So what exactly is the practice that you're asked what what practice are some of the great were the prophets, I
assume, like no actual practice to it.
But then considering them being in the state, the most sacred place to be in is as close as possible to the actual grave.
There is no doubt that there's a sanctity to the place that holds the Prophet size alone.
And there is no doubt that there is a sanctity to what surrounds it by virtue of the fact that the prophets lie. Some even said that between my house and the minibar, and the pulpit is an older farm, a garden from the gardens of Gemma. So there's no doubt that there's a sanctity and anyone that has been there will tell you that they felt special, they allow return us there over and over and over again. And of course, the Sunnah is when you visit to say, said Mr. Aniki. I'd also love to give Sudan to the prophets of Allah when he was and the prophets I send them response. Now the response of the Prophet salallahu Salam is not dependent on proximity, meaning someone who sends Salawat on
the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam here is the same as someone in the sense of the salam, counting someone who is there.
But there's a special connection, there's no doubt, obviously, you know, some people overdo it. But it's also an opposite extreme when it's like two seconds and like the guy in front of you, like you let go, go, go, you know, hurry up, get out of here, you know, like, doesn't give you a chance to actually soak in the moment. So it's found in between,
you know, one of the one of the precious narrations that I think about is of the love nor model the law of time and Homer. I used to walk by it's a cinematic era sort of delay but a character that exists and I wanted to get back into the needs of cinematic ability, because Ahmed has his father so he had that different type of Saddam when he passed away.
So there's a closeness there, it is special. There is a tranquility. Now the message it was
Not always the masjid expanded to include what is now the grave the grave technically was outside of the masjid, right. But it expanded to include the grave so that's why you find it in that in the in the actual spot. And by the way for the sisters
when you're in Missouri number we you're actually closer to the profit slice alone than the men are in terms of the way that the profit slice on our back in an armor are varied. So that's something to keep in mind as well. So they're not very they're very facing the Qibla right. So the profit slice was buried facing with the blood and aboubaker to his shoulder length and model the amount of time I know next to him. So that's something to keep in mind as well that you have that proximity from both sides of the of the grave of the Prophet size Zachman located on Sharla Tada we will go ahead and stop there Hannah Columbia hamburger shadowed Lila stuck required to break records. We'll see you
all next week in Sharla. For about Asana for the long run