The importance of witnessing daily prayer and finding a motherly figure to the Prophet sallali is emphasized in a series of Islam segments covering the history of Islam, including the birth of Fatima, the first woman to accept Islam, the use of metal, and the importance of finding a partner who is a good fit for one's needs and a strong marriage. The success of the NIAID vaccination trial and the potential treatments for COVID-19 are also discussed, including the use of drugs and the potential for treatments that could be developed. The current crisis and the need for people to stay safe and healthy is emphasized, along with the potential treatments for COVID-19, including the use of drugs and the potential for treatments that could be developed.
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We're continuing now in the series. And these next two are crucial, because what I really wanted to
do is to as much as possible, get into the house of the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wasallam. And
really understand the dynamics of that household, and how things are forming, especially in the
early days of Islam. And so as I was putting together all of these notes and getting into these
small narrations where you often get these snapshots into the lives, and you know, someone asked
last week, a very important question where when it is talking about being in the household of the
profit slice that I'm in being the only one to sort of witness the pm witness the night prayer of
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the prophets lie summon Khadija with the Aloha, where is Zaid, where are the other children what's
happening here, and Allah knows best we we can only take what we can take from the narrations
themselves, of course, the way that families were raised back to them, where kids were sleeping,
aunts, uncles, it's a village type feel, right, Alan knows best. But hopefully what we can do
through this series is start to inshallah take these isolated snapshots and then go one by one and
start to see the trajectory through the eyes of that person that enters very early in, into this,
this story, this magnificent story of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and then through
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that, to be very honest with you, you're not just gaining an appreciation for each one of these
savvy horn, each one of these firsts. But really, each and every single one of these stories makes
you fall in love with the profit slice, I'm all over again. Because one of the things that
fascinates me is how he was able to make all of these people feel so special. You know, when you
read the biographies of the companions, sometimes you really think like this person is the most
important person in the story, and then you read the next story. And that's the ability of the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam to treat his family and his companions in a certain way, that he
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wasn't just ignoring, you know, ignoring them, and then focusing on this person here and this person
there. However, the actual family of the Prophet slice them if he treated his companions this way,
imagine what it was like to actually be his blood, imagine what it was like to actually be in his
household and to be treated in a certain way. And so each one of these is going to give us a
different perspective. But these next two in particular really building off of last week's where we
talked about early on the allot of time who will give us a very special look at the life of the
Prophet slice um, and at the household of the Prophet slice and I'm at this family of the Prophet
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sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So before we get into the marriage of alien fathima quick recap of ideal
the alongside IMO, and then let's bring faulty model d 11, into the story, and then talk about these
two coming together. So with what with Annie, we said his mother's name was what going to test your
knowledge. Fatima. So we said there were a lot of Fatima's right. There were a lot of hints, and
there were a lot of Fatima's. Those are the two names that you constantly see popping up a lot of
people named hinze, a lot of people named Fatima. So, Fatima bint what what is his mother's full
name? Fatima bint acid. And the way you can remember that is that we said she wanted to she actually
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named him first assets after her father which means lion. Okay, fall tema bent acid. And we said
that she was the first What?
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She was the first herself. Does anyone remember?
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The first not policing Muslim?
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The first Hashimi woman to accept Islam, Hashem was the tribe of the Prophet slicin bento Hashem. So
she was the first woman who was the Hashemite from the actual family of the Prophet slice of them
from his tribe, to accept this now and we said that she was about the 11th person, the 10th, or the
11th person to enter into Islam when you look into the order. Also another mother like figure to the
Prophet slice on them, right there's a man and then there is faulty acid, who raises the prophets
lie Selim is a motherly figure from the age of six to 25 accepted Islam very early on, made the
migration to Abyssinia, lived through the boycott made the migration to Medina went through all the
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hardships alongside the Prophet sallallahu wasallam.
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And he was born about as we said, 10 years before Prophethood so about the year 600. Exactly.
Between 600 602 he was born and he supports the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. Right away. We talked
about how the Prophet peace be upon him brought it to the Allahu anhu into the house. He told his
uncle a bus, let's go to doubleton and help him out with his poverty. So let's let's take two of his
children and raise them ourselves so that Apple pilot could deal with the poverty
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In his household, the Messenger of Allah goes with a bus. And they take Java or the Prophet slicin,
walks up to it and grabs him by bus walks up to Jaffa, and he takes him and both of them would raise
those two until they reached their adulthood. And we also said that one of the miracles is that
Khadija did not breastfeed Ali, which would have made her which would have made him hold on for
faulting, which would have made him like a son, effectively a son to Khadija had she breastfed him.
But for whatever reason, it's the mercy of Allah to ideal the love from the wisdom of Allah and how
that would play out. She never actually fed it all the time, even though he was of that age. And
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though it was natural for a child to be fed by a mother that had flowing milk in those days. So
that's it, you know, the lower enemy comes into the house, as we said, accepts Islam right away. And
that sight of the prophets lie Selim Khadija, an early praying in front of the Kaaba praying theme
all alone, there was something there. Now, let's talk about faulty metal, the Allahu taala and how
she comes into and her nickname and Habiba to mental heavy the beloved one, the daughter of the
Beloved one on the Allahu Tatiana, may Allah be pleased with her and send his peace and blessings
upon her father and her mother. She was born.
