Naima B. Robert – Self Care and Your Health Idil Farah

Naima B. Robert
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The speakers emphasize the importance of managing stress and health during stressful times, including healthy eating and replenishing gut bacteria. They prioritize one's health and lifestyle, managing one's diet and lifestyle, and moderating one's lifestyle to improve their health and health progress. The use of sugar to prevent sugar consumption and the importance of breathing, exercising, and coffee are also discussed. The upcoming course on fertility and immune health and their use of sugar to prevent sugar consumption is also mentioned.
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Bismillah al salam ala Rasulillah Salam aleikum, everyone welcome to

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this session of the Muslim ummah self care conference, super

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excited to be here with you on day two. And looking forward to really

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diving in with Sister Adele Farah on self care and your health.

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Those of you who were here at the kickoff you met Citadel, and she

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is the one who told us that no is a full sentence. So with that

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being said, insha Allah, I'm going to hand you over to Citadel who is

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going to look after you very well just don't spend my take it away.

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Sam alikoum everyone. My name is Ethel, thank you for introducing

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me. Thank you for inviting me on this conference. It has been such

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a learning experience amazing speakers, beautiful sisters,

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incredible participation. Today, I'm gonna talk to you about your

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health, food, self care, but really using food as medicine.

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And we're calling this self care and your health. So I just want to

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make sure that you need to always check in with your doctor. This

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information because I'm not your nutritionist and practitioner, I

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can't follow up with you. So everything I'm giving you is

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information that you can use in your day to day, but just remember

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that food drug interaction does exist, there are certain drugs, if

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you're on medication that you need to be aware of. If you need more

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help, we can connect in a more meaningful way. So

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with that said, my name is Eva, like I said, I'm a nutritionist

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that lives in Toronto.

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Really, I believe Eve food is your medicine. And your kitchen is your

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pharmacy. My kitchen is a place where herbs and spices and

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holistic way of healing happens. I turned to food to help me thrive

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feel energized in my body. It is really important to me, I have a

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bachelor degree in food and nutrition. I have been practicing

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for over 10 years. I really believe for me my main work is

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with women and working with women in a way that allows me to sort of

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help them and meet them where they are and help them grow and thrive

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in their body.

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So

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today, before I get into the whole conversation about

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self care, and food and all of that, I really want to talk to you

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about what the antithesis of self care is stress. And what does

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stress mean? And how does it impact your body. Because if

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you're not looking after yourself, and if you're like most modern

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women living in the 21st century, juggling that fabulous bag of like

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I got it's in like doing it all. You are stress, right? And if you

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are like most of us who feel who like kind of fall on the who are

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last on our list, basically, we're feeling a lot of stress, there's a

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lot of

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real genuine.

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We're so out of touch with our body. Right? So I wanted to talk

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to you today and really delve into what does stress mean? So research

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shows that 75% to 90% of doctors are now treating people with

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stress related illnesses, right? And 30% of these stresses are

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being reported by women, right? And women experienced stress

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differently than men. So a man would be going on and really just

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living his best life.

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And he will.

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Oh, I just heard my own echo, okay.

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A man would wake up in the morning, go for a run, do what he

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needs to do. And then it like he prioritizes himself first. Whereas

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in women, a woman would wake up in the morning, look after the kids,

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feed her family. Do the laundry, get ready, everybody ready for

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school, like and then it's harder, right? And also there's this other

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thing we're women in, we internalize stress so my partner's

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stress will affect me more than my stress will affect him. So if he

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came home and told me at news, I'll take

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that on and he will now become part of my stress load. Whereas in

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with him if you tell him, Hey, I'm I'm kind of this is what happened.

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He's just Subhanallah the way men are made, they just internalize

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that very differently. So what are the symptoms of stress, headaches?

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Fatigue, foggy brain,

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you know, indigestion, bloating, there's so many things, right? If

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you've experienced that, you know, let me know, in the chat, I'm

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going to keep an eye on that as well.

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So I wanted to talk to you, there's something called an

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allostatic load, right? So stress is our body recognizes stress, the

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way our forefathers or ancestors have recognized stress was, you

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know, a tiger is chasing you, and you're running for your life. So

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your entire body shows up for that your entire physical being is like

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now Whoa, you know, I gotta run for it. It's the fight or flight,

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we've all we've all heard of that, right. So that physical fight or

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flight,

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that our body now our pupils are dilated, our heart is racing, our

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muscles are like the blood is pumping through our muscles, so we

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can run for it. That is the stress response, it's only supposed to

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happen for like few seconds at a time, right? But with now, the

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21st century in the way we live our lives, this is happening all

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the time. It is like our body doesn't know the difference

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between stress from not being able to pay the bills, or over our

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taxes, or over our job, or over a relationship, or even food

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allergies, or things like

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environmental toxins. All of these things are perceived, like

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stressors to the body, emotional stress, you know, all of these

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things come in this package or under the umbrella of stress. And

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now, our body sees that and it's like, well, you know, we're being

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attacked, is it a famine, with the body doesn't know, the body's role

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is to protect you. So your body will show up for you every single

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time. In and we women are like, we've become sort of, you know, we

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take that on plus all of our other roles, right. So when stress

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happens to the body, this entire thing, it's called an Allostatic,

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load, right, and allostatic load. So stress is supposed to only last

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for a few seconds. And allostatic load is the price the body pains

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over a long period of time for adapting to stress and stress

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challenges.

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Imagine stress as your house is on fire, right? You live in your

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house, your bodies, your house, this is the body that Allah gave

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you, the home that your soul resides in, until the day you

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leave this earth. So imagine your house is on fire. What happens

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when when there's a fire we call the fire department. And the fire

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department is our hypothalamus. And it kind of calls the fire

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chief and says hey, there's a fire going on. And that's our adrenal

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glands and sort of sent all the troops and the body pulls from

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everything from your digestion, your fertility from

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your, like blood sugar, your blood sugar goes up, your

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like brain function increases. So all these resources are being

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pulled from everything that's going on, right? From your

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hormones from your liver function, everything comes to a halt. And

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every resource you have is now put into putting out that fire, right?

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But when the fire truck comes, we have the ambulance that shows up.

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And we have what else comes the police, right? So the ambulance is

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your blood sugar, right? Which goes up and it comes to the rescue

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because you need energy to start running for your life. And then

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the police is that cortisol that that is produced in your body,

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right? And the cortisol is a hormone that is literally your

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body produces to fight for you. Right? It shows up when there's

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danger and the body now is ready to like, do what it needs to do.

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But imagine that's happening every day. And every day. Everything you

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do is interrupted your entire like look at this poor camel is just

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like I can't I won't I can't do this no more. It's a lot right.

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But your digestion is interrupted so you ate but you're you're

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you're not breaking down the food. The nutrients are not getting to

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your cells to feed the rest

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Have your body for all the stuff that you need to do, your liver

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has to stop.

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Really producing, breaking down hormones producing vital,

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really like breaking down the fat, doing everything that it does, in

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order to show up and give to the stress response, your estrogen is

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now being used to produce cortisol. So that affects your

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fertility.

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The brain is really connected to your digestion, but plus also a

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response to blood sugar. So your brain is now like, using all this

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energy to sort of look at its surroundings and really figure out

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what's going on. So next time, this kind of danger happens, your

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your, your your, your body knows what to do, because your brain

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took a snapshot, all of that is happening. And then it happens to

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you every day. And this that kind of stress response. It's all these

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cracks appearing, you might not see it, it's underneath the

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foundation. But like these cracks, keep on happening day in and day

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out. By the time you reach your 30s, you are going to start

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noticing these cracks, whether it's in your skin, whether it's in

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difficulty trying to get pregnant, your period, your digestive health

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being destroyed, bloating, diarrhea or major constipation. It

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is whether you have heart palpitation, whether you have

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anxiety,

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all of these things are stress responses that we don't recognize

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a lot of my clients come to me and they say, my hair's falling out

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and my skin is not doing well, I want to lose weight. But they

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don't realize that all of these things do add up to one thing,

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like if you are someone who's living under chronic stress, this

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affects you all the time, not to mention things like your gut

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health is really I want to I want to stop here and really talk about

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what the gut health means 70% of your immunity lives in your gut.

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So if your gut had health is compromised in any way,

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it is, literally everything else is compromised, you're not able to

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fight disease. We've all heard of gut bacteria, or gut microbes, or

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micro biomes. All of that is the bacteria that live in our body

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that decide who we're going to be how we're going to show up what

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kind of how we're going to learn what kind of diseases we're going

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to develop our metabolism,

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our mental health, all of that is decided by our digestive health.

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And those gut bacteria and during stress those gut bacteria, they

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get destroyed at a faster rate than anything else. It's, it's

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worse than actually, like, you know, eating sugar every day

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stress can do the damage that nothing else in your life could

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do. So me talking to you about what you should be eating without

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really explaining to you, the underlying causes to your health

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is doing you a disservice. Which is why we started here today. I'm

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just gonna stop for a second just to see what's happening in the

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chat. So I can answer some questions.

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I can't even find the chat.

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Huh?

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Okay.

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Let me just see.

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So, there it is. Perfect. Let's see what you guys are saying.

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What is an oil allostatic load. So it's the constant impact of stress

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on your body. And price your body pays for constantly being

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stressed.

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You know, subhanAllah, the last few years has been terrible health

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wise. Yep. Chronic stress has missed my cortisol. It also messes

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with hormones, like women don't realize all the hormonal issues,

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thyroid issues,

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blood sugar issues, I will actually the one thing that really

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a lot of women come to me about is weight loss. And they don't

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realize that your liver is a fat burning Oregon, right? But it

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could when it gets overwhelmed and when like the it keeps on getting

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interrupted from doing its everyday jobs. Your liver then

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just literally takes because it just gets over worked and then it

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becomes a fat storing organ. So for a lot of people who are having

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difficulty losing weight, you need to think about the lifestyle

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you're living. Are you under a lot of stress. Has your liver been

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over? Worked? Have you been?

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You know, and these are not things that you can know but you know if

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you're under stress

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Okay, so let's go

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Back to digestion. So in terms of the importance of digestion to our

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health, go back to this and why it is being impacted.

