Omar Suleiman – The Prophets Advice On Having a Clean Heart

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The speaker discusses the importance of removing grudges from one's heart and not mistaking it for a distraction from the time they wake up. They also discuss the history of the Prophet sallavi's use of the term "sallama" to describe his actions and actions of his son. The speaker then touches on the prophets lie that have been used to harm people in the community and their actions, including the lie of Selim and their son's actions, which they call "The Sunra" and "The sea." Finally, they discuss the closest to the prophets are those with the best character.

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			Laos hamdulillah salat wa salam I know Silla I only he also can be here woman while up. So inshallah
tada tonight I wanted to talk about really one of the most beautiful narrations that you find that
narrate the Prophet sighs I'm giving special advice to one of his companions especially when the
Prophet sighs I was talking to one of the younger companions someone like honestly a long time or
even a bustle the a lot one humor, or others they're really special ahaadeeth they contain many
treasures and the nature of the delivery also is a lesson in and of itself. Now, this narration that
I'm going to share, which is narrated in Timothy, Timothy grades as a lesson Hadeeth as a good
		
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			Hadeeth but there are some problems with the chain of narration however the lesson beyond the
weakness that might be in the chain of narration the lesson from this is really a powerful lesson.
That understood pneumonic or the allowed time angle is reported to have said, polity or sort of
lying sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that the Messenger of Allah sallallahu wasallam said to me, Yabu
Nia, in adultery and to speak our terms here, Lisa kobika lishan The I had suffered from mcaliley
yamane with daddy coming soon nutty woman here soon it had been a woman have been he cannot marry
for the gender. He says that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said to me, oh, my son, if you are
		
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			capable, so again, just the nature of the delivery that this is the profit slice, I'm giving
heartfelt advice to Anna cinematical. The last time I know who he raised in his own home, oh, my
son, if you are capable of waking up in the morning, and ending the evening, without any hatred in
your heart, for anyone, then do so. So he's telling us all the Allahu taala and Oh my dear son, look
at how you wake up in the morning. And look at how you sleep at night if you can do so. removing all
grudges from your heart when you wake up and when you sleep at night, then do so. And then he says
to me, oh my son and this is from my son This is from my way and whoever revives my sooner than he
		
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			has loved me and whoever has loved me will be with me in paradise May Allah subhanaw taala make us
the companions of the Prophet peace be upon him and paradise Allah amin so let's talk about this
inshallah tada it's such a beautiful narration that we have to break it down from start to finish
inshallah tada number one, the prophet slice alum speaking to him, giving him heartfelt advice, he
loves him, he cares about him. And this is advice that has a certain level of seriousness to it. But
this is life advice for your spirituality to excel in this life and in the here after midnight on.
But the second part of this when you wake up in the morning and when you sleep at night. Now somehow
		
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			There are numerous narrations and stories about sleeping at night and making sure that you purify
your heart when you sleep at night. But you know, this one actually mentions how you wake up as
well. And if you realize in our Dean, there is an emphasis always on the beginnings and on the
endings right that you start your day right and you end your day right there as a goddess salon,
I've gotten a massage the morning remembrances and the evening remembrances. There is what you say
when you sleep, you know and then what you say when you wake up, you go to sleep, saying a lot to
Allah subhana wa tada bismack Allahumma and more to hear that in your name Allah I, I live in I die
		
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			and then you wake up in the morning and hamdulillah the ohana, vida, Martina will ensure that all
praises be to the one who gave us life after death, and to him as the ultimate return. So you have
the beginning you have the end to have the morning remembrance you have the evening remembrance you
have what should come to your heart and to your tongue. As soon as you open your eyes and what
should come to your heart and your tongue as soon as you close your eyes. So you wake up and you
start the day, right? You start your morning right by setting your priorities properly by focusing
your heart on the loss of data and removing anything that's going to be a distraction from having
		
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			that focus on a lesson. And then at night, you you make it a point to actively remove grudges from
your heart. The best way this can be achieved is to actually make dua for the person to pray for the
person and to to ask Allah subhanaw taala for forgiveness for them and goodness for them. So every
morning and every night you actively purify your heart of those grudges. And then this part here, oh
my son, this is from my son, when you think about the sin of the Prophet sallallahu and he was
stolen and all of the sudden as bless it and all of the sin is relevant, none of it is to be
discarded. Not that which is major nor that which is minor. It is all the sin of the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. When you think about the sin of the prophets, I seldom think about this
being a part of his sin, removing grudges.
		
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			Imagine what it was like for the Prophet sallallahu sallam, to consistently over a course of 23
years, welcome people into his community that had done horrible things to him right until the day of
his death, Salah lavon. He was alone. The prophets, I seldom was welcoming people into his oma that
had killed family members that had run him out of Makkah, that had put him through all sorts of
things that had harmed him in so many different ways. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is
accepting the repentance and accepting them into the community and not mistreating them, nor
reminding them of the harm that they committed against him. He has a heart to make their app for
		
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			them to pray for them even as they're knocking his teeth out. And he has a heart to not remind them.
You know, when you think about use of it his sermon, we talked about how the Quran was revealed to
the Prophet sly seven stages and the stories of the previous prophets. Those long sutras those long
stories of the previous prophets were specifically revealed to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to
grant firmness and tranquility to his heart, in the midst of his hardest moments like surah Yusuf
and when use of it his Salaam says to his brothers, there is no blame upon you today, latter three
radical young. How did the prophets lie some of them settled that in his own heart to where he
		