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According to most historians, she was actually born in the first year of prophethood. Okay, so
according to many of the many of the scholars like you've been asked about hacking, have been
hijacked. She was born, the year that the Prophet slicin received revelation. So think about her
birth, which would mean you know that when Khadija on the line who was running up and down, hit up
to help the profit slice, I'm going through that stress, she could have been pregnant with her sixth
child, or fifth or sixth child, because there's dispute about whether Abdullah is older or younger
than Fatima, or she would have been an infant. So according to some she was born either right before
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Prophethood. So she was literally a baby, when the prophet SAW some received revelation, or she was
born right after the Prophet slicin received revelation in that very first year. So that's a special
child. Right, just the circumstances of her birth to come in during that time period of the profits
liasons life where he just received revelation.
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And this is a gift that a lot of gifts to them, is special in and of itself. So she was the last of
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his daughter.
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And I mentioned I believe in narration and when we were talking about digital the law that the way
that the naming worked was how the prophets lie some named the boys, Khadija named the girls and so
Khadija named her Fatima who can guess why?
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Because guess what, Khadija his mom's name was Fatima. So her mother was faulty ma Benza EDA. So
Khadija named her after her mother of all the Allahu taala on her and the word Fatima has an
interesting meaning to it. So we said Khadija means what? I'm going to keep on quizzing you guys on
the past halaqa so you can get it in inshallah, except Khadija means what does anyone remember what
the name Khadija means?
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See, Wanda is going through her notes.
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Where are you guys have Where's everyone?
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premature. Khadija means premature. So and it's a very, there's no one else named Khadija. Alright,
so the indication is that she was born very early for her to be given the name Khadija premature
fathima comes from the term fault limb, which is a baby that is full term and weaned. It's like the
opposite. It's really interesting. Khadija is premature. Fatima is full term and weaned.
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And, you know, it's really you know, so some of the scholars are, really you're not really looking
at Islamic scholars here you're looking at, I was reading what some of the scholars of language said
they said that, it could be that the Arabs use this name to indicate a very healthy girl that a girl
was healthy, full, obviously, or you're naming after another Fatima but that that's the origin of
it, right full term weaned, went through the whole process of being a baby. But of course, as we
said in the case of Fatima, it's after the mother of Khadija and uphold the law. I know it says
something very beautiful. He said that. Verily, Allah has weaned Fatima and her offspring off from
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fire from from the fire of Johanna from her birth. So Allah has weaned her and her children off of
that that she would not touch it or or or drink from any of its punishment. So let's go through the
children of the Prophet slice on them right quick and Khadija will the allow time.
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first child is who
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you guys are going to make this helical is so much longer. So if you know the answer I suggest that
you say it or if you think you're close to say it
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the first one is actually possible, right? Because I want you to get the full picture possum was
born around 12 years before Prophethood and he lived for about three years. So you know, we know
that the sons of the prophets lie some died right away, but possum actually lived about three years
so this was a very painful to their first child and died of some illness in the hands of Khadija
and, and the prophets lie Selim, Zainab, the oldest daughter of the Prophet sly son was born about
599, a year after possum. And then there is Rokia who was born about two years after that year 601.
And then there's uncle soon who some scholars say is less than a year younger than rokeya. So Uncle
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foom is immediate after a year. And then there is Fatima and we said Fawlty was born around the year
610 when the Prophet slicin received revelation. And then there's Abdullah, who died at birth, okay,
or very close to birth. And then there's the last son of the Prophet sly son who was born, of course
in Medina, the only son not from Khadija but from Nadia and his name was the Brahim very good. Okay,
so those are the seven children of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. So Khadija is the only child
that actually grew up in Islam. Okay, that was born and raised in Islam, whereas the others were not
what's going on in the household of the Prophet slice them at the time. But okay, yeah. And Uncle
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foom. We're both engaged on the prophets. I seldom received revelation. Does anyone know who they
were engaged to
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the children, the two sons of Abu lahab. That becomes very difficult. The man who cursed the Prophet
slice alum who stopped him and humiliated him in public, his uncle, Abu lahab, who humiliated him
and then I need all the low on heroes to his defense, that young child, both of the Prophet size
arms daughters were engaged to earth and rotate the, the children of Abdullah Herbert, Verner Tabor
engaged now engagements at that time, of course, would take place very early on they these marriages
were arranged very early on. So you know, little pay was only about seven on consumers about six.
When you say engaged, that just means that it's understood that when they come of age, there'll be
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married. There'll be married to these to these people. Zainab was already married and her husband's
name anyone know, clo tests allow some neurobion so Xena, the oldest is married to an awesome and
well Dr. Rocha is engaged to Aruba, ibn Abdullah hub.