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So our gut bacteria, when we're born Subhan, Allah in Allah's

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mercy and wisdom, when we are born we are, the babies are coated with

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this sticky, slimy thing that when they come out of their mom, like

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through the birth canal, that's the gut bacteria that now

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inoculates as your body and your digestion to help build your

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immune cells and really tell your T T cells, which is the soldiers

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of your immune cells what to do on a daily basis. I know this a lot

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of information, but this is stuff that you need to know. So you can

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now understand, I'm stressed, I really need to manage this, right.

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So these T cells now are doing our, you know, if they don't have

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this gut bacteria instructing them, and our natural gut bacteria

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should be 80%, good bacteria and 20% bad bacteria, and they live in

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harmony. And they support each other to keep you healthy. If that

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balance is interrupted in any ways, through environmental

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toxins, poor food choices, stress,

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antibiotics, all of these things, then now will affect the health of

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your gut bacteria and your health.

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Consequently, so you're going to struggle, you're going to find the

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fear, anger, stress, all of these things will kill these healthy

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bacteria, and you sometimes can't get them back. Right? So it's

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really important to be aware of that.

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So what else does stress affect it affects your heart. And why does

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it affect your heart because your heart, like it's constantly

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pumping blood and working super, super hard during those stressful

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times, right? Sometimes you're late or you're stuck in traffic,

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and you're just upset. That stress, right? You had like a

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fight or you're in a relationship that is not the healthiest. That

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is stress, right? And it shows up and it affects us is affecting us.

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Sometimes we stop recognizing these symptoms, sometimes we're

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not feeling our heart rate going up. Sometimes we're not even

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experiencing these things because they're so normal, right?

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So the heart is number one of the biggest.

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It affects your stress affect the health of your heart, the health

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of your arteries, all of that. And so

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it's reprint, it's really important to remember, blood sugar

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also affects things like heart disease, diabetes, blood sugar is

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when you eat your body converts glucose into convert food into

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glucose, and that then becomes energy for your body. If the

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balance of glucose is constantly if your body's constantly

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producing glucose to keep you going and energize sooner or

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later, you're starting to see insulin resistance, pre diabetes,

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and then eventually diabetes and diabetes is the gateway to

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everything else.

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Okay, so I talked about a little bit about how cortisol borrows

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from your reproductive health or your estrogen, estrogen and

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progesterone are what's needed for healthy fertility, your period,

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all of that, right. The health of our womb, as women we're very,

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very disconnected from and it's really important to

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realize nothing happens in the body. Coincidentally, everything

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is connected. So if you carry your health as a circle, there is a

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break in the circle when something goes wrong. So

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stress is a major part of that. Okay. Let's talk how the stress

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affects your mood, right?

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One in six women in North America is where I am and where I do most

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of my research

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is on antidepressant and a lot of

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women are suffering from anxiety. They're suffering from seasonal

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affective disorder, which is usually around the winter when

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they have disturbances in their mood, fatigue, exhaustion, low

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energy, all of these things.

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Could be are related to

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Chronic stress.

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Okay, this is a really important one, because I don't think a lot

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of us recognize how important sleep is to heart health. Sleep is

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when our body repairs all the things your body didn't get to do

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during the day, it's now doing when you're sleeping, right? So

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why is it really important to focus on the idea of likes

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sleeping, and when sleep is interrupted, so many women I know

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are not, they have this feeling of Wired but tired feeling.

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So you you're exhausted, but then when it comes time to go to bed,

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you are having a hard time going to sleep, or you wake up in the

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middle of the night,

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completely exhausted and energized. All of these things are

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things that into there something interrupting your sleep, and

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adrenal fatigue is one major cause

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high,

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high levels of cortisol can cause those kinds of issues and really

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start affecting the level of rest and really deep sleep you're

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getting. So our body

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after 3pm starts to shut things down. So our liver starts to break

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down all the hormones that were not used, it starts to get all the

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waste from our digestion, and it starts to process that, and then

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it starts to move. Everything, you know, started, the elimination

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process starts happening, right. But if it's interrupted, during

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that time, when you go up, when you go to sleep, your body then

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continues to do a lot of that work. A lot of people who are not

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sleeping, have so many interruption in the body's

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processes, that it affects them.

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It's why they're seeing all these health issues, especially fatigue

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for women, a lot of women think have become normalized fatigue.

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But you we really don't know how good our body can feel when we

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look after, after it. weight issues are often the first thing

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that shows up, and I want you to know that weight is a cause. It's,

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it's it's sorry, weight is not the cause of something, weight is a

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symptom. It's a symptom, your body not losing weight, if you're

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trying is a symptom of something bigger.

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It's panela. And

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that sleeping also affects like cognitive,

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your, you know, that foggy brain not being able to catch your

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thoughts when they're happening, or not being able to think on your

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feet as fast as you used to not being able to remember, I'm going

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to talk about memory soon.

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Finding like things like, you know, where did I put my keys? And

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then now all of a sudden is what did I eat yesterday? And then it's

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like, it just keeps on getting worse, these accumulative effect?

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Let's see what we're saying in the chat.

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Yes, somebody is asking about early menopause. I want to make

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sure that we're going through some of this information real quick.

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And then I'm going to just completely stop and then we're

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going to chat, I want you to open your mics. I want you to ask me

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rapid fire questions. We're going to like make sure that we so if

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you have a pen, write your questions down and then

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and then we can actually go through it. Somebody said, You

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know what, my estrogen is fine, but my progesterone is too high

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and testosterone too low. Allah Subhan Allah, Allah has created

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everything in balance. And as humans,

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we are now breaking down things into calories and like vitamins

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and minerals, and this food is good for you. But if you've looked

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at nature, everything was imbalanced, right? Like our body

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is SubhanAllah. As soon as you show up, if you take one step

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towards your health in your body, your body takes 10 steps towards

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you. And it's because our body is always meant to protect us, our

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DNA regenerate every like seven years, our entire DNA and our body

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decides what diseases will develop and what diseases we want. And all

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of that happens because your if you because of diet and lifestyle,

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and people really don't put the weight they need to on that

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because that tells your body whether it should thrive or

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whether it should break down and like eventually like develop these

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These

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Sorry, I just want to talk about acute acute stress,

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and memory and cognitive issues we all see as our loved one age

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increased diseases like dementia, Parkinson's, and Alzheimer's, all

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of these things have like are now showing up in greater grade

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greater and greater numbers. And at a younger age,

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you know, you see it in younger and younger people, because we

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live in an age where being busy and being constantly active and

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doing things is a badge that we wear as a badge of honor, right?

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We have really taken things out of balance and SubhanAllah. Our deen

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is about balance, everything in life is in when imbalance and when

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we strive for balance is when it's best. And when we are so far out

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of balance with how much we're doing, and the lack of self care,

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things just

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that when you start to see all these diseases, cancer, mood

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disorders, cognitive health issues, memory loss, you know,

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you're even seeing it in kids now, because all of this is is is a

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sign that we need to rebalance things.

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Okay, our immune health, especially now, there is nothing

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more important than our immune health really, with COVID with the

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reality of

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you know, all of this stuff that we're seeing the state of the

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world, our global,

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the economy of that are, you know, we're more susceptible to illness

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more than ever, and protecting our immune health. And really focusing

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on eliminating what we can control, which is stress is

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really, really a step forward in healing, right and step forward in

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taking care of ourselves. It's the ultimate self care. So for me,

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the stress can cause chronic cellular damage, it could really

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impact how much muscle even if you're working out how much muscle

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you make, it impacts everything. So really realizing and going back

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to digestive health, realizing that 70% of your digestion lives

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in your gut, and your healthy bacteria are being destroyed by

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stress is a real threat, that stress poses to our health.

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I thought this was really important to bring in the thyroid,

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because in terms of

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our health, thyroid, for a lot of women, I get a lot of people who

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are experiencing hypothyroidism. Hashimotos, which is an autoimmune

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disease that is caused that is of the thyroid Hashimotos is when

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your body attacks your thyroid and literally starts to kill off the

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cells.

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A lot of it has to do with our thyroid is very susceptible to

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stress. And we need it for our metabolism. It's the temperature

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control of our body. It is involved in so many of our body's

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processes. And when our thyroid is destroyed or when it's impacted.

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It really it's a long term health issues that can lead to other

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health issues. So I wanted to make sure if you have questions around

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that, and if you're experiencing that, then we can talk about it.

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But this is a real thing. This is one of the things that really is

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affected by stress in a major way.

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Subhan Allah so now we're going to talk about the thing that is most

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near and dear to my heart, which is

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basic benefits of like something that we could all do, right?

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To start making changes, right? What can we do to all start doing

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today to show up for our body and ourselves and to make changes

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towards our health so we can become healthier? And

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start the process of self care? If you guys have questions, please

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ask now. If you need to turn on your mics do it.

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Because I want us to take a break here just because I presented a

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lot of heavy information. And I just want to make sure that

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it's not too overwhelming for everyone who's here

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so

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We can read. So there's a question that's been asked, Can we

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replenish our gut microbes? Absolutely. I had my own digestive

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health issues, my hair was completely flat. I thought I had

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alopecia because I was balding. And I was born with a lot of hair.

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And, you know, for women, our hair is our crown. And it was really

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distressing. Not to mention, I had a lot of inflammation, aches and

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pain everywhere foggy brain, like just was gaining weight

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ridiculously didn't understand why. As a practitioner, I went to

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my doctor over and over again. And

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it took a lot for me to get to the place to be told, Oh, if you

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change, like you really have to change your diet and eat very

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differently in order for you to like,

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take control of this. And a lot of research is now being done around

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gut health. There's not a lot of information that's known, a lot of

00:31:03 --> 00:31:06

our doctors have not been trained in this area. But you can

00:31:06 --> 00:31:10

definitely replenish your gut microbe. And I'll share the steps

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on how to do that. Sr, il l How can early healthy childhood diet

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be developed in a child who has limited choices?

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That's a really great question. Actually, children

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are

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forming the basis of their health, their immune health. And for kids,

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it's really, really important to start building.

