Nouman Ali Khan – Fear of Humiliation – Story Night Miracles

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The speaker discusses the importance of the Quran in the world of work and how it can be devastating. They explain that the title of the Quran is "has been a fear" and that people are not the only ones affected by it. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of letting people say the wrong kind of words and being aware of one's ability to express yourself.

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			Human beings are not like other animals. If you insult a cat, or a cockroach, you ugly, useless
insect,
		
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			you filthy creature. It is not affected at all.
		
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			You can yell at a mouse all you want, it's not having a bad day because of the way you treated it.
		
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			The only way you can harm an animal is by physically harming an animal, somebody, some animals can
have emotional connection, we're not talking about that. But for the most part, you can yell at a
pigeon all you want,
		
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			that's still gonna do what it does. You know, it's gonna mess up your car, no matter what you do.
		
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			But human beings, you go to work and somebody insults you at work. Some manager accuses you of
stealing something, or somebody accuses you of cheating, or somebody else accuses you of lying, or
somebody else accuses you of being you're doing something you haven't done,
		
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			and you feel pain anyway.
		
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			And it's so powerful that it can be more devastating than physical pain.
		
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			You know, the most important example of that in the Quran? Is mother young. When she had her baby
Isa,
		
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			she was gonna go back with the baby back to her Muslim community back to the masjid. But everybody
there knew that she's not married. So they were gonna ask her where did this baby come from? And
this thought that she has to answer that question was so devastating to her that in the Quran, Allah
tells us her words he says you're late and he took up Lucha. If only I could be dead before this
happens. The fear of being humiliated is so powerful, if even scarier than being killed.
		
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			i If you had to pick between the 2 million picked which one death, Musa if you had to pick which one
is one, number one, which one is first and which one is last? What did he humiliation? And you know
what? Alhamdulillah Muslims understand that because we're people of the Quran, and we've had the
Quran for 1400 plus years, therefore, we never humiliate anyone, like just like we don't kill
anybody. We understand that these two things are really serious to Allah. Therefore, we never make
fun of anyone. We never insult anyone. We never accuse anyone. We never told anyone. We never make
ugly comments about anyone on social media. We don't text anyone about anything like that. We never
		
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			say mean words. Alhamdulillah Allah has given us Islam there for everybody to kofod have that
problem, but we have
		
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			never,
		
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			because you know, we have Quran and stuff. I just gaslighted you but anyway,
		
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			the point is, you understand how serious this is, yeah, to be humiliated. And this is important
because Allah is teaching us that even when you're a prophet, even when you're speaking directly to
Allah, and Allah is telling you to do something. Then even though you fear Allah, when you're
talking directly to him,
		
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			the fear of being humiliated doesn't go away. The fear of people's words doesn't go away. people's
words are serious business. That's not such a small thing. It can even terrify a prophet, and he can
tell a lot about it. Because I'm scared they're gonna call me a liar. So it's a pretty remarkable
thing that Allah azza wa jal mentions that because that is a fear many people live with. And because
of that fear, they don't stand up to the wrongdoing people. You see Messiah to stand up to the
wrongdoing, people right. And his first fear was if I stand up to them, they're gonna start
humiliating me. That's terrifying. That's why I'm going to stay in a corner and let them do what
		
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			they do. Because it's too scary. Their words are too scary. What was the second thing after you know
I'm afraid they're gonna call me a liar.
		
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			Hmm
		
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			good, my chest is gonna get tight. My chest one at a time one at a time my chest. I'm happy you got
it. My chest is gonna get tight. What did I say the chest gonna take get tight means it means you
get panic attacks. Some of you mashallah very well educated or you have good jobs, you're confident
in your work, you know what you're doing. You're professionals, your managers, your engineers, your
doctors, your your lawyers, your mechanics, your accountants and Allah He whenever he loads your
own, or you do whatever you do, and people in your work, know that you know what you're talking
about. You're versed in your field, you're articulate, you're able to express yourself, but when you
		
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			are dealing with someone who can humiliate you, then even though you're so capable of speaking and
expressing yourself, there are some people who can just say the wrong kind of words, and all of a
sudden your entire ability to speak disappears. Because your chest becomes one. Your chest gets
tight and you're no longer the person you are. Sometimes the wrongdoing people are very close to
you. Sometimes wrongdoing people like in the prophets lives the worst wrongdoing. People were
usually family.
		
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			The Pharaoh is actually the adopting father of Moses. This kind of
		
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			Emily, right. Ibrahim Hassan had to deal with his dad the prophesies that I've had to deal with his
uncle's so Allah in a lot of stories in the Quran the wrongdoing people are who? Their family don't
look at your family right now hold on
		
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			and it's really hard sometimes to go and confront family and say hey, that was wrong. That wasn't
okay. Because what they will say to you can be so devastating that you don't know how to respond.
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