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Uncle film is engaged to rotate in a bee lab and you just have now Fatima are the Allahu taala. And
when Fatima was born, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and again it could be the timing of
it. I mean, that could have a lot to do with it. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam immediately looked at
her in a different way absolutely fell in love with this baby girl of his. And it's so much so that
when Allah revealed what ended actually, after being warned your closest relatives call out to your
closest relatives and warn your closest relatives. The Prophet slicin stood up and he said he only
called two people by name. He said yes, Sophia didn't Abdulmutallab Sophia was the mother of
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Zubair. Okay, Sophia is the mother of Isabella the aunt of the Prophet sly Simon. She was very
close. Yeah, Sophie, I've been to Abdullah Yeah. Fatima Ventura su de la. Oh Fatima, the daughter of
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam suddenly machete mean Molly asked me anything that you want
of my wealth, anything that you want of my property law. I'm Nicola camino La Jolla. I cannot
testify on your behalf or I don't I cannot do anything for you with God on the Day of Judgment. What
that means is that you know how much I love you my closest and you know, I've been harder says the
fact that the prophets lie some name those two was for a reason Sophia was his favorite aren't close
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to him. Well, Carla, and she, she's, she's a special on to the Prophet, slice alum. And Fatima was
on you know, this unbelievably beloved child to the Prophet Sly Stone. So he's saying even YouTube,
and that's a message to everyone else. You have a responsibility before a lot that is an individual
responsibility. And it is not something that can be bought with money, I can't protect you, you have
to do your part and answer the call of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And that's why when the prophets lie
Selim was even asked when, if you remember the 40 Hadith on on social justice, and we talked about
this this narration where there was a rich woman, a powerful woman that stole and the
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They asked Osama Abu Zaid to go talk to the Prophet slice them and see if he can let it go because
she's she's a very powerful woman. And it's not right to punish someone who's so powerful. And the
prophets lie. Some said even if Fatima was to steal, she would be punished. There's no favoritism
here because you know where Fatima is, to me, the fact that I would even punish Fatima, I'm not
going to let someone go because, or you know, not hold someone accountable because they're from some
powerful class or because they belong to something that is that is that is there. So there's some
elements now that come into the household of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. Later on, fast forward
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to the death of her deja vu all the Illa Juana the mother of Fatima are the Allahu taala and her,
the wife of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
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When Khadija passed away,
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she was in the profit slice on would be attacked because remember, Khadija died around the same
time, only three days apart according to some narrations from doubleton. So the prophets lie some
would be viciously attacked in public at this point. Now he had no physical protection on the
outside. And when the prophets lie, some would come home covered in blood, which, by the way,
according to some of the scholars have said, there were eight times that the Prophet son was
publicly beaten eight times. So we know of thought and we know but eight times that someone was
thrown on him or he was punched or he was hit. So when the prophets lie, some is in public, he's
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fair game. When he comes home wounded. It's faulty model de la Honda that takes the role of playing
the role that Khadija will the lavonne he used to play, she's the one that really steps in, and that
starts to to protect the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
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It has some of the low on on who says that Fatima would be the one to clean the wounds of the
Prophet slicin them and how old was she about 10 years old? Think about that burden 10 year old girl
walking up to her father so ally seldom having to clean up his wounds and comfort him when Khadija
all the love on her was missing. And everyone knew Fatima's closeness to the profit slice of a 10
year old girl. And at the age of 10. What was she nicknamed?
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The mother of her father, because of the Hannah the love and the compassion she would show to her
father, when she would see the profit slice I'm struck by her It's like she was another mother to
the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and one of the most painful narrations the Prophet sighs I'm hated
to see her in pain, absolutely hated to see her in pain because he knew as a young girl that's been
exposed, she didn't see the the days of comfort and ease, which were really you know, right before
Prophethood where the Prophet slicin was at the max of his wealth of his of his of his credibility
and society. She didn't have that childhood, her childhood was all oppression. Her childhood was
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witnessing her father rejected beaten her mother becoming frail, dying due to the boycott, she
witnessed all the hardship and the most one of the most painful narrations and this was the peak of
humiliation of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam was that because now he's fair game and they'd
kick him in public punch him in public humiliate him spit at him in public Abuja
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challenge the real commitment be more eat real quick and every morning it was a powerful man in
Mecca. And these are now the elites playing games with the profit slice them at this point of
Apocalypse not here we're not showing him any regard whatsoever. And the profit slice has been
rejected from thought if he doesn't have anyone to protect him. Abu gehele tells he challenges me
more he says you really want to humiliate him. He said next time he comes to the cabinet because the
prophets lie some would still walk to the cabinet and pray even as they kick him even as they spit
on him he'd still go and pray by himself he doesn't have the double the lawn with him anymore. He
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says to equipment every morning to why don't you take the insides of a camel slaughter a camel and
take all of its guts all of its intestines all of its nastiness collect them and the next time the
prophets lie some is praying in front of the cab go dump them on his back. This is just you know
complete humiliation right utter humiliation. So we're gonna be worried Of course he says yes. And
Eric we're gonna be more It was a was a huge map size of Abuja had an Omar big man. And so he
collected all of that filth and they they watched the profit sites and waited for him to go into
such that into prostration. And then he came in he dumped it all on the back of the profits license.
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And it was so heavy on the back of the profit slice of them that it caused his body to collapsed. So
it wasn't like just the filth. Right complete humiliation. Even Mr. Trudeau the law I know he
narrates this incident because even Mr. Rude was someone that was almost beaten to death already
next to the cab but we'll talk about him at some point. He was a small man didn't have a tribe
didn't
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Have any protection. So he goes to the house of the prophets license
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to let the household know what had happened. The only one he finds 10 year old girl Fatima. Well,
the 11 and tells faulty man, that your father, you know what's happening to her father that your
father has been crushed by these camel guts. He's being humiliated. Everyone's laughing at him,
mocking him.
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And Fatima gladiola and her comes running out of her house to the house goes to the profit slice
alum, crying so heavily
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and scratching the guts off of the back of the profits license. Think of that scene. Right? This is
the daughter of the woman that held him when he received revelation. And think about how painful it
was for the prophets license. right this is you never want to see your children. See like that
right? This is a next level of humiliation. So and this is a long narration the prophets lie Selim.
This was one of the only times he actually prayed against his people. Meaning he prayed against a
Buddha who made you're against him but it's not often that the prophets lie so that makes against an
oppressor almost always his prayers are for them. But he actually makes against Abuja had an urban
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be more eat in that moment. He sees the pain of faulty model the allowance. He comforts her and
listen to what he says he says lots of key Don't cry in Allah nacion about key.
