Omar Suleiman – Meeting Muhammad PBUH #14 – When He Was Angry

			If you're a person that's always angry, then it's likely that you're going to just be dismissed as
hot tempered. And issues that actually require seriousness and anger aren't going to be taken
seriously from you anymore because people are just used to you being angry all the time. But when
you're cheerful in nature, then your anger is significant because people know that you're not angry
over petty things. And that's why they have the saying in the Arabic language, the tequila called
Love and Helene fear the anger of the one who's typically forbearing because that's when you know
that you've crossed the serious line, because that's not a person that typically gets mad.
		

			One of the signs of the hypocrite that the Prophet slicin mentioned is what the hos on that when
they get into an argument they become belligerent they always transgress in the midst of an
argument. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that the worst of people are those who people don't
even advise anymore, because they don't want to deal with their fish. They don't want to deal with
their nastiness, right? When someone is so hot tempered, and it's expected that anything is going to
set them off, then eventually, people see them go into a fit of rage. And it's like, you know what,
I'm just gonna let that person finish. And we're not gonna even try correcting them anymore. No one
		

			gives that person they'll see anymore No one gives that person advice. No one tried to challenge
them anymore. No one tried to rectify them. And so in the process, they make everything around them
unpleasant. And they hurt themselves because they become less self aware because no one's even
making them aware anymore of the way that they're behaving. And that's why I do the alongside I know
he has a powerful saying he says about what he says about anger. He says, I wonder who junoon was a
hero who naadam that the beginning of it is craziness. And the end of it is regret people that go
into these fits of anger. May Allah help all of those that are sincerely trying to overcome a hot
		

			temper, but people go into fits of anger. They start off crazy and they end off regretful so he
looked at the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he was never fat or she was never fowl. sallallahu wasallam
and he was never angry over worldly things. He was never one that would denigrate other people. He
was never one that would become nasty. So the lahardee who was selling them in the midst of his
anger, instead, we see that the Prophet slice alum, his anger was composed and it was for the right
reasons. Because if you're angry for Allah, you can't have the manners of shavon for a righteous
cause. Right? If you're angry for Allah, then your anger has to abide by the principles that are
		

			pleasing to Allah subhanaw taala as well. And this is the way of the prophets right you look at
Musashi his Salaam when he found his people worshipping the calf, you look at the side he said, I'm
Jesus peace be upon him with the money changers in the temple. And the prophets of Allah how it was
to them used to say very beautifully Allah India said okay, kennametal Huck, Finn, Luba, well,
Allah, O Allah, I asked you for the ability to speak a word of truth, in times of pleasure and in
times of anger. Why? Because sometimes when you get into anger, you're no longer driving your own
personality. But instead you're letting someone else take over you. And the profit slice of them is
		

			saying get back to the truth get back to the hacker because that's what it's supposed to be about in
the first place. And that's how the Prophet slicin them grounded himself. So what did it look like
when the prophets lie some got anger, woman Tacoma enough? See, I saw the Allahu tada Anna says, and
there are other Sahaba as well that narrate this, he never got angry for himself. sobre la vida he
was solemn. Illa and tanto. haka. hometel. La has origin except that the prohibitions of Allah
subhanho wa Taala, were violated were undertaken. So once you cross the boundaries of Allah subhanho
wa Taala yen tepee, Modi Dasa De La Hoya, and he was set on the profit slice of them would get angry
		

			for Allah. And that can be very hard to see from the Prophet slice lm because again, it wasn't his
norm was some of Museo de la tada and who who was so beloved to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, he says that when I killed a man in battle, and that man said La ilaha illAllah right before
I killed him, and I thought to myself that he probably just said, La ilaha illa Allah, just to
escape death. When I told the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam about that he was so upset with me
saying to me that you check his heart, Osama, he said, he was so upset with me that I had wished I
hadn't become Muslim before that day, meaning I wish that I could just take Shahada that day and do
		