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Expanding their palates. Now. I understand what it means to I'm a

00:31:46 --> 00:31:50

parent. So I understand what it means for kids to be picky. They

00:31:50 --> 00:31:55

go through stages where they feel like they can really enjoy. They

00:31:55 --> 00:31:57

don't like this and then But yesterday, you were eating this,

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why don't you like it today, though, that does happen. But I

00:32:01 --> 00:32:07

want you to think about really trade offs and look into

00:32:07 --> 00:32:13

children's plates and say, if you know if you, I'm gonna give you

00:32:13 --> 00:32:17

this, this is what you want. And I need you to eat this, right? Even

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if they take a few bites, it's few pie bites forward, right? I would

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invest in making sure that they're eating more fruits and vegetable

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in particular vegetables, because that's where you get the best bang

00:32:28 --> 00:32:29

for your buck.

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I also like to hide things in children's food. I like them to

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see the vegetables on their plate for one. But also like in things

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like pasta sauce, and soups and stews. And in even rice, the base

00:32:45 --> 00:32:50

of rice, I add a lot of pureed vegetables. And so it becomes a

00:32:50 --> 00:32:54

part of the dish that they they're not aware of. So you're building

00:32:54 --> 00:32:56

in the nutrition, but you're not giving them

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you know, and then you're giving them an extra vegetable that they

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see. So even if they take a few bites, you know you've built in

00:33:06 --> 00:33:08

some extra nutrition elsewhere.

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What else would you recommend to improve gut health? And also the

00:33:15 --> 00:33:19

tips of getting better sleep? Yes, we're going to go into that what

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are the low hanging fruit? For solutions? Yes, we're gonna get

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into that. I love that we're on the same page. Okay.

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So let's go to what we can do basic things that everyone can do.

00:33:35 --> 00:33:38

You don't have to label your eating habits we all you could be

00:33:38 --> 00:33:45

like, whatever your food dogma is, whether you're paleo or keto, or

00:33:46 --> 00:33:50

you know medicine, even Mediterranean diet or vegan or

00:33:50 --> 00:33:53

vegetarian, whatever your food dogma is,

00:33:54 --> 00:33:58

there is understand that fundamentally food

00:33:59 --> 00:34:04

is medicine, right? And it's really important to look at food

00:34:04 --> 00:34:08

from that point of view, right? It's a How can food help me to

00:34:08 --> 00:34:14

thrive? How can I make each plate and each meal serve me like Mac

00:34:14 --> 00:34:17

How can I maximize the benefit of each meal is what I'm trying to

00:34:17 --> 00:34:22

say? And how can it serve me best well foods can add that are going

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to be

00:34:24 --> 00:34:29

really nourishing really like the best bang for my buck in terms of

00:34:29 --> 00:34:35

like nutrients, calories easier to digest. What are those? And then

00:34:35 --> 00:34:39

what do I love? It's kind of creating this trade off between

00:34:40 --> 00:34:43

you know, foods that you love and you enjoy and foods that you need

00:34:43 --> 00:34:45

to eat to enhance your health.

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So when it comes to food philosophy, for me, the number one

00:34:52 --> 00:34:57

thing is eating foods that are living that come from the soil so

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things like vegetables

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As

00:35:03 --> 00:35:09

leafy green vegetables are really high in nutrients, they are easy

00:35:09 --> 00:35:16

to digest. They are really full of like minerals and vitamins, they

00:35:16 --> 00:35:21

feed every cell in your body food is information it tells your body

00:35:21 --> 00:35:26

how to behave. So every cell in your body receives this nutrient

00:35:26 --> 00:35:31

and interpret interpreted that how can you serve me and with

00:35:31 --> 00:35:36

vegetables in particular, they serve your cells in the maximum

00:35:36 --> 00:35:39

weight so making a third of your plate

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as vegetables is really key into driving your health and into

00:35:47 --> 00:35:52

adding nutrients adding fiber adding easy to digest foods, foods

00:35:52 --> 00:35:56

that support your digestion and your gut microbes in your gut

00:35:56 --> 00:36:03

bacteria. Foods that are hydrating these are things that fruits and

00:36:03 --> 00:36:09

veggies them especially vegetables do for you because they are low in

00:36:09 --> 00:36:14

the glycemic index in the amount of sugar but high in nutrients so

00:36:14 --> 00:36:18

they give you they are super super nourishing. Now what what I would

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say about

00:36:21 --> 00:36:26

vegetables really look at eating seasonal vegetables right? So

00:36:26 --> 00:36:30

right now it's still warm outside or it was summer. There were a lot

00:36:30 --> 00:36:32

of leafy greens there were a lot of

00:36:34 --> 00:36:39

really like nutrient rich vegetables that were in season.

00:36:40 --> 00:36:45

But think about like you know the fall is coming right so there you

00:36:45 --> 00:36:50

know our body also goes through the seasons and so like your The

00:36:50 --> 00:36:51

colder it gets your

00:36:53 --> 00:36:57

more comforting foods that your body craves but you like have

00:36:57 --> 00:37:01

things like sweet potato sweet potato is a veggie starchy but it

00:37:01 --> 00:37:06

and higher in the glycemic index. But it's still a great vegetables

00:37:06 --> 00:37:09

to have right. So think about eating the rainbow all the

00:37:09 --> 00:37:13

different colors, broccoli, squash.

00:37:15 --> 00:37:18

Think about putting your own cultural flair on these

00:37:18 --> 00:37:21

vegetables, spinach, kale.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:27

What else dandelion, those bitter greens are really really good for

00:37:27 --> 00:37:30

your gut because they help your digestive enzymes which is what

00:37:30 --> 00:37:35

breaks down your food and it also helps your what is it called your

00:37:35 --> 00:37:41

gut bacteria and it helps with valley fever. So really, I mean, I

00:37:41 --> 00:37:45

can't let me count the ways is what I say when it comes to

00:37:45 --> 00:37:51

vegetables they they do so much. And try not to overcook them try

00:37:51 --> 00:37:56

to eat some raw, some cooked some bait like try a variety of ways of

00:37:56 --> 00:38:01

cooking your food. So that would be the number one thing I would

00:38:01 --> 00:38:04

invest in fruit. On the other hand, they're incredibly good for

00:38:04 --> 00:38:10

you eating whole foods. Fruit is really important. Not juicing your

00:38:10 --> 00:38:15

fruits is really important because you to get orange juice, you'd

00:38:15 --> 00:38:18

have to juice for oranges and you're going to lose all the

00:38:18 --> 00:38:22

fiber. Whereas in like if you ate one orange, you get fiber, you get

00:38:22 --> 00:38:27

the vitamin C you get everything you need within that one fruit,

00:38:27 --> 00:38:31

but fruit is higher in glycemic index and it has it drives your

00:38:31 --> 00:38:36

blood sugar up. So you need to really be mindful about the type

00:38:36 --> 00:38:41

of foods you choosing. Treat it like dessert, I would say treat it

00:38:41 --> 00:38:45

as at something like you know, grapes are literally just sugar,

00:38:45 --> 00:38:50

their sugar. Bananas are higher in sugar, watermelon, even though

00:38:50 --> 00:38:52

they're hydrating, they're higher in sugar.

00:38:54 --> 00:38:58

Apples are great, they have pectin, they have like insoluble

00:38:58 --> 00:39:03

fiber that helps you eliminate and helps you with your digestion and

00:39:03 --> 00:39:07

it just also helps push out all the toxins and all the things that

00:39:07 --> 00:39:08

are lurking around.

00:39:09 --> 00:39:12

But there are great options as long as you're creating some

00:39:12 --> 00:39:16

balance around that. Is that a great way to go and it's the best

00:39:16 --> 00:39:21

bang for your buck. Now the next thing I would say is really

00:39:21 --> 00:39:26

prioritizing healthy fats, healthy fats which good fats good bad, a

00:39:26 --> 00:39:29

bad rep but they wouldn't be on this earth if Allah didn't have a

00:39:29 --> 00:39:36

purpose for them. And the reason our ancestors or other generations

00:39:36 --> 00:39:40

were a lot healthier in the Constitution, especially mental

00:39:40 --> 00:39:44

health and or their brain health was because they were eating

00:39:45 --> 00:39:50

fat, right they were eat there's healthy fat things like avocado,

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

not to seed things like

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nut butters in coconut oil, coconut oil

00:40:00 --> 00:40:04

in particular will bypass your liver and will not have to go

00:40:04 --> 00:40:10

through your liver to be broken down as a fat. Remember, the liver

00:40:10 --> 00:40:13

is a fat burning organ, it goes straight to your brain and it

00:40:13 --> 00:40:17

feeds your brain health. So it really is great with people who

00:40:17 --> 00:40:19

are struggling with neuro

00:40:20 --> 00:40:25

cognitive diseases like dementia and Alzheimer's and stuff like

00:40:25 --> 00:40:28

that. And it's really important for us because we don't want to

00:40:28 --> 00:40:33

struggle with that in the future. So eating healthy fats, and fat

00:40:33 --> 00:40:37

keeps you satiated, keeps you fall, the low fat generation had,

00:40:38 --> 00:40:45

like were the the struggle with weight the most because they

00:40:45 --> 00:40:49

weren't eating one of the most important nutrients macronutrient

00:40:49 --> 00:40:53

which fat is a macronutrient or body needed to function and

00:40:53 --> 00:41:00

survive. So including fat in your diet is really important. It's key

00:41:00 --> 00:41:04

and choosing healthy fats. Cook with avocado oil and coconut oil.

00:41:05 --> 00:41:11

Grapeseed make sure that you are eliminating processed food is

00:41:11 --> 00:41:16

number three, for me really huge, actually. Because the amount of

00:41:16 --> 00:41:20

preservatives, some of the stuff is not even food actually. But the

00:41:20 --> 00:41:22

amount of preservatives and

00:41:24 --> 00:41:27

additives that are in food nowadays, some stuff that you

00:41:27 --> 00:41:32

didn't even sign up for that you are not aware of that the FDA

00:41:32 --> 00:41:37

approves, which is the governing body of food. We are very trusting

00:41:37 --> 00:41:42

of others, right when it comes to what we eat. But unless it you

00:41:42 --> 00:41:45

know, this food is a whole food that came from the earth, you

00:41:45 --> 00:41:48

really don't know what if it came in a package, you have no idea

00:41:48 --> 00:41:51

what's in it to always be an informed consumer or read the

00:41:51 --> 00:41:56

label. But if something says sugar as the first ingredient, then it

00:41:56 --> 00:42:02

is the largest amount of that ingredient in there in the like

00:42:02 --> 00:42:09

largest amount. Let me rephrase that. So let's say I picked up a

00:42:09 --> 00:42:10

package of

00:42:12 --> 00:42:13

what am I

00:42:14 --> 00:42:20

Kraft macaroni and cheese, right. And the first ingredients was mono

00:42:20 --> 00:42:25

chloride, hydro epoxy. I'm making stuff up. But let's say that's the

00:42:25 --> 00:42:30

first ingredient that tells me that ingredient is the largest in

00:42:30 --> 00:42:36

like it's the highest amount of ingredient in there. And then if

00:42:36 --> 00:42:39

sugar is next, and sugar has many, many, many names.