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God will support your father. Allah will give victory to your father Don't cry, Allah will give
victory to your father. And it didn't calm her tears. So the prophets lie some that's when he raised
his hands and he prayed against Abuja and urban Aviemore eight and those that had humiliated the
prophets lie Selim, in front of his father. Another narration
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after Khadija had died, where the prophets lie Selim C's faulty model de la hora and again this is a
girl that's been through what no girl should have to go through. Right that deeply loves her father
witnessed that pain. And he says to her Kay Fatah GD Nikki yagoona. Yeti, how are you? Oh, my
daughter. And she says in Nila Whaddya I'm in pain. What in the hola z Duma B and the malita Amon
Kula sudden what's increasing my pain even. We don't even have food to eat. Right? The prophets lie
some did not even have food, right? It goes days and nights hungry. And she's saying we don't have
foods I'm in emotional pain. And I'm in physical pain. So the Prophet sallallahu wasallam responds
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and he says, Oh my daughter Anna tell Dean and Nikita you yeda to Nisa anime said oh my beautiful
daughter Aren't you pleased that you are the master of all women? You are the leader of all women
the women of all the world look at the the knowledge understanding adapt of this young girl Fatima
all the olana she says yeah, but T for no money. I'm up not too long. She said oh my father but then
where's Mary the mother of Jesus? What about money? Um, how can I be the leader of the women of the
world? What about money? Um, so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said tilka say either to
Nisa, or me her father Heather Maria mo hydro Nisa, Almaty, Malia Khadija to hydro Nisa, Mattel,
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Karina, he said that she was the leader of the women of her time. And in that sense, Miriam was the
best woman of her times, and Khadija was the best woman of her times. So there's difference between
Sega and hadal. The best woman of all time, is medium. And the best woman of her time is your mother
Khadija and Fatima. The Lavanya is one of those who perfected her faith. So to the Prophet slice I
mentioned for women who perfected their faith, had perfect faith. And that was Maria Garcia, Khadija
Fatima so Fatima and her mother imagine to woman women that had perfect email, right, that had
perfect faith. And some of the scholars they said, Why Fatima? Why does she have perfect faith and
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not the other Daughters of the prophets license? They were surely beloved to the profits license.
But why fathima a law, the law of Thailand and some of the scars they said number one, this is a
gift from Allah that Allah gives to people right? This is Fatima would exert herself in worship, and
you'll see her in her lifetime. she resembles the Prophet slicin more than any other human being.
We'll talk about that no one resembles the Prophet, like file team. She was a copy of the prophets
license and that translated also into her nobility, her worship, and
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did not do so some of them said because she was born into the days of hardship, and as opposed to
her son, and as opposed to her sisters. She grew up watching her father tortured and she was the one
playing the role of Khadija supporting the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. She spent her three years of
her childhood in the boy
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She never saw the days of wealth like the other children of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
she made the hedra with her father. So she actually migrated with the prophets license to Medina at
the age of 13 years old, and she migrated with her sister uncle soon, the prophets lie Selim sodha
been to zemana
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Isha? Well the Allahu taala and an etias mother omro man, which is the wife of Abu Bakr, may Allah
be pleased with them all. So they all migrated to Medina together. So Fatima is attached to the
Prophet sallallahu Sallam throughout his most difficult days. She is a woman who perfects her faith.
I mentioned the qualities, the names, does anyone remember from cultiva? What were other two names?
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Fatima l
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z coming. Some of you are going to say it. Okay, Zaha, which means the radiant face. She had a
radiant face like her father faulty model the law and when you looked at her face, it was just full
of * full of light, just like the face of the prophets lie Selim. And also there's one more and
batool someone was listening to my ultimate
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and the tool, all right, which means the one who's turned back to Allah speaks to her worship turn
back to God. So speaks to her worship speaks to her Zohar asceticism, and her and her and her shut
off her nobility. So anyway, they get to Medina.
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And now we start to see how does Ali and how did the Ali and Fatima story happen? Okay. By the time
they migrated, it was too old to live in the house of the Prophet Sly Stone at that point. Okay,
because he had become old enough to where he was of age and so he was separated from Fatima even
though he grew up with farting and he was close to him and age so they grew up together. But I need
all the allow on who had moved on and that's why when they got to Medina, the prophet slice alum,
paired him off with saladna Hanif as a brother and the home of chromosome Manhattan, a man by the
name of Cozumel had them that's where all the young single guy stayed in Cuba. So when they made
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heads at all the young singles went to the house of Khartoum and vanilla headjam or the Allahu
taala. And so when the prophets lie, some got to Medina at that point again, Ali rhodiola and who is
grown he lives outside of the house of the profit slice alum. As for faulty model, the law on how
she still lives in the house of the profit slice them so when they're building the house, in Medina,
she's there she's right there with the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And what was the love
of the Prophet slice? I'm like, for Fatima, it was to a point that it used to make the others in the
family of the profit slice. I'm a little jealous. Okay, and it it'll be Alon who was one of them.
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Some of news aid about the law. I know he says that one day I was sitting. So this is now before it
marries fathima. We were in we're in Medina and Ali and Ibis sought permission, Uncle the profit
slice I'm an RD sought permission to enter. So they came in. And
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the profit slice I'm asked to sama, do you know why they're coming at this time? They said no. He
said, No. So they came in. And they sat. And they said to the profit slice them that we've come to
you to ask you, who is the most beloved of your family to you? We were having a debate,
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trying to figure out who do you love most from your family. Now there's a similar narration where
I'm going to be lost as the Prophet slice and I'm have been nasty, like, Who's the most beloved of
people too, and he said, his wife, and then he said, abubaker, a Buddha, right? And then Rama here,
it's like very specific, like from the family. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
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He said, Habu le la Fatima. So the most beloved of my family to me, is Fatima. My daughter was
really interesting, because in the other narration, when he responded to Ahmed Ahmed said, No, no,
no, I mean from the men. Like it was weird for you to say that you loved your wife and you loved
your daughter that much, right. So they had a similar understanding said, Yama, Sula. We're not
talking about that we're talking about from the men.