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			carried it to that momentous occasion of fertile hammock of the conquest of Mecca, where he could
have held his brothers to account he could have done to them but they did to him but instead the
prophets lie some repeats what his brother use it for repeated, it's settled in his heart when he
was still in Mecca being persecuted. It stayed with him when he returned to Mecca as well and that's
what he said latter three rally committee All right, that there's no blame upon you today. May Allah
subhana wa tada forgive you. It's powerful, right that this is the sin of the prophets lie Selim,
the people that tried to kill him, the people that killed his family members, the people that
		
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			persecuted him, the people that caused them all sorts of hurt people within the community that might
have said things to the prophets lie some and done things to the prophets lie Selim. And out of his
mercy, he did not retaliate or mentioned it to them, and he could have held it in his heart, and
maybe, you know, give given a sharper hookah, or a harder task to those people in the community that
gave him some harm, but the profit slice on constantly lets it go. In fact, one of the miracles of
the Quran and one of the proofs of its divine authorship is how after the slander of it shall be
Allahu taala. And how if this was the Prophet sly salon, authoring the Koran and not divine
		
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			revelation, do you really think it would have been when he actually asked Allah to have Buddha your
fellow Lacan, forgive and show mercy, pardon overlook those who have who have who have harmed, harm
the messenger, slice alum with this horrible slender, don't you want a loss of penalty to forgive
you and show mercy to you? If this was a man at his Salatu was salam, who was as they claim,
authoring the man himself and doing it in accordance with his personal goals wouldn't have been one
of, you know, a vindictive nature of going after those that harmed him. Rather, it was forgiveness
and pardoning and mercy. So, you think of the Prophet sallallahu? It was Selim and this is his
		
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			Sunnah. Right? This is certainly his son of how he dealt with the people that harmed him in his own
community, before they came into the community, and even those within the community, afterwards,
maybe unknowingly often, and what they might have said or done to the Prophet sallallahu a Salah,
but he makes it a point to his Salatu was salam to remove anything from his heart against them. He
does not want to meet them at his salado Islam with hard feelings. He doesn't even want members of
his community to tell him things about other members of the community in a way that he might have
hard feelings towards the money is Salatu was Salam. He wants to have a heart that is always Saleem
		
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			that is always at peace with everyone that's around him. And he's making it a point to tell us all
the Allahu taala and who this is my son, this is how I am. I am not telling you to do something I
don't do. And no one has been harmed more than the Prophet sallallahu wasallam called names
slandered persecuted than him. Yet still, he finds it in his hearts a lot. He was solemn to always
forgive people to have the capacity to forgive them, even to the moments of their death. The
prophets lie some had a heart that would have been willing to accept Abuja had had Abuja *
repented and turn back to Allah and sought forgiveness for everything he put the prophets license
		
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			through. The prophets lie some had the heart to not only forgive economic Abuja, the son of the
Pharaoh of this oma for what he had done himself and what his father had done, but he had the heart
to even tell the Muslims to be sensitive to economic by not mentioning his father in ways that are
humiliating or
		
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			him, not calling him up and calling him by name in front of economical the allotted time and one way
that would hurt his feelings that was the heart of the profit slice on him. That was not easy. That
is part of the ingredients of his, of his praying at night, and all of the things that we read about
him It has a lot to us and I'm standing in gratitude, weeping at night, prostrating at night
reciting the Quran at night, in that solitude with his Lord subhanho wa Taala. So that's the Sunnah
of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that does something he tells us to do something he had to do harder
than any one else. And then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says to him, oh, my son, that is
		
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			my son, and whoever revives my son if I have any will in quantum to have one a laugh at Toby Rooney,
your biblical law we offer look on vinoba calm as Allah says, As with any Emraan See, if you truly
love the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then follow the profits of the lahardee was seldom and
ally will love you back and Allah subhanaw taala is all forgiving, and All Merciful. So the love of
the prophets lie Selim is connected to the following of the prophets lie Samson, may Allah allow us
to adhere to assume that in every way Allah mean, and then he says, and whoever loves me shall be
with me in paradise. What a great incentive Subhana Allah, that the closest to the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in gender are those who prostrate the most and prostration is the the
hallmark of the prophets liasons worship those that stay in a place of solitude. The closest to the
prophets, Allah wa and he was selling them on the Day of Judgment are those that had the best
character and the prophets lie Selim in the memories to be utterly mechanical of luck? In Nikola
fallopian alim he was only sent to perfect our good character and so we become more like Him when we
perfect our character and the closest to the prophets Alliance lm on the Day of Judgment are those
that adhere to his sin? May Allah subhanaw taala allow us to adhere to assume that in the most
		
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			holistic way, and the closest to the prophets, like Selim, on the day of judgment, are those who
send Salawat on him most frequently, a lot more suddenly, we're selling a burger avocado, Sudan
Mohammed and sallallahu wasallam. May Allah sent his peace and blessings upon him, his family, his
companions and allow us to be joined with him. In the highest level genitive for those who are mean
to Zack Milan Hayden was cenomar equal For ye