00:42:41 --> 00:42:47

Fructose Corn Syrup. You know, honey is a sugar, snip syrup is

00:42:47 --> 00:42:52

sugar. Some of them are natural sugars, but it's still sugar. If

00:42:52 --> 00:42:57

sugar in any form is the number one two or three ingredient, that

00:42:57 --> 00:43:03

means this food is mostly sugar. So you really need to be mindful

00:43:03 --> 00:43:06

of what you're putting in your body in that sense and be an

00:43:06 --> 00:43:07

informed

00:43:08 --> 00:43:12

consumer Always read the label because there's so many people

00:43:12 --> 00:43:17

marketing to you, that are really making sure that you're picking up

00:43:18 --> 00:43:23

packages. So it's really key that you are making these decisions for

00:43:23 --> 00:43:26

yourself and you know what you're putting in your body.

00:43:27 --> 00:43:30

The other one that I want to discuss is bread, a lot of people

00:43:30 --> 00:43:34

are buying bread and they think it's a whole wheat whole, a whole

00:43:34 --> 00:43:39

wheat bread. But unless it says on the back of the label a whole

00:43:39 --> 00:43:47

wheat whole grain 100% Whole wheat whole grain that bread can have 1%

00:43:47 --> 00:43:52

Whole wheat and it can be called that like reading the labels so

00:43:52 --> 00:43:56

important. Making sure that when you're buying something, you know

00:43:56 --> 00:43:59

that it's that thing that you bought like so if you are buying

00:44:00 --> 00:44:04

white bread, that's fine, but make sure that you know you don't think

00:44:04 --> 00:44:09

that a whole grain bread you know whole wheat doesn't mean anything

00:44:09 --> 00:44:13

unless it says 100% Whole wheat whole grain you need the whole

00:44:13 --> 00:44:18

grain because they only give you the endosperm the middle part

00:44:18 --> 00:44:23

otherwise, but when you get the whole grain you get the the entire

00:44:23 --> 00:44:29

grain, the fiber, the endosperm, the roughage, all of that which is

00:44:29 --> 00:44:32

good for you and helps balance your blood sugar.

00:44:33 --> 00:44:35

Let's see what the common say

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

when do you recommend improve help?

00:44:42 --> 00:44:42

Hmm.

00:44:46 --> 00:44:51

It's one of the most abundant circulation stirred in humans DHEA

00:44:51 --> 00:44:52

Yes.

00:44:53 --> 00:44:57

Are autoimmune disease reversible with diet and stress control?

00:44:57 --> 00:44:59

Absolutely anything. They can be man

00:45:00 --> 00:45:01

Ah and go into remission.

00:45:02 --> 00:45:08

reversible, the damage is, whatever damage is done, could be,

00:45:09 --> 00:45:14

is done, but the body has a way of regenerating and really showing up

00:45:14 --> 00:45:16

for you. So if you

00:45:17 --> 00:45:23

if with diet and lifestyle and stress management, it all could be

00:45:23 --> 00:45:24

managed, right?

00:45:25 --> 00:45:29

A lot of people who have their thyroid removed because of surgery

00:45:29 --> 00:45:33

could have that little bit of nodules that are left work better

00:45:33 --> 00:45:37

than someone who has their full thyroid. So never give up on your

00:45:37 --> 00:45:42

body, your everything could be like, I like to call remission

00:45:42 --> 00:45:45

because you could go back to your old lifestyle and things could

00:45:45 --> 00:45:50

come back. So remission means you're back. There's no more

00:45:50 --> 00:45:54

damaged, you have stopped, you are in a place where now you're in

00:45:54 --> 00:45:57

healing and progress.

00:46:00 --> 00:46:07

It's Hanalei like when I mean, we are one of our number biggest

00:46:07 --> 00:46:15

blessings is our body and Allah has the ability to show up for for

00:46:15 --> 00:46:19

our bodies show up for us all the time. Is is

00:46:20 --> 00:46:24

a miraculous experience. Every day you get to experience every day,

00:46:24 --> 00:46:27

you break your leg and your leg heals, right,

00:46:28 --> 00:46:32

something happened, you get sick, and you get better. And you don't

00:46:32 --> 00:46:35

realize how many cells and how many things are working in the

00:46:35 --> 00:46:40

background to get you back to your full health. So it is what a

00:46:40 --> 00:46:41

blessing that is.

00:46:44 --> 00:46:48

The other thing, the fourth pillar that I have when it comes to

00:46:48 --> 00:46:53

healthy eating, is making sure that you're eating in in

00:46:53 --> 00:46:59

moderation, really, everything in moderation, you can have a

00:46:59 --> 00:47:04

chocolate cake and enjoy it. As long as you know that chocolate

00:47:04 --> 00:47:07

cake is something that you're not going to punish yourself for.

00:47:07 --> 00:47:11

You're going to like allow yourself to savor the experience.

00:47:11 --> 00:47:15

And it's not a daily occurrence like it is something that is a

00:47:15 --> 00:47:17

treat. Having

00:47:19 --> 00:47:24

things like foods that you love that, you know, you've like some

00:47:24 --> 00:47:29

of the fried foods that we eat, in our cultures. It's okay to eat

00:47:29 --> 00:47:32

that occasionally. But when it is all the time, then that the

00:47:32 --> 00:47:36

moderation is out of the door, right? And eating foods that are

00:47:36 --> 00:47:41

serving your body 80% of the time is what really important, it's

00:47:41 --> 00:47:43

what you're doing the most that will

00:47:44 --> 00:47:46

you will reap the rewards up.

00:47:47 --> 00:47:51

The next thing I wanted to also share is really prioritizing your

00:47:51 --> 00:47:53

digestion. This is something that we talked about.

00:47:54 --> 00:47:58

And that was asked in the questions How can you prioritize

00:47:58 --> 00:48:04

your digestion? First of all, it is making sure that you are paying

00:48:04 --> 00:48:08

attention to the foods that you're eating. We all have intolerances.

00:48:09 --> 00:48:14

And a lot of us eat and feel like a bomb exploded in our stomach

00:48:14 --> 00:48:20

bloating, constipation, sometimes diarrhea, discomfort. So being

00:48:20 --> 00:48:24

aware of what foods are causing you that and eliminate eliminating

00:48:24 --> 00:48:29

them for six weeks at least is really important. Investing in a

00:48:29 --> 00:48:35

good probiotic that is multi strained, is is is a great idea

00:48:35 --> 00:48:38

for at least three months taking that to help re inoculate your

00:48:38 --> 00:48:39

system.

00:48:40 --> 00:48:44

Making sure that you are letting go processed foods because sugar

00:48:44 --> 00:48:49

allows the bad bacteria to grow and thrive. So making sure that

00:48:49 --> 00:48:54

you eliminate that and also eating foods like bitters

00:48:55 --> 00:48:59

for me fermented foods, and when I say bitters I mean arugula

00:48:59 --> 00:49:03

dandelion. You know those vegetables that are have like the

00:49:03 --> 00:49:08

little peppery, spicy taste. Those really help feed the good bacteria

00:49:08 --> 00:49:12

they eat called prebiotics. And they help your probiotics. They

00:49:13 --> 00:49:16

the prebiotics help the good bacteria stay alive and strong.

00:49:17 --> 00:49:21

Probiotics are the actual bacteria getting back in your body.

00:49:23 --> 00:49:28

And then making sure that you're having fermented foods. Every

00:49:28 --> 00:49:32

culture has its own fermented foods, eating foods that are

00:49:32 --> 00:49:37

fermented have their own bacteria built within them. So things like

00:49:37 --> 00:49:39

kefir Lebbon

00:49:40 --> 00:49:45

what is it called? Kimchi, sauerkraut?

00:49:46 --> 00:49:51

Whatever like you if we are multicultural most as Muslims and

00:49:51 --> 00:49:57

so we know we all have these fermented foods, having things

00:49:57 --> 00:49:59

like artichokes and cauliflower.

00:50:00 --> 00:50:07

are all great for your healthy bacteria, making sure that I'm

00:50:07 --> 00:50:11

going to talk about sugar in particular later on, making sure

00:50:11 --> 00:50:17

that you're hydrating. And elimination is a process of

00:50:17 --> 00:50:18

removing toxins,

00:50:21 --> 00:50:28

hormones, leftover hormones, digestive waste, all of that out

00:50:28 --> 00:50:31

of the body, a lot of us are not eliminating, and if we're not

00:50:31 --> 00:50:35

eliminating, what happens is your body reabsorbs, all of that. And

00:50:35 --> 00:50:38

then it becomes a part of your bloodstream. And your body has to

00:50:38 --> 00:50:42

work harder to remove these things and the constant buildup, then

00:50:42 --> 00:50:44

that when disease takes hold,

00:50:47 --> 00:50:50

what else did I forget anything but your digestion, again, it

00:50:50 --> 00:50:56

becomes a also a part of food. Self Care, self care is an

00:50:56 --> 00:51:00

agreement with yourself to take time and replenish, it's taking

00:51:00 --> 00:51:02

care of your wholeness.

00:51:03 --> 00:51:06

Like your full self, because you can separate your mind body and

00:51:06 --> 00:51:07

soul.

00:51:08 --> 00:51:13

As a part, it you are one and so taking care of the full self

00:51:13 --> 00:51:18

prioritizing yourself as a woman is key to everything you do, you

00:51:18 --> 00:51:21

can be good to anyone if you're not good to yourself, and

00:51:21 --> 00:51:26

remembering that is a way of really

00:51:27 --> 00:51:29

giving yourself permission. If you don't,

00:51:30 --> 00:51:35

whatever you do, now you're debiting from your future self. So

00:51:35 --> 00:51:40

whether you do it now, whether you pay the price like now or later.