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We get you love your daughter Fatima. There is no there's no comparison to her. And in this
narration, the prophet sighs MCs who some of Noseda and the prophets lie Selim says, I have le la
man annamma la hora de he went to LA he Oussama urbanization said well, the most beloved of of the
young men in my family, are the one who is the one who Allah favored and I have favored husana
ignores eight, who was the son of the adopted son of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, who was the son
was mother, see if someone can catch it. We talked about her own Amen, good. So some of muzej so the
Prophet slicin was talking about seven was eight, and then the prophets lie Selim said, some not
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even be thought of then he said an idea of navitat. So he said to the prophets lie Selim.
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I'll turn MK hero home, you made your uncle the last of them. And you talked about Fatima and then
Osama then Ali and then you left me out. I'm your uncle. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
sadly an early conservative hakab in his life. He said that he made his law before you and he
migrated before he took some time to embrace Islam and to come to the Prophet slice on said that.
What does this mean now what are the implications? Here's some beautiful narrations about what this
would look like in Medina. So baml the law he narrates he said when the prophets lie, some would
leave Medina. The last person he would sit with is Fatima. And when he returned, the first person he
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would sit with was Fatima. Anytime the Prophet slicin left Medina last person he's gonna sit with
his daughter, Fatima. First person he's going to sit with when he comes back, is his daughter
Fatima. Abu Salah gets more specific. He says when the Prophet sly Ceylon used to go on a journey or
a battle. The first thing the Prophet slicin would do was he'd go to the masjid pray to records,
then he would go to the house of Fatima and he take his time.
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So it's not like he just kind of go say somebody comes after Fatima would move on obviously and get
married. But it just shows you the love and the preference. And then he would visit his spouse to
sallallahu wasallam. So before he would even go to his as watch before you even go to his wives he
go to his daughter, Fatima. What are the Allahu tada and the last person to see before traveling,
the first person to see when he got back. Even when she got married. That was the place of Fatima or
the Allahu taala Anna and what a father the Prophet slicin um, is one a lesson in fatherhood, just
like everything else, he sets the standard. Here's what he shall allow and he says about Fatima and
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the relationship with the prophets license. She says Model A to A hadn't ashba has something well
done. Well, I hadn't be Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam 50 ami he will Kuru de when Fatima
vinta rasulillah. She said I've never seen a person who resembled the Prophet slice of them. In his
look in his walk in His guidance and his character in everything that he did. Even in his standing
up and sitting down the way the Prophet slicin would sit down and the way he'd stand up. Fatima
looked exactly like him. She acted exactly like him. She was she was a copy of the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And then he says, we can have either the Hola, la de Palma, LA, when she
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would enter into a room no matter what the prophet slicin was in the middle of he would stand up for
her
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cabana and then he walked up to her and he kissed her on the forehead. And then he would hold her
hand for edge lesser half image this he and the prophets lie some would sit her down where he was
sitting. Look at this honor. And she says about fancy mobile deola on her. She says what qanat
either de la la jolla and when the prophets lie some would enter upon any gathering or any setting
that she was in, she would rush comet minmax lycia she would stand up she'd rushed to the profit
slice Allah cabella to she kissed him on the forehead, she'd hold the profit slice on his hand as
the set to female they see how she'd sit him down in the in the in the chair or where she was
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sitting. And she adds one thing what kind of took up below we can add to cart below your day he she
would kiss both of his hands.
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Right? That's just a special relationship that everyone sees. You don't interfere with that
relationship. You you admire it, you love it. And this was a society where people used to bury their
daughters alive. Think about that, right? Where a lot talks about the the way they treated their
daughters that when they would get the news that they had a daughter or a girl.
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You would see their their faces, their faces darkened. And this isn't that society. But the prophets
lie Selim is honoring his daughter that way. What a father. Right. And you can't i can't think of
any father that does that for his daughter to that extent. Right. And that's a lesson for all of us,
especially SubhanAllah. You know, it's it part of that part of that was certainly the loyalty of the
Prophet slicin in the same way with Khadija that he has to honor her, because Khadija did things for
him that no one else did. Fatima did things for the profit slice them that no one else did. And the
profit slice and I'm honored that to a great extent. So anyway, Ali and Fatima grew up together.
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Now, let's get to the marriage. When does the marriage take place? The Battle of bed that just took
place there in Medina.
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There was a great incident of sadness of tragedy that happens
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on the day of better Does anyone know what it was?
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Anybody they called it the day of great joy and the day of great sadness because it was the victory
of the Battle of bedeutet. But there was a day of great sadness to
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the death of rock
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A year the daughter of the profit slice on Nokia got sick before bed did and that's why Earth mount
have an iPhone did not go to the Battle of bed that he stayed back and he took care of it okay took
permission from the profit slice of them to take care of Nokia and Nokia died on the same day that
better was one. So while the harbor is celebrating and this was a great victory from Allah, The news
comes that the daughter of the prophets lie Selim has died, and that replay, and that is Manuel de
la and who was in great sadness and they were sad both for the prophets lie Selim, and for this man
because this man was a very special and beloved person. What did the prophet SAW some do after the
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death of little play? Yeah, he married on consume.
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Earth modeled the law on who the new rain the possessor of two lights married, on could film of the
Allahu taala and the next daughter of the prophets license. So at this point, now, Xena is still in
Mecca. She's with an obeah, Rokia was married to Earth man actually went to avicennia. With Earth
man passed away. Uncle Sam has moved out from the house and lives with, with with with her husband
and family a lot of time. So Fatima is the last one in the household of the prophets. I seldom. Now
can you imagine? If you love the prophets lie Selim. Right? And you saw how much he loves this girl.
