Nouman Ali Khan – Nothing is Going My Way Q&A

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The speaker discusses the difficulties of life and how to be more resourceful and creative. They explain that life is about challenges and failures and that success is a result of navigating through them. The speaker also suggests learning the Quran and recommends resources for Muslims to help them achieve their goals.

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			Everybody
		
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			from us has hardships in life.
		
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			But in recently, I have so much pain
		
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			and stress and difficulties
		
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			that
		
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			nearly every door I want to go, it
		
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			get closed or it get canceled or or
		
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			it get, I'm late or delayed.
		
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			And I try to remind myself, like, what
		
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			would, a prophet do in this time.
		
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			And,
		
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			I know they had sabr, and I know
		
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			they had iman, but when I want to
		
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			do this, translate my this in into actions,
		
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			I don't know how. Like, I don't know
		
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			how to really have a man in Allah
		
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			that,
		
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			no matter how hard it gets, I stay
		
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			strong. I don't get weak and know who
		
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			Allah really is in my heart.
		
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			What doors are closing? Can you tell me?
		
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			Maybe school,
		
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			marriage,
		
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			Sometimes,
		
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			little things I want to do with my
		
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			family member sometimes. Some,
		
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			for example, go out Look. And it gets
		
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			canceled. I don't know why. And Because
		
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			life is about a lot of difficulties and
		
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			failures. Yes.
		
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			But every time a door opens,
		
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			your it's not you don't wait for another
		
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			door to open.
		
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			You push another door open. Yes.
		
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			You have to look for it yourself.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Look.
		
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			But what should I understand?
		
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			The message from Allah, what is it from?
		
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			To become more resilient.
		
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			You have to become more resourceful.
		
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			And how to be more creative. And how
		
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			can I become more resilient?
		
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			I tried to read Quran, I write down
		
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			If you're if one thing doesn't work out
		
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			and you're like, why did this not happen?
		
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			You know, like, you know how birds sometimes
		
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			they crash into the window over and over,
		
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			I guess?
		
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			If the birds had a little bit more
		
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			brain, they would find another way. Yes. That's
		
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			what I mean by resilience. It's not just
		
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			that you have to just take a situation
		
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			and be patient.
		
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			If one door isn't opening, look for another
		
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			door. When that closes, look for another one.
		
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			Then that one is look for another one,
		
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			but keep looking.
		
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			And how can I get to know Like,
		
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			Allah? Let me give you an example. If
		
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			you couldn't find a job
		
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			and you applied to another one and they
		
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			said no, then you applied to another one,
		
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			do you stop or you keep going? I
		
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			I keep going. You keep going? Yes.
		
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			And then you get you got a job
		
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			you don't like.
		
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			You still take it. Yes. Until something else
		
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			opens up that you do like. Right?
		
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			So life doesn't happen on my terms. Yes.
		
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			I have to
		
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			keep navigating.
		
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			As a new wave comes, I gotta go
		
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			around it. And how can I get to
		
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			know Allah more deeply
		
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			so my iman gets strong in this situation?
		
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			My answer might be different from other people.
		
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			To me, it is it is an engagement
		
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			with the Quran that connects you with Omar.
		
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			Just reading. Like you said, just reading
		
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			For for the beginning. Yeah. Reciting,
		
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			contemplating,
		
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			learning.
		
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			And is there any Islamic college
		
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			you can,
		
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			recommend to visit to to learn the real
		
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			Quran and Sunnah with people? You know they
		
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			are have taqwa of Allah. I like International
		
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			Islamic University in Malaysia.
		
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			Malaysia. International?
		
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			Islamic University.
		
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			Okay. I keep. Okay. K. Thank you. You're
		
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			welcome. Thank you for coming.
		
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			I hope you guys enjoyed that video clip.
		
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