			away with everything. Before that. You have the story of the young man that came to the house of the
Prophet sallallahu wasallam to ask about his habits, and when they found that the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam sleeps at night sometimes that the prophets lie Selim is intimate with his spouses
that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam eats food. He doesn't fast all day. These three young men, they
walked away and they said, Well, he's the prophet of God, we have to do more than him. So they took
these oats on themselves that I'm going to fast and not break my fast that I'm going to stay awake
the entire night and pray that I'm going to not get married because intimacy is somehow a mark. It's
		

			a taint. And one
		

			It's my son heard about this the Prophet slicin was upset. He said, Who are these people? And he
said to them in anger sallallahu wasallam that look, I am the Prophet of Allah. No one is going to
exceed me and religiosity but I observe prayer and then I sleep, I observe fasting and then I break
my fast and I'm intimate with my spouses and whoever turns away from my son is not from me. So
that's when the Prophet sly son would become upset when people would exceed the boundaries of Allah
subhanho wa Taala and risk corrupting or polluting the religion in the first place. Now, the prophet
sly, some also would not tolerate people belittling others because that's also the sanctity of Allah
		

			subhanaw taala because Allah has sanctified, the dignity and the honor of your brothers and sisters.
And so when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sees the companions, and they make fun of the
legs of Abdullah and Masaru, there'll be a low tide on him because of how skinny they were. prophets
licen becomes extremely upset in defending Yvan Masuda all the time, and saying you're laughing at
those two legs. And I've seen each one of them the size of hood on the Day of Judgment, those are
legs of power, those are legs of honor in the sight of Allah subhana wa Tada, or the famous story of
without all the longtime who's saying goodness, so that saying You son of a black woman and the
		

			prophets of Allah hasten I'm saying to him without all the alonside and who did you insult him using
his mom? Did you insult him using his mom, and you are a person that still has some of the days of
ignorance inside of you some of janelia inside of you. So that's also the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam seeing that the sacred boundaries of Allah subhanho wa Taala have been crossed. But
somehow Allah, it's really interesting that he showed the Allahu tida and she narrates the time that
the prophets lie Selim got really, really, really upset. She says that it was in regards to Khadija
will, the alongside on and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam used to always mention for the IJA as if
		

			there was no one else in the world but Khadija and she had already passed away and I never even met
her but he loved her so much that anytime for these other the alongside Anna was brought up anytime
he saw some of her friends he sent gifts to them anytime. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
heard the voice of Hannah, her sister the prophets license that Allah Allah, Allah Allah Allah let
it be harder, Allah let it be harder. So she says that one day, I said to the Prophet slicin them as
he was mentioning Khadija will the low tide and I said to the Prophet sallallahu it was in them. Why
are you caught up on an old toothless woman from Qureshi? abdelhak Allahu ala minha that Allah
		

			Subhana which Allah has given you better than her, and she knew that she crossed the line. She said
that the prophets lie some stood up, his face became red it his Salatu was salam, that vein that
would come out from his forehead sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came out when he was angry, and it
looked like his hair stood up so Allah Hardy was selling because of how upset he was at what she had
said about Khadija and the prophets of Allah how it was set up says I swear that Allah has not given
me better than her. And he started to say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and to be if Kufa be a nurse,
she believed in me. When others disbelieved in me, she considered me truthful and others called me a
		

			liar she spent on me when others deprived me and Allah gave me children through her and Allah
subhanaw taala has not given me children through anyone else will la Hema but that any allow vitamin
Allah has not given me better than her. And he shall have the Allah Anna said he also Allah forgive
me, I will never talk about Khadija again. And the Prophet slicin forgave her. And Subhanallah you
note here that this was the angriest that she had seen the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and he could
have denigrated her he could have put her down instead, what did the Prophet slice on? Do? He
extolled Khadija or the Allahu Tatiana? Instead of mentioning the inferiority of Isha, he focused on
		

			the superiority of Khadija because this was not about the Prophet slice them and this was not about
putting someone down, but instead This was upholding that which Allah subhana wa tada had honored
and that's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would get upset. So
		

			he
		

			solo la
		

			solo
		

			was