And she is the female version of him.
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Can you imagine how many people wanted to marry Fatima on the low on her. So at the top of that list
of Wilbekin and Roma both proposed for the hand of Fatima right. Both of them came to the Prophet
slice alum, first of all Beckett and then Alma and they asked for hint. The Prophet slice on them
said in tableau, we help Baba he said, Just wait, give me some time. And then the profit slice I'm
such he's young. Meaning he had someone else in mind. When the prophet SAW some turns away, well,
Beckett and amata, something's up.
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That means he has someone else in mind for her. Right? Because you're not going to turn away a
bucket in Oman unless there's something special planned. And of course, Rebecca and Omar are closer
to the age of the prophets license. So there's someone else that the Prophet slice that, um, has his
eye on. So
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how do we get it into the picture? One of the coolest things about this long narration is narrated
by Al Hassan. So it's How I Met Your Mother narrating from Le fathima how my parents met or how they
got married, right. So I need all the law and Who says that? I thought about it. But I was like, he
turned away a double bucket and almost no way I have a chance. Right? So whoever he's got his eye
on? It's not me. Right? I need all the law on hold thought there is no way the profits lie. So I was
thinking about me. So the year is right after that, actually. So you're 622 or 623 I do the law.
They're still young, it is about 2314 was about 16 years old. They're still pretty young. Now
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marriage age was much younger than 16 people would get married 1011 1213 at that time, right?
Children are different we're different at the time, right? So a little the law animal he tells this
narration he says that I was sitting in the household of someone from the family so it was like his
aunt or an uncle one of the the hashemites and he said that the family started to talk to her he
said why don't you go ask for the hand of Fatima they said particularly there was a an old female
servants in the household we don't know her name from the narration but you can kind of get the
picture
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she said to the title the law and you know I think the prophets lie some has his eye on you
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and a little the law and said bad Rebecca and Omar think you think he's gonna marry his daughter to
me if he turned away a bucket and Omar No way. So he said she kept on pushing me until finally I
said to her well under NDA and that is Oh, what up? You think I have anything to get married with I
don't own anything. I'm poor. Remember, we talked about the poverty of value? So even if I went to
the profits license, I don't even have enough for a mob for a dowry for a gift for a wedding. I
can't afford anything. How am I gonna go to the Prophet slice alum? She said Listen,
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if you go to the Prophet, slice alum, he'll he'll marry his daughter to you. So maybe she had a hint
or whatever it is, but she said he will do it. And then a little DLR and who says abubaker Rama and
sorry David Morales said one of the Chiefs in Medina, they all encouraged me to go ask for hands so
meaning either the prophets lie some confided in double Beckett and Alma that he is the one or they
just had a feeling like he's he's probably got his eye on you. Right. So after all of these people
tell him to go to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said, finally I gathered the courage
to go to him to ask for a hint.
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So he said, I got to the house of the prophets lie some of them feeling
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Confidence I can do this. Imagine the pep talks to himself. He says I sat in front of the prophets
lie Selim and he said I completely went silent. I could not say a word. And he says Jelena 10
waverton Isla de su de la, salud, the glory and the respect the love of the prophets license. I
couldn't say a word. So he says, I sat in front of the prophets, I saw them. And I stuttered a few
times mumbled a few words. And the prophets lie. Some was looking at me.
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So after some time, the prophets lie, some says, magic, because you have not on me. What brought you
to me? Son of my uncle.
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And I need all the love and who was so eloquent, one of the most eloquent men amongst the companions
of prophets lie some, he said, I tried to say a few words and I made no sense whatsoever. And I was
shaking, sweating, nervous, shivering, the prophets lie. Selim said, Allah can be had, do you have?
Do you need something? Are you okay?
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And he said that I still couldn't say anything. So he said, finally the prophets lie Selim. He
smiled at me. And he said, la la caja 30 touchable, Fatima. Maybe you came to ask for Fatima's
hands.
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He knows why he's there. Right. So I'm gonna make it easy for you. I look at it. And he talks about
Fatima. He said, maybe you came to ask for Fatima's hand in marriage. So he said I put my head down.
And I said no, I'm not gonna lie. So messenger of Allah. He said, Okay, good. Do you have anything
to you have a gift, you have a Maha Lakshmi Maha?
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A little dilla. And we said, I actually don't have a model. I don't have anything to get married
with. So the prophets lie. Some pointed to his daughter pointed to a shield. He said, You've got
that right.
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He said, yeah. prophets. I said, How much is it worth? He said about four denims does nothing.
Right? for silver coins for denims profits. I said, go sell it and come back to me and bring that as
a Mahajan. That's good enough for a gift. Subhan Allah. Now you see
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Fatima and then you see a whole community that is absolutely ecstatic. To see this marriage of these
two people that are so beloved to the Prophet slicin. So prophets lie some then went to Fatima, I
needed the law on home, easiest proposal ever.
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Hardest and easiest ever, right? He said that he only had to say a total of like four words, walks
out.
