Naima B. Robert – TMC E4 Clip Who Benefits from Polygamy The Husband’s Perspective

This dive right into it. Okay, because I know that people who are

here

of course, they're gonna be looking at you guys thinking, Oh

wow, this is goals, right? Because Masha Allah, or some people are

like, Oh, worst nightmare. Oh my goodness, if my man did ever I

don't know, it couldn't be me. So

I would love to hear from each one of you. For the people who are the

for the viewers, for the listeners, from your vantage point

in this dynamic, what have you experienced as the benefits of

this family that you have built?

I guess we can start with with with that one, the head of the

family I guess coaching her there, what would you say, have been the

benefits of polygyny for you? Well, first, it has to be a caveat

to because for your viewers, and everybody who's watching, you have

to recognize we are in our what I call the Chapter 11

Chapter 11. So we wouldn't be having this conversation chapter

1234, and five.

So it looks good now because we put in the work. So we do have to

make that caveat. Because if this goes, then you have to recognize

there's a whole period of time and you know, when you're writing a

book or seeing a good movie or something, there's the ups, the

downs, the pitfalls, the plot the triumphs and the tragedies that go

along with it. Okay, so with that being said, when it comes to the

benefits of political benefits of Disney are massively asking me as

an individual, one is that it requires that a man become more,

okay, you have to be above average, or at least strive to

once if you had that ambition to become more, alright, if you feel

you got your goal, you made it and that's it. And that's you have

nowhere to go from there, but down more so as a man that says, I want

to expand my family, because my philosophy, I got the Hadith of

the Prophet, the Center

for my life philosophy. And he said, he talked about paraphrasing

in English, there are three things that bother you. Basically, after

you die, your book is those three things that can still benefit you

after death. Alright, go see the righteous children in the keyboard

is being righteous children embrace me. So I wanted to anchor

that in for future generations that I wouldn't meet until the

show, I don't want

someone to

want to change our names did change our lives, we want to

change future generations. So that's one way then of course, the

soft majority are beneficial knowledge leave. So that's how I

live. So one of the things is that is allowed me to become more of

the man expand my family to be able to teach them things that I

never knew, versus giving them the things, the material things.

So

hold on a second, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, boy. Let's have

that again. Let's say it again, for the other people in the back.

Just drop that one more time. I love that, please, please share

that. Again. It requires me to give them the things that I never

knew.

Versus teaching them the things I never knew versus giving them the

things of the material thing. And I never had. So that's what

actually changes generations by being able to change that mindset

and give them something better, which is the sound which is sweet.

We all three of us came from corporatism. So we understand the

stage and the smell and the build of it, to get this Deen of Islam,

but it's so sweet. So we wanted to make sure we had that. And I

wanted to make sure it goes through for next generations. And

we're polygyny, he can do that, because we have a bigger family

emergency a bigger leader. And you know, that's some of the basic

benefits right there, but also as a man that feels one of the most

natural forms of marriage. Okay, so, you know, you're not in

knowing the history. I mean, Dr. Nancy Cartwright wrote a book

called public baths. And she talked about the transition to

come how monogamy is put out for and it's only been for the last

couple of centuries. So being when I talk about It's an ancient

solution to a modern day problem. It really is because as a man, you

know, there are things that we do, and we're different from what. So

looking at our own history of being providers and protectors and

being also served personal power, what I call the three P's. It's

inherent upon us. If you want to strive to become a bigger man, you

better and lead a society that requires you to become a man of

value, who lives by your values that requires you to do King

stuff, you know, even if it's only one home because you still have to

answer to you know, that's some of the benefits I see from there.

Just on a lower level.

That's a pretty high low level.