00:51:40 --> 00:51:43

If you're not looking after yourself intentionally if you're

00:51:43 --> 00:51:48

not taking steps to really care for your health and yourself,

00:51:49 --> 00:51:52

whether it's with food, whether it's with exercise, whether it's

00:51:52 --> 00:51:52

with

00:51:53 --> 00:51:59

meditation, prioritizing sleep, minimizing stress, with all of

00:51:59 --> 00:52:03

these things, you will debit from your future self, you are deciding

00:52:03 --> 00:52:09

right now who you're going to be a week from now, a month from now, a

00:52:09 --> 00:52:13

year from now, 10 years from now, how you're going to age, the skin

00:52:13 --> 00:52:17

that a lot of women talk about and like oh, my skin is not as like,

00:52:17 --> 00:52:20

you know, it's not clear, it's the skin is a window to what's going

00:52:20 --> 00:52:26

on inside your body. So if you are experiencing any visible skin

00:52:27 --> 00:52:30

issues, it's because you're there, your body is sending you messages.

00:52:31 --> 00:52:36

Our body constantly tells us, Hey, this is not working. Bloating is

00:52:36 --> 00:52:40

one of those signs hunger is one of those signs. Headaches is one

00:52:40 --> 00:52:40

of those signs.

00:52:42 --> 00:52:46

Fatigue is one of those signs and we constantly ignore it. And then

00:52:46 --> 00:52:50

when you ignore your body's signs, what ends up happening, your body

00:52:50 --> 00:52:55

will decide oh, okay, she doesn't want to listen. Okay, sure. I'm

00:52:55 --> 00:52:58

not gonna tell you you're hungry. I actually have a really good

00:52:58 --> 00:53:02

example. You know how sometimes you gotta go pee. And then you're

00:53:02 --> 00:53:05

like, Well, let me finish this. Let me do this first, and then I'm

00:53:05 --> 00:53:05

gonna go pee.

00:53:06 --> 00:53:11

And then you wait to go pee and then you start to realize your

00:53:11 --> 00:53:15

body goes from telling you you need to go to the washroom, to not

00:53:15 --> 00:53:20

at all, and you urgently all of a sudden have to go, you're sitting

00:53:20 --> 00:53:23

there, you're fine. And then all of a sudden, it's like this urge

00:53:23 --> 00:53:28

to go and pee is because your body decided you're ignoring the signal

00:53:28 --> 00:53:32

so I'm not going to tell you until it's really like urgent. Same

00:53:32 --> 00:53:36

thing with hunger you go from like fine to starving in one second is

00:53:36 --> 00:53:40

because your body you've ignored it so much that it stopped telling

00:53:40 --> 00:53:44

you so these are ways of like

00:53:45 --> 00:53:51

a lot listening to our bodies need is a way of like, self care, but

00:53:51 --> 00:53:55

it's also a way of like health care, because you start to get

00:53:55 --> 00:53:58

ahead of issues before they really become a problem.

00:54:00 --> 00:54:05

For me, whereas I self I self care it for me is is healthcare. Like I

00:54:05 --> 00:54:10

said, one of the real important ways that I care for myself is

00:54:11 --> 00:54:12

prayer.

00:54:13 --> 00:54:18

Right Salah is really like not only connecting with Allah in a

00:54:18 --> 00:54:24

way that is like fun, forth for us and meaningful, but it also allows

00:54:24 --> 00:54:30

you to kind of take some of this off your shoulder right because

00:54:30 --> 00:54:35

you really never in control but when you're in front of Allah, you

00:54:35 --> 00:54:40

are able to, to put your problems forth, right.

00:54:41 --> 00:54:47

Every Salah pose that you get into is a yoga pose. Also, like it

00:54:47 --> 00:54:52

allows blood flow to your brain. It allows all the major muscles to

00:54:52 --> 00:54:57

be activated and to move and to stretch. And you know, even the

00:54:57 --> 00:54:59

ROCOR and a sujood

00:55:00 --> 00:55:05

is literally those neck muscle movement and the blood flow to

00:55:05 --> 00:55:11

your brain is is part of like healing and self care. And it's

00:55:11 --> 00:55:17

part of like Subhanallah like it is really a way of us looking

00:55:17 --> 00:55:20

after ourselves in a meaningful way.

00:55:21 --> 00:55:26

And it's doing double duty, right? It's a form of meditation, it's a

00:55:26 --> 00:55:31

form of quieting the mind, it's a form of standing before our maker

00:55:31 --> 00:55:36

and like, really quieting that inner voice that can't, you know,

00:55:36 --> 00:55:42

the constant conversation that's happening on our in our regular

00:55:42 --> 00:55:46

day. Reading, the Quran is calming, it's centering, it's

00:55:46 --> 00:55:52

healing, it's connecting you to Allah, but it's also helping to de

00:55:52 --> 00:55:53

stress.

00:55:55 --> 00:55:59

connecting with nature, getting outside is another way of

00:55:59 --> 00:56:04

distressing. But also, not only are you it grounding you, it's

00:56:04 --> 00:56:05

helping you

00:56:06 --> 00:56:12

move away from that stress response into a more fully in your

00:56:12 --> 00:56:14

body response.

00:56:15 --> 00:56:21

And then whatever else you do, you know, whether you do a facial, or

00:56:21 --> 00:56:27

whether you go out and with friends, or connect with family,

00:56:27 --> 00:56:32

or laughter, whatever it is, all these forms of self care add up to

00:56:32 --> 00:56:32

literally

00:56:34 --> 00:56:39

long term benefits for your health and helping your body repair from

00:56:39 --> 00:56:40

the inside out.

00:56:43 --> 00:56:51

Okay, so eating the rainbow, we talked about food being the most

00:56:51 --> 00:56:55

powerful drug, I didn't say that, but food is the most powerful drug

00:56:55 --> 00:56:59

in the world, it works for 100% of the people, whereas in

00:56:59 --> 00:57:03

pharmaceutical drugs work for maybe 60% of the people and for

00:57:03 --> 00:57:07

you, you have not been a part of the cohort that those

00:57:07 --> 00:57:12

pharmaceutical drugs were tested on. So it's never going to work

00:57:12 --> 00:57:16

for you. 100% so but food Subhanallah works for 100% of

00:57:16 --> 00:57:22

humankind. So using food as medicine, and as a way to

00:57:22 --> 00:57:25

biochemically communicate with every cell.

00:57:26 --> 00:57:27

It food.

00:57:28 --> 00:57:32

Food is like messages from the outside to your body on how to

00:57:32 --> 00:57:37

behave, right. So foods from the earth, like like I said earlier,

00:57:37 --> 00:57:40

fruits and vegetables, grains,

00:57:41 --> 00:57:47

nuts and seeds, lagoons, all of these things are, you know, so

00:57:47 --> 00:57:52

easier way of like easy to digest, but also really higher in

00:57:52 --> 00:57:54

nutrients than

00:57:55 --> 00:58:01

meat. Meat takes a lot of, of your body to digest, right? It's a

00:58:01 --> 00:58:05

living carcass, right. So it needs, it has tissues and muscles

00:58:05 --> 00:58:11

and things, and so takes a long, a lot longer to digest. So really

00:58:11 --> 00:58:15

using fruits and vegetables, the main part of your plate, and then,

00:58:16 --> 00:58:20

you know, if you're a meat eater then eating your meat but like

00:58:20 --> 00:58:24

portioning that to Allah smaller and filling up on the fruits and

00:58:24 --> 00:58:27

vegetables. So you when you eat the carbs in the meat, you're

00:58:27 --> 00:58:29

eating much less of it.

00:58:30 --> 00:58:35

And for the digestion, what I wanted to add is eating stews and

00:58:35 --> 00:58:36

soups

00:58:37 --> 00:58:38

that

00:58:39 --> 00:58:45

they have a variety of like vegetables, like lentils, or like

00:58:45 --> 00:58:50

grains, whatever you have, when it and they're cooked longer, they're

00:58:50 --> 00:58:53

easier to digest, your body doesn't your stomach doesn't have

00:58:53 --> 00:58:56

to work as hard to break them down to they're really great way to

00:58:57 --> 00:59:01

get yourself to take care of your digestion.

00:59:04 --> 00:59:06

Actually, I'm going to come back to that I want to talk about

00:59:06 --> 00:59:07

hydration for a little bit.

00:59:08 --> 00:59:13

The importance of water, we are 60% water, it's the number one

00:59:13 --> 00:59:18

deficiency in the world, even though it's free, and we are not

00:59:18 --> 00:59:23

drinking enough water to to keep our bodies processes going. Water

00:59:23 --> 00:59:29

is necessary. You could actually stop eating and survive by not

00:59:29 --> 00:59:34

drinking for a day will actually impact your health in a far

00:59:34 --> 00:59:38

greater way. Three days of not drinking, you're dead. And so

00:59:39 --> 00:59:44

Hydration is key to your health. It's key to how your body performs

00:59:44 --> 00:59:50

physically, your electrolyte you know your kidney health, weight

00:59:50 --> 00:59:58

loss, tissue production in eliminating it a huge part of

00:59:58 --> 00:59:59

elimination in

01:00:00 --> 01:00:00

Getting your,

01:00:02 --> 01:00:07

the toxins and the waste out of your body. And so a lot of people

01:00:07 --> 01:00:10

don't realize exhaustion, fatigue that they're feeling is due to

01:00:10 --> 01:00:11

actual

01:00:13 --> 01:00:19

dehydration. So, things that you need to look out for if your urine

01:00:19 --> 01:00:24

is dark, it's already you're already dehydrated. If you're

01:00:24 --> 01:00:29

constipated, you're most likely dehydrated, dry lips, chapped

01:00:29 --> 01:00:33

lips, dehydrated headaches, frequent headaches, dehydrated,

01:00:33 --> 01:00:37

dizziness and lightheaded this Ichi.

01:00:39 --> 01:00:43

Like really dry, flaky skin. A lot of the times you're dehydrated,

01:00:44 --> 01:00:45

achy muscles.