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And he got it. Right. He was the one that the prophets lie some had his eye on for fathima. So he
goes out now the prophets lie some has to go to Fatima and asphaltum if she wants to marry it,
faulty model de la and he wanted to marry it. But to have your father come and ask you what that
means. The profit slice I'm coming to her and asking her saying, you know, our little the low on who
came and asked for your hand. Are you okay with it? Right faulty model, the low end had turned red,
completely overtaken by higher by modesty. She couldn't say a word. The province ICM is dealing with
two people that are not speaking and formulating this marriage, putting it all together. Right? So
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the prophets lie Selim acaba, he made sure, and this is where the filthy ruling actually that in
marriage, if you know because the woman has to consent, right, that's one of the rulings, right. But
if you ask her, and you're very explicit, and she doesn't want to actually say yes, but she kind of
indicates where she stayed, then that could then that that can suffice as her approval for the
marriage. Right? Because the prophets lysozyme said, Do you have any objection, and she couldn't say
anything. So the prophets lie Selim took that affirms that her quietness was not because of
rejection, he knows his daughter, but because of her modesty, her heya she just didn't want to come
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out and say yes. Right. So and there's a very funny narration
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while they were discussing arrangements, so now the prophets lie some God, I need all the low end,
we got Fatima. And this is where the, the the I'm going to shatter your image of the Sahaba physical
image of the Sahaba a little bit. All right. So the Prophet sly son was talking to faulty model de
la Anna, about the marriage and illegal the law and who was known to have a big stomach. Surprise,
surprise. Big men right at the low end whose biceps were the biggest biceps amongst us the harbor,
they said that if you put two hands around the bicep, the valley you couldn't close your hands. But
he also had a stomach and 13 out of the 11 and he joked with the profits all the lies that um, she
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says a Western alien alien button. You married me to the man with the big stomach. All right. So the
Prophet sallallahu Sallam laughed and he said in hula Oh, well, it was heavy Solomon accardo Homer
illman or Alamo home Hellman
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beautiful description. prophets lie Selim said he was the first of my companions to embrace Islam.
The most of them acknowledge a thorough home element. What are Obama home headman, he has great
patience, him his forbearance the way you treat people, right patience with people so prophets lie
someone
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took it as an even though it was a joke. He took it as an opportunity to, to praise Him and to speak
about his, his his character. So anyway, I read all the alarm. He says, I went to the marketplace
and I'm selling my dinner and the only thing I own is my shield. And I'm selling my dinner. He says,
so it's Manuel de lo and who saw me in the marketplace for sale on my shield that I'm selling my
data. This man is about to be his brother in law, right? Or if man is married to that, okay, and
then uncle film. So he says model the law and who came to me and said, How much are you selling it
for you, sir? How much would you pay for it? Now he told the profits, it was only worth four times
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this model, the law said, I'll give you 400 for it. He's trying to make things a little easier for
him. All right. So I need all the law knows that. Sure. This is great, right? This man's trying to
be charitable, but hey, you like it, you value it Earth man is a rich man with the law. I know. He's
the opposite of it in terms of his financial circumstances, I'll give you 400 for it. So he gave him
400. And I needed the law on reset. So I gave him the data. And then after he gave me the 400
denims, he handed the shield to me, he said this is my wedding gift to you.
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So he got his 400 that hums from the marketplace and he kept the shields. So he said I went back to
the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And I told him what happened. So he said the prophets lie Selim
daddy earthman is one of the many occasions where the prophets lie some major aphorism. And he said,
Rahim Allah.
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May Allah be pleased with about Umrah, referring to him. And he said he's the most generous of sun
and loss, praising again, the generosity of very phenomenal deal. This was Earth man, big heart,
always the first right to spend and to win the Prophet when he knows even that the prophets lie some
would love to see that charity. This is phenomenal. The alarm that he uses as well makes it easy for
the allow to handle. And then comes the wedding preparation. I did all the law on Who said I sold
some other things, just whatever I could find. Completely emptied out my house. He said I had 480
homes. Okay. And so the profit slice, I'm said, so what's the Mau going to be at 480. Durham's, I
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want you to take a moment and think about this, the mouth of the queen of gender, leader of the
women in Paradise is 480 homes. Some people have abused this concept so much turning into a price of
value. It's supposed to be a gift to symbolize a union. It's supposed to set the tone for a son for
excellence, the gift giving of the husband to the wife and some people have abused this concept so
much. turned it into like an insurance plan or something like that. Right? Like 20,000. That's like,
where did this 20,000 30,000 40,000 Where does this come from? Right? It's not the spirit of it is
there and other prophets lie, some did not limit. You didn't top it off. But the prophets lie. Some
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said the best of my heart and the best of weddings are the ones that are the least expensive. Right?
There is hate. There's Baraka there's something beautiful and blessing about a simple wedding, a
simple Maha. Don't overdo it. You know that money that you're spending to, to
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show show every show everyone who you are and what you are, that money will die the same night it
will go to waste and it might even be sinful might even be a slough it might even mean extravagance
and then you could use that money for something so much better. Right? So the Prophet slicin him in
his own example. And that's why in the Hanafi school, many of them enough became their history,
right? The Mahabharata Mia right, the Maha Fatima as the mother at the time of marriage, right, just
the gift, the dowry at the time of marriage. So this is the the leader of the women in paradise. So
either Tunis and agenda 480 silver coins, a few columns, a little the law and who asked the Prophet
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size, and he said, What should I do with it, you know, so it's not just that the profit slice of
them said, it's through saying if it
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was through sunfilled metab, he said, use two thirds of it to buy her some perfume, and use one
third of it to buy some furniture. Take the 480 and get get it ready, go get her some perfume, go
get her some furniture for a house. So a little the allow. This is where the community starts to
come together. Now, he said so I had no idea how to buy perfume. never bought perfume in his life,
said so below the law and who went with him and below the low tide I know helped him buy some
perfume for his wife fancy model the law on her. And he said and I gave the rest on selama or the
lohana bringing in now some heavyweights right some senior Sahaba This is the excitement of the
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community. And I asked him selama to use whatever was left to buy what was necessary for the bride
for her preparation. The Prophet slice alum then gave some money to a bucket and he sets a bucket to
buy some clothes for ID and fathima. And then he sends a model the asset of the Allahu taala and
when he said make the
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Preparations for the wedding. So when they went out to the marketplace now you got double Beckett
and Armada, vinyasa, going out shopping for their wedding, a model the low tide and who said I would
show everything, double check it for approval, he would approve it, we buy it. We came back to the
profit slice of them brought the stuff the profit slice of them made for Baraka for blessing in the
few items that we bought. Maslow called the law and who says that Isha and onsala
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were given the responsibility to prepare the home of Ali and Fatima. So look at how simple these
people are.
