Naima B. Robert – TMC Episode 5 Clip Advice for Muslim Couples on Kindness in Marriage

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you are acknowledged, and when you are acknowledged for doing the

things that you're supposed to do, and someone says thank you or you

know, they really enjoyed the meal or you know, any kind of

acknowledgement, it makes you feel good about having done what you

did, right? So it makes sense to pay that forward, Mashallah.

Exactly, and, you know, on the other side, you know, say, if

you're managing people, your employee, you know, and you want

best kind of service or performance from them as a boss,

because, you know, as a founder of martial arts, I'm leading a team

of six, seven women, and often I have to delegate tasks, because I

can't do everything, you know, I have to delegate us. And when I'm

delegating, you know, I always say thank you after saying, Can you do

this, can you do that, And subhanAllah I must say, you know,

people, you know, they, they, over time I have observed, that we have

progressed in terms of academically, but socially we have

gone back, we don't have the basic skills of being with people or

people skills, we are lacking people skills, because, you know,

dealing with people is not the same as dealing with technology is

different technology to switch it on, switch it off with people, you

have to understand the temperaments, the mood, the time

the space, and you have to be sensitive to that, you know, and

you have to have a level of say empathy when you're dealing with

people and I think people are lacking that and that's why maybe

there's a lot of discussion about emotional intelligence because we

are not, you know, in touch with the human side of

communication, technological communication, mashallah there.

But when it comes down to dealing with human and that's what we need

to pay attention to. The prophecies are he he was the best

of teachers and he taught us how to be with the people when you're

speaking to people. Maybe they're going through a very, you know,

rough day, maybe they are going through some kind of loss. Maybe

they are, you know, going through some kind of financial stress. So

your tone has to adjust to the temperament