01:00:46 --> 01:00:51

Not being able to recover from workouts, dehydrated, feeling

01:00:51 --> 01:00:56

fatigued and sleepy. A lot of the times, try water first, before you

01:00:56 --> 01:01:01

start looking into other things. It's so simple, yes. So

01:01:02 --> 01:01:06

ignore it. And the way I really what I recommend to my clients, I

01:01:06 --> 01:01:10

say, Okay, we're drinking maybe three cups. And so I say increase

01:01:10 --> 01:01:13

it by two. Because initially, you'll start to notice you're

01:01:13 --> 01:01:18

constantly having to urinate and pee, because your body is not

01:01:19 --> 01:01:22

holding on to the water, it's push, it's just like, it takes it

01:01:22 --> 01:01:26

a minute to get used to that, right. So initially, you so you

01:01:26 --> 01:01:29

need a little time to give yourself a little time to recover.

01:01:29 --> 01:01:32

So you wait the day

01:01:33 --> 01:01:37

or two or maybe I usually say if you increase it by two cups, just

01:01:37 --> 01:01:42

wait a week, make that a habit, and then add another cup and then

01:01:42 --> 01:01:45

so forth until you reach at least 10.

01:01:46 --> 01:01:52

I recommend anywhere from 10 to 12. A is really the minimum. So if

01:01:52 --> 01:01:57

you're not even drinking eight and you're not even drinking five,

01:01:57 --> 01:02:02

then we need to start looking into that immediately. It's the easiest

01:02:02 --> 01:02:05

fix even for your digestion because your healthy bacteria

01:02:05 --> 01:02:06

needs that to thrive.

01:02:09 --> 01:02:11

So yeah, and

01:02:12 --> 01:02:13

this sugar

01:02:15 --> 01:02:18

I just want to tell you how much of a drug sugar is it is

01:02:19 --> 01:02:22

on par as addictive as

01:02:24 --> 01:02:28

research is showing is as addictive as heroin.

01:02:29 --> 01:02:35

Most people are consuming at least 22 teaspoons of sugar per day. And

01:02:35 --> 01:02:40

that's not the sugar that you see. Right because it a lot of the food

01:02:40 --> 01:02:45

we're eating has added sugar in it. Right? packaged food store

01:02:45 --> 01:02:50

bought food, prepared foods because sugar is like, plays on

01:02:50 --> 01:02:54

your tastebuds. Right. It's part of that satiating yumminess,

01:02:54 --> 01:02:54

right.

01:02:55 --> 01:02:56

It creates that

01:02:57 --> 01:03:03

anxiousness that and fat, and Oh mommy, they all do that. So should

01:03:03 --> 01:03:08

this added sugar in everything. Kellogg's cornflakes, which

01:03:10 --> 01:03:14

supposedly doesn't have any added sugar out of the cereals. If you

01:03:14 --> 01:03:18

turn it around. It has I don't know I forget maybe set like it

01:03:18 --> 01:03:20

has added sugar 13%

01:03:22 --> 01:03:28

There's like lemon bread, white bread has added sugar. Even

01:03:29 --> 01:03:35

multigrain bread has added sugar, it's just there's so many places

01:03:35 --> 01:03:40

that we don't look for sugar that is, is just, it's in there. And

01:03:40 --> 01:03:44

then on top of it, it's all the diseases that the sugar causes.

01:03:44 --> 01:03:49

The it actually alters an ad attaches itself to receptors in

01:03:49 --> 01:03:53

your body. And so it alters your mood, it tells your brain to

01:03:53 --> 01:03:58

behave differently. It causes inflammation, which is

01:03:59 --> 01:04:03

like your body's response to heal itself. But when your body's

01:04:03 --> 01:04:06

inflammation is overworking, you start to see

01:04:08 --> 01:04:12

physical breakdown inflammation can happen to the skin it causes

01:04:12 --> 01:04:15

it's the number one cause for aging.

01:04:16 --> 01:04:22

After stress it literally like and then not to mention constant

01:04:22 --> 01:04:24

buildup of

01:04:25 --> 01:04:28

there's stuff coming in let me just check there for a second.

01:04:30 --> 01:04:35

What's the minimum amount of sugar one is allowed to have? Honestly,

01:04:35 --> 01:04:37

so okay, the i

01:04:38 --> 01:04:43

i Say like think about it. Sugar is not a nutrient so it's not add

01:04:43 --> 01:04:45

it's not necessary. So

01:04:46 --> 01:04:51

honey, maple syrup, all the things that you jammed, all of these

01:04:51 --> 01:04:54

things are sugar, right? But they're just called by a different

01:04:54 --> 01:04:58

name. And we assume because it's a natural sugar that it's not being

01:04:58 --> 01:04:59

counted as sugar right?

01:05:00 --> 01:05:04

So, I for your entire day, you shouldn't have more than five

01:05:05 --> 01:05:11

teaspoons, right? But if you think about all the stuff, even fruits

01:05:11 --> 01:05:15

have a lot of sugar vegetables have sugar, natural occurring

01:05:15 --> 01:05:19

sugar, that's fine. But if it's best to get it from like, your

01:05:19 --> 01:05:24

food, then to be getting it as an additive thing, right?

01:05:27 --> 01:05:29

I honestly

01:05:31 --> 01:05:35

just want to tell you, if you do nothing else today, and you

01:05:35 --> 01:05:38

eliminate, and you start to look at the amount of sugar you're

01:05:38 --> 01:05:42

consuming, if nothing else, you take away from this conversation,

01:05:42 --> 01:05:48

that would have an incredible impact on your health. And in the

01:05:48 --> 01:05:52

type of diseases you develop. I want you to know diabetes is the

01:05:52 --> 01:05:58

gateway to all other diseases. It because blood sugar impacts your

01:05:58 --> 01:06:03

brain and it impacts everything else. It's blood sugar is

01:06:03 --> 01:06:09

literally an insulin is a hormone that decides like how much how

01:06:09 --> 01:06:10

much sugar how much

01:06:14 --> 01:06:18

let me take that back. Okay. So when you eat and food is converted

01:06:18 --> 01:06:23

to glucose, right, and it's take it's broken down converted to

01:06:23 --> 01:06:28

glucose, it knocks on your glucose knocks on your cells, doors. And

01:06:28 --> 01:06:33

then insulin comes, which is a hormone to help the glucose get

01:06:33 --> 01:06:38

into your cells as a form of energy. Right? When your cells get

01:06:38 --> 01:06:42

the amount of energy they need, the rest of the glucose that's

01:06:42 --> 01:06:46

just coursing through your blood is converted by your liver, liver

01:06:46 --> 01:06:50

to glycogen which is stored in your muscle for energy for later.

01:06:51 --> 01:06:54

But if you're not using that energy for later, that's converted

01:06:54 --> 01:07:00

to fat, right. And fat is a living breathing hormone producing

01:07:00 --> 01:07:05

organism, fat will cause inflammation, fat will cause

01:07:05 --> 01:07:09

disease fat hat tells your brain how to behave. And so all this

01:07:09 --> 01:07:13

extra fat that's living in your body, it's not good for you. And

01:07:13 --> 01:07:18

then it starts to like compress your organs, it starts to affect

01:07:18 --> 01:07:22

how your body responds, or your cells respond to insulin. And then

01:07:23 --> 01:07:26

it's done. Like, that's when you start to develop insulin

01:07:26 --> 01:07:30

resistance. That's when diabetes and all these other things start

01:07:30 --> 01:07:34

to happen. And you really like we need to start taking diabetes

01:07:34 --> 01:07:38

very, very seriously because it's a gateway to other diseases, but

01:07:38 --> 01:07:44

it is a very, very serious disease and it could impact everything in

01:07:44 --> 01:07:49

your life. Long term and the name of the game is prevention. It's

01:07:49 --> 01:07:50

not treatment

01:07:56 --> 01:07:57

what is the best way to

01:07:59 --> 01:08:02

to wean yourself off of sugar? What is the best way to wean

01:08:02 --> 01:08:07

yourself off of sugar for me, the best way to wean myself off of

01:08:07 --> 01:08:12

sugar is to start first of all, you have to detox your

01:08:14 --> 01:08:19

your tastebuds right because your sugar, the sugar that we eat

01:08:19 --> 01:08:23

especially high fructose syrup that added to a lot of our foods

01:08:23 --> 01:08:28

is is not natural way like it's not, it's not natural sugar, so

01:08:28 --> 01:08:34

our capacity for the taste of sugar has changed is no longer

01:08:34 --> 01:08:38

natural. That's why fruits don't We don't really enjoy the sugar in

01:08:38 --> 01:08:42

fruits and vegetables because we're eating this unnaturally high

01:08:42 --> 01:08:49

sweetened food right. So you need to start including more fruits and

01:08:49 --> 01:08:53

vegetables and counterbalancing it with what else you're eating

01:08:53 --> 01:08:59

because you will change your taste buds in the ad. You know it start

01:08:59 --> 01:09:03

to work on your taste buds so you start to crave natural foods and

01:09:03 --> 01:09:09

plus you will start to feel lighter. What I do is in terms of

01:09:09 --> 01:09:14

like my mornings I do a smoothie a smoothie, I'm able to add some

01:09:14 --> 01:09:15

vegetables, some fruit,

01:09:16 --> 01:09:18

some you know healthy fats

01:09:21 --> 01:09:26

protein in the form of like hemp hearts and chia seeds, and then

01:09:27 --> 01:09:32

I'm able to like use that as a way of like filling myself up. So I'm

01:09:32 --> 01:09:36

filled up myself with some good stuff. So then I'm not as hungry

01:09:36 --> 01:09:41

so even if I have a toast with jam, let's say I'm gonna have one

01:09:41 --> 01:09:45

instead of like the two or three that I was gonna do, you know, so

01:09:45 --> 01:09:50

and if you're having coffee, cut the sugar in half and then cut it

01:09:50 --> 01:09:54

in half a week later and then cut it in half a week after that and

01:09:54 --> 01:09:59

start to now you start to do it gradually it becomes a

01:10:00 --> 01:10:04

Not jarring, but a part of your life, it becomes manageable. But

01:10:04 --> 01:10:06

if you say I'm gonna go from zero

01:10:07 --> 01:10:12

to 100, and stop everything all at once, it's really hard. It's like,

01:10:12 --> 01:10:16

going to rehab almost, it's very difficult in the beginning, you

01:10:16 --> 01:10:21

could do it but you know, it's not sustainable or manageable, right?