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On Sunday, Anselmo took some mud from the valley, they prepared it, they cleaned it, and they turned
it into they said, We made it into cushions with our hands, put a simple cloth over it and we made
it into cushions from our hand. They took some dates and some water, they placed a wood in the you
know, I hope that the night Allah one day we can actually create these simulations to show people
this I know there have been some attempts, but it just be beautiful to see it. They put a wood in
the corner where they could hang their clothes and they could they also had some hooks on the woods
so that you could hang some of your water vessels. And then the story of this, this marriage becomes
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Kitab, Nika Babel walima. In the center of
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Babel. walima actually starts off with this. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam himself made
the bed. How do you make a bed, right? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with his own hands.
He took palm leaves, he took wood, he stuffed the wood with some of the palm leaves. And then the
profits why some took a velvet cover, took a pillow that was made of animal animal skin, filled it
with some of the palm fiber as well. That was their cushioning on the inside. And the profit slice
alum left for them apart. And he left for them a waterskin. And he left for them. A couple of stones
that they could grind grain with. This is the making of the house of alley and Fatima little de la
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and who narrates he said we had one bed in our house. And he said it was everything for us. He says
it was our bed at night. It was our couch during the daytime. And he said and we would feed our
animals off of it. And he said we never had a servant's we never had a Giardia in our home, which is
a story that we'll talk about next week. And as we as we continue, so this is Subhanallah the
simplicity of that coming together. A smart body allowed Taylor and her said the best wedding I ever
saw the best walima ever saw was the Redeemer of Ali and Fatima all they had was some barley, some
dates and some haze cases they taste some haze, which they eat in the desert. And that was the
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wedding meal of Allie and Fatima and it was the happiest day that they remembered in Medina somehow
seeing that wedding, the joy of the Prophet slice in them the simplicity of this wedding, that's
setting the tone for everybody to how they approach the celebrations and how they approach their
weddings. Finally, the Prophet slicin um sent us all the law and we called Rebecca ometer is man
wilbarger Ensenada and some of the unsought they bore witness to the wedding and the Prophet slicin
um says she to come and kneepads the watch to Fatima minarelli Allah Akbar Mia team is fall in
Fiddler the prophets lie Some said I bear witness Are you bear witness in front of you that I've
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married my daughter Fatima to ID for 400 small silver coins for the 400 did hums. Last narration
I'll leave you with with tonight inshallah. And then next week, we'll pick up and shell and talk
about this blessing family life. The first night, these two people who couldn't even talk
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to express their desire to marry one another. That was a hard wedding day.
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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told I need all the law on home at the walima. He said go
home. And he said before you're before you're intimate with each other, he said, wait for me, and
I'll come to you. Alright, so I need all the allowance data and Who said that?
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I came home and he said, a man brought Fatima to the house. So the Prophet sly Samson lead to the
new house, the bed. Fatima or the Allahu taala and her went home with a man of the love on her. And
he said we sat there and we just waited for the prophets lie Selim. super nervous. I mean, anxious.
What's he gonna say? This is it's hard right to be the daughter of the Father, the Son in law of the
prophets lies on tap as your father in law. He said so the Prophet sallallahu wasallam walked in.
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And we were both sitting there and they were both shaking, nervous, anxious. The prophets lie Selim
said don't stand up. He told them to stay there. He took the water in their house, the water jug.
This is so beautiful. So Pamela
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He made will do with the water
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profits license
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then he made we'll go into the jug so he told the idea of the law on how to come a little the law on
who came the prophets lie some poured the water on him and made your app for him.
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Then he sent it to the laundry sit down he told the faulty model the lower to come faulty model the
low and how was shivering
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from her higher when the Prophet slicin called her so the prophets lie some comforted her he said to
her Do not worry he said I've married you to the most beloved person in my family. I'm marrying you
to someone's Don't worry you're okay I'm marrying you to someone special I'm marrying you to it
it'll be allow I know. And the prophets lie some made will do and he poured water on thought the
model the law and how he embraced her and listen to this beautiful drought and we'll end with this
inshallah. What a father Subhanallah he said Allah baddeck FEMA, Allah bless them. FEMA, what
baddeck Addy Hema Allah bless them, what in females what is between them, and upon them, bless them
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and what is between them, and bless them and what is upon them. What baddeck fie shibli Hema and
bless them in their offspring.
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So the Prophet sly seldom did his will do he wiped the water over poured the water on her made that
dirt for her and it and then the prophets lie Selim walked out. And that was the way that this
blessed union came together of Allie and Fatima, the household of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
elevate in sha Allah to Allah. Next week, we'll pick up and we will continue about what came out of
that household and the way that these two would live their lives We ask Allah subhanaw taala to make
beloved to us the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and his family and his companions and to allow
us to be like the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and his family and his companions to allow us
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to not just love them, but to allow us to also manifest those beautiful noble qualities that we
speak of, and we ask Allah to join us with them all along. I mean,