01:10:21 --> 01:10:26

Give yourself the grace of doing it gradually, allow yourself, you

01:10:26 --> 01:10:29

know, you didn't get here overnight habits have been formed

01:10:29 --> 01:10:33

over long periods of time. It's a slow transition and change.

01:10:36 --> 01:10:41

All right, where are we supplementing before we get to the

01:10:41 --> 01:10:44

supplements, and we're we're winding down, I don't even know

01:10:44 --> 01:10:49

what time it is. But supplementing smartly is a great,

01:10:50 --> 01:10:54

it's important. But before you do that, before you supplement I need

01:10:54 --> 01:11:00

you to know your numbers become somewhat be in charge of your

01:11:00 --> 01:11:03

health start to learn what your numbers are. So when I say know

01:11:03 --> 01:11:07

your numbers, I mean know your a, a one C, which is your blood

01:11:07 --> 01:11:15

sugar, number, know your T HSTS H, so sorry, TSH, which is your

01:11:15 --> 01:11:17

thyroid hormone.

01:11:18 --> 01:11:23

Number, know your vitamin D levels, know your B 12. levels,

01:11:23 --> 01:11:28

know your iron levels. If you know these levels, when they start to

01:11:28 --> 01:11:33

become out of whack or they're not where they need to be, then you

01:11:33 --> 01:11:35

can actually say to yourself, Okay,

01:11:36 --> 01:11:38

my iron is low now.

01:11:39 --> 01:11:43

I need to increase it used to be here, and now it's here. How can I

01:11:43 --> 01:11:48

manage that? Right? Whereas in if you didn't know any of these

01:11:48 --> 01:11:52

numbers, when things go wrong, how do you know where how far you've

01:11:52 --> 01:11:56

come where you were, even if you made progress? If you if you

01:11:56 --> 01:12:00

weren't aware of these numbers, and you didn't know what your

01:12:00 --> 01:12:04

baselines were, how are you going to keep track of the progress and,

01:12:04 --> 01:12:07

and all the positive things you're doing right.

01:12:08 --> 01:12:12

So know your numbers, make sure you're getting most of your

01:12:12 --> 01:12:17

minerals, vitamins and nutrients from food first. And then if you

01:12:17 --> 01:12:22

need to supplement, then you go ahead and do that. Right, vitamin

01:12:22 --> 01:12:25

d3 Number one supplement, especially if you're wearing

01:12:25 --> 01:12:30

hijab, as a Muslim, it should be priority number one for you and

01:12:30 --> 01:12:34

your kids. Because vitamin D is a it's almost it's a hormone,

01:12:34 --> 01:12:38

temporary hormone. It's involved in so many of the body's

01:12:38 --> 01:12:42

processes. But on top of that, it is essential for your bone health.

01:12:42 --> 01:12:48

So if you don't, if you're low in vitamin D, you will surely develop

01:12:48 --> 01:12:52

us your process down the road and and it affects your mood and it

01:12:52 --> 01:12:53

affects so many things. So please

01:12:55 --> 01:13:01

invest in vitamin d3 1000 international units, get you some.

01:13:02 --> 01:13:07

It's, it's it's my I really I want you to do that today if you

01:13:07 --> 01:13:08

haven't done it yet.

01:13:11 --> 01:13:14

Also, what else would I would, I would magnesium is also another

01:13:14 --> 01:13:20

deficiency that most women suffer from. And most of us are deficient

01:13:20 --> 01:13:25

in magnesium. Magnesium is important for our nerve health and

01:13:25 --> 01:13:29

our nervous system. It's important for our muscle health, it helps us

01:13:29 --> 01:13:34

to sleep better. And so taking magnesium at night purchasing

01:13:36 --> 01:13:37

quality.

01:13:38 --> 01:13:42

Make sure you read the labels and it says it only has magnesium in

01:13:42 --> 01:13:46

there. And then the third one that I would recommend is omega three

01:13:46 --> 01:13:50

fatty acids, it's really important because a lot of us are not

01:13:50 --> 01:13:54

getting healthy fat. And if you're not eating enough fish

01:13:55 --> 01:13:59

or you're not adding enough healthy fats into your diet, then

01:13:59 --> 01:14:05

get a supplement like cod liver oil or omega three fish oil that

01:14:05 --> 01:14:07

you and your kids can both take.

01:14:10 --> 01:14:17

I like adaptogens adaptogens are sorry, whereas the adaptogens.

01:14:19 --> 01:14:25

The adaptogens are herbs that help your body rebalance where it needs

01:14:25 --> 01:14:29

to. This is not necessary, but it's an option. If you're under a

01:14:29 --> 01:14:34

lot of chronic stress. Things like Ashwagandha is a great addition.

01:14:34 --> 01:14:39

Holy Basil is an adaptogen they're a great addition into your

01:14:40 --> 01:14:44

diet, but that is after you've really conquered your healthy

01:14:44 --> 01:14:47

eating habits before you get into the supplement.

01:14:49 --> 01:14:56

Resilience, building our resilience resilience for us is

01:14:56 --> 01:14:59

key because life keeps on coming

01:15:00 --> 01:15:04

And you know, things happen and getting ourselves is that inner

01:15:04 --> 01:15:09

strength that keeps us at that enables us to deal with stress

01:15:09 --> 01:15:11

when it happens. So

01:15:13 --> 01:15:17

really creating space for yourself, it's another form of

01:15:17 --> 01:15:22

self care, it's the, it's a way you're giving you're like putting

01:15:22 --> 01:15:26

yourself on the list. Do things you love, if you love painting,

01:15:26 --> 01:15:27

paint, if you love,

01:15:28 --> 01:15:29

you know,

01:15:31 --> 01:15:36

working out do that, if you have friends that just bring joy, go

01:15:36 --> 01:15:41

ahead and connect with them. Do something that fills your cup, it

01:15:41 --> 01:15:46

should be overflowing give from your overflow, do not give from

01:15:46 --> 01:15:48

like a half full cup, because

01:15:50 --> 01:15:53

you gave the half and then what? What happens, like, it's not

01:15:53 --> 01:15:57

selfish to be self full, right?

01:15:59 --> 01:16:01

You want that for your kids, and they're watching you, you're

01:16:01 --> 01:16:06

teaching them, you want that, for your loved ones, they're watching

01:16:06 --> 01:16:10

you, you're teaching them how to treat you, you're telling them I'm

01:16:10 --> 01:16:15

not worthy of looking after myself, I'm not worthy of being

01:16:17 --> 01:16:22

you know, that care that I'm giving you, you are worthy. And if

01:16:22 --> 01:16:24

you don't put yourself on the list, nobody's gonna do it.

01:16:25 --> 01:16:28

Nobody, there is nobody who's gonna love you more than you love

01:16:28 --> 01:16:32

yourself. There is nobody who's going to show up for you the way

01:16:32 --> 01:16:37

you show up for yourself, I need you to like underline that you are

01:16:38 --> 01:16:42

it for yourself, like nobody can look after you in the same way.

01:16:42 --> 01:16:47

And be kind to yourself, what you say to yourself really matters.

01:16:47 --> 01:16:51

Your nobody talks to you like the way you talk to yourself, nobody

01:16:51 --> 01:16:56

really the stuff that you say to yourself, you would not even dream

01:16:56 --> 01:16:57

anybody else saying to you. So really

01:17:00 --> 01:17:06

make it a habit to really invest in the language that we are saying

01:17:06 --> 01:17:11

to ourselves are how we approach ourselves to the day, I cannot

01:17:11 --> 01:17:15

mentality you can there's the one thing standing between you and

01:17:16 --> 01:17:20

what you want is you it's just in our mind, right?

01:17:21 --> 01:17:25

We all struggle with that this is not something that is, you know,

01:17:25 --> 01:17:28

only one person struggling with we're all struggling but some of

01:17:28 --> 01:17:29

us are.

01:17:30 --> 01:17:34

I guess I better at giving ourselves permission to do things

01:17:34 --> 01:17:39

like we give ourselves permission, we are a little kinder to

01:17:39 --> 01:17:42

ourselves. And it's a practice like a muscle you have to work out

01:17:42 --> 01:17:44

resilience is a muscle that you have to build.

01:17:45 --> 01:17:46

Finally,

01:17:48 --> 01:17:53

moving your bod. So important exercise is like your body is a

01:17:53 --> 01:17:57

machine, right? If it's not being used, it's being it's breaking

01:17:57 --> 01:18:03

down. It's like if if a machine sits around, it becomes rested, it

01:18:03 --> 01:18:07

breaks down, it's not working as well as when it's brand new blood

01:18:07 --> 01:18:12

flow for muscles is necessary not only moving waste, but in bringing

01:18:12 --> 01:18:17

oxygen and allowing that muscle to live and stay strong. Otherwise,

01:18:17 --> 01:18:21

it atrophies and dies. So you really need to move for the health

01:18:21 --> 01:18:25

of yourself and your future self. Remember, we're not debiting from

01:18:25 --> 01:18:29

our future self, we're investing in ourselves. And so whatever you

01:18:29 --> 01:18:34

put in the bank today, will be there for you later. And you know,

01:18:34 --> 01:18:38

you're not magically going to age into your like beautiful self,

01:18:38 --> 01:18:43

your best self, you're going to have to work for that. So invest

01:18:43 --> 01:18:47

in moving, whatever, if it's 10 minutes, one of the things I

01:18:47 --> 01:18:51

really do is during prayer after prayer, I stretch, I have a yoga

01:18:51 --> 01:18:59

mat under my prayer mat. And I stretch my body using the prayer

01:18:59 --> 01:19:03

mat and just getting in, like you know when I remove my prayer mat

01:19:03 --> 01:19:07

and use the yoga mat, and that's five times a day you build that

01:19:07 --> 01:19:11

in, right. And that's just stretching. And then if you just

01:19:12 --> 01:19:18

go for a 15 minute walk, go up and down your stairs. These are ways

01:19:18 --> 01:19:23

that you're building manageable ways of moving your body so

01:19:24 --> 01:19:28

we always make things harder than they should be. You know, small

01:19:28 --> 01:19:30

things add up to big things and big wins.

01:19:33 --> 01:19:37

I am so excited to talk to you guys. I have been waiting for this

01:19:37 --> 01:19:44

moment. I have been talking nonstop and I like can interaction

01:19:44 --> 01:19:48

so let's go let's ask questions. Let's interact lids

01:19:52 --> 01:19:57

I am so excited for this. Alright, let me do this. Let's go to the

01:19:57 --> 01:19:59

chat. I mean unmute your mics if

01:20:00 --> 01:20:04

You guys have questions. Just tell me and I'll just call on you guys.

01:20:04 --> 01:20:08

And then that way we can I can answer your questions. Could you

01:20:08 --> 01:20:13

please recommend some good resources, websites, books. For us

01:20:13 --> 01:20:18

to learn more about additives in food, and more details, this is

01:20:18 --> 01:20:22

really great session we appreciate I appreciate you saying that thank

01:20:22 --> 01:20:24

you just like Alafaya it.

01:20:25 --> 01:20:29

If you connect with me on ILS world, I'll put that there because

01:20:29 --> 01:20:34

I don't have anything in front of me. There's so many, like, there's

01:20:34 --> 01:20:37

so much information. And I know sometimes it's an overload of

01:20:37 --> 01:20:43

information. But there is a lot of great information out there.

01:20:44 --> 01:20:48

For me, it's really important for women to thrive in their body, we

01:20:48 --> 01:20:53

are the teachers, the mothers, the caregivers, and it's really

01:20:53 --> 01:20:57

important that we start taking charge and reclaim our own power

01:20:57 --> 01:21:03

and our health, connect with our feminine body be in our body

01:21:03 --> 01:21:08

become home to ourselves, this is really key because, you know, we

01:21:08 --> 01:21:13

can't just constantly we're the ones struggling with a lot of

01:21:13 --> 01:21:18

these diseases. And as we go on, who's going to look after us as we

01:21:18 --> 01:21:19

age, right? So

01:21:20 --> 01:21:24

I really it's, it's, I'm deeply committed to this work, it's my

01:21:24 --> 01:21:29

life's work, really reclaiming our health through food.

01:21:30 --> 01:21:31

I love that.

01:21:34 --> 01:21:37

Yeah, don't get from your empty cup. Your your cup should be

01:21:37 --> 01:21:40

running like it should the overflow is what we're giving

01:21:40 --> 01:21:44

people now. Because Can you imagine how good you're gonna

01:21:44 --> 01:21:47

feel? Can you imagine the person who's going to show up to be that

01:21:47 --> 01:21:52

incredible person? I mean, you're just going to be if you're just

01:21:52 --> 01:21:55

giving from an empty cup, and you're amazing. Can you imagine

01:21:55 --> 01:21:59

who you're going to be? When you give from like an overflow? It's

01:21:59 --> 01:22:00

panela.

01:22:01 --> 01:22:05

A voting by anything that's winner, or dessert or sweets,

01:22:05 --> 01:22:09

snacks in my cabinets helps me also avoiding using sugar and

01:22:09 --> 01:22:14

maybe use honey instead. But it's still sugar and slowly reduced. I

01:22:14 --> 01:22:19

don't use sugar in my tea anymore. Okay, yeah, that's exactly it.

01:22:20 --> 01:22:23

Like whenever something is available, and it's at a hands,

01:22:23 --> 01:22:27

like you could reach for it, then you're going to eat it. So that's

01:22:27 --> 01:22:30

a really great suggestion, making sure that you're not buying stuff,

01:22:30 --> 01:22:35

I do not buy it, I make it. I believe that when you make

01:22:35 --> 01:22:39

something, even if you want cake, fries, whatever, if you make it,

01:22:39 --> 01:22:43

you're going to realize how much work it takes. So you're not going

01:22:43 --> 01:22:48

to be eating all the time. It's a rule. And it's a safety guard that

01:22:48 --> 01:22:51

I put in place for myself. So if I want something sweet, I have to

01:22:51 --> 01:22:55

make it and I have to make the time for it. So that's how I

01:22:56 --> 01:22:58

stopped my sugar consumption.

01:23:01 --> 01:23:05

Yes, a place of Sn Exactly. SubhanAllah.

01:23:07 --> 01:23:11

What's the minimum amount of sugar is okay, we talked about that.

01:23:12 --> 01:23:17

I feel like I'm missing questions because I wasn't back here. As you

01:23:17 --> 01:23:22

know. For me, I autoimmune disease is really

01:23:24 --> 01:23:27

something there's a lot of people who are struggling with autoimmune

01:23:27 --> 01:23:33

disease who haven't been diagnosed yet. There's a lot of people who

01:23:33 --> 01:23:36

advocate for yourself, make sure when you go to the doctor, if the

01:23:36 --> 01:23:39

doctor is not listening to you, because you're the expert on your

01:23:39 --> 01:23:43

body understanding you might need to start looking for someone else

01:23:43 --> 01:23:48

because or ask the doctor to for a second opinion, ask them to go to

01:23:48 --> 01:23:52

a specialist. If they're not listening, ask them to document

01:23:52 --> 01:23:56

that in your file. Because that in this part of the world, it that is

01:23:56 --> 01:24:01

actually illegal, because if you discover they're liable for that,

01:24:01 --> 01:24:05

so they're they're most likely going to start showing up and

01:24:05 --> 01:24:09

doing what they need to do if you ask them to document that they

01:24:09 --> 01:24:13

refuse to to see a specialist or a second opinion, if you're not

01:24:13 --> 01:24:17

feeling if you're not feeling well, we know that the symptoms

01:24:17 --> 01:24:18

have been persisting.

01:24:21 --> 01:24:24

It's hormone that links the test.

01:24:26 --> 01:24:27

Yes.

01:24:29 --> 01:24:32

True. I had to change the C functional doctor to start the

01:24:32 --> 01:24:37

healing now. Yes, functional doctors look at the root cause of

01:24:37 --> 01:24:42

a problem is just instead of just putting a bandaid on, you know,

01:24:42 --> 01:24:48

looking at one thing at a time, they look at the root cause and

01:24:48 --> 01:24:52

they start to really draw a map between all of the symptoms that

01:24:52 --> 01:24:54

you're experiencing.

01:24:55 --> 01:24:58

That someone who's listening right because in order for them to get

01:24:58 --> 01:25:00

to the root cause they

01:25:00 --> 01:25:04

had to listen to you. And you're the expert. So I'm alaykum I am a

01:25:04 --> 01:25:09

type one diabetic for 25 years, take ashwagandha Jays to

01:25:10 --> 01:25:13

multivitamins and try to have healthy things, but sometimes

01:25:13 --> 01:25:15

struggle in.

01:25:16 --> 01:25:21

Right? So I would recommend if you are a diabetic,

01:25:22 --> 01:25:27

really knowing your numbers in terms of your blood sugar, right?

01:25:27 --> 01:25:31

So in the beginning is going to be a bit of a chore you need to start

01:25:31 --> 01:25:33

like documenting

01:25:34 --> 01:25:39

how high your blood sugar goes after each meal at two hours after

01:25:39 --> 01:25:44

you eat, right? And you need to know two hours before you eat.

01:25:44 --> 01:25:48

Right. So I would start with breakfast, I would do two hours

01:25:48 --> 01:25:52

before eight as soon as I wake up, I check my blood sugar I wait.

01:25:53 --> 01:25:57

Before lunch, I'll check my blood blood sugar. And then so every

01:25:57 --> 01:26:02

alternate meal one before you eat one after you eat so that way

01:26:02 --> 01:26:04

you're not constantly poking yourself. But this gives you an

01:26:04 --> 01:26:09

idea what happens when you eat where what what is your what are

01:26:09 --> 01:26:13

your levels, and you start to recognize what foods push your

01:26:13 --> 01:26:18

blood sugar too high and you start to make adjustments there. Because

01:26:18 --> 01:26:23

you need to have like a vision like it's walking blind otherwise,

01:26:23 --> 01:26:26

right? Because you have no idea I just ate. But my blood sugar is

01:26:26 --> 01:26:31

not stable. Why not? Right? It will see is the three month blood

01:26:31 --> 01:26:35

sugar that also that number and seeing what's been happening? Have

01:26:35 --> 01:26:40

I been stressed? Have I been emotionally eating? Where are the

01:26:40 --> 01:26:46

gaps and start to like, sort of make these connections draws a

01:26:46 --> 01:26:49

picture and then you can make the changes accordingly.

01:26:50 --> 01:26:51

Here

01:26:57 --> 01:27:03

some people like drink What did you say? You drink a lot of water.

01:27:06 --> 01:27:10

But you have some of the symptoms? Is that what I'm reading? I, I

01:27:10 --> 01:27:14

find that if you are drinking sufficient amount of water and you

01:27:14 --> 01:27:18

still have symptoms, then there's something else going on. And

01:27:18 --> 01:27:22

that's a great way to sort of like start eliminating by like, doing

01:27:22 --> 01:27:27

the easiest, quickest thing. Right. I hope I got that question.

01:27:27 --> 01:27:29

I'm just gonna go to the top of this.

01:27:30 --> 01:27:33

I have to jump off to take care of something, please.

01:27:36 --> 01:27:37

Oh, that was

01:27:42 --> 01:27:47

Yeah, I mean, if you guys don't have any other questions, I feel

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like Subhanallah

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at these times, we need the community we need to stay

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connected, we need to be able to

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just really come together and share resources and information.

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Please do stay in touch. I really hope to connect with you.

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At ILS world I have all my information there. But you know,

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I'm doing a course in November. It's a four week course. So the

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first one is on your hormones. It's on fertility, it is on immune

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health and then it is on

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changing how you eat.

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This was a lot in one session. And my goal is to break that down and

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really make it comprehensive we need to understand how our body

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works, how our hormones work in order to heal

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permanently and start to move in a thriving the direction of thriving

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and feeling our best so if you are if that sounds interesting to you

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do connect with me and I'll inshallah look forward to and I

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provide meal plans and resources Baden Illa All right ladies slo

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Alikum water Tila, who better care to jazz Aqua Mala who Clayton and

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thank you for coming on today and joining me I look forward to

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connecting again in the future. Sam Aleikum

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